05:58:01Brian Atlas>> So you've had there's been an entire generation of women who have had that experience of >> Yeah. the majority of women are going to college and they're retired now. >> So more by the way, more women do go to
05:58:13Brian Atlascollege. I think of the split is 60/40. 60% of women, 40% of men. It varies from institution to institution, but overall, >> but there's attitudes too. Like a couple
05:58:24Colette Fairdecades ago, the only jobs it was really acceptable for women who went to college to have were being teachers or nurses. Yes, this is true. It is true. It is
05:58:34Colette Fairtrue. It was not acceptable for women to go into the boardroom and take over. This is still a relatively new phenomenon. I don't think it's sexism in the 60s and 70s. Yeah, sure. I'll grant it.
05:58:46Alex Stein>> There's still sexism now. >> I don't really think there's a boy club anymore. Uh, I think it's like I think it's like reverse sexism when you see like people like Dylan Mulvaney and that Bud Light campaign where that woman
05:58:59Colette Fairdecided to run a beer company and Bud Light's famous for their great beer ads and then the first time you put a woman in charge of it, they almost tank the whole company. >> No, listen. I I I I'm not saying it's across the board in every industry. Like in my industry, it's actually better to
05:59:11Colette Fairbe a woman. We can't even find enough men who want to be therapists. I'm in a very female ccentric business. But there are certain industries like hedge funds. I mean there's a million things where
05:59:22Colette Fairit's still a good old boys club, >> you know, oil rig work that make a lot of money industries that make a top dollar are a lot of them are still male-dominated,
05:59:33Brian Atlas>> but I I don't know if I don't really think women are really getting a >> like historically I don't really think women got had a raw deal here. It was like, okay, you could support a a family
05:59:44Brian Atlason one income, one bread winner. The man works, the the the woman stays at home that I don't know working like most
05:59:54Brian Atlaswomen or not even just women, most people are not going to have some ultra fulfilling like you wake up in the morning and you're like, "Yeah, get out
06:00:05Brian Atlasof bed." Yes. I think a lot of people have either like tough jobs, shitty jobs, or they're working for some corporation. They're sitting at a desk, a cubicle, some open office space
06:00:17Brian Atlas[ __ ] [ __ ] That's You think like these women on their deathbed, they're going to be like, "Yeah, I worked for um I I worked for IBM and I I I I was in
06:00:28Brian AtlasToledo, Ohio, or I don't know where their [ __ ] corporate HQ is. I And I was a HR. I was a project manager HR." That's my mom. And Yeah, it's like and oh man that that
06:00:40Brian Atlasone, you know, I was in the corporate office and like I hired those people and I was the HR and I those people that said rude things. I had that one time I
06:00:51Brian AtlasI had that really like I [ __ ] schooled that person who was like being rude to his coworker. You're not going to think about that [ __ ] on your deathbed. Who gives a [ __ ] Well, not if
06:01:02Colette Fairit's that job, but I think the point is to be able to choose for men and for women to be able to choose. If I'm a woman and I want to be the CEO, which I don't, by the way, then I want to be able to have access to that. That's all I want the options.
06:01:15Brian Atlas>> I believe women should have the choice. But in so doing, you have taken the choice away from the women who want to be stay-at-home. >> But I don't want to take away that choice. I think that's beautiful. The
06:01:27Brian Atlasunintended consequence of doubling the labor pool and and having like unhinged feminism is that women really
06:01:37Colette Fairthe economic reality now is you need two incomes. You need the man and the woman. >> But we're not blaming that on women, are we? >> We're blaming that on the >> Why are we blaming that on women? The cost of living inflation.
06:01:49Brian Atlas>> Yes. The economy is very nuance, very complicated, lots of factors. But the reality is when you double the labor pool, if you double the supply of labor, >> you can pay people less.
06:02:00Brian Atlas>> Companies can pay people less. There's there's uh you have less negotiating power from labor the labor side. So look, I think women should obviously for the sake of equality, I guess. Women
06:02:13Brian Atlasshould have the choice be allowed to work. No dispute there. But we should acknowledge the unintended consequence. Now you've become women no longer really have some women
06:02:25Brian Atlascan meet wealthy guys but most the reality is 90 90% 95% of women they're going to have to work too. You've taken the choice away from the women. Some women want to work that's fine. You've taken the choice away though from the
06:02:38Brian Atlaswomen who would have been like you know what [ __ ] work I want to just >> totally and there are those lots of those women. >> Yeah. you've t you've taken the choice away from them because a lot of women who'd be happy being stay at home moms,
06:02:50Alex Stein>> it's not affordable for most people anymore, right? >> So, you've turned them into slaves >> and society doesn't view a mom as successful. You know, that's how we brainwash young children to think that their only success that women can have
06:03:03Alex Steinis by being a boss babe or being, you know, >> uh, you know, doing some sort of job or corporate America, which is the farthest thing from the truth. So, I think that a lot of it's our society. It's like I was saying earlier, nature versus nurture
06:03:15Colette Fairbecause women don't envision being a mom as like this achievement. That's why less people are choosing to even >> But some women I think I hear you. I think some women definitely do. I think the hard part is there are women who
06:03:27Colette Fairdon't feel totally fulfilled by that alone. >> But then there are I mean I have friends that are stay-at-home moms and they love it. They are so happy to do that. They do see it as a success and they're in
06:03:38Colette Faireconomically privileged circumstances that enable them to do it. All the power to them. I think regardless of my own financial circumstances, I would have wanted to do something for a career where I felt intellectually stimulated
06:03:51Brian Atlas>> personally. >> Uh, we have a couple chats, then I need to step away for just a moment. We have Pasty George here coming in. >> Message from the government of Canada. >> Pasty George donated $2004.
06:04:03SPEAKER_00I believe in thought into action such as an artist thinking about what he wants to make and putting in the time and hard work to make it real. I don't believe in the idea of instant manifestation. >> I don't think any
06:04:15Alex Stein>> We agree with you George. >> Thank you, Pacey. I think we agree with Pacy on that. >> Totally. >> Um but no, you know, the conversation like about you know, male verse female.
06:04:26Alex SteinI would I just think that what you're saying how it's harder for women like there are some truths to that but there's some stuff that's harder for men you know. >> Yeah.
06:04:36Colette Fair>> Yeah. And I'm not like a I hate the idea that feminist is is synonymous with wanting to break up the nuclear family or being against men. I love men. I love
06:04:48Colette Fairfamily. Like I I I'm for all those things. To me, being a feminist just means, and I don't even walk around calling myself a feminist, but I I am a feminist, and that I believe things
06:04:59Colette Fairshould be equal. I don't believe men and women are the same, but I don't think it's cool that a couple decades ago I couldn't get a mortgage or a credit card. >> I agree that women are new to the workforce. Well, you know,
06:05:12Alex Stein>> it's not that long ago, you guys. It's really not. And and you know, you might disagree as the one African-American woman on the panel, but like there, you know, there's well, there's an argument >> so much more than that, by the way. >> Well, I know and Filipina and Filipina,
06:05:25Alex Steinbut um you know, there's actually some arguments, and you might not agree with this. I don't know if I 100% agree with it, but maybe a little bit that actually segregation was good, desegregation was bad because during segregation, black communities had to lean on each other.
