HEATED DEBATE! She Got Her Ex DEPORTED?! Excommunicated Mormon/LDS?! Woke E-GIRL?! | Dating Talk 289

Date: 2026-04-06

Duration: 11h 01m

Guests

Brian Atlas

BBarbara Adamson >

AAngelica (DC)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00Joy(guest)

SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_02Emily Mack(guest)

SPEAKER_03Frankie(guest)

SPEAKER_04Angelica (DC)(guest)

SPEAKER_05Ally(guest)

SPEAKER_06Abby(guest)

SPEAKER_09Riley Nimi(guest)

SPEAKER_10Griselda(guest)

SPEAKER_11Barbara Adamson(guest)

SPEAKER_12Anna(guest)

SPEAKER_13Lii(guest)

SPEAKER_14Hannah(guest)

Key Moments

IntroAll 13 guests introduce themselves - largest panel ever

Key MomentGriselda reveals she crossed the Rio Grande illegally as a minor

ControversyRiley proposes shooting anyone who crosses the border

Key MomentAngelica reveals she lied about being engaged - actually married

Key MomentAlly reveals boyfriend strangled her on shrooms, she stayed with him

Key MomentHannah excommunicated from LDS church in high school

Key MomentAnna unknowingly dated a Craigslist killer

OtherLongest Whatever stream ever - approaching 11 hours

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

13 guests including Riley Nimi (conservative), Griselda (Mexican immigrant), Hannah, Anna (Marine vet), and many more. Longest Whatever stream ever (~11 hours).

Griselda Immigration Story

Crossed the Rio Grande illegally as a minor brought by father. Now has green card through marriage.

Riley Proposes Shooting Border Crossers

Controversial immigration solution sparks strong panel reaction.

Angelica Reveals She Is Actually Married

Lied about being engaged; actually married ~2 years with more money than husband.

Ally Boyfriend Strangled Her on Shrooms

Boyfriend had drug-induced psychosis, strangled her one month into relationship. She stayed.

Hannah LDS Excommunication

Excommunicated from Mormon church in high school for intimacy with boyfriend.

Anna Craigslist Killer Date

Unknowingly dated a Craigslist killer in San Diego.

Rapid Fire Trivia

Panel struggles with basic geography and history. Someone says Hitler ruled Poland.

Show Wrap - Longest Stream Ever

Show wraps after approaching 11 hours.

Transcript

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Brian AtlasWelcome to the Whatever Dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape. I'm your host, Brian Atlas. I I do want to apologize uh for our delay, guys. Uh

Brian Atlaswe're going to just jump right in. Uh I I over booked today, so we have 13 people total, including myself. So, usually if we overbook, it's a little bit, you know, harder to get everything

Brian Atlasall set up. You know, that we got to bring on extra mics and it's just a bit longer of a process. So, I do apologize for the delay there. I uh I over book

Brian Atlasbecause almost like clockwork, we can expect the day of two, three, four people are going to uh no show. The day before people are going to or flake,

Brian Atlaswhatever. Uh but uh everybody was very reliable today. So that's good, but also uh makes for a very crowded table here. So uh I do want to apologize for the

Brian Atlasdelay the delay. Excuse me. Uh we're going to have the guests introduce themselves. So tell us your name, age, occupation, uh where you're from, and your education level. >> All right. I'm Shonah. I'm 18 and I'm

Griseldaoriginally from the Bay, but I'm a freshman in college right now. >> All right. What are you studying? I'm studying psychological and brain sciences. >> Okay, welcome. What about you? >> Hi, my name is Griselda. I'm originally

Griseldafrom Mexico, but I currently live in San Antonio, Texas. I'm a business business owner and I just got my GED here in the States. >> Age? >> 33.

Abby>> 33. Okay. What about you? >> Uh, my name is Abby. Um, I'm 25. I am a stay-at-home mom. I do Only Fans and I

Abbyrun a maid cafe. >> A maid cafe. Okay. What's that? >> Um it's like a kind It's like kind of like a Kai Guy idol where you like serve people food but they also pay you to like dance.

Lii>> And where are you from? >> Las Vegas. >> Vegas. Okay. What about you? >> Um my name is Lii. I'm 21. I run a music

Liivenue in Utah. Um, I don't go to college. Nothing like that. >> Any college? >> Nope. >> Okay. And you're from Utah, Salt Lake City? >> Provo.

Barbara Adamson>> Are you LDS? >> No, not anymore. >> Used to be though. >> Yeah, when I was a kid. >> Okay. All right. What about you? >> My name is Barbara Adamson. I am from

Barbara AdamsonMissouri. I am 38 years old. I am the media coordinator for a pro-life nonprofit. I'm a writer. I dabble in content creation and I have a master of

Emily Mackarts in English and a master of arts in communication. >> All right, welcome. >> My name is Emily Mack. I'm originally from New York and now I live in South Florida. My level of education is high school. >> Uh age?

Frankie>> Uh 30. >> 30. Okay. What about you? >> Hi, my name is Frankie. Um I'm originally from Florida. I moved to Maryland. Um I studied college there. I

Frankiestudied history. I have a minor in sociology. Um, I have my own podcast as well as I work in construction. I am marketing team. >> Uh, age >> 31.

Frankie>> And wait, you you work in construction? >> Yes, I'm on the marketing team. >> On the marketing team? >> Yes. >> Interest. >> I'm the head of the marketing team, which means it's just me really. So,

Brian Atlas>> I've heard somebody frame something like that. I work in construction dot dot dot on the marketing team. So, you have an office job? >> Yes. >> Okay. See, you know, you know those

Brian Atlasstatistics, you know those statistics where it's like 97% of people in the logging industry are men. I'm pretty sure it's 100%. But it's like they're somehow counting women

Brian Atlas>> who are work in the air conditioned office that like that that uh mess up the statistics on that. Uh okay. So, you're

Frankiein the you do construction? Yes, I have been in the field, but that's as a project manager, which isn't actual field work. It's more of like measuring and taking pictures. >> Have you ever worn a hard hat?

