Brian KICKS OUT Rude Girl?! 40 Year Old VIRGINS?! Andrew Wilson! ( ° °) | Dating Talk #142

Date: 2024-03-11
Duration: 6h 04m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_02Martina(guest)
SPEAKER_03Hannah(guest)
SPEAKER_04Anastasia (Pandana)(guest)
SPEAKER_05Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_06Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_07Christine(guest)
SPEAKER_08Jackal(guest)
SPEAKER_09Monique(guest)
SPEAKER_11Bethany(guest)

Key Moments

00:05:03
ControversyBrian reveals malicious flake: a guest deliberately no-showed and posted 'you've been humbled' on Instagram. Brian threatened small claims lawsuit for tortious interference with business.

she posted to be on the show... 4:30 she's supposed to be here at 4. She says 'yeah' and 'whatever you've been humbled'

00:17:17
OtherMonique (41) and Jackal (39) reveal they are both virgins waiting for marriage. Chat reacts with surprise.

I'm a virgin and I'm waiting until marriage to have sex... I'm a 41-year-old virgin

01:26:15
OtherChristine reveals she is waiting for marriage now but is not a virgin; has been celibate 1 year after becoming closer to God.

I am waiting for marriage now but I'm not a virgin... I've been celibate um a year

01:28:05
Key MomentAndrew coins the 'Bronze Age pro-lifer' critique: pro-choice women who become conservative on men's reproductive obligations. Extended abortion/child support debate.

you're basically like a Bronze Age prolifer when it comes to men's responsibility

02:14:50
OtherSelf-rating round: Anastasia rates 8/10/6, Bethany 6, Martina 6, Christine 7-8, Hannah does hometown poll (10 local, 7.5 avg, 5 self), Monique 8, Andrew 4.

ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10

02:34:00
ControversyMartina argues porn is harder to quit than heroin and describes 6-9 month withdrawal/numbness. Andrew checks fighthenewdrug.org live and notes evidence is less extreme than claimed.

I believe that porn is harder to quit than heroin

04:10:00
Key MomentBrian shows video of woman bowing to husband; asks panel if they would bow. Hannah refuses - only bows to God. Extended debate on bowing, submission, and Christianity.

I'd want my girlfriend to bow to me when she greets me at the door

05:24:55
OtherAnastasia reveals she started platonic escorting at age 16 while in foster care, influenced by a friend. Never did prostitution. Still does it occasionally.

16... I was in foster care and my home girl she did it first

05:30:30
ControversyUnnamed rude guest (diarized as SPEAKER_04) calls Andrew a 'little bitch' and uses profanity. Brian kicks her out. Guest shouts as she leaves.

you can leave you can leave go ahead you're a... get out of here

Topics Discussed

00:00:06
Intro / Show opening / Flake discussion

Brian apologizes for late start. Discusses malicious flake from a guest who deliberately no-showed and posted on Instagram 'you've been humbled'. Brian threatened small claims lawsuit for tortious interference. Multiple technical issues: internet, audio, cameras. Dedicated show to Akira Toriyama (DBZ creator).

00:08:17
Guest introductions & relationship statuses

All guests introduce themselves (name, age, location, occupation). Relationship statuses: Anastasia in a relationship (1yr), Bethany in a relationship (1yr+), Martina legally separated (2yr), Jackal single 4mo, Christine single 3yr, Hannah single 1yr+, Monique single 2.5yr. Monique and Jackal reveal they are virgins waiting for marriage.

00:17:00
Virginity, abstinence, and waiting for marriage

Extended discussion about Monique (41) and Jackal (39) being virgins. Chat challenges whether virginity over 25 is 'weird'. Brian says it is rare but not weird. Christine reveals she is celibate/waiting for marriage now (1yr celibate, not a virgin). Discussion of freezing eggs vs trusting God for fertility. Andrew and Anastasia debate whether asking women to have premarital sex is predatory. IVF statistics cited: 2-12% live birth rate for frozen eggs under 38.

00:52:00
World War I and II history quiz

Brian quizzes the panel on WW1 and WW2 dates and allied/axis powers. Most guests had incorrect dates. Correct answers: WW1 1914-1918, WW2 1939-1945. Christine mentioned she took US citizenship test but couldn't recall exact years.

01:06:40
Incel debate / female incels

Anastasia and Andrew debate whether female incels exist. Andrew argues no woman can be truly involuntarily celibate. Anastasia argues they exist (low numbers but present). Andrew concedes the exception case but maintains it's a statistical aberration. Brian notes the incel moral panic is overblown; most incels are lonely not violent.

01:20:00
Kentucky prenatal child support bill / abortion / men's reproductive rights

Brian raises Kentucky Senate bill allowing child support for unborn children. Bethany argues men should share medical costs if woman has no choice. Extended debate between Brian and Bethany on pro-choice vs male financial obligations. Andrew notes logical inconsistency of supporting abortion but mandating male financial support. Brian coins phrase 'Bronze Age pro-lifer' for pro-choice women who demand male responsibility. Bethany's position evolves toward supporting some male choice framework.

02:03:00
OnlyFans / sex work attitudes

Brian asks who does OnlyFans. Only Anastasia does. She says she plans to stop when she has kids. Bethany, Jackal, Christine, Monique all decline for various reasons (relationship, faith, standards). Discussion of Anastasia's escorting history (started at 16 in foster care, platonic only).

02:03:20
Christianity, body count, and converting to faith

Andrew poses hypothetical: would Brian choose a high body count woman who adopted Christianity over same body count woman who didn't? Brian concedes he'd pick the Christian woman. Andrew warns about women using Christian conversion to appear more virtuous to men. Christine (not a virgin, now celibate) explains her faith journey. Debate on whether 'born again abstinence' is genuine or a dating strategy.

02:14:50
Relationship ratings (self-rating round)

Panel asked to rate their looks 1-10. Anastasia: 8 personal / 10 to loved ones / 6 public. Bethany: 6. Martina: 6. Christine: 7-8. Hannah: 10 in hometown / 7.5 poll average / 5 self-rated. Monique: 8. Andrew: 4 (Brian said he's underselling). Brian: 'can't pick 7'.

02:30:00
Porn addiction debate (Martina's divorce story)

Martina discusses separation from husband citing porn/alcohol addiction. Claims porn is harder to quit than heroin; references 'Fight the New Drug' (Salt Lake City charity). Brian and Andrew push back skeptically. Martina describes edging. Andrew checks the Fight the New Drug website live; notes the evidence is less extreme than Martina claims. Martina also espouses no-sunglasses and barefoot grounding philosophy. Could not name a single Pink Floyd song despite wearing their t-shirt.

03:13:20
Platonic escorting / Anastasia's background

Brian probes Anastasia's background in sex-adjacent work. She started platonic escorting at 16 while in foster care (influenced by a friend). Currently does stripping and OnlyFans, is in a relationship. Has accepted $300/hr for platonic lunch dates. Never done prostitution.

