She SCAMS Men ($250,000)?! 52 Year Old Single Mom WILL NOT SETTLE ($500k+/yr)?! | Dating Talk #188
Date: 2024-08-19
Duration: 7h 03m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00(audience)
SPEAKER_01Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_03Asia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Claudia(guest)
SPEAKER_05Christy(guest)
SPEAKER_06Morgan(guest)
SPEAKER_07Maddie(guest)
SPEAKER_08(guest)
SPEAKER_09Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Lexi(guest)
SPEAKER_13Jasmine(guest)
SPEAKER_14Serena(guest)
Key Moments
00:03:24
IntroJasmine introduces herself as ex-stripper/scammer, stay-at-home girlfriend
“Jasmine, 26, Thousand Oaks, stay-at-home girlfriend. Used to be a stripper and scammer.”
00:08:30
Key MomentJasmine details the fake fiancé scam: ~$250,000 extracted from 52yo man over 2 years
“He paid rent, breast augmentation, liposuction, sent $5-10k/month via phone transfers.”
00:30:09
IntroAsia introduces herself: 52yo LA, beauty trainer, GlowUp Girls podcast
“Asia, 52, Los Angeles, beauty industry regional trainer, GlowUp Girls podcast.”
00:31:18
IntroChristy introduces herself: 53yo Chino Hills esthetician, GlowUp Girls podcast
“Christy, Chino Hills, licensed esthetician specializing in sugaring, GlowUp Girls podcast.”
00:32:34
IntroClaudia (Cece) introduces herself: 20yo pharmacy tech
“Claudia/Cece, 20, turning 21 soon, pharmacy specialist tech.”
00:32:52
IntroMorgan introduces herself: 18yo SBCC political science student
“Morgan, 18, city college, political science.”
00:33:04
IntroMaddie introduces herself: 19yo Whatever podcast staff / SBCC student
“Maddie, 19, works on the podcast, student at city college.”
01:36:36
Key MomentAsia reveals she wants $500k/year partner; female delusion calculator shows 0.031%
“I would say at least $500,000... 0.031% of men match that criteria.”
02:45:00
Key MomentSelf-rating round: guests rate looks 1-10 (no 7s allowed)
“Jasmine 6, Asia 8, Christy 8, Lexi 6, Claudia 6, Serena 8, Maddie 8. Brian 5.”
03:20:00
ControversyAndrew says 52yo women bring nothing to the table — calls Asia an "old bag"
“None of them including the old bag here bring nothing to the table by their own admission except their vagina.”
04:00:00
Key MomentBrian plays bow video; asks each woman if she would bow for her man
“Maddie: yes. Asia: yes. Lexi: no. Morgan: no. Claudia: yes.”
04:55:00
QuoteAndrew articulates three things men want from women: peace, anticipating needs, putting him first
“Men essentially want peace in their home, they want their woman to anticipate their needs, and you have to put him above your own needs and desires.”
05:30:00
QuoteAsia refuses to lower standards after delusion calculator shows 0.031%
“I won't lower my standards. I'll be alone, that's what you guys think, so I'm happy being alone.”
05:50:00
ControversyJasmine claims 80% of men would SA a woman in the forest; Andrew offers $10k bet
“80% of secular men would rape a woman if given the opportunity in a forest.”
06:40:20
TopicAsia rage-quits the show during discussion of white culture
“I have to go. Bye. I'm out of here.”
Topics Discussed
00:00:00
Show intro and announcements
Brian Atlas opens the show, gives platform announcements (Streamlabs, Twitch, merch, Discord, TikTok).
00:03:15
Guest introductions (round 1)
Each guest introduces name, age, location, occupation. Extended discussion of Jasmine's stripping/scamming background and fake fiancé story (~$250k extracted).
00:35:00
Relationship status round
Brian asks each guest current relationship status, longest relationship, how they met current partner.
00:42:00
Pre-show notes: Asia's dating history
Deep dive into Asia's 45 first dates over one year post-10-year relationship. Dating app experiences, 3 three-month situationships, $1,500 first date, income/success discussion.
01:30:00
Women's success and what men care about
Brian and Andrew debate whether a woman's career success matters to men. Asia argues success is attractive; Brian points out she never paid for a date. Andrew explains traditional male provider hierarchy.
02:05:00
Traditional values, submission, and obedience
Extended theological and philosophical debate on submission in relationships. References Pauline epistles (Corinthians/Ephesians). Andrew argues obedience means husband has final say; Jasmine provides Christian context. Asia and Christy discuss what men want from traditional relationships.
02:45:00
Self-rating round (looks 1-10)
Guests rate their own looks on 1-10 scale (no 7s). Jasmine: 6, Asia: 8, Christy: 8, Lexi: 6, Claudia: 6, Serena: 8, Maddie: 8. Brian rates himself 5/10; guests rate Brian 3-6. Fit check — guests stand to show outfits.
03:00:00
Aging and looks trajectory
Discussion of whether women look better or worse as they age. Brian argues all people get less attractive over time. Asia claims she looks better at 52 than at 22. Christy: peak at 23, declined during marriage, recovered in 50s via plastic surgery and self-care.
03:20:00
Plastic surgery debate
Discussion of nose jobs, BBLs, lip filler, Botox. Brian dislikes most procedures; Andrew notes 90s vs current trends. General agreement nose jobs can improve appearance; BBLs widely criticized.
03:31:40
What do men want / help-mate concept
Andrew articulates three things men want: peace, anticipating needs, and being put first. Brian discusses help-mate concept — stay-at-home girlfriend increases his earning potential. Lori (Jasmine) describes being a stay-at-home girlfriend; what she cooks/prepares.
04:00:00
Bow video and showing respect to partner
Brian plays viral video of woman bowing to man coming home. Goes around the table asking if each woman would bow. Maddie: yes without hesitation. Asia: yes if it makes him happy. Lexi: would not, finds it culturally weird. Morgan: would not. Claudia: would for her current guy. Andrew discusses curtsy as female equivalent.
04:25:00
Past shouldn't matter / body count discussion
Brian asks if past matters (started from Jasmine's sex-work background). Goes around table on body counts. Jasmine: ~6. Asia: less than 20. Serena: 5. Maddie: declines. Lexi: 0 (virgin, Christian). Claudia: 6. Discussion of double standards and hookup culture.
