04:45:12ChestbrahI mean it also like did laundry and [ __ ] if it did my laundry like the laundry made it does my protein shakes does your protein shout postwork me and it uh it
04:45:23Chestbrahit's a hard yes already hard yes if it makes my pre-workout and my protein shakes my meals for my training yeah that's going to be great that'd be worth every penny yeah everything does it help me to can it be my spotter in the gym as
04:45:35Chestbrahwell spotter in the gym oh my God bro and CPR is more than you oh wow she so she can so she can push me in the gym yeah she squats more than you Brian
04:45:45Chestbrahthat's a definite yes boom what the [ __ ] easy like deadlift imagine she'll be mo this robot will motivate motivate me this [ __ ] mechanical this mechanical
04:45:56Brian Atlaspiece of [ __ ] is lifting what the [ __ ] crazy that's funny that's funny yeah H
04:46:02Brian Atlasum okay but uh okay moving to key key uh crazy crazy door sorry tongue tied crazy dating story I had was when I was on a date with my boyfriend at the time and
04:46:15Brian Atlashis car broke down on the side of the road and a car drove by us that was a previous fling and that guy parked behind us and ended up jumping my wait
04:46:25Isabellahold on what what yeah tell us the story go ahead um so my ex-boyfriend and I were dating and he drove like a 66 Mustang that he like built so he tried
04:46:38Isabellato do like a burnout in it at a stop sign and it broke down so we kind of just like pushed the car to the side we were waiting on like triaa or whatever to come and like help us and his like feet were out the window and he was like laying in my lap and I was sitting in
04:46:50Isabellathe passenger seat and I like saw this guy that I was talking to like we didn't date or anything but he like drove by and I was like oh that's super weird and then he drives behind us again and then like Parks right behind us and I thought
04:47:02Isabellahe was like going to come out and help us but that was not the case and he like pulled my boyfriend out of the car and started like punching him and it was so bad like literally they were like fighting on the side of the
04:47:14Isabellaroad I was like crying it was really aggressive yeah wait and is this your current boyfriend no this is my ex-boyfriend my most recent ex-boyfriend
04:47:24Isabellaokay so it's a different okay I know um what were but you were broken up with this guy right the we never dated he I don't really he was just upset that I
04:47:35Isabellathink that I got with this other guy and like made it official with him rather than you guys never dated no no we never dated oh you said previous fling yeah so what you guys fling for a month or
04:47:48Brian Atlassomething yeah it was not long at all it was like maybe like two months and then so how long after the end of the fling did this happen s super recent like
04:47:58Isabellaright after it oh so like wrong I mean no yeah it was super wrong I felt so bad I like apologized so many times how recent this was over a year ago no so I
04:48:08Brian Atlasmean like uh you had the fling mhm that's over and then you were dating a new guy probably like a month after wait was there overlap no there wasn't like
04:48:18Isabellaoverlap it was like the reason like I met my ex-boyfriend was like something stupid and I was never like exclusive with that other guy so then I met my boyfriend and we were hanging out as
04:48:30Isabellafriends and then it became like something that I was like oh I like want a relationship with this person so then I decided to get into a relationship with him rather than the previous guy who was like asking a lot for a relationship and I was like no I don't
04:48:42Isabellawant one I don't want one so he was like upset that I got did they know each other no not at all didn't know each other no they knew of each other but they didn't know anything about each other I think you made the right choice
04:48:52Brian Atlasoh yeah I know I did and so this was their first time ever meeting in person yeah were you
04:49:01Isabellafollowed no he I I honestly don't know it something yeah yeah yeah I would say it's small but it was just like such a
04:49:09Brian Atlascrazy like oh so bad so how so can you uh elaborate on the fling gets out of his car and like do they exchange words
04:49:20Isabellaor no he literally just starts your boyfriend's in the car the fling does he grab him and drag literally just starts punching the [ __ ] out of him in the car leans through the
04:49:31Isabellacar went cuz the windows were down it was so crazy yeah it was really bad wait so he's punch the your boyfriend's in the car yeah and he just like gets like yes so do they start does he get out and yeah yeah my boyfriend like gets out of
04:49:44Isabellacuz he was like trying to pull him out by his feet and then my boyfriend at the time like got out of the car and was just like what the [ __ ] like they were just like cuz it was like literally out of nowhere like I was like oh this is so weird like why is he like walking to the
04:49:55Isabellacar right now like what and then he just freaked out and how long were they fighting for I don't know he like probably like 20 minutes and then 20 yeah it was a while have you seen
04:50:07Isabellathere's like this uh well I couldn't do because the previous fling he was like 64 I think he a big guy wait the
04:50:17Isabellaprevious X fling was like 64 200 yeah he was a big guy 6'4 200 lb yeah he was big how tall was your boyfriend like
04:50:26Isabella59 145 holy [ __ ] this is got ass handed to him I know he didn't have how did the fight last 20 minutes well surprisingly enough I was freaking out so I was like screaming the whole time the flings like
04:50:39Isabellawalking back to his car I'm screaming at him I'm like punching his window all this stuff anyways my boyfriend at the time had like no marks on him like nothing there was not a single scratch on his body I was really I don't know was I guess he defended himself well
04:50:52Isabellathey were fist fighting literally punching the [ __ ] out of each other yes it wasn't like a little ooh no it was like a full fight they were fist fighting for 20 minutes yeah likeu this is [ __ ] that's a UFC fight 20
04:51:04Isabellaminutes yeah like pulled him up off the ground slammed him on the concrete hold on let's just think about this 20 minutes okay 20 minutes I might be like I wasn't timing it like I don't want probably like a one minute no it was
04:51:16Isabelladefinitely not a minute it lasted for a minute you so like while not like 8 minutes have you been in fight yeah they lost maybe 1 minute 2 minutes max like yeah but that's like a knockout or like something like a guy gets seriously
04:51:30Brian Atlaspunched like he did not get seriously punched at all myself talking a lot going back and for I so I I wrestled in high school we had it was uh three period that's like that's a UF match 20 minutes 5 minute