03:20:00
Trans dating / homosexuality debate

Bethany says she is pansexual and would date a trans person if she loved them. Brian states sleeping with a trans woman is not straight. Andrew argues the definition of homosexual/heterosexual is based on biological sex not gender. Panel split on whether a fully-transitioned MTF person constitutes 'a woman'.

04:10:00
Bowing to husband debate (Hannah)

Brian shows video of a woman bowing to her husband at the door. Hannah refuses to bow to a human, only to God. Andrew and Brian debate whether the bow is compatible with Christianity. Andrew bows in church to his priest. Hannah eventually agrees to curtsy. Discussion of Hannah's septum nose ring (got it because she likes cows).

04:20:00
Dating app behavior / first date dynamics

Brian complains women on first dates don't reciprocate conversation. Anastasia says she prefers to pay on first dates. Discussion of men paying vs women simping. Brian says optimal move is man pays; recommends coffee dates over food for easy exit.

04:51:40
Child support laws / draft / military / patriarchy

Anastasia argues women are not privileged because they are exempt from the draft; says the draft was imposed on women by men and women never chose it. Andrew and Brian disagree - exemption from conscription is a privilege. Extended debate on women in combat roles, physical standards, wage gap. Anastasia concedes combat roles suit men better physically but argues pay should be equal.

05:30:00
Feminist guest kicked out (~5:30 mark)

An unnamed guest (diarized under SPEAKER_04) became increasingly combative with Andrew. She called Andrew a 'little bitch' and used profanity toward the panel. Brian had already started telling her to leave before the verbal escalation. Guest was removed from the show. Brian referenced this in the closing.

05:36:40
Tweet reaction: flaker's social media

Brian reacts to tweets from the girl who was in the show thumbnail but flaked. Her tweets showed non-traditional/provocative content, contradicting her claim to be traditional. Brian read out multiple tweets and commented on inconsistency between 'traditional' self-presentation and actual posts.

