05:32:43Kittyask okay so there is actually something completely random and I wonder if you heard this study there's been a new study that women that are married with
05:32:52KittyChildren compared to women that are single or in a relationship the woman that is married with the child is more depressed than the other
05:33:03Qparty that wasn't the results there's no there's been studies on that recently no that that wasn't the results it was about perception it was women yeah I know what you're talking about I I know what you're talking about I really hope
05:33:14Qyou do but it literally said women that have children are married are more depressed like yeah but where did you see that study at because a lot of times what will happen is the people who
05:33:25Qreport the studies they misinterpret the studies and they say they sensationalize The Heading they don't actually read the study to understand what the findings actually were mhm so you could be that's
05:33:37Qwhy I'm saying where see that study at cuz if it was by a news Outlet or like you know New York Post or something like that is it's very very likely pretty public thing I not like I could search it up right now but it's pretty public
05:33:49Qdo you remember you can just Google it and multiple things will come up and multiple studies I've seen I've seen similar studies that report the opposite I have
05:34:01Brian Atlasnot mhh look I'll get back on track here uh so okay did you take your Energy Shot or whatever um women have equal rights to men in the USA Women are not oppressed
05:34:13Brian Atlasin the USA you disagree with both of these statements uh so in what way do women not have equal rights to men in the
05:34:21ToriaUSA um so I think naturally women and men we're already different it's not equal
05:34:31Toriaum and there's a lot of um also internalized oppression maybe it's not here anymore but you know throughout
05:34:41Toriahistory women had to fight for suffrage and you know do a lot to earn their rights
05:34:53Toriaand I think even myself like I have some of that internalized like oh I don't respect if a woman is in charge as much
05:35:04Toriasometimes which I've come to terms with and is there a reason why because of the way I think I've understood the patriarchy
05:35:15Brian Atlasand saw myself through that lens you know um so it's the patriarchy's fault like there there has there's been no pattern recognition when you've had like a female
05:35:29Toriaboss H well think just just like in in the past yeah and noticing that Within Myself yeah so I mean okay we can talk about
05:35:41Brian Atlaslike historical stuff but like how about just maybe to make it a little easier uh are there any rights that a man has today that a woman
05:35:51Toriadoesn't um it's changing now um like abortion stuff um I'll address that but is is there anything else besides
05:36:02Brian Atlasabortion um probably are not thinking of them right now I can give you a moment if you'd
05:36:12Brian Atlaslike to try to manifest one but um okay well while you're manifesting one of the ways in which women don't have equal rights to men in the United
05:36:22Brian AtlasStates today uh I guess on the abortion thing men don't have any Reproductive Rights so I actually think this is you're almost making the opposite argument that women have more rights than men do
05:36:38Brian AtlasH but what what Reproductive Rights do men need they are fathers they contribute to pregnancy but they don't have any
05:36:53Toriarights I mean I guess there's the sign the prenup and there's also that [ __ ] there sign a prenup what do you
05:37:02Brian Atlasmean um I don't know you come on I don't know I don't know please don't play with the cup um
05:37:12Kayleeum I was just going to say I think that like on the question itself and just like something I always try to like en encourage other like American women to recognize and just like while we have this moment is that a lot of the time
05:37:25Kayleewe're actually really privileged here in America to have the rights we do as females and there's countries like Iraq andanan Afghanistan where I literally saw a story of a young woman's tongue
05:37:37Kayleebeing cut out of her mouth for speaking poetry in the Public Square so we are extremely privileged even if certain people feel like certain things have been skewed maybe not in the favor that they'd like and so that's always
05:37:50Kayleesomething I try to like encourage us to remember is that we're actually extremely privileged compared to other countries in our rights and pression that kind of stuff and I actually think that's a by I actually think that's a by
05:38:01Qproduct of just how privileged you are cuz you start to create Phantom issues you start to believe that things are actually wrong and want to look for problems in society especially as women
05:38:12Qbecause you have it so good because if you could compare the state of American society for women to other countries where women are still second class citizens you realize like damn we do
05:38:22Qhave it made like we could easily not have education we could not be allowed to speak we could all of these things that women public by herself all of that yeah yeah yeah I feel like in other
05:38:35Marinacountries women are seen as like property almost um where they they just can't express themselves as much as we are able to hear like we can we can wear crop tops we can like flash our boobs we
05:38:46Alloracan do all that and like we can have these conversations yeah like openly and it not really and not be persecuted yeah exactly
05:38:57Brian Atlasyep were you able to in that moment were you able to think of any ways that women don't have equal rights well I was thinking more
05:39:08Brian Atlashistorically okay sure uh well I I'll quick I'll finish on the abortion thing really quick so like as woman once she gets pregnant pretty much she has all control she has all she
05:39:20Brian Atlashas all power she can actually exert massive amounts of power over the man in that situation um so but once she's pregnant she has all the
05:39:31Brian Atlasdecision-making now I acknowledge that some states abortion is illegal but a woman could always travel to a state where it is uh legal and certainly in states where it is legal there's absolutely no question that she has 100%
05:39:43Brian Atlasuh ability to make decisions related to this in addition to that once the child is born she can make a couple other determinations there's Safe Harbor laws so the woman can go to like a a fire