Hannah>> Yes. When I had to get on a roof >> as part of your job? >> Yes. >> Okay. All right. What about you? >> Um, I'm Hannah. I'm 33. I am originally from Delaware, but I live in Utah now. Um, full-time mom. I kind of skipped the

Hannahcollege. I did some college credits, but I stuck with CS like esthetician school, microblading, personal training. Okay. All right. What about you? >> I'm Joy. I'm 26. Um I'm born and raised and still reside in Texas. Just a high

Annaschool diploma. >> And uh what do you do for work? >> Oh, I'm a night auditor for Marriott >> for a hotel. Okay, got it. What about you? >> Hi, I'm Anna. I currently live in Bentonville, Arkansas. Um I was in the

AnnaMarine, so I kind of traveled around. I'm not from there, but I reside there now. Um, I up until January, I worked at Amazon for seven years as a program manager, but I was affected by the mass

AnnaAI layoffs. So, I'm currently in my entrepreneur life. And um, well, also maybe finding a job. I don't know. Kind of enjoying the time off. Um, >> and what was I'm 41.

Anna>> And you were in the Marines. >> I was in the Marines. Yep. >> Uh, officer or enlisted? >> Enlisted. Oh, and I have a master's degree in business and a bachelor's in business and a bachelor's in communications and an associates degree.

Anna>> And I'm contemplating going back to school for Spanish. >> For Spanish? >> Yes. >> Okay. >> Do you need to go to school? Can't you just like >> I can teach you? >> And so

Brian Atlas>> my first language is Spanish. >> In the uh what rank did you rise to in the Marines? >> E4. >> How long were you uh in? >> Four years. >> Four years. Okay. Um, were you deployed? >> I was not.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> But I did live in Japan for two years. >> Okay. >> You were overseas. >> Yes. >> And, uh, let's see. Uh, what was your job in the military?

Anna>> You're going to laugh. So, I was postal and our tagline used to be no one goes postal like a US Marine. So, I did the mail, but everyone loved us and it got it got me so many like hookups. Like, hey, like the when we

Annawould have the midnight curfews in Okinawa, >> the cops would let me through. You know what I mean? Like, and if if I wanted some free food at the chow hall, they would, you know, as long as I delivered their packages on time. So, >> Okay.

Anna>> And so, you had like a mail truck and you'd drive around or >> Yeah. And so, people think like that's all you do, but you also still have to do Marine stuff. Like I was still out in the field. You still have to shoot. Every Marine's a rifleman. Um, but yeah.

Brian AtlasYes, I was I did the mail during the day, drove the mail trucks and all the other things. So, yep. >> And, uh, I don't know if has anybody else been in the military? Yeah. Um,

Brian Atlaseven if you're going to have a a job like that in the military, you still have to do like everyone across the different branches too, right? You have to do the basic training. Is that correct? >> Correct. Yes.

Anna>> Interesting. Yeah. Yeah, I was wondering like is that >> Anyways, >> well, go ahead and ask. We're here. >> Say it. Just say it. >> Well, I was thinking about uh

Brian Atlas>> when I was in I only Women made up 5% of the Marine Corps, just as an FYI, when I was in >> Do are women and I I think it's changed recently. Can Can women uh see frontline combat? Um

Anna>> yes, and they've been able to for a long time. I mean, back during Iraq and stuff, they had women who served in the chow hall shooting weapons out of the backs of trucks. So, yep. >> They just changed a lot. Like my

Annaex-husband was a Green Beret and then they like now you can actually go through as a woman. >> Well, and I was in from 05 to09. So, they've been allowing >> You were 0509? >> Yeah. And so, they've been allowing women um in combat positions even if

Annathey're not in combat roles. They were out on the front if they won. There was also a um program called the Lionist program and so that was women who would have to pat down the women who wanted to come on base to make sure they didn't have any IEDs strapped to them or anything. So

Brian Atlas>> fun. Nice. Um >> yeah. know I guess the reason I was kind of contemplating that the other day I was thinking that um because now I believe they changed the rules where

Brian Atlasthere used to be and I forgot the specific term but it used to be uh like a there were gendered uh physical requirements. So it used to be I think

Brian Atlasthey had lower and this might be for the special forces I believe they had to lower the requirements for the women. Well, I think they have to lower the

Brian Atlasacross the entire military. Uh the the require because you know you you're going into a boot camp or you're just a fresh recruit. You have to pass some physical test at the very forefront. Correct.

Brian Atlas>> Correct. >> So women uh I think there's like running. I think there's probably I don't know the exact like maybe push-ups. You have to maybe do pull-ups. I'm not entirely sure. Um the

Brian Atlasrequirements for women are lower. So women can run slower. they can um I don't know if there's a weightlifting component, but they have to do less pu pull-ups. Maybe there's sit-ups, they

Brian Atlashave to do less of those. There's less push-ups. And I was thinking like

Brian Atlas>> Andrew entertain >> Yeah. I was I was thinking that uh maybe I don't know if if they're changing the rules essentially to now women will not ever basically see uh now your base

Brian Atlascould get attacked and under that circumstance I suppose a woman might see combat but most of these women are not like busting down doors to my understanding uh like doing target acquisition in Afghanistan at least when

Brian Atlaswe were there. >> Some women were Yes. So, women were teams doing doing building uh what

Brian Atlaswhat's the term when you're like um uh trying to enter like a building. What what's that? >> Building sweeps. >> There's like a term for that. I don't know. >> I don't know if they were in buildings,

Annabut when I was at boot camp and our combat instructors were teaching us, they did mention being on the back of convoys and shooting weapons. So, >> when you're clearing a building, is that >> like clearing a building and stuff? Yeah. And then also

Anna>> they were in convoys. They're not door kickers is what the chats and lynching, infiltrating, something like that. Yeah. >> Yeah. Um and I'm just going to speak for the Marine Corps. I wasn't in any other branch of service, but the Marine Corps

Annais the hardest as far as uh height, weight, regulations. It was it's the longest boot camp. It's the hardest boot camp. We trained alongside we in the Marine Corps. I think it's changed, but when I was in, we weren't allowed to train with the men, just kind of

Annaalongside with if the with the men, if that makes sense. Yeah. And it wasn't until we graduated that we went to if you were in special forces, you went to a special force school, school of infantry, but if you weren't in special

Annaforces, you went to Marine combat training. And so then that's when we trained alongside with the men. >> And um and we learned everything that the men were learning the entire time.

