Alex Stein DESTROYS Whatever Podcast?! 4 Dates In 1 DAY?! HEATED Chivalry Debate! | Dating Talk #266
Date: 2025-10-27
Duration: 8h 38m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_03Paige (Alex's GF)(guest)
SPEAKER_04Marley Jay / Amelia(guest)
SPEAKER_05Jenna (Paris)(guest)
SPEAKER_06Melissa Pereira(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_09Alex Stein(guest)
SPEAKER_10Colette Fair(guest)
SPEAKER_11Camila (Cam)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Megan(guest)
SPEAKER_14Taylor(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:13
IntroAll 9 guests + Alex Stein introduce themselves
00:17:48
IntroTaylor (18) introduces herself as helicopter mechanic, surprising the panel
00:58:49
ControversyMegan reveals she cheated on 2nd husband during parole agent academy. 'I'm not a good person.'
01:30:45
QuoteAlex Stein's famous AOC clip: 'my favorite big booty Latina'
01:46:00
Key MomentJenna calls Alex 'cringe,' he fires back: being a porn star with kids is more cringe
02:18:15
Key MomentBrian: if you want me to lead, you need to follow. Being obedient, submissive. Women don't want to do those things anymore.
03:15:00
Key MomentBrian: if I have to die for a woman, the least she can do is obey and be submissive
04:53:00
QuoteMarley states $300K minimum for husband despite not making six figures herself
05:05:00
ControversyAlex presents controversial theory that segregation had positive economic effects for black communities
07:51:05
OtherJenna's porn origin: stumbled into Kink.com at 18, recruited as $1,600 extra while making $9.50/hr studying neuroscience
08:02:38
OtherAlex introduces girlfriend Paige: 26, TCU finance grad, met at OAN
Topics Discussed
00:00:13
Guest Introductions
Diverse panel: Marley Jay (37, holistic wellness/DJ), Amelia (26, OF/macromastia), Colette (52, therapist), Camila (29, aspiring actress), Jenna (31, porn star since 2013), Megan (34, parole agent), Melissa (32, ballroom dancer from Canada), Taylor (18, helicopter mechanic). Alex Stein joins as guest comedian.
00:27:27
Relationship Status Round
Colette married twice. Megan divorced twice, cheated on 2nd husband during academy. Jenna polyamorous with a cop. Discussion of child support/alimony.
01:29:43
Alex Stein Viral Clips
AOC 'big booty Latina' clip, ICE protest, city council. Jenna calls it 'cringe,' Alex fires back about being a porn star mom.
02:11:15
Chivalry Debate
Brian: women must be followers to earn chivalrous treatment. Colette pushes back. Discussion covers paying for dates, sidewalk rule, taking a bullet, submission.
02:21:55
Colette's 4 Dates in 1 Day
Did 15-minute Starbucks meet-ups to efficiently screen online dating matches.
03:35:00
Cultural Appropriation / Dreadlocks
Whether Marley Jay's dreadlocks are cultural appropriation. She explains it's part of her Hebrew heritage.
04:16:10
Self-Ratings / Body Count Reveal
Most give 8s. Jenna rates 4 (bad skin day). Body counts: Marley 11-12, Amelia ~34, Colette 14, Jenna 79, Megan 10+, Melissa 30+, Taylor 1, Alex ~20.
04:50:00
Feminism and Nuclear Family
Alex: society deliberately pits men vs women. Feminism weaponized to destroy nuclear family.
04:52:48
Income Requirements
Marley $300K (most controversial). Amelia $100K. Colette $200K. Jenna $80K. Megan $160K. Melissa ~$14,560. Taylor $100K.
05:03:20
Manifestation Debate
Extended debate on whether manifestation is real. Alex 'manifested' his AOC encounter.
05:17:50
Women's Rights and Oppression
Colette argues women don't have truly equal rights. Brian presents greater male variability hypothesis. Alex says women are somewhat oppressed through abortion encouragement.
06:05:00
Segregation Theory
Alex presents controversial theory that desegregation had unintended negative economic consequences for black communities.
06:45:00
Weight Rejection and Height
Debate over weight rejection hypocrisy with height preferences.
07:51:05
Jenna's Origin Story in Porn
Stumbled into Kink.com at 18 thinking it was Renaissance building. Paid $1,600 first appearance vs $9.50/hr job.
07:57:33
Makeup Removal
Canadian super chatter Pasty George ($3000+ in donations) promises Brian laptop if all women remove makeup. Most comply.
Transcript
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07:57:34
Camila (Cam)>> Sure. Pasty George. going to have to wait till the next Christmas. >> I should have left it on. >> Damn, bro. >> Sorry.
07:57:43
SPEAKER_00>> George donated $70. Brian, I'm First Nations cre is gross to me. Not because of her looks, but due to her past. >> Was seven. Me. >> Oh, well. Okay.
07:57:56
Brian Atlas>> Seven. >> Thank you. Uh, thank you, By George. Thank you. Wow, that was very polite. >> Everyone has their own type, right? >> Wait, why? Why? G. Gross is a strong
07:58:06
SPEAKER_00word. Pasty. Gross is a strong word. >> Okay. Uh, we have wisdom here. Wisdom.
07:58:15
SPEAKER_00>> Barrier. Wisdom. Donated $69. Exquisite show tonight. Brixen. The rhetoric of empowerment rings hollow when purchased at the expense of tomorrow's stability. Time presents its
07:58:28
SPEAKER_00invoice to every ego unbidden and undiscounted. >> That was beautiful. >> Yeah. Poetry. some Shakespeare [ __ ] dude. >> Gorgeous. >> His name's Wisdom, so he's he's definitely >> Yeah.
07:58:40
Brian Atlas>> Vario Wisdom. >> Uh, what? Hold up the makeup wipe. Hold it up. Spread. Spread. Hold up. Hold it up. Show the damage. We got to show the damage. >> I'll take the makeup wipe just to prove that I have nothing on my face. >> Show the damage.
