02:50:46Brian Atlasbut you don't live in California so you flew live in California oh wait you're in San Diego yeah I'm in San Diego oh okay right yeah and his sister was living in San all right yeah okay I see mhm but all the other times you went to
02:50:59Ashleysee him wherever he was or mhm because he can't with the military it's hard for him to like and you would like you would pay or would he pay for the flights I I would pay to go see him you would pay yeah yeah I was going to in Christmas I
02:51:11Eric (Osop)was going to drive tryina one day oh you think you made it extremely too easy for him you think so absolutely I like it when a girl makes it easy though you know I like I like that we like it but on the outside look it in I'm just saying if
02:51:23Eric (Osop)you wanted something serious with him if you're into the girl and she makes it easy yeah that's good right it is but you could take it for granted that way cuz it's like oh I got her you know what I'm saying she did want everything so it's like you know you got to make him
02:51:35Eric (Osop)work a little bit like you you pushed up on him you flew out the SIM you gave your body to him and he didn't give you no commitment yeah yeah did you like first time did you uh carnal knowledge
02:51:46Eric (Osop)when was our first time like first time you in person was there carnal knowledge yes okay it's okay A I'm just it's okay okay man B on what you based on what you
02:51:59Ashleywant out of life from what you're talking about that's just not the way to get it me I think because it took we were getting to know each other for 3 months and I couldn't like I wasn't physically with him and I didn't know when the last time the next time I was
02:52:11Eric (Osop)they were talking for three months beforehand based on what she wants out of life I'm not I'm not knocking out that happened to me before but I don't but she wants a husband and kids that's not the way to start I agree with you because now looking back I know I
02:52:23Eric (Osop)shouldn't have done that if you just want to have fun cool but if you want something long term I wouldn't suggest that I thought I was going to marry him I uh you also said that you're uh time it's okay yeah yeah you young you'll be all right wait are you still like I'm
02:52:35Ashleystill very much in love with him but I'm not waiting for him I just I like it's going to take me time in love with the wait question did you say the first time you met did you say I love you no it was
02:52:47Brian Atlasthe second time in August yeah how much so from the time you first messaged him it was uh wait May five months sorry let me do the math May June J four four
02:52:59Brian Atlasmonths four months there you go four months for an I love you yeah it's a little premature some people say it in like a month it's premature men say that
02:53:08Brian Atlas[ __ ] to make y'all think we're in love with you but he wait he said it first or you said it no I said it first you know what good for her she's a s i I like
02:53:20Eric (Osop)women I like fale and okay second time meeting in person I love you just have a big heart it's okay see when men but when men hear those
02:53:31Eric (Osop)scenarios it make them go see why should I be the nice guy when him doing whatever he wants to do got her head over heels for her cuz he ain't doing nothing and you in in Bliss you know
02:53:43Eric (Osop)what I'm saying so that's why guys hear that and be like why should I be the nice guy why should I have gentlem skills when obviously was good to me I just I know what he was doing he was good to you or he made you feel good that's two different things he was he
02:53:56Brian Atlaswas great he was my best friend I loved him very much I love him very much but does he love you like that well um I guess I don't know not enough prefer to be the uh women definitely prefer to be so there's like two Dynamics in a
02:54:08Brian Atlasrelationship I'll get you in in just a sec so there's the adored and the adorer and like if you can get the
02:54:16Brian Atlasperson like I think it does do it it feels better to be the adorer I think but you're putting yourself a bit
02:54:27Brian Atlasmore on the line like the you're the the adored is less invested in the relationship but the adorer you get you get more of what you want if that makes
02:54:40Brian Atlassense you mean the adore the one that's being adored no the the one it in different ways like so if you're the Ador ER the person who is giving the Adoration okay like you're like in
02:54:53Brian Atlasthere's an infatuation whereas the other person that's like you don't you're not that into them but like you got the Leverage The Ador always The Leverage you you have the leverage but also like
02:55:05Brian Atlasthe person you would be the adorer if you got the girl that you're really pining after or this could be the reverse right and so like there's there's kind of a
02:55:17Brian Atlasbenefit to both positions because the adorer is the one who's like whoa I'm getting the like I don't know they're having the more like romantic experience yeah whoever's doing a pursuing the
02:55:30Eric (Osop)other person has the leverage that's why you got to it's like they say ain't nothing like when you love somebody somebody love you back true you got to have that reciprocation you cannot be whoever's always in Pursuit mode you're going to stay in Pursuit mode it have
02:55:42Brian Atlasyou have to meet the person halfway uh one sec wrath yo thank you for the gifted 20 Subs on Twitch man really appreciate you had something go ahead you mentioned that he posted a girl is
02:55:51Ashleyhe still with her um I got blocked and everything cuz that that day I saw that he had um you got what did you do I didn't do what did you do he blocked you
02:56:03Ashleylisten I you did something listen the day I saw I got back from a concert and me and him like the artist a lot and so I was very emotional and unhinged and so I sent him
02:56:15Ashleya very long voice message but it wasn't like a hateful one I was crying I was sad I was literally hard like it broke my heart and the next day I got a text from his new girlfriend basically
02:56:26Ashleytelling me to f off oh my God and we're in like not a nice way so wait you were the you were the sign you know he did all that right you think he I don't think no she
02:56:38Ashleysaid did you text did you text him or was it just a voice memo no it was just a voice message cuz I did that to him often like I always send him voice messages like right when I go to sleep or something so I just sent him one and
02:56:50Ashleyum it was right when I saw it was literally the night that I saw that he had a girlfriend and then I heard from her the next day and she basically told me like that if I ever uh she's like if I ever reach out again she was basically like she threatened to like I don't know
02:57:03Brian Atlasdo something to me he's behind all this my girl so hold on hold on so uh did he say I love you
02:57:11Bangs (Anai)back no oh bro wait you're from San Diego and he's from where like he's from that California I don't want to say where he's from but he's from upstate so
02:57:22Eric (Osop)like more like 7 hours away California I'm not sure I think he's really probably your aesthetic type and he just got deep deep in your mind no I think we just friends died you wouldn't do that
