FERAL Feminist RAGE QUITS?! Andrew Wilson HEATED DEBATE! House Of The Strumpet! | Dating Talk #170
Date: 2024-06-17
Duration: 8h 37m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_01Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_02Lauren Roses(guest)
SPEAKER_03Lauren Roses (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_04Allison(guest)
SPEAKER_06Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_07Abigail(guest)
SPEAKER_08Grace(guest)
SPEAKER_09Paloma(guest)
SPEAKER_10Kay(guest)
SPEAKER_11Lilian(guest)
SPEAKER_12Josie(guest)
SPEAKER_14Lauren Roses (mixed)(guest)
Key Moments
00:03:39
IntroKay introduces herself: 27yo, Indiana, OnlyFans.
“my name is Kay I am 27 and I am from Indiana and I do only fans”
00:04:37
IntroLauren Roses introduces herself: 31yo, cortisean at Moonlight Bunny Ranch, Tantra/hypnotherapy.
“I am a student and I um I am a cortisen at the moonlight bunny ranch my name is Lauren roses”
00:09:34
IntroLilian introduces herself: 19yo, student/music producer. Mentions she had a funeral this morning.
“my name is Lilian I'm 19 and my occupation I guess I'm a student and a music producer”
00:10:31
QuoteLilian reveals she attended her friend's funeral the morning of the show. Friend (musician, 20s) died the previous day.
“I had a funeral this morning for my very good friend may he rest in peace”
00:13:47
IntroJosie introduces herself: 25yo, singer/songwriter/model from Wisconsin, lives in LA.
“my name's Josie... I'm an artist a hustler um singer song writer model... I'm 25”
00:14:29
IntroGrace introduces herself: 18yo, sociology/psychology at UCSB.
“my name is Grace I'm 18 I'm studying sociology at UCSB right now”
00:14:52
IntroAllison introduces herself: 30yo, tech company, grew up Wisconsin, lives Texas.
“my name's Allison I'm 30 and I work for a technology company”
00:15:14
IntroAbigail introduces herself: 20yo, leasing agent, coaches boys gymnastics.
“I'm Abigail I'm 20 and I'm a leasing agent and occasionally I coach boys gymnastics”
01:03:52
QuoteJosie says she wants man to pay all her bills (~$3000+/month). Brings 'my pretty self' to the table.
“my R 2500 my my car payment like 300 uh um... my phone bill is like 200... if you can't do that I don't need to waste my time”
01:05:58
QuoteJosie states her contribution to a relationship: 'my pretty self'.
“my pretty self that's what I bring I know that's right and I'm pretty so”
01:13:02
ControversyBrian calls panel one of the most 'feral' he's had. Paloma pushes back strongly.
“this is one of the most [feral] panels... these two girls are 2 hours late my friend died”
02:00:32
IntroAndrew Wilson joins via call-in. Greets panel. Happy Father's Day message.
“hello everybody how are you doing hey my name is Andrew Wilson”
04:19:30
OtherPaloma rage quits after refusing to answer feminist identity question. Leaves show at ~4:27.
“I'm actually going to go but you guys have a great night... not a rage quit it's a rage quit”
04:36:20
QuoteJosie rates herself 10/10/10 face/body/total. Says 'I think I may be perfect'.
“10 all the way around 10 yeah... I think I may be perfect”
04:51:30
QuoteJosie's BBL backstory: intentionally gained ~20 lbs to harvest fat for BBL. Paid for it herself.
“I was really skinny I actually had to gain weight I had to gain like 20 PBS to get the procedure”
06:16:47
QuoteLauren Roses reveals body count is approximately 1,100 over 10 years of courtesan work.
“I have 1,100 that's I think more than last time cuz I cuz I yeah... I've been doing this for 10 years”
Topics Discussed
00:00:14
Intro & housekeeping
Brian's show intro: announcements, TTS rates, merch, Twitch plug, disclaimer. Notes late start due to no-shows.
00:03:39
Guest introductions
Panel members introduce name/age/location/occupation in order: Kay, Paloma, Lauren Roses, Lilian (mentions friend's funeral), Josie, Grace, Allison, Abigail. Andrew Wilson announced as joining later.
00:11:11
Lilian's friend's funeral
Discussion about Lilian attending a friend's (young musician, 20s) funeral the same morning. Brian skeptical of same-day funeral (unusual); Lilian explains friend had no family present at informal gathering.
00:16:00
Relationship status round
Each guest describes their relationship status, longest relationship, and recent dating history. Includes Paloma's situationship, Lauren's courtesan work as 'relationships', Josie's divorce and son, Abigail's marriage.
01:03:00
Josie's financial requirements for men
Josie itemizes ~$3000+/month in bills she expects a partner to pay. Says she brings 'my pretty self' to the table. Abigail and Brian challenge the logic.
01:05:00
Modern dating & social media discussion
Guests discuss how social media and OnlyFans have changed dating. Lauren on media training for entertainers. Lilian and Allison on pornography effects on young minds.
01:16:11
'Feral' comment and panel tension
Brian calls this 'one of the most feral panels' he's had. Paloma objects, accuses Brian of interrogating Lilian's friend's death. Heightened tension between Paloma and Brian.
02:00:32
Andrew Wilson joins (call-in)
Andrew Wilson joins via Callin app for Father's Day. Introduces himself to panel. Notes it's been hectic show from what he heard.
02:08:20
Man vs. bear question
Chat donation prompts 'man vs bear in the woods' discussion. Guests debate whether they'd rather encounter a strange man or a bear alone in the woods. Various takes; Lauren and Allison provide nuanced responses.
03:00:00
Gender roles and feminism debate
Andrew Wilson leads debate asking each guest if they identify as feminist (using charitable definition: rejection of patriarchy for equality). Allison strongly anti-feminist (Christian complementarian). Josie non-committal. Others mixed.
04:16:50
Paloma rage quit
Paloma walks off show at ~4:27 after refusing to answer feminist identity question. Says she's 'not obligated to argue.' Brian and Andrew confirm it's a rage quit.
04:20:00
Biblical canon debate
Josie mentions Book of Enoch. Andrew Wilson and Allison debate which books belong in the Bible, Protestant vs. Orthodox canons, whether God has sovereignty over scripture selection.
04:36:20
Ratings round
Guests rate themselves on face/body/total (1-10 scale, no 7s allowed). Josie goes first: 10/10/10. Lilian: 8/6. Grace: 6/7.5/6. Allison: 6/7.5/6. Abigail: 8/6/6. Also round of 'prettiest in room' votes.
05:00:00
Breast implant discussion
Lilian says she wants breast implants despite having 32D. Josie discusses her BBL and implants. Allison regrets her breast augmentation pre-Christianity. Grace and Brian push back on body modification.
06:16:20
Body count round
Going around the table: Lauren reveals 1,100 over 10 years. Grace ~2. Allison single digits. Grace's 'under 20' caveat. Andrew Wilson reaction to 1,100.
06:20:00
Racism and can minorities be racist
Discussion of whether only white people can be racist vs. anyone can be racist. Josie takes 'only white people' position. Brian and Andrew challenge this.
