She SCAMS Men ($250,000)?! 52 Year Old Single Mom WILL NOT SETTLE ($500k+/yr)?! | Dating Talk #188
Date: 2024-08-19
Duration: 7h 03m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00(audience)
SPEAKER_01Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_03Asia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Claudia(guest)
SPEAKER_05Christy(guest)
SPEAKER_06Morgan(guest)
SPEAKER_07Maddie(guest)
SPEAKER_08(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Lexi(guest)
SPEAKER_13Jasmine(guest)
SPEAKER_14Serena(guest)
Key Moments
00:03:24
IntroJasmine introduces herself as ex-stripper/scammer, stay-at-home girlfriend
“Jasmine, 26, Thousand Oaks, stay-at-home girlfriend. Used to be a stripper and scammer.”
00:08:30
Key MomentJasmine details the fake fiancé scam: ~$250,000 extracted from 52yo man over 2 years
“He paid rent, breast augmentation, liposuction, sent $5-10k/month via phone transfers.”
00:30:09
IntroAsia introduces herself: 52yo LA, beauty trainer, GlowUp Girls podcast
“Asia, 52, Los Angeles, beauty industry regional trainer, GlowUp Girls podcast.”
00:31:18
IntroChristy introduces herself: 53yo Chino Hills esthetician, GlowUp Girls podcast
“Christy, Chino Hills, licensed esthetician specializing in sugaring, GlowUp Girls podcast.”
00:32:34
IntroClaudia (Cece) introduces herself: 20yo pharmacy tech
“Claudia/Cece, 20, turning 21 soon, pharmacy specialist tech.”
00:32:52
IntroMorgan introduces herself: 18yo SBCC political science student
“Morgan, 18, city college, political science.”
00:33:04
IntroMaddie introduces herself: 19yo Whatever podcast staff / SBCC student
“Maddie, 19, works on the podcast, student at city college.”
01:36:36
Key MomentAsia reveals she wants $500k/year partner; female delusion calculator shows 0.031%
“I would say at least $500,000... 0.031% of men match that criteria.”
02:45:00
Key MomentSelf-rating round: guests rate looks 1-10 (no 7s allowed)
“Jasmine 6, Asia 8, Christy 8, Lexi 6, Claudia 6, Serena 8, Maddie 8. Brian 5.”
03:20:00
ControversyAndrew says 52yo women bring nothing to the table — calls Asia an "old bag"
“None of them including the old bag here bring nothing to the table by their own admission except their vagina.”
04:00:00
Key MomentBrian plays bow video; asks each woman if she would bow for her man
“Maddie: yes. Asia: yes. Lexi: no. Morgan: no. Claudia: yes.”
04:55:00
QuoteAndrew articulates three things men want from women: peace, anticipating needs, putting him first
“Men essentially want peace in their home, they want their woman to anticipate their needs, and you have to put him above your own needs and desires.”
05:30:00
QuoteAsia refuses to lower standards after delusion calculator shows 0.031%
“I won't lower my standards. I'll be alone, that's what you guys think, so I'm happy being alone.”
05:50:00
ControversyJasmine claims 80% of men would SA a woman in the forest; Andrew offers $10k bet
“80% of secular men would rape a woman if given the opportunity in a forest.”
06:40:20
TopicAsia rage-quits the show during discussion of white culture
“I have to go. Bye. I'm out of here.”
Topics Discussed
00:00:00
Show intro and announcements
Brian Atlas opens the show, gives platform announcements (Streamlabs, Twitch, merch, Discord, TikTok).
00:03:15
Guest introductions (round 1)
Each guest introduces name, age, location, occupation. Extended discussion of Jasmine's stripping/scamming background and fake fiancé story (~$250k extracted).
00:35:00
Relationship status round
Brian asks each guest current relationship status, longest relationship, how they met current partner.
00:42:00
Pre-show notes: Asia's dating history
Deep dive into Asia's 45 first dates over one year post-10-year relationship. Dating app experiences, 3 three-month situationships, $1,500 first date, income/success discussion.
01:30:00
Women's success and what men care about
Brian and Andrew debate whether a woman's career success matters to men. Asia argues success is attractive; Brian points out she never paid for a date. Andrew explains traditional male provider hierarchy.
02:05:00
Traditional values, submission, and obedience
Extended theological and philosophical debate on submission in relationships. References Pauline epistles (Corinthians/Ephesians). Andrew argues obedience means husband has final say; Jasmine provides Christian context. Asia and Christy discuss what men want from traditional relationships.
02:45:00
Self-rating round (looks 1-10)
Guests rate their own looks on 1-10 scale (no 7s). Jasmine: 6, Asia: 8, Christy: 8, Lexi: 6, Claudia: 6, Serena: 8, Maddie: 8. Brian rates himself 5/10; guests rate Brian 3-6. Fit check — guests stand to show outfits.
03:00:00
Aging and looks trajectory
Discussion of whether women look better or worse as they age. Brian argues all people get less attractive over time. Asia claims she looks better at 52 than at 22. Christy: peak at 23, declined during marriage, recovered in 50s via plastic surgery and self-care.
03:20:00
Plastic surgery debate
Discussion of nose jobs, BBLs, lip filler, Botox. Brian dislikes most procedures; Andrew notes 90s vs current trends. General agreement nose jobs can improve appearance; BBLs widely criticized.
03:31:40
What do men want / help-mate concept
Andrew articulates three things men want: peace, anticipating needs, and being put first. Brian discusses help-mate concept — stay-at-home girlfriend increases his earning potential. Lori (Jasmine) describes being a stay-at-home girlfriend; what she cooks/prepares.
04:00:00
Bow video and showing respect to partner
Brian plays viral video of woman bowing to man coming home. Goes around the table asking if each woman would bow. Maddie: yes without hesitation. Asia: yes if it makes him happy. Lexi: would not, finds it culturally weird. Morgan: would not. Claudia: would for her current guy. Andrew discusses curtsy as female equivalent.
04:25:00
Past shouldn't matter / body count discussion
Brian asks if past matters (started from Jasmine's sex-work background). Goes around table on body counts. Jasmine: ~6. Asia: less than 20. Serena: 5. Maddie: declines. Lexi: 0 (virgin, Christian). Claudia: 6. Discussion of double standards and hookup culture.
04:40:00
Jasmine's NBA player and rapper dating history
Jasmine reveals she dated an NBA starter for 8 months while abstinent. Also went on dates with minor rapper one-take J. Brian discusses percentage of women who are strippers/sex workers in LA.
