Gen Z Girls SHOCKED By Brian's Standards?! ZYZZ BRO Chestbrah! BEEFING Lil Tay?! | Dating Talk #206

Date: 2024-10-21

Duration: 6h 41m

Guests

Brian Atlas

IIsabella (UCSB)>

MMegan (DT206)>

LLiam Christopher >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_03Chestbrah(guest)

SPEAKER_04Liam Christopher(guest)

SPEAKER_08Ria/Mallerie(guest)

SPEAKER_09Isabella(guest)

SPEAKER_10Kei(guest)

SPEAKER_11Isabella(guest)

SPEAKER_12Megan(guest)

SPEAKER_13Rogue(guest)

SPEAKER_14Marcy(guest)

Key Moments

IntroRogue introduces herself: 32yo, just turned 32 two days ago, works at plastic surgery office, does OnlyFans (full adult content BG/FM), teaches pole dancing, goes to school full-time for X-ray tech.

“hi my name is Rogue I am 32 I just turned 32 two days ago... I work at a plastic surgery office I'm an adult Entertainer um I also go to school full-time uh for x-ray technican and I also teach po dancing”

IntroIsabella introduces herself: 18yo UCSB psychology student from Santa Barbara.

“my name is Isabella I'm 18 I live here in Santa Barbara and I'm a student at UCSB”

IntroKei introduces herself: 18yo interior design student at CC Santa Barbara.

“my name is key I'm 18 I'm from Santa Barbara and I'm currently a student too... Interior Design”

IntroRia and Mallerie introduce themselves: both 18yo CC students from Sacramento.

“I'm Ria I'm 18 I live here too and I go to the CC and I'm studying psychology... I'm mallerie I'm 18 as well I go to the CC and I'm studying communication”

IntroMarcy introduces herself: 37yo from Orlando FL, project management.

“I'm Marcy I just turned 37 on Friday I'm from Orlando Florida and I work in project management”

IntroMegan introduces herself: 33yo operations/logistics manager and volleyball coach from Orlando FL.

“I'm Megan I'm 33 um I'm an operations and Logistics manager and I coach volleyball and I'm from Orlando Florida”

IntroChestbrah introduces himself: Saeid Ghadirzadeh aka Chestbrah, 38yo from Sydney Australia, WBFF Pro, multiple business owner.

“s gav sersan otherwise known as ches bra 38 years old from Sydney Australia full-time sit hunt wbff Pro soon to be ifbb Pro multiple business owner”

IntroLiam Christopher introduces himself: 36yo serial entrepreneur. Pitches Aiana Gummies and The Money Box (40% off with code WHATEVER).

“my name is uh Liam 36 years old uh cereal entrepreneur not that I sell cereal I just have multiple businesses”

QuoteLiam describes how Chestbrah and Zyzz pioneered influencer culture before Instagram/TikTok existed, on bodybuilding forums and early YouTube.

“these guys were the ones that were just playing around with it having fun... they pioneered the concept like unintentionally of what you would call an influencer”

QuoteChestbrah argues that humble is a word that keeps people down - extraordinary people aim higher and should be proud of their achievements.

“humble is a horrible word it keeps people down here because extraordinary people they always aim higher so using the word humble just kind of puts you at a level of everyone else”

QuoteChestbrah reveals body count of approximately 300, explains it happened due to internet fame hitting around age 24-25.

“over 100 more... 300 yeah yeah but you got to remember like um I've been I'm 38... I hit Fame internet Fame at around the age of 24 25 so it was just like throwing at me”

OtherChestbrah gives heartfelt tribute to the Zyzz community after Isabella's boyfriend recognizes Zyzz via text. Emotional moment discussing how Zyzz's legacy lives on globally.

“it's all thanks to you guys that this movement is possible... it keeps him alive and it brings great joy to me”

QuoteRogue self-rates herself a 9/10, citing public attention and compliments as justification.

“I would say I'm I know I'm pretty attractive so I would say there a nine because there's always room for improvement”

ControversyBrian makes his laundry/sex argument: women will sleep with a man within 30 minutes of meeting but won't fold his laundry - the inconsistency of sexual liberation vs domestic service resistance.

“she can have my SP in her belly within 30 minutes of her meeting me and that's cool... but I want a little wholesome moment with this potential future mother of my children and she does my laundry”

QuoteChestbrah's extended monologue on feminism: original movement was good, now has disrupted the family unit, predicts equilibrium in 10-20 years as men push back.

“the original wave of feminism was actually a really really good thing... now it's skewed a little bit too much and the definition of what feminism is has been completely changed to disrespecting men”

QuoteMarcy describes her feminist blue-hair phase: she was more lost then than ever, surrounding herself with people enabling victimhood rather than healing.

“I had the side of my head shaved I went through blue hair black hair pink hair... I seriously thought I was finding myself... I was more lost in that moment than I was ever in my life”

OtherMarcy reveals she was sexually assaulted as a minor by a female babysitter, using it to support her argument that women can also be predators.

“I was essayed underage by a female babysitter so oh my God sorry to hear that yes so women are a problem guys”

ControversyBrian recaps his Twitter beef with Lil Tay (16yo Canadian rapper). Quote-tweeted 'Women are marginalized?' and responded with detailed list of male gaps (dangerous jobs, die on the job, etc.).

“I got into a beef with a 16-year-old Canadian girl... the dangerous job Gap die on the job Gap electrocuted to death Gap crushed to death Gap fall to their death Gap”

OtherChestbrah's closing remarks thanking the Zyzz community - the originals, newcomers, lovers, and haters - for keeping his brother's memory alive.

“I just want to say thank you to everyone who supports the movement since day one the misers the ogs the newcomers the lovers the haters all you guys it's all thanks to you guys that this movement is possible”

Topics Discussed

Introductions & Relationship Status

Guests introduce themselves (name, age, location, occupation). Brian pops champagne. Chestbrah and Liam promote their products (Subversion Fitness, Level Up pre-workout, Aiana Gummies, The Money Box). Relationship statuses revealed. Chestbrah discusses his girlfriend, Rogue discusses polyamorous swinger relationship.

Polyamory & Swinging Discussion

Rogue explains her polyamorous relationship (couple swapping only, no single men). Chestbrah expresses old-school monogamy values. Discussion of whether polyamory can sustain long-term. Rogue identifies as bisexual.

Chestbrah & Zyzz Legacy

Chestbrah discusses his brother Zyzz (died 2011), the aesthetic fitness movement, bodybuilding.com MK forums now shut down. Liam describes how they pioneered influencer culture on early YouTube/Facebook. Chestbrah shows clothing brand Subversion Fitness as tribute to Zyzz. 19-year-old Isabella's boyfriend texts back confirming he knows who Zyzz is.

Rogue's Wild Dating Story: 62-Year-Old Married Lawyer

Rogue tells the story of dating a 62-year-old lawyer at age 19. She worked at his casino, didn't know he was married. His wife showed up, pepper-sprayed him, Rogue fled through the window into snow. Wife went to jail. His wife also stole Rogue's knife.

Age Gap Relationships

Panel debates age gap relationships. Most guests cautiously accept them for adults, with caveats about experience gaps. Chestbrah prefers dating within 5 years but acknowledges he dated 10-15 years older and younger when single. Rogue thinks under-25 age gaps are problematic due to exploitation risk. Andrew Wilson call-in discussed (didn't happen live). Brian calls out that younger women wanting to exclude older men benefit from Leo DiCaprio-style double standards.

