03:48:37Rogueoh okay yeah I didn't start I was late to the game but I I didn't start at very young at all how tall are you 5'9 yeah you're too tall
03:48:48Brian Atlassorry even then at 18 him just I only date four they if the height doesn't start with like 411 it's just just kidding I'll date any you know what I don't know like would you would you date a girl taller than you cuz I would have
03:49:01Austin/Productionno problem with it I'll date I'll date a 65 girl yeah I think sign me up be open to it like if she was chill and cool and compatible yeah for sure it'd be
03:49:11Liam Christophergood yeah what were we talking about yeah what about 18 18 year olds and what we were like at 18 versus what these guys like at 18 like do you guys feel
03:49:22Brian Atlaslike you're prettier now or when you were younger well um I have a question for that so here I'll ask the question and we'll go around the panel on this so do you and I'll I'll go both directions with it but to
03:49:35Roguestart do you think you'll be better looking so better looking looks in 10 years time from looking at my mom I'll be pretty my my mom's gorgeous but I'm
03:49:46Roguesaying conventionally hot until I'm this all right sorry go ahead and repeat that please I'm saying I'll probably be conventionally hot till
03:49:56Brian Atlas55 just going off of my own family gen genetics you'll be hot until 55 okay but so the question is though is will you be
03:50:06Roguebetter looking so in 10 you're 32 yeah I think I think I will continue to grow on myself I think I but who knows like I
03:50:18Brian Atlasmight you know this might be the hill that I die on so you're 32 will you be better looking at 42 in 10 years time I think so and then 20 years time at
03:50:29Brian Atlas52 I don't know maybe I think yeah you know I think i' still be pretty cute take good care of your skin Fitness people can be still be attractive when
03:50:39Brian Atlasthey're older but the question is like as a comparison mhm so 20 years time better looking at 32 or sorry better looking at at 52 4 52 oh no I would I
03:50:50Brian Atlaswould be hotter at 32 and then with about better uh 42 42 better looking at 42 than now at 32 yeah I think I'll still be better looking at 42 okay and then going backwards 10 years ago we're
03:51:02Brian Atlasbetter looking at 22 versus now 32 mm- better looking now better looking now at 32 at 32 than at 22 Yeah okay do you have any photos that we can compare yeah
03:51:13Brian Atlascan I grab my phone uh yeah sure I'll move on to the next person so I think I'd be better looking cuz I'd have more time to invest in myself better looking
03:51:22Brian Atlasin 10 years time so okay so uh at 28 you're 18 now yeah uh more time to invest in yourself in what way um I have more resources to like I'm going to have
03:51:32Isabellamore freedom more time like work out eat healthier like do better stuff better skincare I'll have more money I'll have more experience in life and I'll be able to go
03:51:42Brian Atlashigher uh 20 years time at uh 38 I say yes okay 30 years time at 48 uh I don't know I don't think so now
03:51:54Brian Atlasokay so 38 better looking than now at 18 28 better looking now than at 18 okay then you're 18 uh better looking in 10 years time oh probably hopefully
03:52:04Isabellaprobably at 28 20 years time at 38 uh I would want to have kids by then so probably not I think Prime will be
03:52:15Brian Atlaslike 25 to 30 that will be my best time in my head okay and then what about you you're 18 better looking in 10 years time at uh
03:52:25Brian Atlas28 um yeah hopefully okay 20 years time at uh 38 probably not okay you're 18 better
03:52:36Brian Atlaslooking in 10 years time at 28 yeah and then better looking in 20 years time at 38 probably not okay and then you're
03:52:45Brian Atlas37 uh better looking in 10 years time at 47 no and then you're 37 better looking at 27 I would say no I was heavier back then okay and then better looking at 18
03:52:58Brian Atlasversus now yes better looking at 18 okay yeah had you not been heavier at 27 would you have been better looking probably yeah
03:53:07Brian Atlasyeah okay uh 33 better looking at 10 years time at 43 yes better okay um and then 20 years time for uh 53 no and then going backwards uh
03:53:20Brian Atlaswere you better looking at 23 than you are now at 33 yes I had a lot of recent weight gain so so you're better looking at 23 yes okay but you will be better looking at 43 versus now at I'm working
03:53:31Brian Atlason losing the weight so I see okay uh by the way we're going to do keep an eye on the Discord because maybe they did the age increase thinging my bobber uh what
03:53:43Brian Atlasabout you uh better looking and 10 years time I don't think so no it'll be 50 and then uh you're uh you're 38 now were you better looking 10 years ago or better looking now I think now my Prime yeah
03:53:56Liam Christopherand then Liam better looking now or 10 years ago oh way better now for sure and then do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time or better looking now I I think I probably ped like I'm at P looks right now so okay it's going to
03:54:08Liam Christopherenjoy it while it lasts yeah but have you seen that guy Zeus he's got the open shirt he's got the Lamborghini he lives in like Monaco the older tattooed guy no like not ttoo he's got the Gray beard and he wears slippers and his yeah see
03:54:21Austin/Productionhe's probably 60 that's a good look for a 60-year-old man yeah look people when they're older can be attractive but uh it's a coin toss but I think I'm at the peak yeah keep an eye on the Discord for me okay what are they doing there we're
03:54:33Brian Atlasjust seeing if anybody submits the uh aging forward aging backward thing uh let's see here what other notes we have to get into a few more notes why don't we pull up the twitch guys go to
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03:55:20Brian Atlasthank you for all the follows Undead monkey 84 thank you man appreciate it Dijon 5 Dijon mustard thank you bro and then we have the uh Ross with the Prime thank you man Sally with the resub keegs
03:55:32Brian Atlaswith the five gifted thank you man appreciate it keegs and also keegs with the resub appreciate it guys thank you thank you
03:55:40Brian Atlasalso uh we are going to be reducing the TT yes to 69 for the remainder of the show give me just one second to get that
03:55:49Brian Atlasall sorted one sec guys getting that sorted dropping the TTS down one sec that's getting done uh any uh before I get into the
03:56:02Brian Atlasrest of the pre-show notes does anybody have any disagreements with anything like maybe you've seen the show before or you disagree on a topic that we haven't already talked about or there's something you heard early on earlier on in the show that you disagree about out
03:56:14Brian Atlasany anything anybody good opportunity to get a word
03:56:25Isabellain oh um wait no I have one yep probably um the girl who was like I don't like makeup I don't think girls should wear makeup oh okay yeah
03:56:38Isabellathat was a trigger that was just weird why well first I felt like she was already wearing makeup so I was confused confused sure and then I also just feel like she kind of just said that to like I don't know get views or something I
