NEVER Had A Boyfriend At 38/33?! VlRGlN Until 26?! Brian CONFRONTED On Marriage?! | Dating Talk #272
Date: 2025-12-08
Duration: 7h 11m
Guests
Identified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Felicity Hughes(guest)
SPEAKER_03Haley(guest)
SPEAKER_04Jacqueline Thomas(guest)
SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_07Sierra(guest)
SPEAKER_08Dakota(guest)
SPEAKER_10Sabrina (Diabetic)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Sativa(guest)
SPEAKER_13Bella (pre-law)(guest)
Key Moments
00:03:18
IntroAll guests introduce themselves
00:13:08
Key MomentDakota lost virginity at 26 to Olympic snowboarder
00:49:15
Key MomentHaley's 15-month situationship: he dates others, she's exclusive
01:58:05
ControversyBrian's bow/laundry expectations spark debate
02:17:38
Key MomentDakota's father is trans (transitioned 2016), tore family apart
03:49:35
QuoteSativa: abortion was biggest regret, wanted to kill herself, year of therapy
Topics Discussed
00:03:18
Guest Introductions
7 guests + Felicity.
00:13:08
Dakota's Snowboarder
Lost virginity at 26 to Olympic snowboarder at X Games party.
00:49:15
Haley's 15-Month Situationship
Seeing a guy who dates others and refuses to commit.
01:58:05
Bow/Laundry Debate
Brian's ex bowing video + laundry expectations.
02:07:26
Haley Tinder Stories
Walked home 4 hours after hookup. Date roofied himself.
02:17:38
Dakota's Trans Father
Father transitioned 2016. Tore family apart.
03:49:35
Sativa's Abortion Regret
Biggest regret. Wanted to kill herself. Year of therapy.
05:05:00
Marriage Debate
Brian vs Jacqueline on benefits of marriage.
Transcript
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06:53:56
SPEAKER_00>> Um, >> gun crazed panda donated $30. Isn't funny how most women wouldn't kill birds be? They have no problems and the babies.
06:54:08
SPEAKER_09>> I've never had an abortion and I'm against abortions. So, I hope he's not talking about me. No, I think he was probably in general. Yeah, but generally it's true. Totally. And again, I'm guilty of it, but
06:54:21
Sativa>> never again. [clears throat] Ne never again. I don't even care if it's a horrible way it happens. It wasn't It's not worth it.
06:54:29
SPEAKER_00>> Golden Questions donated $29.19. Chair one, your brainwash feminist. You'll end up like chair 7, alone, delusional, and old, thinking someone
06:54:42
SPEAKER_00wants you even if they tell you otherwise. Please change. Family gives you purpose, not work. [screaming] >> Harsh, you can punch back.
06:54:55
SPEAKER_00>> That's okay. >> Mean mean person. >> Pro shot donated $29. Chair five. Sadly, I think you are
06:55:06
SPEAKER_00taken, but you are as beautiful outside as you speak internally to us. We all make mistakes growing up. I'm sorry about your loss, but you are a beautiful >> nice little message there.
06:55:18
Brian Atlas>> Thank you. [laughter] >> All right. Thank you, Pro Shotty. Really appreciate it, man. Um, let's go to Twitch really quick. We'll we'll shout out Twitch, guys. Final call on the TTS if you want to get it in. Final call. $30 TTS. Final call, guys. I don't know
06:55:30
Brian Atlaswhy it's [clears throat] weird. Um, >> are you try one more time? >> Can you Yeah, try it one more time. I don't know. >> I don't know why it's uh
06:55:40
Brian Atlasuh that's weird. Um, can you click on activity feed up there? >> Uh, actually no, no, no. Uh, click on filters. Uh,
06:55:57
Brian Atlaswait, that's weird. I don't know. Unfortunately, I'm not able to shout any of you guys out, but I It's bugged, boys. I told you. I always tell you it's bugged. Final call for
06:56:08
Brian AtlasTwitch, guys. Thank you so much for watching on Twitch. Drop us a follow. Drop us a Prime sub if you have one. Final Call for Twitch. If you have Amazon Prime, you can link it to your Twitch. Quick easy way to support the
06:56:18
SPEAKER_00show every single month. All right, we have some chats coming through. >> Pasty George donated $30. If I had to
06:56:28
SPEAKER_00murk a bunch of birds to prevent another scandmic by governments and big farmer, I would. >> Hell yeah. Let's go. Uh oh, we got Sons of Liberty coming in.