02:57:35Eric (Osop)to your friend though I think she's dickmatized I know I guess it just let shorty text you that was she couldn't do that without his green without the green light damn I mean I don't know I also feel like if he did love you that much
02:57:47Daviaor he did care for you he wouldn't allow his new girl to talk to me like that exactly greened the whole wait what I would have said the same thing that girlfriend would because you you you knew he had a girlfriend and you ack you
02:57:59Daviaacknowledged that and you still went behind her back and did said that me you sent that memo like out of respect I don't agree with you but out of respect I would have said the same but if he was really her friend he would have responded but they were not friends they
02:58:11Daviawere [ __ ] like that's that's boundaries crossed like that boundary has crossed you're no long that can be your friend but you also [ __ ] him you're his ex-girlfriend or Partnership of course his girl is going to feel some type of way you sending him a crying
02:58:22Ashleymemo saying whatever you said like yeah I would have done the same thing she did I don't agree I think that I think she was kind of immature the way she handled it I think she had no idea anything that happened obviously he didn't tell her was y'all still dealing with each other
02:58:35Ashleyaround this time me yeah he never told me there was anybody in the picture not see that's different see she he ain't tell her the truth so she ain't really know I get what you saying because if he did I would have backed up 100% And I would have told him like I respect you because I loved him he literally posted
02:58:47Bangs (Anai)her also he should have reot you not the girlfriend I agree I mean like still has some typ you I just think that if she still has like some type you know like
02:58:59Eric (Osop)situation with him he does owe her like some type of explanation to an extent you know like she said though when the writing is on the wall you got to you can't ignore it cuz now you playing yourself you know what I'm saying if he
02:59:12Eric (Osop)posting a woman he's he wants you to see her so he kind of playing with you you know what I'm saying so you got to have more belief in yourself you cuz sometimes I've been with women and they had did something funny and in my heart of hearts I still like them but I ain't tell them that it's like you got to
02:59:24Bangs (Anai)stand on principles sometime like I like you but you're not about to play my face God he he knew that you were going to see that that's he did that toing that's kind of crazy that was kind of me it doesn't matter you guys don't know until you're in that situation and
02:59:36Brian AtlasI completely feel you like you know like it's okay all right moving on you said that you're a a Christian with pretty Traditional Values and Views uh you disagree with the way modern dating is
02:59:48Brian Atlasis today uh typically you stand with the Republican view on things so I disagree with things like abortion the trans movement that's being pushed um what
02:59:58Brian Atlaswhat's denomination of Christian are you um I would say non denominational Protestant or no just non- denominational do you go to church I do
03:00:09Brian Atlasgo to church does it have a denomination no we don't have a domination um you said that you would like to you would love to talk about the feminist movement and how it's being pushed and how women are trying to be superior as well as you
03:00:22Brian Atlasalready mentioned that um how that's being forced on people uh you find those topics extremely interesting uh so what about the feminist movement uh what are your disagreements
03:00:33Ashleythere um just like the hating on men kind of situation that's been going around kind of like women [ __ ] on men all the time M and uh just kind of that I feel like that's always brought up in your podcast
03:00:47Ashleybut yeah yeah anything else or no sorry I'm sad now we were talking about yeah you guys we were being mean to her no I don't care I just still
03:00:58Bangs (Anai)makes me sad but it's okay I was being supportive I just feel like nobody can judge until you're in that situation she was dickmatized I mean that's just it's okay to be dickmatized who cares it's
03:01:08Bangs (Anai)okay to be dickmatized by until they do [ __ ] like that to you it is worthy of the dickmatization diation we've all been in a situ where we've all been like Head Over Heels over somebody and done
03:01:21Brian Atlassomething to like reach out to them in some way to which great everyone's only Head Over Heels like the person that doesn't want back ain't that ain't that
03:01:31Brian Atlasunfortunate um let's see and then uh going finishing off with you Ashley you have uh you you said I think this isn't necessarily the most controversial but since I was young
03:01:43Brian AtlasI've always wanted to be a mom and live the stay-at-home life I hold a lot of what people would call Old School values and standards which is kind of the opposite way that the world is moving with the whole push on feminism I think
03:01:55Brian AtlasSociety should push women to stay home and let the men husbands provide and we should go back to basic gender roles because I believe Society functioned better as a whole that way do you want anything to add on that or no I agree
03:02:08Brian Atlaswith that still so you want to be like stay-at home wife how many kids do you want uh three or four three or four okay you got to pump those up those are rookie numbers go you got we can I'm
03:02:20Brian Atlasgoing for 10 you know okay uh kind of going along with my answer to the second question that's more the same thing that I think I added to that for therefore okay yeah yeah we already got that one
03:02:31Brian Atlasall right we have dated him straight for two years for almost two years yeah no breaks okay there were like many times where I try to break up with
03:02:42Carissahim but oh go ahead but yeah we I we didn't really go through those breakups when I would
03:02:53Carissatry to break up with him cuz I would just be easily like like manul manipulated or convinced like oh like yeah he'll change and then he changes for like 2 weeks and then it
03:03:05Carissajust stops what would be the reasons for the breakup like the attempted breakups like he wouldn't make me his first priority or he would just like put like his friends that are like girls like
03:03:17Carissaover my feeling ings like I remember like this one time he had a trip to Vegas and I didn't like get to really talk to him like like all day that day or like
03:03:27Carissareally so I wanted to talk to my boyfriend cuz I miss him and um no hate towards this girl I'm
03:03:37Carissafriends with her now but she went to him cuz they used to be like really good friends before and he like was just on call with her for like 5 hours just like
03:03:49Carissatrying to make her feel better and I'm here spamming him and calling him like saying like like this is so messed up like didn't get to talk to you all day today and he's just like not answering me and
03:04:02Brian AtlasI don't know it's just like a long story okay um so the there have been attempts to end the relationship by you many yeah many