07:58:53
Brian Atlas>> You guys have been such great sports. Look at you ladies. >> Oh, there you go. There it is. Okay. Cool. Cool. Cool. >> I love it. >> Um, hold on. Mary, can you just uh close the Oh,
07:59:05
Brian Atlas>> I keep bumping this. >> Close the Mary. Close the >> Yeah. >> Yeah. All right. We have Okay, we're going to
07:59:16
Brian AtlasTTS 69. We have some bit more notes. Um Marley, you wrote the Wait, hold on. Let me see if I'm actually here. >> Uh okay. Marley, you wrote the importance of body mind spirit
07:59:29
Brian Atlasconnection being established in mental and spiritual to the additional physical deep intimacy, how the ex >> so bad >> sex is transferring energy. >> Mhm.
07:59:40
Marley Jay / Amelia>> I mean actually you touched on that a little bit like hours ago about how having a lot of partners there's you didn't say it in these words but the energetic is like a battery 100%. and
07:59:52
Brian Atlasoxytocin like the hormonal response like you know so >> you said that with majority of social interactions occurring online dating >> oh that
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> uh what are the effects of the talking stage in comparison to what we call courting and dating do you think uh men should court women >> well so so this question or sorry this
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Marley Jay / Ameliaanswer to what I was saying was when I I'm not on like official social media apps but like we've talked about Facebook and IG are basically uh dating apps. >> I feel like there's so much time spent
08:00:26
Marley Jay / Ameliain the talking stage and a lot of people they feel like they develop a deep connection from talking because you you get into very deep conversations usually, but it's still not sufficient
08:00:36
Marley Jay / Ameliato courting. And what I have to point out to continuously is just because we're at a talking stage doesn't mean that we're dating. M >> that's what I was trying to establish because I think there's confusion because you you have these really deep
08:00:49
Marley Jay / Ameliatalks with someone and you feel close to them but it doesn't is that closeness or is that an artificial thing from having a deep conversation but to me you have
08:00:59
Marley Jay / Ameliato go meet in person and have that >> I personal exchange I I'm not saying for everyone just for me and that's why I thought it might be an interesting topic. >> Well I feel like you can't have a deep conversation with somebody and then
08:01:12
Marley Jay / Ameliayou're not courting them at all. and I'm trying to date them at all. So, >> 100% and and it doesn't have to be romantic to have that. But I think there's confusion because we're able to cross so or we're able to gather so much
08:01:24
Alex Steininformation from people by having these conversations online without ever meeting that there's a false sense of closeness that isn't actually developed yet. >> Well, Brian has we have a bunch of parasocial relationship. There's people and some do become my friends, but there's people that just watch my
08:01:37
Marley Jay / Ameliacontent and they think that they know me and my or do they just know your persona? And that's the other problem with uh interacting strictly online is you're only presented a fractal of what that person wants you to know about
08:01:50
Marley Jay / Ameliathem. They're giving you their best or whatever it is that they want to present to you. >> True. So >> like when women wear makeup and stuff like that, >> I will take it off everything, but not
08:02:00
Brian Atlaswith this. I want to wash my face for real, not use this. That's my issue. >> Um, okay. Uh, moving on. Amelia, did we do your notes last time? >> Yeah, >> we we went through them. >> Yeah, you didn't ask me for anything
08:02:14
Brian Atlasthis time. >> Yeah, like for example, the whole swingers party stuff. Did we cover that? Yes. >> When you were on >> Yes. >> Uh something about uh let's see.
08:02:26
Marley Jay / AmeliaAnd then you said like how porn uh porn's bad basically. Okay. We talked about this. I was yeah I was in the first grade when I first was exposed to porn and so I had a porn addiction but I so I understand how it also affects
08:02:38
Brian Atlasother men and porn addiction >> I mean is the main >> no I know but we talked about it previously right >> I mean I'm just going to do this just for the sake of time uh gentlemen who are watching she's been on the podcast
08:02:50
Brian Atlasbefore find her previous episode we went over her notes on that one uh Megan let's see state parole agent you had a friends with benefits relationship in
08:03:01
Brian Atlashigh school. You've been divorced twice and you're not so keen on traditional rules. So, that gets traditional dating, but you admit they do exist. Uh, but I mean, we did I'm trying to remember
08:03:12
Brian Atlashere. Whoops. Are you more in favor of like tradition? Uh, you say men should provide, protect, husband should be willing to die protecting you, take the
08:03:22
Brian Atlasbullet. But, uh, yeah. Okay. Well, no, I think we talked about most of that. We have Colette, LMFT, LMHC, licensed psychotherapist, relationship expert,
08:03:33
Brian Atlasauthor. You were single for 10 years between marriages. You had every kind of dating experience. You dated multi-millionaires, 15 years older, and you also dated a 22-year-old younger
08:03:44
Brian Atlasguy, a cowboy when you were pushing 40. >> You also dated a professional Italian soccer player who spoke no English. >> You once went on four four dates in a
08:03:56
Brian Atlassingle day. Hey, we talked about that. >> No sex. You're dead. >> You got set up on it. >> Uh, you went on a blind date and the guy said, "I know your ex-husband and wow,
08:04:08
Brian Atlashis new wife is really hot." >> What? >> Fast. >> No, it wasn't. Okay. Okay. Okay. >> Uh, you had your first date where a guy literally pounded on the bathroom door so you wouldn't flush the toilet because he wanted to save water.
08:04:21
Colette Fair>> What? >> Yeah. If it's yellow, let it mellow. I mean, it was like, talk about a turnoff. I'm like, he you're so into conservation. I can't flush your freaking toilet. Okay. Okay.
08:04:34
Colette Fair>> Were you like interesting? >> This was a guy you were dating for. >> This was the first date. I did go back to first date. Do you not flush? Like that's that's very wild.
