Toxic Man Hating 10/10 "Goddess" EXPLOITS Men? (KICKED) A Wilson REKT Misandrist! | Dating Talk #184

Date: 2024-08-05
Duration: 7h 07m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Lucy (Luchia)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Kwan(guest)
SPEAKER_04Natalie(guest)
SPEAKER_05Anyia(guest)
SPEAKER_06Courtney / Rihanna(guest)
SPEAKER_07TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_08Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_13Madison (Maddie)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Gracie(guest)

Key Moments

00:11:21
QuoteLucy describes her findom practice: explains financial domination as a BDSM kink where men get aroused by giving money, and she enjoys watching them hurt themselves and laughing at their humiliation.

I basically play into you know certain Kinks for men and they give me money for it... sometimes it's just the Kink of financial domination which they get off to giving

00:20:00
ControversyAndrew presents the moral equivalence argument: if Lucy's findom of a man teetering on bankruptcy is ethical because he consents, then a 55-year-old man having sex with a low-IQ but legally adult 21-year-old is equally ethical. Lucy initially rejects the comparison but eventually acknowledges the parallel.

imagine this going back the other direction... he's 50 and she's a little bit low IQ but she's a consenting adult... doesn't sound reasonable to you

00:22:47
QuoteLucy reads her own tweet on the show: 'I'm in a shitty mood and I want to take it out on a stupid man. I'm in the mood to cause permanent damage to your bank account and your balls.'

I'm in a shitty mood and I want to take it out on a stupid man I'm in the mood to cause permanent damage to your bank account and your balls

00:25:23
QuoteBrian asks Lucy: if she will be the most beautiful woman on Earth at 56, why would she not take a magic wand that advances her aging 5 years to prove it?

if you think you'll be when do you think the peak is... so if I uh could wave a magic wand that only Advanced your outward physical appearance

00:37:08
QuoteLucy states that men were created only to provide.

men were created to provide that's literally it doesn't matter if you consider yourself a fin sub or not I stand by that

00:47:41
QuoteNatalie explains that losing ~70 lbs on a GLP-1 medication changed the quality of male attention she receives — previously more sexual and less respectful, now higher quality.

before I feel like a lot of it was a lot of male attention that I would get was more from like kind of like in a gross like way... now the like quality of guys is a lot better

01:56:00
ControversyAndrew uses the Fountain of Youth argument to counter Lucy's claim she'll be more attractive at 56: if aging reduces attractiveness (evidenced by anti-wrinkle creams, Botox, etc.), and no one seeks age-advancement, then Lucy's assertion she'll be equally/more attractive at 56 is internally inconsistent.

I found hundreds of Legends about a fountain where you go in or something similar to this where it reverses the aging process couldn't find any about a fountain of age... youth is beauty

03:50:24
QuoteCourtney recounts 'murder date' story — man drove her up a winding road to an unfinished house, she had a panic attack, ended up hooking up with him anyway, and he called her 'Daddy' then 'Mommy'.

I look back and the door is like about to close and I had like a panic attack... this door closes like this is the last time I'm ever going to see a door... we did hook up later so that's on me

04:34:00
QuoteGracie describes creating a fake Snapchat account to confirm her high school boyfriend was cheating on her while she was at her sister's wedding.

I made a fake Snapchat account and I added him and of course he added me back immediately and I started snapping him like black screens... maybe like four snaps in I'm like oh do you have a girlfriend by the way

04:44:00
QuoteGracie states she would want to be a stay-at-home mom and be submissive to her husband but won't generalize to all women.

for me personally I would love to be a state home mom and be submissed to my husband but I'm not going to say that that's right for every woman

06:40:12
QuoteLucy states her body count is approximately 20 'something' and she doesn't keep a ledger.

one like 20 something probably I don't know I don't have a ledger I don't really count

06:53:45
ControversyLucy argues men and women are equally victims of war. Brian and others counter that Ukrainian men were conscripted and could not flee, while Ukrainian women could leave for Austria/Germany.

I mean sure I mean if you again if you're talking about like in the physical sense of being a victim yeah obviously

07:00:00
OtherLucy says she is 'over this conversation' and is asked to leave the show early by Brian (kicked).

I'm like we've... I'm over this conversation... fine you can leave I'll let you leave early then

Topics Discussed

00:00:16
Show Intro & Announcements

Brian delivers opening monologue, streaming announcements, Streamlabs/TTS info, merch, Discord, Patreon, debate university plug. Mentions recent debate with Cray Cray Desiree.

00:03:57
Guest Introductions

Guests introduce themselves: name, age, location, occupation. Courtney (34, receptionist/comedian), Lucy/Luchia (26, bartender/findom), Rihanna (27, poet/novelist), Anyia (18, Austrian student), Natalie (18, Orange County, Health Sciences), Gracie (18, SDSU Kinesiology), Kwan (30, waitress/PT), Andrew Wilson (debater).

00:08:08
Relationship Status Round

All guests share current relationship status, longest relationship, and time single. Lucy discusses 5-year on/off long-distance situationship with a man who had substance abuse issues. Courtney (in a 10-month relationship). Anyia (single 6 months). Natalie (no real relationship, 4-5 month talking stage). Gracie (single 8 months). Kwan (single 4 years, celibate 2.5 years).

00:11:21
Financial Domination Ethics Debate

Extended debate with Lucy on her findom practice. Andrew draws analogies between Lucy's findom and a man exploiting a low-IQ 21-year-old woman. Lucy defends the practice as consensual BDSM. Andrew argues that consent from a person likely suffering mental illness does not neutralize moral responsibility. Lucy acknowledges she finds the humiliation entertaining.

00:35:14
Lucy's Tweets & Misandry Discussion

Brian reads Lucy's tweets: 'in a shitty mood and want to take it out on a stupid man'; 'permanent damage to your bank account and balls'; 'men were created to provide'; 'life is always better when you have a male punching bag to abuse'; 'it's always the fugliest Normy man that assumes I'm a witch.' Panel reacts. Discussion of whether men are only good for providing.

00:37:42
Ukrainian Women & Dating in Wartime

Brian reads New York Times article about Ukrainian women struggling to date during the war. Panel mostly unsympathetic — argues men dying is worse than women lacking dates.

00:43:00
Dating as a Bisexual Woman (Courtney)

Courtney describes being bisexual. Discussion with Brian and Andrew about same-sex attraction, bisexual dating experiences, and STI testing.

00:47:41
Natalie's Weight Loss Journey

Natalie discusses losing ~70 lbs on a GLP-1 medication (Mounjaro, for PCOS/insulin resistance). Reports change in quality of male attention — previously attracted more sexualizing/low-quality men; now receives better treatment. Brian notes this as evidence that physical attractiveness correlates with treatment.

01:23:33
Self-Rating Round (Looks 1-10)

Guests rate their looks on a 1-10 scale (no 7s allowed). Courtney: 10 (later lowered to 8). Lucy: 10 (claims she'll be an '11' in 10 years). Rihanna: 8 (approximate — Brian confirmed). Natalie: 8 ('on a good day'). Gracie: 8. Andrew: 5 (self). Brian: implicitly 4 (jokingly).

01:24:30
Looks Rating Discussion & Female Self-Assessment

Extended multi-segment debate about whether women accurately self-rate. Andrew and Brian argue women systematically rate themselves higher than objective comparisons would suggest, and that this leads to delusion about dating prospects. Discussion of 'who is the prettiest girl in the room,' beauty standards, objectivity vs subjectivity, and the Fountain of Youth / aging argument (women using anti-wrinkle creams contradicts claims aging doesn't reduce attractiveness).

