01:51:54Brian Atlasit's not clear to me if the reverse is the same it's not clear to me if if a woman just because you can sleep with a guy that you can for with certainty get
01:52:05Courtney / Rihannahim into a relationship if that's your goal right I'm just doesn't that make sense though based on what you just explained so like a [Music]
01:52:17Courtney / Rihannaguy like did I hear this right so a guy sleeps with a girl but and think and thinks he could get her in a relationship is that what it is but then it's not the same yeah like as as men if
01:52:29Brian Atlaswe can sleep with you if we want a relationship there's a pretty good chance we can get that girl in a relationship M right it's not clear to me if a girl sleeps with a guy that she
01:52:41Brian Atlascan in all instances get the guy in a relationship I think that's fair it's true because I here's one of the reasons so in order for men in order for us to
01:52:54Brian Atlassleep with a girl typically from the girl's perspective from the woman's perspective we have to be at least attractive enough to be in a
01:53:03Brian Atlasrelationship with you so if you have and it goes sort of very opposite ways so for you to sleep with a guy even if
01:53:13Brian Atlasit's casual you'll typically want the guy to be like you'll go out of your way to find like a super attractive guy to
01:53:22Brian Atlasdo that yeah it's a fly cool um whereas when it comes to women or excuse me when it comes to men we'll sleep with a girl who just on
01:53:33Brian Atlasthe basis of her looks alone we just want to have sex whatever she'll never get commitment she'll never get a relationship we'll still sleep with her like just just on the basis of her looks
01:53:44Brian Atlaslike we'll sleep with her but based off of her looks we would never be in a relationship with her she'll never get commitment she'll never get a relationship
01:53:55Brian Atlasdoes that make does that parse for you like so for example if a guy's trying to get laid Yeah like he just wants quick sex he'll lower his standards whereas
01:54:05Brian Atlaswomen if they want to just get sex they'll actually typically they're not going to lower their standards looks-wise they're going to raise their standards look looks-wise they're going to be like well if I just want casual
01:54:17Brian Atlassex I want it to be the hottest guy I can get it whereas for a relationship they might recognize well I can't get that hot guy into a relationship cuz he just wants sex so I have to be more
01:54:29Courtney / Rihannarealistic when it comes to the physical attractiveness of a a long-term partner mhm does that make yeah that's but I yeah I don't know that every well God
01:54:40Courtney / Rihannathis isn't going to apply to every woman but like I feel like I I if I wanted sex I would go just sex I would go for someone who I felt was in my league and or above you know yeah so the most
01:54:52Courtney / Rihannabeautiful men on planet Earth right for sure T tense right yeah well listen after discussing I lowered my number okay so don't [ __ ] on me but I'm just
01:55:03Andrew WilsonI'm just saying um from the perspective of a woman who says I'm a 10 they say well I'm going to go out and get a guy who's in my league that's every [ __ ] guy who exists right sure but I do think
01:55:15Courtney / Rihannaafter hearing all this discussion like I think there is one thing to admitting or saying out loud that you're aend and then actually internalizing that and feeling that way it seems like more women just ask the question like myself
01:55:28Andrew Wilsonwould say yeah I'm a 10 but then realistically in their everyday lives I don't think they actually neither do we we think the exact same thing well no not so we're saying so we're saying the exact same thing right is that yeah
01:55:40Andrew Wilsonyou're you're correct that most women will identify themselves at an outrageously High number 8 9 10 um you know something in this
01:55:50Andrew Wilsoncategory but I don't think that they're being honest and when you you start to reduce why they're not being honest you start to recognize these kinds of patterns that it has more to do with how
01:56:01Andrew WilsonI feel more to do with how I want to present more more to do with that than how they actually think they rate compared to other women right so then if that's the case I don't know that
01:56:14Andrew Wilsoneveryone would delusionally go after the most attractive guy does that make sense right but that would make that would make our point for us it' be saying if you wouldn't weren't going after the most attractive guys but you're going for whatever was in your league then
01:56:27Andrew Wilsonthis idea that you were a 10 and amongst the most beautiful on planet Earth clearly can't be the case so that's the point right no and I think I got around to the point
01:56:38Courtney / Rihannayeah we have a chat here from Giovani C can I have you read it for us thank you Giovani Brian is spitting a male 10 will sleep with a three to five
01:56:49Brian Atlasfor any number of reasons drunk bored ET Etc but that 3 to five oh will then believe they're in the same league just because the 10 bottom out for them okay so I don't know why it stayed up for
01:57:01Andrew Wilsonsuch a short period of time I need to fix that but yeah so really good-looking guy sleeps with ugly chick now ugly chick thinks they can have a relationship with a really good-looking guy yeah point because women hold more
01:57:13Natalievalue over sex than guys do I would say generally or like have women women women yeah women women yes that's what she said it sounds like you're saying woman
01:57:23Nataliewomen women wom wom women sorry women okay women yes um because I think they tend to have a more like have emotional connection when it comes to sex and guys
01:57:33Brian Atlasdo like chemically in the brain scientifically that happens too so okay yeah uh oh last question on this do you think you will be more physically
01:57:45Brian Atlasattractive in 10 years time starting with you no okay uh do you think you're more physically attractive now at 34 than you were at
01:57:55Courtney / Rihanna24 um I guess not thank
01:58:04Courtney / Rihannayou guess not what uh no I I suppose I was more attractive at at 24 okay what about you in 10 years I'll yeah I'll
01:58:14Brian Atlasstay the same okay so you're 26 you'll uh be not more attractive but you'll be just as attractive at 36 than as you are now at 26 I mean who's to say maybe I could get more attractive but yeah I
01:58:27Lucy (Luchia)think I'll probably say the same so minimum same possibly more attractive what about 46 20 years time 46 probably the same yeah I mean just based on like
01:58:37Lucy (Luchia)genetics how my parents and aunts and uncles and stuff have aged I think so yeah okay 30 years 56 sure
01:58:48Brian Atlasyeah are you just trolling or I'm not trolling I'm being for real you okay 10 more years 40 years I
01:58:58Brian Atlasthink we'll prob tap out at 66 66 is the peak you think of your attractiveness yeah sure okay and so I'm just curious so you said you'll be just
01:59:08Brian Atlasas or more physically attractive at 56 as you are now at 26 uh why do you think that is because I'm pretty because I'm going to age well