Are You Picky? What Do You Bring to the Table?

Women share what they want in a man (height requirements, humor, growth mindset) and what they bring to the table. Gen Z girls admit to having similar requirements for tall men. Chestbrah and Liam also share their requirements. Discussion of boring vs. conflict in relationships.

Body Count Discussion

Panel discusses body counts. Chestbrah (300+) and Liam (~300) reveal theirs. Rogue (300+ combined with partner). Isabella (20M + 9F). Gen Z girls reveal 6-12. Heated debate on double standards - men can have high body counts but prefer low body count women. Chestbrah argues evolutionary basis. Rogue pushes back.

Steroids & TRT Discussion

Chestbrah openly discusses his current cycle: Test 250mg/week, MK677, 2IU HGH/day. Discusses side effects (hair loss, gyno, mood). Recommends TRT for men 35+. Started at age 23, says it's a lifelong commitment once you start. Would not recommend to young men unless competing or earning from physique.

Submissive Women, Laundry on First Date, and the Bow

Brian shows video of his 'ideal woman' bowing when he comes home. Discussion of whether a woman would bow or do laundry on a first date. Most women reject this as weird/controlling. Brian argues that women will have sex on a first date but won't fold laundry - an inconsistency. Chestbrah shares that his girlfriend put a pillow under his feet on their second date.

Self-Ratings Round

Stiffler chat asks guests to rate themselves 1-10. Rogue: 9. Isabella: 6. Kei: 6. Ria: 7. Mallerie: 5.5-6. Marcy: 4. Megan: 7. Brian: 5. Discussion of whether Rogue's 9 is justified.

Makeup Debate

Isabella objects to a past episode guest who said makeup is unhealthy for women. Brian argues makeup is deceptive like a man lying about his job - it changes how you look. Panel agrees minimal makeup enhancement is different from heavy foundation. Shows viral Asian aging filter video.

Who Should Pay on First Date?

Discussion of who should pay on first dates. Most women say 'the man' or 'whoever asks.' Brian points out that most women have never asked a man out, making 'whoever asks' a convenient but rarely tested principle.

Marcy's Views: Women's Accountability & Bad Advice

Marcy shares she was formerly a feminist with shaved blue hair who lost herself in victim mentality. Discusses women enabling each other with bad advice, weaponizing trauma, and how the Barbie movie monologue is bad for women. Discloses being SA'd as a minor by a female babysitter. Rogue shares women assault her more than men at the strip club.

Feminism, Voting Rights, and the Draft

Chestbrah gives extended monologue on feminism: original movement was good, now it has gone too far and disrupted the family unit. Brian shows voting rights chart showing men also couldn't vote until recently. Discussion of draft - if you can vote you should be draftable. Most women eventually agree to hypothetical forced breeding scenario if species extinction is at stake.

Twitter Beef: Lil Tay & Billy Ray Brandt

Brian recaps his weekend Twitter beefs. Lil Tay posted about standing up for marginalized groups; Brian quote-tweeted 'Women are marginalized?' and responded with detailed breakdown of male gaps (dangerous jobs, die on the job, etc.). Also got into it with Billy Ray Brandt who wrote a long tweet (possibly with boyfriend's help). Brian invites both to debate on the show.

Roast Session & Wrap-Up

Final roast session via TTS donations. Brian reads update on Mason (motorcycle accident victim). Plays Patrice O'Neal clip about women keeping men without sex. Twitch raid to W_Grandma (82yo World of Warcraft streamer). Chestbrah thanks Zyzz fans in farewell.

Bear vs Man in the Forest

Viral internet question: would you rather encounter a bear or a random man in the woods? Most guests pick the man. Chestbrah and Liam surprised by the question's premise.

Transcript

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Brian Atlasin terms of let's remove like personality compatibility commonality all that uh what age do you find most physically attractive for me personally it's hard

Liam Christopherto say cuz like I'm surround surrounded by so many we've got 700 creators at work for us and like I've seen people in their 30s that look better than some people who are in their 20s and vice

Liam Christopherversa so it's really hard to say like at what age someone is at their Peak like I mean look I'll give you a prime example I think I pigged in my 30s I wouldn't date 19-year-old me at all so like I

Liam Christopherthink um I think it's less about the age it's just about how you look after yourself and at what point do you Peak you know physically cuz the same people

ChestbrahPE at different ages right sure yeah but I'm I'm thinking of it more so from like so I think it's more like it's much more than just looks bro I think what he's trying to say is like on a on a on a

Chestbrahmindset kind of level you know what I mean like what do you find most like what age generally do you find most attractive like yeah there's always outliers older women younger women but with just like speaking like the median median age here what would you say is

Liam Christopherlike I think when someone gets to like 293 they usually like cognitively developed pretty well yeah for me from my experience anyway that's what I've

Brian Atlasseen I know I met a lot of I thisa fact not so cogn cognitively developed out I think that depends on

Chestbrahhow hard they party in their 20s for sure I mean yeah partying and some other stuff but I mean I think I think intelligence is all genetic to be honest like I partied like a [ __ ] [ __ ] in my 20s but I'm still

Chestbrahsuccessful now like and I'm almost 40 so I think it just comes down to like you know a lot of it's genetics um a lot of it's hard work and a lot of it is like yeah if you really truly want something you'd go for it you'd work hard at it you know I don't think partying or

Chestbrahanything like that has anything to do with it to be honest I still party now I'm successful as [ __ ] you know what I'm saying too very humble very humble you got to keep it real man that's it's just how it is

Chestbrahyou know what I mean so if you're good at what you do you got to praise it I think humble is a [ __ ] horrible word it keeps people down here because extraordinary extraordinary people they always aim higher so using the word humble just kind of like puts you at a

Chestbrahlevel of everyone else so completely don't ever say that word [ __ ] humble you should be proud of your achievements no matter what consider whatever you're good at a slur to say humble yeah when people like oh be humble bro be humble why be hum where do you draw the line

Chestbrahbetween khaki that's a good question it's a fine line I'm not going to lie to you it's a super fine line and I tread it every day um I would say look it really it really depends like you just just got to be

Chestbrahyourself you know what I mean like if you're a cocky guy confident humble shy quiet whatever like it really doesn't matter you just got to be you and you can't be anyone other than yourself you know so someone telling you to be humble or someone telling you to be more

Chestbrahconfident you know you just got to be yourself so I mean obviously there's like if you to draw the line I would probably say like you still got to be polite to people you got to be nice you know when you're making conversation with someone you got to look at their eyes you got to address them by their

Chestbrahname you got to shake hands you just like as a man you still have to be a gentleman but there's nothing with being confident and you know what a degree of cockiness is actually a good thing it takes you a long way like it takes you a long long way in life it gets you the jobs that you want to get it gets you

Chestbrahthe dates and the women that you're trying to get like fake it till you make it kind of thing not necessarily being cocky and and faking something is the two different things like you can be confident and you can be cocky but being fake that always shows very very quickly

Chestbrahokay so you can be a confident and a cocky guy but obviously like you know there's limits you wouldn't you wouldn't like you can't be too quiet and too shy but you can't be like overly cocky but I think confidence in any of the sex is uh

Chestbrahsuper sexy it's an attractive feature and I think more women and men should be confident in themselves you know we're all different we're none of us are the same guys girls like we all bring different things to the table so I think it's important that you know we