07:08:00
Bumble swiping segment
Guests swipe through Bumble profiles. Lilian and Grace shown profiles; mostly rejected. Lauren also participates. Age preferences discussed (Lilian: 19-23; Grace: 18-21).
08:27:00
Show wrap-up
Brian thanks Andrew Wilson for ~6 hours of debate. Raid to Andrew Wilson's channel for 100K subscriber push.
Transcript
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00:56:54
TTSto PE wait where are you from again sorry no side bars you I grew up in La so I guess I don't know valley girl can you it just it sounds like you're from donated
00:57:05
TTS$69 I'm speaking for the boys kick the second chick to the right out of the panel now she is an Abomination to the world please get the rocks and bring on
00:57:15
TTSthe [ __ ] Comet get the Rocks abor get the Rocks get the Rocks an Abomination to the world
00:57:27
Josiewe'll see how the show goes we'll see how the show goes um what about you oh okay what was the question um I'm single and how long you been single um for like
00:57:38
Josiea year in your longest relationship um was 5 years from what age to what age from 17 to 22
00:57:48
Josiewow what happened to that um well actually is my my baby daddy um oh you have a kid I have a son okay just one kid just one kid yeah he's um six oh can
00:58:00
Abigailyou scoot into the table a little bit just uh scoot like scoot the chair in are you able to is he in the kid's life yeah yeah my Baby D's really good dad
00:58:10
Josiewere you guys married we did get married at one point oh okay divorced who initiated the divorce uh kind of both of us I mean he filed for it but I mean we
00:58:24
Josieboth didn't want to be together so it was kind of kind of mutual that makes did you get married before or after you had the kid after after how long were you married um
00:58:34
Josieabout well we were we separated when I was 22 but we didn't divorce till I was 24 so I mean I don't know what you want to consider that well so you said you've been single for one year when you say
00:58:45
Brian Atlasyou've been single for one year was that you counting the divorce no I mean you dating somebody else yeah I dated somebody else okay I see yeah all right
00:58:55
Josieand then um do you guys have split custody yes like 505050 okay yeah we didn't really like fight each other on anything you guys both live in LA no he lives in Wisconsin actually we did both
00:59:07
Josielive in LA together well wait how do you guys have 50 he the kids with you or with him well it's kind of weird like the court agreement um we have like a weird unusual court agreement but it's like I'm supposed to have my son for
00:59:20
Josielike 3 years he's supposed to have him for 3 years I take him for 4 years then he takes him for 4 years it's kind of like it's weird it's very weird c kid like go back to the other parents on the holidays I've heard that yeah well
00:59:32
Josiehonestly right now my son is with uh my baby father and I go up there like once a month and I always go for holidays and birthdays of course are the 3 years like your son lives with your baby father for
00:59:45
TTSlike 3 years straight you visit him like on holidays and stuff yeah only donated someone with more money than this screen shirt girl been on her phone
00:59:58
TTSon and off and it's only been an hour if she doesn't go can't wait for be Caucasian to destroy her grab her phone please yeah we got to collect the phones
01:00:07
PalomaGod damn it uh it's true you got me I you got me Po now the snitching is crazy snitches Stitch that was [ __ ] up yeah
01:00:17
Lilianthat was [ __ ] up say say it again the camera wasn't on you that was messed up no you can okay it's probably past his bedtime he's a little girl yeah uh okay
01:00:27
Josieso no magnesium for him and you're a musician correct yes I said the music want to do uh are you what kind of music do you
01:00:38
Josiemake um I make like pop music I actually started are you a rapper uh I like to rap yes can we hear a rap oh man oh my God was trying to put me on the spot
01:00:49
Josiehey though suck you should uh I don't really want to I don't want to embarrass myself me you have to like you have to like pay it's not it's like premium it's like it's not free like I give her I actually do like to Freestyle but she
01:01:01
Josiedoes like I feel like I feel like what artists you know unless they're going on like a you know like a radio type show or whatever and they're they're coming on there to Freestyle what artist is
01:01:12
Palomajust like oh let me just freestyle let's it's like I mean I get it's exposure so maybe I should just I think you should yes also you don't want like a per no I'm
01:01:24
Brian Atlasplaying I'm playing I'm playing I'm playing though I would have loved to hear more okay uh so where were we uh are you have you ever had a
01:01:36
Josieroster um um kind of like I guess when I was single like I kind of was like May the best man win I
01:01:49
Josiemean right now yeah literally that's what it is but I kind of have like high standards so like my roster is very much full of like who can do the most for me like type of thing
01:02:01
Josiewhat do you me good like I'm just like I feel like I'm getting older so I just feel like after a certain age you got to like mature up and only date people who can like actually help you in life like
01:02:15
JosieI don't know rather than just dating people because oh he's nice to me like in six months he might not be nice to you anymore you know what I'm saying so I just I just feel like wasting your time there's no point in wasting your time like you might as well find
01:02:27
Josiesomebody who like really wants to like invest in you and like help you when you when you say invest in you what do you mean like pay my bills you know what I'm
01:02:37
Josiesaying what are your bills um I have a lot of bills um rent my car insurance uh phone what what are your monthly expenses well my rent honestly well I
01:02:49
Josiehave a roommate but my rent without my roommate's like 5,000 but I paid 2500 and are you guys roommates no no okay so you said your car yeah which is
01:03:01
Josieyour rent your cell phone bill what what was the other stuff you want a guy to pay for all of that well just can you my hair my nails My Lifestyle let's do this
01:03:12
JosieJu Just so we have just so we have a better understanding tell us like itemize this [ __ ] okay my R 2500 my my car payment's 530 um my insurance is
01:03:24
Josielike 300 uh um let me think what else I got my phone bill is like 200 my Wi-Fi is probably like 50 my electric bill is probably like 100 so yeah that and then
01:03:35
JosieI like to travel I mean I pay for everything by myself so if you can't do that I don't need to waste my time with you that's just how she got it on her own so have you ever been in the that sort of situation where a guy did pay
01:03:47
Abigailfor all that stuff yes definitely can I ask um if you're wanting a guy to pay all your bills what do you feel like you are bringing into
01:03:58
Josiethe relationship if he's doing all of that that's a lot my pretty self that's what I bring I know that's right and I'm pretty smart you know what I'm saying I'm a hustler so I Get Money I feel like most men that I've dealt with I've
01:04:09
TTSbrought a lot of value into their life wall she po donated $69 number rate is the most attractive number three coming in second number
01:04:20
TTSnumber two definitely has HPV stay far away FAS ran keep the dumpy drizzle drizzle drizzle drizzle question for the panel cut or uncut okay we're going to
01:04:32
Brian Atlascome we're g to come right back to what you're talking about uh so his question is uh circumcised or uncircumcised do you have a preference starting with you go ahead
01:04:43
Lauren Rosescircumcised I don't really care for health purposes circumcised just so they don't run into health issues or any infection or anything this is for like somebody be interested in dating circumcised put either way circumcised
01:04:55
Abigailfor sure size my husband period was answer your husbands yeah the yeah whatever he got going
01:05:05
Graceonever I want trying to put his business out there may I ask how long you've been married it's been a little over a year
01:05:13
Brian Atlasnow God little bit um wait so would it be a dealbreaker if he was not cut are you asking me no the panel
