Alex Stein DESTROYS Whatever Podcast?! 4 Dates In 1 DAY?! HEATED Chivalry Debate! | Dating Talk #266
Date: 2025-10-27
Duration: 8h 38m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_03Paige (Alex's GF)(guest)
SPEAKER_04Marley Jay / Amelia(guest)
SPEAKER_05Jenna (Paris)(guest)
SPEAKER_06Melissa Pereira(guest)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_09Alex Stein(guest)
SPEAKER_10Colette Fair(guest)
SPEAKER_11Camila (Cam)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Megan(guest)
SPEAKER_14Taylor(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:13
IntroAll 9 guests + Alex Stein introduce themselves
00:17:48
IntroTaylor (18) introduces herself as helicopter mechanic, surprising the panel
00:58:49
ControversyMegan reveals she cheated on 2nd husband during parole agent academy. 'I'm not a good person.'
01:30:45
QuoteAlex Stein's famous AOC clip: 'my favorite big booty Latina'
01:46:00
Key MomentJenna calls Alex 'cringe,' he fires back: being a porn star with kids is more cringe
02:18:15
Key MomentBrian: if you want me to lead, you need to follow. Being obedient, submissive. Women don't want to do those things anymore.
03:15:00
Key MomentBrian: if I have to die for a woman, the least she can do is obey and be submissive
04:53:00
QuoteMarley states $300K minimum for husband despite not making six figures herself
05:05:00
ControversyAlex presents controversial theory that segregation had positive economic effects for black communities
07:51:05
OtherJenna's porn origin: stumbled into Kink.com at 18, recruited as $1,600 extra while making $9.50/hr studying neuroscience
08:02:38
OtherAlex introduces girlfriend Paige: 26, TCU finance grad, met at OAN
Topics Discussed
00:00:13
Guest Introductions
Diverse panel: Marley Jay (37, holistic wellness/DJ), Amelia (26, OF/macromastia), Colette (52, therapist), Camila (29, aspiring actress), Jenna (31, porn star since 2013), Megan (34, parole agent), Melissa (32, ballroom dancer from Canada), Taylor (18, helicopter mechanic). Alex Stein joins as guest comedian.
00:27:27
Relationship Status Round
Colette married twice. Megan divorced twice, cheated on 2nd husband during academy. Jenna polyamorous with a cop. Discussion of child support/alimony.
01:29:43
Alex Stein Viral Clips
AOC 'big booty Latina' clip, ICE protest, city council. Jenna calls it 'cringe,' Alex fires back about being a porn star mom.
02:11:15
Chivalry Debate
Brian: women must be followers to earn chivalrous treatment. Colette pushes back. Discussion covers paying for dates, sidewalk rule, taking a bullet, submission.
02:21:55
Colette's 4 Dates in 1 Day
Did 15-minute Starbucks meet-ups to efficiently screen online dating matches.
03:35:00
Cultural Appropriation / Dreadlocks
Whether Marley Jay's dreadlocks are cultural appropriation. She explains it's part of her Hebrew heritage.
04:16:10
Self-Ratings / Body Count Reveal
Most give 8s. Jenna rates 4 (bad skin day). Body counts: Marley 11-12, Amelia ~34, Colette 14, Jenna 79, Megan 10+, Melissa 30+, Taylor 1, Alex ~20.
04:50:00
Feminism and Nuclear Family
Alex: society deliberately pits men vs women. Feminism weaponized to destroy nuclear family.
04:52:48
Income Requirements
Marley $300K (most controversial). Amelia $100K. Colette $200K. Jenna $80K. Megan $160K. Melissa ~$14,560. Taylor $100K.
05:03:20
Manifestation Debate
Extended debate on whether manifestation is real. Alex 'manifested' his AOC encounter.
05:17:50
Women's Rights and Oppression
Colette argues women don't have truly equal rights. Brian presents greater male variability hypothesis. Alex says women are somewhat oppressed through abortion encouragement.
06:05:00
Segregation Theory
Alex presents controversial theory that desegregation had unintended negative economic consequences for black communities.
06:45:00
Weight Rejection and Height
Debate over weight rejection hypocrisy with height preferences.
07:51:05
Jenna's Origin Story in Porn
Stumbled into Kink.com at 18 thinking it was Renaissance building. Paid $1,600 first appearance vs $9.50/hr job.
07:57:33
Makeup Removal
Canadian super chatter Pasty George ($3000+ in donations) promises Brian laptop if all women remove makeup. Most comply.
Transcript
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> I I've been hearing some like little tricklings through the grape vine um that she dumped you. Okay. Well, now you're making >> No, no. No. Someone someone a podcast
03:57:33
Marley Jay / Ameliaperson from the other the opposite side of your spectrum. Um, yeah. Said that that she dumped you. >> The Asian woman dumped you. >> Dumped you. Yeah. >> Not true at all. No. No. Not true at all. >> Liar.
03:57:45
Brian Atlas>> So, what was the situation? Why? Just the legitimately the tomatoes cuz I don't believe. >> It was definitely the tomatoes. >> Okay. Okay. >> Definitely the tomatoes. Um, but uh >> yeah, how to break up with her. Had to break up with her. But yeah, that's uh
03:57:56
Brian Atlas>> Do you have OCD? or like it definitely wasn't the tomatoes. Come on. >> No, I'm just No, I'm just curious like everything that I saw. >> That's sort of my expect. Well, you
03:58:08
Brian Atlasknow, honestly, the the dinner whatever the I I do want laundry done and this sort of thing, but the big thing I want is the bow. I come home every time I want a bow from my girlfriend. >> Would you ever bow?
03:58:20
Melissa Pereira>> No. Why would I Why would I bow back? >> Because it's a sign of you don't bow. You don't bow to the geisha. bows to you. >> That's how it works. >> What if she went above and beyond for you and did everything you wanted but
03:58:32
Marley Jay / Ameliaeven more? Would you then bow for her? >> No, I don't bow. >> I was going to say in Japanese culture, >> Hold on. Repeat the question. If she does everything >> Yeah. And more >> and she's the perfect woman. Yeah. >> Yeah, sure. Why not? >> Okay, that's a sign. Like, I'm not going
03:58:45
Marley Jay / Ameliato get the perfect woman. So, no. >> Well, you just manifested that you're not going to get the perfect one. >> Um, here, show of hands. Who here has ever dated the perfect person? There's no such thing.
03:58:56
Brian Atlas>> I would get right there. You better say that. Sometimes she doesn't she never said I want to marry her. I'm not going to say she's >> Look this when I'm talking about perfect, right? When I'm talking about perfect, >> nobody's technically perfect, but that's
03:59:11
Brian Atlaswhat I'm saying. >> But perfect for you. >> Well, it's interesting. I think people make uh I don't want to say settle but people make compromises
03:59:20
Brian Atlas>> like look people are not going to get the ultimate in every single dimension. So if we talk like looks, if we talk personality, if we talk um in my like
03:59:33
Brian Atlasperfect world, like the perfect woman would technically be a billionaire >> of course >> and then like I don't have to work ever. So like built into that, it depends how ridiculous we make the scenario like how
03:59:43
Brian Atlascaked in, you know, she a billionaire. But even absent her being rich, uh, perfect woman would be like >> in terms of looks, like every every
03:59:53
Brian Atlassingle metric under looks, maximized personality, everything maximized, like never nags, never argues, perfectly pleasant, um, submissive, etc., etc. >> You could buy a robot. >> You could buy a robot.
04:00:07
Marley Jay / Amelia>> She would give you everything. >> I wish to God I could get a robot, but uh, >> hey, come on. Just give me a few years. >> Pale, what is her name? Pale Greg. Greg pay
04:00:18
Marley Jay / AmeliaGreg. He's donating enough that you should be able to buy. We've got two right here. We just need a robot one. >> I'm going to get a robot. I'll get a robot. >> I think you deserve one. But uh
04:00:29
Brian Atlas>> No, no, no, no, no. Behind you. >> But I don't understand like this idea that Oh, I want a You want a woman who just uh agrees with you on everything and is just perfectly pleasant all the time. Yeah. >> Yes. >> I think you might get bored.