04:51:42Isabellarounds that's [ __ ] long forgive my exaggeration on time Max maybe like 5 minutes maybe probably like six or eight but in that time in that moment it feels like a lifetime so it's it's probably like
04:51:54Brian Atlasminutes but so I I wrestled in high school you'd have three uh 2minute periods by like you're already [ __ ] your gas tank for most like high school student like your gas tank is gone after
04:52:07Brian Atlasthat's like you're wrestling this is like fight or flight mode would you say like so you would get gassed even quicker because in wrestling like I mean it's still like it's just as physically that's true yeah but like you're going
04:52:20Brian Atlasto get gassed way faster because you're in fight or flight mhm most people in a fight are going to their gas tank is done after probably 2 minutes I have no idea I was not I'm sorry there's no way
04:52:31Isabellanon-trained people are fighting for 20 this is probably exaggeration forgive me but I'm am I wrong it felt like a long time in my perspective was very scary so
04:52:41Brian Atlastime dilation dilution I felt in any case who won the fight I wouldn't say that anyone won it like wasn't like a win I would just I don't even were they hitting each other with their purses
04:52:54Isabellathat's what I thought I swear cuz I literally no nothing on my ex-boyfriend or yeah my most recent exboyfriend there was nothing on purse it's a what's Satchel Satchel Indiana Jones was one
04:53:06Isabellayeah there was no marks or anything so I was very confused it was like really intense like on guy wasn't able to I know that's what I thought well he like picked him up and like threw him on the
04:53:17Brian Atlasground a couple times he was fine and they're exchanging punches yes yeah okay all right no I believe it just they just
04:53:26Isabellahave bad aim I guess I don't know I couldn't tell you I kind of bled out punches yeah just do it
04:53:35Brian Atlasagain bullet time yeah bullet time uh okay well damn that's crazy mhm um I feel like as a
04:53:46Isabellaguy why like if a girl doesn't want to date you it's like so yeah he took it really hard a he's in a relationship now though right after me he found a girl and he's been with her for like over a year and a half so good for him he found
04:53:59Brian Atlashis person does he what was like I don't know if you talk to him afterwards what was his like does he feel he could have been totally wrong but did he feel like you cheated on him no it was more of
04:54:12Isabellalike we were very close and I like opened my family up to him since he has like a hard family life and he felt like that this new guy like took his like family away from him type thing if that
04:54:20Isabellamakes sense and you guys were what 17 18 or something yeah I was 17 I think okay yeah it was it was really not that deep it was not for a long time but like I don't know emotions took over I guess
04:54:33Isabellaand his and was he coming over aggressive or did it seem like he was going to come over I just thought he was like coming over and helping he was just like walking slow and then started getting close to the car and I was like okay he's picking up some speed okay
04:54:44Brian Atlashe's reaching his arms in the car what the [ __ ] oh man that's crazy it bad did you tell your the guy like how like so I was just like like roll the window up no
04:54:55Isabellawell well honestly yeah but it's one of those windows cuz it's his old car you have to like roll it it was the the hand crank yes oh he was [ __ ] yeah it was just it happened all so fast wait was he was it was his car yeah it was his car
04:55:08Isabellaso he was in the driver's seat yeah but he was like like laying down hand crank that [ __ ] bro he was in like the worst position I felt so bad I genuinely thought he was never going to talk to me again after that so how long did you
04:55:18Isabelladate after that like basically a year oh okay oh [ __ ] okay yeah that's intense man did you fold laund
04:55:29Brian Atlasafterwards I probably did I did everything so probably that's good yeah what was wrong with the other man bro that's that's some I never really
04:55:41Brian Atlasfigured it out quite you can't be that pressed about mhm can't yeah that's weird too um anyways uh you said that you think that in a relationship your
04:55:52Brian Atlaspartner oh well we uh Ken yeah we already talked of their choice even if they are the opposite gender so are you do you agree with your friend here like kind of bad look or are you more okay with I I understand it like from my
04:56:04Isabellaboyfriend's perspective now he has friends from high school yeah like from his hometown like girls that known for like years so like what am I going to say like oh you can't be friends with her I would think it's weird if they hung out cuz I've seen whatever but like
04:56:17Isabellathey've talked at like parties and stuff and they're super respectful towards me they're not going to like do anything weird and they're like very engaging with me and like nice to me so I'm like okay like be friends with them I don't really care sure for me like I guess
04:56:29Isabellait's like I don't know he's very protective so from his like perspective it's like he really doesn't like guys but it's not like a controlling thing like I get it I understand all right and
04:56:40Brian Atlasthen Ria Rya yeah how do you say it R Ria you said uh on and off situationship for three years ex-boy friend I met in Cabo ended up doing long distance for
04:56:51Brian Atlastwo months cheated on you uh is that the on andof situation ship or that's a different that's a different one uh tell us about the on andof situation ship literally just how it sounds just
04:57:02Brian Atlason and off yeah uh how many times was it on and off what do you mean like how many times were there breaks three times four times five times I don't countless yeah 20 too many to count I don't know
04:57:14Brian Atlastoo many yeah what was the longest break like two weeks or something like 3 months 3 months and it three years situationship yeah pretty much this was
04:57:25Keiin high school yeah so like what 15 to like yeah no no no it was like like 16 to like recently now yeah oh wait hold on wait wait wait
04:57:37Keiwait you said you've been single for a year yeah I have been when's the last time you saw your situationship um like two months ago
04:57:50Keihold up it's that's why it's called a situationship not a relationship [ __ ] uh what oh yeah I'm super proud of it like what uh wait
04:58:05Brian Atlasso what was the nature of the hangout with the situationship two months ago just like hanging out you know sneaky
04:58:13Brian Atlaslink yeah sneaky link okay and so but it ended yeah you guys going to get back together no or is it done zo