Transcript

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03:40:48
TTS/Donationsstill genetically a man period end of story we are not God I mean I think um this is wait you you no go ahead go ahead go ahead I think this is all like
03:41:00
Andrew Wilsonvery subjective and I just think like they subjective um not subjective what does homosexual mean homo meaning shame sexual mean
03:41:10
Andrew Wilsonsex they unless you're claiming that they're a different sex because they've had genital mutilation I would like to actually hear the rationale for how this is not objective see that's a claim that can be
03:41:22
Anastasia (Pandana)made you can like disagree with that but there are people that firmly believe that that's why I feel this question people can firmly believe things that aren't true right there's a lot of
03:41:33
Andrew Wilsonspecies that switch Sexes and then they're considered our species is not one of those species that can switch sex unless are you claiming are you claiming that the that humans can switch their
03:41:44
Bethanysex no well I mean medically no medically yes we now have a way to do no medically we cannot switch our sex not your sex your gender right but your expression I don't know the right word
03:41:55
Andrew WilsonI'm don't want to say so let's break this down gender is a social construction sex is a biological certainty okay correct gender is a social
03:42:07
Andrew Wilsonconstruction how we perceive a male or a female as being as far as behavioral characteristics go we can say that's socially constructed right based on culture based on things like this however sex and sex characteristics
03:42:20
Andrew Wilsonthemselves those are not socially constructed those are biological realities meaning if you were in a coma and you were the last person on Earth
03:42:28
Anastasia (Pandana)who existed your sex would still be what your sex was I mean but they get their like IDs changed and everything and like I could get you can get your ID
03:42:40
Anastasia (Pandana)changed right now to doctor does that make you a doctor you could change your name to doctor such and such does that mean you're a doctor now no but I'm saying like if in the scenario you just said
03:42:52
Anastasia (Pandana)like technically wouldn't they be looked at as like a woman on their or men or whatever they have identified as and gone through like the procedures to become like on their deathbed wouldn't
03:43:04
Anastasia (Pandana)like the doctors still like perceive them as that if they're dead no here let me give you an example of how untrue this actually is here I give
03:43:14
Andrew Wilsonyou an example okay let's assume for a second that there was a virus that only affected males and not ever females if
03:43:24
Anastasia (Pandana)somebody had transition from a um male to a female would that virus still affect them bi biologically I guess it would be capable of affecting them in theory in this like
03:43:36
Andrew Wilsonextreme hypothetical no it's not an extreme hypothetical are some viruses only affect different Sexes I don't know if you're aware of that but but but the question becomes if that is true and it would still affect
03:43:49
Andrew Wilsonthem then you have just determined that their sex has not been changed um I think this is subjective I have a
03:44:00
TTS/Donationsquestion how could it be a subjective if you just gave donated $100 using the animal reference is stupid animals do things that people
03:44:10
TTS/Donationsshould never do rodent seat they young male dogs will hump other male dogs just because animals do doesn't make it okay we are animals people do things animals
03:44:21
Anastasia (Pandana)wouldn't and shouldn't do like pollute the Earth and whatever other reference I can think of I feel like that's like an invalid argument why would that be an invalid argument obviously we can
03:44:32
Andrew Wilsontranscend what lower animals do and I know this because we eat them and seem to think it's okay and we don't eat people and seem to think that that's not okay there's a lot of cannibals I think
03:44:43
Andrew Wilsonwe have a lot of like issues do you think we should eat people no no clearly you hold people in a different regard than other animals then don't you well I mean
03:44:53
Anastasia (Pandana)I no and yes I mean I was vegan for years but I'm not currently so I'm not going to say your claim is like completely yeah that claim went out the
03:45:03
Anastasia (Pandana)window the second you had that nice tri tip St I do I do think that we as a society are are um corrupted in many ways and could
03:45:14
Anastasia (Pandana)do better like if being vegan was more easily accessible everyone could do it and we could be ethical and not eat animals but it's not an easy thing to do
03:45:24
Anastasia (Pandana)either don't you make tons of money on only fans I lived in Guam for four months I mean you could be if you wanted to be in gu they don't have like tofu
03:45:36
Anastasia (Pandana)like you can yeah okay but they have vegetables and Guam yeah I guess so you're not you're not a vegan because you like to eat meat so clearly you think that eating
03:45:48
Anastasia (Pandana)meat that eating animals consuming their flesh after they're killed is absolutely fine if you think that that's true clearly hold people in a different I think we like that's why people
03:46:00
Anastasia (Pandana)identify themselves as Sinners because we all do things that are bad and I think that is bad actually like no I don't think it's fine I think it's but do it anyway socially normal but I don't
03:46:10
Andrew Wilsonthink it's like good then why do you do it um I don't know I'll stop now but I I don't agree with that so you're going to
03:46:21
Andrew Wilsonstop eating meat yeah I already did for years and now suddenly you're going to start again because you suddenly had the realization that it's immoral to you well I acknowledged it was 30 convers an
03:46:32
Anastasia (Pandana)immoral thing that I've turned a blind eye to but I shouldn't you're right we shouldn't turn a blind eye to that it is aoral it's immoral to eat meat I think so okay so you're never going to eat
03:46:46
Andrew Wilsonmeat again you're right and do you consider eating meat to be on par with human cannibalism
03:46:56
Andrew Wilsonum I don't know about that well if the answer is no and you don't can then you must hold animals in a different regard than you hold humans so just saying that we're Animals still make no sense I I
03:47:07
Anastasia (Pandana)agree with the fact that I hold animals and and we as a society and not just myself but yes including me hold animals in a different regard than right other people so if you do then just saying that we're animals would be a silly
03:47:20
Anastasia (Pandana)argument right because you clearly believe that there's something distinctive between us and animals or you wouldn't eat their think I think any other animal would favor its Brethren and its species over us no they don't
03:47:32
Andrew Wilsongive a animals eat each other all the time including within their own species not every animal I didn't say every animal but many of them do and
03:47:43
TTS/Donationsalmost all carnivores will eat their dead we don't eat our dead truth bomb donated $100 at the end of the day when human remains are discovered they can be
03:47:54
TTS/Donationsidentified by bone structure they don't look at male bones and say I wonder if this person identified as a female this is crazy I'm not arguing with Biology
03:48:05
Anastasia (Pandana)I'm just saying everyone matters like everyone poly people matter um any other sexuality that's escaping my mind at the moment trans lives matter everyone matters that's what that's an empty
03:48:17
Anastasia (Pandana)platitude though and that's how I feel you all lives matter what you believe all lives matter right I believe everybody matters I don't believe in the term all lives matter yeah but you do
03:48:31
Andrew Wilsonbecause you think everybody matters what all and everybody what's the distinction between those two words all people versus every person the abuse of that term in recent like years so you're
03:48:42
Anastasia (Pandana)getting a political connotation the the yeah the negative con I I don't care to even remotely affiliate with the negative connotation surrounding the term that has been established let's
03:48:55
Andrew Wilsonforget the political connotation for a second when you say when you say all meaning everyone everybody matters that would necessarily be inclusive of trans
03:49:06
Andrew Wilsonpeople and everybody else right everybody matters right so then the only reason that you're making these special
03:49:15
Andrew Wilsondistinctions and categories is it's a correct it's cuz what I'm sorry it's a virtue signal virtue I don't understand what you mean by that it's you saying that I hold this category in this regard
03:49:28
Anastasia (Pandana)as being special in some way which is why I'm singling it out I I think newer like categories like trans was kept in the dark for longer so it does need to be mentioned it's more mod modern
03:49:39
Anastasia (Pandana)certain categories need to be mentioned more because they're more modern women's rights as well because women didn't have the same rights just within like the past Century so you're virtue signaling
03:49:51
Andrew Wilsonyou think it's maximum virtue in order to identify these groups which you consider to be oppressed and then give them some type of special shout out that is literally the definition of virtue signaling fair enough then I do that if
03:50:03
Andrew Wilsonthat's so you your virtue signaling so that's meaningless to me virtue signaling is meaningless to me I'm just facts of the matter are okay but the facts of the matter are that's what I'm
