BANGS RETURNS?! Rachel Wilson CRASHES Show?! 2 VlRGlNS Age 25/27?! Andrew Wilson! | Dating Talk #219
Date: 2024-12-09
Duration: 8h 08m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_01Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_02Ashley(guest)
SPEAKER_03Carissa(guest)
SPEAKER_04Elsie(guest)
SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_07Eric (Osop)(guest)
SPEAKER_09Rachel Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_10Chloe(guest)
SPEAKER_11Michelle(guest)
SPEAKER_13Davia(guest)
SPEAKER_14Bangs (Anai)(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:08
IntroBrian opens show — "welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape"
“welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape I'm your host Brian Atlas”
00:06:15
IntroBangs intro — cannot share her location, does OnlyFans, going back to school for real estate at SBCC
“um an 22 years old I'm from I don't want to share my location... you do only fans yeah... going back in January for real estate”
00:25:31
RelationshipMichelle reveals she is a virgin at 25 — "I haven't slept with anyone"
“long you been celibate for right now the whole time... I haven't slept with anyone oh you're a virgin yeah”
00:33:33
RelationshipChloe (27) reveals she is also a virgin — not religious, just not comfortable yet
“so are you also a virgin like your friend or okay all right... I just don't feel comfortable with it”
01:15:00
ControversyAndrew Wilson vs Bangs clash — Andrew accuses Bangs of controlling conversation, Bangs calls Andrew "broken"
“calm down calm down... you're you're broken you're a broken you're a broken boy”
01:22:09
QuoteAndrew Wilson on why men are with women: "they're mostly with women because they really want to f*** them"
“they're mostly with women because they really want to [__] them that's honestly why most men”
01:28:50
ControversyBangs vs Andrew clash — Bangs tells Andrew he was "bottle fed", flat head insult; Andrew fires back about her weight
“you were bottle fed weren't you... you need to lose about 50 okay look we all got our roles here”
03:38:00
OtherAndrew Wilson rejoins after power outage — wearing same flannel, greeted as a legend by Brian
“we are getting Andrew Wilson back on the show after an unfortunate power... my Caucasian Andrew Wilson back in the building did is that a new flannel”
03:40:00
QuoteRating round begins — Bangs immediately rates herself a 10
“everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of one to 10 bangs go ahead 10”
03:46:57
QuoteBrian rates himself a 5 in the rating round
“I give myself a five”
04:03:03
Key MomentRachel Wilson crashes show via Discord to defend Andrew — "I'm happy to come on and say hello"
“okay Rachel the floor is yours you can come on down... oh hello hi everybody hey hi hi come to friend hi”
04:07:00
QuoteRachel Wilson on her own looks at 44: "I rated myself a five and Andrew rates me a six"
“I rated myself a five and everybody always gets upset with Andrew cuz he rates me a six and I'm like I think he's giving me just a a hair more than I deserve”
04:13:30
ControversyRachel Wilson vs Bangs — Rachel tells Bangs she's "already hit her Peak" doing OnlyFans at 22
“you're 22 and you're on only fans and you've already hit your Peak and you're plenty happy to be ro... you have been so rude on this show bang”
04:27:48
QuoteRachel Wilson on motherhood: "95% of the time you'll ever get to spend with your kids is gone by the time they turn 18"
“95% of the time you'll ever get to spend with your kids is gone by the time they turn 18 and you don't ever get that time back”
05:23:00
OtherBangs (Anai) leaves the show at ~5:38 after feminist/suffrage debate — Andrew bids her farewell
“well with that bangs it was nice talking to you actually and I hope you have a good evening um truly... bye Andrew thank send send over ra Andrew hope you have a good night”
05:24:00
OtherAndrew Wilson leaves show — Brian thanks him after ~5.5 hours on air
“thank you good night Andrew and uh we're going to try to get through this questionnaire as quick as possible”
08:01:32
QuoteBrian describes ideal number of sons: "seven sons would be pretty good... we got a dynasty son"
“seven kids would be pretty good like maybe pump out like seven sons would be good... we got a dynasty son that's what that's what I'm trying to do”
08:03:00
QuoteEric on the "arrows and quiver" Bible verse and having a daughter
“sons born in one's Youth and there's more to it... I had a daughter so I guess I got a slingshot”
Topics Discussed
00:00:00
Introductions & Show Setup
Brian opens the show with announcements, TTS Monster demonstration (which bugs out triggering YouTube superchats), and World of Warcraft guild promotion. Guests introduce themselves going around the table.
00:06:40
Relationship Status & Relationship History
Brian goes around table asking each guest about relationship status, longest relationships, and how long they have been single. Discovery that Michelle (25) and Chloe (27) are virgins. Discussion of Michelle's celibacy strategy — avoids attachment.
00:37:00
Russian Men vs American Men (Viral TikTok Reaction)
Brian plays and reacts to a viral TikTok about Russian men vs American men, sparking discussion on preferences for masculine vs soft men among the panel.
00:46:40
Types, Physical Preferences & Dealbreakers
Panel discusses physical and personality types each guest is attracted to. Height requirements, tattoos, dealbreakers like cheating. Brian asks each guest their physical type.
01:20:00
Male Emotional Vulnerability Debate
Extended debate sparked by Andrew Wilson and the female panel on whether men should open up emotionally and be vulnerable. Andrew argues men are at a disadvantage because women weaponize emotional intel via gossip/slander. Female panelists counter that vulnerability builds connection. Eric provides nuanced take. Bangs and Andrew clash repeatedly with insults.
03:40:00
Rating Round
Chat request to rate own looks 1-10 (cannot pick 7). Bangs rates herself 10. Elsie 7-8. Michelle 7. Davia 10 (then says she got an 8 from someone). Chloe 6.5. Brian 5 (self). Andrew rejoins after power outage and rates himself 10. Bangs refuses to rate Andrew objectively due to personal conflict.
