01:52:20Brian Atlasso women seem very upset by this idea of men not falling into this disposable role of they ought to sacrifice their
01:52:29Brian Atlaslife for a woman um but so ultimately at the end of the day would you what would you want me yeah I mean I like I said I
01:52:41Morganwould sure it would be nice if I I would like I like the idea of a man I'm with caring enough to want to protect me like that but like I said
01:52:53MorganI I don't think if I don't think if a man um like if for whatever reason that conversation somehow got brought up um I I wouldn't say that yeah he's low value
01:53:05Morganor not a real man or anything of that nature just because he wouldn't want to take a bullet okay here's the scenario let me change this up a little bit you've been dating a guy for two
01:53:16TTSyears just Gerald donated $200 for the panel what about you specifically is worth dying for okay we'll go around on that in just a second
01:53:27Brian Atlashere but so the question is you've been dating a guy for two years this conversation comes up cuz you watch the whatever podcast and you're like that host is a [ __ ] I wouldn't that and and then
01:53:40Brian Atlasyou're like what would you do for me babe would you take a bullet for me and he's like nah he doesn't say like whatever he says it in the most diplomatic way possible he just says I love you babe but no I wouldn't do it would you break up with him is it the end of the relationship ship no end of
01:53:54Aspenthe relationship causes serious issues in the relationship no no I don't think it would end the relationship no no if that's the case if the guy really says
01:54:05TTSthat there's probably other things going on in that relationship that donated $200 the delusion being in the real situation none of you would expecting the man to do it isn't realistic only
01:54:17Brian Atlastime a man would dive in front of a bullet and die would be for his children yeah that's one scenario where I'd be more inclined to do it would be for the
01:54:26Brian Atlaskids but not for the lady friend it is what it is um going back to Gerald Gerald he asks for the panel what about what about
01:54:38Brian Atlasyou specifically is Worth Dying For You can give short answers if you'd like we'll start with you go ahead my faith
01:54:48Andrew Wilsonwait your what Your Faith wait your faith in your husb husband my faith in God I would die for my would no no the question isn't what you would die for
01:54:59Andrew Wilsonthe question is what about you makes it worth someone else dying on your behalf that's the question I think there's she just answer no I don't I don't know to be honest what about you I don't think
01:55:11Demi Hawksthat there's anything yeah yeah I think to like a random stranger nothing but to somebody that I had like a very close personal intimate relationship I'm sure they could find many reasons many things
01:55:22Ali Hardestythey like about me I agree with that I think if I'm the love of someone's life and they were worth they were willing to make that sacrifice then it would be important to them and they would see things well what are the um so so the
01:55:36Ali Hardestywhat are the specifics though what would you say the specifics are that would make you a person who's worth dying for I'm not specifically saying that I am but I also think that I'm awesome and whoever ends up with me should probably
01:55:49Aspenthink that too what sorry all right what about you that's awesome yeah I think this is what the problem or one of the problems with Society is is
01:55:58Aspenthat uh I think and I and tell me like why this is wrong if it's wrong but I really think that can you not it's just distracts me
01:56:09Aspenmore I think that it's because I'm a woman so a man a man should be huh
01:56:19TTSH yeah that's my answer sorry actually I'm happy to go down this line with G one sports Don $200 of course these girls expect a man to take a bullet for them so they can
01:56:32TTSstep over his corpse and move on to the next swinging deck do not expect a man to be a bullet magnet when you are a Deen who hurt you and are you an incel
01:56:42Brian Atlaswho hurt you and are you a prostitute no she she's not the no that's me that's that's Demi that's Demi um yo GD you you
01:56:53Brian Atlasdon't want to you don't want to invoke his you don't want to invoke Grid's he'll be sending in Jets all night now don't you want that more money by the way he's got he's he's married
01:57:05Andrew Wilsonand he has kids he's definitely not a definitely not an Insel uh thank you good one appreciate it I wouldn't mind going down this line with you real quick because I kind of enjoy where it's going so you're talking about the ontology or
01:57:16Aspenthe being you're saying that by nature of being a woman there's possibly some kind of entitlement in soci for that you think um I think that there is an aspect in
01:57:28Aspensociety where women should be protected so if you if if it means entitlement which actually I think it probably would actually be I don't like the word entitlement but I don't know what other word to choose well let's go with
01:57:40Andrew Wilsonentitlement I think that's a good word and I think that that kind of encapsulates what you're saying if such a thing is true and you have this type of entitlement this would give you
01:57:50Andrew Wilsonfeminine privilege wouldn't it um yeah I think men do have it worse yeah if that's the case shouldn't men get additional privileges that perhaps
01:58:01Andrew Wilsonwomen don't get what what privilege are you thinking of like what's an idea of that privilege the expectation is that they die on behalf of women just because of the ontology of women being women well they do that they go to war and
01:58:14Andrew Wilsonthey do that I understand but but we're not talking about what they do do we're talking about what they should do and you're saying they should do it just by via the nature of you being a woman okay fair enough I can Grant hang on I can grant that that's true but if it is true
01:58:26Andrew Wilsonthen shouldn't they get some kind of additional privileges on top of that shouldn't they be kind of heralded in society I do think that yeah I think and I think that's part of the problem is that we're not looking up to men we're
01:58:38Aspennot respecting men we're not um you can show it keep going keep going don't worry um I think that that is part part of the problem and and it's like a a
01:58:49Aspencause and effect type thing where women are being devalued because men are not being valued like they should be I also think it's like The Sassy men Apocalypse out here and that's why women are doing
01:59:01Ali Hardestythings like only fans these days wait it's men's fault no I'm not saying that I'm not saying that I can take ownership I make my own decisions but I do think that go girl is it is it sassy man
01:59:12Ali Hardestyapocalypse to not want to die for your girlfriend no not necessarily I don't really have a strong opinion on that either way sassy man for not wanting to some people might think that I don't really I think something's wrong you're
01:59:25Andrew Wilsonsassy for I think I think that something is wrong when you say um sassy you just being doesn't put up with your [ __ ] I think that that's what that means no I think it's like the men who want be doesn't put your [ __ ] that makes him