01:59:19Brian Atlaswait can you just can you just repeat the question to me just so I know you understand the question what's going to make me more physically attractive is that what you're asking what I didn't say what okay
01:59:32Brian Atlasrepeat the question well okay the initial question was do you think you'll be more physically attractive in 10 years 20 years 30 years yeah right
01:59:42Brian Atlasum that is your understanding correct okay so why will you be more physically attractive at 56 as compared to now at 26 why because I'm going to be the same
01:59:54Brian Atlasperson I am which is a pretty girl and I'm going to I don't know so let me so I'll just grant you that people can obviously you can still be attractive in
02:00:05Brian Atlasyour 30s 40s 50s but that's not the question the question is will you be just as or more attractive as a
02:00:17Brian Atlascomparison um answer still yes yeah yeah still yes yes um Robert Tanner thank you for the
02:00:26Brian Atlasgifted 50 memberships um and are you you are familiar I am with aging yeah the whole aging thing that [Music]
02:00:39Unknown/Ambientthing intentional for whatever reason which have no idea why because they don't ever confuse
02:00:49Andrew Wilsonman interesting uh Hey Pagan thank man appreciate the uh CS there so this is a good observation what by elissa's good observation saying for some reason women
02:01:00Andrew Wilsoncan say men fine but say woman for women all the time I don't understand that that's really weird to me confusing it is very confusing sounds similar women and woman doesn't sound
02:01:13Brian Atlasthat similar women wom I feel like it's easier to slip up with you know um so I'm I'm a little confused though you said you were a 10 yeah how can you possibly be a 10 now if you'll
02:01:24Lucy (Luchia)be better looking in 10 years time because I'll be an 11 in 10 years time I don't know I don't know what's going to happen engag good faith or just
02:01:33Brian Atlastrolling I'm not trolling I'm being for real right but so on a scale of 1 to 10 10 being the maximum you can't be an 11 so that's not really productive we can't
02:01:45Andrew Wilsonbreak the scale uh no okay fine then you can't you can you can break the scale by saying that you will be the most beautiful woman on planet Earth who exists
02:01:55Lucy (Luchia)currently that would be the 11 okay and that's a good faith answer yeah it is a good faith answer I mean this is what I think personally I'm a martian did you know that I come from
02:02:07Andrew Wilsonthe planet your credentials no you don't need my credentials a good faith answer I'm being for real you're being for real that at 36 you're going to be the most beautiful woman on planet Earth that's a good faith answer Andrew he even Beyonce
02:02:20Kwandon't look as good as how she used to in her 20s I think she looks great but I mean again as good as she used to she was she was insane Adriana Lima she was considered like the most beautiful person on Earth after she has kids stuff like that like
02:02:32Lucy (Luchia)you wrinkle you Angelina Jolie and there's Beauty in that don't get me wrong but good but not as good as when they were in their Peak I don't know when my Peak is going to be I haven't gotten that far but I do know that I'm
02:02:43Brian Atlasattractive and I'll probably be attracted attractive 10 years from now but that's not okay that's not the question yeah I can just grant like sure you'll be you'll still be attractive I know what you're saying but I'm just
02:02:56Brian Atlassaying I mean like that's my answer I don't know why that's not good enough well because you say well I will still be attractive in 10 years time but you understand that's not the question more
02:03:07Brian Atlasattractive yeah you said just as are more physically attractive yeah I said yeah just as okay but so I mean knowing what you know
02:03:17Brian Atlasabout aging do people uh get wrinkled as they age sure they do yeah does this impact if somebody is very wrinkly or
02:03:27Brian Atlaswhat have you their skin isn't as uh whatever youthful as it used to be does this tend to make someone more attractive or less attractive I mean I
02:03:39Brian Atlasthink oh uh I don't know why that came in as a TTS um she's a witch may we burn her okay she might let you if you give
02:03:47Lucy (Luchia)her your life savings true um yeah I mean I mean again I think maturity uh some people are into that um
02:03:59Brian Atlasokay so that's my answer I'm going to stand on that some people are okay I'm struggling here a little bit so
02:04:09Brian Atlasif you think you'll be when do you think the peak is 46 36 56 probably the peak will be like 30 I mean can we like not do like 10 years
02:04:20Brian Atlaslike 31 dir flirty and thriving mhm so if I uh could wave a magic wand that only Advanced your outward physical appearance it didn't you know you wouldn't um pass away 5 years earlier
02:04:33Brian Atlasyou wouldn't if you were to get cancer at a certain age you wouldn't otherwise get it five years sooner just your outward physical and you live to the be um you know you you still live just as
02:04:42Brian Atlaslong if we could wave a wand Advance your physical appearance 5 years 6 years you would take it I mean I'm enjoying the age that I'm at
02:04:53Lucy (Luchia)right now I'm not in any rate it's just your out pH be the same age okay sure why not you would take it yeah The Crucible
02:05:04Andrew Wilsonwill pay for that surgery an age surgery okay uh you would take that sure I mean it's only 10,000 bucks and they can add all sorts of wrinkles and make you look way older beautiful then we can really
02:05:16Lucy (Luchia)uh would you actually do it would you commit to doing that I don't think anyone's going to say that they're going to commit to doing that because the answers weren't good faith and you don't
02:05:28Andrew Wilsonactually think that in or two things can be true at the same time well let's start with the first truth statement then do you believe that you're going to be the same attractive level that you are right now in 10 years sure yeah I do
02:05:39Andrew Wilsonokay if that is the case you don't think you're going to be a smidgen more attractive I think there's a possibility I can't see the future I don't know what's going to happen sure you can't see the future you're just guessing right now right yeah
02:05:52Andrew Wilsonif you're going to be just as attractive then as you are right now what would even be the harm of you doing an age advancement surgery cuz I don't want to go under the knife for no
02:06:01Lucy (Luchia)reason well but but it it has the potential to make you yet even more attractive I just said I could be just as attractive or I could be more we don't know so why would I take that
02:06:13Andrew Wilsongamble when I'm happy the way that I am mhm and but you did say that you would peek at 31 possibly I said possibly so now you don't think you'll peek at 30
02:06:24Lucy (Luchia)what' you say 30 sassy and flirty or some [ __ ] 30 flirty and thriving actually 30 flirty and driving again I don't I don't have a crystal ball I can't see into the future um I do know
02:06:36Lucy (Luchia)that I have seen plenty of women that have just gotten more attractive as they age and there's plenty of women that I'm sure think that they are less attractive as they age yeah can you name one that
