ADDRESSING DRAMA! Brian CONFRONTS Hater Girl Who Called The Podcast DUMB?! | Dating Talk #191

Date: 2024-08-28

Duration: 6h 54m

Guests

Brian Atlas

LLexi (Escort)>

PPayton (pay_irl)>

MMadison (SBCC)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_00(audience)

SPEAKER_05Lexie(guest)

SPEAKER_06Payton(guest)

SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_09Riley(guest)

SPEAKER_10Madison(guest)

SPEAKER_11Ava(guest)

SPEAKER_13Fern(guest)

Key Moments

OtherFern reveals her ex-boyfriend had a sexual encounter with her male best friend.

“Fern explains her on-off boyfriend (100+ breakups) turned out to be on the DL. Someone told her after their final breakup. She reconciled with the best friend.”

OtherRiley openly says she would go on a date with Lexi over the Chilean soldier guest (a man) sitting at the table.

“Brian asks Riley if she would go on a date with the Chilean soldier (a male guest). Riley says no — and she would go on a date with Lexi instead. "Brutal mogged" reaction.”

OtherPayton physically intervened when her boyfriend was held at gunpoint.

“Payton describes being with her marijuana-dealing boyfriend when an acquaintance pulled a gun. She grabbed a bottle and smashed it over the attacker's head. Police report followed.”

OtherAva and friends sold their bikini bottoms to a man at a nude beach for $100 each.

“Ava describes how an older man at a nude beach offered to buy their panties for $100; they negotiated up, went to his car, and sold them. Describes preparing them for sniffing.”

ControversyBrian and Lexie argue about whether she can claim to want traditional treatment while doing sex work.

“Brian points out that Lexie does OnlyFans and escorting, so it's inconsistent to want traditional chivalrous treatment. Lexie says she wouldn't want her boyfriend doing those things anyway so it doesn't apply. Extended back-and-forth.”

OtherRiley's crack cocaine admission — viewer's "ex-boyfriend" donation claims she smoked crack with him.

“A viewer donates claiming to be Riley's ex and says she smoked crack with him. Riley denies it was recent. Admits to smoking crack twice in her life total.”

OtherMan vs bear debate: all four panelists prefer the bear, leading to discussion about male danger.

“Brian poses the would-you-rather with a random man or random bear in the forest. All women except Payton (contextual) choose bear. Discussion of what percentage of men are dangerous.”

OtherSelf-rating round: guests rate themselves 1-10 (no 7 allowed) and rate Brian.

“Ava 6.5, Riley 8, Fern face 8/total 5, Madison 5 (declines to rate Brian). Payton rates Brian 7.2. Fern and Riley rate Brian 4.5. Ava rates Brian 6. Chat says girls over-ranked themselves.”

OtherBrian addresses Jake Shields Twitter drama — responds to claim podcast divides sexes and Daily Wire buying the show.

“Brian reads his tweet response to Jake Shields, pointing out Jake appeared on similar format shows himself. Denies Daily Wire acquisition. Mentions Cernovich also stirred drama. Guests react. Old scammer drama update deferred.”

Topics Discussed

Show intro and guest introductions

Brian opens show. Guests introduce name, age, location, occupation. Pre-show no-shows mentioned. Kiki (plush cat) introduced.

Relationship status round

Riley: 6-month situationship, sees guy 3-4x/week, not exclusive, deleted Tinder. Ava: single a few months, ended relationship under 1 year ago, bisexual. Lexie: single ~3 years, celibate. Fern: single ~1 year, 8-month situationship cooling down. Payton: single 7 years, celibate 4 years. Madison: boyfriend (works for podcast).

STI testing and sexual health practices

Lexi advocates STI testing before every partner, dental dams, and "dick checks". Discussion of risks of oral sex and STIs. Riley shares vape with Lexi; Brian objects due to Lexie's sex work.

Who should pay on the first date

Ava and Fern: go 50/50 or expect man to pay if he explicitly invited. Riley: depends on invitation. Payton/Lexie: women should pay. Brian argues paying is the optimal chess move but questions whether modern women deserve chivalry. Payton offered to pay on recent dates, wonders if that was wrong.

Prostitution legalization debate

Should prostitution be legalized? Payton: should be illegal, including for buyers; would reduce harm to society including porn. Others: legalization makes it safer. Brian: doesn't think prostitution is good but uncertain on policy position.

Relationship transparency and body count

Should Brian disclose he never wants to marry? Should women disclose body count? Lexi's OnlyFans / sex work vs claiming to be traditional. Brian argues you can't claim chivalrous treatment if you're not a traditional woman.

