Brian DEBATES Feminist! Single Mom CELlBATE 10 Years? Open Marriage? Woman Pastor? | Dating Talk 285
Date: 2026-03-09
Duration: 7h 05m
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Gabrielle(guest)
SPEAKER_03Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_04Olympia(guest)
SPEAKER_05Carrie(guest)
SPEAKER_06Kayla Void(guest)
SPEAKER_08Chloe Yummy(guest)
SPEAKER_09Shante(guest)
SPEAKER_10Nicole (AZ)(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:21
IntroAll guests introduce themselves
00:26:32
Key MomentCarrie: single 13 years, celibate 10. Pimped out cheating best friend as revenge; friend later died.
00:31:37
Key MomentShante reveals one-sided open marriage arrangement
00:41:42
ControversyKayla reveals she has no problem with revoking women's right to vote
01:29:03
Key MomentCarrie: 13 years sober, lost custody after suicide attempt, now handles narcotics at pharmacy
02:31:00
QuoteBrian: 'she'll end up with a chubby Mexican drywaller who used to be addicted to opium'
04:28:50
Key MomentOlympia speaks in tongues live on camera
04:56:10
Key MomentOlympia: saved husband's life 3 times including from gun to his own head. Lost 19yo son in 2023.
Topics Discussed
00:00:21
Guest Introductions
Chloe Yummy, Gabrielle, Nicole, Carrie, Shante, Olympia, Kayla.
00:26:32
Carrie's Celibacy and Revenge Story
Single 13 years, celibate 10. Ex had threesome with best friend. She pimped out the friend as revenge; friend is dead.
00:31:37
Shante's Open Marriage
One-sided open marriage explained. Husband free to date others.
00:41:42
Revoking 19th Amendment
Kayla has no problem with women losing right to vote. Extended debate.
01:29:03
Carrie's Addiction Recovery
13 years sober from heroin/cocaine. Lost custody after suicide attempt. Now narcotics pharmacy tech.
04:56:10
Olympia's Testimony
Husband was drug addict 5 years, saved his life 3 times. Lost 19yo son 2023. Speaks in tongues on camera.
06:01:12
Chloe's Trivia Failures
Brazil is in Africa. George Bush was first president. Pearl Harbor was in London.
Transcript
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Brian Atlas>> Like, uh, you read like 40 >> or maybe even late 30s. >> Oh my goodness. >> No. Yeah, you're uh you've aged well.
02:55:04
Brian AtlasUm, you have some positive characteristics. Uh, I would say honestly I think I give you uh >> because >> I think I give you a five. I think I give you a five. >> Thank you.
02:55:15
Brian Atlas>> And honestly for for your age uh you might you kind of mog you might even be like for for 45. >> 45. I'll be 46 this year. >> I think you got for for for your age six.
02:55:28
Brian Atlas>> Whoa. >> Six even. Uh okay. Uh, you are 46. You gave yourself a five. >> Five.
02:55:37
Brian Atlas>> Five. Okay. Uh, I think I'd put you at 4.5 to five. And then Kayla, you gave yourself an eight. You You do wear quite a bit of makeup, Kayla. I do.
02:55:50
Brian Atlas>> Um, >> you do have some pretty striking features and rare features. You have natural blonde hair. Correct. It's not >> It's dark blonde. I make it platinum. >> Oh, you do. Okay. So, but you do have blonde hair, but you >> Okay. It's not brown, though, or black.
02:56:04
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Okay. All right. Well, I got bamboozled. Uh, but you you do have striking features. Uh, eyes very striking. Um,
02:56:18
Brian Atlas>> super beautiful. >> Some positives, some negatives. I do think you have overrated yourself. No offense. Um, >> you you gave yourself an eight. I think I would put you closer to 6.5.
02:56:31
Brian AtlasUm, 6.5 I think is fair. >> Let's go. >> What did I rate Chloe? >> You rated me a five. >> I did. No, I didn't. I say 5.56.
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Olympia>> Not just that, but you just say before that she will be 10 in any country and any culture everywhere. You said that. Yes. >> Why do you say that? >> I don't. No, I was just curious if I was
02:56:54
Brian Atlasjust curious if she looks kind of Latina. >> Yeah, I am. >> Okay. All right. Well, that's the looks ratings. Uh, and then I guess I'll do my
02:57:06
Brian AtlasWell, I already gave myself 4.5. I'll give some justifications. Chubby, need to lose weight. Uh, that's going to have impact on the face. Chubby face. Uh,
02:57:16
Brian Atlasskin clarity issues. Uh, big nose but blue eyes. So, that's a positive, I guess. Oh, weak under eye area. There it
02:57:26
Brian Atlasis. Okay, whatever. Next segment. Chloe Gertrude Smith. What did you want to talk about? >> That's your middle name. >> Um, >> Gertrude. >> What do I want to talk about? >> Yeah, there there was something that Or
02:57:40
Brian Atlasdid you not want to hit on that? >> No, I don't want to talk about that anymore. >> You don't want to talk about them anymore? Okay. All right. Can we get a pacifier? Can Can I buy a pacifier on Door Dash? I feel like
02:57:51
Brian Atlas>> Chloe is got the She's Anyways, never mind. That's cringe as [ __ ] Um, let's do this. Actually, before we pull
02:58:01
Brian Atlasit up, I'm going to wait until she's back from the bathroom. Uh, we have Yeah, y'all were pretty reasonable.
02:58:11
Brian AtlasPretty reasonable group here. Pretty reasonable group. Uh, let's see. Let's do uh Nathan, pull up the notepad. I'm going to show you a list of all some
02:58:22
Brian Atlasof my positions and you guys tell me if there's anything you guys want to talk on. These are prompts.
02:58:30
Brian AtlasAll right. So, uh let's see. Like for example, women can't be incel. I think men put in more effort when it comes to
02:58:40
Brian Atlasdating. A woman's career doesn't attract men. Age gap relationships are totally fine. Non-traditional women do not deserve chivalry. Natural body over
02:58:50
Brian Atlasplastic surgery. Uh any of these, just read them if you want to take a crack at any of these. Scroll down though. We can show them some more.
02:59:00
Brian AtlasUm let's see. Uh Valentine's Day equals scam. That was recent. Uh there's uh
02:59:12
Brian Atlasuh scroll down. Scroll down. Now these are Brian specific. Now we were just talking about looks ratings. I have a looks rating adjuster uh for women with large labia. So it's plus one, plus two,
02:59:24
Brian Atlasplus three, plus four, plus five for a small Audi, medium Audi, large Audi, XL Audi, and world record Audi. Um you get there's a looks adjuster there.