AnnaBut of course, there's going to be no denial. Men are stronger. I believe just from my personal experience in the military, women don't belong on the front lines. >> Um, but that doesn't mean women aren't

Annaon the front front lines, and they they are, and it's admirable. And I and I know that I know a Marine woman that her her helicopter crashed. She's pretty well known in the Marine community, but

Brian Atlasshe lost her leg. I mean, so women have seen combat for sure. Well, I mean, I suppose they do, and maybe they're in a convoy, and the convoy gets ambushed or something, but women do not see combat

Brian Atlasto the same degree uh as men do. And I I do wonder if it is the case, like let's say in some scenario where we're just like churning through men, like we're we're in a ground war and the men are

Brian Atlasjust they're dying and we have to replace them. There could conceivably be a situation where where a base say a base gets attacked. Now look, the United States military is the most powerful military in the world. Uh, you know,

Brian Atlasthere there is no other military that can really match up to uh the United States, but let's say there was a military base that got attacked and uh basically all the personnel on the base are basically okay, go grab a gun, you're going to defend it, even if you

Brian Atlaswork in the kitchen, even if you work in the mail room like you do. It seems to me like if you would have to, let's say, and then some of the frontline troops died and you're like, oh [ __ ] we got to pull the people out of the kitchen there. we got to give them a gun. It

Brian Atlasseems like a waste of resources if we've made a determination that women are not as capable as men when it comes to being soldiers. And if there's even bars to even being like in combat positions for

Brian Atlasmost or even all women, it seems like a waste of resources to even put them through the basic training to learn how to shoot a rifle if there isn't a likelihood. Well, it's not just a likelihood because even a male who's

Brian Atlasjust the chef, is he going to ever shoot a gun? Maybe not. But in the situation that we ever need to pull from the these reserve troops that are the more in assistant roles, it seems to me if we

Brian Atlaswere to compare the men in the assistant roles to the women in assistant roles, the men are going to be way more uh effective soldiers. So it just seems like a waste to put these women through like rifle training and combat training

Annaand basic training uh to begin with. >> Um okay, so let's talk about the history of women in the military. When we started putting women in the military, it was because to relieve the men from

Annathese mundane postal jobs, you know, cook jobs so they could go and fight the front lines. >> So, one could argue like when you go to war, they're still at a base. They're still at camp. And you still need postal, you still need the chow hall.

AnnaYou still need all these things. So, if a woman wants to serve, let them serve. I do not agree with lowering the standards. If a woman wants to be in the front lines, which I don't even agree to, but if she does, I think they should

Annameet the standards of what a man can do. But we all know physically men are stronger than women, right? So, um but I do think that there's a purpose because

Annaum I like the idea of freeing the men so that they can go and do that. So, but we still need to be in shape. Like we can't have fat people serving in the military. >> So, so even if a woman does pass the physical minimum requirements that the

Riley Nimithat the men also pass, you also have to realize that they'll get their period once a month and they're basically useless. So, that's also a big issue. But also, it extends beyond their physical capability and also their mental capability. Like, have you ever been to a restaurant and seen like a

Annamale waiter cry? No. Female waitresses, bro, they're breaking down like, "Oh my god, it's so busy." What happens when a woman's getting shot at? They just break down. Yeah. >> Let's talk about Let's talk about the men, too, it's like it's an instinct for a man to want to run after a woman and protect and save her.

Riley Nimi>> Yeah. Yeah. And also, the other part of it is like if a woman's in the military, she's on a convoy or whatever, they they capture her and they're like, "Hey, we're going to rape your female uh you know um fellow soldier in front of you. We're going to peel your eyes open. We're going to rape her in front of you.

Riley NimiSpill all the secrets. Any man would spill that. I probably would. Even if it would cause America to fall. I would spill those secrets. I can't watch that. I can't. >> Yeah. >> I would not want to see that happen. But if they said, "Hey, we're going to kill your fellow soldier Chad or whatever." I'd be like, "Bro, I'm not giving you

Riley Nimithe secrets." Right. But if they're like, "We're going to rape this woman in front of you." I'd be like, "Bro, take it." Right. So, that's also another issue. They can use it as a >> as a way to um >> demoralize. >> Not demoralize. Well, and I've had

Annafriends get pregnant over there and and have come back. So, they send that send them over and they're pregnant and guess what? They have to go back. So, um I agree, you know, in a sense there, but I >> How do they get pregnant?

Griselda>> I don't know. The birds would be the birds. >> Well, but I still have something to say. What do you mean that women are useless when they're in their period? >> Well, they're not useless, but >> their periods every month. >> I mean, they're not useless, but they're obviously less effective at being a woman.

Griselda>> I don't think so. I mean, I know. I'm I'm as capable as any other day. I work in a kitchen. I used to be a servant. I'm a business owner. I mean, I can do the same thing as my chef does, you know. >> Well, I do want to give you an FYI. >> Yeah. So, I feel like that's very

Griselda>> Okay. Can you do like can you do like a 10 mile run in like an hour? >> Well, if I have if I have the training for that, probably yes. But again, I probably can't do it either. >> I feel like that comment was very out of out of place saying that we're useless when when we are under

Riley Nimi>> Well, not not entirely useless, but like you're not going to be as good. >> Okay. Okay. You know what I mean by useless? Obviously, you're not useless, but like for the amount of food that you have to eat, for all the logistics where people have to supply stuff to you through the supply chain of the military, it's not worth having you out

Griseldain the Middle East if you're going to be like a soldier that's halfway useless for 5 days out of the month. So, >> except you're not halfway useless. >> I'm just saying that everyone goes to their period for 5 days. There's tampons that you can put on. >> Then also, you have to keep in mind the

Annamental capability of women. It's not meant to deal with stress naturally. >> Well, I also want to point out too that a lot of us don't get our periods while in the especially during boot camp and stuff. If you're physically active and if you're not eating as much as you're outputting with physical activity, we

Annadon't get periods. So a lot of women are who are over on their periods. So >> but I like I said to an extent like so my job I was postal and so they used to put the special forces guys who came

Annaback really messed up from war in our unit and these men would pour everything that they witnessed out to me. balling like grown ass men that I still think about these stories to this day of the

Annathings that they witnessed and I as a mother just can't even imagine and fathom witnessing that as a woman >> like and how traumatized and they are traumatized they come back traumatized and they're men are supposed to be

Angelica (DC)mentally more >> I do have to I do have to move it on um age or intro >> Angelica 29 um I studied English psychology math and computer science and

Riley NimiI'm an influencer and I flew in from DC. >> You're from DC? >> Mhm. >> Okay. Uh, go ahead. >> Yeah. My name is Riley Nimi. I'm 21 years old. I went to high school for 6 months and, um, I'm currently the owner of a business that does stuff with

Brian Atlaspolitical campaigns and I also do political content online and do campus debates just like Charlie Kirk did. >> All right. Uh, welcome everybody. So, uh, really quick, I'll I'll do the, uh,

Brian Atlasintro. I need to do the introduction, guys. So, uh, actually first we do have a TTS that came through. I just sorry uh Desert Jorge for the delay on this. >> I had to get through the intro. >> Judge donated $200.