06:56:40
SPEAKER_00>> On Soft Liberty donated $29. B. I almost drowned surfing the boom in Nicaragua. Have you ever had a drowning experience surfing? Long or scary hold
06:56:52
SPEAKER_06downs? >> By the way, trans women are men. [laughter] That was >> I don't think anyone disagrees with that. >> Sprinkle just a little sprinkle sprinkle. >> You know, surfing in California,
06:57:02
Brian Atlastruthfully, like the sometimes we'll have like massive big swells, but overwhelmingly the waves typically don't get freak like don't [snorts] get too
06:57:12
Brian Atlasbig. Um, I don't think I've had uh a super scary hold down, but I mean I've surfed I've had some uh
06:57:24
Brian AtlasI've definitely had some like surfing hold downs where I'm like out of breath >> and I'm like probably a few more
06:57:35
Brian Atlasuh but [sighs] I I'm not like training for like big wave surfing or anything but like I've been out on [sighs and gasps]
06:57:44
Brian Atlaslike double overhead days, I think. And I've had some hold downs that are a little sketchy, but I no nothing too crazy. So, yeah. But that's that's crazy, man.
06:57:57
Brian AtlasThat's crazy. You got to be careful surfing, man. People die. People die. Um, we have Bluff Fest here. >> Blist donated $30. Every woman should be
06:58:08
SPEAKER_00able to get an abortion whenever and wherever they like. It's their body, their choice. The only condition being each time they should have to get a prison style teardrop tattoo. >> That's an interesting one. Okay.
06:58:20
Brian Atlas>> I [laughter] love the caveat at the end. >> They have a a little mark or something. Okay. Um they'd probably do that trade like to ensure abortion rights in
06:58:31
SPEAKER_00perpetuity, you have to get it. They they'd do that. They take the trade. Pasty George donated $30. >> Yeah, thank you. >> I want to thank the panelists who stayed for the entire show and to Brian, our
06:58:42
Brian Atlashost. Thank you all and good night. P.S. I will try to be here for every episode, but no. >> Oh, yeah. Oh my goodness. Pasty George with the little the change up. Hey man,
06:58:54
Brian Atlasum I' we'd love to the the audience likes you. We all like you here or whatever, man. So, I know you said you were taking some time off, but man, you're you're always welcome if you want to tune in. And bro,
06:59:07
Brian Atlasyou don't even you don't even have like just watch the show, man. Just say hi. You can just say hi in the chat. The chatters like you, man. But, uh yo, I like pleasantly that made my day, though. Honestly, that made my day to
06:59:18
Brian Atlassee see Pasty because uh I thought he was gone. I was like, damn. It's like lost a friend. [laughter]
06:59:30
Brian AtlasUh, but good to see you in the chat, man. Stop by anytime, man. Anytime if you you got some free time. Um, I can't pronounce your name. But chair six should debate Andrew on theology would
06:59:41
Brian Atlasbe great. You want to debate him? Not here. >> You could just call him. I guess you would call him. I [laughter] don't know if you guys would what you guys would
06:59:50
Brian Atlasreally disagree on, but uh I don't know. Uh, Kanaki. Kanachi. Am I Kachi? Kanachi. >> Ganachi. >> Okay. Uh, is there anything else we have to go over? No. >> I feel like I'm forgetting something.