03:50:14
Andrew Wilsondoing that's how I feel and I feel that those virtues matter mhm yeah it's a it's a it's a huge huge virtue signal so
03:50:23
Andrew Wilsonback to the uh question at hand as to whether or not trans individuals if you engage a uh m2f transitioner to um them
03:50:35
Andrew Wilsonhaving sex with a fellow male can you explain how that's not homosexual sex I'm sorry I'm going to need you to repeat that cuz something like semi-interesting if two men if two men
03:50:46
Anastasia (Pandana)have sex how are they not homosexuals um by their own um boundaries and
03:50:54
Andrew Wilsondefinition I'm guessing in that c so ass for so I can't put myself got so let's assume for a second then that if if it's based on self ID if two men are engaged
03:51:06
Andrew Wilsonin a sex act and one of them decides to changed their gender in the middle of having sex is it now a heterosexual sex act meaning let's assume one of them says I'm a woman one says I'm a man
03:51:18
Andrew Wilsonthey're both males but in the middle of them having sex one says you know what I'm a man again are they homosexuals
03:51:31
Andrew Wilsonthen if you say so no I'm asking I'm asking you it's so unrealistic that I can't you could just self ID that's what you're saying as as you self ID as being
03:51:43
Andrew Wilsonthis thing and your boundaries support this thing then a person in the middle of having sex with another person the other person could say well now my gender is this and that would make them a homosexual I
03:51:54
Anastasia (Pandana)mean I don't I don't know I think just people's boundaries matter and like how they identify every like their cards should be laid on the table beforehand they should be transparency
03:52:06
Anastasia (Pandana)and boundaries matter that's where I'm getting at that's all comes down to transparency and this doesn't someone was to I think if someone was to say
03:52:17
Anastasia (Pandana)something um midx of that regard it would matter what their intention is and what their
03:52:28
Anastasia (Pandana)relationship is I think like the way you're describing it sounds like it's of malicious intent in which case I would think that that's like malicious no there's no malicious intent they just mean as long as they're aware like maybe
03:52:39
Anastasia (Pandana)like they switch G like I I hear like BDSM people switch maybe like they're aware in advance that their partner switches gender I'm not like familiar with that I haven't met anyone that like
03:52:51
Anastasia (Pandana)identifies as that or does that but like if they're aware of that with each other and two consenting adults then I don't think it matters big SAS energy donated
03:53:02
Andrew Wilson100 it's only gay if you continue pumping and in the middle of them uh having sex can one of them change their race no but that's definitely not the
03:53:14
Andrew Wilsonsame why why can't they all they have to do is deci different I I race and gender identity are not the same oh wait wait now it's gender identity not a biological reality
03:53:26
Andrew Wilsonso if it's just a gender identity then I never thought it was a biological reality we've like already established it's like if it's a biological reality and it's two people of the same sex
03:53:37
Andrew Wilsonhaving sex how is it not homosexual sex then homo meaning shame sex meaning you know sex I think there's lawyer a lot of identities checkm I don't agree but I
03:53:49
Anastasia (Pandana)just think there's a lot of different ways people nowadays I identify and have their own sexuality and are not they identify as being black and then they identify as being white why are they
03:54:06
Anastasia (Pandana)wrong going from gender to race it's just it's not the same they both social constructions correct or is race biolog
03:54:14
Andrew Wilsonreality social social okay all right all right um oh it is a social construction so they can change their race in the middle of having sex then right no but is it a social construction isn't it I'm
03:54:27
Anastasia (Pandana)asking you is it a social construction or biological reality don't I don't know but I I know they're not the same right okay I know that you can do a 23 and me and see like your race and
03:54:40
Andrew Wilsonbackground that's in your your your blood so then if it's a biological reality race if race is a biological reality and you can't change that in the middle of sex and your sex is a biological reality which you can't
03:54:52
Anastasia (Pandana)change in the middle of sex then it would have to be homosexual sex there couldn't be any other there couldn't be anything else it could be I feel like people can identify as whatever they'd
03:55:02
Anastasia (Pandana)like and people move white people move no no cuz those are those are biological realities can't change those right there's they're
03:55:14
Anastasia (Pandana)they're not just biological realities they're like light that Siggy up Andrew oh my God he put it back
03:55:25
Brian Atlasbro oh okay you missed the the Siggy light oh my God Nick
03:55:34
Brian Atlasrude Nicholas Nicholas Gertrude Guantanamo if Andrew is ever lighting a
03:55:44
Brian Atlascigarette you never You never switch away never okay um what would the kids think what will the kids think what would the kids all right let me let me read a
03:55:56
Brian Atlascouple chats here and then you guys can continue talking about um gay sex or whatever it was you guys were talking about uh Carl Bennington says I love
03:56:06
Brian Atlassweet thank you bro appreciate it uh we have H kubanski oh wait that's just one of did you already pull this
03:56:15
TTS/Donationsone up Nick yeah okay this one okay I'm just waiting there TTS coming in here it is niod on donated
03:56:25
TTS/Donations$100 does everyone really matter or only special interest oppressed groups don't tell me there's no hope at all together we stand divided we
03:56:37
Brian Atlasfall beautiful by the way I just want to take this moment to while we're talking about gay sex and stuff to
03:56:47
Brian Atlasuh this episode is I feel like this is a bit flippant to say sorry it's being kind of this episode is dedicated to the memory in memory of oh I shouldn't say
03:56:59
Brian Atlasit now I feel like I'm being huh I gotta wait a little bit just talked about Cas I just talked about I shouldn't talk about now I shouldn't do a me don't do okay okay okay okay you're right so I
03:57:11
Brian Atlaswas just going to say I put out these Dragon Ball Z VHS containers not DVD containers VHS containers just like in
03:57:23
Brian Atlasmemory cool um all right we have Matthew harder here Jesus Brian here let me spell it out for you and uh all the astrology lovers on the panel there will be a solar eclipse on the 8th of April
03:57:36
Brian Atlasin North America this is where the sun is blocked by the moon the next one is in 20 years experience it can somebody Cipher his super chats bro is he
03:57:46
TTS/Donationsbeing literal no there's like a Cipher like he's there's like some words are capitated $100 Andrew why do you always look like
03:57:57
TTS/Donationsyou're about to cry and why do you do that tick with your head where you turn it to your left all these women are smarter than not so bright
03:58:09
Andrew Wilsonokay so let me respond to some of this I I can't help the fact that I have a negative cantle tilt okay it's just the way I was it's
03:58:20
Andrew Wilsonthe way I was born right it's it's an Irish trait what can I say right so maybe that's why I always look like I'm sad even though I'm always happy but then to the other end of this um no
03:58:33
Andrew Wilsonthey're not all smarter than not so bright but most of them are so H cool guys go to twitch.tv/ whatever drop
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03:58:58
Andrew Wilsonwhat I should have said in retrospect but now it's not going to be nearly as funny what I should have said was I look like I'm always about to cry cuz I'm on a panel with these women that would have been awesome but I it up
03:59:09
Brian AtlasBrian you missed opportunity Andrew missed opportunity okay uh God damn how did we we started talking about that stuff cuz like you brought that up super randomly thanks dude we
03:59:21
Anastasia (Pandana)established this thanks bro in thought took over congrats but like so for example right what I'm straight oh we're still on this let's go
03:59:31
Anastasia (Pandana)if I didn't want to date uh a trans woman do you we just established your your preference you're entitled to okay but I would think it might be not
03:59:47
Brian Atlasstraight to suck a woman's dick what just saying you know what I
03:59:55
Brian Atlasmean would that be cuz you said right cuz a woman could have a penis right
04:00:04
Brian Atlasno right a woman could have a penis a m aites no no no no no no oh that's a good point but are you saying trans women aren't women because you could be a transwoman
04:00:16
Brian Atlasbut not have well talking to the mic but you could be a trans woman but not have had bottom surgery and still have your peen right
04:00:26
Bethanyyeah do you plan to keep it like what do are you are you keeping the peen like I think argument though is it doesn't the thing is most people right now say that
04:00:38
Bethanywoman they're still a woman a woman right if they're identifying as a woman then technically yes they're going to be a woman like for their legal sex I don't
04:00:49
Andrew Wilsonthink that they would you could put the number so wait a second so if you gave one of these women in add dress a you would be a
04:00:59
Andrew Wilsonlesbian the wrong person to ask sure that doesn't sound insane and ridiculous to you at all like the second you actually said the word sure did you
04:01:10