01:59:36Brian Atlassass no it probably should be that um here let's let's get everybody's answer to this because I do want to get into the main thing we will come back to the bullet conversation though I'm kind of confused on what the new question is now but wait I no we went around on this
01:59:49MadisonMadison I think you we're just he said he wanted to engage on we we'll come back to that just so we can get to the be thing I actually like oddly agree with your position on this
02:00:01Madisonand I can like explain myself why so Frankie and I have actually had this conversation like before the question was even proposed on the show but personally obviously we'd want to have a
02:00:11Madisonfuture together and children so I would take the bullet personally because I think that he would be mentally stronger to take care of the children afterwards
02:00:22MadisonI think I'm a lot weaker so after he died it'd be harder me harder for me to just like live without him and this is if you have kids correct yeah okay and
02:00:33Madisonjust like even about the honorable question like I do think I am honorable but I think he's more honorable yeah I mean so this is actually one yeah this is actually one of the arguments I make
02:00:46Brian Atlaseven in the scenario let's say we have two kids together you could if we look to men to be providers and protectors well then if we're looking at this from this
02:00:58Brian Atlasnew angle of what's best for the children then I think and we know the outcomes of comparing single father households as compared to single mother households children raised in single
02:01:09Brian Atlasfather households tend to farare far better than the reverse uh there's actually a very compiling argument to be made that actually it's better if the father survives in these circumstances but if his role is to to be a protector
02:01:22Nicolewouldn't he have already failed at that role and therefore not be a suitable protector for the children well you could that's a good point I you're you're making some assumptions there I
02:01:32Morganmean who who's to say that he he would fail at protecting the children I don't think necessarily I get what you what you mean but I feel like if the Father
02:01:43Morganwhich I do feel in most not all cases are usually more of the provider for the family in general that they're going to be a ble to continue still providing for
02:01:53Andrew Wilsontheir children whereas let's say it was a stay-at-home mom now what well I me we can do L to provide a little to provide a little push back on the other end of the table to the question the question
02:02:05Andrew Wilsonwhich is asked of Brian is and forgive me um I'll steal man the position you can tell me if I got this question wrong but you asked wouldn't the man already have failed in his position as a protector if this happens but that's
02:02:17Andrew Wilsonactually a straw man to Brian's position because Brian already laid down that have no obligation to protect women he said that he would lay down his life maybe for his children so it actually
02:02:27Andrew Wilsonlogically follows what he's saying when he says no I'm not going to lay down my life for a woman so how would he fail at his job as a protector when he doesn't believe that that's his his obligation do you believe your role as a father is
02:02:40Brian Atlasto be a provider and a protector but not as to your wife not to the mother of your children there's two different things here I think you can absolutely
02:02:48Brian Atlasstill be a protector but if there's some scenario where the calculus is well if my role as protector would it's not even necessarily the role is protect her like you could still protect her
02:03:02Brian Atlaswith the uh hoped or anticipated outcome that you both still survive but in some scenario where one of you has to die I don't think it has anything really to do
02:03:14Nicolewith uh protection necessarily if she's the one who has to die um yeah I mean I think it's also on a case- toase basis because there are a
02:03:25Nicolelot of situations where the man is more financially you know makes more money but then there's also the opposite so if you want to really sit down and talk to your partner about that that's maybe one thing but well men are typically the
02:03:36Nicolebread winner typically not always though certainly there are women who who are uh breadwinners too but yeah well like I said it's a case- toase basis because like for example my dad made more money but I would have been way better off
02:03:48Nicolejust being raised by my mom because money wasn't as important as were you raised by your father um I was raised by well my parents are div divorced but I was mostly raised by my mom but my dad
02:03:58Natalia Taylorwould not have been able to Sure emotionally I'm not now I'm not saying that more money there's more important things you're taking love out of the equation are fathers incapable of loving
02:04:10Natalia Taylortheir children no it's just your argument doesn't take love into account it just talks about how you're the provider and the protector for the children first and foremost how I'm generalities here outcome would be you
02:04:23Natalia Taylorknow if if you needed to provide for the children and I think like you're taking providing and looking at that as like like monetarily is equal to love basically but it's that sounds like
02:04:35Nicoleyou're making an argument that the man is far more disposable than the woman no I'm saying that it's a case- toase basis because money is not the most important
02:04:46Andrew Wilsonthing in a child's life um sure so if it's a case-by casee basis then Brian would be right in saying that he should not immediately move towards the self-sacrifice because in his particular case especially it may be the case that
02:04:59Nicolethat would not be in the best interest of the children who he would make the sacrifice for right he I'm not saying he's wrong for feeling that way about himself like that's his being willing to take the
02:05:10Brian Atlasbullet yeah you can have that oh I think we can all agree that you all think I'm entitled to have that position but I think you all object to the position no
02:05:21Andrew Wilsoncome on you guys you guys all object not Tak what as a man there's been there's been a lot of subtle objection whether you see it or not the the push back to to Brian has definitely been seemingly
02:05:34Andrew Wilsonnow this is seeming so this would be inductive logic not deductive for those of you on that side of the table um but it does seem like you are pushing back on his uh on his worldview here a little
02:05:45Andrew Wilsonbit so I think that that's fine right that's what the show is for but uh but i' I mean I'd like to hear it yeah I object to that world view that I
02:05:54Aspenwouldn't be willing to yeah sacrifice my life for yeah I think that there's probably um not not the right value maybe that
02:06:06Brian Atlasyou're going to put on your marriage that's fine one last thing on this I we will get to the be vers man thing as soon as I as soon as we get past this do you think because one of the criticisms