04:00:42
Marley Jay / Amelia>> No, I wouldn't get bored. You don't even want like intellectual conversation of a stimulation in that cuz I I feel like sometimes that turns into a debate even if you do agree. >> I don't want to I don't want to debate with my >> But you're in a safe space. That's the place you do it in
04:00:55
Marley Jay / Amelia>> safe. I don't want to debate with you. >> Your relationship should be a safe space. >> I debate for my job. You think I want to go even if it wasn't my job. I'm just saying sometimes talking with someone having an intellectual conversation
04:01:07
Brian Atlasevery once in a while it might be that you don't see immediately eye to eye and there's a little bit of a debative type of essence to that. I I mean I would I would put it like this. If I could maximize the intelligence trait in my girlfriend or wife,
04:01:20
Brian Atlas>> yeah, give her like the highest IQ possible. I don't want some idiot or dumbass. >> Uh I mean for a couple reasons. I think if you're a proper dumbass, you're a
04:01:28
Brian Atlasliability. But um but I I would I would add on to that like if one of the reasons we find somebody attractive like the traits that we find attractive in
04:01:39
Brian Atlasthem is to and I think you can be attracted to people absent children right like wanting to have children but we want to one of the reasons we are attracted to people is they are going to
04:01:50
Brian Atlasconfer these traits to our children and so one component of it whether consciously or subconsciously is uh I'm attracted to this woman because uh she
04:02:02
Brian Atlaswill, you know, give me D1 babies, you know, whatever. >> That's me literally. I mean, that cuz you you said you want a billionaire. I'm like, I'm just happy that my girlfriend played college volleyball. I mean, that's
04:02:13
Brian Atlas>> But we we do these assessments of partners, not just on our our own selfish interest, but also I mean, look, if you don't want to have kids, then you're just gonna probably maximize for
04:02:26
Brian Atlasdifferent things potentially, I guess. or I mean well the things the thing is that the traits that will confer benefits to your children even selfishly >> you'll still >> sorry
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> you're just going to be inherently attracted to those things regardless >> like okay if they're good-looking they'll confer perhaps good-lookingness on to your children >> so like kind of what I'm trying to say
04:02:51
Marley Jay / Ameliais that uh for me personally intellectual engagement is super important in attraction for me it's what I look at exual. >> Yeah, I would say I am. But more importantly, I am kind of looking for
04:03:03
Marley Jay / Ameliasomeone that not necessarily doesn't see the same viewpoint, but has their strengths or my weaknesses and vice versa. So, they can help me see a clarity in a subject that maybe, first of all, I'm not the authority on, so I
04:03:15
Marley Jay / Ameliadon't know as much about. And they can help me see another point of view that helps me expand my own point of view. So, maybe I don't agree with them, but it helps me see the other side of the discussion. One thing to be careful of
04:03:26
Brian Atlaswith that though is that there isn't perfect symmetry. >> No, never >> between what men want and what women
04:03:33
Brian Atlaswant. So I wouldn't don't always map on to well I as a woman desire XYZ thing in men. Airgo men surely must desire these
04:03:45
Brian Atlasthings too. Not >> I mean there's certain things that go both ways, right? But >> uh there are certain things that are clearly asymmetrical. >> Sure. So I think some of that desire there I think men to a less care about
04:03:58
Brian Atlasthat to a lesser degree. Like for example money. I think women have a more invested stake in a man being successful, a man being ambitious, a man being a high earner. I'm not saying that
04:04:11
Brian Atlas>> I'm not saying it's the the most important thing, although the majority of divorces are because of financial issues. Um I'm not saying it's the most important thing. I'm not saying that uh that's the only thing women care about.
04:04:22
Brian AtlasIt's not the case at all. Women care about a bunch of other things too. Um, and I think oftentimes that can be like very secondary or whatever. But compared to men, men care very like don't care at
04:04:34
Marley Jay / Ameliaall. Men really don't care about a woman's money or success or any of these sorts of things. >> But he does care about her mental state. like I'm when I say mental state I mean
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Marley Jay / Ameliathe the point of view that she has that she carries through life what her maybe opinions are or her expression of how she intellectualizes and comes across.
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Marley Jay / AmeliaSo, what I'm trying to expand on is I at least in the type of talking situations I've been in, I do feel like me being an intellectual has always helped me because a lot of times when I'm talking
04:05:07
Marley Jay / Ameliato these men, they really appreciate whether it turns into something or not, they appreciate that I'm able to put my thoughts into a presentable way that I can come across and have a discussion
04:05:19
Marley Jay / Ameliawith them. No one gets upset or angry even if we don't see eye to eye, but we're able to better ourselves and expand what we're talking about so that I can better understand my life and people that I run into and have more
04:05:32
Marley Jay / Ameliaconversations like that. >> Honestly, look, >> but I I don't think all men are that way. I'm just convos. >> No, I think it's I think it's very vital. >> But that's that's deep. But for you and your men for the kind of woman you're
04:05:45
Marley Jay / Amelialooking for, that's not important. But for another man, that could be a deal breaker. Do you get what I'm saying? >> No, I I get for you that that's not important. >> Well, I think I I want to say for the
04:05:56
Camila (Cam)majority of men, >> I don't think men really prioritize m deep convo. They should though because every that's not the reason.
04:06:07
Alex Stein>> I don't have to disagree with you. >> The only reason and it's not that I 100% disagree cuz I have friends that have male order brides that don't even speak English that love their wife and it couldn't be any happier.
04:06:19
Alex Stein>> Um I would date a a mute woman. >> Yeah. Or one that does barely speaks English. I I I would just say that for me one of the best things I guess in my relationship is like being able to vent sometimes. You know what I mean? Like
04:06:30
Alex Steinit's like a like a therapy thing. like, "Oh, I'm mad about this at work or that space." >> Yeah. So, I feel like, you know, talking I I mean, >> yeah, but you could vent to like a >> That's true. It could be a one-sided vent. >> Not the same as when you vent to her, right?
04:06:43
Marley Jay / Amelia>> There's privacy within venting to your She knows. >> I do think talking matters, I guess, Brian, is that's one thing where you know, like saying that we were talking about deep conversations. >> Yeah. I mean, look, you of course want
04:06:54
Brian Atlassomebody who you get along with and it's not like awkward or like pulling teeth. I mean, I've had experiences where um you know, I've been on dates with girls and it's like it's a it's you're you're >> horrible. Yeah. You can't even have a
04:07:07
Brian Atlasconversation >> or you're just like carrying the conversation and they're not given >> they're just saying, "Yep." Um Yeah. >> But I mean like I'm not looking for a a woman who's like Shakespeare over here
04:07:19
Marley Jay / Ameliawho's like got some massive depth and I can talk about philosophy with her. >> And that makes sense with your value other Why would you need that if you get that from your job? Why would you need I'm kind of having an epiphany about you actually. Like
04:07:32
Marley Jay / Amelia>> it's not about you think I'm having >> No, no, no. I'm just saying I get why you don't need to have deep conversations with your significant other because you probably are burnt out from these conversations. >> Well, I'm conversationally burnt out from the show. 8 hour podcast once a
04:07:46
Brian Atlasweek. Come on. >> When you get off the show, you're like, I don't want to talk. >> I don't want to talk. Yeah. You just want to chill. But I mean it's not even that the conversations on the show are super like highlevel deep philosophical
04:07:58
Brian Atlasconversations. A lot of the time they typically aren't. >> Um although I mean they're fun convos and whatever but >> I don't think my job necessarily is
04:08:09
Brian Atlaslike even before I did this podcast having deep convos with women was not like a high priority. Of course, I want to be able to like us to have good
04:08:19
Brian Atlascommunication and for it to be like a good good vi I hate to use this term, but vibe. The vibe is good. >> Sometimes it's applicable, >> but like I don't need to have like deep deep con.
04:08:32
Colette Fair>> Sure, that's not for you. I get it. >> But I think a lot of men feel that way. And it's my way and feel your way. >> I think a lot of men feel that way. I think there are a lot of men who do want an intelligent wife, but they're not
04:08:44
Colette Fairnecessarily craving deep convos. However, over the long term of relationships, when we're talking 5, 10, 15, 20 years plus, it's a big thing I
04:08:55
Colette Fairsee in therapy why women women seek more than 70% of the divorces. And the biggest reason really is that over time, women do crave those deeper convos. They want to be emotionally connected. And a
04:09:08
Marley Jay / Amelialot of times they don't feel like their men want to go there with them. What about >> I mean sure that's fair I guess but uh >> you know an it's his name is Andrew that comes on here a lot >> and his his wife >> Rachel. Yeah.
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> Yeah. They have very similar viewpoints but they both are very good at debating and talking. I'm sure but so I'm sure that that is a very big thing in their relationship that if they weren't able to have those kind of conversations with
04:09:32
Brian Atlaseach other they wouldn't want to be with each other. So they kind of have that kind of situation. I mean, I don't think Andrew, so Andrew would still be with Rachel even if she's a very good debater. >> Yeah. >> Even if she wasn't a good debater.
