Toxic Man Hating 10/10 "Goddess" EXPLOITS Men? (KICKED) A Wilson REKT Misandrist! | Dating Talk #184

Date: 2024-08-05
Duration: 7h 07m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Lucy (Luchia)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Kwan(guest)
SPEAKER_04Natalie(guest)
SPEAKER_05Anyia(guest)
SPEAKER_06Courtney / Rihanna(guest)
SPEAKER_07TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_08Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_13Madison (Maddie)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Gracie(guest)

Key Moments

00:11:21
QuoteLucy describes her findom practice: explains financial domination as a BDSM kink where men get aroused by giving money, and she enjoys watching them hurt themselves and laughing at their humiliation.

I basically play into you know certain Kinks for men and they give me money for it... sometimes it's just the Kink of financial domination which they get off to giving

00:20:00
ControversyAndrew presents the moral equivalence argument: if Lucy's findom of a man teetering on bankruptcy is ethical because he consents, then a 55-year-old man having sex with a low-IQ but legally adult 21-year-old is equally ethical. Lucy initially rejects the comparison but eventually acknowledges the parallel.

imagine this going back the other direction... he's 50 and she's a little bit low IQ but she's a consenting adult... doesn't sound reasonable to you

00:22:47
QuoteLucy reads her own tweet on the show: 'I'm in a shitty mood and I want to take it out on a stupid man. I'm in the mood to cause permanent damage to your bank account and your balls.'

I'm in a shitty mood and I want to take it out on a stupid man I'm in the mood to cause permanent damage to your bank account and your balls

00:25:23
QuoteBrian asks Lucy: if she will be the most beautiful woman on Earth at 56, why would she not take a magic wand that advances her aging 5 years to prove it?

if you think you'll be when do you think the peak is... so if I uh could wave a magic wand that only Advanced your outward physical appearance

00:37:08
QuoteLucy states that men were created only to provide.

men were created to provide that's literally it doesn't matter if you consider yourself a fin sub or not I stand by that

00:47:41
QuoteNatalie explains that losing ~70 lbs on a GLP-1 medication changed the quality of male attention she receives — previously more sexual and less respectful, now higher quality.

before I feel like a lot of it was a lot of male attention that I would get was more from like kind of like in a gross like way... now the like quality of guys is a lot better

01:56:00
ControversyAndrew uses the Fountain of Youth argument to counter Lucy's claim she'll be more attractive at 56: if aging reduces attractiveness (evidenced by anti-wrinkle creams, Botox, etc.), and no one seeks age-advancement, then Lucy's assertion she'll be equally/more attractive at 56 is internally inconsistent.

I found hundreds of Legends about a fountain where you go in or something similar to this where it reverses the aging process couldn't find any about a fountain of age... youth is beauty

03:50:24
QuoteCourtney recounts 'murder date' story — man drove her up a winding road to an unfinished house, she had a panic attack, ended up hooking up with him anyway, and he called her 'Daddy' then 'Mommy'.

I look back and the door is like about to close and I had like a panic attack... this door closes like this is the last time I'm ever going to see a door... we did hook up later so that's on me

04:34:00
QuoteGracie describes creating a fake Snapchat account to confirm her high school boyfriend was cheating on her while she was at her sister's wedding.

I made a fake Snapchat account and I added him and of course he added me back immediately and I started snapping him like black screens... maybe like four snaps in I'm like oh do you have a girlfriend by the way

04:44:00
QuoteGracie states she would want to be a stay-at-home mom and be submissive to her husband but won't generalize to all women.

for me personally I would love to be a state home mom and be submissed to my husband but I'm not going to say that that's right for every woman

06:40:12
QuoteLucy states her body count is approximately 20 'something' and she doesn't keep a ledger.

one like 20 something probably I don't know I don't have a ledger I don't really count

06:53:45
ControversyLucy argues men and women are equally victims of war. Brian and others counter that Ukrainian men were conscripted and could not flee, while Ukrainian women could leave for Austria/Germany.

I mean sure I mean if you again if you're talking about like in the physical sense of being a victim yeah obviously

07:00:00
OtherLucy says she is 'over this conversation' and is asked to leave the show early by Brian (kicked).

I'm like we've... I'm over this conversation... fine you can leave I'll let you leave early then

Topics Discussed

00:00:16
Show Intro & Announcements

Brian delivers opening monologue, streaming announcements, Streamlabs/TTS info, merch, Discord, Patreon, debate university plug. Mentions recent debate with Cray Cray Desiree.

00:03:57
Guest Introductions

Guests introduce themselves: name, age, location, occupation. Courtney (34, receptionist/comedian), Lucy/Luchia (26, bartender/findom), Rihanna (27, poet/novelist), Anyia (18, Austrian student), Natalie (18, Orange County, Health Sciences), Gracie (18, SDSU Kinesiology), Kwan (30, waitress/PT), Andrew Wilson (debater).

00:08:08
Relationship Status Round

All guests share current relationship status, longest relationship, and time single. Lucy discusses 5-year on/off long-distance situationship with a man who had substance abuse issues. Courtney (in a 10-month relationship). Anyia (single 6 months). Natalie (no real relationship, 4-5 month talking stage). Gracie (single 8 months). Kwan (single 4 years, celibate 2.5 years).

00:11:21
Financial Domination Ethics Debate

Extended debate with Lucy on her findom practice. Andrew draws analogies between Lucy's findom and a man exploiting a low-IQ 21-year-old woman. Lucy defends the practice as consensual BDSM. Andrew argues that consent from a person likely suffering mental illness does not neutralize moral responsibility. Lucy acknowledges she finds the humiliation entertaining.

00:35:14
Lucy's Tweets & Misandry Discussion

Brian reads Lucy's tweets: 'in a shitty mood and want to take it out on a stupid man'; 'permanent damage to your bank account and balls'; 'men were created to provide'; 'life is always better when you have a male punching bag to abuse'; 'it's always the fugliest Normy man that assumes I'm a witch.' Panel reacts. Discussion of whether men are only good for providing.

00:37:42
Ukrainian Women & Dating in Wartime

Brian reads New York Times article about Ukrainian women struggling to date during the war. Panel mostly unsympathetic — argues men dying is worse than women lacking dates.

00:43:00
Dating as a Bisexual Woman (Courtney)

Courtney describes being bisexual. Discussion with Brian and Andrew about same-sex attraction, bisexual dating experiences, and STI testing.

00:47:41
Natalie's Weight Loss Journey

Natalie discusses losing ~70 lbs on a GLP-1 medication (Mounjaro, for PCOS/insulin resistance). Reports change in quality of male attention — previously attracted more sexualizing/low-quality men; now receives better treatment. Brian notes this as evidence that physical attractiveness correlates with treatment.

01:23:33
Self-Rating Round (Looks 1-10)

Guests rate their looks on a 1-10 scale (no 7s allowed). Courtney: 10 (later lowered to 8). Lucy: 10 (claims she'll be an '11' in 10 years). Rihanna: 8 (approximate — Brian confirmed). Natalie: 8 ('on a good day'). Gracie: 8. Andrew: 5 (self). Brian: implicitly 4 (jokingly).

01:24:30
Looks Rating Discussion & Female Self-Assessment

Extended multi-segment debate about whether women accurately self-rate. Andrew and Brian argue women systematically rate themselves higher than objective comparisons would suggest, and that this leads to delusion about dating prospects. Discussion of 'who is the prettiest girl in the room,' beauty standards, objectivity vs subjectivity, and the Fountain of Youth / aging argument (women using anti-wrinkle creams contradicts claims aging doesn't reduce attractiveness).