02:06:17Brian AtlasI receive when I bring up this argument quite a bit sometimes from the but often times from the chat they're like Brian you're a beta male for not being willing to sacrifice your life
02:06:29Brian Atlasthat is so rude for your woman I don't give a [ __ ] I don't care I disagree with that look what he's done people um do you guys think it's it's less and I don't like the beta Alpha thing I don't
02:06:42Brian AtlasI don't use that kind of language really but just for simpl Simplicity sake do you think that it would be so-called
02:06:51Brian Atlasless Alpha to be unwilling to die for your wife or girlfriend would it be would it be a you'd be a beta male yeah starting with
02:07:02Natalia Tayloryou it's hard to say because like Alpha is so like animal kingdom and animal kingdom is all about survival we are and so if you want to survive as an alpha
02:07:13Aspenmale then you would not want to take the bullet and that's that is kind of a good point well that's that's kind of a little bit my argument Lions the that's what the male lion is for is to like
02:07:25Brian Atlasdefend the girls no the female lions F HT the females hunt but the it's when another male lion comes in the right well and actually just just one
02:07:37Brian Atlasthing on the whole Alpha Beta thing this originated in a like someone who did a study on wolves but it actually was totally debunked um there's there's more Nuance
02:07:48Brian Atlasto this whole the the um categorization in wolf packs for example than Alpha yeah it's not so easily broken down into
02:07:57Brian Atlasjust Alpha and betas but it is somewhat helpful a little bit but so do you think it's beta beta or less Alpha to totally
02:08:06Brian Atlasnot want to take a bullet for your girl um quick answers if you can yes no just call me a beta Brian
02:08:16Ali Hardestyjust do it I don't care okay yeah I do think a little bit okay beta Brian beta Brian I kind of see your point just because if you're an alpha then you might have like more to lose per se you've accomplished more in your life
02:08:28Nicolelike you have this podcast you're successful I'm not calling I'm not calling myself just to be clear not calling myself an alpha I'm just saying like I could see your point of view on that I'm not saying I agree or disagree but but one could argue because he's
02:08:40Nicoledone all that you know he's already accomplished it so that's true that is true huh beta beta I I honestly wouldn't say say
02:08:51Brian Atlaseither or okay yeah I I I all right not my preference but I don't think you're a beta for having that decision so cuz this occurred to me right like CU a lot of people in the chat and maybe it's not your position that this would make
02:09:02Brian Atlassomebody less alpha or beta but like let's think of some conquerors throughout history do you guys know genas Khan no okay genas Khan he was
02:09:11TTSlike in the 12th century or something he had 14 wives of high rank I I I got these notes oh my God God damn it
02:09:22TTS$200 father brings home 250k plus a year and the mother is unemployed without any educational background who should really take the bullet for the future of the children alphab
02:09:34Brian AtlasBrian right I mean if you've already had kid I mean in no scenario do I do I think the man takes the bullet uh but if the guy's the bread winner he's more
02:09:46Nicolecapable of protecting the children he's more capable of providing for the children assuming he's the bread winner so well okay but let's say it's the opposite and the rules were reversed and it was the male who was unemployed and the wife was bringing that money would
02:09:58Andrew Wilsonyou would have a stronger argument for the at least one argument for still not willing to say that it's a stronger argument because then we're deferring away from outcomes which is what Brian's
02:10:09Andrew Wilsonposition is initially anyway is that the outcome for single parent homes generally speaking for men is better than it is for women so even then even with that push back he would still have
02:10:21Brian Atlasto take that in consideration so I still wouldn't consider that to be a great counterargument yeah anyways hold on hold on I I'm going to bring it back going to bring it back
02:10:30Brian Atlashere so genas Khan he had 14 wives of higher rank I googled this he had many lesser wives it's estimated he had
02:10:39Brian Atlasanother 500 concubines who also bore him children wow um genas Khan you know founder and con of the largest contigous
02:10:49Brian AtlasEmpire in history um I suspect if he had this dilemma of he had to sacrifice his life for one of his
02:10:57Brian Atlasdozens of wives right do you think would he be a beta male because he didn't want to die for one of his many many wives I think we all know that he didn't care
02:11:09Andrew Wilsonabout those exactly but does that so I mean you could argue gang is KH I'm not so sure that Andrew do like a presupposition here for me I'm not sure that I'm willing to he didn't care about
02:11:22Brian Atlasthem yeah yeah he probably did not willing to conce well put Andrew he probably yeah he probably cared about them would he sacrifice his life for one of
02:11:33Brian Atlasthem probably he'd just be like I got like 50 let me just get another one I don't think that that is right on gas KH part wait hold on we're upset about genas Khan
02:11:45Nicolebecause I think there's other things there might have been other things this a moral man could have other things you know the Conquering huh sorry what I was basically just saying like is this a
02:11:56Brian Atlasmoral man like you know he his yeah I mean if depend is Mike was he moral mik makes prob not yeah that's what I'm saying I I don't know gang ish I don't
02:12:08Nicolewant to be how sex worker going to talk about who's moral like what she is not a raise your hand if you're a sex worker be clear feel like you just kind of Z
02:12:21Andrew Wilsonout and then come back don't smoke another cigarette can't call anybody else cigarettes are going head but I got to ask like when you ask this question of morality I not there's
02:12:33Andrew Wilsona Christian I see there is a Christian I see so she's she's not a relativist she probably has some standard justification for morals but like you guys are probably relativists right so why would
02:12:44Nicoleyou say is a moral man or not so I what's that I'm also a Christian so my morals are based on biblical values fism okay that's where that's where you
02:12:54Andrew Wilsonjustify your morality then on God yeah okay got you so um moving over though to the next gal when you said is this moral or this
02:13:05TTSnotal is grid One Motorsports donated $200 blood the bloodline must be preserved girls like the who in the second seat are not worthy evending the bloodline of a man willing to take a
02:13:17Demi Hawksbullet for others do the right thing and step in front of of it why was the man's bloodline be preserved but not the one like aren't I
02:13:28Brian AtlasRichard Dawkins wrote a book called The Selfish Jean oh my go and I think there is something look it would be selfish but if you could argue the most out thing gangas Khan
02:13:39Brian Atlas[ __ ] she takes the bullet I can just find another wife have seven children with her if she dies seven children with the next woman seven children with the next woman that works for think a woman