01:27:00
Po Raider Segment (World of Warcraft)

A Twitch streamer named 'Po' (French Canadian, ~36 years old, WoW player) raids the stream. Brian reviews Po's Instagram with the panel, shows his dirty keyboard video. Panel mostly declines to date Po. Brian discusses Po's WoW credentials.

01:58:00
Will You Be More Attractive in 10 Years?

Brian asks each guest if they'll be more physically attractive in 10, 20, 30 years. Lucy insists she will be, claims she'll peak at 30 ('30, flirty, and thriving'). Most other guests more realistic about aging. Andrew references Fountain of Youth folklore to argue everyone intuitively knows youth = beauty.

02:14:00
Mid Guy / Beautiful Girl Phenomenon

Panel unanimously agrees mid guys with beautiful girls is more common than handsome guys with mid girls. Brian argues the opposite: women's inflated self-ratings mean virtually every man looks mid by comparison. Andrew explains how women's vocal social pressure contributes to women feeling they've 'settled.'

03:07:30
Wage Gap & Dangerous Jobs Discussion

Discussion of the gender wage gap. Brian shows data: Asian women out-earn white men; controlled wage gap shrinks to ~$0.99 on the dollar. Andrew shows chart of top 20 most dangerous US jobs — all 90%+ male. Discussion of why men dominate dangerous work and whether sexism in hiring is immoral.

03:16:00
Bear vs. Man Forest Scenario

Panel asked: random man or random bear in the forest? All chose man. Courtney discusses wanting to spiritually connect with animals. Andrew and Brian note that statistically the random man is likely elderly/non-threatening whereas a bear will kill you. Brian shows a video of a bear casually walking past cars as counterpoint.

03:50:24
Courtney's Murder Date Story

Courtney recounts a scary first date where a man claiming to be in real estate drove her up a winding road to an unfinished house on a hill. She had a panic attack and demanded to leave. Later learned another woman had been taken to the same location. Despite the fear, she ended up hooking up with him that same night. He then called her 'Daddy' then switched to 'Mommy.'

04:23:26
Rihanna's Bowling Date Cheating Story

Rihanna (attributed to SPEAKER_06) describes being exclusively 'seeing' a man for ~2 months when he accidentally texted her 'I can be there at 10pm love' that was meant for another woman. She believed him when he said it was for his brother, continued seeing him a week, then ended it after he stood her up on another occasion.

04:34:00
Gracie's Cheating/Love Bombing Stories

Gracie shares two stories: (1) high school boyfriend asked if he could bring another girl to homecoming while she was at her sister's wedding; she created a fake Snapchat to confirm he told the girl he had no girlfriend; she confronted him publicly at his house. (2) second relationship was a man who love-bombed her, later revealed to be a virgin who had fabricated sexual stories about mutual acquaintances; Gracie only found out after they broke up through his friend.

04:43:00
Witchcraft & Spell-Casting Discussion

Lucy mentions having an altar and casting abundance spells. Andrew challenges the internal logic of witchcraft: if spells work, you must be affecting other people's wills; if they don't work, why do them. Discussion of white magic vs. dark magic and how manifesting abundance necessarily involves affecting others.

05:15:00
Female Submission in Relationships

Extended debate about whether women should be submissive to their husbands. Gracie says she would like a submissive role in marriage. Andrew argues that true submission means not requiring justification for decisions. Debate involves Biblical framework (Christ > husband > wife > children hierarchy). Natalie argues submission requires mutual respect. Brian shows a 'bowing' video as an example of submission. Most women say they'd laugh and do it once but not as a daily ritual.

05:20:15
Dating App Profile Reviews

Brian reviews the women's dating app profiles on screen. Lucy's Hinge has 'micro celebrity' bio. Courtney's has travel/writing goals and growth mindset prompts. Natalie's focuses on personality over looks.

06:40:12
Body Count Round

Going around the table: Lucy ~20 (no ledger); Courtney/Rihanna area: 9 mentioned; Anyia: declined; Natalie: 4; Gracie: declined sarcastically ('mine times a million times three'); Brian: 'mine's really nine' (or 'just one' — diarization unclear); Kwan: declined. Discussion of whether body count is a valid metric for partner selection.

06:41:00
Birth Control Discussion

Madison asks who is/has been on birth control. Natalie: was on it 4 days, stopped due to PCOS/hormonal side effects; has non-hormonal IUD. Courtney: was on it briefly in younger years, had hair loss and weight gain. Lucy: on it 5 years (17-22), got off because it disrupts hormones. Gracie: has an IUD (non-hormonal, for health). Anyia and Kwan: not on it.

06:43:00
H-Flation / Dating Standards Debate

Brian introduces the concept of 'h-flation': women's expectations of men have risen while their own value offered has decreased (more promiscuity, less domesticity). Gracie's point reframed: women have lower standards for what they accept behavior-wise but higher standards for what they demand from men.

06:53:45
Primary Victim of War Discussion

Madison asks who is the primary victim of war: men or women. Lucy says both equally. Kwan and others say men (they're fighting and dying). Brian uses World War II US example — men couldn't leave Ukraine, women could flee to Austria/Germany. Kwan correctly names all 3 branches of US government when asked.

07:00:00
Lucy & Rihanna Kicked / Early Departures

Lucy says she's 'over the conversation' and is kicked (~7:00:09). Anyia and Natalie/Gracie also leave early (family obligation, 2-hour drive home, class next morning). Brian and remaining guests wrap up.