02:06:47Andrew Wilsonyou think um who's a famous one who has gotten more attractive as she's aged God I can't pull it out of my brain right now I mean scarla Johansson has not gotten hotter she aged you don't think I think
02:06:59Lucy (Luchia)she's pretty attractive right now pretty attractive but not hotter or she aged same I cannot pull one out of my ass right now but let me think about it for a little bit
02:07:12Brian Atlasokay oh up to me um you'll have to repeat what the question was for the panel do you think you'll be uh do you think you'll be more attractive in 10 years time I think I will not be more
02:07:23Courtney / Rihannaattractive I think the peak is probably between ages like 25 to 35 and then you start getting wrinkles and aging and then okay yeah uh well you guys are 18 so well I I guess I could
02:07:35Graciestill ask it do you do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time no okay 28 no no I think my standard for beauty will probably change but I'll
02:07:45Brian Atlasprobably rank myself similarly so better looking at 28 I think like the same same what about 38 probably less attractive than 28 uh K
02:07:57Kwanwhat about you no I don't think I'll be as attractive I thought I looked great in my early 20s like I was damn near perfect I thought and you think now and so you're 28 you're 28 do you think you
02:08:09Brian Atlaswere better I'm 30 oh wait why did I put 28 you're 30 yes okay do you think you're better looking at 20 than you are now at 30 yeah yeah my stomach oh my God
02:08:20Brian Atlasyeah yeah all right there we go W WK in the chat um W I'm not worried about age
02:08:31Kwanthough just cuz how my parents look but realistically when I was my early 20s I was I was fire I was I look good yeah I feel like 20 to 6 to 28 for me yeah cuz you lose like you have like at least for
02:08:43Courtney / Rihanname when I was in my young 20s like college you I have like a round face and it starts to like thin out the older you get I don't know I think it depends where you see yourself too like in 10
02:08:55Natalieyears I me for me I considered that like I would want to have kids by that age and I feel like physically Wise It's probably less like you your body changes a lot when you have kids oh yeah well I
02:09:05Brian Atlasmean you got to think like 10 years of a crude sun damage stress the just the even if you took perfect care of yourself your diet was perfect you you
02:09:15Brian Atlasrefrained from like uh staying out in the sun too long healthy lifestyle zero stress you were just getting like you had servants that were Fanning you with
02:09:25Brian Atlaslike a uh palm tree branch and they were feeding you great grapes and [ __ ] you're still just naturally through the aging process wrinkles Etc and then most people don't go
02:09:37Andrew Wilsonthrough 10 years without no stress whatsoever stress does tend to age you a bit too I also wanted to I wanted to check into this a little more it's because since we've been over this I don't know how many times with how many
02:09:49Andrew Wilsondifferent women very similar answers um so I went and I I went back and looked at Legends folk legends about the Fountain of Youth right and I found hundreds hundreds of Legends about a
02:10:00Andrew Wilsonfountain where you go in or something similar to this where it reverses the aging process couldn't find any about a fountain of age or people seeking to age their bodies could basically find almost
02:10:13Andrew Wilsonno folklore on that couple of stories but usually it was like evil and nefarious right that was the that was the idea behind it why would you guys think that would be that people would always be seeking to reverse the aging
02:10:25Kwanprocess but they're never seeking to accelerate it why do you think that would be youth is beauty I think it's pretty simple that's why do you why else do would women get BOTOX they know that
02:10:37Andrew Wilsonyouth is beauty that's just what it is tighter skin no wrinkles we all know this and the association then for why men would be attracted to younger women is because they're beautiful right right I don't think I'm ugly but I mean that's
02:10:48Andrew Wilsonbut that's why right the the general the General kind of idea that men are attracted to younger women is because they they have Beauty and that's what
02:10:57Brian Atlasthey're after also I mean if on top of that if you look at uh products they tend to attempt to repair skin damage
02:11:07Brian Atlasthat is acrude as you age there is no cream out there for women that will give you wrinkles there's anti- wrinkle creams so it's like well you wrinkle as
02:11:19Brian Atlasyou get older but you're trying to fight against the wrinkles so you know what I mean you know what I mean anyways we have a couple chats here Robert
02:11:30Brian AtlasTanner oh is it not hold on let me see what's going on here I don't know why it's not coming up one sec that's
02:11:40Brian Atlaspeculiar oh I know why I apologize guys this got turned off not sure why that happened okay one moment guys let me get these out all right we have Robert Tanner hey like the channel been supporting for a
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02:12:21Brian Atlasfor that but yeah honestly like liking the video watching the video Etc appreciate it guys we have SS here hey thank you man R Maddy and the rubber doll don't have a nicer way of saying
02:12:32Brian Atlasthis redhead you are barely three so STFU please you're giving me psycho Vibes do you want to respond to that um I'm not a psycho and I want to see what
02:12:41Brian Atlasyou look like damn shots fired shots fired okay they're not I don't know why they're only showing up for
02:12:52Brian Atlasvery short period of time um let me see if I can fix that guys um hold
02:13:02Brian Atlason that's peculiar but okay uh and then we have I'm going to pull up the super Nick billam the Mars delusional Ginger the only scale you're going to break is a weights damn bro
02:13:14Lucy (Luchia)please eat a salad and run on the treadmill for once I do go to the gym and I do eat fairly healthy but you have PCOS or you did I don't know if you
02:13:24Brian Atlasreversed it I have PCOS so there's that but um I think I look great so all right billam the Mars thank you for the Super Chat I
02:13:35Brian Atlasguess uh I did want to come back to uh some of your stuff Luchia did I say it right this time Luchia Luchia did I I don't know um you had some tweets that I
02:13:46Brian Atlasthought were interesting uh and we're going to pull those up um actually Nick before we do really quick let me just do a quick
02:13:57Brian Atlaslittle uh check double checky can you just double check them all really quick make sure they're all okay guys if you want get a TTS in get a
02:14:08Brian Atlasread in be sure to get those in guys if you want and are they all good Nick yes all right we got some tweets we
02:14:18Lucy (Luchia)got some tweets we have to react to uh these are interesting for sure okay can I have you read them just yeah I'm in a shitty mood and I want to take
02:14:31Lucy (Luchia)it out on a stupid man I'm in the mood to cause permanent damage to your bank account and your balls what [Music]