02:59:37
Brian AtlasWould you date anybody with like an innie or a flat? >> Uh, yeah. So, it's not a deal breakaker. I would, but it is my preference to to date a woman who >> Have you
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Shante>> who has an Audi? >> Have you ever gotten a woman naked? Then you're just like, "Oh, no. It's not It's just not big enough for me. I can't do this." So, I have been labia fished where a girl >> told me
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Brian Atlastold me that she had an Audi and she definitely didn't. >> Yeah. >> And it's like it would be the same like think about from your like a guy I don't know if you're a woman who wants a guy with a big dick or whatever and he you
03:00:13
Brian Atlasknow, oh I got a big dick and then he takes his pants off and it's like that you're going to be a little disappointed. I was a bit disappointed.
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Brian AtlasLook, it's not a dealbreaker. And look, not to be uh not not to be what's um vulgar.
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Brian Atlas>> Oh, now we're >> But [ __ ] is [ __ ] Okay. >> You know what I mean? No, I don't know. I'm just saying. >> Wait, but not not to you because it
03:00:45
Brian Atlasneeds to be a big label. >> Well, like in ter So from Okay.
03:00:53
Brian AtlasSort of, but also not sort of. >> Yes, but also no in the sense that like >> I understand the >> It still feels good. It still feels
03:01:04
Brian Atlasgood. I think it feels better if it's an Audi. Looks better if it's an Audi,
03:01:12
Brian Atlas>> but you can have an Indian. The It can still be bomb [ __ ] You know, heard >> you know what I mean? >> I don't know. Also, I'll give a girl pass on certain things, too, if she has an Audi.
03:01:26
Brian Atlas>> Like, what? >> She gets passes on certain things. I don't know. Like, >> give us examples. >> Like, I I don't like a woman who nags or is annoying. >> Every woman does.
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Brian Atlas>> I will tolerate a little bit of annoying if she's got like a giant labia. A little bit. But I'm still going to get her in [ __ ] line. Like, I'm still going to have to No, I'm just kidding.
03:01:48
Brian AtlasBut I got to lay down the law. Like I want to I don't want to quarrel some woman. But look, if she annoys me from time to time, I'm still going to tell her
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Brian Atlas[ __ ] knock it off. Oh my god. I say the dumbest [ __ ] But um you know, no. No. Do you guys not Women have this like
03:02:10
Brian Atlasif the guy is really hot and he's got a big dick, you let you let certain things slide. >> Absolutely. If he if he can if he's really good in bed,
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Carrieyou like ignore some red flags. Like he's hot and the dick is good, >> but he's homeless. >> But he's home. >> Like you'll still [ __ ] him. >> The last guy I was with was dumb as a
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Carriebox of rocks. Like anytime he opened his mouth, I was like, just stop talking cuz he was so pretty. So it was like >> Right. Exactly. Exactly. Um but yeah, I have been labia fished. Um, sometimes
03:02:45
Brian Atlaswomen don't even know. I'm like, how do you not know if you what you're working with? Like they think they have an Audi >> Mhm. >> a large labia, but they don't. >> Girls don't see vaginas like that.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Like girls, they just see their own probably. >> But I feel like, you know, Google search, you know, you just Google just to double check. Like especially if I've had I've had a couple girls fly to come
03:03:10
Brian Atlasand see me. >> Did you pay for the flight? No, no. >> Boom. >> In some instances, you know, in the past, in some instances, if a girl's
03:03:21
Brian Atlasgoing to fly to see me, maybe the, you know, it's nice the first time she should pay for it. I'm a gentleman. Second, beyond that, you know, maybe I'll I'll see what I can do. I'm a
03:03:32
Brian Atlasstarving college student after all, starving artist. But uh no, I had I've had like one or two girls fly out and they're like, "I
03:03:42
Brian Atlasgot an Audi." Did not have an Audi. Very disappointed. Is that wrong, by the way? That would that like is it wrong that for me to reject a woman?
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Brian Atlas>> No. Preferences are preferences. >> Large labia. No. >> Yeah. >> I just send her packing. No, just kidding. I didn't do that. >> So, what do you think a man should pay
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Gabriellefor? cuz you brought up him paying for the woman's flight. >> My man pays for all my stuff and he
03:04:14
Gabriellealways has. Um right now though, I'm paying for my own rent. Um because we don't live together, but he I I'm very
03:04:25
Gabrielleindependent and um I don't want him to pay for my stuff unless we're married. But he totally can and he has in the past, but I don't expect that. I just
03:04:36
Gabriellelove him and I just want to be married and have kids. But he's working on his business right now. So, we're working towards that. And if he doesn't end up making 200K a year, you still going to marry him?
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Shante>> Yeah, I'm still going to marry him no matter what. But >> he's Chad. She has to marry. >> We're going to have we're going to have one children, by the way. Like, >> but regardless, um he >> Are you an athlete?
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Gabrielle>> I I'm not athlet I'm not really athletic. No, but I uh I played varsity tennis in high school. >> Okay. >> And I I like I like the sport. I mean >> Okay. >> I'm 25. I haven't played in a long time.
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Brian Atlas>> I see. >> But he's uh very athletic. So >> uh pull it pull the list back up. I don't know. Did you guys you guys didn't
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Brian Atlassee anything? I can read more. Uh she wants a second date. No other men. So you know there can't be other dudes in the picture if she wants to date me. >> Women should bow. Women should bow to
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Olympiame. This is my my >> Brian specific at this Brian. >> Women should bring peace. >> You You disagree? >> No, I agree. >> Oh, yeah. I'm looking for for arguing for the
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Brian Atlas>> Why? Why does she need to bow? Like she needs to like be on her hands. >> Let me play the video. I'll play the video. Uh Nathan, if you can pull up the video for us, please. >> I would bow to you, Brian. >> Thank you, Chloe. I appreciate it. I That's appreciated.
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Brian AtlasI just processed. >> All right. Uh, okay. Go ahead and play it. Uh, so this is a video I actually took of my ex-girlfriend and I show this video as a tutorial video to future
03:06:14
Brian Atlaswomen so they know to get with the program cuz look, I don't want to have to always like visual guides are very helpful. Like I I'm a visual learner. I think women are visual learners. You
03:06:26
Brian Atlascan't just tell them. You have to show them. And so I I uh I took this video like cuz I knew I was going to break up with her. >> Oh my gosh, you're mean. >> I took this video in preparation like, "Okay, I'm gonna" and then get ready to
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Brian Atlasplay it again >> and then paused it the boom. Do you see the depth? Do you see the submissive hand posture? So yeah, I show this video like before if a girl DMs me, I'm like,
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Brian Atlas"Are you sure? Watch this. This is what I expect. Are you on board? Are you on the team? Are you part of the game? Are you only into Asian women? >> Uh, I date white women, Latina women,
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Gabrielleand Asian women. >> But culturally, like they don't. >> So, that video is your girlfriend? >> Yes, I dumped her though. >> Ex-girlfriend. >> Ex-girl. Did Did she give you permission to show that after? >> Yeah, I recorded it, of course. >> Like after though?