04:55:00
What women bring to the table (older women)
Andrew asks Asia and Christy directly: what do you bring that offsets financial burden + baggage? Both cite: friendship, companionship, cooking, emotional support. Andrew argues these traits are available in younger women with less baggage. Discussion of older male dating pool being vicious for women; widower phenomenon.
05:25:00
Female delusion calculator — income requirements
Each woman states income requirement for a partner. Asia: $500k/year (revised: needs $1M retirement nest egg); other women: $70k-$100k. Nick pulls up female delusion calculator. 0.031% of men at $500k criteria; 0.14% at $200k. Asia refuses to lower standards.
05:50:00
Bear vs man in forest
Classic bear vs man question. Jasmine says bear — claims 80% of men would SA a woman if given opportunity. Andrew and Brian spend extended time challenging this math (110 million SA-inclined men in USA). Jasmine revises to 40%, then back to 80% for secular men. Andrew offers $10,000 bet that 2 in 10 men wouldn't even cat-call her at a grocery store. Brian argues Jasmine essentially hates men.
06:23:20
Feminist and political questions
Do you consider yourself a feminist? All say no. Can you be racist to white people? Mixed opinions. Is there male privilege? Maddie says yes but earns it; panel mostly agrees both genders have different privileges. Who is the primary victim of war? All say men. Are men or women physically stronger? Men. Can you be sexist toward men? Yes.
06:40:00
Show wrap-up
Asia rage-quits when asked about white culture. Final ratings of Brian's eyebrows (42-55 out of 60). Brian announces Tuesday show with Daily Wire guest. Twitch raid to Summit1G. Andrew promotes debateuniversity.com.
Transcript
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04:39:49
Asiatake on at least 50% of whatever your Current financial burden is well because I'm because I'm going to be with a man
04:39:57
Asiathat wants to be with me and that's we have that same goal in mind because we are looking for that in life I know what you're
04:40:09
Asiatrying to get at but and you're you're trying to make it something tangible and quantify it maybe in a dollar sign
04:40:19
Asiaitang like love is not it's it's it's something that yeah I think I think all of these attributes that you just stated are quantifiable yes I think that the financial burden you come with is
04:40:31
Andrew Wilsontotally quantifiable I think that the goals and expectations that you have totally quantifiable so yes of course I'm quantifying them because why why wouldn't you it's a it's a risk
04:40:42
Andrew Wilsonassessment right so from my perspective I would be looking at risk assessment how much is 50% of your life worth is if it's x amount of this amount of money then that's going to mean x amount of
04:40:53
Andrew Wilsonthis amount of time for me so if that's the case I would still want some sort of offset for that you're not now if you were banking on religion I would say
04:41:02
Andrew Wilsonsure absolutely uh in a religious uh connotation that's not going to matter as much but you're not banking on religion you you said you that you're just spiritual so if this is simply
04:41:15
Andrew Wilsontransactional either emotionally or financially transactional then I would like to know what does he get for 50% of your debt and life I'd like to know he
04:41:27
Asiagets my undying love and attention and affection okay all
04:41:36
Brian Atlasright okay uh we have notes here from Lori Lori you said that you uh dated dated NBA
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Brian Atlasplayers SL rappers yeah Celtics huh Celtics Lakers you mean Celtics Celtics did I say that [ __ ]
04:41:57
Brian Atlaswrong God damn that's embarrassing l in the chat for Brian Celtics that's what that's what they're called right it's Celtics
04:42:07
JasmineCeltics Boston Celtics damn that's that's right mhm um team that they were onics no neither of those teams Super Sonics is
04:42:19
Lexithat even a real team that's a team isn't it no that's not a team super is
04:42:25
Lexithat the team I'm like sure it's not a team the SuperSonics am I no I'm like that's like a TV show or something
04:42:38
Brian Atlassounds like we're an American Professional Basketball Team B in Seattle damn it God I'm old when did they not be when Ice Cube Today Was a Good
04:42:49
Brian AtlasDay the Lakers beat the SuperSonics that on the big fat Fanny pulled out the is that how that song goes yeah I don't remember oh my
04:43:01
SPEAKER_12goodness okay um I have a question yeah okay so if my opinion is that women look look
04:43:11
SPEAKER_12women are more insecure I guess and seek security and men are more lustful and
04:43:19
SPEAKER_12you know seek like you know carnal knowledge so then if women are looking
04:43:27
SPEAKER_12for like a financially secure man so what what is like equally valuable if not sex or even if it is sex to a man
04:43:39
SPEAKER_12does that make sense mhm can you repeat that one more time I'm so bad at explaining things okay so
04:43:47
SPEAKER_12if if women are looking for financially secure men what in exchange would be of equal value
04:43:56
SPEAKER_12to a man if sex then that's your answer if it's not sex it thank I have a list
04:44:06
Brian Atlasbut Andrew maybe wants to chime in and then I'll I'll read my list
04:44:14
Andrew Wilsonthere's there's probably three big primary things that at least I would say from the from the Christian Perspective that we would want and I
04:44:24
Andrew Wilsoncan't speak to um the secular perspective too well because I think that they have different standards but I think that they would generally kind of agree with this I think that men
04:44:35
Andrew Wilsonessentially want peace in their home they want their woman to anticipate their needs this is a big one that people forget about all the time the best way you can
04:44:45
Andrew Wilsonshow a man respect is to understand and anticipate the things that he wants before he even knows that he wants them and the the way that that shows respect and the way that that shows that you
04:44:57
Andrew Wilsonlove him is because if you can anticipate those things he knows that you're paying attention to him very closely so you're the focus and then the third thing is you have to put him above
04:45:08
Andrew Wilsonyour own needs and your own desires and number three is the thing that I think women uh at least in modernity fail out the most is they want men to put them up
04:45:19
Andrew Wilsonon some kind of pedestal so I've heard this explained this way that women are trained from birth now how they deserve to be treated and men are
04:45:30
Andrew Wilsontrained uh from birth how they're supposed to treat women but nobody is trained from birth for how they're supposed to treat
04:45:39
Andrew Wilsonmen and this is um this is a massive problem because the truth is is that men know how to treat other men because we're in their company all the time but women seem to [ __ ] suck at it and I
04:45:51
Andrew Wilsondon't think that that that was always the case but I think it's it's due to the standard of how it is that they think they deserve to be treated by Men Without ever adhering to the standard of how they think men deserve to be
04:46:07
Brian Atlastreated well put Andrew well put so your question is if women are looking for XYZ things uh what are men looking for sure