01:27:00
Po Raider Segment (World of Warcraft)

A Twitch streamer named 'Po' (French Canadian, ~36 years old, WoW player) raids the stream. Brian reviews Po's Instagram with the panel, shows his dirty keyboard video. Panel mostly declines to date Po. Brian discusses Po's WoW credentials.

01:58:00
Will You Be More Attractive in 10 Years?

Brian asks each guest if they'll be more physically attractive in 10, 20, 30 years. Lucy insists she will be, claims she'll peak at 30 ('30, flirty, and thriving'). Most other guests more realistic about aging. Andrew references Fountain of Youth folklore to argue everyone intuitively knows youth = beauty.

02:14:00
Mid Guy / Beautiful Girl Phenomenon

Panel unanimously agrees mid guys with beautiful girls is more common than handsome guys with mid girls. Brian argues the opposite: women's inflated self-ratings mean virtually every man looks mid by comparison. Andrew explains how women's vocal social pressure contributes to women feeling they've 'settled.'

03:07:30
Wage Gap & Dangerous Jobs Discussion

Discussion of the gender wage gap. Brian shows data: Asian women out-earn white men; controlled wage gap shrinks to ~$0.99 on the dollar. Andrew shows chart of top 20 most dangerous US jobs — all 90%+ male. Discussion of why men dominate dangerous work and whether sexism in hiring is immoral.

03:16:00
Bear vs. Man Forest Scenario

Panel asked: random man or random bear in the forest? All chose man. Courtney discusses wanting to spiritually connect with animals. Andrew and Brian note that statistically the random man is likely elderly/non-threatening whereas a bear will kill you. Brian shows a video of a bear casually walking past cars as counterpoint.

03:50:24
Courtney's Murder Date Story

Courtney recounts a scary first date where a man claiming to be in real estate drove her up a winding road to an unfinished house on a hill. She had a panic attack and demanded to leave. Later learned another woman had been taken to the same location. Despite the fear, she ended up hooking up with him that same night. He then called her 'Daddy' then switched to 'Mommy.'

04:23:26
Rihanna's Bowling Date Cheating Story

Rihanna (attributed to SPEAKER_06) describes being exclusively 'seeing' a man for ~2 months when he accidentally texted her 'I can be there at 10pm love' that was meant for another woman. She believed him when he said it was for his brother, continued seeing him a week, then ended it after he stood her up on another occasion.

04:34:00
Gracie's Cheating/Love Bombing Stories

Gracie shares two stories: (1) high school boyfriend asked if he could bring another girl to homecoming while she was at her sister's wedding; she created a fake Snapchat to confirm he told the girl he had no girlfriend; she confronted him publicly at his house. (2) second relationship was a man who love-bombed her, later revealed to be a virgin who had fabricated sexual stories about mutual acquaintances; Gracie only found out after they broke up through his friend.

04:43:00
Witchcraft & Spell-Casting Discussion

Lucy mentions having an altar and casting abundance spells. Andrew challenges the internal logic of witchcraft: if spells work, you must be affecting other people's wills; if they don't work, why do them. Discussion of white magic vs. dark magic and how manifesting abundance necessarily involves affecting others.

05:15:00
Female Submission in Relationships

Extended debate about whether women should be submissive to their husbands. Gracie says she would like a submissive role in marriage. Andrew argues that true submission means not requiring justification for decisions. Debate involves Biblical framework (Christ > husband > wife > children hierarchy). Natalie argues submission requires mutual respect. Brian shows a 'bowing' video as an example of submission. Most women say they'd laugh and do it once but not as a daily ritual.

05:20:15
Dating App Profile Reviews

Brian reviews the women's dating app profiles on screen. Lucy's Hinge has 'micro celebrity' bio. Courtney's has travel/writing goals and growth mindset prompts. Natalie's focuses on personality over looks.

06:40:12
Body Count Round

Going around the table: Lucy ~20 (no ledger); Courtney/Rihanna area: 9 mentioned; Anyia: declined; Natalie: 4; Gracie: declined sarcastically ('mine times a million times three'); Brian: 'mine's really nine' (or 'just one' — diarization unclear); Kwan: declined. Discussion of whether body count is a valid metric for partner selection.

06:41:00
Birth Control Discussion

Madison asks who is/has been on birth control. Natalie: was on it 4 days, stopped due to PCOS/hormonal side effects; has non-hormonal IUD. Courtney: was on it briefly in younger years, had hair loss and weight gain. Lucy: on it 5 years (17-22), got off because it disrupts hormones. Gracie: has an IUD (non-hormonal, for health). Anyia and Kwan: not on it.

06:43:00
H-Flation / Dating Standards Debate

Brian introduces the concept of 'h-flation': women's expectations of men have risen while their own value offered has decreased (more promiscuity, less domesticity). Gracie's point reframed: women have lower standards for what they accept behavior-wise but higher standards for what they demand from men.

06:53:45
Primary Victim of War Discussion

Madison asks who is the primary victim of war: men or women. Lucy says both equally. Kwan and others say men (they're fighting and dying). Brian uses World War II US example — men couldn't leave Ukraine, women could flee to Austria/Germany. Kwan correctly names all 3 branches of US government when asked.

07:00:00
Lucy & Rihanna Kicked / Early Departures

Lucy says she's 'over the conversation' and is kicked (~7:00:09). Anyia and Natalie/Gracie also leave early (family obligation, 2-hour drive home, class next morning). Brian and remaining guests wrap up.

