04:36:23Emmabullet no not just the bullet um I don't know like why are you a feminist no okay oh
04:36:35Emmago ahead why well I didn't have anywhere I was going with it you go ahead oh um no I'm not a
04:36:46Brian Atlasfeminist someone wrote this I I want to read it anyone can jump in front of a bullet or a knife and be a hero try working your life away day in and day out for 40 years at an unenjoyable job just to take care of people that
04:36:58Brian Atlasscarcely appreciate you sacrificing your entire life to their well-being and only tacid resent you for not earning more or achieving more having no real sense of
04:37:09Brian Atlasyou as a human being with his own thoughts feelings and needs pleas damn's the [ __ ] who hurt you
04:37:21Brian Atlasthat that got heavy bro that H hard we tell the username you there there is no username oh okay never mind that I you said a comment right it was a I'm it was I'm
04:37:33Brian Atlasnot going to share the username it was a somebody sent it to me okay yeah good talk uh
04:37:41Emmayeah good talk do you have anything else on that mean I mean not really um that's a sentiment I've heard like from my dad my whole life is that like he's constantly felt
04:37:54Emmaunappreciated whether it be by his first wife by my mom um by his parents like I've heard my dad say that his whole life [Music]
04:38:03TTS Readerso but I also think $200 if there was a large scale War should women be drafted for military service if no should women be required to have
04:38:14Brian Atlaschildren to restore the population who Mike Jones yo Mike Jones thank you for the message going around the table uh should women be drafted for the military yeah
04:38:27Marinayeah um that's a hard one i' I'd say said yeah should be even yeah I
04:38:38Brian Atlasdon't believe in drafting period Well granting that it exists and it's not going to be something that's taken away would you be in favor of it I mean I think I think if one gender gets
04:38:50Kayleedrafted it should be both genders okay more people more power uh I think uh men and women are equal in different ways so I'm going to go ahead and say I don't think women should be drafted cuz that's
04:39:01Kayleenot our strong suit it'll probably hurt hurt hurt it more than it help okay what about you I think women should be drafted yeah okay I'm going to say no no
04:39:12Carrie / Raelbecause I don't feel like again like she said men and women are very different extremely different you're in the military though you're in the National Guard mhm
04:39:24Kayleeokay I think women should be drafted me too send a feminist War send them send them okay yeah correction the feem the feminist feminist traditional women get
04:39:34Carrie / Raela pass this was an argument like made against the Equal Rights Amendment um you know that uh Second wave feminist had to deal with because the 14th
04:39:46Carrie / RaelAmendment which already like granted equality to women on a legal level um was like already there but a lot of these second wave feminism uh feminists were arguing for the Equal Rights
04:39:58Carrie / RaelAmendment which would have caused women to get drafted so especially during the Vietnam war so yeah I agree we should send them we should send the women to fight we should they can eliminate the G
04:40:10Brian Atlasuh feminist from the shol yeah only the feminists can be sent to uh s but the second component of that
04:40:18Brian Atlasis uh should women be required so well most of you said yes but what about CU one of the arguments you hear when it comes to why women shouldn't be drafted
04:40:29Brian Atlasis well if the women go and die how do you repopulate the population and this was perhaps the case in like more like
04:40:39Brian AtlasWay Way Back like if you had smaller groups of people if the women fought and they died you canot really repop repopulate um but if this is the
04:40:50Brian Atlasargument posed oh well women need to be the ones that can repopulate should women be required to have children via like a pregnancy
04:41:01Brian Atlasdraft a pregn so you could pick who you but you would be forced to get pregnant basically like it would be consensual sex kind of I get I mean
04:41:15Brian Atlasyou'd pick who if you're dating a boyfriend but it's like oh you're dating a guy okay no more birth control you have to try to get pregnant would you guys be in favor of
04:41:25Allorathe pregnancy draft I hate the idea of I understand the purpose realistically logically it would make sense in that scenario absolutely but personally I
04:41:35Carrie / Raelwould hate that yeah I mean I'm I'm going to give like the libertarian perspective and that I think more regulation is generally bad um so more
04:41:47Carrie / Raellaws being implemented is generally a bad thing you know you look at prohibition that didn't stop alcohol consumption I think when when it comes to people's like personal choices the government really needs to stay out of that so you know people want kids they
04:42:01TTS Readershould have kids if they don't they don't okay yeah we have a message here graffo thank you graffo graffo TCT donated $200 proposition every man should be
04:42:12TTS Readerable to carry his woman to Safety in an emergency situation like the house is on fire and she's passed out so he needs to be fit and she must avoid becoming
04:42:23Brian Atlasobese yeah true he say dope all right we have a chat here from
04:42:34Brian AtlasBruno Marsh showing love Bruno Marsh showing love hey been watching like a ninja podcast is dope keep that Groove going man yo Bruno thank you so much for
04:42:46Brian Atlasthe $100 Super Chat really appreciate it man also remember shivery is dead Bruno guys W's in the chat for Bruno for the $100 Super Chat and thank you graffito Michael Jones for the recent ttss thank
04:42:58Brian Atlasyou guys really appreciate it Reed is 100 TTS is 200 all right let's get into the questionnaire we got a lot to get through um all right uh men are not insecure for you know what hold on now
04:43:10Brian Atlaslet's start let's start yeah we'll start down here transgender individuals have a duty to disclose to romantic Partners to
04:43:18Brian Atlaswhich Toria you disagree and then Alec uh allora you also disagree why do you guys disagree well I think it should just be
04:43:30Toriathe same as anyone else you know like if they want to disclose it then disclose it if they don't then don't yeah I felt the same way about that should be the
04:43:40Allorasame yeah trans or not yeah trans or not if you don't want to disclose it don't if you do do what do you mean trans or not this would only apply to trans people well that's what I'm saying I
