She Called Him FAT?! If Men SHOULD Take A Bullet For Her, What SHOULD Women Do?! | Dating Talk #241

Date: 2025-05-05
Duration: 6h 36m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_03Lily Kate(guest)
SPEAKER_04Callie(guest)
SPEAKER_05Nadia(guest)
SPEAKER_06Tyena(guest)
SPEAKER_07Christina Jones(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Jim Bob(guest)
SPEAKER_11Savannah Craven-Ental(guest)
SPEAKER_12Reagan Gagos(guest)
SPEAKER_13Roxy (Beijing)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Lily (UCSB)(guest)

Key Moments

00:03:24
IntroAll 10 guests introduced including 2 Chinese exchange students and pro-life activist
00:21:12
Key MomentSavannah: punched in face during pro-life outreach, needed stitches
01:48:00
ControversyBrian: would NOT take a bullet for wife. Would use her as meat shield. Children > parents > wife.
03:18:10
Key MomentLily Kate: fake-dated Jojo Siwa's brother for social media content. Lost hundreds of thousands of followers going conservative.
03:27:37
Key MomentCallie: pregnant at 15, walked into abortion clinic, chose open adoption after someone told her about it
05:34:48
Key MomentChristina vs Brian: tension over perceived fat-shaming and weight comments throughout the night

Topics Discussed

00:03:24
Guest Introductions

10 guests including 2 Chinese exchange students, pro-life activist Savannah, and Jim Bob.

00:21:12
Savannah Punched During Outreach

Punched in face by pro-abortion woman during Live Action event. Needed stitches.

00:23:24
Marriage and Biblical Submission

Christian vs secular marriage frameworks. Jim Bob's triangle model.

00:39:00
Feminism Critique

Lily Kate writing '100 Ways Feminism Is a Failure.' Suffragettes as destructive.

01:48:00
Should Men Take a Bullet

Brian: would NOT die for wife. Would use her as meat shield. Rank: children > parents > wife.

02:24:00
Race/Racism/White Privilege

Christina: white people can't experience racism. Savannah pushes back citing Irish/Slavic enslavement.

03:04:51
AI Aging/Gender Swap

AI photos of all guests.

05:16:30
Body Count Round

Nadia: 8 (4M/4W). Reagan: 5. Lily UCSB: 0 (virgin).