05:39:54Brian Atlasstation and I think 30 days post birth she can just drop it at the fire station no questions asked no question can totally uh Anonymous to totally
05:40:06Brian AtlasAnonymous just give give it up she's not going to have there's no Financial ramification she won't have to pay CH my understanding she won't have to pay child support she could opt to adopt it
05:40:16Brian Atlasshe could unilaterally without the fathers I I do think perhaps I'd have to resarch if his name is on the birth certificate or not
05:40:27Brian Atlasthat changes I don't know the all the Dynamics exactly if they're not married my if they're married there's a presumption I think I don't know exactly I don't know like does he have to sign
05:40:39Brian Atlasthe I'll know exactly how it works if they're not married though the woman has incredible Choice when it comes to much more Choice as to uh what she can do with the child absolutely um now a
05:40:51Brian Atlasfather who wants to be in that child's life can intervene in some ways I don't know if there's with the Safe Harbor laws if the father would be able to somehow claim the child I don't know exactly it depends if his name is on the
05:41:02Allorabirth certificate or not if it's on like the hospital note cuzz then he has more rights to go for that kid or to have claim to the kid now I don't know if there's situations where the mom could
05:41:14Brian Atlaslike prevent the father from like going to see her in the hospital she could probably deny like a given man who's not like she could she could probably I'm pretty sure a woman could even deny her
05:41:26Brian Atlashusband from being able to go see her in the hospital if she was so inclined right so um I don't know the specifics of like the birth certificate stuff but
05:41:35Brian Atlasthere safe harbor laws they can do adoption unilateral adoption and then or they could just choose to get an
05:41:44Brian Atlasabortion get rid of the kid so whereas the man once the woman is pregnant your
05:41:50Brian Atlaschoices cease from conception you have no rights at all here's what can happen uh you can ask her to get an abortion
05:42:02Brian Atlasbut it's ultimately her choice so from there on out if she Cho ches to have the abortion but you don't want to have the abortion you have zero say like let's say you want her to keep the kid you
05:42:14Brian Atlaswould have zero say in a state where abortion is legal so there's that so that's a kind of one component and then the secondary component would be she has
05:42:24Brian Atlasthe kid and she wants to keep it you don't want the kid but she keeps it and delivers the baby and she's going to raise the kid you're now on the hook for 18 years of child support despite your
05:42:35Brian Atlasunwillingness to be a father so women can force men into fatherhood and then this I think the third thing would be uh well she can give it up Safe Harbor adoption and it can be an uphill battle
05:42:47Brian Atlasfor the man to actually if he wants the kid to get the
05:42:56Brian Atlaskid do you have do you want to offer a a rebuttal or response or homies was yeah I'm talking to you hell hello oh my God bro I'm sorry I'm
05:43:09Brian Atlasgetting frustrated with you but like holy [ __ ] guys come
05:43:19Brian Atlasplease typically in a conversation somebody speaks for a little bit I kind of went on the other person responds or are you just stonewalling is this what you do in
05:43:29Brian Atlasrelationships you just Stonewall don't respond just look at them I hate that I hate that that drives me crazy I mean I think abortion is a smoke
05:43:40Carrie / Raelscreen okay the way that I see it it's just like you know cuz it's it really isn't fair I think that men have very little say in what happens to their
05:43:50Carrie / Raelunborn child um I don't consider myself pro-life but I do understand how somebody could be pro-life and I wouldn't have an abortion uh because
05:44:00Carrie / Raelit's not solely it wouldn't solely be my child so you know how how could I exclusively have a say over what happens to that child um but at the same time I don't think making it illegal is
05:44:13Carrie / Raelactually going to do anything but does anyone other than me want to talk about this I was asking her well I know but somebody had to say something I mean uh
05:44:26Brian Atlasyeah nobody wants to talk um how are women oppressed in the United States
05:44:37ToriaH um I was saying historically with voting rights education yeah yeah but I didn't know you meant like right now today so women are not oppressed right
05:44:48Torianow I think not systematically not systematically maybe but through you know like
05:44:56Brian Atlasgenerational inherited oppression gener generational inherited oppression in some ways maybe it's internalized I
05:45:09Brian Atlasmean I could we could get into some historical stuff but I don't know how fruitful that's conversation would even be um do you think uh women not being able to vote is an example of uh women not
05:45:22Toriahaving equal rights historically yeah even though they've had the right to you know they have had the right to vote for over 100 years now definitely before yeah no no voice
05:45:34Brian Atlasto do you think it's unfair that women were able to secure the right to vote without any corresponding responsibility to the
05:45:47Brian Atlascountry what do you mean no resp like women don't have duties so women are like children they don't have responsibility talking drafting yes I'll
05:45:58Brian Atlasexplain so men in order to be able to vote even today you need to register for the Selective Service you need to be subject to subject to the potential of forced
05:46:09Brian Atlasmilitary conscription even today in 2025 even today in 2025 there's nothing corresponding that pertains to any sort of civil service for women women are not required to register for Selective
05:46:20Brian AtlasService uh men's rights organizations have tried time and time again to get some semblance of equality mind you feminists have never feminists who
05:46:31Brian Atlaspurport to be in favor of equality have never actually advocated or lobbied for an equalized when it comes to forced military conscription in 2025 women are
05:46:41Brian Atlascompletely uh in a rather privileged sense uh they are immune to being uh drafted to force military conscription this is rather
05:46:53Brian Atlasunequal and I think an advantage of male oppression an advant or an example of male oppression and an example of