08:04:44
Brian Atlas>> It was nasty. How much did he want him to heed it for you? You got you got loved bombed for 4 weeks and then ghosted on your 40th birthday.
08:04:55
Colette Fair>> Yes. At my 40th birthday party. But you know what the beauty beautiful part of that story? I almost gave up on dating >> cuz I was so sad and then I met my husband 3 weeks later. >> There you go.
08:05:07
Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> When one door closes, another one opens. >> Exactly. The universe will provide. >> Uh let's see. You wanted to talk about uh why compatibility is overrated. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> So, you're fine with age gaps then? I'm assuming
08:05:20
Colette Fair>> with what? >> Age gap relationships. >> Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Like cuz people often say, you know, these age gap relationships, what's the compatibility there, you know? >> I mean, I think if it works for the
08:05:30
Colette Fairpeople in it, anything like I'm I'm really not against anything that's legal and and non-traumatizing, I guess. But I think that compatibility is not really
08:05:42
Colette Fairthe thing that people think it is. Nobody's really compatible. It's two people who choose to make it work because they want to. >> Okay. Uh you we already talked about the
08:05:51
Brian Atlaschivalry stuff. Uh you let's see. Um yeah. Uh you said you'd also push back on asking women their body count. >> Yes.
08:06:05
Colette Fair>> Even though I offered mine. >> You did provide it. That was appreciated. Uh you say it can carry implicit shaming even if not intended. I do think that I think I don't think society judges women the same way they
08:06:16
Colette Fairjudge men. Nobody's going to look twice if a man says he's had sex with, you know, 20 plus people. But if a woman says it, a lot of men and women will judge it. >> Standard.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Just like a lot of things are in both directions in fairness. >> But I mean, women can actually be the ones to uphold this. Women can just say we don't want these promiscuous men. Women Women can say, "We don't want to
08:06:39
Brian Atlasbe dealing with these promiscuous men. If you're a a man [ __ ] or whatever, then nah, [ __ ] you." >> I agree. But they don't. >> They don't. I think But I think the reality is >> men also try to hide their male
08:06:52
Alex Steinsluttiness. Well, men, >> not back in my day. >> Men and women did tonight. >> Well, yeah, a little bit. But this is the other thing is like I think some of the you guys might not understand is that women you guys actually do have a
08:07:05
Alex Steinlot of the power because you have the you know the you have the divinity portal. Your uterus literally is where life comes from. It's the portal of divinity. That's what they call it. Like without that we all came from that same portal.
08:07:16
Alex Stein>> And and I feel like a lot of women have disconnected with the power that they truly have. Like they don't want you to know that >> the power of the [ __ ] And that is literally the portal of divinity. We all came through here that portal. Every single one of us came through that
08:07:29
Alex Steinportal. >> And it's a magical portal. >> Mhm. >> That's why you shouldn't let a bunch of guys nut in it. And >> oh [ __ ] go on. >> Well, you know, it's like a, you know, a baseball bat can, you know, get hit. It's not going to mess up. But a
08:07:43
Alex Steincatcher, >> sometimes they crack and happen. >> They do. And a penis can crack and happen. I'm just saying like a baseball mitt, the more you use it, the looser it's going to get. You can't It's like you can't put the toothpaste back in the toothpaste. >> Better though, you know, you get that
08:07:55
Alex Steingood. Sometimes there could be a little more moisture and all that this and that. Yeah. I mean, yeah, there's there's >> No, there there's truth to that. >> There's some benefits to it, but but just remember >> Keigles. The Keeles. >> Yeah, you got to do your keles.
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Colette Fair>> It's like a used car. You want less miles on it to keep its value. Just remember that. That's simple mathematics. >> But that said, it may not seem like it, but I actually am an advocate for
08:08:18
Colette Fairwaiting to have sex, not having sex quickly. I tried briefly the idea of like having one night stands when I was single cuz I went to Catholic school. We like I was 18 when I lost my virginity.
08:08:30
Colette FairLike I just thought maybe this idea I've been fed about being so chased is [ __ ] and and one night stands did not work for me. Like I'm a relationship girl. I want to at least be dating you
08:08:40
Colette Fairand having you yell at me not to flush my toilet or you speak to me in Italian before I'm going to have sex with you. And of course, this is all academic now because I'm married.
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Colette Fair>> But I do believe people benefit from getting to know each other more before they start having sex in an ideal world. >> Yeah. >> Mhm. >> Uh we have Taylor's notes here. We're
08:09:04
Brian Atlasgoing to You know what we're going to do just for the final five minutes or so, 5 10 minutes of the show because we are wrapping. We're going to reduce the TTS. If you want, if you guys want to get the final roast in $30 TTS, well, $29.99
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Brian AtlasTTS. We're gonna wrap this here soon. I have Taylor's notes here. I just need to change a few things on the YouTube side. Uh, while I'm doing that, before I finish up the notes, anybody any final
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Marley Jay / Ameliathoughts from anybody here? Any final thoughts? >> Everyone who took their makeup off like looks and you you were worried about your acne. You're like glowing. You look gorgeous. >> Gorgeous. Oh my god. >> I don't know if you've caught me looking
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Marley Jay / Ameliaat you, but I'm just like, no, you look great. Everyone here looks Everyone looks great without the I would love for you to take your makeup off. I know you don't want to, but I know you're beautiful underneath it. And I kind of
08:09:50
Melissa Pereirawant Brian to get his laptop. >> Yeah. Excuse It's so rude. >> I owe >> you. You want me to do it? >> I do want to say to whoever it was that
08:10:02
Melissa Pereiraall of a sudden found me unattractive because of my past. I I find that interesting. Like I want to know >> George >> more because like I'm not like that anymore. I'm probably the least sexual
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Brian Atlasperson besides you at this table. >> Pasty pasty George. >> What? What's that scene from Englorious Bastards where they're about to uh like
08:10:23
Brian Atlasthe bear Jew or whatever? Uh, oblige her. Pasty George. Oblige her. Um, okay. TTS has been lowered. $30 TTS. I still
08:10:32
Brian Atlasneed to just change it here in one place so the description reflects it. $30 TTS. Guys, if you enjoyed the stream, kindly like the video. Like the video if you
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Brian Atlasenjoyed the stream. Like the video. Uh and then Okay, that should all be set. $30 TTS. Good to go. We do have Hold on. Wait.