02:14:41Lucy (Luchia)um permanent damage to the bank account yeah and balls and balls don't leave that one out I actually had a a dude give me a fair amount of money to make a
02:14:52Lucy (Luchia)custom clip uh talking about how I wanted to make him infertile and render his balls useless so again are you a feminist just curious
02:15:03Lucy (Luchia)um I wouldn't Market myself as a feminist no I mean I believe in like rights for women sure but like would I call myself a feminist no all right uh well we can get into that bit later
02:15:15Lucy (Luchia)we'll get through all the tweets and then we can can I just have you read them yep uh I love going to the pool at
02:15:26Lucy (Luchia)my apartment because heads always turn when I walk in yes I'm a beautiful redheaded goddess and what of it stop the
02:15:36Lucy (Luchia)C okay uh they turn the other [Laughter] way that's very funny I'm a goddess I am a goddess thanks for repeating it this
02:15:48Lucy (Luchia)is hilarious I want to hear I want to see more okay go ahead men were created to provide that's literally it doesn't matter if you consider yourself a fin sub or not I
02:16:00Brian Atlasstand by that that's all men are good for is providing in your view is to provide and maybe make me laugh every now and then but I think I'm funnier so
02:16:10Kwanmen do a lot yeah men created this table them chairs they fight in the wars for us women do that too who what women do you really think women are on the front lines like really erroneous I don't know I'm not in the
02:16:23Lucy (Luchia)military you honestly think if a man were to get shot in the front lines a woman would be able to pick up his body and take him to safet no I don't I'm just saying that you're like kind of erasing the fact that there are women that I never said that I never said that there aren't women but honestly do you
02:16:36Kwanever see a woman construction worker a woman on the skyscraper building cleaning the windows do you ever see a woman in a car do you ever see a woman out on the streets work all those are
02:16:46Kwanfair my mom's a wood worker like how how how often do you see I think you see it more and more I agree generally with what you're women choose to be in different like easier job titles teachers I'm not
02:16:59Kwansaying being a nurse is easy teaching is not easy teaching is very hard is not it's a very safe easy job men have to they men don't really have a choice they have to do these hard jobs cuz who else is going to do it we're not going to
02:17:11Kwanactually choose to be an electrician we're just not we're just not I don't know if you had to choose between being an electrician or being an at home wife you're going to be an at home wife and get taken care of you we all know this I think it's also a lot of how like men
02:17:24Natalieand women are raised like men are taught from a young age how to fix things and stuff like that whereas like maybe some girls are too I mean my dad told me how fix a lot of things it doesn't stop us we can still definitely do it but we're not going to choose to do it it's also not instilled in us from a young age
02:17:36Lucy (Luchia)like it is so comes more naturally to them I would say well I don't think you should generalize that like maybe you don't and I personally don't want to do those jobs I'm not going to lie but and
02:17:46Lucy (Luchia)there are women that do fix cars that do woodwork that that do build stuff that do fight in the military so I mean come on when it comes to harder jobs men do that would you like honestly if I were to choose between a man or a woman to
02:18:00Kwanbabysit my child I would choose a woman we just have like there's certain things I would trust women to do better than men and men better to do hey Nick can you go into the infographics
02:18:09Kwantab uh it's just called J dangerous jobs one go ahead uh K continue oh no I was just going to say that when it comes to like certain job titles I mean we would trust women to do certain things versus
02:18:20Kwanmen I I would trust a man to save me if somewh to break into my house I mean I know how to shoot a gun but I'd rather a man try to jump in front of the bullet besides myself I mean I agree with that but also who do you think is breaking
02:18:31Kwaninto your house a man or a woman a man but who else who else are we going to need to like get rid of that guy like I mean not everyone it's I just think it's pretty stupid to just assume to just think that men and women are on the same level
02:18:44Lucy (Luchia)we're just not we're not equal though I never said that they were on the same level I just said that it is capable that women can do this stuff it is but I
02:18:56Kwanmean you wouldn't you you'd prefer a man to protect you realistically we all would a man would would rather prefer a man to protect them I mean it is is what it is
02:19:07Andrew Wilsonsorry I mean that's your take on it but I mean isn't it you have it isn't it your take too honestly cuz you aren't you just kind of pointing to outliers saying because there's outliers there's exceptions to the rule doesn't
02:19:20Brian Atlasmean yo Robert Tanner thank you for the gifted 50 memberships Nick go ahead pull it up thank you Robert Tanner I mean these are the top 20 most dangerous us occupations so if you look at the far
02:19:32Brian Atlasright these the percentage male logging workers fishing workers aircraft Pilots roofers uh refu collectors truck drivers irons Steel Workers farmers and ranchers
02:19:44Brian Atlasagricultural workers recyclable material workers mining Landscaping construction workers cement and concrete manufacturing electrical Powerline workers police maintenance and repair
02:19:55Andrew Wilsonworkers Taxi Driver chauffeurs support activities for mining mining these are now let's let's get in let's get into that even more even um so if you bring that back up real quick
02:20:07Andrew WilsonNick if you look at taxi drivers and chauffers you'll note that in comparison to most of that chart um there's actually quite a few more women than you
02:20:17Andrew Wilsonwould think but why would that be if you had to guess why women would would enter into that occupation to the point where it would drop it from the 95% tile down to 85% why do you think that would be
02:20:30Andrew Wilsonjust for that particular career I don't have a a guess for that I don't know is it do you think maybe it's because driving is really [ __ ] easy and the entry the barrier to entry is really low to just
02:20:42Andrew Wilsondrive I mean I think there's more to it than driving let's see let's look at the rest of the chart if you were to go over for instance to Roofing you see how
02:20:52Andrew Wilsonthat's 98.3% and fishing workers 99.9% you say that those have a massive barrier to inry based on physical qualities characteristics and knowledge versus driving a taxi I mean sure it's a
02:21:05Andrew Wilsondifferent profession right so the thing is is that even in these professions where you see that men are not in this 90th percentile you see the barrier for entry physically would be far far far
02:21:16Andrew Wilsonless and that's why so that's why these distinctions when you point out outlier if women can sometimes do X nobody disagrees that women can sometimes do X but most women cannot do X and also cuz we have children I mean a lot of the