06:05:38Alex SteinSo, it made their communities stronger. Like, you know, I know that sounds crazy. >> Okay. Wait, wait, please say again. You're saying Like this is this is I know this sounds crazy. This sounds crazy. I'm not saying I'm pro- segregation, but I'm saying
06:05:50Alex Steinsocieties, black people were more successful in a segregated society because they were able to lift each other up within their own community. And so like a workforce that would be segregated, it would be easier for the
06:06:01Colette Fairwoman to be in her role as as a mom if if every woman was a mom. Does that make sense? >> It does. Maybe there were some accidental unintended positive consequences floating around there, but
06:06:13Colette FairI'm never going to get behind anything that says segregation was good. It's inhumane. >> You never heard of that? You never heard of that theory? Have you ever heard of that theory? >> No. No. Like, like the reason why like desegregation was bad because like in
06:06:26Alex Steintheory like you're like that of course that's good. You know, it sounds like it would be good. But there's also like the idea that uh once everything got, you know, segregated or excuse me, once everything got desegregated, it made their community a lot weaker because
06:06:38Alex Steinthen like a lot of the powerful white businesses where they people weren't allowed to shop with now like a black person, a blackowned business might have had a monopoly on these black customers. Now they're competing against a white business owner. And like the KKK was started by Democrats. And you know, one
06:06:51Alex Steinof the reasons the KKK was actually started, a lot of people don't know, was because a lot of black businesses, they would go and burn down black businesses. And it wasn't just cuz they didn't like black people. They didn't like that they were making money when they were making money. There's I have friends. So, so
06:07:04Alex SteinI'm just saying there is something to it. Sounds good. Oh, we're all friends. We all need to come together. And I'm not saying that I want to stay segregated. But do you see how like in a society it sounds crazy, but believe it or not, black people could have been more successful.
06:07:16Colette Fair>> From a competitive economic standpoint, I can understand that. But it shouldn't have been segregated in the first place. And then we would have just had like a free marketplace that of normal valuing human beings at the same time.
06:07:27Brian Atlas>> I would bring up bring up so it's unfair, right, that women, you know, couldn't work or whatever, but they were like traditional generals. Bring up the war. Men had to go to war.
06:07:38Alex Stein>> Yeah. Well, I mean, we're talking about conscription, the draft. I mean, women don't even have to get drafted. They don't even have to maybe do they now have to. But to what you just said before, I mean
06:07:51Marley Jay / Ameliathere were even very large predominantly black communities where these communities liked having their own, you know, uh in the middle of New York City where they have is it Time Square that
06:08:01Marley Jay / Ameliaused to be a booming black neighborhood with businesses and you know, white pe Central Park and white people, you know, did not like that and they went in, they burned it down, they turned it into, you know, so black people did like having
06:08:14Alex Steintheir spaces, they liked having their towns, they liked their communities and it was taken away from them to a certain degree when they would become successful cuz they were >> Colette's freaking out. You're having like a I know it's a weird argument and we're not trying to argue against segregation. We're just saying there's
06:08:28Alex Steinunintended consequences that you don't really think of because you think all of a sudden the world's going to get better, but then really the world's not better. So it's like all these women, oh hey, you're going to be you're going to have the opportunity to be the CEO of McDonald's one day, but really most people aren't going to be that CEO and
06:08:40Colette Fairthey sell you this idea that you're going to be super successful when that's not really the case. >> Totally fair. I think I'm just saying in principle these things should be options. It should be an option. For the
06:08:51Colette Fairwoman who wants to stay home, stay home. For the man who wants to stay home and have a sugar mama, stay home. Like, everyone should live their life the way they want to and have the opportunity to. >> And you said this earlier, like, you
06:09:04Colette Fairknow, stay at home moms that still went into business because they're just so passionate about something. >> Yeah. I mean, that's me. Although I guess I was forced economically to go to work, but looking back, I was not really
06:09:14Colette Fairthat happy as a stay-at-home mom. And maybe if my marriage had been better, I would have been happier because when I got married, I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom. Like 100% I was all
06:09:26Colette Fairfor it. But then I found myself feeling disaffected. And I'll never know how much of that was not having a career and how much of that was just my marriage sucked. But now that I have a career I do really love, I'm very grateful to
06:09:39Colette Fairhave it. And I'm grateful to have a husband that I mean, we're we're very equal economically. And I I'm grateful that my husband supports the fact that I work and even though he's super
06:09:49Colette Fairtraditional, but he does, it's funny, he does make jokes a lot about like I think at heart and I don't know if he's still awake cuz it's really late on the East Coast, but that's okay cuz I I've said
06:10:01Colette Fairthis to him out loud. I secretly think on some level he would like it if I was a little more traditional and submissive. I mean, he's 62. He's from the south. >> Yeah. Especially a guy who's in his 60s
06:10:13Colette Fairand grew up in the South. >> Yeah. >> But oh well, he's stuck with me, so it's not going to happen. >> Well, I don't think you're like a crazy psycho feminist. >> I am not. I am not. I am not. And and
06:10:26Alex Steinthat is the problem where like people like myself and maybe Brian a little bit where you look at radical feminism where it's been hijacked because like I don't think Brian wants women to feel like they can't go and achieve something if they're you know passionate about
06:10:38Alex Steinsomething like right >> you know it's not like we live in 1922 or whatever 1970s or women couldn't get credit cards. So I I it's just some of
06:10:47Alex Steinthe women I guess we get mad um in society the the idea like feminism is these radical leftists that teach women to be [ __ ] and then all these women get ran through by guys and now the guy
06:11:00Alex Steindoesn't want to be there. So now these guys are all have microplastics in their balls and all these girls are [ __ ] that have slept with all their best friends. So it like creates this horrible vicious cycle. >> This went south fast. >> I know what I'm saying. That's what's happening where everybody's screwed. The girls are screwed and the guys are
06:11:13Alex Steinscrewed. And I think that's true because the amount of people they say men are having sex is less and less less. And I always hear blue chew ads. Guys can't get their dicks hard. Like what is going on? And the girls still have boobs.
06:11:25Colette FairGirls are still hot. So you don't >> therapy. People are having so little sex. Even my young couples, people are having so little sex. Society is definitely [ __ ] on many levels. And
06:11:37Colette Fairyou know, one thing my my colleague and I who do our podcast, it's for women, middle-aged therapy stuff, but we talk a lot about how like men are not doing okay right now, and things aren't really
06:11:49Alex Steinfair to men. Nobody wants to hear that, but I think there's a lot of truth to that. >> Well, you know what it is though, too. And I mean, everybody's kind of already knows it, but like we were talking about earlier, but the amount of pornography
06:11:59Alex Steintoo is causing men. And now we have access to it where it wasn't like that. When I was in high school, we had one Playboy magazine that we all shared like and now seriously like steal it from
06:12:10Alex Steinsteal that's how we originally got it and now I mean I didn't grow I mean the internet came out when I was like in I mean it was out before I was in high school but when high school was the first time I started to use the internet and then of course I looked at boobs but now kids are on the internet at 7 you
06:12:24Alex Steinknow and and I don't care how many parental locks you have on the phone. I'm not trying to call. Yeah, kids can figure out a way, you know, to get past some parental loss >> and you can see stuff that a young developing brain shouldn't be exposed.
06:12:35Marley Jay / Amelia>> The first question. I have a question. I have a question. How tall are you and what's the minimum height of a man you would date >> for me? Yeah. >> Um, so I am 5'8 and it's not important to me, but like I would like them to be
06:12:48Marley Jay / Ameliaa few inches taller than me. So like 510, 5'11. >> Okay. What about >> I'm 5'6 and I would like them to at least be 5'9. How how tall are you? 56. >> 56. >> Okay. And you?
06:12:59Alex Stein>> So, I'm 5'3 and I put 510 because that was my shortest boyfriend ever, my ex-husband. >> Okay. >> I think 90% of women put they have to be over 6 feet tall. Somebody can fact check that. But I it's like that range
06:13:12Camila (Cam)that they put 6 feet. But >> not me. >> You guys are liars. But >> I want to feel small. >> Well, >> I'm very petite. I'm like legit 5T. So the shortest for me has to be like no shorter than 5'6
06:13:25Megan>> because if I wear heels, you know. >> Well, you >> I'm 5'3 and obviously they have to be midgets, right? >> That's a good call back. >> That was good. >> We'll take it.