02:13:51Demi Hawksis going to want though continuously moving on to the next woman like that's kind of a ho ass mentality to be honest with you call a ho I'mma live I'mma survive so like going to back to the
02:14:03TTScomment that was previous or whatever where um like if were to move on right away donated $200 you've invoked inv grind hold on before I have you make is
02:14:15Andrew Wilsonthat the one I called an incel you called GD one you did call him an incel let me read some of these chats you did call this happily married man with many children an Insel well he clearly hates women so I just I think you well I think
02:14:28Andrew Wilsonyou hate men and you're a misandrist we'll just make generalities back and forth why would you why would you think I hate men why would you think that he hates women he just made it up right
02:14:37Andrew Wilsonwell he's calling a [ __ ] for Lord knows what I mean just started there's not no reason you started by attacking him personally so he attacks you back personally you can't cry
02:14:48Andrew Wilsonfoul did he attack her person he did attack us knows started uh he's the really what did he say that actually was a personal attack to you in his first Super Chat he made a comment and I
02:15:00TTSresponded to the comment you don't even remember what he said do you there's been mle you don't remember what he said so so what happened is One Motorsports donated
02:15:11TTS$200 of course these girls expect a man to take a bullet for them so they can step over his corpse and move on to the next swinging deck do not expect a man to be a bullet magnet when you are a
02:15:23Andrew WilsonDeen a little he did not he not personally attack you hang on so he did not personally attack you at all that's a replay of his of his comment he did not you personally attacked him and so
02:15:34Brian Atlashe responded in kind now you're crying foul you did make a bit of an escalation it was his comments a bit abrasive but you did escalate it by calling him an incel okay it's okay though we're all
02:15:46Andrew Wilsonfriends we're all friends here it's all good yeah I mean I don't take any of his it doesn't bother me I'm just pointing out I'm just pointing this out so that you understand let's let's move away from The Meta conversation let me get
02:15:57Natalia Taylorthrough a couple chats here uh what is wrong with you girls actually Natalia what is wrong with you girls I have two and I think your fathers are
02:16:09Natalia Taylordisengaged Andrew help me Paulie question mark WTF you idiot ACC good it's good now we have another one that's about to come up if I could have you read this one thank you
02:16:19Natalia Taylorpicco Stein great to see you back Andrew congrats on the plaque Brian why do why do women say they aren't sex objects but the number one profitable occupation is
02:16:30Brian Atlasbeing a sex object bad po ban porn and save Society B porn Okay uh thank you Dylan loly for that appreciate it man we have
02:16:43Natalia Tayloranother one coming through if you can read this one I would jump in front of a bullet to save a child I don't even know I certainly would do the same for my gal I
02:16:53Natalia Taylorexchange for I exchange for my assigned risk she has to defer to me in reducing risk so I don't have to very well said I agree with that thank you big thank you
02:17:05Aspenfor the message big can you talk about that can you like what's your opinion on if you should jump in front of a bullet for your wife or not well so I have a different worldview than Brian does I'm
02:17:17Andrew Wilsonan Eastern Orthodox Christian I follow Christian ethics so an ethical system I was enjoying the initial answer by the gal with the ginormous Blue Cross on her
02:17:27Andrew Wilsonchest where she said that there is a representation of how men and women are supposed to act as representations of the church not only in marriage but also in Greater Society but I also enjoyed
02:17:39Andrew Wilsonyour answer when you were talking about the ontological differences and that there's greater duties between men and women the reason I'm testing your guys' logic is because I seem to note that you understand that the men have higher
02:17:50Andrew Wilsonduties but I'm I'm not so sure that you understand what yours are so my take on this is of course for my wife I would absolutely uh lay down my life and I already have essentially right I've spent most of my adult life taking care
02:18:02Andrew Wilsonof her and I've spent my entire adult life taking care of my children as well so uh I would say that that's already laying down the time of my life to take care of that but yeah I would also
02:18:14Natalia Taylorphysically do this but I follow a different ethical system and um so that's May I I know the the verse that I quoted earlier about the husband's role
02:18:25Natalia Taylorin the marriage the women's role I think it's important to talk about as well because it says the husbands must love their wives but women respect your husbands and so that's like um well that's not that's not what it says it
02:18:38Andrew Wilsonsays that you need to submit to your husband yeah it says respect and that's not respect that submission is different that's that's an overage right there so there's more to it than just respecting
02:18:48Andrew Wilsonsubmission does not just mean respect that means submission and that's something which is absent in society and that's why guys like Brian refuse to take a bullet for women because they
02:18:59Andrew Wilsonrefuse to submit to patriarchal Authority and if they did he would be far more inclined to do so that's why by the way he would do it for his children he would do it for his children because they see him as an authority a
02:19:11Andrew Wilsonpatriarchal Authority in the household and so he knows that that's his greater duty but why would he have a greater duty to women who don't submit that well I agree well I completely agree and you're right it
02:19:24Natalia Taylordoes say that and and I think that's a huge reason why a lot of women nowadays you know like there are issues with women not or not submitting to their significant other or their husband or
02:19:36Natalia Taylorsubmitting to the wrong people and I think that's how a lot of women get to where they are today is because they've submitted to the wrong the wrong person and they've been hurt and so there's been a response to okay well that must
02:19:49Andrew Wilsonbe what where I went wrong when well I'm not confident that I believe your framework that the reason that there's so many of these women who are damaged is because they refused to submit I would actually counter that the reason
02:20:00Andrew Wilsonso many of them are damaged is because uh they wouldn't do it right they wouldn't actually submit that's what I think is going on I don't think that they embraced submission and had a bad time I think that the opposite is true they refused to embrace submission and
02:20:13Andrew Wilsonthat's what gave them the bad time for instance when we go around this table the reason we got all the lifetime stories from everybody and made sure that we could get down why it is that you guys uh you know what your occupations are and the different things