Chestbrahcelebrate that and we're confident in that so just when I heard my boy say like humble this humble that I'm just like no man like you should be humble you should be really proud hate the word you should be really proud of who you are what you've achieved you know and your friends should be proud your family

Brian Atlasshould be proud so that's just my take on it H agre curious though to the ladies here would any of you who maybe

Brian Atlasbump your uh oldest guy you a date if it was Ryan Reynolds yes yes Henry kavil

Brian AtlasHenry caval there you go um all right uh let's see here and then uh I guess going back to you two yeah

RogueI'm still looking to actually hear an argument as to why it's wrong though H hm I mean I feel I feel like if you're if you're very old and you're dating

Roguejust from my experience dating like an 18 19yearold you're taking advantage of that person for sure how so I believe

Roguethat you I the majority of people older at least 10 15 years older than an 18 19 year-old I think they do have a lot more life experience I feel like it's very

Roguerare for an 18 19yearold you have a lot of experience unless they're a celebrity and they've or they've come from a certain family backgrounds but the majority of time most 18 19 year olds are not as confident or really know

Roguethemselves or what they like what they don't like um and I feel like older people or can take advantage of that very easily how would they take

Rogueadvantage of that um sexually or having you know using them as kind of arm candy or a way to kind of show off to others that they can

Rogueget somebody younger I don't feel like it's really in that person's best interest I feel like there's there's something that person wants that's the only thing I can come up with at least wait which per the the older gentleman

Rogueor person or woman too um I don't know to to maybe groom that person to be their Perfect Mate maybe you know they're still kind of

Roguethey're still kind of coming into their own they're still figuring out who they are and when you're with someone that much older you can kind of tell them what they like what I just can you define what grooming is in this context I would

Rogue[Music] say showing somebody a life and telling them what they like by certain situations wait so okay but so couldn't

Brian Atlasthis be an expectation you encounter in any relationship regardless of age so don't you teach your partner your likes your dislikes and vice versa yes but usually those people have their their

Roguelikes and dislikes already developed not someone who's learning what they like and dislike so if I'm with somebody who is around my same age and they already know what they like and dislike we have

Roguethe opportunity to be like I don't like that and kind of dip into the void where someone who's 18 and 19 like oh well I've never experienced that before I guess I'll try it and then you get I

Roguedon't know they get put into a situation that might not be the best for them like what um

Roguehm maybe uh they put their own dreams on the back burner instead of trying to develop what they feel like would be beneficial to them what's wrong with

Roguethat well if the relationship doesn't work out you're kind of so I feel like one thing I definitely learned is always have your own money like always always have your own money cuz when I was

Roguedating the older guy when I was 19 I he had me quit my job so we can travel and then if I didn't hear from him for a couple of days how can I eat how can I do anything was he paying you an

Rogueallowance or anything like that there wasn't like any daddy comp if I was me now there would have been stipulations but when I was 19 I didn't ask for anything I just was along for the ride

Brian Atlasand wait so hold on so were you living rentree with him no how long did the relationship last uh six months six months okay so you're saying you're you were financially harmed because you were

Roguedating him is that your I would say I wasn't looking out for my best interest I stopped going to college and getting good grades I kind of put this adventure

Roguethat he presented to me as being the important thing when I should have made the important thing making a future for myself couldn't this happen at any age though I

Chestbrahdon't really see how it I was about to say the same thing I feel like at any age it can happen like obviously like not to the extent of like saying like an 18-year-old with like a 30-year-old but still like even like a 30-year-old with a 50 or 60y old you could still be

Chestbrahputting a lot of your own dreams a lot of your own interests on the backbone of a more successful more powerful man you know because there is a power Dynamic with the age difference no matter whether you're 18 or whether you're 30

Roguethere's always going to be a PO Dynamic yeah no absolutely and I and I I agree with that but I feel like as as someone who is 32 I feel like I've already lived a lot of life and I can have a better let me tell you something I'm I'm 38 I'm

Chestbraha different man than when I was when I was 32 you're constantly changing you're constantly learning new things what I like now I didn't like when I was 32 and I guarantee the same thing will happen to you and everyone else in this room so yeah that's just coming from a bit of

Chestbrahold older man experience here um yeah we're always changing and we're always thinking of different things so yeah just don't be too quick to think like that because um it's it's like like Brian said it's applicable to any age um I feel like just in general when there's

Chestbraha big Power dynamic in a difference in age it's going to happen either way whether you're 18 or whether you're 30 it's going to happen either way okay so you said so you're basically saying that you should date in your lane if you're dating yes you should date like if you

Chestbrahwant to be in line with someone on the same morals values life experience I would say date within a five but if you date somebody who is more powerful than you you should step into their Lane well that's normally what happens you know whether you like it or not that's just

Chestbrahwhat happens it's the Power Balance it's the imbalance of power to be honest when a man's like 20 years older than you has more money has a far more Advanced Career than say like a 30 25y old woman it's just naturally what happens the

Chestbrahwoman naturally adopts and takes on uh you know the what the alpha brings to the relationship which is which is a man so if the man's got like you know more money more more assets more life experience then the woman is just by

RogueNature she's just she's going to follow but would you be okay with like your partner would you would you support them if they wanted to do something else well in my situation my partner is 3 years younger than me so she has her own

Chestbrahcareer I've got my own career I support her she supports me um in general if I had a younger part um it would be a different Dynamic to be honest um because I'm successful I feel

Chestbrahlike she wouldn't have to be following her own path she could if she wanted to but I would offer her a different life and she wouldn't have to be trying to like I guess chase her own dreams and hopes because essentially she wouldn't

Chestbrahhave to work you know what I mean so I would offer her that but if she wanted to do something else then that's her prerogative but in saying that which is why I think it's important to date within like a 5year angel age so it's like you guys are at the same kind of level you know yeah and I told

Rogueunderstand that but my my only problem is unless that comes to the ring if somebody dumps you and you don't put yourself at least a little bit first you're kind of left back where you were you're back at square one so so what do

Rogueyou mean by that I feel like you got to protect yourself unless you know this relationships for real you got to have your own so how would you protect yourself having a plan b or I would

Rogueprotect myself by making sure that I am investing in in myself so that if something what what happens if if you die like that person's still got to do something it's always important to look after obviously yourself first but like

ChestbrahI feel like when you're in a relationship you know if you if you love if you truly love each other not like these fake situationships and just like temporary little like flings and all that if you truly love someone you know if they're about that life and you know if they want you know want get married

Chestbrahwhen steing into somebody's Lane hold on you got to let them finish I apologize that's right it's right um so yeah you just want to know like you can normally tell these things so I've been in many relationships I can tell when a relationship generally isn't going to

Chestbrahperpetuate into anything more than just say like a relationship and I've been in relationships where there've been so much more when I'm like okay cool I could actually marry this girl and there's nothing wrong with either one but you just you got to pick them and

Chestbrahrealize them for what they are so if you're in one of those relationships and and deep down and you we all have this innate like feeling in our gut we can tell if this person is going to you know if they're going to be around for a while and I guess maybe I'm speaking

Brian Atlasfrom experience but it's just something that you can normally pick up on after you uh you've experienced it I feel by the way really quick we'll get back to the conversation here in just a moment uh Andrew I don't know if you're

Brian Atlaswatching The Crucible Crew He sent over a raid he just finished up his live stream so if you came from The Crucible uh welcome guys we have chest bra we've

Brian Atlasgot some some Australian we got some Aussies here so so let's go baby um they actually don't confident not cocky they don't think Australia exists a lot of