04:03:00
Rachel Wilson Crashes Show
Andrew Wilson's wife Rachel Wilson joins via Discord to defend Andrew against accusations of being rude to women. Rachel (44yo, 5 kids) addresses each panelist, criticizes Bangs for her "only fans / peak fertility" lifestyle, defends Andrew's behavior, and lectures the panel on feminist brainwashing, boss-babe culture, declining birth rates, and the importance of motherhood. Extended exchange with Chloe on California economics.
04:10:00
Boss Babe & Birth Rate Collapse Debate
Rachel Wilson leads discussion on how feminist propaganda has led women to be less happy by every metric (higher alcoholism, loneliness, lower birth rates). Panel debates the cost of living in California and whether dual-income is necessary. Rachel shares her own story of sacrificing career for family.
05:15:00
Feminism Deep Dive with Bangs
Brian re-engages Bangs (who stayed later) for a 10-minute discussion on feminism and women's suffrage. Andrew argues women who pushed for suffrage made a mistake. Bangs defends feminist principles. Eventually Andrew bids Bangs goodnight and she leaves the show.
05:25:00
Height Requirements & Bear vs Man Question
Brian goes around table asking each guest's height and minimum/ideal height for a partner. Follows with the viral "man or bear in forest" question — most panel picks bear. Discussion of why.
06:15:00
Can Women Be Sexist / Racist Towards Men / White People
Brian presents debate questions: Can women be sexist toward men? Can people be racist toward white people? Bangs struggles with her own "prejudice + power" definition applied to a female Kamala Harris janitor scenario. Panel divided.
06:56:40
Dating App Stories & Online Dating Experiences
Panel shares online dating stories, including Michelle's viral TikTok story of a terrible first Tinder date in college who became famous. Discussion of catfishing and authenticity.
07:30:00
Closing Questions & Wrap-Up
Final questionnaire rounds — how long should a man last in bed, religion as dealbreaker, Brian's requirements in a partner, Eric's preference for a homebody nerdy girl. Brian closes show, raids Frost Adamus on Twitch (World of Warcraft orc warrior). Final TTS superchats read.
Transcript
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Bangs (Anai)your name age location and occupation go ahead um an 22 years old I'm from I don't want to share my location
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Bangs (Anai)but I'm from SoCal Santa Barbara County there you go um um and occupation I don't really do anything you don't do anything you're a neat what do you mean a
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Brian Atlasneat yeah she's a neat basically if that's what you do you know what a neat is no but it's a it's a acronym for not in employment education or training oh I just finished school I'm taking a little
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Brian Atlasbreak but I'm going to be going back in January going back in January okay and you do only fans yeah so I guess I'm doing stuff but I'm taking a little break right now that's what I'm trying
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Brian Atlasto say all right uh and you're going to school where uh sbcc studying what I'm going back for real estate for real
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Elsieestate classes all right cool what about you hi um my name is Elsie I'm 18 um I'm from Los Angeles but I currently go to UCSB and I work with kids all right uh
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Michellewhat are you studying at UCSB I'm a pre-com major pre-com okay all right what about you hi I'm I'm Michelle I'm 25 um I am from Orange County California
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Brian Atlasand I am a recruiter all right uh any school yes I graduated in Cal State Fullerton you got a Bachelor's degree yeah in what
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CarissaCommunication in Cal okay what about you hi my name is Carissa I'm 20 years old I go to Santa barara City College and I also work with kids with Elsie all right
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Brian Atlasand uh What uh what are you studying I'm doing theater right now theater okay you want to be actress or yeah are you like cuz some people in theater they're behind the scenes you do behind the
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Carissascenes stuff or like crew uh yeah I just do whatever right now I'm just learning a lot right now so okay so you but you want to act right
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Daviayeah okay what about you hi my name is davia I'm 23 years old uh and I'm a
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Chloebabysitter wait 23 yeah okay all right all right school any school no no school all right what about you hi my name is Chloe I'm 27 I'm also from Orange County
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Brian Atlasas well I'm currently in County just not in tax all right uh schooling Cal State Fullerton as well bachelor's in accounting accounting there you go good
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Ashleystuff what about you hi my name is Ashley I'm 24 25 in a month but I
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Ashleycurrently don't go to school um and I am a b Arista and A Lash technician any school whatsoever yeah I went to um a community college for like 2 years did
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Ashleyyou get your Associates or no I was just shy of my associates what were you uh I was I wanted to be um oh my gosh a
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Ashleyradiologist but I uh just stopped going okay Eric what's a uh what's a lash technician I do lash extensions
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Bangs (Anai)like where you put individual lashes on other lashes for girls is that very technical yeah they're literally artists like actual artist it takes a lot of
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Bangs (Anai)skill and a lot of practice I get my lashes done oh yeah okay you need a a lot of skill for
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Eric (Osop)that go ahead Eric what's going on is your man Eric AKA ill AKA illal radio 39 by way of uh Jersey by way of North Carolina
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Andrew Wilsonconstruction management peace all right uh Andrew what about you yeah my name is Andrew Wilson I'm uh the host of The Crucible popular
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Andrew Wilsonentertainment Channel on YouTube I'm a political analyst a political saturnist I occasionally enjoy doing debates and conversations and I do them all over the world via video like this or in person
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TTS Voiceand I'm glad everybody's here tonight I'm looking forward to this conversation all right welcome everybody going said whether or not it's only three shows left better not happen we need
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Brian Atlaswhatever what the what the hell wait what hold