04:40:00
Jasmine's NBA player and rapper dating history
Jasmine reveals she dated an NBA starter for 8 months while abstinent. Also went on dates with minor rapper one-take J. Brian discusses percentage of women who are strippers/sex workers in LA.
04:55:00
What women bring to the table (older women)
Andrew asks Asia and Christy directly: what do you bring that offsets financial burden + baggage? Both cite: friendship, companionship, cooking, emotional support. Andrew argues these traits are available in younger women with less baggage. Discussion of older male dating pool being vicious for women; widower phenomenon.
05:25:00
Female delusion calculator — income requirements
Each woman states income requirement for a partner. Asia: $500k/year (revised: needs $1M retirement nest egg); other women: $70k-$100k. Nick pulls up female delusion calculator. 0.031% of men at $500k criteria; 0.14% at $200k. Asia refuses to lower standards.
05:50:00
Bear vs man in forest
Classic bear vs man question. Jasmine says bear — claims 80% of men would SA a woman if given opportunity. Andrew and Brian spend extended time challenging this math (110 million SA-inclined men in USA). Jasmine revises to 40%, then back to 80% for secular men. Andrew offers $10,000 bet that 2 in 10 men wouldn't even cat-call her at a grocery store. Brian argues Jasmine essentially hates men.
06:23:20
Feminist and political questions
Do you consider yourself a feminist? All say no. Can you be racist to white people? Mixed opinions. Is there male privilege? Maddie says yes but earns it; panel mostly agrees both genders have different privileges. Who is the primary victim of war? All say men. Are men or women physically stronger? Men. Can you be sexist toward men? Yes.
06:40:00
Show wrap-up
Asia rage-quits when asked about white culture. Final ratings of Brian's eyebrows (42-55 out of 60). Brian announces Tuesday show with Daily Wire guest. Twitch raid to Summit1G. Andrew promotes debateuniversity.com.
Transcript
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03:44:15
Lexiwouldn't like like it would take me I just think it's weird like no no cuz it's not weird it's just normal no like if I walked into my roommate and bowed to her she would be like what are you doing yeah but you trying to like [ __ ]
03:44:27
Lexiyour roommate okay next time I go on a date I'll bow to them bro no no I'm not a goalie no I'm only goal it's only goalies that our game or like Defenders
03:44:39
Lexiforwards you ever played softball I'm a forward I'm not gay softball softball softball nope okay can't hit a ball catchers most of the time catchers I
03:44:48
Brian Atlasplay soft like third base yeah third or outfielders y third Bas the whole team uh I just think with the whole bow thing like if you wouldn't do it I don't I
03:44:59
Brian Atlasdon't I never got that because a girl I say it every show when it with this bow thing you will let a guy blast on your face but
03:45:10
Lexiyou won't bow for him H oh I don't think I even would do that I it's like nasty I don't know sell is nasty I just like talk for your speak for
03:45:21
Brian Atlasyourself okay oh I was talking to her over here talking to you oh my god crickets yeah uh What uh what girls
03:45:34
Brian Atlasdon't do that girls don't suck dick on the first date no what girls don't suck dick on the first date girls don't have sex on
03:45:43
Brian Atlasthe first date you'll let them and put his penis inside you but you can't do a
03:45:50
Lexibow huh h no all right can't get through them can't get through to
03:45:59
Brian Atlasthem I don't know man it she got it she got it unlock a girl will s a dude's D
03:46:09
Brian Atlasin uh the sig ep public bathroom within 30 minutes after [ __ ] jello shots and he's been sweating into his
03:46:21
Brian Atlaskhakis all [ __ ] day but can't hear the bow you can't hear the bow sorry it's spies what's it called what the [ __ ] Frat Boys wear
03:46:31
Brian Atlasnot khakis spares Dickies huh spies are shoes oh what are the shorts called that the [ __ ] Frat Boys wear they wear a lot of no the shorts or the [ __ ]
03:46:42
Claudiapants or whatevers well they wears jords jords jords and Nikes with high socks anyways whatever what was what was his question
03:46:52
Brian Atlasoh killer of Serial before we do that though Tim P says question for the panel trumpa Harris and sorry I'm trying to do a
03:47:02
Brian AtlasChristopher Walkin but it's just coming out as [ __ ] Italian okay uh Trump or Harris so raise your hand if you're voting for Trump and then raise your hand if you're voting for Harris who's
03:47:14
Brian Atlasraise your hand if you're voting for camela Camelot Harris raise raise your hand if you're voting for Camelot Harris
03:47:27
Brian Atlasnobody nobody you're a [ __ ] liar you're a [ __ ] liar no nobody's voting for Camelot camel celet are you saying it like that that's isn't that her name
03:47:38
Brian Atlascelet Harris Cala Yesa Cala are you voting Camala me yeah I don't even think I'm you're trumpy you're big like trumpy then uh I wouldn't call myself into the
03:47:49
Lexiinto the mic I wouldn't call myself a trumpy I also just think I'm like like I didn't really pay attention to this election I just started 18 like I don't see myself fit to vote you don't want to vote for what could be the first woman
03:48:02
Lexipresident you don't want your name on that I just don't think like wait is it like weird if I say it on this just say it I just don't think she's a strong candidate
03:48:11
Lexi[Music] drop so you're like Kanye or yeah Kanye 24 oh wait he's actually anti wait
03:48:22
Lexiwhatever okay who's voting for Trump I don't know face funny he is funny I will give him that he won't text tips my okay so going back
03:48:34
SPEAKER_00to this one killer of cereal donated $200 so what do you expect the man to bring to the table if the the amount
03:48:45
SPEAKER_00required exceeds the man's need for a bow that's unequal just act like you tripped or something you can bow I promise so for me
03:48:55
Lexilike I don't know I like watch like my parents be 50/50 in relationship so that's how like I would be in a relationship and I don't like like I don't mind being
03:49:07
Lexi50/50 like I would bow I just think it's like weird like I would ask them why they want me to Bow you know like is it like do you feel like you need to be like have authority over me like if I'm
03:49:18
Andrew Wilsonyour wife like yeah probably that's why you would ask it but like why like in the form of a bow you know because well
03:49:28
Lexilet me ask you a a different a different segue because this is cultural right what if he asked you to curtsy I used to practice curtsying when I was like six cuz I thought it was
03:49:41
Lexirelated to the Queen of England can we see it can you show us your curtsy yeah yeah show us your curtsy show us the curtsy no I like I don't even know if I know how to curtsy like C you know how to be honest you still remember that
03:49:53
Lexi[ __ ] it's literally but it's like it do it she's going to do it there you go see the curtsy I can't even I didn't realize this was like a full body back here yeah that's
03:50:05
Andrew Wilsona I don't know practi it's not it's not great but not not terrible sorry I'm not royalty okay guys I'll get better not not terrible so but the thing is is if he
03:50:17
Andrew Wilsonasked you if he asked you to curtsy would would that be a problem no cuz I think it's funny like I would but what if he's asking you to curtsy because he saw it as a sign of
03:50:30
Lexirespect I just like I don't know it's just like weird that like you want respect and Authority in that way to me like I feel like there are so many other
03:50:41
Lexiways you can feel respected as like a husband hband or as a partner and I just okay what what are those ways okay like I just think like like basic like
03:50:53
Lexirespect like you do what okay this going sound really weird but like for the most part you do what you're told if you're asked to do like the dishes just do the dishes or like like
03:51:01
LexiCurts like Curts would you curtsy to girl or bow no like then why wouldn't you if that's how I wanted to be shown respect why wouldn't you curtsy or bom
03:51:12