Transcript

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03:45:26
Savannah Craven-Entalteeth and all of them are like really narrow and sharp. No, the ears. Oh god. Where do you get these things? Just just driving. The first thing everybody looks at is
03:45:38
Savannah Craven-Entalyour smile. Yeah. And my hair can grow and I can just cover the ears. Yeah. Like my hair already covers my ears, so they might as well just cheating though. I'm thinking like they have to be seen.
03:45:49
TyenaThey have to be out and about. Listen, I don't know. I might have to go with the teeth because I can keep my mouth closed. I don't want everybody looking at me with these bushes on the side of
03:45:58
Tyenamy head like it's a it's a tough choice. I will never smile. Yeah. No. Well, we could just mask it again. Girl, and I wasn't even poor in that sense. I would
03:46:09
Jim Bobbe um I wanted to ask you, have you ever seen anybody doing like plastic surgery and you know what not to do? Like
03:46:21
Jim Bobthere's like a de like you're like no not that. Oh yeah. Like like how do you know when that's going to happen or not though? So I
03:46:30
Christina Jonesmean I've done a lot of research in the plastic surgery kind of realm. actually one of the girls at my salon like I've hooked her up with the guy that's going to do her facelift. Like I just I'm
03:46:42
Christina Jonesinterested in all of that. So I do it's just doing your research on the doctor, a lot of research, seeing their work, reading reviews. Uh there's plastic
03:46:53
Christina Jonessurgery communities you can join. One of my best friends is a consultant and she has her own business doing that. So that's what I need to be because I'm Yeah. Yeah. I love the plastic surgery community. So, but why are some of the
03:47:05
Christina Jonesfamous people obviously doing the wrong thing there? That's a great question and I bring that up because I'm here and I can't even afford a facelift with the
03:47:14
Christina Jonesguy I would like a facelift with in 10 years. But these celebrities are making horrible choices. I know. [Applause]
03:47:24
Christina JonesSo sad. You think it's like a marketing thing? Like they get build and like I I think they just don't do their research, you know? Like it's it's anything. You have to go to someone that's really
03:47:37
Christina Jonesskilled at it. Like me, like I am an expert at hair color. Like you go to a different colorist, your hair is going to look different than if you come to me. You know what I mean? Like some people are just better at what they do.
03:47:48
TyenaSome places I feel like also have like deals where like you know when a celebrity goes to a club, they're getting free bottles, free sections and all that. Like if you go to a doctor because of your status and your following and all of that, they may do
03:48:01
Christina Jonesthe procedure for little to no fee if you promote their business. So some people might just be enticed to that too. So there is a famous PL I'm not going to mention his name, but a famous plastic surgeon in New York that did
03:48:12
Christina JonesDeme Moore's facelift. Oh yeah. And that's when she got botched. And then another man fixed it and did an amazing job. But after that man did her facelift, he
03:48:24
Jim Bobyou do not see him anymore. He Yeah. Like there's a big anymore. Do they have uh plastic surgery a lot in in uh China?
03:48:33
Lily (UCSB)Yes, they do. Yeah, they do. Uh like one of my classmates in high school. Maybe not one, like three or four, they
03:48:44
Jim Bobthey do this. And one of my classmate in college, he do that. Do they do it um uh to look like another ethnicity? Like um
03:48:56
Jim Bobfor instance, in Korea, they there's a trend to make yourself look more like a white a European person. Do does China have that trend? You try to look more like a white European person? Yes. Yes, we
03:49:09
Tyenahave. Yes, we have. So, no butt injections or implants. Nobody's doing that out there, right? That's like a American thing. Maybe not usual. Yeah.
03:49:19
Lily (UCSB)But most of us want to look more white. Yeah. Are there Do you have any plastic surgery? No. Do you have plastic surgery? No. Are there any health
03:49:29
Brian Atlasbenefits to getting injections at all? No. By the way, guys, TTS is We're going to do a roast session. TTS is lowered to
03:49:38
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03:49:44
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03:50:06
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03:50:15
SPEAKER_00you, man. S4, I'm baffled here. If you end up marrying a high earning man who works 12 to 14 hours/day to provide and affords you the opportunity to be a ZAM,
03:50:27
Lily (UCSB)you're telling me that you won't do his laundry? Wow. That's to you. That's for you. Yes. But he earns a lot, right?
03:50:37
Jim BobYeah. But maybe I could do it better. Yes. Do what better? Do my job and earns and it's like higher than king. What if
03:50:46
Jim Bobhe refuses to do his laundry? He refuses to wash his clothes and fold them. He just says no. He refused to do his laundry by himself.
03:50:58
Lily (UCSB)Yeah. Like he just leaves it at home everywhere. He just says [ __ ] you. I'm not doing this. What What do you do then? Um uh I would like to say I'm not doing
03:51:10
Lily (UCSB)anything about that cuz he could find the cleaning for himself and others.
03:51:15
Lily (UCSB)I would I I won't be at home be be at home with him cuz cuz um actually he if
03:51:25
Lily (UCSB)someone don't do laundry themsel really really would you do the dishes for him?
03:51:37
CallieOh that's that's fine. That's fine. Dishes are fine. Dishes are so much worse. Oh my gosh. It's like the food particles. Is this like a cultural thing? Like is that this thing just in
03:51:48
Lily (UCSB)China? Like none of the women really do the the their husband's laundry or this is just a personal preference? No, just just my personal um actually um also
03:51:58
Lily (UCSB)often women steal those. Yeah. And this is often women's. Wait, question for those of you who
03:52:06
Brian Atlaswouldn't do the bow. Thanks. Would you bow if you could get the perfect man? There's also Or would you
03:52:17
Brian Atlasbow for the perfect man? Yes, of course. Yes. Okay. Perfect man. Would you bow for him? Perfect. Perfect. Yeah, I would do that. Okay.
03:52:28
TyenaWhat about you? Yes, definitely. Yes. Okay. Over here. My husband's a perfect man, so answer to that. Were you a no bow? I changed my mind cuz
03:52:41
NadiaI'm thinking about my man specific. Oh, I changed my mind because I'm thinking about my man specifically. So, like for me, he is perfect. So, sure. Um, love my man, love you, baby. But no,
03:52:52
Brian Atlasit's still a no. It's still a no. Wait, you're you've been in a relationship for 5 years. Your uh current boyfriend, he
03:53:01
Nadiaasks you to bow, you won't do it. No. So what if the ultimatum is do it or we're breaking up? It's crazy that it would get to that extent in my eyes. So if you
03:53:13
Brian Atlasfeel so moved as to do so, then I wish you the best. But so just to be clear, for your five, you wouldn't for your fiveyear relationship, you wouldn't do the bow to save it. Okay. Okay. I'm
03:53:26
Nadiagoing to ask him. Why do you need me to bow? Why is it so me bowing would make or break our relationship? Then I think I'm good on you. This is He just wants it. This is what he says. He's just I just want you to do it. Couldn't he ask
03:53:39