Bethanythink to yourself that's the dumbest thing I've ever said I mean honestly well for me personally I just really don't care because me person I get that
04:01:21
Andrew Wilsonyou don't care but you know for if we're talking about it if you just basically sucked off a dude in a dress you would actually say that that's lesbian
04:01:37
Moniquesex I think I I'm confused now I don't agree with this convers going back to the original why he even brought that up is because he's saying people say that it's
04:01:49
Moniquetransphobic I think the whole I get where I so a man I think you're people are entitled who is a trans woman that really is a man so
04:02:01
Bethanytherefore that's like the long way of round of going being homosexual is what it is so I think people are entitled to their preferences I think honestly everybody like in my opinion anybody can
04:02:13
Moniquedecide if how they feel like if that is for them queer or not we're not saying preference in the sense because he's saying specifically people are being called transphobic for something oh I don't think that's transphobic at all
04:02:25
Bethanyit's okay that's what he's saying that's the original argument I think that it's such a progressive concept that to be quite honest most people don't really have a solid firm identity of how they would
04:02:36
Andrew Wilsondeal with that or what they would I think that as because let me give a little push back there because I do see I think that they would say well no
04:02:46
Andrew Wilsonyou're gay that's what I think that they would say I think they would say if a dude was blowing another guy I think they would say you're gay that's what I think would happen I don't think there's
04:02:58
Anastasia (Pandana)any confusion at all in fact I don't think anybody's confused about this I I think I would be interested in the take of a trans person and how they perceive
04:03:09
Anastasia (Pandana)that and I can't put myself in their shoes I can only um empathize with their plights and the way they're like
04:03:19
Anastasia (Pandana)stigmatized in society I can't um put myself in their what why do I need to put their myself in their shoes to understand that if a
04:03:31
Andrew Wilsondude blows another dude I don't understand the mentality of everybody else in the world I think why do I need to understand the mentality of somebody else to know that if a dude blows
04:03:43
Andrew Wilsonanother dude they're gay why do I need to what mentality am I missing here because you talking I feel like I'm not I feel like I'm straight like is
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Bethanythat the mental wait you said because we're talking woman because we're talking about somebody who's identifying as a woman and who has a penis but yes but if you're talking about everybody in the
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Bethanyworld will look at that and be like oh it's gay it's not gonna be viewed like that from everybody in the world especially a lot of people in our generation I think that it's queer I don't think that it's necessarily gay I think anything involving the community
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Andrew Wilsonis inherently queer so you could say that it's not straight but I wouldn't say that it's everyone's going to say oh it's gay is it homosexual I think almost everybody's going to say that it's gay
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Andrew Wilsonfact let me just T out here's one thing I think I think right now that if we went down a any American Street which
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Andrew Wilsonwhich exists and we were to ask people sir or ma'am if a man sucked off a man who is wearing a dress would you consider them to be gay what do you
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Bethanythink they would say I think a very important point to make and why I'm now hang on let her answer what do you think they would say wasn't this question for me okay I think that if it's a man in a dress then it's a man in a dress I think
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Andrew Wilsonif it's somebody identifying as a woman in a dress then it's somebody ident as a woman and a dress and those let change it then we'll say we go down the same street and we say Sir there's a man
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Andrew Wilsonwho's going to suck off another man who identifies as a woman right there's two males but one identifies as a woman and one's about to suck the other one off do you think that they're gay what do you think they would
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Bethanysay I think it's queer I think that not everybody's going to say that's gay so I think it falls under the umbrella of queer and then each person is going to personally Define that instance well G what does queer mean does that mean
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Andrew WilsonLGBT Spectrum anything under the lgbtq Spectrum trans all that is all Queer just like yeah but that would mean if it's if it's queer or lgbtq let me get let me make sure I got
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Andrew Wilsonthis right lesbian right gay so far am I correct so far bisexual transgender and queer this is
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Bethanyall other than S this is all same seex activity correct no here is an overarching umbrella that includes all of those things it doesn't have to necessar I'm so confused lesbian
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Andrew Wilsonwould be same sex right gay would be same sex bisexual is alluding to people who also have sex with the same sex I'm so confused by this B seexual doesn't necessarily mean sex with the same sex
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Andrew Wilsonwell then I I'm I'm confused if you only had sex with the opposite sex how could you be bisexual no bisexual is attracted to two
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Bethanydifferent so there could be bi bisexual people who are only attracted to like trans women and like yeah we would call
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Anastasia (Pandana)them homosexuals small men I've never it's a spectrum I've never met a
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Anastasia (Pandana)transmale male born female person who's wanted to keep their male gentia
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Andrew Wilsonso I can't answer this question what why can't you answer the question car if they keep the Genia or don't keep the
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Anastasia (Pandana)genitalia I mean on my experience with like trans people they they cared so I don't think it's fair to categorize them
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Andrew Wilsonwith these um hypothetical scenarios that not to I think it's unfair for for you not to consider same same sex activity to be homosexual I think that
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Anastasia (Pandana)that's unfair I think you're being the most unfair you can be I I think your hypothetical is I I just think your hypothetical is Nona
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Andrew Wilsonapplicable the hypothetical of uh well let's let's see let's see if we can map this on to something which is not a hypothetical there was a music video recently of a man who went on to Adam 22
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Andrew Wilsonshow after he made the music video and the music video was all about how the his trans lover was better than if he was a heterosexual and he talked all about how they engaged in all sorts of
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Anastasia (Pandana)sex acts with each other so now we're not in hypothetical world anymore is that see the clip I don't know you don't know can't wrap my mind around it it's not like in
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Anastasia (Pandana)my sphere of uh things that I am accustomed to but everyone in their preference like they're entitled to
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Brian Atlasit well let uh all right I don't think we're going to get any progress there okay I do think
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Brian Atlasthough if a dude is sing the D of a transom not sing to
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Anastasia (Pandana)D I don't think that's straight I just don't know of that ever happening I think it's queer I'm not saying it doesn't happen I just don't know of that ever happening what the hell this I
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Andrew Wilsondon't understand what queer means if it doesn't mean same sex I honestly I don't know I just went through this lesbian same seex gay same seex bisexuals alluding to some sort of same-sex
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Bethanyattraction you can't be bisexual you'd be a hetrosexual what do you mean when you say queer if it doesn't mean same sex I think your limited views on that come from the fact that you're determine
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Andrew Wilsonthere are only two Sexes there are only are only two sex genders because these are well no no hang on there there's an indefinite amount of genders because of social construction you make up whatever
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Bethanyyou want but there's only two sexes okay so I misspoke I meant gender and not sex but queer is going to involve anybody who identifies under any branch of whatever gender they feel like they