Transcript

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02:48:49
Kwanpopulation we create the economy two girls doing this guys doing this that doesn't create population it doesn't this is like for straight people no offense to gug should I not be on here
02:49:01
Graciethen you still create fulfillment I feel like that's in a different way can I ask if you've ever had a span of time where you haven't been searching for a relationship or wanting something and like genuinely just sat with yourself
02:49:13
Lucy (Luchia)and figured out what you want yeah I have plenty of how long was that like 6 months to a year but I'm not seeking out a relationship right now again I'm
02:49:23
Lucy (Luchia)very happy by myself I have some men that I talk to here and there but I don't really Place much importance upon them unless they prove to me that they are important so if she met a guy that was the one and he said you need to take
02:49:35
Brian Atlasall that stuff down you're not doing that anymore would you stop doing it no okay wait do not you said you don't Place much importance on men I mean but
02:49:46
Brian Atlasremoving it from the sort of micro level in terms of romantic prospects here um you would at least admit that on a societal level and I'm
02:49:58
Lucy (Luchia)not even talking for reproduction that you very much need men I mean I guess if you want to get like scientific about it sure you need
02:50:09
Lucy (Luchia)men to reproduce no I excluded reproduction okay sorry I missed that um so I mean I think that men are valuable in the sense that they provide
02:50:21
Brian Atlasthat's about it what if they don't provide then they're not valuable in terms of money they're not valuable to me well I'm but I'm not saying on the micro level what do you mean by that saying
02:50:32
Brian Atlaslike large scale in societ so you're saying if a guy doesn't provide for me like money resources right now they might be providing in some sort of way that you're not aware
02:50:44
Brian Atlasof okay well okay so men are unilaterally responsible for every bit of comfort and security that you're currently ungratefully
02:50:55
Lucy (Luchia)enjoying then let me be ungrateful I don't know what you want me to say like I'm pretty firm in my beliefs okay
02:51:03
Brian Atlasso are we going to get into like the the if all men disappeared thing um oh we wouldn't last so essentially like everything that
02:51:17
Brian Atlasallows everything allows your life to be comfortable yeah men are unilaterally responsible for that yeah everything providing yeah well
02:51:29
Lucy (Luchia)I think when you say providing you're talking about like a sort of direct financial compensation to you not really I mean like providing you know a house to live in provide and I don't even mean
02:51:40
Lucy (Luchia)that in the financial aspect I think like building it um providing you know safe infrastructure etc etc okay I suppose at least you acknowledge
02:51:51
Lucy (Luchia)that let's do the next tweet you're not a man you're a hopeless pathetic gooner under the spell of dominant Bratz All brat summer is this directed at a
02:52:03
Lucy (Luchia)specific person or just men in general um that might have been directed towards a specific person I mean I agree with
02:52:12
Andrew Wilsonthat tweet though if like if you hire if you hire a damy mommy I think you're just a [ __ ] gooner and yeah I think I
02:52:22
Lucy (Luchia)think you're just a gooner at that point next the only time I will ever be mean to another woman is if she disrespects me or someone I love baseless baseless
02:52:33
Lucy (Luchia)hate only brings you Misfortune do you that goes for everyone yeah that goes for everyone um kind of yeah you hate men I mean but you want them to provide for you hold on let's
02:52:45
Lucy (Luchia)you rely on men for money but you hate them I don't rely on for a bartender that's literally your actual profession I'm no that is a side gig I'm a bartender I provide for myself the male
02:52:56
Lucy (Luchia)versus female clientele at the bar honestly men be drinking there's plenty of women that come that's not what I asked though is it more men than women drinking no I I would say it's
02:53:08
Brian Atlasequal I work in a restaurant industry a lot of men I mean yeah a lot of men do drink yeah that was a good call out I know yeah but you I I do want to dive more
02:53:18
Lucy (Luchia)into to this you said you hate men kind of yeah I mean I think it's um again situational I mean there's some men that I don't hate I would say um you're in my
02:53:29
Kwanworld with men you're guilty until proven innocent did something happen is that why you you have a certain what I was wondering something must have happen I
02:53:39
Kwanmean I don't sure something probably did happen some cuz there cuz a woman if if men in your life have always treated you right or treated you kind you wouldn't be thinking the way that you're thinking you wouldn't even have the job that you
02:53:51
Andrew Wilsonhave do you have any brothers I do have a brother I have an older brother yeah do you hate him no is his only worth to provide for you no he doesn't provide for me he's my brother I love him so he
02:54:02
Andrew Wilsonhas worth outside of providing for you yeah he's my brother I love him about your father same thing he's my father so he has value outside of it just every other men except your immediate family they're not valuable unless they're providing for you um they're not
02:54:16
Lucy (Luchia)valuable until they prove to me that they're valuable by providing for you um sure it could be providing for me yeah what are the other
02:54:23
Lucy (Luchia)ways they can prove it um no actually I think it's just providing right not not support I mean I don't really look to men for support I have plenty of women
02:54:34
Kwanin my life job okay they're supporting your you know if you if you need if you need to buy groceries they're supporting your habits with food and all I mean they're paying for everything they're supporting everything but they're not I
02:54:46
Kwanjust said that that's supplemental Inc I make but you you even said a couple minutes ago you wouldn't stop your profession even if a good man came into your life you need those simp ass men those weak ass dudes to pay your rent to
02:54:58
Lucy (Luchia)feed you to clothe you I do well you know what's funny is that I enjoy the community like I have friends in the community I enjoy the community but you don't respect those men but there's other there's other women in that
02:55:09
Kwancommunity that I really respect and eny trying to date those women no they're my friends your and your friends are you know as you get older no you're 26 I was going to say as you get older you you're going to see you're going to drop a lot
02:55:21
Kwanof your old friends but no my you're stuck I have plenty of friends that I've been friends with for like 10 plus years now and and they support what you're doing right now they don't see anything wrong with it they don't say maybe you
02:55:33
Kwanshouldn't those aren't real friends I'm sorry girl what you're doing is not something that you'd actually show to your parents hey hey Mom and Dad look at what I'm doing I made this guy punch himself in the balls my mom knows about this stuff I there's no way you're
02:55:45
Kwanactually happy with that I wouldn't be happy with that very happy no I've done music videos that I shouldn't have done I'm not happy with I mean let's be real we're not all happy with the things and the choices that we've done in our lives that I've stolen from Walmart in the
02:55:58
Graciepast you're not happy with what you're doing you know you're not there's no way I'm pretty happy there's no way you ever wake up like just tired of hating men like that must be exhausting no I wake
02:56:10
Natalieup yeah pretty fulfilled I have a question do you think that part of why you're single or have like a harder time dating men is because of what you do I never said I have a hard time you said it hasn't worked out or like it hasn't
02:56:22
Lucy (Luchia)been the one that you're looking for yeah because I haven't found you think it's because of the kind of men that you attract yeah I mean sure I might attract some shitty men as all of us probably have um but no I've attracted some
02:56:34
Lucy (Luchia)really great men like and it just hasn't worked out time place like there's timing is everything you know are they're okay with what you do yeah no they're not they would have wiped you if
02:56:47
Lucy (Luchia)they were okay with it I don't want to be wiped I'm not out here being like please choose me pick me like that's not like it's not trying to be a pick me though it's a natural inclination to want to
02:56:57
Lucy (Luchia)be but that like that's natural for you like I am I've always been independent like no I mean like biologically speaking Yeah biologically speaking I
02:57:07
Andrew Wilsondon't want children the pikm are smart because the the pikm go pick me and then the women who are bitter about it are like yeah pick them it's like so
02:57:19
Andrew Wilsonyeah it seems like it seems like it works out really well for the pikm cuz not only are they the ones who get picked cuz they're pikm but then the women who are always seething go yeah you need to pick them so it's like it
02:57:30
Lucy (Luchia)just works out double well for them I mean I'm not seething I'm pretty like content okay next tweet oh
02:57:41
Lucy (Luchia)yeah I love stealing a man's soul and his wallet heart I mean not sure if much explanation is needing on that one I mean that's like kind of regurgitated
02:57:52
Lucy (Luchia)from the other type of [ __ ] mhm next men fear me because I'm hotter funnier smarter and more interesting than them and their wives he he LOL