03:04:13Carissamany throughout the course of the two years yeah and he's like no no no I'll change but he doesn't he he changes for
03:04:23Carissalike two weeks and then he just like stops and it was just like frustrating cuz like I loved him so much
03:04:32Carissaand like I don't know I feel like I don't know so okay but then two months ago there was like an official
03:04:44Brian Atlasbreakup have you seen him in person since then like twice after that what was the nature of these meetings well he just wanted to talk
03:04:53Carissathings out did you guys hook up yeah okay um H and
03:05:04Carissauh I don't know just most of it it's just like when like we were talking about it like yeah we hooked up but we actually did talk and I was just like crying to him cuz I felt like everything
03:05:15Carissawas just so unfair because he's finally like changing or I'm being there for him while he's like upset and like crying to me he's like crying to me and what's he crying about
03:05:28Carissato like get me back yeah and he's like okay I'll change and everything and I'm just like but where were you when I actually was begging for you to change when like I was actually with you and actually
03:05:41Carissatrying and now that I'm actually giving up and not trying anymore you like want to try and it was just like so upsetting and it just like made me like cry so much and I was like crying out of anger because every single relationship I have
03:05:53Carissabeen in like the first one I got cheated on with like he cheated on me with like two other girls second one I lost my virginity to him and he just like left me after that and this one there's that
03:06:03Carissaso I feel like I don't know I just like it just makes me upset how I'm never with the right guy like not the right guy but like or like the right guy I don't know it was just it's just
03:06:15Brian Atlasfrustrating to deal with so it's like you stop trying and then he was like oh I'm actually losing her let me like try yeah but that's going to end and he's
03:06:27Carissalike yeah I'll change I'll change I'll change and I just don't believe him cuz he would say that like over and over during a relationship they all like rock music like you did he like yeah did he
03:06:36Carissalike the the death tones he liked de tones but he like Dev tones a little bit but I think I put him on songs more but
03:06:45Eric (Osop)I think his number one or rap person is Yeet you say his number one what he likes Yeet like who the [ __ ] is that guy yeah I never heard of him Tik Tok rapper
03:06:56Carissa[ __ ] is Tik Tok rapper he likes or he just yo my name is ye or like Playboy cardi or oh God he's one of
03:07:06Brian Atlasthose guys that's why work exactly the type of man he is are you are you Mexican I'm Filipino and Mexican half okay 50/50 yeah okay huh
03:07:19Brian Atlasokay so you saw him in person house long ago how long ago like two days ago 3 days ago no this like a month ago oh
03:07:29Brian Atlasokay yeah yeah or wait you know with the breakup [ __ ] like that has to be I mean it's it has to be cold turkey like you
03:07:40Carissayou can't keep talking to the person but is he he he's blowing you up okay okay he's not
03:07:49Carissablowing up anymore but at first it was like crazy where he would just Spam calling me like when he knew I was out at like a party or something yeah how many times did he spam call you the
03:08:00Brian Atlasnumbers like on each app like like 100 times spam call okay not like like 30 20 like 60 total alog together that's a
03:08:10Brian Atlaslittle crazy they're right there um damn man uh so is it is it over over though it's over really yeah I don't I don't find attraction to this man anymore cuz of
03:08:23Carissalike of all the problems he's done just made me it just made me less attracted to him each single time and it sure okay yeah uh let's see moving on to your
03:08:33Brian Atlasother notes you said uh you said I feel like once you see your partner follow an only fans model or a girl from town who
03:08:41Brian Atlaspost a lot of their body makes uh makes the girl the girl insecure okay okay uh and then you said vice versa women shouldn't be following so much men who show off their bodies I just feel like
03:08:53Brian Atlasit's weird uh social media affects a lot of relationships today and in general makes us believe things and doubt ourselves in our looks don't you think the fair proposition would be though uh
03:09:05Brian Atlasif you want a man to stop and I agree with you men shouldn't be like following these IG thoughts and O girls and just any girl in general uh especially if they're in a relationship I think the
03:09:16Brian Atlasfair proposition on the female part would be you guys got to stop posting revealing photos would that be a fair proposition so you're like hey I don't want you my
03:09:28Brian Atlasboyfriend to post or sorry not to post I don't want you liking other girls Instagram photos whatever I think the fair proposition is then you the girlfriend you can't post
03:09:40Michellerevealing photos on Instagram Fair proposition or is that controlling I don't know I disagree I think I think it's fair I think it's fair can you uh
03:09:53Michellescoot your mic to Ed of the table I think it's fair fair yeah you think that's fair I think it's fair yeah makes sense I don't know she doesn't she disagrees no I don't have any revealing photos on my freaking Instagram I know
03:10:04Daviawe I don't know you could go look at my Instagram I have nothing revealing on my Instagram and I still disagree so why you don't why you disagree you don't even do it because I don't I just I disagree because if your man it like okay
03:10:17Daviayour your man can post gym photos with his shirt off and his abs popping out but you can't post a bikini picture but that has no right for like okay like again I am not looking I am not following anyone with his abs popping
03:10:30Daviaout and all that stuff I'm not following him but why can't you f girls that have bikinis on like bikini pictures on I'm not liking Guy naked guys' photos I mean
03:10:40Brian Atlasan argument could be made that it could be one for one so both of you can't be liking and following the opposite sex and an argument could potentially be made but
03:10:52Daviawe have an agreement where yeah my boyfriend can post his workout half anything or just Mexican full full full Mexican yeah you got brother the best of Worlds brother half asian half Mexican
03:11:03DaviaWell I got cousins they're short bangs what you got you you got a brother no only sisters you Spanish too yeah I'm Mexican
03:11:15Brian AtlasI'm Mexican dang I wish I was an only child I have siblings you good my are you looking at me because of my eye I have 12 siblings
03:11:24Bangs (Anai)somebody what you okay wait yeah I know fix it yeah I'm okay my my contact oh yeah yeah I fell as asleep with my contact that happens to me too yeah it's been watering for a bit you need ey drops okay if you have any that
03:11:38Unknownwould be great next time I'm up I'll I'll I'll get you wet drops I'll get you is it the lubricant um you waiting for contacts oh the one for contacts yeah that's actually great oh [ __ ] oh wow
03:11:47Brian Atlassounds ER with the hook up I'll be back problem uh okay I think we're back uh can you fix yeah go forward uh okay moving on with the notes here sorry guys