03:56:51Isabellafelt like it was very like oh yeah don't wear makeup like I feel like people can do what they want if she doesn't like it I don't know why she had to like basically shame everyone else for it like women who wear it are there
03:57:02Brian Atlasanything things that guys do that you guys don't like uh like in terms of how they dress or sandals oh but
03:57:12Isabellawhy why should you say yeah [ __ ] well that's just my preference a guy probably doesn't like what I wear sometimes that's just like what they don't like like that's like are they actually oh
03:57:22IsabellaGod I'm so sorry are you wearing come on here to be personally attacked no it's not like I it's not like I hate them I just like I like the more like baggier look not like Skater Boy baggy I feel like that's more
03:57:35Isabellalike American style they wear the bagg jeans it's probably the tigh of jeans and stuff yeah yeah there's no there's no hate I was just likeing
03:57:45Isabellatasing yeah so wait the criticism is uh she I just think her statement was stupid and that I just think her opinion on it was dumb I don't know why she had to like come out and openly say she
03:57:57Brian Atlasdoesn't like makeup it was just like it just seemed weird I don't know I didn't like it why is it weird why didn't you like it well I feel like is is a makeup
03:58:08IsabellaBeyond criticism no I think that ever like you can do whatever you want with your face I don't care but I feel like making it like shaming women for wearing makeup and saying that it's unhealthy
03:58:19Brian Atlasfor people is like kind of crazy let's even grant that she was wrong let's say it's not unhealthy although there's probably arguments that can be made that it's maybe bad for your
03:58:31Isabellaskin but let's just grant that it's perfectly there's no well I know it's bad for your skin for sure if you're not like doing skincare and taking it off like I get it you can get AC let's just ignore that entirely what what's actually wrong with being objecting to
03:58:44Brian Atlasmakeup I don't know I just felt like it was prettyy hypocritical if I remember the video correctly I'm pretty sure she was wearing makeup yeah I think there were there so I was just confused like even just touchups what if her position was so she came on the podcast and she
03:58:56Brian Atlaswanted to be presentable when she's being recorded on camera but in her data day personal life she didn't wear makeup well then that's fair but I feel like that doesn't yeah no that is reasonable but then so let's just grant that she's
03:59:07Isabellaa hypocrite M what else in her criticism do you object to wait I got to think about it cuz I've seen it a lot she thinks it's unhealthy
03:59:19TTS Readershe was like it puts on oh Sons of Liberty donated $69 oh yeah recovering from hurricanes
03:59:30TTS Readerbeach house was submerged by over four Gulf Ocean Lost 97% of my belongings neighbors died dodged tornadoes just got
03:59:40Brian Atlaspower back did not see one woman in electric Cruise yo dude I hope you're okay man are you in Florida that's crazy uh hope hope everything's okay hope the recovery is
03:59:52Isabellagoing all all right but thank you good to see you in the chat man um you were saying about the makeup makeup Lady oh she said she said it like puts on I forget the I don't want to like say the wrong things but she said that it like
04:00:05Isabellamakes women feel a certain way about themselves but I forget what it is it was like some I don't know yeah but I just I just remember it that vividly Premier podcast and I was like that is wrong I believe
04:00:16Isabellathat that's wrong what's wrong I just think that her stance on like saying no okay she has an opinion on it I don't care about her opinion like she's wearing makeup and she's like making it so like oh it's unhealthy for women she
04:00:29Isabellasaid something about like the way it makes you perceive yourself or something like it's like it makes some false like false reality yeah of yourself or something like it makes you think that you're like well no it's just like if
04:00:41Brian Atlasyou want to put on makeup put on makeup if you don't don't do it I don't really care I'm just saying if you like I don't know well I don't know how long I want to debate the makeup topic I have thoughts on on makeup I'll throw this
04:00:52Brian Atlasout though I think makeup is the functional equivalent of a man working at McDonald's lying saying that he's a
04:01:00Ria/Mallerielawyer I'm okay I don't understand see she doesn't like that one uh like wa what are your what are your thoughts it's like a lie like you don't really look like how you into closer to the mic
04:01:12Ria/Malleriecloser to the mic oh just saying like you don't really look like they're saying you don't look how you present yourself when you're wearing makeup so that's like saying oh how much makeup do you think is too much what do you mean like if you would
04:01:24Brian Atlaslook at someone and you're like comparing your like McDonald's job oh okay well I mean I don't know are you I mean you're going a bit hard with the eyeliner but um are you wearing Foundation or any of that [ __ ] on your
04:01:37Brian Atlasface or concealer yeah and I have a like a pimple that I'm covering okay I mean the style of makeup is obviously a factor here it's uh you're going for a bit more of a I don't know what the look
04:01:47Brian Atlasis even called alternative alternative look so um I mean a little bit of mascara eyeliner I don't really care but if you're putting it on your face and it's
04:01:59Marcygoing to like rub off on me or on my pillows then it's like probably too much I feel like okay okay I've actually heard that from a lot of guys guys actually prefer the more
04:02:10Marcynatural look over the caked on makeup yeah would actually prefer no makeup at all if they had a choice that's what I've heard from most look little eyeliner mascara fine whatever but also the more makeup you wear when you're older it makes you look older so you
04:02:24Brian Atlaskind of want to tone it back as you get older yeah but okay can we here I want to see if I can get an agreement on this uh is makeup
04:02:33Isabelladeceptive to bring it to like a dating perspective is it deceptive into the mic I don't think like too much mm but like I get it when you say like a cake do like you probably like you could have
04:02:45Isabellalike terrible acne and then like you wear all this foundation and you set it and everything and then like say you like go back to the guy's house and you take it off they're probably like what the [ __ ] like that's deceiving cuz you're like o I did not know that you
04:02:56Brian Atlaslooked that way I mean I agree with you that like minimal makeup isn't going to change you super dramatically like you're still going to look how you look I think it just like highlights some
04:03:07Brian Atlasfeatures if it didn't if even minimal makeup didn't change your appearance you wouldn't wear it like if it didn't change how you looked yeah I think it enhances it I wouldn't say it changes it
