She Called Him FAT?! If Men SHOULD Take A Bullet For Her, What SHOULD Women Do?! | Dating Talk #241
Date: 2025-05-05
Duration: 6h 36m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_03Lily Kate(guest)
SPEAKER_04Callie(guest)
SPEAKER_05Nadia(guest)
SPEAKER_06Tyena(guest)
SPEAKER_07Christina Jones(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_10Jim Bob(guest)
SPEAKER_11Savannah Craven-Ental(guest)
SPEAKER_12Reagan Gagos(guest)
SPEAKER_13Roxy (Beijing)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Lily (UCSB)(guest)
Key Moments
00:03:24
IntroAll 10 guests introduced including 2 Chinese exchange students and pro-life activist
00:21:12
Key MomentSavannah: punched in face during pro-life outreach, needed stitches
01:48:00
ControversyBrian: would NOT take a bullet for wife. Would use her as meat shield. Children > parents > wife.
03:18:10
Key MomentLily Kate: fake-dated Jojo Siwa's brother for social media content. Lost hundreds of thousands of followers going conservative.
03:27:37
Key MomentCallie: pregnant at 15, walked into abortion clinic, chose open adoption after someone told her about it
05:34:48
Key MomentChristina vs Brian: tension over perceived fat-shaming and weight comments throughout the night
Topics Discussed
00:03:24
Guest Introductions
10 guests including 2 Chinese exchange students, pro-life activist Savannah, and Jim Bob.
00:21:12
Savannah Punched During Outreach
Punched in face by pro-abortion woman during Live Action event. Needed stitches.
00:23:24
Marriage and Biblical Submission
Christian vs secular marriage frameworks. Jim Bob's triangle model.
00:39:00
Feminism Critique
Lily Kate writing '100 Ways Feminism Is a Failure.' Suffragettes as destructive.
01:48:00
Should Men Take a Bullet
Brian: would NOT die for wife. Would use her as meat shield. Rank: children > parents > wife.
02:24:00
Race/Racism/White Privilege
Christina: white people can't experience racism. Savannah pushes back citing Irish/Slavic enslavement.
03:04:51
AI Aging/Gender Swap
AI photos of all guests.
05:16:30
Body Count Round
Nadia: 8 (4M/4W). Reagan: 5. Lily UCSB: 0 (virgin).
Transcript
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02:49:04
Brian Atlasever have from the white community because I don't fit into the black community. I I have a question here. Do you believe in reparations? Should black people be paid reparations?
02:49:19
Savannah Craven-EntalDamn, you're such a racist. What the heck? No or yes. Wait, can I have $5? How much did she get? Should I just get half of what a fully black person should get? Right. That
02:49:30
Savannah Craven-Entalmeans I got to give No, no. You don't want to give them reparations for slavery cuz my ancestors maybe were enslaved, but I'm not really sure. Wait, so yes or no?
02:49:41
Brian AtlasNo. I don't know. I've never thought of it. Okay. Part of the Black Lives Matter movement or whatever you were doing. the cuz I think you could maybe give her a couple
02:49:53
Brian Atlasbucks. Yeah, you could give her some help me get back to my where I'm staying. We should ask the Chinese women uh what they think about all this. Are
02:50:02
Lily (UCSB)there black people in China? They said it all. It's a good question. Like Yeah. Are there are there black people in China? Um maybe in those big
02:50:15
Savannah Craven-Entalcities. Big cities. I was gonna say like big cities. I don't think I mean maybe this sounds bad. I don't think that's like the first place a black person would choose to go on vacation.
02:50:27
Jim BobSorry. I mean, uh, okay. I just want to add one more thing. You said she's not defending her half black persona. There's you're split personality now.
02:50:39
Jim BobThere's a white you and a black. But just I would say that I would say it's the opposite. She the first the first step toward loving black people is listing the facts and facing the truth
02:50:51
Jim Boband then you could actually work on something but coddling and saying uh scapegoat blame scapegoat we'll give you more money uh blame other you know let's figure it out. She's saying, "No, let's
02:51:02
Jim Boblook at the stats. Let's look at what's going on. Let's what look what's causing it. And instead of blaming people, are you willing to fix it?" If they say no, if fixing it uh means doing it yourself,
02:51:14
Tyenaif that's the answer, you can't be helped. I'm sorry. There's no helping. To take it even a step further, I feel like the whole race argument in itself is a distraction. I feel like it's something that government and high the
02:51:27
Tyenapeople in control use to pin us against each other because it's easier to do the crappy things they want to do to us if they keep us fighting and against each other and keep paying attention to that crap like oh do you prefer to date white
02:51:40
Brian Atlasguys? Do you prefer to date black guys? Who cares? I want a good man. I do got to move it on a bit but uh I want to uh the the two women from uh China. Can you
02:51:49
Brian Atlasguys tell us how dating works in China? How dating works? How it work? Is it diff? Well, you guys
02:51:59
Lily (UCSB)haven't dated here. So, but like how does it work? Um, I found it interesting cuz people
02:52:09
Lily (UCSB)here just stay first and know each other better. Is that am I right? Yeah. For the most part. Yeah. But in China, maybe
02:52:20
Lily (UCSB)Oh, maybe I have a friend and she is my friend of my friend. Oh, I I see. Wow, this guy is a little cute and I should
02:52:29
Jim Bobtext him. Maybe I can be friends with him first and then date. So, no swipe culture, swipe left, swipe right. Do you
02:52:41
Lily (UCSB)guys use that a lot? I heard I cuz actually someone use that but we you don't those are for the lower class
02:52:50
Jim Bobpeople. Um that's weird. So weird. You're weird. Why are you so weird? I'm just wondering if is it a class thing like do do cuz
02:53:00
Jim Bobthe thing is like if your culture is get to know people you know maybe maybe there's a class issue there. I I'm I think classism is a real thing that you can't deny exists in any culture. Like
02:53:12
Jim Bobso I'm just wondering is there is there differences in who uses apps and who doesn't use apps? Okay. Actually most uh
02:53:21
Lily (UCSB)in my mind just just in my mind most people like uh about
02:53:27
Lily (UCSB)17% they they do swipe the data for sex you know. Oh okay. Is it true that um
02:53:37
Lily Kateprostitution is not considered cheating in China or is that Japan? I think that's Japan. Does that does it bleed over though?
02:53:47
Brian Atlas[Music] Uh actually it's not. No. Yeah. Wait, prostitution is not cheating or um I
02:53:59
Savannah Craven-Entalthink it doesn't bleed over like Oh, okay. Yeah. selling yourself like somebody a man pays you to have sex with him. Uh is that a thing? Is that a thing? Isn't that what it is?
