FINAL SHOW?! Goth Alt Catholic E-GIRL Came To DEBATE/DESTROY Brian? WOKE GIRLS! | Dating Talk 275
Date: 2025-12-29
Duration: 10h 24m
Guests
Identified Speakers
SPEAKER_02KK DNA(guest)
SPEAKER_04Lynn(guest)
SPEAKER_05Kaylee Jay(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_09Alina (Russia)(guest)
SPEAKER_11Natalia Haime Hughes(guest)
SPEAKER_12Amelia/Barbie(guest)
SPEAKER_13Tavy(guest)
SPEAKER_14Samantha (Notes)(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:10
Intro7 guests introduced, KK DNA arrives later
00:12:00
Key MomentNatalia discloses schizophrenia diagnosis
07:00:00
ControversySamantha pulls out written notes on oppression, becomes running joke
08:50:00
QuoteNatalia reveals 100+ body count, frames past as BC (before Christ)
10:09:00
ControversyKK DNA: white people have genetic predisposition to colonize. Concedes on Barbary slave trade numbers.
10:17:00
OtherBrian wraps year-end show after ~10 hours
Topics Discussed
00:00:10
Guest Introductions
7 guests + KK DNA arrives later.
00:12:00
Natalia Schizophrenia
Natalia discloses schizophrenia diagnosis openly.
00:30:00
Age Gap Debate
Extended debate on age gap relationships.
03:50:00
Oral Sex Debate
Heated debate on oral sex obligations.
07:00:00
Wage Gap Debate
Samantha uses prepared notes. Extended debate.
08:50:00
Natalia Body Count 100+
Natalia reveals 100+ body count, frames as BC (before Christ).
10:09:00
KK DNA Colonialism Debate
KK DNA argues whites have genetic predisposition to dominate. Brian counters with Barbary slave trade.
10:17:00
Year-End Wrap
Brian reflects on 2025, commits to continuing in 2026.
Transcript
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00:57:16
Brian Atlashave a clips channel link is in the description. We have a Discord, discord.gg whatever. Post our stream schedule, behind the scenes, hate mail, research, studies, a
00:57:27
Brian Atlasbunch of other stuff. I'm in there. I'm chatting with the people from, you know, I'm not like in there [ __ ] three hours a day, but, you know, I was I was chatting a couple days ago, so asking
00:57:38
Brian Atlasfor feedback from the from the peeps. So, join the Discord. Uh, let's see. Oh, I'm hiring for two positions. You need to either live or be able to make it to Santa Barbara every Sunday.
00:57:49
Brian AtlasPosition one, a new helmet girl or side uh helmet girl sidekick. Uh, you don't really need any uh you just need to be good-looking. That's pretty much it.
00:58:02
Brian AtlasPosition two, a new soldier sidekick. So, think Gustavo. His aberition does is still in the studio, though. So, uh, but you will wear the Chilean soldier uniform.
00:58:14
Brian AtlasYou can DM whatever on Instagram if interested in either of those two positions. And then we have a TTS and then I'll finish up the >> stuff. >> Azil's donated $200.
00:58:26
SPEAKER_00>> Thank you, man. >> Yo, Brian, your favorite Brit is back. Hope you had a great Christmas, bro. Been a few weeks, but sure you ain't forgotten the name. On to the next year,
00:58:37
Brian Atlasbrother. # Bigle Labia Matter # Michael Jackson is king. >> Yo, good to see you, man. Of course, I remember your name. You're the You're the Michael Jackson guy. Thank you, man. I really appreciate your patronage.
00:58:49
Brian AtlasThank you, Adzills. I hope you have a great 2026. And uh yo, Daril Hamster, thank you for
00:58:55
Brian Atlasthe gifted 20 uh subs on Twitch. And then we had another we had this guy W41N
00:59:05
Brian Atlasand then Juicy Eric also gifted. I think I pulled that up earlier. So, uh I think Thank you, man. I see your chat, too. We're going to get to that in a here. Why don't I just do it now? Alina, can you read this?
00:59:18
Alina (Russia)Chair one, how's your relationship with your father? Brian, is Andrew coming back to the show? Chair six, you watch too many rabbit hole conspiracies. >> Wait, where is she, bro? Oh, she's back there.
00:59:32
Brian Atlas>> Can I answer? >> Uh, really quick, I'll answer the Andrew Wil. Look, here's what How many people are watching right now? I think like four or 5,000 people. All right, here's
00:59:43
Brian Atlaswhat I need you guys to do. I need you guys to [ __ ] bombard the [ __ ] out of Andrew. Be like, "Listen up, Mr. Wilson. [clears throat] Get back on the whatever. You guys got to harass
00:59:55
Brian Atlasthis guy." Like, don't not like in a terrible way. You just send him a send him a chat message when he's live. You got to be like, "Hey, the the invitation there is there." But, uh, you know, Andrew is a busy guy. He's got he's a
01:00:07
Brian Atlaslot of big moves for Andrew. He's got a lot going on. So, uh, you got you guys got to you got to lean on him a little bit. You guys got to lean on Andrew. Be like, "Get on, get back on the Whatever
01:00:18
Brian Atlaspodcast." But hey, anytime, anytime. He's always welcome. Always welcome. Um, W Andrew, by the way, he did, if you guys want, he recently was on the PPD
01:00:28
Brian AtlasPBL PD Patrick Bet David podcast. He said he was uh said some very nice things about myself and the show. So, thank you, Andrew. Really appreciate it. Thank you for the shout out, by the way,
01:00:39
Brian AtlasAndrew. Uh, W guys. W Andrew Wilson in the chat. W Brian, are you pregnant? Says somebody in the chat. Yes, I am pregnant, actually. Thank you for
01:00:49
Brian Atlasasking. Um, I I am pregnant. I'm actually a trans man. That's why I can do the gay voice so well, because I'm a trans man. Um, Alina is actually the one
01:01:01
Brian Atlaswho got me pregnant, believe it or not. She's happens to have a penis. >> That's a crazy accusation. >> It Well, it is crazy, but it happens to be true. So, yeah. So anyways, uh big
01:01:13
Amelia/Barbieend of year reveal. >> So uh yeah, do you want to answer the >> Yeah, he said, "How's your relationship with your father?" >> That's one of my two best friends. One being my brother, second being my dad.
01:01:26
Amelia/BarbieHe taught me everything I need to know of how to live by myself. I've been living by myself up until recently I moved in with my partner. Um he taught me things that my mom couldn't teach me.
01:01:37
Amelia/BarbieHe was a sergeant sheriff in LA County for 35 years. He taught me things about politics and social concepts and things that just wasn't taught in school. He had me invest in stocks at the age of
01:01:49
Amelia/Barbieeight, which has grossed I don't even I don't even want to say the number here, but he set me up for success. And the way that I look is not a reflection of his views because he doesn't like the way that I look. But because it's an
01:02:01
Amelia/Barbieadult to adult relationship, not a parent child relationship anymore, we're able to have mutual respect and have good conversations and love each other the way that Jesus loves us. >> Word. Good. Good times.