04:03:18Isabellayou wouldn't wear it right so you wear it to some degree to change something about the way you look yeah I would say I wouldn't say change but I would definitely say enhance like mascara it's like I would say that that's like black
04:03:30Brian Atlasand to make your eyelashes look longer so change yeah well you have natural eyelashes like you're enhancing it I'm not like well okay change enhance um we can always use flowery language to try
04:03:41Brian Atlasto paint something or use the marketing spin to make it a bit more uh digestible but uh when you put on the mascara do you look identical to how you look
04:03:54Brian Atlaswithout it no I don't think I do no but you might look very similar but there has been a change right oh yes yes okay so I
04:04:04Brian Atlasdon't think we're going to dispute that it changes um we can give it the lawyer spin like it's enhancing but uh good
04:04:15Brian Atlasokay and then uh oh what was the other thing oh we've got a video let's pull up that video that uh the Asian woman with the makeup oh my gosh let's pull up that
04:04:26Brian Atlasvideo see let's get it going oh okay all right they're talking about you got to go click clicke and everything f11 again not like putting
04:04:41Brian Atlas[ __ ] uh guys while he's getting that up if you want the TTS has been lowered to $69 also like the video guys like the video drop a thumbs up if you guys are
04:04:51Brian Atlaswatching get us to 2,000 likes if you guys can do we have the video already yeah we
04:04:59TTS Readerokay all right go ahead and uh play it all right so let's uh oh hold on pause it Jack donated
04:05:09TTS Reader$69 a man tells you that he's 5' 11 in in but you show up on the date and he's really 5' 7 in but he has those insoles that give him 4 in do you feel deceived
04:05:22Brian Atlasthis is actually a really good question because a few of you here at the panel said like height is very important to you so um do you feel deceived going around the table starting with you yes
04:05:30Isabellaor no um I can probably tell if they were but what do you feel deceived yeah I'd probably feel deceived
04:05:41Isabellayeah go ahead he he blatantly lied so yes of course I feel deceived is wearing makeup blat blatantly lying am I saying I'm not wearing makeup I'm all natural
04:05:51TTS Readerno well he's not saying he he's saying he's 5'11 when he's actually 5'7 what if he doesn't say that oh well does he say it sorry I missed that part CRA project
04:06:01TTS Readerdonated 69 you're right he does tell you chest BR you hear miscellaneous is officially gone rip Rip's in the chat
04:06:10TTS Readerwe're all going to make it good to see you in the spirits Brian C6 SLS gone Sloat has a positive C6 SL yeah I heard I heard the MK um I
04:06:23Chestbrahthink it went down about a week ago I'm not too sure I think it was in September really it went down it went down once and then it came back but then it went down again only like a few weeks ago cuz
04:06:34Chestbraheveryone's just sending me DMS people just don't know what they missed out on yeah it was such a good ERA like you had to be there to experience it so I can't even explain it to be honest it was a good time I love that you guys both know
04:06:46Chestbrahuh what about you so he says he's thank you for the nice comment too brother I appreciate that thank you yeah thank you uh Cracker Jack appreciate it that was cool what about you oh this actually has
04:06:56Isabellahappened to me before yeah and he did have like inserts in his shoes and like everyone knew about it and it was really embarrassing and I just I don't know I yes it's very deceiving I thought he
04:07:09Isabellalooked one way and then he took off his shoe and I was like why did you just shrink three Ines yeah it was bad and he would like lie about it too but you could like see it in his shoes H okay yeah I definitely
04:07:21Brian Atlasfeel deceived feel deceived yeah yeah yeah what and what uh what about you too yeah definitely yes and then just to kind of piggyback on this one from uh Devon good to see you in the chat by the
04:07:31Brian Atlasway uh so he used to have a full head of hair like two years ago so the photos are still pretty recent but he always wears
04:07:41TTS Readerhats shows up on the date with a hat but he's actually bald deceived Devon Jackson donated
04:07:51TTS Reader$69 if he's wearing the shoes he's standing in front of you 5' 11 in not lying if you're wearing makeup you're standing in front of me not looking how
04:08:02Brian Atlasyou really look it's the same concern Brian raises yo daon thank you so much for the TTS man I think the only problem is and perhaps it's just the wording from your original message you said a
04:08:12Brian Atlasman tells you that he's 5'11 so it would have maybe if if we had removed that from the original question like like he tells you he's 5'11 if he just like shows up approaches you in person and
04:08:24Brian Atlashe's 5'11 makes no mention of his height um perhaps that's where we got kind of tripped up on but uh bald but where's the Hat I like balds as
04:08:35Isabellalong as he has a beard is it deceived though deceived no not deceived okay deceived I feel like it's not something you need to state so no deceived yeah I I don't think it's that big of a deal
04:08:45Marcyokay yeah agreed yeah no I'm going into it thinking that he has the hair because of the pictures is that what you're saying yeah you think but I show up and he's not and he's got that's deceiving I think it's deceiving yeah nothing wrong
04:08:58Brian Atlaswith being bald just deceiving it's deceiving Chey bald is beautiful I love bald men I probably w got a year left I know yeah all the stress all the stress I got one year left I'm going to be
04:09:10Austin/Productionlosing it you're going to say hit him up for r got you for hair care brother this Hercules hair that he still got good Jesus plump it's it is very nice good it's
04:09:23Brian Atlaspillowy Hercules still going strong don't jinx me bro I can't work me uh yeah but uh so wait can I get a concession that
04:09:35Brian Atlasmakeup is deceiving I think it can be can be okay wait in every instance in every instance it's always
04:09:46Brian Atlasdeceiving I don't think so to lesser degrees I'll Grant you like it's you know some women wear more than others so it's going to be to lesser degree maybe
04:09:56Brian Atlasit's like a marginal just a teeny bit deceiving you know you have one zit and you cover up one zit it's not going to change you a whole bunch right is it a little deceiving I don't think it's
04:10:08Roguedeceiving I think everyone wants to look their best and you know doing little things here and there you care about your your appearance buy those platform
04:10:18Isabellashoes um can you concede it's a bit deceiving yeah I also agree with the notion that everyone wants to look their best though but yeah yeah men want to be as tall as they can oh my god um I I do think it's
04:10:32Isabelladeceiving I can get what you were saying like putting like some like covering acne like I understand that but I don't know I guess like if it's like super heavy makeup like I understand that but if it's like pretty natural I don't