02:54:12
Lily (UCSB)I mean, I'm sure it's a thing, but they look down in those uh in those country like uh like Indonesia and Thailand or
02:54:21
Lily (UCSB)something. But yeah, but um but actually it's not so so it's illegal here. It's
02:54:34
Lily (UCSB)illegal. It's already illegal and we we couldn't I know it's we have we have things like this but uh we can see it in
02:54:43
Lily (UCSB)the real life. They just they just how do you say that? Hide it. Like behind us. Yeah. Yeah. Mhm. In the
02:54:52
Brian Atlasshadows. Mhm. Okay. Uh let's see here. We are going to once she's back from back there, we're going to get into our
02:55:02
Brian Atlasnext question. So, uh, but while we're waiting for her, we have, uh, Tana, Tana, Tyena, Tyena, sorry. It's okay.
02:55:13
Brian AtlasYou said that, uh, from the episodes you've seen so far, the girls are usually young, confused, and lack any form of opinion on real issues. These are the same girls who claim to be
02:55:25
Brian Atlasfeminists with such strong views on equality and don't believe in gender roles. Recently, you saw an episode with two girls talking about how they agree with submission, but because they were much more vocal with their opinions. The host called The Masculine. It drove you
02:55:37
Brian Atlasnuts. You finally see two women who understand the role women play in a relationship and vocalized it, and they were referred to as masculine. So confused. Can you specify uh like what episode it was? I can't even remember
02:55:49
Tyenacuz that was a few weeks ago actually. That was like the end of March when I speak. You're like hiding behind the mic. You Yeah. Yeah. That was like the end of March when I reached out about the show, but um Okay. But I still agree
02:56:02
Tyenawith what I said. Like every time I watch, I mean, I still see a lot of the same. Granted, this has been a very different experience, you know, but um I feel like, you know, maturity comes with age. And if you if I would have been on this show at that age, I would sound
02:56:14
Brian Atlastotally different. I probably would have sounded more similar to the girls that I see. Uh, Stiffler says, "Ask everyone to rate
02:56:23
Brian Atlastheir own looks on a scale of one to 10. You can't pick seven." Starting with you. Go ahead. Five. Five. Okay. What about you?
02:56:36
TyenaSix. Six. Five. Six. Six. Girls, what's up? I'm an eight.
02:56:49
Jim BobFive. 6.5. Jim Bob, would you 6.97?
02:56:58
Lily KateI give myself a five. That's pretty This is honestly, man. Low self-esteem group here. We're humble. This is like pretty reasonable.
02:57:08
Christina JonesYou wanted to say 10, though. Be honest. No. Okay. I mean, what it depends on the day. It depends on how I'm feeling internally. And everybody's beautiful in
02:57:20
Christina Jonestheir own way. Like, I look like the girl that dates the black guys. I'm the one that they want in the music videos. I'm the curvy girl. So, soiety. Society. Yeah. The
02:57:32
Jim Bobdoors that open for me, they think I'm a 8 to 10. I think we should think I'm an 8 to 10. I think we should celebrate that. No one said everyone's a 10. Yeah. I mean, I was about to say nobody.
02:57:43
Christina JonesNobody. But beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I can look at her and think you're gorgeous and somebody else could think that you're not. I think you're beautiful. I think every woman in this I
02:57:54
Tyenadon't think I mean I I don't think women should be putting each other down. Yeah. But I think we should hold each other accountable. Sure, girl. Accountability.
02:58:05
TyenaHave y'all heard of White Kia? Yall heard that? Oh my gosh. White Kia. M holding each other accountable like being realistic be it's it's not to people think that holding each other accountable means like you have to [ __ ] on the next person no like you can be
02:58:18
Jim Bobhonest and not be rude or mean just be honest how do you approach this is for any of you how do you approach a friend of yours who's a female who might not know it but maybe needs your confronting
02:58:31
Jim Bobher on let's say her health and her weight. How do you approach that? Oh so no go right ahead. You got it, boo.
02:58:40
Lily KateOh. Um, I go to the heart issue. I I immediately go and I say, "Do you feel good about yourself?" Honestly, I'm not going to weigh my opinion. Usually, if
02:58:51
Lily Katewe can get her to a place where she's able to be vulnerable, she'll say, "Not really." And I'll say, "Okay, what's going on there? What emotionally is going on to stop you from being better?"
02:59:01
Lily KateSo, it's it is about approaching them in a way that they feel like safe enough to open up to you. And I know that's like such liberal language I'm using, but it really is. I mean, with emotional issues
02:59:13
Lily Katelike that, you have to have them trust you first. And then you also have to know that they're not going to just turn around and bite you um if you do bring it up, you know. So, it it it the person
02:59:25
Nadiahas to have generally the humility to be approachable. You were going to For me, I feel like um personally, I'm going through my own health journey. Um I've dropped some weight and that all
02:59:38
Nadiacomes from me wanting to just feel better and all of that. So, um I actually do have a friend who um I've had to have this conversation with and it was very much before I don't want her to feel like I'm attacking her. It was very much I use myself as an example.
02:59:51
NadiaI'm like, you know, since I've been eating better, since I've been working out, implementing this, this, that, and the third, I feel so much better, you know? And then I feel like well when I brought it up she was very much like oh yeah you know um I want to do this. I'm
03:00:03
Nadialike yeah it's more of a I want to motivate you if you're my best friend if you're my friend. It's more like all right cool. So when do you have time during the week? Um let's do this. Let's go work out. Let's do this. Um hold each other kind of accountable accountable of like what we ate for the day you know.
03:00:16
NadiaUm and it ultimately close off with you know I love you. This this is not coming from a hurtful place. This is very much I want better for us. creating an environment where they can feel loved
03:00:25
Jim Bobeven when they fall short. Who who here would call uh obesity beautiful?
03:00:37
Brian AtlasWhy would any Oh, going around the table. Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time? Better looking. I'm in my prime. In your prime. So that's a no.
03:00:49
Christina JonesWhat about you? Mhm. You're 40, better looking at 50. I'll have my first mini facelift by then, so I'll probably about the same. About the same at 50. Okay,
03:00:58
Brian Atlasfair. Oh, uh, actually, wait. H, going back to you. Oh gosh. If we go back 10 years, are you better looking now at 29 than you were at 19? I
03:01:10
Brian Atlasthink so. I was way too skinny. Too skinny. Yeah, I really was. Yeah, I agree. Uh, and then you're 40. Were you better looking at 30? No, I'm better looking now. Better looking now.