Body count discussion

Is caring about body count immature or insecure? Riley: hypocritical if man has high count but demands low count from women. Fern and Lexie: preference, not immature. Lexie declines to state her number on this episode.

Man vs bear debate

Would you rather encounter a random man or random bear in the forest? Ava, Riley, Lexie, Fern: bear. Payton: man (contextual). Discussion of what percentage of men would victimize a woman. Estimates range: Lexie 50%, Riley 10%, Fern ~10-15%, Payton ~1-2%.

Feminism and gender equality

Are guests feminists? Definition debate. Discussion of legal equality vs social treatment differences. Women being tipped more than men. Male bias against male elementary school teachers. Military draft and selective service: should women register?

Racism and racial discrimination debate

Can you be racist towards white people? Riley argues racism requires power differential (prejudice+power definition). Brian pushes back with standard definition. Extended back-and-forth.

Self-ratings (1-10 scale, no 7)

Viewer "Stiffler" asks guests to rate looks 1-10 (can't pick 7). Ava: 6.5. Riley: 8. Fern: face 8 / total 5. Madison: 5. Payton: 6.5. Guests rate Brian: Payton 7.2, Fern 4.5, Riley 4.5, Ava 6. Madison declines (has a boyfriend). Chat calls girls over-ranked.

Pay gap and women in workforce

Brian argues doubling the labor pool by pushing women into workforce lowered wages and caused cost of living crisis. Mating pressure from women (providers) explains wage motivation gap. Guests push back with general disagreement but limited counterarguments.

Bowing to your partner discussion

React to video of woman bowing to partner. Would guests bow for a boyfriend? Madison: yes. Payton: yes if good provider. Others: no. Brian contrasts willingness to have sex with strangers but not perform traditional acts of submission.

Twitter drama: Jake Shields

Jake Shields (MMA fighter) tweeted that Whatever podcast is designed to divide sexes and make women look dumb. Claimed Daily Wire is trying to buy the show. Brian reads his full response tweet pointing out Jake appeared on same format shows, denies Daily Wire acquisition talks. Also mentions Cernovich drama. Old drama (scammer update) deferred to another episode.

Transcript

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Lexiecommitment I think a guy you shouldn't ask him to like marry you well personally I'm just saying I'm not going to be like do you want to be my boyfriend so that's just me personally

Lexieand you said that because you think that's no like I just think that if you like me enough then you will ask and I'm showing you all the green flags of like I'm

Rileyinterested in you and all this stuff then yeah to what you're saying you're saying well if he doesn't ask and he doesn't like you that much so why and this is what you're saying so why would we push for something that if it's going

Brian Atlasto happen it's obviously going to happen if he likes you that much so why am I going to with a guy that doesn't like me that much beg for him to date me like Divine timing so when you say beg for the guy to date you it's not clear to me

Brian Atlasif asking a guy for commitment is begging but couldn't just apply the same logic to the male point of view so could like in a situation like

Brian Atlasfor example let's say you've been texting a guy and then maybe you both exchanged messages and then you start thinking and then he stopped texting you and then you start thinking and you

SPEAKER_00didn't double text like that maybe he even sent the last text yo One Motorsports donated $200 And1 B I have to roll out my be back

SPEAKER_00later why is the [ __ ] talking about relationships her only standard to be your girlfriend is the funds clear get before counter here with that she it you

Lexiewant to respond subscribe to my [ __ ] only fans it's on sale for $5 right now come see my Poopers okay all right grid One Motorsports uh thanks for tuning in man

Brian Atlashope you have a uh good night uh so couldn't the guy just say the exact same thing and then you're just in a total state salate but what I was trying to bring up is well what about a situation

Brian Atlaswhere cuz there's been girls who've been in a situation is like he hasn't texted me and then it's like well have you texted him and the girl's like nah and instead of one of you like

Brian Atlasinstead of just like taking it upon yourself to text him your pride gets in the way you don't text him he doesn't text you and then it totally Fizzles even though both of you could have

Rileywanted it but none of like neither of you were willing to just like reach out no and I completely agree with that honestly I'll double text if like cuz it comes to a point where it's like I don't

RileyI'm not going to ruin something that could be something because it's embarrassing as some would say you know I'm like I don't want to like I feel like on Tik Tok a lot of the stuff is do

Lexiethis to make him like you and sleep with his name under your pillow and all this [ __ ] and I'm not going to I'm not going to do it's weird like we're we're girls are being really crazy nowadays and it's

