She Says ALL Men Are UGLY?! GIGACHAD VlRGlN RETURNS! TayTay! College Feminists?! | Dating Talk #148

Date: 2024-04-01
Duration: 7h 32m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS Donation Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_01Mason Gregoire(guest)
SPEAKER_02Jory(guest)
SPEAKER_03Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_04Alexa(guest)
SPEAKER_05Sonia(guest)
SPEAKER_06Sophia(guest)
SPEAKER_07Taylor (TayTay)(guest)
SPEAKER_08Ahe(guest)
SPEAKER_09Kiki(guest)
SPEAKER_10Maya(guest)

Key Moments

00:02:28
IntroGuest introductions round. 8 guests introduce themselves in order. Panel includes returning guests Mason Gregoire (GIGACHAD VIRGIN) and Taylor (TayTay). New guests are all young women, many UCSB college students. Sophia reveals she has never been in an official relationship.

"all right we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location"

00:32:02
QuoteSophia reveals she has never been in an official relationship, describing herself as "single for 20 years." Has only had casual talking stages.

"I actually haven't dated before like in a like official relationship so I've been single for 20 years"

01:46:34
QuoteTTS donation triggers extended transgender identity debate: "if someone is born with male chromosomes Brian and a female reproductive system are they a man or a woman if they can choose why not everyone else."

"if someone is born with male chromosomes Brian and a female reproductive system are they a man or a woman"

01:50:01
QuoteJory (22yo UCSB) states she finds 0% of men physically attractive — "honestly none." Identifies as pansexual; finds women far more visually appealing than men. This is referenced in the episode title ("She Says ALL Men Are UGLY").

"attractive starting with you honestly none"

02:01:35
QuoteBrian gives honest answer on AIS/transgender question: "I don't know." Admits uncertainty on edge cases while maintaining binary sex position for the general population.

"I don't I don't know that's my answer I don't know"

03:08:26
OtherSelf-ratings round: Ahe self-rates 7-8.5 ("not in final form, like Frieza"). Kiki rates self 4. Brian rates self 5 ("solid five"). Viewer (okydoi) rates panel left to right by clothing: leather jacket 5, denim jacket 6, black shirt 4, christmas sweater tomboy 4.5, fluffy jacket 4, ginger hair 7, black crop top 4.

"ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10"

03:47:04
QuoteBrian declares himself a "Natural Body Supremacist" — strongly prefers women with no plastic surgery, no implants, no BBL, no lip filler, no labiaplasty. Would take flat chest over implants; small natural lips over filler.

"I'm a natural body supremacist"

03:51:34
QuoteMason Gregoire (GIGACHAD VIRGIN RETURNS) confirms he is a virgin waiting for marriage. Episode title reference. Brian serves as informal gatekeeper/approver for Mason's future partner.

"I'm a virgin um I'm not necessarily looking for a vir Brian's against this"

04:22:22
QuoteTaylor reveals she has a full Harley Quinn tattoo sleeve plus a face tattoo (not visible under makeup). Pushes back when Mason calls heavily tattooed women "trashy."

"I even have a face tattoo you just can't see it I'm like all tatted everywhere"

04:24:47
QuoteSonia reveals her best friend died by suicide and she found the body. Many of her tattoos were shared designs with this friend (sentimental memorial tattoos). Sonia also mentions this is her Sonia's rose tattoo.

"more than half of my tattoos my best friend also had and like I mentioned earlier in the show she unived her s and I found her body"

06:17:43
QuoteSonia states the hot take that women should not have the right to vote, arguing it pulls them away from their natural role as nurturers/caregivers, contributing to nuclear family breakdown.

"I don't think women should be able to vote hot take"

06:17:43
ControversySonia's women's voting hot take triggers extended panel debate on patriarchy, military conscription, and gender equality. Brian counters that women gained voting rights without corresponding military draft obligation. Mason points out all men must register for Selective Service at 18; women are exempt. Discussion of Ukraine men unable to leave country vs. women who fled. Brian concludes: military conscription inequality invalidates most feminist oppression arguments.

"I don't think women should be able to vote hot take wow with context of course"

07:28:00
OtherEnd of show wrap-up. Sonia doubles down on anti-women-voting position after full show of debate. Brian notes three no-shows at episode start; producer Nick recruited guests from Isla Vista. Twitch raid to WoW Grandma 78. Show ran until approximately 1 AM.

"all right guys we're going to wrap up there"

Topics Discussed

00:02:28
Guest introductions and relationship status

Panel of 8 guests introduce themselves. Notable: Mason Gregoire returning co-host (virgin, going into Air Force); Taylor "TayTay" returning (men's mental health advocate). New guests: Jory (22, UCSB psych), Ahe (21, valley, jr college), Sonia (23, Bay Area, engineering), Sophia (20, UCSB econ, never dated officially), Maya (21, UCSB public policy, married), Alexa (35, Venezuelan-American, married 8 years, farmer). Relationship status round covers: single histories, first relationships, celibacy periods. Sophia reveals she has never had an official relationship (single 20 years). Brian discusses Nala returning to Christ (real or fake discussion).

01:23:20
Dating app profile review

Brian and panel review two female guests' Hinge profiles on screen. Discussion of dating app culture, group swiping with roommates, profile quality, and whether apps attract serious or entertainment-seeking users. Sophia describes using Hinge as a group activity with roommates (AirPlaying profiles on TV). Panel debates whether this is disrespectful to men using apps in good faith. Sophia had 4 meetups from apps; none progressed. Ahe describes going to thrifting as a first date activity.

01:46:34
Transgender identity and gender debate

TTS donor asks: if someone has male chromosomes but female reproductive system, what gender are they? Extended discussion on gender vs. sex, intersex conditions, Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome (AIS), pronoun preferences, puberty blockers, and trans identity as mental illness vs. valid identity. Jory: any pronouns acceptable; gender is self-expression. Mason: calls trans identity a mental illness; wants compassionate treatment but no affirmation of delusion. Alexa: respects individual choices but won't affirm gender delusion. Brian: gave honest "I don't know" on AIS scenario; acknowledges complexity. Sonia: argues AIS and intersex aren't the same thing. Discussion of puberty blockers, detransitioners, conversion therapy. Pronoun round: Jory (any/all); Sonia, Sophia, Maya, Alexa, Taylor, Ahe (she/her); Brian (he/him).

01:49:20
"What percentage of men do you find attractive?"

Brian asks each guest what % of men they find physically attractive. Jory: 0% ("honestly none") — finds women far more visually appealing; identifies as pansexual. Ahe: 30-40% in person; lower on apps. Sonia: 50% in Bay Area (in person and apps). Sophia: ~1% on dating apps; ~20% at UCSB in person. Maya: ~25-30% in person; ~15-20% on apps. Taylor: ~45-50% in person; ~20-15% on apps. Mason: ~5% (very selective). Brian: ~50% of women walking around. Alexa: ~30-35% before marriage. Discussion of why women find apps unappealing vs. in-person. Brian attempts to show Mason off as attractive to Jory — she is unimpressed.