04:10:43Keireally feel like no like anyone's going to care that much about it deceiving I guess it like depends in like some situations yeah how about the
04:10:53Brian Atlassituation right now with how much makeup you're wearing M yeah maybe a little bit okay all right what about you
04:11:01Roguedeceiving I guess you guess yeah I guess why is it hard for you guys to just say like I can say yeah if a guy off she
04:11:11Roguewould still be smoking hot like her makeup I don't feel like is changing anything really about her like it's just showing off her high cheekbones she's got like nice eybrow
04:11:24Brian Atlaseyebrows like you uh you down to take it off down to I got some makeup wipes I don't want to take my makeup off all right there you have there you have U all right um
04:11:36Brian Atlasdeceiving deceiving yes yes okay all right let's play the video really quick then we'll move on to uh the rest of the pre-show notes all right yeah you can just play it from
04:11:47Brian Atlashere all right there she is I what is what is that soap maybe she's Clean cleaning the face first all right there it is all right maybe she's
04:11:58Brian Atlasshe looks like she looks like she's maybe in her 30s maybe I think she looks 30s 30s
04:12:08Brian Atlasokay and I've seen you know okay all right we're again there what the what is that what the [ __ ] that looks like asbest bro I actually saw
04:12:20Brian Atlasthis documentary on Netflix where these women with the makeup some of it had asbest in it yeah they got they put asbest in some of the powder [ __ ] and these women get
04:12:29Brian Atlas[ __ ] cancer from the makeup bro hello hello bro dude I mean obviously she's got some filters and [ __ ] fake contact sacks
04:12:40Brian Atlasand [ __ ] in too but damn bro I would be deceived I mean I'd still hit like before the makeup she could put it back on before you guys leave
04:12:54Brian Atlasagain bro I'm going to have to like [ __ ] dry clean my [ __ ] pillowcases did you not see the video she put up against her phone and didn't come off okay well there's all kinds of makeup technology I'm not technology I'm not
04:13:06Brian Atlasaware of it just stays there it doesn't ever rub off I guess I don't know uh let's see here we have let's get back to the pre-show notes so going to one sec
04:13:18Brian Atlasguys I'm getting this pulled up we have uh I think we finished all them for you so we have Megan uh you said you have a lot one of
04:13:29Brian Atlasthem was an age catfish he said he was in pharmacy school so you assumed he was over 22 turns out he was 19 and you were 25 at the time so some cougar [ __ ] yeah
04:13:39Brian Atlasnice okay did you keep uh dating him or not no not after that no how did you meet them dating app or um no we worked
04:13:48Megantogether at Universal oh yeah H yeah it was um but did he lie about his age or you just assume I just assumed he never told me
04:13:58Meganhe looked a little old yeah you could have still I know you know I don't I was a high school math teacher at the time and I felt like that was kind of Oh
04:14:08Brian Atlasweird okay all right yeah okay uh let's see uh you said uh you're conservative but have
04:14:18Brian Atlashooked up a lot when you were younger and was shamed for it what did you say the body count was 19 19 okay yeah uh and what do you mean you were sh
04:14:30Brian Atlasand wa uh you're 38 33 33 and so this was when you were in college yeah like after college and you don't do the hookup stuff anymore no
04:14:42Meganokay uh and you were ashamed for it though what does that so what do you mean um like I told some of my girlfriends about it and then we were having good fun and then when we were talking about maybe dating one of their guy friends they
04:14:54Meganbasically told me no that I was too much for them wait the guy friend no my girlfriends told me I was like I said I was interested in someone they told me no because they knew that the girlfriends told you no yeah they said
04:15:07Brian Atlasbecause they knew he would have an issue yeah like my friends did yeah oh maybe they're the friends were trying to get with the dude yeah else in mind with a l what's the term for [ __ ] block but for a woman oh box
04:15:18Rogueblock box trying to box BL clam jam clam jam [ __ ] swatter clam jam it's a [ __ ]
04:15:27Brian Atlasswatter [ __ ] SWAT it's a [ __ ] that's a good one uh let's see um you met a guy on Discord you made plans to meet in Memphis flew in and he never showed up
04:15:38Meganat the airport to meet me yes damn that's that's rough yeah um I was on Discord a lot and then I I finally thought I met someone that
04:15:48Meganwas worth pursuing as like far as like a relationship in person finally booked a flight cuz he kept saying let's go meet in Memphis and finally got there and he
04:15:59Brian Atlaswouldn't answer my phone calls so and so when what was the last thing you heard from him like was he like hey I'm coming to the airport or um we talked on the phone the night before and then he said
04:16:10Meganyeah I'll see you in the morning had you guys exchanged like pH those yeah and phone yeah I don't know I don't know if he was a catfish or something and that's why he didn't show up but then I had to call my aunt and tell her
04:16:23Brian Atlaswhy I was a memph you didn't send him money or anything like that okay no who bought the ticket I bought the ticket he said he got the hotel and did you like was there he he ghosted you yes but like
04:16:35Brian Atlasdid you catch up with him afterwards like what happened never haven't heard in like two years from him so that's weird yeah sorry like do you think he went to the airport and he like got cold
04:16:45Meganfeet type thing or what I have no idea he I like I I knew what kind of car he drove and I never saw or what he told me
04:16:53Brian Atlasso yeah [ __ ] yeah did you know like his ID no you just knew his Discord username yeah um phone number wait into the mic oh yeah and phone number but like did
04:17:06Brian Atlasyou know his real name did you know any details about him I thought I knew his real name but now I don't know what I know H so damn that's yeah Discord can be kind of crazy yeah I feel like you got to do
04:17:17Brian Atlaslike a vetting make sure they're real and [ __ ] yeah background checks and stuff I'm just kid yeah uh and you said you date for marriage yes anything else is dating for heart heartbreak yeah so when you say you date for marriage what
04:17:30Megandoes that look like what does that mean um when I go out on a date I kind of try to get a feel for how they would be or fit into my family cuz if I go on a date and I feel
04:17:42Meganlike this person is not someone I could take home to meet my family then it's not worth pursuing you mean your parents yeah my parents and my sisters I'm ni so they like conservative sort of yeah they're conservative so if I don't think
04:17:53Meganlike they would get along with them or if I don't think I don't know if I'm not willing to have them meet my family then I'm not willing to keep dating them yeah that's nice that's
04:18:04Brian Atlasawesome nice uh but so you said you used to do the hookup culture now you're dating for marriage so like do you are you waiting for marriage to have