04:43:52Brian Atlashave the same idea about both wouldn't you want what what would what would it wouldn't matter to me what Partners they had before wait what is that the
04:44:01Brian Atlasquestion no that's if you're transgender the question is like should you tell a person that you're going to go on a date with or you are dating that you are
04:44:11Alloratrans cuz maybe you're passing I definitely read that question wrong I it I was concerned for it no they should definitely disclose exactly if they're
04:44:22Alloratrans but not their past partners that's how I read that question thought it was really yeah that's what I thought it meant transgender individuals have a duty to disclose to romantic
04:44:33Brian AtlasPartners yeah is that conf period is that maybe you meant genitalia or like biological sex I don't so you think if a trans person is on a
04:44:44Brian Atlasdating app that they should say before even meeting up with a person BTW I'm trans yes yeah they should let them know agree yeah out of safety too for them I
04:44:54Carrie / Raelwas just going to say that out of safety above yeah and I think that's like violating it's just like it's violating someone's trust and that's like a lie uh
04:45:06Brian Atlaslet's see here aora uh so the statement is men are physically stronger women allur you disagree I didn't think I circled that one you did I cross it out
04:45:17Brian Atlaswasn't cired it it did you circled it mhm there's one above it that says possible to be sexist towards men and you circled that one but you crossed that one out did you mean to cross out the men are physically stronger than
04:45:28Brian Atlaswomen I think so yeah okay so you think men are are physically stronger than women yeah okay we'll go we'll skip to the next one then possible to be sexist towards men uh you
04:45:43Brian Atlasdisagree you circled it but then you crossed it out but there's confusion if it you meant to cross out the next one do you think it's possible to be sexist towards men yeah I do oh okay Toria you're the
04:45:55Toriaonly one on this one uh why do you disagree no I think it's possible I thought it had a double NE okay I didn't read well I was like let's finish this I
04:46:04Brian Atlasknow how about like let me like can a woman be sexist towards a man yeah I think definitely yeah all right uh it works both ways making it simple then uh
04:46:16Brian Atlaspossible to be racist towards white people to which uh Marina you disagree and then is it not possible or is it you oh my God you guys are killing
04:46:28Mariname confusing me it's possible to be racist towards a white man is that what you're saying is that what it was possible is it possible for a black person to be racist towards a white person yeah I think racism is even
04:46:39Brian Atlasthroughout all race okay cuz you circled you disagree so I think we all read through your wrong all right men are the primary you guys I feel like you guys
04:46:49Brian Atlasjust don't want to argue with me um men are the primary victims of war Toria you disagree Laura you
04:46:58Brian Atlasdisagree are or not bro sorry directions and then I explained it to you directions if you disagree if you disagree circle with the corresponding
04:47:09Torianumber hey there were double negatives it's not a double negative for some of them and I was like wait how is it a double NE it oh my God the first question the first question was like
04:47:19Toriadoes it not do okay so men are the primary victims of war yes or no um I would say it affects
04:47:29Toriaeveryone okay mhm but maybe men it affects Men first and then that's primary so primary yeah but then it also
04:47:39Qaffects you know women who are you know but it's not as bad but it's not as bad right if I get shot if I if I get shot and killed does it affect my mom as much
04:47:51Qas it affected me well I guess you wouldn't be here to be experienced yeah that's what I'm saying would I be the I be the primary victim you said like it can have a trickle effect of course yeah but
04:48:03Brian Atlasprimarily it would affect me because I'm the one who got shot and she would just feel the effect but I think you're saying emotionally War some women get essayed is what you're going to say
04:48:14Brian Atlasright which is true typically I'm not aware of any War where there are more women who get Ed than there are men who die and i' I'd
04:48:26Brian Atlasactually be prepared to say there's I've not studied every single war in the entirety of human history I would be prepared to say that every single War there have been more men who were
04:48:37Brian Atlascasualties or I'll just I won't even say casualties there are more men who died than there were women who were Ed I don't know the statistics for that
04:48:48Brian Atlasbut well I mean it's pretty easy typically like women get to they flee the front line typically and sometimes invading uh I mean it depends on the nature of the war but invading countries
04:48:59Brian Atlassometimes do cross paths with well often often times cross paths paths with civilians but like most people Retreat uh in into the interior of the country
04:49:12Brian Atlasuh I mean sometimes countries uh an invading force will take over the entire country um but often times the the women and children will flee they'll go to a different country so there's just way
04:49:24Brian Atlasmore men who are encountering the actual combat who are actually you know being uh in encountering the enemy who
04:49:34Brian Atlaswould be the ones who would be essaying these women MH like look at gas Khan there's like Millions of millions he probably killed more people than yeah
04:49:46Brian Atlasyeah wait I'm actually curious about this it's it is kind of a heavy topic but like normally I frame it what do you think is worse 10
04:49:56Brian Atlassoldiers who die 10 male soldiers who die or one woman who gets essayed by a belligerent Soldier I don't know how to answer that that's like the the train question like
04:50:09Carrie / Raeldo you kill your best it's like the trolley which one's worse the 10 soldiers who die but that's also like human history um I think on the show before they had talked about the
04:50:21Carrie / Raelgreater male variability hypothesis you know where like most men won't reproduce basically successfully reproducing it's been like that throughout human history
04:50:31Carrie / Raelum due to intersexual competition between men for women so I think I think it's sad that men die so often you know and you have men at like both ends of