03:11:59Brian Atlasinternet's cutting in cutting out I think we're back uh scuffed as usual uh fix that get OBS back up uh okay moving
03:12:08Brian Atlason with the notes um uh your ex made you think you were crazy because of his action that made
03:12:18Brian Atlasyou the way you were yes gaslighting so gas are you saying gaslighting yeah so he
03:12:28Carissawould uh the way you acted was his fault yes like At first okay at first I'm just like okay whatever like go do it and I
03:12:39Carissajust have like a little feeling about it but I wouldn't like bother to do anything about it but he just kept adding more and more and more on to that problem and it just made me like go
03:12:50Brian Atlascrazy okay uh and then uh can you give us like an example of one of these times
03:13:00Brian Atlasum honestly okay um also I have a homework assignment for you like right now I guess it's not homework can you read the first three pages of that book
03:13:11Carissayeah just right now out loud yeah out loud please okay first three pages first three pages yeah oh she's turning it to the camera too
03:13:19Carissathat's very I work with kids sorry that that's boom second nature go ahead um oh
03:13:27Carissathe first I thought okay I am Sam the first three pages for yeah um I am
03:13:37Brian AtlasSam hello I am Sam oh Sam I Am what wait keep okay how about five pages just keep
03:13:47Carissagoing keep going I'm scared audio we're having audio issues apparently SC Sam I Am Sam I Am I do not like that's Sam I
03:13:58CarissaAm hello damn this book sucks man do you like green eggs and ham I do not like them samam I do not like green eggs and ham I don't get it I'm
03:14:10Brian Atlasscared what's going on all right here I'll take it back that was good that was really good can we get W's in the chat for Carissa can we get some donuts racing around
03:14:22Brian Atlasherea Sissa in the chat W's in the chat for her great great reading proud of you well done uh let's see you said you ask
03:14:31Brian Atlasme a question yeah it was oh like what did he do what did he do like what's a situation he was ask yeah just one quick example sorry guys example of what sorry I forgot where we were like gaslighting
03:14:43Carissawhen he was gaslighting you and you crashed out oh okay so there is this there's this girl and she used to like have a little crush on him but he was just like oh she's just a friend and she
03:14:54Carissajust like randomly textes him here and there and I'm like I just don't I didn't want him to answer her or if he wanted to answer her like okay like you can answer her but then he just wanted to continue the conversation and like just
03:15:05Carissabe like oh and also he's a big people pleaser and he admitted that himself so he was just a big people pleaser he would just always put these girls feelings over mine and I'm over here
03:15:16Carissalike crying and yelling at him saying don't answer them just react to their message or something
03:15:26Brian Atlasyeah okay so jealousy type [ __ ] guess yeah okay you said that uh hot takes definitely when he has good hygiene yes
03:15:36Brian Atlasand is confident yes okay uh but not enough where he's like cocky [ __ ] and then you said you wanted to talk about if religious people are okay with dating non-religious people are you religious
03:15:48CarissaI'm what what do you call it like lukewarm huh what's it called lukewarm lukewarm you're lukewarm religious Catholic I'm Catholic you're you're a lukewarm Catholic yeah okay are you
03:15:59CarissaCatholic too okay also did you guys go to church um yeah I have a comment sure um I forgot she's like famous I think
03:16:09Carissawhat is she is it sh no not shotti Bay is it gorlock or something oh yeah you want to date her no no I can set you up like no thanks not she's Mexican I feel
03:16:21Carissalike that's your type no um you don't date what never mind go ahead um what's your question for gorlock your no it was just in that podcast it was your friend that like sat next to you right there yeah he kind of like pissed me off and
03:16:34Carissagave me like okay so I have a friend who's Christian yeah and um he made a bit a good comment where like a lot of Christians go to hell and he was like
03:16:44Carissathe perfect example for that okay the GU who's sitting next to me yeah because what did he say that offended you like everything like yeah but what specifically well he would just make a
03:16:56Bangs (Anai)lot of comments on like girls like like the way they look and he did yeah what did he say I forgot but was it the born again virgin is that who it was Chase I don't know if you've been on the show no but I know who you're talking about what
03:17:09Carissayeah but you're going to have to give like what did he actually say well he would just make fun of like I Judes I don't remember he was just judging a lot yeah it says yeah but what's wrong with judging cuz it says no I know nothing's
03:17:21Carissawrong with judging it's just that if you're going to say you're Christian can you can at least act like one and okay yeah but what did so what did you do specifically that he would just make I don't know I don't remember yeah but I
03:17:32Brian Atlasmean like even uh you're for Christians you're allowed to judge righteously yeah but in a respectful way he wasn't resp God can judge Chase I don't recall all the details of that
03:17:44Brian Atlasepisode but respectful Chase is pretty respectful I mean you I don't know you heard but our other male guest I guess just kidding just kidding
03:17:53CarissaI don't know he was just it's his T was it his tone I don't know was I don't remember I watched what did he say what did he say I don't remember okay that's fine if you if it comes to you let me
03:18:04Eric (Osop)know why do yall do that y'all always bring up something somebody did but you can never tell us what actually they did I guess sorry I just felt it's like yeah it's like I felt like you said it ain't what the man said
03:18:17Bangs (Anai)it's what it felt like he said like the way it made me feel yeah like it's like okay you can forgive but you won't I mean or you can forget you won't forget but just because somebody just because you felt like somebody said something
03:18:30Eric (Osop)that don't mean that's what they say yeah that is completely real like but it's hard to it's hard for a man to assess that it's like I never said that sweetheart you going by something that felt like what I said but I didn't say that there's a lot of people I don't
03:18:41Eric (Osop)like that I have good reasons for and I just can't remember the reasons but I know we don't that's why we understand y'all cuz that don't make no damn sense the hell word we tell you like this why I'm mad cuz you did this Shorty like y'
03:18:55Brian Atlasalways say I don't know what you did but you did it like what well in my women's intuition oh there what what women's intu what is that what is women's
03:19:05Brian Atlasintuition an excuse to act a fool if if women had this like amazing intuition we do how do y'all keep picking the worst
03:19:14Brian Atlas[ __ ] meno ever CU where's that female intuition before y'all end up cuz they switch up no you would have had the intuition I had where's the intuition