03:00:30
Trans women in women's sports

Discussion of whether trans women should compete in women's sports. Nearly all guests opposed. Maya: plays lacrosse at UCSB; says women fought hard for their sports space. Alexa: trans athletes should have their own division. Mason: men and women are not equal biologically; separate categories exist for good reason. Jory: doesn't care about sports but objects to exclusion in principle. Brian: most men's sports are technically open to women; asks if eliminating women's sports would be objectionable if open sports remained.

03:08:27
Self-ratings round (1-10 looks)

Stiffler (viewer) asks panel to rate own looks 1-10. Ahe: 7 (said "eight and a half, not in final form yet"). Kiki: 4 (per SPEAKER_09 segment at 11341). Others in rapid sequence (diarization partially merged): seven and a half/eight, seven, nine, five, eight mentioned. Brian: 5 ("solid five, you know"). Mason: self-rated 8 (per chunk 2 reference). Chat viewer (okydoi) rates panel left-to-right from clothing descriptions: leather jacket 5, denim jacket 6, black shirt 4, christmas sweater tomboy 4.5, fluffy jacket 4, ginger hair 7, black crop top 4. Jory objects: "the way we look is the least interesting thing about all of us."

03:10:47
What percentage of men are physically attractive (extended)

Return to the attractiveness percentage question after gender debate detour. Jory reconfirms: one in a million. Brian tries to find a male celebrity she'd call attractive — fails. Mason expresses attraction to ~5% of women. Full panel goes around again for percentages; Sophia: ~1% on hinge, ~20% UCSB in person. Maya: ~25-30% in person / 15-20% apps. Taylor: ~45-50% in person / 20-15% apps. Brian: ~50% of women. Discussion of geography and dating pool quality (Bay Area vs. UCSB vs. national).

03:40:10
Guest ideal partner types round

Going around table: what is everyone's type? Brian shares his full list (see "Brian's ideal type" topic). Jory: attentive, creative, passionate, no specific physical preferences, maybe long hair. Ahe: Black or Hispanic preferred; masculine, disciplined, goal-driven; not fashion-forward. Sonia: athletic/slim-muscular build; good hygiene; slightly shy but decisive; masculine. Sophia: artsy/confident; hygienic; mostly white guys by circumstance; surfer aesthetic; not specifically frat boys (had that phase); similar ambition level. Maya: white or East Asian; athletic; loyal, empathetic, Christian, emotionally aware. Taylor: god-fearing, ambitious, gym-goer, funny, family-oriented; Black or Mexican preferred; colored eyes, tattoos, nice teeth. Mason: God-fearing first; submissive/teachable; fit; natural body supremacist; chaotic energy / unpredictable personality (Jennifer Lawrence / Emilia Clarke type). Prefers virgin but not required. Gatekeeper role: Brian must approve his future partner.

03:45:40
Brian's ideal type / partner preferences list

Brian reads his full "ideal partner" list: slight preference for Asian or white women; short (4'9"-5'2" ideal); natural body supremacist (no implants, BBL, lip filler, labiaplasty, fake nails, heavy makeup); prefers natural body over surgically enhanced equivalent in all cases; no perfume; introverted/quiet/modest; submissive; low/zero body count; no bars/clubs; doesn't drink or do drugs; has praise kink; attentive/supportive of his mission. Showed video of woman doing deep bow; wants this as greeting from partner. Guests debate the bow: Ahe declines; Sonia says she'd do it if asked; Maya does curtsy demo; Brian accepts curtsy as alternative. Brian: "I'd prefer the bow but I will begrudgingly accept a curtsy."

04:22:22
Tattoos, piercings, and natural body discussion

Discussion of how tattoos and piercings fit into the Natural Body Supremacy framework. Brian: prefers no tattoos; small heart tattoo not a dealbreaker; scale matters. Tattoos may correlate with trauma, family issues, personality disorders — not always. Mason: tattoos may signal trashiness or financial irresponsibility; still not an absolute rule. Taylor: has full sleeve + face tattoo; pushes back on trashiness label. Sonia: has multiple tattoos, many shared with deceased best friend (sentimental). Alexa: has Harley Quinn sleeve. Discussion of why women find tattoos on men attractive (signal of danger/masculinity/aggression). Piercings: Brian less opposed than tattoos; not a fan of septum piercings. Sophia discusses nipple piercings casually; says many girls with small chests get them. Brian: tattoos/piercings done for women, not men; makeup/plastic surgery more done for men.

04:24:00
World of Warcraft / gaming tangent

Mid-show WoW Classic discussion triggered by a Twitch raid. Sophia is a WoW Classic player (Alliance warlock); debate over gnome vs. human warlock racials. Panel discusses gnome INT buff vs. human reputation gain. Brian offers $1,000 to any panelist who can say where Atiesh teleports — no one gets it. Ahe prefers Call of Duty and Mortal Kombat. Brian: would you date a guy with a level 60 gnome warlock with Atiesh? Discussion of whether gaming = unattractive.

06:06:40
Patriarchy debate

Jory argues patriarchy is real; examples: car crash test dummies designed for male bodies, medical research historically done on male subjects. Brian challenges both examples as not strong evidence of systematic oppression. Jory defines patriarchy as men being the default blueprint in society. Sonia: US is not a true patriarchy; compares to Afghanistan where women can't drive/go to school. Mason: argues lack of strong male leadership is root of societal gender confusion. Brian: the examples given are niche; military conscription is one counterexample that invalidates most feminist oppression arguments. Closing: Brian argues all feminist collective grievances fall flat against military conscription.

06:17:43
Women's voting rights / military conscription debate

Sonia hot take: women should not have the right to vote. Reasoning: women are biologically nurturers; suffrage pulled women from family role, contributing to nuclear family breakdown. Brian: supports women voting but notes inequality — men received voting rights tied to Selective Service / military conscription obligation; women got voting rights without that duty. Mason: all men registered for draft at 18; women exempt; this is an inequality. Discussion: if women want equality, should they be subject to military conscription? Jory: no one should be drafted (ideally). Brian: draft will never be abolished politically; practically it remains. Reference to Ukraine: men 18-60 unable to leave country; women able to flee and live normally. Discussion of military physical standards differences between men and women. Extended debate on whether feminism is compatible with selective military exemption.

07:28:00
Closing and end of show

Brian wraps up. Final hot take: are men or women more oppressed? Mixed answers. Brian: all feminist oppression arguments invalidated by military conscription. Sonia doubles down on anti-women-voting position. Super chat read by Mason. Would you date someone who legally owns a firearm? Near-unanimous yes. Twitch raid to WoW Grandma 78 (300 viewers, playing World of Warcraft). Three no-shows at start of episode; producer Nick went into Isla Vista to recruit last-minute guests. Show ran until approximately 1 AM.