Andrew Wilsonme cuz well because I I believe in the concept of patriarchy in the concept of hierarchy within patriarchy and I don't think that uh
03:51:23
Andrew Wilsonanybody who believes in the concept of patriarchy would accept that uh they would need to bow or courtsy to a woman so is it like a sex thing like gender if well no I think that a woman
03:51:36
Andrew Wilsonasking a man to bow to them would be the opposite of a sign of respect so I think that that would be disrespectful to a man to even ask him to Bow whereas to a woman would not have the same
03:51:50
Andrew Wilsoneffect that's like that's an interesting take I'm like bad at arguing and I know that you like in this culture in the US culture bowing is not really a thing but
03:52:02
Andrew Wilsoncurtsying and things like that used to be a thing yeah um so in in Asian cultures it's still a thing for even for men to bow to each other is a sign of respect this type of thing so I understand the foreign aspect of it it's
03:52:14
Andrew Wilsonjust kind of weird because it's foreign it's not something that's done very often I get that but curtsying still is I don't think it's weird because let me ask you this what is the male version of
03:52:26
Andrew Wilsoncursing I don't know you'd have to tell me that yeah there isn't one right but there isn't one because patriarchy exists and should exist and that's how
03:52:37
Andrew Wilsonwomen show respect to men men don't show respect to women that way they show respect to women by building the very structure that they walk on that's how they show respect she said opening doors and I agree with that that's like the
03:52:49
Andrew Wilsonclosest thing to like a man showing respect is like opening all your doors I like I've told but I mean men will often if there's an elderly man walking for instance they'll open a door for them as
03:52:59
Andrew Wilsonwell so the thing is is um I'm not sure that I would I would say that that's an equivalency for personal exchange right so in a personal way like the curtsy is
03:53:11
Andrew Wilsonit's a way for a woman to show respect to a man or a way for her to present herself to a man in a respectful manner I can't actually think of the equivalent for a man I mean you have a point yeah it's
03:53:25
Lexijust something I wouldn't do like personally like again like if end comes to end like I would do it but like I wouldn't want it to be like us I just
03:53:36
Andrew Wilsondon't think it should I don't know you're really good at arguing and I suck at it and I really don't want to well I'm not I'm not really arguing with you I'm just kind at this point I'm just trying to kind of get your Ral Ro view a
03:53:47
Andrew Wilsonlittle bit you teach people how to argue and you're going to say you're not good at arguing no he I didn't say that I just said I'm not arguing with you okay good he's just having cont I'm just I'm just listening to kind of your worldview
03:54:00
Andrew Wilsonso I I just kind of want to understand where you're coming from right now well so like final thing on this though and then I'm moving it along that can be the final thing it's ch
03:54:09
Brian Atlasoh I'll be done here you okay be done totally fine uh so going back past shouldn't matter I think you said that what did you mean by that
03:54:22
Brian Atlasum yeah past shouldn't matter I mean my boyfriend knows about like the sex work stuff yeah he knows about all of that okay shouldn't matter though okay yeah
03:54:32
Jasmineand it it doesn't matter to him cuz I'm not like currently in that role of my life anymore so going around the table do you think that the past should matter
03:54:42
Christyyes yes yes yes um yeah yes uh
03:54:50
SPEAKER_08no I think we missed that but one more time no yeah okay pass should matter pass should
03:55:01
SPEAKER_12matter like yes and no like you you shouldn't repeat mistakes you also should try and be in the present if you want to be happy anyway now on this this
03:55:14
Brian Atlasoften comes up when it comes to discourse on uh body count so men I suppose both well both men women can have a preference on this but men typically tend to have a stronger preference for lack of current or past
03:55:26
Brian Atlaspromiscuity and a low body count or even Desiring virgins for example uh this is sometimes found in women but to a far lesser degree uh do you think men should
03:55:37
Brian Atlasnot the past shouldn't matter when it comes to somebody's sexual past so the people they the amount of people they previously had sex with how about that one starting with you yeah shouldn't
03:55:49
Brian Atlasmatter okay it doesn't matter to me I don't I don't ask though so do you think for example if a man didn't want to date you
03:55:59
Brian Atlasor another woman because of her uh sexual past would you find that perhaps either immature or insecure or would you
03:56:08
Asiaotherwise take objection to it in some I would I can understand why um um he would why it would matter to him sure is
03:56:19
Brian Atlashe insecure is he immature should should it not
03:56:28
Asiamatter I don't think I think if it did matter to him it might be because of some either cultural or religious view of some kind I don't find
03:56:40
Asiahim to be immature or what did you say what was the other one immature insecure or insecure maybe insecure maybe there could be a touch of insecurity there
03:56:52
Serenawhat about you I think that it should matter 100% like someone's sexual pass like yeah sure what about you I don't think it matters I wouldn't judge someone if they have a high so sure
03:57:04
Christythat's fine for you but would you object if a man it matter to him yes it's a double standard wait how's it the double standard like I
03:57:16
Christyfeel like women sometimes don't mind if a guy has had multiple partners yeah but then when you ask the man the same question they want their wom to like be virgins or have very few Partners well
03:57:29
Andrew Wilsonhow would that be a double standard though well well but but before before we even ask that I just have to ask you a very quick question Christine um do
03:57:39
Andrew Wilsonyou think that there are women who wear heels who are sexy not all women that wear heels look no no not all of course but you think you don't object to women wearing heels
03:57:51
Christyright correct would you object to a man wearing heels if I'm dating him yes now what kind of double standard is that I want my man to be masculine
03:58:03
Andrew Wilsonthat's my personal preference so he it's a preference so then it's not a double standard when it comes down to preference right well I guess so then
03:58:18
Brian Atlaswell I I think my understanding is that at least the way you framed it originally you said women don't care about this men do I don't know if that that's the double that isn't a double
03:58:31
Brian Atlasstandard that's just a difference in what men and women want I think maybe what you were getting out here maybe is that well if the guy has a high body count but he wants a woman who's got a
03:58:43
Lexilow body count is a virgin that's the double standard is that yeah or okay uh what about you um does it matter from what I heard from what she said I agree with it I think it
03:58:55
Leximatters but I wouldn't judge someone based off of it and I wouldn't want to be judged based off of it unless you have like like an STD then I would question what you're getting with let's
03:59:06
Brian Atlassay let's say the woman was clean but she had a body count of 50 and even if she was totally clean she could prove it
03:59:15
Brian Atlasum but she had a body count of 50 that alone disqualified her uh from from a guy would you object to that from
03:59:25
Lexithe guy's perspective or from like an outsider both um from the guy's perspective I wouldn't want to be judged
03:59:33
Lexion it so I wouldn't judge somebody else on it um M and cuz like and then from my perspect from an outsider's perspective I like same thing I just like I don't
03:59:46
Lexiwant to be judged I don't want people to like judge me so I'm not gonna right okay throw like shade where it's not my place okay what about you uh I think it
03:59:58