03:19:26Bangs (Anai)okay well we're not psychics okay we have intuition okay you have emotions we're not looking into the future saying oh yeah in like 5 years he's going to cheat on me or 5 years he's going to like no you can see that [ __ ] no we
03:19:38Brian Atlascanot we're not psychic tattoo that [ __ ] he's going to moment in the moment we definitely do have intuition the the face tattoo and the SoundCloud rapper Who's going to be loyal to me who's the [ __ ] guy you
03:19:51Brian Atlashave a crush on who's the guy you got a crush on no I don't like him anymore okay fair enough fair enough all right I don't like him anymore um I don't know he's blasted in tattoos and is a drug addict yo Dar cavia where you at bro come back here oh no that was your
03:20:04Brian Atlasfriend who was dating all the drug addicts Millen yeah okay never mind what's her name Millen Melena yeah some interesting names yeah I I want to name our do our
03:20:18Brian Atlasdaughter lvia how do you feel about that your and her daughter she's going to be lvia but you and her are going to have a kid that me and her are going to have okay liia I
03:20:30Brian Atlasthink she like I think she likes you bro hey what you hey put that hey get the get the phone out of here get it out of here I'm so sorry get back over there yep see how submissive by the way W's in
03:20:40Brian Atlasthe chat I totally I've already uh got her training wheels on can I add to that submiss w w patriarchy W submissive yeah but I thought you said you wanted to like p no I could be a submissive I just
03:20:53Brian AtlasBas a p on the guy oh you what you pissed on the dude's face what no the [ __ ] I said it's based on the guy I think she like you B well we have a boy we can name it dark
03:21:04Brian Atlascavian can we dark that sounds like a a super villain or something dark cavan dark cavian junior davia junior that sound can can a girl be a junior I think so what do you mean a junior like if I
03:21:16Brian Atlaswas dating a chick and like you know how like there's Brian junor can of there's no female world for junior junior I you know what I kind of want if we do have a
03:21:26Brian Atlasdaughter I want to name my daughter the same name as my wife so that it's I can call her her junior junior like what's like I don't
03:21:39Brian Atlasknow if I was if I was married to a girl named Emily uhhuh and we had a kid it would be like Emily Jr EJ why EJ because girls never get named
03:21:49Bangs (Anai)Junior but I feel like we got to start that [ __ ] I know I think I think I like I like like names that are good for boy both boys and girls you know names they made the like I think they're cute I
03:22:01Daviamade I met someone with like a female with a junior like first name Junior like but they met the junior her middle name that's beautiful some people blend names of two people and making one name
03:22:12Brian Atlasname after the father and and mother yeah uh we have Elsie okay we got your notes here we're going to get into or actually really quick I mean you last note for you you
03:22:24Brian Atlassaid you want to talk about hookup culture and why it's so praised yeah are you a do you do hookup culture or no no rebound since
03:22:36Brian Atlasyou're last guy no he he kind of was your rebound like you broke up and then y'all no you know okay good talk uh
03:22:47Bangs (Anai)some guy tried biting you oh biting biting girl what what what what the [ __ ] what happened Elsie he bit you like
03:22:59Brian Atlasdown there no my God what the [ __ ] what are you getting into I don't know you you just hey you left it vague so I some guy tried biting you yeah cuz I was going to explain it on here but
03:23:09Elsiebasically um I met this guy at the gym yeah and he wanted to go on a date with me so our first date it was at the gym whatever it was like
03:23:19Elsiecool and so he asked to take me on another date and I was like okay sure so he was driving and he tried like getting my hand and like nibbling at it what the
03:23:31Elsie[ __ ] that's how I've had someone do that to me too yeah and so I was just like what were your hands clean well yeah but I don't think that was his concern like why are you the last time you washed your hands I wash my hands every lit
03:23:44Brian Atlasthat doesn't have anything to do with but I mean like you got into the car so like he was trying to bite your left or your right hand well he was because if it touched the door handle and then you were touching your phone like well how
03:23:56Brian Atlasoften do you sanitize your phone right oh well if I'm on a DAT my phone gu does not have good hygiene okay you don't bite a girl's hand if she hasn't put their mouth more plac people had a guy
03:24:06Davialike have like a like have like the they he likes to bite like my arm like he would go like just kind go like that and I like what the [ __ ] no and it didn't just occur once it happened multiple times he would okay so after that
03:24:18Elsiehappened I was just like like I wasn't trying to be rude to the guy cuz like what if he's like what if that's his way of getting love you be rude and stuff for instances like that nice I didn't want to be rude to them man I somebody
03:24:30Brian Atlaswho putting their hand their mouth on your hand you could be rude thinken lot of girls are not like if they like the guy they're not going to be like uh confrontation why I didn't really like him that's he's ugly than sexual harassment oh I wasn't even going you
03:24:44Eric (Osop)know that's that's you hav seen that meem when they got the two guys is handsome one is not it's like when he says hey what's up mama it's attractive but then when he's not attractive it's like yeah the I mean the only difference
03:24:54Brian Atlaswhen it comes to that is basically like whether something is flirting or sexual harassment is like is she attracted to the guy is that true ladies like a guy who you attracted to could do something
03:25:06Michellethat a guy who you're not attracted to could do yeah I get creepy versus flirting but also it's like are you touching me first time at you're a stranger coming up to me in your body language is it like are you touching me without my permission then I would yeah
03:25:19Bangs (Anai)first initial I don't know you from can of paint absolutely yeah cuz i' first date no I've had guys that are like very very attractive be like complete weird it was like way like so overly like you just beat the worst guys no no no
03:25:32Brian Atlasthey're just like really like overly like sexual and it's just like a turn off you know too sexual there's stuff across the board that's inappropriate but like there is
03:25:43Brian Atlaslike the same exact thing that in one guy you'll like deem as creepy you'll be like oh really hot or like flirting he's attractive no but I just said that there can be situations like yeah that's but I
03:25:55Elsiealready yeah um so he tried to bite you multiple times yeah so that was the first time it happened and I was like going to let it slide cuz I thought it was just a one time occurrence I was like okay like like he bit you hard or was it like just a tiny little no I he
03:26:08Elsiewas like trying to do it playfully or like cute I don't know I didn't like it so I was just like did did it hurt no but I didn't like it you didn't like no so then this other time we were hanging out with his friends and then I'm