04:58:25Brian Atlasdone done okay and so you said it you guys would be on again off again dozens fair to say dozens of times yeah okay
04:58:34Brian Atlasmore often than not who's initiating the break you or him or is it equal honest probably him why I don't know
04:58:44Keiwhat kind of crazy [ __ ] you doing can't say no I'm not that crazy I'm not that crazy you're not that crazy killed his whole
04:58:55Brian Atlasfamily what what um so what does he tell you cuz I know some like what does he say when he breaks it off like typically people say you did this what it it'll just be like like I tell him that I have
04:59:07Keifeelings for him and it's like deeper than what he thinks it is and then like he'll be like okay like I feel like we should just stop hanging out so you you want more and he wants to keep it casual
04:59:18Brian Atlasyeah so he's like be free yeah be free wait I have a button for this hold on let me see if I can find it oh god um
04:59:26TTS Readerbut for now this Wild Buck has to roam free or he will die okay uh yeah so
04:59:35Keium so that's it yeah but are you like je because okay he sees other girls right is that part of the point yeah well right it was like it would be like
04:59:47Keisometimes we would be like make it like an exclusive thing but least he said right yeah yeah did he ever cheat on you well we weren't
04:59:57Brian Atlasdating okay but like there were other girls right yeah and then but you'd be like no no no like I really like you I want to be exclusive yeah and there were periods where we would give you that but
05:00:08Brian Atlasthen other periods where he was like no yeah pretty much okay I I kind of have a sense of the situation yeah and um so he would be like but would you be acting kind of
05:00:21Brian Atlasjealous or like what the [ __ ] who's this chck yeah your friend your friend's giving you away here a little bit uh so like how uh like you'd go through his phone
05:00:33Keino no it would just be like no I actually I wouldn't do that cuz we weren't dating so it's like can you til your mic down just a sad and skin to the table just a bit but go on continue um we weren't dating so like I just didn't
05:00:45Brian Atlasfeel like I had the responsibility to like be able to do that but like if I would hear that he would do something with someone else I'd be like cuz you wanted him I mean that's Reas right like you wanted to be with him he was some
05:00:56Brian Atlasother chick that would come in between you being able to lock down insecure uh committed long-term serious relationship um how many over the course of this three-year situationship how
05:01:07Keimany if you know number how many other girls were were in the picture um I don't know it was just like it wasn't like a constant thing that where he would like hang out with like someone
05:01:20Keispecifically that you knew about it would just be like well no it was just like oh I heard he like kissed someone else at like this party and then like I would be like well yeah you know and you
05:01:30Brian Atlaswanted a relationship yeah but he didn't yeah and so so okay he would break up with did you ever break up with him or was it him always breaking up with you no one time
05:01:41Brian AtlasI did one time you did after I found out he kissed someone 70 times he he ended things with you yeah okay and so would he uh and then who would like reach back
05:01:54Keiout to who I want to say probably it was probably mostly me there's like a few
05:01:59Keitimes where be she's down bad for this I know I know bro um okay and uh graffito tag donated
05:02:12TTS Reader$69.69 thank you man great float of the show right now chill W Brian on an unrelated note any of you girls waiting to say you didn't know it was going to last this long and have kids you need to
05:02:24Brian Atlasget home too yo graffo thank you for the 69 TTS man I really appreciate it good to see you back in the chat man thank you thank you who does anybody here have
05:02:33Brian Atlaskids no nobody nobody you have four damn she start that's
05:02:41Brian Atlascrazy that's crazy um wait so okay going back to you uh so you would go back to
05:02:49Brian Atlashim yeah so he would break off break it off mm and then but so would when he broke it off would it be a text would it
05:02:57Keibe in person would it be a call all of the above um yeah I guess I don't know yeah it wouldn't be like break it off
05:03:08Brian Atlascan we go through the text messages God no I want to see all the reasons like he broke up um okay and so he would break it off and then three days would go by
05:03:19Brian Atlasand then you'd be like babe I miss you I promise I won't be so jealous anymore something can I come over let me I want
05:03:26Brian Atlasto come over right yeah something been there done that um and so uh okay and
05:03:35Brian Atlashe if you had to like try to estimate the number how many times was it on U off and on how many breaks were there
05:03:44Keimaybe like like four oh we it would be like didn't you say it doesn't okay no but it would just now that I'm thinking back it's like we wouldn't actually break things off like seriously like that only happened a few times and then
05:03:57Brian Atlaswe would just like go back to each other well wait so it would when you say that though tell me if my interpretation is correct so it would be it would move into the
05:04:08Brian Atlasrealm of like oh I'm committed to you and then he's like M but I want to see other girls so I'll keep seeing you so it's not an official break but you've been downgraded to no longer exclusive
05:04:20Keiis that a fair so you're not technically broken up but you're not it was exclusivity it wasn't even like he wanted to see other people it was just like he just didn't want to be in a
05:04:31Keirelationship with me you know but it's like he liked whatever we had going on even though it No Label yeah
05:04:40Brian Atlasokay so he wanted to keep you around for sex just to hang out you know would you guys go on dates no what what was the nature of when you guys did hang out
05:04:51Keiwhat was the nature of the Hangouts like like sneaky link type was it typically late at night yeah was he drunk typically um we would drink like
05:05:03Keitogether sometimes yeah would it be on like weekends Friday Saturday yeah yeah Mondays ever yeah no Tuesdays no Wednesdays no it wasn't on the weekdays
05:05:14Keiit was mainly weekend th what about the Sunday I mean no no no yeah girl you got to run I got this I know um I
05:05:24Brian Atlasdid and uh so would you hit him up or would he hit you up or both both yeah around what
05:05:34Brian Atlastime of night would he God send you the Wy he wouldn't even write it out entire it was just WYD what you doing right yeah yeah um or it's like the peach and