01:05:26
Brian Atlascuz all of you said cut is it a deal breaker if he's uh uncut yes I don't I've ever been with a guy who has it so for health purposes I would say yeah
01:05:38
LilianHealth purposes mhm scientifically there's more bacteria and build up under there yeah well there can be there can be I mean unless if you clean yourself right but you know what a lot of these guys don't a lot of them do not a lot of
01:05:49
Brian Atlasthem don't you have you ever encountered an uncut guy yes [Laughter] and it was
01:05:59
Lilianunclean it was unclean I would say yes I mean it wasn't consensual wait what it wasn't consensual they don't I'm not getting into anything I'm not I'm just that's
01:06:11
Josiejust that's a statement that's a statement I'm just saying what topic was it that like were you at a party when this happened or something like that okay what about you uh I don't think
01:06:22
TTSI've ever been with somebody who wasn't so beat cheeks $69 the delusion this singlehood mother States cash at me $4,000 pay for our
01:06:33
TTSfirst dinner pay my bills and I will make sure your money is my money and will destroy your ronic talk drizzle drizzle all right thank you beting cheeks and we also have LP's about to
01:06:44
TTScome in here wait so deal breaker if he's uncut I I I haven't loose [ __ ] energy donated
01:06:52
TTS$69 needs to shut wanted as up you're not hard at all you're softer than Sharman stop the damn cap you let him
01:07:02
TTShit it raw didn't have second thoughts now you a single mom that's a song by the way song okay quick answer deal breaker if he's
01:07:13
Josieuncut um oh I don't know I've never been with somebody so like that wasn't so I don't know if it's a deal break so I for GU you been with has been cut yeah okay no into the mic please
01:07:27
Abigailum no I don't know question were you just not here for the question I can repeat yeah like she's like what there's a 50% chance that this is the right
01:07:36
Brian Atlasanswer would it be a deal breaker for you if the guy was uncut circumcision
01:07:45
Brian Atlasno well Okay no Okay um so and actually I'm going to have to boost the TTS here we've we've already gone over the first 30 minutes
01:07:57
Brian AtlasI'm going to get in killo of serial's questions we'll come back to your thing we'll come back to relationship status killo serial asked can you explain God damn bro okay I'll do it man can you
01:08:08
Brian Atlasexplain what the fabric of American culture is in modern society like and how you think it affects modern dating Society start with you go around the table I'll be right back I'm not going to lie my mind goes completely blank
01:08:19
Gracewhen you asked that question so well oh wait what was the question that sounds like it was written by chat gbt not no for real was written by I Haven
01:08:29
Lauren Rosesthat yeah yeah so so they were asking how has modern society how has it changed dating and I have a couple things it Chang da we're getting a lot of so I mean I
01:08:41
Lauren Rosesobviously you know am in the adult entertainment world and I've done only fans and all that but I don't I don't have one anymore cuz I don't believe in
01:08:50
Lauren Rosesthe Brian needs Xanax donated $69 Bri get on some manga management bro lmf you get stressed Mages magnesium
01:09:02
Lauren Rosesyeah okay so anyways so yeah the Magnesium that dude that got me chilling um magnesium living man you just relax
01:09:09
Lauren Rosesyou know um but and so they asked what was the how has modern dating changed the landscape in the 90s we didn't deal with all this crazy stuff happening on the street you know
01:09:23
Lauren Roseswhat I mean like we didn't get these crazy reports in the 90s like maybe they happened but probably it was like 1 in 200 now it's one in like 10 we're getting a lot of Rags to Riches stories because the whole only fans things it
01:09:35
Lauren Roseswhat it does is I've done only fans before I don't do it any longer um just because it it's very difficult for me to keep up with the consumption of the
01:09:45
Lauren Rosespornographic material um I believe that you know with certain things so we're getting a lot of people who never had money get money and now watching their
01:09:56
Lauren Rosesreactions in society which is we are watching you know they go on a plane and they're like oh my gosh you're being a jerk to everybody or you're doing something go well I have a million followers whatever and I make money or
01:10:06
Lauren Roseswhatever and I've seen this and you know we're we're going to get that because this is their first encounter with a a large amount of money and it can really change the way that certain people react
01:10:17
Lauren RosesI really really tired of watching women okay if you're going to do bedroom stuff and bedroom nude lerie whatever do it in the bedroom don't do it when I've seen people walk out not in bikinis in fullon lingerie in public in front of families
01:10:31
Lauren Rosesand it really pisses me off I really don't like that I've never done that as a model I've only gone out in a bikini at a beach like that's it and I really think that that behavior actually needs to stop um I think that it distorts
01:10:42
Lauren Rosesthings for people and it puts parents in a really precarious situation of having to explain what that just was why did they watch a person with like a gag ball
01:10:53
Lauren Rosesin their mouth and you know um one of yeah that's one of my concerns so I I think that it affects dating cuz these kids watch this behavior and they see these people walking around in broad
01:11:05
Lauren Rosesdaylight with like you know lingerie on and they're just like Mommy what is that and this mom's like [ __ ] I got to explain that like now like to to this like well how I expain this like a six-year-old like good God you know and have some you know I don't believe in
01:11:18
Lauren Rosesshaming people cuz shame is stored in the body and it can lead to diseases but I do believe that there needs to be a healthy amount of Shame to keep the
01:11:26
Palomacommon decency of society going do you feel like a lot of you know because like influencers and you know like tons of people are on on only fans and like
01:11:37
Lauren Rosesposting stuff like they don't really know to maneuver they've never been trained in media so we look at K-Pop Stars so I've been trained in media so I work for a PR Company and I've been trained in media I've been train my
01:11:48
Lauren Rosesfamily's been in entertainment for over 100 years and the Roses family has been there however there's certain people in the Roses family that I can't disclose because they're in Children's Entertainment and I don't want to risk you know I mean even though I'm in adult entertainment and it's completely legal
01:12:01
Lauren RosesI don't want to risk their jobs so I don't want to say that but a lot of these entertainers really need to look into media training because these K-Pop Stars they're groomed to be a star and not like groomed in a bad way they're they're molded they're manicured to be a
01:12:13
Lauren Rosesstar you need media absolutely and that's negative and that's negative but but but manicured is the word I should have used they are manicured to be stars and you need to be manicured to be a
01:12:24
Palomastar because you represent if you represent something and people like you you probably should do media training honestly especially in the adult film industry agree I mean I'm all for supporting that and doing what you want to do like whatever career path you want
01:12:37
Palomato take but oh here there speak straight like look at Abigail if you're speaking looking at Abigail um what was I they need to be manicured to be celebrities if they
01:12:51
Brian Atlasreally want to do that and they really need to like dedicate their life move things on okay sorry uh were you guys actually answering the question or did you no I answered it did you did you guys answer no yeah I I don't even remember
01:13:03
Lauren Rosesthe question at this point well it affects dating because that's what people see on television that's how they agendas that definitely guys guys guys going on I need you guys to be paying
01:13:14
Brian Atlasattention I mean you left left I literally asked the question right before I left and it came in multiple times okay it was a very very big question it was it was we were having a