04:50:42Carrie / Raelthe bell curve like you have a high amount of men that are geniuses and then you have a high amount of men that are intellectually disabled like I was talking about earlier um but I think you know and that that's because of that
04:50:54Carrie / Raelcompetition but I think unfortunately if you look at this morally and you have to choose one you probably would say the men dying uh even though I feel like people in society would say the woman
04:51:07Kittythough like they how we go around the table go ahead yeah oh wait um the woman uh not the woman sorry the 10 soldiers dying would be worst yeah definitely you're losing 10
04:51:17Carrie / Raellives yeah 10 soldiers yeah I think ethically 10 soldiers 10 lives 10 soldiers 10 soldiers yeah
04:51:27Carrie / Raelokay I've talked a lot today right no it's okay um essay does happen a lot in the military it does but it also happens outside the military you know what I
04:51:39Marinamean so what about one for one like one man one yeah one person killed that's still
04:51:49MarinaI versus one essay that's still one life right there yeah sorry yeah does that make it more challenging for you or a little bit CU I feel like the woman
04:52:00Alloralives with that forever in the same aspect you could say the family of whose man that died that was also live with that forever mhm I don't well I mean to
04:52:12Brian Atlasbe charitable the W uh a woman who's been asay that would be harmful also to the family yeah yeah it would like the the brothers father's mother sister that
04:52:24Kittythat would be hurtful to them that they're uh sister uh child was victimized in that way yeah um but they could go to therapy if a life got lost
04:52:36Kittythere's nothing you can do they can't get brought back go to therapy for essay and not for nothing there could be a LW and you could be rich also on top of that yeah well I don't think you don't know I'm just saying I'm trying I'm
04:52:49Carrie / Raeltrying to think of a positive I don't know about that argument but uh I I don't know if essay would ever be justified like you don't know you never know I think though and tell me if you
04:53:00Carrie / Raelthink I'm wrong cuz I feel like Brian and I may see I eye on this don't you think that this is going to sound bad wait can I ask one thing
04:53:11Brian Atlasone favor yeah I want you to be concise but you you include a lot of preambles when you speak like you gave two preambles there yeah
04:53:22Carrie / Raeljust say what you're going to say okay you don't need a uh disclaimer pre I know it's because of my narcissism I know I didn't you I like to mouth off anyway anyway so I was going to say I
04:53:34Carrie / Raelwas going to say um so do you think that WEA sexual assault has happened is like relative to the individual like do you think it's based
04:53:46Carrie / Raelon perception does that make sense I'm just I'm I'm trying to play devil's advocate here because a lot of the me too stuff there were accusations coming out right
04:53:57Brian Atlasand it was like no due process and so yeah I think there's false accusations yeah but but I think there there would there is like an objective standard to
04:54:07Brian Atlaslike has this person be been ESS I think yes mhm but
04:54:15Carrie / Raelum so I'm the I'm what's the question um no I just I I I I'm asking
04:54:24Carrie / Raelwhether you think that somebody could like believe that like a man raping them is the same as like being groped or
04:54:34Carrie / Raeltouched like if they would be if they would like be equated like as as equal types of sexual assault I'm just playing Devil's Advocate I'm saying do you think
04:54:44Carrie / Raelit's as bad do you do you think that rap what please don't we told you not to say that word oh I'm sorry Sor say rape or saay I'm sorry sexual assault I'm sorry what is your question you know what it's
04:54:56Carrie / Raelfine no oh my God now you're going to say it because just say it go ahead okay um do you think that some I'm playing Devil's Advocate do you think that some women maybe no you're asking me a
04:55:08Carrie / Raelhypothetical question what is your Dev 's Advocate position so that maybe some people some women if they're on drugs maybe they imagine the fact that they're sexually assaulted or
04:55:22Brian Atlasthey hallucinate the situation are you asking me if this is a phenomenon that happens yes yes is that your question yeah yeah even women can go to therapy and there's this certain thing where like the therapist will like introd what
04:55:34Brian Atlasis it past [ __ ] what's that do you know what it's called remission they go to therapy and it's like past memory [ __ ] chat can anybody in the chat you talking about chat anybody in the chat know what
04:55:45Brian AtlasI'm talking about they go to a therapist [ __ ] hypnosis or some [ __ ] ey movement desensitization real no it's it's like a repressed memory memor repressed
04:55:56Brian Atlasmemory yeah but I think like some of that can be uh inserted there is a phenomenon where uh a memory can be inserted into false
04:56:07Qmemory it's like a memory a memory that can be it's also true false memory it's also true that like generational trauma can be passed down in that way so say like your mom went through something
04:56:20Marinalike that and you didn't necessarily but just based off of maybe you heard it in the background or like you can feel like it happened to you as well is that confabulation or something like you're exactly what that's called but it's I'm
04:56:33Qnot sure if it would be confabulation um I get what you're saying but I don't I don't actually think it happens like that it's more so like it can change like stress responses
04:56:43Brian Atlasit can alter stress responses genetically that that would be yeah yeah the basis of it there is I mean there's a Wikipedia Wikipedia article on memory implantation is a technique used in
04:56:56Brian Atlascognitive psychology to investigate human memory in memory implantation studies researchers make people believe that they remember an event that actually never happened FAL false memories that have been successfully implanted in people's memories include
04:57:09Brian Atlasremembering being lost in a mall as a child taking a hot air balloon ride among other things which could be both good and bad um so I don't know I'm a I don't know I don't think they do I don't know
04:57:21Qif they do that in therapy I do know that's a cognitive psychological phenomenon there are some therapists that will like therapist they'll implant memories it
04:57:34Brian Atlashappens uh no they're sociologist Richard blah blah blah an expert on false memories due to coercive interrogations as well as suggestive
