Brian DEBATES Feminist! Single Mom CELlBATE 10 Years? Open Marriage? Woman Pastor? | Dating Talk 285

Date: 2026-03-09

Duration: 7h 05m

Guests

Brian Atlas

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Gabrielle(guest)

SPEAKER_03Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_04Olympia(guest)

SPEAKER_05Carrie(guest)

SPEAKER_06Kayla Void(guest)

SPEAKER_08Chloe Yummy(guest)

SPEAKER_09Shante(guest)

SPEAKER_10Nicole (AZ)(guest)

Key Moments

IntroAll guests introduce themselves

Key MomentCarrie: single 13 years, celibate 10. Pimped out cheating best friend as revenge; friend later died.

Key MomentShante reveals one-sided open marriage arrangement

ControversyKayla reveals she has no problem with revoking women's right to vote

Key MomentCarrie: 13 years sober, lost custody after suicide attempt, now handles narcotics at pharmacy

QuoteBrian: 'she'll end up with a chubby Mexican drywaller who used to be addicted to opium'

Key MomentOlympia speaks in tongues live on camera

Key MomentOlympia: saved husband's life 3 times including from gun to his own head. Lost 19yo son in 2023.

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

Chloe Yummy, Gabrielle, Nicole, Carrie, Shante, Olympia, Kayla.

Carrie's Celibacy and Revenge Story

Single 13 years, celibate 10. Ex had threesome with best friend. She pimped out the friend as revenge; friend is dead.

Shante's Open Marriage

One-sided open marriage explained. Husband free to date others.

Revoking 19th Amendment

Kayla has no problem with women losing right to vote. Extended debate.

Carrie's Addiction Recovery

13 years sober from heroin/cocaine. Lost custody after suicide attempt. Now narcotics pharmacy tech.

Olympia's Testimony

Husband was drug addict 5 years, saved his life 3 times. Lost 19yo son 2023. Speaks in tongues on camera.

Chloe's Trivia Failures

Brazil is in Africa. George Bush was first president. Pearl Harbor was in London.

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Brian Atlasyounger for purely biological reasons. >> It could be like jobs. A lot of jobs. >> Yeah. I think men typically have more they work more dangerous jobs.

Brian AtlasThey typically more stress. Stress is a silent killer. Um so they have nagging wives. That takes a few years off your life, too. So, >> um right, Chloe. Uh

Brian Atlas>> I don't nag. >> Oh, okay. >> I just foul. >> She's in training. >> Um just kidding. She's learning fast.

Brian Atlas>> Look, I I think that when it comes to oppression, I I think that Western women in the United States are actually throughout all of human

Brian Atlashistory, Western women are the most privileged class to have ever existed in all of human history. The most privileged. They have the most rights,

Brian Atlasthe most freedoms, the most opportunity, uh the most everything basically. Um, and coincidingly, they're

Brian Atlasuh the the least grateful, the most resentful, they have disdain for. Not all women, but a lot of women have, as a general statement, there's no uh

Brian Atlascorrespondingly, there's no other time in history where women have had more uh anti-male sentiment, uh disdain, hatred for men, dislike for men. Uh, so that I

Nicole (AZ)find that kind of interesting. >> Yeah, that is really interesting and I I agree with that. >> Yes, queen. >> Yes, queen. >> Yes, queen. >> Well, I also feel like the way they treat mental health with guys is not

Nicole (AZ)very supportive at all without like making you feel like, oh, you're a [ __ ] if you're crying, but then no, you have to be macho. It's >> u And like you said, they guys have a lot of societal pressures. They have to

Nicole (AZ)find a job. I mean, we find women that don't have too crazy of standards. um you know getting possibly drafted in the war and then you don't have a friend to talk to or if you do they don't really

Nicole (AZ)you know or you get women that don't want to let uh their husband feel vulnerable or comfortable showing that side of themselves with them. >> I like that you mentioned having a

Gabriellefriend because I grew up with three brothers and I feel like just with men in general it's hard to find another man to be as a friend to be like vulnerable with.

Gabrielle>> Yeah. Like it's I think it's I mean I feel like the wives can speak for this part, but like your husbands are comfortable being vulnerable with you, right? >> Ew, gross. >> Never be vulnerable. >> Like they can tell you what's on their mind.

Gabrielle>> Is that a hickey? >> Why are you sexualizing me? >> Why is that? >> He's sexualizing my birthmark. >> Wow. >> I don't know. [ __ ] >> Oh my god.

Gabrielle>> Wait, why would that be sexualizing? >> Why does it Why did he Why did he just say, "What is on your neck?" Why did you say is that a hickey? >> You just sexualized me. >> I don't think that's sexualizing, right? I don't think it would be sexualizing.

Gabrielle>> I'm just [ __ ] >> I'm just trolling you. >> Everyone, though, >> it's lumpy. It's not flat >> from here. It's a distance, so I can't tell. >> You guys I couldn't see what he was talking about.

Gabrielle>> Oh, yeah. >> Um, no, it's a birth mark. But yeah, I get that a lot. Um, one time a little kid asked me, "Is that chocolate on your neck?" >> That was like my favorite one ever. >> Um,

Gabrielle>> yeah, men shouldn't be vulnerable. >> Yeah, they should not. >> Should not. >> Why? That's why No, they shouldn't. They should be vulnerable with their wives. >> They should. >> Yeah, they should be. And your wife should respect that. Your wife

Gabrielle>> If your wife respects you, she will never ever judge you for being vulnerable. She'll support you with Absolutely. I think there's something deep down in women. And look, I want to

Brian Atlasbe clear. Women are not beholdened to their lizard brain or whatever. But I do think there's something deep down that women do not like to see weakness in men. >> You want to know why I'll disagree with that? >> I disagree.

Gabrielle>> You want to know why? Because if you are physically showing up every day, if you're working and you're pay and you're the money's coming, you're paying, you're doing what you got to do. >> Well, it's not all about the money. That's just it's a part of it. I'm sorry

Olympiaif it's a My husband doesn't pay all my bills. >> Women don't. >> He doesn't need to. >> My husband is your >> I always told my husband he besides being my husband and the father of my

Olympiakids is my best friend >> and I want to support him in anything. We don't hide anything. I'm there for him 100%.