02:58:05
Lucy (Luchia)family I mean that's playing into the Kink honestly like I won't even lie like I'm not really into the the home wrecking stuff but I was playing into the Kink that day so you've never willingly knew that you're messing with
02:58:16
Lucy (Luchia)a guy that was married I mean a lot of these guys are probably married o that's not good okay I'm literally like I can't help that this is what they're into and
02:58:26
Lucy (Luchia)it's not really my like you're choosing I wouldn't even cross I said I can't help what they choose to do I can help what I choose to do and I this
02:58:36
Nataliemakes me happy it doesn't it makes you happy seeing people with wives feed into their F and getat cheating on their Liv I never said that and first of all they're makes me happy you're taking that out context being implied in what
02:58:49
Brian Atlasyou're saying I just said I wasn't into home wrecking wait you have something it looks like you were no it looked like you about to talk she said she said oh we got to give you a chance to talk here go ahead say it say
02:59:00
Anyiait even if it was already said you can say say it in German how about that yeah say into the mic um in German yeah say you're from
02:59:11
Brian AtlasAustria yeah yeah you don't speak German of course I speak German there you go say say it in German um can you say something yeah just say it in German
02:59:20
Courtney / Rihannaokay um wait I have to think or like Austrian wouldn't austri well there's they speak German I know they do but isn't Austrian its own language too I
02:59:31
Courtney / Rihannathink it's just a different dial German too like Germany I'm just asking I don't know trying to get
02:59:40
Anyiaculture um go ahead Inman
02:59:49
Anyia[Music]
03:00:00
Brian Atlasyeah I 100%
03:00:05
Brian Atlasagree boom um nice okay uh okay next tweet next tweet I think we did this one men are pun yeah we saw that one yeah we did that one did we yeah yeah no I think
03:00:18
Lucy (Luchia)it was something similar though it was probably something simar that one was way too meem Sim yeah next one then I really have only been in the mood
03:00:27
Lucy (Luchia)to play fortnite and make men cry lately okay I us doing the fortnite part cool glad you do you guys have something in common um
03:00:40
Lucy (Luchia)lot forite cars it's kind of sad when you think about the fact that the patriarchy literally indoctrinates women to hate other women for being women you look like a clown the patriarchy is that the
03:00:52
Brian Atlaslast tweet Nick I believe so okay just double check if it is uh so why don't we get into the patriarchy stuff and then we'll get into more actual dating stuff
03:01:02
Brian Atlasin a bit um it's related it is you know the patriarchy has a lot to do with dating sure so
03:01:13
Brian Atlasuh you I asked earlier if you consider yourself a feminist you said no I wouldn't label myself as that I'm sure I align with feminist values yeah right because you you oh my God I'm having like a stroke tonight or something I
03:01:26
Brian Atlasdon't know what's going on I'm out of it uh you use a lot of feminist coded language patriarchy for example uh so what is the patriarchy actually wait before I have
03:01:38
Brian Atlasyou answer that I do want to ask everybody at the T I'm all over the place tonight I don't know what I didn't sleep well tonight uh yesterday oh my what is going I didn't I'm over the place today so just going around the
03:01:50
Courtney / Rihannatable do you consider yourself a feminist uh I don't know I guess I feel like this is how I feel about it people who say
03:02:01
Courtney / Rihannathey're feminists and like want equality always talk about how women should be like Executives and CEOs and stuff but like they don't consider that there's
03:02:10
Courtney / Rihannalow jobs that like they should also have if we truly want equality like ain't no girl they flashing or titties in a park for equality you know what I'm saying like you got a lot of public flashers
03:02:23
Courtney / Rihannathat are dudes like I'm interested in seeing a woman you know take that stand so well I mean a ton of women do March in the nude for women's rights that's not what I'm saying though I'm saying
03:02:33
Courtney / Rihannalike public flasher public masturbator like where we at you know it's a joke it's a joke chill chill out it's a joke a little lost sure I guess I'm a
03:02:45
Courtney / Rihannafeminist I don't know thank you thank you and uh and the greater s killed make me laugh funny
03:02:52
Brian Atlaslady well I can't get a word in um so yes feminist sure yeah okay I think you said no rock and roll what
03:03:02
Brian Atlasabout you no no absolutely not oh oops did not mean to press that my no okay all right um H but you did
03:03:16
Lucy (Luchia)mention the patriarchy so while we go into that uh what is the patriarchy um the system of beliefs uh held by men who
03:03:24
Lucy (Luchia)are you know um overly Empower um to basically just set the their standard of what Society
03:03:35
Brian Atlasshould be mhm based off their beliefs of you know are they and are they in power because they're men I mean sure probably mhm
03:03:50
Brian Atlasand so what percentage of men are in power a lot I don't know that's a very specific question but I mean do you think it might have more to do with like
03:03:59
Lucy (Luchia)their class or status than the fact that they have a penis no I think it usually starts with them having a penis I think they will get ahead in life a lot easier
03:04:10
Kwanif they're men no no men have way Hard Men actually have to work to become something we are just we're just here like to be quite honest with you we could get into clubs without having to pay for [ __ ] we could
03:04:23
Kwanget bottle service without having to pay for anything can we get paid the same as men we do if we didn't that'd be that'd be an issue what are you talking about women do not at the end of the day if a woman cannot do the exact same amount of work as a man you can't expect that woman to get paid the same if a woman
03:04:37
Kwanconstruction worker and a man construction worker we're we're working right now together the man is carrying 100 pound of weight the woman could only carry 50 why the hell would that woman get paid the same why what about a man a man who's an ex ex and a woman who's an executive is she putting in the same
03:04:50
Kwanamount of work I wouldn't I mean let's be real here if that woman is an executive and let's say she gets pregnant should she deserve the same amount of money as the man that's actually still going to be at the work at work besides you're at the mercy of the firm's argument which is if it were
03:05:03
Andrew Wilsontrue that what you're saying is true that women who are not in these construction jobs and this type of thing but rather in kind of comfy AC related jobs like the men and they're getting
03:05:13
Andrew Wilsonpaid less than them then why wouldn't a man create an entire firm of women and then destroy their their competition because they're now paying their staff
03:05:24
Courtney / Rihannaway less yeah why not am I but am I wrong that women get paid less than men cuz I don't think I am I think that's pretty common knowledge if that is the case right so this is what I'm
03:05:35
Andrew Wilsonquestioning is the basis for this case right if it were the case that that were true which which it is if it is then why doesn't why don't why doesn't a woman even or a man just hire a firm of these
03:05:47
Courtney / Rihannawomen and pay them less than the firm that are hiring men because they would make a killing with an allw woman staff you you tell me I don't know I'm not a dude I'm not making that decision I if I
03:05:57
Courtney / Rihannahired a worm a firm full of women you bet I would pay them just as much as I'm like I'm not going to pay them less that's that seems yeah backwards but you would think
03:06:08
Andrew Wilsona man would right potentially I mean I don't know who's been paying us less I think it's women well then if it's men then why wouldn't a man just have a firm of all women and pay them less if they
03:06:20
Courtney / Rihannaget the same amount of work out of them I mean that's a question for a dude I can't answer that like see why couldn't you answer that why wouldn't a man have a firm of all women and pay them less I
03:06:31
Andrew Wilsondon't know I mean because then they would destroy the competition who's paying the men more right okay so I mean why don't we see that then if that's the cas because it's
03:06:42
Andrew Wilsonnot the case that men are making more in those positions than women are if it was the case that you could pay women less to do the same job then why wouldn't you just make a firm and pay all of them way
03:06:54
Brian Atlasless for the same job so so you're talking about the wage Gap right so why don't you tell us what your sense of the wage Gap is because there's these numbers that get thrown around women make 77 cents on the dollars compared to
03:07:06
Brian Atlasmen is that what you're talking about when you say the wage Gap so what is the number that you think it is it's it's around that like 80 80 cents on something like that and women of color make even less yeah can Nick we have
03:07:17
Brian Atlassomething on that too so two things Nick the pay scale website on the wage Gap uh and then there's also it's like you just do uh Google pay scale wage Gap and then also in the infographics folder there is
03:07:30
Brian Atlasthe uh hold on there's the wage folder and in it you you mentioned women you mentioned in uh women of
03:07:39
Brian Atlascolor so Nick you're going to pull up uh just it's in the wage Gap folder the Asian women one but it's not not number