05:05:45Roguethen the like phone emoji oh no I'm joking joking Emoji only I'm joking um damn that's that's crazy this guy's speaking in hieroglyphics and getting in
05:05:55Keithe time of day yeah um like come over it would just like come over that's it well yeah so yeah pretty much or like
05:06:03Keiwhat are you doing exactly the WYD so how tall was he like 61 yeah good
05:06:10Brian Atlaslooking guy yeah yeah RZ she hates that
05:06:15Brian Atlasword no RZ nerdy no athlete no fat
05:06:26Brian Atlasno uh just curious what what about him were you so drawn to I don't know I couldn't tell you was it your first
05:06:36Brian Atlasno yeah I don't know it just lasted too long so H um how many uh what's the most amount of times you texted him in a row before he
05:06:53Keiresponded um I don't know like three h your friends are giving you away a little bit okay I wouldn't I don't think I would like act like text like hella of
05:07:05Kei[ __ ] unless I was mad about something then it could have been more than that were you frequently mad about things m h
05:07:15TTS Readerinteresting Sons of Liberty donated $69 are you voting for Trump or cumala if cumala name one reason besides
05:07:26TTS Readerabortion by the way qara slept with married men to get ahead Trump 2024 I guess we could go around the table really quick on that um yo
05:07:37TTS Readerrattlesnake TV is in the chat what's up man what's up J um oh Dariel Frank Castle 512 doned $69 Brian she wasn't a sneaky link she
05:07:50TTS Readerwas a side btch he only hit her up on weekends when he would tell his wife he was going out with the boys that's exactly what happened I mean
05:07:59Brian AtlasI he was what 19 you're right no like 18 oh yeah I don't think he has a wife but uh probably I mean s I mean I don't know
05:08:10Brian Atlasuh and then going back to the Sons of Liberty question who just who he hey they ask we got to respond who you voting for Trump or
05:08:19RogueCala I'm voting for Cala but because she's doing $25,000 down payment on new uh buyers of homes well she can get it past but what about you no comment
05:08:32Brian Atlasthat's that's a commala vote right there uh Trump oh Trump really oh okay I'm not registered to vote so well let's just say you were registered yeah I'm not answering that I don't know it's okay I
05:08:45TTS Readermean what what about you I'm not voting you're not voting no into the mic just little a little closer not voting not voting you don't believe in
05:08:54TTS Readerdemocracy exactly SE van Fon actual donated $69 dis normaliz punching women in the PE
05:09:04TTS Readerdoam game overies game over throw back to I like that that's funny uh okay don't punch women in the vagina please
05:09:15Brian Atlasthat's not unless she asks you to butting I don't know if I would be okay with even if a girl asked me I
05:09:24Brian Atlasdon't I'm not into like what's it called the S sadism to punch her in the face I don't or the my the what is it called
05:09:35Brian Atlasit's not BDSM oh masochism mm it's masochism yeah I'm not really into that uh so you're not voting no okay what about you
05:09:46Liam ChristopherTrump trump what if you were American you ask Aussie um Trump I guess yeah i' probably go for Trump to be honest yeah all right wow that's a pretty that's a
05:09:57Liam Christopherpretty heavy all right that's a barometer for what about you uh
05:10:06Brian Atlashonestly I got to got to go with Trump yeah I gotta go with Trump um he's not my favorite politician uh
05:10:15Brian Atlasthere's I have criticisms but uh over Kamala yeah definitely Trump definitely Trump uh anyways okay uh there you have it folks and I'm also
05:10:28Brian Atlasyou know what you know what I'm not voting for Trump I'm going to write in chess bra to be president I'm riding
05:10:37Brian Atlashim in the vote for president Aesthetics okay um wait going back to your thing so I won't interrogate you for too much longer come on man uh
05:10:50ChestbrahCH we're going to make it the world will be a much more aesthetic Place way more aesthetic make America aesthetic no voting allowed for people no voting allowed for people sub not under sub
05:11:01Brian Atlasthey have to be under a certain body fat [ __ ] I'm going to lose my vote then [ __ ] time to get on the treadmill boy got [ __ ] uh so uh okay I had I had a good
05:11:12Brian Atlasquestion for this um oh uh okay so it was like four times you guys were yeah oh yeah so it's been two months since you've last seen him yeah so he end maybe three months three
05:11:24Brian Atlasmonths he ended and is it over yeah have you reached question though after it ended did you reach out to
05:11:34Keihim uh okay well we didn't really like have a discussion we just kind of like just didn't hang out or didn't talk but yeah I guess you texted him
05:11:46Keiyeah and he didn't respond D no he did respond oh he did respond and he said what well I didn't like I didn't it wasn't like a like oh what are we type of conversation it would just be like oh like what are you
05:11:59Keiup to you know like what are you up to let's hook up or just like no no no no no just like well he lives somewhere else so like I was just wait this long distance or
05:12:09Brian Atlasnow he lives somewhere else oh yeah well you moved here is that part of it okay yeah oh well that kind of explains it a
05:12:17Brian Atlaslittle bit then and then he uh wait so you said what's up how's it going and he didn't respond or he was just like oh good yeah and that's it yeah pretty much
05:12:29Brian Atlasand then did you text again or no we've like talked like a few times does he still live in the hometown no oh so he moved too somewhere else uh so when you guys go home for
05:12:41Brian AtlasThanksgiving or Christmas are you guys going to link I don't know probably not he DMS you right he DMS you tonight he's watching the show and he DMS you tonight and he says I'm in Santa Barbara let's
05:12:53Brian Atlasmeet up do you meet up no no you you're friends with her does she meet up with
05:13:02Isabellahim no no not tonight not tonight she'll give it some smart girl thought because we'll all be talking to her about it if she'll regret it or not yeah no well you and you guys are like friends friends
05:13:16Brian Atlasfrom back home like you guys known each other for years years yeah like Junior High Elementary School type [ __ ] oh okay you guys you guys know her yeah damn okay
05:13:27Isabella[ __ ] yeah she's locked in though she's standing on business oh yeah period so there's is there another guy in the picture now no no I'm just saying like to our there's no other guys in the
05:13:37Brian Atlaspicture no other sney links Santa Barbara CCE no no no nope nope no nothing nothing zip so any guys since you moved here cuz you've been here three months right since I've moved here
05:13:50Keiyeah I've like talked to a few people but nothing like serious so like sneaky link no oh