04:57:45Brian Atlastherapies um I don't know I'm not an expert in that um what is your question though um I want to make sure that I word it correctly because I think it's a
04:57:57Carrie / Raelsensitive subject don't Preamble just say it okay okay okay um no I mean I that's what I was asking I was asking whether you think that some females
04:58:08Carrie / Raelhallucinate their rap their sexual assult experience sexual assault experience I said R rate R Great r a t e
04:58:19Brian Atlasi told what I didn't I didn't I said she said okay now I'm being gaslit here okay she you did not say rate um total gaslighting what the [ __ ] no right then
04:58:31Brian Atlasyeah I didn't say just say grape or essay please okay um yeah it's fine let's move on why why are you bringing that up though I I'm
04:58:43Carrie / Raeljust what are you trying to get a gotcha no I'm just I'm wondering like what you think about like if you think people's perceptions like formulate how we are
04:58:55Carrie / Raeldealing with this situation because there wasn't any due process that was going on during me too no one was investigating these accusations and I'm just wondering you know if you think
04:59:06Brian Atlasthat some people people whoa whoa whoa hold on you're saying that there any woman who brought forth a allegation of
04:59:15Brian Atlasessay prior to me too which is like what 2017 it was never taken seriously no man
04:59:23Brian Atlashas ever been convicted of a of a sex crime until 2017 mhm you're actually cooked that I'm I don't mean to be
04:59:32Brian Atlasinsulting but that is such a just factually incorrect thing to say mhm so you think if if I were to present evidence to you that says in 2000 there's there's hundreds if not
04:59:45Brian Atlasthousands of criminal cases that have been prosecuted and there was a prosecution and there are men who are in
04:59:52Brian Atlasprison yeah from the '90s 80s 7s 60s who were prosecuted correctly for sex crimes you think sex crimes have not been
05:00:03Carrie / Raelprosecuted until 2017 they have I'm saying you literally just said no they haven't no I'm saying that when me too started it's kind of like you could just come out and say
05:00:15Carrie / Raelthat somebody sexually assaulted you and then they would get you know like a lot of hate for that without any kind of due process happening I'm not saying that it didn't go on there was a lot of due
05:00:26Carrie / Raelprocess prior to that but I'm wondering as this Society like what kind of direction we're heading in terms of that being a thing you know because we don't know if
05:00:36Carrie / Raelpeople are just imagining these events I'm not saying that I agree with that I'm saying that there could be some people that you know maybe they had a false memory
05:00:49Brian Atlasimplanted cuz that does happen in therapy or or they make a false accusation yeah or they make false accusation that happen but also Are there women who are genuinely ESS yes absolutely why is there I don't
05:01:02Carrie / Raelunderstand why are you trying to get a gotcha what are you doing no I just wanted to hear I just wanted to hear how you were thinking about all this
05:01:11Carrie / Raelcuz you know we were kind of talking about it I'm not trying to get anyone upset and just
05:01:24Brian Atlasbut I I don't know what you're okay
05:01:35Brian Atlasokay just I'm kind of annoyed not going to lie I just need to step away I'm sorry bro be crashing out huh bro it's just
05:01:50Brian Atlaslike I don't know I don't know
05:01:57Alloraum somebody else want to [ __ ] talk I'm just yeah I don't really know how to follow that yeah I don't really don't know where to go from here I'm really my
05:02:08Toriagoal is really to just get the thing that's all what's the next question has anyone experienced love at first sight or do you believe in it yes
05:02:21Emmano I well I believe in attachment at first sight I don't think you can really love someone just by laying eyes on them what is attachment at
05:02:33Emmafirst so it's called liance it's just like when you see someone and for no reason you oh infatuation yeah like for no reason you become obsessed with them usually because of like there's a reason
05:02:45Emmawell yeah there's usually a some type of situation that happened in your life that made you attracted to that like so obsessed with that person that you feel like you need to positive Illusions yeah
05:02:57Emmayou have an idea of who that person is you build a perception of them up in your head and put them on this pedestal and like yeah yeah okay I believe in that I think in order to like really
05:03:08Brian Atlaslove someone you have to you know spend time with them that's really it okay do you want to talk about nilia too while we're is there any other like kind of
05:03:19Brian Atlasheavier topics you you want to talk about child abuse what else do you want to talk about huh no no I'm I'm sorry yeah I'm sorry trafficking we could talk
05:03:31Brian Atlasabout trafficking too what do you want to talk about no I've been talking a lot I want to hear you talk you want talk about Michael Jackson what do you want to talk about Michael Jackson
05:03:41Brian Atlasstill very much alive oh boy okay all right um okay here I'm gonna move it on I'm gonna move it on um all right uh
05:03:53Brian Atlasthere is no gender wage Gap Toria you disagree anybody else disagree no gender wage Gap Laura you think there's a gender wage Gap Carrie you think there's a gender
05:04:04Toriawage Gap okay why I mean you said it earlier 80 cents to a dollar oh I don't believe that you don't believe that it
05:04:16Toriaexists that that's true H why what is the evidence well first you tell me what the gender wage Gap is
05:04:26Toriaum for the same job women will be getting paid less or um for example they'll inherit some kind of company or
05:04:38Toriawhatever and then it tinks once they inherited or it's like at the war or the inherited companies in the war hold let me let a couple chats through come back
05:04:48TTS Readerto it 594 donated $200 drug test these broads j s we're thinking you are
05:05:01Brian Atlas[ __ ] it's okay we're all a little bit arler I'm I'm a little I'm arler too it's obv we have something in common I guess
05:05:15TTS Readerthe next one I'm just waiting for the next one to come [ __ ] CLA donated $200 big head small brain starting to make sense uhoh in case no one covered
05:05:27TTS Readerit 14th amendment was about slavery while 19th was women's right to vote no conscription ever brought up where is Andrew oh Cay welcome back yeah I don't