Lexielike I'm not I don't want to like be like I'm looking for a man and I don't wake up every day being like I'm on the hunt exactly for a man you know what I mean so it's like yeah

Paytonso I agree with what you're saying I don't agree with what you're saying I think there is a lot of things that go on on the internet in today's age that women are trying to do these witchcraft

Paytonor or you know mind games that will make the guy like you but like to your point earlier if a guy wanted to he would exactly you know what I mean so but but I also disagree with what you're saying

Paytonbecause I think that it does show initiative if the woman is saying Hey I want you this is what I want yeah if I like you you're going to know I am going to be consistent and persistent I said

Rileythat like if I want to have something with you I'm going to say that does the same apply to you yeah I would say there's no shame and I'm not going to try to act like I don't have feelings and stuff you know like I would say yeah

Paytonlike I would I'll make it clear I think that's what we're saying though like it definitely has to be reciprocated like like you said earlier if he asks for commitment you would be okay with it yeah but she did also say earlier that

Madisonshe wouldn't have the conversation herself no that's what I'm saying like you both have to try like it's like if a guy wants to he would but if you wanted to you would also

Rileyyeah but then there's always the way you can tell how a man feels about you and how that conversation's going to go and do I want to waste my time and hurt my feelings and have that conversation or

Rileydo I just want to let it go you know like I there's some maybe I will want it bad enough to have that conversation but if I know exactly like if I have a feeling how that conversation's going to go then why waste my time what do you

Rileywhat does he do exactly to like make you feel like you can tell how he feels I don't want to like go too much

Rileyinto detail about this situation to be honest you can be General yeah if you don't want to you don't have to say I don't want to go into detail just because like he's still in my life right

Lexienow so I'm not trying to air anything out right now Brian I have a question for you what sense so like when you meet a

Lexiepotential lady that you're maybe wanting to invest your time in do you just like when you meet her you're like okay this is wifey

Lexiematerial and this is just or she's not wifey material but she's just fun for the meantime is that like do you put girls when you meet them like in that

Lexiecategory of this is like a long-term relationship Material Girl or is this a girl that I'm just going to uh do the whole what what did you guys call booty

Brian Atlascall thing do you do that because I do that you do that I do that when I meet people I put them into a a category you know what I mean yeah I think I maybe operate a little differently than some

Brian Atlasmen on this but uh I'm not even interested if if a girl up front doesn't fall into the potential long-term potential girlfriend category not

Brian Atlasinterested I won't like even if I could have sex with her not interested so but she can be in that category but then like as throughout the pursuit I can be

Brian Atlaslike oh there's like red flags coming up there's uh difference of values whatever and then but it wouldn't be like she goes into the other category she goes into the I'm not talking to you anym

Brian Atlascategory okay but yeah so I mean as far as my vetting and screening for a girl I'm not gonna go out with a girl I'm not going to sleep with a girl that I'm I don't have long-term interest in so I have no interest in sleeping with a girl

Brian Atlasonce never seeing her again no interest like seeing a girl once or twice hooking up and then never seeing her again uh not worth my time so I love that doc

SPEAKER_00villy donated $100 the only men that can have multiple are the same men that can menstruate these gals spew the nonsense that passes

Brian Atlasfor Education these days God help us old yo doc good to see you in the chat man it's I haven't seen you in a while I think uh appreciate the TTS man I've

Brian Atlasit's exceedingly rare for I've heard some guys can not have a refractory period but to be charitable to them they were saying well it's not really that it's just their refractory there is a

Fernrefractory period but it's short then they can go 10 times a night that's a bit it depends anecdotal experience I L know someone who's gone six rounds like yeah

Rileypersonal I don't think I don't think any of us are claiming that it's like super common I'm staying on 10 like I have a friend personal in my life her her guy can go 10 I think that was her hand oh

Brian Atlasokay um wait but so just to go back to your question Lexi uh so there are guys in like who say this whole like

Brian Atlasrecreational use only so okay well she's not worthy of a long-term relationship but I'll [ __ ] her or she's not worthy of a relationship but I'll have sex with

Brian Atlasher for 3 months and just use her for sex I don't believe in the recreational use only category because the guys will make a lot of concessions for women in that category like former sex work high

Brian Atlasbody count promiscuity um I don't have the recreational use only category like some of the dudes you are no offense it's no use

Lexieonly yeah so I'm not you don't meet my standards to be in a relationship not even interested at all so uh but that's really rare you know that right like not