05:13:59Brian Atlasokay yeah you're definitely getting back with that guy that's going to happen um okay that's uh you know it is what it is uh then what's about the ex-boyfriend
05:14:11Brian Atlasyou met in Cabo ended up doing long distance for yeah but what's crazy is 3 years I know that's a lot of time to be in that kind of situation I know like a
05:14:22Brian Atlaslot of girls will they deal with a guy like that for even two three months they feel bad you did that [ __ ] for three years son yeah you got
05:14:31Brian Atlasa I know locked in though you're locked in the distance helps I guess um okay what's the thing about the Cabo longdistance boyfriend cheating on you
05:14:42Keiokay well pretty much I just met this guy in Cabo last summer and then Spring Break um maybe no it was over summer okay and
05:14:52Keium met him in Cabo then like we spent like like a whole day together there then we ended up dating and he lived somewhere else like from my hometown he
05:15:03Keilives in La so we did long distance and then after we broke up his girl best friend called me and said that he cheated on me during our relationship and me and him were still friends so I
05:15:12Keiwas like pretty mad over it wait so you met in Cabo mhm and then where did you both live I live in like or I'm from Sacramento and he's from La so pretty
05:15:24Brian Atlasfar yeah that's like an 8 hour drive and so you met in Cabo had you guys hung out subsequent time after Cabo we did we did
05:15:35Keiwas it after the cheating or before the cheating before okay after Cabo he like drove to see me for and stay with me for a week and then we hung out then he went
05:15:46Brian Atlasback home then we like started dating and did long distance for two months interesting okay and then uh I don't know if I have really anything else on
05:15:56Brian Atlason the Cabo thing um uh you said men shouldn't always have to make the first move yeah wait didn't you say you never
05:16:08Keimade a first move though I've never asked a guy out on a date before but I think I've made a first move like what do you mean by that by making the first move I don't know like kissing someone
05:16:18Brian Atlasoh like going for first kiss yeah okay wait like initiating something something to find something I don't know car caral
05:16:27Brian Atlasknowledge sex I yeah sure cool huh cool all right uh and then being ugly hot and a little funny
05:16:38Brian Atlasmakes you 10x more attractive yeah well was the three-year situationship guy ugly hot but funny a
05:16:47Roguelittle funny yeah he was ugly hot can you define ugly hot like by a celebrity that Pete Davidson yes Bill Skarsgard
05:16:58Keiokay um hot ugly would be like Zach Efron right now okay you know looks different yeah yeah
05:17:11Brian Atlasokay I agree I I think it's it can be cool if the girl makes uh the first move a bit you know I it's nice sometimes you know uh let's see you did long distance
05:17:22Brian Atlaswith a okay we talked about that a boyfriend wanted some friends meeting people organically is better than dating apps I think we would all agree with
05:17:31Brian Atlasthat uh let's see let's get to uh s did I say your name right yeah yeah you did s s sry s uh s yes sir
05:17:43TTS Readerdating in Australia Australian girls vers American Girls what's the deal hold on Dar lfrank Castle 512 donated $69 what the [ __ ]
05:17:55TTS Readertypical stereotype one hot chick hangs out with two ugly chicks that'll just C CK block her Jesus these girls are 19 and already run through
05:18:06Austin/Production#in I don't know one wait what I wouldn't I wouldn't have a think some comments to be honest I don't think they know what they're
05:18:15Austin/Productionsaying I really don't oh my Lord nukes W great graphics look at that Jesus um all
05:18:24Chestbrahright I didn't understand CH Rude by the way go on so what you say say again Bri uh first Rockets dist distracted all the women at the table they're
05:18:35Brian Atlasall they're not they're they're all oh my God what am I they're they're all you're all tens there's no ugly people
05:18:47Chestbrahhere uh Australian girls yes American Girls Australian girls versus American Girls well you prefer be more descrip like elaborate um so I can give you a elaborate
05:19:00Chestbrahanswer well what are the differences when it comes to well looks dating personality I would say okay so I would
05:19:11Chestbrahsay in terms of um the whole feminist movement and stuff Australia's probably maybe like 10 years behind America you guys are a lot more I don't know what you should call it maybe like
05:19:21ChestbrahProgressive and all that stuff like there's a lot more um LGBT qtr R whatever you guys want to call it you see like there's more of them like around like you just see them everywhere in Australia and Sydney where I'm from
05:19:33Chestbrahit's they're like you see them but it's just like not as common like over here in California Los Angeles super common and people are like super open so that's something that I've only seen um out
05:19:44Chestbrahhere in Los Angeles I haven't seen that back in Sydney so I would say yeah you guys are a little bit more um open in that sense in terms of uh the women um
05:19:54Chestbrahyou know I think Australian women on on the whole are a bit more attractive than American women MH um not to say that American women AR attractive I just you
05:20:03Chestbrahknow I just prefer Australian women um and in terms of dating uh look it's give or take it's it's very similar to America um we're a little bit better I would say like here the women's
05:20:16Chestbrahstandards seem to be a lot more strict and just a lot more like um just there's a lot more demand for uh what women are after whereas I feel like in Australia it's it's still quite there but I feel
05:20:28Chestbrahlike we're a bit behind on the movement so I feel like there's still some traditional girls there's still lots of traditional relationships um there's just less degeneracy and in saying that though I I do see things
05:20:41Chestbrahbecoming a little bit more suede towards like how Los Angeles is and California in general uh within a next 10 15 years cuz yeah times are changing women are changing relationships are changing and just yeah the dynamic of like a sexual
05:20:53Chestbrahum relationship between a man woman woman woman man man whatever it's all completely changing um but I just feel like we're behind than America and we're a little bit more H uh I guess a little
05:21:06Brian Atlasbit more private did you ever a dead in American back in the day never no yeah uh and then I have a few more questions for you uh what race did you play in
05:21:18ChestbrahWorld of Warcraft and what server I I didn't play World of Warcraft too much that was more yeah I was more like the console game I played Final Fantasy Zelda Arena