05:05:38Brian Atlasknow man um um Andrew would be losing his mind right now he'd be CH he'd be [ __ ] chain smoking I'll tell you that much um
05:05:47Alloraokay uh good talk uh yeah uh okay wage Gap what's the wage Gap I think it's shifted honestly because I think there's been more
05:05:59Alloraopportunities for women to make more money so I feel like it's almost shifted in a way kind of like what I was talking about earlier sure you think there's a wage Gap
05:06:10Carrie / Raelum yeah I know there's a wage Gap but it's not for the same reasons you know that I think maybe other people here think it exists uh for um it definitely is there though but it's because women
05:06:23Carrie / Raeland men go into different jobs and they work different hours you know it's not there for a prejudiced reason I'd say but it does exist I agree with you resp
05:06:32Brian Atlasresp I think the differential here is if we use the term wage Gap it indicates that there's it's sort of like a snuck in uh
05:06:44Brian Atlasit's a bit loaded because with the wage Gap it's indicating okay well the person with the same exact job same job same all other criteria they're they're being
05:06:53Brian Atlaspaid way less there's an earnings gap between men and women an earnings Gap because what what the wage gap which is really an earnings Gap does is it takes all the money that men make all the
05:07:06Brian Atlaswomen that money make and it just does a onetoone comparison it doesn't factor in hours worked type of job location geography um the uh education received
05:07:18Brian Atlasprior to that it doesn't factor in any of those variables it's just like all the women in the United States who are working versus all the men in the United States who are working it's totally unfair to do that sort of comparison men
05:07:29Brian Atlasgo into different fields and so uh if you actually do the control for it it shrinks to one cent it's just one cent if you if you do uh
05:07:42Brian Atlassame job they've been in the field the same time working at the same company it shrinks to just one cent right and also I think the gender
05:07:54Brian Atlaseven if there was a gender wage gap which there isn't it would just be explained why by it would be explained Away by women's uh mating
05:08:04Brian Atlaspreferences probably interesting you want a guy who makes $100,000 you're currently broke if I'm broke I definitely can't date a girl who makes
05:08:17Brian Atlas$100,000 women typically when they're high earners they want to date a guy who's on their level or above who's making as much as them or above a guy who's an attorney actually here's the here's a really interesting thing I just
05:08:29Brian Atlasthought about the other night and you guys can correct me if I'm wrong a woman who makes enough money so you you guys know how I I'll get right back to that but you guys know how typically for most families it's
05:08:41Brian Atlasgoing to require two incomes it's going to take two incomes to have like kids and raise a family right for a lot of people that's the economic reality there's going to be need to be two
05:08:51Brian Atlasincomes once a woman gets into the range though where she can support she could support a family on her own so conceivably she makes so much money well
05:09:03Brian Atlasmaybe not you don't you don't need to make so much money to do that but she makes enough money that she could have her husband stay at home not saying she would want that but she could she makes
05:09:14Brian Atlasenough money where he wouldn't need to work and they would be okay once she makes enough money to do that she's going to be looking to date a guy who
05:09:24Brian Atlascan also do that so really high earning women get into a problem there more so than women who make a little bit less who would pair off with a guy who he probably would be helpful financially to
05:09:34Brian Atlaspair off with a woman who's also working once a woman makes that level of money she wants to date guys who they can support a family on a single income those women are in real hot water
05:09:46Brian Atlasbecause that guy he can support a family onone income he doesn't need your money at all he doesn't care at all but those women want to date those men those women are going to and those women who are
05:09:59Brian Atlasprobably earning that much are very career-driven a woman who's earning enough money to support a family just on her income are probably very career-driven probably boss babes
05:10:10Brian Atlasprobably a little bit in their masculine a little bit Yeah so the guy who he's making enough money to be able to support a family on his own he's not
05:10:19Brian Atlasgoing to he's thinking I can support a family on my own I don't need her money I'm going to go date a girl who's going to prioritize me and the family and not
05:10:31Brian Atlasbe so focused on her career so that leaves a bunch of women who earn this level of money with a lack of prospects because the guys who can support a family on
05:10:43Brian Atlastheir income he doesn't need you he's going to go date a barista he's going to date a woman who
05:10:53Brian Atlaswants to be a stay-at-home mom who's not prioritizing her career over family and
05:11:02Brian Atlaskids I don't know that thought crossed my mind recently comment but also when it comes to the wage Gap you guys want men to pay for first
05:11:13Brian AtlasAIDS this would explain away the wage Gap you want men who are successful you're attracted to ambition you're attracted to men who work hard when it
05:11:22Brian Atlascomes to men occupying positions of like CEO jobs men who are Executives men who are at the highest echelons of corporate life men who occupy the uh more
05:11:33Brian Atlasprestigious jobs you guys are attracted to that you guys reward that but you as women we're our our attraction to women is never based on
05:11:43Brian Atlasyour status or your success we don't care we date the hot 20-year-old who works at Chick-fil-A don't
05:11:52Brian Atlascare like no oh my God yeah she's a VP at a court don't care doesn't it doesn't make a woman more attractive it could be a plus in terms of like if you're
05:12:03Brian Atlasbringing some money to the table it can be a plus but like at what cost because most guys like if you're boss babe you're an ICU nurse who's like seen
05:12:14Marinapeople die and [ __ ] trauma hello so um I don't know so I was in a relationship a very healthy relationship where my ex kind of lost his job for 3 months and I was a travel nurse so I was making like really good money at that time and um he