Brian Atlasthese people are you serious yeah they they think it's a myth it's crazy don't even get me started on American stereotypes but [ __ ] man oh damn but uh so we're around trust me we've got lots of spiders lots of kangaroos everybody

Brian Atlasin the chat is telling me we got to get Andrew to do a Callin I mean I don't know if you guys want Andrew on the call or I mean who the [ __ ] is Andrew uh Andrew Wilson he's like a frequent he he does video callings he's he the one on

Liam Christopherthis other show yeah and he comes oh I like that dude take that back I like that dud he's cool really can I we were saying something positive about him on the way here yeah I was hoping he'll be on the show he's pretty cool yeah we we

Liam Christopherwere bringing up um Andrew yeah yeah no we're bringing up how he's crude I like him no no we were bringing up how he stood on his moral ground on that podcast where he was he had to blow up

Liam Christopherwith that alpha male oh West Watson yeah and I was just like [ __ ] that dude yeah me and S were saying like he stood on

Liam Christopherhis moral ground in terms of um in terms of valuing the quality of a good relationship and being married so yeah we could if you guys are cool

Brian Atlaswith it I know we got a full panel already but if you guys do you want to do it now or when do you we could call him in we let's go Andrew let's go I'm buzz if he wants to talk to someone

Liam Christopherwho's had 21 copies you cool if we have him join in or how long we could do the whole show I mean I mean it's your show Brian whatever you want to do bro yeah I got to think I'll take the pressure off

Brian AtlasI can't I can't on is live that's all okay yeah uh well maybe we we could have him do a brief call and later I I need to even ask him if he can call him later tell tell him chess's a big fan spons as

Chestbrahwell I'm a big fan yeah I'll see but we but we were literally talking about this just before let Andrew compare ABS with chest BR hey I'm bulking bro I'm humble I'm not cocky I keep the shirt on but

Brian AtlasI'm cocky so that's why I'm wearing a singlet but so let me ask you a question um you mention mention the terms grooming exploitation when it came to these age Gap relationships um couldn't

Brian Atlasyou make a similar argument towards the younger woman in these cases because for example if they're dating especially old men typically absolutely absolutely I feel

Brian Atlaslike so well the I guess the point I'm trying to make here is is that when the age Gap is so significant typically what you'll see from women is this is a

Brian Atlasfinancial angle here um you know a 20 a 22-year-old dating a 32-year-old there can be love there mhm but like 22 dating

Rogue62 she's probably after the money yeah not always not always maybe but probably sometimes they're just dumb like I was wouldn't that just be predatory on their end absolutely I feel like women date

Brian Atlasmen just for the money all the time all the time sure uh and but so not for me though been there done that but so then who's the more predatory one when it comes to these age Gap

Brian Atlasrelationships like is it predatory for example let's say there's a 22-year-old and she's got her eye on Ryan Reynolds who is how old's Ryan he's like 48 or 45 or something is he really

Brian Atlaslet me see his age he's 47 uh or he turns 47 48 in 3 days October 23rd um like wouldn't it be

Roguepredatory on the young girl's AE uh the the 22y old woman yeah to be going after Ryan Reynolds oh absolutely because I feel like at that point it's like

Roguepreemptive it's like a strike on getting that person stri yeah it's like you're thinking about like I unless you're meeting somebody

Rogueorganically I feel like you're kind of going into it with a certain purpose and that would definitely be predatory mhm like if you if you've seen that guy and you go or let's say somebody goes up to

Rogueyou and you weren't with your current girlfriend and they're like I know you I know the money that you make that is completely predatory completely predatory wait that a female saying female yeah I I don't know I would I

Chestbrahwouldn't think that to be honest if like I feel like it's like the males would like be like a bit predatory but I don't know I I I can't see like a female like trying to put on me and then trying to

Chestbrahpick me up for my I don't know I'm just I can't see that to be honest I can see it from a man's point of view like but it's just just it's how often have you seen a woman who's like older than a man and dating a man and and she's got more

Chestbrahpower and more money than the guy and she's putting on the guy and she's got all the power like when can you guys name any relationship like that I don't know I'm a bit old school I just I think it's the I think it's the men that can be a bit predatory I I don't know if a woman can actually I

Chestbrahdon't know I just don't see it to be honest okay you mean like an older woman going after a younger yeah like a cougar she's got lots of money single divorced woman has has all of her ex-husband's money and she's like younger men who are

Chestbrahlike broke and poor that that could be okay sure that could probably be predatory but how often do we see that I think it's more so for the men it's more common certainly it's more common for the men much more common um so I just

Chestbrahthink that's something that we see more in men but obviously like there's always outliers but I'm speaking for the majority here so I think majority wise it's it's probably more like a male dominated thing than a female I don't disagree with you I think

Brian Atlasit's definitely more common in that way but I think there's just in general aend for women even if there's not like an age Gap like a big age gap for women to

Brian Atlasdate a little bit older like 1 2 3 years that's like tends to be the norm pretty normal like we have you guys are all 18 mhm uh I don't know if you yeah how

Brian Atlasold's your boyfriend 18 okay well you guys are 18 your boyfriends are all n or you two boyfriends are 19 there'll be like smaller age gaps like that 18 to 19 18 to 20 19 to 21 these sorts of things

Brian AtlasI think I think it's just more common in general women tend to date up uh a little bit in terms of age and I think the average age of marriage if you compare between men and women like women it's 28 I think and Men it's a bit older

Brian AtlasI think it's 30 uh so I think it's just kind of common in general to see this and this is probably

Brian Atlasbecause maturity women also it's not I don't think it's a one directional thing I don't think it's one directional thing where you have like these men they just

Brian Atlaswant want to date younger it seems like Uno DiCaprio yeah that's a good he has a rule he's like 25 cut off 25 cut off so oh man uh we'll get to the uh rest of

Brian Atlasthe pre-show notes here so going back to you here let's see you said uh hold on one sec let me get this pulled up uh you're a small town switch that

Brian Atlasjumped into this crazy world of love sex and fetishes I've been fulfilling fantasies for over two two years now three now it's it's exciting and

Brian Atlasthrilling I'll be posting my sexcapades and explor Explorations okay that's interesting um small town switch what does that mean it means uh a switch is

Brian Atlasbasically somebody who can be both dominant and submissive is that what you're talking about okay uh and you're from a small town mhm where where yeah

Brian AtlasReno oh okay Reno Reno Sriracha all right and uh you also in your pre-show notes let's see here modern dating can be complicated but I think people over

Brian AtlasComplicated by trying to force relationships that don't align with their true selves uh it's okay to be picky about your needs and boundaries that's a good let's go into that we're going to open this up to the entire

Roguepanel so uh do you consider yourself picky go ahead yeah I don't like guys that are boring

RogueMH I it's not so much how how much money somebody makes though it does help but I really like a guy who can make me laugh okay and who every day is an adventure

Rogueand it doesn't have it can be I don't know watching movies and stuff every day is an adventure yeah even if it's a small Adventure I just I like somebody who can keep my attention I get bored really

Brian Atlaseasily you get bored really easily yeah [Music] okay um for the other girls at the panel here

Brian Atlasdo you get bored really easily with guys yes yes yes or you said that yes you get bored sometimes yeah yeah you get bored didn't you say you got bored with your

Brian Atlasguy bored not really I dat i dat cool people okay bored bored no okay I don't get the whole like why y'all look into us to be your entertainment you know