01:13:25
Palomagood conversation over here tell you that okay so I have a big
01:13:35
Brian Atlaspiece after your opin wait okay can you explain what the fabric of American C I'm killer of Serial I [ __ ] love you this is I'm I'm already tilted I'm
01:13:45
Brian Atlasalready tilted today this is a dog [ __ ] question but I'll ask it okay explain what the fabric of American culture is in modern societ
01:13:55
Lilianand relate it to Modern dating I want to say I guess the Fab you got please kindly speak into to the microphone I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry she was thinking loo if she speaks she
01:14:08
Brian Atlasneeds to be in the [ __ ] microphone you don't need to challenge me every time I'm trying to get the show on the [ __ ] rails do you understand but it's just kind of fun yeah how about you don't do it and just [ __ ] drop the
01:14:18
Lilian[ __ ] attitude go ahead I just don't want to it's about to get heated um I was going to say the oop sorry bro I got the Clause anyway um I was going to say that I think the honestly I
01:14:30
Lilianthink the biggest issue right now is arguably social media especially that the way it portrays young minds and dating like pornography and stuff like that and that's so common like Twitter just legalized porn and there's nothing
01:14:42
Lilianwrong with it but if it gets found at a young age like per se like I first found it by accident when I was like 12 and I was like what the [ __ ] is this like so lit I think that that honestly like I
01:14:52
Liliandon't want to say it like poison poisons your brain but it kind of does if you're unaware of the repercussions of that especially if it's found at a young age so I guess the internet pornography and
01:15:05
Lilianthe way that that kind of portrays that affects modern dating completely agree yeah what she
01:15:13
Allisonsaid I agree the same I agree the same um I I think that uh casual sex and just being so casual situationships um I
01:15:25
Allisonthink it just allows people to be unhappy and be used and people in my opinion uh will pretend to be like a certain type of girl to keep a guy sometimes um because they think that's
01:15:37
Allisonwhat he will like and they don't want to lose him and they think maybe eventually he will like them and social media is pretty much all fake so MH I think people yeah just too casual about sex
01:15:49
Abigailand love and I think it's kind of ruined our generation it is very true definely I think social media is definitely ruining it I feel like it's dividing men and women a lot um I mean women are
01:16:00
Abigailbeing told that they don't need a man they're being told to go get the bag to be independent women that divides them men are I mean I've seen a video and the
01:16:11
Brian Atlascomment section [Music] was dude holy [ __ ] calm that down Brian takes some deep breaths you're more agitated than usual today and it's annoying they aren't being that dumb
01:16:22
Brian Atlasreally bro we're not thank you he needs a Xanax bro I'm just going to be honest like this is one of the most [ __ ] feral days we've had dude what is f like what do you even mean by feral like
01:16:34
Palomayou're kind of feral these these girls are [ __ ] nearly two hour these two girls are 2 hours late my friend died yeah if you could just like have any type of sympathy um that would be amazing but what do you mean by
01:16:46
Brian Atlasferal why don't you just Google what phal means no but I'd like you to elaborate it in this context just Google it no I think in this context I think in this context elaborate we had two no shows we had two
01:16:58
Palomaflakes uh M yeah you've been feral you have an attitude so feral means attitude um I don't know like I feel like if you look that up that's not what
01:17:10
Josieit's say why don't you Google it why don't you Google it sassy it's a sassy man apocalypse right that's what I said that's what I said
01:17:21
Brian Atlasearlier 100% I know that most of you have moved through your lives in a very sort of pampered way because of the female privilege that you all have but sure I tend to lean on this you know shut the [ __ ] up you don't need to be
01:17:34
Brian Atlas[ __ ] being disrespectful I didn't say a single word why don't you repeat the gesture you were just making is that not disrespectful I just think it's funny you think it's funny I think you've said a lot of disrespectful
01:17:47
Palomathings so give me an example I don't know just like completely interrogating her friend's death also just ignoring it at the same time like how did I ignore it she would speak on it you'd be like yeah whatever moving on to the next person but then you'd also be like how
01:18:00
Brian Atlasdid they die literally never said that blah blah blah by the way this is a panel show so yeah she said her piece I moved it on I'm the host of the show I will move things on whenever I like to
01:18:09
Lilianyou do that I guess phoh in my op this chick I think podcast this is going to get you more views though like if I'm being completely honest like not on any disrespectful [ __ ] like honestly if you
01:18:20
Lilianhave more be like that if you want to get a reaction out of someone which as a that's what you're trying honest I'm helping you 100 yeah no but there's a it's it's cool if you can have an actual
01:18:31
PalomaI prefer to actually have back and forth over you know actual conversation topics instead of somebody you think just asking girls like oh what's your situation what's your relationship what's your relationship is back and forth what we were doing was back and forth what we were doing was back and
01:18:44
Palomaforth you just asking what's your body count what's your blah blah blah how many subscribers does your podcast have girl I don't have a [ __ ] podcast how many okay like do you think numbers m [Music]
01:18:56
TTSif you're trying to lecture me over the how I can make a successful podcast I'm just saying back and forth you're not doing back and for prove that your friend died if my friend died I would not be on there I would be
01:19:09
Liliandrinking and listening to Creed can I answer that she wasn't even going to can I answer that I told her to come I had a commitment she told me to come and I was late which I dm'd the podcast and asked if I should still come because I knew it
01:19:21
Lilianwas disrespectful to be late but because I had a commitment what what time was the funeral it was like 10: a.m. and I live two hours away from here
01:19:31
Brian Atlasyou're in LA right yeah like calab Hollywood calabases I just moved back to Hollywood so I guess where I'm a little confused you would have had to leave
01:19:41
Brian Atlasaround 2: p.m. you didn't message our page until 3:18 you wrote apologies me and Josie are running very late I was at my friend's funeral this morning yes
01:19:52
Brian Atlasit's 10 I've been to funerals uh not the day after though me neither that's why I didn't know what was going on very I understand
01:20:03
Brian Atlasthat you had this last minute thing come up but you know given that you had a predetermined plan to be here one you could have given us a bit more notice
01:20:14
Lilianyou would have known it I didn't have notice that my friend died no but but I have I went to the funeral to be respectful is there something wrong with that holy [ __ ] did she like no like no genuinely she's a human being if your
01:20:27
Brian Atlasfriend no hear me out genuinely like please if if I had agreed to be somewhere and something came up I would have just done the courteous thing and let them know hey sorry I'm going to be running late as soon as I found out no
01:20:38
Brian Atlasyeah it was a very rough morning it was a very rough night for me okay I'm not that it was just it was sudden and I have the empathy for that I'm sorry to hear no you do not I literally just sh
01:20:49
Brian Atlassaid it shut the [ __ ] up so okay do not speak to me like that you're the one with the [ __ ] attitude I'm just saying you don't have [ __ ] empathy this is speaking of empathy this
01:20:59
Brian Atlasis the that famous she something to say may I go ahead thank you if you had a friend's funeral that happened very suddenly which I don't I would if if would you show up to the fun he's saying he would told if I had a doctor's