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Brian Atlason uh I it's not popping up on my end we need how did you do that
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Brian Atlasbro wait what okay uh oh the default voice can you boost the audio all the way the default voice is
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TTS VoiceTrump I know that was not my choice the viewers voted for [Music] it bangs learned long ago that the
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TTS Voiceamount of time people can tolerate or is directly proportional to the amount of cleavage visible Stillwood ladies what years were W once SL
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Brian Atlasww12 what the [ __ ] Trump um the TTS monster needs a bit of work but do you want to respond bangs I don't know if it mean wait do they mean that I
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Brian Atlaswas showing too much cleavage before or what I don't know if that's what that meant I'm really confused by the question I'm confused too it was very confusing um okay what years were World
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ElsieWar I World War II going around the table no idea I remember learning it in school but I don't remember now okay um it's a good thing I'm a pre-
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Elsiecommmunications major cuz I'm not good with history let's just say that sure all right I don't know no I not even how
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Bangs (Anai)about here just take a guess take a guess you go okay can I take a guess yes for World War I and then World War II
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Bangs (Anai)oh you're going to clown on me but around maybe in the 1920s maybe okay for World War World War I
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Bangs (Anai)World War II yeah I don't know I'm not sure about World War the early 1900s okay sure what about you my AP teachers would be so disappointed in me so
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Brian Atlasdisappointed so disappointed and that was just like last year right yeah okay take a guess take a wild guess it's going to be off that's fine it's okay if
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Bangs (Anai)it's wrong maybe like what' you say the 1920s for World War II and early 1900s
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Brian Atlas1860s I don't know okay for was that for World War I sure and then World War
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MichelleII um 1970 um okay yeah I'm just going to play it safe 1950 and
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Brian Atlas1980 so uh World War One 1950 and then 1980 I don't know 1980 World War II yeah okay all right sure just a guess go ahead I'll just say the
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Brian Atlassame as her 1920s I don't for World War I and then World War II oh this is welcome to the historical
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Bangs (Anai)podcast historical dating podcast 1940s cuz it's something to do with the prohibition right then prohibition was during the 1920s so it has to do it has nothing to do with yes it does cuz I
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Brian Atlasremember I did I did a whole skit on this on my you did a skit yeah I did a skit the US educations yes I did she did a skit on prohibition yes I did okay
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Brian Atlasthat's cool um you know look dating was fire like it was it was it was lit in the World War I era you know uh did you
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Daviawhat about you dark havia uh I say World War II around like 1920 yeah World War I and then probably
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Elsielike 1890 or something like that I don't freaking know okay it's okay yeah me too it's a dating show not history I know right all right what what do you think
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TTS Voiceand we all agree there is not one female above a 4.5 minus five at this table oh what the yo it's triggering the
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Chloesuper chats I don't know why that's scuffed that should not be okay go ahead thank you I think it's World War I is 1920 and World War II is
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Ashley1945 maybe okay what about you um I'd have to go with her it's around the 1920s was World War I and around the 1940 somethings was World War II sweet all right uh going around the table once
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Brian Atlasmore I'm just got to figure out what's going on with the [ __ ] TTS monster wait can we figure out the answers oh okay yeah uh World War I was 1914 to 1918 World War II 1939 1945 uh relationship
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Brian Atlasstatus if you're single how long have you been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in um I am single I've been single since I've for 3
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Bangs (Anai)years now um the longest relationship I have been in was maybe a year a year and a half okay got it uh sorry and you've
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Elsiebeen uh single for how long again sorry uh three years going on four years I think okay around there maybe three and a half sure all right what about you I'm currently single um the longest
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Elsierelationship I've been in was a little under a year and then I've been single for around 2 years and you said uh just about a year for your longest relationship yeah I see
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Brian Atlasokay all right what about you they're eating our docks they're eating our cats hey it's not supposed to trigger off the freaking YouTube hold on one sec guys let me get
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Brian Atlasthis freaking fixed I don't know why it's why it's doing that uh it should be disabled um here the only the only thing I can do I don't know if this is is
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Brian Atlasleaving good news Trump is President hey that's not so you guys are abusing the the BR busted system all right well I
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Brian Atlasdon't know if that's uh we'll see if that fixes it I don't know if it doesn't then we got to disable the TTS Monster uh relationship status
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Brian Atlasum I'm single and I've been single my whole life okay uh so never had a boyfriend no what's the longest period of time you've like seen a
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Brian Atlasguy um maybe like a month okay but I don't really date often I'm okay being single so the longest consecutive period you said was uh 1 month just like