SPEAKER_07>> Thank you, man. >> Bricken, happy news this week with that Sophie Rain and your first child. >> Ah, yes. >> Don't forget the DNA test and no state involved with marriage. >> If those work, the two of you will live

Brian Atlashappily ever after raising your seven sons. >> Yep. Yeah. Uh, really quick on the on the X there, Nathan, can you on my personal X, you're going to have to

Brian Atlasscroll down to April 1st post. So, I on April 1st, I uh I posted and people got kind of bent out of shape about it. I posted a across social media that um me

Brian Atlasand Sophie Rain, the infamous Only Fans creator who I guess makes $50 million a year, out earns LeBron James, uh that I impregnated her and we're expecting a

Brian Atlaschild. Um, and people kind of somehow believed this AI photo. I thought it was a pretty obvious uh joke. Do you have it? Did you find it?

Brian Atlas>> Uh, go ahead, pull up the photo. Uh, so now this is also me when I was like 40 lbs lighter, too. Uh, but it was just like AI or whatever. So, uh, scroll back

Brian Atlasup. So, yeah, I did impregnate Sophie Rain. Uh, we're having a baby. Blah, blah, blah. >> I mean, at least they made you 40 lbs lighter. That's nice. >> That That was nice of them. Uh nice of the AI. So, um >> I know I saw that and I was like, that's

Brian Atlasnot Brian. >> Yeah, that that is like a younger, more trim ver version of me. But yeah, people are losing their mind about I don't know. I thought it was funny. It was April April. >> Congratulations.

Brian Atlas>> Thank you. Thank you. Um demon spawn on the way. So, anyways, uh but thank you for your TTS, Desert Jorge. I very much appreciate it. Sorry for the delay on that. We were just You sent it right as

Brian Atlasthe show started. Oh my goodness. And just speaking of >> Thank you, man. >> Robert Tanner donated $1,000. >> Yo, you're a legend. W's in the chat for him.

SPEAKER_07>> Been a while, as you know. Longtime supporter. Let's check in soon. >> Also, why are the Germans not looking at women for the current military law? >> Oh, yeah. Maybe current to the convo

Brian Atlasnow. For now. >> Thank you. Uh yo, Robert Tanner, first off, thanks for the massive uh TTS. We're going to do Champagne Pop here. We're gonna maybe wait until we're done through the with the intros to do the Champagne Pop. But um yeah, actually

Brian Atlaspull that up really quick. So go back to my ex and then uh this was um gee, when did I post this? There's a post about uh like Germany's preparing

Brian Atlasto wage war. I think it was like from two days ago or something. Uh you're going to have to scroll up to find it. It it uh I'm trying to think if there's

Brian Atlasa photo. It's just a photo of text basically. Uh it's on the X. It's more recent than the Sophie Rain only. Uh April Fool's thing. Do Do you have it?

Brian Atlas>> No, >> it is on the X. You just should be scrolling probably scrolling up. You'll find it. I believe I posted it two days ago. I think that should be either April

Angelica (DC)3rd, uh April 2nd. Do you have it? Yeah, >> it's in reference to the like mandatory you have to give the German government notice if you're leaving.

Brian Atlas>> That is correct. >> Yeah. So basically um Germany passed this new law where only for men only for men. >> I think if you're between the ages of 17

Brian Atlasand 45, uh if you're planning to leave Germany for more than 3 months, you need to check in. I I think you actually have to not just check in. You have to get

Brian Atlaspermission from the uh bundeswear, which is like the I I don't know what the translation for that is. The German military essentially. Do you have it? >> Yeah.

Brian Atlas>> Pull it up, please. Uh new that's from the Berliner Zong. I'm not sure if I'm any German speakers here. No. Okay. New conscription rule. Young men are no

Brian Atlaslonger allowed to leave Germany without permission. Uh so that's uh ages 17 and 45 must obtain permission if they intend to leave Germany for more than 3 months.

Brian AtlasThey need to obtain this permission from the German armed forces. That's that male that's the male privilege female oppression that we're always talking

Brian Atlasabout. So Germany seems to be gearing up for war. Uh so liquidate your crypto. I'm just kidding. Uh but uh thank you Robert Tanner for the big thousand TTS. Can we get some dubbies in the chat for

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Brian Atlas>> That was No, >> that was good. But >> the majority of my audience is men and >> as far as I know, they're not homosexuals. >> Fair enough. Fair enough.

Brian Atlas>> But maybe for the I mean the the the mirror would not even be because I think there's a the large labia thing.

Brian AtlasI would have to say I heart like micro penises or like that's a negative. >> Yeah, >> I don't find it to be a negative, but >> most men >> size does not matter. >> Kind of do. >> I think there's a lot of women that

Brian Atlaswould would have interest in these than this swag. Just saying. >> Yeah, but it it's not it doesn't hit the same, you know. Uh the space uh uh shout

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Brian Atlas>> Of course. >> Uh, all because all labia can't matter until big labia matter. As someone who only dates women with large labia, this is uh kind of important for me. 10,000 laboplasties a year in the USA. Absolute

Brian Atlas[ __ ] tragedy. Uh, you know, we're we're at war with Iran. We just [ __ ] regime changed Venezuela. There's [ __ ] in the Middle East. There's [ __ ]

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Brian Atlasridiculous. But you know what? That shit's a distraction. 10,000 laboplasties a year in the US. Absolute [ __ ] tragedy. >> Can I add to that? I'm one of those statistics. >> You got a You had You had a labia plasty. >> I did.