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SPEAKER_00Pasty George donated $70. Brian Chair 4 didn't remove her makeup or wipe her entire face with a wipee. So, you won't get a MacBook Pro or a high-end laptop
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Brian Atlasin this episode, but maybe in the following podcast. Lol. >> Yeah, I thought I thought she was my Caucasian, but I guess not. I thought she was my homie, but >> I thought we were cool, but she just,
08:11:22
Brian Atlasyou know, whatever. Not my Caucasian. >> Um, but uh what if I sing the full Canadian national anthem? >> Know it in French.
08:11:32
Brian Atlas>> Can Pasty loves my singing voice? Just FYI. He's a big fan. Big fan of me singing. Okay. Uh, Taylor's notes.
08:11:42
Brian AtlasTaylor's Isn't that like a Never mind. Helicopter mechanic. Uh, you plan on enlisting in the military start of next year. Honestly, I don't know. Probably don't do that.
08:11:54
TaylorBut don't do that. I want to do it because I can go in to be a like do helicopter mechanicing and get military education to >> I mean honestly I guess if the work and the free college but I just would tell
08:12:06
Alex Steinyou that going and serving our country is very admirable. I'm like I really appreciate your service but they're going to chew you up and spit you out. So you know >> I feel like you know the app the
08:12:17
Brian Atlashelicopter mechanics though they probably keep them back. They probably help you out. But >> yeah, aviation get very >> Yeah, probably get treated a little better. Yeah, you're right. And then she
08:12:29
Brian Atlascould uh you know, she could jump that into I don't know. She could get some gig like >> I also >> I feel like a helicopter mechanic. They got to be paid pretty well, right? >> Yeah.
08:12:39
Taylor>> I make $25 an hour. What? But I was expecting starting out. >> Never get on. I will not go 25 dance teacher.
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Taylor>> Well, like the top paid like ammps make like $55 an hour or 50 in the 50s. >> She's just starting out. Yeah. >> She doesn't have her degree. She has to do her basic work to be able to go take
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Marley Jay / Ameliaher test so that she people have to check her work like no one's flying. >> You said you said you've been doing for like a year, right? Something like that. Yeah. So, you're at the beginning. I still I'm not like at the bottom of the shop though. >> No, obviously not.
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Taylor>> Like there's people that I make more than and I'm trusted to do more stuff than they are. >> But the potential is big. >> 25 at 18. >> Taylor, you say you believe in God. You
08:13:26
Brian Atlashold traditional conservative values. You're in a committed relationship with plans of marriage. You're opinionated and outspoken. And I feel you. You say you feel you could add some spice
08:13:37
Taylorspice to discussions on the show. Taylor, where's the Let's see a little spice. Where's the spice, Taylor? >> Well, I mean, I was kind of like I watch
08:13:48
Taylorlike listen to the podcast while I'm working in my headphones or whatever. And >> I feel like everyone here has just been really nice, not disrespectful. Like I feel like
08:14:01
Alex Stein>> I know that's my problem is like I want to come on here and fight with your big titties. I want to be punching your titties. >> I was like so excited to meet you. >> Yeah. People want me to like you know do like >> Yeah. They want us to you know like
08:14:13
Alex SteinStone Cold Steve Austin tombstone those titties. Yeah. You know what I mean? >> Tell me what you want me to be and I'll be it for you. But I mean, I I came on here with the expectation that I was going to just be fighting and everybody here has been very nice and like if
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Alex Steinanything, I feel like I might have debated with Brian the most and I agree with him on the most too. So, it's just kind of funny. It's like >> I mean, um, no, I wish I I wish I wish we would have been fighting more.
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> [ __ ] Manifested a nice, >> you know, it was the furry the furry flag. the furry friend. >> Yeah. And then and then the person I tried to get come, you know, she said that she would come anytime, but it was just too last minute.
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Colette Fair>> But like Colette is nice. Like she's just >> You gave me some [ __ ] You gave me some [ __ ] >> I know. I gave you a little [ __ ] but we were like arguing about something inconsequential. >> Well, that my sex life is a matter of opinion. >> I'm glad I called you a little
08:15:02
Alex Steinmasculine. >> Yes, I'm aggressive. I'm masculine. I'm You are that. But but uh I'm just saying because you took that as a negative, but I actually was saying that
08:15:13
Alex Steincomplimentary. I wasn't trying to say that. So I No, you know, I know it comes came across wrong, but I wasn't saying that wrong. >> I'm kidding. I'm kidding. >> Some of the comments I have said have been a little derogatory towards you, but I didn't mean that. And I know I apologize if I was derogatory. I just
08:15:26
Brian AtlasSome of these girls that are watching this, you don't want to be um a porn star. >> No, you don't. No, you don't. You don't want to do >> I could I could try to do a little alioop here. Um, is it straight to date a trans woman? >> No.
08:15:40
Brian Atlas>> Is it straight? >> Well, let's let's put the gals out here. Is it straight? So, uh, me for example. Okay. >> If I was dating a trans woman, is that straight? >> Like, are you straight? >> Am I straight? If I date a trans woman,
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> I guess that would depend where they are in their transition, right? >> Full-blown vagina. >> I guess not. >> I don't know. I never thought of that. I guess not. Mhm. >> Not Oh, not straight. >> Yeah.