02:21:30Kwantimes where who else is going to bring like we have kids that we have to take care of we're not going to be able to go mining or any do any stuff the guys are doing because they have to get out and do it we have to take care of the kids so there but didn't I just say that men
02:21:42Lucy (Luchia)are providers so they should be doing these jobs like it shouldn't like I mean if a woman wants to by all means go for it but I'm just saying are providers so go do that job go learn a trade go do
02:21:54Lucy (Luchia)something you know well you said that that's what that's all they're good for yeah and what are you good for a lot of things like I'm funny I'm smart you
02:22:05Lucy (Luchia)Haven demonstrated that yet I'm okay well that's your qu um yeah the list goes on and on what a great quality You Can Dance what do you
02:22:17Lucy (Luchia)bring to the table though what do I bring to the table I'm smart I'm funny I'm attractive I have talent what talent in I just said I'm a musician I dance what kind of music do
02:22:29Lucy (Luchia)you play I play a lot of different music I play my guitar so I play like there's guitar here can you play a tune and show us how talented you are I don't want to do that don't want to I mean I could
02:22:41Andrew Wilsonyou're an amazing goddess talented goddess I am talented but I also don't really want to like serenate a bunch of people that didn't have to be serated know if men are so used less that their only job is to be you providing for you it sounds like you're just a typified
02:22:54Andrew Wilsoneater like I don't know what you're really bringing to the table you just kind of consuming resources right but what does that even mean can you at least cook it means yeah I can cook actually I'm a really great means I
02:23:06Lucy (Luchia)don't know what you're doing I can cook I know how toan help building of society the answer that I could be domesticated and I can cook and clean and do all that I can I can no that's not what I'm
02:23:19Andrew Wilsonasking what I'm asking is what a value are you bring into society into society like nurses do I mean by being me I don't dentist by being you I'm enough I am an off
02:23:33Lucy (Luchia)okay let's do the rest of the tweets how many are we doing uh just a few do long yeah let's do all uh let's put us bigger can you read it uh life is
02:23:45Graciealways better when you have a male punching bag to abuse whenever you need it and you're referencing these m ill men that you take advantage of these are recent are recent these are soent that
02:23:56Lucy (Luchia)was a few days ago um pull pull that one up again one more time ni is this like about men also you got to fix understand this is a
02:24:07Lucy (Luchia)account that's based on Kink like BDSM so I mean but you actually purp is it yeah exactly is it just work or do you actually really think that yeah I mean I
02:24:17Lucy (Luchia)can't really answer that like sure sometimes times I uh I say stuff that might have a little bit of truth behind it but also I mean this is a job for me too
02:24:28Lucy (Luchia)so you're playing into the Kink a little bit so is that the character you're playing or is that you I mean I don't really think i' play a character I am me and I'm then that's you sure okay pull
02:24:40Brian Atlasthat same one up again real quick male punching bag to abuse So when you say to abuse how do you abuse your male punch bags I punch them oh like
02:24:53Lucy (Luchia)physically I mean I have I've like kicked a guy in the balls and he's enjoyed it so yeah wow okay
02:25:04Lucy (Luchia)um uh okay we'll get through all of them and then I'll give my okay go ahead um it's always the fugliest Normy man that assumes I'm a witch and that
02:25:14Lucy (Luchia)I'd ra I'd ever waste my energy doing a spell on him pack it up Mis delusional go take a hard look look in the mirror fugliest Normy men interesting okay are
02:25:26Lucy (Luchia)men concerned you're doing spells I've gotten a comment before do you do spells I can neither confirm nor deny
02:25:35Lucy (Luchia)and that's just being real I don't like I think like spells like I mean anyone can do a spell without outwardly saying they're doing what kind of like so what
02:25:46Brian Atlaswould if you're casting a spell what would be a spell that you would cast when godamn love you I mean like
02:25:56Lucy (Luchia)abundance an abundance spell like I have an altar I sit in front of my altar I light candles I kind of meditate and manifest abundance sure you could call
02:26:07Andrew Wilsonthat a spell but I mean do you ever cast a negative no I don't believe in spell the dark spell or something wouldn't all spells be a negative no well you say you cast a spell of abundance right yeah
02:26:20Andrew Wilsonokay so let us assume that you cast a spell for more money how could you ever receive more money without somehow um interfering with the will of other people who ordinarily would not
02:26:30Andrew Wilsonproduce whatever the situation would be necessary for you to get that money what do you mean by that well so like let's for instance pretend that you're in front of your altar and you cast a spell for a
02:26:41Andrew Wilsonbike well unless you believe that the clouds are just going to open up and drop a bike I assume that you think a bike will come to you through some other mechanism somebody still had to build it they still had to do X Y and Z so if
02:26:53Lucy (Luchia)somehow this bike gets to you and it ordinarily would not have gotten to you absent this spell how would you not be affecting other people's Wills I mean I'm not affecting other people's Wills because it's just a means for me to get
02:27:05Andrew Wilsoncloser to what I want like how is that affecting someone else's will well I just explained it to you so let us assume for a second you wanted a glass of water that would you would not ordinarily get this is why you cast a
02:27:16Andrew Wilsonspell your neighbor comes over and he gives you a glass of water right he ordinarily would not have given you the glass of water absent the spell or you wouldn't need the spell didn't you affect your neighbor's will I mean maybe he just wanted to give me a glass of
02:27:29Andrew Wilsonwater I don't know well then why would you need the spell because it's just a spiritual practice so it doesn't work how do you know though that does work if it does work then I don't see how you get around
02:27:42Lucy (Luchia)the fact that you are affecting people's will I don't know how manifesting abundance for myself which is very vague honestly would interfere with someone else's will because I don't know how you would get
02:27:53Andrew Wilsonthe abundance right in any other way than affecting people's will or you I don't see why you would need the spell to begin with this is the big downfall and Pitfall of the logic of magic it's
02:28:05Andrew Wilsonwhy out of all religious practices it makes the least amount of sense because magicians and witches always say that they practice white Magic The Magic of abundance or growing or nurturing but I
02:28:19Andrew Wilsondon't see how you actually could could do that without affecting the will of the things that are around you I don't even see how that's possible how do you know that it's not the will of those things to be affected though so you know what I mean so but but here's the thing