02:20:25Andrew Wilsonthat you believe do you think for instance that the G in the blue the only fans worker do you think that she's going to be submitting to a man anytime soon cuz I don't think she is in fact she pretty confidently said no she doesn't even she's not even interested
02:20:38Andrew Wilsonin marriage not interested in children she not interested in any of that there's no interest in submission so I don't think it's a submission issue I think it's a will issue it's they're willful and they're disobedient and they're disobedient in so
02:20:52Andrew Wilsonhang on I'm almost done they reject patriarchy and I think that that is the kind of fundamental cause of these flaws you're interested in being submissive yeah I would quit only fans oh that was going to be my question so for example
02:21:05Brian Atlashypothetical if me and you were dating and I said don't like that you're doing only fans I want you to delete it right now would you do it and you were like totally in love with them I mean I would need to survive so I couldn't you know
02:21:17Brian AtlasI'd have to figure it out but in theory yes I would do that I would have no problem doing that all right let me read one chat and then we're going to get into finally we'll get into the man verse bear the main topic of
02:21:28Natalia Taylortonight Natalia can you read this for us pleas why do women think who hurt you is an intelligent comeback of course it was a woman many me women these days are
02:21:38Natalia Taylorselfish narcissistic scrumpets don't care about their actions should should embarrass you thank you Nickelodeon I think this was maybe directed at you because you said who hurt you was that
02:21:49Andrew Wilsonit should embarrass me but it just doesn't I like I wanted to uh to just interject I I looked this up just to make sure that you were um you were clear on this it's Ephesians 22 wives
02:22:01Andrew Wilsonsubmit yourselves unto your own husbands as unto the Lord for the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church and he is the savior of the body
02:22:11Andrew Wilsonmeaning that submission in all ways to the husband you're supposed to liken it as you do unto the Lord which means the same way that you submit to God is the same way you're supposed to submit to your
02:22:22Andrew Wilsonhusband rest have a Godly husband I just want to ask this question real quick Y what would be the restrictions that you would put on a submission to God nothing nothing and and it even said
02:22:35Natalia Taylorand it even says later in that verse that even if your husband is not a Godly Man your submission will prompt him to become a godly man because he'll he'll he'll take heart and and want to be a
02:22:48Natalia Taylorgood leader to your relationship want to be a good leader to your family and so I think what you're the point you're getting at is why does it not start with the woman why should the woman not be the first one to submit and then the husband follows I think that I
02:23:01Andrew Wilsoncompletely agree with you if that is your point well no I guess my overarching point would be the first thing that you said which is if you want to see the kind of flaw in the logic um
02:23:13TTSthe submission if you want the man to do the best they possibly can for you take a things like this you $200 Andrew out here spit in Hot Fire
02:23:24TTSLord of The Crucible what books should I read that would bolster my skills in debate and further my understanding of logic and reason pen ready do you want Andrew do you want to finish your point
02:23:36Andrew Wilsonand then answer this so so um so so yeah back to this I guess my overarching point instead is that if you really wanted to see a reflection of the uh
02:23:46Andrew Wilsonchurch as the man is the head and the representation of Christ and the woman the body is the representation of the church then submitting to him like you would unto the Lord if they if you if you make the Bold claim there's no
02:23:59Andrew Wilsonrestriction to the submission you would give to the Lord God isn't it telling you to do the exact same thing here and wouldn't you say that that's why you have such societal decadence how can you look at a man like Brian for instance
02:24:11Andrew Wilsonand be angry with him if he says there's no possible way I would ever lay my life down for a woman unless I had what Ephesians 22 is talking about about how could you even blame him you know what I
02:24:22Natalia Taylormean how could you even blame him I don't I don't yeah but I also but I but I also say what what if what if Brian found a woman I still kind of blame him
02:24:34AspenI do because I think he should still choose to take responsibility wait when you say responsibility what do you mean like it doesn't matter how the girl is acting you should still be taking responsibility holy [ __ ] just to be
02:24:46Aspenclear doesn't matter it doesn't matter how my husband is acting if I had one doesn't matter how my husband is acting I should still be submitting what yeah but the point but actually this is
02:24:57Andrew Wilsoncounterintuitive to your own logic right so what if you're not submitting what if you're not submitting what if who's not you you well I should
02:25:07Andrew Wilsonbe yeah but if you're not though then he should still take responsibility right okay so do you see the whole the gaping hole in your logic here I see G in your logic is that you do not have hang on
02:25:21Andrew Wilsonhang on let me finish the point and then you can you can respond I promise the whole in the logic though is to say that wait he should still be acting as though you are a submissive wife when you're
02:25:32Andrew Wilsonnot being a submissive wife that is insane to me that's counterintuitive well I guess I didn't really mean that watch I
02:25:41Aspenguess yes I would like to reframe please okay I would I think that uh that doesn't change his role in how he should be leading somebody how do
02:25:54Andrew Wilsonyou lead somebody doesn't submit to your leadership how do you submit to somebody who's not leading properly exactly well I mean the problem is is that you don't let's say for a second uh that you join
02:26:05Andrew Wilsonthe military okay uh you have an expectation that you're going to do what it is that you're expected to do and if you don't there's consequences to that that is part of leadership so if the
02:26:18Andrew Wilsonconsequence to this is to say for instance hey if you're a disobedient and non-s submissive woman non-s submissive wife the last thing I'm going to do is put myself In Harm's Way because my children are still going to need me
02:26:30Andrew Wilsonthat's actually extremely reasonable and a rational response to that isn't it so who goes first yeah can you tell me what the writing well women so the thing is is you're supposed to take the plunge
02:26:41Andrew Wilsontogether right that's point but as a relationship progresses what we see more more often than not is that women initiate divorce and they initiate for theid re and they initiate leaving
02:26:53Andrew Wilsonrelation for some of the stest reasons possible that's the opposite of submission so if they're looking at it we can make a good determination that women may start out submitting and then decide arbit based on arbitrary means