Nadiayou why is it so important for you not to? Okay, that's a good That's a good Well, I think it's also like if we can go back to the whole me being masculine and I have certain views that, you know,
03:53:50
NadiaI feel like just will never change. And I just think bowing is ridiculous. I I'm not doing that. I'll I'll I'll put my my life on the line. I think maybe it's a little bit of that, right? Um, also I
03:54:01
Jim Bobjust feel like that is ridiculous, you know? Why am I bowing to my man? I will hug you. I will kiss you. I will tell you I love you. She said, "Yeah, I would do that." And it she said, "I would just
03:54:12
Jim Bobmake it fun." Isn't it interesting that her context for it could be empowering and fun and yours is like it's impossible to reframe the context to be uh fun or or empowering. It has to be
03:54:25
Nadiathis is abu this is not not you said abuse, but like like this is uh humiliating. I'm less than. Uh I wouldn't say all that like, oh, I feel less than. I just really see it as why.
03:54:37
NadiaWhy is that make or break? I just feel like there's plenty of things that I've asked my man to do and he's just like, yeah, that's just not me. And I've respected it, you know? Cool. Not a problem. It's not going to make or break. I'm not going to put an
03:54:47
Nadiaultimatum. If you don't do this, then it's not Do you ask him to put the seat back down? No. Does he bow the seat? No. He He does what he want. Listen. He does what he wants. You know what I'm
03:55:01
Nadiasaying? In the sense that there's I'm not going to nitpick small things. And I feel if he nitpicks something like you need me to bow. Like I cook for you. I clean for you. Um you don't have to think about your next meal. You know, I love you to that. Why can I just see
03:55:14
Savannah Craven-Entalwhat it would look like for you to bow? To me, that's way more work. Not to me. If I were to do it for my man, I'm not going to do it at all. But like cooking and cleaning and like doing all that stuff is like way more work than bowing.
03:55:26
NadiaIt is. Yeah. So, like why is why is like I just I'm I think I'm just hung up on the look of it. And call me prideful, call me what you want. I think that's though he said he would he would many of
03:55:39
Jim Bobyou expected and I'm totally fine with it is the man standing closer to the disaster potential area of a of a street. That's like potentially paralyzed, dead, you know, your insides
03:55:51
Jim Boblosing a leg. That's like that's like a big bow. That's like a That's like 30. I think that's equivalent to like a whole year of bowing. Like a whole subscript. Like a whole subscription. So wait, what
03:56:02
Nadiaabout the bowing is so wrong? I just find it unnecessary. And I see it. I'm like, okay, I will hug you. I will love you. I will like kissing is unnecessary. I like why would you? You said which
03:56:14
Nadiaone? Kissing is unnecessary. I wouldn't say that. No, I wouldn't say that. I wouldn't say that. Would you get down and like tie his shoes while he's standing up? See, but that but here's the difference. What if he said bowed?
03:56:24
NadiaNo. Gotcha. I'm going get you now. Um I think it's more of um like I see shoes untied. I don't want you to fall on your face. Okay, let me let me do that for you. You
03:56:36
Nadiaknow that's these are acts of love. Bowing is not an act of love. It is if he loves it. What's the difference between a hug and a bow? A hug that is such a mutual thing. It's just loving. It's very endearing. A bow. What do I
03:56:48
Nadiaget off of a bow? No, it's about what she gets. It's he feels respect. Cool. But the way I see it, something let's say what's equivalent for a woman um bowing. I'm not I'm not talking about
03:57:00
CallieOkay. Opening the door open. But I'm also not pressed if he doesn't open the door for me. Mhm. You seem more concerned about why he's asking you to bow. Again, it could be a pride thing.
03:57:12
TyenaYeah. Right. Like why are you asking me in the first place? But also, as somebody who knows you, like you're you're a very sensible person. So that realization you just had about her is is exactly that. It's not that she's like
03:57:24
Tyenainsubordinate or like not willing to do things for her partner. She's just very like logical about things like an association. I think there's an association to what bowing is. Let's
03:57:33
Jim Bobimagine there's a society where every uh every hug that you imagined happened was actually a bow. And then someone asks, "Would you hug your husband?" You're like, "Hell no." Like that's a sign of
03:57:45
Jim Bobthat's like a like I'm I'm submitting. This is terrible. I'm never going to hug my husband. It What's weird is that it's just a movement, a gesture. It's just it's it's literally How about this?
03:57:57
TyenaWould you kiss his hand if he went like this? [Laughter] No. Yeah. No, I'm not doing that. Isn't that Why do I need to kiss my bow to
03:58:09
Tyenaeach other when they times where my be driving and like we'll be holding hands out of nowhere like I'll kiss. [Applause] [Music] I'm thinking like, you know what I'm saying?
03:58:20
NadiaQueen to the mic. Oh, yeah. Um, honestly, uh, so you're saying what to in another world. What's Wait, here here. If let's say you broke up with your current boyfriend. Is your current
03:58:32
Brian Atlasboyfriend the perfect guy? Yeah, he's perfect for me. Yes, 100%. So, just be okay. Well, I guess I don't even need to ask it then. So for the perfect guy to keep the perfect guy, you're unwilling
03:58:44
Brian Atlasto do something that takes I do you have back problems? Like why won't you? Well, actually, it takes 3
03:58:54
Nadiaseconds and it's again um is there harm? What's the No, I just see it as it's pointless. It's pointless to me. Just like there's certain things that um I've asked him to do, right? Do you ask him
03:59:06
Jim Bobto open up the pickle jar? Nope. Is there anything that you ask of him? Be a good person. Like what do you mean? Like I Anything that's equally point equally pointless he's trying to get to any
03:59:19
Nadiaanything that's equally pointless that you've ever asked him to do. Um and nothing coming to mind that I feel like everything I ask of him is intentional. I wouldn't want you to to do anything. Does he pay um do you guys live
03:59:31
Nadiatogether? No. You guys Wait, you guys have been dating for 5 years? Heck yeah, bro. We um Where's the ring from? Where's Where's the ring? No, there are plans to get there are plans to get
03:59:42
Jim Bobmarried, but um I think it's also a matter of wait a Christian household. Do you want him to get on his knees and say, "Will
03:59:52
Nadiayou marry me?" Is that not a Oh my god. I'm not going to press him if he's I I would never press a man if he's not on his No. What if he's just like he's he's got
04:00:05
Brian Atlasthe ring. I love the light. Brian, just in case Brian meets someone, he he has this ready in case he and he's just like he doesn't get down on one knee. He just
04:00:15
Tyenalike he just throws it like chucks it at you like this. You want to put it on? Does it fit? No, it doesn't. It's not my
04:00:24
NadiaSo is going to like a man um on one knee professing his love, is that necessary? going down on one D. No, you could stand
04:00:34
Nadiaup. It doesn't make a difference. Is any Is the engagement moment even the ring and everything presentation is it necessary? Sure. No, it's not necessary. It's not necessary. Okay. So, what about it is not necessary. Uh you can just say,