Transcript

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00:55:51
Courtney / Rihannawe have a very healthy relationship where we support each other but don't have to be like attached with the hip you know we have our our separate time um we're good
00:56:01
Courtney / Rihannacommunicators I feel like he's he's very honest um I feel like I lued out so okay yeah cool what about you um tall
00:56:14
Lucy (Luchia)usually not blonde or Ginger I know ironic right um makes a good amount of money no mommy issues um let's see
00:56:29
Lucy (Luchia)usually I mean like creative but I would rather not date like an artist or anything like that just cuz I find that the artists that I have dated in the
00:56:38
Lucy (Luchia)past are not genu generally good people um I've had that same experience uh yeah so someone more I think
00:56:47
Lucy (Luchia)pragmatic maybe in the business world like something like that when you said when you said ball bald yeah
00:56:58
Andrew Wilsonright he's bald yeah I get that you're describing him but that's not your I mean ideally if you're thinking of your ideal man bald baldness wouldn't be a deal breaker like you wouldn't be like
00:57:10
Courtney / Rihannasure well I'm not going to date you cuz you just have way too nice of hair right like that wouldn't happen I suppose I'm not specifically looking for a bald guy he just so happens to be bald um but I I
00:57:22
Courtney / Rihannalike it I like a smooth head feels good freshly shaved sure if had hair that'd be great but um I just didn't think it would be a
00:57:31
Courtney / Rihannadeal breaker for some no what to have hair yeah to have hair it's like I need a bald I hate people with hair I need
00:57:40
Courtney / Rihannathem completely bald they know their wax waxes on a personal level god um I like going out into nature a lot so I would prefer to be with someone who likes a
00:57:52
Courtney / Rihannamore outdoorsy lifestyle hiking backpacking camping uh as I mentioned earlier I write books so someone who also like can have deep intellectual conversations with me maybe read my
00:58:03
Courtney / Rihannabooks be one of the early readers of my books um someone who is Artsy you guys are just saying like no Arts like oh Arts creativity dancing um I'm learning
00:58:15
Courtney / RihannaSpanish as a second language so maybe someone who speaks Spanish I do tend to like Latino men so uh someone I can speak Spanish with and learn with
00:58:24
Courtney / Rihannaum yeah uh I I don't think I could say any like necessary like physical features I've dated a lot of men from a lot of different backgrounds but I do
00:58:33
Anyiatend to really like Latino men usually so okay yeah um like uh brunette
00:58:44
Anyiahair tall of course and brown or blue eyes that's and
00:58:52
Anyiaperson he also has the same humor as me because we have to talk and um the character is also same has to be the
00:59:03
Nataliesame um preferably taller than me I'm 6'1 so um brown hair usually that like limits your options right away I know I
00:59:13
Natalieknow limit your options I mean I'm not like actually no yeah I'm pretty against guys that are shorter than me for athlete I'll be honest so it's just it's
00:59:24
Nataliejust a no I mean not like a no no like if you're like my height maybe tiny bit shorter it's fine but like maybe not for marriage like well then if not for
00:59:35
Nataliemarriage for what I mean like casual sex no no then for what then I don't know if they're just nice like I would get to know them and stuff but but they have to work hard I mean I mean yeah they'd have
00:59:47
Brian Atlasto work harder if you're shorter you have to work harder that's what I she would lead them on but and so you're 6'1 you said so bare minimum your height so
00:59:58
Brian Atlasthey have to be 61 yes but I'm I'm assuming you'd still prefer taller yes I would much rather prefer tall so like what would be like I mean I'm assuming
01:00:07
Natalie63 64 ideal height is like if I could pick any height it would be like 67 but that's really limiting your options I know but that's not very like realistic
01:00:18
Nataliehave you tried the NBA yeah I mean swimmers got to do it yeah actually yes swimmers yeah yeah they're really long they're they're I a't heard that one um yeah and dark
01:00:30
Brian Atlasfeatures okay so 61 what is the P what is the one per like bottom one percentile of female
01:00:40
Natalieweight bottom one yeah like if a guy was like I will only date women under 100 PB okay actually this okay this is I've heard you guys talk about on podc for comparing like height
01:00:51
Natalieto weight I feel like that's like a not great comparison cu something you cannot control you're born that way is like but yeah so it's more acceptable to judge that would be worse I think I think it's
01:01:04
Andrew Wilsonmore acceptable to judge on weight than it is height in my opinion yeah I agree yeah yeah so I mean wouldn't that make a worse case for women then because well because then men be like well if you're
01:01:16
Andrew Wilsonoverweight you can change that [ __ ] but I can't change how tall I am and so if women are looking preferentially for men who are taller than them but there's a lot of guys that want date me cuz I'm taller than them so no no I understand
01:01:28
Andrew Wilsonthat but I'm just saying from a preference standpoint you're saying it's okay to criticize based on weight because it's changeable but not hee no I think it's fine to criticize on both honestly but yeah oh yeah cuz I thought you said the opposite well I was just
01:01:41
Nataliesaying that I feel like it's like an uncare like guys get um will be like well you can't judge me on my highight like um cuz like I'll judge you on your weight kind of thing but I feel it's not it's fine to criticize both but I feel
01:01:54
Natalielike it's just not a super Fair comparison cuz like if you have a preference towards more fit girls that's fine preference for taller guys it's fine but yeah but girls can change their weight yeah but again wouldn't that that would still be worse in the preference
01:02:07
Andrew Wilsonright because then you're saying cuz you can actually do something about that I can't do anything about I think it's completely Fair yeah yeah okay okay I mean and have you looked at the
01:02:18
Brian Atlaspercentage of men that fall in are taller than me yeah like I think you said 63 64 but ideal like up into 6 well yeah 67 you're you're getting into like just a few thousand at this point
01:02:30
Natalieyeah I I want a D1 baby that's oh Dam she's going to get it yeah um the percentage is probably very low I don't know what it is yeah I think so 63 and
01:02:41
Natalieup it's less than 1% I believe it yeah I mean out of like globally or like in the US it's it's probably probably globally even it probably isn't much globally it would be lower that's why I'm asking yes
01:02:54
Gracieglobally it would be even lower but in the US that's less than 1% but yeah what about you I would say top five qualities
01:03:01
Graciewould be somebody driven smart funny kind can you Nick can you open the yeah and supportive and then
01:03:13
Kwanbrunette that's quality six what about you um for me he has to be athletic um I like at least 5'9 or taller he has to be family oriented if does not want to get married to have
01:03:26
Kwankids then there's no point in us even speaking um I would like for him to have a good relationship with his family because um if if you could treat your mother well you're going to treat me well that's just how I see that uh he
01:03:39
Kwancan't smoke I don't like smoking cigarettes weed I don't really care much as long as you don't you're not addicted to it you're not addicted to alcohol no substance abuse but yeah and he I like darker features black men I like I like white men too white men are good they
01:03:52
Kwanlook good I mean I don't judge as long as you look good I I just like physically fit in general did you get any uh prospects from your last appearance no no prospects okay and then
01:04:04
Kwanthe guy I was talking to during that time him and I ended things because of lack of communication he he was living in uh Seattle he met a different girl and he didn't want to tell me that so I was like
01:04:14
Kwanokay maybe this time but and he was my type he was buff he was Hispanic and I was like damn but then found someone else out there there's another on the way bummer SL into her DM going back to
01:04:26
Brian Atlasgoing back to K anytime soon hopefully going back to Natalie here on your notes you said that you mainly agree with a lot of what Brian says and his views but I do disagree sometimes
01:04:38
Brian Atlaswith his views on subjects like body count and other aspects of dating life so we can definitely get into the body count thing what would you know what some of the other aspects were that you disagreed with I think it's not necessarily like certain points I think
01:04:51
Natalieit's more how it's presented like what you the tone I mean sometimes yeah yeah I feel like well how tell me how it's presented I don't know sometimes in like
01:05:03
Nataliea little bit of a pushy manner not necessarily disagree with it like when girls would come on not wanting to share I like I get because this is like a podcast about dating life so it's something that like not share what body
01:05:13