Nicole (AZ)And I think it should to be. >> I think women shouldn't want their man to act like a woman. >> Oh, no. That's not what I was meaning at all. I just meant like I just saw my dad cry for the first time in like the whole

Nicole (AZ)time I've ever known him. >> So, and that was just cuz we have a family member that just got cancer. So, but like I don't I wouldn't want them to be like as emotional as a woman for sure. I want to

Brian Atlas>> be like safe with the like a man that they're not going to kind of cry and be like a little [ __ ] about everything. I I think that men should heir on the side of stoicism >> over vulnerability.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> And look, I'm not saying obviously if your you had a your parent passed away, >> you might you might cry. >> You might be very upset. Uh, in that

Brian Atlasinstance, of course, I would look, I think I think women should be okay with men being vulnerable, but I'm I'm more interested in the prescriptive

Brian Atlasmen should not be vulnerable because uh you don't know what effect that's going

Gabrielleto have on who you're dating. And you don't really know until you cross that bridge, >> right? And it's a scary bridge to cross for sure. I can understand where you're

Gabriellecoming from. And I do agree with this. How do you say the word stoicism? >> Reject vulnerability. Embrace stoicism. >> But not not all the time. I feel like >> all the time if possible. >> As a man.

Gabrielle>> All the time. If possible. >> As a man though, it's I'm not a man. I can't speak for you. But I think you can judge when it's sometimes sometimes you just like you said like you know something happens in

Gabriellethe family or they're going through something serious like like you said the wife should just be that safe place if they need to be if they need to be. The

Gabrielleman can judge if he wants to do that or not for sure. So, I agree with you there, but I I don't think that you shouldn't be able to to do that, though, if you if you for some reason want to or need to.

Brian Atlas>> I just don't think it it it's not ever going to be beneficial to be vulnerable. >> I feel like there are some women there are some women who will be okay with it. There are women who will tolerate it and

Brian Atlasthere are some women >> who will lose attraction for you if you're vulnerable. So, if it's either a neutral or a negative, I don't actually

Brian Atlassee the point. Um, now of course there are some situations your entire family dies in the [ __ ] plane crash. Yeah, you're probably going to cry in front of

Brian Atlasyour girlfriend. Um but absent catastrophe, the death of a parent, death of a sibling, death of a

Brian Atlaschild, maybe death of like a beloved animal like a dog or something. Uh should never be vulnerable like I don't know. >> Yeah, >> I don't know.

Brian Atlas>> Uh for example, can I give you guys an example? So I used to play >> the the chat's going to love this. I used to play Worlds of Warcraft

Brian Atlas>> and I had a girlfriend at the time and I was in a hardcore rating guild and uh you know they had a loot council system and they were kind of screwing me over

Brian Atlaswhen it came to loot. Like I should have I was a rogue >> dagger rogue. I should have got we were killing Ragnaros and Molten Core. I should have gotten preditions blade,

Brian Atlaswhich is pretty much the best dagger until uh like phase, is it phase four? When's AQ? Is AQ phase five? I think it's phase five. It's the best dagger

Brian Atlasuntil AQ. You could argue like the, you know, the high warlord, grand marshall, PvP, honor system, daggers might be better, whatever. But like from PV PvE

Brian Atlasdrops, Predition's Blade, best dagger you can mainhand, best mainhand dagger for for multiple phases in the game. And they they gave it to somebody else.

Brian AtlasAnd I should have [ __ ] got >> I I should have gotten the dagger and I was [ __ ] I almost wanted to cry. I was pissed off because bro, you can only raid once a week. You get a lockout. You

Brian Atlascan only do molten core once a week. I should have gotten the [ __ ] preditions blade and I was really upset like cuz I was pouring I don't think you guys understand World of Warcraft. This is like a 10hour a day commitment. Like

Brian Atlasthis is not >> let me just pick up the remote the the you know the controller and play for an hour. No, 10 hours a day gamer

Brian Atlas>> gamer [ __ ] status. and that it would have been a bigger upgrade for me. And I was doing all this [ __ ] for the guilds and [ __ ] they loot counselled it.

Brian AtlasIt was it was nepotism. It was favoritism. They loot counselled the [ __ ] dagger to somebody else. And I was so [ __ ] upset and distraught. And my girlfriend's [ __ ] dried up

Brian Atlasimmediately. She She didn't want to [ __ ] me for a week. I was so upset that I didn't get [ __ ] preditions played. I didn't get

Brian Atlaslaid for a [ __ ] week. And in fact, truth be told, I was so upset, I lost my libido, >> so it didn't even [ __ ] matter, right?

Brian AtlasIt didn't even matter. But it was like she wasn't cool with I was so vulnerable in that moment. I I consoled to my girlfriend. I was like, "Babe,

Brian Atlascan you [ __ ] believe this? I've been doing I [ __ ] got a douse I got douses for the [ __ ] raid that you know how

Brian Atlas[ __ ] long I had to grind those [ __ ] elementals in uh [ __ ] Silith. >> Hours of [ __ ] grinding the [ __ ]

Brian Atlaselementals in Silathus so I could be the douser so I could douse for my guild. Hours.

Brian Atlas>> Batman. And they had a [ __ ] I had to run to [ __ ] Ashara to get to keep getting the new douses. >> It's [ __ ] up, man. >> [ __ ]

Brian Atlas>> It was totally [ __ ] >> Value World of Warcraft. I was going to say like that's that's the woman you were with. You should have got with somebody who's like a >> total turnoff for her. Tot I was so vulnerable in that moment. So

Brian Atlasvulnerable. She total turn off. Didn't get laid for a week. And it's like look, you know, and from that moment on, I was like, I will never talk about

Nicole (AZ)shitty loot counsel decisions again with my girlfriend. >> Understandable. >> You should have like went crazy on you just to make you feel better. >> Yeah, that's why you probably too. I

Olympiamean granted my brother plays so I can >> you know that most of men has a lover the side because those women listen them and be with them and they can cry with

Gabriellethem >> crying the listening part you know >> I don't want an overly emotional that's not what I'm saying >> right

Gabrielle>> but I do want a man like my man >> let me let me check that um comfortable coming to me if we if he needs to duck

Brian Atlasto share something with me. That's okay. >> I look I was so distraught after this [ __ ] loot council decision to not >> How old were you? How old were you? >> This was 2019.

Brian Atlas>> I feel like we need some violins here. >> This is I don't play video games. I gave up. So, my girlfriend actually dumped me uh >> a couple months after this incident. And uh I I was addicted to this [ __ ]

Brian Atlasvideo game. I don't blame her. I don't play video games anymore. Um, but uh when that loot decision happened, I I my

Brian Atlasbed is right next to my computer. I like laid down in bed and she was in bed like just waiting for me to be done raiding >> and she was bored. She was just Brian, please hurry up so we can [ __ ]

Brian Atlas>> and and she's like what the [ __ ] Brian? I'm like, "Look, we're [ __ ] in Molten Core. Then we got to do like, you know, we're going to whatever." And so, and then we have to go kill Enixia after

Brian AtlasRaid, right? So, it was like delayed even longer, the dragon. Um, Anixia. And no, but I curled up in the fetal

Brian Atlasposition in bed. And look, I didn't cry, but like a singular tear just trailed down my face. And um yeah this movie

Brian Atlas>> I mean that's when like that's when a buddy you could call a buddy and like he would they probably make fun of you. >> Yeah. He'd make fun of me. He'd make fun of me. I told I told like one or two confidants in the guild and they're like

Brian Atlasbro shut up dude. >> You'll get it. And you know what's [ __ ] funny? You know what's the funniest thing? It dropped the next week and then I got it. Which it very lucky.