05:21:30Chestbrahof time uh games like that like yeah just um I was more a console game PS PS1 PS2 sure um yes I can't answer that you said that you had your first love
05:21:40Brian Atlasand Crush leave you mostly because you lost your job 10 years later she's what slutting in my DMs ever since you what put on muscle
05:21:50Chestbrahand made money got jacked making money and then but so she uh first the first love so she dumped me dumped you because you lost your job yeah I had a job at the time and I lost my job and then her and her family made a big deal about me
05:22:03Chestbrahlosing my job that I couldn't provide and that I'm useless and all this kind of stuff MH and then um um yeah 10 years later um probably about a year ago that she would just like slide in my DMs and reach out and try to make like chitchat
05:22:15Chestbrahand general conversation and it's like kind of like you know too little too late mate like you know been like progressing on my journey and you know just in my life with my career and like and now you want to come back and like talk to me like what the hell like you
05:22:27Chestbrahknow what I mean so it's just a little bit funny that you know once you start doing well for yourself that everyone just comes out of the Woodworks past relationships old friends this and that do you feel like that motiv you it made
05:22:39Chestbrahme feel good yeah like I it was like kind of like the last laugh I'm just like haha like it felt great like she dumped me and I was like really really upset at the time you know what I mean when I was younger so when I had that approval of her running back it kind of
05:22:52Chestbrahwas like it made me feel good it's like ha this this like this chick's coming back now and she wants me now when her value's kind of gone down and my value's gone up so so what advice would you give to Men Who feel like they're not good
05:23:04Chestbrahenough self-improve um self-improve in the gym self-improve impr with business um just self-improve in general find a craft find a skill whether that's uh you know blue color work you might become an
05:23:15Chestbrahelectrician plumber whatever it is just build on a skill and work on that have a side hustle while you're doing your main job so your main job might be like a 9 to5 you might be doing some office job that you derive no pleasure you don't really love but have a side hustle
05:23:28Chestbrahwhether it's like social media or something on the side that you truly love that you're truly passionate about and you know invest into that over time and over time hopefully that would take over your main hustle and then you can
05:23:39Chestbrahdo your side hustle is like uh like a like like your career so that's kind of what happened with me you know I was doing odd jobs and working 9 five not really happy and I had the side hustle of the fitness and social media and influencing and I just eventually over time I just kept plugging away at the
05:23:52Chestbrahsocial media and it kind of just naturally took over so my best advice to young men would be to do the same you know to make money to work hard uh not to waste their time and it's going to sound Rich coming from me cuz I partied
05:24:04Chestbraha hell of a lot but not to waste too much time partying and doing the [ __ ] that really doesn't matter uh learn skills learn crafts uh build your wealth and just build yourself up as a man because when you do you'll attract the
05:24:15Brian Atlasright kind of women and you'll feel better for yourself actually than if you're just wasting your 20s just doing stupid [ __ ] and you also said you wanted to talk about sexual dynamics of what
05:24:25Chestbrahwomen bring to the table in dating and how men date down versus women dating up yes so like we spoke about this earlier so as we discussed like women are literally fighting for like I'd say the
05:24:38Chestbrahtop 20% of males you know what I mean so income social status yada y y whereas men as we discussed earlier typically date down um we're not looking for as many things in a partner as say a woman
05:24:50Chestbrahdoes you know what I mean and it's just um I mean I think a lot of it has just come down to feminism I think also just a cultural shift uh over time as well I feel like the balance is a little bit
05:25:02Chestbrahsco I feel like females now have the power and men like kind of like like this whereas before as we all know men always had the power since the end of time for centuries and centuries so obviously there was going to be an imbalance somewhere in the long line and women were going to fight back which is
05:25:15TTS Readerit's expected you know what I mean so and then in doing that when the men were up here terminal uncore L donated $69 chair one 25k off the 300K house
05:25:26TTS Readerwill lower your payment about $150 per month and raise taxes during Trump the interest rates were under 3%
05:25:35TTS Readerwhich means saving over $700 per month hh34 math
05:25:44Roguecommon quick response to that um well I mean if it's hard right now to save up the money even put a down payment on the house at least that point you have your foot in the door so it
05:25:57Roguemight be a little bit more money at the long run but at least you're putting your foot in the door and you don't have to get a $300,000 house you can get a condo or something else but I digress yeah back to you yeah I think property
05:26:11Chestbrahinvestment is the best way to build money in today's society to be honest um but that's a topic day for another discussion but back to what I was saying so um since the end of time like I feel like men have always had the power in relationships in life in everything for
05:26:24Chestbrahas longest time up until I'd say maybe the last 30 years with the wave of feminism women kind of like started fighting back and naturally so like you know but they had no rights for so long like godamn like women couldn't even
05:26:35Chestbrahvote like in like lots of countries only like 30 40 years years ago so it was a little bit skewed too much and then obviously feminism came in and then women came up here men came down here but now as that's happened like you know relationships are failing more marriages
05:26:49Chestbrahare ending in divorce and it's always like 80% of the divorces are initiated by women leaving the men and all these kind of things that our parents and our grandparents didn't really think of at the time so I feel like in time it's
05:27:01Chestbrahgoing to be more of a balance and men are I feel like it's already happening now I feel like men are slowly starting to fight back and have like their bound and all this kind of stuff and I feel like we're almost going to be equal and then it's just it's going to be a place