05:47:00Brian Atlasunequal rights as it pertains to men uh so that's a bit confus conf using to me uh that women you were able to secure
05:47:11Brian Atlasthe right to vote the same right to vote that men have had to die for you kind of just secured it without any responsibility but men have a
05:47:23Toriaresponsibility to this country well I would say women fought really hard to support that and also what was I going to say and during
05:47:35Allorathat time women had taken over the jobs while the men were at War so no they weren't going to war but they had achieved those jobs and yeah you're you're talking during World War I like
05:47:45Brian Atlasyeah Rosie the Riveter yeah okay if we're talking historically yes tell you what if we if we uh let's let's do this time machine
05:47:56Brian Atlaswe send you back to 1939 you can choose to be a woman working in a factory making shells or help helping
05:48:07Brian Atlasmake tanks or something or or you could be um like fighting in Poland or
05:48:18Brian Atlassomething and be a man I mean so you're you could be a woman and you have to work in the factory oh no or would you rather be a soldier a male soldier at
05:48:29Brian Atlasthat time which do you pick a woman oh okay absolutely yeah I don't think women laboring or doing like physically laborious jobs is it all comparable to like the horrors of war that men were
05:48:40Alloravictim to or witnessed I'm not trying to compare it I'm saying that was I think the more deciding factor here let me give you an example being able to vote okay let's say a girl just told me she got essed and I told her one time a girl
05:48:53Brian Atlasgrabbed my butt like that's literally what you're doing that you see like you see oh man these poor men who got like trench foot
05:49:04Brian Atlasand mustard Gap well World War I mustard gas or you know they died and uh prisoners of War where they were starved and tortured but these poor women worked in
05:49:17Brian Atlasfactories and got lunch breaks and smoked cigarettes you know what I mean it's like okay
05:49:28Kayleeso um is that a check made I'll just take can can I add a comment I I kind of have to agree with you here and I know that probably get some hate this cuz I am a woman I'm like agreeing that maybe
05:49:40Kayleewomen voting wasn't the best thing I didn't for that that's not my position no I was just going to say that it is kind of crazy to think that it came into play like women's women fighting to vote
05:49:52Kayleewithout like how you're saying repercussion in a sense responsibility well responsibility but in the same turn none of the voting rights that they got at that time applied to them it applied
05:50:03Kayleeto the men so even their vote at at time was affecting the men not even themselves so I just thought that I just thought it was weird
05:50:13Brian Atlasparallel cuz yeah yeah yeah no I mean but it's like and also mind you men only got like in terms of the group dynamic men only
05:50:25Brian Atlasgot the right to vote something like 50 years before women did so the time period from when all men could vote to when all women could vote was 50 years in the United States about so this idea
05:50:37Brian Atlasthat oh for such a long time men just had all this power they could all vote women were like brutally oppressed it's actually not true for most of human history neither men or women could vote you'd had Kings you had tyrants you'd
05:50:49Brian Atlashave people in power most men like peasantry they couldn't vote either the majority of men were oppressed the majority of women were
05:50:58Brian Atlasoppressed in some way or the other so I don't know yeah okay all right out I mean just even even
05:51:11Brian Atlashistorically I mean like look there's this meme that I saw was like it was in 1918 oh this woman couldn't get an education she couldn't vote and then there's a photo of a guy
05:51:23Brian Atlasnext to her that's like oh well he couldn't he died men went to war so it's like I don't know it's just an interesting retelling of History like oh men just live these really pampered lives and
05:51:35Brian Atlasthey were all really abusive to women all the men were really abusive to women they were all wife beaters and they lived really nice lives and the women just fed them grapes and the the women
05:51:46Brian Atlaswere just Fanning them with palm tree leaves and the women were just in the dark Cellar and just beaten by their husbands day in day out and they couldn't vote and they didn't have any
05:51:58Brian Atlasthey didn't have any influence in society it's just a total retelling of History that's completely fabricated and completely bogus
05:52:09Brian Atlasthe reality is throughout most of human history men and women especially in the peasantry life was [ __ ] brutal MH
05:52:18Brian Atlasthey strived together they had families together and it was a the the story of men and women and their relationship was
05:52:29Brian Atlasit's not a story of oppress or oppressed it's a story of uh cooperation yes but feminists want to tell you no oh my God these men they're just beating and brutalizing their wives
05:52:42Alloraand these poor wives couldn't it's like come on what the f ridiculous well it's very true a lot of it is blown out of proportion are used to like anything else is used to stretch
05:52:54Brian Atlasa narrative agree or push a narrative like men when I say I'm about to say men would kill for their wives and I I mean
05:53:04Brian Atlaslike perhaps in a a work sense so you'd have men in in America who would go into coal mines work their fingers to a bone
05:53:15Brian Atlasand come back their face covered in in uh covered black dark hold on uh not blackface but you know they weren't they weren't trying to do a joke
05:53:28Brian Atlaslike it wasn't a joke like they Su thank you thank you and they got black lung and they were like [ __ ] spent the the Last 5 Years of their life like literally
05:53:39Brian Atlasunable to breathe so that their wife could stay at home and take care of the kids like these men went into the coal mines inhaled all these tox
05:53:49Brian Atlastoxins died at 40 or 50 or some [ __ ] probably suffering like literally BL lungs on fire all [ __ ] up so that their woman was insulated and protected
05:54:01Brian Atlasfrom the realities of the external world and kind of the brutality most jobs back then were pH like labor Tru women couldn't work 200 years ago there
05:54:12Brian Atlasweren't [ __ ] air conditioned off his jobs 200 years ago if you were working 200 years ago you were like toiling in the fields and doing physically