01:21:13
Brian Atlasappointment if I had a doctor's appointment at at 5:00 p.m. and something came up and I had to cancel it I would have called uh as soon as possible and just tooken done the courteous thing hold on
01:21:25
Brian Atlashold on done the courteous thing mhm and just said taken 30 seconds hey I'm very sorry something came up I'm not going to be able to make it that's it no yeah that would have been the ciest thing to
01:21:35
Josiedo but you all night you were crying all night you were running around doing stuff going to the funeral you weren't even sure if you really wanted to come because of that you're calling me like
01:21:46
JosieI'm I don't know what to do I'm like let's just go if you feel up to it that's and she was like halfway yeah I do halfway I don't and she was kind of like oh I want to I kind of don't and I told her I was like well I already got ready like let's if you want to go let's
01:21:59
Liliango so then we ended up going we were late yeah but I mean this girl was freaking Hurricane Sandy whatever I mean it was I'm not saying that it wasn't I'm not saying that it was courteous I definitely could have done more and I'm
01:22:11
Liliana very punctual and on time person I'm a student I have worked two jobs I have a freaking Studio internship like I'm a very punctual person I have a very busy schedule that I have to manage because
01:22:23
LilianI'm very focused on my educ a and making money so I do call ahead when I'm late to work I call ahead but today this specific thing this was so sudden this hurt me so bad that this was like the last of my worries and I know that that's not respectful that's not
01:22:35
Liliancourteous but courtesy wasn't on my mind and I can admit that's not the right thing necessarily and I apologize for that and I'm sorry that we were late I'm I'm sorry your friend passes away yesterday what's your name again Brian your friend passes away yesterday Brian
01:22:48
Brian Atlasis the first thing you're going to do when you find out your friend passes away and be like oh my God whatever podcast I'm so sorry I can't make it in like no no it's not the first thing I'm going to do however I will let me if you're going to ask me no
01:23:02
Brian Atlasyou keep interrupting you've been rude this entire [ __ ] time I'm matching your energy if I'm speaking stop interrupting you asked me a question you asked me a question I was responding to your question do you understand so if
01:23:14
Brian AtlasI'm going to be responding to your question you need to allow me to respond instead of just [ __ ] bulldozing and refusing to let me fully answer the question so yes if something
01:23:25
TTScatastrophic happens oh my God lululu donated $69 perfect example of females only being able to see when they've been disrespected but don't take
01:23:36
TTSaccountability when they disrespect others typical pampered my feelings more important than yours I mean hold on I'll
01:23:44
Brian Atlasanswer her question so yes if I if I became aware of I suppose uh would you consider this a dear friend or just an acquaintance he a dear friend dear
01:23:54
Brian Atlasfriend okay you known him for a year okay so if I knew if it was a guy who I knew for a year and he was a dear friend and I found out I would obviously be upset I would be distraught and I would
01:24:05
Brian Atlasprioritize okay can I make it to the funeral if I had any plans for that day that required me to clear my schedule I would have done the courteous thing because two things can coexist at the same time you can be frantic and moving
01:24:18
Brian Atlasaround when it comes to okay funeral plans and you can also realize well I told these people I have a commitment I don't know if this is just me I don't know if this is just I'm crazy for trying to be respectful of other people's time even if I'm going through
01:24:31
Brian Atlassome crazy [ __ ] I would just do the courteous thing and just reach out and say hey something came up uh I'm going to be really late I'm going to try to give them as much advanced notice as possible that's it maybe some people
01:24:42
Josiedon't operate that way that's fine yeah I mean she's a little younger than you and I also feel like you know she's 19 I don't know how old you're like 30 40 maybe but I'm God you're [ __ ] [ __ ]
01:24:53
Brian Atlasyou know that what's your [ __ ] problem I don't know yeah so I just feel like I'm going to have to kick her
01:25:03
Lauren Roses (mixed)probably I can't read
01:25:10
Gracethat okay [ __ ]
01:25:19
Graceyou um he was speaking like gibberish literally and he he's saying I love tacos and Mexican chicks to the way the way you're conducting
01:25:32
Brian Atlasyourself right now the way you're conducting yourself with me have you ever conducted yourself this way with the guy you claim was mentally abusive towards you did you ever conduct yourself that way towards him we're not going there I don't think we're going to
01:25:44
Palomago because I think it's perhaps you who's the abusive one oh wow yeah um yeah I don't really think you know me at all or what's interesting
01:25:56
Brian Atlasyou're M you're you're making quite a lot of judgments and knee-jerk assessments about me I'm actually not I just think you're done it multiple times I haven't made cool so okay just respond
01:26:07
PalomaDick you're a [ __ ] agree you've called me a [ __ ] multiple times have I given a single [ __ ] no I've and you've called me an [ __ ] multiple times and you've given many [ __ ] man you walked off the
01:26:17
Brian Atlas[ __ ] stage so I had to fix the camera angles mhm um holy [ __ ] bro do you have a um question what's your relation ship like with your parents with my parents yeah I knew that one was coming it's great I love both my parents they still
01:26:29
Palomatogether no okay what's your relationship like with your father I don't feel like I need to tell you any of this I'm just curious I'm just not going to tell
01:26:41
Brian Atlasyou you're just not going to answer the question correct ple the
01:26:50
Palomafifth I know it's troubling
01:26:58
PalomaI'm pretty sure you just came on intentionally just a troll I don't know I was like in the road and you guys just approached me so I didn't really come on here you guys kind of asked me to come on so yeah
01:27:10
Palomathat's right but you've kind of come on with like a very nasty attitude not really I just think you kind of ask ridiculous questions you ask like dumb
01:27:20
Josiequestions and I know they all agree they you agree no you agree I think you agree he's been doing this for a long time he knows how to get views yeah I think he's smart and I think he's just
01:27:31
Brian Atlaskind of picking at certain things I think I'm not picking it I'm literally asking you guys about your dating history it's a dating show that you're picking at it's to the questions I'm asking are totally contextual yeah we're
01:27:45
Josienot saying anything or I'm not saying anything about that but I'm more more like just picking at the yeah you the bear man well I mean it depends that's she poking the bear back it's it's
01:27:57
Josiedefinitely both ways yeah you're poking the bear I'm poking the bear back like what's the problem with that I'm not poking the bear I'm asking legitimate questions yeah I think the fact that you're a guest but you were asking her like her relationship with her father
01:28:09
Palomaand like that kind before my God you're trying to go into my relationship you're asking who was the abuser what how what kind of abuse like what kind of [ __ ] human
01:28:21
Palomaasks somebody that I wouldn't even ask my like close friend that you're the one who brought up abuse you're the one who asked me why we weren't together anymore I said it was a mentally abusive relationship you're like oh what kind of abuse did he hit you blah blah blah blah
01:28:35
Brian Atlaslike who the [ __ ] asks that that's not how I framed it you said did he hit you yeah same [ __ ] question that's not that's literally not what I said I asked if I asked if it was physically abusive that's the same
01:28:46
Palomathing physically abusive did he hait you that's the same thing no it's not the words are literally different oh my God you think it it's you don't think it's fair game to ask a question I just feel like the questions you ask you ask them