Hannah>> Did the rabbi >> I [ __ ] I should kick you off the show for that. >> Did the rabbi uh lick off the blood when it was over? >> I'm Catholic. So >> good. Good. >> I used to work for a s like a couple plastic surgeons and they are a lot of

Annatimes it's functional like women will have like irritation and stuff. So it's not >> Can I ask why like do you have any kids? >> I have three and yeah kids. It just like you said it's just for irritate. It was literally like an irritation and then

Annaduring sex too. >> It was not like a you know like oh it looks ugly type type. >> Well I mean that's a nice perk but it wasn't like it was covered by insurance for a medical mic. >> I mean I don't understand this whole

Brian Atlaslike it's uncomfortable. It gets in the way. Men have balls and penises like we seem we don't [ __ ] chop our [ __ ] off it. And it's definitely in the way. >> Well they actually do. So can we talk

Brian Atlasabout the circumcision why it was >> circumcision is [ __ ] [ __ ] first off but the penis is still there like the balls are still there in the way and

Brian Atlaslike balls and penis hang unless you got world record labia >> are in the way more and hang more. >> Yeah but if you have the means like some of the women that come have the means to

Annaget it fixed why would they not fix there's nothing to fix it's beautiful as is. [ __ ] that [ __ ] I've seen some where I'm like, I support this decision. >> No, [ __ ] that. The the bigger the better. But >> can I tell you how it was even because my health insurance covered it and can I tell you why? It wasn't because it

Annabothered me. Like you would think that that's why health insurance would bother you. Like you have issues walking, running, whatever. No, it was because I couldn't have sex with my husband and that's why they covered it. So just like >> where do you get your health insurance? >> This was like 10. No, this was like 15

Annayears ago. But how do you go to the doctor and tell them, "Oh, like I cannot have sex because of my big L." >> No, the doctor said, "If you want this covered by your health insurance, that's we're going to put it down." >> Don't believe it. >> I swear sex.

Anna>> That That wasn't the actual reason, but that's what the doctor wanted. The doctor was trying to help me get it covered through my health insurance. >> Wait, wait, wait. Okay. So, you committed insurance fraud and saying that on a live podcast. >> Probably similar to like a breast reduction where you go to a doctor, you

Annacan complain enough to where they're going. Well, it did bother It did bother me during sex, but I'm not having sex 24/7. I'm walking. I'm running. I'm doing >> Why didn't Wait, why didn't you lead with Okay, here was your framing. Well,

Brian AtlasI couldn't have sex with my husband. That was your lead in framing. >> And then only after do you disclose, oh, my doctor, look, this is something that happens with any sort of prescription.

Brian AtlasIt's, you know, they used to do this with marijuana. You go to the doctor, at least when it was illegal. Um, the doctor would be like, "Tell me you have migraines. Tell me that you have glaucoma or some bullshit." So they

Brian Atlascould write a [ __ ] prescription. But it's like, you should have led with, "Well, my I don't even understand why you would forward that >> cuz right now we're having an argument about the merits of this procedure and you just

Anna>> and you're like, well, I can have sex with my husband, but I actually could. My doctor >> Well, I could. It just wasn't comfortable is what I'm saying. Like, who wants to have sex when you're uncomfortable? So, >> what it was physically uncomfortable? >> Yeah. Yep. >> It was just slapping around.

Anna>> It gets sucked in with everything. >> I mean, my surgery hurt. >> Did that hurt? What was the >> recovery? No. No. Girl, I gave birth to 10 pound babies. So, no. >> Okay. >> Where did your health insurance come from? Was it taxpayer funded? >> Um, at the No, no, no. Okay, good.

Anna>> I've never ever been on any sort of assistance or anything. >> But I mean, like if if your husband works for the government or >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. At the time when I I'm not married anymore, but when I was married, he worked um he worked for the jail in in Washington state at the time. So he worked for the government. >> So

Riley Nimi>> well he got benefits that he we paid into just like any other job. It was a state job. So >> he paid into it with his paycheck from the government. So it's a taxpayer funded labia plastic. >> Why does that How is that terrible

Annaterrible? They should passer. >> He paid his health. I paid my health insurance. He gets his money from the government and the government overpays their employ. He's not just sitting on his ass. He's working for the government. >> I mean he's putting in his time.

Brian Atlas>> Who works for the government? Like seriously. >> On a side note, he did. and he worked like 60 hours a week and he paid for it. >> I just wonder how we got like I I'm just trying to get through the introduction.

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Brian Atlasvery long-winded introduction. Uh now we're going to get right back to the show and then momentarily do the champagne pop. But uh going around the table, what's your current relationship status? If you're single, how long have

Brian Atlasyou been single? And what's the longest relationship status? Or wait, what's the longest relationship you've ever been in starting with you? Go ahead. >> Um I'm single and I've never been in a relationship. >> All right. Nothing. >> Nothing. No relationship.

Brian Atlas>> I mean, you've been at UCSB now. You you started in what? September. >> I started in September. Yeah. >> September. October, November, December, January, February, March. >> It's not my priority. >> Nope. No guys in the picture. >> No.

Brian Atlas>> Didn't you have like a crush or something? Uh >> maybe like text texting someone, but Okay. >> Nothing right now. >> Nothing. All right. Uh is your roommate just like >> my roommates? I I'm in a triple.

Brian Atlas>> Triple? Yeah, >> that sucks. Uh >> no, it's it's chill. I love my roommates. >> Do you get kicked out all the time to let your roommates smash fraps? >> No. No. No. No. No, we're we don't do anything else. >> You don't do that. Okay.

Griselda>> All right. Uh what about you? >> I'm married and I think this is my longest >> Go ahead. >> This is my longest relationship. I've been married for about uh 10 years. >> 10 years. Okay.

Brian Atlas>> Uh and uh married for 10 together for how long? >> Uh close to 11 years. >> 11 years. Okay. >> Correct.

Griselda>> All right. Have you been married before? Well, not married, but I was living with, you know, with other guys, but I wasn't married. >> You've had other relationships, >> correct? >> Were you engaged to other men? >> No. >> Any kids? >> I have two kids. Two girls

Brian Atlas>> from this marriage? >> Uh, yes. >> Okay. All right. What about you? >> Um, I am >> supers, please. >> Hold on. Hold on. Get the supers,

Brian Atlasplease. Uh, okay. What the [ __ ] are some of these [ __ ] [ __ ] Hold on. Uh, Rachel, thank you for the membership. Uh, shout out Pasty for the super. Thank you, man.

AbbyUm, okay. >> Uh, I am married. >> Um, and I guess I've only been in three relationships and all three of them were three years. >> Sorry. How long you been married? Three

Brian Atlasyears, you said. >> Uh, well, I've been married for two. >> You've been married for two >> and a half. Two and a half. >> Okay. Uh, all right. And you have a kid? One kid? >> Yes.

Ally>> From your current marriage? >> Yes. >> Okay. What about you? >> Um, I'm in a relationship. My longest relationship was 2 years and it was a previous one.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. Longest relationship two years. >> Yeah. >> Uh, how long is your current relationship? >> 10 months. >> 10 months. Okay. Uh, orientation.