04:46:18
Brian Atlasyeah so I mean there's there's a looks component but I mean to bring it more so to the characteristics and traits that she's being bringing I would say the three
04:46:30
Brian Atlasbiggest one is peace one is femininity and then um
04:46:41
Brian Atlaswhat's the best framing for this last one uh I I would say uh sexual Purity those three things
04:46:52
SPEAKER_12mhm so if sad woman was to bring those things either of your guys' things then would that justify a man being like
04:47:03
SPEAKER_12financially supporting the woman in the way that she would ideally want if it's not like well I mean I can speak from my experience that that's exactly what I
04:47:12
Andrew Wilsondid and I took on um what would be considered to be extreme burdens by many other
04:47:21
Andrew Wilsonmen um and I was happy to do so it's as long as I can have those three qualia the three that I stated uh
04:47:31
Brian AtlasI'm a very happy man and I'm a very content man Andrew is there a term I didn't mean to cut you off there Andrew but is there a term uh help help me help
04:47:42
Brian Atlasmade what is that like help made help help me am I let me Google this I'm I'm not sure if I'm oh I don't know where I'm getting
04:47:54
Brian Atlasthis freaking term from help well so like I think when it going back to this conversation about like women's careers and stuff at least from
04:48:04
Brian Atlasmy point of view I'm thinking so if I have a partner and this is one of the values that I think a women can bring to my life so if she can alleviate certain
04:48:14
Brian Atlasthings in my life that make my life easier and in so doing I guess let's say her earning potential is
04:48:24
Brian Atlas$70,000 a year my earning potential is $5 million a year if she can alleviate my time so that I can boost my
04:48:34
Brian Atlasincome by 10% wouldn't it make the most sense that she just stays at home and supports me in all the ways that she can support me
04:48:43
Brian Atlasand I can bring in an extra1 or $200,000 a year versus her working a full-time job to make 70k when she could help me
04:48:53
Brian Atlasmake 100 200 extra uh 100 200k extra a year by staying home and helping me and helping me in my mission I wonder if this is even the right way to look at it but before I weigh in I'll let the the
04:49:07
Andrew Wilsongals answer help mate oh have them answer what my thing yeah yeah
04:49:15
Andrew Wilsonwell I was just my my only thing is is um I think and and this is due to practical experience of course I don't have enough data to make this claim as
04:49:27
Andrew Wilsonbeing something which is solid but this is just from kind of um a mixture of anecdote and then what I perceive men will go through absolute hell hell on
04:49:40
Andrew WilsonEarth in order to take care of their women and their family if they just have this kind of minimum threshold which is given to them and the thing is is that there's so
04:49:51
Andrew Wilsonmuch willfulness it's almost like what happens is if you give somebody too much they just begin to expect more and more and more and I think that this is what
04:50:01
Andrew Wilsonhas happened in modernity with women is that even kind of these basic things like the idea that Brian says well I'd like a woman to bow after I get out of
04:50:10
Andrew Wilsonthe [ __ ] minds and I go up with coal all over my face and I just brought home $200,000 this year this [ __ ] [ __ ] can't make some noodles for me what the
04:50:21
Andrew Wilson[ __ ] that's the thing right is like it's a legitimate criticism in many ways because what what's really being said here is like look at everything I'm bringing to the table and I I every day
04:50:34
Andrew Wilsonday and day out and I don't complain I don't [ __ ] I don't whine and I ask for such a small amount and even then we have to quibble about it and that's really what that's about right the bow
04:50:45
Andrew Wilsonhas nothing to do with anything other than just show me that I actually matter and that all of modernity which kisses women's asses even though it's built on
04:50:56
Andrew Wilsonthe backs of men that you actually respect the fact that that's done and that's all that's really being asked and so I I almost wonder if even this is the wrong way to look at it right the the
04:51:09
Andrew Wilsonway that Brian looks at it I think that women should be [ __ ] grateful they should be grateful they live in the best Society ever and it's all built on the
04:51:18
Andrew Wilsonbacks of not them the air conditioning which enables them to even exist everything which allows them to exist in maternity is built by men and they're
04:51:29
Andrew Wilsonthe most ungrateful snot-nosed brats about it that you've ever seen and there's really no cause for it because they bring nothing to the table none of them including the old bag here who
04:51:41
Andrew Wilsonbring nothing to the table by their own admission except their [ __ ] and that to me is why and when asked this is all you get I bring love and affection you don't
04:51:52
Andrew Wilsonbring [ __ ] to the table and that's why you can't even answer the damn question no matter how many times we ask it and it makes me sick because that is modernity
04:52:11
Christyoh well um first of all I don't know if that is being addressed to asan I or being addressed to women in general but you did point us out however you have no
04:52:22
Andrew Wilsonclue like good what do you bring to the table besides your vagina give me give me a real example if you want a man to take care of you for the rest of your life what do you bring to the table
04:52:32
SPEAKER_00except your vagina and a bunch of baggage I bringing a lot I like I said earlier if you're listening start with the bagage you bring and then we'll move on to the awesome donated
04:52:44
Christy$100 Wilson well said all right thank you negative 100 he wants let's start with the baggage firstage okay my baggage personally yeah
04:52:56
Christywell I have three kids I was in a marriage for 20 years MH and basically that's it I'm I'm that's that's do you realize how
04:53:07
Andrew WilsonMonumental what you just said was that you have three children and most of your life was taken by another man for 20 years you can't give another man children what are you bringing to the
04:53:17
Christytable really I I've never dated a man anyways that wants more children and second of all I'm not looking for a man to marry I'm I would like to have a
04:53:29
Christycompanion and if I do find the right man I'll marry again however I'm not out there searching for a man to care for me you're not she is but if you're not then what else are you
04:53:42
Andrew Wilsonbringing to the relationship besides again just your vagina really like what are you really bringing to to a man that he's just really going to desire what makes you so special that you stand out
04:53:53
Christybesides this one attribute honestly honestly I'm going to say I a great cook
04:54:00
Andrew Wilsongreat cleaner I know how to communicate well mhm and I know how to please a man yeah and the men that you end up with have to be exceptional they have to be exceptional in their field or they can't
04:54:13