Brian Atlas>> Lido up. We uh >> was the girlfriend happy after that? >> Yeah. So, anyways, I don't know. I don't know where I'm going with that. I just think

Gabriellereject vulnerability, embrace stoicism, >> but that contributes to that's what we're talking about. It contributes to early like dying sooner than later. Like you need to be you got to be you know

Gabriellewomen there was like a new study that came out where women develop autoimmune diseases when they don't just say what's on their mind because we're so overly emotional. >> I think it's kind of hot when a woman is

Brian Atlaslike chronically ill to be honest though. So maybe they >> chronically ill. >> Yeah. You know like it's kind of hot when a woman's kind of sickly like I find >> BPD. Yeah. >> I don't know. It's kind of a turn. It's

Brian Atlaskind of hot. Not going to lie. No, I'm just kidding. I'm kidding. But uh No, I look I don't know. I think men and women process things differently. Like me personally, and I don't know if I'm I

Brian Atlasmight not be speaking for all men, unless it's something really heavy. I genuinely the way to process something, I find talking about it, it's like a reliving

Brian Atlasthing. It just makes me more upset a lot of the time. Sometimes I want to talk about it. Sometimes >> I want her feedback. maybe even or I just want to vent, which is rare. Generally speaking, if I'm dealing with

Brian Atlassomething, I I know tomorrow, in a week, in a month, I'm going to forget about it. It was nothing. It doesn't matter. I don't feel the need to like have to constantly

Gabriellebe dumping this on my girlfriend. >> Not constantly. But do you know how it could benefit you >> heavily? >> Sex life. She'll be turned on. >> Sure. >> By my whining? >> No. Women, you can't deny women have

Gabriellethis like serious intuition. >> There's been There's been What was up? No, they don't. >> Really? We absolutely do. >> Yeah. Did that help with >> Never mind. >> What? >> Well, I was going I don't know. They women say y'all have women's intuition,

Shantebut how do you keep >> dating [ __ ] boys? And >> yeah, your gut feeling is is so on point. >> No, why are so many women single, unhappy, >> divorced, >> like >> obviously your intuition didn't work out

Gabrielleso great. Mhm. >> What I was getting at was like, >> tell us. >> There's been times where my boyfriend talking to me about something and I give my input. >> Yeah.

Gabrielle>> And he might even disagree with my input. He might even disagree and then like, you know, months go by or whatever and then my whatever I was saying or

Gabriellewhatever I was feeling is making sense or like it came into fruition and he's like, "Oh my god." Like, "Wow." like you know we've had those connections where it's just like >> we're good team play like we're a good team we help each other in those ways so

Brian Atlasit's like >> okay >> where he's been vulnerable >> and shared things >> and I've given my input >> is he big spoon or little spoon

Brian Atlas>> um big duh >> I think the power move is the woman jetpacks you the woman has to be >> jetack >> big spin >> there's no jetpack here cuz my legs are You are tall. You're tall. So,

Gabrielle>> yeah. >> I could like bear like bear hug. Like he's actually he's so big that like his biceps are so big that I can't get my arms around him, >> but like my legs could wrap around him for sure.

Brian Atlas>> Nice. >> So, I mean, I've I've little I've been basically >> Spooning is just kind of lame. >> We don't We don't cuddle when we go to fall asleep.

Brian Atlas>> This is Tell Tell me if this is toxic. Tell me if this is toxic. No spoon. Like if she begs me, she can be big spoon. She She has to like really beg for me to

Brian Atlasbe big spoon >> and say sir. >> And I'll do it for like 2 minutes and then I'm like, but >> this is the ideal. The ideal is so,

Brian Atlasokay, she's on my schedule. I stay up late. She stays up as late as I'm going to stay up. Then uh she scratches my back and massages me until I fall asleep

Brian Atlasand then she goes into the other room. >> That that so I don't spoon, but I whatever that is, I do that. What do you think about that? >> Um >> I'm trying to I'm trying somewhere. >> I hate cuddling. So I fully agree with that.

Brian Atlas>> It gets too hot and like >> No, it's fine to be close with your girl and be touching, but >> not even that. >> Sometimes a girl's head can can get a bit heavy on the shoulder. >> Yeah. And then your arm gets all awkward and like sore. >> Yeah. My shoulder gets all stiff. It's

Brian Atlaslike, >> you know, y'all women have heavy heads. >> Your heads weigh a lot. Like, and it's just like my shoulder gets a little stiff. It's like, can you just like if

Carriewe're in bed watching a movie, it's like it's like, can you just >> go over pillow between there like lift >> like give me like two inches, you know, for a little bit. >> I could do like the head on the lap

Carriething. Like that's the only way I like to cuddle. Like my ex used to lie his head on my lap and I would just >> fingers through his hair, play with his hair and that was like our personal calling. >> You really don't like spooning. >> So,

Brian Atlasnot really. >> I feel like that's my >> I'd rather a girl be scratching my back or massaging my back. >> Yeah. You know, sometimes if I'm feeling extra spicy,

Brian Atlaslike let's say I put on a movie. >> If I put on a movie, um, she doesn't she can listen to it, but she doesn't even get to watch. And she can be like massaging my feet while I'm watching.

Brian Atlas>> Nice. >> Yeah. >> Like I think sometimes like, but see, I'm I'm nice because I'll pick a movie she's already watched, >> you know, like The Office. >> Oh, that's nice. Yeah, >> like I just put it on just to listen to

Brian Atlasit. >> That's me with New Girl. I love to >> like I don't even >> I don't even need to watch it. I just know what's >> No, but yeah, I think um

Brian Atlas>> I like to Yeah. just have She can hear. She She gets >> She gets the audio. >> She's privileged. That's >> She gets audio while she's massaging my feet. >> That's privilege.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. I'm You guys are too nice. I'm trying to think of all the things I can say to upset all of you. >> What else? How about this? I What else will upset you guys? I'm trying really hard.