03:26:21Elsiewalking in front of one of his friends and then he's in back of me with another one of his friends M and then he's like oh like should I buy her should I buy
03:26:28Elsieher and I look back I'm like excuse me his friend said that no like he told exactly word he told that to his friends he was like oh like should I buy her and
03:26:41ElsieI was like what like he said it really loud so obviously he wasn't trying to be like quiet about it I was I was like what he's like oh nothing hahaa and then he said it again I was like don't be biting me like did did the other guys
03:26:52Brian Atlaswere they also biters I don't think so cuz the friend was like bro what so I was like it's weird yeah probably how long did you how long
03:27:02Bangs (Anai)did you date this guy um for a week I'd say I went on like four or five dates with him but if he was like a cannibal
03:27:12Brian Atlasheal B where did you meet him at the gym wasn't there like that one celebrity you know mean what was his
03:27:22Bangs (Anai)name oh Army Hammer I don't remember Army Hammer cannibal fetish he said he wanted to eat up a girl her legs ored
03:27:32Brian Atlasallegedly they ruined his career over it though kind of [ __ ] up but um it was all consensual cannibal consensual biting consensual cannibalism it was like he
03:27:44Brian Atlashad a fetish or a can or something thing and I mean this guy was like gigachad [ __ ] aess celebrity and they outed him and pretty much I can see how need to find out the fetish of most men we
03:27:56Bangs (Anai)did the one last time I would like most fetish probably large laas to be honest like big La matter wow it's true like it's it's normal to like I guess matter to say like oh I'm going to eat you up
03:28:08Brian Atlaslike you're so cute you know but like he took it for like he was a little graphic and detailed going back to you uh you said when you're talking to someone you
03:28:18Elsieshouldn't be focusing on anybody else I agree yeah I agree in a talking stage yeah I feel like if you're talking to someone you're trying to date them you're trying to be with them you're trying to be their partner so I just
03:28:29Elsiefind it unreasonable if you're talking to that person and then also trying to pursue other relationships that's just me okay sure um and then you said uh men need to act
03:28:41Elsielike men and we talked about that a bit yeah going back to opening the doors I like that okay should women act like women yeah what does that I feel like if you're asking men to act like men women should also act like women so like part
03:28:53Elsieof that is like I don't know for me it's like I don't want to be gross or anything so like part of that like I don't like to burp loudly sure anything else so just the burping or anything
03:29:05Brian Atlaselse also acting feminine acting feminine yeah okay what does that mean like don't be screaming that's just me okay sure that's fair anything else like what are you asking
03:29:16Elsieno I'm just asking you I think yeah that's like the basis of it any other girls want to weigh in on that what does I am not feminine I guess how should women act like women no I mean you could
03:29:28Brian Atlasbe feminine and still like not do those things yeah I mean like yeah like L what do you think about this tell me if you agree with any of these being submissive not going out to parties when you're in
03:29:39Elsiea relationship or well well regardless of if I'm in a relationship or not like I'm going still go to parties so what if your boyfriend says I don't want you going out to parties you're coming with me hold on yeah that's a solution yeah
03:29:52Brian Atlasthey could come with you he doesn't like to he says I I'll FaceTime you no he says we have to compromise what do you mean what's the compromise I could FaceTime that's not a compromise yeah you're coming with me to the party you not going to be on the phone all night
03:30:05Eric (Osop)that's not going to or i' have to also find out what's the reason behind them not wanting me to go party like sure I'll give you a couple I'll give you a couple unless it sounded like you wanted to jump I mean we I would say the environment you know what I'm saying because you know anything can happen to
03:30:18Eric (Osop)you people are drunk they under the influence and you can put yourself in a position or one of your friends could put yourself in a position where y'all might get into altercation and now you've put yourself In Harm's Way and your man is not there to defend you so
03:30:29Eric (Osop)it's like that's one of many reasons the type of guys that's there you know The Thirst is real strong so it's like most people that's going out to the club especially your age they going out for one thing so if your man don't want you to go it's not necessarily because he
03:30:43Elsiedon't trust you he don't trust the environment and I get that but also if I go out I don't ALS I also don't go out that much and if I do go out it's with a big group of girls so we're all protecting each other so I don't feel
03:30:54Eric (Osop)like I'm putting myself in har but y'all got that friend though y'all got that single friend come on girl they got drinks let's go you know that girl no I'm 18 I can't drink you said you can't
03:31:06Brian Atlasdrink I can't drink so you don't even need to be there no way stop you think that stops all the 18 19 and 20y olds at UCSB that's them yeah but you go to CSP
03:31:16Brian Atlasright yeah but I can't comment on their behavior so you don't drink I don't okay I mean that's fair but you're still in these environments where other people are drinking right
03:31:27Brian Atlasum but uh I mean look it is sort of at that age it is sort of something that a lot of people do but uh do you think that this would be how about this do you think when you're a bit older this would
03:31:39Elsiebe a reasonable standard to have let's say when you're 23 I think so yeah I mean it's completely valid and I think at that point I'll be done with with going to parties or anything so okay
03:31:48Brian Atlasit's not something that should cause an argument over okay wow but in any case uh if you were dating a guy and he didn't like to go out and party and he
03:31:59Brian Atlaswas like hey I'd rather you spend this Friday and Saturday with me or third how often did you go out like four times a month four times a month and it's like Friday Friday Saturday yeah yeah that's
03:32:10Brian AtlasL typically uh well not I mean a lot of the people people around here go out like three times a week you know yeah right Morgan it's stuff to do around here that much to go out every day well it's
03:32:24Brian AtlasCollege here yeah the college here is like number one party school in the US so um how about this uh being submissive so being submissive not going out to parties not dressing revealing not posting revealing photos on Instagram
03:32:37ElsieFair proposition I don't post revealing photos either I you don't have anything revealing on your Instagram no if you're going to pull it up right now do it the most I have have is pictures at the be you pull up that's revealing I don't