05:54:23Brian Atlasbackbreaking work yeah so I don't think it I think that' be kind of look and I think women were actually involved in some capacity and some physic physically laborious jobs too but like men we
05:54:35Brian Atlasweren't like in terms of women couldn't do that one there's the physical component like some of these physical jobs women just could not physically do
05:54:44Brian Atlasum but I don't know if it's oppression to be like let me ruin my body you stay at home take care of the household keep it clean you know keep keep the household in
05:54:55Kayleecheck and I'll go out so you don't have to do that is that oppression or is that male benevolence plot twist if the men never
05:55:05Kayleewent to War to save us we'd never be here complaining about oppression so that's very true point no no no no in a good way meaning that like if we look at it from that sense like they literally
05:55:17Toriawent to war and died so that we could be here today like generational but also who is instigating this war like what would happen if women were more things
05:55:28Toriayou know sorry wait continue continue with your point um like what would happen if more women were in positions government you you know like look at
05:55:37Brian Atlaswhat's that country in Europe like Switzerland Finland Ukraine are you talking about Ukraine I don't know there's you don't even know you don't even know about the war Switzerland the
05:55:49Toriayou mean the the famously and historically neutral country mhm swizerland think they're ran by women either though Switzerland there's
05:55:59Toriaa country by women and happiest no which one who told you this who told you this Australia Sweden um well you know what's interesting
05:56:11Brian Atlasthey've actually done studies and they've looked they looked at Queens they compared Queens to Kings and they actually found that queens were more
05:56:21Brian Atlaslikely to wage Wars than Kings it's this idea that oh if women ruled if women were rulers and there was a matriarchy that there wouldn't be War there'd still be War damn they were trying to swing
05:56:33Kayleetheir dicks well like I feel like we've had of a hormone over response we have more of an emotional response where men don't have those things come up as much like yeah men could be like a little bit well I'm not I'm not even going to say that I'm not even going to make take
05:56:46Brian Atlasthat position I'm just going to say historically there have been women who were Queens I'm not even saying oh they were just more emotional therefore who knows what the reasons are and I think
05:56:54Alloramen are emotional too War meally hormonally when it governments Waging War a lot of it has to do with money not gender you know what Q I want to I want
05:57:06Brian Atlasto take the Devil's Advocate position on on that thing so Q tell me debate with me on this so like men who say women are more
05:57:14Brian Atlasemotional I I think women are more neurotic like a personality trait they're they women I'm not this isn't like an offensive thing women are higher in trait neuroticism like it's a person
05:57:28Brian Atlaswhatever they're going to be offended but um but this idea that women are more emotional than men I was thinking the other day I'm like well like a really good defe I think a
05:57:38Brian Atlasdefeater to this would be like okay well when it comes to violence and typically like if you're if you act out in violence towards somebody I think that's
05:57:47Brian Atlasan emotional respon impul anger right and I'm like okay well who's in and maybe there's a counter claim to this but okay when it comes to prison when it comes to murderers when it comes to
05:57:59Brian Atlasviolent crime like it's overwhelmingly men and these are probably not like men who are making these decisions when they're committing crime s and they're probably not thinking really rationally or logically there's probably some
05:58:10Brian Atlascomponent of like emotionality especially with violent crime so I'm like I I sometimes question this narrative like okay women are just real way more emotional do you know what I
05:58:21Qmean yeah I I get what you're saying but also you got to look at it as um in the context of what emotion means like yeah men get more angry and are more
05:58:31Qaggressive but women in a sense are also more manipulative yes and um women get upset really easily and women have a
05:58:40Qhigher Baseline level of stress due to uh the pituitary hypothalamic adrenal access so women naturally when they feel anger or upset they feel it quicker and
05:58:53Qthey take longer to come back down from that level of anger or or frustration than men do um and then in a sense also I think another aspect of it is when we
05:59:04Qlook at just the way women perceive they're a lot more emotional in their perceptions of what their reality is I I think that's also another component that most people Miss it's not just the
05:59:17Qemotion that they feel but it's also the way they look at reality like men can sit down and have a logical conversation you can talk to a man a woman gets ticked off at something that you say that she don't like that she disagrees with and she don't want to be your
05:59:29Qfriend no more she like [ __ ] you how could you say that whereas you could tell a man the truth and he'd be like um really that's interesting I okay you know I might disagree with that but I
05:59:40Qdon't want to [ __ ] you up over it unless you're disrespecting him where you get what I'm saying so that's that's the difference okay yeah yeah well also women are higher in negative emotion yeah that's what I mean that's the
05:59:52Brian Atlasstress response right right right especially after puberty just to word it differently um yeah that would be trait neuroticism more negative emotion um all right we'll mov it on adult age Gap
06:00:03Brian Atlasrelationships are 100% okay example 30-year-old dating a 19-year-old that's a disagree disagree uh Aura
06:00:15Toriadisagree okay so disagree disagree disagree why do you guys disagree with the age Gap relationships CU well I'm like for the 19 at least be able to buy a drink you
06:00:26Brian Atlasknow 21 okay so what about 3121 are you cool with that yeah I think that's okay so just be able to buy alcohol okay I I said same thing literally on the paper I put I think 21 plus I think
06:00:39Alloraon there allur yeah I don't think it's okay I think there's a certain point that sure you can buy alcohol someone's 10 years older than