06:13:36Megan>> I'm 5'4 and I think I would have to be a minimum of like 5'7.
06:13:42Taylor>> I'm 5'3 and I guess minimum 53. I'm I'm 5'5 and there's not really a gauge. My boyfriend's like barely taller than me. So, >> how tall? You're 5'5. You said
06:13:56Alex Stein>> 55. Yeah. >> Okay. Gotcha. >> I just feel like you were lying this whole time. So, you're going to date a 5 foot three guy that makes $14,000 as long as he'll watch Dancing with the
06:14:06Alex SteinStars. Like, you got to be the crazy. All these women up here and you're the craziest one woman ever. >> I mean, seriously. >> Simple woman. It's good. >> You're a nice nice lady. I'll take that.
06:14:19Brian Atlas>> Hold on. I also want you to dance with me, too. >> Well, I can see that. Maybe not all guys like to dance. >> Once the car accident heals though, right now. >> I did. I did have one thing while I was while I was away. You were saying how
06:14:30Brian Atlaswomen they couldn't they couldn't work. It was so unfair. You know, I have some thoughts there. I think uh you know, if
06:14:39Brian Atlasif we look at that in a vacuum, women couldn't work. Oh my god. Oh my god, they couldn't work. Oh my god, in a
06:14:49Brian Atlasvacuum. Oh my god, this what crazy evidence of sexism. But if we if we uh zoom out and we look at society as a whole, the this historical I mean I I
06:15:02Brian Atlaskind of contest a little bit that women couldn't work. But you know, just for sake of conversation, sure, maybe certain fields they would didn't have access to. It was like society frown
06:15:10Brian Atlassociety frowned upon. But I kind of think if we look at do a comparison of the two traditional roles and we have men and we have women.
06:15:23Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> And I you're doing an assessment of who had it worse in total. >> Okay. >> I think women had a pretty good deal. I think we Yeah, you couldn't work and Okay, fine. It's sexist. Whatever.
06:15:35Brian Atlas>> You could get Valium though. You know, you're chilling at home having took care of everything. you just get to stay home with your kids. >> Maybe some women have bad experiences, but also I think there's probably like really good experiences like I'm going
06:15:48Brian Atlasto have to work. That's that's dope. I get to stay home, take care of the kids. I think a lot of women today wish they could have that, but they can't because of feminism. But I I would just say like if we look at the negative outcomes when
06:16:00Brian Atlasit comes to men, like I think it was a kind of a good deal. Okay, men, you go work. You be the workh horses of society. You be the the the little
06:16:09Brian Atlasworker ants, the worker bees, the slaves essentially. Uh, and you provide for your family and your wife and your kids. And the woman gets to stay within the
06:16:19Brian Atlascomfort of home. And it's the men that go out into the I mean, sometimes these men were they're going out into the [ __ ] wilderness. They're go the men are going to war. M
06:16:30Brian Atlas>> so if we look at like historical trades, World War I, World War II, all these wars, men women were I don't know if spared is the right word, women were
06:16:40Brian Atlasprotected from the barbarisms that many men did have to witness and see. >> And so I don't know, it's this sort of like you're looking at like specifics
06:16:52Brian Atlasand sure I whatever it's it was sexist, whatever. Women couldn't work >> even. >> But but men had to go to war. And then if you look, I know you want to come in just one final thing on this. If we look at the work that was historically
06:17:04Brian Atlasavailable, let's go back a hundred years, 150 years. The [ __ ] what what is the Apple headquarter called? The Apple they have
06:17:14Brian Atlaslike a term for it. >> They call it a It's a campus. Trust me. In the 1800s, there weren't [ __ ] campus campuses with free massuses and
06:17:25Brian Atlasfree food and coffee and [ __ ] I don't know uh pingpong tables. >> No, the work that was available 10020
06:17:35Brian Atlasyears ago was primarily physical labor. And the the biological physiological reality is men are better suited to physical work. And I think it's actually
06:17:47Brian Atlaskind of a privilege that men were like, "You know what? We got this. We'll destroy our bodies. We'll get black lung so that you women can stay in
06:17:57Brian Atlascomfort inside the the home in in the [ __ ] cabin with a fire and we'll go down into the mines and we'll get black
06:18:07Marley Jay / Amelialung and [ __ ] destroy our bodies and die at 40." I think women got the better deal. >> Yeah. I mean, but the jobs that were available to women, you know, what do we think those were? Because what is the
06:18:20Brian Atlasoldest profession? >> Wait, why do you want to bring it to prostitution? >> Well, you're, you know, >> I'm I'm saying that I'm saying that it's only until [ __ ] air conditioning was invented that all these jobs. >> Yeah.
06:18:33Brian Atlas>> You know, there wasn't like a big feminist push in the 1800s like, yes, we want to be [ __ ] beaver poachers or I don't know what the [ __ ] people were doing back then. Oh yeah, I want to go
06:18:45Marley Jay / Ameliahunt or do all this [ __ ] Women. No. >> Yeah. If you weren't having a family, you were a teacher or you were a nurse or you were >> women did what? >> Hold on. Okay. Most women were not prostitutes.
06:18:56Brian Atlas>> No, I'm not saying that they were. You were a mother, you were a teacher, you were a nurse or you >> women have women women throughout history, like if there's like the family business in the 1800s, they'd they'd be
06:19:08Brian Atlassecretaries. They'd help out around the shop. They'd help out around the farm. Women worked. So, and also I mean look, I think women had a pretty good deal. A pretty good deal. If you look at
06:19:19Brian Atlashistorical again, I I mean I can just only reiterate this. The work that was available 100 years ago, 150 years ago, not glamour, not glamorous work. You you
06:19:30Brian Atlasweren't a boss babe. You weren't, you know, oh, I'm going to [ __ ] you know, get my PTO and get my vacation days. No, the work was like, we're sending the men into the mines. You're
06:19:42Brian Atlasdoing dangerous, dirty, physic, grueling physical labor. You're working all day. There wasn't there wasn't OSHA >> back in the [ __ ] 100 years ago.
06:19:53Alex Stein>> There used to be child labor a 100 years ago. We had to do child labor laws 100 years ago. >> Exactly. >> And Brian, I agree because you and I are both, you know, we're both Billy Zayn feminists and I think that we believe if
06:20:05Brian Atlasthe Titanic is sinking, it shouldn't just be women and children on the ships. Men should go, too. Oh, like uh yeah, of course I agree with you. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Sorry, my brain was like, >> "No, but I'm saying like if the boat is
06:20:18Brian Atlassinking, you know, they stay on the Titanic, so only men and women are allowed to get on the boats." But Billy Zayn and Titanic, it's on the boat. >> Let's ask the That's a good You bring that up. That's good. >> Uh when it comes to the Titanic, should it be women and children first?
06:20:32Marley Jay / Amelia>> You mean that go into the lifeboats, right? That's what we're talking about. >> Well, how about this? Uh >> the lifeboats is what we're talking about, though. >> I think it should just be the rich. >> No. Those were the first class we're
06:20:41Brian Atlasgetting on the boat first. >> But um maybe I mean maybe we can agree children first, right? >> But then >> yeah, but if they don't have their parents, how good are they going to turn
06:20:52Marley Jay / Ameliaout as orphans? Come on now. >> Even even kids in the in, you know, that go into the system now end up living really bad lives and you know end up in drug addicts. Not all of them, but
06:21:04Marley Jay / Amelia>> okay, >> a lot of bad things happen to children. >> Who gets on the lifeboats first, women or men? Like I said, I mean, >> starting with you. >> So, I agree with you. It would be children first, obviously. We'll put that aside.