07:00:03
Brian AtlasDon't lie, Felicity. You liar. >> You always say, "I feel like I'm forgetting something." >> Uh, let's see. Um, >> this meme. >> Was there a meme? >> Ah, no. No, no. You You don't have to
07:00:15
Brian Atlasshow that. No. All right. Well, um, trying to think. >> Well, >> yeah. G, I'm just going to say Wait, wait. Give me like 30 seconds to think if I'm I feel like I'm forgetting something. I don't want to [ __ ] anything up.
07:00:28
Brian Atlas>> He says >> we're going to skip We're going to skip the makeup. We already did the Oh. Oh, Nick, the uh the the the swaps the the AI. Okay, we'll do that two minutes. We're going to do it super quick. Um we
07:00:40
Brian Atlashave both gender swap and >> Okay, so super Yeah, last I final segment. >> Uh and then also guys, while we're doing the segment, if any of you want to get in a roster, you're more than welcome
07:00:51
Brian Atlasto. $30 TTS. Uh, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time? >> Hope. >> At 29. What about 39? 20 years. Okay. Uh, you're uh >> you're 38. Yeah.
07:01:04
Dakota>> Better looking in 10 years time. 48. >> Yeah, probably. I >> 48. >> Yeah, I think so. >> What What's going to change? >> Um, I get a lot of Botox. >> Do you have unlimited Botox? >> Do I have unlimited?
07:01:18
Brian Atlas>> Isn't there Don't they sell like unlimited? >> I don't know. Botox plans. I know. Uh 58. What about 58? >> Um probably better looking now than I will be at 58. >> Okay. And then going backwards, uh are
07:01:30
Brian Atlasyou better looking now or were you better looking at 28? >> No. Hands down. >> 18. 38. >> No. Okay. >> Yeah. >> Uh you are 36. Yes. Right. Better
07:01:42
Brian Atlaslooking in 10 years time. 46. >> Not better looking. No. >> The same. >> No. >> Okay. Uh 36. Going back 10 years, 26. Better looking 26.
07:01:53
Brian Atlas>> No, I think I peaked at like 30 to 32. >> Okay. Uh for you, you're 30, right? >> Better looking in 10 years? 40? >> No.
07:02:04
Brian Atlas>> Better looking 10 years ago? 20? >> No, I was really overweight. So, >> so now better looking. Uh you're 41, better looking? 51? >> No. >> Uh 31. Better looking.
07:02:15
Jacqueline Thomas>> Oh, no. Yeah. 31. Yes. 21 better looking. >> No, I don't. >> Wait, 41 better than 21? >> No. 41 better? 41? I I'm confused.
07:02:30
Jacqueline Thomas>> It's okay. >> All right. So, 31 was better, I think, than 21. >> 31 better than 21, but 21 better than 41? >> Yes. >> Okay. What about you? Are you're 33
07:02:41
Haleybetter looking in 10 years time? 43. >> No, I'm deteriorating rapidly, actually. >> [laughter]
07:02:51
Brian Atlas>> You know, I love I love the honesty. [laughter] I love it. I do. >> You got to you got to give the props. She's honest, self-aware. Uh
07:03:00
Brian Atlas>> you have a great such a joy. And then uh 23. Uh were you better looking at 23 or now at 33? >> Yeah, that was basically my peak. 23. >> Peak at 23. Okay, there it is. So, we do
07:03:12
Brian Atlasa segment where we put you guys through AI. We age advance you. So, we're gonna do that. Uh, >> it's fun. It's >> Yeah, it's quick. [laughter] Uh, okay. We have >> Pro Shotty. Hold on. Let me do the chats
07:03:25
SPEAKER_00first. >> Pro Shotty donated $29. Brian, you do a great job on your own. It is not easy to run a fun conversation
07:03:35
SPEAKER_00show like this. Andrew. Okay, that's his name. When can we have you both back? >> Uh, donated $30. W Felicity for doing
07:03:46
Brian Atlaslaundry. Don't snore or she'll kill you with a pillow that she washed. >> He [laughter] didn't die. He just suffocated for a second. >> Yikes. Uh, thank you, Pro Shotty. Thank you, big pull out. All right, we're
07:03:57
Brian Atlasgoing to do the age advancement segments. Uh, one, two, or Wait, hold on. Let me Yeah, perfect. Boom. >> Oh my [laughter] god. >> Adorable. >> You look cute.