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> Your thoughts? >> Um I I feel like there's a small percentage of people that do the full surgery. I feel like it makes you more bisexual unless they're like literally 10 out of 10 look like and but still then it's I don't know. Like I don't
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Jenna (Paris)know. >> Technically, no. >> Yeah. >> Your thoughts? >> I don't know. >> You don't know? >> No. >> So like two two dicks. Is that straight or gay? >> That's not straight. >> Okay. >> Wait. I thought you said they would have
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Jenna (Paris)the full surgery. >> Well, I that's I was granting it for her that it would be posttop. >> Oh, okay. So, that's not posttop. >> I mean, regardless, I would say maybe you're just to make it simple. She's posttop. >> Maybe you identify as being queer then.
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Alex Stein>> But can you be can you ever be straight? >> I don't think that you're straight if you're dating somebody that's trans. >> Well, there is a way it could be straight because this is this is how it could be and you see it on Jerry Springer all the time
08:16:57
Alex Stein>> is if it's a post opt trans woman and the person Yeah. has sex with him and didn't know. >> Oh, sure. >> If you don't know, but then that's not even a thing. But I'm saying that would
08:17:09
Brian Atlasbe a criminal offense. >> Oh, yeah. I agree. >> Crime some straight to jail probably. Your thoughts? >> I agree. I think it's you're bisexual. >> Yeah.
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Taylor>> Yeah. Oh, well, Taylor, >> I feel like like she was very opinionated you um about like race and you said something like you can dress up
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Tayloras a as black as you want, but you're always going to be a white boy. I feel like that applies to biology as well. Like you can dress up as a woman, you can try to cut your wiener off, but you're never going to be able to change your biology.
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Brian Atlas>> I agree. Based >> in Redfield. >> Yeah. >> W Taylor W. Taylor in the chat. Uh, you said you haven't really dated though. You have some interesting interactions with men that were traumatizing. The
08:17:54
Taylorfirst thing a guy said to you once was trade qu I don't understand what's >> so like on Snapchat like a lot of people will just like add you and sometimes you'll add people back and like the
08:18:05
Taylorfirst time the first thing a guy will say to you sometimes is trade like meaning trade nudes back and forth. >> Trade. >> They're called W Y L. They're called pedophiles is what that's called.
08:18:18
Brian Atlas>> What do you look like warriors? >> Child predators. >> Yeah, that too. >> Okay. >> Gross. >> And then you said uh final thing for you, Taylor. Uh you say how women demand
08:18:29
Brian Atlasa man act like a traditional chivalous man, but they do nothing to deserve that kind of man. >> Where you where were you didn't have my back? I thought we were I thought I said
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Taylorsomething. I thought I said something. I don't know if you did. >> And I feel like They're I couldn't find a good spot to join in. >> I thought I thought you were my Caucasian, Taylor. >> My Sorry. >> You were supposed to have my back. You were supposed to have my back, Taylor.
08:18:56
Brian Atlas>> I let you down. I'm sorry. >> Let me down. Um, you say you are what you attract. Uh, you say porn and Only Fans ruined the dating scene. Blame her. Blame her. >> Well, social media influencer,
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Marley Jay / Ameliayou know, one thing led to another. >> You know, I my nudes got doxed. I couldn't work a regular job and I had to make a decision. Do I want to keep doing social media and have an Only Fans, or do I want to like kind of live in fear of creepy men coming to my job and to my
08:19:21
Brian Atlashouse and saying that they're going to rape me? >> Thank you for sharing that. That was really necessary. Uh, so going back to Taylor. Going back to Taylor, uh, you know, it's not always about you. >> Anyways,
08:19:33
Brian Atlas>> let me make it Can I get more attention? Um, >> because I get so much good attention from saying bad things happen, you know. >> Uh, Taylor, your final thing here. You say how everyone wants all these traditional romantic things to happen.
08:19:47
TaylorBeing with your partner for your whole life, beautiful family, but out here acting like they are trying to catch them all. >> Trying to catch >> like Pokémon like >> STDs.
08:19:59
TaylorPeople I guess sleeping around, right? >> Yeah. I mean, they're not like acting like they're trying they're not dating with the intention to marry. they're not
08:20:10
Taylorputting the effort in their relationship to push towards marriage and that kind of thing. I feel like it's just super very super
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Brian Atlas>> Hughes. Miss Hughes, come back here. Um, gotcha. Uh, final person, final notes, our friend Cam. Cam, you went to Mexico with someone you were
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Camila (Cam)dating at the time and he left you there. >> Oh, yeah. That's actually a real story. I was very traum like traumatizing. Never again. It was with this one guy from Newport Beach where >> was a white guy. >> Yes.
08:20:44
Alex Stein>> Rhode Island. >> A rich white guy. No. Here in California. >> Actually, he wasn't rich. >> But he lived in Newport. I thought he might have been. >> No. No. >> Why did he leave you there? What What was his >> Cuz he was a weirdo and he had like legit mental issues. I'm going to get into the story. >> Okay. So, he was just crazy.
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Camila (Cam)>> Yeah. Long story short, he was a travel nurse. So, he obviously had a lot of access to certain medication that >> Yes. And you know, while I was on this trip, I felt like it was like this complete switch. Like just somebody I
08:21:09
Camila (Cam)didn't even recognize. And I was just like, whoa. Like this is not the person I've been, you know, getting to know for the past 8 months. >> And he got really mad. He didn't like the attention that I was getting down there. He didn't like that I spoke better Spanish than him. He just like had that
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Camila (Cam)>> How could you? >> Yeah. You know, and I was just like, "What the hell?" So while we were down there, he just was getting more aggravated every day. We were He was just like fighting with me over the smallest things. And I kid you not, the
08:21:34
Camila (Cam)last straw for him was me taking a picture on the beach. He was like, "Why are you taking photos in a bikini? This is ridiculous." I'm like, "I'm on vacation." Like, everyone takes pictures. Like, even if I wasn't in a bikini, let's say I'm I'm fully clothed,
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Camila (Cam)I'd still take photos. People capture memories when you travel. I don't care. I don't care. >> That's not weird to take a picture on vacation, >> right? Yeah. I was like, and so he got so fed up and he's like, "You know what? I've had enough of this Kim Kardashian
08:21:59
Camila (Cam)lifestyle that you just live and I'm so over." and he just blew up and I was like, "Okay, bye. See you never." >> I'm actually on his side because you do have Kim K vibes a little bit. Yeah, you do a little bit. >> Did you have a ticket home or did you have to like get buy a new one?