Transcript

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Joryplease tell us your name a age location so where you're from and occupation go ahead hi my name is Jory I am 22 I'm
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Joryfrom Bakersfield California and I'm here at UCSB as a student what are you studying I currently study psych and brain Sciences all right welcome when by
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Aheyou hi U my name is AE like Maui I'm 21 from the valley um and I'm just a student right now studying PR uh you're uh are you at a four-year
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AheUniversity Junior College I'm junior college is it like close enough um yeah going to transfer eventually I'm not like trying to you know rush it or anything I'm just like taking my time you know so and what you you doing
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Aheanything for work or I was working at Shake Shack but I got fired why is that well SP fries I was actually good no I'm not going to lie I was actually like pretty good working there but like I showed up
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Brian Atlaslate a lot so that's my fault you showed up late a lot not like too late though like 5 10 minutes you know stuff like that but you know corporate you know yeah corporate I know right corporate always their fault damn corporate just a
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Ahegirl sorry do you do any content creation no not really I mean this is like my first big thing so yeah but no o
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Soniaright no okay good just check it just check it just check it checking my name is Sonia I'm 23 I'm from the Bay Area and I am a engineering
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Sophiatechnology student student at a university all right welcome what about you I'm Sophia and I'm 20 and I'm from s manyi California and I'm a student at
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MayaSanta Barbara UC Santa Barbara okay what you what are you studying um econ and accounting all right welcome my name is Maya I'm 21 I'm from San Diego I'm a
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Mayathird year at UCSB and I'm studying public policy and law and a minor in education all right welcome my my name is Alexa I'm 35 I'm from Venezuela born
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Alexaand raised in Venezuela I've been in United States for 10 years now all right uh what do you do for work I I'm a producer right now I'm a farmer in my own Farm you're a farmer yes what do you
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Alexafarm what I have go I have chickens yes I'm growing my own food trying to be sustainable wow I'm I'm just getting into I just started a year ago so it's send new world for me gotcha and you said you're from Venezuela Venezuela
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Alexayeah born and raised and so you are you here you got a green card Visa I came here I came here with a Visa and then I you know I went to legalize that was a
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Alexawhole ordal because immigration here has a way to do stuff so um but I finally was able to you know stay here in a
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Brian Atlaslegal way and uh I'm married so I've been married for eight years now okay um very cool very cool and uh did you do
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Alexamuch dating in Venezuela I I mean in my early 20s I I they're babies like uh when I was around their age yes
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AlexaI mean I used to you know go out and have fun um it's just different I think uh when you date uh in United State and you in a different country just because culturally speaking is just different
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Alexathe whole thing is different when I got here in 2014 I realize everybody's on an app in in a dating app that doesn't exist in my country like people actually
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Alexago go and meet in person and or in a bar or Hey but the the the whole dating app for me was just like a new world and I was like wow how how this works well we can get into that a little bit more
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Taylor (TayTay)later on what about you what's up guys my name is Taylor it's Tay Tay baby on YouTube I advocate for men's mental health I'm 29 I'm from Los Angeles California and I'm back y'all she's back
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Mason Gregoireshe's back uh cool what about you uh my name is Mason gregar I am 27 years old about to turn 28 um I am a mechanical engineer but I'm actually going through
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Mason Gregoirea career change right now I'm going to join um Air Force Special Warfare um so it's quite the change for me but I'm excited and uh you went you got your bachelor's degree is that correct yeah
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Mason Gregoireso I have my bachelor's degree in mechanical engineering I have two bachelor's degrees actually mechanical engineering and Natural Sciences now but and we were talking a bit about this before the show but uh
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Mason Gregoireyou could go in as an officer right but you have to go in as enlisted yeah so the uh special Warfare pipeline is for enlisted um uh you can there are special Warfare careers for officers but I want
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Mason Gregoireto get the experience as an enlisted personnel first go through all of that training kind of understand what boots on the ground looks like and then eventually try to work my way up as an
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Mason Gregoireofficer so why the switch up from mechan going from mechanical engineer and going into the military yeah I mean it's something I've thought about for five or six years now uh when I lived in
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Mason GregoireTennessee I'd been thinking about going in as a Navy SEAL like kind of getting my education I wanted to get experience in the workforce as an engineer uh but
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Mason GregoireI've always kind of had this call um to do something bigger than myself challenge myself physically mentally uh see what kind of man I am and uh I'm
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Mason Gregoirefinally taking the jump I'm really nervous cuz I know uh the attrition rate for this specific ific um afse is pretty
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Mason Gregoirehigh it's like 80% of the people who try it fail 10 so and when when do you start when do you um so I'll the official process will probably start they'll
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Mason Gregoireprobably ship me off for basic training um probably 2 3 months from now I haven't gotten a date yet so it could be couple months it could be longer than that but we'll see good [ __ ] good [ __ ]
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Brian Atlaswell cool we're going to go around the table once more we're going to get everybody's current relationship status so are you single excuse me talking stage situationship Friends with
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Brian AtlasBenefits relationship married poly sex Co whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you go ahead well
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JoryI am currently single I've been single for the last I'd say four years and the longest relationship I was in was a year and a half is that it was a high school
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Brian Atlasrelationship yeah okay one one 1.5 years okay why did that end it's a lot like it is a lot it's a
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Jorylot should we come back to it why did it end who bro who who broke up with who well at first I tried to break up with
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Joryhim but he cried so I stayed for another year and then after he checked out then he broke up with me oh I was waiting for
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Joryhim too oh wait you were waiting for him to break up with you yeah cuz he he didn't like it when I suggested it so I was waiting for him to go ahead and come to that decision oh wait did you say you
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Brian Atlaschecked out or he checked out I checked out you checked out okay yeah I mean he was the kind of guy that got jealous of his own dog like in a romantic way no like I'm