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> No, but he did choose her. And I'm sure he really enjoys the fact that, you know, >> I would say no disrespectful to Andrew, but Rachel's smarter than Andrew. I mean, I would I would say that straight up, but Andrew,
04:09:57
Alex Stein>> well, they're both very intelligent, >> but Rachel's an actual author and you know, I mean, Rachel's pretty smart. >> And I'm sure But I'm sure he would not be mentally stimulated if she wasn't. >> I don't think Andrew, >> but that's why he picked her. Are they
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Brian Atlaspicked? >> Rachel, I think it it has less to do with Rachel. I mean, that's sure it's a perk to have a high IQ wife or whatever. >> Uh, I don't think that that's like >> that would have been the primary thing.
04:10:22
Brian AtlasThere's probably other traits that he valued in Rachel that were uh prioritized. >> Yeah, I I Yeah, I don't even know these people. I agree. >> But debating is not the same as a deep convo.
04:10:35
SPEAKER_00>> Yeah, we just differentiate that. I don't think most people want to debate. >> Get right back to this. We have two chat from the government of Canada >> coming through. >> Pasty George $2004.
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SPEAKER_00>> My brother met a young woman in rural Southeast Asia and he married her. Oh, >> they have been together for 2 years. She is traditional, respectful, and submissive. That is what many men are
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Marley Jay / Amelialooking for. >> Go to Asia and find something a lot of men are doing that right now. >> Brian specifically. >> Oh, what? >> I mean, he did have a beautiful Asian
04:11:09
Marley Jay / Ameliagirlfriend. She's gorgeous. >> Indeed. Is that really his girlfriend? >> No, I I'm pretty sure. Yeah, I I believe it. >> But, uh, what's it called? Um.
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> Oh, >> no. This is not his girlfriend. >> You're so funny. >> Good apartment. Did that look like an apartment in America? >> I It looks like one of those weird fake Asian videos that they post.
04:11:34
SPEAKER_00>> He plays that. He played it on the last podcast I was on as well. >> It's just evolved over time. >> She's become my girlfriend. I dumped her. >> We Brian's jacket W American flag in the
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Brian Atlasstudio. Is this the >> while but happy to be back? Hope everybody is doing well. >> I think it is Ogal. Oh [ __ ] >> Welcome. >> The top G the legend. Good to see you, man. It's been a while. >> 200 bucks coming in heavy.
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> Yeah. >> Why does Pasty Georgees come in as two and four cents >> because he Don't worry about it. >> Okay. Sorry. >> It's a little code. >> Oh, okay. Okay. >> It's the Illuminati. >> Oh, okay. Okay. Okay.
04:12:11
Brian Atlas>> Uh yo, Ogle, good to see you, man. Really appreciate it. Thanks for the compliment on the jacket. Doing a little Halloween. It's a little Halloween. I should have told you guys to wear a costume, I guess. >> I know. I have a cop one in the in the car. A cop costume. I had costumes for
04:12:24
Brian Atlaseverybody. >> Maybe we should send you out to uh go uh go change into it. But uh Okay. >> Yo, Ogle's an a homie. He's He's been a longtime contributor. He is Ogle the
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SPEAKER_00one. He sent in Ethereum, I'm pretty sure. Right. He did the What a [ __ ] legend. Anyways, thank you, Ogle. Good to see. >> I can't even get a hold of my Bitcoin anymore. Pasty George donated $2004.
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SPEAKER_00My brother has noticed that many Western men, especially young ones, are moving to areas throughout Southeast Asia to find and marry traditional rural Asian women. Why is that?
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> I feel like I see more younger men going to South America and more older men going to Asia. That that's why >> I guess it depends. I mean, if you're in Japan or Thailand. No, not definitely not Japan, but I would say it's more the
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Brian AtlasPhilippines and Vietnam. >> Big big Ogal here with the gifted 50. Guys, can we get some W's in the chat for Ogle Wogal? Can we get some Wals in the chat? Yo, Ogle, what a legend. Good
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Brian Atlasto see you back, man. Thank you. Appreciate the support. What a what a [ __ ] legend. I'm going to play this. >> What is a brave and a decent man? He's a pioneer. >> He's a pioneer. Thank you. Thank you for that, Ogle. Appreciate it. Uh W's in the
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Brian Atlaschat for him. Uh >> what is 50 whatever he said membership >> um gifted memberships on YouTube. >> Oh okay. >> Um >> wait so okay. Oh Japan. >> I don't think Japan is so much of a sex
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Brian Atlaslike thingy. >> Oh well I'm not I mean most of these passport bros I don't think it's just for sex. I mean maybe but I think it's more >> trying to find a girlfriend or >> I think it's more South America and then >> well it's Eastern Europe, South America
04:14:02
Marley Jay / Ameliaand Southeast or Southeast Asia but even like Japan. I think Eastern European women want men with like more money, but like for the regular man, it's easier to go to the Philippines or Vietnam or somewhere where the income is a lot
04:14:15
Brian Atlaslower. But >> well, I think uh I think they go there because these women have a reputation for being >> more traditional, more submissive, >> more now uh you know, I definitely think
04:14:27
Brian Atlassome of the more modern western [ __ ] has seeped into even Japan, even Thailand, even Vietnam, even the Philippines, all these countries. But I think there is still a bit more of a traditional overriding. But I gotta be honest though, you gotta be some of
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Brian Atlasthese guys passport bros gota be careful. Yeah. >> Because I'm some of these uh some of these women once they get the ring, once they get the green card, 90day fiance scam. Yeah. After that 90 days, they say, "See you later."
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> But I even know in Colombia right now, it's a really big issue where American men are going there to meet women in South America, especially Colombia. They're going back to a hotel with them. They're getting drugged. They're getting stolen from and they're dying. Like it's
04:15:06
Alex Steinbeen an alarming rate of >> predators. >> Well, Cardi B admitted to doing that. >> Yeah. And that's in America in the strip club. But >> yeah. >> Yeah. Okay. Well, >> just be careful, guys. Get do whatever
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Brian Atlasyou want, but be careful. >> Well, yeah. That's why honestly I feel like uh some of the some of the Asian countries are probably a little safer, >> I think. So, I I would love an Asian if I >> swap. Pretty safe. Pretty safe for the bathroom. But yeah, you go to Colombia.
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Marley Jay / AmeliaYeah. You got to be careful. >> That one's a little get sketchy. >> Uh like where they go. Medí or whatever. >> Medigene. Cali. >> Medigene. Is that how you say it? >> Yeah, it's Medigine. >> Or they go to her country. I thought it was >> I think it's a double L.
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Brian Atlas>> I think when the white men call it, they say medigene. >> Oh yeah, they say medigene. >> Uh we have a thing here from Stifler. Ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10. You can't pick
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Brian Atlasseven. Rate your own looks like >> on a scale of 1 to 10. Can't pick seven. Starting with you, >> that's not personality, it's just looks, right? >> Just looks. So, yeah, >> I would give myself a eight. >> What is it? Just curious. What is it with personality?
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> Well, because sometimes personality, >> the way that we view ourselves, our personality is considered. And that's why I just asked you because I wasn't sure. >> All right. Uh, eight. What about you? >> Um, so I've also asked people before I come on the show what I should rate
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Marley Jay / Ameliamyself, and they say that I should say an eight. And I, you know, >> what do you think then? I I would have said seven myself, but if I have to choose, I'm going to go higher than lower cuz I you know >> What about you?
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Colette Fair>> I'm going to give myself a nine for my age, a six for like without age. >> So, just in general. Okay, gotcha. >> Well, I feel like it's fair as an older person. Like, if you're going to compare
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Colette Fairme to like 20-year-old models, I can't give myself a nine. But for like my 50s, I think I'm doing well. I see what you're saying. Definitely looks Thank you. >> Was that you? >> A 7.5. Can't can't pick.
04:16:57
Camila (Cam)>> You said seven, not 7.5. Those are two different numbers. >> No fractions. >> Eight. Okay. What about you? >> Um, probably like a four. >> Four. Okay. >> Four. >> Four.