04:00:47
Jim Bob"Hey, do you want to get contractually married at a boring courthouse that's sterile and dead?" Uh you can just do that. Sterile sterile. But I to me to me
04:00:58
Nadiathis is uh I feel like regardless I don't take things uh I don't want to say so serious. So again if you propose to me great you know I'm not going to
04:01:09
Nadianitpick how you do it and with which and what timing and and down on one knee. You love me that much and you're proposing. Thank you. Did you see what Brian just did though? Like if he threw this at you was like I throw this at
04:01:20
Jim Bobsomebody. Yeah. Yeah. Just throw it. Yeah. Someone catch the ring the single. Yeah. Catch a ring. Someone catch a ring. All right, I'll throw it over. Let's go. Just be like better be a good
04:01:29
Calliethrow. There you go. Got it, Kobe. And say that and say that you propose. All right. Again, you don't get it back. Sorry. Okay. Can Can I ask Can I ask you a question? Y'all have been together for
04:01:41
Nadia5 years, right? Is there a reason why y'all haven't gotten married? Well, no. Marriage is definitely something that's going to happen for us. I think it's just more so um to get to be super
04:01:53
Nadiatransparent. Um, as my sister uh stated earlier, our mother did pass. Um, I want to say like 2 years ago and um there were reasons as to the way like you know I wanted my mom to see us get married but then she got bedridden and you know
04:02:05
Nadiaum there's a lot of things that when it's play life always happens you know what I'm saying and that doesn't mean that you can't get married uh to your partner. Yeah. I think it's just more of right now there's
04:02:17
Nadiapriorities there's priorities align and if right now marriage is not the priority it's more of me working on myself working on himself and being the best versions for each other you know and there's also that whole like my sister's on the journey more than I am
04:02:30
Nadiabut um I need to work on my spiritual journey you know what I'm saying I need to do all these things and until I get that I'm not my best version to get married you can do that when you're married spiritual not sure what that
04:02:41
Jim Bobmeans to me that's a meaningless term. No offense. It's just like so vague and it's like is there is your boyfriend have any sort of theological uh
04:02:51
Nadiafoundation or structure in his um it's very um I want to say generic, not to be like um an a-hole, but uh he believes in a higher power for sure. You know what
04:03:03
NadiaI'm saying? He grew up in a household where uh mom, you know, is always talking about the importance of God and stuff like that. But to sit there and say it's something that he actively um
04:03:13
Jim Bobpractices, no. Okay. The reason I asked, I was wondering if your boyfriend if your boyfriend leans more traditional,
04:03:21
Jim Bobeven if he has this ambiguous spiritual sort of lens, like does he is he like is he traditional in a sense? Does he No. 100%. That's why, you know, I love that
04:03:34
Nadiahe was raised in the household that he was because even though he's not, you know, super religious, the values are still there, you know, um earlier when we were talking about um you know, would you risk your life for your wife? This is the type of man that he's risking his
04:03:47
Nadialife for any woman uh or child he sees. He's somebody's in Indian. He's there. You know what I'm saying? He would never want to see me get hurt. Um he doesn't want to see me cry. You know, you hear that, Brian? Her boyfriend's not meat
04:03:57
Jim Bobshielding people. No. Yeah, Brian. So um she was saying her boy her boyfriend is is like a sacrificial type where he'll
04:04:07
Nadiahe'll uh risk his body for something. Yeah. Espec uh women like he's just the type if and that's doesn't earn you a bow.
04:04:18
Brian AtlasNo, the just it's crazy that the whole like uh boyfriend husband must be willing to die but I can't do a
04:04:28
Nadiaharmless effortless 15 degree motion. I again I just see it as pointless and the man I'm with wouldn't even ask me to do that. So it's not something that's weighing heavy on
04:04:40
Nadiame. Uh who when you guys go out for dates like go out to dinner does he pay? We both will pay. Like um sometimes he'll No, sometimes he'll pay, sometimes I'll pay, sometimes we'll go half. It's
04:04:50
Brian Atlasnot anything too crazy that I'm pressed about. Well, but I don't understand. So, I'm just going to go ahead and grant you that it's pointless. It's 100% pointless. So,
04:05:02
Brian Atlasit is pointless. That would be pointless, too. Well, what's what are you saying is pointless? Him what? Wanting the bow? Yeah, I find it pointless. Yeah. But do just because
04:05:13
Brian Atlassomething's pointless is like that would be enough reason to not do a thing because pointless. Um not in all there might be small things that like okay if
04:05:24
Nadiahe wants to watch like an anime that or like some Marvel show that I'm just like at this point I don't really like this. I'm going to watch it though because that's something that he likes to do. It will give us time to bond together and moments like that. Yeah. That makes you
04:05:36
Nadiafeel happy. Or sometimes even you want me to watch you play video games. I think that's incredibly pointless, but I do it because it makes you happy. I think bowing even harder than my gosh. Never sit through an anime like not all
04:05:49
Jim Bobof them are terrible. Some of them I really like. So I can't wait. You're torturing yourself playing video games, right? And you're like, "Okay, fine. Yeah, I love
04:05:58
Jim Bobyou." But that's what's crazy is that the the gesture of this like literally.5 seconds. It is like so like how long again call it a 4 hours been in the
04:06:09
Brian Atlasvideo game session you know like I'm you Christian Catholic oh Catholic and again I'm still working on this religious journey so don't don't s ask me to Christian women are to obey their
04:06:20
Tyenahusbands or what wives are to obey their she's not there yet she she's Catholic but remember she also said like I'm a lot further in my journey of growing up and realizing the truth and the [ __ ]
04:06:31
Tyenathat I was fed my entire life by society and all that other stuff. She's on her way finding herself through that, too. So, I feel like we also don't need to What What is there to find? Uh scripture is clear. Okay. Just cuz you read
04:06:45
Tyenasomething doesn't mean it clicks immediately. Wait, what what is there to question? I don't understand. It's not a matter of questioning. Um I'm not saying I'm speaking about me. I'm saying I never Well, we're speaking about her though. Okay. Well, again, you you can
04:06:58
Nadiahave somebody read something. You can have somebody experience, but until they're ready to see it in whatever way. What do you mean? What? What do you not understand? What do you mean until they're ready? Like if it's God's word,
04:07:10
NadiaI don't understand how it's like, well, well, it could be God's word. But but regardless, again, until you have a full understanding of something, you can wrap your head around it up to the point you're like, "Okay, I get it. What's
04:07:20
Savannah Craven-Entalthere to wrap h boyfriend husband says, I want you to do the bow." Boom. You do it. What what what is there to Well, in Catholicism, there is no boyfriend. It's just Yeah, sure. Yeah. Husband. But
04:07:32