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Jorypetting his dog and he's jealous why aren't you spending time with me wait your dog his dog yeah his dog would be hanging out with other people no he would get jealous of me
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Brian Atlasfor petting his dog instead of hanging out with him okay okay wait he would if you were petting the dog his dog while you were at his why are you not petting me no seriously his I was petting his cat one time and he was like well why
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Joryaren't you cuddling me instead it's a cat but was he saying that in a joking way or was it like dead serious serious conversation dead
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Joryserious yeah no he had some interesting things little little wait so he was jealous of like not getting attention from the
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Brian Atlasthe pet or not getting attention from you or both not getting attention from me oh huh but like pet the dog with me it's your dog is old like pay
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Mason Gregoireattention to your dog were there any other like instances that uh kind of Drew this out in him like any like major fights like why did you do that other than like pet related
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Joryinstances I don't know it was just weird we didn't get into fights too often um
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Jorywe did get into a bit of a fight one time because like someone had come up to me in a gas station and they weren't going to leave me alone and so I told
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Jorythem hey I have a boyfriend he's in the car right now and my boyfriend was sitting there the whole time didn't even care like that I was out pumping gas and someone was coming up to me and like do you think it's because you guys are how
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Alexaold are you right now right now I'm 22 and that was four years ago yeah I mean we were young so right so maybe it's just because you guys were super young and sometimes experience comes with with
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Brian Atlasthe years and you know how you handle situations yes wait so 6 months in you try to end the relationship this is what your junior year of high school it was
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Jorymy senior year of high school and he was graduating to go to college okay so 6 months in you end it but then then
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Brian Atlashe starts starts crying you take him back out of pity was it a pity it was a Pity take back yeah pity take back
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Brian Atlasyeah interesting that's something that's something what was the scope of the like was he was it like like just a singular tier or was it like full-blown
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JoryWaterworks what are we talking here crocodile tears full-blown yeah crocodile tears full-blown Waterworks um damn I think it was more so of a control issue
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Jorybecause we wanted different things in life there was no reason to argue for me to stay like go find what you want with someone who wants the same
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Brian Atlasthing and so but then you you got back with him but was there a period when you got back with him where it was like good for a period or was it you were just
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Jorylike a h almost it kind of felt like the the ladder simply because he didn't believe on going on dates okay so there's nothing wrong with
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Jorythat so he was like a little bit he sounds kind of based not going to lie good for him that wasn't particularly what the issue was he just didn't believe he's growing on me he's kind of growing on me doesn't believe in dates he's growing on me wait so you what do
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Brian Atlasyou mean you just want to hang out at the house and yeah okay cuddle you know that sort of stuff he just wanted me to be there interest wait what was that patrio Nick do you remember the patrio
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Brian AtlasNeil quote men want hold on let me see if I can find it um but so it sounded like
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Brian Atlasthough you were trying to like were you actively trying to make him dislike you so he would break up with you because that's what it sounded like towards the
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Joryvery very end yes but during the entire relationship I was trying really hard to be a good girlfriend like I would noticed his favorite pair of pants had a hole going through them so I'd got him a
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Brian Atlasnew pair just because you know things like that but he did not believe in reciprocating okay so
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Brian Atlaslike what would you what were you trying to do to sort of um what's what's the right word here to like give him pretext for him to break up with
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Joryyou well I started to flake on plans a little bit towards the very end but they were stupid plans anyway what like you I thought he just
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Jorywanted to hang out though not do dates no he wanted to do a zoom movie and watch a movie on zoom on Zoom yeah like so like
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Brian Atlasseparately we weren't even together yeah yeah and what the heck that's a little too much yeah okay um oh I found a qu quote here from
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Brian AtlasPatrice O'Neal men want to be alone but we don't want to be by ourself I don't know if that you applies here it
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Brian Atlasmight he just wanted you like in the other room he didn't want to talk to you but just he wanted you to be there he wanted someone who made him feel like he was in control of his life like he
00:15:27
Jorywanted his life to go certain way and he thought just by having a girlfriend it would happen sure like he wanted kids and I already told him no like kids in the future or kids right then and there
00:15:39
Brian Atlasin the future but I let him know that that was not on the table for me at all you don't want kids no okay um do you think that might change at all or you didn't want kids with him or just no
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Brian Atlaskids period no kids okay no kids period Well we we maybe we'll come back to that we can open it up to the rest of the panel um and you said you've been single for 4 years yeah I mean I've gone on
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Brian Atlassome dates but I've been single the whole time but so when you say single do you mean like what's the longest period of time that you've seen somebody for that fouryear period maybe there's like
00:16:11
Brian Atlaswhat a three-month guy or something no one guy for like a week wait so the for the past four years your college Years the longest like con uh consecutive period of time you've dated somebody was
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Jorya week yeah is it maybe you're just not looking for something more serious or I'm kind of not really looking for
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Joryanything at all but if something happens it happens if it happens it happens okay uh has there been somebody you wanted a
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Joryrelationship with but they didn't no oh okay you're just a player then you're just a player being a player requires playing with people I don't you
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Brian Atlasdon't you don't have Riz well if you want to look at it that sure but I just don't really interact with people that often okay you're a Hermit yeah you just stay inside and play Pokemon card with
00:17:07
Mason GregoirePokemon cards is that well I'm not inside all the time but when I go out I'm by myself solo walk I guess so generally when I'm single I think of it as like a period of time where I'm like
00:17:18
Mason GregoireI'm not talking to anybody like I'm not like no text messages like there's no prospects like I'm not dming with somebody I'm not waiting like posting stories on my Instagram and then someone
00:17:31
Mason Gregoirewill send me something back like oh I'm starting to talk to them like it's nothing it's like zero communication I think most guys it's that's like their definition of being single like they have no