Barbara Adamsonorientation, >> sexual orientation, straight by straight. Okay. >> What about you? >> I am married. Uh I've been married for almost three years. Uh longest

Barbara Adamsonrelationship. Um I was married once before for 12 years. We were together for 14. >> Okay, got it. What about you?

Emily Mack>> I'm engaged. This would be my longest relationship. We've been together for 3 years as of next week. I actually met him on his birthday, so I always joke that I'm the best birthday present he'll ever get.

Frankie>> All right. What about you? >> Um, I'm in a relationship now. Been in a relationship for 3 years. My longest relationship was like seven or eight years. >> Any kids? >> Yes, I have a 9-year-old. >> That's from the seven-year.

Frankie>> Yep. >> Uh, were you married? >> No. >> Ever married? >> Nope. >> Does he pay you child support? >> Yep. >> What's the custody arrangement? Um like shared custody.

Brian Atlas>> Shared custody. Um uh shared custody. Okay. And he pays you child It's 50/50. >> Yeah. >> How much does he pay you in child support?

Frankie>> I am not willing to answer that. >> Is it a lot or a little? >> I'm just not willing to answer it. >> Is he black? >> Why would you ask that? >> Oh my god. Of course you spilled the

Brian Atlaswater. >> Uh Tiffany, paper towels, please. Please be paying attention. Yes. No, not not you.

Brian Atlas>> Guys, come on. >> I I shouldn't this should unprompted. Unprompted, please. Why? It's like, why do I need to ask? >> It's hard to see.

Brian Atlas>> All right, continue, please.

HannahMe. >> Yeah, next person, please. Um, I have I was married for eight years. I'm single. I've my last serious relationship was about a year and a half ago and I have two kids >> from my

Hannah>> Sorry, could you repeat that? >> Yeah, I was married for eight years. Um, >> are you single currently? >> Yes. Okay. >> I had two kids during that marriage and my last serious relationship was about a year and a half ago. >> So, two kids from the one marriage. Is that correct?

Brian Atlas>> Yep. >> Okay. Uh, have you been married any other times? >> Nope, just the once. >> Okay. Uh, and why did you guys break up? >> Uh, substance abuse

Hannah>> on your part or his >> his part. >> What What was the drug of choice? >> Um, I I'm not going to talk about that kind of stuff for him on here. >> Okay. Um, you initiated the divorce? >> Yes.

Hannah>> How long ago was this? >> Um, four and a half, five years ago. I moved to Utah. He's still in Nashville. >> Okay. Um,

Hannahdoes he pay you child support? >> Um, that's an ongoing battle. If I'm lucky, if I'm get it, if I get anything, I haven't been paid alimony in over two years.

Brian AtlasI'm lucky if I get child support. So, >> okay. You haven't been uh Oh, wait, hold on. Okay, so wait, when did you divorce?

HannahUm, I like separated about almost 5 years ago and the divorce took about a year and a half. >> Okay.

Brian AtlasUm, so, okay, you've been Sorry guys, there's a [ __ ] bus or something passing by. Uh, okay. 5 years ago. >> Mhm. >> Uh,

Brian Atlasyou were married for 8 years. Uh you're currently in an unresolved both a custody dispute and then they're still making determinations.

Hannah>> It's not it's not a custody dispute. He just I have them like throughout the school year and then they go out to Nashville for a few weeks in the summer and they're right there right now because it's spring break. >> So you have primary custody or full custody?

Brian Atlas>> Yes, primary. >> Okay. So is he paying you alimony currently? >> No. But uh >> he's supposed to by law. He's not though. That's what I >> Okay. So, you're currently in a legal

Brian Atlasuh >> um I haven't taken him back to court. I could, but I haven't. >> Well, so when you say he was supposed to be paying you alimony, uh are you saying just >> he should be like it's

Brian Atlas>> like was it was it >> ordered? Was it ordered? Yes. >> Yes. So there was already uh through the process of the divorce, there's already uh legal court action instructing him to

Hannahpay out money. >> And has he expressed a reason why he's not paying? Is it willful or can he not afford it? >> I I'm assuming he can't afford it. I honestly it's one of those things like I just don't really like to ask a whole

Brian Atlaslot of questions because it really stressed me out for a long time and I kind of don't want to give any more of my energy towards that >> if that makes sense. >> Okay. Uh, I see. Okay. And then is he paying

Hannahyou child support? >> Um, no. I He It goes through like this weird card in Utah. You can go through OS and so he'll they'll load it onto there, but I mean one time my I

Hannahliterally got a check. I think it was for $379. So, >> okay. All right. Um, >> yeah. >> Okay. Uh, okay. What about you?

Joy>> Newly single. >> How newly? >> Six months. Six or seven months. Uh, it was two and a half years. >> Is that your longest relationship? >> It's my only relationship.

Angelica (DC)>> Only relationship. Okay. Who broke up with who? >> I broke up with him, but then I wanted him back like 5 seconds later and then

Angelica (DC)and he was like, "No, >> I'd be like that." Yeah. >> You broke up with him? >> Yeah. I was upset >> about what? >> We were arguing. I don't even know what about It was months ago. >> Have you done that before? Was it on

Angelica (DC)again, off again? >> Yeah. >> So, you would break up with him and then get >> not really like mean it though. Just like kind of in the moment like I don't want to be with you. Don't [ __ ] call

Liime. >> And then like I expect him to call me. >> Yeah. >> So, he broke up with you. >> Yeah. He's like [ __ ] no. >> Toxic. He wanted I was bluffing like I didn't that [ __ ]

Brian Atlasshocked me. I was like what the hell? >> And then but so okay the bluff failed >> because I think here's what you were trying to do about he was you were upset whether warranted or not and you were

Brian Atlastrying to either uh express your dissatisfaction or correct something that you perceive or in actuality he was doing wrong. >> Yeah. And I just like wanted to be in

Brian Atlascontrol. >> Okay. And then so this was essentially a manipulation tactic to attempt to get him to change or do something. >> That's really it. >> Okay. And then but when it didn't work,

Brian Atlasdid you try to reconcile, try to get back together or >> Mhm. >> Yeah. >> And then he was like, "Nope, I'm done." >> Yeah. >> Okay. Yeah. I think this is a dangerous tactic. Although it's sometimes, especially for perhaps men who are

Brian Atlaslacking in experience when it comes to dating women, and by the way, just to be clear, men can do this too. men can bluff the breakup and then the woman's like, "Okay." So then you either have to