07:04:09
Felicity Hughes>> Cute little grandma. >> This is a peak into our future. Yes. >> Wow. >> Why are you laughing so hard? I'm sorry. >> AI is crazy. [laughter]
07:04:20
Felicity Hughes>> Oh my god. Really enjoying that, Sativa. >> It's just cuz I remember mine and it was so bad. [laughter] >> Next. >> Ready. Keep >> You ready? Are you ready? >> Mhm. >> Dakota. Yes.
07:04:33
Brian Atlas>> Are you ready? >> I am ready. It's not Dakota. Oh. >> Oh my. Wait, what? >> It's the other girl. >> Oh, we'll show we'll show it. Yeah. Yeah, that's fine. We'll show it. Just for funsies. She's cute. She looks like
07:04:44
SPEAKER_09she's adorable. >> She's adorable. I know. She's very cute. >> No, it's it's totally fine. Um, next. >> Nice one.
07:04:53
SPEAKER_09>> No, that was nice. >> This is good. It's not bad. >> You look like a southern. >> All right. Uh, next.
07:05:05
Brian Atlas>> It's cute. >> That's a big jump, though. >> Actually, it's not that bad. >> It doesn't look [laughter] that bad. That's wild. >> Normally they age. >> Looks graceful. I look like my father. >> You look like your dad. Wow.
07:05:16
Jacqueline Thomas>> So do I. [snorts] >> That's hot. [laughter] >> Uh, next. >> Scoot to the table just a teeny bit. >> Beautiful daughters [laughter] look like
07:05:28
Jacqueline Thomastheir fathers. That's what they say. >> This doesn't even look that bad. I like that. >> I think they [laughter] look I don't look like my grandma there. I should be looking like my grandma.
07:05:41
Haley>> A I need to get closer before you show mine. I took out my contacts. I'm very blind. >> Wait, we're >> Oh, no. It's okay. >> No, we're like about to show it. >> Yeah, just squint.
07:05:53
Sativa>> It's really going to help. Trust me. >> Next. >> You're adorable. >> Oh my gosh, >> that's adorable. >> That looks good. Mine was the worst. >> Mine
07:06:06
Felicity Hughesfrog. That was >> I do that sometimes. kind >> next. >> No, >> don't know how to >> cute. >> Okay, >> you're cute. Wow. >> How do you feel about that? >> Can I do it again? >> Um, I look pretty orange. I look like
07:06:19
Felicity HughesDonald Trump on the far. >> You do. You definitely do. >> You actually do. I see it. >> Yeah. >> Oh, that is the best. >> Santa like a little gnome. >> Yikes. [laughter]
07:06:30
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, that one Santa. >> I'm already fat. Santa made me fatter. [laughter] >> I like that. I like that. >> Great. Love it. Love it. Wonderful. [ __ ] That's [ __ ] up. Um, next.