01:02:13
Brian Atlas>> I love you, Dad. >> All right. And then we have uh also I'm just going to pull these up because people are they they made some merch purchases. So guys, if you do do a merch purchase, it comes through our
01:02:26
Brian AtlasStreamlabs thing. You can include a message. You can't include your name. Some people just leave it blank and then it comes through as uh someone da thank you for the big looks like you bought like two hoodies or something. Thank
01:02:36
Brian Atlasyou, man. Uh hold on. Let's see. We have one other chat coming through. We have Juicy Eric. Oh, you also Wait.
01:02:48
Alina (Russia)Oh, I already pulled it up. Okay, hold on. Wait. Am I getting confused? Uh here. Let me do this. Can you read this one?
01:03:00
Alina (Russia)>> Chair 6 is getting ghosted between the sheets. Brian need a protection spellcast over you on this episode. >> Yeah, I have a lot of stories that I could mention about hauntings and things.
01:03:12
Brian Atlas>> Let's not get into it. Uh [laughter] Sven, thank the gifted five. Appreciate it. Uh thank you for that super chat, by the way. Appreciate it. We read this one, right? >> Yes. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. I accidentally pulled it up again. We have our good
01:03:25
Brian Atlasfriend Adzil's here coming in with a chat. Will Gustavo ever return? You'd be surprised with the comments and other Hey, I've actually spoke with him
01:03:36
Brian Atlasrecently. We might we might get a cameo. We might get a little reunion. Actually, we're in 2026. So, guys, we started the podcast in 2022. Uh we're going to that's like almost we've been doing this
01:03:48
Brian Atlasfor like three and a half years now. I guess we're going to be bringing back some old characters for like a re not a dedicated reunion episode, but we will
01:03:59
Brian Atlashave people come on as like a reunion, get a life update. Uh, so there's going to be some people coming back, so that'll be fun. But Gustavo, I'm pretty sure we'll we'll have them come back.
01:04:10
Brian AtlasUh, but I am hiring a new one, a new Gustavo. Uh, final thing, Nick, here, let me ask the chat. I'll ask the chat if we do this. Uh, so chat, we have one girl
01:04:21
Brian Atlasrunning obnoxiously late, but she she's flying in and there was a flight delay, so I'm not going to harsh on her too much. But we had two no-shows, but
01:04:33
Brian Atlasultimately with that girl who's coming late, we're going to have a full panel. For us, a full panel is nine. So, look, we had two no-shows that I
01:04:42
Brian Atlaskind of put on blast. So, the the question for Chad is, do I pull up the Instagram messages
01:04:53
Brian Atlasof the two no-shows? Do we put them on blast chat or do I just, you know, be the bigger man
01:05:02
Brian Atlasand just don't put them on blast? Yes. Blast or no? No. Blast or blast? Do we blast? Are we
01:05:14
Brian Atlas[ __ ] blasting, boys? [snorts] Okay, [ __ ] it. Let's do it really quick. All right, [ __ ] these people. Hey, it's a [ __ ] You know what? Hey, hold on. Let me play this [ __ ] one more time for the
01:05:24
Brian Atlastwo [ __ ] no-shows. These people are, by the way, one of them is 33. One of them is 27. It takes 10 minutes. 10 minutes. Sorry,
01:05:36
SPEAKER_0610 10 seconds to just be like, "Hey, [ __ ] your podcast. I'm not coming." I prefer that anyways. Whatever. [ __ ] >> [ __ ] you all y'all [ __ ] [ __ ] you. Die slow [ __ ] MY MAKE SURE
01:05:48
SPEAKER_06ALL Y'ALL KIDS don't you [ __ ] can't be us OR SEE US. WE [ __ ] THUG LIVES RIDERS WEST SIDE TILL WE DIE OUT here in California [ __ ] We warn you. We'll bomb on you [ __ ] We
01:05:59
Brian Atlasdo our job. YOU THINK YOU MOM [ __ ] WE THE [ __ ] mob. >> Uh pull up the first one. All right. All right. [ __ ] you Susie. Uh, so she DM'd us. Hi, I'm in Santa Barbara. Would like
01:06:11
Brian Atlasto be on your podcast. That's on next, >> bro. >> This is just her [ __ ] [ __ ] Whatever. [ __ ] three kids. Okay, whatever. Next. So, we send her the confirmation.
01:06:25
Brian Atlas[laughter] This is our, you know, message. And she says, "Yes, I confirm." By the way, all the women here, I'm sure you can uh >> Did we send you
01:06:34
Brian Atlas>> two reminders? We sent you one on Friday. We sent you one on Saturday. So, we're not like, you know, we we do send reminders just, you know, whatever. We
01:06:44
Brian Atlassend one 48 hours typically and 24 hours before. Pull it back up. So, she confirms. Now, by the way, we tend to book people like way in advance, but for, you know,
01:06:56
Brian Atlasthis show, this was on Friday, but she says she confirms and she acknowledged the reminders. next today. This is today 4:11 p.m. because all these other lovely women were here
01:07:07
Brian Atlason time. Thank you, by the way. Uh I'm like, "Hey, are you coming?" And she says, "No, sorry." [laughter] And I'm like,
01:07:18
Brian Atlas"This [snorts] woman is 33." 33. And it's 4:11 p.m. It takes Oh, wait, wait. There's more.
01:07:29
Brian AtlasThere's more. It takes 10 seconds. I'm not coming. You would have known that [snorts] not at 4:11 p.m. Not prompted by me asking you if you're
01:07:42
Brian Atlascoming. Like, I don't know about what you guys think. I feel like, and this applies to dating, too. If you have a date scheduled with somebody and say the date is for 400 p.m., you don't wait
01:07:54
Brian Atlasuntil 4:11 p.m. to be like and for them to text you to be like, "Hey, I'm not coming." You don't do that. No, you tell the person. You give them as much
01:08:04
Brian Atlasadvanced notice as possible. I'm not coming. Pull it back up. Uh, [laughter] >> you mean?
01:08:15
Brian Atlas>> No. Sorry. Uh, next. [laughter] >> Okay, that's her. [ __ ] you, Susie. Next. >> It's like a It's a dog. Do you have or wait? >> No.
01:08:27
Brian Atlas>> Oh, that's somebody else. Oh, the other no show. Yeah. [ __ ] you, Susie. Uh, what's that? >> Next. >> Yeah. Yeah. Next one. Okay. DMs us interested in being on the
01:08:37
Brian Atlaspodcast. They're DMing us. And then, uh, next uh 411 I So, you can't see it. Maybe just hide it temporarily. I'm just like, "What's your ETA? Estimated time of
01:08:48
Brian Atlasarrival." Because all these other really polite people showed up on time. I'm like, "Hey, are you are you coming? You agreed? Whatever." Uh, and just I won't make it this week.
01:09:00
Brian Atlas[ __ ] you're supposed to tell us this [ __ ] 2 hours ago, not 4:11 p.m., you [ __ ] scumbag. Now, pull it pull it up. >> Pull up the next one.
01:09:11
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, pull up uh the next tab. Now this fight and then she's trying to say that she's Oh, you don't know what's going on in her life. This is her dog's Instagram page. [laughter] Click on the stories. Click on the stories.