05:27:13Rogueof like an equilibrium I don't necessarily think relationships are failing now because of feminism I feel like back then women didn't really have a choice to leave like what were you going to do a job you couldn't get a job you couldn't vote you couldn't hold a credit card you couldn't buy a house
05:27:26Chestbrahlike you you kind of had to rely on the man in your life you didn't have a good family I feel like men there's less like men being men today and there's more women that are also being more masculine
05:27:37Chestbrahmore that have been more feminine and because of this it's causing Like A disruption in the family unit you know the original family unit the the man was the man and you know looked after and
05:27:49Chestbrahprovided for the family the children the wife and now I feel like you know my conspiracy theories for this are wild but I feel like I feel like the government has like done this in a way to put women into the Working World to raise taxes so that men and the women
05:28:02Chestbrahcan get taxed more money goes back to the government the the household is Disturbed more women are online shopping and spending money away and it's just all more money is just being plugged into the government all whilst like disrupting the family unit of men and
05:28:14Chestbrahwomen which is causing problems problems caused divorce rates are going up divorce rates are higher now than they were 20 30 40 years ago so there's obviously a problem and I feel like there's going to be a rebound and I feel
05:28:26Chestbrahlike eventually it's just going to be equal with men and women cuz you know men can't be all the way up here and women down here and women can't be human it's just it just has to be equal so I feel like when that happens and I feel like we're not far away from that I think I think in next I'm going to call
05:28:39Chestbrahit now I think in the next maybe 10 to 20 years shit's going to change a lot men are already fighting back there's a reason these podcasts exist fresh and fit whatever podcast there's there's a big reason why these podcasts exist they wouldn't have been around or survived 30
05:28:51Chestbrahyears ago and that's facts uh because a lot of men are sick and tired a lot of men are fed up so I feel like you know with this pullback it's it's going to maybe a help women understand like the
05:29:03Chestbrahproblems that average men face and I feel like eventually it's going to just be equal M I have a question for you do you think feminism gave women a sense of entitlement I think the original wave of
05:29:16Chestbrahfeminism and what feminism stands for was actually a really really good thing I think feminism in its core Rights was an incredible thing I really do I feel like women deserve to vote I feel like women deserve to drive cars I feel like women deserve the basic human rights as
05:29:29Chestbrahas men do and I feel I feel like it's wrong what feminism is now yeah correct so leading on to what I was about to say I feel like now it's um skewed a little bit too much and the definition of what feminism is has been completely changed
05:29:40Chestbrahto disrespecting men downplaying men's efforts and um just it's just been completely scooted on the opposite side and it's like you know women hating on men men fighting back and getting upset at women and it's it's sad because it's
05:29:53Chestbrahjust yeah literally it's just disrupted the family you know what I mean whereas like men need women and women need men like we need each other one can't exist without the other so I feel like
05:30:04Chestbraheventually in time people will feel this and I feel like you you know it's only a matter of time to be honest it's like everyone's it will heal eventually yeah I think women are going to get over hating men and men are probably going to
05:30:17Chestbrahget over fighting back with women trying to prove themselves and it's just I feel like it's going to be equal but it's going to be a bit of time because like I said since the end of time men have been the Power Balance of men compared to
05:30:27Chestbrahwomen has been greatly greatly skewed like huge you know what I mean like yeah 100 years ago women weren't allowed to work vote only 100 years ago in how many like how long have we been on this Earth
05:30:39Chestbrahhow long have humans been around for I think not you know what I mean not even if you think about how long humans have been like our ancestors Neanderthal everything since the end of time since all caveman running around like the man pulling the woman's head throwing him into the cave going out hunting with
05:30:52ChestbrahSpears getting animals like since the end of time men have just had the power so because of that like this this feminism thing it's going to be it's going to be strong and it's going to last for a while but when it evens out
05:31:02Chestbrahshit's going to go back to normal I truly believe it and I think women want to be feminine I think I feel like they craved being feminine for the right man and I feel like men you know deep down
05:31:15Chestbrahtheir inert nature is to be masculine but this shit's just getting like translated it's just all getting jumbled with what you see now you know like men afraid of being men women afraid of being women and men are getting labeled like toxic masculine uh for things like
05:31:28Chestbrahgoing to the gym and you know like wanting to work out or wanting to play sports or you know just like wanting to self-improve it's just it's such a strange phenomenon that I'm witnessing because I've been in like both eras you know like you guys got to remember I'm
05:31:39Chestbrahalmost 40 years old so I've seen like around when my time like when I was like up and running like around 18 it was so different like girls would literally just come up and have conversations with you and there wasn't anything expected like a date or anything like that and
05:31:52Chestbrahyou can literally just take a girl on a date to like McDonald's at like such a young age and nothing was thought of it now if like something like that's mentioned even to like an 18-year-old girl that be like what the [ __ ] you know what I mean so I take it back to
05:32:03Chestbrahoriginally what I was saying like the top 20% of men are being fought for by 100% of women an analysis just uh [ __ ] that chest
05:32:16Brian Atlaswisdom just really quick I I'm curious on the feminism thing who here considers themselves a feminist starting with you go ahead okay yeah I consider myself a feminist but I don't think I'm like a
05:32:27Roguetoxic feminist like I you know I my I my man opens the door for me and he you know pulls my chair out for me and I here let
05:32:37Brian Atlasme I'll give you the charitable definition of feminism so oh boy okay hold on hold on let me walk you
05:32:46Brian Atlasthrough this hold on don't don't uh freak out okay go to the sources tab hide streamyard hold on let's just bring it Center okay hide