Brian Atlasyeah, I mean, do you go to mass? Uh, again, no. It's more of right now. You should go to mass because you can hear the word every single week. How long? Look at that. What if your boyfriend What if your boyfriend was like, "Get rid of those." Oh, that's that's a good
04:07:45
Brian Atlasone. I don't like I don't like the nails. That's fine. You get rid of them, but you won't do a bowel movement. That sounded wrong. Can Can you get a How do you How do you wipe these nails? How do you wipe? And they're press on, by the
04:07:57
Nadiaway, so it's not like the end of the world. How do you wipe? Um, it takes some time. And you use It's like a glove. You got to be very
04:08:09
Savannah Craven-Entalcareful. Can we get some toilet paper? Toilet paper. Um, you need baby wipes. So, you should invest in a bum gun, which is what they have in a lot of parts of Asia. It's much more It's much
04:08:20
Savannah Craven-Entalcleaner and it literally you can buy it on like Sheen or Amazon for like $ five dollar and it's just a sprayer. No, the bedet is one thing, but the sprayer you can control it more cuz it's like a mini
04:08:31
Savannah Craven-Entalshower head and the bedet in my experience they're really really like pressure and that's not really great for a girl. Never mind. It doesn't matter. But isn't the pressure necessary though?
04:08:43
Savannah Craven-EntalEven though but with the spray you can control the pressure by how hard you press down. The pressure is necessary for sure. Interesting. Yeah. But yeah, every every bathroom, even like the
04:08:54
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04:09:31
Jim Bobexpect men to can't. Wait, what? That is Oh, wait. This is You might as well spell it the right way. [ __ ] Um, one sec. My word of choice. Yeah, that's
04:09:43
SPEAKER_00my favorite word. Yeah. Suda master chef donated $20. Chair two, George Floyd died from dot meth fentinyl and fluid in the lungs from CO. Also, other wrangle
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SPEAKER_00master chef. Angle, pseudo master chef. Coastal operator. Thank you, man. Brian, here's another $20. Invest it in some day. Quill or
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SPEAKER_00burritos. I'm not your dad. Thank you, Coastal Operator. Appreciate it. Thank you. Reap what they so donated $20. The AI
04:10:28
SPEAKER_00aging program loses credibility when doing Asians without context. Now, it would be realistic if the first pick lasted till they were 60, the second pick was 60 and a half, and the third
04:10:39
SPEAKER_00pick would be 61. Sons of Liberty donated $19.99 minus racist chair too. This was a based
04:10:50
SPEAKER_00panel. Savannah, please tell me you pressed charges. Press charges. W Jim Bop. Yes, absolutely. Good. Pasty George donated $20. Just as women have more
04:11:02
SPEAKER_00privileges than men in first world countries, so do Caucasian men have more favoritism than non-Caucasians. And there's a reason for that. Yes, I'm
04:11:12
SPEAKER_00going back into it. Wait. Oh, just the other life donated $20. Chair one, four, chair 2, three,
04:11:22
SPEAKER_00chair three, five, chair four, six, chair five, four, chair six, chair 7,
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SPEAKER_00four, chair 8, three, chair 9, five, three. Oh my god. [ __ ] you. and I can imagine. They want a man to die for them,
04:11:42
SPEAKER_00provide, be a leader, and basically act how they want. But when it comes to bowing, they draw the line. Take a bullet for you. Smiley face emoji.
04:11:53
Brian AtlasIt's a good point. That is a uh good point. Uh yeah. Oh, wait. We have this one. This is the continuation from pasty George donated $20. We all know about
04:12:06
SPEAKER_00the segregation of blacks to the hoods aka projects. Moreover, Caucasians would deliberately make housing prices more expensive for non-Caucasians to keep them out. Kant
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SPEAKER_00[Music] Selena Gorn is [Music] $2345. Great panel. Savannah is the goat. Chair 8 being 40 is crazy. She
04:12:30
SPEAKER_00looks 20s still. Chair three is the pinnacle of what most men want in a woman. Great values. A thank you. Great.
04:12:40
SPEAKER_00I should probably know that. You donated $20. Thank you. Can everyone on the panel try to say to Kurt Tucker three times as fast as you can? No. I think it's trying to get you to say the N word
04:12:52
Jim Bobor something. It's not. No, it's a meme from my stream. Okay. Ticker tucker. It's actually Tucker Tickler. Lulu donated $20 for chair five. Your thoughts on chair 2 saying black people
04:13:05
Savannah Craven-Entalget murdered for no reason. Do you think she's just a complete fra or just dipatized by the BBC? Oh my gosh. Wow. I don't think she's a [ __ ] No, I would
04:13:16
Savannah Craven-Entalnot say that. I think that just the media has taken over so much of what people consume. And I don't fault you at that. And I know that you like are more
04:13:28
Christina Jonesopen like you're open to learning more and you're very like open to have conversation which is rare. Yeah. There's I'm not right about everything and there's a lot of different sides like just like when white people go into
04:13:40
Christina Jonesblack neighborhoods and then they spike everything up and then black you know there's there's like I don't know what that is. You don't know what that is. What are you talking about? When like
04:13:50
Jim Bobgentrification when Wait. when you when white culture beautifies crappy cultures um aesthetics. Is that what you're talking about? Like when like when when
04:14:01
Jim Bobpeople buy up property and then make it nice. Yes. Exactly. That's horrific. What is wrong with that? But that's forcing the people out of their communities. Well, if they can't if they can't keep it beautiful and someone has
04:14:13
Jim Bobthe right and the ability to buy it and make it nice, why shouldn't they make it nice? So stand like gentrification. It's like crappy. That's their culture. That makes no sense. That's kind of like the
04:14:24
Jim BobEbonics thing where it's like they can't they're not learning to speak properly. Let's just call it their culture, right? But the the the thing is is that most of
04:14:33
Jim Bobthe money in America is from white men. Yeah. Thank you're welcome. Yeah. But it also drives other drives the economy. Drives other less
04:14:46
Jim Bobfortunate people out of their homes. Well, no. They like again she's half black. Okay. Talk to her half black side right now. She's gonna Yeah. Have you transformed? Okay.
04:14:58
Jim BobWho's responsible b ultimately who's responsible for their own generation of their skills and their income? I you are right. Well, it depends on Are you
04:15:10
Jim BobIt not necessarily. No, no, no. You made it on your own, right? Circumstances. No, no. You've had tough circumstances, right? I have had Right. Really tough. Yeah. You overcame them. Yeah. Did you do it because you're white and you have
04:15:22
Savannah Craven-Entalred hair? No. Right. You did it because you're a strong individual and you're persever.
04:15:38
Savannah Craven-EntalDo you wish you were black? No. But if you could change, would you? Why would she want to be underprivileged? Why would I want to be? Literally, you just said it. No, I'm
04:15:49
Jim Bobblack. She's being hyperbolic. The reason I asked this No, the reason I asked is if I said you've had a rough time at it, you've overcome addiction and all this. This is glorious, right?
04:16:01
