She BETRAYED Brian?! Gen Z California College Girls! She Says Men Are GROSS?! | Dating Talk #257

Date: 2025-08-25
Duration: 6h 22m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_02Solo(guest)
SPEAKER_03Bella (BB)(guest)
SPEAKER_05Cena(guest)
SPEAKER_06Sativa(guest)
SPEAKER_09Lexi (Escort)(guest)
SPEAKER_10Kayla (Addiction)(guest)
SPEAKER_11Ava (Sushi)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Felicity(guest)

Key Moments

00:05:13
IntroAll guests introduced
01:44:23
Key MomentAva: stalker climbed balcony and broke into apartment at 2:30 AM
02:04:09
Key MomentBrian calls Cena's breast implants a 'betrayal' — title reference
04:07:48
QuoteLexi gives body count as 'the number of pi' repeatedly throughout show

Topics Discussed

00:05:13
Guest Introductions

Including escort Lexi, former alcoholic Ava (18, sober 2 years), and returning Cena/Sativa.

02:04:01
Plastic Surgery Debate

Brian: would ban surgery as dictator. Extended panel debate.

02:04:09
Cena Betrayal (Breast Implants)

Brian calls out Cena for getting implants after he told her not to — title reference.

03:31:00
Hypergamy/Dating Apps

Average women pursue above-league men who won't commit.

04:13:00
Feminism/Wage Gap

Brian defines feminism as women's advocacy with anti-male rhetoric.

04:50:00
Trans Athletes Debate

Broad consensus trans women should not compete in women's sports.