06:00:50Allorayou but coming just coming from a relationship where I was dating someone older than me uh I was still very naive I'm still kind of naive I will absolutely admit that and I think
06:01:03Allorasomeone who's older has already gone through that so it's kind of I guess it's situational but I don't think it's okay but
06:01:11Allorawhy because there's that sense of controlling somebody right or having a superiority over somebody in an agap I'm not saying that's everybody I'm sure
06:01:23Allorathere's someone older who won't do that to somebody younger but there's almost that sense of power like sense of I don't know in what
06:01:36Brian Atlaswho who's your favorite rapper my favorite rapper yeah juice world is he alive no no he's dead give me somebody alive someone alive yeah Kendrick hell
06:01:47Allorayeah yeah okay would you date Kendrick Lamar uh no why not you like no I like his music I think he's a cool person but I I would date him no why won't you date
06:01:58Allorahim I think just too Petty he's too Petty he's petty you're not Petty not really he's too Petty okay he really
06:02:06Qwent on the whole Super Bowl and trolled like Petty okay but but I'm curious I want to Pro because when you say I'm I'm I'm always intrigued by this there's
06:02:19Allorathis controlling element like what does that look like what do you when you when yall say control what does that mean in my own situation I was 20 I met someone who was 30 and we had started dating he would always make a joke that he was
06:02:32AlloraRaising me he was Raising me as his girlfriend to like like build a [ __ ] or something pretty much grooming yeah and my I knew I knew when she said that go ahead I'm listening go ahead um in my
06:02:43Allorahead I never really thought of it I was just like I was just really happy I was excited to learn from someone older than me I was ready to be submissive and just
06:02:54Alloralike let him lead as a man um and I did that and it led me the complete opposite way and that's because I didn't have a sense of grounding in myself and what
06:03:06Allorashould what I should be led by and what I shouldn't be led by there was no sense of that so when you're talking about someone who is younger versus someone older someone's older who is older has
06:03:17Alloraalready gone through things to know that right to know okay I'm going to let this lead me or I'm going to lead myself kind of thing um I do think that has to do
06:03:27Qwith gender too not again situational not everybody but yeah do do you want to say like give an example of something that you said he led you the wrong
06:03:39Alloraway yeah in what way did he lead you the wrong way I I ended up taking care of him a lot um
06:03:49Allorawhich were you paying the bills yeah um and I was working I ended up telling him to work with me so it felt different we work with you on what like doing door
06:04:01AlloraDash and stuff so we would at least make money together because I was the only one making money spending money yeah you guys were living together at the time yeah okay T did he have a health problem like
06:04:13Allorawhen you say taking care of health problem no I mean taking care of him financially emotionally okay all that a lot of guys don't want to work well well I think but I'm seeing in a sense of was
06:04:25Allorahe a rapper no okay just checking aspiring you forgot that you forgot that one song he put out yeah like with other people but he wasn't no he did it with his friends when they were around we
06:04:38Qknow a lot of people in studio spaces it's La it's you're always going to end up in a studio I think but yeah so my my
06:04:46Allorathing is I hear that and that can be in any relationship absolutely Dynamic that's why I said it's situational but I think it happens a lot more often with
06:04:57Allorayounger women and older men in that in that specific age Gap like he said n or what you say 19 and 30 20 and 30
06:05:07Alloraspecifically just because I have that of thinking okay I can I can trust this man to lead me in the right direction
06:05:16Alloraand ended up losing everything in like myself everything we built because I put my trust that he would lead as a man and
06:05:27Allorado that and I ended up leading as a woman so like he taught me how to do that which is cool like honestly props to him for that cuz now I could do that for myself but I don't know but you know
06:05:39Qwhat that conveys to me that just sounds like somebody who likes somebody and wants to please him now okay I I reduce it to that because as I just said I can't see that only being evident in uh
06:05:52Qage Gap relationship and I wouldn't attribute that to the fact that you guys had that difference in age to me it just appears because every woman that I've heard thus far can relate to a story of
06:06:02Qwhere she was basically felt like she was taken advantage of or she put her trust in a guy and he led her astray or he did her wrong by whatever metric she wants to utilize and that's simply
06:06:14Qbecause you like him so that when so when I so when I say that you always have to look at what's going on with you psychologically too now is it easy to get a woman to do what you want her to do when she likes you absolutely you can
06:06:27Qyou can take advantage of that you can like oh she trust me she like me I I can probably get her to do whatever I want to get her to do and she'll do it in that regard you're correct but I think that has more to do I think it for a
06:06:39Qyounger woman it's a lot easier to do that too do you get what I'm saying yeah but I but the thing is see I'm me I'm more of a I'm more of a I'm not a big
06:06:51Qproponent of Free Will in the sense that we can do whatever we want I believe our brains lead us and our behaviors follow absolutely so when you like somebody
06:07:02Qthat's why I'm saying even if you were 40 and he was 42 it wouldn't matter he could still literally the same thing could happen because if you trust him and you like him and you want to please
06:07:14Qhim he could get you to do the same exact thing and you would do it just because you like him he would just be taking advantage of the fact that you like him yeah no that's very very very true
06:07:26Qthat's why when I hear the oh is there's a power Dynamic he's trying to control it's not that and honestly I don't see anything wrong if you're in a relationship even if I am old Than You
06:07:35Qby 10 years if I'm trying to show you how I want you to love me or how I think our relationship can work I don't see the issue in that the issue only comes after you realize that you did some