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Brian Atlasdon't know why alert TTS monster unfortunately totally scuffed should not be triggering the Super chats that's what's going on
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Brian Atlasuh ridiculous um yeah you got to go into okay here Damian go to in the sources on all the sources so go to TTS sorry sorry sorry chat we got to get rid of TTS
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Brian AtlasMonster uh TTS monster hide it I think that'll do it okay go to Left hide it in Left Right Center Zoom uh Windows
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Brian Atlasvideos yeah go to window tab pull up pull up World of Warcraft too let's see if anybody wants to this is totally scuffed I all wait too bad to go bits are attached to T
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Brian Atlasthat guy wants to give me gold TR right click on his portrait oh never mind he's he's just taking this [ __ ] that guy forget it [ __ ] that guy bro um what the
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Brian Atlas[ __ ] dude dude here wait go okay go to Windows and videos and and hide TTS monster sorry guys we're totally scuffed hi window tab
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Brian Atlasoh it's okay I don't know if that's going to fix it oh my goodness sorry guys is a fat monster like Rosie
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Brian Atlasthis I got dude that's you guys are crazy man here just mute the audio for a sec hold on I got I don't even know how to deal
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Brian Atlaswith this I don't I don't know what to do boys pause Q will that wait maybe is that
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Brian Atlasthis solved and just a moment just a couple technical issues uh what in the freck is happening I have no idea boys
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Brian Atlaslove you be you do a great job by the way trans women hey uh wait I I I don't even know I don't know
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Brian Atlaswhat to do boys I don't even know what to do um hold on I uh
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Eric (Osop)um I need like a technical difficulty uh okay osop ask a question or some [ __ ] how was your' weekend ladies you
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Elsieyou do anything exciting you know what I mean Too Short huh Too Short what's Too Short The Weekend oh what happened what you was doing um I went to the mall yesterday which mall um the one in Santa
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ElsieBarbara I don't know if you guys know which one I think so so so y'all from the local area all y'all no I am I'm not well I'm staying in well I want to say
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Bangs (Anai)but I'm not too far from here besides I can I'm from the valley okay so 45 minutes away the valley but SZ Valley oh
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Bangs (Anai)okay okay um there's lots of wine tasting everywhere there's wineries everywhere you should go you're from where senz Valley Selenas no senz sorry oh yeah it's like only a few minutes
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Bangs (Anai)away from here but no hookah lounges around here nothing like that just just Wineries and tastery yeah if I mean if if I don't want to drive far it's just like wineries breweries like all of that got you got you we're surrounded by
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Bangs (Anai)ocean so I think you should go to the beach yeah go to the beach honestly weather ain't that go to the pier no go to the pier theer yeah just for Sunset just have like a cute little go to
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Bangs (Anai)Butterfly Beach picnic or butterfly Beach nice oh I've never been there wait where is it you have to go through like mono to get through there any room I how
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Bangs (Anai)to yeah just go wine I don't know where you're are you more North her from here what's C Panera Panera how you pronounce
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Bangs (Anai)it Panera carton oh carp oh there's this place I don't want to give like free promo or anything but there's this really cute restaurant by the beach that
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Bangs (Anai)you should go to starts with the PE but I won't I won't give promo free clout on here it's called the penis closet wow no it's right by the it's right by the beach they have the cutest sunsets you
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Brian Atlascan get you can order your food and go cutest sunsets is a cute Sunset I don't know what that means a cute Sunset a cute Sunset what does that even I don't know how to explain it to you you got to figure it out your cute Sunset I don't
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Brian Atlasknow hide that [ __ ] bro did you figure it out hope I don't know maybe those already just go ahead all right um so okay sorry guys I think it should
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Brian Atlasbe let me let me I don't know if it's going to work I'm going to have to hide I'm going to have to remove it from the description apologize for the um technical difficulties there trying
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Brian Atlassomething new all right so uh you've been single your whole life yes the longest period of time you've dated somebody dated somebody is one
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Brian Atlasmonth dating as in like going out on dates or like officially locking in uh well it sounds like you haven't had an official lock in is that correct yeah
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Brian Atlasand then so but I'm assuming you have like you've been on first dates right yes okay and maybe like when you're in
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Brian Atlascollege maybe there's a party scene you'd have like sneaky links no no sneaky links no friends with benefits no F buddy no my best friend in college was alcohol
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MichelleI just drank I didn't do anything with guys wow your best friend in college was alcohol was it just College it extended Beyond College I think like when I how
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Michellelong have you been friends with with Al alcohol and what's your drink of choice um I think when I turned 25 like this year I started to slow down on the
00:24:34
Michelledrinking but I think up till 24 I was pretty I'm Korean so they drink pretty heavily um how much were you drinking per week
00:24:45
Michelleuh or per day not per day not per day are you a solo Drinker like wine after like you just drink solo like a whole bottle there were times yeah when I was
00:24:56
Brian Atlaslike 22 23 you drink from the bottle or you pour it into a glass that's not classy wine glass okay I don't know some people drink wine out of a box no that's like a little depressing that's depressing okay you're not there yet no