Transcript

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02:58:46
Brian Atlas>> That's what I was saying. It's located in Scottdale and Arizona. >> But hold on. But hold on. It's so a woman who's like say a 10 in one location. You can put her in another
02:58:56
Ava (Sushi)location. She's still going to be appraised as really attractive. >> That's why I think it's hard to like find the exact number. Can we get like a a two number? >> Yeah, that's why I'm saying
02:59:08
Ava (Sushi)>> can we skip this topic actually. I'm kind of bored of this. The going back to the question >> shout outs right now. >> Going back to the question that I was asking though, if you have a hundreds of
02:59:18
Brian Atlasthousands of men, it's true that one guy is going to rate you a 10 and one guy's going to rate you a one and some are going to rate you three, some are going to rate you seven, but we're talking about average here. So, what do you
02:59:29
Lexi (Escort)think the average rating would be? >> Starting with you. >> Uh, I don't know. >> Wait, >> can you uh tilt your mic? Wait, you got to answer the question before you get >> out of a thousand people. That thing I'm lost. I don't know because I'm stuck on something else.
02:59:42
Lexi (Escort)>> Tilt, tilt, tilt. No, other way. Other way. Tilt. Tilt. >> I don't know, Skip. Because I'm stuck on something else. >> You got to answer. >> I don't know. My argument is is that I feel like in hotter climates in the US, the women are hotter because like you're
02:59:55
Lexi (Escort)wearing less clothes, you're more fit, you're working out. >> Yeah, I know. And then you go to like New York City and then you see like not so women because summertime in New York City.
03:00:06
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. So that's my average. brutal in the summertime in New York City. >> Okay. >> So, do you want You got to answer the question. >> I just did. Over and out. Thank you. >> Can you repeat the question?
03:00:19
Brian Atlas>> Okay. 100 or >> thousand men. What's the average? >> And what do you think? >> 100,000. >> Sure. >> 10. >> It could be a million. What do you think they would rate you? >> Like the average? >> Yeah, the average.
03:00:32
Brian Atlas>> Because I don't know. >> Okay. Some guy would rate you 10, someone would rate you one. If you add the number six, >> love it. >> Seven. >> Seven. >> Six. Seven. >> Okay. >> Go ahead.
03:00:47
Solo>> That was such a funny. >> Shout out Cayman and Ernie for that joke. >> You said he's No. >> I I already I just went >> They were talking. It was probably hard for me. >> Okay. Yeah. Go ahead.
03:01:00
Brian Atlas>> Oh, yeah. I said a seven. >> Okay. What about you? >> I still think a seven. >> Go ahead. Four. Six. >> Okay, cool. Rock and roll. >> What about you? >> Yeah. Thousand girls.
03:01:11
Brian Atlas>> Women rate me >> four. Five. >> Yeah. >> Coolio. >> Yeah. Like I get >> Julio. >> I mean, but this is just speaking
03:01:23
Brian Atlasstrictly looks. Um, >> you know, some might rate me higher, some might rate me lower. >> Yeah. It depends. >> No. I wouldn't be surprised if somebody, you know, rated me one way or the other.
03:01:33
SPEAKER_00Uh, we have some chats coming through, but we're we got some followup here. What the >> pasty George donated $200
03:01:42
SPEAKER_00chair for so obese, sweaty, stinky people are tens as well. LMFAO.
03:01:54
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Or Cy, I promise. >> Wait, is is uh is Lizo a 10? >> Lizo, >> it's Lizo. She's I think she's >> Anyone can be a 10.
03:02:04
Solo>> Yeah, you got it all [ __ ] up. >> Is Li Is Lizo a 10? >> Why are you looking at me? >> Cuz I was asking you. >> Why did you ask everyone else? Why are you just pointing at me? >> Because I feel like picking on you. How about that? >> Why me?
03:02:17
Solo>> Oh my Just answer the question. >> I think she's beautiful. I think that she I think that she worked on herself and she's >> old cuz I know she done lost a bit of weight. Old Lizo,
03:02:28
Bella (BB)>> she's still beautiful. Do you think some fat people love they love a big lady? >> I'm saying are you saying do are you saying that like does she think fat people are pretty? Cuz you're you're referring to Lizo specifically when she was fat.
03:02:41
Bella (BB)>> Yeah. >> Yeah. I'm asking if she thought Lizo was pretty beautiful when she >> Anyone can be a 10. >> Anyone can be a 10. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> You could look at someone and be like, "Damn, that [ __ ] ugly." And someone else can look at them and be
03:02:53
Brian Atlaslike, "Oh, wow." >> That was actually That was That was just funny how you did that. >> This is the truth. Can I ask you a question? If somebody said that you looked like Lizo, would you how would you feel about that?
03:03:04
Brian Atlas>> I feel like I look nothing like Lizo. >> But if you did, if somebody did said said you looked like Lizo, you'd be >> She'd probably be quite confused because you don't. >> I >> But what if somebody was making a statement about
03:03:16
Solo>> Do you think Lizo's ugly? Because like you're you're saying it to me like I'd be offended by it. >> I think Nick, do you have that clip, the rhino one? I I kind of >> You know what I'm talking about, Nick. >> Thank you very It's on my Twitter.
03:03:28
Brian Atlas>> I feel like I'd be like, "Okay, thanks." >> We pulled it up twice. It's like the >> It's on the Twitter >> on my personal account. >> Yeah. >> Wait, did I Do you know if I sent it to
03:03:41
Brian Atlasyou last time? >> Oh, on your personal account. >> Oh, here. It's in the here. Open Instagram, Nick. >> Okay. >> I'm pretty sure it's sent here. Oh, wait. No, [ __ ] That's not it. >> Oh,
03:03:53
Brian Atlas>> I forgot we have school. >> I have a closing shift tomorrow. Whatever. Um, I'll move it off of that. >> Um, going around the table, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time? >> Starting with >> I was also ready for this question. May I ask? >> She's ready. Go ahead.
03:04:07
Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> Okay. So, at your 24, at 34, better looking. Uh, do you think you'll be better looking 20 years time? 44. >> I don't know. I can't predict that far ahead. Maybe, perhaps not.
03:04:18
Brian Atlas>> Assuming Assuming like you can't get any plastic surgery. >> Yeah. Yes. Hot. Uh 30 years time 54 better looking.
03:04:29
Lexi (Escort)>> I'mma be that granny 100 years old in a g-string baby. >> Hot. >> Okay. >> Yes. >> Hold on. I need to let a couple chats come through. Then we're going to come
03:04:40
SPEAKER_00back to this. >> Uh this is for donated $200. >> Oh [ __ ] Thank you. >> Oh my god. Mary >> production desk. Mary. Love you baby
03:04:51
Brian Atlasgirl. Emoji. Love you, Christian. >> Oh, yeah. You have to pay the sim tax. I guess he's telling me he has to pay the sim tax.
03:05:03
Brian Atlas>> Oh [ __ ] Oh, Pasty, you're crazy for this one. Pasty's coming in hot with uh But Christian, thank the TTS. Pay the same tax.
03:05:12
SPEAKER_00>> Pasty George donated $200. Chair three. According to your belief, Harvey Weinstein is a 10 as well. >> L MFAO need. Yeah. >> Yeah.
03:05:26
Brian Atlas>> Somebody got to think that [ __ ] pretty. >> He's obsessed. >> It's only a face a mother could love. I actually don't even know who that is. >> He He's the We shouldn't We shouldn't even get into it. >> We're just going to avoid that one.
03:05:39
Brian AtlasThank you, Pacey. Let's just say he's not a conventionally good-looking man. >> Is he like disabled or something? Is that why you're >> No, he Anyways, >> who wears?
03:05:50
Brian AtlasLet's just say he had a lot of accusations. Hollywood me too stuff. >> Yeah, >> but that's not about his looks. >> True, but he's also not
03:06:02
Brian Atlas>> attractive. The best looking dude. >> Then he's not a 10. >> Anyways, uh let's see here. Okay. Oh, yes. Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time? You're 18, better looking at 28?
03:06:13
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Yeah. >> 20 years time, 38.
03:06:20
Ava (Sushi)I mean, I wouldn't say like better like it depends on your standards because I feel like the standard is low-key like
03:06:27
Ava (Sushi)17 to like 28 is like to like society is like the hottest, but like I think I'll still be really good-looking. >> Okay.
03:06:38
Brian Atlas>> I think I'll be a hot mom. >> So, just as good-looking, less >> Yeah, just as good-looking. >> Okay. What about >> just like older? >> 30 years time. So, uh, >> just as good-looking and just older
03:06:50
Ava (Sushi)>> at 38. Okay. Or that' be 48 minus >> like to another 48-year-old just as attractive as I would have been to another 18-year-old. >> Well, I think the question there would
03:06:59