Brian Atlascount whatever it is I usually don't I mean I might ask them like a secondary way like oh okay if you don't want to give a number what about how about the range yeah I typically don't push though
01:05:26
Brian AtlasI mean the only push back I also might give is is if they make the argument that body count doesn't matter at all but they have hesitation to revealing what their body count is then that's I I
01:05:37
Nataliemean I agree with that too I was that's the only push back I give but I really don't think I tend to somebody doesn't want to answer that question I don't think I yeah put up too much resistance was there anything else I feel like I
01:05:48
Brian Atlasagree with a lot more than I disagree let's talk about what you disagree oh I don't know this is hard I like I think other aspects of dating life what are the other aspects is it the big
01:06:00
Brian Atlaslabia matter you disagree with that oh no who here's by who's by by you have you guys have a laia preference I've
01:06:10
Courtney / Rihannaactually not been with a with a girl but I believe I would be yeah so if that comes into my stre would you have do you think you would have you don't a big laia I don't know if I don't know if I
01:06:23
Nataliewould you don't have to do it you haven't crossed threshold don't Ryan is that something that you ask like is that a prerequisite for a date like yeah I think you should ask that like third
01:06:33
Andrew Wilsonmessage I'm kidding I'm kidding um that's how you get them yeah but I do think yeah like if a girl's like into me and she's just like BTW yeah that's a good question what is it like a is it
01:06:44
Andrew Wilsonlike a weird Christmas for you like every time it's just a different reveal and you're like ah oh what it's the wrong one sorry it's the wrong one it's the wrong kind no I mean I I'll like
01:06:54
Brian Atlasstill date a girl who has an any you know like I can work with it oh my God you can work with it but I mean like yeah it is a nice little surprise like if it's just an and
01:07:05
Brian Atlasthat you really are perfect oh God yeah I think women should lead with that though that should be like a Tinder question like a Tinder
01:07:15
Brian Atlasprom well it's like women y'all have your preferences when it comes to like how big a guy is like I'm just I'm like the only dude in the world who seems to
01:07:25
Brian Atlasyou want a girl who wants to talk her Le yeah she's got a she can like tie the knots too right sign me up yeah um but uh and you're by right so do you have a
01:07:37
Courtney / Rihannalabia preference you prefer Ines or outies not not really uh I'm like all shapes and sizes I suppose if it's on the bigger side that's cool there's more to work with you know more to work with
01:07:48
Courtney / Rihannaokay all right there you go all right anyways so you're on you're on the BLM side of this thing I think so yeah yeah #blm big laia matter so I might
01:07:59
Brian Atlasidentify as a BLM so you know I can't there you go can't knock them can't knock them can't knock them any why I mean any girls here like have you ever
01:08:08
Brian Atlasbeen shame shamed shamed for the no you no shamed shamed nope shamed shamed
01:08:17
Courtney / Rihannaanybody I feel like when I when I first started shamed no okay just checking well I think maybe not for the Leo but no he made direct eye contact three
01:08:28
Courtney / Rihannatimes I was like I think no I was just going to say I think like when I was uh very young and inexperienced there were certainly
01:08:38
Courtney / Rihannaand and was with young and inexperienced guys uh often times there would be guys who like didn't want to go down on me cuz I thought it was like gross but I don't think it was me I think it would
01:08:49
Courtney / Rihannahave been any female I think wait are you saying because you have an Audi no no no no I just think and there I I came across that a handful of times I mean I guess it it could have been they never specified but I think it was more if
01:09:02
Brian Atlasyou're a guy who doesn't want to go down it's not because of you have an in out exactly yeah anyways yeah uh okay so wait Natalie going back to you you said what did I say you
01:09:14
Nataliedisagree with his views on subjects like body count yeah uh so I guess what specifically do you uh disagree with okay I would say I think that a lot of times when people are like oh I don't like I don't really care about I don't
01:09:28
Nataliethink it should matter but then don't care to share I understand like that's contradictory but I also think that to an extent it doesn't matter but it does so I think that it's contradictory but
01:09:39
Brian Atlasit can both be at the same time if that makes sense well I mean I guess to argue the other person that doesn't make sense well here to argue to argue the other
01:09:49
Brian Atlasperson side Andrew uh so you could think something matters but also not want to reveal it like to the broader public but then why would you say it
01:10:02
Nataliedoesn't matter it it I think it's like a more of a general term like it it doesn't really matter but like at the end of the day it's more between like the partner and you so then it
01:10:13
Graciematters I think it's more so being like the number doesn't matter but telling this amount of people is what matters yeah I agree then it matters yeah so here I give I think I think it's a bad way to put it that it doesn't matter let
01:10:25
Andrew Wilsonme give a counter example if this is true so I understand what you're saying what you're saying is look to the to the broader public this may matter right but to me and whoever my potential partner is it doesn't matter but let me give you
01:10:37
Andrew Wilsona thought exercise to see if this is true do you think you would be more likely to reveal your body count if you had slept with zero men versus 20 men yeah no I I understand well then it
01:10:49
Andrew Wilsonmatters it matters a lot whether or not you want to admit that it doesn't matter clearly cuz otherwise why would you reveal it at zero right because then there's no there's no shame
01:11:00
Brian Atlasright well I mean to to actually think I think there also is shame like for example uh someone might if we're talking about how much money somebody makes and in a dating context for
01:11:11
Brian Atlasexample uh do you care about somebody's finances and they say doesn't matter I don't care my state my financial situation
01:11:22
Brian Atlasdoesn't matter at all oh okay well how much money do you have in the bank account someone might not want to reveal that yeah not not having anything to do with whether it matters or not
01:11:34
Brian Atlasjust because they prefer to keep that private yeah if I can understand the other side's position on this yeah like they don't want to then it matters they
01:11:45
Nataliedon't want to get no no no sure sure I wouldn't want to say how much it's more that it doesn't matter in like a general context of who you're dating and who you're talking to but when you're on a platform like this and there's a bunch of people watching it something that you
01:11:57
Andrew Wilsonwould want to keep private I guess yeah but in that same situation if you in the personal finance depart made 30 $35,000 a year yeah maybe you don't want to reveal that to the public if he made 20 million a year I
01:12:10
Andrew Wilsondon't think he'd give a [ __ ] I think he'd be like yeah make 20 mil but wouldn't you also be kind of like scared of putting they got security yeah I mean the the the point of it I
01:12:20
Andrew Wilsonstill would would contend is that it matters it clearly matters and clearly people think it matters otherwise they would have no problem revealing it to me
01:12:30
Andrew Wilsonfrom talking to many many women that men who were promiscuous and now are not promiscuous they don't seem to give a [ __ ] very much the opposite is not true men seem to care a great deal
01:12:43
Andrew Wilsonabout whether or not a woman was promiscuous or not promiscuous so while I agree with you in principle right so I would agree with you or I would I would even make the claim stronger claim that
01:12:55
Andrew Wilsonpromiscuity in men and women is equally as bad but they don't view it the same way I agre when they hold each other to the standard right so women don't view male promiscuity the same way men view
01:13:07
Andrew Wilsonfemale promiscuity I think Society validates guys being like oh good on him like I don't think it's a just a form of social stigma I think that it mostly
01:13:15
Andrew Wilsoncomes from the idea of paternity so the idea being uh you know paternity testing is recent so all all throughout human history the best way that you could
01:13:27
Andrew Wilsonassure that you knew that that's my kid is if you knew that chick was only sleeping with you that's how else could you determine it and so that's how I think that Revolt kind of or disgust is
01:13:39
Andrew Wilsonbuilt in with promiscuity when it comes to to women but not not not for men not they just don't view it the same way I think it's a fair argument yeah
01:13:48
Courtney / Rihannayeah I think with the body count though when you think about it you should realistically divide it by how many years you've been sexually active because when you do that it really doesn't seem that bad depend I mean
01:14:01
Courtney / Rihannadepending on the number like if you do have a judgment on it cuz I think if you have like a high body count but you've been sexually active for like 20 years you know it really couple people a year