03:07:50
Brian Atlastwo it's the one in the Middle with the more straight the straight lines do the Asian women first and we'll do Pesco okay so you mentioned women of
03:08:01
Brian Atlascolor actually Asian women out earn white men this is the median weekly earnings of full-time workers white men versus Asian women that's two minority categor higher paying jobs is what
03:08:13
Brian Atlasyou're saying no across the board am I doing a comparison to comparison so it's I'm my understanding of how this is the from the Bureau of
03:08:24
Brian AtlasLabor Statistics they just take all the earnings of men all the earns all excuse me all the earnings of white men compared to all the earnings of Asian women now these are all full-time workers mind you now the wage Gap that
03:08:35
Brian Atlasyou referenced earlier that encompasses all the money that men bring in and all the money women bring in so it could be making a comparison of a woman who has
03:08:47
Brian Atlashas a part-time job is Barista and part of that data is also comparing it to men who work on oil rigs who get Hazard pay and then where are you guys pulling your
03:08:58
Brian Atlasstuff from Nick you can pull up pay scale pay scale is a fairly uh it's actually pretty I think it's actually pretty left leaning uh it's a fairly
03:09:07
Brian Atlasreputable uh company can you scroll down Nick there should be like a circle chart scroll down okay okay can you scroll in on that
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Brian Atlasone you might even be able to right click and I don't know if it's an image the gender pay Gap in 2024 so the uncontrol gender pay gap which is what you're talking about women earn 83 cents for every $1 earned by men including
03:09:31
Brian Atlaslike parttime and all that well this is where you're not factoring you're not controlling for anything so it's all the money that women make all the money that men make okay but it's not factoring in for the fact that for example men all
03:09:43
Brian Atlasmen collectively work more hours than women they're more likely to work hour or excuse me overtime they're more likely to relocate they're more likely to work Hazard pay etc etc etc wait pull it back up real quick the control gender
03:09:55
Brian Atlaspay Gap so this measures median salary for men and women with the same job and qualifications all men and all women all men well it's same job same qualifications okay so if you actually
03:10:08
Brian Atlascontrol for each of these things and you start removing these variances like hours worked different job field different choices it shrinks down to 9
03:10:18
Andrew Wilson999 it's still Bel right but it's I mean it's still um you make a penny less than a man man that's rough but let me well let
03:10:30
Andrew Wilsonme ask you this just out of curiosity you always wondered this question even if it were true that men who owned firms of some type or another did hire women
03:10:41
Andrew Wilsonat a lesser wage than hired men who the [ __ ] cares why is that even a problem if they're just like I just don't want these [ __ ] women to make as much as the men that I hire why is that actually
03:10:53
Courtney / Rihannaa problem I mean it's a moral problem what is the moral problem I mean that dude's like a piece of [ __ ] why why would it make him a piece of [ __ ] because he doesn't value women as much as he values
03:11:05
Courtney / Rihannamen he doesn't value their labor as much but but if it's the same labor even if it's the same labor he just doesn't value it as much well then I think that says something about whe How He values women yeah but how would it actually be
03:11:17
Andrew Wilsonmoral like why would it be immoral for instance if you owned you own business you said right why would it actually be immoral for you to be like I just don't want to [ __ ] hire men at all I just don't want to even [ __ ] hire them because I
03:11:29
Courtney / Rihannadon't like their faces why would that even be actually immoral or problematic I think it's problematic because you're not considering different perspectives that can contribute to the work that you're doing but it's yours why do you
03:11:41
Andrew Wilsonneed to consider other perspectives like [ __ ] the other perspect it's your [ __ ] right like if you found a business right and you built it up for 10 years and you're going to start hiring people and you're like I don't [ __ ] like women I
03:11:54
Andrew Wilsonjust don't like them I don't like them so I'm not going to hire any I was thinking about this and I was trying to figure out what the what's actually a moral about
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Courtney / Rihannathat I mean I just I guess I just think it speaks to like the the person's values essentially like that they
03:12:13
TTS/Donationsdon't John Smith donated $200 thank you man the reason these feminists and angry women are so upset is because they don't have a man to tell them to calm down and
03:12:24
Andrew Wilsonrelax are you going to do it John Smith calm down calm down relax my God relax I think I just came what the fck my
03:12:34
Andrew WilsonGod anyway what the yeah so I was I just wondered if you could elucidate me why you would actually think that that was immoral I get that you you would like it you're
03:12:45
Courtney / Rihannasaying you're saying I don't like women and I don't want like that's such a like I don't think that that's like good moral standards to just like it kind of relates to all the [ __ ] that we've been talking about with her and how she wants
03:12:57
Andrew Wilsonto hurt men and [ __ ] right like it doesn't feel so far away from that yeah I mean maybe not but let us assume that a man goes you know a woman's labor right is worth as much as a man's in in so far as the labor she actually does
03:13:10
Andrew Wilsonand the labor he's actually doing it's about the same but they just caused so many [ __ ] problems right they cause all sorts of of issues they complain a lot they're always at the HR department because they got too flirts with a guy
03:13:22
Andrew Wilsonat work they're just a pain in the [ __ ] ass to deal with they're just a pain in the ass and if I have an all male Workforce I have to deal with any of those [ __ ] problems but you have to that seems like it's a real Justified and reasoned reason are you saying that
03:13:36
Courtney / Rihannaall women are like that and that women are just causing problems in the workplace because I don't I'm assume most women aren't like that okay but I'm going to assume that there's enough of
03:13:46
Andrew Wilsonthem that are that you're still gambling and if it's even 20% I can understand the rale and could not say it was immoral for a person to be like yeah I don't want to [ __ ] deal with all that
03:13:58
Courtney / RihannaI literally just don't want to deal with it to not hire them yeah to just not hire them just I have my own business if I I mean I don't plan on hiring anybody I like just working for myself but I could see that if someone was like oh I just don't want to hire them I don't
03:14:11
Courtney / Rihannathink that that's an issue but if it was like oh I'm going to hire them they're doing the same work but I'm paying them less because think that they're doing more complaints like you know I don't know I think
03:14:21
Courtney / Rihannathat um sorry I lost my turn of thought but I just don't think that like all women are just inherently like going to cause problems or like
03:14:31
Andrew Wilsonthese completely 100% agree but let's say it's 10% which is a lot that's a lot so can you just fire fire the one is that's like one in 10 women that you hire well but the problem's already
03:14:42
Andrew Wilsoncaused right the pro the issue is already there and you're like ah you know know in this Factory right I can have a hot dog put or a guy put the [ __ ] hot dogs on the little pallet and then it goes up or I can have a
03:14:54
Andrew Wilsonwoman do it they do it about as fast they do about as much work but I never have to deal with the you think there's a little bit of inherent sexism though in that like I think there's like a
03:15:05
Andrew Wilsonlittle bit of enhanced sex my my question is not whether or not it's sexist my question would be who cares if it is why would that be a problem to be sexist under those circumstances I just
03:15:17
Andrew Wilsondon't in other words sexism itself I'm not sure is immoral in and of itself if it's indicating a behavior that you're trying to avoid so for instance wouldn't
03:15:26
Andrew Wilsonit be sexist well I'll explain wouldn't it be sexist for instance for you at night to walk across the street if a group of men are moving towards you oh my
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Courtney / RihannaGod uh yes cuz I would not walk I would not change what I was doing if I saw a group of women if I saw a group of men I would be a million times more likely that I'm going
03:15:49
Courtney / RihannaH I think it just I mean are you sexist well in for my own protection in that case I would say yes for your own protection in that case yes I will be
03:16:01
Andrew Wilsonsexist and aren't we saying the exact same thing although mine could be life or death yours is not a life or death are are different wait or or right it could be the life and death of your your
03:16:12
Andrew Wilsonbusiness and yeah that could that's basically the to the financial ru
03:16:22
Andrew Wilsonfrom ASP but thep the same I'm sexist towards this group because Mo even though most people in this group aren't going to do this enough of them will right that I feel like crossing the
03:16:34