00:17:43
Mason Gregoireprospects is that your definition of being single or are you kind of like is there a guy here that's like checking up on you or like are you texting people
00:17:54
Mason Gregoirelike what do you mean by it if they did not ask me to be their partner then we not Partners yeah yeah well I mean like
00:18:02
Mason GregoireI'm not saying so I guess the experience of being single or like just not talking to anybody for guys it's usually like we
00:18:13
Mason Gregoiredon't have anyone we're talking to like there are no prospects whatsoever in your experience have there been periods of time where you're not actually talking to anybody what's your experience of singleness yeah yeah I
00:18:26
Jorywould say over the course of the last four years three and a half years were spent not talking to anyone okay um I just got into dating recently but have
00:18:37
Jorybeen disappointed so are you are you on dating apps or were you on dating apps I was but I deleted all of them they when you when you say you recently got back
00:18:48
Joryinto dating what what does that mean like I went on a date with a guy and then we talked for like a week after
00:18:58
Jorythat and then I told him it wasn't working it wasn't work yeah why why wasn't it working well on the very first date said
00:19:08
Jorydate he had already been talking about marriage and kids and last names that's too much well little soon little
00:19:18
Brian Atlassoon and you don't want you don't want kids how did you meet them dating up yes oh okay wait so you said for the past three and a half years you've been
00:19:28
Brian Atlaspretty much single so you've been celibate for that kind of kind of how can you be kind of celibate for three and a half years but how long have you
00:19:38
Brian Atlasbeen celibate then cuz it's sounds like Do's not been much it I mean it doesn't happen much the carnal knowledge but so have you been you've
00:19:50
Jorybeen celibate yeah I mean for how long well
00:20:00
Joryfor maybe like two years oh okay it's not like I don't know that's kind of a long
00:20:12
Brian Atlastime yeah I mean uh relatively speaking good for you though I mean if
00:20:21
Brian Atlasno one's out there they're there's no point okay gotcha well we'll we can come back to uh some of that stuff um but uh what about you what's your situation
00:20:32
Aheokay so I'm single I'm pretty like happily single like I consider myself um my last relationship ended like a year and a half ago like a year and a half two years ago you've
00:20:44
Ahebeen single for 2 years yeah pretty much I mean I've talked there was like this one guy that I was talking to for like 3 months and it went pretty well but I just I don't know it was just you know I
00:20:55
Ahecould not really see myself going too deep into that and also like I enjoy being single you know what I mean I feel like there's just other stuff that there's just you sorry there's just like stuff that you can do when you're single
00:21:08
Ahestuff that you can't do like you know what I mean so I don't know I'm like in my single era I like it wait what do you mean there's stuff that you can do when you're single and stuff you can you can't do what do you what do you mean what you what are you talking about let
00:21:20
TTS Donation Readerme okay so I mean let's say I go to like a bar go to the club with my friends you know obviously at least like my last boyfriend Katie is donated
00:21:30
TTS Donation Reader$100 hey Bri sorry I'm late got some stuff going on tonight we'll have to catch the Pod later after recording question for the panel how do you feel
00:21:41
Kikiabout Nala returning to Christ real or fake I mean I don't know if the people on the panel are familiar with who this is fake fake what is f fake all right should we pull it up really quick Nick
00:21:53
Taylor (TayTay)do you have uh I think I know who they're talking about but red hair yeah I have it's on my Twitter the
00:22:03
Mason GregoireSpiderman oh yes yes okay okay the fake F I'm going to see if I I'm interested like I've had I've actually had a couple conversations with people
00:22:15
Mason Gregoireabout her I mean I don't know anything about her but like people will ask me cuz they've seen me on the show what do you think about that lady I'm like I'll find Nick I'm going to send it in the private
00:22:25
Taylor (TayTay)chat know I know nothing about her what does that have to do with returning to Christ she was getting baptized and all this stuff but she does o and she said she'll take somebody's man and she does that whole like cheating thing I'll
00:22:37
Brian Atlassnatch your man right out of your okay she the wrong girl and she still have only F I believe that's not the Christ what are you talking about well you know we might get her on the show we'll see
00:22:47
Brian Atlaswhat she has to say let's see uh Nick you got it ready yeah all right go ahead you can play the audio or just mute it Midway through if you oh it's not that one you s
00:22:59
Brian Atlasyeah I'm pretty sure that's it just yeah that's it just go ahead just go ahead with it we're just going to play
00:23:08
Brian Atlasone fantasy is not even my biggest it's like one of my fantasies and then this is her getting
00:23:18
Brian Atlasbaptized uh yep and you know she's she's been on the podcast two times uh and uh she does o or did O
00:23:30
Brian Atlasanyways um so for those of you who aren't familiar with her that's the thing so the chatter is asking you think it's legit did she quit o Brian yeah cuz if she quit she that's what she says
00:23:43
Mason Gregoirefrom from what I understand about the story it seems like she had been doing o and then she got saved and then dropped all of that and then she got baptized
00:23:54
Mason Gregoireand all this stuff has happened um so I guess I can give my point of view on on it I am very slow to say oh it's fake because I know God does incredible
00:24:06
Mason Gregoirethings he works in very incredible ways I mean just look at uh Saul turned into Paul when uh Christ himself appeared to him on the road to Damascus and said Paul or Saul Saul why are you
00:24:18
Mason Gregoirepersecuting me and he changed his whole life and he went on to write most of the New Testament uh so I mean God can do some incredible things so I I can't discount um
00:24:29
Mason Gregoireuh what God can do but I want to see what her walk will entail because it could be something like Kanye where he like professes faith it like he gets connected with some good pastors it
00:24:41
Mason Gregoirelooks like he's going in a good direction but then the people he surrounds himself slowly poison that fruit that was there and he turns out to
00:24:50
Mason Gregoirejust be the uh the uh seed that was cast into shallow ground and it was trampled so we'll see we'll see see we'll see what you know what happens with Ana but
00:25:01
Brian Atlashey thank you uh kadia appreciate it you were telling us about things you can do and things you can't do when yeah so I mean it I think it also depends on like
00:25:12
Ahethe type of you know partner that you have and stuff you know their boundaries whatever they're comfortable with um I mean my ex like he yeah I mean he was kind of like how
00:25:23
Aheyou said really jealous even of just like me hang out with my friends stuff like just trying to live life like that [ __ ] stuff like pissed him off you know cuz he was I guess jealous of me like in
00:25:35
Ahea way you know so um how did we break up his dad actually broke us up yeah no and his dad was on my side he was like yeah basically like stay the
00:25:45
Ahehell away from my son you know like he's you know how old was he um we had just turned 20 when we broke up yeah our birthdays are like two weeks apart young
00:25:56
Ahedude yeah would you say he's like trying to be like that macho man I don't know I mean honestly the closest thing that I can say is like he thinks he's like Playboy cardi or
00:26:07
Ahesomething like you know I don't know man like after we broke up I don't know like he just seems like the same different style trying to be like a different person but the same head space you know
00:26:19
Ahewhat I mean didn't grow at all just a very like I don't I never want to like call somebody like a narcissist you know I know that's like never a good thing to do but he had some tend that was just
00:26:29
Brian Atlaslike you know very offputting to most of like my friends and stuff that he met so okay uh you so you said you've been single for 2 years your longest relationship was that that was 10 months
00:26:41
Brian Atlasyeah 10 months okay but the guy you were just talking about that's the guy you were seeing for three months was it yeah that that was like some other guy yeah some other guy all right a very some other very nice
00:26:53
Ahegood gentleman gentleman so you've been single for 2 years yeah just about how long ago was was the 3 month guy it