Claudiadoes matter just because like that just means like if they have a high body count they're easy like they're for everybody for the streets yeah she
04:00:06
SPEAKER_12belongs to the streets okay what about you um I think the past does matter I think we can use it to see what kind of
04:00:17
SPEAKER_12patterns have been in place before and you can you can use like good your judgment to judge someone based off of
04:00:26
SPEAKER_12their past and if they like are repeat offender with the same bad mistakes then don't be with them if it's just a mistake though and it's happened like once or twice I don't think they should
04:00:38
Brian Atlasbe scrutinized for it yeah I don't mind it mattering it matters to me okay so going around the table really
04:00:47
Brian Atlasquick if past doesn't matter shouldn't matter what's your body count if I'm being generous like
04:00:56
Brian Atlassix what if you're being greedy what do you
04:01:04
Jasminemean you mean by if I'm being generous cuz I can think of like people I like completely remember but I also like lost my virginity 13
04:01:14
Jasmineso like I know that I've had sex with like for sure like these four people and there's like two people I probably don't remember their names cuz I was like so young well we don't need their names we
04:01:25
Asiajust okay then six yeah six six okay um less than 20 but I I can't put a number on it
04:01:36
Asiabecause less than 20 yeah I'm just kind of going based on when before I was in a relationship and then now more than 15 maybe maybe
04:01:48
Brian Atlas15 wait how many of the how many of these from like the past since the uh split oh from from my year and a half
04:01:59
SPEAKER_02yeah like three okay what about you I'm at five five zero uh just turn
04:02:11
SPEAKER_12six uh um I'm going to decline answering that but I will say that it's very low okay everyone knows okay
04:02:23
Lexizero yeah oh okay are you waiting till marriage or uh yeah oh I just like it's just my belief well congratulations thanks I support that 1,000% and hope
04:02:34
Brian Atlasyou stick to it are you uh like religious at all or yeah Christian yeah oh okay and um but I'm confused because you said you wouldn't want somebody to judge you for
04:02:47
Lexithat well like I don't like I don't have a body count but like if I were like that I wouldn't want to be judged off cuz I listen s me but I have friends like who like get around I don't judge
04:02:58
Brian Atlasthem for it like they no but don't we need good virtuous women to judge these heathens it's like this is going to
04:03:09
Brian Atlassound like really bi we need we need virtuous women to I rebuke I rebuke sorry that was [ __ ] loud sorry guys I just don't think like damn
04:03:20
Lexichill out Brian judgment isn't mine like it's God's and like I think that like I can like direct people and help people and like talk to God about PE talk to God wait talk do you think hookup
04:03:33
Lexiculture is bad it's not for me do you think it's bad I don't think it's bad but it's not for me you don't think it's bad let me ask you wait wait wait wait wait let me
04:03:43
Brian Atlascan I like say my idea of hookup culture sure I like hookup culture to me is like making out with somebody like okay but what about like all the casual sex
04:03:52
Lexithat's like one night stands is a bad I don't know I don't like have like I
04:04:01
Brian Atlasdon't wait okay let me ask you a very simple question I don't think do you think do okay do you think there is a hookup culture yes okay do you think
04:04:12
Lexithat hookup culture makes it it easier or more difficult for you to find a partner I would say it makes it more difficult for me because like I'll be into somebody or something like that and
04:04:23
Lexilike our morals want to line like they want to hook up they want like something casual and it's just not something that like I want personally mhm and so like
04:04:32
Lexiand I feel like it's also like difficult to find people not difficult but um it is challenging I guess to find people who have like similar morals which like back to that guy that I was dating
04:04:45
Lexithat's like why I was like so easy and I would take him out because we do for the most part have similar morals sure besides me lying but whatever that makes sense but like I wait one point of clarification um are
04:04:58
Lexiyou waiting for marriage or are you waiting for the like the right guy who you think you'll most likely get married to marriage okay has okay even like people I've dated who I thought I was
04:05:09
Lexigoing to marry like I didn't clearly I'm not married to them so or even dating okay cool Andrew you had something yeah I just um I just wanted
04:05:20
Andrew Wilsonto quickly ask you um the if if the reason that you're not engaging in sexual intercourse is because you'll
04:05:28
Andrew Wilsonbelieve that you will be judged by God correct I okay so I think like well not I think I know God is forgiving but it's just like it's like biblical and I want
04:05:42
Lexibut forgiving you because he's making making a judgment well yeah wait what well you have to make a judgment in order to forgive right I don't think you have to
04:05:53
Leximake a judgment to forgive how could you forgive somebody absent a judgment AB I guess I'm not really understanding that like I'm a little slow but like I
04:06:05
Lexijust don't understand sure so she's an athlete if if you're going to if you're going to forgive somebody don't you have to judge them worthy of forgiveness no I think everybody's worthy of forgiveness I mean I like cnon people
04:06:17
Andrew Wilsonmake mistakes I've made so many mistakes like in my today like well then why avoid sin if you're not worried about being judged for sin why avoid it
04:06:29
Andrew Wilsonum cuz I want to live a life that I believe is pleasing to God and if that's how I do it that's how I do it you know like well God would have to use judgment God would have to use judgment in order to punish you for sin right and he'd
04:06:41
Andrew Wilsonhave to use judgment in order to discern what is pleasing to to him right I don't think I like have a place to judge though do i s I'm not I'm not asking if you do I'm asking if God will judge you
04:06:51
Andrew Wilsonyeah he will like and is that why you avoid sin yeah so then I got to ask you is God going to judge people who sin yeah Didn't I did I not say that and if
04:07:04
Lexibut if you know that God is going to judge people who sin can you point out the sins of these people who God's going to judge yeah okay have you ever heard cuz I
04:07:15
Lexidon't know you're talking about Jesus earlier that verse it's like um about like hypocrisy like you're pointing out the speck in someone else's eye when you have a log in your own yeah what this is
04:07:25
Andrew Wilsonreferring to is um if you're going to judge the St the the behavior of somebody else be prepared to be judged by the same standard right which I think that that's fine that you should be
04:07:37
Andrew Wilsonjudge by the same standard by which you judge others Behavior but that doesn't mean that you should not use discernment righteous judgment in your life for what's going on right that would be absurd otherwise how would you even
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Andrew Wilsondetermine what is sinful and how would you steer people away from what is sinful if you had no judgment like how could you even do that yeah could you could you even steer
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Lexia person away from sin if you couldn't judge that it was sin no you no so then if you know what sin you are judging yeah I okay okay like I I know
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LexiSin is Sin and like I know what is a sin and what's not but like I just don't want to judge people like maybe in my mind but you are but you are judging people is what I'm saying Jud people like it or not you can you can use
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Andrew Wilsonwhat's called righteous judgment you actually should judge otherwise how can you determine that you yourself should not have sex before marriage obviously it would be fun right you could have a