Brian Atlasbe to the say uh say 40year-old, would you be more are you more physically attractive at 38
03:07:09
Brian Atlasversus 28? 38 versus 18. But to a 40-year-old or to a 28-y old? >> The 40-year-old. >> I mean, yeah, 40-y old's probably into an 18y old.
03:07:21
Brian Atlas>> Okay, there it is. Um, but in terms of your own appraisal, uh, better looking in, >> uh, 40 years, >> I would say the same amount of good-looking. I don't think better looking. >> When's when do you when's the peak? I guess
03:07:32
Brian Atlas>> I think 28 would be the best. >> Okay. What about uh like 78? Just as good-looking >> um >> as now? >> No. 68, just as good-looking. >> Yeah.
03:07:45
Bella (BB)>> Okay. You're 18. Better looking in 10 years time at 28. >> Yes. I'm so excited to look like my mom. All the women in my family age like fine
03:07:54
Bella (BB)wine. She got IDed at restaurants till I was like 12, 13. Baddies. >> Uh 38. >> Better than now? Yeah. >> No. I think I look better. I think at 28
03:08:06
Bella (BB)I look better than I do now. I think at 38. I think 28 would be peak. >> Okay, sure. All right. What about you? >> Actually, I take it back. >> Okay. Go ahead. >> I take that back. I might be I might be a pretty good-looking 40-year-old. You
03:08:19
Brian Atlasshould see my grandma. She looks great. >> Took some milk. >> Okay, cool. Uh 50 or or 48 then? Better looking then? >> 48. 48 is when I think it would start coming.
03:08:31
Brian Atlas>> That's the decline. Okay. What about you? Better looking at 28 versus 18. >> Yeah. 38.
03:08:41
Solo>> Yeah. >> 48. >> No. >> Okay. What about you? 28. Better looking in 10 years time. >> Yes. Yes. To all of them. I >> 38. >> Yes. Yes. To every single one. >> 58. >> Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.
03:08:54
Solo>> You'll you'll be just you'll be better looking at at 108 than you are now. >> Yeah. My like like um Bella said, the women in my family aged like fine wine and I think my grandma is the most
03:09:07
Solobeautiful person I've ever seen in my entire life. >> 100 though >> and >> yeah, >> I I don't care. I think I think it is. I think being able to see life through a person is the most beautiful thing ever.
03:09:18
Brian AtlasWeird though like that people on both sides are not going to the retirement home to like pick up some strange like
03:09:27
Brian Atlasit's weird like why aren't you know the most beautiful you know 70 80 90 100 why aren't you know these guys macking on some grandma's what's up
03:09:39
Solo>> retirement homes have hella STDs I do not know what you're talking about right now >> they have hella STDs >> retirement homes >> yes have you stat that we I know about
03:09:50
Brian Atlaslet's not understate the STD prevalence among the college age. >> We're not understating. We're just we're just also stating >> so that that's why people get freaky. >> Is it a battle? >> How freaky in retirement home?
03:10:03
Brian Atlas>> So guy Wait, you're telling me that guys are not trying to Mac on women in retirement homes because that they're worried about the STD risk? >> What? No, I'm saying they do. So wait,
03:10:14
Brian Atlaslike >> no no no in that age cohort. I'm just saying if if that's when you're most beautiful and if men tend to >> have >> I didn't say most. I said even
03:10:27
Solo>> I said like you're the same beautiful like as you age. Like I think aging is beautiful. >> All right. What about you? You're 30 better looking in 10 years time at 40. >> Um
03:10:38
Sativayes and no. Only cuz my mom aged really well too. So, she's 45 but looks pretty young. >> Do we have the AI neck? >> It's pulled. Okay. Uh 20 years time, 50. >> Um I think I'll start to
03:10:50
Sativa>> get a little wrinkly, but I also don't think wrinkles are bad. So, and I can't wait to have gray hair. So, it's kind of it is kind of hard for me to answer. >> And going back in time, were you better looking at 20 or better looking now at 30?
03:11:02
Brian Atlas>> I'm I'm actually better looking now than I was at 20. >> Okay. All right. What about you? Uh you're 27. Better looking in 10 years time. 37 >> probably. Yeah. Yeah.
03:11:15
Brian Atlas>> Um 20 years time 47. >> No. >> Okay. And then going back say 18. Better looking at 18 or better looking now at 27. >> Now. >> Okay.
03:11:26
Brian Atlas>> I was a hot teenager though. >> 19. Better looking in 10 years at 29? >> Yeah. >> 39? >> Yes. >> 49? >> No. >> Okay. Got it. All right. Uh that's very
03:11:37
Brian Atlasinteresting. Uh, so we we've put all of you through >> AI. I'm excited. We've we've aged all of you. We're going to see if >> Are you serious? >> We have a I saw this part.
03:11:51
SPEAKER_07>> All of you. >> Wait, what? >> And uh Wait, what? >> Now, I know you're not a natural beauty, but I think with the right clothes, the right look, you could be very striking. >> All right, you got it ready to go. >> Are we watching the screen?
03:12:04
SPEAKER_00>> I'm so excited. >> Oh, wait. We got a CTS. I'm going to let that come through. Then we're going to get into it. >> Hasty George donated $200.
03:12:13
SPEAKER_00I don't mean to be rude, but I will just be realistic and when you all hit your look like brother. >> That is just life and how it is. He's a brave and a decent man. He's a pioneer.
03:12:26
Brian Atlas>> What? Oh, wow. Okay, that that's a good one, Pasty. Thank you. Appreciate it. Thank you. Thank you. All right, let's uh get into it. >> I need a Oh.
03:12:37
Bella (BB)How many years in the future is that? >> It's like five years tops. >> I think she looks hot as hell. >> Smash mistaken. >> I feel like that's not 20s and 30s though. That's what you asked us.
03:12:49
Lexi (Escort)>> Who? >> And we got up there for some of y'all. >> Yeah. I'm going to be swinging them titties just at that age.
03:13:01
Brian Atlas>> Great. >> What the [ __ ] >> Okay. >> Hell yeah. >> All right. Next. Oh my god. >> Oh, you're cute though. >> Oh my god. Wait, let's go.
03:13:12
Ava (Sushi)>> I look like cute. >> Oh no, I'm scared of mine. >> Oh my god, Bonnie. >> So I think the middle that's probably 40s. >> No,
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Ava (Sushi)>> that is you know I wear sunscreen. That's that's that's honestly like 50s60s. >> That's But that's 40s. >> I'm going to have some No, >> it's creeping. It's creeping up. All
03:13:36
Brian Atlasright. >> Uh >> oh. >> Next. >> Whoa. >> Oh, you're fatty. >> Damn. >> You're a baddie. >> But apparently just everything below the necklace still looking good though.
03:13:49
Bella (BB)>> It's just the neck. I'm >> terrified for mine. >> I don't mind this at all. >> You're She's good with it. Okay. >> Look, that's cute. Be wearing the slick vic old lady, you know?
03:14:01
Bella (BB)>> I'm excited to be a cute little old lady. I'm excited for you. Nice. >> So long as I end up wealthy by then. >> End up wealthy. >> Yeah, I want to be a singer so bad. >> Oh, the with the music thing.
03:14:13
Bella (BB)>> Yeah, I want to be I want to be >> But she won't sing on her. [ __ ] >> I can't do ac capella. That's terrifying. I'll pull video a beat right now. >> Uh, all right. Let's do uh You're on the next.
03:14:25
Solo>> Uhoh. >> Oh, >> it's not bad. >> It's not that bad. A, she's so cute. >> Like the girl from Goko. >> Oh my gosh. A little bit. Yeah.
03:14:37
SPEAKER_08>> I'm sorry. >> All right. >> That's not bad. [Music] >> You look like you would help like
03:14:47
Bella (BB)>> Yeah. Lost puppies. Leave her alone. >> I'm nervous for mine. >> All right. Uh, next. >> Period. >> Oh my god. That's fire. That's fire. >> That's funny.
03:15:01
Brian Atlas>> That's good. >> The middle one's not that bad. Wait, hold on. This is kind of weird. You You're You're like You're black, right? >> I'm black Colombian Italian. >> You became a white woman over time. That's interesting to me.
03:15:12
Sativa>> It is very That's interesting. >> But my mom is like more like your color. So, >> pale as [ __ ] >> Yeah, she is. >> If she sees this, she's going to get mad at me for
03:15:22
Brian Atlas>> mom. Uh, okay. We'll do uh let's do next. Sweet. >> You know what? You're kind of adorable.
03:15:32
Bella (BB)>> A >> You look like you would like help a homeless person. >> You're definitely not skipping yours. >> You're No, she's going to look so good in hers. >> All right. >> I don't want to.
03:15:44
Cena>> Uh, next. >> Look. You got to look. Look. Ready? Ready. >> Period. >> Okay. Honestly.
03:15:53
Cena>> You look fierce. I literally have four different AI ones now at this point. >> Wait, hold on. Let me pull it up again. >> That middle one. >> You also kind of became white, too.
03:16:05
Brian Atlas>> I don't know what it is about AI. It's very racist. >> It only wants to see old white people for some reason. >> Do we have Oh, yeah. >> Okay. >> Oh, yeah. >> Can we see it? >> Next.
03:16:18