Brian Atlasa lot of guys are like that that's why I ask because a lot of guys do players aren't like that but I feel like normal like normal guys who just want a girlfriend but that is why maybe they

Brian Atlasthey're not going to pass up the chance for [ __ ] but I like I got decent I have decent dick discipline to the point where like like I've had only fans girls on the show that like want to like I'm

Lexienot but that's exactly what I'm say that with discipline you have enough self like sexual discipline to not do those things and like back to like what I do

Lexiefor work and stuff if men had more of what you have I would not be in business you know what I mean so it's like finding men that have that mindset is

Avareally rare because nowadays a lot of guys are just doing it recreationally like you said what what percentage of guys do you guys

Avaboth think um are looking for recreational fun with women versus men that are like Brian that just um want

Fernrelationships or like wife wife IM Material Girls I think it depends on age like college boys definitely don't really want anything serious and then when they get a little older they

Paytonit does depend on age but it I also think I think it depends on morals I think it depends on how a guy was raised if he's looking for a serious relationship not somebody just to have

Avasex with I think that's what it really depends on you know like irrelevant of age M cuz were were you guys saying was someone saying earlier that for men it's

Avalike they want sex and for women they ideally want a relationship they want like commit but like how many men

Avaactually do want sex as the ideal well I mean I think part of it

Brian Atlasis the men who are pressed for sex are definitely more likely to I don't know I'm trying to think the men who are pressed for sex are probably

Brian Atlasmore likely to sleep with women that they otherwise wouldn't be in a relationship with but then there's also player guys who aren't pressed for sex but it's like

Brian Atlasthey just Conquest that sort of just want don't want commitment or whatever but yeah I don't know not sure I have a

Rileyquestion for you how old are you 35 so yeah so you have that mindset right now which most 35-year-old men do but what were you doing when you were 20 were you

Brian Atlasjust looking for a girlfriend or were you sleeping around I've had I mean I've been relationship-minded most of my life

Brian Atlaseven when I was younger MH uh I perhaps was a little more casual when I was younger um but I never even when I was younger I never had an interest in like

Brian Atlasfor example I never had an interest in sleeping with a girl just once so I never had interest in one night stand um I just didn't see the point it was a

Brian Atlaswaste of time for me uh I always if I if I wanted to sleep with a girl I wanted there to be continuity I want wanted to continue seeing her um but did I when I

Brian Atlaswas younger I had um like some shorter term relationships that maybe lasted a few months um but always been fairly relationship

Brian Atlasminded even when I was younger so I actually encountered though when I was younger the women wanted the one i' stand so I I even encountered the situation where I was wanting something

Brian Atlasmore this happened maybe I don't know two times or something and she was like I was like hey let's hang out let's do

Brian Atlassomething and then she was like N I want to be a [ __ ] to put it to put it bluntly basically I mean uh so do you think that stems from anything like what

Paytonyou what you learned when you were growing up that made you realize that you don't want to be part of hookup culture or uh well I think one is so

SPEAKER_00how do I frame this well okay I'll come at it from two angles kilo of cereal donated

SPEAKER_00$100 single men out there stick to your purpose in life feel like you don't have one BS get out there and find an interest to latch on to good women will find you when you are focused on what

Brian Atlasyou love yo kill of Serial thank you for the TTS man I really appreciate it uh so to answer your question well even there's I guess two ways to look at this

Brian Atlasso even if you're motivation is sex I always thought to myself like the best sex maybe people will disagree I think

Brian Atlasthe best sex you're going to have is with somebody you're regularly seeing somebody you have a connection with somebody you have a relationship with someone you have a connection comfort with like if you sleep with a girl like

Brian Atlaseven if your motivation is like like you just want to have sex typically I don't think the first time you have sex with somebody is going to be the best time you have sex with that individual it can still be good but

Brian AtlasI mean first off as you get to know the person just speaking on a practical level you know what they like they know what you like you guys have each other totally figure out and wired you have a

Brian Atlascomfort with each other there's um there's a connection there and so even just looking at it on the SE level I was like and then well I mean if you want to

Brian Atlasfactor in like and then there's a the Comfort component is also like the risk of STDs too like if you're with one person they're with you like there's it alleviates some of the worry about uh

Brian Atlasyou know potentially STD if you're sleeping with a new girl uh every single weekend and she's doing the same it's like a little bit risk it's certainly risky um and then um what else trying to