Andrew Wilsonbring home the kind of money which would be required to take care of you and whatever the graduation gifts for your kids are whatever the whatever the whatever the things are which are necessary to move over to to the
04:54:25
Christyresources to your children your Offspring right I've dated men that make less money than me and I never had a problem with that at all well you're not with them for a reason right well it had nothing to do with
04:54:36
Andrew Wilsonfinancials sure I'm sure it didn't it just happened to be a happen understand that they made less than you and you're still not with them right had nothing to do with the reason why we're not together
04:54:46
Andrew Wilsonhonestly okay I believe you but in any case no I don't really see much in the way of attributes I don't think that either of you are particularly stunning don't
04:54:58
Andrew Wilsonthink you're particularly funny I don't think you're particularly engaging and if you can cook and clean great so can all the 20-year-old girls who are sitting there right next to you all of them so what exactly are you bring
04:55:10
Andrew Wilsonthat's so Monumental that offsets the baggage to age to a relationship why somebody should pick you that's the question and it's not even to be mean it should just be pointed it should just
04:55:21
Andrew Wilsonpoint out something that's obvious to men and that women just kind of pretend doesn't exist well you can ask that question to anybody man or woman right you can and
04:55:32
Christythat's why I'm asking it to you yeah well friendship if you find the right match with the right person friendship quality personality companionship
04:55:44
Christysomeone that you can laugh with someone that you can share stories with yeah they can do all that with activities with and have fun with they can do all that with a 25y old you sure can you sure can that's my point though
04:55:57
Christyit's like so what do you really bringing to the table same thing I could date a younger guy but I choose not to because you're not on the same page like mentally emot hang you can [ __ ] a
04:56:09
Andrew Wilsonyounger guy that doesn't mean going to marry you true yeah and that's most older women have this experience yeah younger men will bot but they ain't going to marry him and they ain't going to be with them long term you can't give
04:56:21
Andrew Wilsonthem kids and so they end up dumping you that's what happens in fact this G next to you said she had that very experience she dated a younger man and he decided
04:56:31
Andrew Wilsonah you know I actually want kids and you can't give them to me these are some big that's all by the way all of that is baggage all of it if I you can't give them kids that's baggage if you have
04:56:42
Andrew Wilsonkids that's baggage if you XYZ that's all baggage it's not just I have an X husband and I have three children it's I'm older that's baggage one it's I have three children that's baggage two I
04:56:55
Christycan't give you children that's more baggage all of this is baggage everybody has baggage at a certain age and that's why I feel like for me personally I like
04:57:04
Christyto date guys my age because we probably have equal amounts of baggage right I'm not going to be realistic and date
04:57:12
Christysomebody that's a lot younger than me that's going to view me as an older person with a lot of baggage men your
04:57:23
Andrew Wilsonage in comparison to you are going to be highly pursued by almost all women in your age bracket most most of them because they've ACR a ton of resources
04:57:33
Andrew Wilsonso you're dating competition is even higher in your age bracket I would argue than in the 20s right right yeah hard I mean the thing is you have to be exceptional in your age bracket to
04:57:45
Andrew Wilsonnet these men because for one thing they're libidos way down right they're not necessarily just looking at you for sex like a lot of the younger men would be and so that's one of the big netting points that women have I'm young and
04:57:57
Andrew Wilsonbeautiful and all these men want to bang me and that's a big netting point a big selling point men in your age bracket their libido goes significantly down now you got to actually bring something to the table that's why women in your age
04:58:08
Christybracket have such a hard time netting a good quality man right am I wrong no I hear you and our dating pool is so much smaller than when we're way
04:58:18
Andrew Wilsonsmaller yeah way small they slim pickings sides so that's that's why it's not I'm not asking these questions to be mean or cruel to you I'm asking them pointedly because I understand that in
04:58:31
Andrew Wilsonyour age bracket the dating Mark is even more vicious in many cases and it is for younger people your options are way Slimmer and you have to be exceptional to stand out to men who don't just value
04:58:42
Andrew Wilsonyou for your vagina which younger men do right and so when I ask these questions what do you bring to the table that's what I'm asking it for so what do you now that you understand what do you
04:58:52
Christybring to the table I just told you earlier go ahead and tell me again friendship good personality someone to
04:59:01
Christytalk to someone to support I would definitely support him emotionally good conversation a buddy to go places with
04:59:11
Andrew Wilsonto travel to hang out with what makes those at late nights sure what makes those qualities exceptional in comparison to other women in your same age bracket I'm a good listener and I'm
04:59:22
Christydown to earth I'm not fake or phony okay wait all right I'm I'm do you have fake
04:59:34
Christytitties uh I'm not fake or phony on the inside oh oh oh my God I'm so sorry well didn't you just hear him our dating pool is Slim and picking so we got to be
04:59:44
Christyabove and beyond right to but you said you're not fake but I'm talking personality wise internally sorry yeah you know what I'm talking about sorry
05:00:01
Andrew Wilsonsorry crickets yeah cue The Crickets it's well it's a It's actually an interesting phenomenon you know um if I were to ever start a dating show I think
05:00:12
Andrew WilsonI would probably Focus mostly on 45 to 55 even to early 60s people and the reason is is because the dating Market there I have so many people reach out to
05:00:23
SPEAKER_00we're in this age GMD gy donated $99 Andrew Wilson nailing it again we can hire a cook house cleaner and escort
05:00:34
SPEAKER_00if so desired we also have friends what makes all that baggage worth it yeah I was just I was just kind of going to dive into this but the number one
05:00:44
Andrew Wilsoncomplaint that I hear from Men in this age Brack in their 50s especially it's like look uh my libido is way down I don't value women anymore the same way I
05:00:56
Andrew Wilsondid in my 20s where I wanted to have sex every single day uh you know multiple times a day in many cases this type of thing right women in their 20s old man
05:01:06
SPEAKER_00marine donated $100 Andrew you're amazing ex-wife Never Satisfied never happy or grateful even toe I made more money every year
05:01:16
SPEAKER_00vacations jewelry health inss for four of us she thinks she can do better now she broke yeah this a very common story too but anyway yeah so so this is what I
05:01:27
Andrew Wilsonhear commonly in this age bracket is because I don't value those things right the women that I'm looking for they need to bring me one thing one big quality which is that I don't have to take care