Kayla (Addiction)>> Oh, Felicity. >> Yeah, we see I've seen yours. >> RIP. Okay. Next. We've seen >> Oh, okay. Wait, hold on. >> That's >> Oh, okay. Wait, is there another one there?
03:16:30
Brian Atlas>> That's not AI. >> Oh, they didn't. Okay, that's me. And I was uh >> I was that you all that actually. >> So, uh first off,
03:16:41
Brian Atlasthis middle that one's They're all old. But, funnily enough, the one on the right is the oldest photo of me >> because I was in it was for a >> the bad grandpa or something. >> Yeah. Yeah, it was a a gig I did like 10
03:16:54
Brian Atlasyears ago in Amsterdam and they put on like prosthetics and made me look old. So that's I guess probably better than the EI maybe. >> They didn't do a great job though, those
03:17:06
Brian Atlasmakeup artists. I should have had Bella do that [ __ ] >> Me? >> Aren't you a makeup artist? >> Hair. >> Oh, hair. Okay, sorry. Cos cosmetology. Whatever threw me off. Us men, we can't
03:17:18
Bella (BB)differentiate between >> you know cosmology. Everyone immediately assumes >> makeup every single time. Like everyone. >> Exactly. Easy. Simple. >> Yeah. >> Wow. >> Period.
03:17:31
Brian Atlas>> Wow. >> Now, we've done something else. We've done something else. We've also gender swapped all of you. >> Gender swapped. Oh my god. I've always wanted to see me as a man. >> I really want to see you as a grandpa. I
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Sativamissed it. >> Oh, okay. Let's You have it? >> All right. Oh. >> Oh my god. You look like Santa Claus. Santa for real. >> You to cosplay when you get older. >> I will be Santa Claus.
03:17:56
Brian Atlas>> That's Santa Claus. >> Love it. All right, cool. Um, and then gender swap. So, two questions. What do you rate the male version of you? And then, would you date the male version of you? Two questions.
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Ava (Sushi)>> Oh my god. Absolutely not. >> But do we get to like add height and like >> Nope. Or well, >> buff like I'm going to assume he's taller than me. I'm going to assume he's tall and
03:18:21
Sativa>> Oh my Okay. >> Oh [ __ ] >> No. Not him. >> Not bad. >> Not bad. >> Put it back.
03:18:31
Brian Atlas>> Stop it. Get some help. >> All right. Here it is. Not bad, right? Would you Would you rate him? Would you date him? >> Would I rate him? Would I date him? Uh, can I see him for longer or
03:18:43
Lexi (Escort)>> Sure. >> Okay. Um, sure. Sure. I' I'd date my twin. That looks very weird. Sure. >> What do you rate him?
03:18:53
Lexi (Escort)>> I I don't know. He has a nice facial structure and I like his hair and bro, the nose is literally like mine. It's literally my nose.
03:19:03
Lexi (Escort)>> The ears are huge. But I mean, he's not a badl looking dude. I' I'd give it a go. >> All right. >> Own it, girl. >> Next.
03:19:15
Ava (Sushi)Not horrible either. >> That looks like um Can Wait, let me That looks like my uncle. >> Um and also kind of my dad.
03:19:27
Ava (Sushi)>> Would you date the male version of you? >> His forehead's kind of big. I'm going to be honest. Are they all going to have beards? >> Like I >> Oh, I'm sorry. His uh
03:19:38
Ava (Sushi)>> his forehead's kind of big. His eyebrows are a little wy. Okay, one more time. Let me see. I'd give him a shot. He kind of He reminds me of that guy who keeps coming to the door
03:19:51
Ava (Sushi)>> with the Tesla driving. He looks like him a little bit. >> All right. Anyways, I don't think so. >> I'm so excited. >> Yeah. >> All right. Next. >> I'm excited to see yours.
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Bella (BB)>> Oh. >> Oh, my god.
03:20:09
Bella (BB)Uh, can I see it again? >> So, that is actually the most terrific thing I ever did see in all of my life. I don't know why mine ended up like that. >> Hold on. Everybody's a 10, though. >> Yeah. To your point.
03:20:21
Bella (BB)>> Somebody can make reference. >> You know what? I mean, my dude was was pretty hot. >> Yeah, I'm speaking from personal. Can I say one more time, >> dude? Pretty hot. Yeah,
03:20:33
Brian Atlas>> god. I'd be a horrible man. you be. Wait, >> that's that's why I end up like that. >> That's funny. >> I Sometimes I think about that what what
03:20:45
Brian Atlasyou just said. Like if you put women, you gender swap them. >> Damn. I think a lot of y'all would would be struggling. Y'all would be struggling. Y'all Some of y'all would be
03:20:56
Brian Atlaslike if we became men like like like all of us as men would look like >> bad. Sorry, I talking maybe, but >> like the male looks equivalent of you
03:21:09
Bella (BB)like cuz women have dating on easy mode. >> All right, guys. I think it's that I don't have a single masculine feature on my face. I feel like so like I just can't like the AIing me into a man like that's obscured
03:21:20
Bella (BB)>> to be fair. Look, I'll be I'll be charitable here. This AI was not very >> honestly if the AI AI did a little bit of a better job. I think he's >> Do you have a bro? Do you have a a brother? >> Yeah, but he's four and he's from a different father, so he looks nothing
03:21:34
Sololike me. >> Doesn't Okay, it doesn't. Yeah, never mind. All right. Uh, next. >> So, you wouldn't date that guy. >> Hell no. >> Hell no. >> Okay. >> Oh, that looks like my brother. >> That looks like my uncle.
03:21:47
Solo>> That looks like Oh, that looks like my brother. >> Would you date him? >> No. >> Would you rate him >> a 10? >> Yes. >> A 10. >> To someone else?
03:22:00
Brian Atlashanded on this. >> You know what's weird? All these girls are fumbling 10 out of 10 males. Like he's a 10, but you're you're not >> to you
03:22:10
Brian Atlas>> to someone. I would be a really hot guy, but not to myself. I'm not a very hot guy. >> All right. >> She's girl. >> Okay. Uh, >> take the words out of my mouth. >> All right. Next. >> I think you're going to be sexy.
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Solo>> Yeah, I think so. >> Oh, why is his eye [ __ ] up? >> Okay. Ignore the [ __ ] up eye. Just imagine the AI scuffed it. >> He got a little >> He's all right. He's He's not He looks
03:22:33
Sololike you >> Oh my god, you're so >> It looks exactly like this guy Ava showed me a picture of today while I was reorganizing our fridge. It's kind of funny. Oh my god.
03:22:47
Ava (Sushi)>> Would you date him? >> Yeah, he kind of does. Honestly, if he had like if he had your hair too. >> Yeah. >> I literally said this guy looks like a male version of Solid. He's so hot. What do you rate him? >> Oh, a 10. >> Sweet. >> Period.
03:23:00
Sativa>> Next. >> He looks a little boy. >> Why did they do your >> Wait, hold on. Go back to it. You know, it's just >> Wait, just like the hairs warped you a little.
03:23:13
Sativa>> Yeah. Why is it? >> It's a no for me. It's enough for me. But it's it's just the thing is it's funny. It's funny because so I do have
03:23:22
Sativabrothers and like they it doesn't quite look like them, but like the nose and the smile and the eyes are definitely still like my brothers and it's probably cuz they're my brothers. They're yours.
03:23:34
Sativa>> Yeah. Yeah. But I would not date that at all. >> Okay. Uh All right. What about you? >> It's probably a little like my brother. >> Oh, here it is. >> A little bit like my brother.
03:23:46
Brian Atlas>> Would you date him? >> Uh would you? Nah. Okay. Next. >> Yeah. I would >> Oh,
03:23:56
SPEAKER_08>> wait. What? He's not bad. >> I think I think without the beard is better. >> Without the beard. Without that bad. >> Ew. >> He could The second one's not bad. The
03:24:09
Cenasecond one's not bad. >> That's literally you as a dude. >> Get that get out of here, please. I >> What? You don't date Asian guys or something? Like >> um do I have to rate him?
03:24:20
Bella (BB)>> Yes. >> A 10 out of 10. >> Period. Brian your face. >> Clock it. Clock it. >> Can you skip it? >> Do you not date? You don't date Asian guys.
03:24:33
Brian Atlas>> I do. Can you skip? >> Would you? But if >> I do I do date Asian guys. >> Just not him. He's not >> that one. >> Not good. Not good enough. All right.
03:24:44
FelicityOkay. That's cool. Uh, next. >> No. >> Oh, >> no. Thank you. >> I feel like that one looks the most realistic. >> Why does he have a unibrow? Look at that.
03:24:58
Sativa>> Oh, is it cuz you're >> trying to tell us something, Felicity? No, that's just shadow >> or Wait, >> it's not bad. The the beard one is is pretty good. All right. It's not, you
03:25:09
Brian Atlasknow, whatever. All right. It's okay. All right. There you go. All right. Next.
03:25:17
Brian AtlasI've seen this. I've seen this one. >> Uh, not the top, but I would date the bottom. Um, top's a little looks a little crazy. >> I like the top better than the bottom. >> No, I like the I like the top or the bottom.
03:25:29