Andrew Wilsonstreet probably a good idea and do you think men would blame you for doing that no [ __ ] no they're like get go across the street we know that there's predatory men [ __ ] yeah right so why would men get blamed for not wanting to
03:16:46
Nataliehire women prot that's my thing that's why I'm like is it immoral I'm I have a question you said men do the like you're saying that what do you say 10 or 5% of
03:16:57
Andrew Wilsonwomen cause problems in the workplace RIS we're just assuming it for like the sake of the for the sake of the hypothetical would you not say the same thing about men no really yes really yeah if you about the men that can't
03:17:08
Andrew Wilsonkeep it in their pants how working but are hang on but are you going to have that problem if you have an all Workforce but you're saying hang on hang on but what if it's an allw woman Workforce yeah but if it's an allw
03:17:21
Andrew Wilsonwoman Workforce then you have caddy backstabbing [ __ ] all all sorts of other issues you don't have oh my dick is bigger than yours like I sell more than you then let's then let's test this okay do you think that uh at all female
03:17:34
Andrew Wilsonprivate schools versus all male private schools there's more complaints from the students who are men or more complaints from the students who are girls I just if you had to guess probably probably
03:17:46
Andrew Wilsonthe girls I'm W hang on wait wait why do you think that I think that girls are also just more vocal about it though their complaints then they're going to cause more so so hang on EXA wait a second so
03:17:58
Andrew Wilsonif I have a Workforce of men who have complaints but shut their [ __ ] mouths about them versus a Workforce of women who have complaints and don't which one do I want to hire but I think that all women Workforce and all men Workforce have equal amount of problems they're
03:18:10
Andrew Wilsonjust different yeah no if you're saying that one of them's complaining constantly and the other one's not complaining constantly that's already a huge problem necessarily complain in the workforce I
03:18:23
Nataliethink there's some level of professionality professionality that women have when it comes to working that they're just not going to be sitting there complaining 247 really well let me ask you a question a competent woman yes let me ask you a question like and give
03:18:34
Andrew Wilsonme your honest answer okay let's assume you had two different offices that you could choose from one office employed
03:18:43
Andrew Wilson300 women the other office employed 29 99 men and you okay 299 men plus you which office would you prefer to work
03:18:56
Natalieout which one's better or you saying they're equal they're equal they give you the same pay right I just I don't think it really matters I mean at that point it would be which one I would be happier with which
03:19:08
Andrew Wilsonone do you think You' be happier with depends on who the boss is how like the boss is a man in one in both cases no and the other one it's a woman I don't really think there's a difference no you wouldn't care I
03:19:21
Nataliewouldn't care all there would be no preference I mean maybe if like the male one cuz I'd feel like oh you know I'm kind of special but like that's it cuz I'm the only woman that was hired like I'm you know but like and you don't think that that would have anything to do with the fact that there would be way
03:19:33
Andrew Wilsonless caddy [ __ ] backstabbing bitching whining complaining telling you all about how such and such is a mean [ __ ] the second she walks out of the room to you and you have drama clicks all over the place I don't disagree with
03:19:45
Graciethat what I'm saying those men have equal issues just in different way what happens one woman a bunch of men like I would feel way more comfortable with a bunch of women I would feel more
03:19:56
Andrew Wilsonconnected to them I would be more motivated here's what happens on a construction site right or something like this um they're all [ __ ] exhausted from working their asses off and they don't have time to whine and
03:20:07
Andrew Wilsoncomplain and click and and do all that [ __ ] they just don't and inside of office spaces sales spaces things like that yeah there's a bit of that for men but to say it's anywhere on par like it is for women you talk to women who are
03:20:19
Andrew Wilsonin these sales jobs and they're like oh my God these [ __ ] [ __ ] are awful they're backstabbers they're connivers they click up if you're not part of the click they you know they're just horrible
03:20:31
Natalieinsufferable I think that's like putting a very like big stigma on woman I don't think especially in it is putting a very big stigma on but the question is whether or not the stigma is deserved I think no I think especially that's like
03:20:43
Natalieone thing that I said like I would say I disagree with the podcast that the women that are elected to usually be on this podcast are somewhat kind of like that and represent a different kind of like the more problematic side of woman which I'm agree a large majority of women can
03:20:56
Nataliebe problem you ever talked to a hair stylist before I mean yes have they ever told you what it's like to work in the beauty industry I was I got my hair done three days ago she was talking to me about how all the sororities girls come in and they talk
03:21:09
Andrew Wilson[ __ ] all on each other and she just hears it all day all day every day I'm not disagreeing with that at all but that's the thing is that's why the stigma exists the stigma the stigma exists specifically because of the
03:21:21
Andrew Wilsonapplication so what I'm saying to you is if she's willing to cross the street based on her sexism there's this low percentage of men who are actually predatory in fact almost every man you walk by in the middle of the night is
03:21:34
Andrew Wilsonnot going to do anything to you do I blame you for crossing the street though not really not really cuz I can understand I can rationalize in my brain why a woman would want to do that and I'd recommend my wife to do it she's
03:21:46
Andrew Wilsonwalking down the street in the middle of the night under some circumstance cross the street totally rational yes I have a wife totally rational to me okay but it's equally rational to me
03:21:57
Andrew Wilsonthen to say okay if I had a firm right and there was some inbuilt sexism based around the stigma would it be rational for me to only want to hire men I think it's
03:22:07
Andrew Wilsonrational to say I only would want to hire men I don't think it's immoral that a person would move down that um that thought pattern of I'll only hire ex
03:22:19
Nataliebased on uh social stigmas which can cause serious problems to their business for their own protection that's all I'm saying yeah I don't even disagree that the sigma is not partially deserved it is I'll be the first to admit it like
03:22:32
Natalieall of us have gone through high school you know what girls are like there it's not like it's partially deserved but I think it's it's that mean girl [ __ ] right I mean I don't disagree with it but I also think that there's a good majority of girls that aren't
03:22:44
Lucy (Luchia)like that there's plenty of men with the me girl mentality too I mean I work with I would say equally men and women and usually it's the men that are starting the problems and all the women that I work with have acknowledged this like
03:22:56
Lucy (Luchia)we're all really really cool we have our problems every now and then um but I would say like mostly it's the men that are causing problems and they are just equally as caddy and maybe you're basing
03:23:08
Lucy (Luchia)this off a standard of men pre-social media perhaps but I think with the way that men are socialized today a lot of them are mean girls I think it's also a
03:23:19
Nataliebig thing is that men probably have less problems with men than women have with women if you get what I mean totally agree like men so hang on so that would be a justification for stigma though uh yeah I don't disagree but also in a
03:23:33
Andrew Wilsonworkplace where it's men and women I feel like there'd be less problems than having a full male staff or a full woman staff well then answer me this do you think that there's less problems socially when if you send SK kids to an all boy school and an all girl school
03:23:46
Nataliethan than if you put them in a co-ed school I think co-ed schools have less problems they don't nonco schools have L problem that's also because they're private schools more funding and more the public schools you have private coed schools
03:23:58
Gracieyou can compare it to it would be different kinds of different kinds of problems okay let's go through what you think these different problems would be I think women tend to yes have more caddy drama and play more of a mental
03:24:09
Andrew Wilsongame with each other but men are more likely to have physical altercations over something stupid exactly women like women like it I think that's I like to
03:24:20
Andrew Wilsonbe they like the drama making every point for me right now I totally agree so so men enjoy being violent with each other totally agree can't could agree more women like being conniving catty
03:24:32
Lucy (Luchia)[ __ ] with each other could agree more I think [ __ ] is a little bit of I'm not sure hold on I want make a point What's the difference between me being violent towards a man but men being violent towards each other and
03:24:44
Lucy (Luchia)making it okay bad okay fair enough but why is that like you're saying like men just like this [ __ ] like and you're justifying
03:24:54