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Brian Atlas>> What do you mean? >> Like, do you think she >> Yeah, she still hits me up, by the way. I blocked her cuz she's [ __ ] insane. >> I have another question. So, like, >> yeah, she tried to stab me. >> Oh, >> yeah. Oh, >> what did you do to provoke her? >> Oh, nothing. >> I'm just kidding.
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Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> No, she's just she's just tried to stab me. >> That's horrible. >> With her penis because that's a lady boy. >> Just kidding. >> Oh my god. >> Yeah, I was I had a crazy dream last
03:07:43
Brian Atlasnight, by the way. Let me tell you. Holy [ __ ] I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I'm kidding. But I do want Look, and I don't even need it is the thing. I don't even But I want her to be willing to do it,
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Brian Atlas>> right? >> And if she does it, all the better. >> So, yes, when I get home from a long day at the podcast, it's a sign of respect. >> Just do a little bow. It's effortless. It takes 3 seconds. Any woman can do it.
03:08:09
Brian AtlasIf she has back problems, I'll accept a curtsy. She doesn't have to, you know, whatever. But yeah, I'll date white women, Asian women, they all can do it. I'll take a girl from [ __ ] Kentucky. explain what you're like.
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Gabrielle>> She's going to hit a bow >> to get obviously like there's a woman out there. >> Yeah. >> Um >> what are you like you you would do everything for her like you'd pay for everything and she wouldn't work and then she so she could have the space to do that for you
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Brian Atlas>> to bow. >> No entire technically when you when you're talking about space >> we could be homeless and she could still bow for me. >> But uh yes I would whoever I'm with long
03:08:48
Brian Atlasterm everything will be taken care of. She'll never have to work. That's who I'm with long term. Now, you're not going to get that like immediately necessarily, right? >> Not going to move. I'm not going to have
03:08:59
Brian Atlasa girl living with me right off the bat. But yes, if if we are long term, whoever I'm with long term,
03:09:08
Olympiaeverything taken care of. She never has to work and I do pretty well. So, >> let me ask you this. If if you are married with a woman that love you, you
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Olympialove her, blah blah blah. All beautiful, >> but you have kids. >> Yeah. >> And one of these days she's she's tired. She's Kids make you tired. I have kids.
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Olympia>> Yeah. >> Um and the dishes are like the house are kind of messy. You have a bunch of dishes. They're dirty. >> Unacceptable. But continue. >> You're not willing to help her.
03:09:45
Brian Atlasunacceptable. Unacceptable. No. >> Seriously, wife. >> Then she better be okay with me having multiple wives.
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Brian Atlas>> Oh, the house isn't taken care of and you're not working. >> No, I'm not saying that. >> Unacceptable.
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OlympiaBack to the factory you go. No, I well I believe I I believe that that marriages look I'm I'm staying home by choice by
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Olympiamy husband and me agreement but sometimes house are messy cuz I we have kids the most that I can clean or whatever um for fortunately we have somebody who help
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Olympiaus. >> How many kids do you have? >> Uh three. Uh >> and okay, but sometimes you know he
03:10:39
Olympiaespecially just uh holidays he says I'm going to cook. He said I never asked but he says this time I'm going to make the
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Olympiaturkey. You know to me is very beautiful too to have your man that once in a while he want to take care of you and and you know I'm thinking
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Olympia>> I love when my man makes me a steak. >> Yeah. It's beautiful. or some if I don't feel well, if I'm sick or whatever, you know, he don't ask me for anything, but he's going and wash the dishes.
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Brian Atlas>> What what she's saying, what Natalya saying? >> No, it's not a big deal. Exactly. >> My my uh Okay. So, question though. Your So, your husband, is he the primary bread winner? >> And wait, you have three kids? Yes.
03:11:27
Olympia>> All from him? >> Uh, no. One is from his previous marriage. >> And do you have any kids from a previous relationship? >> Yes. >> What? >> But my kids are not living with us.
03:11:40
OlympiaThey're bigger. They're they're older. >> But I take care of her his daughter. I love her like mine. Love her so much. >> Okay. Well, I mean, so
03:11:50
Brian Atlasin this hypothetical scenario, uh, well, are is this a story of you? Is this your experience? >> This is my house. So, like, no, no, but like you said, well, what if you know
03:12:02
Olympiathe she's got three kids and the dishes the house is dirty and the dishes aren't done and >> I'm not saying every day, but I don't think it's something bad that men help
03:12:13
Brian Atlasyou once in a while. >> No, the men should never help. Never. Look, maybe if she's like has she's vomiting or sick, maybe. But I think you
03:12:25
Brian Atlasjust let them pile up and then when she's better then she does it >> because I'm a gentleman like that. >> The Bible said submit one to another. The Bible says woman submit to her
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Olympiahusband. >> Yes. But it says also submit one to another. That's what the Bible said. I can show you. >> The Bible says wives obey your husbands.
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OlympiaIt doesn't say husbands obey your wives. >> No. No it doesn't say that. But he says well previous to that says men submit to Jesus Christ. >> Correct. Yes.
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Olympia>> You know in order to the wife submit to their husband. And then after he says wife obey their husband. It says submit one to another like together. That's what the Bible says. Put it in the
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Brian AtlasGoogle. >> Well I'd have to look at the specific uh thing that you're referencing. But in any case, um, by the way, just to point out, uh, although I have
03:13:24
Brian Atlaspro-Christian sentiment, I'm actually agnostic. Um, so I don't I don't adhere to like a strict, uh, I guess Christian perspective on this. Although again,
03:13:35
Brian Atlasposit I have positive sentiment towards Christianity. Um, many of my friends are Christian. Um, would wouldn't have any issue with like Christian nationalism or
03:13:46
Brian Atlasanything like that. No issue with it. However, uh, in terms of what I would adhere to, and by the way, even if I was Christian, the idea that me husbands submit to wives, that's total [ __ ]
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OlympiaTotal [ __ ] >> No, but you're taking it wrong. What the Bible when I said is >> love in the Bible, you know,
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Olympiathe love, how God described it, it says is patient. It is not saying only from men to women or only from women to men. It's saying
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Olympiaboth sides, men and women both. It has to love each other. Be patient to each other. It says love everything suffer
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Olympiaeverything supported. It's not envy. It's not you give a very good description, right? But what I'm what I'm coming with is not trying to said that women should to uh be the men at
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Brian Atlashome at all. No, no. The well the man is the head. Yes. >> Man submits to church. Man submits to Christ. >> Yes. >> Wives submit to husbands. Wives obey their husbands. >> Well, read it please. It says
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Olympia>> okay. What what >> it's a little part. It says submit to each other. That means be in agreement. Be flexible. Be loved to each other. >> Right. But that wouldn't supersede the
03:15:07
Brian Atlasother verses which say wives submit to their husbands. >> Yes. It is. He said that yes >> it doesn't supersede. So okay so I need to be if I'm Christian I need to be submissive to my wife
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Olympia>> or does she have to be submissive to me? >> No wife should to be submissive to you. >> So but what what's what are you trying to communicate by saying >> there is nothing wrong that men help in
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Olympiahome once in a while if she's sick or if the kid need to uh she's sick. >> There's nothing wrong with that. >> It's beautiful. >> I have a question. >> Sure. It's got to do with this though. >> Oh, okay.