04:18:14MeganCardinal knowledge to have Cardinal what do you mean sex no like thank you tiny by the way tiny thank you for earlier
04:18:23Brian Atlasfor the gifted so no no I would not wait like first date second date like second second date okay so okay no sometimes I hear stories like a girl is like hooked
04:18:35Brian Atlasup like 50 dudes and then they're like oh now I want to wait till marriage I'm like okay no what I at what point do you guys take the girls home to the parents never no just kidding no no for
04:18:47Chestbrahreal like like at what point did you take your beautiful girlfriend to your parents um good question actually um a few
04:18:56Brian Atlasmonths four months four months five months yourself I mean it depends because some relationships move a little quicker than others like how often you
04:19:06Brian Atlasspend time with each other sometimes relationships you're not able to um spend as much time with each other if it's a bit more long distance that's a component um and then it depends like are your parents in the same locality as
04:19:19Brian Atlasyou if they live across the country that's going to have an impact honestly I like to before I introduce anybody to my parents uh I they have to be vetted
04:19:30Brian Atlasheavily so like I'm thinking for me it's like 6 months to a year before you're going to meet my parents I would agree yeah I've not to had that bro I need to get up for a sec guys uh I'm going to let the girls since they're so funny and
04:19:42Brian Atlasentertaining and they bring conversation and and what else do you guys bring to the table uh uh what did she say all well the camera wasn't on she did that that was probably
04:19:55Brian Atlasfor the best but oh that what she bring to the table okay uh I don't know carry the conversation for like I don't know 3 minutes all right give me some controversial topics before you leave I got to go figure out oh come man Jesus
04:20:06RogueChrist they're funny they're ENT I met my current boyfriend when I was 15 oh wow he was my oldest brother's best
04:20:15Roguefriend oh wow that's nice so he already knows my family when you were 15 he met your parents yeah but I hated him did you he was an [ __ ] what if we go
04:20:26Isabellaaround the table at what at what point would you or have you taken your boyfriend to meet your parents typically I'm friends first so like through friendship my parents
04:20:38Isabellaalready know the person and then maybe after couple months four or 3 months i' probably make them aware mhm um I think I was like really lenient with it like for a while and now I like realized like
04:20:51Isabellait's like super important to me so I would say it like takes a little bit longer but because like I live far away like my hometown is far away from Santa Barbara I like brought my current boyfriend now we haven't been dating that long to like stay at my house cuz I
04:21:04Ria/Malleriewas like I literally needed to sleep there so like he met my mom and stuff but nice yeah maybe like 2 months I mean the guy I'm with right now I met
04:21:17Ria/Malleriehim in high school so he already knew my parents and was like around them since the start but now I guess if I hadn't met him and I like met him through college I would probably take like a month or two to bring him back
04:21:32Marcyhome uh my dad just met my fiance in April and he still has not met my mom nice I'm just not close with my family so that's why I don't have parents for my girlfriends he's my family that's all that matters
04:21:44Liam Christopherno literally sometimes I think it's we cuz I don't have a um yeah our dad left when I was 10 my mom's a drug addict so I didn't have any parents it's a weird conversation with girls cuz they're like when can I meet you I'm like there's no
04:21:55Meganone to meet they're like yeah well Batman had no parents so it's okay I don't think I'd let them meet them until I was sure like that might be someone I would marry oh good yeah so that's a
04:22:06Chestbrahhard line yeah like that's was like I don't want to I don't want to like yeah I don't know yeah like bringing you kind of you kind of knew yours was the one right so you're kind of at the
04:22:16Chestbrahsame point no I mean I had to wait a bit obviously and just sus out the situation Bri and um no about 5 months yeah I to you have to like but you knew she was
04:22:28Chestbrahthe one anyway uh yes yes I did but i' still you still need to wait a little bit before introducing him to the family you know of course you you've also got very nice parents yeah they are thank you thank you for that very beautiful so but you
04:22:41Chestbrahstill have to go through the process go on dates get to know each other um you know we're living together so time obviously was sped up a lot but I still think before introducing them to the parents you should like let the ROM like
04:22:53Chestbrahlet the relationship like flourish a little bit before you make that move you guys need to be solid first before you bring them to yeah yeah you want to like you know make some memories do some things together um live with each other
04:23:05Chestbrahlike go on a holiday together just do things together before bringing them like to your family you know yeah especially when you got beautiful family yeah yeah thank you again what about what about so wait your what about you
04:23:16Liam Christophermy mom I don't have any parents for them to meet no my dad left when I was 10 my mom's a drug addict so I don't really want him to made a junkie so she probably be passed out anyway I more or less have to protect my
04:23:28Liam Christophergirlfriends from what parents maybe I can get adopted by yours oh wow so when your dad called me one time like he was the nicest and I was like and he spoke so nicely I like imagine having a dad that like he the best gives a [ __ ] about
04:23:41Liam Christopheryou you know what I mean good man I was I was on the phone I was like I'm just going to can I ask to be adopted by your dad you did you did end up liking him a lot I do remember that he's a really really nice he's a good man no you're
04:23:51Marcyvery lucky bro I have a question for you so I kind of have this opinion that women dictate when the sex happens and Men dictate when the relationship happens when was it that you kind of realized with your current girlfriend
04:24:04Chestbrahthat she was what you wanted to like what what did she bring that made you be like this is the girl I want to get serious with that's a good question actually a really great question so um she had her own thing going on so she
04:24:16Chestbrahhas her own career so she's like career driven I thought that was very attractive because in the past um I would have partners that you know didn't really do too much or everything and they'll kind of just hang it off me and it was it just made me exhausted after a
04:24:29Chestbrahwhile cuz it just felt like they were just like you know I had to constantly like appease or do something or just always like doing things together whereas I've got like a pretty busy life doing my own thing with the social media and all that jazz I'm always traveling I'm competing and doing this and that so