01:28:58
Palomafor a very specific reason and I think you're strategic about what you're doing of course and I respect it I know what you're doing and I think you're doing what am I doing I think you're good at it what am I doing you're just trying to get some content and I respect that but
01:29:11
LilianI'm just not going to I'm literally asking you guys questions okay so continue asking your questions well I mean the questions technically weren't covered in what we were dm'd with the question rack so I think that that caught some of us part nothing wrong with that at all like
01:29:25
Lilianthere's absolutely nothing wrong with that what question I don't even know what you're referencing now like I'm just going Tove like what's the relationship with my father what's the deal with my friend's death it's sus to have a funeral I know it sounds sus but that's like like oh well your friend
01:29:38
Palomapassed at two you should have been here at four like that's [ __ ] weird I know that might not be exactly what it was but you were questioning why she wasn't here when her friend passed yesterday can I say something like hello go ahead
01:29:49
Allisonlet's just say he was your boss and you had to be at work and someone died and you decided to to not show up if you just say last minute oh well sorry I had a funeral they would expect you it it's kind of the same thing it's if you're
01:30:02
Allisonexpected to be somewhere I mean if someone died and I had to go to work the first thing I would do is call out of work because I don't I don't I don't want to one lose the respect of you know my employer my co-workers I don't want
01:30:13
Lilianto leave that shift to fall on someone else it's just not at all but this isn't a this is a shift but it's not like your mind just goes blank when those things happen like that's exactly what happens when you have diagnosed TSD I mean I've definitely been in situations where I
01:30:26
Josiewas super frantic and like things were going crazy and I'm okay most of the time you're saying what happened it's a commitment to make like I am in the wrong I can admit that and
01:30:37
Josieher friend did die and I mean to like elaborate a little bit on it I guess um you know her friend is a artist who um gave her a lot of like placements and
01:30:49
Josiethings like that so that's why she's really distraught about him passing because it's not like this person was just I mean it was more than really a friend it was kind of a business relationship you guys had as well from what I understand at least well yeah I
01:31:01
Allisonmean it was but you're not really speaking I mean all we're saying is if he you know everyone feels bad of course if it did happen it's just like he's just saying hey it would have felt better if you would have been like look I'm really sorry I should have texted
01:31:13
Josieyou oriz to him so and I'm saying like she's 19 like I don't know if you can really not that she's probably a very one of the most mature 19y olds I know no I do
01:31:24
Josieit's interesting like answering for her too yeah well because I feel you guys are attacking her so and he's and like I just don't like seeing that and I don't feel like she knows how to respond to all the questions properly sometimes and I'm not saying like you're not
01:31:37
Josieintelligent but I know you haven't slept last night like I didn't and I also know you haven't slept at all I know what's going on with you so that's why I feel en Tyler State speak on it a little bit
01:31:47
Brian Atlasyou also have to understand on this topic is that we've probably had on over a thousand guests every single week we do show Sunday Tuesday mind you I believe I don't
01:31:59
Brian Atlasrecall the precise details uh we've had you scheduled previously and my car blew out my transmission blew out if I recall correctly you let us know like 2 hours before the show cuz my car transmission
01:32:11
Brian Atlasblew out when I was on the road so you understand and we've had a couple girls here who've been on the show before they've seen it firsthand some people have legitimate legitimate
01:32:22
Brian Atlasexcuses a lot of girls who come on this show they lie definitely they make up some [ __ ] for example we have we've had girls who've said my car my car uh I
01:32:33
Brian Atlashad a car issue broke down and they'll send us a photo even and it's local here they'll send us we had this um couple couple weeks
01:32:41
Brian Atlasago it was a cloudy in the photo it was a cloudy day now I live in the same area it was clear skies and sunny the whole day here's my car broken down from today
01:32:53
Brian Atlasso people will lie we've had girls who say oh I'm sick oh something happened I can't make it and then we look at their Instagram later they're at the club they're at the bar they're on a boat they're on a yacht A lot of people lie
01:33:06
Brian Atlasokay no they do I'm not saying you're lying I actually believe you I don't blame you I actually believe you but a lot of people are liars they'll come up
01:33:14
Brian Atlaswith my dog ate my homework type [ __ ] MH so I am skeptical in general when people choose to flake on plans now this is can be dating related it can be
01:33:26
Lilianprofessionally related people tend to lie li like this cuz you're put on the spot and on the spot right now I'm driving my dad Chevy Equinox I drive a 2016 chevet I'm not saying I'm not saying no I'm just saying no I know
01:33:38
Brian Atlasyou're not the reason for why I'm skeptical when people come up with oh here's why I'm late here's why I you know can't make it he's saying he's saying people do it all the time no I imagine that no show today no I
01:33:51
Lilianunderstand that's why I was so like I need to get here today cuz I failed to that commitment last time because some like crazy like it was like the stupidest [ __ ] like I like I started the car and it wouldn't go forward cuz the transmission blew and it's literally
01:34:03
Lilianstill in the shop like it's just like I don't know I might I need to get like a rabbit's foot or something but like I don't know it's it's all good we're going to keep things moving I appreciate that you you were able to uh make it
01:34:15
Brian Atlashere today I apologize for being late it's okay I thank you for your apology okay so I appreciate we're gonna get back I know we're going to get back
01:34:26
Josieyou you were saying something about what you want from a man oh yeah back to
01:34:35
Josiethat back to this controversial subject so what like what do I want from a man that's what you're asking me yeah you were saying how um you want a guy to
01:34:47
Josiepay for all your bills and stuff pretty much I feel like um that I feel like men don't really like and just from my own
01:34:56
Josierelationship experiences um and just being a person who was really loyal and held things down made most of the money
01:35:06
Josiewent to college moved from Wisconsin to Phoenix to California and kind of held the team up and Tred to put motivation
01:35:15
Josieinto a man and all that I just feel like men only really I won't say they this will even make them loyal or whatever
01:35:24
Josiebut I feel like they have to invest into you for them to like really be um I don't know like stable with you I feel like if they don't invest in you then it
01:35:36
Josieyou know you end up that's why women just end up in these situations where it's like oh I I have a kid and he cheated on me and all this da D happened and then and and now I'm left with nothing and I have now I got to raise this kid by myself and all this stuff
01:35:50
Josiewell I feel like you didn't have a standard going into the relationship ship like like you know this is my standard I'm not dating you I'm not having sex with you unless this is me because once they do that I feel like once those requirements are met and
01:36:03
Josiestandards are met it's going to be a lot harder for them to leave you a lot harder for them to like move on so that's my take on it I have a question for you yeah um you said if he's paying for all your stuff you're bringing to
01:36:13
Abigailthe table your pretty self um if a man was just attractive very attractive and that was it and you're with him would you stay with him no I don't date men
01:36:25