Brian Atlas>> The AI is [ __ ] me up though all all the time. That's crazy. Um, sweet. Yeah, I would date her. >> Why'd your eyes just get darker and darker? >> Maybe it's like the color of his shirt on the bottom one.
03:25:41
Brian Atlas>> Anyways, wow, that's really cool. Um, >> well, it's dark outside. I honestly didn't even process that yet. >> Clocking the sun going down. I have no idea what time it is. >> Uh, to the women who are tens, can you
03:25:52
Brian Atlasguys name like maybe a celebrity or a famous person who you think is a 10? >> Um, male or female? >> Uh, we'll do
03:26:04
Brian Atlaslet's start with women, then we'll go back. We'll do men afterwards. Go ahead. >> Mia Kunz, Zenaia, >> can you tilt your mic down a little bit? Mila, Mila Kunis, and Zenaia. 10. Okay. What about you?
03:26:15
Bella (BB)>> Celebrities. >> I have nine. >> Sydney Sweeney. >> Sydney Sweeney. Okay. >> Sydney Sweeney. >> 10. Okay. What about you? >> Can we come back to me? I don't know that many celebrities I have name. I'm thinking. >> Can I name multiple?
03:26:29
Solo>> Sure. >> Um, Alicia Keys. >> Zena. >> Oh, I do have one. >> Mhm. >> Okay. >> Oh, Margot Robbie. >> Margot Robbie 10. Okay. Oh. Oh.
03:26:42
Brian Atlas>> Well, this is only for for the tens here. Only for the tens, you know. >> Tyler, >> so >> Oh my gosh, she's so bad. >> So, just to be clear, they're tens,
03:26:54
Brian Atlasyou're tens. You guys are saying that you're you don't obviously you look different, but you're just as attractive as these people who you listed. >> Come on. We already talked about this perspective.
03:27:07
Bella (BB)>> I actually perspective. Some people could say that I'm just as attractive as Tyler, but that's not common. I don't think like >> I think there are guys that say I'm just as attractive. >> I can't I can't generally say that I'm just as attractive as Tyler. What? >> Yeah.
03:27:20
Bella (BB)>> Member perspective. I think I'm a 10. I don't think everyone thinks I'm a 10, but I think Tyler's a 10. >> How about this? Name a guy who's a 10. >> Celebrity. >> Gary Brea. >> Who the
03:27:31
Lexi (Escort)>> exactly who the Look him up in the book. >> Who the [ __ ] is that guy? Go ahead. >> Name a guy who's a 10. Actor, musician. >> Mark Wahlberg.
03:27:42
Solo>> Mark Wahberg. Okay. All right. Mark Wahberg. All right. What about you? >> Young Will Smith. >> Young Will Smith. >> Younger Will Smith. >> Okay. >> I don't know. I don't do like like the guys.
03:27:55
Solo>> Well, this is the only guy I can think of. >> I can't Nothing. Nothing's popping. >> Yeah. Same. I don't watch movies ever. I got this. I got this. Who you got? Who you got? >> Oh. Um, the guy from Euphoria, what's his name?
03:28:08
Ava (Sushi)>> Oh my god. >> Jacob's name. No. Yeah, but what's his name? >> Jacob. >> Jacob Award. >> Jacob. >> Oh, yeah. Jacob. Jacob. >> Oh, he's so cute. >> Tristan from girls.
03:28:21
Bella (BB)>> No, but like really conventionally attractive guys. I Wait. Okay. Well, that's going to be a whole spiral. Never. Let me not say that. >> Wait, I have one. >> Oh my god. >> I have one. I don't know his name, dude. >> Tristan from Gilmore Girls.
03:28:33
Solo>> Tristan. Okay. No idea who that is. >> Who is that guy? >> Who's a 10 guy? >> Guy from girls. >> Michael B. Jordan. >> Michael B. Jordan. >> Patrick Steph Curry. Patrick D. >> Jason Mimoa.
03:28:44
Brian Atlas>> Jason Mimoa. Okay. What do I wait? No, this is just for the tens. All right. >> Wait. And then another one. Adam Sandler is a 10 in my eyes also. >> Love it for you. Love it for me. Slay queen.
03:28:55
Bella (BB)>> Yes. Spider-Man. >> Ooh. Which Spider-Man? Tom or the anime? the cartoon one. Love that guy. >> So, a question for you. All the the guys
03:29:05
Lexi (Escort)who are tens who you just listed, since you're 10, they're 10, could you get him? >> Could I get Adam Sandler? Perhaps. >> Oops.
03:29:17
Ava (Sushi)>> Okay. >> Mark Wahlberg. I like to think yes. Jacob Lordi. I'm convinced that he has to be gay because he's so like beautiful. But >> you could get him or if he was straight.
03:29:30
Ava (Sushi)I think I could get him. I don't think I could keep him. >> That's a great way to put it. >> Probably not a That's not really a W for for women. >> I'm just telling you. >> [ __ ] a guy once. That's not a W. >> Yeah. Well, I mean, okay. I think I
03:29:42
Bella (BB)could get him and keep him for a bit. >> Okay. Well, no. Okay. >> Jason Mohan. >> All right. Good. >> Okay. We'll get to you. All right. >> When you say get him, do you mean sleep
03:29:52
Bella (BB)with him or be with him? >> Long-term relationship. >> Lucky. No, low key, I don't think I could. I mean, if he Okay, I'm thinking about Will Smith right now. If he was
03:30:04
Solothe same age as me, >> Yeah. >> I think I could bag that. >> Okay. >> I think I could do that. >> I don't think so. Cuz I'm not his 10. Does that make sense? >> Oh, yeah. Same. >> I'm not.
03:30:17
Solo>> Okay. Jason Mamoa. Can you land Jason Mimoa? >> Oh, dude. Young Jason Mamoa. >> Well, yeah. He You think he's hot, but can you land him? >> Yeah. Yeah. I totally could. Same with
03:30:28
SoloPatrick Dempsey and most definitely Michael B. Jordan. If I was ever in a room with Michael B. Jordan. Oh my god, I'm flirting my ass off. >> I love Michael B. Jordan. >> Oh boy.
03:30:41
Bella (BB)>> You really don't understand. >> All right, we got some confident women at the table. >> Does everyone on the Sidemen YouTube channel count as celebrities? >> [ __ ] Uh, sure. >> I love every single one of them.
03:30:53
Bella (BB)>> There's just somebody you could name who >> and the beta squad. I watch them every day. >> You never seen that? >> No. >> They do like the challenges and stuff and they have the awesome accent. No, >> I don't know who that is. >> You don't know Aiden? She knows. Okay.
03:31:07
Brian Atlas>> I don't know any celebrities. I told you I don't watch movies. >> All right. Good times. Good times. Um, damn. Okay. I don't know, man.
03:31:15
Bella (BB)Why I'll ask the question again. Why don't average women want to date average men? >> What? >> Wait, I thought they do. Have you I don't even think you've asked us that yet.
03:31:28
Brian Atlas>> Why don't average women want to date average men? Who says they don't? >> Why don't average women want to date like average? >> I feel like they do. >> I feel like they >> I feel like they honestly do.
03:31:38
Brian Atlas>> Well, here. Let's Let's do it like this. Would you date an average guy? >> Yes. >> What does average like average looking? >> Average looking, average personality, average income. I feel like they would
03:31:51
Lexi (Escort)have to meet my average, if not more than that. Because if you're not meeting me where I'm at, I don't want your average. >> I have a personality. Hell no. Absolutely not. >> Wait, what do you mean? >> I'm not going to date someone with an average personality.
03:32:03
Solo>> So, you're you're saying your personality >> need amazing personality. >> Thank you. I And I agree with that. Yeah. She needs a lot. When you say you
03:32:14
Ava (Sushi)have an amazing personality, like what do you mean? Like you're funny. >> I don't know. Solo, can you attest to this? I I can't describe my own
03:32:23
Solopersonality. Ava is literally the most outgoing and like talkative and funny person I've ever met. And she needs a guy that does the same. Thank you. >> But so from the male perspective, I
03:32:35
Solodon't think men prioritize those personality traits. I get as friends you're like, >> "Yeah, but I don't care." Well, >> but she wants someone that'll make her feel how >> there's there's someone friends feel. You know,
03:32:48
Ava (Sushi)>> there are plenty of guys who do prioritize those traits. Okay, let me tell you. >> Prioritize humor, humor, and uh >> Yeah. >> Yes. >> Actually, yeah, there's lots of guys that like funny girls. >> Guys, generally speaking, don't care about a woman being funny.
03:33:00
Brian Atlas>> So, >> like it's really completely disagree and quiet. >> You got it. >> Okay. >> Yeah, >> that sucks. Not. >> Do you think men want women who are not
03:33:13
Brian Atlassweet and who are boisterous? >> I There are men who want me and I'm not sweet. I'm boisterous. >> Okay, >> I'm sweet, too. >> Look, this isn't when I'm when I'm throwing these things. >> No, I know. I'm just saying like there are a lot of men
03:33:26
Brian Atlas>> when I'm throwing these things out there. I'm not denying that like there's no man on the planet Earth that wants you. That's not the case I'm making. >> But you're referring to average men who like average girls. I'm not an average
03:33:39
Ava (Sushi)girl. Therefore, I don't like average men. >> So, >> average is going to be the majority. So, yeah, a lot of guys probably don't prefer >> me. >> So, but what about you is above average?