03:01:21
Lily KateAnd then what about 20? Better looking at 20. Better looking now. Okay. You're uh 23, better looking in 10 years time. Who is asking? Society or my husband
03:01:31
Lily Katemaybe in 10 years? Uh let's just say society. Why not? Um if I take care of myself, then I could look equally as
03:01:39
Lily Kategood. Okay. What about 20 years time? In 20 years. Yeah. Um same answer. if I take care of myself well, but probably with a downward trend. Okay. All right.
03:01:52
Lily (UCSB)Uh, you're 20. Do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time at 30? Well, I would like to say I'm good. I'm
03:02:02
Lily (UCSB)better now. But if 10 years passed and I would like to say uh I was uh I'm better at that time. So, it depends on the time
03:02:12
Lily (UCSB)I'm in now. Yeah. I'm always good now. You're good now. Yes. But will you be better more attractive?
03:02:23
Lily (UCSB)More attractive. Better looking. Better in 10 years thinking. Uh maybe. But but actually it depends on
03:02:33
Lily (UCSB)my own think about that. Yeah. Because I'm better now. But if if I was uh if I
03:02:40
Lily (UCSB)am 30 now, I would like to say I'm better when I would when I am 30. Okay. Yeah. All right. Well, in the next 10 years, I'll
03:02:51
Savannah Craven-Entalprobably have a kid or two. Things might get a little saggy, stretch out a little bit. So, I would say I probably would look better now than in 10 years. But
03:03:01
Roxy (Beijing)Sure. What about you? Uh, I would say I think I'm look better looking now. You'll be okay. What about you?
03:03:12
Tyena10 years. So, you're 33. Better looking at 43. No, you age. But I don't I'm not going to be a dog. Like, but I you know, you you age, so you're going it's not going to And then uh
03:03:24
Tyenayou're 33. Were you better looking at 23 or better looking now? H I mean society would probably say then but personally I feel like as a woman I
03:03:36
Calliefeel like after I had kids and I grew up I feel like I like how my body changed more. Okay. Uh you're 40 better looking in 10 years time at 50. I mean it it's obvious that we we're all going to age.
03:03:49
CallieI mean physically if you're looking at it from a secular stance obviously I'm not going to be better looking than I am like right now. So, okay. Yeah. And then, uh, better looking now at 40 or
03:04:01
Callieversus 30. Probably 30. And then 20. Better at 20 or 30? Um, 20. I tanned a lot. So, I was
03:04:11
Nadialike really orange. So, I would say 30. Yeah. Okay. Sure. What about you? Um, you're 30 looking in 10 years at 40. I would like to say yes only because
03:04:22
Nadialooking back at my mother, she ate it up. All right. At 40, she that woman a model. Okay. 20 years time 50. 20. No, it's a wrap at 20. 20 more years.
03:04:33
Brian AtlasAnd then uh at 30 uh going back 10 years, better looking at 20 or better looking now at 30. No, now at 30. Now
03:04:42
Brian Atlas30. Okay. We have some uh we used AI, artificial intelligence to age, advance all of you.
03:04:53
TyenaAnd if I look like a dog, I'm going to be a liar. This is going to be funny. You ready? It depends on the photo.
03:05:04
Reagan GagosOh, okay. Here's the first one. That's crazy. Oh,
03:05:11
Savannah Craven-Entalthat's not even the same person, right? Um, no. Okay. My grandma doesn't look like that. My mom didn't look like that.
03:05:24
TyenaThe second one doesn't look that bad. Hair and all that. All right, let's do go next. See you. No, that's not accurate. What do you mean? There's no have plastic surgery. That's crazy.
03:05:35
CallieYeah, she would never look like the second one at like 80. That's crazy. Why did your face shrink? Everything just right inside. That would never Why does it look like
03:05:48
Jim Bobyou? That would never be. Yeah. That's crazy. Oh gosh. Can you make them a little bigger? Just control mouse wheel in on those. Can you go back to that, Brian, for a second? Yeah. I wanted to ask her in the middle one, would you be
03:06:00
Christina Jonesokay looking like that or would you force surgery? I would do surgery. Really? Why? Why? I think she's cute. You look really trusty. You look good. Yeah. Yeah. But you guys understand that
03:06:11
Christina JonesI'm in the entertainment industry. It's very hard. Wait, do you do sex work? No. Have you ever done sex work? No. Oh, okay. No, I've never been a sugar baby. I've never sold anything for sex in my life.
03:06:23
Christina JonesNo, but I live in Hollywood. It's a very different life, especially moving there from the Midwest. Like, have you had any plastic surgery? I have. Botox or Yep. What? What? How many CC? What is it?
03:06:35
Christina JonesCc's, milliliters, what they use? I don't know. I just had preventative breast implants. It's units. How many units of Botox have you had? I don't know. I get preventative Botox. Wait.
03:06:47
Christina JonesPreventative. Yeah, it's small. It's microtox. Preventative. That's the whole point of getting it young. Micro what? To prevent the aging. Microtox.
03:06:56
Jim BobMicrotax. Tox. Tasks. Tox. Talks. T. Microtox. Mhm. But in acting, this is this is my problem with actors getting it stuff with their face is like there
03:07:08
Christina Jonesis a point where you can't properly emote. Like in acting you have to be able to make an ugly face. That's why you have to find the right injector. It's not You're not supposed to be frozen. Wait, hold on. Cuz that
03:07:20
Christina Joneswill happen. Yeah. Nicole Kidman looks pretty Oh god. If you go to the wrong person, you will. Yeah. Raise your eyebrows. I'm not frozen at all.
03:07:32
Christina JonesYeah. So, you still have nice smile lines and stuff. I'm not frozen. You have to I've picked my people well and
03:07:39
Jim BobI've Nice. I know what I'm looking for. Really? Wait, that is so not accurate. Lord, help me. No one would want to do me now. Casserole from that woman.
03:07:52
Lily KateYou'll get it. I'll bring it to the church function. Green bean casserole. It is. At least happy. At least I look happy. Yeah. Me after my 10 kids. It'll be awesome. Holy [ __ ] Oh my god. 10.
03:08:05
Savannah Craven-EntalHoly [ __ ] Okay. You look better than me. All right. [ __ ] All right. The next one's not going to be accurate cuz like Asians don't age, right? Like you're going to look like
03:08:17
Jim Bobthis for the rest of your life. Yeah. She's like, that's true. They have to alter this program for Wait, hold on. She's going to be the middle one. Wait, she's going to be white. That's what I'm saying.
03:08:28
Brian AtlasYeah, you look She's white. You look white. They do that to you, too. The last one you look like old white lady. Whoever did this AI Oh my god. I need to have my team. They
03:08:41
Brian Atlasneed to do it different. We got to change change it up a little bit. It's too It's too exaggerated, I think. Right. Oh gosh. Next. You look really Oh no. Yeah.