01:09:25
Brian Atlas>> It's live story. >> No, the stories. The the the profile picture. >> Click on that. Oh, she blocked us. Okay. Well, we can't see the She blocked us. We can't see the stories, but she had she had time to
01:09:38
Brian Atlaspost. That's not her Instagram. That's her dog's Instagram. How are you going to have time to post multiple stories on your dog's [ __ ] Instagram? Oh, but you don't have time. You don't have to
01:09:50
Brian Atlas[ __ ] time to be like, "Take 10 seconds." Hey, Brian, I [ __ ] hate your podcast. I'm not coming. At least
01:10:02
Brian Atlastell me. So, [ __ ] what was that [ __ ] What was that bitch's name? Rachel. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. [ __ ] Rachel. [ __ ] Rachel. If you guys want to send a little happy new
01:10:14
Brian Atlasyear message to them, you you shouldn't do that. Um, and then that other chick, Susie. Wait, wait. Go to Suz's Instagram profile and then click on the stories.
01:10:26
SPEAKER_01This chick posted seven [ __ ] Click that [ __ ] She's po and tab through them. Just click of the arrow. [ __ ] seven
01:10:35
Brian Atlasstories. What the [ __ ] Tap through. Yeah. Next. just uh keep going. You got time to post these dumb [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] stories, but you can't be like,
01:10:46
Brian Atlas"Oh, hey, we're not coming to the podcast." [ __ ] scumbags. Anyways, it's all good because we have a lovely panel. Thank you everybody for being on time. Thank you. You guys are wonderful.
01:11:01
Brian AtlasAll right. Thank you. Thank you.
01:11:09
Brian AtlasOh, she was watching. She was watching. >> Somebody in the chat was like she >> and then blocked us during it. [laughter] >> She knew >> from her dogs account is pretty crazy.
01:11:20
SPEAKER_01>> Yeah, man. I No, but she she was like she was at the beach. I She was at the beach with her dog or some [ __ ] >> Oh, I have something. You don't know what's going She literally [laughter] You don't know what's going on in my life,
01:11:33
Brian Atlas>> [ __ ] You're at the beach with your dog. What the [ __ ] like you got in a [ __ ] car crash. You [ __ ] Oh my god, these people are [ __ ] >> Big moves. >> Oh, so the the the dog chick is 27 and
01:11:44
Brian Atlasthe other one is 33. I don't know about y'all. Maybe when you're [ __ ] 17, 18, you're such a you're such a scumbag, teenage
01:11:54
Brian Atlasdirt bag [ __ ] that it's like you you you have an appointment and you don't let the other person know you're not going to show. When you're 33, I I like to think you've had enough life
01:12:06
Brian Atlasexperience to be like, you know, the the courteous
01:12:14
Brian Atlasuh etiquette thing would be if you've agreed to an appointment, you let the person know, hey, I'm not
01:12:26
Brian Atlascoming. That's like bare minimum >> manners, etiquette, courtesy.
01:12:33
Brian AtlasWe got 33 year old women, 27y old trumpets not even showing human.
01:12:42
Brian Atlas>> It's subhuman behavior. These people are subhuman. It's subhuman behavior. It's bare minimum basic human decency. Hey, look. I changed my mind. That's fine.
01:12:54
Brian AtlasTell give me [ __ ] tell me two hours before tell hey I'm not going to it's going to inconvenience us whatever at least tell us but don't leave us holding our [ __ ] dicks our metaphorical
01:13:07
Brian Atlasproduction dicks [ __ ] four I shouldn't be messaging these chicks at 411 prompting them to tell us you know >> they're >> this is my therapy session by the way um
01:13:18
Brian Atlasbut yeah that's subhuman [ __ ] [ __ ] them >> and but by the way I just want to say this is relating it to dating and I know you want to come in. You know, there's a lot of criticisms of age gap
01:13:28
Brian Atlasrelationships. A lot of criticisms. Oh, these older men dating w 20-year-old 35year-old men dating 20-year-old women.
01:13:39
Brian AtlasThat's a 33 year old woman and a 27 year old woman. If I'm gonna deal with the same immature [ __ ]
01:13:49
Brian Atlasfrom a 33 year old and a 27 year old, I might as well deal with a a 20 21 year old. [laughter] You know, I'm these girls have no idea
01:14:01
Brian Atlaswhat I'm talking I'm just saying. I feel like if you're going to deal with the same [ __ ] like you're going to deal you're going to deal with a flaky 30-year-old, I might as well deal with a hotter chick who's younger.
01:14:14
Brian Atlas[laughter] I might as well if I'm just going to if she's going to fl if she's a Oh, well the 33-year-old women, they're more mature. No, they're not.
01:14:24
Brian AtlasI I might as well just get a hotter chick, less bodies. >> Stop. [laughter] >> Less bodies, less trauma, less dick, less runthrough. I'm just saying.
01:14:37
Brian Atlas>> Fair. >> I might as well deal like if if a girl I'd rather have a 20-year-old flake on me than a 30 33y old. >> That's embarrassing. Not like
01:14:47
Brian Atlas>> a 33 like if I'm dating and I'm getting I'm getting [ __ ] a 33 year old is 30 minutes late to the date. That's actually it's actually worse if she's older. [clears throat]
01:14:59
Brian AtlasIf she's older because if you're young, you inexperience. If you're young, you know, it can it be excused by [ __ ] That chick's 33 with three kids. And maybe it's just one guy, right? It could
01:15:10
Kaylee Jaybe just one guy, but it's like you've had How do you not know? >> That's actually why I started like being okay with dating younger people because
01:15:21
Kaylee JayI have always dated just naturally like older men than me. >> That's good. I'm so happy for you. >> And and I felt like I was putting up with these people who were like exactly like you should be a grown ass man. Like
01:15:33
Kaylee Jayyou should you should have the foresight. Like you should have the communication skills. You should have all these things. And you don't. And that's pathetic. And then I feel like also you're jaded. You've been through you're like scared to be in love and be
01:15:46
Kaylee Jayhurt again and you can't pay for something relationship. Someone has used you before. So every girl's going to use you and you're just like jaded by life when you're freaking past your 35. Like these men are [ __ ] heartbroken like
01:15:58
Kaylee Jayon the ground crawling just begging for love and they don't know how to [ __ ] still treat you or be a person. So, I'm like, "Okay, I guess I'll be okay dating like some guy who's my age or like TW." Like, hopefully they'll be less jaded
01:16:10
Kaylee Jayand maybe we can teach communication, you know, like we can teach a younger guy like, "Hey, communicate with me like this." They're more open to it. Like, they're like, "Oh, yeah. Okay, that's what I'm supposed to do. Okay, just teach me." >> Hey, if if uh you know, you're a woman
01:16:24
Brian Atlasand you're a bit older and you want to date a younger guy, I don't have any issues with it. I I tend to think women generally though uh women generally are
01:16:34
Brian Atlasmore inclined to dating men they're their age or a bit older. Uh but hey, I don't I don't have a you want to date a younger guy, by all means. I'm just
01:16:43
Brian Atlassaying cuz I get this argument. Look, and by the way, on the age gap topic, uh I date women my own age. I'll date women younger than me. I've dated women older than me. In fact, when I was in my
01:16:54
Brian Atlasearly 30s, I dated a woman like in her 40s. Uh, so I'm not like hanging out at college parties trying to pick up [ __ ] college girls. But if a 20-year-old girl slides into my DMs, who
01:17:06
Natalia Haime Hughesam I to object? >> Can I ask how old you are? >> 36. Yeah, >> I wanted to quickly respond. When you were mentioning the >> Wait, hold on. I'm not done with my mantle. >> Sorry. Go ahead.