00:25:08
Brian Atlasnot yet you not there I don't want to get there uh but you were you had a long-term monogamous relationship with alcohol I mean sure if you want to put
00:25:18
Brian Atlasit that way right um so no sneaky links no you so were you celibate the entire yes you were celibate yeah during college yeah how
00:25:31
Michellelong you been celibate for right now the whole time what do you mean the whole time like I I haven't slept with anyone oh you're a virgin yeah oh cool okay
00:25:41
Michelleinteresting but you drink heavily not anymore you used to and you go out to bars and clubs yeah I like I like partying I just don't do anything with guys I enjoy my time with my friends but
00:25:53
Brian Atlasyou you like guys right yes you just haven't found one that you feel is like yeah I just don't want to get ATT do you have a type oord
00:26:02
Michellestudy okay um hey just asking um I like confident men I don't know I don't really have a type I just have to feel
00:26:12
Michelleit like you got to feel it yeah have you felt it ever cuz I mean you haven't there's one guy I guess you saw for a
00:26:20
Michellemonth but um yes that was recent but yeah can we move on on well so I'm just trying to get a bit
00:26:31
Brian Atlasof a understanding of kind of the relationship history but so um I mean have you had a first kiss yeah kiss yes
00:26:39
Brian Atlasokay fair enough and um single whole life okay um and have there been guys that have
00:26:50
Michellethey been interested in you you just weren't interested in them yes I feel like when I was in college I was a little bit too busy like trying to find a job yeah drinking in the beginning like first two years and then
00:27:03
Michellelater on it was more so like locking in and finding a job I wasn't really prioritizing dating but I mean you were uh when you were going out to parties you said you went to UC Fullerton uh Cal State fullon Cal State Fullerton I don't
00:27:15
Brian Atlasthink there's a UC I was thinking of UC Irvine um Cal State Fullerton is there like a Greek life there I yes but I wasn't in life
00:27:28
Michellesority or anything no when I was in like my first college cuz I transferred um cuz I switched my major I was in a professional fraternity but I
00:27:37
Brian Atlaswasn't in a sority okay and um H this is unique um how often would you go out to parties though like is it
00:27:49
Michellewas it the party school like in college yes CS my first school I went to I don't want to drop the name it's a school it's a private school in Northern California partied every week it's in the middle of nowhere so people don't have much to do
00:28:02
Brian Atlasthere except party mhm um but when I was in Cy flon I didn't party I was just studying to get out of there and graduate got it but um how often would you say in the past year like how
00:28:13
Brian Atlasfrequently did you go out to uh bars or nightclubs like what like when like when I was in csuf sure or just
00:28:22
Michelleuh I mean I felt like I went out every weekend like up till this year I've been I've been slowing down and are you religious are you waiting until marriage or just hav I just don't want to get
00:28:34
Michelleattached because I feel like I'm going to get attached to a guy if I sleep with him and I don't want to get attached and like put my energy into someone who doesn't like me that's all it's not a religious thing can I ask something yeah
00:28:46
Michellego ahead do do you want to get married yes but I want to get married late like in my
00:28:55
Michelle30s okay and uh but you don't want to why don't you want to get attached because I'm going to get hurt and I would have to invest my energy
00:29:06
Brian Atlasinto someone who doesn't like me uhhuh I don't want to do that okay and but you want to get attached eventually right like to the right guy
00:29:18
Brian Atlaswouldn't you want to get attached person to the right person all right sure maybe we'll come back to that a little bit but uh what about you um wait what was the question again sorry relation ship
00:29:28
Carissastatus I'm single I've been single for 2 months now okay I just got out of an almost 2-year relationship and that has been my longest relationship all right who broke up with who I broke up with
00:29:40
Carissahim why just tired of his mistakes I guess over his mistakes his mistakes what did he do just you know having a bunch of huh I
00:29:51
Carissadon't know just pictures in his phone specific pictures pictures in his phone just texting other girls so he's cheating on you I guess micro cheating I
00:30:03
Carissadon't know micro cheating micro cheating I wouldn't say like physically cheated but yeah say much all right uh dark cavia what about
00:30:14
Daviayou um what was the question relationships stus hello oh um single I've been my longest I have two really long
00:30:25
Daviarelationships um first one was five years second one was 3 years but yeah that was the longest too I have only been in two
00:30:35
Brian Atlasrelationships okay what about you I've been single all my life too all right um and uh long I mean what's the longest
00:30:45
Chloeperiod of time you've seen a guy for me personally it was 3 months um for that one it I really got to know a guy he was super nice a gentleman but
00:30:57
Chloeit's just our kind of personal beliefs didn't align and yeah how so just there's things in life in terms of like career and everything that I believe in
00:31:06
Chloelike a two income household um among other things so it just didn't align so so he believed in a he wanted you to like be a stay- at home yeah which is
00:31:18
Brian Atlasfine I think that's great if a woman wants to do that that's great how long ago was this uh last year it was a year ago okay and was he how old was he he was the same
00:31:29
Brian Atlasage as me 26 at that time and he was desirous of basically a one income household is my understanding yeah did he have the financial means to despite your unwillingness to be in that sort of
00:31:41
Brian Atlasarrangement did he have the means to no at that time no okay but he wanted it for the future right yes and essentially he probably my understanding would be he wanted you to uh have kids
00:31:54
Chloeand just stay home and take care of the kids take care of the household and you don't want to do that you want to pursue a career is that fair to say yes but also because in Curr in the California economy at least I don't think we can afford life and kids yeah especially if
00:32:07
Brian AtlasI wanted more than one like I would we would be broke well if he um let's say you met a guy who was let's say you made a million dollars a year I'm sure even in the most expensive part of California
00:32:18
Brian Atlasthat would uh enable you to be a single income household would that be a bit more uh I think that's a different scenario yes I discuss it with him um
00:32:30
Chloebut with my experience of dating and the people that I've dated so far I think I it has to be a double income household okay yeah yeah I just want to ask you a question um since that's your