06:21:16Marley Jay / Amelia>> Yeah, we'll put that aside. So, I would say specifically thinking about the Titanic, it would be those of the highest value, both split between male and female. So, the people that are essential to continue with whatever it is.
06:21:29Alex Stein>> So, Dr. Fouchy gets on the raft. >> Who? Sorry. >> Dr. Fouchy because he's essential. Even that would be controversial. >> Dr. Fouchy. The pandemic. You remember the essential workers during the pandemic?
06:21:40Alex SteinSorry whenever my last two jokes is just the bomb, but we're getting late. I'll get I'll get one at the end. >> What I'm saying is is I would think it would be the most essential people. So the people who are in the leadership
06:21:53Brian Atlasroles. I don't know if that's male or female. I feel like it would be split pretty evenly, but there would have to be women in order to take care of the children. >> I mean, we can talk about what the protocol was historically or whatever. What who do you think though? Should it be the
06:22:05Brian Atlas>> I just gave you my answer. I said I said it should be split fairly because >> wait the [ __ ] Titanic is sinking. Well tell who has the most valuable to society. >> It wouldn't be that. >> But I mean think about it. If there were
06:22:18Marley Jay / Ameliaa bunch of children going onto a lifeboat there needs to be a few women because adults >> there has to be adults there. I think it would be I I do agree that I think that that the people who are wealthier would
06:22:31Marley Jay / Ameliathink that they are the priority, but I think it's the people who are in those leadership roles that can survive on those boats until they're rescued. >> Yeah. Well, like you know, I said the rich, you know, >> the rich because you'd want one guy on
06:22:43Alex Steinthe boat, right? Let's say like the men and women you or the lady, excuse me. Let's just say they said all the children and women could go on the boat first. I guarantee all the children would look back and be like, "Let's get one guy on the boat." But that's what I
06:22:54Colette Fairmean is a male in a leadership role to help in the survival. Yeah. >> I don't really think it's fair that it's women and children getting on the lifeboat, but I think that it would look really bad on those men because I think that's still society. I know that's what
06:23:08Marley Jay / AmeliaI'm saying. These are >> un so I'm going to say women cuz I want to live. I think we need to be putting enough life rafts for everyone to get on a boat. >> Well, this is Carnival Cruise, baby. We don't have enough. We got enough hamburgers. We don't have enough life rafts.
06:23:21Camila (Cam)>> What do you think? I would say women because men are physically stronger so they can swim against currents. And I mean a woman, you throw a woman in an ocean versus a man, a man, I'm being serious. Like a man would probably have
06:23:32Brian Atlasa better survival rate at swimming to a nearby island versus a woman. >> I would agree. I would agree that a man would be able to swim farther than a woman physically. Well, I agree with that, but I don't think it helps you in like what I don't know what the
06:23:45Brian Atlastemperature of the water was. >> Oh my god. Hypothermia affects men and women easily. the Titanic. You're done. Whether you're a man or woman and you can maybe tread water for a couple minutes and you're done. >> You're done.
06:23:57Jenna (Paris)>> But you asked for between a man or woman. So, I voted a woman because a man >> What do you say? >> So, the question is, who deserves to be on the lifeboat or who will end up being on the lifeboat?
06:24:06Jenna (Paris)>> No. Who do you who do you think should get on the lifeboat first? >> It's the strongest survive. No. Like they're fighting for it. Yeah. They're going to be fighting for it. Well, no, not necessarily. They should be if it's
06:24:20Brian Atlaslife or death. >> Well, well, they they should, but I think sometimes you have like uh men's benevolent sacrificial nature >> while they're dying. >> Yeah, men sacrifice themselves. Captain
06:24:33Tayloralways wants to go down with the ship though. You know what I mean? Men will do it. What do you think? >> Women. >> Women. >> Um, women. >> Women. >> I think trying to keep the families together. >> Yeah. >> Okay.
06:24:43Marley Jay / Amelia>> I would say only transgenders deserve to get on. Save the trans. >> They were trans back then. >> Trans men and trans women. Leave them on the boat. >> Transition to a man or transition to a
06:24:57SPEAKER_00woman. >> I mean, who do I like in the government of Canada? >> Sorry. >> Pasty George donated $200. >> There are a lot of men in North America who want to reproduce and have families,
06:25:10SPEAKER_00but it's just that feminism has brainwashed women into thinking those men are trash. Hence why men are moving on. >> I'll take them. >> Also, y'all have traded. >> Sorry, you had something. Go. I think you had something.
06:25:22Alex Stein>> No, I think I might have said it. >> I was already know. In my head, I was already thinking like, you know, gay son or thought daughter for some reason. >> What is worse for society? Well, he's talking about having kids. And I think
06:25:35Alex Steinthat's another reason why people are afraid to have kids is because, you know, >> the son >> the son could turn to be gay or, you know, and the rate of autism is higher. I'm just saying there's a lot of like external factors with having kids that
06:25:48Alex Steinum people are worried about and it's like the movie Idiocracy, right? I don't know if you guys have seen that movie, but at the very beginning like they show like this white trash family and they used white people cuz they didn't want to be racist, but they show like this white trash family and this guy's like banging his cousin. He has like his
06:26:00Alex Steinfamily tree just starts expanding. Then they show this other couple and they're like, "Well, the market's not very good. I don't think we should have a kid right now." Then they like fast forward 5 years. They're like, "Oh, well, you know, this, you know, they're giving like all these like reasons of why it's not a great time to have a kid." and
06:26:13Alex Steinthen it's like 30 years she's like well I can't have a kid anymore and they're financially fine while the other guy has hundreds of family members and they but that is really what happens in the world and you talk you look at India has a
06:26:25Alex Steinbillion people and they're all coming to Canada and they're all coming here and it's because people are afraid to have kids because of the external factors because the world's so [ __ ] up >> India man
06:26:36Brian Atlas>> um all right we have some notes to get into so let me see here the First, I'll try to blast through these. Uh, okay. Camila. >> Yes.
06:26:49Brian Atlas>> Uh, you say husband should be willing to die protecting you. Take the bullet. They should pay on dates. Should be providers. I'll come back to that in a bit though. Jenna, men should be chivalous. Megan, husband should be
06:26:59Brian Atlaswilling to die protecting you. Take the bullet. Uh, Melissa. Okay, I have some qualms with you here. Uh >> oh. Uh so you say men should provide
06:27:12Brian Atlasprotect men should be chivalous. Husbands should be willing to die protecting you. Take the bullet. Uh you also circle though you will keep your
06:27:22Melissa Pereiralast name or hyphenate in marriage. >> Yeah. I didn't really know how to answer that. I just I >> So do you want to keep your last name? >> Um oh I totally misunderstood that. Yeah.
06:27:35Melissa Pereira>> What? So, you don't care about your >> I don't mind. Yeah. Yeah. I would lose my last name or I would add it like I don't know. I'd have to think about it. >> What about your kids? What about for your kids? Can they take Will they >> It's something that we'd have to like
06:27:49Brian Atlasdiscuss like >> Well, your husband say he's a traditional guy. >> He's like, I want >> my kids to have my last name. >> Yeah, I see no problem with that. >> But he doesn't even want to have the
06:28:00Melissa Pereiradiscussion. There's no discussion. >> Hi. You just understood >> that. This is how it is. >> Leo. >> No, this is how it is. >> You know what? At the end of the day, like I really don't care like as long as it's not like an embarrassing last name
06:28:14Melissa Pereiralike Nikki or something. >> Yes, it's Let's assume it's embarrassing. >> Oh, like gay. >> Okay, there's a discussion there. Then I probably wouldn't marry you. >> Gosh, >> you wouldn't marry a guy cuz he has a bad last name. >> I know. I'm so shy.