01:14:12
Andrew Wilsonit's like when you think about it yeah but so again I can agree with you in principle but not in the Practical so again let's look at it from a man's perspective they're not going to do that
01:14:25
Andrew Wilsonthey're just going to see the full number is that what you're saying I think that they could even kind of engage with what you're saying right and you could even hold them to the same standard but they still want if they're going to settle down with you generally
01:14:37
Andrew Wilsonthey want children right just generally speaking maybe not all of them but generally they will the idea of pair bonding or can you stay with me in the long term it if you've been with way
01:14:49
Andrew Wilsonless men they think that that number goes way higher right if you've been with way less men your chances of bonding with me forever and ever and ever are going to be way higher than if
01:14:59
Andrew Wilsonyou've been with you know a hundred men and think of it from their perspective this way on the logic of what do you have to compare me toh so this why virgins for instance who get married
01:15:12
Andrew Wilsonthey often do report higher sexual satisfaction and they stay together for way longer and when the when social scientists investigate this they go okay why that's kind of odd well it's there there's nothing to compare it to so
01:15:25
Andrew Wilsonlet's say even the sex in this relationship was bad from your perspective having been with 50 guys let's say like hypothetically um would they both have to be virgins yeah both of them in this case if you have nothing to compare it
01:15:39
Andrew Wilsonto I'm sure it's the best sex in the world right right that's true so yeah so that's so that's one of the good reasons why uh having a low body count probably really good for longevity instead of
01:15:51
Brian Atlasbad I would also agree with her I mean so if you take for example a 30-year-old who has a body count of 10 versus a 18-year-old who has a body count of 10
01:16:02
Brian Atlasyeah clearly the promiscuity is greater in the 18-year-old M yeah I me it's the same body it's the same body count but going to have to
01:16:11
Andrew Wilsonargue this one though okay okay so let's say there it's two women who are 30 right and one racked up uh 20 bodies from the time she was 18 Till the time
01:16:23
Andrew Wilsonshe was 30 mhm and one racked up 30 bodies at 20 and then slept with nobody else till they were 30 why would I don't think a man would give a [ __ ] I think that they would still look at the totality of the body count and be just
01:16:35
Brian Atlasas horrified either way yeah that's a fair point that's a fair point but I mean if if the comparison is for example if the man is choosing between these two women say a
01:16:47
Brian Atlas20-year-old who's slept with 10 men mhm in a period of 2 years yeah versus a woman who's 30 who slept
01:16:57
Andrew Wilsonwith 10 men over the course of 12 Years uh it would it could indicate two different things yeah I agree but I would say if all things were equal they
01:17:10
Andrew Wilsonwere the same attractiveness level this and that they would probably go for the 30-year-old but if they had the same exact body count and they had the choice of the more verile 19 20-year-old I still think they would go for that one if they had the same body count yeah but
01:17:22
Brian Atlasshe wouldn't be seen as like faithful cuz if she's still 30y that's the problem it may be the case it may be the case but in terms of like the actual his
01:17:32
Brian Atlasthought process when it comes to the uh promiscuity component of it he can still determine like well on this specific metric uh the 30-year-old edges out the
01:17:43
Andrew Wilson18-year-old but I'm still more attracted to the 18-year-old yes if all things are equal yes I agree with that yeah so I just think that uh that in that case if you're if you're just going between
01:17:55
Andrew Wilsonthese two isolated cases I guess I can agree with that in spirit M but I think when this is applied in a broader scale to to how men engage or at least how I've heard them talk about how they
01:18:06
Andrew Wilsonengage with relationships they're looking at the overarch and they say okay the amount of number of men you slept with is definitely going to determine how loyal I think you're going to be to me they that's definitely in
01:18:18
Brian Atlastheir mind oh hey yo hey Nick we're going to do a shout out for po here cuz we have a little this is per uh transition pay thank you for the raid hope you had a good stream man Nick pull up twitch
01:18:29
Brian Atlasreally quick guys and also we're going to pull up guys drop us a follow thank you for the raid po if you have a by the way guys it's been 26 minutes since
01:18:37
Brian Atlaswe've had a prime sub I think it's bugged help n help help uh yo po thank you so much for the stream in guys if you're coming over from po stream we are going to start playing World of Warcraft
01:18:49
Brian Atlashere uh here soon in a couple minutes we're going to talk about the dating like online dating in world of so if you're coming from po just drop us a follow guys we always talk about dating also we're going to have the
01:19:00
Brian Atlasgirls R dating exactly we're going to have the girls rate yo donkey thank for the prime rate PO on a scale of 1 to 10 would they date them and also we're going to show them show them the keyboard video okay all right thank you
01:19:12
Brian Atlasfor the raid po Nick so can you find the keyboard video can you find his Instagram because we're gonna Po's single guys he's a very he's a uh big stre uh big streamer what's in Canada
01:19:24
Brian Atlashe's French Canadian he's French Canadian so in fact because he's French Canadian I'm going to change the TTS voice
01:19:33
Brian Atlasto uh hold on I'm trying to change it to Canadian one sec to Canadian where is it where is it is there an English Canadian there's a Canadian voice there is a
01:19:44
Brian AtlasCanadian voice okay I'm going to do French Canadian we're going to call it Liam okay so if any TTS is no you got to call it Gary Nick can you pull up his Instagram first
01:19:55
Brian Atlasokay can we get his uh Instagram going all right here he is all right he lives
01:20:03
Brian Atlasin is it Quebec he's a Kea Kea all right uh scroll down okay so skateboarder obviously uh you know he's obvious you
01:20:16
Brian Atlasknow this is some World of Warcraft footage on his personal Instagram next scroll down uh wait go back up that has that's AI the one with the beard no way uh click on the one of him cleaning a
01:20:29
Brian Atlaspool look so he's like kind of domesticated like he'll like if you guys have a pool he'll um you know maintain the pool I guess next also look at the tricep he's obviously been like working out a bit
01:20:42
Nataliescroll down um he kind of looks like Elon Musk he kind of looks like El the photo there if you scr back up it kind click on the one
01:20:53
Andrew Wilsonwhere he's shirtless can we see that one um okay next uh I feel like you're you're trying to make sure that these girls never date
01:21:06
Brian Atlasthis guy no he's how old is he he's like 40 no I don't know I think he's like 20s he's not 40 he's not 40 no way 36 3 wait hold
01:21:15
Brian Atlason wait click do the shortless one scroll down scroll keep scrolling he's been posting a lot on Instagram he's been dropping thirst traps click the sword one so this is him with like
01:21:27
Brian Atlasthunderfury I don't if you guys like blessed blade of the WindSeeker so he had it on like two of his Rogues in classic like no easy feet right so he's
01:21:36
Brian Atlasobviously like a he's a parser like he's a pumper in the raids and [ __ ] like he's but honestly like his PVP and duel is way better like PVE he wasn't big on PVE
01:21:48
Brian Atlasbut like when it came to like PVP like solid like big on duels but also like PVP like he'll just smoke somebody um so going around the table like let's just say if you're single
01:21:59
Andrew Wilsonwould you date P one day there's going to be a chick here who has spent years playing World of Warcraft and is just going to start sping at Brian when he does one of these Rants and I'm going to
01:22:08
Andrew Wilsonbe here for that day I'm going to be here when that day comes AIO lower it lower it lower lower uh so going around the
01:22:18
Brian Atlastable would you day payo I'm sorry but no I would not no were we supposed to scale one to 10 also or no no
01:22:29
Brian Atlaslet's would you date him maybe I thought he was cute so oh hey okay no no is it
01:22:37
Anyiacuz he he speaks French no French is cool I think but I don't find him attractive okay what about you no why
01:22:47
Brian Atlasnot oh I don't think we got answers here I said no I said no oh okay no thank you Andrew thank you you did if you were single like
01:22:58
Brian Atlasthat's he's straight it's taking him a really long time to answer sorry Andrew okay he's really contemplating he's like H uh and Nick just really quick just maybe this will turn things around can you show us the keyboard video and then
01:23:10
Brian Atlasmute the I have no idea I think can you work on that uh that's why so poo thank you again for the raid
01:23:21