00:32:41
Eric (Osop)perspective how you feel about um who takes upon the responsibilities at the home do you feel like it should be split 7030 like how how would you approach that I think it shouldn't be a percentage it should be more consideration for the other person like
00:32:54
Chloefor example like I have my busy Seasons at work like if I'm not home until 10:00 p.m. cuz I'm working I don't want to go home and cook dinner cuz first of all he's probably already asleep so like that's obvious not going to happen I would really appreciate it if he did
00:33:06
Chloesomething for me versus if he's going some through something I'll obviously be taking more of the workload more of the chores everything but what about like the bills of the home like rent like who
00:33:16
Brian Atlasyou how you distrib 50/50 for that interesting okay all right um and then you were seeing this guy for three months um
00:33:28
Brian Atlasso are you also a virgin like your friend or okay all right and is this are you waiting until marriage or what's going on with that I just don't feel
00:33:40
Chloecomfortable with it so I think with the right person it'll be comfortable but until then let's just say I'm waiting until marriage waiting until marriage
00:33:50
Brian Atlasokay um interesting all right and uh although it sounds like if you were to meet the right guy and you guys aligned in terms of your values and you were
00:33:59
Brian Atlascomfortable with him you would have sex prior to marriage yeah okay all right so it's not like it's not for religious reasons some people are Christian or
00:34:10
Chloewhatever they would want to wait yeah I think it's nice to have a timeline just for that like goal setting so to speak but I think sexual compatibility finding that out before marriage is very
00:34:21
Brian Atlasimportant because divorce is such a pain in the ass oh sorry no that's fine um do you think though um do you think it's going to be difficult
00:34:31
Brian Atlasto find a guy who's willing to wait that long cuz I mean typically my my impression is when it comes to men who are like willing to wait they're
00:34:43
Brian Atlastypically going to lean a bit more traditional a bit more conservative uh which might be a conflict I mean is it safe to say you're a bit more Progressive bit more liberal
00:34:55
Brian Atlasyes and you you're more you're more desirous of pursuing your career uh do you think that that's going to introduce potential uh difficulties for you I think yes and which is totally
00:35:07
Brian Atlasfine it just means that person isn't for me so I feel like probably more Progressive liberal men who are open to the 50/50 thing are probably not going
00:35:19
Eric (Osop)to be on board with the like oh let's wait yeah till marriage thing good for them not for me but good for them fair enough yeah all right what oh you have you have something um real quick um I I
00:35:30
Eric (Osop)think that um it'll be strange for a man to not respect a woman who's actually a virgin cuz it's like if a woman is a virgin I think a lot of times when C don't want to weight it's because they feel like she's been with other men but
00:35:41
Eric (Osop)if she's actually a virgin in today's time I think a a reasonable man should respect that because she's actually the version that a lot of men say they want so I don't see why people have a push back with that cuz it's hard to wait for
00:35:53
Eric (Osop)a woman who's giving herself to somebody else but if she actually waited and haven't had sex I think she she can get that
00:36:01
Ashleyoff um I'm currently single my longest relationship was almost 3 years and what was the last part I'm so sorry sorry you've been single for how long
00:36:14
Brian AtlasI've been single for technically like 7 months8 months all right the three-year relationship who ended the uh relationship the
00:36:26
Eric (Osop)three-year one um I ended it okay uh Eric what about you it's only it's only been a month man I'm still single bro I'm still single
00:36:35
Eric (Osop)man all right longest relationship um my longest relationship was I would say 6 years all right cool that's uh
00:36:47
Brian Atlaseverybody's relationship status you know what kind of this is interesting uh I have you guys seen this has been going viral on Tik Tok Russian mens americ men have you guys seen that
00:36:59
Brian AtlasI don't have it pulled up Damian but maybe you can try to find it it's uh Tik Tok Russian men verse American men what is it like going 50/50 I think is the
00:37:10
Brian Atlastopic that could be an interesting kind of segue on some of the stuff I'm trying to find the actual uh clip though I'm going to see if I can find it guys give
00:37:20
Brian Atlasme just one sec Tik Tok not logged in scuffed can you try to find it on uh over there on your end I reposted the video so I could find it pretty easily
00:37:29
Brian Atlasif you want me to get it um you don't have your phone though oh no it's still TTS
00:37:39
Brian Atlasmonster what the [ __ ] hold on guys what the [ __ ] absolutely scuffed one sec guys sorry dude oh my God not sure why it's bugged like this
00:37:54
Brian Atlasboys one sec guys what could that
00:38:03
TTS Donationsbe do you have it oh would it be amican Russ relation yeah large
00:38:12
TTS Donationslab $200 thank you hey ladies do you feel bad when the more attractive feminists talk about their terrible experiences with cat calling and you
00:38:22
TTS Donationshave nothing to share also name three countries bro that's crazy uh name three okay [ __ ] it name three countries going around the table
00:38:32
Bangs (Anai)go ahead um Mexico can you tilt your mic down it's just really it's really low I'm sorry don't worry it trust me the audio is coming here fine just trust me
00:38:43
Bangs (Anai)um Mexico parag Ura Paraguay uraguay okay okay USA Mexico and
00:38:54
MichelleCanada okay USA well don't repeat the ones they just you got to pick a new pick a new country I first you can't repeat a country how about that I'm just going to stick to my roots uh South
00:39:03
Brian AtlasKorea Japan China I don't know any countries I'm sorry you I'm so slow you are super fast don't I'm so sorry you
00:39:13
Carissadon't don't you you okay go ahead try go ahead um Germany man don't help her out go ahead um yep Germany it's going to be like can
00:39:25
Carissawe say Canada already cuz I've been already said it Dam USA already said it Dam I don't know
00:39:35
Brian Atlashere let me help yeah pick African countries that should help if you kind of Zone in on the continent I think it
00:39:43
Brian Atlascan help African countries three just three what well how about um European countries that's easier
00:39:56
Carissathat's a bit easier three European countries I don't think anybody's named any no huh Europe is a continent No Name three European countries go ahead I remember the last time I've learned
00:40:05
Carissaabout this stuff I'm sorry Italy mhm and um that's one oh I thought I had one Germany oh yeah sure Germany okay yeah and
00:40:18
Brian Atlas[Music] um England yep beautiful dark AIA what about you uh Egypt yep
00:40:31