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Gabrielle>> So, I don't know if you want me to ask you. >> Yeah, go ahead. What's your question? >> Um, so like if um if your chick is like going to do everything, of course, do would you follow like the system of the household? >> What do you mean the system?
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Gabrielle>> Is Brian walking in and like throwing his socks on the floor or is Brian throwing his socks in the hamper? >> Not that it would really matter. Not that it would really I'm just curious.
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Brian AtlasUh, I mean generally like at least in my own living situation, I'm putting things in a bin. >> Is it Is it because you're responsible? >> But sometimes I'm laying in bed and I still might have my socks on and the
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Gabriellebins over there and I just take the socks off and they're I throw them on the floor. >> Yeah. And wife wife wife would pick that up like and that would be >> sure she can. Yeah. >> Yeah. Sorry. I was just wondering. I was just curious.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Yeah. No, it's totally fine. But I mean, where was I going with this? Uh I mean, we were essentially
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Brian Atlasuh the bow. There was objections to the bowing thing.
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Brian Atlas>> I care. >> Yeah, I don't pan all the time. >> Yeah, I don't object. I think uh >> but it's not even it's not even like I can only get like an Asian woman to do it. Like you can be the whitest chick
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Brian Atlasever. Yeah, >> you could eat [ __ ] mayonnaise and Wonderbread or whatever >> and be from [ __ ] Kentucky
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Brian Atlas>> and you're going to hit the bow. >> I think if I think if the man is the bow, >> hit the bow. You're going to hit the bow. You're going to do a bow. >> I think if a man is is being
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Olympialike taking care of everything that that he should take care of, I think it's okay to have requests. I think it's many I think it's many
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Olympiaother ways to show our love to men many respect love and just to bow every >> What's wrong? Wait, so you don't like the bow question though? Let's say your
03:17:39
Brian Atlashus your husband asked you like you know what I was watching that whatever podcast and you know what Brian makes a lot of [ __ ] sense. Brian makes a lot of sense. >> Uh
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Brian Atlas>> I love him. Yes, I would do that. >> Would you do the bow? You Yeah, exactly. So it's like look ultimately it's a very small ask and it's just a temperature
03:18:00
Brian Atlascheck for um her willingness to acquies to me.
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OlympiaNo, no, she should do it. She should do she should hit a bow. It's effortless. See, look. She's already doing it. Nicole's already doing it. >> Based trap life over there. >> I just think it's weird. I never in my
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Brian Atlaslife weird. >> I don't know. is something totally >> culturally weird. That's why it's actually So if I get a white girl to do it, it's even more powerful because it's she's willing to do something even
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Brian Atlasculturally >> peculiar to satisfy me. Love it. That's good. That's good. If I say jump, if I say jump, >> she should say >> how high.
03:18:45
Brian Atlas>> How high. Now look, there's some some clarity here when it comes to being submissive. If I tell you to like jump off a building, jump off a bridge, do
03:18:54
Brian Atlasdrugs, traffic drugs for me, uh traffic humans for me, you should not submit to me in that circumstance because I'm asking you to do something immoral. I'm
03:19:06
Brian Atlasasking you to do something wrong. But it's not immoral. There's nothing objectionable really about doing a bow. As a woman, I think it's annoy like if a man's request annoys you, it's because
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Gabrielleyou're not submissive probably. And I think also that collides with not collides, but it goes hand in hand with like what the man is doing. And even if you're married or not, like if you're married,
03:19:29
Gabriellethat's a start, right, to that. And then beyond that, it's like, is he doing everything that he promised to do before you got married? You know, >> I don't want to get married. So, you would just have a girlfriend and Well,
03:19:42
Brian Atlaswell, you said that you wouldn't pay for everything unless you're married, though. >> Well, no, I said long term. Okay. >> Whoever I'm with long term, everything will be taken care of, >> right? >> So, if we've been dating for, you know,
03:19:53
Brian Atlas>> if we're living together, everything's taken care of. The rent, the food, utilities, everything. Uh on on the longer term scale, once we start having
03:20:03
Brian Atlaschildren, all expenses of course there. um then you know her expenses taken care of but I'm still going to have I would still have authority over certain
03:20:14
Brian Atlaspurchases like if I'm the primary earner not that I think I would ever end up with a woman who has the inclination towards uh like
03:20:24
Brian Atlasuh luxury consumerism but if she's like I want a Louis Vuitton bag I don't know how much that is 5,000 bucks 10,000 bucks she's not getting a Louis Vuitton bag even if I'm making millions and
03:20:35
Brian Atlasmillions millions of dollars a year, you're not getting a Louis Vuitton bag. Now, if I'm making a crazy amount of money perhaps where it's like obscene
03:20:46
Brian Atlaslevels of disposable income, maybe even then I think it's a waste of money. But even if I'm making a million dollar a year, no, you're not getting a $10,000 purse. >> Not even for Christmas, right? For
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Brian Atlas>> No, that's that's stupid. Um that money can be better spent for other things. Uh, but does she want a purse? >> You can get a nice one on Amazon. You can get a nice one on at Costco. You're
03:21:11
Brian Atlasnot >> You're not getting a luxury purse. Oh, you want you want some Dior, some Chanel? Uh, no. Costco sweatpants. Puma sweatpants.
03:21:24
Brian Atlas>> You really like Costco. >> Costco's good. I like Costco. Amazon. There's no reason to be spending crazy amounts of money for I don't know.