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Andrew Wilsongood time but you're avoiding it for a reason right yes yeah so the thing is is like why would it not be okay for you to apply that standard to other people that's what I don't
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Lexiunderstand that's a good question I don't know okay all right I like to force things on other people like sure I have my morals and beliefs and I like respect other people's
04:09:02
Lexidoesn't mean like they're necessarily in line with mine but I do like respect them and I can't I also like I literally can't influ or like even if I say something to someone like you know I'm just putting it out
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Lexithere this that this is my opinion of what this should be and that's all I can say like my opinion is just my opinion do you think it's mean to
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Lexijudge I think everybody does it do I think it's mean sometimes like sometimes I'll be judging someone and I'll be like wow that was so mean well I thought you didn't judge people okay well no maybe I
04:09:37
Andrew Wilsondon't know I'm luy contradicting myself I know I'm like nervous guys okay my no no it's no problem we're just we're just having a good conversation here right but I I'm just saying to you um I I
04:09:48
Andrew Wilsonwonder how much of it's cultural and how much of it is actually you and how much you don't judge because I think you do judge right just maybe it's cultural taboo to to not sound mean right and of
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Andrew Wilsonquote unquote mean do you mean like cultural like or religious like well I think it's it's cultural um inside of the current culture modernity in the
04:10:10
Andrew WilsonUnited States anyway to not point out out kind of bad behavior because it it sounds mean I agree with that like with okay personally with like my friends and
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LexiI like we are all like very blunt with each other and we keep each other like crazy not crazy in line but in line like when we're in the wrong I've had friends who have been like you're being a
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Lexihorrible person right now and I've like said vice versa to them um yeah you know I mean you know that that's becoming increasingly rare right yeah I do I like
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LexiI just I don't know I like just like value my friendship or not okay not to say like people don't value their friendships but like I want to be the best version of myself and like being
04:10:55
Lexiaround people like who like bring me down like you know they bring me down I want to be around people who like uplift me and make me a better version of myself cuz at the end of the day I have
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Andrew Wilsonso many goals for myself and I want them to be achieved well well can I ask you a question to expand on this this is that I yeah very quickly have you noticed um have you noticed that there's this thing
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Andrew Wilsonwhich happens with many women where after they have lost their virginity or they slept with multiple people they begin to recommend to other women that they do the same
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Lexithing have you experienced that um I've I've experienced the opposite I know like like friends and mentors who have said to me they're like I lost my virginity before marriage and I regret
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Brian Atlasit okay all right going to Christy here Christie you said my unique dating stories include dating younger men who have mommy issues and want to be
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Christycoddled do you want to expand on that um well after I separated from my husband it was weird because I started
04:12:04
Christygetting um hit on by younger guys and I feel like they hit on me because
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Christythey could sense that I was like I guess single and um I don't know if if it's the whole mil thing that they're like some mil you know so I don't know if
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Christythat's what it was but basically when I did date the two younger guys after my separation they both had mommy issues like serious mommy issues what does that mean well they both had um moms that
04:12:39
Christyabandoned them and left them at a very young age and they were raised by aunts and
04:12:47
Christygrandmothers so I felt like I was pretty much the one they were attracted to because I was an older
04:12:57
Christywoman and they wanted somewhat of a mommy like to tell them what to do and stuff how would you meet these guys dating apps um um no dating apps at the time I met one at brunch and the other
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Christyone at the beach and they come up to you and mhm interesting okay um yeah so that was a common denominator was the whole mommy issue thing and they both wanted to they
04:13:21
Christywere both very needy men wanted to always have my attention and I felt like they saw me as not a sugar mama but
04:13:30
Brian Atlassomebody that could take care of them mhm I actually don't really have anything for that okay yeah really no
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Christywell I don't yeah I mean well that phase in my life like didn't last long at all because it wasn't for me dating younger is not for
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Christyme how many young guys did you date just uh two more on the serious side but I
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Christydated probably four like the other two was just like one or two dates and that was it but it wasn't like I was looking for younger men because that's not my
04:14:13
Christytype it was like the men that were chasing me were of that that younger age bracket how much younger were they um so this was four years ago when I was 48 um
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Christyone was 28 37 23 and
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Brian Atlas25 okay all right well to perhaps segue uh Asia you said you wanted to talk about Gap relation relationships
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Asiawell yeah it's kind of just tied into just the um I'm noticing cuz I do get as same I get hit on with a lot of younger
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Asiaguys my 10-year relationship he was 9 years younger than me uh also um okay yeah so um I yeah I just think that I wanted to
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Asiatalk about it I don't have like I was in a gap relationship It ultimately doesn't work out because you reach a crossroad where you both want different things and you have to figure that
04:15:17
Asiaout and ultimately it doesn't work out well he changed his mind about the kids he originally said he didn't want kids
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Brian Atlasand then he changed his mind and it built resentment okay uh you also said that uh the trend of younger guys liking
04:15:35
Brian Atlasolder women I think it's trending because of porn I believe it because of porn I believe it's well I mean this has been always I mean uh what's that movie
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Brian Atlasfrom the 70s Mrs Robinson oh The Graduate The Graduate I mean I feel like it's kind of hasn't it always maybe I guess it is every guy young Guam were you uh were you alive when that movie
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Andrew Wilsoncame out what the [ __ ] I'm kid I'm just Jing I couldn't help myself I couldn't help myself kidding is he talking to you or me I don't even know what year that
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Brian Atlasmovie I'll Google it what year I think I was The Graduate what year 196 oh' 67 I thought it was the 70s no I'm not no no I don't think we have anybody uh anybody