06:07:48Qthings you didn't like and you regret doing it and that could be because he did you wrong in whatever way you felt he did you wrong and you wish you hadn't and it's just regret it's coming from a
06:07:58Qplace of regret but in the sense of I'm with this girl this girl likes me this girl trusts me I'm going to tell her what I like about her how I want her to do things because I'm trying to set a foundation of how I want our
06:08:11Qrelationship to work and how I want the dynamic to be I don't see no issue with that and a lot of times that's the argument women make when it comes to ageg Gap relationships because if it ain't oh it's icky I find it really
06:08:23Qinteresting it always comes from a personal experience it's shaped by a personal experience not in general not Thinking Beyond or outside of your personal experience but it's because I
06:08:32Qdon't like this because this happened to me when I did it and I think that distorts your perception of what may be actually at play which is simply that you liked him you trusted him and he
06:08:45Alloratook advantage of that to a degree but we all do that in relationships regardless of if there's a age Gap or not yeah that's true you're very very right absolutely and it does come from my own personal experience which is why
06:08:57AlloraI thought that way why I still think that way even having this conversation I probably still would even like if I heard like my sister right now was dating someone older or whatever I would
06:09:08Alloragive her that same warning like blah blah blah blah mhm absolutely adding this perspective to it now but yeah okay I'm going to move it on we
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06:09:41Brian Atlasshow re is 100 TTS is 200 we are going to do a row session in a little bit though so stay tuned for that so you know what let's do this I'm there's more
06:09:53Brian Atlasstuff on the questionnaire but I'm kind of probably ignore the rest of it so final thing though would you rather cross paths with a man or a bear in the forest starting with you go ahead bear a
06:10:03Carrie / Raelman a man bear man man man man okay why do you pick bear and why don't you pick man because
06:10:12Allorathere have been some scary men out there to me mhm why do you pick bear cuz you know how to scare away a bear or at least get away from a be can get away
06:10:23Allorafrom no but you're just supposed to get big and loud is that that's like the rule of thumb you tested that have you tested that out or it depends on the color of the bear that's true a polar
06:10:33Brian Atlasbear you're [ __ ] either way I think cuz if you get you're [ __ ] either way M but so um you think you stand a better
06:10:44Brian Atlaschance against the the bear than than the man I think so uh pull up that Meme Daman I want to pull up the meme with the bear and Kyle or whatever so uh
06:10:55Brian Atlasbrown bear 9t tall 1300 lb claws 4 in bite fors 12200 Kyle 510 U 174 lbs project engineer said hi to you at the gym one
06:11:07Allorado you do you still pick the bear or still pick the bear still pick the bear depends honestly yeah be are M why do you guys hate men so much I don't get
06:11:19Brian Atlasit why do you hate men it's not that I hate men at all it's not that I hate men at all so do you think you're scared like okay the bear could kill me the man could kill me but the man could also essay me is that like the thought
06:11:30Alloraprocess I mean maybe but I also think like I said
06:11:38Brian Atlascould be easier to get away from a bear than a man bears are fast coulds are F depends on the bear what bear what do you mean stronger too what adult bear adult
06:11:47Brian Atlasman [ __ ] the bear might make it quicker actually no the Bears Just Eat you they don't kill you first like you know how certain big like big cats will kill you first Bears they'll just start
06:12:00Qeating you yeah they don't care about killing you first oh no they'll just hold you down and start eating eating your guts eating your that's why you see the bear survival victims be missing face and missing parts and and stuff like
06:12:14Brian Atlasthat okay uh so is a uh is is part of the fear like okay the guy could essay you is that part of
06:12:23Toriait um well recently one of my friends was murdered by a man and sorry to hear that mhm and I also personally
06:12:35Toriahave encountered bears and they're just sleeping minding their business Alaska was your was your friend unfortunately murdered by somebody do she know random person random person random act of
06:12:46Toriaviolence mhm mhm and found out that this person was a serial killer so there were others and they look unsuspecting you know yeah mhm yeah no I think that's the
06:12:58Allorascariest part is it is a lot more unsuspecting a bear you know you you know you're probably [ __ ] maybe not you know but it could be the most normal looking dude I want to test this logic
06:13:10Brian Atlasthough cuz you said ruin your life I want to test the logic though because you said that uh your friend I'm very sorry to hear that was murdered by a serial killer knowing that there are
06:13:21Brian Atlasserial killers among Among Us why are you guys living in Civilization like you know like you should all be in the for well those of you who pick bear like you should go live in the forest like why
06:13:32Brian Atlasyou living in like Los Angeles which is one of the largest cities in the world to make the money to live in the forest but you pick the bear and like the justification for picking the bear is my
06:13:45Brian Atlasfriend encountered a Serial murderer there are serial murderers out there this is just a reality of life I move to the forest man you're in
06:13:56Brian Atlasyou're in La there's probably there's a couple Ser Killers out there right now mhm I'm tring where you at Compton where you at uh Santa Monica where you where
06:14:06Brian Atlasyou at K Town Korea Town okay you live in the same area there's definitely a murder there's probably a couple serial murderers in Korea Town definitely [ __ ] maybe you're the serial murderer who
06:14:17Brian Atlasknows see look she's she could be you could be the serial murderer have you stabbed somebody before be honest let's you've shanked somebody once no okay
06:14:26Brian Atlaswhatever I've never even used my Taser use my Taser um okay well never had to I don't know the whole bear thing is kind of crazy you guys aren't just you guys aren't going to give me any push backs I don't