Carrie>> I'm trying to upset us. >> You got a very good crew today. >> Yeah, you guys are >> I personally wouldn't rub feet, but like I get it. Why wouldn't you want that? >> It's not a fetish thing, by the way. >> No, I know. Ex I get it. Like you worked

Carriehard all day. Why wouldn't you want a girl to rub your feet? Like >> I have very clean feet, but would you do it for her? Would you rub her back? Play with her hair. rub her feet. >> The day before she would otherwise give birth.

Brian Atlas>> Only then. >> Only then. Once once a year. >> Well, hold on. Let me Valentine's Day. Let's >> actually Valentine Valentine's Day. >> You know what? You're right. Valentine's Day is for me.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, >> it doesn't. But anniversary, I'll do I'll give her five minutes and then >> that's it. >> Of course, I resort to the >> carpal tunnel syndrome. I can only go

Brian Atlasfor like five minutes and then I got to I got to just tap out. After five minutes, my hands start hurting, you know. I got to save my my hand energy for the computer naturally, >> you know, cuz that's how I make the big

Brian Atlasbucks. >> Okay. Um, what were we talking about? >> Oh, something to piss you guys off. So, and look, if this woman could be the love of my life, we could have have we

Brian Atlascould have kids together. >> Seven sons. seven sons. I think she in a scenario where one of us has to take the bullet, I think she should sacrifice herself >> 100%.

Brian Atlas>> She the woman should be sacrificial. The woman like >> let's say I'm a woman and Kayla's me. This is what Kayla should, you know, that's what my girlfriend should do. She should >> she should be willing >> dive in front of the bullet to protect

Carrieme >> and be willing to die. >> In this situation, you have kids. M >> yes and some of them are still >> remember he went a piece a piece of school >> they can still be breastfeeding and she

Carriestill got to take the bullet >> I make okay well in that case then yeah >> I will get >> whoever has financial security needs to be >> she takes the bullet >> I survive >> new wife

Gabrielle>> according to my beliefs my Christian beliefs >> I'm on Tinder at the funeral >> I'm on Hinge at the funeral she's And it's not going to matter. >> She's going to haunt your ass.

Shante>> Yeah. She'll be giving him foot rubs as a ghost, scratching his back. >> She's going to be scratching his back like >> that's crazy. >> And then she's going to cuddle with him all night as a ghost and he's just going to be pissing us off. >> No, cuz she took a bullet for him. You

Gabriellegot to remember. So that means that she's not going to be malicious in that. >> No, but the tender thing that would piss her off. >> Tender. Oh, tender. >> Yeah. Like that's what would make her be happy. should be like I hope he finds does all the things that I do. He wants

Brian Atlasme to find a replacement >> for the children and for me sexually >> for me. >> That's in your perfect world. >> That kind that will be your perfect woman and your perfect world.

Brian Atlas>> A billionaire with large labia who will take a >> Who's a dwarf. >> Who's a >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Who's super submissive? Perfect wife. Perfect well girlfriend, I guess I should say.

Gabrielle>> Oh my god. Imagine a a dwarf bowing like for you. It's met on the floor. >> You know what? Sorry. >> They don't even have to do it. They're already down here. >> Oh my god. >> No, exactly. Like >> No, they could go lower. Come on.

Shante>> That's true. >> That's true. >> Wait, how could she give you like a proper massage her little fingies? Like little hands. >> They have hands, >> but not very big hands. >> I feel like they seem strong. >> I feel like one of those massages you

Brian Atlasbuy, you put your feet, it just has the nubs that rotate. Dwarves have >> I feel like dwarves are strong. >> They are. They can do like handstands really easy too >> cuz the center of gravity is >> Yeah. >> different. I think I don't know maybe a

Gabriellephys somebody who knows physics. >> You need Weman like on the panel so he can answer these questions. >> True >> for us.

Brian Atlas>> True. Okay. Uh, but no, I do think uh Do you think it it it it's like a bad look that I wouldn't be willing to die for a woman? >> No, >> it's not a bad look.

Shante>> You guys, >> you don't have to die for any women. Like, okay, >> yeah, this might be the first panel you have where everyone just agrees with you. We're like, "Yeah, no, women kind of suck." Yeah, men are great. >> Wait, I don't think I don't think women

Gabriellesuck. I think women are great. >> National Women's Day, not a lot of National Women's Day. >> Just today he thinks that just today though. >> No, women are great. >> No, I don't buy into the women are bad thing. I think women are great.

Chloe Yummy>> Uh >> I don't think they're bad. I just think a lot of them suck. >> No. >> Poorly. >> No. >> Are you talking about Never mind. >> Anyways, >> uh >> I think this we should all bow to

Brian Atlas>> Oh my god. Our clothes are a great You know what? Maybe we what we should even do is um my studio could use some vacuuming. >> Oh my god. >> Wait, is there laundry here now?

Brian Atlas>> Maybe you could you guys could clean the bathroom. You could swiffer the floors. >> Would Would you guys like that as a segment? Like I turn the cameras to see behind the scenes and you guys can watch

Brian Atlaslike Chloe mopping my floor, vacuuming. It would be kind of noisy though to vacuum. Maybe I'll have her sweep. >> Maybe I might have Chloe sweep or something. Oh no.

Brian Atlas>> I should do that. I should also have the materials for making a sandwich >> and see and give a prize to the woman who does the best. >> Are you starting at Only Fans? >> Me? >> Yeah. >> Me starring >> That's what it sounds like. >> Me starring an Only Fans.

Shante>> If you have her making sandwiches and cleaning and you're filming it, it's essentially >> Oh, yeah. Maybe >> it's a whole new channel. >> Her gift could be Candace's Owen's book. Candace Owens book. Make him a sandwich. >> I like that. >> Does she really have a book called Make

SPEAKER_00Him a Sandwich? >> Yeah, absolutely. Oh, we have a TTS. >> No way. >> Just came in. >> William donated $100. >> Thank you. >> No sappy moments after sex. >> Agree. >> All women on the panel agree. >> Absolutely.

Carrie>> What's sappy? >> Probably like cuddling and like I love you. >> This is >> That's what I would think. >> Okay. Wait. Sappy. >> Uh >> those happy moments after.

Brian Atlas>> No, I need after care for sure. >> Wait. Question. >> What's afterare? >> Here's a question. Like, >> no. I think you should you shouldn't just like get up and like start playing video games. Like, you should lay there for a few minutes. >> No, >> we're not men.