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Alex Stein>> Eight. >> Eight. Okay. >> I'd say an eight. >> Eight. Alex, >> I'm I'm a 9.9. I would I would be 10, but I'm circumcised, so I'm missing like point. If I still had my foreskin, I'd
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Alex Steinbe a 10. >> What travesty? Honestly though, >> somebody has that some Hollywood celebrities rubbing on their face. >> Probably like perfume. >> Yeah, >> I love it. >> Would you try that? >> Five. I give myself a five. >> No, I wouldn't rub four skins on my
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Alex Steinface. >> Wait, what does it say, Brian? And and and I'm not trying to harp on you ladies and I think you guys are trying to be modest or trying to be, you know, um, you know, not too egotistical, but a
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Alex Steinfour is low. I mean, you work you you make money by selling your body. I mean, if you're a four, don't you think you'd be out of business, right? I mean, don't do it at least have to be like a six or seven earlier 600 lb woman having a
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Alex Steinboyfriend. >> Well, I'm just saying if you really think you're a four, then I mean, >> yeah, >> I feel like you wouldn't be doing sex work cuz you'd be like, I'm a four. Who really wants, you know what I mean? I feel like it takes confidence to do sex work. >> Maybe it's like a comparison thing where
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Brian Atlasit's like there's so many >> beautiful women in the industry that there's like a comparison thing going on. I don't know. >> Maybe that's not really it for me right at the moment. Honestly, they're >> I'm just like a four like today because
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Jenna (Paris)I have like a breakout right here. My skin's bad today and I feel kind of oily >> and bloated. So, it's like a four today. >> Bloated. >> Oh, so what's the average though? >> Like Yeah, like a four or five maybe.
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Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> Yeah. Yeah. But occasionally, you know, I have those days where I'm a 10. >> Some of those days. >> Good [ __ ] Good [ __ ] Uh okay. All
04:18:48
Brian Atlasright. I mean, nothing too crazy here. Um, was there uh a lot of eights though? >> I know eight's the new seven. >> I'm going have to eliminate that number. >> I think some of you were a little generous. >> All right. Back in April, I would say I
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Melissa Pereirawas more like a nine. >> In April, what happened? >> I was 130 lbs back in April. >> Now you're more >> I was in a car accident, so I haven't been dancing, so I'm now 169. >> Yeah. >> Wait, so how tall are you?
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Melissa Pereira>> How tall are you? >> Uh, 163 centimeters. What is that? Five. Oh, yeah. Like what's the I was about to be like the plug. >> Yeah, me too. What's happening? >> How do you know how many centimeters you
04:19:26
Brian Atlaswant? >> We're going to [ __ ] invade Canada. We're going to annex it. This is ridiculous. Centimeters. >> We We need to introduce some [ __ ] American. >> She's like, "My boyfriend's penis is 95
04:19:38
Colette Faircm." >> Sounds huge. Cime. >> Wait, so how tall are you? >> 53. Okay. Oh, that's the same as me. Okay. >> Yeah. You said you're 169. >> Is that Is that right? mathematically like I don't
04:19:51
Brian Atlas>> I think so. I'm 53. >> Someone sent a super chat to her so I can't look. >> And so you you were 130 when you were dancing. Now you're 160. >> That was literally April this year. >> Yeah. >> In that car accident. >> The car accident.
04:20:03
Melissa Pereira>> Now I can show you guys pictures. It's very depressing. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. That's hard. >> You got to get on that ompic. You got to get on the zam. >> I don't want to get sick.
04:20:15
Alex Stein>> I don't want to look like Ariana Grande. You understand that? And some people are like going blind from it. >> I'm already half blind. I'm sorry for that. >> Yeah, you might not want to get on it. >> That's because
04:20:28
Brian Atlas>> uh we're having a camera difficulty, but I'll address that in just Is it the center cam again? >> Yeah, >> Nick, without moving that top camera, just try going turning it off and on the
04:20:39
Brian Atlasjust the actual camera itself. I don't know. You guys probably see it on stream. Our cameras, one of our cameras froze. Not a big deal. But all right, we have Do we have the gender swap and the
04:20:52
Brian Atlas>> I love this >> the age. >> Let me do the last one. >> Um, so really quick going around the table. I don't know. Chat, do I the eight? There's some eights and nines and [ __ ] I don't know. I show you.
04:21:06
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. What is the chat? >> How about You know what? Fine. I'll say I'll say one thing on the rating thing here. I think there I'm not going to pick on anybody, but I think there are a couple um elevated
04:21:18
Brian Atlasratings here. I as my question, why don't average women just be like, you know what, I'm average looking >> because you wouldn't let us pick seven. That's the average would be five. >> Seven's a good like seven's really good.
04:21:31
Colette FairLike you're good. You're a good-look woman if you're a seven. >> Yeah. But why do we why not be excited that people think they look good even if other people don't? Like that's good
04:21:42
Colette Fairself-esteem. >> That doesn't why why >> it's the opposite of >> these are purists. You need to just >> you want people to feel >> feel like they're not that attractive. >> No, I want people to just accept
04:21:56
Alex Stein>> realism. >> Well, women do have higher standards than men. And I think that's probably because they have a false sense of uh, you know, security or a false self-esteem. >> I find most women to be incredibly
04:22:07
Alex Steininsecure and hard on themselves more than they're over inflated thinking they're hot. >> I know, but it sounds crazy. Like a person can be incredibly insecure, but also really picky. I know that's >> No, I I don't I think that's very
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Colette Fairaccurate. I know that as I've gotten older, I don't look as good as I did 20 years ago, but I rank myself higher now than I would have because I have better confidence. But I could argue that the more insecure a girl is, the more picky
04:22:31
Alex Steinthey are going to be because they're going to feel like they're less than. They're going to feel more secure. So they're going to feel like they need more in their partner. So that they would actually maybe be more picky. >> I don't know. I
04:22:43
Alex Steinone here though. So I'm saying like you said well I'm saying like how you said when you have confidence because like when you have that confidence you're not you know it gives you more power in the situation. >> Yeah. I just think for women, and I can
04:22:54
Colette Fairas the only one in her 50s here, I will just say that for a lot of women, as you get older, you become more confident because you're less worried about men
04:23:05
Colette Fairfinding you hot, >> which I'll just speak for myself, dominated a lot of my thoughts and my feelings about myself when I was younger. >> But you know why that is though? Because then you guys are going to like call me
04:23:17
Alex Steinmisogynistic. Maybe it is a little bit, but this is why women get more confident and they do get a little more uh sexually aggressive in their older age because whether we want to admit it or not, >> sexually men >> I'm definitely not more sexually
04:23:30
Alex Steinaggressive. >> Well, maybe not. Maybe menopausal. Maybe there's a menopausal age where you don't you know >> Yes, I am menopausal. >> Okay, maybe your hormones aren't you know, you know, hitting on all cylinders. But um now wait, what was the
04:23:43
Alex Steinpoint I was just making? >> The word menopause comes up and things shut down. >> I know. You're like your brain is just like no. What I'm saying is uh uh the women that
04:23:53
Alex Steinare older are more uh sexually aggressive because their value as a as a woman, I hate to admit it, it's not like wine. The older you get, the less your value is. Your value goes down with
04:24:05
Alex Stein>> on a societal level. But there are definitely people who still value women who are >> I agree. I agree. But I think that's kind of why women are forced to be more confident because you're like, "Hey, look." >> Well, confidence isn't something you can
04:24:17
Colette Fairforce. Inner genuine confidence is disagree. I would disagree. >> The definition of confidence is that you feel a certain way about yourself. Not
04:24:27
Colette Fairfake it till you make it. A lot of older women also feel invisible for the very reason that you bring up because they're no longer sex objects. I think also being a therapist, a lot of my value and
04:24:40
Colette Fairconfidence comes from something what I do. And I'm in a job that the older you get, the wiser you are, the more valuable you are. So I think my looks are deprioritized in my life at this point. >> Well, see, I disagree because I would
04:24:52
Alex Steinsay that confidence, you can choose to be confidence because what is confidence is basically the lack of fear. So you can choose. You don't think so? >> No, I think >> Well, I would say being scared is the opposite of being confident.
04:25:04
Colette Fair>> I disagree. I think confidence >> opposite of being confident. >> So the opposite of being confident is insecure to me. >> Insecure and scared. I mean >> confidence is feeling afraid. I mean feeling afraid of certain things is
04:25:16
Alex Steinhuman. Confidence is being afraid and doing it anyway. Confidence is >> That's what I'm saying. Choosing to do it anyway, >> right? But that doesn't mean you're not afraid. >> But I'm saying so you can choose to be confident. >> So when you choose to do something, my argument is confidence is a choice.
04:25:30
Colette FairYou're >> choosing a No, I'm saying something completely different. I'm saying that when you choose to do something you're scared of, that can build confidence. That is not faking confidence.