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06:15:24Brian Atlasthank you for the prime no I do appreciate it guys you know this show uh requires of like you know absent like uh like a CNN like one of these Network news stations are like a legitimate
06:15:35Brian AtlasHollywood production like when it comes to like run-of-the-mill YouTuber streamer like the the the time and money we put into the production is orders of magnitude greater than some guy who's
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06:15:56Brian Atlasappreciate that uh okay uh the bear yeah I'm just gonna you know what kind want to just do the row session early row session and then and then we're just going to do your notes and
06:16:09Brian Atlas[ __ ] during the row [ __ ] it we're just doing the row session you know actually no we you know what here we're going to start the row session in 25 minutes 25 minutes it'll still be early but I want to get through a bit more notes before
06:16:22Brian Atlaswe jump into it so uh let's see where do we go from here I don't know um okay I know I know what we're doing we got reacts we got to do some reacts
06:16:33Brian Atlaslet's get the tweets out of the way there's like three tweets from Kaye did they say your name right Kay yes her Twitter is based boys her Twitter is BAS
06:16:43Kayleeoh here we go read it in your voice um Eddie girl's daughter encourages girls to only date men who follow Joe Rogan Alex Jones and the Tates on social media
06:16:53Kayleeokay and this is in response to Tim Walt's daughter uh she was saying Tim Walt's daughter encourages girls not to date guys who follow ja Rogan on social media um and then she goes to say I
06:17:05Kayleedon't know how you have the largest podcast in the world and are able to just lie and put out misinformation and straight up lies on your platform that's rich coming from the yeah democrats. um
06:17:18Kayleeuh what's the next one oh scroll down just a tad this is like your follow-up tweet yes so I got a lot of hate of people telling me that my
06:17:28Brian Atlasfollow wait we got to show the Instagram photo once more oh jeez because some people are just tuning in she is the daughter of famed WWE
06:17:41Brian AtlasSuperstar Eddie Guerrero that's your dad and your mom yes so okay just for new newcomers to the stream so uh let's bring it back to the uh twitch or sorry not the the Twitter post uh so for for a bit of
06:17:54Kayleecontext on that tweet I received like over 2,000 death threats people tell 2000 way no seriously go go look at the quote tweets on not just that but the other ones people telling me to kill
06:18:06Kayleemyself and that my dad would be so disappointing me from his grave for being a trump supporter and also being a Latino woman wait was your dad a trump supporter well my dad died young but
06:18:17Kayleeright he passed away like what year did he pass away uh he wow he like 20 20 2005 I think it was yeah I oh okay so yeah that was before Trump yeah and
06:18:28Kayleeexactly and he was just a really really conservative traditional man so context to this I said my father was a about Christian man who was extremely against abortion he would have never sided with the left not even for a second if you
06:18:40Kayleethink he would it's clear you only knew him from the storyline he stood against corrupt Elites and would have viewed the current left as extremely Blasphemous my father likely would have been cancelled just as the men I named in my last post he often laughed at the false news
06:18:53Kayleearticles written about him much like those men who are facing discrimination from the press and media although I'm not a man I am committed to carrying on my father's Legacy in a way that would make him proud as a daughter who has lost her father the only question I I
06:19:04Kayleeasked myself is would he be proud of the woman I have become this question guides me to live in a way that would honor him and his beliefs and it went viral this was just
06:19:16Kayleelike two months ago it did I was on Infowars oh they invited you on Info Wars uh I actually I filmed with Owen but yeah oh okay sweet um super cool or like
06:19:28Brian Atlasdigitally yeah yeah like it was a call in yeah it was really awesome do I almost wonder like you got so much hate because do you think it was like some of
06:19:37Kayleethe WWE audience or no I think it was probably New Age WWE audience like wrestling fans yes new age wrestling fans cuz you know what it's like you guys are in your 30s growing up back in
06:19:50Kayleethe day it didn't matter if you listen to rock music or like the Arts or or maybe even a little goth it didn't mean you stood one way or another politically and now it's very much like I know from even going to art school that if you're
06:20:01Kayleein one class of art typically like for instance was like really the only conservative girl in my art class um that now if you like the Arts or you like entertainment or you like anything
06:20:13Kayleemainstream you're typically categorized as left and um I think that was a really big misconception with my following was they saw that I did Art and they saw
06:20:23Kayleethat you know I'm the daughter of a WWE Guy and um they automatically assume that I would fall into a certain category and were mad when I didn't but
06:20:34Brian Atlasyou know that's the name of having your family be really public so I think it definitely just made my skin thicker I see okay Y is there another tweet I think there's one more oh that's a
06:20:47Kayleedifferent one I'm always very uh controversial online I like okay this is just for fun U men men don't let women tell you they don't need you I really could have used
06:20:59Kayleesome toxic masculinity today Go full screen with the video oh you're going to go full screen with it and just uh yeah oh mute the audio mute the audio
06:21:10Kayleeyeah this was a me attempting to put up my Christmas tree alone I actually did a pretty good job in the end however I would have much rather sat on the couch and pointed and been like to the left
06:21:22Brian Atlasplease there you go yeah oh mute the audio just uh I guess rid of that I think there's a couple more reacts we have to do let's do those I'm trying to oh you know what let's do the bow video
06:21:35Brian Atlas[ __ ] it that's a little more lighthearted um let's do my normal bow video then we're going to do the updated bow video yeah and then we're going to do the wedding okay one do you know what
06:21:47Brian AtlasI'm talking about yeah perfect perfect all right so backstory this is my ex-girlfriend I took this video of her uh this is this is my expectation go