Brian Atlas>> That's men. >> I'm like the I just want a getaway. >> But but how about this? What about like Okay, I don't know if this is like my OCD or whatever. I do like It doesn't

Brian Atlashave to be like immediately, but I do like to rinse off. >> Mhm. Not not cuz I'm like grossed out or anything, but I like it's a little sticky >> like with her like together. >> No, just like I'll hop in the shower by

Brian Atlasyourself, >> rinse off like one minute, that's it. >> Not like a full body shower, just >> you know. Right. >> Is that weird? >> Weird. Okay, >> let's >> I'm pretty sure there's a Sex in the

Brian AtlasCity episode about this. >> Full body showers are my opinion good, especially for women. >> Okay, this is going to sound terrible,

Brian Atlastoo, though. I don't really uh I don't think sex should result in sweating for me.

Brian AtlasSo like I don't when I have sex it's never that intense that I'm sweating >> like two pumps. >> No no no I'm saying like

Brian Atlas>> she didn't like that Brian. No, I don't. Sex should not be like a [ __ ] >> So, you're not working. >> I finally disagree. I think it should be like

Brian Atlas>> Well, look, some women are just like [ __ ] sweaty, okay? They if they sweat, whatever. If they're doing some work, especially if they're on top or whatever. But I personally,

Brian Atlas>> I don't know. >> What's your like favorite position? Uh, either doggy or girl on top, but I'm in control. >> Oh my god, Sam.

Brian Atlas>> Wow. I'm just kidding. >> She's not kidding. >> I don't know. I'm not trying to be all [ __ ] exercising during I don't know. But I'm

Shantenot like I don't like the >> jack rabbit sex that >> I have a lot of respect for what men do

Shantecuz I got with a woman at the Mustang Ranch in Reno and paid for an hour. I mean, I lasted 47 minutes with a strap on

Shante>> before my leg started quivering violently. And she was like, "Okay, here's Yeah. And she was like, "Okay, here's what you're going to do. Here's afterare. you're going to have pain in places you've never felt, muscles you've

Shantenever used. And she was 100% right. Like there was parts of my back and like my size. I was like, "Oh, I have way more respect for men." And like any woman who's like, "Go longer. Go deeper. Like

Shanteshut up. You don't know what men go through when they're like going to town." >> Yeah. I don't like it when a girl tells me to to go to go faster or harder. It's

Brian Atlaslike >> even if I can, >> even if I can, I'm like, >> know your place. >> Don't tell me what to do. >> Know your place. Don't tell me what to do. I'm going to go at the exact pace that I want to go.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> You know what I mean? You know what I mean, Kayla? She knows mine. >> I think I'm disassociating. Come back, Kayla. Come back. >> Yeah. It's like Or she's like, "Go

Brian Atlasdeeper." And I'm like, "There's nothing more." >> Yeah. >> That's it. I can't just like get more shallow. >> I can't just like Yeah, exactly. I can't just like roll out more dick. That's all the dick. The dick has reached its

Brian Atlaslimit. >> There is no further dick in which to go deeper with. >> The balls have reached the end. >> Yes. Like I don't What do you want me to do? >> [ __ ] It's crazy. It's crazy.

Brian Atlas>> At that point, it's up to the girl to reposition herself to get the depth possible. >> That is correct. That is correct. Is there anything else I can say to piss

Brian Atlasyou guys off? >> Um, oh, um, here we go. >> I,

Brian Atlasdespite being a, uh, appreciator of large labia, I do not go down on women.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. A preference. Yep. I totally agree. But look, hey, you know, it's if a girl doesn't want to, it's not a dealbreaker. Of course, it's better if she does, but I don't I won't reciprocate that.

Brian Atlas>> Like maybe if I'm about to die, I might do it. Like it's like [ __ ] I'm I'm going to die. I might as well do it, >> you know? >> Have you ever done it? >> Yeah, I did it when I was younger. >> So what?

Gabrielle>> But it Do you want to know the last time? I don't want to know the last time, but you >> Wait, wait, hold on. Let me actually think about this. Who's the youngest person here? >> Okay, wait. You're 19. What year were you born? >> 2006.

Brian Atlas>> I think the I did the last time I did uh was 2007 or 2008. >> Wow. >> So, George Bush was still president the last

Brian Atlastime I went down. How do you correlate your sexual actual act? >> George Bush. >> Yeah, George Bush was president. >> Did she have a Bush? >> No. >> Oh god.

Brian Atlas>> But I I have done it before. Uh >> why do you not like it? >> Uh it just I don't you know there's a couple

Shantereasons. Couple reasons. Uh hold on. I actually have a list I wrote down. >> Oh my god. >> For why. I'll I'll explain why >> the president thing would only be weird if presidents reminded him of certain

Carriesexual acts. That's where it would get weird. But if you flipped the other way around, >> well, now I'm going to be thinking of my last sexual encounter being back in the Obama administration thanks to this podcast.

Brian Atlas>> Sorry to see Obama be like, "Oh no situation." >> Uh let's see here. Uh okay, the reasons.

Brian AtlasUm maybe no, not Valentine's Day. Maybe. Eh, I don't know. Look, just to be clear, I big fan of [ __ ] Pussyy's

Brian Atlasgreat. I don't think pussy's gross. Don't don't think that. But um, you know, uh, >> I don't know, man. That sounds like a lot of work.

Brian Atlas>> I'm not scared either. >> So, okay. I think No, definitely not scared. Not scared. So oral sex is the leading risk factor for throat cancer in

Brian Atlasmen. >> Studies show men are four times as likely as women to develop throat cancer. See Michael Douglas.

Brian AtlasStudies suggest that not only is risk of transmission from wi from women to men higher, but without being graphic due to women's physiology,

Brian Atlaswomen shed more virus and will transmit higher viral loads. Uh, number two, boundaries. Men are allowed to have sexual boundaries. Uh,

Brian Atlasso yeah, just >> not something I'm super into. Uh that's pretty much it. Oh, and I mean

Brian Atlasthe I guess the other thing is like I would advise men who are even inclined to do it. That has to be your girl.

Brian Atlas>> Like you can't be doing that with a girl you haven't vetted. >> Oh, absolutely. >> And like who isn't established that she's only dealing with you? Cuz >> I'm not saying all women do this, but a

Brian Atlaslot of women uh will be dating multiple men, sleeping with multiple men, or sleeping with men men in quick succession.

Brian AtlasSo, it's like she could have slept with a guy two days ago yesterday and maybe she's done with him, but now she's on you. >> Yeah. You don't want your mouth on that >> and that guy blasted inside her and

Brian Atlas>> that's gross. So whereas like for men it's different because I could have sex with a girl

Brian Atlasshower. I'm basically as good as new. Basically as good as new. >> But if a guy like you're not you women

Nicole (AZ)aren't supposed to shower down there, you know, or uh you're not supposed to like clean. >> Oh, like >> you're not supposed to douche.