02:27:06Andrew Wilsonthat they don't want to anymore that's the whole point right so what is a man supposed to do when he has a woman that's not being submissive well that's what the protestantism generally doesn't give you this but that's what the ecclesiastical
02:27:19Andrew Wilsonauthority of the church is for the authority of the church you're not supposed to have a the marriage of the state doesn't mean anything it's totally irrelevant it's nonsensical there's no support for it that's why yeah there's
02:27:31Andrew Wilsonno groundwell Community Support the ecclesiastical authority of your church is supposed to be that groundwell and Community Support which helps prevent that from happening but within a secular framework they don't have that and so
02:27:43Andrew Wilsonwhat ends up happening is these relationships basically get iced the second a woman sees that hey this guy over here makes a little bit more money he's more handsome and he's into me they tend to leave their husbands for that
02:27:54Andrew Wilsonguy or for other arbitrary reasons whereas the church would provide massive quantities of Shame from the community that they grew up in and that's why that stuff the church would provide shame is that what you said yeah of course like
02:28:06Andrew Wilsonthey would shame her into staying in a marriage no they would shame they would shame her from stepping out for arbitrary reasons I see holding her accountable like you're not her exactly holding her accountable saying listen how can you
02:28:20Aspenhave these expectations that your husband makes these grandio sacrifices for you including taking a bullet when you won't even submit to him so what what would you say to a couple that is married where the wife's not submitting
02:28:32Andrew Wilsonto the guy what like what advice would you give that man that that that [ __ ] chick needs to behave and submit what do you mean that's exactly what I you need to behave or what or she should take a
02:28:44Andrew Wilsonyou need to follow what your what Your Role is probably already told now if you don't have that if you don't have a Christian marri my advice for you is why even get married it's the stupidest thing on planet Earth that's my I mean that's my
02:28:55Andrew Wilsonquestion but I still think that people should get married because it's it's a the right thing to do if it's why is it a right thing to do out absent a religious marriage Well I this is a
02:29:08Aspenquestion that I have for myself can you make can you make a single reason why a secular person should actually get married because there's a design behind
02:29:18Aspengetting getting married and I don't but I I'm asking because I genuinely question like if people don't have a real relationship with God what is the point in getting married because
02:29:30Aspenthe entire point is that's what I that's my point to you no I'm okay but I'm saying that I still think that it's the right thing to do is to get married yeah
02:29:40Aspenbut why um because the wrong thing to do is to continue to have sex outside of marriage yeah but I mean both both are
02:29:50Andrew Wilsonwrong the thing is is from a secular a sec from a secularist perspective right they're not doing anything immoral they're not Christians so from their perspective why in the world would it
02:30:03Andrew Wilsonwhat would be the advantage to a state marriage for a secularist there there isn't any there's no advantage to a male in a secary marriage can you name one taxes no not even cuz if you get if you yeah I I don't think that that's a good
02:30:16Andrew Wilsonreason and I don't think that that really benefits you at all but no uh it doesn't well we need to fix this yeah but we can't fix it unless
02:30:26Andrew Wilsonpeople submit to antical Authority and people will refuse to submit to an ecclesiastical Authority especially women seemingly consequences for women are not a thing that they like to see
02:30:38Andrew Wilsonhappen and so they prefer to go through the state rather than a church ecclesiastical marriage because then they have some kind of safety net and so what's happened in in is inverted right
02:30:48Andrew Wilsonnow Society gives incentives to women to leave men which is crazy the opposite should be true they should give them disincentives for leaving yeah I
02:30:59Nicoleagree can I ask just for conversation sake I'm not putting an argument forward but what is a benefit that and I know you're going to say like alimony or
02:31:10Andrew Wilsonwhatever but men can also receive alimony well men are typically the bread win what we find what we find is if if you were say for instance in Secor
02:31:21Andrew Wilsonmarriage that 50 there was a 5050 percentile of the time that um you know men were awarded uh custody and that men were awarded alimony men were awarded these things you might have a good point
02:31:34Andrew Wilsonthere but that's not what we see what we see is that the court system is very biased towards women it has been for years it's starting to get a little bit better due to men's rights advocacy groups being out there and due to
02:31:45Andrew Wilsonprobably the red pill sphere in general has been helpful towards that but that is not what you see and so from a secular perspective if you're a secular man you're a non-Christian man what in the hell would be your incentive to get
02:31:57Aspenmarried when you can uh just shack up with a chick and have all the same benefit yeah and that's part of the problem is that sex is so available to guys why would they get married well put
02:32:09Andrew Wilsonthere's no need good well put so then so then Brian stance again I guess bringing it all the way back tying it all the way back is completely reasoned and rational
02:32:19Andrew Wilsonhe says there's no value in marriage therefore it can't really even be his wife even if they are married so he doesn't value putting his life on the line there is no submission which can possibly happen because there is no
02:32:31Andrew Wilsonecclesiastical Authority from a secular ethic I I don't know how you fight against that because it's just objectively true yeah yeah we got to fix that I think it's very real and honest
02:32:44Brian Atlasuh couple quick things we'll finally we got we got to get into this bear [ __ ] the man vers bear we're getting there Andrew really quick Gerald did ask you he was asking about what book should I
02:32:55Andrew Wilsonread that would bolster my skills in debate and further my understanding ofic I need to ask him fiction or non-fiction and I know that that's kind of a cheap low blow because I'm basically telling you to send in another Super Chat but
02:33:07Andrew WilsonI'm going to be elitist Andrew tonight and I expect you to send in another Super Chat so I can tell you fiction or non-fiction do you want uh just should we do just three for both or are we
02:33:17Andrew Wilsongonna be go should we be gobl no no no no I'm being elitist Andrew tonight sending in another Super Chat and then I'll answer fiction or nonfiction Jer I've been trying I've been trying that lately
02:33:30Brian Atlasyeah fiction or non-fiction and then when you send in the next one I'll be even more hyp specific should we just to be do we do a champagne pop if he sends in the TTS yes
02:33:42Brian Atlasdo we do we should we should because it is I feel like it's a little goblino a little Goblin to be like send in another TTS and we'll answer but uh really quick