03:21:36
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. The woman you would be with though wouldn't ask for that because >> Right. I don't I I don't think the the woman who Well, I mean there would be a
03:21:46
Brian Atlasa component of luxury in the sense that the house will be very nice, >> right? Um, not well, not necessarily,
03:21:56
Shantebut uh, you know, >> so I have a theory, >> uh, vacations, this sort of thing. >> I have a theory about, uh, long-term relationships and breaking it down into
03:22:09
Shantethree categories. And if those three categories align, then it probably will work out. So, you have to have a commonality of values, commonality of goals, and a commonality of lifestyle. And that could be that could be a couple
03:22:21
Shanteof things. It could be sort of like your upbringing. You relate on that and also where you want to go which falls into goals. So I've analyzed previous relationships and they didn't work out
03:22:32
Shantebecause one of those or one more than one of those things failed. And I've asked people all over the place when I'm bartending. I'm like, "Hey, what do you think about this?" And they've thought about and they go, "Yeah, actually,
03:22:42
Shanteyeah, our values didn't align at the end of the day or the lifestyle we envisioned or the goals we have were completely different. like one of those three things didn't work out. So, in your case, you're describing someone who
03:22:53
Shanteactually their values didn't align with yours, you know, or the lifestyle didn't match up or your goals ended up being different. >> Well, yeah. I mean, I think the woman
03:23:04
Brian Atlaswho wants the luxury goods and has the fake tits and the lip filler and the right >> the Botox and all that [ __ ] that's not that's not the girl I want. And she
03:23:14
Brian Atlasprobably probably doesn't want me. No offense, Chloe. Um but uh what but uh yeah >> anyways just my thought. Why won't you
03:23:27
Gabrielleget married? >> Uh financial liability >> but like you can do a prenup. >> Financial liability. >> You don't think that that would be more stable for you? >> Why would it be more stable for me?
03:23:38
Gabrielle>> Um wait, did you say financial liability even after I said get a prenup? >> Yeah. >> Oh, okay. >> Still financial liability, >> right? No, absolutely. So like why wouldn't a prenup protect you in that case? You created your business before you're married.
03:23:50
Brian Atlas>> I don't know maybe the the masters in legal studies here can weigh in. I don't know if you've that was a >> perview of some of your studies but my understanding with prenups and it can be state specific.
03:24:01
Brian AtlasIt can address assets prior to the marriage. Uh but I think that which you earn during the course of the marriage that's still fair game is my
03:24:13
Brian Atlasunderstanding. I could be wrong on that. Um, so also e let's even assume like let's assume you could have a prenup and I even this would probably be deemed like
03:24:25
Brian Atlasunconscionable or uninforceable. The prenup says you get no money. Like that's just the prenup. If we divorce you get no money. I don't one I don't think that'd be enforced. But even if it
03:24:36
Brian Atlaswas the case uh prenups can be legally challenged. They frequently are legally challenged. Um there was recently now whether the legal challenge is actually
03:24:48
Brian Atlasupheld that you know just because you challenge a prenup doesn't mean that you're going to win on the you know the challenges
03:24:56
Gabriellebut they do get challenged. Um and so um I don't think prenups are completely bulletproof. >> Right. But then you mentioned >> Yeah. >> Um that you would have children with
03:25:09
Brian Atlasthis long-term partner. >> Yeah. Um, >> seven children. >> You'd have seven children. >> Sons. Seven sons. >> Seven son males. >> And we can have I mean, if there's some daughters in there, that's Yeah, we can do that, too. Yeah. >> But I need seven sons. >> What if like
03:25:22
Gabrielle>> got to get started on that? >> Like, what about child support stuff? Like, you're not worried about that? Cuz like that >> you can't Yeah, you can't escape child support >> cuz like that could almost be like worse. >> You don't think? >> It could be worse,
03:25:33
Brian Atlas>> especially with seven males. Well, so yeah, if if say you were married for one year, well, hold on. Okay, say you say you had a girlfriend and you had six
03:25:47
Brian Atlaskids with her and then you got married and you had one more kid. Uh, and then you divorced after one year. Yes, your child support burden to her would
03:25:56
Brian Atlasarguably conceivably be higher than your spouse of support or uh uh alimony liability under those circumstances.
03:26:06
Brian AtlasBut say you've been married for 10 years um and then you have children depending on the it varies by state when it comes to
03:26:16
Brian Atlasthe severity of child support. Um, I think take Texas for example. There's there's maximum limits on child support in Texas and it would add up by
03:26:28
Brian Atlaschildren. So I think for like one kid it's around 2,000 is the max that you can pay. Uh I don't know what the breakdown is further from there for 2 3 4 5. I would assume like maybe let's say
03:26:39
Brian Atlasif you have four kids and you your income is the maximum amount that they can draw from which is like $11,000 a month in Texas. I think maybe you're
03:26:49
Brian Atlaslooking at paying $3,000 $4,000 in Texas. Uh but and again, I don't know the alimony marriage laws in in Texas. But uh yeah, I think there's a greater
03:27:03
Brian Atlasliability for marriage, >> but you live in California. >> Oh, yeah. California is even worse. >> California is right. >> California is even worse for child support. >> Uh probably. Yeah, it's bad in California for child support. Uh because
03:27:14
Gabriellethere's no limit. Why did you assume though he wouldn't have his kids? >> I didn't assume that. I just >> if you assumed he's paying child support then >> No, I said what? Like what if I was just wondering like would it be worth
03:27:26
Brian Atlas>> So what whether I'm married or not, what would Let's assume I have children. The child support burden remains whether I'm married or not. >> Good point. But it probably wouldn't be as much like
03:27:39
Gabrielle>> if I'm well >> like if your children are with you like dude like kids are expensive but they're not like child support like I feel like sometimes child support is a little like insane. >> Yeah. >> Especially if you're high earner >> in California.
03:27:52
Gabrielle>> Right. So that was going to be my next question. Like for safety for yourself would you move to another state before you have children?
03:28:02
Brian Atlas>> Um I don't think I would. There are Okay, so I'd answer this two parts. Part one, yes, there are some states that have better child support
03:28:14
Brian Atlaslaws that have caps so forth. California arguably one of the worst uh when it comes to child support, but I don't think I would pick a state specifically because of the
03:28:27
Brian Atlas>> beneficial or lack thereof >> child support laws. I'd rather pick a state based on like the >> Right. Honestly, I like living in California because it's the weather is
03:28:38
Brian Atlas>> is the best in the country. Um, you might say possibly Hawaii has better weather, although uh like Santa Barbara, Southern California, pretty much the
03:28:49
Brian Atlasbest weather in the country. Um, it's beautiful here and uh I I I like it here. So,
03:28:58
Shanteuh, not not some of the political stuff, but, um, yeah. >> So, you mentioned before though that you need a man or your guy to make 200,000 a year because you want to have kids, but
03:29:10
Gabriellethen you're telling Brian that kids don't cost that much. So, why do you do quote 200,000? >> Because I have kids. >> Because I like I make at least like I'll
03:29:22
Gabriellemake that much money when I'm married. So like he needs to compensate for that for our dual income like when we get married it that's what the duel will be.