01:17:17
Brian Atlas>> So, anyways, uh, I'll let you respond here in a sec. But, um, I do think this there's this there's this argument when we're having, uh, conversations about age gap relationships. What do you have
01:17:28
Brian Atlasin common with a what does a 30-year-old have in common with a 20-year-old? Or, oh my god, the tw They're so immature, bro. Anybody who, by the way, women can
01:17:40
Brian AtlasI feel like women who deal with men in their late 20s, early 30s, this idea that this demographic of men is They're
01:17:50
Brian Atlasso profoundly wise and mature. No. This idea that when you get older, you're you become some paragon of wisdom and you're so mature. No, these people are honestly a lot of times they're [ __ ] worse.
01:18:03
Brian Atlas>> These older people. >> Mhm. So, and it's like, so if I'm going to be dealing with the same [ __ ] I'd
01:18:13
Brian Atlasrather deal like I'd rather deal with the head. And it's more excusable to deal with that [ __ ] from somebody younger cuz at least it's like look, okay, they're naive or they're
01:18:24
Brian Atlasinexperienced and but you should really have your [ __ ] like you shouldn't be [ __ ] 30 minutes late to a date in your 30s. You shouldn't be, you know,
01:18:35
Brian Atlascancelling on [ __ ] no-showing and that you you Anyways, whatever. >> I wanted to quickly respond. >> Wait, I'm not done. >> Sorry. [laughter] >> Sorry. I got to get this rant out. I got to get this rant fully out here. I'm
01:18:47
Brian Atlasjust saying. I don't know. This idea that these uh I don't know this idea that like the 30-year-olds are all mature, the younger, you know, 20 year olds that they're immature. It's [ __ ]
01:18:58
Brian Atlas[ __ ] It's total [ __ ] Um, in fact, I have this theory. I have a theory. It's called the I'm just making up the
01:19:07
Brian Atlasname right now theory. Uh, are they a keeper? And the reality is there's a greater proportion of keepers at a younger age
01:19:19
Brian Atlasbecause you got to really not to say that everybody in their 30s or late 20s is is [ __ ] up, but most people by the time they're 30. Huh? What?
01:19:32
SPEAKER_07>> You're good. You You're good. >> Okay. >> Stop reading it. >> Well, better whatever. Um, >> yeah, I got you. Sorry, I lost my train of thought. My bad. >> Um,
01:19:45
Brian Atlas>> I have a comment real quick. When I was a lot younger, >> I'm gonna get it. Don't worry. Don't worry. I got this. Keeper. >> Yeah, the keeper theory. It's like there's a not to say that there can't be a keeper in, you know, older age or
01:19:56
Brian Atlaswhatever. Uh, but the proportion of them are fewer as as you get into older age groups. Whereas, like you're dating younger, there's more keepers. There's
01:20:07
Brian Atlasjust more people single, period. But there's more uh keepers in that age group. So uh I think actually as you start getting older and if you're dating people your age or older, you're going
01:20:19
Brian Atlasto encounter actually more [ __ ] than you would otherwise encounter like you know when you were younger dating people your age or if you're an older person whether you're a man or woman dating
01:20:29
Brian Atlassomebody younger. So ultimately, look, if I'm going to be dealing with this [ __ ] you know, flakiness, I Bro, and it's not even just the age. Like, they can appear on paper to have their
01:20:41
Brian Atlas[ __ ] together. I remember I was some like chemistry like this was a couple years ago. I I was I m This was from a dating app, matched
01:20:52
Brian Atlaswith this uh woman on a dating app. She was like [sighs] early 30s, 32, 33. I think she was either a professor of chemistry at the
01:21:03
Brian Atlasuniversity or she was a PhD student. I'm like, how are you? And then like she [ __ ] I don't know, we're scheduling a date and then she's like, you know, I'm not sure if I'm
01:21:16
Brian Atlasactually ready to like be out there. I'm like, why the [ __ ] are you on a dating app? Why you shouldn't you have figured that [ __ ] out before you on the dating app? And I'm like, why are you on the dating? And
01:21:28
Brian Atlaslook, whatever. We didn't go on a date. It wasn't a big waste of my time. But I'm thinking like if I'm dealing I guess ultim final point, if I'm going to deal with that [ __ ] from like highly educated career women who are in their
01:21:40
Brian Atlas30s, I I should just date the hot 20 year olds. Low low body count, less trauma, less ran through. That's pretty much it.
01:21:51
Natalia Haime HughesHotter. Okay, that's Anybody want to respond? >> I would say very interesting points. I think that um a few points. So um with
01:22:02
Natalia Haime Hughestrauma you could overcome trauma. Um so the whole age trauma measurement is a little um I disagree with that. >> Okay. Really I guess quick response to that. Okay. Well point by point I'll respond.
01:22:14
Brian Atlas>> Uh people yes people can overcome trauma. Uh would you care to present a percentage of people who overcome their trauma? I don't have that specific statistic.
01:22:27
Brian Atlas>> I don't need I don't need the statistics. What does your gut tell you? >> I can't. I don't want to. >> Okay, here's my philosophy. Most people don't overcome their trauma. >> So, I don't care if they can. Don't
01:22:39
Amelia/Barbiecare. You're coming to me with all your [ __ ] Don't care. I'm not here to be your therapist. I'm here. So, if a long-term relationship partner like that you were
01:22:52
Amelia/Barbiedating for a long time came to you and was like, "Hey, I'm really struggling with like my depression or something like a family member just passed." How would you respond to that? I'm just curious like are you saying like exempt or like >> like
01:23:04
Brian Atlas>> hold on that I think when you're okay if you're you've been dating a girl for two years and her mom or dad passes away >> like there's exceptions, right? Yeah. But did you just meet like are you telling me that that's just being a good
01:23:16
Brian Atlasperson and a good partner? if you're if they're going through something, then you can be there for them. But I think it's fair at the at the onset of a relationship to be incredibly discerning. Yeah. Like if
01:23:29
Brian Atlas>> even if it's something to some degree out of their control, if a girl like both her parents just >> died in a tragic train accident, >> of course >> that's [ __ ] terrible. I I feel
01:23:41
Brian Atlasterrible for her. That's awful. However, I might make a determination based off that and be like, "You're going through some [ __ ] I just met you. Maybe you got to figure that [ __ ] out. I'm not the person you should be
01:23:55
Brian Atlasdating." >> Yeah, that's fair. People >> I don't know if I want to be at the onset onset like I'm talking first, second, third, fourth date. I don't know if I want to be dealing with somebody.
01:24:07
Brian AtlasAnd look, some people deal with uh with grief in different ways. Uh, but yeah, it could it could be an issue, but I'm talking about like I feel like we're we're using a kind of
01:24:18
Brian Atlasa it would be obviously traumatic to lose your parents, but I'm talking about other kinds of trauma like either mental illness or some other thing that's like
01:24:28
Brian Atlasgoing to have potentially like your parents died for a lot of people. It's awful. You don't fully I don't think a lot of people ever fully obviously it's going to be something you carry with you.