02:33:53Andrew Wilsonon your thing I mean you didn't ask him to and I'm a guest I can you know gu true wipe the mud off on the floor right because guess I if it was directed at me Gerald I would have I would have answered um we can't unfortunately we
02:34:07Brian Atlascan't force we can't force Andrew answer those are the circumstances though there's the all right um really quick you said that you
02:34:18TTSdisagreed with me because the responsibility I should still uh take the bullet what was your what did you say like oh oh my God General donated
02:34:28Brian Atlas$200 both both but I like your style is it a I don't know if it's is that a champagne pop think got to do a champagne Pop I mean he played he played
02:34:38Andrew Wilsonalong pretty well right like all right he played should we do it uh Andrew you want look how excited
02:34:48Andrew Wilsonthey are by the way book book Rex okay so uh surprisingly one of the non some of the non-fiction books that I would recommend I would
02:34:58Andrew Wilsonstart with um so you get a good understanding of libertarian arguments and then you can reject them all um or from a fiction standpoint I would go
02:35:08Andrew Wilsonwith Terry Goodkind um it's those are excellent books um also on the fiction side of course um you may not believe this but Lord of the Rings will help you because trying to understand is
02:35:20Andrew Wilsonnarrative building you're trying to understand how to frame worldviews and frame narratives uh then on the
02:35:30Andrew Wilsonnon what's that we're all scared we're popping bottles don't the cameras then on the on the nonfiction oh my god um I would actually I would recommend that you go over to the
02:35:43Andrew Wilsonpatristic faith uh there's some books there by father Deacon ananas that will help you immensely when it comes to argumentation I would also read all of the books that you possibly can by a gentleman named Aaron Clary I don't know
02:35:56Andrew Wilsonif he's ever been on the whatever podcast but if he hasn't he definitely needs to be because um he's been a Powerhouse in the red pill Community uh for a long time or what is considered
02:36:07Andrew Wilsonthe manosphere I'd highly recommend that he go on manosphere um he has great books including the book of numbers and books which are in regard to what would happen if men disappeared from the economy tomorrow
02:36:20Andrew Wilsonuh those are fantastic and then Jay Dyer also has several books which will help you with arguments as well from the Christian Perspective if we're going to get into detailed philosophy we can get into that too but it's going to cost you
02:36:32Aspenanother $200 no $600 you know you can do this yo this one's [ __ ] I swear to God
02:36:44Brian Atlasbro I believe in you I'm really you did so good last time what do you mean it's fued it's not coming off bro I'm doing I'm doing the thing it's just GNA explod
02:36:54Brian Atlasdoing the [ __ ] thing hold on to the squeeze the top a little TI I bro I'm doing the death grip on this [ __ ] no you're not are you twisting not the
02:37:03Brian Atlasdeath grip I watched the tutorial I just this [ __ ] bro that grip and twist I'm are you really you don't have a lot of practice with that
02:37:14Brian AtlasBrian I'm sorry it's not dude I swear it's glued did you glue the [ __ ] Nick you [ __ ]
02:37:23Nicole[ __ ] just Gerald donated $200 you son of a [ __ ] I'm in you son of a [Music]
02:37:37Nickbital are you popping it dude can you mad Madison help Ryan out you do it I can't Nick has to do it
02:37:48Demi HawksNick can you do we need an alpha an alpha male an alha Nick Nick Nick Nick I swear covering his face oh God don't point it
02:38:01Nicoleat him what you look like you're like not trying this is gratuitous the so I'm going to take the audio from
02:38:12Brian Atlasthat and [Music] just oh it was so easy for I loosened it I loosened it Nick right I loosened it it was like almost
02:38:25Brian Atlasit was ready to go I just that was weird I got these dainty gamer hands bro it's [ __ ] genetics [ __ ] all right uh everybody want to little champen wait so what did Gerald
02:38:37Demi Hawkswhat was it he wanted something more he wanted me to get a little bit more hypers specific oh did generous yeah with particulars son of a [ __ ] in so I actually had my wife bring him down this is one of my favorite
02:38:50Andrew Wilsonit's the story of Philosophy by Will Durant sh and this goes into a complete overview of some of the greatest philosophers on planet Earth and their main stat for their arguments but also tells you a little bit about their
02:39:02Andrew Wilsonpersonality so that you can understand why it is that they came at those worldviews the way that they did uh this one from Aaron Clary was another one that I highly recommend a world without
02:39:13Andrew Wilsonmen highly recommend that and then dogmatic theology this one is by by uh Vladimir Losi so I don't know if I was allowed to actually show those because of like
02:39:24Andrew Wilsonmaybe brand stuff but he he did ask for the questions that okay Brian oh to show to show the book covers yeah oh like and then also for arguments against feminism
02:39:34Andrew WilsonI would highly recommend of course Rachel Wilson's book ult feminism her new upcoming book which will be released at near the end of the year or I think even she may have said at late summer is
02:39:47Andrew Wilsonliterally going to be called argument against feminism so highly recommend I think she's going to put that out for pre-order soon nice good times good times does everybody have some cheers
02:40:00Andrew Wilsonfolks also thank you for the great 600 and supporting whatever they've often had me on as a continued guest I think I'm the longest lasting male guest onever most Andrew where's your liquor
02:40:12Ali HardestyAndrew where's your liquor you got some right here man I got vodka we're ready to go uh let's cheers to to Gerald polar bears oh okay never mind to polar bears
02:40:23Brian Atlaskoala bears too koala bears cheers and to Gerald bear to Geral cheers thank you for the champagne thank you pop tasty you got like a two for one you
02:40:34Brian Atlasgot you got a two for one combo there you got a discounted heavily discounted shame champagne pop so Salo okay on to almost on
02:40:45Brian Atlastwo guys go to twitch.tv/ whatever drops a follow in the prime sub do you shave your arms Brian stop no actually one time when I was in high school were you on the swim team I was in the I was on
02:40:57Brian Atlasthe wrestling team and the all the other wrestlers would like I did I did the legs too and [ __ ] I think swimmers shave their legs we get a picture no because I was everybody on my
02:41:08Nickteam everybody on my wrestling team in high school they would be they would literally like intentionally like rip your hair out on your legs so I was like shave that [ __ ] off so you you shaved
02:41:20Brian Atlasyour legs for the wrestling team and and I did I did all body hair bro all body hair dude they was dude the [ __ ] the what what's it called The Hazing The
02:41:31Brian AtlasHazing on the wrestling team was so [ __ ] intense I was like bro I got to get rid of huh what was it no they would when youest they' like rip your like the like when you were wrestling the people well