Brian Atlaslike tuck your tail and take the yell and be like, "Oh, I didn't mean it." Um, let's make it work. Or you just got to I mean, or it's just over, I guess. But I

Brian Atlasdo think it is a a tactic that perhaps women sometimes employ >> definitely >> most than men. The the bluff breakup. I think, look, if you're having an issue

Brian Atlasin a relationship, uh, you can be upset about it and you can talk it over, but I think, and this is especially an issue in marriages when you bluff the divorce,

Brian Atlasbut bluffing the breakup or the divorce is you should mean it is, I guess, what I'm trying to say. If if you're going to suggest a breakup, so like, you have to actually mean it. It can't be a bluff. It's also very manipulative. Women will

Brian Atlasdo this. We're like, "Oh, I don't know. I'm so upset. we should uh I think we should break up. And then you're like, okay. And then they're just like I don't

Brian Atlasknow. I I don't believe in the like on again offagain thing. If if you want to broach a breakup, it's over. Like don't ever come to me threatening a breakup

Emily Mackunless you [ __ ] mean it. Cuz then it's just like, okay, well >> I think if you truly love somebody, you couldn't do that to them. >> You relationship. I think it's very

Brian Atlastoxic. It is toxic to the break. Yeah. You should look if you have an issue. If you have an issue, you can deal with it like address the issue, but using using it as a manipulation tool or leverage to

Brian Atlastry to get what you want. Uh I don't think it's effective. I think especially in a marriage, like you don't you don't ever say the word divorce. Like I just get the [ __ ] divorce. Like, okay, we

Frankiehave an issue. We're going to work it out. Uh, but don't use I don't know. I don't think you should use uh divorce threat as >> I feel like it's like gambling. You should be like willing to lose if you do do it. >> Yeah. >> True.

Emily Mack>> I think if I'm dating someone and they threaten the relationship, I'm going to walk away cuz I can't live with that type of anxiety or stress. >> And I don't think you truly are in love with me if you could do that. >> True. >> The thing is that when it comes to a marriage, like threatening divorce is a

Angelica (DC)whole other level. But if you're in a relationship, that's not how women break up. Like they don't just say, "I'm going to break up with you right now." They break up quietly and slowly then break up. This has been enough. >> Yeah. It's like when they threaten it,

Griseldait's kind of one of those things where just don't take her seriously. She's just speaking out of her emotions. >> Yeah. >> We're just so lacking more than once. That's what it ends up becoming. Anyway, >> what you just said in the marriage is totally different. I mean, I've been

Griseldamarried for a long time and believe me, we have had fights where I'm almost done with him or he's done with me. But, you know, to say divorce, I think that's another level. you know, we can get to the point and we don't talk to each

Griseldaother for days or weeks, you know, and you know, since we own businesses together, um, you know, we kind of talk only about business, like, okay, talk to me about the business, but don't talk to me about personal stuff,

Griselda>> but it's totally different. Yes. When you're married, I mean, and I feel like, you know, when you're in a relationship, because I used to be in relationships before, uh, yes, I would threaten every, oh my guys, I would try. I'm going to leave you. I'm going to leave your ass.

GriseldaI'm going to I'm going to do like like she said, I used to do that, you know, but since I got married, I think Yeah, I think it's not like I'm not toxic. I'm toxic as hell. >> I'm toxic as hell. >> Okay. But

Anna>> uh sorry, what about you? >> Um I'm sorry. What's the question? >> Your relationship status? >> Oh, I'm single. Uh the longest relationship I've been in, it was six and a half years with my the father of

Annamy kids. Um >> how long you been single for? >> I've like on and off the last five years. I'll go on dates and stuff, but I went on a sbatical for like 3 years and

Brian Atlasrecently got off of it where I just wasn't dating at all or talking to men or anything at all. >> Right. Um, wait. Uh, just clarification, you've been married once or twice? >> Once. >> One time. And you have how many kids?

Anna>> Three. >> Three kids. All from the same man. >> Um, my two older ones have the same father and then I have a younger one that has a different father. So, I have a 19-year-old, a fif a 15year-old, and a four-year-old. Almost four-year-old.

Annafour-year-old. Okay. And you said there was a three-year period of celibacy. >> Mhm. >> It It was celibacy. Is that correct? >> Yes. Like I didn't even hug or shake hands with the man. Nothing. I was not out looking >> for three years.

Brian Atlas>> For three years. >> And when was that? >> 2021 to 2024, I believe. >> Wait. 20. And you have a four-year-old.

AnnaSo the period of celibacy started while you were pregnant. Is that >> Yeah. >> Okay. So, >> I kind of just like freaked out and ended like something that was never meant to be. But he's a good dad and we

Brian Atlashave like a good co-arenting relationship. I love his wife. He's >> Wait, what do you mean you you What was the thing you did that you never meant to do? >> What do you mean? >> Didn't you just Didn't those words just come out of your mouth? >> I just It's not like we planned the

Annababy. Like I kind of just freaked out and left. Like I was more of the man in the situation than he was. like he was like, "Oh, let's try to work this out. Let's try to be together." And I was like, "Holy shit." Like, I'm starting If you put yourself like I I had a 15-year-old at the time and then, you

Annaknow, like a 12-year-old, and I'm like, "What the [ __ ] did I just do to my life?" I'm obviously in a different place now with that. I'm We're obsessed. >> Why didn't you just abort or do you not believe in that? >> I I don't believe in abortion. >> Okay.

Anna>> Hey, just because her baby's half black, she should not have an abortion. Okay. >> Okay. >> For the record, he's not half black. >> Wow. >> Wait. So, um, >> but we get along. Like I said, I love

Annahis wife. She's amazing. Um, his and his dad is a really good dad. And so, we co-parent amicably. >> Okay. Um, so how long were you dating the guy?

Brian Atlas>> Not very long. I'm not going to delve into that. >> Well, so, um, was it like a one night stand or something that you got pregnant off of or >> I'm not going to delve into the information.