04:25:42
Colette FairConfidence is something. I'm saying anybody can be confident. >> Anybody can work on building their confidence, right? You can't you can't go I'm confident. >> I don't think you understand. What I'm
04:25:54
Alex Steinsaying is like you said confidence is not a choice. I think that that's wrong. I think you can choose to be confident when you're in a situation they might find scary and you continue to do it. you're choosing to be confident. So confidence in that aspect, in that
04:26:06
Colette Fairexample, is a choice. >> So what I'm pushing back on is that confidence is not being afraid. Number one. Number two, I'm okay. Well, that
04:26:16
Colette Fairyou you said confidence is not being afraid. And I don't agree with that. I think confidence is being afraid and doing things anyway. And I think you build your confidence by choosing to do
04:26:28
Colette Fairthings that scare you 100%. I'm just saying I don't think you can just decide that you want to be confident and feel it. It has to be something that you authentically cultivate by doing things you're afraid of. >> Why can't you just not live in fear?
04:26:41
Colette Fair>> It's something you have to exercise. It's like a muscle, like a figurative muscle. But you can't just turn it on. You have to continually participate. You can choose to do the actions. But when you go >> confidence is a choice. I don't I don't
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Marley Jay / AmeliaI don't >> It's a choice you exercise to use and it's a process. Like it's not just one day you're like more confident. But yeah, but I'm saying >> but what she's trying to say is that through her career she's built
04:27:04
Marley Jay / Ameliaconfidence by doing certain things that have improved her self-esteem by practicing that mode of having confidence. >> I'll just tell you this much. I'm not uh a role model, but if you're watching
04:27:15
Alex Steinthis guys right now, if you're, you know, you have a confidence issues, you can choose to be confident in your everyday life and you can make decisions and do it confidently and and if there's situations that scare you, like these women are saying, if that's you, we will
04:27:28
Alex Steintrain you, go do the stuff that makes you scared. I think the biggest way that we grow as as a people is putting ourselves in uncomfortable situations. >> I did I did a whole TEDx talk on that. So, I 100% agree. The way you worded it
04:27:41
Alex Steinbefore sounded different to put yourself in that to do the things that so it's a choice. >> Yes. To do things public speaking is is when people uh list their biggest fears. Public speaking is often times bigger
04:27:52
Alex Steinthan spiders and death. And so any person though can choose and go speak unless you're have a you know disability and you actually are mute. Anybody can have confidence and go do it. >> That's exactly how I overcame my fear of
04:28:04
Colette Fairpublic speaking. All I >> And what did you do? You chose to be confident. You made a choice. >> I'm not disagreeing with that. I'm just saying one day you don't wake up and go, I'm going to be confident. That's fake it till you make it. And that's a
04:28:16
Colette Faircompletely different thing. Confidence is built with what you're saying now. Taking action in the face of fear, doing things that scares you and that scare you until you build that natural inner confidence. It's not a light switch.
04:28:29
Marley Jay / AmeliaThat's all I'm saying. >> I think a good example of this, at least just from my personal life, you know, to come on the Whatever podcast a year ago, I could not do that. I was so scared. I thought I would cry. I thought it would break down. The first time, you know, I
04:28:42
Marley Jay / Ameliahad to build up my confidence, especially with the internet and having people say mean things to me and me growing and being able to do that. Then one day, I finally felt confident but nervous and I came on this show and I
04:28:54
Marley Jay / Ameliawas, you know, it was scary for me and now today I come on and I'm like, I feel good about this. I feel like I can, you know, roast me in the chat or, you know, something like that. But a year and a half ago when I or two years ago when I
04:29:06
Marley Jay / Ameliastarted doing social media and people told me come on the whatever podcast I was like I'm not good enough for that. I can't do that. You know I was insecure about it. And now you know I I'm talking too much. >> Yeah. But all you did was choose to come
04:29:19
Alex Steinon the show. >> No, of course. But I had to build up the confidence to be able to do that. So now I'm feel >> really not really because all you had to do is say one time, yes, I want to go on the show. And then that one time, that one decision, now you're confident for the rest of your times on here. But
04:29:32
Marley Jay / Ameliathink think about somebody you go and watch them do public speaking in the first time they've ever done it versus the 20th 50th 100th time. How different those two discussions. >> Well, I'm saying well I would argue that you can go speak publicly and be scared to death but you're still confident because you're doing
04:29:44
Marley Jay / Amelia>> what I'm talking about is the comparison between the first time and the 50th time and how much confidence has built over doing it over and over again and knowing how to present yourself in that situation. >> You weren't the most confident here but you >> understand people and this isn't a
04:29:57
Alex Steinconfidence podcast and people are like you know talking probably bored. I just I just Yeah. The only reason I'm even like being like abrasive when it comes to this thing because I don't feel like confident is a talent that people are born with. I think you choose to be
04:30:09
Alex Steinconfident by putting yourselves in tough situations and deciding to do things that we don't want to do because there's so many things every single day we don't want to do that we go and do. And I think that is what confidence >> I think we're all agreeing on that. >> I think everybody is really just said in
04:30:23
Paige (Alex's GF)different ways. >> What like how is this related to how to get confident in your looking or have more confidence? I heard you guys saying something about older women are confident and then you went on about >> well older women are confident because they don't have a choice because they're
04:30:35
Taylortrying to bang and that's the other thing you know we have this >> yeah a little bit but well maybe not the menopausal >> for older women >> when you get older you care less >> why do older women older women are
04:30:46
Marley Jay / Ameliausually more you know they're just sexually active than younger people I feel >> I have some I have some guy friends who have who are in their 20s and have slept with women who are almost in their 60s
04:30:58
Marley Jay / Ameliabecause that woman was attractive for her age. She was confident. She knew what she wanted. And younger men love that. Not all of them, but some do. >> Some people do. >> Well, this is a misconception, too, when we talk about different roles is that
04:31:12
Alex SteinBrian, I don't believe we're equal, but I think women and men equally want to have sex. Like people think that like women don't want to have sex. They want it just it's equal. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. So >> they just want to >> there's double standards because a woman
04:31:24
Alex Steinthat has sex with a lot of men is a [ __ ] and a guy that has sex with a lot of women is a badass, you know. So that is a double standard. But >> but it's just hysterical that you're basically telling me if I'm getting this right. And it No, it's it's funny and
04:31:36
Colette Fairinteresting that I am confident sort of because I have no choice. If I want to get laid, I have to be confident >> a little bit. Yeah. >> Okay. That is not why I'm confident, but
04:31:47
Alex SteinI appreciate your hypothesis. It's like uh I mean I I guess I'm talking about my personal thing is you know I have a little ADHD but I actually I graduated college but uh like sometimes I needed that pressure like knowing that the test
04:31:58
Alex Steinwas sooner for me to be able to cram and I think that's kind of how society is. The older you get, you kind of need that societal pressure because a lot of women feel like they have to have a a kid by the time that they're 30. And I don't know if you know society says that
04:32:11
Alex Steinthat's fair or not but that push does encourage women to have babies at that age >> or at least freeze their eggs by that age. Yeah. So, >> okay. But what does this have to do with like having to be confident to try to
04:32:22
Alex Steinhave society? So, so women feel like, "Oh, I got to have a baby by 30. Oh, I got to be a little more aggressive or I got to be maybe uh if a guy is not as hot, maybe they'll lower their standards a little bit." So, I think that only increases as you get older and you're
04:32:35
Alex Steintrying to find a male value. You know, you're trying to find another high value male when your value is declining. Just, you know, it's like uh I hate to be it's like um what is it? What are those uh those sand cands or whatever? You know
04:32:47
Alex Steinwhat I'm talking about. You know, you flip over the hourglass. Yes. Thank you. It's like there's just a lot less sand. So, you got to be a little aggressive. You got to move a little faster. And you do. When there's less sand, it falls faster. And that's why there's there's
04:32:59
Alex Steinless sand. And I would argue that men maybe when they get older, maybe can be a little more aggressive and le worry less about the opinions of strangers or worry less about getting rejected. >> Go to an old folks home and everybody's getting laid. Okay.
04:33:11
Colette Fair>> I know. They have STDs like crazy. The villages is here where I live in Florida and they have the highest STD rate. >> Horrible. Yeah, they all have herpes.
04:33:22
SPEAKER_01>> Look at her face. Yeah, I don't know about
04:33:41
Marley Jay / Amelia>> Ever heard about this at old folks homes? Yeah, they're freak nasty. >> No, I would think like back doesn't move as good. >> They be hunting. Okay, they be hunting. They use swings so it takes the weight
04:33:53
Marley Jay / Ameliaoff their backs. >> Oh my god. >> Swings and stuff like that. There's bunch of things that can help old people have sex. >> People get down and dirty. People are freaky. >> They are still getting it, right? >> Oh yeah.