03:33:50
Ava (Sushi)>> I don't think that I'm above average. I just like I Well, okay. But that does average mean like average like like normal or does average mean like average amount of goodness? Cuz again, preference, personality. >> Everyone's average is different. So, I
03:34:04
Ava (Sushi)guess >> I'm so confused. Can you give me like a You're neither hot or average. >> It's all preference. Average to you. >> Yeah, that's what I But average like boring and normal or average like better
03:34:15
Ava (Sushi)cuz like I mean I don't know. I don't think I'm like better than everyone else. I just think that like I'm not like super normal. >> Okay. >> Can you repeat the question?
03:34:27
Brian Atlas>> See, it doesn't. >> Which one? The original one. It was Why don't average women want average men? Oh, I thought you Oh, I thought we were like doing the whole circle thing where we all answer it. >> Whoops.
03:34:39
Brian Atlas>> Well, I guess I'll explain kind of quickly why this rating question is asked and why I think it's important and why I think it's important for >> both men and women, but I think this manifests itself more so in women.
03:34:52
Bella (BB)Having a reasonable self assessment of your own attractiveness. >> So, >> I think that's >> just because a guy will dick you down doesn't mean he'll wife you up. >> Whoa. >> No, it's Well, true. >> So,
03:35:06
Brian Atlas>> that's very much it. >> Same thing with a girl, though. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Same thing with a girl. >> Some of my friends be sharking. >> Well, uh I would argue while it is the
03:35:19
Brian Atlascase, I'm not denying that this phenomenon happens in the reverse. I think it's way more often the case like if a woman is going to have a one night stand, that guy is going to at least be
03:35:29
Brian Atlasattractive enough she would be in a Hold on. Just let me finish. She she's going to be at he the guy is going to be at least attractive enough that she would be in a relationship with him on the
03:35:41
Brian Atlassole metric of looks. Now, often times though, you'll see a diff an even different thing. >> Relationship-minded women who otherwise wouldn't have hookups might break that rule if the guy is really [ __ ]
03:35:54
Brian Atlasgood-looking or really attractive. They might not otherwise really be into hookups, but he's so attractive it's it's overwhelming. She's seduced. whatever. Whereas for men, when men are
03:36:04
Brian Atlastrying to engage in casual sex, they go the opposite direction. A man will have casual sex with a woman that on the sole basis of her physical appearance, he would never be in a relationship with
03:36:15
Brian Atlasher because she just doesn't meet his baseline level of what he wants for a girlfriend in terms of her looks. >> Brian, I'd be doing that to guys all the time. >> You're also a prostitute.
03:36:26
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, but I just Yeah, but I'm also avoidant also, too. So, I So again, I'm not denying that women be slumbing it from time to time for some dick. No
03:36:37
Brian Atlasdenying it. Y'all be [ __ ] some weird dude. But again, sometimes what else is the Cuz okay, attraction isn't just about looks. There's other components, too. So are you just like
03:36:49
Brian Atlas>> it's like some of these bad looking dudes like they're also like terrible personality and whatever whatever. >> Like what makes me want to hit it and quit it and like never text them back? Is that the question? >> Sure.
03:37:01
Brian AtlasI don't know. Just the fact >> So you're just [ __ ] dudes with bad personalities. No. Who? >> So if I go out of my way to have sex >> girls with bad personalities that are also ugly. >> Yes. >> What would that have to >> If I'm I didn't say that. I think she said that.
03:37:14
SPEAKER_07>> Yeah, I know. >> Okay. So if I'm [ __ ] a guy and he's attractive and he's hot. I mean, I'm going to [ __ ] him, but I also don't want a relationship. So >> But you said he's attractive. >> Yeah.
03:37:27
Brian AtlasI'm not going to [ __ ] an ugly guy. >> Wait, hold on. You're literally making my point. >> Okay. >> You're literally making my point. My argument here is that for a woman to sleep with a guy, he typically has to be
03:37:40
Brian Atlasat least good-looking enough that she would be in a relationship with him. But men don't do that. A guy will sleep with a guy. I agree with you who's like he would be like just she could be amazing. She could be amazing, but just on the sole basis of her looks, he'd never be
03:37:53
Brian Atlasin a relationship with her. >> I don't think any of us are arguing. I agree. >> Right. But you don't have to argue. I'm sure you agree with this because this is a well document well is it documented
03:38:03
Brian Atlasit's a it's a phenomenon. Now the issue is though is when if a woman isn't aware of her own standing in like the social order or whatever she I know it's oh my
03:38:14
Brian Atlasgod he's explaining something to me that I disagree with. Oh my god I don't know you're rolling you're rolling your eyes and [ __ ] So I would
03:38:23
Brian Atlassay this because women have sexual act like for example if I step to a girl and that that's outside of my league. I'm
03:38:33
Brian Atlasnot she's never it's never considered in her brain well I'm not really that attracted to the guy but he's offering dick so I guess I'll [ __ ] him for the experience.
03:38:43
Brian AtlasNo. Like if I step to a girl in that's outside my league instant rejection. So men we get rejected on the front end. We get rejected up front. Y'all will get
03:38:55
Brian Atlasrejected on the back end where you're caught up in a situationship. Why won't he commit? He's a [ __ ] boy. All this stuff. Now, I'm not saying it's impossible for women to get into relationships. No. But what what I am saying is guys will keep you around.
03:39:08
Brian AtlasThey'll sleep with you once, twice, three times, situationship, friends with benefits, >> and on the sole basis of your looks, they're not going to give you commitment. You have at least that limited limited sexual access to men
03:39:19
Brian Atlasoutside of your league. whereas men don't get any access to women outside of their league. Instant rejection. Uh, you know, you could, this isn't a blame game, by the way. Like, I think it's stupid as [ __ ] for men to be sleeping
03:39:32
Brian Atlaswith women who they don't have a genuine romantic interest in, but that's sort of besides the point. This is an actual phenomenon that happen. And so what ends up happening is you'll have women who are dealing with a certain caliber of
03:39:43
Brian Atlasguy and you'll be chasing those dudes who will never give you commitment. And maybe they'll string you along. You'll be able to sleep with them. And then you'll look at the guys who are actually prepared to give you
03:39:55
Brian Atlascommitment, who may very well be on your level. You're not going to give them commitment. Maybe at when you're 30, it's time to settle down, but by that time, [ __ ] That's that's that's a bad
03:40:07
Brian Atlasscenario. So, I guess ultimately my point here is it's important to know where you stand because it's very easy as women for you to deal with really attractive men that
03:40:20
Brian Atlasare going to be jerks or mistreat you or not give you the commitment you're looking for. Now, don't get me wrong, I understand not all women are looking for commitment. I know some women maybe hold on
03:40:36
Brian Atlas>> some of them. Look, some of y'all want to [ __ ] around. Hey, whatever. Whatever. You know, no judgment. But >> that was wholesome. >> But I guess if I were to reframe it a little
03:40:46
Brian Atlasbit like this. Do you think imagine like the average looking dude, average above average looking dude? Let's just say he could he could constantly be getting
03:40:57
Brian Atlasattention from like really beautiful women, but those really beautiful women never wanted a relationship. They'd [ __ ] him once, twice, keep him around, like friends with benefits, never get get a
03:41:09
Brian Atlasrelationship, though. Do you think the averagel looking guy would then go and look at the average woman who's willing to be in a relationship with him and be like, "Yes, I'm gonna stop having sex with women who are way more beautiful than you and who are doing all these
03:41:22
Brian Atlasthings for me and be in a relationship with you." I don't think they would. But that's not the case, of course. But it is the case in the reverse for women.
03:41:35
Ava (Sushi)Okay, >> what are you trying to tell us? Are you trying to tell us that we need to >> that was lower ranking? >> I think >> cuz like you said you you started this whole conversation only the test. These questions are only for the test.