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Camila (Cam)>> I had a ticket home thankfully. And you know, I've I've I'm a very independent woman. I've traveled to many countries alone by myself. So, it didn't really spook me, but it was just the principle. >> Wait, was this a first date?
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Brian Atlas>> No. No. >> You You've been dating him for eight months. >> Was it a seven day trip? Five day trip. >> Eight months. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. What if you got on pills? >> But you said he was crazy
08:22:35
Camila (Cam)>> on the trip. Like he was acting just >> But back home. So do you got that was the end then? >> Yeah. I never never spoke to him again. I blocked him. He tried reaching out to me I think like through WhatsApp and like
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Camila (Cam)>> Was it the first day you got there or >> No, this was definitely I think within the third or fourth day. It was supposed to be a six- day trip, but then like towards the end >> you didn't want to smash or >> No, >> it wasn't that.
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Camila (Cam)>> No. Like no. Come on. I was just like, "No, no, no." It was just >> he was a nice guy until that happened. And obviously, I feel like the more time you spend with someone, the more of their true colors come out. You start to
08:23:10
Camila (Cam)see how people act, not just when you live with them, but when you travel with them because that's how that's a real thing because you're in a different country, you're in a different setting, stress comes in and people, you know,
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Brian Atlasreact to certain situations differently. And it was very eye opening for me. So, I was just like, "Yeah, that's a no-go." Yeah, >> absolutely not. >> All right, cool. Well, that's it for all the notes. We're going to let some of the chats come through, then we're going to get this all wrapped up, guys. Final
08:23:33
Brian Atlascall if you want to get a little TTS in. Final call. You guys still have time? $30 TTS if you want to get a final
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SPEAKER_00message in. We have Cha XD. Ch XD donated $30. The thing is, Chair 7, you're not a badl looking girl minus
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SPEAKER_00our tattoos. Men have a built-in disgust response to women's promiscuity. We accept that you may have changed, but we're repulsed anyway. >> Okay.
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SPEAKER_00>> Thank you, Chaw, for your message. There we have wisdom. >> Thank you, man. >> Barrier wisdom donated $69.
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SPEAKER_00Chair 8. I was a marine aircraft mechanic and air crew. Hard work, solid money. I got out, went to college, 100% VA and GI Bill. Now, if you're joining
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Taylorany branch, make it the Marine Corps. >> Simpify. >> Simpify. Thank you. Uh, >> you're shaking your head already. >> No, cuz then you're hanging out with >> Because I want to join National Guard because I'll make more money with a
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SPEAKER_00civilian job and a military job. >> Yeah, Marines are hard work. >> So, you'd be a reservist or >> Yeah, pretty much. >> I see. >> Techno Trooper donated $45.
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SPEAKER_00When dating apps reward attention over connection and I starts replacing affection, are we people searching for love or chasing validation in a system to keep us lonely? >> I recognize your name, Techno. >> That is deep right there.
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Brian Atlas>> That was a good one. >> Yo, Techno, thank you for the uh message, man. >> Yeah. >> Was that a rhetorical question like >> uh Techno, thank you, man, for the uh
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SPEAKER_00message. We have Charles. >> Charles Sterling donated $30. I think therefore I am. If I quit thinking, am I still not me?
08:25:26
SPEAKER_00>> What? >> That's deep, bro. That's deep. >> Okay, we have Pasty George here. >> Pasty George donated $30. >> What a legend.
08:25:37
SPEAKER_00>> I want to thank the panelists for attending the podcast. Our guest, Alex, and Brian, our host. Respect to the women who removed their makeup. Thank you all and good night.
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Brian Atlas>> I think I got all but one right. This >> Cam wouldn't do it. She's Filipina. But Pasty, thank you. >> You don't want to hear me sing, I guess. Uh and then we have uh Great. We have uh
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Brian Atlasthis below the threshold, but you guys can just see it on screen, I guess. Just saying. Great show, Alex. >> Thank you, Acidic Touch. >> Thank you, Acidic. Appreciate it, man. Appreciate it. Uh all right. Well, uh, if there's any that come that trickle
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Alex Steinthrough here at the end, I'll let them come through. Any any final thoughts from anybody? Speak now. Forever. Hold your peace. >> Well, I reiterated earlier. I'm mad that we didn't fight enough. Um, you know, some of you dirty [ __ ] are pretty good
08:26:27
Alex Steinpeople and you guys deserve >> you guys deserve a little less than what I get. So, um, thank you guys for actually, you know, this is the other thing. Even though I disagree with what
08:26:37
Alex Steinyou do, we do have a loneliness epidemic and you guys are getting a lot of disrespect from people probably in the chat. Even though I probably agree with them, you guys probably do help out a lot of lonely guys. So, even though what you do is disgusting and horrible, it
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Marley Jay / Ameliadoes have some >> There's only two girls, right? It's just you and you who do like sex work. So, >> but for Only Fans, I really do think what I'm selling is not porn or, you know, masturbation. Big massive taste.
08:27:02
Marley Jay / AmeliaIt really is like >> there's no better product to sell. If I could sell my titties, I would. I mean, >> my biggest clients like we have there's like a a talking relationship. It's not all just transactional. Buy this picture, buy this video. It's it's
08:27:16
Marley Jay / Ameliaconversation and >> titties and talk. Titties and talk. >> I don't know about full on therapist. >> Oh my god. Okay. >> Emotionally, I'm not crazy.