Ashleyum Norway yep and Ireland boom beautiful what about you Taiwan um Argentina and
00:40:40
AshleyPortugal all right um Barcelona Spain sorry Barcelona uh Israel okay and it's
00:40:51
Brian Atlasanother one uh the Philippines there you have it boom there you have it folks okay all right thank you for the uh TTS I do appreciate it um where were we oh do you
00:41:03
Brian Atlashave the video there's a viral oh no that's the the dude ranting about it can you find the actual video
00:41:15
Brian Atlasoh my God all right sorry guys one sec we're trying to get this going do you have it
00:41:35
Brian Atlashello all right okay um I'll just move it on then if we can't find it sorry guys um all right I'm just going to get into
00:41:48
Brian Atlasthe pre-show notes then uh if you can find it let me know but all right we have uh Michelle Michelle you had a terrible first Tinder date in college who ended up becoming a huge Tik Tok
00:41:57
Michellestar yes uh can you say who no I I don't want to what do they do how about that are they like one of those dancing I think he does like skits I honestly don't know I muted him so I don't really
00:42:09
Brian Atlasknow I think he does like comedy skits though okay all right yeah um you said modern dating is a joke and dating apps are only for people who want to hook up
00:42:19
Brian Atlasor get attention yes now I'm curious I guess to you two you guys are both friends maybe both kind of find yourselves in the same boat when it comes to dating um I would be curious like to learn about and we'll open up to
00:42:33
Brian Atlasthe whole panel but would let you guys go first uh what's your type so what are you looking for in a guy you can list like physical traits you can look list
00:42:44
Michellepersonality this sort of thing um I don't know it's just my can you hear me yeah okay um it's really hard to
00:42:54
Michelleanswer this question because I really go off like the vibe that they give off like I would have to meet them in person but like I said earlier I like someone who radiates confident energy someone
00:43:06
Michellewho's comfortable in their own skin mhm but isn't cocky and that's like really hard to find okay so but I have met someone or people like that you have met
00:43:16
Brian Atlaspeople like that very not a lot but I have previously and did you given that this seems to be would you say that this is the like ultimate thing your you're
00:43:27
Brian Atlaslooking for in a partner yes okay given that this is something that's extremely rare you've only come across it a few times did you like actively pursue these
00:43:37
Michellemen who did have it no I don't I've never pursued someone okay um like pursue as in like slide in their DMS or like go up to them
00:43:49
Michellewell did you meet them in person or what was the nature of um the last person I met I actually met him on an app which is ironic cuz I wrote that um I'm only on one dating app and it was like the last shot that I was giving but yeah I
00:44:02
Brian Atlasmet him on an app um did you meet up in person for a date or yeah did he have that that thing in person yes okay and how many dates
00:44:13
Brian Atlasdid you with this guy yeah was this the one month guy yes okay um how many individual times did you hang out out with him I think like six or seven times
00:44:24
Brian Atlasokay and then I guess why did it not continue what happened there um it's kind of a long story but I had a
00:44:36
Michelleseries of unfortunate events happen in my life recently that I don't want to get too into but uh yeah we don't need the det and it's okay that he wasn't really there for me cuz we've only known each
00:44:48
Michelleother for a month but he was giving me like a necessary emotional stress that I didn't need so I just thought the timing of it wasn't right and I just he was giving he was giving you like he
00:45:00
Michellewasn't really checking up on me um when I was going through like really big life changes was he aware of these Life Changes yes he was and I was very vulnerable with him too and I told him that you know like I'm going through all
00:45:12
Michellethis right now so if you you know aren't there for me I'd rather just not move forward MH um and he didn't and so it's okay and I saw I was like okay I just don't think I have the emotional
00:45:24
Michellecapacity to date right now with so much going on in my life all right would you uh would you say he was a narcissist no I don't think
00:45:34
Brian Atlasso okay um so I guess going back to the question like what's your type um are there any other things that you're kind of looking for besides just like the
00:45:45
Michellevibe and confidence I guess um someone who has ambition okay always like driven is very hot to me um do you have like any specific questions
00:45:57
Michelleor characteristic traits that you uh can he be shorter than you I have been with guys who are 5' seven ideally I would like someone taller because I'm tall I'm like 58 and a half okay um but I have
00:46:09
Michellebeen with guys who are 5'7 but I wouldn't want to go below 5'7 to be honest all right and like you'll date any race yeah I'm pretty open all right I feel like I've dated like every race or
00:46:21
Brian Atlaslike been out yeah what I guess what percent of men that you've like encountered either on the apps or in person or whatever would you say like meet your
00:46:32
Brian AtlasBaseline like I'm into this guy like as in like I'll swipe like either in person or yeah like I would be attracted to them initially
00:46:42
Michelleyeah um did you ask percentage sure yeah we can do percent I'm going to say like just physical attraction mhm like
00:46:53
Michelle50 50% yeah okay then they open their mouth yes and that drops them most of the time or or on the flip side it could increase their attraction
00:47:07
Brian Atlasor attractiveness um but usually it's the other way around fair enough okay and then uh what about you I guess what are some of the things you're looking for physically personality wise personality
00:47:20
Chloewise it's a lot of I mentioned this before but consideration 100% consideration for his family consideration for people around him his friends everything I think that speaks a lot to who a person is but also spatial
00:47:32
Chloeawareness if he doesn't notice like somebody barreling at him I kind of feel like maybe not kind of thing um wait if he doesn't noce somebody barreling at him you mean yeah like if somebody is like walking fast like move out of the
00:47:44
Chloeway for that person kind of thing don't like take up the whole street and act in the first place don't even take up a lot of space in the Stream move to the side if you need to stop I see but that's fair yeah spatial awareness I just it's
00:47:57
ChloeI don't I don't even understand what you're talking about do people walk down the street and just take up the whole street cuz I go to a lot of events like music events where a lot of people just stand in one
00:48:10
Chloeplace and take up like the whole entire Street and don't not the street but like the lane instead of moving forward like for example Disneyland they don't move forward they just keep on standing there until there's like a 10t gap and then they're like oh time for me to go