03:41:49
Ava (Sushi)>> You scoot your mic that way a little bit and >> I'm a little bit confused on like the point of >> Yeah. No. Well, the point is is that >> the point is he's telling us we're not tense. >> That we're not tense. >> I'm pretty sure that's what he's saying. >> I think he's telling us that we need to
03:42:01
Brian Atlasrealize that we're not tense. I think >> Well, if you're fine, look, I'll put it like this. It is a cautionary tale. If you're fine being used by really
03:42:10
Ava (Sushi)attractive men who have a bunch of being used, >> I mean, if >> it's a mutual benefician mutual >> Well, sure. I agree that >> also you don't know about my sex life on
03:42:22
Brian Atlasthese. >> Do you know about any of our sex lives? >> Maybe you're perfectly happy engaging in like casual sexual encounters. >> Never even told you I engage in casual sexual encounters. >> Well, that's fine. But what I'm saying
03:42:34
Brian Atlasis this is a phenomenon that happens where women who are >> once do have access to men above their league. The reverse isn't the case. So once it's like this and there's a
03:42:48
Brian Atlasthere's a whole bunch of ways I could break it down, but >> I think we understand what you're saying. It's more so why like how did this get brought? Like what's the end like what's the bottom line? Because if you It's fun and exciting to be with that really hot, attractive dude, but
03:43:00
Bella (BB)just realize if you want >> this advice. >> It's advice. It's >> If you'd like to take it as that, take it as that. >> I'm I just was like I like thought I was blanking for a second. I was like, "How did we get here? What's going on?" I know. Me, too.
03:43:13
Brian Atlas>> I'm just saying once you're used to a certain There's this psychological phenomenon. Once you're used to a certain caliber of experience, this extends to, for example, um you guys you
03:43:26
Brian Atlassome of you are roommates. Do you guys are you guys like live in a room together? >> Yeah, we live in the same room. >> Is it a double or triple? >> It's a double. >> Double. >> Okay. Do you have your own room where you live? >> I have not roommates with either of them. Same like area.
03:43:37
Brian Atlas>> But do you do you have It doesn't matter where, but do you have a roommate? Not a housemate. Roommate. Somebody who lives in your room. >> Yes, two. Triple. >> You have a triple. What about you? >> Yes, I have a double. >> Okay. Gotcha. So, this is a bit of
03:43:49
Brian Atlasanalogy here. Once you guys get out of college and then one day you guys are all going to be very successful career women, you're going to have your own snazzy apartment. You're living alone. You have your own kitchen. You have your
03:44:01
Brian Atlasown bathroom. Everything can be set how you want it. Once you've had that experience, it's going to be very difficult to go backwards to >> living
03:44:13
Brian Atlas>> living like once you've had your own bathroom. You've lived alone, had your own bathroom, it's really hard to go back to sharing a bathroom. Once you've had your own bedroom, it's really hard to go back to
03:44:26
Brian Atlashaving a [ __ ] triple. >> Yeah, I think I get what you just don't >> I just don't people do play comparisons when it comes to dating. So, it's like if the next guy you deal with doesn't
03:44:39
Brian Atlasmeasure up to another guy you've dealt with, perhaps on a more casual front, you're going to be like, "Damn, the sex was better with that guy. He was more attractive. He was XYZ. He he maybe you deal with a rich guy or a guy with
03:44:52
Brian Atlasstatus." Once you've had that experience, it's like you are going to whether upfront or not, you are going to be playing a comparison game. Like I would
03:45:02
Brian Atlassay if I was just running through uh like really hot well I guess I would be if if a bunch of really hot model chicks were running through me and then like but they won't give me commitment but
03:45:14
Brian Atlasnow I got to like settle for the settle for the average girl. I'm going to be like damn I'mma be less stoked. I'm not going to be as yolked.
03:45:27
Brian Atlas>> That was very millennial of you. >> Yolked. yolked. Who is this? >> Equally yolked. But uh anyways, >> see there's move on to the next topic. >> It's crickets cuz
03:45:40
Ava (Sushi)>> to each their Well, no. I mean, I'm just saying like I'm I'm trying I'm trying to like relate to the sit like to the situ. Sorry. I Yeah, >> you're good. >> I'm just Look, I guess my point is a lot
03:45:52
Brian Atlasof average women don't want the average guy. >> I I agree with that. A lot of average women don't want to date the average guy. And that's going to be a kind of a
03:46:03
Sativarecipe for disaster for on the on the individual level, but also I think society. >> Yeah. Plus, I feel like women women always want something better that than they are anyway.
03:46:17
Sativa>> Like >> I disagree. I mean, I'm not going to lie, even with my boyfriend, there's aspects of him that I definitely think are better than me in the sense that it's helped me grow. You know what I'm saying? >> I'm sure that there's parts of you that
03:46:28
SPEAKER_00are better than him, though, right? >> Okay, we have some chats coming through. >> Hanlands_razer_224 donated $200. >> Yo, thank you, man.
03:46:39
SPEAKER_00>> I do have a chill as I >> think. Everyone has given up on amps. I am not interested on breaking into women's apartments. Low key in love with chair though smoldering voice personality.
03:46:51
Ava (Sushi)>> Got to pay a handon razor. >> Hey, thank you. >> You got to send in another >> send another one but send it to directly to my Venmo. >> It's uh AVA.
03:47:05
Brian Atlas>> Uh anyways, so that's cool. So uh thank you for that. Handlland's razor. You uh you do have to send in another TTS as a syntax. We have more coming through though. Oh, did that not Wait, what the
03:47:17
SPEAKER_00heck? [Music] >> Hasty George donated $200 to all the female panelists on the podcast who are not tens but are fives.
03:47:28
SPEAKER_00Why do average women like yourselves not want average men? Why go after the above average men who will not keep or marry you? >> I don't remember any of us saying we wouldn't go for the average man. >> Oh yeah. Did I not ask the question? Did
03:47:41
Brian AtlasI not go around the table on that? What you did an average guy? No, you >> I don't think I did. Would you think >> No, you got to like date an average guy lookswise. Just >> Yeah. Yeah, I did stop at her. Would you date an average guy? >> Looks wise, yes. >> Yes.
03:47:53
Bella (BB)>> By my definition of average. >> Looks wise. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> I think that's why we were so con I was so confused cuz I think you asked them to and then went on the whole >> thing and I was like, what's happening right now?
03:48:07
Brian Atlas>> Word >> word >> word. But I do think that you know there we do have some data on this like for example on dating apps and most people are meeting online nowadays on the dating
03:48:18
Brian Atlasapps what you see happening is you have like the vast majority of women on dating apps are primarily matching with the top 10% of men and all like that top 10% of men they're sharing all those women. So
03:48:32
Brian Atlasyou'll have women who are dating these like top guys and they welcome it. It's like okay cool I have like seven girlfriends I've got 10 girlfriends. These women think they're dating these dudes or it's just casual whatever. And
03:48:42
Brian Atlasthen meanwhile you have the bottom like 70 80% of men they're not dating. And then the women who are not getting the commitment from the guys they want those women are frustrated. They don't want to
03:48:55
Brian Atlasbe situationship bouncing the situationship next situationship not getting commitment. I don't think women are satisfied with that. >> Brian. >> Yeah. Can we go to the text message I
03:49:05
Lexi (Escort)sent you like months ago when I was like the guy I had met with this dude? And then he gave me his number. We met at like a house party or whatever and I punched it in my phone just to realize
03:49:17
Lexi (Escort)that he's tried to be in contact with me in the past because he's messaged me for my services in the past. >> Um >> well you what does that have to do? Does
03:49:29
Lexi (Escort)it relate to the conversation at hand? Well, because it was like a, you know, I was at a party and I was getting introduced by all these people with like from my friends and stuff and then I go
03:49:42
Lexi (Escort)to get his number. He punches his number in my phone and then I look and I'm like, "Oh, we already had prior conversation logs." And something else that I've noticed with these dating apps
03:49:52