00:27:01
Ahewas like August to December maybe okay so pretty recently oh maybe that was longer than three months but yeah okay
00:27:11
Soniawhat about you I'm in a relationship right now how long have you been together uh it'll be 2 years in may like
00:27:23
Soniaend of May all right is that your longest relationship yes okay cool how did you guys meet uh it's a funny story um I went to
00:27:33
Soniaa death metal concert with my best friend before she passed away um and she
00:27:40
Soniawas high on Molly and I was too shy to ask him you know hey can I have your Snapchat so she was like do you want to
00:27:50
Soniatalk to him do you want me to talk to him for you I said yes and we kind of exchanged Snapchats in that way and we
00:28:00
Soniahung out after like 2 weeks of talking and it just went from
00:28:05
Soniathere he is younger than death metal band was it um Chelsea Grin and dying
00:28:16
Brian Atlasfetus who the [ __ ] is that guy dying fetus what the [ __ ]
00:28:25
Brian Atlasyeah I I listen to is it a Christian death medal band Christian but actually yeah very very CHR H okay that's
00:28:36
Soniainteresting um is that what you're you you guys think you're get married you think um yeah I so for me I would get
00:28:47
Soniamarried like just for the ceremony but I wouldn't make it official with the government based thank you um can you
00:28:56
Soniaclose the door um and I'm Jewish he's not okay so I would want suppos like hypothetically a
00:29:07
SoniaJewish wedding which he doesn't mind he's very kind of uh is he religious so he has seven other
00:29:17
Soniasiblings um so he's Mormon no he's not but his mom is pretty is is pretty religious like she goes to church every
00:29:26
SoniaSunday um when my best friend was at the hospital she was she prayed for her and you know the the normal prayer that people
00:29:38
Soniado when someone's dying in the hospital um but he himself is not he's not religious he but he would convert no but you said you want to get married
00:29:50
Soniayou're you're Jewish right I am yeah wouldn't my understanding is you'd have to you don't it it could be very reformed so like there's different level levels of Judaism there's reform
00:30:02
Soniaconservative and Ultra Orthodox which is funny enough my older brother became extremely religious because so uh my parents are from the
00:30:13
Brian AtlasSoviet Union they hated Jews in the Soviet Union oh bro oh how are you going to say that oh I'm sorry on the show Jesus Christ okay I'm sorry but they weren't allowed to
00:30:24
Soniapractice their religion is that TS oh my God bro okay I'm sorry I'm sorry go ahead um but I mean it it it's you know
00:30:34
Soniafact but so when they immigrated here they wanted us to go to religious school and um Hebrew school to get our barbat
00:30:45
SoniaMitzvah um so we weren't super religious like we didn't do the Sabbath or anything like that um but as my older
00:30:53
Soniabrother got older he became very religious to the point where he moved to Jerusalem um and he is doing this thing
00:31:05
Soniacalled Yeshiva which is kind of like a further learning of um Judaism and so uh he became very religious to the
00:31:14
Soniapoint where he doesn't even hug my aunt like he won't sit in the same room as he won't sit next to a woman like so if he was here he'd have to be where you are and then you'd be right here and he
00:31:27
Soniacan't be next next to a woman um so he asked his Rabbi he said can I my my aunt and my mom are pretty pissed off
00:31:40
Soniathat you can't you know that I can't hug you that I can't hug her so his Rabbi said only if she initiates the hug
00:31:51
Sophiabasically yeah it's very different okay all right what about you okay I actually haven't um dated
00:32:02
Brian Atlasbefore like in a Like official relationship so I've been single for 20 years okay uh you haven't dated before in an official relationship what about an unofficial kind of just relationship
00:32:14
Sophiamostly talking stage I would say and just like really casual yeah casual okay um and so what what is that are you on
00:32:24
Sophiadating apps have you been on dating apps I have but it's kind of more just entertainment with my roommates um I would just say that when you say entertainment with your
00:32:37
Brian Atlasroommates is it just looking at the profiles do you talk to the guys together yeah kind of like as a group it's like well all be on our phones this is one of my roommates
00:32:48
Sophiaactually so we've done it together before um but yeah I kind of like like we I've done Tinder before and I've done hinge and I just I just think that the people on there like at least that I'm
00:33:00
Sophiaseeing are just like KN one I'd want to date so it's just kind of fun to have fun with it wait so you have you ever met somebody from one of the dating apps
00:33:10
SophiaI have and I and it was like a onetime thing each time like I was not going to meet that person again what do you mean each time a one time thing each time like like a one time meeting each like
00:33:22
Sophiathat P like okay the person that I had met I didn't like as soon as I like had met up with them and so that was like it I did not want to keep in contact but you went on there were a couple dates
00:33:33
Brian Atlasdifferent dates okay how many total meetups do you think you've had from the dating apps maybe like four four okay you didn't like any of them no what what was the was there recurring theme Here
00:33:47
Brian Atlaswhat what was the deal I think they were just weird they were weird yeah like I mean what if you're the common denominator I could be I could be what if you're the common denominator but I would I think most people
00:33:58
Sophiawould agree that they were weird I think that there just like wasn't that many people that I had liked off of the dating apps and so like the people that are like most responsive to like
00:34:10
Sophiaactually going on a date and like kind of initiating it are usually the ones that are more desperate and so I think and I'm not the one to initiate it so I
00:34:20
Brian Atlasthink that the people I did end up with were just weirder and yeah were there people that you were interested from the dating apps that that you were interested in but they didn't initiate
00:34:32
Brian Atlasit yeah or like it would be kind of like a conversation would start and then I'm also not a good texter so fizzle it would fizzle fizzle out okay so you went
00:34:43
Brian Atlason four dates each date just one date didn't go further and when you say dates like would you meet up for for uh like a food or what like meet up at a party cuz
00:34:55
Brian Atlasyou're you said you're 20 right I'm like not going to bars or whatever unless you have a fake ID but yeah so um I've like met up like
00:35:06
SophiaI've gone to Smoothie I've gone like tea I went the most recent time was actually like fun um I went like thrifting at the Goodwill bins um that I had a lot of fun
00:35:16
Sophiahe didn't get anything and I was like oh maybe this is just all for me like it was kind of he pay wait you he didn't pay like he didn't pay he offered and I was just like no cuz I didn't want to see him again oh um so you didn't you
00:35:29
Sophiasaid you had a good time though I had a good time thrifting I had a good time thrifting but it was like I could have done that myself it would have time just alone yeah like it was kind of nice to have like someone there but it was like
00:35:41
Sophiayeah it was not like is that an awkward date to go thrifting with somebody first date I know I kind of thought so but I don't know I really wanted to go thrifting so I was like I kind want to
00:35:52
Sophiado something I wanted to do so at least like even if the person sucked at least I would have fun what what's so what's the longest period of time moving off from the dating app that you've been
00:36:03
Brian Atlaswith one person um like a couple months couple months okay yeah just like talking because you said you've been single for your whole life but yeah I can well like
00:36:14
Sophiakind of going back to the definition of single I just for me it's always been really casual and it's never been like an official relationship so I consider it myself so you're talking like you've had friends with benefits hookups I haven't even called it friends with
00:36:27
Sophiabenefits like I feel like that is kind of like a funny name and if unless you're like what would you call it I would just say I'm talking to someone I just I personally wouldn't say friends
00:36:38
Mason Gregoirewith benefits but is there carnal knowledge what okay no is that okay I should just car carge friends with benefits in like the definition like
00:36:50
Mason Gregoiredefinitional use of the term friends with benefits like you're intimate with somebody yeah like using that definition have you had friends with benefits oh
00:37:01