Brian Atlasif you're watching on Twitch can you guys drop us a little follow in the chat twitch.tv whatever he's trying to find the keyboard video while we're doing that why not we'll just get into this Stiffler ask everyone to rate their
01:23:33
Brian Atlaslooks on a scale of 1 to 10 you can't pick seven starting with you go ahead rating my own look yeahh oh 10 10 okay 10 10 I'm going to go for an eight eight okay yeah eight eight can we like seven
01:23:45
Nataliepoint something or no no sevens at no sevens at all about this um on like a really good day eight I think an eight I I was going to say s and a half but
01:23:56
Natalieeight yeah today okay Andrew would you reach yourself four I give myself a five um so 10 10 eight eight okay this
01:24:07
Courtney / Rihannais like solely appearance right Nick have for for today for today no just your as a whole how you see yourself oh I probably I mean no I probably 10 just
01:24:19
Brian Atlasyour physical appearance only yeah okay I like it I like it okay can we get the video going or yeah have any I mean it's honestly if you go to
01:24:31
Brian Atlashis twitch I think it's one of his top clips okay I'm pretty sure um maybe hold on let me see if probably the twitch chat is going to help us out here hold on all right hold on I'll see if I can
01:24:44
Brian Atlasactually I don't know if they can put URLs in the twitch chat um I don't sorry guys we're trying to find his
01:24:55
Brian Atlasvideo cuz all the girls except kind of you said no no for po but I think if I show you guys this video it's going to totally change your mind all of you no not you it's going to change the guys you said
01:25:07
Brian Atlasnow um how we doing on the
01:25:15
Unknown/Ambientvideo the
01:25:22
Brian Atlaskeyboard I literally just typed in p keyboard video I think I've already found it a question do we know how tall is yeah I'll put I mean he doesn't look like he's over 61 okay found it
01:25:34
Brian Atlasdefinitely not in that 6 no he's actually like I'm pretty sure he's like 6'3 honestly he's a tall guy we we'll decide after the keyboard video okay all
01:25:44
Brian Atlasright po I don't know is he still in the chat can uh is he still in po are you still in the chat dude po are you in the chat bro I'm trying to hook it hook it up yeah play
01:25:55
Brian Atlasthat play yeah put the sound on all the way
01:26:03
Unknown/Ambientoh
01:26:10
Unknown/Ambientwait yo is it a is a
01:26:17
Unknown/Ambientrice and what is this we got a new friend
01:26:26
Brian Atlasno it's I think it's a rice I'm not sure man I don't want to touch it no so hold on you might think your knee-jerk reaction is that's gross but
01:26:37
Brian Atlasis it gross or is that his commitment to being a top tier gamer and streamer that he doesn't clean his keyboard he's so dedicated so focused he has no time
01:26:50
Brian Atlascleaning his keyboard he doesn't have time to do it does he shower does he have like Kiss himself while he's playing like I think he showers like once a week
01:27:01
Natalieor something [ __ ] disgusting no way I feel like that video made it worse yeah although I thought that would help it no I appreciate the commitment that's like good values you know but I just he
01:27:14
Andrew Wilsonreminds me of my cousin yeah huh I was going to say my brother he has a fun laugh yeah he's he's got a great laugh he threw him under the Brian you threw him under the bus no I thought
01:27:26
Courtney / Rihannait would help cuz like the girls like would know like that's dedication if your keyboard's that dirty I thought initially when it was blurry that it was like weed blurry and that I would have
01:27:37
Andrew Wilsonmaybe have been more acceptable I it like crumbs but also po um I will buy you in the keyboard can I buy you I will buy you any keyboard you want um all right make more videos and dedicate to
01:27:50
Brian AtlasBrian of the keyboards that look like that just so that we can watch Brian spur hours about it exactly okay um make his OCD go nuts so going back to this one we have two t at the
01:28:02
Courtney / Rihannatable [Music] um really yeah I mean I don't think other people would say I'm a 10 but I I got to wake up every day and feel that way about
01:28:15
Andrew Wilsonmyself mhm who do you think the prettiest girl in the room is uh I would say I think you're very very pretty thank you so why do you think she rates herself less than you
01:28:27
Andrew Wilsonrate yourself if she's the prettiest I don't know I think that'd be a question for her yeah I know but you're bisexual right M so you it's easy for you to rate women isn't it sure I suppose but I
01:28:39
Andrew Wilsondon't I'm not tending to so what are the features on her that make her prettier than you even though you're a 10 I didn't say she's prettier than me I you said she's pretty prettiest girl in the
01:28:50
Courtney / Rihannaroom could have been you oh I thought you me outside of me I mean I spose was I don't know I don't really like uh you want me to say what makes her prettier than me if you think she's
01:29:02
Courtney / Rihannathe prettiest girl in the room well I think you should I think she should rate herself higher I definitely think that um I just think she's pretty and the prettiest girl in the
01:29:12
Andrew Wilsonroom so what makes the other girls here Less Pretty maybe I'm a nine okay it's not that they're less pretty well sorry I'm trying to reconcile
01:29:24
Andrew Wilsonpossibility here if she's prettiest then all other people who aren't as pretty must be less pretty because otherwise she can't be the prettiest correct that's fair sure so what makes the other
01:29:36
Courtney / Rihannagirls Less Pretty uh I think maybe for me and I hope I don't like offend you by this I think it's more I'm attracted more to
01:29:45
Courtney / Rihannaher based on which what features what things I think she has a nice style her eyes are very pretty thank you yeah I
01:29:54
Courtney / Rihannamean I tend to be attracted more to women of color than white women okay it's just a preference okay so who's the second prettiest
01:30:04
Andrew Wilsongirl this is so foul um why I don't I just don't like raiding people in general right but this is the thing that the question is asked because women
01:30:14
Andrew Wilsonoften when they are rating themselves they're not actually rating themselves based on beauty they're rating themselves on all kinds of other [ __ ] which is tangential to the question that we're asking we're not asking you about
01:30:25
Andrew Wilsonyour feelings we're not asking you about if this is a day where you woke up with extreme confidence and on a Tuesday you would have rated yourself as six because you felt less confident on a Tuesday
01:30:36
Andrew Wilsonjust purely physical attractiveness that's all we're asking so if that is the case that you're able to objectively rate people like this including yourself as a 10 then I would
01:30:47
Andrew Wilsonassume that there's features that you have that make you attend that other women do not have who are not I don't know how objective it is because I think if I'm raing them it's
01:30:59
Andrew Wilsonsubjective what what you say sure but objective to you even if it's subjective from their standpoint it would still be objective from yours only you know what you're attracted to sure so then that
01:31:11
Andrew Wilsonwould be an objective standard from your perspective you could not be subjectively attracted to something good you I guess that's fair yeah um I mean I my eyes I would say is a big one mhm I
01:31:24
Andrew Wilsonthink anybody else has two different colored eyes I think it's a unique feature I like that yeah that's I like the big distinguishing factors that you have different colored eyes I mean it's one
01:31:35
Courtney / Rihannaof them sure okay so who's the second prettiest girl you think this is so annoying uh I don't know I would I would say like she stands
01:31:48
Andrew Wilsonout to me the most it'd be hard for me to like level anyone else outside that is there a possibility that you think that saying out loud what you actually
01:31:59
Andrew Wilsonthink could potentially hurt somebody's feelings and so that's a motivation for why you don't actually want to say anything about it I mean certainly yeah do you think that it's reasonable for me after being around thousands of women
01:32:12
Andrew Wilsonand hearing them nitpick each other to death especially the second one gets up and leaves the room that most women likely can ascertain the beauty standard in comparison to themselves with other
01:32:23
Andrew Wilsonwomen almost instantly but never actually want to say it to anybody or say it within the earshot of other women why is that wrong to not saying it's
01:32:32
Andrew Wilsonwrong I'm just asking if it's true it is true it's 100% true 100% true is it true yes true repeat the question isn't it true that women can very quickly
01:32:44
Andrew Wilsonascertain if another woman is prettier than them or has features that they wish they had almost instantaneously and then we'll often nitpick the [ __ ] out of them when they're not around based on those
01:32:54
Lucy (Luchia)standards I mean sure but I think that is just like matter of your character right maybe the nitpicking part but not necessarily the I do have a view yeah
01:33:06
Andrew Wilsonthat's what I mean you see what I'm saying yeah and so you would say that most women have a view of this and can very quickly ascertain if another woman is more or less attractive than them yeah sure I mean beaut is in the eye of