Jim BobBut you would never imagine you overcame your drug addiction and got on your feet and then you you you busted ass and you made it happen and you lived a good life. Imagine someone came along and said, "Well, that only happened because
04:16:12
Jim Bobyou're white tootss." What would you say to them? I think I've had certain privileges because I'm white. Do you think ultimately it's all given because you're white? Okay. So, what percent would you attribute There's not There's
04:16:24
Jim Bobnot I see both sides. What percent would you attribute to your uh willing your ability to overcome circumstances? Terrible circumstances. What What would
04:16:33
Jim Bobyou attribute to your just your pure skin color? Just your skin color?
04:16:42
Jim BobPretty little. Yeah. Like like how much? Give it a number. Like just we won't hold you to it. Just give it a 15% 15. That's pretty low, right? Yeah. Okay. So why would you not use the same standard you're using for yourself for black
04:16:54
Jim Bobpeople that you also think are in situations that might be even better off than what you've overcome? Correct. Oh yeah. Okay. It's not all black people are living in. What this is what's so
04:17:05
Jim Bobhorrific about it is like you're actually infantilizing them and making them that's the true racism is that you think people are so helpless that you actually train people to look at people
04:17:17
Jim Bobas helpless and then you're surprised that they act helpless. It's not at all what I'm doing. So are they less than you? Are they is it harder for them to overcome tribulations
04:17:30
Christina Jonesif they grew up in certain communities? Yeah, that's what they know. It's a vicious cycle. Not having a father, turning to drugs, get murdered. I grew up. But let's let's just think about
04:17:40
Savannah Craven-Entalevery like famous person or every very successful person. Most of them came from a really really shitty situation. Like their dad was abusive. They grew up
04:17:50
Savannah Craven-Entalin the projects, but they didn't use where they came from as an excuse and why they couldn't work hard. I think if I'm living in a really crappy neighborhood and I'm driven out because
04:18:02
Savannah Craven-Entala white man or just a rich man buys up a place that would just motivate me to work hard so that I wouldn't be have to for like Yeah, I'm not talking about the whole black community. When did I say
04:18:12
Christina Jonesthat? We just said black people. No, I'm not talking about the whole donated Canadian dollar.
04:18:21
Savannah Craven-EntalI will bow for you every day. 27 for you. Wait, why 2761? 61. You got to look her up, I guess.
04:18:32
SPEAKER_00Uh, Canadians frightened me. Uh, okay. Let's see. We had Pasty George. Oh, speaking of Canada. Pasty George donated $20. This happened in Canada as well.
04:18:44
SPEAKER_00After the signing of treaties, the Canadian government made the Indian Act and forcibly relocated indigenous peoples to small lands called
04:18:52
SPEAKER_00reservations. [ __ ] Pasty George donated $20. And then the residential schools happened. A lot of children were taken and forced to attend
04:19:05
SPEAKER_00those schools. A lot of children never made it back home. Some due to sickness, others to homicide. That's something my friend and I talk about. Hasty George donated $20. You had
04:19:17
SPEAKER_00to be tough in the res and any sign of weakness made you a target. Drinking and eventually drugs became the norm on a lot of reservations. Cont.
04:19:28
SPEAKER_00Stop calling. Lucas donated $20. It's not the question is meant as the male version of a [ __ ] test. It's meant to
04:19:37
SPEAKER_00assess female entitlement, pride, and combativeness. While simultaneously, you expect men to can't. That's so funny. Lucas donated $20.
04:19:49
SPEAKER_00Traditional gender roles, duties, and obligations without question or equivocation. You can't cherrypick gender duties that benefit you and reject those that otherwise impose a
04:20:01
Brian Atlasduty/burden on you. Love, Lucas. Great job. Uh, well done, Lucas. You have a response to that, miss. I won't bow for the perfect man. I'll Well, I'm not dating Lucas. I really don't care what Lucas got to say. So, I would do some
04:20:13
Brian Atlascrazy [ __ ] for the perfect woman. I not the bullet. Yeah, but not the I'll do some pointless cra, you know, I'll I'll bow for I I'd be willing to bow for the
04:20:25
Jim Bobperfect woman. I don't even disagree with risking your life. Oh, go ahead. We're dying for perfect woman. Was that No, he said no. That's no point. What
04:20:36
Brian Atlasabout lose a uh I don't know like a piece of your ear. Lose a bit ear tiny ear shot at like Trump did. Like Mike Tyson has to bite off. Yeah. Yeah. I'll
04:20:48
Brian Atlaslet Mike for the perfect woman. Mike Tyson can bite off. What the [ __ ] Wow. See where you're at. See where you're at. Really? Yeah. What the [ __ ] Okay.
04:20:58
Brian AtlasJokes. I'm kidding. It's a joke. Okay. Uh let's see. We have cream. Creamy. What the cream donated $201. Thank you, man. Have been watching the pot for a
04:21:09
SPEAKER_00few months now and can't get enough. First time dono here and just wanted to thank Brixen and Andrew for doing what they do. What up, Jim? God bless. Uh,
04:21:20
SPEAKER_00thank you so much. Appreciate it. Thank you. Thank you. We have Lulu. Thank you. Lulu donated $20. Brian, would you rather have carnal knowledge with the
04:21:30
SPEAKER_00lights on with chair one or chair 8? You have to pick one, two, three, go. Uh, what the [ __ ] I have to pick. So,
04:21:39
Brian Atlaschair one or chair eight? Well, she's uh married, so I don't like to step on toes, so that I guess I have to I have to go with uh chair. Why did
04:21:51
SPEAKER_00Why is it between chair one or chair? Nice to Thank you, Patty. Patty donated $20. Brixson, did the hot sauce from the
04:22:01
SPEAKER_00burritos mess up your voice? Hope you feel better, Matt. Thank you. Hit me up. Patty D wants. Someone's shooting those
04:22:10
Brian Atlasshots. I'm flattered. What are you looking for in a guy? cuz maybe what what info do you want from
04:22:20
Brian AtlasPatty D to assess if he's worthy of going on a date with you or protesting an abortion clinic with you?
04:22:30
Savannah Craven-EntalMight be so boring. Is that a romantic first date for a proifer to if go protest a guy if I wasn't married and a guy was like, "Do you want to go sidewalk counsel with me?" Like that that's it's it's in the bag. Like Okay,
04:22:43
Lily Katethere we go. All right. And if you're watching, that's that's a good first date if you're like it's a conservative girl. The basics though, I mean, are you Christian? But more specifically, are
04:22:54
Lily Kateyou reformed Baptist? That's important to me. Or Presbyterian. I'll take a Presbyterian. Right. You'll take What about an Orthodox Christian? Mhm. She'll Okay, there you go. All right. Um Yeah.
04:23:06
Lily KateAre are you ready to be a husband? Like, do you do you want a wife or are you ready to be a husband? There's a big difference there for me. Um, the other thing that I know I need is emotional availability. Not that you have to protect all me from my emotions or you
04:23:20
Lily Katehave to make me emotionally happy every single day, but just don't like get mad at me if I do have feelings and that you uh want to affirm that I'm loved
04:23:32
Lily Kateregardless of what we're going through. That's kind of it. My standards are a little bit low right now. I'm going to be honest. It's not even low.