Brian Atlaslike have you heard of Netflix that is true okay why you want to be entertained watch netlix you not entertained it's not why you're here um man no you're right about that I think

Roguemaybe instead of them being like entertaining I mean more someone who grows with you I feel like the boring part comes from Men Who maybe they stop

Rogueprogressing in their life I like somebody who is always looking to do the next thing whether that be in their business or vacation or or learning something new I feel like having

Roguesomebody who continues to grow is super important cuz I otherwise I just feel stagnant if we're just doing the same stuff all the time is it up to them to make all the plans or do you oh no I

Roguemake I make plans too okay so it's not just all no no no it's definitely not all on them I feel like women should bring a lot to the table as well as men men I feel like a lot of women I feel like they get it a little

Rogueeasy where they just kind of feel like they can just sit back in the relationship and it's all the guy doing everything like I feel like romance is about both parties making each other's dreams come true and for the board thing

Isabellayou said you get bored um well I agree with her I get what she's saying about like growing cuz I feel like if you get stuck in the same like cycle with your partner it gets boring after a while

Isabellalike some people might like a routine but I would like what she said about growing like with a person and experiencing things with them like that I would say that I got got bored so you

Keigot bored what what's going on with the being bored I don't know it just happens you know you just get bored you get bored of them yeah you just get bored of them like like they're boring not like

Keithey're boring it's just like together it's like it's just like okay we're boring you know not exciting there's we're not

Brian Atlasdoing anything nothing's exciting about you yeah so what would like I an ideal non-boring relationship look like I don't know just like having Hobbies

Keitogether doing activities yeah and you didn't do that with any of your previous no people no not my most recent ex no what what would you guys

Roguedo um like go to the beach watch movies sounds great food that's really get food beach movies yeah but there's only so much food beach movies you want

Isabellato do you want goch well you get stuck in that bowl that's what I was talking about the of being boring the cycle of being Bor you got to keep it spicy yes that's it keep it

Ria/Malleriespicy got to keep it spicy it's just I what's kind of crazy to me and you too right you get bored yeah yeah it's just like like people talk about like the honeymoon phase or whatever and then it kind of just gets into like the same old

TTS Readerthing all the time metr donated $200 youngin don't get tainted by the ideals of methany and chair one I speak for men she's prime example of what not

Brian Atlasto do do that's I think you got some we got four 18-year-olds here you know Metro mat thingk for the TTS appreciate it uh you were saying yeah it's just like once you get past that stage and then people

Ria/Mallerieget like comfortable and it's just like it's not as exciting anymore that's kind of what I mean and boring like it's not exciting it's not like like when it's new it's really exciting but there's also like people that can still make it feel new like every day like that's

Ria/Mallerieyou've been in a relationship for one year is it yeah it's it's mon yeah it's still really exciting like I never get bored of him like it's just always like fun and like light-hearted but still

Chestbrahlike Sparks I guess I'd say I mean I'm going have to join in with the females in this one I can't do [ __ ] boring either like I've had I've had pretty girls in the past that were dead [ __ ] bad [ __ ] boring and quiet quiet is the

Chestbrahworst when they're super quiet when they don't talk that one so I think again I like you know I got to disagree with you on this one that's fine bro I'm a fan of the introverted a bit more quiet I mean you know what I mean on the person like

Chestbrahif you're a quiet guy then obviously you might want a quiet person I I like to talk a lot sometimes I don't [ __ ] stop talking you know I can't shut up so I want someone who is not like quiet and introverted and shy and boring I want

Chestbrahsomeone who can like they don't have to match my energy but I just want someone who's interesting cuz I can't do boring I've I've left girls in the past and they'll drop [ __ ] [ __ ] bat [ __ ] beautiful like so pretty but they'll

Brian Atlasjust so [ __ ] boring let me ask you and I would literally tell them like I can't be with you cuz you're boring like and and your current girlfriend would you would you say she's more introverted or extroverted she's very extroverted and then one question on the boring

Brian Atlasthing um otherwise it wouldn't be with her when you say but when you say uh boring like I'm assuming you're not

Chestbrahtalking about quarreling quarrel like uh conflict right uh no not Conflict at all some people I'm I'm more talking about like just you know just having fun yeah

Chestbrahyeah cuz there's there's lots of girls out there that just don't really have fun or don't know how to get down and dirty uh I like to do lots of fun things like [ __ ] go rock climbing and and [ __ ] I just all crazy [ __ ] man like

Chestbrahskateboarding and and snowboarding like I like to do fun [ __ ] so if a girl doesn't like to dive into the activities that I like I think she's boring you know so I like extreme sports I like to go to the gym if a girl doesn't like to

Chestbrahtrain or doesn't look after a fitness or doesn't do any kind of like movement whether it's gym tap ballet whatever then I find them boring you know I find someone who's just in routine and and

Chestbrahdoesn't get out of their routine boring so I don't think's no yeah so I'm I'm I'm with the girls on this one I don't think it's a male or a female thing like I've I've been in that situation where I've left plenty of women cuz they was super boring you know what I mean so

Liam Christopherthat's that's one thing I look for now someone that can stimulate me mentally and physically so I left one girl for that reason too she was so boring we used to call her the Bubble Gum Princess because all she wanted to do was bang

Liam Christopherand eat candy and bubblegum but like she was as one second she wasum bonan no she was as intellectually deep as a puddle like I would come home from work and I'd be like oh I had the worst day and she's like huh like do you want to know what

Liam Christopherhappened she goes no I'm like okay she goes Sid is bang I'm like what and then you want to eat more bubble gum what yeah for real wait hold on she eats bubble gum like the candy she had candy under her bed with like like little

Liam Christophersnacks and bubble gar how was her teeth they were really nice and she used to watch Disney all the time and she was like 28 I'm like it's most bizarre thing ever sometimes i' would like be on the way there I'd have to come up with an

Liam Christopherexcuse to leave I would like I would like preload leaving excuses I'd be like I have to go and then um but then she broke up with me and like how do you even smart enough to know how to do that she was

Liam Christopherpreemptive she knew you going to dump her she's like I'm going to get rid of this guy first but what I'm saying is I was so bored and it was just not fun so everyone try new things if you want to be popular in the dating world I mean I jumped on this podcast cuz I was bored

Chestbrahwell I was literally like I'm bored I'm going to do this I'm going to be in LA what about you boring what do you think what do you think Brian like what do you think about what I said like honestly in terms of like being on the

Chestbrahsame level with activities and mindset like you can you could be like someone can be boring and you know you might that might not be like a definitive like no for you in terms of dating but I mean for sure it is for me you know someone

Chestbrahcan be boring mentally they they might be stupid they might not even be hold the conversation they might just be dumb and pretty that's that's boring to me too you know yeah well I mean first off I recognize people obviously have

Brian Atlasdifferent preferences and then that's going to be influenced based on kind of your own personality dispositions if you're more on the extroverted side you might might be more appreciative of somebody who's a bit more extroverted if

Brian Atlasyou're more out uh outdoorsy you'll want somebody who matches up with you there if you're more like homebody you're probably going to get along better with somebody who's more of a home body me personally and I think there's nothing wrong with your your preferences at all

Brian Atlaswe all have our own preferences I certainly prefer more introverted women I consider myself more introverted uh shy little shy is always

Brian Atlasgood um homebody is good yeah I don't want to like go on Hikes you know it's probably why I gained a bunch of weight but that's another conversation but uh