Brian Atlasokay then yes okay I just yeah sorry and so what um but none of these guy well the guy you were seeing you said for three months there's one guy
00:37:11
Sophiakind of it was it was like it was like summer like I maybe before College I think it was that summer um so yeah like a couple months or something like that and it was like I
00:37:24
Brian Atlasdon't know I wouldn't even say we were really friends so I don't know if that really count princi how did you meet him I met him at my friend's birthday party
00:37:32
Brian Atlasokay so summerling 3 months uh who ended that me you ended it yeah okay and then the four dates you went on what what do you think with the four dates that you
00:37:43
Brian Atlaswent on off of the dating apps were they was it a personality thing were they not attractive physically what do you think it was
00:37:51
Sophiathere yeah kind of all of that um I think you look at their photos I did I mean they just look different catfishing you they cat kind of I mean yeah just
00:38:04
Brian Atlaslike I I see your profile right now sure oh I don't my phone on me so actually no should we it's okay we can't we can't pull up onen fishing them oh no wait so you're currently on the app right now
00:38:15
Sophiaare you like active on it like yeah I have hinge um yeah like I think if anyone's like really been on hinge like I don't know there's like no one on there
00:38:28
Sophiano one yeah I mean I think every girl can say that all the guys are really ugly like I'm telling you your most compatible is like okay well anyway well yeah wait no no no go into that a little
00:38:40
Sophiabit what do you mean all the guys are really ugly on hinge well okay maybe not every single one but like the ones that you're able to access unless you like pay like and I'm not going to do that so uh yeah they're just like usually really
00:38:52
Brian Atlasugly and it's just kind of like I open it I get scared and I get off yeah po I been on hinge in in like over a year I got off all the dating apps but it maybe
00:39:03
Brian Atlasit's changed in that onee period but uh you used to have like you could match with like uh I think if people liked you you had unlimited amount of matches you
00:39:13
Brian Atlascould do but to send a like it was like seven in the day has that changed is it less now well you don't send out likes right I think it's like like rose like a super like or something have they
00:39:24
Sophiachanged hinge I don't know it's been a while yeah I think um yeah I think you can basically like accept like when people match with you like unlimited but then I think when you're matching with
00:39:35
Sophiaother people it's limited but more than seven for sure wait so your primary thing though with hinge is like the the dudes on there are just ugly yeah I mean yeah Maya back me up your do you agree
00:39:47
Brian AtlasI'd have to agree but is that is that like the primary thing that you guys are kind of wanting or looking for is like hot dude no like say it you can say it no I I
00:39:59
Sophiareally don't think I'm like very superficial with that and I know I probably sound like I am but a little bit it's okay then but no I I actually
00:40:09
Sophiaam not um I just think that like I'm telling you I'm not being superficial when I say like these people are like scary looking like and just like and it's not even like looking it's the
00:40:20
Sophiapictures themselves are just like it's frightening it's like fish the fish photos no not even I would prefer that honestly fish it's like people that you
00:40:32
Mayadon't know that if they like go outside or they have like a life outside of like just themselves if that makes sense okay maybe you need to adjust your preferences wait something yeah I think
00:40:45
MayaHing is also trying to get people to like pay yeah I agree they can I think maybe it wasn't like that before I think now it's it's yeah it's definitely like turning into other dating apps wait do
00:40:55
Brian Atlasyou so who here currently has dating app profiles wait we should I almost want to give you we'll give you guys your phones we'll have you take screenshots of your profile and we're going to do dating app
00:41:07
Brian Atlasreview so uh Nick if you can get them their phones so take screenshots of all the photos and then also the prompts you know how there's the prompts on H um so
00:41:16
Brian Atlastake screenshots send them individually to the whatever Instagram page and uh we'll get those going so date no dating
00:41:25
Brian Atlasapp no dating app dating app I'm glad I delet delet um and then we can collect we can collect or should we just leave this
00:41:37
Brian Atlashere until uh no just collect and then uh thank you Nick so we we're going to we're going to do some deep dives into your guys's Instagrams
00:41:47
Brian Atlasuh or not excuse me not Instagrams dating apps everything nice and fresh there yeah so we'll do that um wait and so where do you want me just like oh
00:41:58
Brian Atlasyeah so the Instagram at whatever on Instagram just send it a message and just individually send the screenshots that way what about like a screen recording no do do individual
00:42:09
Brian Atlasscreenshots so all photos and all prompts from there while you guys are doing that I'm going to move on to you what is your
00:42:17
Mayarelationship status I am single right now my longest like embarrassing consecutive relationship was 8 months but that then that was in high school
00:42:29
Mayaand then after that I dated someone like including like us talking and stuff like for probably two
00:42:38
Brian Atlasyears two years okay yeah when did that end that ended in September okay you wait you hold on September oh so that was the one from
00:42:50
Mayaeight months ago that's how you said you've been single for eight months yeah that's the one that ended yeah that was the one yeah and you were in a talking stage for 2 years so no so we were
00:42:59
Mayatalking then we dated broke up went no contact started talking again dated broke up and then so the course of that
00:43:08
Brian Atlaswas two years okay got it um wait so talking broke up there's only one breakup though right or one two so
00:43:20
Mayayou got you were together three times twice so we talked dated broke up and then we talked talked again dated again and then broke up again okay I see who
00:43:32
Alexawho broke up with who in each of those instances I broke up with him both times both times okay good times what about you I've been married for eight years
00:43:41
Alexanow um so it's not that much I can say besides that married 8 years yes did you say how you how did you guys meet so we met on said because we both we both work
00:43:53
Alexain the entertainment industry um and uh we did we made on July we moved together in October and we got married on February and we have been married for a year wait
00:44:05
Brian Atlasfor both of you can you send the photos like one by one cuz on desktop it won't load it uh like in a group so just send them one at a time what about you Tay um
00:44:16
Taylor (TayTay)single as a pringle I had dating apps but I deleted them cuz I had a bad experience and yeah I don't want to talk to anybody anymore oh yeah scared me [ __ ] was that
00:44:28
Brian Atlasrecently yeah it ended bad [ __ ] it's hard to hear begin anxiety over guys sometimes too jealous for me too jealous uh oh that's
00:44:38
Mason Gregoirea that's a yikes Mason what about you what's your uh um single uh yeah my longest
00:44:49
Mason Gregoirerelationship uh a year um but yeah that's about it yeah and you're uh you're waiting until marriage correct correct yeah waiting till marriage I'm a
00:44:59
Mason Gregoirevirgin covered this before but yeah for those who do not know who I am good times yeah good times good job good she says good job anybody is
00:45:11
Aheanybody else any other virgins here why you looking at me no I don't know I'm just she said no the bad thing I get down nobody else a virgin nobody
00:45:22
Brian AtlasGustavo G amen to Y he's okay it's very admirable honestly yeah uh Nick are you getting those pulled up okay we're getting so we're getting the
00:45:57
Brian Atlasgildo horn sweet silence fire cap and wall for the tier one thank you guys appreciate it uh twitch.tv/ whatever drops a follow in the prime sub if you have one thank you guys appreciate it
00:46:08
Brian Atlasyou got it Nick uh yeah I got the first one okay work on we'll work on the first one we who we got here we got how do you say your name again why AE like Maui
00:46:18
Aheliterally Maui without the M OE that's me like OE yeah OE like a don't don't even I already know you don't like that one I'm so used to it I'm just like I
00:46:28
TTS Donation Readerhear it you hear it too much yeah I get I get the same thing with Brian they're like Brian like donated $100 Brian Little Dicky looking
00:46:39
TTS Donation Reader[ __ ] should be the last person calling dudes ugly these busted as 304s be cracking all their yeah I said it do