Brian Atlas>> Like it's not recommended. So Yeah. >> But look, I'll say this. I want I do

Brian Atlascare about my girl's pleasure. >> I want She she's got to come first. She's got to come multiple times if possible. >> If she can do that, if she can do that, to be clear. So, it's not like

Brian Atlas>> that's on the list. >> She's got to come first. >> Multip >> multiple times if possible. So, it's not like uh I don't care about her pleasure. But there's other ways to get there.

Brian AtlasOkay, good talk. All right. Uh, well, I guess I can get into the rest of your guys's notes here. Oh, let's do the

Brian Atlaslet's do the the AI segment. Why don't we do that really quick, though? Um, you're you're a pastor. Do you speak in tongues? >> I do. >> Let's hear it.

OlympiaOne more time more. Can you do more? >> I can and I can do in different languages, but um Why do you want me to do it? >> Do it in Portuguese.

Olympia>> No, I No, no, those tongues are angelical tongues. >> Okay, do it. Can you do more? >> Why? I'm learning.

Olympia>> No, that's not something that you learn. >> Oh, okay. >> That is something that is uh supernatural

Brian Atlasgift by the Holy Spirit. >> Nice. Okay. Uh let's do the AI segment.

Brian AtlasLet's do the AI. Uh do you have it ready? Okay. Uh boom. >> Oh my god. Oh my god. >> Yikes. Okay, hold on. That's not fair. Also, you got to take it when they're

Brian Atlaslooking up, I guess. But >> wait, why am I fat as [ __ ] >> Yeah, that I think that's unfair to be honest. So, the question is uh the question is, would you date the male

Brian Atlasversion of you? But whoever did this definitely [ __ ] up. >> Yeah, >> that's intense. >> You [ __ ] up. >> Definitely better with the scrubs.

SPEAKER_01>> Never did it. >> Yeah.

Chloe YummyUh, would you date him? I guess. >> Well, the more I look at him, like the better looking heard is. >> I I don't know. It's I don't know. Maybe if he like went to the gym more. >> Okay.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, I would. >> All right. Next.

GabrielleUh, it doesn't really look >> That doesn't even look like me. Like the eyes were the only kind of thing that kind of look like >> Yeah, it's not a great gender swap. >> Hair is horrible. Like ew. >> Why are they so much older than

Brian Atlas>> like what's your ethnicity? What's your >> I don't even know honestly into that. >> Oh, I'm sorry. Um I don't even know really what I am. >> Okay. Uh so no >> no >> like your boyfriend moss this guy for sure.

Brian Atlas>> Mog? Yeah. >> Next. >> Yeah. Uh, that's His hair is [ __ ] up, but >> honestly not bad. >> Would you date him?

Brian Atlas>> No. >> No. Okay, next. >> The worst picture of me ever. But >> would you date him? >> Absolutely not. >> Hair color good though. >> What's wrong with him? >> What if he's a base conservative guy who's fine with all your flaws?

Carrie>> Nope. >> No. I think it's the the beard. >> The beard >> difference. Like if his hair was the same color as his beard. Yeah, maybe. >> Okay. Next.

Brian AtlasWow. >> No, >> you mo him. I think you mos too Asian. I don't like Asians. >> Oh, what's your husband? >> Italian.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. Italian stallion. >> Next, >> bro. What? >> What? >> Scroll down. Are you able to scroll down? >> Oh my gosh. >> Would you, if you were single, would you

Brian Atlasdate him? >> No. >> RIP. No. >> Uh, okay. >> The middle one's terrifying. >> Kayla, would you date him? Actually, >> he's the best. Like,

Kayla Void>> yeah, I would say all of them. >> Um, I mean, I have a boyfriend, so if you're not >> if you're sing,

Brian Atlas>> she moss, not going to lie. Um, yeah, I would date her. I would date her. >> She doesn't have blue eyes. No, >> she does though. >> Yeah, she does. >> I mean, they look a little darker. Like >> darker than

Brian Atlas>> gray hazel or some [ __ ] That's hard to tell on this screen. >> I could see her bowing. >> So weird. >> Yeah, >> Deb's not going to lie. Dibs would impregnate.

Brian AtlasHave you guys ever I don't know if women relate to this, but you ever see from a guy's perspective, typically for most men, even if we like

Brian Atlasthe girl, we're like it would be really bad to like have an unwanted pregnancy, you know, like we knock her up on the third date or whatever. I don't know if you guys know what I'm

Brian Atlastalking about. Maybe the chat knows. There are women so beautiful that if you were to have a unwanted pregnancy with her, you'd be like, >> "I can accept this." You know what I mean?

Brian Atlas>> Interesting. >> Like, she's so hot. Do you know does chat? Do you know what I mean? >> I get it. >> Like, she's so attractive. It's like not the worst thing if she just pumped out a

Brian Atlaskid for you, you know? One night stand. Well, it wouldn't if she's that hot. It wouldn't be a one night stand, right? But like let's say you let's say you were like look I really like this girl

Brian Atlasbut we should wait a year before having kids. You know what I mean? No chat. No. Like she's so hot you're like I'd be okay just immediately having a kid with her.

Brian Atlas>> I get it. >> No. I don't know. No. Okay. Really? None of you? >> No. I mean >> like you've never seen a guy so hot you'd be like he could just knock me up.

Brian Atlas>> Tom Hardy. I guess it's different for women because you have to go through the pregnancy.

Brian Atlas>> I don't know. Okay. Good talk. Uh then there's another batch of something. Is that right? All right.

Brian AtlasI guess we could do it. I Yeah. Why don't we show that one next? Uh oh. This is like the here. Tap through the uh next. >> Ew. These are filtered. What are what's

Brian Atlasgoing on here? >> Uh, so what they're doing is it's th this segment will probably only work if we have the women like overrate

Brian Atlasthemselves quite a bit. >> Um, the AI does beautifification. >> Yeah, it's [ __ ] up, right? >> It looks worse than >> I know. I think >> uh tab over. >> They're better as they are.

Brian Atlas>> Tab over. >> I don't even know who that slims out. >> Tab overly. Whoa. >> Tab over. >> That's a ton of makeup. >> Tab over.

Gabrielle>> Why is it enlarging the chins? >> Next. >> It changes the color. >> Uh, >> wow. >> Do I look like >> What did it do? >> Oh my gosh. >> It made his nose a little bit.

Brian Atlas>> Uh, >> it just gave you like cut like beautiful. >> It cleansed up the eye area a little bit. It masculineized the face a bit more. >> It made you younger. It took away some of the fat in the cheeks.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, >> little chubby cheeks there. >> More cheen. >> It gave me a stronger canthal tilt. I don't know. Whatever. >> Yeah, you look younger.