00:48:22
Brian Atlasforward that kind of thing it's valid just spatial awareness consideration for others maybe it doesn't fall under spatial awareness but I think it's get what about like you know I kind of I kind of
00:48:34
Brian Atlasunderstand that you know what really grinds my gears is when like there's a sidewalk and there's a big group of people and they're walking like five apress okay five oppressed listen here's
00:48:45
Brian Atlasthe rule if you're in a group of five it has to be two two maybe three but you can't be like five in a [ __ ] row rude
00:48:56
Brian Atlaspisses me off too three three no three pisses me off it needs to be two two is that acceptable also if you're on the sidewalk it has to be the same as on the
00:49:06
Brian Atlaslike in a roadway if you're walking dep uh you got to be on your right you have to be walking on your right you know what I mean MH yeah people be walking on
00:49:16
Brian Atlasthe left but they're it doesn't it's [ __ ] up man you saying you awareness I get it I get it in fact I break up with women all the time because of this all the time yeah if I'm on a
00:49:29
Brian Atlasfirst date with a girl and she's just kind of Meandering and like she's on her phone instant breakup I get it if she is in the
00:49:38
Michellewrong lane when walking instant breakup I'll just walk the I'll just turn around do 180 be like Deuces honestly like I feel like it's common sense like yeah
00:49:49
Chloeit's like not having common common sense is a turn off yeah anything else for you that you're looking for in a guy besides spatial uh spatial awareness I think
00:50:00
Chloephysically my type is like a buzz cut with tattoos but all the guys I've dated have not had that so buzz cut tattoos tattoos okay all
00:50:11
Brian Atlasright huh you you meet a lot of accountants with buzz cut surprisingly yes but the accountants are tatted up would you date a guy with a face tat how
00:50:22
Andrew Wilsonabout that no yeah no not a face Tad okay that's a hard one to introduce to ma ma and PAW what about the tribal thing that goes up half the neck you know on one side I think that's fine oh
00:50:34
Brian Atlasthat's fine yeah all right if it extends down to the neck but if it starts and stops on the face then no okay uh going around the table what's everybody's type you can just say like one physical trait
00:50:44
Brian Atlasand then like one personality trait go ahead uh tall tall okay tall how tall uh
00:50:52
Bangs (Anai)67 and up shut up shut up come on come on I'm being serious remember that
00:51:01
Bangs (Anai)I told you that my ex was 6'2 so the guy has to be 6'2 okay well I met somebody who was 67 and I'm not seeing him anymore so everybody now has to be 67
00:51:12
Eric (Osop)and up so I can stunt on him you to stunt yeah you want to stunt yeah I want to be like see [ __ ] I Can Do Better somebody taller so let me ask you if you meet somebody that's like 7t and that
00:51:24
Eric (Osop)don't fall off then you going to find somebody 72 like where did this stop like where did we go with this it keeps going up okay I'm kidding I'm kidding um if I'm being realistic maybe like I
00:51:37
Bangs (Anai)don't know I honestly like tall guys but everybody's taller than me so okay I don't know how tall are you I'm 5'2 oh come on now yeah everyone's taller than me I haven't met anyone and then
00:51:48
Bangs (Anai)personality something personality I really like them douchy and cocky to be honest
00:51:56
Andrew Wilsonso is like Andrew your oh him no he's cocky he's he's old he's he has hey hey why you trying to get me to hook
00:52:08
Andrew Wilsonup with fat chicks all the time oh boy what the [ __ ] [ __ ] you you have a wife and kids you shouldn't be worrying about other girls no I don't know I I mean you're
00:52:19
Andrew Wilsonthe one worrying about how I look this out I said you had wrinkles okay yeah and you're like 300 lb okay I'm not 300 I feel bad for the chair you're
00:52:31
Andrew Wilsonsitting in right now it's terrible oh sucks I feel bad for your wife and kids oh I me I feel a lot worse for that chair than you should feel for My Wife
00:52:41
Brian Atlasand Kids uhoh great start guys good job good job to both of you all right moving on what about you um I like guys who are athletic and like go to the gym okay and
00:52:53
Elsiethen for personality wise I like men who act like men or like a gentleman like open the door for me make me feel feminine okay uh anything else on that front
00:53:04
Elsielike like men who acts like men yeah open the open the door while I feel like it doesn't take a lot of effort to open the door either it should just come
00:53:13
Brian Atlasnatural as well just come natural okay um I guess what is um so do you think that men they're not
00:53:24
Elsieacting that way some of the guys I have dated or like have talked to don't so initially when I'm picked up I expect them to open the door so if they don't that's already like a red flag that I note down in my mind it's not something
00:53:36
Brian Atlasthat I'm like mad about but it's something that I think about I see okay um what can you list off any other things that would men should do um I
00:53:49
Elsiethink it's really good if you're family oriented like I don't like men who don't really care about their family or don't do things to help their family so when they are family oriented I find
00:53:58
Carissathat really attractive okay family oriented okay all right what about you oh do I go again I guess no you already gave so we'll just what about you uh I
00:54:09
Carissalike a man who has good music taste and okay um just a guy who's taller than me I guess how tall are you uh 5'3 okay
00:54:19
Carissawhat's good music taste well I guess like really like my music taste I guess that's good music
00:54:28
Carissalisten well I don't really like guys who listen to a lot of rap or I don't know I like more of like bands like rock bands or stuff like that
00:54:41
Carissaso can I ask you a question how does music taste equate to a a good mate in your eyes well I didn't think about it that way I just like a man with good music taste so we could like Vibe together instead of like oh I don't really like
00:54:54
Eric (Osop)your music and I like listening to music a lot so I would want him to Vibe with me as well I feel that but how does that bleed into like a relationship cuz you could I could like somebody got the same music taste but I don't mean they a good
00:55:07
Brian Atlasgirlfriend you know what I'm saying it's just music well I just feel like music means like a lot to me so wait so if they're like super ugly but they have your exact same taste in music like
00:55:16
Brian Atlasyou're going to hit no oh okay so then no no no yeah like that's not enough right wouldn't that just be a cherry on top like I guess yeah I mean but like
00:55:28
Brian Atlaswould you pass on a dude who everything else was good but like he listened to I don't know uh classical music or I'll try to make him like put him I try to put him on the music I like nah he's