05:12:27Marinawas very upset that you know it they just happened to it the job let him go and it wasn't his fault like he was a contract he was a third party contract and um and I F really bad for him and I
05:12:39Marinawas like you know like and he was constantly searching for jobs like you know he had a he had a a master's degree in like Homeland Security he was trying to find a really good job in that field and I completely understand that and um
05:12:52MarinaI kind of like we took care of him and us together and like and our apartment like paid our bills like he paid his own bills but like I kind of like took care of us until he was able to get back on his feet and he did get back on his feet
05:13:04Marinaum but like I didn't look for anyone else I kind of like supported him and I supported him emotionally as well I like you know just trying to make him feel better um and also like my current boyfriend we've talked about our salary
05:13:15Marinahe makes way less than I do um and I didn't know that until after we met and after um and I I really don't care like I cuz like I know I can support myself but I'm not like I'm not trying to like
05:13:27Marinashow that off wait didn't you say your last boyfriend he lost his job and you had to hold it down yeah for like 3 months um and then you dumped him no no we broke up um no my first boyfriend was the one that I dumped the four-year
05:13:39Marinarelationship and then my last boyfriend I had you were taking care of him uh when he lost his job yeah cuz we were together we were living in apartment wait how soon after he how long were you together three years the second the
05:13:50Brian Atlassecond and then he lost his job and then after two two years of us being together so you stayed together for a year after he lost his job or how soon after he lost his job did the breakup happen yeah
05:14:02Marinauh we broke up I think about a year after he lost his job yeah because we we um we broke up for personal reasons um I was still more a career-driven and he
05:14:13Marinawas too um and he lives in Alabama and I live in Massachusetts uh we met when he was in Massachusetts and um I was traveling and I stopped traveling to go into critical care and um we I long
05:14:25Marinadistance was not working for us uh we've tried it before um when I was a travel nurse and um it just travel nurse yeah I was a travel nurse uhoh for a couple of
05:14:35Marinayears we were together um and so we broke up because it it wasn't going to work out long distance um and stuff like that so not because of financial reasons
05:14:46Marinaat all like we never to argue about our finances um and I never put that on him mhm so you chose your career over a relationship correct yeah and um so this time around with my current boyfriend I'm not doing that like I'm I'm at home
05:14:59MarinaI I want to get married I want to have kids I want to have a house like like I'm 30 like I I'm ready to settle and um you know I'm I'm kind of like able where I'm at you know I of course I want to
05:15:11Marinafurther my education like I I'd like to like be a nursing Professor one day or go into like flight nursing or something like that but I can multitask I can do that while I'm at home I can take online
05:15:22Marinaclasses you know and be with someone like I've I just yeah I stopped because I was in a healthy relationship before with this ex-boyfriend and um I gave that up because I wanted to go in terms
05:15:35Brian Atlasof both of your you're with the guy you're currently seeing in terms of both of your career trajectories mhm uh are you going to make more than him oh yeah 100% you're okay with that that's like I I don't
05:15:47Marinajudge like I like I I I was into him before I knew our finances genuine desire yeah and honestly like he treats me very well it's another healthy relationship um
05:15:59Marinahe's very respectful like he takes care of my needs I'm a needy person I you're I'm a princess sometimes yes yes I can I can like I mean I watched 12 hours shifts like I would I would like someone to take care of me I want someone to
05:16:11Marinacuddle me I want someone to like take care of me as well especially if I don't take care of myself like how can I take care of other people if I don't take care of myself emotionally physically mentally like I need someone there absolutely you know what I mean like
05:16:23Marinait's um I and the fact that he like he caters to those kind of needs that I can't do myself I appreciate that like I don't care about your finances at all
05:16:33Marinaokay no I really don't and if anything happens I know that I can um I can cover both of us provide for both of us I think that I think that's a good narrative because um outside of the
05:16:46Qinternet I don't think a lot of people are aware that it's actually not as serious or as highly prevalent as we like to talk about it act like women don't date men when they make less or
05:16:57Qact like if once a guy loses his job that the relationship ends abruptly right then and there cuz that's not the case I mean obviously if you're in a relationship and you guys have probably communicated you know the status of your finances you know what you have planned
05:17:10Qfor one another you know what you see the Outlook of the relationship being so of course any intelligent woman when you hit you know potholes um bumps in the road whatever the case may be you're
05:17:22Qgoing to stick by your man for as long as you you know you can before you're overwhelmed and say okay this is not working and I don't think a lot of guys out there understand that you know so it's it's good that you were able to
05:17:33Allorademonstrate that based on your situation I think it also proves a point too that the whole time he was working towards it it's not like he got comfortable just living off of you and that's a big difference too because it's and that
05:17:46Alloragoes for a woman as well as soon as you get comfortable living off of that person that's where it becomes kind of like okay now this is the situation everybody talks about like this is the the problem but if you're actively
05:17:58Alloraworking towards it and you know that person can build you know they're driven to do so absolutely stick to it like absolutely yeah um any have any thoughts
05:18:10Emmaand Brian wants me to ask a spicy question hey I don't have any though but do you guys have any to come to mind I thought he had a spicy question no he wants me to ask a spicy question I
05:18:22Marinacould ask about how you guys think about uh cheating culture cheating culture I've never been cheated on and I've never cheated and sorry I don't I don't sorry um good you're good and I kind of brought that firsthand in the