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Andrew Wilsonwere you alive Andrew's it no I'm I'm much much younger than you he's an 80s like significantly younger all right uh then I mean you can do that right but
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Andrew Wilsonremember that I don't have the advantage of um you know hours and hours of makeup just point that out I you have to get um you I don't know if we touched on this you
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Brian Atlassaid I I brought it up but I don't know if maybe a TTS came in you said closer to what I want and what I deserve and I asked you what do you
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Asiadeserve did we cover that I think so but um I would like to be in a relationship with mutual admiration and respect for each other Mutual like 50/50
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Asiaor yeah we again it's The Balancing Act of submission and praise like putting the woman on the penal treating her like a queen wait that's mutual respect it's
04:17:20
Brian Atlasbiblical that's what the Bible says right treating a woman like a princess and like a queen yeah and the as well that's why the the woman submiss I think you got to treat a woman like the court jester like you're the king all right
04:17:33
Brian Atlascome over I need some entertainment come here for a few hours I dismiss you be gone no you don't you do not think that I am
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Asiakidding so there was a lot of okay there was a lot of disrespect in that relationship so that's what I'm saying it's like I just I'm setting my boundaries and learning what I want and
04:17:56
Brian Atlasthat's what the 21 dates was all about was trying to figure out what I wanted wait but so should should women all women be treated like queens and
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Brian Atlasprincesses sprinkle was it drink sprinkle sprinkle what the f sprinkle drizzle drizzle should all women be treated like Queens I think they should be respected no should they all be treated like Queens my definition of a
04:18:21
Brian Atlasqueen is being respected if they deserve it cuz I feel like princess treatment means something kind of specific okay or like Queen princess treatment
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Brian Atlasmhm I don't know I just don't like the whole like Royal thing huh like he's my king she's my queen n y'all everybody y all PE everybody's a peasant you we're
04:18:45
Brian Atlasall peasants we're the Surfs and we're intermingling among the Surfs we are the the we're the Surfs the peasantry of who maybe some of
04:18:54
Brian Atlasus maybe get you know some of us might become a lord [ __ ] that I'm a king you don't want to be treated like a king no I sure but like we're all peasants bro
04:19:07
Andrew Wilsonwe're all peasants you think no but peasants can date other peasants you just you know what I mean I got a burger crown a burger king crown next to me and
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Andrew Wilsoneverything Brian you can't take my kingship away sir hold on bro hold
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Andrew Wilsonwhatsoever debate University well I was I was I I held the camera camera yeah all the words Andrew was
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Andrew Wilsonum H so what were we talking about peasantry I don't know uh my chat's my chat's giving me L's Brian they're giving me a lot of L's Brian they're
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Brian Atlasgiving me a lot of L's here so w The Crucible chat W The Crucible chat keep spamming L's boys um uh anyways
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Maddiewhatever what was I saying you're a peasant yeah you I think we're just all peasants I don't know these girls I deserve princess treatment I'm a queen so if your girl called you a
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Maddiepeasant you'd be like yeah I'm a peasant so are you I'd be like s this peasant D no I'm just kidding no I'm kidding I'm kidding are you I'm kidding sure he is I'm kidding
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Maddiebut uh yeah we're all I don't know I don't like this whole like oh I'm the I'm the King she's the queen at best at best a lot of these
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Morganwomen they're Court gur at best at best Court gers I think my man thinks I'm a queen there's levels to couples you can have you can be in a peasant couple or
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Brian Atlasyou can be in a ro couple I don't know anyways I don't know where I'm going with this whole thing I just I think we need to take heraldry very importantly heraldry what the [ __ ]
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Brian Atlaswe need to take very important like do any you have a [ __ ] uh uh yeah heraldry do any of you have heraldry you got [ __ ] family crest or some [ __ ]
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Maddiehuh where's the family crest you got a [ __ ] huh actually do on my dad side she's got a Crest like Spanish I I have
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Andrew Wilsona family crest Brian the Wilson family crest yeah I feel I have one too like son of will this is a this is a longstanding by the
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Andrew Wilsonway IR English name wilon just so you know and I do have I even have a family motto to go with the crest
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Andrew WilsonBrian what is it he who conquers coners sorry go ahead I'm sorry I'm sorry go ahead he who conquers conquers himself Brian that's the family motto
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Brian Atlasgoes right along with the crest I like it I like it I like it okay um how did we get here I was asking about you what you deserve mhm I don't
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Asiaknow I'm coping a little bit that's how we got here okay A little bit of cope what about the I just want respect in a relationship but you said you wanted to be Queen you want a queen but you said it was a mutual thing
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Asiayeah mutual admiration and respect for each other you guys are paying for date
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Brian Atlasson ah too slow [ __ ] okay um you want the men I go out with don't want me to pay for dates you know what I think you should do
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Brian AtlasI think you should take me Nick Desmond and Austin on a date after this and pay for our In-N-Out oh
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Brian Atlasin that I'm hungry okay you can think whatever you want you got to start paying for dates I thought it was Mutual you said Mutual
04:23:35
Brian Atlasadmiration got to open crack open that wallet crack open that purse you got to start paying for some dates it's no you
04:23:43
Brian Atlaswant a man you want a real man you got to start splin that [ __ ] 50/50 dry me up that dries me D your vagine yeah your vagine dries up dry me up if you if
04:23:56
Asiayou're going to start breaking out spreadsheets ands expecting 50/50 treatment with the money dries up dries up the [ __ ] dries me
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Brian Atlasup what what's the equivalent for for a guy boner killer what's what's a uh I'm going to pretend like you didn't just make my dick go soft yeah like what what is
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SPEAKER_08the like what's that for a woman you know what I just said yeah but like what is that it's it's like what
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Morganwould that be just the
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Brian Atlasegg I don't know okay all right chat help okay let's see we have oh did you have the photos did you send them to
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AsiaInstagram you couldn't find them I found one of me at 18 but I um we can pull it up we'll pull it up 18 right I can't find the one how about just the 18 one