04:34:05
Alex Stein>> Yeah. So I mean I'm not I'm not trying to take a shot of you. I just feel like, you know, when we get older, we get a little aggressive cuz like even my dad, you know, he's, you know, he's now dating and and uh I feel like um he
04:34:17
Alex Steinprobably has lowered his standards as he's gotten older. I feel like we all do. >> Does he date in his age range though or does >> you not What >> does your dad date in his age? >> Yeah, he does. >> How old is your dad? >> He just turned 70. Okay. >> Yeah. And he dates girls in his age
04:34:30
Marley Jay / Ameliarange. Yeah, >> I guess I guess you he 60. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. For sure. >> What percentage? >> Probably not. Probably mainly 60s. What percentage of men who are like your age and older do you think are really trying to date young women versus looking for
04:34:43
Alex Steinsomeone who's around their age, like within 10 years of their age? >> Well, I think I think I mean it's kind of different because, you know, it's like another double standard. You know, I know I know guys that married girls older than them and they like that relationship, but I kind of think that's weird. You know what I mean? But I don't
04:34:56
Marley Jay / Ameliathink it's weird if the guy's 10 years older than the girl. So, >> no, me either. >> But I do think it's kind of weird when the girl is 10 years older than the guy. But do you think that a lot of, you know, more mature men are wanting to date a girl who is either in her late
04:35:09
Alex Steinteens or early 20s? >> Well, I think Well, yeah. I mean, 19 is a little young, but like >> there's a lot of men who specifically want to date. >> There are people that
04:35:21
Alex Stein>> people want to date young girls cuz they're pedophile. That's not what I'm saying. But I think subconsciously, genetically, like you almost want to date somebody younger because we're looking at somebody you want to mate with and have a baby. So you're saying instinctually like 19 or 20, you're just kind of attracted to that because you're
04:35:35
Marley Jay / Amelialike, "Oh, that would be the best." >> That is the reproductive ideal. Actually, >> I could see someone who's in their like mid to late 30s having that point of view. But once you get to >> 60 or 70. Yeah. I know. I think Yeah. Yeah. That's weird. Yeah.
04:35:47
Colette Fair>> My dad's 80 and he's dating someone who is 39. >> Yeah. See, that's Yeah. And they're both doctors. She is not like Yeah. They're both >> She likes him. Yeah.
04:35:58
Colette Fair>> She's smart. I mean, she is of of a different ethnicity, lives in a different country, super super smart, well educated. I mean, >> green card scam. >> No, no, no. She's not even ever I don't
04:36:10
Colette Faireven know that they can ever live in the same place. It's kind of an unusual situation, but sometimes I'm like, "Dad, I mean, my brother's 10 years younger than I am, and I'm This woman's younger than my brother." Like, it is so crazy.
04:36:23
Colette FairBut you know what? I've come around to it in the sense that I feel like he's only got a how long left be happy and it seems to be like a respectful loving relationship and most of my friends are
04:36:34
Marley Jay / Amelialike what a baller like go Colette's dad you know >> like when I was in the 20-year age gap relationship there was clearly like by the end of it his maturity like he
04:36:47
Marley Jay / Ameliacarried himself as a very high value like leader type man and I do still think of him as a leader but his maturity level. He would even admit, you know, that mentally he's probably stuck
04:36:58
Marley Jay / Ameliasomewhere in his 20sish, you know, where a lot of his trauma kind of happened and whatever, you know, and so for him when he dates younger women, it's more like he mentally isn't on par with dating
04:37:11
Taylorwomen his own age. >> I tend to think that women seek out older men because women typically mature faster than men do. >> They do. They do. When I was dating older men, it was because I wanted
04:37:23
Marley Jay / Ameliasomeone who was like a father figure for me because I felt like my father was not there for me in the way that I wish he was. And so I was looking for that within relationships. And I don't do that anymore because I've gone to hypnosis which is kind of I've been
04:37:35
Alex Steinrecommended the >> But you do that subconsciously though. You don't even mean to kind of find a guy. But I think that's how most women are. It's just instinctually. >> It wasn't until I went to therapy and healed those inner problems that I
04:37:47
Marley Jay / Ameliadidn't even realize I had that I then was like, "Oh, I'll never date the same way that I a lot of things touch more on the hypnosis thing." Like I'm really curious about that. >> Oh, I loved hypnosis. It It actually
04:37:59
Marley Jay / Ameliachanged my whole entire life. >> What did you have to do though? Like the process? >> So, for me, I really wanted to change. I knew that there was a lot of things in my life that I was doing that were not for the betterment betterment of myself.
04:38:11
Marley Jay / AmeliaAnd for some reason, I mentally could not make the changes I needed to break the cycles that I was within. So going to my hypnotherapist, I wrote out everything that I thought was
04:38:22
Marley Jay / Ameliadestructive of myself that I was doing. And I went there asking please like help me reverse this. Help me. >> Boring. Ask your question. >> Yeah, I know that is ask your question.
04:38:32
Paige (Alex's GF)>> Sorry guys. No, it's right. So, um, you just want me to do like the at the the end part of the questionnaire >> or the just do World War. >> Okay. What years What years were World
04:38:44
Marley Jay / AmeliaWar I? >> I believe that was 1917 through 1920 or something. 1918. >> Okay. What do you think? >> Oh, I didn't go to college.
04:38:55
Marley Jay / Amelia>> I know when World War II maybe happened in the 40s, but World War I. >> Got to guess. >> Oh, okay then. I I mean I'll go with like the I think I think it was I think >> I'll go with my answers. >> No, because I know that like the Great
04:39:08
Marley Jay / AmeliaDepression was after World War I. So like I don't know like the 19 the teens of the 1900s. >> Okay. And by the way, if you know it for sure, don't say it. Just >> Okay. I know it for sure. I was a history major.
04:39:20
Camila (Cam)>> What do you think? >> I'm just going to guess probably 1940s. >> 1940s. >> That was World War II. >> Is that what you said? That was World War II. >> No, I'm I'm clarifying. Is that you said 1940s or 1914? >> 40s.
04:39:32
Melissa Pereira>> Okay. >> Uh 1913 and 1914. >> Okay. >> You said if we know it, don't say it. >> Yeah. If you know it next, >> I actually don't even know. I'm sorry. >> You got to guess.
04:39:46
Melissa Pereira>> Frick. >> You have to guess. >> [ __ ] >> Yeah. Into the mic, please. >> I don't want to be embarrassing to myself cuz I don't embarrassing question
04:39:58
Alex Steinyears ago. You got it. >> Yeah. Okay. 19. Whatever she said. >> Well, whatever she said or whatever she >> I like her answer. >> Was Cuz I'm going crazy because I'm
04:40:07
Alex Steinpretty sure Hitler died in 1942, but didn't World War I end in 193 to World War II, >> but I'm guessing I thought it ended in 1937 or 1939.
04:40:17
Alex Stein>> 1939 sounds accurate actually. >> I thought 37 end in 39 or World War I. One. >> Okay. So, what was your answer? >> 1939. >> Okay. What's your answer? >> I
04:40:30
Taylor>> fast fast fast fast guys. >> I don't really know. I know. >> You have to guess. You have to guess. >> World War I happened in the early teens cuz my great grandpa was in grew up in the Great Depression and then he was in
04:40:42
TaylorWorld War II. So, >> so like the 1930s, 1940s. >> Wait, World War I. >> Well, we're talking about both. The first one
04:40:54
Alex Steinearly teens. >> Okay. So, what's your guess? the early 1900s, like the teens of the 1900s. >> And what's your guess, Alex? >> Okay, so now if if World War II start if World War II started in like 39 and it's
04:41:07
Alex Steinlike >> we're not Don't talk about >> we're talking World War I. Is it Did it end in 1924? >> We're about to find out. >> It was from 1914 to 1918. >> Okay, now we'll talk about World War II.
04:41:20
Alex Stein>> Well, everybody knows World War II because of the Holocaust. Nobody knows World War I. They don't know. They don't know. Well, nobody cares about World War II. >> Nobody I mean people care about it, but I mean World War II is the one everybody talks about. Won't forget. >> We're all talking about the new
04:41:34
Marley Jay / Ameliagenocide. >> So if you know, don't answer. Okay. >> I'm not 100% positive, but I'm pretty sure it started around 1936 and ended in the 1940s, early 1940s. It was over by 1945. >> Yeah, I agree. I think it was like 1936
04:41:47
Marley Jay / Ameliato 1943 44. >> Okay, >> I know 100%. >> 1939 to when? No. No. >> Uh, >> no, no, no. Actually, never mind. She just told you.