02:28:31Courtney / Rihannaif it's the will of those things to be affected why do you need the spell it's not that I need it it's that I choose no no no hang on no I mean like like it was the will but I don't even know if I can
02:28:44Courtney / Rihannamake this make sense but it makes sense in my head like now I see what you're saying it the will that she was gonna do the spell to then impact the will just that so it's still impacting but it's
02:28:55Courtney / Rihannastill impacting the will yeah but it was like always supposed to it was then why would you need the spell yeah you wouldn't need the spell
02:29:06Nataliealways have so you always go back to Ground Zero it is how do you how do you translate this to like prayer prayer you're asking God for something in his will not trying to change the will of someone else but I never said I was
02:29:18Andrew Wilsontrying to change to God the is the assumption is God is omnipotent so when you're praying you're only asking to execute the will of God never the will of you never the will of any anybody
02:29:29Andrew Wilsonother than the being of God itself witchcraft is the opposite witchcraft is asking Universe whatever whatever the hell they are are praying sometimes sometimes it's the idea of this
02:29:41Andrew WilsonUniversal constant which then delivers the thing unto you that you want sometimes it's called The Law of Attraction sometimes it's called other things but that that's basically what it's doing I have never been able to
02:29:53Courtney / Rihannarationally figure out how that could be possible without affecting the will of other people and then how do you think like meditation plays into that because well I guess are we talking we're talking about impacting the will of ourselves or
02:30:06Lucy (Luchia)others this is getting slightly confusing she was asking for abundance that would be the will of or how would that be the will of others are you asking abundance for yourself oh yes abundance for myself that could be literally giving me the strength to go another level and do something for
02:30:19Andrew Wilsonmyself like never said I was going to affect the will of others you're putting words in my mouth well no I don't see how you would receive abundance though but I said specifically with externally ever externally unless you
02:30:32Andrew Wilsonwere affecting the will of other people I just don't see how that's possible well maybe you just have brain I don't know if you just say why I light a candle so that I get up and I'm motivated to go to the gym the next day
02:30:43Andrew Wilsonright fine I guess but I don't even know why that would require a spell exactly the idea of spelling is old right I mean it's a spiritual practice everyone engages in their own spiritual practices
02:30:55Lucy (Luchia)would you call more it manifesting then than it spell yeah what are you manifes I mean yeah you could call it manifesting there's multiple words for it what's another word for it spelling
02:31:06Andrew Wilsonspells yeah so the spell is designed to manifest sure well then you're if you're manifesting then I I just don't see how you would manifest X thing external
02:31:19Andrew Wilsondominating external will I just I don't understand how that can be done well we can agree to disagree yeah but no we can't agree to disagree I I actually just need I need you to Agree to Agree or give me an argument for how I'm wrong
02:31:32Lucy (Luchia)I literally just gave you an argument what is the argument I told you that I'm not affecting the will of others I'm affecting my own will so so you only do
02:31:42Andrew Wilsonspells and say specifically that this spell is for personal motivation to do X thing and make it happen comes from you wouldn't that just be selfin then you
02:31:53Lucy (Luchia)can call it whatever you want I mean I don't know like why it's such a big deal to be honest oh it well well I only would think it was a big deal if a person ordinarily would not think that
02:32:05Lucy (Luchia)it was okay to affect the will against other people's will didn't I just say in that tweet though that like I wouldn't waste my time even trying to affect the will of him or said person whoever I was talking about yeah but that might be a
02:32:18Andrew Wilsondifferent way that you view that situ ation then you do magic or witchcraft sure so yeah I'm just I'm untangling the ideas so no it's not it's not actually
02:32:29Andrew Wilsonthough an argument to say well no I only do it as a manifestation of things which will come from me unless you're telling me you only make spells and craft them and pray to whatever the thing is that
02:32:40Andrew Wilsonyou're praying to for self-motivation to actualize things from your own personal perspective which I doubt I mean again it's
02:32:50Lucy (Luchia)meditation it's just sitting there focusing my thoughts uh pinpointing what I want to work on manifesting
02:32:59Andrew Wilsonlike do you ever manifest stuff you want I mean sure well how do you manifest stuff you want without without affecting external Wills I don't care if affecting external Wills there we go I don't care
02:33:12Andrew Wilsonthat's what I was looking for I don't give a [ __ ] if you have a will which ordinarily would not be affected by me that I affect to get the [ __ ] I want but
02:33:22Courtney / RihannaI'm not a psychopath not a sociopath I want like what if we were to take this on like a positive note though because like when people meditate often times it's with good intentions to impact
02:33:33Andrew Wilsonothers and to impact their will you know what I mean so so what she's talking about is different than meditation though but hang on but I want to engage I want to engage directly with what you're saying
02:33:44Andrew Wilsonbecause you're making a good point right what if the will I have is positive on somebody else so let me give you a demonstration of how I think that you wouldn't really believe this okay so if
02:33:55Andrew Wilsonyou were to let's say do something horrible to your partner from their perspective but from your perspective it was you're only doing this thing as a
02:34:06Andrew Wilsonway to be positive it's helping them in some way but from their perspective it was awful right um an example of this might be something as simple as um I don't know slipping their medication
02:34:17Andrew Wilsoninto you know into their drink at night so that they were taking their medication let's say I think I'm coming from a more yeah but hang on okay right to engage with this directly I would
02:34:29Andrew Wilsonlike to know isn't it also true that if somebody doesn't want their will affected and you affect it even if your intention is positive that you would still think that that was kind of [ __ ] up or wrong in some
02:34:39Courtney / Rihannaway well I suppose what what I'm M May because what I what I'm thinking more is like if you take it from a perspective if you're looking from like a spiritual
02:34:52Andrew Wilsonperspective and meditating like I wouldn't I'm not talking about slipping a pill on anyone's drink to help them out I'm thinking about no I'm just giving you an example of how you can have a positive intention but your positive intention if you if you are