02:41:44Andrew Wilsonthat would happen naturally they just like they'll just mess with you right so go out you'd be you could just be in the in you know the locker room they might reach over and rip some leg hair out just for fun right yeah the leg hair
02:41:56Andrew Wilsonthat you can just like what men's men are brutal like they're brutal especially when it comes to team building like that they do [ __ ] like that all the time yeah well the [ __ ] the [ __ ] that went down in when I was in
02:42:07Brian Atlashigh school would never [ __ ] fly they used to leave on each other with Twizzlers oh we did and like would not be allowed guy things anyways um so yes
02:42:19Brian AtlasI did I did shave my legs one time it was the weirdest feeling ever how about growing back did that suck was a super itchy it was pretty weird are you weird never anyways twitch guys go to twitch.tv whatever drop us a follow in
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02:42:43Natalia Taylorchat uh hold on let me pull that up Natalia can you read these read this the greatest Saint
02:42:55Natalia Tayloraier is not feeling it is a very aape Agape Agape what does that mean it's a type of uh like isn't it submission
02:43:06Natalia Taylorsubmission is a is a higher form of love being thrown away a marriage should a throwing away a marriage to feel in love submission is a higher form of love been
02:43:16Andrew Wilsonthrowing away a marriage to feel in love thank you thank you realistic heart appreciate it uh so just to um that's a longtime supporter of The Crucible if
02:43:27Andrew Wilsonyou don't mind Brian I can I can explain what he was saying there is he's saying that submission is the ultimate form of love it transcends a feeling so there can be times where in marriages and you
02:43:39Andrew Wilsonknow this you're married and if you don't know it yet you will that there can be years where things can be Rocky and tough due to maybe work schedules or um you know children's needs or things
02:43:51Andrew Wilsonlike that and sometimes you have to literally go through hell yeah and the remembering that the feeling the butterfly feeling of love can come and go you can transcend that with
02:44:02Andrew Wilsonsubmission understanding that understanding that you can move back to that and that um and that that's that's kind of the ultimate form of love is what he's saying if I may I know we're
02:44:12Andrew Wilsongoing to talk about the Bears I'm sorry but if I may say one last thing um when you may not you may not okay go ahead just Kidd when when I
02:44:22Natalia Taylormet my husband or like when we started dating I was not attracted to him I literally just heard I I heard God tell me this is your
02:44:34Backgroundhusband submit to him I know that sounds that sounds crazy did you hear the voice did he come down he said you will marry him is that how
02:44:44Natalia Taylorit went came in a burning no no not at all it was it was a feeling it was a it was a still Small Voice in inside my mind inside my heart and I knew that there that we had a
02:44:57Natalia Taylorfuture together and I knew that the way that he appeared during that time wasn't how he would always be and that he would grow into the man that he was meant to be so when I submitted to him and I showed him you know even though I'm not
02:45:09Natalia Taylorattracted to you right now I know you're going to transform later on and I know that both of us like we had a glow up together did you tell that it was really beautiful I I say to his face would you say that you him into what it was that
02:45:22Natalia Tayloryou I know I'm not attracted to you right now yeah he knows but sorry what was you you molded him into what it was that she wanted no no are you sure it sounds sounds like a little bit of
02:45:32Natalia Taylormolding going I invented him no I'm kidding but yeah so I agree with you when you say like submitting is the highest form of love because it denies
02:45:41Natalia Taylorfeelings it denies the fleshly desires that we have as humans to to submit to our feelings and feeling are real but
02:45:49Brian Atlasoften they lie so Fishel beautiful it was good it was good okay bears bear bears beats battar
02:46:00Brian AtlasGalactica all right so guys this has been going viral we did touch on it wait what beats Battlestar Galactica no bears beats battar
02:46:12Brian AtlasGalactic guys nothing beats battle store Galactica but anyway the vegetables so yeah talking talking about the vegetables beats uh so
02:46:23Brian Atlasguys this has been going viral we talked about it a little bit last show but I think we got to bring it back up we got to bring it back up so there's all these stories Nick scroll down just a tad yeah
02:46:35Brian Atlasso and you all these It's Been Everywhere other tab Nick other next Tab and scroll down get to the third page on this get to the look at all these articles about man or
02:46:46Brian Atlasbear viral HP hypothetical question blah blah blah oh my God it's the people are making tick toks it's just gone insane all this bear and man talk so going
02:46:58Brian Atlasaround the table going around the table the question is would you rather be stuck in the woods with a man or a bear
02:47:09Brian Atlasgo ahead that's attacking you just oh my God just sorry answer the question starting with you go ahead a
02:47:16Demi Hawksman I think a man a man oh [ __ ] yeah well I have a reason why just like do I have all my regular stuff on me what do
02:47:27Demi HawksI have pepper like if I was in the woods and I had pepper spray on me I think that's going to be more effective against a man than a whole bear spray no no no you just oh it's just me by myself
02:47:40Andrew Wilsonyou don't you don't you don't have you don't have guns and you're not John Rambo I would take the bear it's just you against the elements and that [ __ ] I
02:47:49Ali Hardestywould take the bear the bear okay what about you I guess the man you you guess the man I mean both don't sound very fun but um I understand people's argument I
02:48:02Aspenknow where you're going with this okay what about you I pick the man it depends what kind of why the hesitation because I have a billion things running through my
02:48:14Aspenbrain okay if it's a koal bear 100% the man no questions asked apparently oh [ __ ] what I can change mine I can change mine to the bear I was going either way I said the bear I said the
02:48:27Andrew Wilsonbear reframe the question so we can go around the table again if you don't mind humoring me here Brian yeah if you had if you were if you knew that you were going to be in a in a
02:48:39Andrew Wilsonplane accident somehow you had a crystal ball and you were in the middle of a forest you had essentially no supplies would you rather be stuck in the forest
02:48:49Andrew Wilsonwith a bear or a man who you did not know are we going around again yeah oh a
02:48:57Demi Hawksman a man a bear because a man that I don't know could be very unpredictable in a bear like it can be unpredictable
02:49:07Demi Hawksbut if you leave Bears alone they will more likely leave you like the man's not necessarily going to
02:49:15Aspenattack me but he could do what type of bear is it you don't know the worst kind but look let's assume let's assume it's