01:24:41
Brian AtlasAlmost everybody's parents die eventually. Everybody goes through it. >> Well, yes, >> people do, you know, recover from that. >> I'm talking about like other kinds of trauma, I guess. I know.
01:24:53
Natalia Haime Hughes>> I wanted to briefly mentioned that um I got a bachelor's in neurobiology, physiology, and behavior. And the brain changes. So there's the prefrontal
01:25:02
Natalia Haime Hughescortex that um reduces the activity of the amygdala which is the emotional center of the brain. So by growing your
01:25:12
Natalia Haime Hughesbrain um in various ways by reducing your neurotoxic load then you could potentially um and also taking probiotics, eating organic food, tons of
01:25:23
Natalia Haime Hughesthings, meditation, a therapist really does help. Um understanding psychology helps. Like what I do is I've avoided potentially violent um relationships
01:25:34
Natalia Haime Hughesbecause I recognize here are the patterns of domestic violence and I'm distancing myself from that because I um don't learn how to like fight and I don't want head trauma and things like
01:25:45
Natalia Haime Hughesthat. Um but I wanted to briefly mention you mentioned um sorry you mentioned um uh that people are just out of control with their lives and we have an issue
01:25:55
Natalia Haime Hughesespecially in the United States with uh our chronic disease epidemic. Off >> topic. Yeah. >> Can I add something? >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Um on the topic we were on. I feel like like this is an issue in the dating
01:26:08
Kaylee Jayworld and I think that we should all know ourselves like we should all evaluate ourselves and if you're going through some serious trauma, if you just lost your parent, if you just lost your friend, if you just feel like you're not quite emotionally ready, like that girl
01:26:21
Kaylee Jaywho you tried to plan a date with, you know, like, "Oh, I don't know if I'm ready." Okay, then delete a dating app, you know, like go do whatever you need to do to figure out yourself and your life. Like there's an issue in the world where people are like, "Oh, I'm just
01:26:33
Kaylee Jaygoing to go and, you know, try to be in a relationship or try to find love." But like you're not in a place for it. You're not emotionally even able to take care of yourself. You're not emotionally able to like communicate the issues you're going through. And you shouldn't
01:26:44
Kaylee Jaycarry all of that weight onto somebody else and be like, "Hey, want to carry everything for me and like be with me together and you know, be somebody that I just throw everything on and like, oh, that's what makes me happy." Like I
01:26:56
Kaylee Jaythink we all need to evaluate if we're even ready for something to be with somebody. And that is a big issue with even these people. Oh, I want to be on the podcast. Okay, but clearly you're not ready to be in the public eye to make the trip out. That girl's like,
01:27:08
Kaylee Jay"Oh, well, nothing is there that I need." Well, this is here. this like the entire thing, you know, like we need to evaluate [clears throat] and focus on like what we are ready for and what we
01:27:18
Kaylee Jayneed from people and if that's actually something that's reciprocal and it's not just something that we're going to go into and we need somebody to take care of us. We need them to carry our loads. Like if that is you, delete your dating apps. Like stop going out and trying to
01:27:31
Kaylee Jaymeet people. You're ruining people's lives and you're and you're taking energy from people who actually maybe do want a relationship, who do have time, who do have emotional availability. And like the dating app should be cleared of
01:27:43
Kaylee Jayall of those people who don't have that because that is what they're for. You download it and you delete it to show up and say, "Hey, I'm here. I'm ready or I'm not." I think it's just like a lack of thinking overall. And on the topic of
01:27:55
Amelia/Barbielike the dating apps earlier, like way earlier this year, the beginning, I went on like one date with somebody that I met on Hinge and then I went on a second one. And the second one ended with him
01:28:07
Amelia/Barbiecrying, like sobbing, saying how he misses his mother who lives in Florida and how he doesn't want to go out anymore because he's just so emotionally. I was like, I'm dealing with a manchild. I'm dealing with a
01:28:20
Amelia/Barbiemama's boy. I'm dealing with a little boy. Like, take yourself off the app. It's my mistake for even going on the apps in the first place cuz like I want to meet you in person. I don't know who you are, what you're about. That was the last day. That was the last time I used
01:28:31
Amelia/Barbiethe apps. I met my current partner in person, but that was like just like an accurate representation of really who's on these apps, which I believe they're there more for the instant gratification and like the oh, I can get the like from
01:28:42
Amelia/Barbiethis person like oh like I am worthy of that. But it's like no one ever really takes it like every once in a while. No one ever takes it like to like the next level. Every once in a while I hear, "Oh, I met my spouse on Tinder or something like that." That's great. I
01:28:53
Amelia/Barbieknow some people like that. But overall, I don't think if you're on the dating apps base take, you're looking for anything serious. That's what it seems like recently. Just for gratification and to like show off, you know, your best pictures and then not follow through. That's what I've seen. That's
01:29:07
Natalia Haime Hugheswhat I've heard and experienced. Maybe if someone else has different opinion, I'm open to listening. >> I agree very much with what you said about people's lack of thinking. There's about half of the people in the world
01:29:16
Natalia Haime Hughesdon't think and um half the people do think and um when I was poisoned by glyphosate, the weed killer that is in
01:29:24
Natalia Haime Hughesour organic food in um in 81% of Americans urine according to the CDC um and RFK. >> Damn, bro. I step away for 30 seconds and y'all let her hijack this [ __ ]
01:29:36
Brian AtlasShe's talking about glyphosate. [laughter] Was that unprompted? How did y'all get to [ __ ] glyphosate? It always leads back somehow. >> Try to keep it on topic if you can, please. But >> did you hear my story? It was about >> Did you hear what I said? >> No.