02:35:04Andrew Wilsonaffecting the will of somebody else right from even from your perspective I think you wouldn't think that was okay sure yeah
02:35:15Courtney / Rihannayeah I'm just thinking more about spiritual practice with medit ation and and like but I don't we don't really need to get into a whole like religious spiritual I mean that's fine we can move
02:35:26Brian Atlasit on from that yeah we got more tweets I love hurting men or sorry you should say it in your own words I love hurting men heart now does this does
02:35:37Brian Atlasthis extend beyond the findom like in a general sense do you love hurting men no I mean if I'm if I have a partner I would never want to hurt him no what about you it's not a partner just a men
02:35:49Lucy (Luchia)in General I mean if they're not getting into the Kink then no I don't really like I don't sit here and I'm like hm I just want to hurt someone today like again this is kink
02:36:00Lucy (Luchia)based didn't you say that you enjoy it like you find it funny yeah I do find it funny but they're G they're giving to the
02:36:08Brian Atlasking I mean this this but the Tweet itself doesn't say any anything about like here's an Master isk
02:36:20Lucy (Luchia)disclaimer this is specifically about a kink your Tweet lives on its own yeah yeah it does and I mean anyone that's looking at my account usually is within the community so they would have an
02:36:33Brian Atlasunderstanding of public Twitter profile anybody could stumble upon your your thing I mean even in your profile there's no such asterisk or disclaimer
02:36:40Brian Atlasthat says by the way these are satirical or uh this is only within the context of this
02:36:50Brian Atlaspink and even if I mean so you're not really disclaiming way that you are talking about just all men in general cuz I don't have to disclaim if you want to look at that tweet and get offended
02:37:02Lucy (Luchia)that is on your own valtion you know what I mean like I'm not sitting here being like who am I going to hurt you today I mean you don't think that that's an offensive thing to I mean it sure it's offensive but people say offensive [ __ ] every
02:37:13Lucy (Luchia)day what if the roles were reversed like what if it said what if a guy tweeted I love to hurt woman then you I mean everyone has the ability to argue against something if you feel
02:37:25Brian Atlasthat strongly say something and if you don't whatever well I'm just looking for a concession that it has absolutely nothing to do with your Kink and this is
02:37:34Lucy (Luchia)actually just how you genuinely view men this is my Kink um your Kink or your it's not your Kink right well I mean like I'm you're just doing it for money it has nothing to do with your sex I
02:37:46Lucy (Luchia)mean I'm into it in a in an extent of like it's a practice like it's BDSM like if you're in a a Dom space or like for some a sub space like this is what you're into but it doesn't mean you're
02:37:59Lucy (Luchia)into it all day every day like you leave like Subs they leave sub space where they work in the military or they're I have plenty of Subs that have done you know pretty important like crazy jobs
02:38:10Lucy (Luchia)you know what I mean but it's not your Kink it's their Kink I mean my Kink is financial domination I'm also into you know like the humiliation like I enjoy
02:38:20Brian Atlashumiliating men I think it's fun yeah so you derive sexual pleasure by saying things on Twitter such as pull that the last one the yeah the
02:38:32Brian Atlaslast one I love hurting men you derive sexual pre pleasure from either saying or doing those things I mean if uh the situation
02:38:44Brian Atlasis like a submissive is like getting off to that then yeah I think it's hot said it's your king so you're deriving pleasure simply by virtue of saying that yeah I get pleasure from it I get
02:38:56Brian Atlaspleasure from tweeting like that I think it's fun I like it so if somebody had a kink for example where they because like I don't think you can explain way Behavior
02:39:07Brian Atlaspurely and and here's the pretext or justification of a behavior it's a kink it gives me sexual pleasure there are certain things that are can just be deemed objectively wrong
02:39:19Brian Atlasso like hurting animals would you agree that that's wrong what if somebody derives sexual pleasure from hurting animals then that's [ __ ] up how's this any different than you saying you like
02:39:31Lucy (Luchia)hurting men because there are men and men a lot of men like hurting women so I'm not sure I totally follow there
02:39:42Brian Atlaswhat was hard to follow well your so your justification is well men do bad things so I can also do bad things to perhaps even innocent men because
02:39:53Brian Atlasthere's bad men out there who do bad things to conceivably innocent women these aren't innocent men they're coming to me for this you know what I mean like nobody came to you on your Twitter that's just you putting it out into the
02:40:06Lucy (Luchia)ether yeah it's called marketing so then you don't actually believe it no she does believe it I do believe it it's her she so it's not just marketing I mean it is marketing I am
02:40:16Andrew Wilsonmarketing myself like put here xers ex person hang on hang on this was wait wait she she brought up she brought up
02:40:24Andrew Wilsonlike the the kill shot here so the logic is I m I do believe this no I don't it's marketing okay well then it can't just be marketing if you do believe this I
02:40:37Lucy (Luchia)said I didn't say I don't believe it I just said it's marketing and no but you said that you enjoy it and that you like it do enjoy it I enjoy humiliating men not just marketing yeah I mean sure you could call it not just Market but in
02:40:49Andrew Wilsonthat sense where I'm tweeting something general like that that's marketing okay but you also believe it sure that it's not marketing it's not well not just marketing right it's something you believe right marketing
02:41:01Lucy (Luchia)your set of beliefs yeah in a context of BDSM I enjoy humiliating men yeah not external this context I mean in my everyday life I'm not going to go up to a man and be like you're [ __ ] ugly
02:41:13Brian Atlaslike [ __ ] you like for no reason well I mean the evidence already exists you post mandress comments on Twitter is this sorry is this account though specific to that
02:41:26Courtney / Rihannayeah I don't use that account for anything it's not like a personal account you would consider it like a BDSM account yes yeah that it's labeled as that I mean that's a really easy way to try to like shield from that's true
02:41:38Brian Atlaswhat we're trying to get at here but so when it comes to the marketing component in the example I previously provided where if somebody was sexually gratified by harming animals if they
02:41:49Brian Atlasjust defended it while it's marketing that still is not a defense to the uh abuse of animals I mean I don't cosign the abusive animals I love animals the abusive men sure I co you're fine okay
02:42:02Courtney / Rihannawell well do you eat animals huh do you eat animals I do yeah can't hear that much about him but you're so you're comparing though and maybe you're not maybe you're just comparing General