08:27:25
Marley Jay / Amelia>> I mean, sex form of physical therapy. Oh boy. I think there's a lot more to therapy than people realize.
08:27:35
Marley Jay / Amelia>> No, 100 100%. And and you are so well spoken and you've clearly done so like I feel like you'd be a great marriage counselor if I need one. >> Have you I guess question for you, me
08:27:47
Brian Atlasand Alex here, you know, we're we're a bit controversial, whatever. Um have you throughout the course of this, we've been together for a while now. Have you done a psychoanalysis of of me? I know we're not like in a clinic right now or
08:28:01
Alex Steinwhatever, but >> yeah. I mean, not a >> What's your What's your diagnosis? >> No diagnosis. No diagnosis. No diagnosis. >> You're not very professional because I have schizophrenia. I have depression.
08:28:13
Brian AtlasSo, you're obviously not a very good doctor. >> There you go. There you go. I'm uncovered. >> She She couldn't get the >> I missed it all. >> But any any diagnosis, we won't be I won't be offended.
08:28:26
Colette Fair>> No, no. I mean, I think it's just more interesting from like a socioultural aspect. I would have to ask you different things to get at diagnosis really truly. And I think anyone in my
08:28:39
Colette Fairfield that takes their job seriously is very careful about throwing those things around anyway cuz they're so misused. >> But I just think you guys are regular dudes with strong opinions.
08:28:49
Brian Atlas>> About regular, but >> well, regular has a big spectrum. Okay. Do you detect any autism? >> I mean, >> from either of us, I guess. Mostly me though.
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Colette Fair>> I am [ __ ] So, >> okay. Well, now that is not in the DSM, but thank you for telling me. I mean, listen, as like that again, it's it's literally a spectrum and it is such a spectrum that I think that can be hard
08:29:14
Colette Fairto detect, too. But that would not have >> It's almost impossible not to the spectrum is so big. It's almost impossible not to be on it is what what you're saying kind of. >> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I think it can manifest in so many different variations
08:29:27
Colette Fairof retardation. It's almost impossible for us to not be slightly >> not equating ASD with with uh mental deficiencies, >> if you will. >> It's me, Alex.
08:29:38
Alex Stein>> Autism is a superower, >> but I do think it's interesting to hear people using the R word. >> Is that a bad word? >> Your eyes. >> Well, you can have like [ __ ] growth or like growth that gets stopped.
08:29:51
Alex Steindoesn't mean that the growth has autism, right? So like [ __ ] like something can be [ __ ] that means you stop it from growing. So I just >> I mean it when you're not applying it to people it
08:30:02
Alex Stein>> choose you get to choose what makes you offended right you get to choose that. So like you can hear me >> I'm not offended. I mean I'm a child of the 80s. Like that was like the most common word said,
08:30:14
Alex Stein>> but I try to think about the impact I have on other people without >> you're white guys are allowed to say it. If this is the '8s, I'd be saying it to you the whole time. >> Oh god. No. If it was Why do you think of that word when you look at me? I This is really
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Alex Stein>> because you're the only black one. What the word? But you have >> No, I'm joking about that. I'm making a joke. I wouldn't be using it like that, but I'm just >> I think you owe the sister an apology. >> I'm sorry. And I'm taking back my lack
08:30:41
Brian Atlasof diagnosis. >> Never said it in the >> What I just did was worse. >> Oh my god. >> I want you to have reparations. >> You know, Dave Chappelle has a joke on this though. I Man, I'm probably going to butcher it, but he he was going to
08:30:53
Brian Atlassee the uh somebody who worked as a sensor at Comedy Central and they wanted him to stop saying I can't I'm not going to say on stream, but a bundle of sticks. Uh the f word, right? Cuz he was
08:31:06
Brian Atlassaying it and they were like, "You know what? Can you not say And then he w and then uh I'm trying to remember exactly the framing here, but
08:31:14
Brian Atlasum he uh she she goes and says something like and he was like, "Well, why?" And she said, "Well, because you're not, you know, you're not gay or whatever." And he was like, "Oh, okay." And then he goes back to her and he's like, "Well,
08:31:27
Brian Atlashold on. >> I say the nword on my show all the time." >> Yeah. >> And then she's like, "Well, Dave, uh >> tell you
08:31:36
Brian Atlas>> you are black." And he says, "Well, that's right. But I'm not the n-word." >> Anyways, I that's probably not the best. >> No, it is. It is.
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Alex Stein>> But um anyways, >> well, Chris Rock is a famous joke. >> The nwords is different than the, >> you know, there's the blind people, then there's the nwords. You know, it's a famous, you know, this set. I You have
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Alex Steinto watch it. It's a famous Chris Rock thing, but there is a difference between black people and the >> Oh, boy. Everybody know I didn't say is that really how we're >> I'm black so I can say all this and I would be using the word but I don't want to disrespect my soul system but yeah I
08:32:12
SPEAKER_07am black enough [ __ ] >> black enough to say it >> you don't call [ __ ] people retards >> bad taste >> you call your friends retards when they're acting [ __ ] >> Yes. Agreed. >> It's true.
08:32:26
Brian Atlas>> Agreed. >> 100%. >> It is true. Okay. We have two chats coming through here. Uh, we have Aloo. >> Aloo. >> Aloo.
08:32:37
SPEAKER_00>> Aloo donated $30. Chair for get your strong and independent as back in the country on your own. >> Share eight. Stay away from aircraft for
08:32:46
Camila (Cam)military sake. Stick to sandwiches. All yall fought/ granny's are cooked with cats. >> What the heck? That was the most unhinged one. >> In my response, I did get myself back
08:32:58
Camila (Cam)into the country. Thank you very much. And yeah, I'm forever independent. So now what? >> Also, I'm technically African-Amean. >> You are like how much?