05:01:40
Andrew Wilsonof all their [ __ ] and uh and they they they fracture my peace right they fracture my peace and so what what is the point of
05:01:52
Andrew Wilsonme having a companion right if I'm only going to have sex with her you know once a week because my libidos weigh down if she brings all this baggage to the table that I then have to deal with that's the
05:02:03
Andrew Wilsonnumber one complaint that I hear and that makes a lot of sense to me men in their 50s not going to be boning as much as men in their 20s makes total sense women in their 50s of course they they can still you know have the the same
05:02:16
Andrew Wilsonkind of libido but it goes down for them too and so they're asking what as me me as an established man in my 50s let's say I have all these resources why the
05:02:27
Andrew Wilson[ __ ] should I share them with her and I don't have a great answer to that what is what are the things that they're bringing to the table where you should share those Resources with them
05:02:39
Andrew Wilsonand every time I ask the women this they kind of come up with the same type of answers well I'm funny I'm cute I'm snarky I'm quirky I have all these different things but they're like all of them are like that and so this this is
05:02:51
Andrew Wilsonkind of where I end up you [Music] know just kind of trying to understand right I'm trying to understand from your
05:03:01
Christyperspective what what are these things really um well I'm not trying to be disrespectful ful to men out there when I say this however I feel like when men
05:03:13
Christydivorce it's very different from when women divorce because when men divorce are so quick to replace their ex-wife because they want someone to take care
05:03:23
Christyof them cook their dinner do all the necessary wife stuff right but for women when they divorce sometimes they soar and they become a better person they're more successful they're able to focus
05:03:35
Christymore on themselves so I feel like there's a codependency issue here with men and women um and I'm not trying to disrespect or bash men yeah of course they do they tend to do better in divorces because
05:03:46
Andrew Wilsonthey end up with the man's income from the previous husband's income they end up with his house they end up with child support they end up with alimony so of course they end up uh now by the way
05:03:58
Andrew Wilsontheir income bracket generally goes way down but they end up doing better solo only because of these factors that most of the time the court rules in their favor and gives them the allocation of those resources so men don't usually
05:04:09
Christyhave that Advantage yeah but putting the financials aside I'm saying emotionally women are stronger um single
05:04:20
Christythan women than men are men feel like they always need to be with a woman I feel like after they lose a spouse or after they go through a divorce that's my experience with some
05:04:32
Andrew Wilsonof my friends and my guy friends and relatives I feel like it's always the men that are so quick to find a replacement because they're scared fny because the marriage rates don't show that they show that the women remarry
05:04:44
Andrew Wilsonmuch faster than men remarry almost like they had other people in their sites to remarry after they got the divorce in their Pipeline on the sidelines yeah exactly in their pipeline so the thing
05:04:56
Andrew Wilsonis is like one I'm not going to agree that that's true and two I've seen what happens when a man is widowed in his 40s and in his 50s and it is [ __ ]
05:05:05
Andrew Wilsonridiculous it's every predatory woman in her 40s and 50s that exist on Planet Earth coming out of the woodwork before his wife's even in the ground before
05:05:16
Andrew Wilsonthere she's even in the ground I'm so sorry this happened oh because now he's available the fight over widowers is insanity never seen anything like it
05:05:28
Andrew Wilsonyeah you've seen it right in your age bracket happens a lot they they go absolutely wild for you know what doesn't happen though that doesn't happen to widows doesn't happen to widdows the same way SE I've seen widows
05:05:41
Andrew Wilsonokay I'm not saying all the time it doesn't I'm just saying it happens way more with widowers and I think the reason it does is because a widower is showing a bunch of these qualities that women want quality one that a widower is
05:05:53
SPEAKER_00showing is I was with my wife for the duration I'm a steadfast individual right I wasn't leaving her she had die
05:06:02
SPEAKER_00$100 BS divorced here too the woman leaves I'm single after 2 years she is
05:06:10
SPEAKER_00and 50/50 child support $1,750 per month equal time wrecked all my assets and took half yeah not shocked
05:06:21
Andrew Wilsonthere but yeah so the the the widower is showing though I have all these qualities you want I'm stalwart I'm steadfast I stayed with my wife for the duration she had to die or I wouldn't
05:06:31
Andrew Wilsoneven be separated from her right so he's showing all the qualities that a woman wants what's interesting is a widow doesn't necessarily show that they have
05:06:42
Andrew Wilsonthose qualities just by virtue of the man dying it's not a demonstration to other men that those qualities are present the same way it is in the opposite direction and I just wondered like why do you think that is what do
05:06:54
Andrew Wilsonyou think you're why do you think it is that they flock so much to widowers instead of widows I'm not sure but I mean back to the whole dating pool slim
05:07:06
Andrew Wilsonpickings you know yeah but it's slim pickings on both ends right correct yeah so the thing is is that I I would I would have expected to see as many
05:07:18
Andrew Wilsonshoters it's really interesting the older you get as a man how many suitors open up to you who are women if you want them versus when you're younger the opposite is true right M that's where we
05:07:30
Andrew Wilsoncome up with these memes of like cat lady and you know you're going to die alone and this type of thing it's because men when they have tons of resources they can just kind of have
05:07:39
Brian Atlastheir pick right that's true yeah that's why we asked what you I'm going to bring it back to what we were talking about I was asking about uh you
05:07:49
Jasminesaid you were involved with NBA players yeah how how did you meet him um well when I was like dancing you're just
05:08:00
Jasminein that environment I was always in like outside at in La uh going to parties I've been to like I mean I feel like anyone that lives in
05:08:11
JasmineLa has probably been to like sw's house that was like a thing like 5 years ago who the [ __ ] is that guy yeah you don't know I was like I
05:08:20
Jasminedon't know who s is I actually don't if you heard a song you yeah yeah know who it is I mean it doesn't matter he's irrelevant now but it's like you bring
05:08:29
Jasmineup the sing it for us how about no sing it for us no way but I feel like that's just you know you're in that environment you're around them did you hook up with any NBA players no it was when I was celibate I did date one though for like
05:08:42
Jasmine8 months and we didn't do anything or absent to be correct not celibate is there a difference