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Andrew Wilsonare whatever that may and I will accept that as an argument absolutely that you can identify as whatever gender you are the question still comes down to if two people who are engaged in sex sexual
04:09:59
Andrew Wilsonactivities who are the same sex how would they not be under the umbrella of queer wait wait what why is he freezing I don't know I just saw that too it
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Andrew Wilsonlooks like we're we're good can you hear me yeah it's fine um okay so why is it then even if we uh ascribe an indefinite amount of genders to people same sex
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Andrew Wilsonactivity would be homosexual sexual activity correct same
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Brian Atlassex I don't really know how to answer that what's the next question hold on all right I'm going to ask a question to Andrew keep dancing Circle I'm going ask a question to Andrew then we're going to
04:10:43
Brian Atlasmove on Andrew would it be helpful perhaps for uh the more conservative position on this to basically just say that we
04:10:54
Brian Atlasreject gender entirely and we only view this through the framework of sex would that be productive or will they not that's what you're the second you say it's social construction you're already
04:11:06
Andrew Wilsonrejecting it is any anything other than a concept of the mind so we're moving into biology immediately so I'll accept the argument from the left of gender because it's
04:11:18
Andrew Wilsonirrelevant to me gender just means fashion I don't care you can have as many fashion statements as you want a school doesn't exist a building exists that we call a school I can accept all of that as being true but they're just
04:11:29
Andrew Wilsonconcepts of mind what is not a concept of the mind is your biology that is not mind based it's not mind dependent it's going to exist absent your social
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Brian Atlasconstruction so I'm just trying to step in their world did I read this one did I read this I think I did right yeah think yeah many times all right we have Jazz
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Brian Atlas23 uh of girls are always the worst guest illogical never bring any stats contradict themselves and base opinions on their personal experience and the 12 people they know just narcissistic shout out to Andrew for keeping the convo
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Brian Atlasintellectual thank you Jazz 23 appreciate it all right we have rafhael hey thank you man hey guys from Brazil gay 30 years old and one of the stupidest things about
04:12:18
Brian Atlasthis generation is the that or as I like to call it hospice napoleons okay now if I think I'm Napoleon why not force everyone to adapt to me have holy
04:12:28
Brian Atlaspatience well I think you being Brazilian is a probably a uh a uh going to be an issue there when
04:12:37
Brian Atlascomes to your identity as a uh F French Emperor was he Emperor I think he was Emperor okay Matthew harder no Cipher needed brain thank you dude appreciate
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Brian Atlasit I'm telling the truth a solar eclipse on the in almost a quarter of America go I think he's being Texas Arkansas Missouri Illinois Kentucky Tennessee
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Brian AtlasOhio Pennsylvania New York Connecticut Delaware and Maine tell me I'm wrong I'll be there cool why does he care so much about the solar eclipse is going to
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Brian Atlaslast longer than any other one it's it's a big event he's really stoked he's a big Matthew Harter is a big on astronomy he needs new hob
04:13:23
Brian Atlasastrology he's just a fan of telescopes and things getting blacked out like the
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Brian Atlassun there's probably a joke there somewhere all right thank you bro all right hold on let me get rid of those okay what other notes do I have here we
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Brian Atlashave Mars Mars right Mars is that your nickname what I said Ola you said you've dated an alcoholic racist yes and I'm PR
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HannahPuerto Rican Puerto Rican so that was interesting um why don't you do you want to tell us about the alcoholic racist well he was an alcoholic did he hate Puerto Ricans oh no he told me Point
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Brian AtlasBlank black people are more shut shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up Jesus Christ this girl's going to oh my God can literally told me Point Blank
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Brian Atlasthat did I stop her in time yeah you did amen oh my God this idiot okay bro even if you say it like in a quote
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Brian Atlasit just oh my God okay I stopped it in time right you got it you got it okay you got it okay
04:14:36
Andrew Wilsonum is there any just understand that the that Brian's streaming to YouTube and they are very very sensitive about this topic so if you're going to if you're going to discuss it at all the best
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Andrew Wilsonthing to do is just say yeah he didn't particularly care for that group I gu something along those lines okay okay moving on don't want to hear any quotes we don't want to hear any of that okay
04:14:59
Brian Atlasum so you also said why do men not know how to act properly yes what do you mean by this I feel like people in general just lack social
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Hannahskills okay can you relate it to dating my favorite is when men ask you out on a date and then expect you to go to their house I think that's rude and that's
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Hannahdisrespectful you could say no oh I do okay but is that just as soon as they do that just noo yes so if someone asks me out my general rule is if you ask me out
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HannahI'll go out with you just mostly cuz I look like a all the time oh so if you have the balls to ask me out I'll say yes but if you say come
04:15:52
Brian Atlasover to my place it's immediate now oh okay that yeah I actually you look bit I I have really good resting face
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Brian AtlasRBF word huh okay actually think it's not the worst move to just be like my
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Brian Atlasplace ew does that give you the ick yes yeah okay all right I think it it's a good move right
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Brian AtlasGustavo see yeah see he agrees uh okay so you say men don't know how to act properly they lack in basic manners but maybe you're just too old school They
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Brian Atlasharass you for a date whoa okay yes that's not cool and when they get one they don't talk or they're rude to you or they just get drunk I'm sure it's semispecific to my
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Nick (production)area what area are you referring to Maryland yes CRA and football that's what Maryland
04:17:01
Brian Atlasdoes uh what's wrong with what's going on with dudes dating in Maryland what's going on they're terrible at having conversation they're bad oh my
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Hannahgoodness yes okay let's role playay a conversation so I can I can give you an exact conversation I have with the man do let's do it bust it out he said how are you doing I said good and he said
04:17:24
Hannahwhat you doing and I said I'm in the garden he said what are you doing in the garden he said I'm picking beans he said what type of beans green beans how do green beans grow there are two types of beans there are bush beans and there are
04:17:35
Hannahpole beans there are pole beans so they grow on a vine he was like that's cool it's like yeah he like but how do they grow you put a seed in the ground and you hope for the best was this a text
04:17:46
Andrew Wilsonconversation yes okay and then he asked me five minutes later what you doing wait this poor guy was just trying to use the Socratic method you know and you just you shut him down over the Socratic
04:17:57
Hannahmethod why why are we having why are we having a conversation about picking beans in a garden it's in it's it's not important
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Hannahit leads nowhere conversation every single conversation I have with this man was like chewing on drywall and washing it down with the glass of mayonnaise it was it was the most painful thing yeahum the most painful
04:18:23
Brian Atlasthing but one man doesn't always equal all oh there's a lot like that and ladies do the same thing I I know I know it's R actually yes that's a really good
04:18:33
Brian Atlaspoint women are the most guilty of being dog communicators if you've ever been on a dating app on in your life onew
04:18:43
Brian Atlasanswers you're on the date with the wrong ladies then oh yeah it just means they're not interested in you but women are they they have to be mask a lot of women can't just give you a just straight up rejection or a lot of women
04:18:56
Brian Atlasare just on the dating apps for validation and attention it's rough they have no intention of actually meeting up with the guy they'll just oh I'm getting like a subtle amount of attention from a maybe okay attractive guy I'm never
04:19:09
Brian Atlasgoing to meet up with him but okay I'll just give him one word answers uh women do the all the time too we're all the same we're equal actually let me let me double down on this most