04:24:43Chestbrahit was nice to know that she had her own thing going on it made it a lot easier and you know we're at the same wavelength um as well as that just lots of like familiar interests like music um gym and just into fitness and as well
04:24:56Chestbrahthat she just brought a lot of value to my life like she came into my life and made a lot of things like easier like helping me clean around the home helping me wash and fold the clothing as well which I'm [ __ ] hopeless out so she came in and just like fixed all that for
04:25:08Chestbrahme and she made my home like feel like a home before it was like kind of like a little bachelor pad and she moved in and she helped me like just like you know Spruce It Up Add love to it you know as a woman like has that touch that a man
04:25:19Chestbrahcould never have get rid of the lawn chair and the living room say again I said get rid of the lawn chair in the living room and throw throw out all the [ __ ] socks yeah yeah yeah she just she made my home she made my home feel feel
04:25:32Chestbrahlike a home and um because of that uh yeah I just saw that value and didn't get that from other partners in the past so at that point I knew I'm like okay cool like I can definitely see myself
04:25:41Chestbrahdating this girl do you feel that she made my life easier and she added value your whole energy shifts when you get that right support as well yeah it just life feels easier instead of
04:25:53Chestbrahfeeling like a battle and things are harder and there's stress and fights and arguments things are just easier it's like more free flowing so I would implore all you ladies as well like you know be the peace to your man's life
04:26:04Chestbrahbecause that's Sometimes the best thing you can do to a male you know just be that peace be that shoulder that it can lean on help help around the house it's not being like submissive or dominant or
04:26:14Chestbrahanything like that it's just about you know being um being just being like a pleasure to your man like so like he can come home from work or long day whether he an entrepreneur or the businessman does n to5 just he wants to come home to
04:26:27Chestbrahlike a peaceful home especially if he's like a man like just with a lot of [ __ ] on his mind doing a lot of [ __ ] um no one wants to come back no man wants to come back to like fights and arguments and this and that and being lagged and I guess yeah so that's something I found
04:26:39Marcywith my current girlfriend which made it very easy for me to date her you know she made my life easier can't put I don't know if I don't know if a lot of girls realize this but we have like a superpower when it comes to the to our
04:26:50Marcymen like we can bring out their best versions of themselves we have that superpower I feel like nowaday women are squandering that superpower yeah I I have to agree with you that's actually a
04:27:01Chestbrahreally good point um women have so much power you ladies don't realize how much power you have but a woman can literally come in and just be a man's backbone you know and just Elevate him to levels that he never thought he could reach you know
04:27:12Chestbrahbut on the on the flip end of that you know the the wrong the wrong type of woman can come in and just ruin a man completely so that's also true you know so well the two girls I was with in my
04:27:23Liam Christopher20s were with me when I had Zer and they supported me until I made several million in fact I remember one girl she was that I almost went bankrupt I lost all my money and I'm like oh what are we going to do like we'll be homeless she
04:27:36Liam Christophergoes I'll we'll just go live with my parents I'm like I'll literally just rob a bank before we live with your parents she goes that attitude is why we're not going to be poor and that kind of just made me work harder so a woman really
04:27:47Liam Christophercan be a man's backbone cuz she was with you in it 100% I've literally been supported from bankruptcy I'm like all right they're going to leave to I'll be with you no matter what I believe in you no matter what and I've gone on to make
04:27:59Liam Christopheryou know millions of dollars because of that support on the flip side I've seen men lose millions of dollars because they chose the wrong partner and I always say to them I say whose fault is that is it your fault
04:28:13Liam Christophersorry is it the partner's fault or is it your fault for choosing someone off the bat who you know is going to be detrimental to your success right imagine if you're trying to run this podcast and some girl's blowing up your phone and and abusing you and you can't
04:28:25Liam Christophersucceed when you've got that but I I personally put the blame on the man I think you have to choose that's cuz a man a man chooses the relationship and a women are The Gatekeepers of sex I have
04:28:35Liam Christophera question for you where the women that helps you be who you are today what are they doing now um what are they doing now they're happy they've got like Partners they enjoy their lives yeah I have nothing but good things to say
04:28:48Rogueabout it is there is there a followup question no I was just wondering cuz like you know sometimes you know men get lifted up but then you know they change partners and the woman put all this time and energy into lifting them up and then
04:29:01Liam Christopherthey got tossed aside so I was just wondering if they needed help with anything would you still go back and like help them out of course of course but like I feel like they've they've succeeded in their own way because they're with men that they really appreciate they're in happy
04:29:13Brian Atlasrelationships and I feel like cuz I work so much now anyway it's kind of like they're more better off well were you going to say like oh well they were so great but where are
04:29:23Roguethey now is that what you're asking I mean not in that way but I just wanted to make sure that you know the woman is taken care of too oh they're in Rel I
04:29:34Roguewas married for seven years and my ex-husband came from Egypt and he had nothing he was sleeping on an air mattress and I met him him and now he's got a green card and now he works you know at a really nice job and like I
04:29:47Roguebroke up with him because we had differences in religion and stuff and he I wish him all the best I wanted him to find what was his what he he needed and it wasn't me and I feel like it's
04:29:59Rogueselfish to stay with somebody and try to force them into like your box like he deserve to have what he wanted and I deserve to have what I wanted but I you
04:30:08Rogueknow he's I I don't know what he's doing now but I'm hoping that you know whoever whoever helps each other out I hope that the the person that helped that person
04:30:18Liam Christopherdidn't get you know [ __ ] the stick I got very fortunate it was always very unicable but I've SE I've seen the flip side where like really great men have been torn down by like terrible terrible
04:30:30Liam Christopherpeople yeah one one guy he never recovered from it he he actually I probably shouldn't spill his dirty laundry but he had his life ruined by two different women yeah