03:32:49Elsiethink it's revealing and also it's the way the bikini top yes but I'm in pants it's also the way in which you're posing and posting it so I don't think it was really the Cheeks is out it's too much
03:33:01DaviaI'm going I'm going to take a look at my laptop right now if it's like for a brand deal like that's I think I do have some bikini pictures I don't think she's doing brand deals oh in this example
03:33:10Unknownlook at it I mean I don't know cheeks out cheeks out uh uh cheeks out I'm going to oh what the hell am I okay one
03:33:19Brian Atlassec we'll see uh we'll take a look here you know what should we pull no hold on um you got your prom photos a little
03:33:31Eric (Osop)Eric what do you think I mean it's a little little but it's covered up I give it's covered she's got a dress but it's like you're focusing on on the on the rear it's like above the shoulder it's a wagon check it was a wagon check you
03:33:43Elsieknow what I'm saying yall love that wagon check okay but you guys wouldn't be saying anything if there wasn't there if there wasn't what what you mean I go to the gym so like if wouldn't be an
03:33:54Eric (Osop)issue if I was more flat basically and I was covered I mean it a it ain't it ain't it ain't the size of it it's just that you you want people to look at it's not I've seen worse I've seen worse there you go Little Whale taale going
03:34:06Eric (Osop)but you definitely you definitely giv a little you know check this out type you know a little bit a little advertisement little appetizer little advertisement you know what I'm saying just let them know you is here but it's not revealing
03:34:17Elsieno there you go it's it's form fit it's pretty form fitting though you know what I mean it's thirst traish but it's not the wor off the dress though exactly I wanted you guys
03:34:29Eric (Osop)to see how amazing the back of the dress was it it's a beautiful dress F great dress fantastic dress one of the best I've ever seen but you said you said if if nothing was back there we wouldn't say nothing if there was nothing back
03:34:41Eric (Osop)there you wouldn't have took that picture either no I would have oh I love myself oh I hear you I feel like that goes for like everything too but but I seen worse though I give you I give you
03:34:51Unknowna B minus B minus yeah I mean I seen that's pretty that's a passing grade that's a good grade it ain't a c b you know what B minus that's that's good there's we not judging how you look I'm talking about like the is it revealing
03:35:03Brian Atlaspicture or not all right I've seen read a chat here techn Trooper how can we address social media's role and promoting unrealistic views of life like claims of Sophie Reign's alleged alleged
03:35:14Brian Atlasit's good that you point that out only fans earnings exceeding top NBA players # digital Distortion techn Trooper social media is rolling promoting unrealistic views of Life how can that's
03:35:26Brian Atlasa very um techn trooper I do appreciate the message how can we address social media's role in promoting uh I mean absent legislating or like parental controls when it comes
03:35:38Brian Atlasto access to smartphones and uh what what do you guys think about this would you be on board if your husband and you have you have a a kid son or daughter doesn't say you
03:35:49Brian Atlashave both he's like I don't want my kids to have a smartphone until they're 18 oh I I like that fair you guys cool with that or you would be like I don't think
03:36:00Elsie18 maybe like 16 or something but I think the idea of like restricting their phone they can have like little little flip phone no I I 100% phone agree I I like that well regardless they're going
03:36:12Daviato learn things through school unless homeschool okay then I would make my kid buy his own when he can get a job and buy his own phone that's when he can have no having like going to school even if it's a public
03:36:23Michelleschool and not it's like completely different like having a smartphone is really different especially with like this evolving generation I I would be okay with that completely okay they
03:36:33Brian Atlasdon't need them yeah I don't know man there's like even back when I was on dialup internet [ __ ] I was I was exposed
03:36:43Brian Atlasto some crazy [ __ ] on the internet at like 10 playing Diablo I look bro there was some crazy [ __ ] even then now
03:36:52Brian Atlasit's even worse with social media it's bad remember rotten.com oh bro the the you get some jump scares man rodden yeah roten.com was did you see
03:37:03Brian Atlasthat photo I I don't want to be too detailed but there was a crazy photo I got it was like a virus or something some [ __ ] I you talking about the motorcycle action to do no it's like no no no no I'm talking about hold on I got
03:37:15UnknownI think I have to go here really quick or wait do I okay I'll just showing y don't know nothing about that there's a photo of a
03:37:26Brian Atlasdude so spreading his spr his what oh his cheeks oh I ain't never see that's that's another rotten do I don't know about that website no no no it wasn't no no no it
03:37:39Eric (Osop)could it got sent it got I wasn't like looking for that [ __ ] it just got sent you know I never I've never seen it rotten.com showed like explosive like people who got shot in the face like real violent stuff like yeah yeah cheek spread.net I ain't never been no it
03:37:52Brian Atlaswasn't bro I didn't I didn't KN go to cheeks spread.net it was just like it got sent and it was like why did he send it to you though I don't know dude Ain
03:38:00Eric (Osop)nobody never sent me that Brian I don't know KN bro I swear it was like man okay whatever man did you s it or did it stop with you did you keep sending them on no
03:38:12Brian AtlasI didn't send it I saw that [ __ ] I was like it was like a virus and it like it was a virus and it like kept popping it up and you couldn't like you couldn't get out of that [ __ ] A a cheek sprad
03:38:22Brian Atlasvirus that's crazy it was disgusting bro I bet it was it I it burned into my retinas bro oh my I couldn't sleep BR bro I don't know what what friends you
03:38:35Brian Atlasgot but I would get rid of no it wasn't friends I was it was like it was a just a chain thing just like some [ __ ] on the internet I never seen that one bro you got me there
03:38:48Brian AtlasI wasn't looking for it sometimes it's a pot you nobody's ever had like some crazy [ __ ] like no oh boom there's a dick wait do have you ever used like surprise dick have you ever used like one two three movies like that website where you can watch free movies yeah
03:39:01Brian Atlaslike that one if you like if you watch it like like popups the popups are crazy I I understand this was like this was
03:39:08Brian Atlaslike 90s popup AOL [ __ ] dial up dial up [ __ ] [ __ ] [ __ ] CRA okay anyways whatever um crazy good good
03:39:19Brian Atlasstuff okay uh let's see we're going to get into oh we do have a no we already did that one uh oh on his uh message that he sent through about Sophie rain I'm pretty confident a lot of these only
03:39:31Brian Atlasfans girls lie about how much money they make because they're trying to build like uh what's it called uh the hype they're trying to oh I'm making 40 million a year uh it what's the high people are going to be