Andrew Wilsonviolent by consent yeah there's a reason think like the UFC and as long as VI by consent it's all good with you right true yeah yeah you can do whatever you want as long as it's by consent so
03:25:05
Andrew Wilsonanyway but the point is though is that if I'm looking at the standard of understanding why you would want to cross the street you'd have that innate sexism which is put in you that this
03:25:16
Andrew Wilsonperson person potentially could harm me greatly then all I'm saying is that I understand why it is that men would have the same exact uh feeling the opposite this woman could destroy me I understand
03:25:27
Andrew Wilsonwhy men would adopt the I don't go around women without another man or another woman present who I trust or I don't go to private lunches with women unless there's a woman with me or I don't go around women without my wife I
03:25:40
Courtney / Rihannatotally understand that it makes a lot of sense to me it does make more sense to me now I I mean I guess was not something I had ever thought of but he having this conversation it definitely like like there's things connecting my brain I'm like oo that is really
03:25:53
Andrew Wilsoninteresting and like not a perspective I've thought of before I think it makes yeah once you absent the propaganda and you just have the conversation right it's interesting how yeah yeah it is
03:26:03
Courtney / Rihannainteresting um I think as a woman who has broken out of that like caddy like cuz I was I was I would say like as in high school I would like say that I was one of those Mean Girls I was trying to
03:26:15
Courtney / Rihannaget to the top of this food chain whatever and since growing out of that leaving people super highly competitive too right oh so competitive guys I don't think I won but um like I went through a lot of growth especially in my early 20s
03:26:27
Courtney / RihannaI like moved away you know and it's like I went on a very like spiritual path of growth out in nature and like so hearing that like it it is disheartening only the fact that like I don't believe that in a workplace I would cause problems
03:26:39
Courtney / Rihannathat like let's say that would be like my dream job but like someone is only going to be hiring man I'd be like no way but like I promis I'm not going to like I wish that I would still be able to get that chance to prove myself you know that's the only thing but I do
03:26:52
Andrew Wilsonunderstand what you're saying I understand but that would be the same way that the men walking down the street who were just walking over to talk to you he's like I just want to prove to I just want to prove to you that I'm not a horrible Predator yeah you got your mace ready everything else right I but I was
03:27:05
Andrew Wilsonjust trying to Pro and you would rather go I could let you prove it and take the risk or I can cross the really interesting I'm I'm like that's really interesting that was actually it was fantastic
03:27:17
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03:30:06
Brian Atlasbreaker I think a good transition Point here based off of the previous conversation uh here's the scenario would you rather be so here's the
03:30:17
Brian Atlasscenario right would you rather be alone in a forest with a random man random bear but so you get randomly dropped you
03:30:27
Brian Atlasget randomly dropped so spawn randomly spawned spawn good word you get randomly spawned in the forest and it's either a totally random air or totally random man so the man why
03:30:38
Brian Atlasis he in the forest not really part of the equation why is he alone not part of the equation just random man plucked from the United States only the us only the US yes only the US
03:30:50
Nataliewhat was the other thing in the forest a bear so you pick between a a random would be cute or random bear so go ahead what's your question how big the mic how
03:30:59
Brian Atlasbig is this Bear yeah random it could be like Ault no no hold on it's going to be an adult man or adult bear but it could be
03:31:09
Brian Atlasa black bear it could be a a grizzly bear brown bear Polar Polar Bear C sure it can even be a polar bear there uh so starting with you uh which do you pick
03:31:20
Courtney / Rihannaman okay I'll probably go with a man yeah as someone who goes out on solo trips out in nature I feel that I could
03:31:28
Courtney / Rihannasee both um scenarios M you guys all know Pocahontas okay I and brother bear no I I really would want to try and connect with the bear though on a soul
03:31:40
Courtney / Rihannalevel I really would would do that that you guys are giving me the looks like I'm like the craziest person in life um um I do you actually I've heard of this before let me see if I get get it
03:31:51
Andrew Wilsoncorrect okay you can picture things in your head yeah and then tell that to the animal like uh okay no like a dolphin
03:32:00
Courtney / Rihannafor instance perhaps like telepathy you mean mhm more like just obviously you can't communicate with words you know what I'm saying but like being in the same like it's like we all talk to our
03:32:12
Courtney / Rihannadogs you know what I'm saying like my dog know can understand things not not every word that I'm saying but like me and my dog have a connection I'm saying I would like for humans to like rebuild
03:32:24
Courtney / Rihannaour connection with these other animals that like that would be my reasoning for being like that could be interesting but like in terms of survival I would pick a male but hang on cuz you brought up something else interesting you got to
03:32:34
Andrew Wilsonask about yeah do you feel like you can have such a connection with an animal that the animal can actually in a way speak to you like Bond yeah
03:32:46
Andrew WilsonI believe so I believe I have a bond with my dog it's never been with words or her barking you know what I'm saying but like I believe that there is a love between do you think that through this type of of medium of communication that
03:32:58
Courtney / Rihannayou can create consent between animals and humans like consent as in like please
03:33:05
Courtney / Rihannadon't kill me bear like that sure um no only because let's say a cub comes along or like something like as soon as their instincts kick in that animal
03:33:18
Courtney / Rihannacould then obviously turn and be like I'm protecting my cuup and kill me you know what I'm saying even if you've built up this I just like being around animals I want to witness them more in nature more that would be more so you
03:33:28
Courtney / Rihannacan't actually talk to them telepathy through telepathy or can you no I think you can connect though soul to soul I think I could look in an animals eyes
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Andrew Wilsonand like feel their Essence I believe that yeah I mean I'm even willing to grant that but I'm just not sure means exactly you know what I mean yeah like even even with trees though like trees
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Courtney / Rihannaare alive you know what I'm saying you could be touched by by a tree or a field and like you can get an essence or like a I the only word I can think of is like a Vibe you know what I'm saying like just like wow or like be touched by
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Andrew Wilsonsomething I understand you can partake in the essence of something I get I get what that means that's that's a religious deeply religiously rooted concept yeah I understand that yes it's
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Andrew Wilsonwhat that means exactly like what can you do with that right well I think [Music]
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Courtney / Rihannaum like can you make the tree grow different ways no of no I think it can transform your own like your own self awareness though or your awareness of like your Consciousness next to other
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Courtney / RihannaConsciousness you know what I'm saying or like just um like I've had deeply profound experiences in nature just in the desert I'm by myself I'm sitting on a rock and I'm like becoming acutely
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Andrew Wilsonaware of were you doing drugs the truth not not no no psychedelics ever you never done any psychedelics I have okay I knew you did I when yeah um I did did
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Courtney / Rihannayou see the DMT L's no I've never done DMT I did shrooms once when I was 18 and that was okay it was like a crazy yeah that was a whole thing um and then like I micro doed on shrooms a few times but
03:35:08
Brian Atlaslike these experiences were all my solo trips out in nature Fromm sorry I do have to interrupt I do have to interrupt let's get back to the question it's my fault it's okay it's okay yeah sorry
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Courtney / Rihannawhat we what was the wait bear or man oh that question yeah um so long ago um for survival I'm going to go with a
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Anyiamale human yeah oh um I would say men yeah
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Anyiaokay uh because I love to talk to random people and it would never would be boring when it was with a stranger mhm
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NatalieI'm going go man too same man hm all man nobody said bear cuz like even a man you can defend yourself against a man to some extent you're not defending yourself against a I was actually
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Andrew Wilsonthinking about that this very thing you just said because we have so many people answer man but the the the question is random man random Bear right but if you had a random man actually the chances