Brian Atlasno I don't like you know because the thing is I'm so busy right the thing with uh not all women but some women you get a little bit of free time this is a bill bur bit they just want to

Brian Atlaslike sometimes you just want a little bit of piece they want to fill [ __ ] in you know for like the free time oh let's go to brunch I'm not going I can't do

Brian Atlasbrunch I can't even do a a liner I can't do ler I can't do brunch they got to fill in that empty can we just chill um I've actually not experienced that too

Chestbrahmuch with any of my relationships because uh it's kind of my way yeah or the high I get that it's like I'm the I'm the same dude I'm I'm the same it's it's my way or the highway like being

Chestbrahthe boss as well yeah when I got with my partner I told her I'm going listen I'm going to do like I have like the next four or five years planning doing bodybuilding competitions and I have to go through like a bodybuilding prep and I like to hang out with the boys and I still like to smoke weed and I still

Chestbrahlike to do all this [ __ ] I still I'm a boys boy you know like um can't say anything bad but no home at erectus but I like to hang out I like to hang out I like to hang out with the boys you know I'm a boys boy I like to like hang out with my mates and have fun play video

Chestbrahgames smoke weed kick back so like if I had a partner that would try to take that away from me and just make me resent them so I still like to do that boy [ __ ] when I'm [ __ ] married one day I want to have a man cave I want to disa disappear in there with my dogs in

Brian Atlasmy video games yeah bro no no no no you get you get more than a man cave you can't be like be a man palace brother yeah it can't be like you're relegated to one room and the rest of the house is

Chestbrahyour wife that's what I like I want I want a huge you Mach lava lamps pool tables you name bean bags I'm like a Bo Bo I like that [ __ ] you know what I mean

Chestbrahif it's too fball and yeah just [ __ ] like that man so I mean um I guess that's just where I'm at like they got to be um back to what I was saying before I diverge too much but they just got to be interesting man and I think

Chestbrahwhat you said was right Brian like it just got to match your energy so like I mean if you're a quiet dude obviously you're not going to want an out there crazy girl and and vice versa you know if you're a bit extroverted You' probably want someone who's extroverted I've been with introverted women and

Chestbrahthey're [ __ ] boring half the time I didn't even know if they liked me I was like one time I was with this introverted girl and we went on like two dates and I had no idea if she liked me or not and then by the end of it I was like listen you seem like a nice girl but I don't think this is going anywhere

ChestbrahI don't think I'm the type of guy for you like we could just stay friends and then she messaged me she like no no no I do like you I do like you I'm like what the [ __ ] you don't even say a word when I hang out with you you don't say anything you don't talk you don't

Chestbrahconverse you don't sounds perfect no sign me up I'll send her your way bro she's in my DM somewhere from a few years ago but yeah know man and I just found that like it was really weird for me it was like really strange I'm like

Brian Atlashow can you like me and you can't even like speak to me like what the [ __ ] like it was just weird maybe she was a fan and she was nervous she might have been nervous man you're I mean dude I'm chill man there's nothing to be nervous about how did she how did she slide into your

ChestbrahDMs is that how you guys I oh I can't remember I might have SL slid into hers actually to be honest oh oh yeah I might have slid into hers oh and then we hanging out and then yeah she was just she's just dull she's dull

Brian Atlasjust boring oh I love dll very boring oh boring life no it's great seems no okay what what would you do I mean you're in a relationship right so what do you do

Isabellawith your boyfriend um well it's very different from my last relationship I felt like I planned a lot of stuff and I wasn't getting like the same treatment back so I really wanted to find someone

Isabellawho like matches my energy and wants to do the same things I do and like puts in the same effort that I give instead of like me doing everything so we go to the gym together that's like one thing that we do constantly like something that he

Isabellalikes that I'll like okay I have to do it with you and then just like the beach I mean there's so much to do in Santa Barbara so we're constantly like we go to the zoo we just like spontaneously like we drove how can you go to the zoo

Isabellathough well we just once a year no I get it but like I once a decade yeah like you go to the zoo you've seen it what else is there to do with the zoo I don't I maybe animals you like animals was I'm

Isabellajust saying like we just do things like out of the blue like we drove to like my hometown it was like a 7h hour drive for like no reason it was I'm sorry s it wasn't that bad but I'm just saying like we do

Isabellathings just like for fun we don't like to just like sit around like it is nice like I get sitting around and having your free time but like going to dinners and stuff and like hanging out like bonding friend groups I think that

Brian Atlasthat's important H I was probably a little more when I was younger you know I had what did you do for fun Brian when I was younger what you like even now surfing even now surfing yeah but I

Brian Atlasdon't want to take a no offense what if she what if she was I get I get that if she's [ __ ] yeah I get that thing if you're doing an activity with

Brian Atlassomebody and their skill level is like way lower like I can't bring her out on like a like double overhead day and she's going to [ __ ] drown and [ __ ] like she's got to know okay you know but but so and that that was my thing it was

Brian Atlaslike I feel you on that one I would you know I could take her out once or twice on a small day and and teach her how to surf but then like when I want to go serve yeah you can't come with like you sit at the beach that's like my

Chestbrahgirlfriend we went to the snow like a few months ago snowboarding yeah so she I I taught her I didn't teach her but I just took her into the sports so she started skiing and I was snowboarding and she's like she's not that good so I'm just like babe like you just learn

Chestbrahon this mountain I'm going to go do like some black runs and Diamond runs and all this other stuff and then by the end of the day she was just able to go down like a basic mountain and then she's so cute she's like oh I want to book a snow trip for us and everything we'll go for a whole week and I'm just thinking head

Chestbrah[ __ ] I'm going to have to like spend like the whole week either just ditching you and doing my own runs or like staying on this like little tiny little run when my skill level is like pretty high so we came to a conclusion I'm like why don't you like do a few lessons

Chestbrahlearn or go up with like one of your girl mates who also skis learn a bit get on like a decent level then we can do it I have no quarrels about that if you get like you don't have to be as good I'm I'm a great snowboarder I've only snowboarded like four times in my life but I can already [ __ ] like I'm a gun

Chestbrahat it cuz I used to skateboard when I was younger so I told her like just get to like a level where we can both go down a mountain together and you know that'll be [ __ ] enjoyable why wouldn't you want to do that with your partner I'd rather do that like with my girlfriend than like with a bunch of guys you know what I mean like sure

Chestbrahespecially if she can get on my skill level that would be [ __ ] mad hey let me know I'll teach her I grew up skiing schol ski team I raced in high school there you go there you go we want to do some trips like in Canada and we want to

Chestbrahdo some trips in like Japan but like she's still learning the ropes now she can she's just picked it up after like 2 3 days but I think she's still at least one season away from being able to go down the mountain m yeah I mean I'm not

Chestbrahthat good at a snowboarder either but I picked it up very quick like in about a week just going down the black runs a diamond runs so yeah it's good I can't wait to do it again just go straight and don't hit trees we don't have we don't have trees

Chestbrahin a we don't have any trees in Australia oh we don't have any of that yeah it's just so perfect just go straight yeah it's it's easy just unfortunately you have to fall a few times before you learn you know you have to just get used to Falling get used to hurting yourself and then when you get

Chestbrahused to it that's how you learn like I stacked it at least 100 times on my first 2 3 days my mates left me I went with a group of boys and they left me they're just like [ __ ] you suck dude so they left me on a mountain on my own that's how you get better yeah they left me on the chicken run they're like you