05:18:34Marinarelationship it's like I don't want to get hurt cuz I don't think I'm a hurt person at all and I don't feel like I deserve that in general so I I would 100% expect my partner to not do it and
05:18:47Marinathat's what I talked about with my previous relationships and my current one as well and just we both agree on terms like no one wants to get cheated like that sucks I got a question um I
05:18:59Qsaw this I saw this video uh yesterday and they were going around asking women and men if the Grim Reaper came to your door
05:19:09Qand offer it to take you or your husband who would you tell the Grim Reaper to take me and we can we can start right here and go around this is kind person
05:19:20Qnot taking me so your husband yeah yeah not taking me okay what about you husband
05:19:29Allorahusband I just say take me take you yeah I don't know it's like the bullet question it is yeah it's and I have the same answer what was your answer for the
05:19:40Allorabullet question I wouldn't expect my partner to do anything but I know I would I would go I would take me you know you would take you but I would want
05:19:50Kayleemy partner to do the same okay yeah yeah I want to me you okay yeah with the bullet question it was more like I just want you to protect me when
05:20:02Kayleethere's like an emergency but if the Grim Reaper came to me I would say me for two reasons one because like okay he's take the bullet I'll take the Grim Reaper but two I think I could talk my way out of it like be like no seriously
05:20:14Qthough like like come on you think you can talk your way out of the Grim Reaper well I tell you what's working in your disadvantage cuz the Grim Reaper is still male he be like hey you got to give it up if you
05:20:25Carrie / Raelwant doing that then he's swiping you anyway oh my God yeah um so I would myself basically
05:20:36Carrie / Raelyourself that's all I'll say maybe it's my time I miss my time yeah but it don't have to be your time it could be your husband's time yeah but like I agree with her the same thing like the bullet thing is like protection this is like
05:20:48Carrie / RaelI'd rather like I put myself than my husband oh okay I feel like he I mean I yeah I feel like my husband will be a better like provider and protector for
05:20:59Qthe kids okay so the women who chose husbands y'all don't love y'all husbands I don't want a husband you don't want a husband I don't want a husband so I'm going take it oh damn well I guess you you love your husband I don't think I I
05:21:11Kittydon't really want to get married but I do have something to say though which is interesting yeah um I forgot her name the Monroe piercing oh I have a question
05:21:20Kittyfor you yeah sorry Carrie so you said um you would wait take your husband or not take your husband no I wouldn't take my husband you wouldn't no but oh wait
05:21:33Kittyyou're wait okay so um no if I could pick I would pick me not him yeah okay but the thing that's a little interesting to me you said that
05:21:44Kittylike you never loved a man and that whole love thing like I don't know like it's interesting to me if the whole like it's your husband you have kids but you don't love
05:21:58Kittyhim like you feel like you're going to end up with someone that you don't love technically by saying pick you over your husband that actually is love so that's where I'm a little confused us um
05:22:10Carrie / Raelsacrifice yeah because I think that I like to take risks and I mean I guess that that that would be love you know um
05:22:19Carrie / Raelno that that would be it's it's an act of Love um but I think you know I would do it just because I would like to take on the Grim Reaper you know and be like I don't know
05:22:31Carrie / Raellikeing counter the Grim Reaper I don't know I think about it that way like I don't really cuz cuz if he if okay cuz like if he die like if my husband dies I
05:22:43Carrie / Raeldon't know I mean I'm I'm an agnostic so it's kind of like when you're dead you're dead like it's not like I'm going to be able to talk to your spirit or something like that but you get to pick like technically love
05:22:55Kittylike real love in my opinion love is pain love is sacrifice like real morals yeah I mean like I said you know I would like
05:23:06Carrie / Raelwell I mean I I would want to and also I'm like super tired right now um but um I yeah I mean I don't again I think it's like the intention
05:23:18Carrie / Raelbehind the ACT I just think that it would be really cool to like take on the Grim Reaper I mean I'm looking at it that way but I see what you're saying cuz you know if you love someone then
05:23:29Carrie / Raelyou sacrifice yourself uh for them and also maybe I should have looked at the question more seriously yeah I mean you said it in kind of a loving way I thought you loved your husband for a
05:23:39Carrie / Raelsecond um I mean like I said it's like love is a is a complicated thing you know like I have all you need is love tattooed on my
05:23:49Carrie / Raeltorso and after the Beetles song and um you know it's like it's I mean it can mean a lot of things I feel like so like I can demonstrate acts of love for
05:24:02Carrie / Raelsomebody again I don't I don't think that it necessarily equates to seeing that person person is like this like perfect entity that like doesn't do
05:24:13Carrie / Raelanything wrong and you know and I also think of it that's that's not love I would argue that the opposite is actually love if you're like infatuated with somebody though yeah but you if you reference an infatuation and we both understand that that's not love if
05:24:26Qyou're talking about you know the person's flaws and you know everything about him what's wrong with him and you still accept them anyway that's that's love well okay yeah if that's how you're defining love then yeah what how else
05:24:37Carrie / Raelwould you love well I would also think of like empathy because somebody who I feel like love comes with empathy and there's do you not have empathy for people but you would have empathy for
05:24:49Carrie / Raelthe person expecting all well she's a narcissist she don't no I'm looking I'm again I'm looking at this from like a I guess maybe I'm looking at this like too
05:25:00Carrie / Raelscientifically I don't know um because you know there's a there are differences of there are different types of empathy there's 's cognitive empathy which is what like you know a lot of
05:25:11Carrie / Raelpeople have and then there's emotional empathy which is entirely different that's like vicarious emotional experience uh with the individual so