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Brian Atlasyou want to see the one that was 18 okay this okay I'll read chats while you guys are figuring that out uh we have practice gentlemen couldn't equivalent to a woman Maddie look I felt
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Morganlike I looked like a boy an equivalent to a woman bowing to a man be a man taking the woman by the hand and kissing it standing up when a woman leaves the
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Andrew Wilsonroom or tilting your hat when SL why did those stop being a thing yeah so well just to the uh kissing a hand that was
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Andrew Wilsonalso uh actually done mostly towards men so that was a sign of respect to it it and you've probably heard this saying a million times Kiss the Ring that's what that means kissing the ring kissing the
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Brian Atlasring so that was actually more towards men than it was towards women uh so do you have a few you have a few photos you have a few phot here's me as in grade school you got to send it to
04:25:56
Brian Atlasour Instagram and we don't want to see your chill child photos well was a big dork was what I'm trying to show you okay but show us eight show you can show us 18 and over
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Brian Atlasyeah show your when you're an adult 18 and over where am I supposed to send it to oh to the whatever Instagram would be perfect if you can uh while we're doing that we have some more notes here from
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Brian Atlasuh Lori Lori uh sugar daddy I never slept with was engaged for two years to him oh you were engaged to him for two years yeah we already talked about that no I know oh I didn't know you were engaged for
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Jasminethe whole two years though how he asked me to marry him like on the third date cuz I didn't want to do anything with him did he give you a ring not till like the fifth time I saw him so the fifth
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SPEAKER_00day but he just that like did you give the ring back uh he wouldn't take it back he wouldn't take anything back come on bro I want to make sure the
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SPEAKER_00Pagan donated $200 women like her mutual respect actually me me me me me me me me me me
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SPEAKER_00me me me me me me me me me me me at one thing so I I want to make sure
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Andrew WilsonI do this comment Justice because it was $200 um I and I do say this often what it means is me that's what it means wasn't that the
04:27:25
Asiasame guy that said he'd rather have a 52-year-old than a 23y old that was that was uh that was gu that was
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Brian Atlasbeautiful uh it is interesting though mutual respect mutual respect but I don't agree if this [ __ ] don't crack open his wallet my [ __ ]
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Asiadry let me look at I'm saying yeah if you're asking me to split dinner how mutual respect mutual respect I think
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Brian Atlasit's yeah do other things um doesn't seem very respectful yeah you can pull it up Nick is this you with the friend or is this that's that's just High School yeah
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Asiarandom chick that's my friend in High School Shelly wait oh this is High School yeah how old are you here like 18 maybe 17 I don't know can we get a 18 plus photo but I was a big dork wait
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Brian Atlasjust to be clear 20s so just to be clear here I can't find in the 20s so you uh better looking now as compared to I think so yeah I think I look like a
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Brian Atlasbig dork does somebody want to tell
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Asiaher why don't you tell me
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Brian Atlasyou think men don't like dorky women I have no
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Brian Atlasidea I don't think they do I think they do do you don't think men like dorky women dorky you think they okay if they had to pick between like a dorky woman
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Brian Atlasand like a boss b [ __ ] which you think they prefer what do you mean by dorky though a a little shy a little awkward Oh I thought you meant like appearance
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Claudiawise yeah I think men prefer like More Meek women would like that 18-year-old self think that you look like better than her now like if you like let's say you like she's you're her right now and you're looking at you right now would
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Asiashe' be like oh yeah like I'm going to look better once I'm this old yeah so you're looking at that you're like I I was never I never thought I was beautiful I didn't that's
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Asiawhy I'm saying I think you guys underrated yourself because if because when I was that age I did not find myself attractive what changes do you think you have to yourself now that make you I
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Asiajust think because I'm just older and I've grown into my own and I'm more confident now that's what makes me feel more attractive so if you had all of that when you were 18 do you think you would
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Asiastill be less attractive than you are now I if I had it all when I was 18 I probably would think I was attractive and I probably would more attractive than now though yes I would have thought I was attractive at you don't have any other
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Asiaphotos like 20s Facebook no I was well Facebook was not what what about my Facebook Facebook
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Andrew Wilsonwas she's saying Facebook I do have a question here for you um this one comes in from my chat and they've been asking this over and over they they just demand that I ask you
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Andrew Wilsonthis what is it about you that you think is so great A man should turn over his entire wallet to you I'm looking for a partner I didn't
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Asiasay I want someone to turn over his entire wallet to me and you're taking this out of context because I'm telling you that I've had to be a boss Babe by choice because I don't have parents I
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Asiadon't have anyone else and you had to be a boss bab by choice I had to be a boss bab out of out of desperation out of survival well then that's choice I had to
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Asiasurvive okay well I could have gone into drugs I could have you know I've kind of my life could have gone in a lot of different ways but I pulled myself out
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Asiaof it and made a s successful career I raised an amazing son and I've put him through school and I'm still putting him through school and I'm still providing for him what was the thing what was the
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Andrew Wilsonthing that forced this necessity exactly because I don't have parents they died when that means a lot of people who don't have parents including a lot of women don't end up becoming
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Andrew Wilsonboss babes what what made you have to actually be at boss bit because I had to take care of my son yeah why would that require being a b well what is a boss babe first of all
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Andrew Wilsonwhat is that a woman that's successful in her career strong independent black woman that don't need no that's it well I mean but that that would include basically