06:28:26Marley Jay / Amelia>> If he's like the love of your life. >> No, I know men with >> into the mic. Into the mic. Like if he's your absolute soulmate, >> probably wouldn't date him. >> No, there are a lot of men with bad last names and they don't want to keep their last name. >> Yeah, that's fine. But in this
06:28:39Melissa Pereirasituation, he does. He has a bad last night. Last name. He's traditional. He wants to keep it. >> I'm such a terrible person. Yeah. No, that's I can't I can't do it. If my last name had to be gay,
06:28:50Alex Stein>> I know. I know. Not like that. That would be a deal breaker. Really? If you married a guy named Rudy Gay, NBA player, and you had to change your name to Melissa Gay, you wouldn't do that. No, even though he's a multi-millionaire.
06:29:02Brian Atlas>> Wait, genuinely I've had um Yeah. No, >> hold on. Genuinely here. I know we've been bantering, but is this your actual genuine position? >> I never realized this about myself. >> Yeah, I think so. >> No, genuinely though,
06:29:14Brian Atlas>> like, >> so he he meets >> I wouldn't change my last name. Like, if he was my soulmate, like >> if Wait, just to clarify, you wouldn't change your last name if it's a like let's say he has an average last name.
06:29:27Melissa PereiraStill won't do it. Well, if I was an average last name, then I would do it. >> But if it's a bad last name, no. >> I would just debate him until he hated me. I would >> the relationship.
06:29:38Brian Atlas>> So, but so the other things you wrote here, you say men should provide, protect. Men should be chivalous. Husband should be willing to die protecting you, but you won't take his
06:29:50Brian Atlaslast name. >> I'd do those things for him. >> I just circled it because that's what it said. But I would also do the same things for him. Yeah. Well, there'd be uh Okay, you'd reciprocate, but um
06:30:02Brian Atlas>> remember I'm a 50/50. >> You're Okay, you're 50/50. Well, then if you're 50/50, why should men be chivalous? >> Why shouldn't they? >> Are you chivalous? >> Yeah. >> How so? >> I've opened the car door for someone
06:30:15Melissa Pereirabefore. >> For for someone for a guy that I would date a guy that's 53. >> And I would date a guy even Yeah. I've given plenty of back massages if they've had like a long hard day. >> That's not shival.
06:30:27Marley Jay / Amelia>> I do the whole spa treatment thing. >> That's not really chivalry though, but >> I think it is. >> I don't know really. I mean, it's just nurturing. >> It just dep Well, I think you said
06:30:35Melissa Pereirachivalry for men is different than what Timmy's door in Canada for for men before. Well, then >> so you're you're willing to die for your husband? >> Absolutely. 100%.
06:30:48Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> Some of these things tend to be just kind of >> if I love them, why not? Actually, I would die for a stranger. >> Uh, here, let's get into this. Past past should not matter. Referencing body
06:30:59Brian Atlascount. Uh, Marley, you say past should not matter. >> No, but I think that there needs to be a conversation and be honest about it. >> Oh, okay. Sure. Colette, you say past
06:31:09Brian Atlasshould not matter. Uh, Jenna, you say I guess past does matter. Uh, Megan, you put a line through it. I don't know if
06:31:18Brian Atlasthat what that means, but >> that it kind of depends, I guess. >> Oh, okay. Sure. Um Melissa, you say pass should not matter. Body count shouldn't
06:31:29Brian Atlasmatter. Um I guess uh why why why is that? Why should the past not matter for those of you who said it shouldn't? >> Because that doesn't define the person. Like your past doesn't define who you are.
06:31:42Brian Atlas>> Yes, it does. >> Yeah, it definitely does. >> Yeah, it does. I mean it. >> But people change. Yeah, you can change. But uh to say that the past is completely like irrelevant, I don't know. >> I'm not saying it's completely irrelevant, but
06:31:54Brian Atlas>> Well, how about this? Is it wrong for a guy to make a determination as to whether he'd want to date somebody based on her past? Is that unfair? >> Yes. >> Is it insecure?
06:32:05Brian Atlas>> I would say it's in No, >> it's unfair though. You shouldn't You should be totally forgiving of somebody's past. >> Well, well, it depends. Did you murder somebody? No, but let's say you I don't know how you
06:32:18Marley Jay / Amelia>> Well, use her as an example. Do you think your current boyfriend should be weary of you hanging out with other men considering the fact that you left your first husband for one of his co-workers and then you cheated on your second husband >> with the man you're with? Shouldn't he
06:32:31Meganbe weary of your past? >> Well, >> I mean, if we're going to do that, then I should be weary of him, too, because he >> cheated with you. He cheated with me and uh called off his wedding for me.
06:32:43Alex SteinOh, that gets even messier. You didn't say that earlier. Wait. So, he was engaged to be married when you were banging him on these work trips. And so, you broke some other poor woman's heart, too, with your um horness.
06:32:55Megan>> With my horness? >> Well, I mean, yeah. I mean, I mean, spreading you spreading your legs. >> I mean, he put it in between my legs. >> So, both are in a relationship. >> We're both We're both
06:33:08Megan>> both equally bad. >> Yes, we are. And we both admit that what we did. >> Did you ever talk to the woman? >> No. >> Did she ever confront you or anything? >> Nope. >> Not on Facebook. She didn't send you a me message on Facebook. Messenger.
06:33:21Alex Stein>> No, there was no communication. >> Done. >> But are we talking about past behavior body counts or past behavior period? >> Well, I think past behavior like if you have a criminal record, that's the first example, murder. So, I mean, I think it obviously
06:33:35Marley Jay / Amelia>> I want to know the history of someone. Yeah. It speaks to character and >> I know. So, wouldn't that be like kind of similar to their sexual history? >> I mean, I know my history is very hard for men to get through unless, you know,
06:33:47Marley Jay / Ameliathey want to sexualize me. So, I know why I have a hard time finding a partner. It's because of the choices I've made. And, you know, I want to find a partner who is okay with that and it's a lot harder.
06:33:57Brian Atlas>> Also, couldn't this even be applied to like for example, in order to be at some point in the future, you need to have taken certain actions in the past. So, like manifestation. >> What's the difference? Like, you know, maybe I could have been a professional
06:34:10Brian Atlasathlete and if I was a professional athlete, I'd be like more attractive or appealing to women. Why you laughing? What the [ __ ] You don't think You don't think I have the I don't have the dog in me. >> I got the dog in me. I could have play
06:34:23Camila (Cam)NFL tight end. >> You could do pickle ball. >> Travis Kelsey. I got the dog in me. >> I got the dog in me. He could be a kicker. >> I believe you.
06:34:34Brian Atlas>> Okay. So anyways, um, >> but I'm saying like or how about just whatever like the a guy had he been more ambitious when he was younger, he would have been richer. >> Yeah.
06:34:46Brian Atlas>> Women care about the guy's financial standing. So it's like >> you're kind of like if the guy's not rich enough, it's like, well, you could have [ __ ] up. You [ __ ] up in your past. you didn't go to college or well
06:34:58Brian Atlas[ __ ] college but you didn't do the steps necessary when you were younger to be wealthy or at a place financially that I would have otherwise deemed you attractive. >> So women do these sorts of past
06:35:09Brian Atlasassessments too but in this sort of roundabout way but anyways um going around the table though I guess body count doesn't matter. We always ask this question uh what what's your body count? >> My like my personal body count? >> Yep. You're
06:35:23Marley Jay / Amelia>> How many guys have you >> dated seriously or just >> How many guys have slept with? >> Pound cardal knowledge. >> Cardinal knowledge. >> It's got to be like 11. >> God, I thought got to be
06:35:33Marley Jay / Amelia>> because one of them I don't feel like it counts, but like maybe by his standards. So, we'll just say 12. >> And why did he have performance issues? >> Any women? >> He couldn't get it hard. >> I've never been with a woman. >> Poor guy. >> Yeah.