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Andrew Wilsonthat you would get a man who really physically fit and in the prime of their life would not be very high very slim yeah it would not actually be very high and the chances that you would get a bear that can kill you is way higher way
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Andrew Wilsonhigher I was also thinking from the means like I'm taller than most men like isn't the chances that you would get randomly selected since you have an
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Andrew Wilsonaging population which far outnumbers now the non-aging population that the chance that you would get a man Prime of his life physically fit and wanted to do
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Andrew Wilsonyou harm for no particularly good reason is super low like that would be super low whereas with the bear the chances that if you were in a confined space with a bear confin even a forest your
03:37:00
Brian Atlasdinner yeah you could be dinner y maybe you could Vibe with the I do Andrew I do want to show you the video that we can perhaps pull up another time and you can tell me if you think this would be a good argument to make for future shows so uh Nick just play the video really
03:37:13
Brian Atlasquick and I'll give the context for why I would show this specific video so just this segment here when there's people like slowly moving in the car and there's just like a bear kind of
03:37:23
Brian Atlaschilling um and then that's that's pretty much the extent of the segment and like I I think the way I would frame the argument I know nobody here picked
03:37:32
Brian Atlasbear would be well if it was just a random man in place of that bear would you be more likely to exit the
03:37:41
Brian Atlasvehicle if it's that bear who's just strolling along in that car ride or just if it's a random man you're absolutely way more likely to
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Andrew Wilsonget out of the car if it was a man then that bear absolutely like I'm thinking in that like that specific are you're in car you should just put up a get what you should do if you want it to really hit home get another video of just a
03:38:06
Brian Atlasrandom guy walking across the street in the same scenario be like which one would you get out of the car for but I I would think most people if they're in a car if they're in a car they would feel
03:38:17
Brian Atlasfar less safe exiting the vehicle in that scenario if it's just like stack of cars whatever and the bear just walks by I don't know I thought that that
03:38:30
Brian Atlasmight be a good video for future episodes but let me read a couple chats here we have uh let me start with the streamlabs ones we have I think we should have the Austrian
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Brian Atlasgirl read um and your name's Ena right yes are you named after the band Ena or is that no she's a musical
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Brian Atlasartist I think it's one yes you're named after her yeah what's her uh sa away is that one of the songs what's the other one that's such song it's a terrible
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Brian Atlassong Don't hey don't dog on Andrew you don't like her there's Caribbean Blue what's her other Banger hold on Anya that's been in like every grocery store
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Brian Atlasin the '90s forever only oh there only time oroko flow wait yeah only time orinoko flow Caribbean Blue anyways okay so we're going to have you read you get
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Brian Atlasto read right you're here to learn English you we're going to practice your English reading so you read that go ahead the delusion you got it you got it you got
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Brian Atlasit away oh yeah I can't I can barely read it too you got to do it into the m
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Anyiaspeaking to the mic sorry the delusional redhead is uh is only a dum because man allow you to be a dumb you're I don't
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Anyiaknow how I don't know why you got it this is obviously very it's Advanced English over estimates their position
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Anyiaand value everything you know was built by men well done that was really good that was good yeah EF class are paying off all right we have feel like for two
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Anyiadays oh okay we thank you Gillies and then we have SS please no World War II references please okay um go ahead um my life is
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Anyiasettled married s employed so I am not in the pool of marketing myself for gold diggers guessing you are a single not late to get in shape morally and
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Anyiaphysically wait damn and then the last part you missed it yeah because oh there's the last part like this part this Spar what
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Brian AtlasSP no it's okay you're doing good I'm wondering if there's a way we can wait Nick so you can actually just quickly resize it I think and then you would just control Z it so just like shift and
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Brian Atlasthen go into the corner no shift hold shift and then put the mouse over the
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Brian AtlasCorner Red Dot this one yep and then just hold make it bigger that might help maybe I'm not
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Brian Atlassure though we'll see um you might have to okay God damn that was a t are you sure you're holding shift sir uh maybe control shift try control
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Andrew Wilsonshift scuffed does you want to resize that are you talking to George MH isn't
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Brian Atlasit shift to like make it so it doesn't change the uh I'm not doing that just you just try it just try it
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Brian Atlasoh so shift bro that's weird normally shift will okay uh all right we're going to have you read this one have your OBS guy have my OBS guy
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Anyiaum I will say ever things I don't agree with because it may make me money regardless of the damage it does on others a
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Brian Atlas[ __ ] you changed it in the wrong one okay can you put it just contrl z contrl z okay now do it okay go ahead one more time sorry guys we're trying to get her
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Brian Atlassome like English in we're we've teamed up with with ef to is a sponsor te yeah teamed up to with ef to help people learn English
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Anyiaokay all right let's try now because I have no values and money is my only God because I have no
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Brian Atlasvirt thank you Giovani C appreciate it read by the uh the uh wonderful Ena okay we have Robert Tanner here coming in in
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Anyiajust a sec thank you Giovani appreciate it go ahead Andrew can you please back to about objective TR truth this is a
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Anyiahuge coment and heart of much of these arguments subjective reality we all perish look at the N how do we say that Nazis wa you don't know this yeah I know
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Brian AtlasI don't know how to speak correctly who felt their truth was correct you can switch it back Nick um was awful was uh that was
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Andrew Wilsoncrazy Andrew um well you can but I'm not trying to make the streams uh philosophy heavy so we're just trying to get into the ideas around dating and this type of thing sometimes a bit of philosophy
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Andrew Wilsoncomes up but I don't think you want to get into objective versus subjective Morality In a dating podcast probably not the best idea save them for debates in any case Robert Tanner thank you for the message and uh thank you for
03:44:05
Brian Atlasyour uh I think you sent in sent in previously some gifted uh memberships on YouTube so thank you man we have Jess white here are you able to see this one okay yeah it's okay someone get red a
03:44:16
Anyiapineapple to sit on she needs a break from her head being stuffed so far up there a three at most with an ugly attitude she will be alone with her cats
03:44:27
Lucy (Luchia)like the rest only time will tell do you have cats I do I have two hey I have two
03:44:39
Brian Atlascats wait Nick why did you play that bro but also Wife and Kids um okay all right Jess white shout out
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Brian Atlasto Australia she is from Australia Andrew just saying uhhuh sure okay just thought I'd let you know who is Jess the one okay you have any Australian
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Brian Atlascurrency any any any Australian currency on you I don't know what we're talking about uh okay let's get into let's I'm going to try to get through all
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Brian Atlasthee we have um what's that Nick dating apps oh dating app we have got people's dating apps we'll get to those guys so we have some dating apps from the girls that