07:06:42
Bella (pre-law)>> Oh, the gender swap. Okay. We've also changed all of you into men. >> Uh, so the question is, would you date the male version of you? >> Oh, this one was No. [laughter] >> No. Does that look like >> I don't I don't think that looks like I
07:06:55
Brian Atlashope that doesn't look like it. It changed you quite a bit to be honest. >> Do you have a brother? >> Yeah, I do. >> Does he look like that? >> No. >> Not that bad. >> Yeah. All right. Next. >> Oh, it's her. A, she looks cute. Kind of
07:07:09
Sierrahot. >> He looks good. >> Oh, >> you know what? You're actually handsome. >> Whoa. You look like the guy I used to date. >> The beard version of you. >> Do you have a brother? >> I do, but he look that does not look
07:07:20
Felicity Hugheslike my brother. That's funny. >> Uh, okay. Next. >> Oh, >> handsome. >> These ones are really good, actually. >> He's handsome. >> Would you date the male version of you >> into the mic? Depends on how tall he is. [laughter]
07:07:34
Sativa>> Uh, six feet. >> I'd date him. All right, next. >> Um, >> why' they make you Asian? [laughter] >> You know, someone thought I was Asian today, so that's kind of funny. Yeah,
07:07:46
Sativa>> I don't know what that is. [laughter] >> That's That's like blazian or Filipino. >> I see Filipino for sure. >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> I think it was cuz of my expression, but
07:07:58
Jacqueline Thomas>> could be. Uh, next. >> Oh, that kind of looks like my brother. Really? >> Oh [ __ ] >> Kind of kind of. Yeah. Okay. >> He's attractive. >> He's very attractive.
07:08:09
Felicity Hughes>> He's like a handsome >> Wait, [sighs] >> he doesn't I He's black, but he doesn't look black. >> The hair looks like Indian. >> It's cuz the hair is >> It doesn't I don't know if that makes sense.
07:08:22
Brian Atlas>> Black, but I I kind of see what you're saying. >> He doesn't I don't know. Whatever. Um, next. Oh, that's for That's you. [laughter]
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Sativa>> Nice. Oh, really? Nice. >> That doesn't That's you. >> If you had like if it was a more chiseled jaw, it'd be a win. >> Yeah, my brother has. >> It was a little chiseled jaw. Does that look like your brother?
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Haley>> You can watch it back after the stream. >> Oh, you can't. I had to take him out. My contacts got way too dry. >> Wait, what? Let me see. >> You kind of look like a like a twink a little bit.
07:08:57
Felicity Hughes>> Like dead behind the eyes. [laughter] >> That's how I already look all the time. I have like no thought behind my eyes. Um, [laughter] >> I don't know. He looks weird. >> I don't really like that hat on.
07:09:09
Brian Atlas>> All right. Next. >> Okay. Of course. Uh, yeah, I would date her. The one preferably the far right. I guess she's longer hair. Whatever.
07:09:20
Brian Atlas[laughter] Okay. Uh, I think I'm pretty sure that's uh it. I do want to uh >> racist. >> What's that?
07:09:28
Brian Atlas>> Can you be racist? N we we're going to wrap. We're gonna wrap. Um just want to double check. I want to make sure there are no chats that came through. If any
07:09:39
Brian Atlasdo as I do my intro, I'll be sure to get them. But um I want to say GG. >> Well played >> to the panel. Last call. Hit the like button, please, on your way out. Uh also
07:09:51
Brian Atlasguys, please leave a nice comment once the live ends. I read them. Positivity is nice and it helps the algorithm. Uh it takes about 20 seconds or whatever uh
07:10:03
Brian Atlasto to allow the comments to be accessible. So just if you're watching on YouTube, just stay stay for a little bit. Um thank you everyone for tuning in tonight. You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me. I
07:10:15
Brian Atlasappreciate that. Uh thank you to the wonderful panel tonight. It was a fun show. Lively convo. Thank you guys so much for being here and joining me tonight. It was fun. Uh thank you to everyone of course who super chats, donates, and supports the show. Uh
07:10:28
Brian Atlascouldn't do it without you guys. We are viewer supported. So yeah, we're going to be live again. We have a good show uh Sunday. Good panel lined up Sunday 5:00 p.m. Pacific. If you're a girl and you're watching and you want to be on
07:10:41
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Brian Atlasin the chat. I hope uh you guys have a good night and we'll see you guys next time. Good night, guys.
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