01:29:49
Amelia/Barbie>> Okay. >> Was it related to >> I'll do like a 10-second recap when she's done. >> No. No. I I'm I don't need you to repeat it. But >> did it lead into glyphosate? [laughter]
01:30:02
Brian Atlas>> Respectfully, no. >> Okay. So, um, >> but I'm open. >> I I guess just the final thought here. I do think related to the age gap conversation, I know it was kind of a segue from like those are obviously not
01:30:14
Brian Atlaswomen I'm dating or have an interest in dating, but it is kind of like it is behavior that I see uh even from PE uh adults I guess you could say that I think and look men do this too. Uh men
01:30:27
Brian Atlaswill flake on women although I do think it is the case that I I think in a dating context women flake more than men do. Um, I mean my own experience and this, by the way, all these experiences
01:30:38
Brian AtlasI would I would site to are before the podcast. So there's not some cope about, oh well Brian, they didn't know about your toxic podcast, so they, you know, they agreed to a date and then they looked you up and then they discovered
01:30:50
Brian Atlasyour toxic podcast. No, it was well before I started being toxic online or whatever. So, I can't tell you the
01:30:59
Brian Atlasnumber of experiences I I think from like 2021 till I started the podcast. There was like uh 2019 to 2022,
01:31:10
Brian AtlasI was doing a lot of online dating and I was dating women older than me. I was dating women my age. So, at the time, this would be between the age of like
01:31:18
Brian Atlas30, 32, 33. Uh, I was dating women my age. Uh, really not dating younger. Uh, like 25 to 35 was probably the average
01:31:29
Brian Atlasrange or whatever. And I can't like the amount of professional like women who had good careers, who seemed to have their life together, who
01:31:40
Brian Atlaswere, you know, in their mid to late 20s, uh early 30s, some even older, who would uh who would like be inconsiderate
01:31:51
Brian Atlasin terms of just kind of flaking last minute. Uh I had luckily I mean I've heard some hor uh not horror stories but I've heard from guy like other guys
01:32:01
Brian Atlasthey'll just get uh stood up that only I think that happened to me once luckily but like the women would be obscenely laid all the time and uh you know I try
01:32:12
Brian Atlasto be give a bit of a grace. I think sometimes things can happen or whatever. But it it did make me think that this there is this related to the age gap con
01:32:21
Brian Atlasthough. There's this huge idea that is being uh this idea that younger women so
01:32:29
Brian Atlaswomen perhaps say in their early 20s or even 19, 20, 21, 22 are these completely chaotic, immature,
01:32:39
Brian Atlasuh unreliable, immature, whatever. And then you know you have late 20s early 30 year old women who are the the paragon of
01:32:52
Brian Atlasmaturity and it's just not the case. I had my time wasted so much by women in their late 20s early 30s and I was like
01:33:03
Brian Atlasfinally I just came to this conclusion. Uh not to say that I w like I wouldn't date a woman in her 30 like no that's not the case at all. Like I
01:33:14
Brian Atlasbut I did come to the conclusion that I I at least reject this idea that like young women are immature and older women are mature. It's total [ __ ] Total
01:33:25
Brian Atlas[ __ ] And it's actually a really I think a good justification for might as well just date younger because you're going to encounter the same kind of [ __ ] uh with younger women as you will with older women. So you might as
01:33:37
Brian Atlaswell date hotter, less trauma, less body count. Okay. Anyways, moving on. Uh, we need to get everybody's relationship status. Uh, a little bit delayed on that. What's your relationship status?
01:33:49
Amelia/Barbie>> I'm in a relationship. >> All right. For how long? >> Um, we've been dating for I think 11 months. And then we've been official for uh going on 7 months.
01:34:01
Brian Atlas>> Longest relationship? >> This one. >> This one. Okay. >> Which is only like one of two. >> All right. Uh, what about you? Relationship status. single. >> How long you've been single for?
01:34:13
Kaylee Jay>> I've been single for like two and a half, maybe three years. >> Three years. Okay. Longest relationship? >> Like two years. >> Is that the one that ended 3 years ago?
01:34:24
Kaylee Jay>> No, that one was just a year. >> One year. Okay. Uh the most recent one, the one year who broke up with who? >> I broke up with him on Christmas actually of the year. Yeah. >> Any reason why or
01:34:38
Kaylee Jay>> he was just Well, there was a lot of reasons. Yeah. He was a drug addict and it slowly showed throughout our relationship like you know he was a functioning drug addict and it slowly >> started to show itself and he went from
01:34:50
Kaylee Jaybeing like a very calm level-headed person to being like really angry and aggressive. >> Sure. Um and then the two-year relationship who broke up with who? >> I broke up with him.
01:35:02
Kaylee Jay>> Uh any reason? Drugs also. Um, no. He was just old like that was my first um and only like open relationship. He was a lot older than me. Like when we met I
01:35:13
Kaylee Jaywas 20, he was like 37. And we dated for a couple of years. And he was just when we first met he was like, "Oh, I you know, I want to be open and still see other people." And I was like, "Yeah, of course. I'm super young. I want that, too." You know? >> And then after like a year and a half or
01:35:26
Kaylee Jayso, >> he would have these convos like, "Oh, I want to just be with you. I want to just be with you. Like it's going to just be us." you know, and then yeah, we would have like a really fun night or we would go on vacation somewhere or have some
01:35:38
Kaylee Jaynice trip and then suddenly he would be telling me like about other girls. >> Okay. Uh relationship status, >> I'm currently single. >> How long have you been single for? >> About 3 years. >> Three years. Longest relationship? >> Four years.
01:35:51
Brian Atlas>> Is that the one? Did it ended three years ago? >> Yes. >> Who broke up with who? >> It was a mutual breakup. >> Mutual breakup. Okay. Uh, so for the past 3 years, nothing. >> Um, I've been dating here and there, but
01:36:04
Lynnnothing has been official. >> In the past three years, the longest period of time you've seen a guy? >> Um, >> like, have you had a situationship? 2, three, four, five months. And >> maybe a situationship, but it wasn't
01:36:16
Kaylee Jaythat long. Maybe 3 months. >> Okay. And then for you, uh, single for three years. Anything? >> I've had a couple situationships. >> How long? Um, one was like 3 months, one
01:36:27
Kaylee Jaywas like 6 months, probably like four months. Yeah. >> Okay. Uh, relationship status, >> I'm currently single. >> All right. For how long? >> Oh, for sorry. For about 3 years now.
01:36:41
Brian AtlasAnd then >> longest relationship? >> A year. >> Is that the one that ended three years ago? >> Yeah. >> Who broke up with who? >> He broke up with me. >> Single for three years. Uh, anything in
01:36:52
Tavythat three-year period? Uh, yeah. The rebound and then the one you try again that doesn't work out. >> The rebound. Okay. All right. What about you? >> Single. >> How long you've been single for?
01:37:04
Samantha (Notes)>> Maybe like two years now. >> Two years. Okay. Longest relationship? >> Five years. >> Five years. >> Is that the one that ended two years ago? >> No, that one was like maybe like over 3
01:37:17
Samantha (Notes)years. uh three years ago or the >> the most recent relationship was three years was about like uh >> three years. Okay. The three-year one who broke up with who? >> I broke up with both.
01:37:27
Samantha (Notes)>> You broke up with both. Okay. Uh any particular reason or >> um things just weren't working out? Things just weren't working out. >> Okay. What does that mean? Were they cheating
01:37:41
Samantha (Notes)on you? >> Um the first one turned out to be like a monster. Um he was a horrible person and I didn't know until like >> um really until well we moved into with like one another like after a while like
01:37:53
Samantha (Notes)maybe for like our fifth year. Um I was really young. I was probably like 20 at the time. >> Wait the fifth year. >> The fiveyear relationship. The first relationship. >> He only revealed himself as a monster in the fifth year. >> Yeah. Like the fifth year.
01:38:06
Samantha (Notes)>> So the first four years were >> they were okay. They were good. Yeah. And then the last year he became extremely like aggressive. Um, I think we spent a lot of time with each other and he just didn't really know how to
01:38:18
Samantha (Notes)process his emotions. >> Um, so he just became extremely like aggressive and like he just didn't really know how to like handle his emotions and stuff. >> Did something happen in his life like a
01:38:29
Samantha (Notes)like a major event or a traumatic event? >> Um, I think he like experienced like domestic violence in like his household and I think that's what made him like super like >> crazy.