03:29:35
Gabrielle>> Okay. So >> why is that? >> I don't understand this concept of a guy has to compensate you for the income that you are making when you >> he doesn't need to compensate me. He needs to compensate us. We are a business. So we are having children. He
03:29:47
Olympianeeds to support that. >> Oh so you're getting Oh. So you view marriage as a business. It's just a business. I don't view it as a business, but it technically is. >> So, basically, you want to get married
03:29:58
Olympiabecause you think married today is a bunch of problems about money. >> Uh, well,
03:30:07
Brian Atlasthere is the risk of divorce when you're married. It can complicate things. Um, so yeah, for financial reason, I mean, look, if she is rich, if she makes a lot
03:30:18
Brian Atlasof money, she can get I'll marry her. because the the financial liability disappears, >> right? >> That's really my only hangup to it. Um w
03:30:29
Brian Atlaswith it really. Um and as but the issue is is that as a I I'm doing fairly well. Um as I'm
03:30:42
Brian AtlasI don't think there's a lot of women uh out there that out earn me. Um, so and typically most women when they're high earners, they want to date a guy
03:30:53
Brian Atlaswho earns more than them. So it's like I'm there's not a large pool of women who uh and I I but I don't really care about how much money a woman makes it like it's not like a factor for me.
03:31:06
Brian AtlasIt doesn't make her more attractive. Would it be a nice little positive? Sure. Um but I'll date a girl who works at Chick-fil-A. Don't care. She can work at Taco Bell. Don't care. Chick-fil-A would be better though, like if I had to choose.
03:31:20
Brian Atlas>> Sunday's on. >> I prefer Chick-fil-A. By the way, speaking of Sunday, it's International Women's Day today. >> Really? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And I just want to just do a little
03:31:29
Brian Atlasshout out, you know, to all all the women out there on International Women's Day >> and all the women all the rich women, too. Most, you know, it's the richest women.
03:31:42
Brian Atlas>> Wait, no. The self-made rich women, not the women that got it off the backs of their husband. I was about to say I wanted to shout out the richest women in the world who >> all became the richest women in the world through divorce. >> Yeah.
03:31:56
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> So shout out women's international women's day. But yeah, no I don't want to get married. Um maybe if I one day ever become Christian. Maybe >> just do it. Just make
03:32:10
Brian Atlasthis is your day. >> Maybe I'm you know I'm not a Christian yet. just to be >> not a Christian yet, >> but uh maybe one day I'll I'll get married because it makes sense. Well, I mean from a religious perspective it
03:32:24
Brian Atlascalls for it, >> but from like a secular perspective there's only liabilities I see there. I don't see the benefits. I can say that real Christians because is there a bunch of people I want to clarify that that
03:32:37
Olympiait's a bunch of people that they call themselves Christian Christians by name only but they they do not they really
03:32:45
Olympiaare not Christians like real Christians and the difference is a real Christian
03:32:54
Olympiais not religions only it's the the communion is the the real connection with God, >> right? >> Many people can say I'm Christian, but
03:33:06
Olympiathey don't even know what is that means really. So, um the real people who commit with God, who has their heart completely for the Lord, for God, for
03:33:19
OlympiaJesus, it really became a big change in their lives mentally, emotionally, spirituality.
03:33:28
OlympiaAnd those marriages, they last for for forever. God in the Bible says that he wants marriages for forever together
03:33:38
Olympiaforever. And it's very beautiful and very healthy when you put God in your life as a number one because the Bible told you
03:33:48
Olympiahow to live a healthy happy life in your marriage. You know nobody is men is not
03:33:56
Olympiacontrolling the women. Women not control the men. Men like we say pre previous women who met her husband but also her husband treat her with love with
03:34:08
Carrierespect. >> Can I ask a question and this comes from a place of actual ignorance because I have no idea. What happens if you just get sick of your partner as a Christian?
03:34:20
Carrieis do you just stay miserable? >> You go pray. >> That's like I truly like are you just living in misery forever? >> I could speak on that. At least for uh
03:34:32
Nicole (AZ)the Catholic faith, they do have a lot of uh therapy like like retreats. Um my when my parents were actually getting a divorce, they actually got back together
03:34:42
Nicole (AZ)because of of Christ. I actually prayed every day for it and my dad went into church uh before for my grandfather's funeral he couldn't go to and he was like, "God, what am I what am I doing?"
03:34:54
Nicole (AZ)And um and another point I actually used to be agnostic, too. I was atheist. I used to uh practice witchcraft. I used to >> I You had pink hair. >> Mhm. >> Yep. >> I saw that.
03:35:07
Nicole (AZ)>> Yeah. >> Yeah. She had to be Yeah. I mean, so but yeah, I >> witchcraft. >> Yeah. M >> huh. >> Yeah. >> Like >> yeah, >> spells and [ __ ]
03:35:18
Nicole (AZ)>> It was really It was really dumb and and I uh rebuked all of it. And if I may share a really interesting story on how I changed from my pagan beliefs to my
03:35:27
Nicole (AZ)back to my Catholic roots where I had a wooden pentagram uh at my like altar and I was already kind of questioning where I was and I was asking God in a true
03:35:40
Nicole (AZ)moment, not just like, "Oh, show yourself if you're real." It's it I was asking no is this truly the back like the wrong path am I I said I will listen to you and when I had gone back to my
03:35:53
Nicole (AZ)computer in my room my back was faced to the u the other way it slammed down I and nothing ever comes off of like my walls like with tax and everything
03:36:02
Nicole (AZ)slammed down dropped knocked over all the lit candles and everything and I was like yep okay I hear you I was like I so and Now, I'm still working on going to
03:36:13
Nicole (AZ)like confession for it cuz I want to be able to confess that through a priest and and still get past those. It still kind of like eats away at me that I even did that and I haven't had a chance to
03:36:24
Gabriellereally really repent for it other than just like saying it out loud and stuff, but it's really popular nowadays with people with the manifestation and >> they can buy one on Etsy. I've seen them.