04:41:58
Camila (Cam)>> No, she didn't. I swear she didn't. She really didn't. She didn't say. She was just laughing. I swear. I swear to God, she didn't say anything. >> I believe she didn't say it. I don't >> She didn't say anything. She didn't cheat on this. >> Just guess. You're not going to get it right. She's already wrong. >> Yes.
04:42:12
Jenna (Paris)>> Let's keep it moving. >> Yeah. Just guess. >> Okay. I'm guessing like 1939 to 1945. >> Okay. Next. >> I know it. >> Okay. Next. 1939 to 1945.
04:42:27
Taylor>> 1937 to 1945.
04:42:34
Alex Stein>> It's 1939 to 45. >> 45 whatever. I mean, >> well, I mean, I I got a college degree and I don't remember [ __ ] from last
04:42:46
Alex Steinweek. But, um, one number that is the most important number, 6 million, though. That's the only number that matters. >> What? >> Is that the real number though? >> Okay. Um, so name a continent.
04:42:57
Marley Jay / Amelia>> Uh, Antarctica, >> America or the North America. >> Okay. >> Sorry. >> Australia. >> We're not going to get to everyone, but >> North America.
04:43:09
Camila (Cam)>> She already said North America. >> I have to pick another one. >> Yeah. >> There's seven continents. >> Asia. >> Okay. >> Europe. >> Okay. >> Mexico. >> South America. Wait, no, no, no, no.
04:43:21
Alex SteinWhat? Mexico is a continent? >> Well, South America. >> Nope. That's not even South America. >> I don't [ __ ] know. Okay. >> Do you know what continent uh Mexico is a part of? >> And how how does nobody Why didn't you say Africa? I don't know how you didn't
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Marley Jay / Ameliasay Africa. Did you >> Oh my god. >> Oh my gosh. My boyfriend. >> There's only one time. Please, guys. >> What was your question?
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> Okay. So, do you know what um continent Mexico's in? South America. >> No. No. >> Oh, it's in North America. Oh my god. >> Oh, it is in North America. >> Oh, it is. It is.
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> For some reason, they Nobody seems to know Mexico. This happened last show, too. >> Some girl, >> it's the Gulf of America now. I don't We don't care. >> All right. Next question. Or Yeah, we said all the wheels. We said all the continents. Okay. Name three countries.
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Marley Jay / AmeliaAnd you cannot repeat. Name three countries. >> Uh let's see. Uruguay, uh Venezuela, and the Philippines. Let's do Ukraine,
04:44:19
Marley Jay / AmeliaSwitzerland, and Germany. Okay. >> France, Spain, Italy. >> Dang, she took all mine,
04:44:29
Camila (Cam)>> right? Mine were taken, too. >> Um, Australia, Canada, and that's the third country. Um,
04:44:40
Marley Jay / AmeliaMexico. >> Ooh. Ooh. Oh, sticky. That's what changed. >> Okay. >> Nice. >> Okay.
04:44:50
Jenna (Paris)>> Um, just went from a five to a 9.10. >> All right. Calm yourself. >> Oh my gosh. >> Keep going. Keep going.
04:45:00
Jenna (Paris)>> Okay. Um, so Indonesia, um, Thailand, and United Arab Emirates. >> Next. >> Uh, oh god. Uh, South Korea.
04:45:12
MeganI don't I have no idea. Is it Is it good? Okay. >> No. >> Um, Vietnam and >> let's go a little quicker if we can, please.
04:45:24
Alex Stein>> Germany, Brazil. >> Finish, finish, finish, finish, finish. >> Poland. >> Okay. >> Lebanon, QA, and Turkey. >> Peru, uh, Canada, America. Did we say
04:45:38
Alex SteinAmerica? >> I said Canada. >> Did you already say Canada? Okay. Uh, Ecuador. Um, Belgium. >> There we go. >> Wow. >> Josh Brooks. I don't know. I wasn't here. >> Oh, okay. >> Yo, Josh, thanks for the gift.
04:45:51
SPEAKER_00>> Now, I have a good question. Okay. Name three black people. >> Okay. >> Oh gosh. >> I like this. >> Yes. Go. Five. Bob. Too late. I'll play it again. >> Is it possible for me to stay home with the kids? I want
04:46:04
Brian Atlas>> I'll play it again. I'll play it again. It's fine. Give Give me a bit. >> Um, do you want them to? >> Yeah. Dave three black people. Hurry. Five. LeBron James, Michael Jackson, it still counts, and Bob Marley.
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Marley Jay / Amelia>> We're going to go with >> Obama. Um, Jimmy No, that's not >> Jimmy Buffy. >> No, sorry. I was going to say the one that has the
04:46:25
Colette Fair>> Jimmyi Hendris. Is that even I'm so sorry. Martin Luther King Jr. >> Okay, name three. >> Malcolm X. >> Oh god. Diana Ross, Hoda Copy, Michael Jackson.
04:46:38
Camila (Cam)>> Hoda Coops is not black. She's Indonesian. I think >> she said Michael Jackson. Just a second. >> Okay. Name three whites. >> Donald Trump. I could do this. Donald Trump, Hillary Clinton, and Joe Biden. >> Here we go.
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Jenna (Paris)>> Oh, I thought you was naming black people. >> That would have been easy. She has to name one. >> Name three people. >> Why black people for me? What? >> Cuz you're white. >> Am I? >> Oh my god.
04:47:03
Alex Stein>> You don't even know your own color. No wonder she's a porn star. She didn't even know a mirror. Yo, Bluff Fest, thank for the gifted 10. Appreciate it. Okay. Well, uh, I'm going
04:47:14
SPEAKER_00to pull this back up. We have >> has donated $200. My husband makes about $500 a week. Is it possible for me to stay home with the
04:47:26
SPEAKER_00kids? I want to be home with the children so badly. I just want them to have a good life. >> $2,000 a month? I don't think so. >> About 500 a week. How many kids?
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Megan>> I think that depends on 2,000 a month. >> Where does Where does she live? I think >> impossible for me to stand. >> It really depends on where you live. >> I I mean I saw >> Thank you for the uh TTS. No, you're [ __ ] >> I saw the price of comfortable living
04:47:50
Brian Atlasacross the United States and the lowest one for a family was like $177,000 and that was in Missouri. >> In Missouri. >> Yo, AS Thank you for the uh TTS, man. Really appreciate it. First time. Looks like it was your first one. So, thank
04:48:03
SPEAKER_00you, man. Appreciate it. We have our boy >> message from the government of Canada. our Canadian friend. >> Hasty George donated $2004. Chair three. Many in the chat have been saying and thinking this for a while
04:48:14
Brian Atlasnow. You look like the evil version of Rachel Wilson from an alternative universe. >> I don't know what that is. I was not thinking it. >> Yo, Pacy George, thank you, man. Appreciate it. Uh, Felicity, so you just
04:48:28
Alex Steindid country and >> I did all the questions. >> Country War One, two, >> World War I. Okay. Uh, >> well, Brian, I want to ask one question real quick. So, um, because we do talk about I talk about conspiracies a lot
04:48:40
Alex Steinand I don't know how much you love conspiracies, but this is one thing and I actually appreciate the whatever podcast, but this is a famous podcast. What is it famous for? It's kind of like, you know, people arguing, you know, only fans, girls, you know, you
04:48:52
Alex Steinknow, it can kind of um, it can kind of get out there, you know, it can be a little crazy on this show. Um, but I think that these conversations are very important and and now I'm forgetting the point the main topic I was trying to
04:49:04
Alex Steinmake. >> Um, I know now I've lost my totally train of thought of of oh this is what I was talking about of society. This sorry the conspiracy. This is the point is this show has a lot of tough conversations between people but it kind
04:49:16
Alex Steinof pits men against women. I think in society men have purposely been pitted against women on purpose to make us fight one another because this sounds crazy. I I'll go into the conspiracy part. The same reason they say there's global warming, they actually want
04:49:29
Alex Steinpopulation control. They don't want us to like be married. They don't want us to have a family. Like they want all the girls to be [ __ ] They want because the reason why I also believe this is you look at the prices of homes have skyrocketed exponentially, but the wages
04:49:41
Alex Steinhave just stayed the same. So like that is another threat on the the we can't even have what did you say 70% of divorces are because of financial issues. So like that is the financial hardships that we're facing is another reason why relationships aren't working.