Chestbrahsuck dude just do your own thing and then by the end of the two days I was like I was a [ __ ] gun nice so I intend to do the same with my partner just like let her learn and then let's go do it together we have a chat here

Brian Atlasfrom pelagic he says are all Aussies as boring and simpy do you guys want to respond to these accusations you little [ __ ] insult poof come say that out here bro oh [ __ ] go check out my

ChestbrahInstagram brother sayage far from B my man oh [ __ ] pelagic who is some in with a [ __ ] neck bead sitting behind his laptop oh like pgic brother my arms

Brian Atlasbrother my arms are probably the size of your legs probably someone who they M um well thank you pic for the uh Super Chat I guess you and chess BR are going to fight now but um go check go check out

Chestbrahmy Instagram sore seage tell me tell me if I'm boring bro sh oh [ __ ] okay never heard boring ever you can hide it um oh it's cheeks uh okay so cocky arrogant funny

Brian Atlassilly never boring I have a question going around the table on the whole boring thing really quick would you rather be with a boring guy but there is

Brian Atlasnever any conflict arguing or with a really uh fun entertaining interesting guy but there's constant conflict in

Roguearguing you go first I would still I would still pick the conflict the conflict drama okay I

Isabellawould pick conflict the conflict okay I maybe I would pick boring because in my previous relationship we didn't fight at all and I wouldn't say that it was boring but it was like good like he

Brian Atlaswas still fun but in this situation I would stay with boring yeah okay so boring no conflict all right what about you probably conflict

Chestbrahconflict okay conflict as well conflict okay give me the peace all right all right uh and what about you which do you pick [ __ ] you put me on

Liam Christopherthe spot in this one I don't know they both suck um if you got to pick one if you boring I guess boring got too much [ __ ] going on yeah I need the pace I have to have Pace to do boring I couldn't deal with my do job with drama I pick boring that's the first thing I

Chestbrahthought of I thought how's my career going to get impacted with a toxic girl or a boring girl I'm like I'll take boring imagine you trying to do this podcast your fans Bel why why is it not finished you you didn't like my photo on

Brian AtlasInstagram what the [ __ ] do you like her what are you marry a podcast yep yep um yeah bored yeah I got Bor agreed agreed uh so wait going around I think we were

Brian Atlasgoing around the table on uh are you picky so I think you were kind of starting to answer uh why don't we also so are you picky and then if if so or

Brian Atlaseven if not what do you what do you want a guy to bring to the table what does a guy need to bring to the table to get you so if you want to just restate some of your things um I

Roguelike somebody who grows someone who's funny I love to laugh even if it's at my own expense laughter is the best thing in the whole world so if he can't make

Rogueme laugh I can't do it mhm um and as far as like bringing things to the table um H definitely

Roguesomebody when you go into them they are your home no matter where you're at mhm that's what I just want it doesn't matter if you're rich poor whatever I just want to feel like I'm home when I'm

Isabellawith you mhm all right are you picky um I feel like I'm not picky however I do see commonalities between like the people I date I think that they're usually funny they usually like video

Brian Atlasgames stuff like that that just I enjoy as well going outdoors and then so for the what do they need to bring to the table question you can include things

Brian Atlaslike humor um yeah so personality and then like physical traits too if you if you need a guy who's tall or ripped or whatever shredded I don't think I I like

Brian Atlaslong hairc sliced no I don't have physical traits aesthetic as [ __ ] aesthetic Aesthetics you GES bro you uh what about

Brian Atlasyou um wait sorry what was a question are you picky oh yes yeah are you picky in J Pig and and then uh What

Brian Atlasuh oh are you picky and then what does a guy need to bring to the table to get you it could be personality it could be looks he has to be six foot tall

Isabellawhatever it is um I I do think that I'm picky sometimes I think it it it depends cuz the people have come into my life have come in like not like forced it's

Isabellalike been a very natural way so it's not like I'm really like looking for someone right and as like most of the guys all are gym heads are my weakness I really

Isabellalike guys who go to the gym uh they have to be tall the short I don't like short men yeah yeah and then

Isabellajust basic personality traits just like funny like home I like that um but yeah mostly Jim head that's my Jim head yeah

Keiis your boyfriend shredded yeah I would say all right uh okay what about you okay um I don't think I'm picky like with like physical traits but maybe with

Keiwith like personality and stuff like don't be boring don't be boring yeah I already said that so they can be like short and fat but oh okay well okay

Keimaybe like tall taller than me which isn't that hard so how tall are you 5'2 okay so 53 no okay probably like okay I

Keiwould like prefer like bare minimum in okay like 59 and then you said you would

Keiprefer prefer like like six 6 somewhere in that range watch 63 6'4 yeah my ex was 6'5

Chestbrahso damn around yeah wait so okay 52 but you'd prefer 63 64 yes it's always like that though I've noticed like the shorter girls like the super tall guys

Brian Atlasthat is a really good observation like the the girls are like 5'4 to like even taller like they're kind of like a little more forgiving but like the 5et 5 foot he's got honestly I think it's like a biological thing I think they just

Brian Atlasdon't want have manlet kids the kids little manlet manlets yeah they got to make up they got to make up yeah of course aage it out 52 64 that be what

Brian Atlaslike 6 foot yeah I think that's how the math plays out um but uh okay all right um any other traits um I mean have to be like

Ria/Mallerieattracted to you but I don't really have it no okay yeah all right what about you I mean I wouldn't say I'm really picky when it comes to looks I look more in like personality and I'd rather someone

Ria/Malleriehave a good personality than be like picture perfect um but obviously looks still matter and like you have to be taller than me by like a pretty good amount and like I don't know obviously I

Ria/Malleriehave to be attracted to you in some way but I'd rather like look into someone's personality than their looks and wait taller than you bu a uh so how tall are you I'm 5'3 so like 510

Brian Atlasminimum 510 yeah okay and how tall is your boyfriend he's 5'11 5'11 511 yeah all right so 5'9 can't do it yeah I don't know I

Brian Atlasdon't know do it 59 is Superman liet bro super Superman okay oh can't do it 5'9

Brian Atlas5'9 mhm can can do it or can't can do it can do it but prefer 64 63 you guys are

Roguelucky I'm I am five9 I need 6 foot and above yeah same can I leave leave the tall guys for the tall girls please there and then uh are you picky what

Marcydoes a guy need to bring to the table to I'm not really very picky um strong communication is huge um and I am a little superficial in that I would like somebody a little taller than me I'm 5'9

Megan510 okay so how tall do you want my fiance's 5'11 and that's perfect oh okay just taller than just taller than me okay uh what about you um I don't think I'm I'm that picky I want someone who

Meganlikes Sports and likes to be outside mhm um I'm 5'11 so my height are taller but not really it's fine if they're my

Brian Atlasheight okay so 5'11 your height are taller so six foot that's fine six foot's fine yeah okay all right and um now that we've gone around the table

Brian Atlasfor you guys in terms of what you want a guy to bring to the table what do you bring to the table

RogueH I think I bring a lot of fun um a lot of freedom a lot of understanding communication um I like shooting for

RogueSuccess I'm very busy but I also am not someone who feels like oh if you've been working all day we need to do this or that I'm not Naggy like you know do what you need to do go where you need to go

Roguego hang out with the boys go on a boy vacation like I don't that stuff doesn't bother me I don't even care if like my guy hits on a girl cuz like I like girls

Roguetoo so bring them over um I don't know I'm just I I feel like I bring someone that you can grow with and be successful with cuz I'm down I'm down for it we want to start a new business let's go we