01:33:18
Andrew Wilsonthe beholder sure even if it's from your subjective standpoint you would still have that standpoint right there's also things that are like objectively attractive if you're very symmetrical you're going to be more attractive I agree but I just would prefer to take
01:33:30
Andrew Wilsonthat off the table of universal standards because people don't like to deal in universals they like to deal in especially when it comes to things which could potentially hurt somebody's feelings uh you know it's really
01:33:42
Andrew Wilsonsubjective it's really just kind of up to the beauty of the behind the beholder [ __ ] right so I just like okay we'll just go with purely that and if that is the case then you still do have a standard for what you think is
01:33:54
Andrew Wilsonattractive or not attractive and so if that's the case I just am always wondering why so many women lie when you ask him this question and you're going around a table uh of women like this
01:34:06
Andrew Wilsonright why would you say that the prettiest girl in the room rates yourself lower than you who claimed that you were one of the most beautiful possibly in the world out of 10 right that's putting yourself at the highest possible metric for all the beautiful
01:34:18
Andrew Wilsonwomen who have ever existed on planet Earth okay I'm a four do you want me to it's a lower it's not designed to uh to break you down or hurt your feelings it's designed instead
01:34:29
Andrew Wilsonto see if the answer that you're giving is based around what you actually think or what you think people want to hear that's what it's really for I suppose well I suppose if we're it is the looks
01:34:41
Andrew Wilsonquestion so it's just I guess I'm not with the I'm not intending to lie uh well I'm I'm not even saying you are but I think that socially these things are built in
01:34:54
Andrew Wilsonespecially to women where they think one thing but they're not going to verbalize what that thing is they think M right because um it's it's not part of being nice right sure I don't think every well
01:35:07
Courtney / RihannaI guess we already kind of covered this I don't think every woman like we can definitely see the other features that make women you know more attractive than us um but I don't think that means that every one of us is going to go nitpick
01:35:19
Andrew Wilsonthem you know no I'm not I'm not saying that you would pick them necessarily that or talk [ __ ] but that you would be able to ascertain quickly if this woman is more attractive than you or not sure
01:35:32
Andrew Wilsonyeah that's that's all I'm saying okay and so if I know that you agree that that is true and every woman here seems to agree that that is true then if I asked you to honestly rate the woman next to you would
01:35:45
Courtney / Rihannayou uh do you want me to yeah you want me to rate rate her yeah honestly okay yeah um well well then I'd have to also start by
01:35:55
Courtney / Rihannalowering my own because I suppose I wouldn't be a 10 if we're talking you know I feel like a 10 myself but I suppose based on looks uh maybe I'd be
01:36:05
Courtney / Rihannawell I'm not allowed to say a seven so I would I suppose I would do I mean I think I'm very pretty but I suppose I would do an eight an eight I suppose I would do an eight for you as well and
01:36:17
Courtney / Rihannaone next to her I mean they're all probably going to be eight all of yeah I mean I think it's a pretty active of women think of a woman who's a famous woman that you can think of who's under
01:36:29
Courtney / Rihannaan eight uh lizo that was real quick I don't know thinking about thata McCarthy
01:36:40
Courtney / Rihannapopped in my head randomly that's a really weird one that a really weird one yeah oh like a like a four five four I don't really think that I would rate anyone too too low but that
01:36:53
Andrew Wilsonalso might just be because it's socialized in me you know right so as far as the hurting the feelings things goes sure yeah yeah and so the reason this question is asked it's not actually
01:37:04
Andrew Wilsonever asked to be offensive it's asked to determine the delusion level like what is the delusion level if I'm comparing myself to the most attractive men on
01:37:14
Andrew Wilsonplanet Earth right tens yeah I'm a [ __ ] four of course of course that's true [ __ ] old right haven't taken great care of myself I'm a four for sure
01:37:25
Andrew WilsonBrian he's delusional he ain't a five either but the thing is it's like okay at least a five is more rational and reasonable than I'm a 10 on par with the
01:37:37
Andrew Wilsonmost beautiful women in the existence of the world right that doesn't that sound delusional when you think about it and doesn't it sound narcissistic from people hearing it doesn't it actually have the opposite effect when you think
01:37:49
Courtney / Rihannaabout it I mean I think we all have to be a little delusional to get through Our Lives as the physical being that we are but sure I'm sure you think we have
01:37:59
Courtney / Rihannato be delusional I mean I don't think anybody is waking up and the first thing they say to themselves is like oh man I'm a four let me go about my day yeah you know I think I think that's where
01:38:11
Andrew WilsonI'm going to disagree so I think that um there are a tens of thousands of men who do exactly that they wake up and say okay I'm at the lower end of the
01:38:22
Andrew Wilsonsocioeconomic tier and the physical attractiveness tier and I need to change that quickly yeah well let you yeah you you can take it from
01:38:33
Andrew Wilsonthere but well I I was gone for a bit so I don't remember oh okay where things left off but but yeah that's that's all I'm saying is that I think that men do
01:38:44
Andrew Wilsonbecause they have to to operate in a hierarchical system they do actually have to be objective and non- delusional about this their attractiveness level their socioeconomics status matters to them in a daily way that doesn't seem to
01:38:56
Andrew Wilsonapply to women and so no I don't think they're that delusional about it I think that they do indeed get up and go and look at the mirror and go whoa I really don't look very good and I'm really
01:39:06
Andrew Wilsonbroke and I need to do something about that okay yeah I think that that's kind of the distinction that's why the question is asked M and why why men are
01:39:17
Andrew Wilsonconstantly stunned by hearing that this podcast seemingly has the most beautiful women in the entire world on it all the
01:39:27
Courtney / Rihannatime well I also it's no that's fair that's fair it's hard for me to just do looks with myself though even when the
01:39:36
Brian Atlasquestion is asked about looks you know but anyway yeah okay well question for the whole panel have you guys uh what do
01:39:45
Brian Atlasyou think is more common a mid guy with a beautiful girl or a handsome guy with a mid girl what's more common mid guy beautiful girl let's just start
01:39:56
Courtney / Rihannaover I'd say mid guy with a beautiful girl mid guy with a beautiful girl mid guy with a beautiful girl yeah we can all agree on that yeah okay now this
01:40:07
Brian Atlasmight be true but one of the issues that I have with it is there's a couple things on one
01:40:17
Brian Atlashand if you see your your female friends or just women you don't even know and you're like Why she with that guy he's he's mid or whatever I actually think
01:40:27
Brian Atlaswomen have like are make awful appraisals of men's attractiveness as well as their own attractiveness and
01:40:38
Brian Atlasso social pressure is a very big thing so if you have like huge sads of women who think whoa all these women are settling you're probably going to like be telling your girlfriends you could do
01:40:50
Brian Atlasbetter and that's going to instill in your girlfriend's who's otherwise in a good relationship who's otherwise in a relationship with somebody in her League you're going to be start start putting things in her head she's going to have
01:41:02
Brian Atlasthings in her own head thinking I settled for this guy I'm better looking than this guy because if 80% of women appraise themselves higher than they actually are and you have a FAL far smaller subset of men who have this
01:41:15
Brian Atlasdelusional self-appraisal then you're going to have women who find themselves feeling uh uh contempt essentially for their partners because they feel like they've settled
01:41:26
Brian Atlaswhen actually they're in a relationship with somebody who is their equivalent and also not to mention you guys have the benefit of makeup which and you'll judge yourself here's how I
01:41:37
Brian Atlaslook with filters here's how I look with filters and um uh sorry I got distracted here's how you look with filters and um makeup and
01:41:50
Brian Atlasall this [ __ ] and you think that that's how you actually look that's not the way you actually look is how you look without any makeup just stepped out the
01:41:58
Andrew Wilsonshower that's how you look now the other thing is when it comes to this how do I want to frame this well I
01:42:08
Andrew Wilsonwould take this even easier um and kind of an easier way to rationalize it for me is I think the opposite I think it's way more common to see um the the
01:42:21