03:08:53
Christina JonesThat will not be you with half black. That will not be you. Go back to the black don't crack. Asian don't raise. That's a [ __ ] Hold on. We're being haunted by an AI ghost that's white.
03:09:05
Lily KateYou look like your name would change into something. a lot of blush on and the way they match the top of the hair. Horrendous. That won't you even Wait, but the middle one is actually I would trust her with the middle one I feel like is accurate. The middle one is what
03:09:18
Tyenayou will look like at 85. The middle one you look like the middle one. You look like a very nice Dominican one. I'm pushing at that point.
03:09:28
TyenaAll right. Uh let's see. The middle one is so cute. The third is a fluke. The middle one is so cute. the
03:09:39
Tyenasame. They just put it on a different place. Oh my god, I'm scared. Nice. Embrace yourself. I'm going to look like a dog in the last one.
03:09:50
TyenaLet's do uh next. Soccer mom vibes. I love how so happy and like trustworthy. My grandmother don't even look like that. That's crazy. Happy. No. Wait. No.
03:10:04
CallieThat's awesome. You look really You look really good. Mhm. Yeah, I'm going to hold myself accountable here. She still has the beanie. The beanie. I don't even think I'm going
03:10:15
Callieto get that old. Like even today, people don't even get that old anymore. Yes. They don't. Not really. Just die. What are you talking about? I mean, because when I was doing long-term care, I mean,
03:10:25
Calliea a lot of people now are dying a lot younger, like maybe 65, 70. It's true. I mean, that right there would be like a hundred. The third lady smokes two packs a day. Yeah. Like
03:10:38
Reagan Gagosnot drinking water. Never used moisturizer. And I will say the Asians that have taken care of mentally. Prep me for that. Hold on. No, you look so cute. Like
03:10:52
Lily Katethe second one. I'm still eating up a little bit. The third one. Let's do that. All right. That's funny. Let's uh let's do next. [Music] You look like Did they do you spent all
03:11:04
Tyenathe time in the I feel like this is the middle one. The middle one. The one on the end. It's like the old angry old man yelling at
03:11:13
Tyenathe kid on his yard. Get off my lawn. All right. Next. Whoa. [Laughter] I don't know about that. Not accurate.
03:11:24
Christina JonesMm- Wow. Damn. The middle and the last one. It's the same. She went from like 20. Oh my gosh. Oh.
03:11:35
Brian AtlasHi. Who's that? This is podcast 47. This is like 10. This is a 10year-old. We need to updated old. Yeah. Aging's a
03:11:48
Savannah Craven-Ental[ __ ] right? Yeah. Do you think you'll still be doing the podcast when you look like third one? Nah. I think it'd be pretty entertaining, actually. Crazy.
03:11:58
Brian AtlasAll right. Uh, wait. Uh, is there a next or this is the last one of these? The last one. Okay. Oh, and then the next thing we have is we changed your gender.
03:12:12
Brian AtlasYou're gonna tell me if you would date the male version of you. Okay. No, I know some of you are in relationships. Hypothetical if you were
03:12:23
Reagan Gagossingle. All right. Uh go ahead and uh pull it up. That looks not bad. That looks just like my brother. No way. No
03:12:34
Brian Atlasway. You look like you're in the military. Can you zoom it out? And a boy band. You lost a beard, though. Oh my god. No.
03:12:44
Brian AtlasAll right. Uh, let's see. Next. [Applause]
03:12:54
Christina JonesI know that's your If I liked white boys. Yes. Okay. Queen. Can we put a Wait. Yeah. Wait. Wait. Wait. Put a black filter on. Can somebody make black? You can't do
03:13:06
Brian Atlasblackface. Wait, can somebody make this make him black? Let's see. Do somebody do the AI thing. Um, yeah, I'd be interested in Wait, but would you date yourself? Oh my
03:13:17
Reagan Gagosgod. No, I only date white boys. No. I see. Okay. All right. Uh, okay. We would never have to fight with them. Yeah, I know. Ready, set, go. I'm so nervous. Next.
03:13:29
Savannah Craven-EntalOh my gosh. Not bad. Honestly, he looks like a super happy guy though. He looks like a science communicator. Looks a little feminine. Go back. Go back. Go back. So, I actually have
03:13:41
Lily Kateworked with someone kind of like that and giving that guy that guy likes men. No, definitely. And yeah, probably not too too.
03:13:55
Lily KateYeah. Hey, sisters. I don't think so. Not chiseled masculine enough. All right, we'll do the next one. Uh,
03:14:07
Brian Atlaswow. It's like a Japanese boy. I see. Would you date the male version of you?
03:14:17
Lily (UCSB)Uh, maybe the second one, but definitely not the third one. I don't really have facial hair. You don't like facial hair. Sorry. Like Asian people don't really have facial hair. The beard. Not just
03:14:28
Lily (UCSB)just my my side of it. Yeah. No beard. Okay, cool. Uh, next. Nope. No. Not happening. Not bad
03:14:38
Savannah Craven-Entallooking. He looks like a jerk. Typical light skin. I would date you.
03:14:50
TyenaThe curly hair though. I like the curly hair. Crazy. You know who You know who it looks like on the end? Russell Wilson with hair. Do you know the football player? Sierra's husband. Sierra's
03:15:02
Tyenahusband on the end with a beard. Oh my gosh. Not now. You're beautiful. Wait, is this Wait, do you see the super chat here? Is that your boyfriend? You see this guy right here? Would you date this
03:15:12
Tyenaguy? Oh my god. You see him sungass? I I can't really see him. He's a black guy, I think. Well, he has nice. Yeah, he's black. The only criteria I'm sure she looks
03:15:25
Brian Atlasfor. Yeah. Uh, all right. Next. Still cute.
03:15:35
Roxy (Beijing)Would you uh would you date him? Probably. Yes. [Music] I'm scared. What? But do you prefer the
03:15:46
Brian Atlasmiddle? You prefer the middle? Oh, yeah. The middle. the middle. Okay, got it. All right. Uh, let's do next.
03:15:55
TyenaOh, hell no. Hell no. Hell no. Absolutely not. He's definitely not straight. That's for sure. Not straight. It's a hard no. Hard no.
03:16:09
TyenaThat's cute. That's cute. He's got some real sugar in his He's got sugar in his tank for sure. The last one. I've never heard that.
03:16:21
CallieNow you have sassy. I knew a guy who looked like that. Would you date him? No. Definitely not. My husband is German and he's like really tall and like Yeah.