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Brian Atlasof uh most of the dates I've been on from dating apps which is a lot you guys are terrible at
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Brian Atlasconversation terrible at conversation I think people in general are terrible at conversation let me I want to ask the chat chat you guys have been on dates
04:19:39
Brian Atlasdating apps whatever this is my experience if I did what women do on a first date it would be like dead silent because you guys have this expectation
04:19:52
Brian Atlasof us to lead the conversation and to have initiative and you know direct the flow of conversation I'll ask questions and I'll
04:20:02
Brian AtlasI could ask a girl like seven things about her and I'll like add in like a little banter response she won't ask me one question in
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Brian Atlasreturn so lacking reciprocal conversation or interest there's just feel like you should stay off the dating apps oh I stopped I stopped the dating
04:20:23
Brian Atlasapps like a year ago but it was my experience like if I did what women did on a first date wait do we have the chat up yeah has that been your guys's
04:20:33
Brian Atlasexperience on like from any any sort of dating you meet a girl for her first date what doesn't matter how you met her although obviously there's C there's better ways than dating apps to meet a woman
04:20:46
Brian Atlasuh if you didn't carry the convers you have to carry the conversation as a guy it should be mutual it should be I tend to carry it most of the time on the dates that I go on and look I'm not
04:20:57
Brian Atlasthere's definitely women I've encountered women that are decent decent conversationalist and uh but it occurs to me like if I just did what women did
04:21:07
Brian Atlasand I just like you guys are looking to us to to talk like if I just stopped talking on a date it would be
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Moniquesilent I think a lot of times women do do that if they're not interested and instead of hurting someone's feelings free food you picked the wrong one I
04:21:33
Moniqueain't paying for your but also sometimes I think because when you meet somebody online you go you meet someone online and then sometimes when you meet them in person it's completely different
04:21:45
Brian Atlasso saying I'm a Catholic I'm just saying it's yeah so I understand that's I'm not saying it's right so right when you meet these women in person after you remove all the
04:21:57
Brian Atlasfilters that they've put on their photos and the the caked on makeup and the precise lighting and the posing and all this and the the Photoshop you're right the woman I meet in person looks nothing
04:22:08
Brian Atlaslike her dating app profile photos you're so right that is unfortunate maybe men should do that too they'd get more swipes no I don't think men should use filters and makeup I don't think
04:22:20
Martinathey I don't think either of them should do it I feel like we expect everybody else to entertain us and you expect to entertain or you expect for us to entertain you when we should be
04:22:32
Brian Atlasentertaining ourselves you can get a Netflix subscription if you want entertainment I'm not here to be your dancing monkey ENT and you're not absolutely but I feel like we can have a conversation I would love a conversation
04:22:45
Brian Atlaswhat I'm saying is ask me a question about me I can I remember when I used to go on dates dating app right from I start I got on dating apps in 2012 that's when I started my YouTube channel
04:22:57
Brian AtlasI have been on so many dating app dates and I'd be asking these girls about their boring ass job cuz that's what you got to do right you got to ask about their boring ass job okay
04:23:08
Brian AtlasI'm sorry I'm being toxic and then I'm like yo I've got an interesting job it never occurred to you lady from dating app to ask me about my kind of unique
04:23:19
Brian Atlasjob not that I really even want to talk about my job but I'm like this would be your opportunity to actually contribute
04:23:26
Brian Atlasto the conversation but no no I suck at conversation I'm just going to let them carry it
04:23:37
Anastasia (Pandana)really can I ask a question Brian how was your day today so uh don't worry about it uh you would say like you you date girls with boring jobs like you don't really care like how much they make I'm guessing right no would you
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Anastasia (Pandana)date a girl that works at McDonald's absolutely okay just making sure yeah I've say nothing wrong with it I just wanted to know your take on that that aside oh I'm sorry it was too I also wanted to say piggybacking off your old
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Anastasia (Pandana)your other thing cuz this is a hot take and it's like ironic but like I mean it it's it it fits me because I'm so like equal So Pro equality like I prefer to pay for the first date good for you yeah
04:24:14
Anastasia (Pandana)but I'm mentioning that cuz I think that that's like beneficial too like for the woman because now my man pays the rent like like if you really like someone like nowadays I do basically agree on
04:24:25
Anastasia (Pandana)the one hand with the one point that women are in a better position to pursue men and vice versa like you can have the conversation go south immediately so okay let me give two
04:24:36
Brian Atlasthings on the the whole paying thing the most Optimum thing you can do as a man is to just pay for them pay for the date like that's the most Optimum thing you can do we can have conversations about what's equal what's fair Etc we can have
04:24:48
Brian Atlasconversations of all these non-traditional women still expecting feeling entitled to and demanding traditional treatment from men but that really at the end of the day even the most we Andrew you remember the girl
04:25:00
Brian Atlasfrom the last show the ofof girl the porn star wanted traditional treatment even non-traditional women who are engaged in sex work and are highly promiscuous still feel entitled and
04:25:11
Brian Atlasexpect men to adhere to their traditional there's entitled people in the world yeah not the the most Optimum thing because you don't always know who you're going to get you don't know
04:25:22
Brian Atlasreally unless you have a conversation about it which could be detrimental uh the best thing is to just pay for the first date but also I'd recommend to men if you are kind of like you know trying to be a little Frugal uh you can do
04:25:35
Brian Atlassomething for free or you could do something simple like coffee or go get like a drink I think food dates are terrible especially for First Dates cuz it's just like you always
04:25:47
Brian Atlaswhether you're the woman or the man you always want an easy out yeah like if it's just weird it's like you don't want to be waiting 30 minutes for food and like feel obliged to to stay if you get coffee or if you get a drink you can
04:25:59
Anastasia (Pandana)just dip I recommend like museums or something entertaining too cuz then you can tell if they're interested in you or they're just like using the and stuff to distract word but just last thing on the so the
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Brian Atlasoptimum move as a guy is to just pay for it but it's if the girl's down to pay but she's doing it like she's a s I think that's the best position but most girls most girls aren't down to simp
04:26:25
Anastasia (Pandana)like that how do you like Define like what's the barrier there what's like simp what's simping to you and like why is it optimal for our like she wants you
04:26:34
Brian Atlasso bad that she's going to pay oh no that's that's would be sing I guess but most women aren't aren't about that but if they are that's great because then that's a that's a better
04:26:46
Anastasia (Pandana)position to be in as a guy a woman could pick up the check with someone she's interested in and it doesn't mean she's like sing true but I mean it's it's I think it means like she's showing interest since it's so normal yeah it
04:26:57
Brian Atlascould be a little it could be a little less intense than like full-on sing but uh when women s for men that usually is like men are going to find that pretty appealing where whereas when men SIM for
04:27:09
Brian Atlaswomen that's not women ain't going for that I don't know my man's a s for me now I love them okay well that's a little different I'm talking like within
04:27:17
Brian Atlasthe context of a initial meeting very early on uh last thing here from Mars uh you said you you took an issue you took issue with my BLM movement big labia oh
04:27:30
Hannahbig lab a matter what what's up I thought we clarified that and said I don't actually have an issue oh okay oh I I have an issue with the Bowing I decided that oh why because I don't think people should bow to other people
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Hannahdo you think do you want to get married one day yes so you want a man to get one down on one knee like a growling I didn't say I want him to get down he could just look at me and say let's get married and I'll say okay okay he
04:27:55
Brian Atlasdoesn't have to get down on one knee but that that's what a lot of people do when they propose I'm not a lot of people oh okay cool well I I I don't get it though what
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Hannahwhat's the problem with bowing I don't I don't like the idea of bowing to another person I think it's a very vulnerable position your fa is towards the ground the back of your head is towards another
04:28:17