06:35:46Marley Jay / Amelia>> Um Okay. And your longest relationship was eight years. He said >> eight and a half years. Yeah. >> So, got to be 11. Okay. What about you? >> Um 34 I believe. 34.
06:35:56Marley Jay / Amelia>> Yeah. I was just I mean somewhere in the 30s I had a very uh blackout point of my life from 19 to 21. I was in abusive relationships where I was >> you abused him.
06:36:07Marley Jay / Amelia>> I was in abusive relationships where they would bring me places to have sex with people without telling me. >> Um >> Wow. >> Yeah. No. And you know that's why the hypnosis was so important for me to be able to choose. You told me to stop talking about that. You said it was
06:36:22Camila (Cam)boring. >> What about you? >> 14. >> 14. >> 14. >> What about you? >> No comment. But it's not bad. >> Give us range. >> Oh my god. >> Oh my god. Chem. >> No, cuz I I film. So I don't want to.
06:36:34Camila (Cam)>> You film? >> Yeah, like acting. No, like TV stuff. So >> yeah, it's just a little too. >> Do you want to do like a a range though? Like instead of a Okay, it's >> I'll just say this. I believe in
06:36:46Brian Atlasmonogamy. So every relationship I've been in has always just been me and that one person. So >> I mean serial monog. >> Some people can be up. >> Oh my god. >> Boyfriend a boyfriend of boyfriends, you
06:37:00Jenna (Paris)know. >> Well, that's me. Yeah. I mean all minority. >> Uh is it is it over 10? >> No. >> No. >> What about you? Body count. >> Um I knew this was going to be a question. So I actually sat like with a
06:37:12Brian Atlascalculator. >> No [ __ ] Do you have a list? um in my head. >> Not on like a phone or does it? Wait, question. I'm not gonna ask anybody to show it. Does anybody have >> a list? No. >> No. >> A diary, a notebook.
06:37:25Jenna (Paris)>> Uh what what is it? >> So this is also like not by the way. Not just penetration, right? Like this is any kind of sexual >> You're talking blowies. Are you talking? >> No, I'm talking like even with women, right?
06:37:38Jenna (Paris)>> Well, let's break. Let's do women and men. Separate the two. >> Oh, >> okay. Okay. More math. Yes. More math. math [ __ ] >> Um, okay. So, but I'm I'm pansexual. So,
06:37:49Jenna (Paris)are we counting >> trans? >> Oh my 79 was the number total. 79 total. >> 79 total.
06:38:01Alex Stein>> But that's even like if it was just >> But that didn't make sense. Okay. So, if you got 79, what's 80 * 5,000? So, what is that? Uh, I'm just trying to think how much money you make. Um,
06:38:13Alex Steinso if it's like roughly uh so what is that like for you? >> You think I'm getting paid for all of those? >> Well, 79. >> You think every single time that I have sex? >> Well, no. But okay, so let's say 50 of
06:38:25Alex Steinthem you got paid. >> Way less. >> So you So you can pay all your bills by only having like 40 sexual encounters. >> I I also webcam and like I was telling you, I do other
06:38:37Alex Stein>> things. Oh, I thought you I thought you said you didn't do uh uh only fans. >> I thought you just like only do like videos. >> No, >> porn. Sorry, I didn't know that. >> Okay, >> you made a little a little assumptions.
06:38:50Melissa Pereira>> 13. >> 13. Okay, what about you? >> I'm just going to say 10 and up cuz my mom might be watching. >> Give us a range. >> Come on. Give us a range. >> That's a good range. 10 and up.
06:39:02Marley Jay / Amelia>> Give us a range. Come on. >> 10 and up. >> So, that could be a million. What's a count? >> Oh, dear Lord. I'd be impressed.
06:39:12Melissa Pereira>> Bonnie blew a thousand in an in a day. >> Come on. All the other girls were good sports. Come on.
06:39:21Melissa Pereira>> I need a shot. Okay. How about we say 30 and up? >> Okay. [Laughter]
06:39:33Brian Atlas>> Honesty. Can we? But if I were to throw out, could it be 40? >> Let's not talk about that. >> They say you're supposed to multiply by three. You know that, Brian. You know you're supposed to multiply by three. >> I got you. I got you. >> One. >> One.
06:39:46Alex Stein>> Multiply it by three. And that's the real number. >> Oh, >> Alex Stein pimp on the blimp. What? What's your body? >> You know, I would say this. It's It's a lot because I'm a badass that is a dog.
06:39:56Alex SteinBut I do think like meaningless sex is like so bad for you and like >> I 100% >> I have had that and it's not something I'd encourage other people to have. So
06:40:05Alex Steinuh yeah, but no, I've got that dog in me. I mean yeah dog >> Oh, speaking of which, we were actually we were
06:40:16Brian Atlaswe were supposed to have a furry on today and she >> she was a dog. She was a dog girl. Can you >> I tried to get you a trans girl. >> Yeah. Was that the girl? >> That was the girl that I was trying to
06:40:29Alex Steinget on. >> No, no, the girl that I Yeah, the puppy one. Yeah, she was she's trans. She is. Yeah. >> Well, they all kind of identify as trans. We had this furry on our show and then my producer went to this furry festival and like Yeah. Because they are transitioning to an animal, they
06:40:41Alex Steinactually kind of consider themselves trans because like she is a woman and she and she like will say she's a woman, but because she's an animal, she considers herself trans. Like it's like it's all kind of >> like theion or whatever. >> Yeah. I don't know. But yeah, being trans is part of being a furry.
06:40:54Brian Atlas>> I see. Alex Stein, can you look into that camera right there? And I think her name is Alice. We'll just call her Wait, is it >> What's it And she was too scared.
06:41:04Brian Atlas>> No, Olivia. It's Olivia. >> Say Olivia. >> I'll just let you actually uh just uh And she's a dog. >> Improv this. She She's a dog, but
06:41:16Alex Steinsometimes I think she's a rabbit, too. >> Let me tell you something, Olivia. You stupid K9. You dumb [ __ ] And that's okay because dogs are [ __ ] Um, you didn't have the balls to come here.
06:41:28Alex SteinAnd as a female [ __ ] which is the dictionary term for a dog, so I'm not calling her that to be negative even though you are a [ __ ] Um, okay. You're a [ __ ] A real dog would have come here
06:41:38Alex Steinand eaten with another fellow dog like myself. So, you're a [ __ ] ass. You'll always be a [ __ ] ass. And you'll never get any [ __ ] being a weird furry transgender hanging out with Big Tits McGee over here. So, get a life. the
06:41:51Alex Stein[ __ ] >> I met her I met her doing a podcast just the other day. >> Well, if you're going on podcast at Big Tits McGee, then you're really [ __ ] up, too, because I'm on one with her and I'm [ __ ] up. So, trust me, I know. >> And Olivia, [ __ ] you.
06:42:03Brian Atlas>> She did say that she will come. >> No. Uh, by the way, it's a different furry. It's not your It's a different furry. >> It's not your furry. >> It's not her furry. It's the uh It's the one who was scheduled who just like
06:42:14Brian Atlas>> bailed. Bailed. Yeah. >> Yeah. And then I sent her a a picture of that meme of Hassan's dog being shocked. >> Shocked. Nick, >> she blocked you.
06:42:26Brian Atlas>> Nick, Nick, can you Google the Hassan dog shock meme? The the photo. I [ __ ] sent her a picture. I was like, [ __ ] bad dog. >> I told her I was like, you [ __ ] bad dog.