03:16:30
NadiaNo. All right. I see. I looked horrible. That's not bad. That's not bad at all. Everybody says I just I see I see younger dad. So I I see my father scary.
03:16:43
NadiaSo because of that, I'm going to have to say no. I'm not saying I can't get women, but not now not me. Of course. Of course. All right. Uh, let's do next.
03:16:53
Jim BobWow. Wow. Well, you look really good. Okay. That maybe when I was younger, that would be the crazy girl that you That ends It all ends really. No, you
03:17:03
Savannah Craven-Entalactually look so toxic, but gorgeous. That's a hair that you got makeup, right? And like look at your how they made your outfit. It's crazy. All right, next.
03:17:16
Brian AtlasFelicity. They did you dirty? Definitely not straight. Definitely eats avocado.
03:17:24
Savannah Craven-EntalThey did the Aaron Carter. Yeah. All right, let's definitely can. Oh, you look emo on the right. Scary. You look like a transgender on the
03:17:36
Tyenaright. So beautiful. But on the left is nice. Thank you. Appreciate it. too. On the left is kind of giving like young Amanda Bines. I look like
03:17:46
Jim Boba Marilyn Manson. Yeah. On the right. Wait, why did you change like skin tones? Different pictures. Okay. Uh the middle one on the left though, that's
03:17:56
Savannah Craven-Entallike PTA allstar mom. She's everywhere. Soccer mom vibes. What's that meme? The wojack. The wife. The wjack. Yeah, the wife jack. Yeah, you're the wife jack. Were there any more? Did we get the
03:18:08
Brian Atlasblack AI? Can you check check the Discord? We have the black AI. Ship clip it and ship it. All right. Uh let's see here. Uh
03:18:21
Brian Atlasuh getting back to the show notes though, while we're waiting on that, we have Lily. That's you just like looking
03:18:31
Lily Katearound. Uh you dated Jojo Siwa's brother for a while. Lol. What's the story? I started doing YouTube videos when I was 16, 17, 18 and I grew a channel and I
03:18:44
Lily Katewas at um this conference called Playlist Live. Met her older brother and he is like a male version of her and we
03:18:53
Lily Katefake dated for a year. Um I fell in love with my neighbor back home. Did not want to keep him around. Really nice family, but I kind of broke it off with him because I felt like I was leading him
03:19:06
Lily Kateon. um so crazy one year before she came out as gay. And I'm very glad that I didn't continue a relationship with him because I would have had to make a very public
03:19:19
Lily Katetough decision cuz I'm not going to be associated with people who support gay marriage and things like that. Um especially as vocal as the family is now. I mean, her hair is like freaking
03:19:29
Reagan Gagoslike But did you see she also said she she's not gay? Oh, really? That reality TV show. Yeah. On Yeah. She was like, I thought that I'm whatever the hell she Wait, when you said a fake relationship,
03:19:41
Lily Katenot like a contractual entertainment. No, no, no. It was just for social media and for videos cuz I had a policy with myself. I'd gotten out of a kind of weird high school situationship and I was like, "Well, I need to know the
03:19:52
Lily Kateperson for a year before I date them." And I told him that and he was so sweet. He said, "I'll be here when you're ready to decide." And then through that year, we would make content, you know, surprising my girlfriend in Vegas, surprising my boyfriend at blah blah
03:20:04
Lily Kateblah, all that kind of stuff. and it was really sweet and it was really fun. Um, but yeah, it wasn't it wasn't ever real. Um, and then it kind of got up to the time where I was supposed to make my decision and um, yeah, didn't didn't
03:20:16
Lily Katewant to continue. When that ends, do you tell the audiences it wasn't real or how does that work? No, we just let it fade away. Um, oh, we're not we're not together anymore, different lifestyles. And then actually two months after I had made that decision, co happened and so I
03:20:28
Lily Katewas back home in Texas. Um, and so it was kind of a series of of decisions that put me into conservative politics as well. I'd always been Christian, always been conservative. And the guy that I I ended up choosing over the
03:20:39
Lily Katebrother was um I was thinking to myself, what life could this neighbor guy give me? And it'll be family, church, community, homeschooling our kids, all the things that I wanted. And I think
03:20:50
Lily Katethe relationship with Jojo's brother was one of, you know, very sparkly reality TV shows. You'd get everything materially you'd ever want. But I knew at like I don't even know how old I was,
03:21:02
Lily Kate18, 17, 18, that that just wasn't the right lifestyle for me. So that's why I chose to leave that whole world. And through that transition from doing YouTube lifestyle content to doing um
03:21:13
Lily Kateconservative politics, I actually lost like hundreds of thousands of followers um over time. And I'm only it took about two and a half years to really filter them all out. And then I'm on TikTok account number five, I think, um just
03:21:25
Lily Katebecause it keeps getting banned. So yeah, that's a one thing about my story. It's kind of fun. The family was very good to me, though. I have nothing really bad to say about them. Um,
03:21:35
Brian Atlasthey're very, very generous people. Okay, nice. Um, you had a uh Oh, this is another one that's interesting. You had a I think a video about taking a guy's last
03:21:47
Lily Katename. Uh, what's your position on that? I'm don't know which video you're talking about, but I'm very much in support of taking men's last names. Um, I'm probably the video you're talking about is me acting like a feminist with
03:21:59
Lily Katethat blue hair filter saying, "I'm not going to take my husband's last name. I'm going to keep my maiden name." And then the real me comes back and goes, "Oh, so your father's last name." And then the feminist say, "No, no, I'm going to keep my mom's maiden name." And
03:22:12
Lily KateI'm like, "Oh, so your grandfather's last name." And there's really just no way you can get away from men's last names. Yep. Unless you just change it completely. So, okay. Uh, let's see. You also
03:22:25
Brian Atlasuh oh, I think this was a tweet of yours. Don't girl boss your life away before realizing feminism is a scam. What does that mean? It means don't fall for the lie that you need to give your most
03:22:38
Lily Katebeautiful, fertile, exciting years of your life to a corporation that deems you as completely replaceable. um before you realize that the whole idea behind feminism is not only to get a doubly
03:22:49
Lily Katetaxable population but to funnel women out of the home so that they the government can have more control over your children. That's what it means. Yeah. Cool. Uh
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03:24:17
Brian Atlasout. And TTS is 200. Read is 100. Okay, back to the notes here. Want to bring it over to Calie. Callie, you write. You have many unique dating stories. To
03:24:30
Brian Atlasbegin with, your first serious boyfriend got you pregnant at a as a very young teen. Yep. when I was 15. Um, he got me pregnant and basically, long story short, I ended up walking into an abortion center and I was going to
03:24:41
Calliechoose abortion, but I ended up choosing adoption. Somebody outside the abortion center uh told me about the option of open adoption. So, okay. Y
03:24:51
Brian Atlasum you're But you're not with him, right? The guy that's um How old was he? I think he was like 17 at the time.