Isabellawant to travel we want to save up and go to Japan let's go let's make our dreams come true so what about you uh I feel like I bring care I bring attention to my partner I

Isabellasupport them and I want them to be their best version of thems I want I'm an adventurous person so I typically tend to push people to do things more adventurous and get them out of like their boundary that they're usually in

Isabellamhm what do you bring to the table um I would say I'm super extroverted so I love like hanging out with friends and like being around their friends and I think it's important that like I bond with his friends so they like like me in

Isabellaa sense so I can like feel connected to him M um I cook a lot that's like my form of L love language is like cook for the other person and yeah I would say that I'm very like relaxed as a partner

Isabellalike I don't really need to be texting them all the time if they're out or whatever and like spamming their phone like I just don't really care that much about like what they're doing cuz I trust them I think like trust is really big all right have you guys tried her

Keifood is it any good yes they actually have I cooked for all them when their guys spent the night at my house all right what do you bring to the table um okay I think I'm like a good

Keilistener and like yeah H I don't really know what else that's it come on what you what you got um okay

Keiuh I don't know I mean I'm nice I'm funny yeah okay okay nice just pretty normal honestly I don't don't think I'm like

Brian Atlasthat crazy question depends you're not that crazy so you're little crazy like just a bit Yeah it depends tell us about

Keihow you're a little crazy well okay oh God okay um slashing tires my oh no no no not that crazy but like burning

Keiclothes mm- not even that crazy just like domestic abuse domestic violence no maybe I would like text like a parent like a significant others like parent if

Keilike they did something on the dad yeah oh wait wait no no no flip it boys flip it and ship it no no no clip it and ship it no no you heard it here first oh God

Keino I just mean like okay like I literally did this with my ex he like cheated on me and so I texted his mom and said Son cheated on well no I was

Keijust like oh like watch out for like the next girl that like that comes into his life cuz he's like a pathological liar so damn okay all right that's what I bring to

Brian Atlasthe table I don't think that's true that's not too crazy right I mean unless there was more that's why I a little bit crazy not there more though to that did you also like no oh no there's more

Keino no no okay okay all right okay wait I do bring more to the table this person's calling me boring but uh oh what you got tell I just can't think of it I don't know I'm a good listener

KeiI'm nice I'm funny I'll like do I'm like pretty selfless like if you need something for me to do I can do it pretty selfless wait question on the on the good listener thing so uh when

Brian Atlasyou're with a guy you can even maybe going back to your ex-boyfriend or whatever uh who is the talking like is it kind of 5050 do you talk more do they

Keitalk more Where do you um I don't know I think probably I probably talk more mhm yeah okay yeah good

Ria/Mallerielistener okay all right what about you what do you bring to the table um I would say like excitement and like Adventure like I always try to like plan not even plan like we both try to like

Ria/Mallerieplan trips and not just like sit around and do nothing as much as we can and like I'm always down for just like kind of anything like spontaneously and like yeah mhm you said excitement and

Brian AtlasAdventure yeah um so what's like you're in a relationship what is something recently you've done that's exciting um two weeks ago it was like coming up to my birthday

Ria/Mallerieand we just like wanted something to do for the weekend so we planned a trip with like seven of our friends uh to rent Airbnb and Josh W tree and we drove over there like the day after we like just talked about it it was just like

Ria/Malleriespontaneous and fun and something we could like do with all of our friends like in that kind of sense like stuff like that okay and then I'm assuming that

Brian Atlasalso describes you said Adventures you like to do like stuff like yeah I don't know okay anything else you bring to the table

Ria/MallerieI think I'm pretty funny like I'm always making my partner laugh I think he we're always having a really good time together and like I don't know even if it's just like sarcastic funny like it's

Marcyjust yeah okay what about you um I'm very supportive supportive okay um for my

Marcyfiance because he is such a hard worker I try to bring as much peace to the home so that he's there's like no craziness no fighting yeah if there's any tensions

Marcyyou just discuss it like adults MH um picking up where he can't around the house and stuff so just just being a good supportive woman okay what do you

Meganbring to the table um I like to go on adventures and I like to go out and just I don't know does the he have to plan the adventure not always oh okay I mean sometimes it's like I don't know if that

Brian Atlaswould be bringing anything to the table like you like to receive Adventures I'm like hey let's go is that like bringing something to the table you know I don't know it's like I receive the adventure I

Megandon't bring the adventure I receive the event no like I like to have ideas so this is what I bring to the table okay all right that's fair um okay anything else um I like to be very supportive

Brian Atlaswell I am supportive yeah I'm good at communicating and I like to cook so cook clean yeah y Lord thank you for the gift at 10 Subs man appreciate it uh we have a chat here we'll get right back into

Brian Atlasthis but I have a chat here from oh it's going to take a sec to come through um oh what was I going to ask

Chestbrahlaugh H does your girlfriend make you laugh yeah all the time yeah yeah she's funny [ __ ] absolutely funny [ __ ] I can say

Chestbrah[ __ ] right of course I can oh you asking me on the show you can say it all those words we couldn't say before the show yeah you can you can say it [ __ ] is all right yeah she's I

Chestbrahthought you were asking like is it okay to say in general n no I say [ __ ] all the time she's a madit thank you Lord in for like for all you that don't understand when you like say like mad or like sick KH or mad KH it's like a

Chestbrahcompliment it's like an ultimate compliment from a it's like saying like you're a legend or you're cool you know so yeah if you say like you're a sick [ __ ] it's a compliment if you say like you're a sad [ __ ] it's uh definitely

Brian Atlasnot a it's the opposite of that we have Smithers here oh I'll get that pulled back up he says would you rather have a six-foot guy with a crappy personality

Brian Atlasor a 57 guy who treats you with the respect a woman deserves oh my God give me the 5 seven guy 57 which one do you

Isabellapick thank you Smithers um it's a tough one uhoh oh my God I honestly would have to say six foot with a bad personality

Isabellabut the 57 is still taller than you I cannot with the short I can't do it such a trigger no I can't you can't no wait sorry how tall are you again 53 53

Brian Atlasand you said the the the what is the maximum or minimum or whatever I didn't say I would say minimum has to be 510

Brian Atlas510 yeah so 5'9 good luck sorry 5 S taller is like much better for me okay uh six foot guy crappy personality 57

Brian AtlasGuy treats you wonderfully 5 seven guy 5 seven guy okay 5 seven guy 5 seven guy 57 guy all right I wonder what the male

Chestbrahversion of this is so she's she's OB but she's the best can we take it one step further you know how girls always make fun of guys with small dicks so

Chestbrahlike I don't I wouldn't want to be with a girl with a loose vagina there you go you know what I mean like [ __ ] men can have standards I don't want a loose vagina and I don't want a fat [ __ ] just like girls don't want a short guy and girls don't want a guy who's

Brian Atlasbald or girls don't want a guy who's boring and po fair is fair I guess it's only fair I think so loose loose loose how can you tell oh you can tell you

Brian Atlastell you can definitely tell do your Keel yeah although I do think so it's rare what for the tight or the loose the loose it's rare you can always see the

Chestbrahbutt though that's usually TI I mean what the I mean like that's why I stick I think I beg to I beg to differ I think tight is like

Brian Atlasrare tight is rare yeah are you just got a Canon I mean without bragging you got a [ __ ] Cannon dude I guess I do yeah wait but wouldn't that wait hold

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