05:08:51
SPEAKER_00yeah GMD gim donated $99 what a load of shite I am their age two cheating X's gone I was loyal to both they were [ __ ] before were
05:09:03
SPEAKER_00paper's final dot I have been single and celibate for 17 years single you've been celibate for 17 years
05:09:13
SerenaJim bro you gotta let that thing loose her whole life uh just kidding Jim Jim Jim
05:09:24
Brian AtlasJim uh congrats man congrats on your 17 years of celibacy there must be cobwebs up in that [ __ ] but good for you Jim I'm
05:09:34
Brian Atlasproud of you I'm proud of you Jim uh thank you for the TTS sir you dated an NBA player for eight how
05:09:44
Brian Atlaslong eight months yeah no [ __ ] no BJs nope [ __ ] eating nope NBA player M aren't these guys like
05:09:54
Jasmineknown for just being dogs um no offense NBA players he was Christian his mom was nice he wait his mom was nice yeah his mom did he know you used to be a he knew
05:10:07
Jasminethat I yeah he knew that I was dancing at that time oh you were dancing at the time uhhuh good Christian boy mhm but it's also like he was in LA and that's just kind of I think like what they
05:10:19
Brian Atlaswhat's the percentage of strippers in La yeah a lot it's less than one 1% for sure that's a lie you think more than
05:10:28
Jasmineone it's it's probably like 0.1% our our in La is way more than what percentage of women in the LA are
05:10:36
Jasminestrippers then 10% well shut no [ __ ] you know like five here you guys only have one strip club and then the next one is Oxnard so you have to think like that's two clubs they probably okay what
05:10:48
Jasminepercentage of women in LA are strippers look it up yeah I don't know like probably around like 30 30% you have to realize that there's like the education system has failed us
05:11:00
Jasminepeople that you don't even expect are like strippers I'm sorry 30% of women are not strippers girls that are like on Instagram just living their best life are strippers like I would run into them
05:11:13
Jasmineat the club and I'd be like I thought you were like a dental assistant 30% of women why don't sters look it up on Google maybe sex workers but not
05:11:23
Morganstrippers not even sex work hold on not even sex work only fans girls in La you have to not 30% you have to think sex work La is a massive City hold on
05:11:34
Brian Atlaspopulation 30% of La talking about Los Angeles La well hold on they're city of Los Angeles 3.8 mil but let me do let's just do LA County which is [ __ ]
05:11:44
Jasminemassive uh I'm talking population 10 million also there's so many people that work in La that are strippers that don't live there I didn't live in LA 30% of women are
05:11:55
Jasminescrippers that work in La no way no way I there's no way there's there's girls that drive from like Vegas to dance in La them them [ __ ] live in Vegas
05:12:07
Jasminebut they still like I lived in thousand I still worked in Los Angeles shout out Thousand Oaks wait what so sad but I still what's it called I still lived I mean worked in La about 30% so what
05:12:19
Brian Atlaspercent are porn stars uh do you count only fans girls I don't know sure I don't know I don't a lot I would run into a lot of porn stars at the strip club too what percent of uh
05:12:30
Jasminewhat percent of men in LA are NBA players I don't know how many live there how many work there I mean what the Lakers and the Celtics that work there but they don't most of them don't live
05:12:41
Brian Atlasthere okay Celtics is Boston yeah didn't yeah oh uh not Celtics the Clippers
05:12:48
Brian AtlasClippers okay um well anyways so uh so 30% so I guess I was just confused like
05:12:57
JasmineChristian good Christian boy NBA player at this time I was dancing but I wasn't like dancing like that consistently cuz I at this time he benched no no he was actually at the
05:13:11
Brian Atlastime what do they call it like if you're the main one of the main he was one of yeah starter he was a starter starter thank you
05:13:20
Jasminestarter what's his name I'm not g to do that um you also dated rappers yeah how many rappers did you
05:13:31
Jasminedate like actually gone on several dates with like two names um sing a song by them sing a song r a
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Jasminesong rap it I don't even listen to secular music I can't think of anything like that right now um I mean I'll say one I I like went on a couple dates with like one take J but
05:13:55
Brian Atlashe's not really like a big rapper like that okay and I'll say that cuz he's like a nobody sure okay um bless you uh you said the uh any dating topics you
05:14:06
Brian Atlaswanted to speak on the mentality you have dating a sex as a sex worker versus being saved by Jesus yeah or just the mentality that W that woman women now in
05:14:18
Jasminesociety have about what a high value man is you want to elaborate a bit on yeah just more so like what I think the idea women have of like
05:14:30
Jasminewhat a high value man is now and like how they think that I I feel like we've kind of been talking about it already tonight about what you think a man should provide for you and do for you um especially in like today's
05:14:41
Jasminesociety cuz I think it's very skewed to a lot of girls think that they should be just provided for because they are attractive and they can have sex with someone when that's really not like the
05:14:57
Brian Atlascase Okay um and then the mentality you have dating as a sex worker versus being saved by Jesus so pretty much just like waiting to have sex or it well yeah I
05:15:08
Jasminemean well she's gone now but kind of like how she wants to save herself for a marriage is something that I think that thought process came more into my head
05:15:18
SPEAKER_00once I did find like my value more in finding Faith mhm Hillary Epstein donated $200 sure ask them how much money a man has to make to qualify for them if you
05:15:31
SPEAKER_00haven't already and compare that to the mean Medan and range of Los Angeles bring it down to reality okay um yeah we'll do that really quick
05:15:42
Brian Atlasuh how much money does a man have to make to qualify for you starting with you um right now like realistically cuz
05:15:53
Brian AtlasI'm 26 my boyfriend's 26 like near 100,000 a year okay what about you um living in Los Angeles what the question no or wherever I don't know
05:16:06
Brian Atlaswherever you live I guess I mean I would say at least at least a
05:16:15
Asia500,000 come again might have not heard the hold on wait so for for you you want the guy I mean I don't really know as long as like our lifestyle and our our goals are in alignment so so bare
05:16:27
Asiaminimum I just but not I mean definitely six figures is the bare minimum but you said like 500,000 that's what I make yeah you make 500,000 no no no but I
05:16:37
Asiamake at least six figures I make six yeah how much I mean I make close to 200,000 a year but you said you want 500,000 yeah I mean at least someone on my level but
05:16:50
Brian AtlasI think 500,000 is a good lifestyle is that like two and a half times your level I think it's a good lifestyle well would it yeah dating a billionaire would be a good lifestyle sure you going to snag a
05:17:05
Asiabillionaire is Andrew Here Andrew uh I don't know if I'm just uh I'm just in awe I'm I'm just listening I don't know that guy said he was a multi-millionaire