04:23:41
SPEAKER_00almost 2003 donated $19.50 50 cents. Wb based mixed girl chair 2 is lost. Blue commie is adorable and would likely make
04:23:52
SPEAKER_00it with mom, although not a Christian. Llower shirts on men. Q. Who's the better decision makers? Should women vote? Oh, hey. Uh, Jim Bob got me right
04:24:05
Brian Atlasthere. It said L flower shirts on men. Yeah. Yeah. What's flower like lost flowers?
04:24:17
Brian AtlasFlowers on your Yeah, cuz you're wearing a flower. I'll rip that guy's face off. Uh, so wait, blue. Do you want to
04:24:26
Brian Atlasrespond to blue commamie is adorable. He's calling you a communist but cute, but he's also calling you. You
04:24:37
Lily (UCSB)make a good mom. Oh, thank you. I I have to say that. But but is is that the question that I have to be a mom or not? No, he's just saying you would make a
04:24:50
Savannah Craven-Entalgood mom. He sees it in me. What kind of mom? Super mom. Yeah. One that folds laundry. One that does laundry and dishes. He's not interested. Wait, I actually
04:25:02
Jim Bobhave a question. Do Don't you think it's a good idea? Donated 20 right after this. Michael's name Mike Jones W. Brian, do you think it's a good idea for someone like you're an intelligent woman
04:25:15
Jim Bobwho's intelligent enough to be an engineer? Isn't it's a Wouldn't it be a good thing for society to reproduce your your genes and like let let's say
04:25:26
Jim Bobyour intelligence was passed down to children? Wouldn't it be a good thing to multiply yourself? Yes, that's a good saying. Okay. very short. So, would that mean
04:25:39
Tyenachange your mind? It would be. Uh, no. If you knew your kid was going to be just like you, would you change your
04:25:44
Lily (UCSB)mind? No. Cuz I know I know uh all the parts of me and also all my weakness.
04:25:54
Reagan GagosSo, I won't let that happen to my child. Yeah. But from the mistakes you've made, couldn't you instill them not going through it by sharing the experiences
04:26:03
Lily (UCSB)you've been through? Mhm. Um actually my daily life uh I just a little bit couldn't
04:26:13
SPEAKER_00understand the mistake I made myself. So Okay. All right. We have more chats coming through. Just the other life donated $20. Thank you. So nobody wants
04:26:24
SPEAKER_00Detroit neighborhood homes for cheap. White people comes there and make it nice. Put gates to keep nice lives nice on cheap and now they are bad. WDF care to wake up.
04:26:42
SPEAKER_00Are you white? Okay, thank you. Their suda master chef donated
04:26:52
SPEAKER_00$19.99. The white privilege people speak of is garbage. I wonder where mine is when I'm carrying 10ft sheets of drywall up the steps. There's only advantages
04:27:03
Brian Atlassuch as having two parents that made smart choic. Well putse pseudo master chef chief. Thank you for that. Appreciate it.
04:27:13
SPEAKER_00Uh what? Oh boy. Puff and brah donated $20. That's crazy. Can we get the panel to rate their quefs in the following
04:27:22
SPEAKER_00category? One, noise generated. Two, vibrations felt. Three, smell. I am a big fan of this stream. God bless.
04:27:33
SPEAKER_00What? Great. Thank you. Selena Gornz donated $2345. The soft bigotry of low expectations. Chair 2 is a racist and
04:27:44
SPEAKER_00can't even see it. Wow, you're such a racist. That's amazing. Walker donated $19.99.
04:27:54
SPEAKER_00Thank you, Walker. 35, 17-year relationship, one child, son 12, worked 50 plus hour while she went to school. Now she's breadwinner and let
04:28:06
Brian Atlasme sit back and hang out with my son. Long con. Thank you. Wait, one of these is in Chinese. I don't know if I should play
04:28:14
Brian Atlasit. Play it. Translate it. Translate. Okay. I It might say something. It might exboyfriend. It might say something really bad. It might say something
04:28:24
Brian Atlasoffensive, but uh [ __ ] it. Whatever. Uh if it is something bad, you can tell us. But all right. The Rosetta Stone donated $20. Juan
04:28:36
SPEAKER_00Shangha Bangu Ji Hanban La. I wonder if cats are popular pets in
04:28:46
Brian AtlasChina. When is Felicity going to start being the official whatever Uber driver? What? What? Can it translate at the end or Wait, you know what? I can change the
04:28:57
Brian Atlasvoice to a Chinese voice. Oh, that's better. And maybe it will it will I only heard about the first sentence.
04:29:07
SPEAKER_02Good night. We're going to do this here. Let me try Let me try it again. One sec. We're going to do Let's try this. The Rosetta Stone donated W
04:29:23
SPEAKER_02N G N R G DN Y R I wonder if cats are popular pets in China. When is Felicity
04:29:34
Lily (UCSB)going to start the official whatever Uber driver is it? Uh cuz cuz he doesn't post the sentence. He just posts
04:29:46
Lily (UCSB)the letter how he spares of the Chinese sentence, but he doesn't write down the Chinese sentence. So, we can't figure out that. Oh, it's not written properly. It needs some times maybe.
04:29:58
TyenaWow, that was uh maybe he used Google Translate. So, Rosetta Stone, that was a fail. Yeah, Rosetta Stone. Like, come on. Isn't that what you're supposed to do? Let's see. We have Coastal Operator
04:30:09
Brian Atlashere. Thank you. Coastal operator donated $20. I'm not a big fancy lawyer. Can't. Damn, they're so aggressive. Seriously,
04:30:20
Brian Atlasso aggressive. Damn. The first time you started hearing that? I think it's the first time they started doing it. It's pretty $20, but apparently Lucas, thank
04:30:30
Brian Atlasyou, Coastal Operator. Thanks to him. All right, we have some from Pasty George. Thank you, Pasty George.
04:30:41
SPEAKER_00Hasty George donated $20. This dysfunctional upbringing from past trauma affected generation to generation until recently where a lot of reasons
04:30:51
SPEAKER_00are now alcohol and drug-free. However, the views on First Nations were set. Kant Hasty George donated $20. So the
04:31:03
SPEAKER_00hoods and first nations reservations were similar and due to the crimes brought on by drugs and alcohol, the views on blacks and FM people were also
04:31:12
SPEAKER_00comparable because of segregation. [ __ ] Damn, bro. Chill. Hasty George donated $20. Just as the black communities in America are trying to make it in life,
04:31:24
SPEAKER_00First Nations are trying to as well. But the walls of prejudice and racial profiling are sometimes rigid to overcome. K. Thank you, George. Appreciate it.
04:31:35
SPEAKER_00Donated $20. Jim Bob, do you own a normal shirt? Brian, size him up for a hoodie. Let him borrow a flannel. No, I'm not boring like Brian. You know, I
04:31:46
SPEAKER_00want to add some flare and color. It's good for the show. Selena Gomez donated $2345. I'd take the bullets and walk on the traffic side of the street for chair
04:31:57
Lily Katethree. Where do I sign up? Are you are you a woman? I think it's a man, but Selena as a man. Yeah, I'm sure
04:32:06
Lily Kateusing his wife's account. I guess DM me.
04:32:15
SPEAKER_00Just the other life donated $20. Chair four just went plus three points on attraction level in my eyes for her being aware of people around her and letting other pass behind her. It's rare
04:32:26
SPEAKER_00to see women notice people trying to squeeze behind them. Wow. Thank you. Very considerate. So sweet.
04:32:35
SPEAKER_00Inquisitor Zil donated $20. I spent 3 hours listening audio only while working. Finally pulled up the video.
04:32:47