05:32:57Brian Atlasstreamyard you click that okay can you try to figure out okay so you
05:33:06Brian Atlascan't you got okay can you bring it back F1 if you see my mom she does not even look like that she's 65
05:33:19Brian Atlasum all right um so okay here's the charitable definition of feminism feminism is
05:33:28Brian Atlasa movement towards equality or egalitarianism or some people use equity with a rejection of patriarchy
05:33:38Brian Atlasso do you consider yourself a feminist yeah okay uh yes by the way that's my charitable def it's not it's actually my like super
05:33:50Brian Atlascharitable definition but I don't really think so no not a feminist okay she's a trump voter yes feminist yeah okay yeah okay
05:34:00Chestbrahhell no hell no no male feminist definitely no is there is male feminists isn't there there oh they are definitely oh well they they're
05:34:10Brian Atlasa strange Bunch definitely are they're a strange Bunch indeed well the for the sake of time I there are a couple things that have been said I kind of wanted to jump in on the chat was begging me to hop in on some of these things
05:34:24Brian Atlasunfortunately for the sake of time I can't really address every single one of the claims that you made I do actually want to just quickly touch on this whole like women couldn't vote thing uh while
05:34:34Brian Atlasthat is true and I I sent you a uh thing to pull up in the the Dropbox thing if we can get that pulled up so it's like it's sort of a odd relooking of History
05:34:45Brian Atlasbecause for most of human history neither men or women could vote like so if we pull up the
05:34:58Brian Atlaschart sorry guys you could all right uh okay can you hide the TTS thing please all right so uh countries with
05:35:09Brian Atlasuniversal right to vote so Brown is no Universal right to vote the light blue is universal right to vote for only men Universal right to vote for men and
05:35:19Brian Atlaswomen make it one smaller please so I can see the dates okay so there's may be
05:35:27Brian Atlaslike a very small period between 18 so like prior to 1850 almost nobody it was
05:35:34Brian Atlaslike kings queens Lords all that [ __ ] mhm like the average typical man couldn't vote either MH
05:35:44Brian Atlas1850 started introducing it for land owners and then men and then so within less than a 50 to a 100-year period from when men got the vote and from when
05:35:56Brian Atlaswomen got the vote it's a very small period now you might say well even that 100 or 50e period that's still that's really unfair that men had it before
05:36:07Brian Atlaswomen but so men had a corresponding Duty and responsibility that women to this day still don't have albeit you were still
05:36:18Brian Atlasable to secure a privilege a right voting without having the corresponding Duty and responsibility that men have do
05:36:27Brian Atlasyou know what this is War uh yeah War yeah so in uh 1914 1918 just before conveniently women got the right to vote
05:36:37Brian Atlaswe had the most catastrophic war that ever occurred men were drafted into this war men were drafted into the Civil War men were drafted into the uh war for
05:36:46Brian Atlasindependence um Revolutionary War and so it's interesting to me though that we overlook this fact that men had to
05:36:56Brian Atlasliterally die in order to be able to get the right to vote and you women were able to secure it without having to do anything
05:37:08Brian Atlaswell I I don't know I feel like women did do things to try to get their vote like well sure you did things to get the vote but what do you like what
05:37:18Rogueobligation to the country do you have no I understand that I think I think women should be drafted but they're not I know they're not but I think it should it would be fair it
05:37:29Brian Atlaswould be fair if you can vote you you know you should also be able to be drafted whether your gender or not well I agree with you for the of equality even if women were subject to the draft
05:37:40Brian Atlasthere's there's a couple things here uh two even if they were drafted they probably wouldn't be put in those front line positions anyways yeah so that would still be a privilege and
05:37:52Brian Atlasbenevolence on the part of men and then you also have a way out so this actually happens with women who volunteer for the military uh if they're about to get deployed they just get pregnant a lot of
05:38:04Brian Atlasthese women to avoid getting deployed even if they're volunteer not all women do this but they just get pregnant yeah and then they can't be deployed so you always have a way out
05:38:15Brian Atlaswhereas with men I mean you could fake an injury or hurt yourself in some way but yeah most men don't have the option to really get out of it in Thea in any
05:38:25Brian Atlascase women can't be drafted uh as it currently stands so it's kind of not exploring those other things mhm but so that's why we need the robots the war
05:38:37Brian Atlasrobots the war robots but uh so you're but do you think we should get rid of the draft cuz that would create that would create Ane equality yeah I mean if we
05:38:51Roguegot rid of the draft then it would create a more equal it would be equal right and feminism is about equality right but you know then we have to also worry about our government or our military being strong enough to protect
05:39:02Brian Atlasus from allies as well that's a that's actually a very good point that is a very but so what do we do do we either get rid of the draft for men and create
05:39:11Brian Atlasequality or do we draft women to also get equality what do we do I feel like getting rid of the draft because I feel like men would hop in to go to war anyway get rid of the draft should we get rid of the draft for equality no
05:39:24Isabellakeep the draft so you're fine and are you fine with women being drafted uh yes yes I am fine with women being drafted should what should we
05:39:35Isabellado i h for equality I mean I don't I guess women can do it if they want wait wait so it's not if they want well like if they like
05:39:48Isabellato get drafted like women like I feel like it should be equal like men and women it shouldn't just be men should women be
05:39:54Brian Atlasdrafted yeah you get drafted tomorrow sent to Middle East no sent to Russia to China some future conflict you wouldn't
05:40:05Brian Atlasdo it no yeah but you don't get that you know if you get drafted they force you well yeah and you're you're able-bodied right yeah you're you're getting drafted
05:40:18Brian Atlasuh what do you think should women be drafted into the mic yeah yeah okay yeah yeah yes oh okay interesting wait I have a question
05:40:30Brian Atlasand this is going to seem like I'm not saying this is what just I got to preface it I'm not saying that this should be the case I'm just like it's a thought experiment here so do you think