03:25:01
Brian AtlasOkay. So, you guys were like high school together. Okay. Yeah. Uh let's see. You said uh for some reason your notes didn't pop
03:25:10
Brian Atlasup for me properly. Uh you said women why women and men should stop settling. What do you mean? I basically I I feel
03:25:20
Callielike today like in our dating culture, you know, I feel like women are not just settling but men are too. Um and that can be for a lot of reasons. I don't remember saying that though. Oh, okay.
03:25:34
Brian AtlasYeah. Um, you also wrote, "You appreciate that the host often remains neutral on many topics. Do I?" Uh, which creates space for discussion. However, there are times he seems very biased,
03:25:44
Brian Atlasespecially in conversations about women's roles, faith, or parenting. I'd welcome a healthy debate on those areas. Uh, were there were there any specific disagreements you had or uh you you're
03:25:57
Jim Bobyou said you weren't a Christian, right? I didn't know like I didn't know that. So, okay. Yeah, probably the meat shield thing. Probably the meat shield, which by the way emoji. Can you get in a meat
03:26:07
Brian Atlasshield emoji for the chat? It offends the vegans. Yeah. Yeah. I think uh I didn't really I I don't think I got a good answer from anybody by the way on
03:26:19
Brian Atlasthat one. Why should men die anyways? Whatever. All right. Put them to the slaughter. Totally cool. Uh all right.
03:26:29
Brian AtlasUh, were there any other things that you wanted to touch on or um, not that I can think of. Okay. Well, I can come back if anything. I would love to touch on the topic of abortion, but
03:26:40
CallieI think everyone here probably Well, most people here maybe agree with you. I don't know. Is everybody here pro-live? No, there's probably one or two who are I had to change into Yeah. to that
03:26:51
Brian Atlasmindset. Pro-choice or if uh here we'll do this time permitting. If there's time at the end, we can touch on that. Uh, okay. Reagan. Oh, boy. All right. Let's
03:27:03
Brian Atlassee. What do you have to say here? Uh, did you Wait. Trying to see the notes for some reason. Okay. You're Catholic. Are you
03:27:14
Brian Atlaswaiting until marriage to have cardinal knowledge? That was a joke. Oh, that you're Catholic.
03:27:24
Reagan GagosNo, no, I thought you were saying for the dues, so I was joking with you. I was a virgin. No, but you could not be a virgin and
03:27:36
Brian Atlasstill be like, "Well, now I want to wait until marriage." I mean, like, sounds like a No. Yeah, it's okay. Uh, you said you went on a date with a transgender.
03:27:48
Brian AtlasYou didn't even say woman, you just said a transgender. a transgender. So, was it a a transgender woman or a transgender man?
03:27:58
Reagan GagosSo, it was a man to a woman. I remember. So, was it it was a transgender woman? Yes. Okay. So, are you by Oh my god. No. I didn't realize it was a date until I was in it.
03:28:09
Reagan GagosSo, I befriended them at this rave. I could tell that they were kind of like by themselves. No one was really engaging with them. Me being Reagan, I went up, commented that I love their Chemical Romance sweater, and we just
03:28:22
Reagan Gagoshung out all night. And then we added each other on Instagram, and then we met up for drinks. And then I finally had that aha moment where I was like, "Oh,
03:28:33
Reagan Gagosthis person's into me and thinks like cuz I'm very friendly that they probably thought I was flirting." Um, so yeah, that was very eye opening
03:28:42
Reagan Gagosfor me because of my uh political stance. A lot of people back home think I hate transgender people and that I
03:28:53
Reagan Gagoshave a thing against immigrants or whatever when I No, not at all. Like I You don't have a thing against immigrants? Do you have a thing for immigrants?
03:29:04
Brian AtlasYeah, maybe. So do I. Are you are you No, no, no. I was born in Boise, Idaho. Oh, okay. Wait. So, but okay. You're on this date with a trans So, it's a transgender
03:29:16
Reagan Gagoswoman. Yeah. And so, then I ended up just asking a lot of questions because like for me, I think that's a little crazy and whatnot to just want to completely change your gender. So, I was
03:29:29
Reagan Gagosjust asking them about it. They were really open-minded. They were willing to ask all my questions. And then yeah, we left it at at that. I haven't seen them since, but we're still friends.
03:29:42
Brian AtlasOkay. It wasn't like a full-fledged relationship. It was No, no, no, no. You initially knew they were transgender. Yeah. Okay. Are there transgenders in China?
03:29:54
Roxy (Beijing)Lady Boys. Lady Boys. That's Thailand. That's Thailand. I thought that was a Philippines. Maybe maybe have but yeah I don't know um it's very
03:30:05
Brian Atlasum it's not it's not common not common. Okay, got it. Okay. Uh you said also uh for you you don't use dating apps
03:30:16
Brian Atlasanymore because the one time the one time you use Tinder you went on a date with a uh grapist saer so you refuse to
03:30:25
Jim Bobuse them anymore. Damn. That's okay. Was that in their bio or was it in the bio? How did you find out? Getting catfished
03:30:34
Reagan Gagosa lot. You don't even know. Um, so um, are we dating the same guy? He actually brought up the post about him essaying women and I was like, wait, what? And
03:30:46
Reagan Gagosthen I looked into it and he has multiple things in another state. So I ran real quick. Good for you. Oh, wait. He has like cases. Yeah. So, he assaulted women in other states. And I
03:30:59
Reagan Gagosshould have known it was a red flag when he's like, "I hate cops, blah blah blah. Here's all my trauma." And I'm like, "What? What was his bio?" Oh, boy. I
03:31:09
Reagan Gagoslike it when they call me big papa. Oh, no. And you were like, "You That's the one." He was a Thai boy that hunted. So, I was like, I got my strong
03:31:20
Reagan Gagosdominant man and I was like, "Oh, no. Not the right kind." Huh. Wow. Um, that's a lot. You can't make this [ __ ] up. Was he a white? It was a white guy, you said. Yeah, I said
03:31:32
Reagan GagosI only like white guys. Yeah, you only like white guys. Okay, makes sense. Uh, okay. Good times. Big Papa though. That's kind of weird from a white guy. Were you going on a date just to give him a chance? Like just Yeah, cuz I
03:31:43
Reagan Gagoscanceled on him before and then um during the date he's like, "Yeah, I thought you canled and stopped talking to me because of my post on are we dating the same guy?" And I was like, "What?" So I went to the bathroom,
03:31:56
Savannah Craven-Entallooked, and I was like, "Oh." Yeah. When you cancel, that was your gut instinct. Stick to that. Your gut instinct. Exactly. Did you go back to the date? Like, did you escape or he drove me
03:32:07
Savannah Craven-Entalthere? Oh god. He had to get dropped off. Yeah. Calling a lift. That's probably when he gets them is like when he's taking him home. Maybe takes them
03:32:17
Brian Atlashome. Which home? That's apparently we we have the uh the AI. Oh yeah. Okay. We'll wait. We
03:32:28
Brian Atlasare going to wait for that. The black version of herself. Yeah. Going to wait for that. But uh h you know what we might we could potentially do. Is your friend still
03:32:40
Reagan GagosNo, she went back to LA. Oh, she is Frank still around. I was going to say we could like tag team her in. Oh, she has some stories. She lives in LA. Yeah, she lives in LA.