Hannahperson but isn't it usually done as a sign of respect in eastern cultures it is but I don't I mean we don't live in an Easter C respect even in Western
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Hannahcultures I I don't like it I don't think uh a person is deserving of that level of respect should we pull up the the B I mean how much respect are they deserving
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Hannahof the only the only one you should bow to is God in my opinion I don't think you should be bowing to another person oh I think you're kind of yeah but why I don't understand that why not sorry what
04:28:51
Andrew Wilsonwhy not like if you were in Japan and there was a custom there to like bow to the host would you do it I just probably wouldn't go to Japan to be H Nick can you play the B video out of respect for the
04:29:04
Brian Atlasculture she doesn't like this video because I always show this video where it's like yeah I'd want my girlfriend to bow to me when she greets me at the door uh I mean
04:29:15
Brian Atlasyou can get like a what's up head nod no I'm getting a full full respect bow look at this she can she can show respect in other ways attentive my food's ready I've gotten home to my my million doll P
04:29:28
Brian Atlashouse she can stir the noodles and feed it to you like a child to I don't need the I don't need the noodle stirring that's a bit extra but look at that look at look look at that good great techniques the bow one more time go
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Brian Atlasahead show this the bow oh my God boom huge that's huge did you see the bow no I didn't show it one more time please yeah that's so I would want my girl to
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Anastasia (Pandana)bow to me like that okay you wouldn't do that I'd be like sup the bro what would you take interest in a girl who's not willing to do that like by any means
04:30:00
Brian Atlasno it's not a deal breaker if she's not down to Bow but is it a big plus if she is oh yeah are you actually being serious like every time show me your bow let's see it stand up what why not no no
04:30:12
Brian AtlasI'm asking like do they bow in in the Philippines is that they do like bless they don't they don't they don't bow in the Philippines that's Japanese okay all right I'm going to get canceled for
04:30:24
Brian Atlasmaking assumptions about okay uh there's no Bowing in the Philippines it's more of like a it's China Japan Korea do they don't bow in in China I
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Andrew Wilsonthought they bowed in China I'm not sure I oh no I'll have to ask my Chinese friends so you wouldn't do a bow no so so I got a question for
04:30:46
Andrew Wilsonyou in the Old Testament when Abraham was called lord you said you only would bow to God right why is it that so many
04:30:57
Andrew Wilsonof the male figures in the Bible referred to as Lord would you refer to your man as Lord I don't think I would refer to my
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Hannahman as Lord I would I would respect my husband and I would submit to him uh but I don't think I would bow to him what if it just made his day better if you
04:31:20
Andrew Wilsondid I would bow if he would bow back no no no he's not going to Bow back let's say he doesn't B bow back there are there are other ways to show yeah I know I know but that's what
04:31:32
Andrew Wilsonhe wants though yeah that's what I want it's not about you it's about sucks to suck bro it's not about it's not about any of that about look at this
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Hannahlook at this TR Christian says I just want you to because I like it and I want you to bow to me like what is he doing that's wrong what at what point does the
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HannahI like it end is my question to you at the Bowing just at the Bowing yeah no I would not bow can I say youit
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Andrew Wilsonyou w't you won't bow so so let me ask you what makes you submissive exactly to your Christian husband I'd like to know I never said Christian first off well
04:32:14
Andrew WilsonI'm sorry you said you would only bow to God I assume that meant you were a Christian am I wrong it's complicated well I don't know what that means what does that mean it's complicated are you a Christian or are you not a Christian I don't like to say
04:32:27
Andrew Wilsonthat I'm a Christian because I feel like too many people who say they're Christians actually aren't okay well that's fair what would you identify yourself as then just somebody who
04:32:36
Andrew Wilsonbelieves in God yeah and would this be the abrahamic god of uh of which you would believe that Jesus Christ was your lord and savior yes well then that would
04:32:48
Hannahbe called what I mean obviously Christian but I don't like to use the title because there are so many fake people using and I don't want to be associated with that would you deny
04:32:59
Andrew WilsonChrist no okay well then you're a Christian so here's the thing if you're not if you would deny go ahead and deny Christ if you're not a Christian go
04:33:08
Andrew Wilsonahead no I I do not deny Christ you're right because that would make you what then in your view a Christian a heretic in your view a
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Hannahheretic I am somebody people who believes in the god of the Bible I do not like using the title Christian the reason I don't is because so many people put labels on things because they think
04:33:31
Andrew Wilsonit sounds cool if we're going to reference the old test hang on hang on back to this um I'm sorry we've had buch of exchanges tonight if you don't mind I'd like to
04:33:42
Andrew Wilsonfinish this one I'm very confused here by this okay you are a person who believes in Christianity but don't do not want the label Christian is this because you don't want the
04:33:54
Hannahresponsibilities that come with Christianity which would include being submissive to your husband it's because I don't want somebody to look at me and say she's a Christian and then see anything that I do as a hypocrite
04:34:07
Hannahso then how could you be a Christian because people make mistakes yeah but that's not hypocritical that you made a mistake hypoc Christianity is not about
04:34:21
Hannahperfection I would say it is because you want to you want to be you want to be perfect you want to be more like God well sure but I mean you're you're a human being you're going to fail over
04:34:32
Andrew Wilsonand over and over and over that's okay we know we understand that that's true that wouldn't be a hypocrisy that would be part of the Christian ethos okay
04:34:43
Andrew Wilsonthen yeah so so I mean if that's true and it is true by the way that nobody's saying that you perfection in Christian I don't know where that idea even came from it's the furest thing from it that I could even imagine is that the
04:34:56
Hannahrequirement of Christianity is perfection Jesus came to absolve you of your sins because you're you're going to sin right that Point yes I do understand that but
04:35:08
HannahI think that you should still have a I don't want to say facade but almost you you should be essentially
04:35:19
Hannahperfect and I don't want people to look at me and say she's not perfect and then call me out so I would just rather not put a label on it so it would be better for you to reject your faith because
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Andrew Wilsonyou're concerned that about what other people faith I'm rejecting a a title I'm rejecting oh my God hypocrisy well what is I don't understand why would it be hypocritical
04:35:43
Andrew Wilsonto identify yourself as a Christian even if you weren't perfect what do you mean Christianity is the faith and
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Andrew Wilsonbelief that Jesus Christ is Lord yes yes okay you believe Jesus Christ is Lord yes yes so then why would you reject the
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Hannahlabel because I do not want people to look at me and think I'm a hypocrite because I don't do everything perfectly yeah but the the requirement of Christianity is not to do things
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Andrew Wilsonperfectly where on Earth did you get that
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Andrew Wilsonidea I don't know I don't I don't I don't know either that's super bizarre to me but kind of coming back to this if it is true even if you don't call it Christian ity that you believe in the
04:36:36
HannahChristian ethos and you believe in what Christians believe what about submission to your husband I do believe in submitting to my husband but I don't believe that submitting to my husband requires me to bow to him well then that
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Andrew Wilsonsounds like you're not submitting it sounds like you have you're being fulfilling my husband's every single desire does not mean submitting that's not fulfilling his every single desire
04:36:59
Anastasia (Pandana)or submission but what does it cost you to Bow if he wants you to doesn't take much bow is pretty minimal you know maybe in her Christian faith in
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Anastasia (Pandana)accordance with citations in the Old Testament it's wrong to worship false Idols therefore she does not feel right in bowing to someone besides as she said
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Andrew Wilsonwell that's nice I'm I'm glad for plus that argument makes no sense because bowing to somebody wouldn't make them an idol there's a citation in the Old Testament where um yeah where is people