Anna>> It's a dating discussion podcast. So, we talked for a few weeks and then yes, we hooked up and I had him. So, yeah. And he was like all in wanting to have this relationship with me and I was like,

Anna"Holy [ __ ] shit." You know, like what the hell did I just do? So, and no, I do not collect child support from either father. I don't need it. And I believe both fathers are very present in my

Annachildren's life. And I believe child support is for absent fathers, not present fathers. Um, so I don't collect any sort of child support. I take care of my kids on my own. >> Okay. But I mean there's certainly some

Annafinancial uh components of raising a child. Do they contribute in some way? >> Yeah. Like my ex bought ours buys the car. Like my uh older two, their their dad makes good money. So he buys them

Annacars and takes them on trips and you know like Yes. They both contribute that way. >> Okay. But they're not paying they don't give you money directly. In fact, I signed my old my husband, my ex-husband, I signed off on him having to give it to

Anname. He used to give it to me. I used to have a situation similar to Hannah's where we lived in two different states. And that's when I took it cuz I was living in a different state. >> But once I moved, like when they got a little older, I just was like, they need to be near their father. You know, a boy needs their father, boys need their

Brian Atlasfather. So, I moved near them. And then once that happened, >> I signed off on child support. >> Okay. Yeah. >> Um, so, okay. You were married. The the two other children are from >> ex-husband. your ex-husband. Yeah. And he doesn't pay you alimony.

Anna>> Nope. Nope. >> Okay. >> If I if I ever needed anything, what he would be there, but I just don't like I I just feel like he's a good father. He's there.

Brian Atlas>> Not Can you put the cup on the table, please? Um Okay. So, uh hold on. your

Brian Atlasyour uh did you like this guy the most recent guy who you have a kid with like was this you hooked up one time and got pregnant or was it like >> one and done I was on a business trip

Annamissed my period. We were about ready to go to a um the condom broke. We were about ready to go to a winery that day and I was like why is my period late? And so I was like before we go to this winery I should probably and I half

Annaasked took it like this is I'm not going to be and I was immediately like he and I still connected like we were still talking and stuff like that. Um I moved to Arkansas from California and at the time Arkansas was is medically legal and

Brian Atlasgetting weed was so he was kind of like my weed plug. >> So yeah and that's history now. >> Okay. Um all right I see. Hold on. We have a TTS.

Brian AtlasIt's kind of insulting towards me, but I got to be fair. So, uh, all right, Sam Demand with the the

Brian Atlashater TTS, I suppose you could say, as Hannah has her fans in the chat. I I guess, thank you for all the Twitch subs, by the way. Appreciate it, guys. It's coming in in just a minute.

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Brian Atlas>> By the way, it um so the Streamlabs, it will change bad words into other words. So, unicorn was actually [ __ ] So, he was calling me a Just for clarification, he wasn't calling me a unicorn, which is kind of a compliment, but he he he did

Brian Atlasin fact call me a fat [ __ ] Uh, I'm working. Yeah, I'm working on it, you know. I'm working on it. You know, >> true. >> I'm trying to raw dog the diet, too. I'm not trying I'm not taking those epics.

Angelica (DC)I'm trying to do it [ __ ] raw dog. Um, okay. Uh, relationship status over here. >> In a relationship, the longest one that I've had is average two to three years. And yeah, met the guy that I'm with at

Brian Atlaschurch. >> All right. Uh, and uh, how long have you been seeing the current guy? >> Roughly around two years. >> Oh, two years. Okay. Are you guys engaged or anything like that? >> Um, yes.

Brian Atlas>> You're engaged. Okay. Have you ever been engaged before or married? >> No. >> Okay. You met him? You're Orthodox Christian? >> Yes. >> Okay. Uh, did you used to do Only Fans

Brian Atlas>> as a side hustle? Correct. Yes. >> A while ago. You don't do it anymore though. Is that correct? Anybody else? Does anyone here do o you do of? Is anybody else do OF or have done OAF? >> I've done it as a side hobby. >> You did it? Yeah.

Frankie>> Yeah. You used to do it though? >> No, not really. I was like scamming low key. >> You were scamming >> just like screen recording things and screenshotting it and then selling it to people. So, >> wait, what do you mean? >> Like >> other people's stuff. Taking taking

Frankienotes on Pornhub. I don't know what you expected me to do. >> What? >> She's a hustle. >> Oh, so you were pretending to be somebody else and using >> catfishing basically. >> Using somebody else's content. >> Yeah. Were you using a white girl or?

Frankie>> No, >> I was using black girls cuz I was using like my actual face as the signup, but like when it came to like people requesting things, I'm like, "Okay, I'll just go look for something like that." >> So, you would go find like a

Frankiemasturbation. Yeah, that looked as close to me as possible, which is like really really hard because like everyone has like a very unique build and like not a lot of people that look like me have my

Brian Atlas>> What would you type into uh Phub to >> Ebony like? >> No, but what are the other adjectives to cuz you said your build. Yeah. >> So, like what would you type in to find

Frankiethe build match? Like at the time I was like really small. So I'm like ebony like um >> petite >> petite and then like uh the what's what do you call the newcomers that are like on porn a lot like you know what I'm talking about.

Brian Atlas>> I'm not in the business >> like amateur. Yeah >> all right. Uh somebody bought looks like they bought a merch. What the heck? Let me see if it comes up. East Coast Canadian. Thank you. You bought some merch. Shop whatever.com. Appreciate it,

Brian Atlasbrother. Thank you for the uh merch purchase. Thank you, man. Uh I don't know if there's anyone else. I think we're good on that. Okay. Uh relationship status, sir. >> Yes. So, I am currently dating a girl. We've been dating for 11 months, and

Brian Atlasthat's my longest relationship. >> All right, rock and roll. Uh that's everyone's relationship status. >> So, uh we're going to jump into uh a couple topics here. I think the first one

Brian Atlas>> and uh kind of took us a while to get through everything, but uh I think the first thing I wanted to uh do was ask uh let's see h uh this is a question for Riley and then

Brian Atlaswe're going to have to recalibrate it for some of the women, but uh and well here, let's do this. Uh show of hands. Who here is conservative? Raise your

Brian Atlashand if you're conservative. Raise your hand if you're liberal.

Brian AtlasSo, you're uh moderate. I guess >> I don't associate. I don't know what to tell you. >> All right. Well, how about then just that that'll give context for the following. The question is starting with Riley.

Riley Nimi>> Would you rather date a liberal or an illegal immigrant? >> That's hard. >> I think Alex Stein would agree with me on this one. I would find myself a nine because if you're a nine, you're fine. If you're an eight, we could have an immigration debate, but like probably go

Brian Atlasfor an illegal immigrant to be honest with you. Give him a green card. >> I think yeah, I would I would rather date an illegal immigrant than that. >> I used to be an illegal immigrant. You >> used to but then >> I married my husband. >> So you have a green card or are you

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