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Asiajust any woman who has a job and is Hell de right sure yeah so I mean how's that being a boss but how but for someone to be able to survive on her own income and
04:32:22
Asiaraise a kid in Los Angeles that's pretty boss in my opinion boss what makes that boss because I had because I made it work and I didn't take money from anyone
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Asiaelse yeah I'm not I'm not sure though is 100 so let's back up a little bit M you're raising the kid by yourself it this is because you're I mean financially
04:32:45
Asiafinancially we okay so his dad did help a little bit in high school but financially the burden has been on me okay gotcha and then but but you've
04:32:55
Asiahad joint custody all of this yeah yeah and he is a good father he's a good father he's just not financially he wasn't a good provider so this is so the my past is
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Asiadictating what I want in the future that's why I want a man that's a provider and a protector because I haven't had that yeah you're trying to come at me
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Asialike chick that wants a handout that's not it at all wait you have had the provider well okay no I didn't no one provided for me you went on a dinner
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Asiadate that cost like $3,000 he he's not paying my bills wait I mean that he you wait do you taking me out to dinner is something is in it for him cuz he's
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Brian Atlasgoing he's enjoying the dinner also he's not paying my bills he's not my provider wait what's in it for him oh he loved it he loved companionship he says to this day it's his best he gets that and you get that so but him paying for the
04:33:53
Brian Atlasdinner is one directional that's his choice he's also wait is that is that your expectation you want to meet a guy who's willing to be a provider yeah you want to meet a
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Asiaguy to pay for your bills yeah I mean share in the responsibility with me so it's not bills share in the responsibility with
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Asiame so what 90% 10% I I don't know what the percentage is but we would mutually figure it out based on our goals it's going to be at least be 50% based on our
04:34:24
Andrew Wilsongoals yeah so it's at least going to be 50% at least why would you say that what's at least would you well I mean you say I don't know what the percentage is of how much it is that I expect this
04:34:38
Andrew Wilsonguy to contribute who I want to take care of me but it it's at least going to be half right I oh I'm yeah I would say so yeah so I mean if it's at least going
04:34:49
Andrew Wilsonto be 50% then he's taking 50% of the financial burden off of you so that's why the question keeps on coming up well what is it that you're bringing that's so great that should eliminate 50% of
04:35:02
Andrew Wilsonthe financial burden that had nothing to do with this person who takes it off of you that you created for you well because men of my generation feel Like A
04:35:12
Andrew WilsonMan by providing for their woman so you think you think that the the thing that you bring to the tables that you're going to let them feel like
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Asiaa man sure by providing for you but also everything else that I bring to the table that which is which is exactly
04:35:32
Andrew Wilsoneverything I discussed earlier yeah but you think that that those compensate for the 50% that he brings to at this financial burden that you want to get out from under cuz that
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Asiaseems to be like your main thing right I don't have a financial burden it's not like I have thousands of dollars of debt I have over 800 credit for wait wait hang on you said it's your primary
04:35:55
Andrew Wilsonmotivation that you want a man to provide for you so that you don't have quote all of the burden on my shoulders yes I want to feel like a woman I want to be back into I want to feel like a
04:36:07
Andrew Wilsonwoman okay so then if he's eliminating this burden off of your shoulder it's the financial burden it's also the emotional support it's the partnership it's having the
04:36:18
Andrew Wilsonyour sexy best friends you said and quote the I want him to provide for me to take the burden off of my shoulders so if he's providing I want to feel
04:36:29
Andrew Wilsonprovided for he's Hing you money what is the burden he's taking off your shoulders it's the financial burden how could it be anything other than that if that's if that's the primary
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Andrew Wilsongoal the primary reason ear is I want him to eliminate this burden the burden is the financial burden right no it's
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Asiaactually the burden of not having a partner my whole life at 52 years old okay so so are you going to marry a PO are you going to marry a poor man you
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Andrew Wilsonhave to take care of sorry I there was a motorc more time Andrew are you going to marry a poor man that you have to take care of no I already did that yeah no so you want to marry a man who
04:37:15
Andrew Wilsonyou said quote takes me to Europe and retires with me well or I'll move to Europe and I'll meet a man out there yeah sure but you still want him to take the financial burden off your shoulders right I mean
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Asiaclearly you don't want a poor man I do not want a poor man yeah so so why don't you want a poor man because you want him to quote provide for you correct because I've been taking care of everything my
04:37:38
Andrew Wilsonwhole life the financial burden of yes yes Financial yes the financial burden you want him take off the financial burden right yes yes yes and um yeah yes
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Andrew Wilsonso if you want him to take off the financial burden how much you want at least half right let's leave it yes okay so if it's at least half of the financial burden
04:38:03
Andrew Wilsonthat you want him to eliminate from your shoulders they're just asking all these people are just asking this question of what do you think compensates him for
04:38:13
Andrew Wilsoneliminating 50% of the financial burden that you have that he's not responsible for it's not that it's being living with
04:38:23
Andrew Wilsonsomebody that um it's not that I'm trying to give him half of my financial burden but we're we're going to be you are trying to give him half of your fin literally you are trying to give him
04:38:35
Andrew Wilsonhalf of your financial burden what are you talking about how are you not you that's what you're saying you want want to do is give him half at least of your
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Asiafinancial burden how are you not doing that okay so what I think your listeners or your viewers are not understanding is
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AsiaI'm looking for a partner and I'm looking for somebody that has the same goals and the same lifestyle and that wants the same thing too they want their best friend they want their best friend
04:39:06
Andrew Wilsonto live this chapter of their life but I'm just not going to let you quite get away with the pivot how are you not trying to give this man 50% of your
04:39:16
Andrew Wilsonfinancial burden he's not actually responsible for currently but in the future he will be based on your choices you are right that isn't that what marriage is isn't that what I I agree I
04:39:28
Andrew Wilsonagree that it's okay for you to share your burdens with your partner fine Fair that's totally fair I'm just trying to ask what your compensation for giving
04:39:38
Andrew Wilsonthis guy 50% of the financial burden he's not responsible for currently is what is the offset to that that's that that you think is worth it for a man