03:32:51
Reagan GagosShe's part of the music industry. She like throws festivals, puts on show we can have her just come on a different panel. She's amazing. Yeah, she'd be fine. It just we did we weren't It was
03:33:02
Brian Atlaskind of like last minute, so we just weren't able to get her a seat on the panel. Uh Garb, thanks for the soup chat. Sar, is this South African? Is
03:33:11
Savannah Craven-EntalBrian okay? I'm dying. But not for his wife. Yeah, that's true. Right. I am not Give her the sinus
03:33:21
Callieinfection. I have a question for you, Brian. Is this the like rare time that like you have women on here that are a little bit like the same when it comes
03:33:32
Tyenato topics and agreement? It's a pretty tame panel that Yeah, I was not expecting this. Right. I've literally been watching every Sunday for the last like month or so, and I am so shocked
03:33:43
Brian Atlasthat there are so many like like-minded women here. Mhm. Well, it's it's uh you know, sometimes with the the bookings, it just works out that way that and it's refreshing, too. A bit more conservative
03:33:54
Reagan Gagosor lean's a bit more uh you know, progressive or whatever. So, so maybe we should pop up. You guys could just argue just argue with me if you guys want just argue with me on something. I don't know. You said start debating you on
03:34:08
Brian Atlassomething. Yeah, you can argue with me about Oh, arguing. Okay. Yeah, I'll I'll I'll uh do devil's advocate or question for you. I think how about uh I'm trying to think what's what's a good one. Uh
03:34:19
Brian Atlaswell, the the Okay, women should bow. We talked about that. Men should not have to die for their girlfriend or whatever. Uh yeah, I don't know. Were you raised in a Christian household? Like how did
03:34:33
Tyenahow did that work out? How was that dynamic with religion in your home? No, I just No, not raised that way. Makes sense. Why we all feel so differently then?
03:34:42
Brian AtlasWhat's a hot take? I don't know. Uh women should do laundry on the first date for a guy. You said on the first date. First date. She comes over and she
03:34:54
Tyenadoes your laundry. Well, that's just not safe. Here's something something I saw on Instagram. Right. Well, she's if she's fine. What? She's she's looking at me like, "What the fuck?" She's like,
03:35:06
Lily (UCSB)"I'm never doing your laundry. I'm never doing that." You want to do it? Cuz I'm doing that. Never doing that for a guy. Ever. Ever. Wait, you won't do a guy's
03:35:15
Lily (UCSB)laundry ever? Laundry? Never. Never. Never. What? Um, why? Why is that? He can do it by himself.
03:35:27
Lily (UCSB)Yeah. What if you're like home all day and he's working? Would you do his laundry if he asked you to?
03:35:37
Savannah Craven-EntalAsk me to. Maybe I would like to say pay for me. But like what if you're already doing your laundry and like he just just his stuff is just there like just throw
03:35:47
Lily (UCSB)it in. Are you just gonna separate his from yours and just wash yours? Yeah. But um actually is that question on we live together?
03:36:00
Jim BobWhy would we have to live together? I have a question for you. Is there anything in your life that you enjoy doing for other people? doing for other people, anything,
03:36:10
Lily (UCSB)anything. There a lot of things like pay for them for free. And uh Oh, she she's a sugar mama. Sugar
03:36:22
Brian Atlasmama. Yeah, sugar. You know what this is? I'm not pretty sure about that. What's that? So, you know, like how women there's a they'll have a sugar
03:36:31
Savannah Craven-Entaldaddy. So, the I know that one. Can you believe it? I know. She knows that one. But like a sugar mama opposite the opposite. So like a woman she's she's you want to be an engineer, right? Yeah.
03:36:45
Savannah Craven-EntalYeah. So she's going to make a lot of money cuz she's smart. Oh, you're going to have a guy folding your clothes basically. Would you pay a cleaner to do your husband or your friend's laundry or whatever? Like
03:36:57
Lily (UCSB)maybe cuz uh I would like to say I will be busy all the time. So maybe just pay for the cleaning. She's a busy girl. Nope. Yeah. Wow. Good times.
03:37:07
Lily KateUh there's like a bow to Well, we'll never uh I think women should cook for their guy on the first date. I don't want my husband doing laundry. He
03:37:20
Lily Katedoesn't know how to separate it. Like I like And it doesn't matter if you do it at either your house, parents house, a neutral location, or his. I think she should do that actually with that takes a lot of trust though. Like most first
03:37:33
Lily Katedates are in a neutral position location. So I wonder what kind of culture you'd have to be in. I guess I assume that they already have gotten past the Yeah, they know each other reasonably well to be able to hold a conversation. He's sitting at the
03:37:45
Tyenacounter she's cooking, right? If she would have went to that guy's house for to cook for him on the first date, I don't know how that would have gone, but I think that's a very interesting point. Maybe not the first date. Maybe he's not a criminal. Maybe not the first date,
03:37:58
Lily Katebut that's a really interesting idea for a date in general just to get an idea like, okay, if we take this all the way, what am I getting out of? But come on, like if you're if it's a competitive dating pool and the guy is a, you know, high achieving guy, comes from a good
03:38:10
Lily Katefamily. Imagine he goes home to his mom and he's like, "Wow, I've dated all these girls. Not one of them ever mentioned cooking and this one actually wanted to cook for me on the first date." I mean, that sets you apart cuz dating is very competitive. You got to
03:38:23
Jim Boblisten to a man's hardest food. They should have a They should have like a new app that's only for traditionalists and it's just cook and clean and then like you just swipe. They have Christian dating apps and conservative dating
03:38:34
Nadiaapps. They're just infiltrated by people who just want want to be influencers that and yeah, but that is honestly the best thing to do. My first my first date with my man
03:38:46
Nadiathat I've been now for years, I cooked for him and then after that he I didn't know him. We were friends for years. But yeah. I know. He wasn't a criminal. And he's a great guy. Like great guy. Yeah. No, 100%. So, and after that, he told me
03:38:59
NadiaI think it's like 2 hours into the date. He already ate. We're watching the movie. He's like, "Yeah, you're stuck with me." He was like, "You can cook." Yeah. So, I mean that you shouldn't do
03:39:08
Savannah Craven-Entalthat. Let's pull up the AI stuff. Oh, all right. Indian literally. Your eyes went cross.