00:46:48
Ahesome # get the Rocks # lay Bion # stop do you guys want to respond he I think it's
00:47:00
Ahedirected I mean what else [ __ ] can can we see what you look like loose [ __ ] energy what's up with that LP um they want to see what you look like LP they
00:47:12
Brian Atlaswant to see what you look like um I got ready Sophia looks like I only got two photos from you oh okay did you mess up one of them one twice yeah so that one I messed up I think the other ones are
00:47:23
Brian Atlasstill sending oh okay you want to do the first one uh sure OE yeah let's do OE we'll
00:47:32
Brian Atlaswait all right let's just get this over with all right this is ie's hinge profile so chat are you swiping yes yes on OE uh
00:47:45
Brian Atlasokay well instantly hit it off you laugh about everything we turn up to Bangers into in the whip you down for Whatever Whenever Wherever I like that last one in my defense I haven't changed this in
00:47:56
Brian Atlaslike a really long time defense is noted uh next you should not go out with me if you're not a Munch hold on here what
00:48:08
Ahewhat it what's a Munch for me really just somebody who eats coach like so wait deal breaker if the guy doesn't eat [ __ ] if you're like
00:48:20
AheI mean I'm not going to like you know it's not like you have to do that every like 2 hours or something but if we're like having sex and you don't want to like you know eat the cat then it's I don't know I mean if I'm going to like
00:48:32
Brian Atlasyou know do that for you you better do the same you know there's some people who really don't so I agree I'm kind of just you agree yes who here who else agrees let's go around the table on this
00:48:43
Kikideal breaker if the guy doesn't eat [ __ ] yes especially if they want their dick sucked oh my God another one thank you no why are we talking about this I
00:48:55
Brian Atlasfeel like it's kind of just fair I don't know so fairness yeah like well that's so she her point was especially if the
00:49:04
Brian Atlasguy wants to be reciprocal pleasure but just is it a deal breaker let's let's remove the reciprocal pleasure thing from this deal breaker if
00:49:15
Alexahe doesn't do that wait hold on I want to I want to wait so I'm not say I don't think that you should do that with any stranger every time that you go on a date or every time that you meet someone
00:49:28
AlexaI don't think that should be happening for me sex is sacred and I think anything that evolves that uh but at the same time when you find the person that you love and you want to be with it I
00:49:39
Alexathink all that needs to happen because I mean you're going to spend the with that person Aron I agree with that you so in in your
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Sophiaown words though yeah I would say that like yeah if it's just a like a random hookup I'm probably not going to expect anything but if it was someone that I'm like planning on like having a more
00:50:00
Sophiaserious relationship with then yeah it probably would be a deal breaker in the the long run I don't think it's a deal breaker okay we heard from you Tay no
00:50:11
Mason Gregoireit's not a deal breaker Mason what do you think what do you think Mason uh actually there is um there's a Bible verse that hits on not
00:50:22
Mason Gregoirethis topic explicitly but it talks about um a spouse who's unwilling to give their body to their other spouse so it's
00:50:34
Mason Gregoirethat's an First Corinthians I think I can't remember the exact reference but it says that your body is uh uh that you are to give your body to your spouse for them to use and for you to be able to
00:50:45
Mason Gregoireuse their body as well you're supposed to be one you become one yes exactly corre so uh in the context of marriage um I will keep that between my wife and
00:50:55
Brian AtlasI but uh yeah anything goes yeah I also say please like just don't take that too seriously like the whole I took it pretty seriously wait so we're serious
00:51:06
Ahehere deal breaker if the guy won't go down I'll give my take on this I don't do that why not though I don't do that is it maybe because like you know you don't like the other person
00:51:18
Brian Atlasenough or are you like afraid I'm I'm a fan of labia don't get me wrong I like so a little maybe you haven't right person yeah I found the right i' I've
00:51:29
Brian Atlasfound throughout the years I've had long-term relationships but it's not your thing I'll do anything for love but I won't do that damn I'll do anything
00:51:40
Brian Atlasare you worried you're not good oh I'm good the the three times I did it back in who's going to for you that you're good the Bush Administration this was back at the that's the last time I went
00:51:52
Ahedown on a girl was the Bush Administration no pun intended so are you going to let yeah like like how was it it's been like over a decade a decade
00:52:01
Brian Atlasand a wait yeah a decade and a half it's been a while [ __ ] I don't understand I wouldn't do it I understand that she gets it she gets don't want
00:52:13
Taylor (TayTay)to I'm there's a lot of girls who are really like 304s and like they're doing that with every guy you're saying I'm a Munch and all that that's going to make a guy think you've always get your boxy and that
00:52:24
Brian Atlaslooks bad I wouldn't want to I'm good M relationship or no I'm out well certainly like I mean my position is I just don't do period but uh now hold on
00:52:35
Brian Atlaslet me just let me add a little bit here I do care about my partner's pleasure so it's my goal I want her to come first she's got to come
00:52:45
Ahefirst preferably multiple times but not that way you know what yeah that actually makes sense because there's only okay well if it's like only one guy
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Ahehas ever made me like bust with his meat you know what I mean so yeah I know it sucks right so for me with his meat me like you oh his his peing yeah his PE PE yeah
00:53:11
Aheso at least you hands there's hands [ __ ] you can even employ toys bust out the toys true but I've never at least for me like the toys the that's some that's just something that I like you know what
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AheI mean like I oh sorry sorry sorry sorry okay like I would I would want talk you know what can I say word like I wante and I feel like that at least for me
00:53:32
Ahethat's like the easiest like okay well sorry hey I that's kind of my like my thing that I like so you know like when you do that I like it it's hot I bust a nut and then you know we maybe I return
00:53:46
Ahethe favor you know maybe not maybe I already did and then you know we go into [ __ ] but wait maybe you return the favor maybe you don't it always like depends on like the situation you know like if you want like give me top and
00:53:57
Ahethen boom like straight to [ __ ] like just smash you know but yeah well I'll start off by this look for I don't do it across the board but if there's viewers
00:54:09
Brian Atlasmale viewers in the chat who are inclined to do it I would at least recommend you don't do it during casual hookups I agree I think no yeah definitely not I know these people be
00:54:21
Ahe[ __ ] multiple people at the same time I don't know why I also put that on there is just that like if you're if you're like not the type of person to give head then you're probably not you know just I'm not asking for it like off
00:54:34
Brian Atlasrip you know that's a little I don't even like I think you probably are though what do you mean you want that you want it first time you w it first time that's not me that's really not me
00:54:44
Mason Gregoirewell okay having it on a dating profile kind of gives that image that you like you're that kind of girl who will put out that way like with every guy you date so like
00:54:57
KikiI don't know maybe take it off the profile you can like it's fine you can it's fine I definitely don't you looking
00:55:06
Mason Gregoireyou can like like there's a certain amount of selflessness that comes with like trying to please your partner but like maybe you can frame it in a different way because the guys you're
00:55:18
Brian Atlasgoing to reel in with that how she going to frame it on the day I'm not saying I wish for man to to go below the should at least say no right called on
00:55:30
Jorymaps it's not a bad thing to have on a dating profile I think it definitely is there to prevent people if you are I want to I want to sorry I do want to answer your question how you said like you said what exactly am I yeah because
00:55:43
Taylor (TayTay)if you're looking for just messing around then have your body and all that showing and say I'm a Munch but if you're looking for a husband I think you should probably change that type of stuff cuz I'm a Munch if I seen that I would think you're like a 304 I'm trying to smash yeah a