05:17:16
Asiaand he'd rather be with a 52-year-old with a son than a young girl so there are men out there I think you missed the part that message he was said he was
05:17:26
Brian Atlasjoking it was sarcastic it was sarcastic oh okay so wait you wanted okay uh hold on we got to go around the table first uh income for your now you're young
05:17:38
Brian Atlasright but I want to frame it like this is going to be maybe you're in your mid to late 20s this is going to be the guy that you're going to marry how much do you want him to make realistically probably anywhere between like 85 to 100
05:17:51
Christylike if you say I were to be in like my mid 20s sure I would rather have a guy that's like debt free I want a simple life but if you're
05:18:01
Lexigoing to put a number on it I'm going to say probably 100K okay this is just just desired salary for like mid 20 mid to
05:18:12
Lexilate 20s the guy you're going to marry I would agree like 85 to like10 okay like 70 sorry like 70
05:18:22
Morgan80 okay uh probably six figures because I do want to have kids in my 20s like good starting and you want to stay at home yeah okay what about you um I don't
05:18:33
SPEAKER_12really expect someone in their late 20s to have it all but I think um maybe like 70 to 80 to start what would you want assuming his
05:18:44
Brian Atlascareer TR trajectory uh at the peak of his career what do you anticipate the man that
05:18:51
SPEAKER_12you're going to be with earning it's a hard question um I honestly don't know I
05:19:00
Brian Atlasmaybe 100K at least all right and you said 100K was the yeah 500K
05:19:09
Asiaisn't 500k like that's 1% I would say 1% because I would say at least a million dollars for retirement so we can live in Europe wait when you
05:19:20
Asiasay I think that's I don't think it's a number amount that he has to make but I think per year no no no I think we need at least a million dollars each a million dollar Nest day you mean yeah a
05:19:31
Andrew Wilsonmillion dollar each to live a really nice life in Europe where in Europe so it's not so it's not really a salary requirement you
05:19:42
Andrew Wilsonwant a man who has a million dollar worth of retirement at least yeah yeah so that he can take you to Europe and you can live off I would match that too so but you
05:19:54
Asiadon't have a million dollars in retirement what you have a million dollars worth of retirement next day really I have I have half of it well okay but that's not a million dollar retirement but it but when I'm
05:20:07
Brian Atlasready to retire I'll how close to it no but the question was per year and you said 500,000 right that's a good start I mean a man who's making $500,000
05:20:19
Andrew Wilsona year is likely going to far exceed I mean top this top top 1% $500,000 plus a
05:20:29
Brian Atlasyear top 1% yeah wouldn't that but but wouldn't $500,000 a year you're going to far exceed add a million dollar GI J donated
05:20:40
SPEAKER_00$100 she preached degeneracy prostitution and complete heresy all night refused Financial restitution for
05:20:48
SPEAKER_00her sins Christianity isn't a fun La you can just go opt GTFO of my church repent demon do you want to respond to giovan
05:20:58
Brian Atlasoh um sorry that was my that was my hands I I was doing this my bad what a lar uh like pretend
05:21:09
Andrew Wilsonoh I didn't really get the question but no I know who I am okay um yeah I was just saying um these are
05:21:21
Andrew Wilsonthese are wildly High numbers I mean your your average income earner who's a man if if he's in the middle class going to be 70k a year and that's a pretty good living to be honest with you you
05:21:33
Andrew Wilsoncan raise and and there's a common misconception because people want to live in these um extra extraordinarily expensive cities like Santa Barbara Los Angeles they don't want to go to places where the
05:21:45
Andrew Wilsonweather isn't quite so good right but you can raise a family pretty comfortably in the midwest on $70,000 a year you can own a home on $70,000 a year own two cars on $70,000 a year if
05:21:56
Andrew Wilsonyou budget correctly that's going to be in the income bracket of most people right even under in 55,000 a year you might live A slightly worse life uh you
05:22:08
Andrew Wilsonknow kind from a subjective standpoint but you can still live but moving into kind of this idea of I want a man who has a million dollar Nest to take me to Europe doesn't that sound like a
05:22:18
Andrew Wilsonfanfiction right doesn't that sound almost you know almost insane to say at at at your age that you expect a man with a million dollar Nest EG take you to Europe to to give you your happily
05:22:30
Asiaever after that's not delusional to you nope and the person that commented that I was a chubby old Asian woman I'm not chubby this dress is not doing me any
05:22:42
Andrew Wilsonfavors in these camera angles but I'm not chubby well I'm I'm not an old I'm not making any claims to your physical appearance and I I understand you're
05:22:52
Andrew Wilsonresponding to a chatter I get that but you called us an old bag that is that was old rude an old bag you're 53 years
05:23:02
Andrew Wilsonold 5 52 you're so so unless to explain to explain this to you if you were to live to aund I'm sorry if you were to live to
05:23:13
Andrew Wilson104 you would be at half of your life right now do you understand that yeah why I'm re you're not young and I'm not young
05:23:25
Andrew Wilsoneither and I'm much younger than you and I'm not young so the thing is is like look I'm just being realistic here at 52 years old to expect that a man's going to come in and give you a million dooll
05:23:37
Andrew WilsonNest Egg to take you to your for the rest of your life you don't think that that's slightly delusional considering the average income of most men most men by the way in your age bracket are on a
05:23:47
Andrew Wilsonsocial security fixed income retirement most of them like you're looking for the top top tier
05:23:57
Brian Atlashere wait how old are you willing to date like what's the oldest guy you date
05:24:07
Asia59 I well actually I've dated men up up to 62 but I'm I'm
05:24:16
Asialike usually like seven years 7 to 10 years older I'm can go up
05:24:25
Asiatoo but honestly again it's really the person you know we're on you said 500k we're on the same like we want the same lifestyle we I've met them they're out
05:24:37
Asiathere I don't think think I'm delusional and you and we can can we do the calculator can you pull up the calculator we'll do the calculator cuz I think it'd be helpful to figure out like what percentage of
05:24:49
Brian Atlasmen that you're looking for fall into this category we'll do the calculator it's always it's interesting yeah we're ready we're ready all right fe uh scroll down female
05:24:59
Asiadelusion calculate oh my goodness uh age range of men you'd be willing to date so oh well I date men my up to 10
05:25:09
Brian Atlasyears older than me okay so Nick put 62 at the max age you you would date up
05:25:15
Brian Atlasto 62 yeah okay minimum age of 47 47 okay uh I'm assuming exclude men who are
05:25:24
Brian Atlasalready married right right okay exclude married uh race any race preference or uh no white black Asian no do okay
05:25:33