04:30:42Liam Christopherso yeah he lost a decade 5 years each he wasn't allowed to see his friends for like most of the 5 years he had coercive control isolation all sorts of stuff it was terrible so yeah yeah you need to
04:30:52Austin/Productionchoose correctly in life be careful I I'm especially at risk yeah because it's the shy ones bro well can I tell like in extroverted chicks like they don't do that [ __ ] well I was
04:31:05Austin/Productiongoing to message you about this or do that I was going to message you they probably do that [ __ ] too privately it's the quiet shy ones got be careful for those ones can I bring up a question I was going to actually just message you this post they're the best and the worst
04:31:17Brian Atlassorry go ahead have you been on the saving end of a BPD relationship yeah I was in I was in a or well she had BP well I mean could you think I suspected could you think she doesn't she didn't have a diagnosis so I don't I don't want
04:31:30Brian Atlasto be one of these people that just throws around the word like narcissist or bipolar but like I'm very fairly confident she had borderline personality disorder and and so you know how bad that can
04:31:42Brian Atlasyeah I think I got a tame one too but it was bad yeah how bad did yours get
04:31:50Austin/Productionuh compared to horror stories I got out lucky my like yeah but it was couple Battle
04:31:59Liam ChristopherScars it was the most chaotic [ __ ] insane cuz I knew you had information on this topic a buddy of mine got put in jail from one cuz she goes um she goes if you leave I'm going to just report
04:32:12Liam Christopheryou to the police and he's like I'm leaving she goes all right she calls the cops the cops come and she's like I just wanted to scare him and they're like well someone's going to get arrested she's like I'll just take him and he goes to jail and he sits in jail for two
04:32:24Brian Atlasdays yeah and he just sits in jail because she wanted to scare him and she's like oh no he didn't touch me I was just scared and I'm like she literally put him in jail to stop him from leing yeah well I mean look these these things definitely happen uh I
04:32:37Brian Atlasthere's this one video I saw of this man and he recorded on his phone but he was trying to break up with his girlfriend and she was like not letting him leave and like it's a very good thing that he was recording the whole thing because
04:32:49Brian Atlasshe was like getting on the phone with her mom or something and like saying things that were happening but weren't this was all recorded he released it and I forget exactly what she was saying but
04:33:01Brian Atlashe was just like recording standing there totally peaceful and he was like can you please let me leave and she was like oh my God he's he's trying to do you know so to that point this I got a lawyer and lawyer goes if it happens
04:33:13Liam Christopheragain record and it did happen again and he recorded and the cops came again she's like I'm in fear for my life he's like I'm just standing here at the door and then the cops came looked at the footage they're like yeah she's mental
04:33:24Liam Christopherand that's it's like it's criminal Behavior to um threaten false imprisonment against like a man or anyone really you can't threaten to falsely imprison someone but this is the reality for a lot of people if you don't
04:33:37Brian Atlaschoose correctly this is what you could end up with mhm I mean I haven't I I've talked about it briefly in previous shows but like the biggest thing for me when when I was dating the scroll BPD it
04:33:49Brian Atlaswas impossible to break up with her oh I had the same like the like I would break up with her she' get different emails she would get call me from other people's phones like came by my house
04:34:00Brian Atlasand then would like but it would be like it was difficult because she would be like oh my God I'll never do it again yep yep or whatever all the time as well super jealous
04:34:12Brian Atlasjealous get mad about girls I dated before her like oh you dated a girl 3 years ago [ __ ] you you piece of [ __ ] how dare you date her like the three year I
04:34:23Austin/Productionwas like I didn't even know you dude you could talk to a parking M that stab the parking ma up um but uh no like jealousy it was impossible to break up with her
04:34:33Brian Atlascuz I was like she was so persistent and it was so kind of like um I don't know if the right word is alarming but was like maybe I can just it'll go away if I
04:34:45Brian Atlasjust get back I know that sounds [ __ ] crazy but until you've been in a situation like that now I would be ruthless it works both ways one woman
04:34:57TTS Readerled me to a sewer slide attempt but another woman made me feel on top of the world love the show first show I've donated thank you Brian yeah and just to be clear like thank you Logan really
04:35:08Brian Atlasappreciate absolutely goes both ways bad men bad women out there I've been the with the exception of this one relationship and I don't like to talk poorly about like past relationships or whatever but uh been in a bunch of
04:35:20Brian Atlasfantastic relationships although I'd sing the these other women's Praises I just had one particular relationship that was W pretty bad and I was young too I was it was my second relationship
04:35:31Brian Atlasso I still kind of naive young didn't really know and I didn't know about I didn't know what this was I just thought she's a bit eccentric or she's a little uh over enthusiastic or she really likes me or some [ __ ] but like yeah it was
04:35:43Liam Christopherhard to [ __ ] break up with this scroll oh yeah and they do this um there's this abuse tactic called um idealization versus devaluation where they'll suck you and be like you're the best person I've ever met in my entire life and then when they get you close enough they're like you're a piece of
04:35:56Liam Christopher[ __ ] because you had a girlfriend 3 years ago [ __ ] you and you're like wait what how did I get pulled in and then pushed down like that but it's like a tactic but when you're young you don't really know you know what I mean that's
04:36:07Brian Atlasyou got to wear some of those Battle Scars to kind of survive and like us correctly I me hard Lessons Learned oh for real like until you like roll the
04:36:17Brian Atlasdice and land on a crazy person you ain't expecting it cuz if all like if all the previous people you dated are normal yeah and it's but then once you land on them you're like oh this I have
04:36:29TTS Readernot experienced this before and not like a good way but it's like you don't know how to deal with yo VOR the girl in chair one how would you feel if your boyfriend all of a sudden wanted to stop
04:36:40TTS Readerbanging other women rather blow his load into sex stalls does the dynamic
04:36:50Roguechange thank you H thank you Vector though I don't even know how to answer that um I mean I guess whatever he Jackson off to on his own time is his own
04:37:01Brian Atlasbusiness no but what would you prefer right oh I would prefer sleeping with women that's actually a really interesting question it's like so would you prefer uhhuh I mean you're poly but
04:37:12Brian Atlaseven opening it up to the other girls on the panel like would it be more pathetic if your boyfriend started banging sex dolls like would you would you prefer