01:38:41
Samantha (Notes)Oh, so was there DV in your relationship? >> No, not at all. But then there was one day that he like punched me in the face so that I broke up with him. >> Well, that was like Yeah. >> So I was like, "Okay, yeah, this is
01:38:54
Samantha (Notes)crazy. I have to leave." >> Like he like on the side of the face, the front of the face, >> like on like the side of the face. Like he probably got like the left side of my face, the right side. >> Like it was just one punch. >> It was one like hard punch. Yeah,
01:39:06
Brian Atlas>> it was crazy. >> Yikes. Well, okay. That I mean, yeah. completely warrants completely warrants the breakup. >> Um, that's completely unacceptable. [laughter] >> Um, >> okay. But you said he was also
01:39:19
Samantha (Notes)aggressive, too. So, he would like >> he was like slowly becoming aggressive and like yelling and like he was like slowly becoming aggressive. >> By the way, you don't have to repeat it. Just >> Oh, and was like yelling and stuff and then eventually one day I guess he just
01:39:31
Samantha (Notes)like snapped. I don't know. Unlock. >> Damn, that's crazy. Damn, that's that's that's tough too. >> It was a lot. We were in a relationship for 5 years and then I moved in with him. We were so young. I think we met each other at like 16 >> and then
01:39:44
Samantha (Notes)>> Oh, so you guys met in high school? >> Yeah. And then >> same age. Yeah. Okay. >> And then I broke up when we were like I was like 20. >> That's brutal though. >> Like cuz I feel like a lot of red flags, you know, maybe there's like 3 months, 6 months people can hide them a little
01:39:59
Samantha (Notes)bit. >> No, it was multiple years. It was so crazy. Yeah. Now I feel like I can't really trust people. I'm like, you never really know what happens behind closed doors. I mean, it's definitely crazy >> like Yeah. what people are capable of. >> Like, you think you know somebody. >> Yeah.
01:40:12
Brian Atlas>> And then to be in a five-year relationship and I mean, I'm I'm assuming maybe prior to that there might have been, you know, people have arguments or disagreements or whatever, but then like imagine just
01:40:24
Brian Atlasspending essentially almost wasting. I mean, maybe you don't view it that way, but like only in the fourth or fifth year of
01:40:33
Brian Atlasa relationship for that le that to materialize, that's that's both scary and sucky. Um, what
01:40:44
Natalia Haime Hughesabout you? >> I've been single since February and I, um, observe domestic violence and kind
01:40:53
Natalia Haime Hughesof notice the patterns. And so I noticed the patterns in my last relationship um where he started becoming more
01:41:01
Natalia Haime Hughescontrolling and um so God also spoke to him is my understanding and um exactly
01:41:11
Natalia Haime Hughesthe prayer I was asking for. And um my boyfriend at the time grabbed my arm and was really frustrated that I was saying like hey uh so and so's friends. God
01:41:22
Brian Atlasalso spoke to him and he was just like stop saying that. So >> and that the you said he grabbed your arm. >> Is that the you said you were in a DV
01:41:33
Brian Atlasyou observed I'm a bit confused with the phrasing but you observed domestic violence. The domestic violence you're referring to is he grabbed your arm? >> There's >> Or was he also like was there more?
01:41:47
Natalia Haime Hughes>> There's domestic violence that I've observed in my childhood. >> No, but you said your most recent How long were you dating the guy most recently? >> About two years. >> Okay. Is that your longest relationship?
01:41:59
Natalia Haime Hughes>> The other one was about two years. I had like two longist relationships. Yeah. Or longterm. I mean long term. Okay. [laughter]
01:42:06
Natalia Haime HughesUm but the the most recent one was he uh he was violent domestically I guess. >> Well it he was showing the early signs
01:42:19
Natalia Haime Hughesof domestic violence. So I was like and then also he was drinking a lot. Okay. >> And the things I would hear he said I was like >> and then also I was >> you said he he like he grabbed your arm, right? >> Yeah. Was there more than that or was
01:42:32
Natalia Haime Hughesthat just >> He wanted me to stop um talking about God speaking to me. He wanted me to take medication. There was just a lot of things that I was >> But I'm asking specifically about
01:42:43
Brian Atlasdomestic violence. So, uh those things you just listed >> uh while you might object to them wouldn't fall under the purview of domestic violence. >> They're very early signs. And the reason
01:42:55
Brian Atlaswhy I found >> I I don't think your boyfriend saying while you might find it objectionable, your boyfriend saying don't talk about these things, that's not domestic violence. Him grabbing you
01:43:07
Natalia Haime Hughes[clears throat] could uh could be categorized as domestic violence though. >> Um so it wasn't like so serious. It was
01:43:16
Natalia Haime Hughesjust like I'm seeing the trickle down of like, okay, this can be become domestic violence if I stay with him. >> Okay, I see. And the reason why I knew
01:43:26
Natalia Haime Hughesthat is because I was uh listening to a woman that went to Harvard and she was talking about how she dated another Harvard student and she experienced domestic violence that was so extreme
01:43:38
Natalia Haime Hughesthat the guy was like pointing a like beating her up, pointing a gun to her head. Like the last step of domestic violence is death. Um but it can stop.
01:43:49
Brian AtlasYou can reverse the trauma. You could um you can reverse PTSD. There's tons of things for veterans and all sorts. >> Yes. Yes. So, I I acknowledge that, you know, uh domestic violence can be an
01:44:00
Brian Atlasescalation over time. Um you've been single for since February. Um we'll just 10 months or whatever. Uh have has there been any guys in the picture in the past 10 months?
01:44:12
Natalia Haime Hughes>> No, because I'm focused on reading the Bible and >> no rebounds. >> No. >> Okay. Have you been celibate?
01:44:22
Alina (Russia)>> Yes. Okay. What about you? >> I'm in a relationship for 5 years and it's my longest. >> Has he proposed or? >> No. >> Well, you said
01:44:34
Alina (Russia)>> Where's the ring? >> It's at the store. You said it's not smart for guys to get married. So maybe he's just a smart guy like you. >> Well,
01:44:49
Brian Atlas>> so have you told him you don't want to get married? I >> wait I gota hold on I gotta respond to this. Um >> yeah so I I my myself I don't want to get married. I think that there are
01:45:00
Brian Atlascertain risks as it relates to marriage. Um however you're a Christian and he's a Christian, right? >> So
01:45:10
Brian AtlasI I don't have objections for those who are religious. Well, I I should I guess I should clarify. I don't reject to the
01:45:20
Brian Atlasreligious motivations for marriage. Now, even if you are religious, I regardless of whether you're religious or not, there are still risks. Whether you're
01:45:31
Brian Atlasagnostic, whether you're Muslim, whether you're a Christian, whatever, there's still risks regardless. But it makes sense to me, at least if you're a Christian, the motivation for wanting to
01:45:42
Brian Atlasget married and the justification thereof. So, uh, I don't think I'm going to, you know, this idea that, uh, because I say I dislike marriage, I don't know what that has to do with your relationship,
01:45:57
Alina (Russia)>> right? >> Unless he's a big fan of the show or something. >> I would never want to push a man into something that he's not fully ready for.