Asiaminimum height a 59 is my minimum usually just because how how tall are you 5 six okay exclude obese sure okay uh minimum income J
05:25:46
Brian Atlasgoing to just have to Max that to put it to 500k okay okay scroll down a little bit can you yeah okay find out all
05:25:56
Brian Atlasright wait did we break it the probability of a guy hold on we'll bring it back score
05:26:08
Brian Atlasthen I'll just live in my delusion hold on so it's 0.031% uh of men that you in this range that
05:26:20
Brian Atlasmake that much money you want to hide Andrew for a sec um okay thanks for showing me that how many is
05:26:33
Brian Atlasthat uh not a lot a leg not a lot okay um Andrew had to take a smoke break or
05:26:43
Brian Atlassome or well he can smoke okay it wasn't a smoke break um 500k though really that's a lot 200k
05:26:53
Brian Atlasnot good you want to do 200k show me the probability of 200k it's probably not great but we can do it Nick can you just go back you can pull it up you can pull it up I think you
05:27:05
Brian Atlasjust hit the back button it should show should be able to that's one way to go back um I key I key
05:27:16
Asiauh half that yeah we could do half that scroll down uh 0.14% is that less is that more okay1 it
05:27:28
Asiawas like 038 it was 0.38 there's like a song from this what's his name that comedian a [ __ ] lower your expectations a little
05:27:42
Brian Atlasforgot his name Bo Burnham thank you Nick W Nick W nick uh nope no thank you not lower your expectations
05:27:55
Brian Atlasno what about SE there's your opinion there's a lot of great guys who make 70k a year you win a date a guy who makes 70k a year not my guy
05:28:05
SPEAKER_00why old man marine d ated $100 she's manifesting Andrew any negative thoughts no matter how delusional the universe will answer her I
05:28:20
Andrew Wilsonroll you got a lot of trolls that watch the show no he's not I don't think he's a troll they're not trolling listen you you just you just got a healthy dose of
05:28:32
Andrew Wilsonreality you're just told that your chances are less significantly less than 1% of finding what it is that you're actually after you're like I don't care right I'm not going to lower my
05:28:45
Andrew Wilsonstandards after all okay well what are you basing this disagreement on based on how I feel you can show me the num okay great well I disagree with
05:28:56
Andrew Wilsonyour disagreement based on how I feel yep cuz I'm not going to go down this rabbit hole with you guys because why not I you don't want your shattered into
05:29:07
Asiaa milon standard is that why you want to Rabbit go ahead no I won't lower my standards and your standards or I'll be alone L is what you guys think so I'm
05:29:18
Brian Atlashappy being alone as well too wait I'm uh the there were three men that you said you dated uh for three months or so did you end it or did they
05:29:29
Brian Atlasend it I did so this guy paid he brought you on a date that cost 1,500 between 15 $100 3,000 mhm uh I
05:29:40
SPEAKER_00assume he's well off given he's willing to spend that much for um a dinner GMD Jim donated
05:29:50
SPEAKER_00$99 so funny I literally meet all of her original criteria I would light all of my money on fire before giving it to a
05:30:00
SPEAKER_00304 like that bro Jim what's a 304 area it's like an area code thing oh
05:30:10
Andrew Wilsonwhere's that I think it's West Virginia oh yeah yeah um I was saying it's actually it's it's
05:30:19
Brian Atlaspretty close um to the Bunny Ranch in Vegas I'm told oh uh so a [ __ ] wait
05:30:27
SPEAKER_12where was I uh [ __ ] what was I saying help me out like the the money the 500 the money 500k that we pulled up the C
05:30:38
Brian Atlasear no I know I know but I was on something oh the three guys you were dating okay oh yeah uh you broke up with them yeah uh
05:30:48
Asiawhy well they were inconsistent and the um the guy that spent the money the
05:30:59
Asiasituationship who I said is also still a dear friend of mine to this day um no romance but um um he wasn't in a place where he wanted a relationship because he like I said he
05:31:12
Asiahad three kids before the age of 30 he was living his life In Reverse he was H living his best life he had some some things he needed to check off his bucket
05:31:20
Asialist before getting into a relationship sure and so I wanted to open myself up for anyone else he was also number 15 on
05:31:31
Asiamy 21 date so I still had to see finish that CH would you date a guy who makes 100k
05:31:41
Asiayeah we yeah I would date them your life partner probably not because again I want to be on at
05:31:52
Andrew Wilsonleast the minimum the same level financially so if you follow somebody you don't let me ask this one one quick last followup I'm just curious about I've been kind of taking notes as we've gone I will admit your story is
05:32:06
Andrew Wilsonsomewhat fascinating in your expectations are fascinating to me probably for all the wrong reasons but um I I do have to ask this let's say you met a guy tomorrow who was uh 50 years
05:32:17
Andrew Wilsonold he made $70,000 a year he was witty he was funny he was handsome he absolutely adored you he'd make a great
05:32:25
SPEAKER_00husband but the one drawback was that um you know he had a few health he was never going to Hillary Epstein donated
05:32:35
SPEAKER_00$99 him lost here wants a a man with1 500 K/E salary but only have $1 million in retirement 29 here and even I have $1
05:32:46
Asiamillion in retirement dating for money at that ridiculous amount quick response to this no I I said originally I said 500k would be a
05:32:56
Asiareally good number but then I retracted that and said I want at least a million dollars of retirement so we can retire in Italy right and I would have close to
05:33:07
Andrew Wilsonthat amount as well too but yeah half Mill half million bucks so 1.5 making more I'm still making money no I I understand so I'm just going to
05:33:17
Andrew Wilsonask this though um so he he checks all the right boxes he treats you well he's very handsome he's very dashy right he has a few health problems though he makes about 70k a year he can't give you
05:33:29
Andrew WilsonItaly but he will adore you and be good husband for the rest of your life but he'll never be able to financially pick you up where you want to go and do this Italy retirement thing unless you are
05:33:40
Andrew Wilsonthe one who ends up supporting that through your own means would you marry him no
05:33:52
Jasmineokay you said you made like 200,000 a year mhm close to it yeah okay so if a man was willing to provide for you financially take over
05:34:04
Jasminewhatever finances like you pay for your son so that you were of all your finances you don't have to worry about working he's like you know what chill at home I will work if he made like 180,000 and he could like provide for you but
05:34:16
Jasmineyou didn't get as Leisure of a house but maybe you guys or like a lifestyle but maybe you guys do go to visit Italy didn't get to retire there that you'd be I would be happy with that okay yeah did
05:34:28
Claudiayou have a question cuz that's more realistic I just said like let's say you like how kind of like what Andrew was say yeah he was he said something like let's say you meet a guy right before you even know how much they you fall in love with them you really just love being with them and then you