Abigailbased on their attraction I don't date them based on their looks so don't you think it's a bit hypocritical that you expect him to pour all this eort effort I feel like men definitely date based on
01:36:36
Josielooks I feel like women don't you know um so I don't feel like you know sure there's a double standard on stuff but you know Society is the way it is and I
01:36:47
Abigailfeel like women need to um have more standard for themselves and that's my opinion on that okay so if all you're bringing to the table is looks and good looks are pretty common and so he can go
01:36:59
Abigailand find another girl with good looks do you expect him to stay with you well if he's investing in me he's not going to want to lose his investment on me so he will stay with me I think and if he doesn't then on to the next like you I
01:37:13
Josiedidn't lose anything in this relationship I only gained rather than me losing like okay we got in a relationship you didn't invest anything now I'm emotionally involved with with
01:37:23
Josieyou maybe you cheat on me with my best friend maybe you who knows what happens now I'm emotionally distraught now my dating life is messed up because I'm still thinking about you I'm trying to
01:37:34
Josieget over you I can't all that no instead if a man invests in you I just feel like now it's going to be a lot harder for him to leave you if you have that standard from the jump like like to begin with if you understand what I'm
01:37:46
Josiesaying like do so do you think having that standard from the jump might keep you keep you single longer um I think it makes it it weeds out all the men who
01:37:56
Josieyou know don't want to do that and a lot of men have their like little you know oh she's a gold digger oh you're this or that you know but I don't really care
01:38:06
Abigailbecause like what are you you're probably not any better than me like you know so and do you think you'll respect a man like truly respect him if he is
01:38:16
Abigailaccepting you for just your looks and you're expecting all of this from him and so he's catering to your needs and has no standards for himself besides looks I mean I don't think that that means he doesn't have a standard I think
01:38:29
Josieit means he has more respect for women if he feels like I don't want my woman to be struggling I don't want her to be in this like fight or flight mode you
01:38:39
Josieknow like rather than I'm taking care of her you know and I'm providing this safe space for her to be herself and you know maybe work on the things that like now do I I mean I'm personally not ever oh
01:38:52
Josiethe type I'll never stop working that's just me my type of who I am but I don't think if a woman woman wants to be with a man I don't think like she should that like it shouldn't be like oh you got to
01:39:04
Josiework too that should a guy should not be coming approaching a woman like what do you bring to the table like if you like me okay you like how I look because I think men like I said date for looks so you like me you like how I look you want we're maybe we go on a few dates
01:39:17
Josiewhatever whatever and you're interested in me okay well before I do anything with you this is my standard if you don't want to meet that then that's what it is we can be friends or we just don't even got to be like we if you don't if
01:39:29
Josieyou can't be my friend then we don't got to be anything and that's what it is like and I think like he I he I definitely have respect for a man because also if a man is providing for me why would I leave somebody who's
01:39:42
Josiedoing all this for me that's not easy to come by either so you know what I'm saying like it kind of goes both ways I feel like like you want to talk I almost said I was say wait you tell them right up front that you want them to pay for
01:39:54
Josieeverything um yeah I mean I make it pretty clear like I feel like Corner yeah yeah yeah go ahead go ahead oh sorry I feel like I make it pretty clear from um the I mean if you know me and
01:40:05
Josieyou're around me you're going to know like that's the type of time I'm on and then if you don't know me you're just getting to know me you're going to learn pretty quickly that's the type time so how do you say it to them I mean I just
01:40:15
Josiesay like honestly they mainly kind of understand the vibe because generally what happens is if it's not spoken in like they've taken me on a few dates and I didn't do anything with them and I
01:40:27
Josieleave and then it's like okay so obviously she wants something so then maybe they'll be like oh I want to spoil you or I want this and I'll be like okay like yeah or I want to take you on a vacation or something I'm like okay well
01:40:37
JosieI have bills to pay I have stuff I can't just leave you know I got to work so if you want me to be all accessible to you I need some money like I need some I
01:40:48
Josieneed a bill pay like here's my rent I don't know like I don't know so yeah I mean I kind of do like Honestly by like the third date it's known do you tell them your rapper on
01:40:59
Brian Atlasthe date yeah I tell them everything about me do you rap for them yeah they want to put a bean on that's um Abigail I we need to do a couple chats I'm going to have you read
01:41:10
Brian Atlasthem heads up guys we're not doing $69 anymore we boosted it back up I should have announced it but you know we only do for the first 30 minutes of the show I'll have Abigail read them uh so we'll
01:41:20
Brian Atlaslet them come in so Abigail I'm gonna have you read a couple
01:41:26
Abigailsecond the mic you got do it into the mic though second girl you are a guest this is Brian's show it is very sus to have a funeral the day after death that
01:41:36
Abigailis very strange so Brian is right to question lose the attitude I believe it no respect pathetic all right uh we have another one coming in go ahead and read
01:41:46
Abigailthat Brian stop milking green shirts attitude and behavior for views and K kick her she brought the show to a
01:41:55
Brian Atlasgrinding Halt and it's annoying all right we have Bron
01:42:04
Abigailsance uh but thank you illino boy appreciate it go ahead Andrew is not here but the I'm I have really bad Vision bro assant okay but the Bro ass I
01:42:17
Brian Atlashave a really bad Vision question to all the women is your father or stepfather in your life the blue sweater chick looks like someone to her to the sad basement for a didd
01:42:28
Brian Atlaswhat to the sad basement I have no idea what that means but uh is your father or stepfather in your life going around the table starting with Abigail actually go ahead my father oh yeah he's in my life he's Wonder Happy Father's Day bat Happy
01:42:41
AbigailFather's Day Happy Father's Day I love you yes he's very much in my life yes my dad is very much in my life bolt up yes I love my dad shout out Dad yes
01:42:53
Lauren Rosesmy dad's yes love you Dad Happy Father's Day yes my dad and re-entered my life as an adult and yes yes love you Gary yes my dad
01:43:04
Brian Atlasis all right and then we have one more if you can't read it I'll read it go for it you can read it hey Brian longtime fan of the podcast and your social projects and I want to hop on the podcast someday if I can but
01:43:17
Brian Atlaskeep cooking these of girls and snap them back to reality you're doing the Lord's work oh man all right right by the way guys uh Reed is 99 from
01:43:27
Brian Atlashere on out TTS is 199 from here on out so 100 and for Reed 200 for TTS um but uh those just kind of slid through there so I just wanted to at least get them
01:43:39
Brian Atlasred sorry they didn't come through as a TTS just forgot to mention that so can you pull your mic to the edge oh and twitch yeah we'll do twitch guys
01:43:48
Brian Atlasdrop us follow on Twitch uh follow us on Twitch if you've got a prime sub drop us a prime sub 1600 people watching no ads over there on Twitch drop yo Walsh thank you for the
01:44:01
Brian Atlasprime man appreciate it thank you guys thank you for all the follows and primes appreciate it guys thank you and uh okay I want to uh what did we have to I I we'll come back to some of your stuff we need to get relationship status though
01:44:13
Graceso go ahead single how long you've been single um well for 5 months now longest relationship was a year and a half and
01:44:23