01:46:05
Alina (Russia)And I want him to be ready. And when the time comes, it will. We met at a very young age. So when you're 16, 17, you're not often thinking about the bigger
01:46:18
Alina (Russia)picture and what you want your life to look like and all of your life goals and what you want to do. You're kind of just more focused on I like this person, let's date. It's not really that deep at
01:46:30
Alina (Russia)that age, but when you start to get older, like into your 20s, you start to thinking, you start to think about what you want your life to look like. So that's what we're that's the stage that
01:46:40
Brian Atlaswe're at right now. Sure. And I do acknowledge that the age is obviously a factor here. Although in terms of the
01:46:50
Brian Atlaslength of your relationship, I would it is a bit of a question mark. Typically a five-year relationship, especially one where you're both practicing Christians,
01:47:03
Brian Atlasuh it does raise a bit of an eyebrow that they're I'm not at least, you know, a proposal, an engage. I I Hey, look, I
01:47:13
Brian Atlasdon't know. I could be off base, but I feel like a lot of women if they've been dating and look, I'm going to because you're young, there's obviously
01:47:24
Brian Atlasa lot of leeway here, but I think for example, a woman who was say 30 and now she's 35 and she's been dating a guy for 5 years, wouldn't you be like >> absolutely
01:47:36
Alina (Russia)where's the 30? I know I have a plan for my life and I have an age and a time by which I would like to >> uh be straight with the mic and then just go ahead.
01:47:47
Alina (Russia)>> The age that I would like to settle down and have children by. So I know all that stuff in my head. I would not be 30 meeting a guy and then waiting 5 years for a proposal. It's all about the age.
01:47:59
Brian AtlasThe age is the main factor here. Alina, give a salute to Pasty George in this camera. Yo, what's up, Pasty George? Good to see you in the chat,
01:48:10
Brian Atlasman. Good to see you. Um, I'm going to have you read two chats. Here we have Juicy Juicy Eric. What the I'm not All right, go ahead. >> For chair one, thank you for clarifying.
01:48:22
Alina (Russia)For chair six, you're not a true Christian. You actually insult them. Following ideologies go against the Bible itself. you're insane and need to
01:48:31
Natalia Haime Hughesbe in 247 care. >> Uh response. You want to respond? >> What do you disagree with exactly? I don't understand. Um I do want to say
01:48:42
Natalia Haime Hughesthat I am ignorant about the new the Old Testament. I've read the New Testament. And I also want to say that I've been an atheist and agnostic. So I don't uh I'm
01:48:53
Natalia Haime Hughesnot an expert in the Bible by any means. Um so I'm sorry to offend you. I just want to talk about what I know basically based on the evidence that I know. Um, so that's all.
01:49:05
Amelia/Barbie>> So I have a comment. I did my senior thesis when I was 18 on the spiritual realm and demons and angels and things like that and it's always been a topic that's fascinated me and I really wanted
01:49:17
Amelia/Barbieto see like what constitutes blasphemy, what constitutes somebody being a false prophet. um what constitutes a false leader in Christianity and what
01:49:28
Amelia/BarbieI came across was that Hollywood a because I know you mentioned the conjuring I heavily criticized the conjuring in my senior thesis actually incorrectly portrays a lot of the instances obviously because it's
01:49:41
Amelia/BarbieHollywood more or less almost to mock um what real what real prophets and what you like to say exorcis exorcists do when they're
01:49:53
Amelia/Barbietaking like a spirit out of a person or something like that. There is no addition to Christianity other than what is in the Bible. And in Leviticus, it actually I'm pretty sure it's Leviticus, which is Old Testament, which I know you
01:50:06
Amelia/Barbiesaid you haven't read. >> I read part of it. Yeah. >> Okay. Yeah. Yeah. There's a spot um that says, don't quote me on this, I don't remember it fully. It says that we
01:50:15
Amelia/Barbieshould not engage with necromancers or the spirits of the like people who claim to be mediums. And in the Conjuring series, Ed and Lorraine Warren were
01:50:27
Amelia/Barbieactually uh historically the first Catholic exorcist. >> What the hell? >> Wait. Okay, just wrap it up, please. This is >> combined. They were the first ones to be acknowledged by the Catholic Church, and
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Amelia/Barbiethey worked with the Catholic Church, but she claimed to be a spirit medium. What does that tell you? That's direct contradiction to the Old Testament. I believe that the Bible has all we need to know about Christianity. No chakras, no Zen, no Buddha.
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Natalia Haime Hughes>> I have um so again like I'm not an expert in the Bible or religion. Um but I have heard that um like people say that you're not supposed to try to
01:51:02
Natalia Haime Hughescontact the dead. Um which is not something I try to do. I just um I just feel like there is something trying to contact me potentially. Um
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Natalia Haime Hughes>> couldn't it be the manifestation of your schizophrenia? >> Well, I want to challenge the whole health care system, but >> how is that? Wait, what what does that
01:51:26
Natalia Haime Hugheshave to do with what I just said? But um >> it's our car's extended warranty. >> You you have a definition of schizophrenia from medical doctors. And
01:51:34
Natalia Haime HughesI challenge the health care system on their definitions of things. Um, some things are just not taught in medical school. >> Okay. I'm just saying I think part of
01:51:46
Tavythe reason you could and like from like a loving point of view that you could be having like all these stuff you're dealing with is because you are channeling with the chakra stuff and all that. It is demon stuff. So, it's like it's so easy for them to get to, you
01:51:59
Brian Atlasknow, a hold of you. >> What? >> Uh, okay. Um, how about this? If it is the case though that the shakra [ __ ] the Buddha [ __ ] whatever, uh, is
01:52:10
Brian Atlasincompatible with Christianity. Like, let's assume that's the case, right? Are you willing to make a commitment right here, right now on the whatever podcast that you completely
01:52:21
Natalia Haime Hughesreject the chakra [ __ ] >> I reject things that Jesus Christ would reject. So if it is the case that Jesus Christ would reject
01:52:32
Natalia Haime Hugheschakra blah blah blah whatever all that stuff would you reject it? >> Hypothetically I would reject what Jesus Christ rejects if that includes those
01:52:41
Natalia Haime Hughesthings. I just am curious as to why um certain religions and beliefs and evidence are ignored. >> Okay. >> Okay. But but you're basing your beliefs
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Alina (Russia)off Jesus Christ which Jesus Christ is only existent in one religion. should read this. >> Wife and I 16 year age gap. I'm 42, she's 27. Best relationship we've ever had. I work and provide and she's loyal,
01:53:06
Alina (Russia)cooks, cleans, and supports. Was a Hooters girl. I definitely lucked out. >> Was a Hooters girl. >> I see nothing wrong with that. I think
01:53:16
Brian Atlashe won. And I think she also won. >> Uh yo, Shannon Lacy. Uh thank you for your message, man. Wait, 16 gap. 42.
01:53:27
Brian AtlasShe's 27. How long y'all been together? That's what I'm curious about. Like what was the age gap like? Or well, were you 35 and she was 20? What was the
01:53:39
Brian Atlasgap? Um, thank you, man. Really appreciate your message. All right. Uh, has anybody here uh anybody here have a roster? Starting with you since you're single. Do you have a roster?
01:53:51
Brian Atlas>> Is that like people I'm sleeping with right now? What is a roster? >> Uh, people I'm dating. It could include, yes, it could include people you're sleeping with, but it could also just be
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Kaylee Jayuh people who you're dating, I guess. >> Um, I just started going on a couple of dates. I've gone on two dates with one guy and three dates with another guy in the last two weeks. >> All right. What about you? Do you have a
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Lynnroster? >> Um, I wouldn't call it a roster. I would say that I'm weighing my options, but I am dating. >> How many How many people are in the picture right now? >> Um, two. >> Two. And then uh at any point in your
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