04:49:52
Alex SteinSo, I think society, we try to make it male versus female, but they're almost just a product of their society, nature versus nurture. And I think that's why the show is actually important because we can have this conversation and we might not ever have that if this didn't exist.
04:50:05
Brian Atlas>> Sure. Yeah. I mean, well, you know, I would even take it a step step further, Alex. >> I don't think it's a conspiracy theory. >> I I actually think I mean,
04:50:15
Brian Atlas>> you look at the influence that feminism has in institutions. Feminism college. >> Yeah. every every single college, the media, journalism, government, all these institutions, they're steeped in
04:50:26
Brian Atlasfeminist ideology to some degree or another, feminism has massive ideological capture. And I I would say that a big component of feminism, even
04:50:37
Brian Atlasgoing back into the 1800s, if you look at the history of feminism, it was very anti-natalist, anti-f family. Uh they want to destroy the nuclear family. They don't want the nuclear family. uh
04:50:47
Brian Atlasbecause under the feminist prism, the feminist lens, uh the family structure, the nuclear family structure is oppressive inherently. Well, that's
04:50:57
Brian Atlastheir proposition. Uh is oppressive to women. And so any sort of structure or institution or system, the nuclear
04:51:05
Brian Atlasfamily that can be oppressive to women should be smashed, should be demolished, should be taken down. So it's not a conspiracy theory. I think they probably
04:51:16
Brian Atlasthey're they're very famous feminists who are very anti-f family, anti-husband, anti-natalist. >> So I don't think it's a conspiracy theory. I think you're just spot on, Alex. To be honest, >> I'm pretty sure one of the original
04:51:28
Marley Jay / Ameliafeminists I I don't know her name, but she was one who started Planned Parenthood and they strategically put Planned Parenthoods in lower they put them in lower income areas so that black women will have more
04:51:40
Alex Steinabortions. and William Gates senior, Bill Gates's dad was one of the he's a eugenicist himself and he was one of the big donors and worked with Margaret >> Sanger. >> And there's this whole theory that, you know, these fetuses that they're using,
04:51:52
Marley Jay / Ameliathey use them to do vaccines on young children, which inevitably um I remember this one topic was making young black boys um autistic and giving them issues. And there's like this whole theory
04:52:04
Marley Jay / Ameliaabout, you know, abortion clinics and what they're doing for the group. They they sell the fetuses for this kind of scientific research and it's like really >> like abortion being like eugenics against black people basically. >> Well, that is a theory Margaret Sanger
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Alex Steinyou got to look into. She that's one of the things she actually said before she developed it. But um and there's actually a lot of like weird stuff too with abortions how they actually want to have the late term abortion because those the baby body parts are incredibly
04:52:29
Alex Steinvaluable because you can't get those body parts just for not just like if they needed you think oh maybe they needed you donate your organs for like surgery but it's actually for like medical testing because they want to like test stuff on baby's body. So that's why like the fetuses are really
04:52:42
Alex Steinvaluable and that's why you can look it up. There's been Planned Parenthood people that got caught like keeping some of the fetuses like in their house. So, let's see. >> We are going to blast through some of the notes here. We've got
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Brian Atlas>> a lot of notes left. Uh, what would you want the minimum yearly income to be for your future husband? Some you guys just whatever you filled out here, just say it here. >> I said, uh, three six figures, 300,000. >> Minimum yearly income.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> 300,000 a year. >> Have you Have you even Yeah. A year? Have you ever even dated a guy who makes $300,000 a year >> like long term? Yes. I mean, I don't know their entire history, but to my
04:53:21
Brian Atlasknowledge, yes. >> Okay. That's nearly top 1%. What about you? >> So, for me, um I say $100,000 because that's what I'm offering to pay. >> Okay. >> 200 >> 200. Well, you're already married. Does your uh current husband does he make
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Jenna (Paris)that much? >> He makes more than that, but that would be my minimum. >> That would be your Makes sense. What about you? >> Realistically, at least 80 grand a year. >> 80K or more. Okay. What about you? Well, I did a cop, so like 50,000 70,000.
04:53:47
Alex Stein>> But if you've on the force longer than a year, you make good money being a cop. You make they make six figures. Where where do you live? >> I live in Northern California, so >> not even that many far north. Yeah.
04:53:59
Taylor>> Feel like like if you were in like LA, I feel like some of these LA cops make >> they do make more, but I don't live in a make a lot. >> If you were dating a CHP, then you >> My cousin's a cop in New York and he does really well. here in New York.
04:54:12
Brian AtlasYeah. >> Let's say like 50,000 minimum. >> What about you? >> 160,000. >> That's very >> That's very specific. >> Is that what your current boyfriend makes? >> Neither of her past husbands were making that.
04:54:26
Alex Stein>> Your current boyfriend? >> Not at T-Mobile. >> What What does he want? What does he uh do for work? >> Um he's a parole agent plus his VA benefits. >> So he probably gets like four or five grand a month just from the VA. So that's 50 grand a year. So yeah, maybe.
04:54:40
Melissa PereiraYeah, >> that's nice. >> Um, >> I had to do mine on a calculator, but whatever. $35 an hour working 8 hour weeks days a week.
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Brian Atlas>> You wrote 14,560 a year. >> It's very specific. >> Maybe it's like Canadian cime 14,00 poverty level. That's what my calculator says.
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Alex Stein>> $35 an hour. That doesn't >> I mean $14,000. >> We're only working three days a week though, right? >> No. I didn't know what you just said there. >> Yeah, she needs somebody to watch Dancing with the Stars with her. >> Not looking take that much money to
04:55:17
Alex Steinwatch Dancing with the Stars. So maybe you did have a point. I mean, maybe now I'm t I tend to agree with you that you weren't lying that you really were. If your boyfriend only needs to make $14,000, so he doesn't have that many requirements. So maybe you should
04:55:28
Brian Atlas[ __ ] watch anything. >> I don't think the chat likes my suit, by the way. >> They do not like the suit. >> I'm in the other Tyler. I I never wear I don't think I've ever worn a suit on the show, by the way.
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SPEAKER_02>> Do you have a red tie? >> It's a pretty >> It would look better. Are you supposed to be the other character from Fight Club? Is that >> Is this Halloween or you just Okay. Who are you now? I thought you were >> Halloween. This is political. Brian, they don't like it. I'll take it off. I'll take it off in a >> Who are you supposed to be? Who are you?
04:55:56
Marley Jay / Amelia>> No. >> A guy. >> He's just himself in a suit. Yes. >> Was Halloween, so I thought it was another costume. We had Fight Club before this. >> They're like It looks like a Teeu suit. [ __ ]
04:56:09
Brian AtlasTarget. Got it at Target. >> Oh my god. They're They're boxers that have a hole in it. They're farting. >> You can't even see it. >> I was Teddy Westside. I suited up for this guy. >> Booted.
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Taylor>> I think pop more. You know, >> the red tie. >> No, his eyes. The blue with his eyes. >> I think Yeah, I was going to say you need to be more like Alex. And >> um I wrote 100K a year, but it doesn't
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Taylorreally matter to me too much cuz I'm literally only 18. But it's kind of more so a goal >> in the future. Yeah. >> Yeah. Goal to work for. >> Okay. But you say it doesn't really matter. I don't know some of you $300,000.
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Brian Atlas>> You said what our ideal would be, right? No question. >> What would you want the minimum year? >> That's my minimum ideal. >> Well, the No, the if if it was truly the ideal, you'd say billionaire. >> I mean, I'm trying to be realistic cuz
04:56:58
Marley Jay / Ameliawe're having a discussion. >> Well, >> there are people that make $300,000. >> Not a lot. >> No, you're right. Not a lot. But maybe that weeds out a lot of people that are a waste of time for me to talk about. >> Would somebody who makes $200,000 a year
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Marley Jay / Ameliabe a waste of time? >> I'm not saying that it's a factor that would like determine me saying yes or no. I just answered the question. >> What would the minimum? So it's like if he checks every box and he only makes $200,000, I'm not going to throw him out the window. I'm just answering the
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Marley Jay / Ameliaquestion. >> You're like so generous of you. >> Like what I'm trying to say is that there's all these boxes, right? And check check. So if he checks that box, great. But if he doesn't, then he better check all the other boxes.
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Brian Atlas>> You've never been married, right? No. >> You want to get married? >> Do you want Do you want kids orally with the right person? >> Do you want kids? >> With the right person? Yes. >> But if the right person has to make $300,000 a year, you've you've