NadiaI mean, we're part black despite sounding like one crazy. Damn. You want to respond to that? They think you're a black woman. A sassy one. Whatever floats your boat. I mean, I I'm sorry to
04:32:59
Tyenadisappoint. You guys AI her make her What do you What is it? New Jersey or Okay. You about to say we're very close to the Bronx. Very what? Very close to
04:33:09
SPEAKER_00the Bronx. My parents are from the Bronx. We have Patty here. Patty donated $20. Lily, I would love to
04:33:20
SPEAKER_00go with you to convince others to walk for life. I am a cradle Catholic, serve in the military, and all I've ever wanted was to be a
04:33:31
Lily KateI don't know how to respond. Yeah, send a picture. Catholic wedding. Slide in the DMs. Yeah. Could you imagine? I'm sorry. My dad would never let me convert.
04:33:42
SPEAKER_00You don't have to. You You don't have to convert to $20. Chair four and six, only 5 years till Shan new. Chair nine. No
04:33:52
SPEAKER_00ring after 5 years equals he is not serious about you. What is Shang new? What does that mean? I don't know. Oh, okay.
04:34:02
NadiaChair nine chime in. Do you want to respond? Do you want to respond? Uh, well, I mean, I get people's interpretation of stuff, but um I feel like he's serious for and that's all
04:34:14
Jim Bobthat I need. So, and I can vouch for the relationship, you know, as I'm there. I'm sorry it doesn't meet your standards, but if I knew who he was, I would slide into his
04:34:26
TyenaDMs and be like, "Just ask for a bow." Well, going home, we're probably going to walk into that going, "Oh, yeah, cuz they're really watching." I'm going to get home, my man's going to be like, "Where's my bow?" And my man's going to
04:34:36
Brian Atlaslaugh. So, in Chinese, leftover woman. Oh, leftover woman. Shang new. Yes. Yes. M. Uh, is that that's a What is that?
04:34:47
Jim BobThat's like a lonely older woman who didn't get married and left behind. Is that going to be you? Come be me. Yeah.
04:34:56
Lily (UCSB)Maybe. She's like, "Yes, maybe." Things go well. You sound really awful about that. Do you want that to happen? Uh,
04:35:04
Lily (UCSB)cuz I'm not sure whether if I will be married or not cuz cuz I'm fine to be myself. Okay. We have I'm the jazz. 13%
04:35:15
Brian Atlasof the population, 50% of crime is false. Those numbers are based off arrest and not convictions. It's funny how black folks commit all these crimes
04:35:24
Brian Atlasbut are exonerated at a 50% rate and 70% rate for nonviolent crimes. Okay. Thank you for the super. Well, I said 6% matter 6% and it's 50% of the murders, not just 50% of the crime. No, look up
04:35:37
Brian Atlasthe convictions. It's still uh desperate. So, all right, guys. If you want, get a TTS in. We are doing $20 roast session. We
04:35:46
Brian Atlashave some more coming in. We have uh let's see. Oh, Coastal Operator Sim Tax. Coastal operator donated $20. Thank
04:35:58
Brian Atlasyou, Coastal Brian. I'm seeing a lot of sing and no S tax being paid. Yo, Patty, call the S IRS. Patty, here's what we're going to do. You do a champagne pop,
04:36:08
Brian AtlasPatty. I will uh I will get you set up with I'll get you on a date with Lily, but you got to do champagne pop for for You have to send a picture first.
04:36:19
SPEAKER_00Looks are important. Yeah. All right, we have Oh, here we go. chair_1 donated $20. I'm switching to
04:36:31
Brian Atlaschair_3. What does that mean? Well, chair one, chair three. So he's sing instead of simp. Normally he simps for chair one. He's sing for you. Yeah. Wow.
04:36:46
SPEAKER_00Guys are really building up my self-esteem after OJ Simpson $20. Hope everyone has had a great weekend. Share
04:36:55
SPEAKER_00two. You're not fooling anybody. We all know it stank. What? That's so mean. Damn. My vagina. He's saying my vagina.
04:37:05
SPEAKER_00and donated $20. Chair three, Presbyterian, PCA, biblical divorce. Mixed black/white. Two beautiful girls,
04:37:16
SPEAKER_0086s. Want to have a big family in the backyard table like parenthood show? What say you? Arrogant voice. Was he
04:37:25
Lily Katesaying that the Presbyterian church allows allows divorce? Uh, I'm not sure. I don't know. I'm not Presbyterian. And there are lots of sex of um
04:37:36
Lily KatePresbyterianism and they've had a lot of recently. I think he was hitting on you. Oh, okay. He says, "Want to have a big family in the backyard?" I do. I want to have 10. You said you marry a Presbyterian.
04:37:49
Lily KateBut I don't believe in divorce, though. It doesn't exist. Do you want to have 10 kids? Yeah. How old are you? 23. Nice. Do you literally want to birth them all? Yeah, of course. I know so many families that have between 8 to 10. So, I have five siblings. How will women figurative
04:38:02
Lily Katefiguratively? Are you like adoption? Yes. Oh. Um I don't know if I'm called to adoption. I'll see in the future. That's like a decision my husband and I will make. But um yeah, like growing up in a community
04:38:14
Lily Katewhere it was normal to have seven, eight, nine. I know families with like 11 kids. It's so awesome. Would you adopt if your husband said, "We want to adopt." And you didn't want to adopt.
04:38:24
Brian AtlasYeah. Yes. Oh my god. You're going to get more TTS now. Wait. question. I have a question for you, Jim Bob. Yes, sir. Let's say you got a Christian woman gets
04:38:37
Brian Atlasmarried and she's fully capable of having children. The husband's fully capable of having children. The wife, she wants to have
04:38:47
Brian Atlasbiological kids. The husband is like, "No, we're going to adopt and I'm not going to give you children." Mhm. Is
04:38:57
Jim Bobthat like kind of This is uh I know this might sound like a copout, but um I would talk to my priest.
04:39:07
Jim BobOkay, I think that's fair. What do you think the priest would say? I'm not actually sure because like uh sometimes people their lot in life what
04:39:20
Jim Bobthey're capable of or not capable of will direct their Christian ob obligation to certain directions and the attachment for it to be looking like a certain way for instance tons of people
04:39:31
Jim Bobwho can't have kids it doesn't follow that just because the Christian tilos is to have children it doesn't mean the only way you can live a Christian life is with children. So that's something to
04:39:42
Jim Bobto sort of explore with the priest. But the you know the priest is basically an office seat holder to explore the the Christian paradigm. So I feel like that's also a conversation like what
04:39:54
Jim Bobwould you say? Say do the hypothetical again. It's my wife who wants kids. Not necessarily your wife but like she wants biological kids, right?
04:40:08
Jim BobI would go biological. Okay. Yeah. I would just I don't even know if I could root it in something other than
04:40:19
Jim Bobum like a preference even maybe to just want your own blood, you know, multiply. That's also a conversation you should have before getting married. Mhm. Like committing your whole life to someone
04:40:31
Tyenawithout knowing what life commitments they also want outside of a marriage. Like that's something you should What if he changes his mind and now they're married and under this world view like
04:40:41
Jim Bobdivorce would would divorce be acceptable under this circumstance or no? Oh, no. I don't think No, divorce is uh the last thing you you'd want to
04:40:52
Brian Atlashappen. Okay. Huh. But like the woman wants biological children. Mhm. Yeah. I think they should shame the man. I think the man should be shamed. Yeah, I think