06:42:38Brian AtlasHere, I'm gonna actually liked it. That's a weird thing. >> I'm gonna message her right now. I'm be like, you know what? Send me a photo of you in the corner with your dog hat on.
06:42:52Brian Atlas>> Dog hat. >> Yeah, you're validating >> influencer who has the ears and wears the collar and wants to be a dog. >> Yes, I sent her that photo. I was like, you [ __ ] You flaked on us [ __ ] she at 300 p.m. That's an hour
06:43:06Marley Jay / Ameliabefore [ __ ] me time. >> Oh, wow. >> Rude. >> So I texting you, >> huh? I can see her text. >> She's got like a dog >> dog and a dog emoji. >> Is it the girl who wears the little
06:43:19Brian Atlaspuppy ears? Has she been on before? >> She has some She's got weird [ __ ] She's got crazy [ __ ] >> Has she been on before? >> No. First time. So, we're going to see. Maybe she'll come back. But, um I'm I'm going to have to like actually put like
06:43:32Brian Atlassome collar on her or some [ __ ] >> She might like that. >> I'm going to put her put her in the corner. I'm going to put a shock collar on her. >> Wow. And I'm going to the whole podcast
06:43:43Brian Atlasif she annoys me. Olivia. Olivia. If you annoy me when we get you on the podcast, Olivia, you're going to be wearing a dog shock collar the entire
06:43:54Brian Atlastime. And I'm going to be very >> uh generous with it. I'm going to be very uh >> liberal with it. >> Liberal. I'll be very liberal with the shocking. You're going to get shocked.
06:44:07Colette Fair>> I'll shock the [ __ ] out of you. >> She's dripping right now. If you wanted to manifest that origy, you're dead. >> The furry orgy. >> Oh my god. >> Beastiality should be very clear. >> Okay. Wait, what about your your body count? You never You started barking and
06:44:21Alex Steinyou slithered out of that >> number. I don't know. Probably like 20. >> Okay. >> Any uh conservative gals? >> A lot. >> A lot of celebrities. A lot of celebrities do. I don't want to name them, but yeah.
06:44:34Marley Jay / Amelia>> JLo, >> Roseanne Bar. >> There you go. That's a >> You don't know who Roseanne Bar is? >> Yeah. No, I'm too young. I'm sorry. >> You don't know who Roseanne Bar is? >> No. >> She just Did she have a TV show called
06:44:47SPEAKER_00Rosan? >> Oh, okay. Rosie. I'm 26. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> She did a rap video. >> A message from the government of Canada. >> Pasty George donated $2004.
06:44:58SPEAKER_00Share six. Yes, cheating is called hornness. Women have unquestioned control over who they let in between their legs. So, why couldn't you keep yours closed? What's your feminist excuse?
06:45:14Brian Atlas>> Your response? >> Um, I don't really have a response. I just uh I don't know. >> Gotcha. Um, we have a few more from from
06:45:25Brian Atlasthe questionnaire. A woman should not be rejected because of her weight. You agree, >> Camila? Camila, am I saying it right? You agreed, Camila. You agreed.
06:45:37Brian Atlas>> I agreed. >> Megan agree. It looks like you No. And then No, that's it. So,
06:45:46Brian Atlasyou you and then Megan. Uh, why is that? Why should a woman not be rejected? >> Because of her weight. >> I don't think that that's a valid reason
06:45:58Brian Atlasto reject somebody is based off of just their weight. >> I feel like it is. >> You Wait, hold on. Whoa, whoa, wait, hold on. So, you can reject a guy who makes $250,000 a year. >> But I haven't rejected men like that.
06:46:11Marley Jay / AmeliaYou see, you're taking that one question and you're like going crazy with it. >> I'm not going crazy with your answer. >> I'm not going to reject a man just cuz he doesn't make a certain income. You asked me what my ideal like what I would
06:46:22Brian Atlaswant and that's what I would want. Isn't you saying that the minimum yearly income for a man to be your future husband being $300,000 >> isn't baked into that that you would
06:46:34Marley Jay / Ameliareject like logically? >> But aren't there a lot of people who like when they get married in the prenup they put in that fat clause so if the woman gains over a certain amount of weight >> what does that have to do with anything? >> What I'm saying is is that a lot of
06:46:46Marley Jay / Ameliapeople go into relationships and they have certain standards and requirements that they want not only met but upheld. And I feel like even though they're not fair comparisons, that is something that is used against women. I just don't think someone should
06:46:59Marley Jay / Ameliabe based off of their weight. I that's all I that's all my answer was is I don't think you should be rejected based solely off of your weight. >> Um but okay. Also, >> what if they had diabetes or something? >> Um
06:47:10Brian Atlas>> no, not who like that's I'm sorry you have diabetes, but like so >> I'm I'm not saying people don't get rejected, but >> but hold on. I'm not saying that should be the only reason you reject somebody. >> The height question. Uh, you're 5'8. You
06:47:24Marley Jay / Ameliasay the minimum height of a man you would date is 510, 5'11. >> Like I just want them a couple inches taller than me. >> But you would Would you reject a guy who's 5'7? >> No, I've dated someone who's who's shorter than me.
06:47:35Brian Atlas>> Okay. I've Sure. But I've also date I've also gone on a date with a woman who is a bit overweight. It's not my preference to date over >> But did you guys stay in a relationship long term?
06:47:46Brian Atlas>> No. But when you say I dated, like yeah, I went on a date with a girl who was a bit chubby. >> Like that's not my preference though. >> Okay. >> I
06:47:57Brian Atlas>> I mean, don't sometimes, you know, whatever. It's all good. But >> height's not that important to me. >> Look, I'm just saying >> to be honest, height is not a huge >> Sometimes she's got a cute face. Whatever. She can get it.
06:48:08Brian Atlas>> Have you ever dated a morbidly obese guy? I don't see like a really chubby guy, but I don't No, I I don't feel like that's happened now. >> But I don't understand. So weight you can change. Height you can't change,
06:48:20Marley Jay / Amelia>> but I mean like it sounds like >> income you can change. >> Uh that's >> you can I know it's debatable, but it is something you can change. You can't change your height without I don't know if they have surgeries. >> They do have that surgery now.
06:48:33Brian Atlas>> Oh, they do. Okay. I didn't >> leg lengthening. Yeah. Wow. >> But I mean I'm just confused. So, like what? So, for example, let's say me. I wouldn't want to date a woman because she was obese. That's wrong.
06:48:45Marley Jay / Amelia>> No, I'm saying that you shouldn't reject her because I take the word rejection as being kind of brutal about it. >> No, I mean a rejection. No, no. So, okay. When we're talking about rejection, it could just be like >> deal breaker. >> Swipe left, swipe right.
06:48:57Brian Atlas>> Yeah, it could be that. It could be like I am not interested in this person because of this character. So, because of her weight. >> I've been told that. I've been told them I would. >> But reject rejection doesn't have to be nec like a
06:49:10Marley Jay / Amelia>> I guess I just I think of it as like a preference and that's fine if you don't want to date them, but I don't feel like you should just base the decision solely based on their weight. >> What would be wrong with even that though?