05:25:22Carrie / Raelthat's like you can't help but feel what the other person is feeling um I feel like that type of empathy is like synonymous with love where like when
05:25:32Carrie / Raelthey feel pain you feel pain when they feel happy you feel happy when you when you feel sad
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05:26:01Brian Atlass I mean yeah come through let the grandma crazy uh we have a chat here from Jordan
05:26:12Brian AtlasBrian myON called I on Daisy which is hilarious oh yeah I saw that he oh that was funny um during our last stream F that30 fo also got support my girls
05:26:23Brian AtlasKitty and Aur when is the fnf and whatever collab happening uh yo Jordan thank you so much for the uh streamlabs message Man uh really appreciate it thank you so much dude
05:26:34Brian Atlasum uh yeah do you know that guy that's the that's my friend Jordan he you guys know him she doesn't know him I actually of her
05:26:44Kittyyeah I've known him since I was 16 wait you don't do o no you being honest yes have you ever done o no are you looking at me to ask me you
05:26:56Alloraguys are friends right because I have oh you you have o i used to you used to yeah did you ever make a guest appearance on her o no no I started it
05:27:07Kittywhen I was 18 and I stopped I used to do drugs I still do but I used to to honestly dancing is a lot easier dancing
05:27:16Brian AtlasI could swipe it away didn't do it yeah exactly huh okay uh interesting uh sorry I didn't mean to just I was I apologize for the delays on
05:27:28Brian Atlason those guys I was away from the uh table uh let's get back into let's finish up the questionnaire uh women are not oppressed in the United
05:27:40Brian AtlasStates toor uh Toria right am I saying your name right you disagree not I think you might be the only one
05:27:49Brian Atlaswho disagrees wait women are not yeah you're the only one circle is circle if you disagree with the statement so women are not oppressed in the USA so if you
05:28:01Brian AtlasCircle disagree it would indicate that you think women are oppressed in the United States which is your position
05:28:09Toriaright yeah okay how are women oppressed um my brain is not working right now I
05:28:18Brian Atlasam Cooks um Damen Damian Daman uh I don't know why I repeated here we need energy shots you're taking
05:28:30Brian Atlasan energy shot and you're taking an energy shot performance time can you pour it into the little mini cups they get to take little mini shots like little dwarves you guys are dwarves little dwarves little dwarves who else wants a
05:28:42Brian Atlasshot of energy juice yeah let me let me get one to you're taking it you're taking it if you say you're tired on the podcast you got to take one she's taking one perfect while you are in a come State why don't you explain to me though
05:29:02Brian Atlasum hello are you on drugs hello am I am you wait oh said yes I need to pass this you're the only one who said yes so you're the only one
05:29:14Brian Atlasyou can't pass it there's no one to pass to he's asking like just two Damian just two shots do women have rights here or do not have well do women not have rights well are they oppressed by yeah I wouldn't say that we're not quite well
05:29:26Brian Atlasshe also said women she disagrees that women have equal rights to men in the USA so we'll just combine those two that's 11 Chris uh you also think women do not have equal rights to men in the
05:29:37Brian AtlasUnited States stes what did I say you want to just give it to her and we'll just pass it down yeah pass it down thank you was that one of the
05:29:48Brian Atlaslittle small ones Daman or the from a bottle Celsius okay so it's not much enough caffeine to get you guys going micone okay here I'll skip to you while
05:30:00Kittyshe gathers her brain so wait were you asking me a question women have equal rights to men in the USA you disagree why is that so I messed up I was
05:30:11Kittythinking something else um God what what were you thinking or black oh just how it's technically not a right so I F out wrong what is um in other words I feel
05:30:23Kittylike men think they could have two girlfriends but it's wrong for a woman to have two boyfriends like let's say you're in a relationship they want two girlfriends but you can't have two
05:30:34Brian Atlasboyfriends but that's not a woman's um it's yeah yeah so I goofed up on that sorry I mean and a woman could have that exact same Dynamic she could dictate that Dynamic to a man she could be like
05:30:47Brian Atlasyou're going to be monogamous to me but I'm going to [ __ ] other dudes no but I'm saying it's crazy that men think it's not the same like I actually had this argument earlier today I mean we could probably argue that yeah definitely could AR we could argue it um definely
05:30:59Brian Atlascould argue that so you're saying like let's just say you're allowed to have two girlfriends I didn't say that okay I'm I think you're saying you were saying how there's a difference
05:31:11Brian Atlasmen point out how there's a difference yeah and I don't think that's wrong uh so the difference would be men men have a natural revulsion to female promiscuity here's why so because of
05:31:23Brian Atlaspaternity uncertainty if a woman is sleeping with 10 different men who's the father okay what if they don't want children I know but it's not the point it's it's psychological that means we
05:31:34Qstill behave as if that's the case even if that's not the case well put very well put Q we still behave as if that's the case mhm it's kind of like for example uh why
05:31:46Brian Atlasare men attracted to women with large breasts and wide hips because that this woman is conceivably more fertile better suited the big breasts more milk wide
05:31:56Brian Atlaships better birthing [ __ ] Canal but when a man is engaging with a a woman just for a casual sexual encounter he has no intention of having a child with
05:32:06Brian Atlasher but the thing things in which make him attracted to that very thing are related to uh child ability to give birth child birth right but he's like I don't want to I don't want to have a kid
05:32:18Carrie / Raelwith her but like he's attracted to her and wants to have sex with her because of those markers mhm okay it's evolutionary psychology right yeah and and generally uh expecting fathers and
05:32:31Carrie / Raelthen fathers who are like very monogamous they have very low testosterone levels too compared to men who are single which they found I don't know if you're familiar with yeah I'm familiar with all of it oh wait let me