02:42:14Courtney / Rihannabelief system but you're comparing like hurting men to hurting animals whereas like hurting men in the context of sex is like a thing you know what I mean but is that not the comparison you're making
02:42:25Andrew Wilsonyou're just making it like that's the personal actually he's kind of going with what you're saying here so Brian's again just trying to untangle the ideas no so me to so untangle it is the idea
02:42:37Andrew Wilsonhere that this is just a character she's just playing a character yeah and if you're just playing a character fine right okay we can concede you're you're playing a character and that's all you're doing but it seems every time we
02:42:49Lucy (Luchia)lean into is this just a character we get no this are actually what I believe I said it I mean obviously you can call it a character if you want I mean there
02:42:58Lucy (Luchia)are men that I enjoy humiliating like in person like I was in Vegas about a month or two ago some guy tried to photo bomb my picture I said get the [ __ ] out of my
02:43:08Andrew Wilson[ __ ] picture [ __ ] like you know I thought it was funny and it was yeah I mean I could see that being funny to tell somebody to get the [ __ ] out of your picture shot fine sure I'm
02:43:19Lucy (Luchia)what but what we're asking here is this you or is this a character that you are playing I would say it is a character 85% based on who I
02:43:31Andrew Wilsonam okay so then I guess the last question I'm going to try to give you the easiest out possible so if there was never money
02:43:40Lucy (Luchia)exchanged in hands again right would you do this for fun um well finom is my main Kink so it
02:43:52Lucy (Luchia)would depend but no I probably wouldn't give out free Kink for no money what's the fun in that with a partner or something like do you enjoy I mean personally I wouldn't want to be
02:44:04Lucy (Luchia)partnered somebody who partnered with someone like that yeah I want to be partnered with someone that confident that's a character then that's a character sure it's wrong I don't really care
02:44:15Brian Atlasyeah kill shots on this side of the table tonight I'm still not convinced that it's a a character though I mean I just think
02:44:24Lucy (Luchia)this is just gen your genuine self demeanor yeah um I mean I don't have to convince you I mean you can believe what you want to believe about me um there's plenty of people in
02:44:37Lucy (Luchia)my life that can attest to my great character and I'm sure there's people that couldn't okay next tweet let's close the doors Nick maybe there wouldn't be a loneliness epidemic for men if they all knew their place as
02:44:50Lucy (Luchia)inanimate objects devoted to my financial
02:45:03Natalieokay why the girls laughing at this cuz it's just like a kind of outrageous statement to me is it yeah it is like that's kind of crazy like sure call it
02:45:15Lucy (Luchia)crazy do you genuinely believe that's all that men are good for is just F I think it's situational yeah like do you want a husband one day maybe I haven't really
02:45:26Kwandecided on that yet um go ahead cuz honestly like realistically if a man were to see that all the tweets that you post up and you say this is my job he's just going only going to use you just to have sex with you that's it he will never take you
02:45:39Kwanserious he will never give you children he'll never give you the home that you want I don't want children so you're saying that now but when once you get older you're going to start to feel a lot more lonely when you start seeing all your friends all your settling down with their kids with their dogs their cats their kids going to their sporting
02:45:52Lucy (Luchia)events they're they're cheering their kids on you're going to feel lonely I won't because I can vicariously live through them you know be an aunt whatever like I don't
02:46:04Kwanneed to have kids to feel fulfilled that's that's what makes women feel the most fulfilled that's not true like that's your opinion like when women meet up with each other one of the first especially if you're married and you
02:46:16Kwanhave kids how are the kids doing I I mean I saw I saw Mike at his basketball tournament he did a great job and then the guys will talk about whatever the guys want to talk about but they always talk about kids whenever women meet up and they have families that's what we
02:46:27Kwantalk about cuz kids make us feel happy I want to be a mother one day I don't ever not want to have children I want to have a husband I want to have all those things we that's just what's going to make us feel whole that's literally the
02:46:37Lucy (Luchia)main two things okay well I have decided that I don't want children I don't think it would make me feel whole I'm happy with myself I'm happy with what I do and if a man decides to come along which
02:46:49Lucy (Luchia)that's actually not true there's plenty of women in this industry that are married that are in happy healthy relationships um and some of them do have kids so I mean that's not true
02:47:00Lucy (Luchia)there are the rest of us childless cat ladies um it's going to be a different perspective for everyone I mean I think to to say that what you think is just
02:47:13Lucy (Luchia)fact that's what's going to make every woman feel fulfilled that's just not true and I mean two things to be true at once you can have your Bluth I can have mine you know what I mean nobody wants to die alone I never said I was going to die alone but if you don't have children
02:47:26Kwanyou don't have a man you're going to die by definition you're going to die alone you're not going to have anybody your parents are already going toone I mean but I don't agree with the children like cuz you like on your dying bed you want to see all that you created
02:47:38Kwanthe family that you created you want to see your kids and your grandkids them all surrounding you when on your last moments that's what just like you just you just do you don't want to be sitting there just nobody came for me like you don't ever want to have to be in that
02:47:50Lucy (Luchia)position that's what you want I have plenty of great friends like I also I'm choosing not to be in a relationship there's plenty of guys that I've been seeing that I've been like hm don't
02:48:01Lucy (Luchia)really think I see a future with you and like that's on my own valtion like sure have there been guys that like things haven't worked out with and it's kind of a whatever like on their terms like sure
02:48:13Lucy (Luchia)but I'm just saying I don't feel like I need to be with a man to feel fulfilled and I know plenty of women that are in their 30s 40s 50s that don't have
02:48:23KwanPartners or children and they're just fine no they're not no they're not those types of women are going to keep women like us the younger women in that in that position they're not happy they want to see other women unhappy just like them I guarantee you what they want
02:48:37Kwanis that man and the kids they weren't able to get it because of their own bad decision making what about lesbians they don't want them yeah but this is this is a podcast about straight couples no offense to the gays I mean you guys do what you want but at the end of the day a man and a woman together we create