Brian Atlas>> I don't know. Whatever. >> Anyways. Anyways, uh let's see what else do we have. >> We have here uh Shante. >> Hi. >> So, you're in the open marriage. You

Brian Atlaswrite that you think strict monogamy. You you don't think strict monogamy is for everyone. No. >> And the way marriage is defined in our society is something that needs to be adhered to like a script. >> You learned early on that monogamy

Brian Atlaswasn't really in the cards for you >> uh in the religious American way. You spent five formative years in France >> where you were exposed to a different style of marriage and relationships that

Shantefor you seemed more honest. >> Yeah. So in France I noticed >> L France. I'm French by the way. El France. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01>> Like where? >> Yeah. Where?

SPEAKER_01Holy [ __ ] I did not know that.

Brian AtlasUh, >> vane. Yeah. See, exactly. My French isn't great. >> No, that was really good actually for someone who came here when they were

Brian Atlasfive. >> Yeah. So, uh, but, uh, we we >> So, yeah. So, uh, >> but I must, uh, say that I think as a

Brian AtlasFrench, I do not always agree with how they, uh, some of their romantic, uh, approach, so to speak. >> Yeah, that's not it's not the same as

Shantethe state. So, even even from a younger standpoint, so like high school level PE, I saw my friends be friends with their exes. In the States, that's kind of taboo. You

Shantedon't be friends with exes. Uh, I saw married couples that, yeah, he would have a girlfriend and sometimes a wife would have a boyfriend and they stayed

Shantemarried for decades. And, you know, >> I saw that and how it worked. And also, after being in strip clubs, bartending,

Shanteworking night jobs, talking to lots of different men, I just realized that, yeah, monogamy isn't all it's cracked up to be for a lot of people. and they end up lying and so on and so forth. So, I just figured >> But you're monogamous is the thing like

Shanteyou >> So, I had a conversation with my husband recently about that and I said that I'm So, I'm not 100% monogous in the sense that at some point I probably will be interested in somebody else at some

Shantepoint. Currently not interested in anyone else. Yeah. Uh I just don't can't The way I put it to him was so both of us are never going to have another first kiss. we're never going to have another

Shantefirst anything like that ever again with somebody else. I just I can't fathom that being that way. And okay, >> for him, he was like, "Well, we'll cross

Brian Atlasthat bridge when we cross it." But >> but let's say you did encounter that guy who you'd be willing to, you know, be

Brian Atlaswith or whatever. Let's say he was like, "No, would you do it?" If my husband said no. >> Yeah,

Brian Atlas>> cuz he does it with other women, right? So, >> yeah, he's been out with other women. Um, >> like how many per week? >> I would I would smash. >> Does he have like a girlfriends?

Shante>> No. So, we talked about So, he retires in like three years. So, right now he's really busy and then we're moving >> from being a player. >> H from being a player. Yes. Uh, I'm not gonna mention his job, but uh, no, he retires in three years and he'll have a

Shantelot more time. Right now, he just doesn't have time. He would like to have preferably maybe a Venezuelan or Cuban girlfriend, and I would love for her to cook really well. That's all I require.

ShanteBut, uh, other than that, uh, would I not do it? The reason why this question is hard for me, I probably wouldn't do it. Honestly,

ShanteI would I would respect him if he was just like, I really not cool with it. Um, but my husband has set such a high

Shantebar at this point. So, for me to meet somebody that is even at his level or near it, looks wise, personalitywise,

Shantethe way we get along, like that bar is so high. I doubt that I would ever meet another guy that I'm just like, >> "Yeah." But does he have currently does he have girlfriends? >> No, not currently.

Brian Atlas>> Does he have mistresses? >> Not currently. >> So he's just with you currently as far as you know. >> Yeah. >> I encourage him all the time. I'm like,

Gabrielle"Go meet somebody. Go have fun." He's like, "I'm too busy." >> Interesting. >> I recently had to encourage him to go out with his friends cuz he was so busy. >> Why would you encourage that? Like what

Shantedo you want out of that? I just want him to be happy. Honestly, what if he is happy? >> Yeah. No, he is he is happy. Don't get me wrong. So, it's kind of a running joke, but so like recently, this isn't

Shantethis isn't another woman. He wasn't he wasn't seeing his friends that he normally would hang out with and talk to. And I'm like, something's wrong here, you know, like you should go see. Oh, yeah. Like just >> right. >> But like I said, when I met him, he was

Shantedating other women. He was happy then. So, obviously, it's something that he enjoys. I don't see why he should abstain from enjoying something just because I came into the picture >> to do that. Is that what you said? >> Yeah. Well, it's kind of a running joke

Carriecuz right now it's not super serious. But yeah, I'm like, why don't you have a girlfriend? >> Is it like a sex thing or is like no feelings attached? Sex only or is he allowed to catch feelings? >> It's bad. It's up to him. I'm not

Brian Atlasinvolved. >> Cool. Uh, moving forward in your notes here, you said that you'll be the first to admit your flaws. Your, uh, you have skeletons run in the Wait, your skeleton. >> My skeletons run in the street.

Brian Atlas>> Not hidden in closets. You said that you don't think there's a closet big enough for all of them. Anyways, why don't you go into that a little bit? What are your flaws? What are your skeletons? Give us

Shantea few for each. >> My flaws? Uh, h I have an ego. Uh, that's definitely a flaw.

ShanteUh, just like being a stripper, stuff like that. Uh, stories. I don't know. It's more like I People would have to ask me. I don't I don't really know

Shantelike if I ran If I was If I was a politician, if I was a politician, I would probably get dogged for past professions in night life like like that. Like being a

Shantestripper. Uh, I'm trying to think of what else. Dating a married man. That that's not greatly looked upon. And what else? Uh,

Shantetrying to think of a third one. I don't know. I don't know what other skeletons. It's more like a question thing. I don't know. >> Where did you meet him? >> My husband. >> Yeah. >> Instagram.