06:21:59Brian Atlasahead play it boom huge bow did you guys see the bow you see the that's what yeah so I just got home from a long podcast day
06:22:09Brian Atlasand you know look I'm tired and uh you know I do expect a woman to bow to me at least once a day if I see her if I don't see her uh obviously I don't need the B
06:22:21Brian Atlasbut if I see her it's once a day mandatory she's got my dinner ready which is great you know it's hungry after the show and she's very very intentive has the Crazy Eyes though that's why I had
06:22:33Brian Atlasto break play it one more time that's why I I had to dump her I was kind of one time wait pause it pause it the [ __ ] one time I woke up and she was just
06:22:42Brian Atlasstanding there looking at me and so I and she also had a knife in her hand so I had I had a dump her but she was like oh no I was going to cut you some
06:22:53Brian Atlaswatermelon and she just came in to check on me cuz anyways um just boom huge the okay that's good
06:23:04Brian Atlasthat's good all right what so so going around the table would you be willing to bow for your man yeah I'll bow okay let's see it right now do it do I stand up do a stand
06:23:15Brian Atlasup let's see it oh we can't see you get into frame stand no no stand over there actually you know what just I got it I got it oh I knew she was going to do
06:23:25Brian Atlasthat [ __ ] okay she moved the camera you can do the peace signs you know okay going around the table are to bow for your
06:23:37Marinaman oh wait me uh no around the table oh uh yes because it is in my culture and I bow it to whether you're a man or woman of any age just
06:23:48Carrie / Raelout of respect okay next I honestly would yeah I would too definitely would I'd be willing to give it a go maybe a
06:24:01Carrie / Raellittle yeah I'd be willing to give it a go I don't know I don't see why not if he really wants me to cuz I mean he opens a door for me like all the time you know he doesn't have to do that wait so everybody's down
06:24:12Kittyto B I said no Ave I said I'd even curtsy cuz it's not my culture that's cute not your culture okay that's fine yeah I'm a ballerina cultural appropriation maybe I
06:24:24Emmadon't know yeah yeah you should try it I guess would you never bow back no I wouldn't bow back oh so is this like as a form of submission and respect yes yes
06:24:34Brian Atlasyes so why a bow why like why couldn't it be another action why about because so I mean it's such a benign thing it's
06:24:44Brian Atlaslike it's a temperature check for like it takes it takes no effort it takes literally no effort it's this cute totally benign harmless thing I'm not
06:24:56Brian Atlasasking like there's some people who like AR into legitimate BDSM and they want to like put their legs like like have the girl lay on the flooor and like put
06:25:07Brian Atlastheir legs on her back and [ __ ] like I'm not trying to do that I mean if she wants me to maybe we can have a conversation about it but it's more than men for
06:25:16Brian Atlasthat but it's so such a small thing and it's just literally a temperature check for is she submissive that's it now there's other
06:25:29Allorayou can all you there's other things too but like will she do my laundry on the first date on the first first dat okay on the first date is pushing that's a
06:25:41Brian Atlaslittle valid that's so valid that is not valid look I'm a nice guy she just has to fold it I'll put it in fold it yeah I'm the first date you're sa your very first dat you know what you're right
06:25:52Brian AtlasI'll just she just has to I cuz I don't want her [ __ ] up my laundry machine so I'll I'll put the clothes in I'll do the soap I'll do the detergent and then I'll trans no she transfer transfers it
06:26:04Allorato the the dryer but then she has to fold it like that's her is this like a first dat idea for you you would do this I would be in love I am in love with the girl if she does that do you not like
06:26:16Brian Atlasdoing laundry interesting no I'm fine folding laundry you're fine doing it and sometimes sometimes why is this so appealing you know sometimes I'm why is it so appealing why is it so appealing
06:26:28Emmalike it's another it's a temperature check it's a temperature check to see if she' do your launch yes okay why can't you just ask why can't you just ask would you do myund I feel like if I heard that on a first
06:26:41Brian Atlasthat that I'm like hey do you want to do my laundry for me well yeah but actually but like make it no hold on I take that back it needs to be
06:26:50Brian Atlasunprompted she unprompted on the first date doing your laundry she has to she has to wait pull pull up the bow video again let me tell you exactly how let me show you let me explain this to you pull
06:27:02Brian Atlasit up pull it up shivery is dead um she has to Scamper up to me watch watch this play it did you give her pause it she has to Scamp her up like that be like excuse me
06:27:14Brian Atlassir can I do your laundry that's what she has to do she has to Scamp her she has to Scamp her with her her hands here and she has to be like can I do your laundry
06:27:26Brian Atlassir I will accept and you know what though by the third day I'm expecting Master okay okay get with the pram how about a new merch shirt that says that says girls who Scamper I will only
06:27:39Brian Atlasaccept sir for the first three days but once we're on the third date I need to know you're serious about me W I will only accept Master W from there on out guys don't care about that stuff what
06:27:52Kittyare you what are you talking about I'm just saying that the the douche that was in my crib with her now ex offered to do his laundry said no I might mess up his clothes and then I did her man's laundry well look you you know if you can't
06:28:04Brian Atlastrust her with anything sensitive for the first couple weeks you know if you you got something really important you got to do that [ __ ] yourself you know sometimes you know they struggle with the instructions but you got to you got you
06:28:17Brian Atlasknow the instructions of doing laundry yeah you know it's hard it's hard out there women have been doing for years you know what in fact I actually
06:28:28Brian Atlaspurchased online a rustic uh what wait what's it called like a art art antique I purchased a rustic antique
06:28:39Brian Atlaswashboard uh and and clothes lines clothes lines to hand wash to really see what she's about to see if she can hand