03:36:36
Nicole (AZ)>> Yeah. They like advertise it. >> Yeah. or like the tarot cards and and I'll tell you in that period of time where I was doing witchcraft or or you doing the tarot astrology stuff I never
03:36:47
Nicole (AZ)felt more empty and more soulless and more depressed derived. I literally I believe I sold my soul to the to the devil because in my I mean a lot of
03:36:58
Nicole (AZ)people can probably say this that uh he kind of twists what is uh good and what is right. Um, so yeah, you can always go back from it, but I think there's no problem with being agnostic. My cousin
03:37:11
Brian Atlasis, I was I mean, >> yeah, I mean, my I guess my position, again, pro-Christian sentiment. I just don't know. Like, I I'm not denying God's existence, but I don't I don't know. And I think there's massive value
03:37:23
Brian Atlasin Christianity, Christian ethics, Christian frameworks. Um, I wouldn't even have a problem with Christian nationalism, but part of being a Christian is not to
03:37:34
Brian Atlaslie. And it's like my actual belief in the is it metaphysical? My belief in the metaphysical isn't there. Like my belief
03:37:43
Brian Atlasin the uh the more spiritual components of of like clearly Christian ethics the way like you know what what they tell you to do. That's great. That's all
03:37:56
Brian Atlasgood. >> But it's like okay some of the more what is the right word? Is it metaphysical claims? spiritual theological >> is that's harder for me to grasp like
03:38:08
Gabrielle>> connect with. Have you ever prayed? I'm just wondering out of curiosity. >> I'm Yeah, sure. >> Even like casually. >> Yeah. Sometimes I Yeah. >> So many things I feel like have happened
03:38:19
Gabrielleto me where like I cannot deny him. Like no joke. like she just what she just explained her experience like I've experienced stuff like that where it's
03:38:30
Gabriellejust like oh my god like he's there for me like I didn't have a dad growing up you know I'm like he always >> showed like yeah you do I'm right here >> you can always ask him
03:38:42
Olympia>> um hey I don't know you don't know if you're real but I want to know you >> right >> it's a very sincere question >> yeah I mean >> the mystical claims
03:38:53
Brian Atlaslike mystery of >> the mystical maybe. Anyways, uh here we're going to get back to let's see. Oh, guys, a couple announcements. Uh TTS has been lowered. We're doing we're not
03:39:03
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03:39:52
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03:40:05
Brian Atlasfollow if you have a kick account. Kick.com whatever. All right. Uh let's get right back into some of the topics here. Why don't you pull up that Brian's list one more time?
03:40:18
Brian AtlasUh, okay. Uh, should uh should bow, should simp, should do laundry. First time at the house. Uh, undivided attention. There should be no other men
03:40:29
Brian Atlasin the picture if she wants to pursue things with me. Uh, financial authority. We talked about that. No wasteful spending, designer clothes, no fake
03:40:38
Brian Atlasnails, no lashes. Uh, let's see. Uh, no arguments before bed. No, can I ask you something before bed? Uh, no, you cannot. Nope. You save that
03:40:50
Brian Atlasfor tomorrow. Now, you shouldn't go to bed mad. You shouldn't go bed mad. You shouldn't have a fight before. But like, that's the worst thing. Like, a girl's like scratching your back. You're about
03:41:00
Brian Atlasto fall asleep. And she's like, "Can I ask you something? Can we talk?" No. I'm trying to [ __ ] sleep. All right. Uh, pull it back up. >> Pull it back up. Uh, okay. Uh, she
03:41:13
Kayla Voidshould give >> Kendra Xer. >> What? What are you laughing at? >> Chores equals hot. >> Wait, what's that? Which one? >> I don't know. It's like a woman doing chores equals hot, I think. >> Where did I write that? Oh, yes. Woman
03:41:24
Brian Atlasdoing chores equals hot. Uh, unlimited massages, unlimited back scratches. Um, uh, reporting for duty, sir. What can I
03:41:34
Brian Atlashelp you with, sir? What's the na next task, sir? Can I do X, sir? It's great. It's not just It's not just she's gonna cook and
03:41:45
Brian Atlasclean. She's a She's She's asking me permission to do it. She's got to ask permission. Brian, can I please clean the bathroom? That's so hot. It's not
03:41:57
Brian Atlasjust she does it. She's begging to do it. She needs to beg. She needs to yearn to do that [ __ ] Right, Chloe? >> Can I ask you a question? Do you think your list is equal to or more delusional
03:42:10
Brian Atlasthan mine? >> Oh, I'm super delusional. >> Okay. All right. All right. So, we're both delusional. Got it. >> Well, so part of it So, okay. Part of the list >> there it's it's somewhat
03:42:23
Brian Atlastrue. It's a little bit exaggerated for effect. Um, but it's also holding up a mirror to some degree. Some of the [ __ ]
03:42:33
Brian AtlasI say is to hold up a mirror to some of the crazy [ __ ] women expect, but also I want that [ __ ] Not going to lie. So, you know, it's like a little
03:42:44
Brian Atlasbit of both. But it's like the bow thing. Like, if my girl if I'm in I'm dating a girl and I'm sorry. >> If I'm dating a girl and I love her and she doesn't bow one day, I'm not going
03:42:53
Brian Atlasto like start whipping her or something. I'm not going to freak out. But like, should she bow? Yes. Should she do it like at least four or five times per
03:43:04
Brian Atlasweek? Yes. Ideally, every day, but you know, I won't divorce her if it's like she forgets once, twice, divorce.
03:43:17
Gabrielle>> My boyfriend um when we were living together, he would make my toothbrush for me every morning and night. And I really app It was just like a >> I don't know about that. >> I really appreciated it. >> I don't know. I feel he >> Well, I mean, I'm not saying like
03:43:28
Gabrielle>> he would put the the toothpaste on the >> I think that's like super sweet. >> He and I never asked for. I just >> You should do that for him. It should It should be the reverse. >> I agree. And I have done it for him back
03:43:39
Gabriellewhen I've gotten when I'm like a barista when I'm getting up earlier. I do. >> You should propose to that dude. I I don't know what's going on, man. >> You're You're delusional for that. No,
03:43:52
Olympia>> I don't know. I'm just saying, you know. No, he should propose to me. >> I don't give massage my husband feet every day, every night. But sometimes I do. >> Yeah, she should massage like every
03:44:04
Olympianight. >> And he do very cool things to me. I mean I like I said >> very cool things for me. >> Yeah, he does. >> Like he knows uh for instance he come back from work and he knows that I like
03:44:16
Olympiacertain chocolate and he bring I bring you this. It's cute. >> Yeah, it's just sweet gestures. >> Sweet. Nice.