Andrew Wilsonattractiveness switch so you you think that it's mid women or I'm sorry mid men with beautiful women right that a lot I guess yeah I think it's the opposite and the reason I think
01:42:31
Andrew Wilsonit's the opposite is because of just how high I hear women rate themselves so I think if they're if if you're for instance it's no offense to you no offense to you either but if you're rating yourself on par with the most
01:42:44
Andrew Wilsonbeautiful women on planet Earth and what [ __ ] guy isn't in comparison going to be mid you know what I mean and so so so if you're looking at every woman as a comparison to yourself and saying all of
01:42:57
Andrew Wilsonthem are on par with you and that makes them a 10 or if that's cuz I would consider that pretty average right but if you're considering that to be a 10 then what [ __ ] guy wouldn't be a mid you know what I mean but I think it's
01:43:10
Andrew Wilsonthe other way around I I think I usually see guys who are uh way way out of women's Leagues with uh with with subpart women that's that's that that's
01:43:20
Andrew Wilsonhow I perceive it I just think that women's estimation of them is way too high another question for the panel
01:43:30
Brian Atlasso how do you think men treat women who they think they are settling for do they treat them well or do they tend to treat them poorly poorly poorly poorly poorly
01:43:44
Courtney / Rihannamhm do you have an answer I uh it's so tough cuz we're talking strictly based on looks and like relationships yeah there's more to
01:43:55
Courtney / Rihannait you know like if if you're mid my consideration I mean if we're if we're so looks and then that's fine we're talking about that um I don't know I think they treat them similar to how
01:44:07
Brian Atlasthey treat themselves well I mean we have a woman here who said her treatment totally changed when she became more physically attractive she used to weigh
01:44:17
Brian Atlasmore she now weighs less the treatment has totally changed mhm and so taking her anecdotal example here I would say this equally applies to women
01:44:29
Brian Atlaswomen treat men who they're more attracted to better than they treat men who they're less attracted to I think that's just a subconscious thing right
01:44:39
Brian Atlasbut if as a woman but let me ask you a question if you think you're more attractive than you actually are how are you going to treat the men who are
01:44:50
Brian Atlasactually in your league you're going to just outright reject them you're going to ignore them or if you do end up in a relationship with them you're going to view it as settling
01:45:01
Brian Atlasand invariably you're not going to treat them very well not not in all instances of course I'm not saying all women are inclined to treat people uh worse off
01:45:10
Brian Atlasbut it occurs to me that we do tend to treat people uh differently based on our sense of how attractive they are if you settle
01:45:20
Nataliefor somebody you might do less for them you might not treat them as well sure that's fair I think a lot of it for girls too is like a lot of attrac I know we're talking solely based off looks but
01:45:31
Nataliea lot of attractiveness is from personality I've seen guys that I like know that before I get to know them I can be like they're not very cute they're not that good-looking but once you get to know them in their personality it can completely change and
01:45:43
NatalieI'm notoriously known to go for guys that the rest of my friends don't find very attractive but that's solely because of their personality and how they hold themselves right though or wait are you asking or
01:45:55
Brian Atlasno yeah so were they still 63 but they weren't good-looking but their personal not necessarily I mean I thought you only dated 61 and
01:46:04
Natalieabove my height and above like yeah almost 61 yeah I mean Height's a big thing but I think that their personalities are more like the thing
01:46:17
Brian Atlasthat gets them across from me if a guy's funny and like hold himself with confidence and stuff it goes way are all men funny and what what percentage of men do you think are funny and what percentage of men hold themselves with
01:46:28
Natalieconfidence or have Charisma probably pretty high amount but I think there's a fine line between confidence and Charisma and like ego sure these are all
01:46:37
Brian Atlasdifferent things but yeah uh I I would say that oh sorry go ahead well I mean I was just going to say I I agree that men can make up for
01:46:48
Brian Atlasdeficiencies by having uh outstanding personality uh humor Etc they can make up for it um
01:46:58
Brian AtlasI still think some component of physical attractiveness needs to be there yeah but yes sure if they can but what if a guy doesn't have those things doesn't
01:47:11
Brian Atlashave the physical traits no he doesn't have the humor or the Charisma or the personality it's probably a no guy I I find that when people don't hold themselves in confidence way don't have
01:47:23
Nataliethe Charisma don't they become less attractive to me okay even if they're like a 10 out of 10 there's just something about them that will always be less attractive to me the way you think really matters yeah there was a guy that
01:47:35
KwanI was talking to he had a eight pack beautiful but he was a liberal and I was just like I can't do it just the way that he the the things that he would say I just couldn't do it you did the right
01:47:46
Kwanthing he I'm telling you he was sexy his biceps were insane but he was just stupid not b really does matter my first boyfriend he actually was ugly he was not attractive people tell him all the time how the hell were you able to get
01:47:58
KwanKwan he it's my personality and it's true yeah he was a conservative no I was I was like 17 oh he's in prison now I didn't really chose the best guy
01:48:11
Brian Atlasthe first time around dodged a bullet so I guess I mean I guess going back to my point so if if women tend to have a delusional and inflated sense of self uh as it comes to their physical
01:48:22
Brian Atlasattractiveness they'll rate themselves higher than they actually are they rate men lower than what those men actually are I mean how how is this just not a recipe for disaster where women will just be perpetually chasing after men
01:48:35
Brian Atlaswho are out of their league and rejecting the men who are in their league so I mean that's why I think this rating question is important frankly I
01:48:45
Brian Atlasthink most women are trying to date well above what their looks prospects and personalities warrant
01:48:55
GracieI say some women not all I agree I especially think the issue of women chasing men is rampant right now I don't know if I entirely see the correlation between it being because
01:49:07
Graciethey rate themselves more highly and tend to avoid men who you say are in their league but I definitely think that it's a problem when women demean themselves to the point of chasing a man
01:49:20
Andrew Wilsonwhether they recognize they're doing it or not well I think that the script has slowly been getting flipped with Gen Z so the the idea of egalitarianism the movement towards were
01:49:32
Andrew Wilsonjust interchangeable widgets which has become socialized in society it seems to be rejected pretty heavily by a huge subset of genen Z A bunch of them embrace it don't get me wrong but a larger subset of them say no
01:49:45
Andrew Wilsonthan you would ever imagine and so they seem to look at this and go ah you know if uh if you really think we're equal and you really think that you're awesome and pay you could
01:49:56
Andrew Wilsonpay for the [ __ ] dates and you can [ __ ] off and that it seems to kind of reverse the script right now the women kind of have to chase them and it's like H you know we don't we don't really want to get involved if uh if this is going
01:50:10
Andrew Wilsonto be a lot of work and a pain in the ass and this type of thing and um there's a there seems to be a much larger subset of that now than there there was definitely for Millennials
01:50:22
Brian Atlasjust one point of clarification Gracie when I say chasing I don't mean that they're necessarily like doing the proactive
01:50:30
Brian Atlasthings that men do to get women although they are but uh so when I say chasing I just mean like the men that they want to be with so the man could still be taking
01:50:42
Brian Atlasinitiative uh because men will shoot their shots with women below their league um but the women will view this purely sexual interest
01:50:53
Brian Atlasand think that this is somehow equating to like long-term romantic interest and uh so a really attractive guy might pursue a woman
01:51:04
Brian Atlaswho's less good-look than him doesn't mean that she'll ever get commitment or anything like that that's why women often complain about [ __ ] boys and the
01:51:13
Brian Atlaslike um because there's just a differential there and you typically it does happen to men but you typically
01:51:23
Brian Atlasdon't hear men complaining about well I slept with her once and then I mean look there's some there's
01:51:33
Brian Atlassome women who do this but I slept with her once I wanted more but she didn't some women do this but it's not a common
01:51:43
Brian Atlascomplaint uh among men and the differential is so as a man if we can sleep with a woman there's a very high lik Ood we can get her in a relationship