03:39:20
Savannah Craven-EntalWould you date her? The eyes went cross. Henry, if you're watching, this is you. Oh my god. What happened to your eyes? That's so funny. They made you cross that. That is not a black eye. That is
03:39:32
Savannah Craven-Entalan Indian man. Asian. You need to make Wait, put his like he's from my hair. Bengali. Wait, is that Yes to him. Yes to him. The last was
03:39:45
Brian Atlasfrom Bangladesh or something. Yeah, I don't that's just a random picture. Is that the thing you face mashed it with? I have no. There's no way. They just She
03:39:54
Brian Atlaspanicked and found anybody. They just put in a black. We're just like the end. Random black guy. Uh let's see here. Uh I think I actually went through all my
03:40:06
Tyenanotes. Uh is there any uh topics anybody wants to hit on? It's just something I thought about. I saw this thing on Instagram. It was this guy in Miami and he's like viral. I
03:40:17
Tyenadon't know what for. I guess his like views that his personal views, but he was walking down the street and he it was a black guy and he had these two white girls on a leash. Mhm. And I don't
03:40:28
Tyenacare what color you are. That is crazy. Yeah. Like insanity. What was the intention of them being on a leash? I don't know. I I just saw a bunch of guys in the comments like, "Yeah, I think it's just like a
03:40:39
Tyenacon." Clearly, he's not He doesn't push Christian values doing things like that. So again, it always comes down to like the value thing, but like that actually brings up a a different
03:40:50
Jim Bobuh topic on public indecency and whether or not anyone here has uh let's say a knowable threshold of
03:41:00
Tyenawhen you should actually use force to remove people from the public. And then like a lot of people are like, "Oh, but they're all consenting adults." Yeah, but doesn't make it okay. Like it's they're consenting because they're
03:41:11
Tyenamentally screwed up. Like to do that is like weird. That's crazy. And I would make that illegal if I could. And then there were people saying, "Oh, if that's a fetish, that's a kink." But kinks and all that stuff is for the bedroom. It's not for the street where
03:41:24
Tyenathere are children and like impressionable minds like seeing that crap. Like, leave that behind closed doors. If you want to do that at home, that's not my business. But like when And then people are like, "Oh, well, it's still not your business in the street." You're making it everyone's business when you're displaying it for everybody to see it. Especially if I'm
03:41:37
Tyenawalking down the street with my kids, I got to explain to my kids what the hell they're looking at. And that should never have to be a responsibility that I have to take on because they are doing something that's
03:41:47
Tyenacompletely terrible in the public eye. Mhm. So yeah, there were women and men defending it. I'm like, what is this? Like what have we come to? Uh in China,
03:41:57
Jim Bobare there certain things you're not allowed to do in public like out in the opening out out on the street? It's illegal. Any anything like that? Yeah.
03:42:08
TyenaIllegal. Yeah. Yep. And then if it was the other way around, you know, if everybody wants to make it like a racial thing, it was a white guy walking to black girls, forget it. We'd be burning down buildings in towns. Like, I just don't understand why
03:42:20
Jim Bobit's okay for thee and not for me. Like, yeah. Uh, anyone have any really embarrassing uh date dating experience? Like the most awkward uh horrifi not
03:42:32
Jim BobWell, you have a horrifying date, but that's that's not as comical. Anyone have like a just a really embarrassing uh dating experience?
03:42:43
NadiaYes, she does. Where do I start now? Um well, I've definitely u been put in a position where um I thought I was talking to just this one person and it was just us and
03:42:54
Nadiathat's it. And um I've had a girlfriend pull up on a date. Yeah, I've had that actually with a woman and with a man. Um yeah, so that no it wasn't completely embarrassing and I wouldn't say like I
03:43:07
Nadiawas embarrassed but it wasn't so much that I'm like oh I should feel ashamed but scenes were made um like uh one time um I was hanging out with this one guy and um we were at a restaurant that I
03:43:19
Nadiadidn't know he was taking his uh girlfriend to. Didn't know he had a girlfriend. Um she pulled up and it was quite the scene. She kind of like uh you know how like a magic trick how like you like try to like take the linen off the
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Nadiatable. She was that wasn't her purpose. She just wanted to make the mess but she just like pulled that linen everything went flying like my food was on me. Yeah. And I was just like oh okay. Then I had to get like an Uber go home. So
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Nadiathat was fun. That was fun. And that was at an early age so I kind of didn't really know how to deal with it. Um and I went home and I cried in the Uber. That was how you sad. Um that was I want
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Nadiato say I was 20 or 21. A you were Yeah. No, but just there's a bunch of things that actually happened, you know, like a lot of embarrassing things. But did he own up to it and be like, "Oh yeah, I was cheating." Oh my gosh. This guy
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Nadiareally he flipped it. He really tried to make this girl seem like she was insane. He's like, "That's not my girl. That's not my girlfriend telling me." He's like, "I don't know who this is." I'm like, "No woman will come up to this table and just, you know, and start this
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Nadiawhole scene, make herself look crazy in front of a bunch of people. Um, and you're not together, you know. Uh, so that that was fun. Yeah. Uh, I have a this is going to sound like a weird
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Jim Bobquestion, but would you ladies rather have no lips or no eyebrows? You can't draw them on. It's no eyebrows or no lips. No
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Callieeyebrows. I would say no eyebrows. Okay. Yeah, eyebrows. I want to kiss my man. Okay. What about you? It's a tough one, isn't it? Can I get You're half black, too.
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Savannah Craven-EntalSince Well, I'm just saying DOA Cat looked hot. So, yeah. Do cat. Wait, what? Yeah. I mean, I probably could just like cover that area, but I don't know. I feel like I have a really expressive face cuz of my eyebrows.
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Jim BobAnything else like that? No lips. No eyebrows. No lips. Which one? No eyebrows, definitely. Okay. No eyebrows. Okay. Okay. I have a I have a
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Jim Bobharder one now. You either have really really hairy ears and you can't shave them. They're just you you ladies just have really hairy ears. Or you have