03:44:26
Brian AtlasYou know what I do? That's sweet. >> Oh boy. >> Actually, never mind. I'm not going to Never mind. Never mind. >> Do it. You can't. >> Pull it back up, Nathan. Let's see the rest of the the list. What else is on
03:44:35
Brian Atlasthe list? Um, >> yeah. I do like it when a woman like, you know, in the morning come because I don't I prefer having my separate
03:44:45
Brian Atlasbedroom like she can go on the other side of the house. Ew. But uh I like it when she in the morning she needs to give me like 1 hour to wake up cuz I'm a
03:44:56
Brian Atlaslittle groggy in the morning so I don't like leave me alone for like an hour. >> When do you wake up? >> Like noon or 1. So at 2 p.m. she should
03:45:08
Brian Atlasif she's staying with me. 2 p.m. she comes by reporting for duty. Sir, that's what she should do. Do you need Brian? What do you need? Do you need I
03:45:18
Brian Atlasmean it's better if she also know like >> like if I need my water to be refilled, she should she should just do it >> naturally. >> She should just know. >> Uh go ahead, pull the list back up.
03:45:30
Brian Atlas>> And then scroll down. These are off of dating, I guess. Okay, so feminism is cancer. Women should be drafted. Women have equal rights to men, arguably more. Men have duties. Women have none. Women
03:45:42
Brian Atlashave been become more radical, not men. So there's some discourse that oh these men are becoming so fascist and conservative. But actually if you look
03:45:52
Brian Atlasat the polling data, women have gone way more left than have men gone right. Uh women are more privileged in totality. Women are not oppressed in the USA. Men are more oppressed than women. People of color can be racist towards white
03:46:04
Brian Atlaspeople. Women can be sexist towards men. Men are physically >> anything. We're going too fast. We all >> true. >> Uh oh. No forced, no child support where abortion is legal. Uh circumcision
03:46:16
Brian Atlasshould be banned. No circumcision. Totally against it. Unless like it's for medical reasons when you're an adult. Uh gun ownership, fine. Illegal immigration bad.
03:46:28
Brian AtlasWomen need men for survival, not the reverse. Non-reproductive. >> It's fair. >> Nothing. Hello. >> I agree. That was so fast. >> Okay, pull it back up. Pull it back up then. >> Um >> Okay, come on. Pick something. Somebody
03:46:41
Nicole (AZ)circumcision. >> Look at how misogynistic I am. >> I don't I guess the circumcision should be banned thing. I don't know. >> I don't think it should be, but I don't. Is that what it said? It should be
03:46:52
Brian Atlasbanned. I didn't think it should. >> No circumcision allowed. >> Okay. >> I mean, but even my understanding for Christians, uh, circumcision is an Old Testament thing, I believe.
03:47:04
Brian Atlas>> Yes. Oh, yeah. Uh, so there's no requirement for Christians because they're New Testament followers >> for Christians to get circumcised. >> Okay. Yeah. Oh, I don't know. >> It's also like a barbaric, brutal.
03:47:17
Brian Atlas>> So, everyone here agrees with everything on that list. >> That's weird. Has that ever happened? >> I don't. >> Has what happened? >> Oh, that everybody agrees with your list. >> I don't know. I think people are holding back to be honest. How about the uh Did you the circumcision thing? Did you want
03:47:31
Nicole (AZ)to continue on? >> Um, no. I think it was just like a preference. We can talk about portion. >> I mean, >> can we talk about that? >> I mean, I'm just No. >> I'm just making >> Let's see the list again. >> Yeah, the list.
03:47:43
Brian Atlas>> Uh, last. >> Yeah. Pull it back up. >> I'm pro-life. Anyways, >> uh, >> we talked about the drug. >> Nothing. Nothing. >> Women are privileged inality. >> Illegal. Illegal immigration. Bad.
03:47:56
Brian Atlas>> Illegal. Yeah. >> Illegal. >> But also, I wonder guys, we had some women. We had some flakes. We had We had this pinkhaired chick that Anyways, >> why do you think men are more oppressed than women? Did I read that?
03:48:09
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, that was correct. >> No, I know. Well, from your perspective, why do you think that? >> Yeah. So, I mean, we talked a bit about it earlier. Military conscription, that would be one way in which men are oppressed.
03:48:21
Brian Atlas>> Um, and then if we're looking at oppression not just by something that is government or state sanctioned. So typically, at least from my view, when I think of oppression, I don't think of it
03:48:33
Brian Atlastypically from the framework of people making choices. And if that leads to outcomes that might be bad, I don't think that that's oppression, >> right?
03:48:43
Brian Atlas>> Uh women feminists will argue that like the wage gap for example, which is primarily due to uh primarily due to choice,
03:48:54
Brian Atlasum that wouldn't be oppression. When I think of oppression, I think it's typically unfair treatment by the I mean it depends on the definition of oppression. Some people will think
03:49:05
Brian Atlasoppression doesn't have to be state down or government down. But so yes, uh from a legislative perspective, men are definitely have
03:49:16
Brian Atlasdisadvantages. There's bias in the court system. There's bias in laws. There's certain um uh there's government programs that have uh like affirmative action for example. There's
03:49:28
Brian Atlasinstitutions, university institutions that have affirmative action which uh elevate women over men. Um there's uh
03:49:38
Brian Atlascollege admissions which is a you know they receive subsidies from the government. So you could argue that this is a form of oppression. Uh there's affirmative action in the universities.
03:49:50
Brian AtlasThere's uh many gendered scholarships are only given to women even though women make up like 60% of college graduates and college admissions. There's more women who go to college and that's been the case since the 1980s.
03:50:03
Brian AtlasMore women have been going to college. Uh we talked about the draft. That's clearly uh if men are the only ones where the government can uh basically physically abduct you and force you uh
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Brian Atlasto go to let's say we end up in some like massive conflict in the Middle East. the government could uh force men to go die and physically force you to do it. There's no physical force that can
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Brian Atlasever be applied to women to do something. Um so that I would argue that's a form of oppression. Um, and then other ways that aren't state or
03:50:37
Brian Atlasgovernment uh don't come from state or government down would be things like there's more homeless men. There's more men in the
03:50:47
Brian Atlasprison system. There's more uh men commit suicide more often. Men um are more likely to die on the job. 93% of workplace fatalities are men. The
03:50:58
Brian Atlasmajority of workplace injuries are men. Men work the most dangerous jobs, the dirtiest jobs, um the least desirable jobs. Um men die earlier than women. They die
03:51:10
Brian Atlassooner than women. Uh >> why prep? >> Uh yeah. Well, I think it's like on average men die 5 years earlier than women do. So
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Brian AtlasI don't know if I would frame it strictly as oppression but some people again depending on your definition of oppression it might fall
03:51:31
Brian Atlasunder a purview of uh oppression. So >> I think women are oppressed because we have to carry children and have periods.
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Brian AtlasI'm just kidding though. Well, yeah. That so that would become like so when I'm talking about some of those things that are um that that are uh you know men dying
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Brian Atlasearlier, you would argue you could argue that well okay well women have this burden right >> that's a biological burden. Although I I don't know if men necessarily die