04:37:21Roguehim to cheat with a chick over a sex like a sex doll yeah see you know I've watched my
04:37:32Roguedude bang other women and it's hot so that like I rather choose that um we don't do that behind each other's backs it's always wait but what did you question so he he um does he sleep with other women
04:37:44Roguemhm with with you guys do swap we do swap yeah in the same room M oh I didn't know I thought it was like whatever no no when we swap it's same room we don't ever would you prefer it
04:37:55Rogueunilateral so you get to [ __ ] other people but he doesn't and he was fine no he's fine with it would you prefer that over it being open on both sides no I I
04:38:06Roguelike the equality like a lot of guys on here probably be like oh I'd love to be poly but my is not allowed to [ __ ] other dudes I don't think that's fair and a lot of people feel that way but for me I feel like if you know if he's going to
04:38:19Roguesleep with a woman then it's only fair if I find the male attractive that I get to sleep with a male and that's he's he totally agrees with that so he word word
04:38:30Brian Atlasokay uh here really quick going around the table on this uh would you prefer your boyfriend cheat on you with another chick or a sex doll I'd rather him not be un loyal it's kind of weird like covered wait sorry
04:38:43Brian Atlaswhich one I'd rather him not be unloyal and cheat well you got to pick one doll sex doll or weird but you still dump him right like if [ __ ] a sex doll I don't know I'd have to
04:38:55Roguecommunicate like you walk in on him [ __ ] a sex but see at so it's kind of cheating it's weird can you can you say the same thing for women using vibrators I mean they're using a tool I don't know I don't know what
04:39:08Brian Atlasabout a pocket [ __ ] like is that the same thing is that the same thing maybe what about a pocket [ __ ] is that the same as a sex doll I think if you scoon to the table might be bit what about you
04:39:16Brian Atlaswhat do you think um I just cannot know other women I would so that you pick the sex doll yeah what about you yeah the sex doll sex doll yeah okay all right
04:39:28Brian Atlasthank you Vector appreciate that so where were we we were getting through uh let's see I want to bring it back to uh key yeah that's you I I I might
04:39:40Ria/Malleriehave mixed up the notes uh food poisoning was that you or yeah that was that's you okay so mallerie yeah uh food poisoning on first date you did what I
04:39:51Ria/Malleriejust I had to have him pull over on the side of the road because I felt really sick after eating sushi and then yeah I threw up in front of him and then I threw up a little bit in his car in the
04:40:02Brian Atlascar yeah did you offer to clean it yeah no I totally cleaned it you cleaned it but yeah okay and your other your next note was was being a hoe
04:40:17Brian Atlasbad that's actually what it says what's the a dash I know there's a Dash being a hoe Dash bad I that was just more about like the hookup culture like the hookup
04:40:27Ria/Mallerieculture i there's something we agree on yeah being a hell bad yeah like I don't know I just don't like like the idea of the hookup culture nowadays just
04:40:38Brian Atlassleeping around like a lot to like a certain point I guess it's just like I don't know sure yeah okay uh you said
04:40:48Brian Atlaspeople shouldn't be friends with the opposite gender in relationships actually something else I agree with you and do you want to expand on this a bit I mean there's like certain situations
04:40:59Ria/Malleriewhere I do think it's okay but then there's just others that I just don't and I see other women talk about how they would like be comfortable with their boyfriend like hanging out one-on-one
04:41:11Ria/Malleriewith a girl or even just like I don't know just other like random situations that I just definitely would not be comfortable with mhm but I mean that's just me and it's each each their own I
04:41:22Ria/Malleriedon't like shame other people for allowing not allowing but not being upset at their boyfriend for hanging out with other women like that sure but me personally I would just appreciate to
04:41:34Brian Atlaskeep it all guys and out of just respect his friends yeah and then what about you like you don't have male friends either right yeah
04:41:46Ria/Mallerieor second not like that wait so you're no it's it's the same standard both ways yeah definitely
04:41:57Ria/Mallerieyou don't have male friends yeah no okay yeah like agree I don't know there's just it's very much depending on situational like factors but not people
04:42:08Ria/Malleriethat I would hang out with like all like regularly like text them like hang out with them all the time type of thing but like I guess I could call
04:42:20Brian Atlaspeople my friends that are males and he could do that too but it's just it's like situational I guess I'd say so controlling of you I know so no I I agree with you I agree with you I I
04:42:32Brian Atlasthink there is a bit of impropriety if uh you're dating somebody and they have a bunch of uh friends of the opposite sex and uh
04:42:41TTS Readerand uh well certainly I think maybe virgin slayer69 good good thing most of you picked sex dolls because one see
04:42:52TTS Readeron sex robots that also fold laundry you are all absolutely screwed screwed oh my
04:43:00Brian Atlasgoodness yeah that who I wonder who's going to be quicker to adopt the usage
04:43:07Brian Atlasof like girlfriend robot sex robot probably men yeah probably 100% feel like or I don't know man cuz I feel like
04:43:19Brian Atlaswomen are really dissatisfied with men you could probably mute a robot too like what this robot could be a [ __ ]
04:43:29Brian Atlasgigachad and he'll like he'll be perfect for you yeah cuz we I feel like women are more picky so like you'll it's
04:43:38Brian Atlasharder for you to find a guy that like fit into what you need and want in what just in general yeah like I I think women have tend to have higher standards
04:43:50Brian Atlasthan then and they're pickier than men yours are pretty high maybe I'm an outlier but oh I don't look I don't ask for
04:44:01Brian Atlasmuch I'm very low maintenance very low maintenance um so what do you mean with the sex dolls
04:44:12Brian Atlasfor women I'm confused well I'm like pardon me like we would have terms of who's who's going to adopt more to it like who's going to be like more fulfilled by it
04:44:27Brian Atlasuh I mean definitely men but like I think this idea that women aren't going to like bro this robot can like open jars for you and [ __ ] kill all the spiders like that's pretty cool you know
04:44:40Rogueit's like like my boyfriend like last longer than like 3 seconds or whatever no I don't have okay there's no problem there see that's going to be that's going to be
04:44:51Roguethe end of the world right there the sex robots yeah probably yeah already like we'll never procreate ever again it'll just be the sex robots and they'll make
04:45:00Brian Atlaslittle robot babies I wonder though the world would you be be super honest though don't don't like would you would you get with a sex robot