08:33:10
Brian Atlas>> You're from South Africa. >> Well, so my my dad was born in Africa and my mom's American. >> So technically >> you're Africanamean. >> I'm African-Amean. >> I love that for you.
08:33:23
Brian Atlas>> I love that for me, too. >> What part of Africa do you know? >> It was >> Elon Musk vibes. My my dad was born in uh well, I don't know if I want to give too much details, but he was born in an African country.
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SPEAKER_00>> Cool. >> He's he's white. >> I I believe you. >> But he was born in an African. >> We figured that. >> Yeah. Yeah. Uh okay, final one here from Chaw. >> Your XD donated $30. >> We have one more.
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SPEAKER_00>> To finish my thought to chair 7, you might be asking, "What good does this advice do me now that I did what I did?" Unfortunately, none. But it might lead you to point young girls in a better
08:34:00
SPEAKER_00direction. >> Okay, go off camera. >> Anything? Okay, I guess nothing for the camera. >> It's ridiculous. >> Acidic Touch donated $29.99. >> Thank you. Thank you.
08:34:11
SPEAKER_00>> Oops. Donated in Canadian. Happy to support the show though. And also, yes, very hyped to see the pimp on a blimp tonight. >> Thank you, Acidic Touch. >> All right. Do
08:34:23
Brian Atlas>> you know any other languages? Me? Me? >> Yeah. >> Whoever. Uh, >> I speak a bit of French. Not super fluently, but I speak it. >> I speak it bonex. >> Oh, love that.
08:34:37
Alex Stein>> How do you You made a look there. I feel like you >> you you did a look when you >> No, I just like disassociated. >> Me, too. I dis >> I'm sick of these [ __ ] in here. Yeah. Yeah. All you
08:34:49
Alex Stein>> disassociating >> all you nappyheaded hoes. I'm tired. I'm trying to go home so I can make love to my wife. >> You ain't f to do [ __ ] >> I am. I'm about to do some I'm about to get some We're about to get some
08:35:01
Alex SteinIn-N-Out. I'm about to eat some freaking uh that secret sauce off my baby's titties tonight. Yeah. >> That's what we're doing. I'm putting the sauce on the titties tonight. Y'all can't stop me. I'm getting that. >> I love that.
08:35:13
Alex Stein>> You know, that special sauce, the mayo and ketchup mixture. >> I have some bad news. >> The spreads. >> Yes. In-N-Out's closed. >> Do they sell the spread at the grocery store or something? Cuz I still need a
08:35:26
Alex Stein>> We have some applesauce in the refrigerator. >> I'm going to put some mayonnaise on our titties. I don't know, man. I'm going to put some on you. >> I love mayonnaise.
08:35:37
Brian Atlas>> I put mayonnaise on the titty. >> You got to do barbecue sauce. >> All right, we're going to wrap there. Uh, okay. Uh, let's see. I just have to do the outro. So, >> so GG,
08:35:48
Brian Atlas>> well played. >> Well played to the panel. Uh, I guess we'll call to action. Would you be willing, you and you, would you guys be willing to commit tonight to quitting
08:36:00
Marley Jay / Ameliasex work on the whatever podcast? >> For what reason? Just for fun. >> Soul. >> Oh, no. >> For your soul. >> To get into heaven. >> Oh, God. >> I'm I was I'm 18.
08:36:11
Brian Atlas>> Gertude Worththington. >> Yes. Will you quit sex work tonight on the whatever podcast? >> Join the Church of Scientology. >> Oh my god, Scientology's not blocking me
08:36:25
Brian Atlasanymore. >> Were you blocked by Scientology? >> She actually did a porno. >> They blocked me. >> The No, >> she did. >> She didn't. >> She did Scientology porno. >> I wouldn't be surprised. >> They're aliens and [ __ ] >> The Scientologists are horny. >> I'm just kidding. Well,
08:36:39
Brian Atlas>> they're not. >> But why' they block you? Why did they block you? I actually think she did though because she's taking it really seriously. >> I know. Why did they block it? >> Well, she lives a lifestyle that you can't have to be inside. >> But then they send me letters all the time.
08:36:52
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Will you stop? Will you stop? >> No. >> You >> I just don't I don't really have any reason, ladies. >> All right. Uh guys, last call. Hit the like button, please, on your way out.
08:37:03
Brian AtlasAlso, guys, please leave a nice comment once the live ends. Just wait 30 seconds or so. We have to end the stream uh for for you to be able to leave a comment, but leave a comment once the stream ends. Just wait 30 seconds, guys. Uh I
08:37:16
Brian Atlasread them. It helps with the algorithm, positivity, all that. Thank you for tuning in tonight. You could have been anywhere in the world, but you're here with me. >> Mhm. >> I appreciate that. Thank you to everyone
08:37:28
Brian Atlaswho super chats, donates, and supports the show. Thank you to all of you. Thank you guys for coming. You guys were a fun panel. It was a good show. Thank you to Alex. Thank you to everybody. We will be I'll be live again Wednesday, most likely Wednesday doing a whatever
08:37:40
Brian AtlasWednesday episode. I think Felicity might be joining me. We'll see. Uh she currently has like I don't know Ebola or some [ __ ] Uh we will be live again Sunday with another dating talk and then
08:37:52
Brian AtlasI believe it's in like two weeks or whatever. Andrew Wilson in studio. We got debates coming. We got dating talks coming. So be sure to tune in for that. Any girls who want to be on the show, of course you can DM at whatever if you want to be on the show. If you you know
08:38:04
Brian Atlasyou saw the show tonight, you're still watching. 07s in the chat. 07s in the chat. I hope you guys have a good night.
08:38:13
Brian AtlasGood night, guys. And we will see you guys next time. Good night.