06:49:20Marley Jay / Amelia>> I just feel like that's that's like not in a place where I'm at where I would do something where I would basically deny someone, reject someone, whatever the term is that we're using based off of
06:49:32Brian Atlasone simple characteristic. Also with weight micropenis >> microp penis again I know there's surgeries to change that but weight you can lose weight. >> Wait what? Hold on but hold on. Would you reject assume the guy doesn't want
06:49:44Brian Atlasto get the for I don't think there's a microp penis surgery. I don't think there is to be honest. >> Uh would that would you reject a guy who has a micropenis? >> I mean I definitely don't think that's my preference. >> So you would reject him? >> I mean eventually you would find out
06:49:57Marley Jay / Ameliaright because you would get intimate with them. So at some point I guess there would be a rejection. But I would >> Well, how about how about he just told you up front? >> Wow. I don't I guess like it just
06:50:09Marley Jay / Ameliadepended how much I was into that person because like for me personally I I >> Sex is important. >> Couldn't have right now. I'm not with anybody. I'm not doing that. So to me that's not my main focus. So when I'm getting to know
06:50:21Alex Steinsomeone I don't bring up that topic immediately. >> Brian, you might have picked that might be the best sex technique ever. on a first date with a girl, you tell her you have a micro penis because like, you
06:50:33Alex Steinknow, some girls are going to be like, "Oh, grossed out." But I guarantee a girl's going to be like, "I want to see this micro penis. I want to see the I want to see how micro it is." Because I'm not even kidding. Like, this is a good And then they pull it out. It's not micro and you're like, "Well, now my
06:50:46Brian Atlasdick's out. Let's do something." But that is actually a good way to kind of break the ice because they're like, "I want to see." >> Also, wait. Here's another thing, Alex, is if she's like she's like, "I don't really care. I That's a good sign if
06:50:58Brian Atlasshe's like That's a great sign. >> If she stays and then >> That's what I'm saying. It's a good test for everything. The micro penis test. We just invented it here tonight. >> Sure. >> I love it. I actually I think you got as
06:51:10Brian Atlasa guy these guys who like claimed they got a big dick. >> Wait, question for the We got some women here, >> right? We got women. >> Yeah. >> Uh have you ever had a guy like say he had a big dick, but really he didn't?
06:51:22Alex SteinHave you had that experience? like old baby like and it's like average or whatever. >> I don't know. >> You guys have had it where guys say like I'm gonna bang you. >> I don't know about that, but like where guys like been all sexual and then not
06:51:35Marley Jay / Ameliabeen sexual. I'm sure that's happened. >> What do you mean not been sexual? >> Like they send you sexual messages and then when it's time to get sexual they're like not sexual. >> Oh, that's weird. That happens. >> I've never had that all the time. >> I don't know. When it was like that, it
06:51:46Brian Atlaswas a blur. I don't even >> Well, anyways, I think I don't know. I think you got to like for on everything though, not just penis size like you got you got to manage expectations. All
06:51:58Brian Atlasthese guys promising the world. No, >> you have to you have to be like say this, you know, the sex is going to be >> like >> under promise overd deliver. Say that.
06:52:10Brian Atlas>> Definitely. >> And then when you're like >> keep your expectations low. >> If you're a little bit above average, they're like, okay, cool. But if you tell the girl, "I'm going to blow your [ __ ] mind." And it's like, >> "Yeah,
06:52:22Brian Atlas>> it's like what?" But if you tell them, you know, I'm like, "Whatever. I'll get I'll give it the old college try. We'll see how it goes." And then you do like >> a half decent job. Decent. Pull out the vibrator and you make it come one way or
06:52:35Brian Atlasanother. >> Manage expectations. Manage expectations. >> A message from the government of Canada. >> Pasty George donated $200. >> Thank you, Past One. If you and other
06:52:46SPEAKER_00women believe that females shouldn't be rejected based on weight, then women shouldn't reject men based on their height, which they can't change without painful surgery. >> True. Um, >> yeah.
06:52:58Brian Atlas>> Okay. But we heard your your take there. Uh, I'm trying to Why Why should What's wrong with a man rejecting a woman because of her weight? >> I mean, if you're going to reject a woman based off their weight, then it
06:53:10Camila (Cam)just shows that you're shallow. The same way you guys judge women for only wanting to be with a man who has money, a successful career. It's the same thing. I mean, there's more to women than just her weight. And let's say in
06:53:21Camila (Cam)circumstances, does it have to be before or during or after the relationship? What if she stayed with you while you had cancer for 5 years? And let's say she gained weight by 40, 50 lbs. Would you reject her and break up with her just because she doesn't look the way
06:53:33Brian Atlasthat you wanted her to at the start? No. >> The question is more so like you've met somebody. I think there's obviously circumstances >> they have your children and then they have a hard time losing weight after.
06:53:46Brian Atlas>> Sure. You give you give grace and stuff but I mean look I think I do think though even in longer term relationships if the like one person has really let themsel go. I mean I would be remiss to say that
06:54:00Brian Atlasthat's not going to have an impact on the attraction that your partner feels for you and that can change the dynamic of the relationship if it's bad enough. I mean, you know, I I don't know if I would fully blame somebody if they've
06:54:11Brian Atlaslost attraction for being like, I'm no longer if that's important in the relationship. You know, I don't know if I totally blame somebody for, >> you know, wanting to end the relationship. But I I suppose it would
06:54:23Brian Atlashow long you've been together? I mean, can you show them grace? What are the why did this happen? >> Have they tried to fix it? >> Is there a situation in the relationship where the woman is like really stressed
06:54:34Marley Jay / Ameliaout and unhappy? And so because the relationship hasn't done well, she's kind of found other vices which include like overeat. Like is the relationship bad and that's why she gained weight or is she just gaining weight cuz she's lazy?
06:54:47Marley Jay / Amelia>> No. No. No. It can be. No. I mean obviously not. It's his fault. But what are the factors in which she's gain the factors? Yeah. Of course. >> Well, she does have the problem where guys literally want to pay for her to
06:54:59Alex Steineat food. I know that is a unique thing where guys like what and part of it is like they want you to get fatter. Like they actually want to see >> there's this girl Amberlin Reed who started a weight loss channel at 400 lb
06:55:10Alex Steinand now she's 600 lb. It's hard to you have to watch her stuff but like the people that pay her like want to see her get bigger. It's weird like they're happy that they she's bigger. >> Yeah. And you know, I have a personal
06:55:22Marley Jay / Ameliatrainer because the last thing I want as I get older, I find it harder for me to lose and keep weight off despite the fact >> who pressed that. Nick, you >> Nick, >> you pressed that. You got the little button thing right there.
06:55:34Brian Atlas>> Um, >> so and then it was Megan. Wrong for a man to reject a woman because of her weight. Why is that? >> Well, after hearing your argument kind of >> You've been convinced. >> You've convinced me.
06:55:46Brian Atlas>> You rescended your disagreement. Uh, wrong for man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex. Uh, Cammy. Okay, dog. Uh, you
06:55:58Brian Atlassaid it's wrong. Anybody else? I think, uh, Taylor, you said it's wrong for a man to dump his girlfriend if she regularly turns him down for sex. Why is that? Uh, let's
06:56:09Taylorstart with Taylor. I feel like if there's a reason that the the woman's not wanting to be intimate with the man, I feel like if there's like the
06:56:20Marley Jay / Ameliaconnection, like if the everything's good in the relationship, the woman's going to want to be intimate. >> Yeah. So, she should be the one to leave if she's not happy and not wanting to have sex with her boyfriend. >> You got a point there. That's a good point.
06:56:32Marley Jay / Amelia>> So, she should just be big enough to be like, "I'm not happy enough to >> or communicate." >> Yeah. I don't even I don't know if that's always true though that there's something wrong. >> Yeah.
06:56:44Colette Fair>> Like >> there isn't there. I mean sometimes over the long term I just see so many this can get so complicated. >> But if the girl's constantly saying no though that's >> Oh no no no. I agree. I didn't I mean I
06:56:57Colette FairI don't think it's where sex is a big part of a relationship. But I've just seen so many relationships where there's so many different reasons that like a woman loses her desire to have sex. And
06:57:07Colette Fairit's not always >> Yeah. Yeah. Hormones, mental load, having young kids, like there's so many issues. Yeah. >> I think the fact of like, oh, you're not