ShanteSo, I took a picture of his car and then I tagged him and then he followed me for almost four months trying to figure out if I was a woman or who I was because I don't I didn't post any selfies

Shantewhatsoever back then. And then uh and then yeah, he texted me and was like, "Hey, will you take pictures of my cars and my motorcycles?" And I said, "Sure." And then uh and then we were talking one

Shanteday and I said, "What are you doing?" And I invited myself to hang out with him. I said, "Well, I'm going to come hang out with you." >> That's it. Do you guys have a good sex life? >> Yeah. Yeah. And we've never argued. We don't Oh, except about the GPS, but

Shantethat's about it. But we don't argue about anything really. It's just easy. Like, sounds boring. >> No, it's not boring, but I'm interested. So, like,

Gabriellehow does nothing bother you? Like, is that true or are you lying? Like, how how does nothing truly bother you? >> Well, what would bother me >> like in general ever? Like it's natural

Gabrielleto get annoyed of each other or it's natural to not be 100% happy. Like sometimes certain little things might bug you or irritate you or how how do you not care that like with the idea of

Shantehim being >> I care more about I care more about the general how do I say this? I care more about him being happy at the end of the day versus anything that could possibly

Shanteannoy me. Like what? I don't Okay, so he wants to put a motorcycle in the kitchen. Great. Why Why would that bother me? Or like there's just I can't imagine anything that would bother me to the point that I would get upset about

Gabrielleit. >> Totally. I guess like I'm referencing more like the idea of him being with like another woman. Like that doesn't like kill you inside. >> Why? My the value he sees in me doesn't change just because he'd be with

Shantesomebody else. >> No. Like I don't understand women who get divorced from someone they've been married to for years and that they have this commitment to and you're supposed to show each other the best and worst parts of each other to to your to your

Shantespouse and then someone else comes into the picture and then all of a sudden it's you just throw everything out the window. So that woman's [ __ ] was worth more than your marriage. That doesn't make sense to me. >> I think other things come into play with that situation. like if things aren't

Gabriellecommunicated like you have you have good communication with your husband so you're aware of what like he doesn't need to tell you about what's going on but you're also okay with that too. >> Yeah. >> Um but like that particular situation

Gabriellelike that woman probably didn't sign up for that though and like she's not okay with that and that's like a boundary of hers. >> So that could be like you know it's just a different situation. >> She got married. >> Yeah. Marriage marriage for a lot of

Gabriellepeople is monogous >> and it's just between you and your partner. But >> but till death do you part, >> right? >> Till death do you part. >> But also in your vows,

Shante>> you're supposed to accept the good things and also the bad things. So, okay, this person did something that >> you consider bad. Well, >> so you give up. You just throw away >> your faith to be faithful.

Shante>> Oh, so when we get into the religious thing, you kind of lose me because I'm I'm agnostic, >> right? I mean, I don't like that's that's what I I don't subscribe to other people's rules for how >> my relationship should be like there are

Shantesocietal norms for how we say like you said earlier like oh no I can't propose to him he should propose why like in my world >> no >> why not it's different >> you know like I took us out on our first date I paid for it like it's not

Brian Atlas>> cuz I wanted to >> uh I do have to move it on a little bit um I have a few more notes for you just going to you really quick so you're Catholic you said >> yes >> used to practice witchcraft >> um are Are you uh waiting for marriage?

Nicole (AZ)>> Yes. >> Okay. For to have sex. >> Mhm. >> Waiting for marriage. >> Mhm. >> And how long have you been Catholic? >> Um well since I was like born. I was baptized. >> But you fell out of it. And then

Nicole (AZ)>> fell out of it from around I want to say 12 or 13 when I moved to Florida. I was going to get confirmed but like with the age and classes and by that time I was kind of already out of it.

Nicole (AZ)>> I see. Um, I would say it's been about two years, maybe. I think it was May 2024. It was like when I bought this necklace and I was like, I'm going to put my faith in

Nicole (AZ)Christ. And so, I've worn this every day for like a couple two years now. >> So, you've been celibate for two years. >> Sorry. What was Oh, no. No. It's three years. Yeah. No, it's 2023 was when I

Nicole (AZ)started that. So, you've been you've been celibate for >> No, I'll cate for for three years, but I was still in the end of my my little like like the witchcraft thing by the end of the the relationship. Yeah. Okay.

Brian AtlasYeah. >> Uh going back to you, Shante, uh you said why women call you a pick me all the damn time. >> Oh, yeah. >> Why is that? Why do they call you? >> Because I tend to side with Well, it's

Shantenot that I side with men, but I tend to think or say things that men agree with. So, for example, there's an app called Clubhouse that I would talk on sometimes and I would say things in rooms kind of what like what I just said earlier and the men would be like, "Yeah, no, that

Shantethat makes sense." And women would be like, "Oh, you're just saying that because you want men to side with you. You don't actually think that." And I'm like, "No, I actually do think what I'm saying." But women will call other women pikmies to try and put them down. And I don't

Gabrielle>> I don't think pick me is always like a bad like I like I don't want you to take offense to this. But I would say like you are a pick me like in a certain sense that's okay. Like when you took your husband out on your first date like you wanted him to

Gabriellepick you not necessarily like you that's what was your intention but >> well if it's not my intention then how >> your actions it was like well yeah I took him out on a date. I mean but you

Shantewanted him to pick you >> but it wasn't like I wanted him to. So to be perfectly honest I never wanted to get married. That was never high on my

Brian Atlastotem pole of things to do or my to-do list at all. It was just Yeah. I just I >> You also write that your uh dating career involved lots of interesting

Brian Atlasmoments. You date in NYC. You say dating in NYC is like a being at a buffet. >> You've dated men and women. You can say that dating women is harder than dating men. Yeah, >> for sure. Uh you've always dated men you

Brian Atlascan learn from, but didn't seem to have that same parameter for women. You've had the opportunity to date some very wealthy men, but you opted for fun times and good sex over money.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> What's the richest guy you? >> He is probably making honestly 14 million a year. >> Damn.

Brian AtlasPretty pretty pretty good. Uh, okay. You said feminism has been corrupted by intersectionality. What do you mean by that?

ShanteSo feminism isn't just about women anymore. It's been corrupted with the trans movement, the alphabet mafia. It's all gotten incorporated into feminism. >> And that's

Brian Atlas>> yeah, >> it's not that. >> You said that young women are so caught up in comparing themselves to men that they have forgotten how to be pleasant, how to listen, and how to attract a man while appreciating him for who he is and

Brian Atlasnot what he has. You think the most valuable thing a man has is his mind, not his wallet. >> Yeah. >> Anything to add to that or? >> No. I mean, women don't listen. Uh, one of the things I hear men complain about

Shantethe most that I know who are single is, well, two things. One, the first one is women don't listen. So, they'll have a they'll go out with a woman on Friday night, have a conversation with her at dinner, she seems like she's paying attention, and then the next time they

Shantehang out, he'll bring up the same topic as before, and she'll have no recollection of anything that he said prior. And he's like, "What am I doing here? What? You didn't listen to a word I said cuz it didn't pertain to them." >> A girl can tell me something and I've already forgotten it.

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