03:39:44Brian Atlascurious what's the high and then all the attention that she got just by saying that one it could have been a lie she probably makes a lot of money I wouldn't be surprised if she even makes a million a month uh but like
03:39:55Brian Atlas43 mil in a year I think is maybe a lie she probably makes a [ __ ] ton of money but 43 it could it could be real but a
03:40:04Brian Atlaslot of these off girls lie about [ __ ] everything so it could be [ __ ] could be [ __ ] okay we have Stiffler ask
03:40:13Brian Atlaseveryone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to 10 bangs go ahead 10 can you say that without cracking
03:40:24Elsieyour voice please there was beautiful okay I would say like seven or eight can you do like a hair flow while you is that good yeah sort of I would say seven
03:40:36Elsieor eight just because I think I'm still young right now and so I can still I think I'm I hope to get better looking as I get older and then also there's more things I can improve on so seven or
03:40:47Chloeeight sure what about you like seven okay seven okay 10 six there's a lot I need to improve on so like a six and a half Eric what
03:40:58Brian Atlasabout you can we call Andrew can you call strong eight strong eight I give myself a five uh can you call Andrew we're going to get him back in here uh
03:41:08Brian Atlaswhile that's going on we do have techn Trooper ladies how long should your man last in bed # dickmatized all night long all night okay every night Monday T all
03:41:20Brian Atlasthe day all those days thank you techn Trooper H uh that's an interesting question I don't know if we've ever even had that after 200 shows of uh 200 episodes going around the table uh how
03:41:30Brian Atlaslong should a guy last uh not too long you want to give us a minute second seconds how many seconds how many
03:41:41Bangs (Anai)seconds should a man last I don't know but uh it gets to a point where guys are like oh yeah I'm going to take some blue Chu like all of a sudden blue Chu's becoming a thing and they're like oh yeah I'm going to take I'm going to take some bluechew I'm going last the whole
03:41:54Bangs (Anai)weekend and all this crap and it's like okay well girls don't want to do it the whole weekend you know some girls do some do but you know it like it kind of
03:42:02Brian Atlashurts you know you need to be so how about like uh just the you know one one one per day what how long should that
03:42:13Bangs (Anai)last I don't know I've been I have not gotten any action in a while I don't know cobwebs all up in there yeah I don't know I really
03:42:23Elsiedon't know to be honest Sara deser up I don't know it's been a minute um I agree sorry I agree though like not too long I think as long as both people are
03:42:38Bangs (Anai)like having fun yeah there you go yeah yeah what are you wait are you is it your contact it's my contact I told you it's over there take my well it
03:42:51Bangs (Anai)we'll get it no it just hurts a lot I'm sorry your contact you slept in it last night yeah I did that's prob dried out it feels like I have cardboard in my eye it's dried out you going to have to change that sweetie I should wear my glasses you could just be blind like me
03:43:04Bangs (Anai)for the show I don't have anywhere to put if you have a little container output oh you you don't have disposable no this is my month yeah what who still uses is you
03:43:16Unknowngot to get one a day no both of them is my insurance covers oh Insurance both of them hurt no just this one you got more at home huh you got more at home she if I was you I would I would just take that
03:43:28Brian Atlasone out and just Thug it out with one I have to drive home you can't drive home do you have your glasses no I don't it doesn't matter don't all right all right okay um I'll it out how long how long should a your man last in bed I already
03:43:39Elsieanswered I missed it oh um not too long like she was saying but like enough time that both parties are being pleasured and having fun give us a time 15 20
03:43:49Eric (Osop)minutes 10 minutes 30 30 30 seconds 30 minutes 30 30 30 yall some Grandma man Grandma 30 minutes that's that's a little short that's
03:44:01Brian Atlasshort myself I ain't no minute man I don't know everybody a built like me I I need at least 40 four this guy over here 40 minutes look at this guy all right what about you I don't know how to
03:44:12Brian Atlasanswer because you are a virgin that's okay and that's okay uh if you were to have sexual intercourse with a man do
03:44:23Michelleyou have an idea though I mean like what like if it's shorter the duration is shorter doesn't that mean they're more tracted to you oh so if he if he's quick
03:44:34Brian Atlasyeah doesn't that mean they're it means he's it could be it could mean he's like really turned on or nervous yeah or he I got shorter shorter I guess so like
03:44:46Unknownthree seconds like that's crazy like five minutes school with y'all like 10 minutes boom I'm out that's cool I mean if she comes like if she comes like three times like
03:44:58Brian Atlasyeah cuz y'all can go go and go go go some girls once we done we done how about when you're I know this is too much when you are double clicking your
03:45:09Brian Atlasmouse how long do you usually do that what is double click what does that mean DJing TJ when you are pleasing
03:45:21Michelleyourself oh how long do you go I don't
03:45:29Brian Atlasknow you don't do that not often often on how about whenever it's the full moon whenever I don't know what like I don't
03:45:39Brian Atlasknow this lingo whenever it's a full moon like the Moon is that when like you do you do it once a month basically oh
03:45:49Michellemasturbation how long do I last sure I don't no one's counting keeping track I don't know I don't want to 30 seconds I
03:45:59Brian Atlasdon't know minute okay what about you well my answer is the same as Elsie's which which 30 minutes 30 minutes 30
03:46:07Daviaminutes 30 minutes okay uh dark Avan wait oh sorry dark dark Avia goad uh I would say like
03:46:20Brian Atlas15 it's a virgin we get it yeah uh what about you do I have to answer you yes you have to otherwise years bad luck it doesn't
03:46:32Brian Atlasmatter doesn't matter okay sweet based as long as you guys love each other and can cuddle up and she said 15 minutes have good time good times Eric what you're 40 minutes bro listen man I got
03:46:44Eric (Osop)stand feel you feel me like now there been some situations that's been shorter than that you know what I'm saying if it's good it's good I ain't going to hold it back but I don't know I'm just I I I jumped off the P porch a little too early that's my problem you know I grew
03:46:56Eric (Osop)up a little while we was doing stuff we weren't supposed to be doing too early so I guess I got kind of a like a a a a a buildup to it so it's like I don't I don't it don't it take me at
03:47:08Eric (Osop)least at least 30 minutes to get right I can't and has that increased as youve as you've gotten older that's pretty much the same my my my my want to do it is not as much as I used to like that's fair I got to really
03:47:20Eric (Osop)really like you before you just got to be cute now I gotta really like you like you like I can't just give you all that energy that's do we have do we have Andrew ready now oh he's he's has he