Lexi (Escort)are guys are contacting me on my business email being like, "Hey, saw your account on so and so and I would like to book you." And it's just weird because it's like, "Okay, you see
03:50:05
Lexi (Escort)my profile on Bumble or Hinge or whatever, and I just have photos of me linked to my Instagram, but then you're finding me off different sources and then you're messaging me saying that you found me on these platforms." So, it's like men aren't just using these
03:50:17
Lexi (Escort)platforms for dating either. They're doing the same thing like seeking women out on dating apps. You know what I mean? And I thought that was weird.
03:50:27
Lexi (Escort)>> What do you mean for prostitution? >> Well, yeah. It's weird cuz it's like I was a regular like I had a regular dating profile. >> What I'm sorry. What does this have to do with the conversation though? like
03:50:38
Brian Atlasthe Bumble and the Hinge and how like the interactions of dating on the dating apps and profile and tiesing tying it into like >> what are they doing? What are the men looking for? You're saying they're looking for escorts? I'm confused. >> Basically, like they're just looking for
03:50:51
Lexi (Escort)girls to have sex with. >> Okay, well that's different. >> On Tinder, I would genuinely say I agree. And it's just weird because like in the real life when I met this guy that was just trying to like have casual conversation or whatever, then they're like, >> "Okay,
03:51:04
Lexi (Escort)>> they're also trying to get your services, but not real >> realizing that >> that you're the same person, >> right?" And that's why I think it's so weird because it's like it it ties into again dating culture, hookup culture, whatever. Like these guys are on these apps, but then they're finding me professionally and being like, "Hey, I
03:51:17
Sativafound you on this app." And I'm like, "Whoa." Like >> it's kind of like in behind closed doors. They're not as genuine as they're trying to make themselves seem, >> right? I just thought that was weird.
03:51:28
SPEAKER_00Like a weird like, you know, >> pasty George donated $200. >> One, two, three, four, five, and eight are perfect examples of why Western
03:51:40
Kayla (Addiction)women or any women infected with feminism are not worth it. >> Just look at how they act and react to arguments. >> Neatards. >> Wow. I like to apply to that. I'm
03:51:50
Kayla (Addiction)actually am a feminist, but um so that's totally wrong. Um I actually this guy did a on dating apps.
03:51:59
Kayla (Addiction)>> Um this guy did a experiment where he went on Tinder and he was seeing how many how many women he could match with and how many dates he actually goes on.
03:52:10
Kayla (Addiction)Um, for me being a woman who date who dated both men and women, I find it it was extremely hard for me to find a mate on when I was looking for a woman on a
03:52:20
Kayla (Addiction)guy. I mean, two days within two days I get like 200 likes and I match with like 50 of those guys and maybe go on one or two dates if I were into that. For women, it's like maybe one match in like
03:52:32
Kayla (Addiction)four or five months. And even sometimes the conversation doesn't last. So, dating apps is really really bad for men. Um, they can never It's so harder for them. Much harder for them um than
03:52:44
Sativait would be for a woman for sure. I I don't know. It's kind of >> Yeah, women have dating on easy mode. I agree. >> Yeah. I And I would say like I think for >> men are just on No, when I've used
03:52:55
Sativadating apps when I've used dating apps, the problem wasn't getting a match or even going out on the date. It was kind of like >> how things progressed after, you know.
03:53:05
SativaBut my boyfriend now, like I said, that was kind of like super that was like No, actually some of the people that I've matched with, they definitely wanted relationships pretty quick or wanted to get serious pretty quick, but it didn't.
03:53:18
SativaI don't know. So, I think for women, it's probably easier dating. I don't know. So, and like if you want to be serious and a man wants that with you too, it kind of progresses really quick. So, >> I would say though a lot of the guys >> Hold on.
03:53:29
SPEAKER_00>> T donated $200. Society is hurting because men always want the prettier option. Studies show men are nicer to prettier women and after much rejection, the ugly duckling
03:53:40
Brian Atlasor plain Jane will run to plastic surgery/fillers. >> I was going >> nicer to prettier people regardless of your gender, intergender like that. >> I do agree with that. Yeah.
03:53:53
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, for sure. Pretty privilege is super real. >> The halo. >> Yeah, but this would be women are nicer. Well, I don't I I actually don't know if this is actually the case. I would say men are nicer to better looking men. Men
03:54:04
Sativaare nicer to better looking women. >> I are women nicer to better looking women. I don't know. Maybe there's like a competition thing there. >> I think I do. Hard to say. >> I think there's a competition thing because that's why women like people get
03:54:16
Brian Atlasplastic surgery. It's like a comparison thing a lot >> or feeling insecure and then wanting to make it better and >> we have basot average women want above average men because they are better than
03:54:27
Brian Atlasaverage men. It's not complicated. It's how our species ended up smart and strong. Women take the best mate they can. It is what it is. Uh, okay. So,
03:54:38
Kayla (Addiction)you're talking about hypergamy. >> That's absolutely not true. So, like you can be the hottest guy alive. I've dated, you know, quite a good-looking group of men before and they were all
03:54:50
Kayla (Addiction)homeless or criminal records. >> You [ __ ] a homeless guy? >> Yes, I have. Not not Okay, look look. >> What kind of homeless? He wasn't home like >> he wasn't on the street homeless. Like I was dating him. He got kicked out of his
03:55:02
Kayla (Addiction)parents' house. Okay. >> And then he was living on my mom's couch for a minute. That's what I mean by homeless. But yeah, not some guy on the No, but like that's not true. And then the richest men are really unattractive
03:55:14
Kayla (Addiction)but get the hottest girls like um freaking what's his name? Uh Playboy dude. Like you would you couldn't pay me a billion dollars to sleep with that man. But he's got like one of the most
03:55:25
Kayla (Addiction)baddest [ __ ] on his like did >> and it's just bizarre to me. So that's completely untrue. I wouldn't say better. No, not at all. I think geeks and those that are on that below standpoint would treat a woman much
03:55:38
Sativabetter to be honest. >> I guess it's like if you're going to maybe like looks, but again, I know I keep bringing up my boyfriend, but he's attractive, but a lot of the other
03:55:48
Sativaqualities he he has make makes him a little bit better than me. Not in a bad way. Yeah. Like it enhances him. So I definitely was super excited when he was interested too because he literally has
03:56:00
Brian Atlasa lot to offer and >> Oh, you mean better than us? Oh, I meant better in general. My bad. >> I guess the best way I could just encapsulate what I'm trying to convey here is attractive men will sleep with women they don't find commitment level
03:56:14
Brian Atlasattractive. >> Yeah, I agree. The woman now thinks that she is deserving of an attractive man of that caliber and she won't settle for someone who's perhaps her looks equivalent or looks level.
03:56:26
Brian Atlas>> She's not satisfied in relationships >> because she always thinks back to the attractive guy >> she had one night, two nights, three nights situationship >> and it creates resentment. It's just a
03:56:36
Brian Atlasbad really bad dynamic. It >> this pathway is open for for many many women. You can't say the same thing about men. The pathway for that is not open to men. You don't have average
03:56:48
Brian Atlasdudes who are getting like bombarded and ran through by like top tier guys or sorry top tier. Top tier women misspoke. Top tier women misspoke. Um >> I think they had money to help.
03:57:01
Brian Atlas>> We'll move we're going to move it off of the looks thing. I did want to get back. We have almost everybody here is single except for you. Uh so what does that actually mean though? I'm just curious. So, you've been single for two years, but do you have any guys in the picture
03:57:14
Lexi (Escort)currently? >> Um, yeah, I've actually been casually just talking to >> how many people you have like a roster or >> No. >> Oh, just one guy. >> Um, actually a girl. >> A girl. Okay.
03:57:26
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Dope. Uh, you've been single for two weeks. Have you had a rebound? >> To the mic, please. >> Your chair.