Graceif you want to see why we ended um go to the other podcast that I was in oh can you just give us a recap for the new viewers mommy issues with him and it
01:44:35
Brian Atlaswas we were just both immature both immature okay uh and you were on like two months ago a month ago or something yeah like a month ago any dating any
01:44:45
Allisondating prospects no from that okay what about you um I am single I've been single for 4 years and my longest
01:44:54
Allisonrelationship was six years wow okay and uh you're religious correct yeah have a relationship with Jesus yeah I know you're going to say
01:45:06
Brian Atlasthat so are you you're like non-denominational Christian yeah non-denominational Protestant or just non-denominational you could say Protestant okay and
01:45:18
Allisonso are you uh do you consider yourself a born born again um yes I do now do you consider yourself a born again virgin I mean I don't
01:45:28
Allisonreally think about the term but uh no I don't think of it like that I just went celibate now cuz I repented from premarital sex and got to pick it up and keep it moving sure what about you uh
01:45:42
Abigailrelationship status is that we're still on that yeah that's yeah okay I'm married I've been married for a little over a year and my longest relationship is my marriage
01:45:53
Abigailstill married yep okay love that ring thank you it's amazing how long uh how long were you guys dating we didn't actually didn't date um I've known him
01:46:03
Abigailfor a little over three years now we were best friends and we just started falling for each other and we wanted to buy a house together and I'm big on not living together before marriage so we
01:46:15
Abigailgot married and you were on about a year ago if I recall is that correct yeah I think it was like nine months ago or something like that okay and and uh marriage going going well yeah very well
01:46:26
Brian Atlasgood good uh what do you say to people who kind of uh raise an eyebrow you know getting married at 20 to is uh I would say a bit uncommon nowadays yeah uh I
01:46:37
Abigaildon't know if you ever get uh criticisms or what what do you say to those people people definitely do criticize um I guess my biggest offense is my parents
01:46:49
Abigailhave been happily married for a very long time and they raised me uh to get married and they approve of this man and
01:46:57
Abigailthey approve of the marriage um and I'm way happier married than I was single I don't intend to get married to end up divorced so it's till death do us
01:47:10
Abigailpart and I think I mean I don't have to answer the people who raise an eyebrow to me um of course people are going to have their opinions but it doesn't
01:47:21
Brian Atlasaffect the longevity of our marriage M okay I see all right cool we've got everybody's relationship status uh we're working on getting Andrew uh he should
01:47:34
Brian Atlasbe joining us here in just a few minutes so we have pelagic it's on purpose she's purposely trying to throw you off with her mental manipulation
01:47:43
Brian Atlasshe's good no doubt about that uh for me yeah no you're right pelagic thank you man appreciate it appreciate it dude
01:47:53
Brian Atlasand like the video boys like the video uh it helps out with the algorithm so uh thank you guys what was the uh Nick is there anything we had to react to um yeah we got Tik
01:48:11
UnknownTok yeah there's that and then yeah um hold on
01:48:23
Brian Atlasuh okay I'm trying to think when I want to do this one sec guys I'm just checking on Andrew here I think uh Nick do you want to boot up Discord and just see if he's uh just give him a call see if he's good
01:48:36
Brian Atlasto go all right so I do want to come back to what you were saying here for just a moment I was hoping to get a little more detail yeah on uh you what you're looking for in a guy you said you
01:48:47
Josiedon't really care about looks yeah it's not that I don't but it's not like my top thing like you know like he's got to be clean but he doesn't
01:48:58
Abigailgot to be like the most handsomest I do have a question so you said for a guy looks are important and for you clearly being able to support you financially is
01:49:08
Abigailimportant so I'll re ask my question before instead of just looks if he only had money and that was it that's all he
01:49:17
Abigailhad going for him would you stay with him I mean is he helping me it's all he brings to the table is money he's giving you his money but he could be super ugly
01:49:28
Josiebad personality dirty ruins your house definitely not okay but that yeah definitely not I mean if you're um I feel like cool you pay all my bills but
01:49:41
JosieI mean if you're just stressing me out so you expect more than just Financial stability well yes I mean I'm kind of confused with like exactly what else I
01:49:52
Josiewhat else I'm only asking this because you said you bring to the table your looks you you didn't list any other things what I'm going off I I I don't think a guy who likes me as like as much
01:50:03
Josieto help me out like that I don't think he's probably only interested in my looks but he might be um um you know what saying he's interested in more than your looks but if he's not a good person if he's not a good person then he's not
01:50:15
Josiefor me like I don't want to deal with anybody who's a bad person like you know at least so what I would Define a good person or what I would find a bad person is which my definition is going to be different from everybody else's so you
01:50:27
Josieknow um so would you say you're a good person I'm a pretty good person I think so too and Nick how's it you getting worked with Andrew have you tried calling
01:50:41
Brian Atlashim you can still try to do the voice call uh I think he should maybe he's just getting a couple things all set up well to kind of echo the question that
01:50:52
JosieAbigail was asking before perhaps you can restate it because there's a bit of hecticness going on uh she asked what do you bring to the table yeah um you know
01:51:02
Josiemy pretty self do you cook or clean uh I clean I cook sometimes but I'm not going to uh cook or clean um unless you're
01:51:13
Brian Atlasproviding for me so I do do you expect a guy to do all those things that you want him to do immediately not necessarily okay no I mean I think if
01:51:24
Josiethe relationship builds out over time sure but then we're not having sex if that makes sense you're not like we could be dating but we're not oh having sex you know what I'm saying like I if
01:51:34
Josieif if I like you and you like me and you know it's not you're not there yet like you're not trying to do something for me or help me out in my life like whatever then yeah I mean we could date for a
01:51:47
Brian Atlaswhile and stuff but but you wouldn't have sex until they start paying you for things yeah want to say paying me for things I mean you're going to make it sound like I'm an escort well but I mean I'm I'm trying to be I'm trying to be
01:51:59
Brian Atlascharitable here but you said that you're waiting until to have sex until they fall into the provider role correct yes I think so yeah so you'll date a guy
01:52:09
Josiethink so and then but you will withhold sex until he does what until um you know my life is taken care of like why would I be intimate with you why would I be
01:52:20
Josieintimate with you if you're not if you don't care about like just because we're intimate doesn't mean you care about me like show me that you actually care about me like do stuff like even just bringing flowers and stuff anybody could
01:52:32
Josiedo that and then stop doing that so I feel like that doesn't for a man couldn't the guy provide for you and then stop providing yeah and then we're not going to continue our relationship
01:52:41
Josiemy my question here is how is this not definitionally prostitution it's definitely not prostitution because I'm
01:52:49
Josienot for one I mean I'm definitely not slandering anybody um but I'm not on a street corner um I'm not it's not it's
01:52:59
Josienot it's not oh this you want to uh this is what it is like even if you give me money that doesn't mean I'm going to be intimate with you well it might not be if I like you then yeah right but so
01:53:11
Brian Atlasokay I I acknowledge that it's not a super overt transaction in so far as I will have sex with you pay me $300 right