Brian Atlaswhat was the sorry what was the question again like what was was there anything that led you to that anything that oh I remember the other thing and honestly it's just like at least from the guy's

Brian Atlasperspective it's just a as somebody who's been for pretty long time very focused on goals and stuff it's an absolute waste of time trying to like

Brian Atlasregularly Source like a new girl it's just a massive investment to like constantly be going on dates being on the dating apps messaging like a hundred different from chicks it's uh it's a

Brian Atlaswaste of time and it's I I think as a guy if you're with a really good girl uh and you're like focused on something like if you're entrepreneur trying to do

Brian Atlasa business whatever you don't have time to be wasting like talking to like juggling 10 different girls going on dates going on dating apps it's much better if you have a really solid girl

Brian Atlasthey're with you who's going to support you it's not it's not only going to free up time she's going to be able to help you like get to where you need to be if you have a good good girl though if

Brian Atlasyou're in a relationship with a chick she can absolutely [ __ ] your [ __ ] up too so you got to it's got to be the right girl right so if you are going to be like entrepreneur on your grind on your hustle you got to have the right girl or

Brian Atlasyou got to honestly you got to be have no girl single yeah I think otherwise it's going to be a distraction so um so anyway I don't know I don't know if

Brian Atlasthat answers your question it does thank you and uh yeah I mean the same thing for girls though if you get involved with the wrong dude he's going to [ __ ] your life up so that's why you got to you got to be very careful with your

Brian Atlastime and who you give your attention to cuz like the wrong person will [ __ ] your life up even a friend this is just general advice you get the wrong friend in your life he'll [ __ ] your [ __ ] up

Paytonmassively but a relationship that's another level I absolutely agree and I know I said didn't want to go into it but I completely agree because my

Paytonrelationship the longest one was when I was 13 to 20 years old and it was the worst of the worst that you can ever experience from a relationship and it

Paytonjust my whole basically childhood into adulthood was totally messed up by just choosing the wrong person to want to be in a serious long-term relationship with

Brian Atlasso I can totally agree with what you said word word word uh uh anyways let me get into some of the pre-show nodes oh yeah let's do

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Brian Atlaswhatever if you want to uh sign up okay thank you guys oh first question oh we have a reaction Nick could you pull up the thing we're going to react to it's a a tweet y it has to do it's the boring one I

Brian Atlasthink about yeah all right so Taran says men are so boring I haven't met a fun and interesting man in in so long I meet good-looking men who make great money

Brian Atlaswho are also very sweet but they're so boring I cannot be with a boring man so haven't met a fun and interesting man so long she meets good-look men

Brian Atlasgreat money very sweet so they treat her well but they're so boring uh going around the table have you had this experience or do you think she's off base I feel like boring people attract

Avaboring people probably uh I feel like haven't really had that experience sure maybe with the

Avamost attractive men that I've been with I will say like they can tend to have somewhat doer

Avapersonalities um but I still wouldn't consider them like boring I think probably her picker is just off if that's what she keeps finding okay what

Lexieabout you um I don't think I've ever had like a boring man I don't think I've ever had that be a problem in my life um I just want to say that that tweet was very like it didn't give much context to

Lexiewhat she was saying but like if you it's a mindset thing and if you're meeting men that are good-look and have great careers but you feel like they're boring

Lexiemaybe you're just not at that level of like being with them because maybe you just drink all day and go out every night and they got like priorities and like goals

Lexieand maybe your guys' goals and priorities are not aligning and that's where I can see it being boring but also then again like you're not choosing

Fernwithin your means I guess right mhm yeah what do you think I yeah I don't think I've ever been with like a boring guy or like someone that I've been interested

Paytonto has been boring I shockingly agree with Lexi in that I think if you are with a man that you think is good and then you find him boring you're not ready to settle down

Brian Atlasand it's what Ava said like maybe you're boring too like I feel like people boring people get bored would uh would you be with a can you pull the Tweet up back up really quick so she said not

Brian Atlasinteresting and fun I'm pretty sure that's what she said if you can pull it up really quick haven't met a fun and interesting man boring okay uh so would you be with a guy who's not fun who's

Avanot interesting and who's boring um I mean I feel like that's subjective but uh no I guess I wouldn't okay no I

Brian Atlasdon't keep anybody around in my life that's not so but I want to add a little bit to this they can be this person

Brian Atlascould be really good-look be a great person treat you well uh be stable job Etc good family whatever no red flags

Lexiebut they're not interesting not fun and they're boring I don't know if that changes the answer for you guys are completely like are you just saying like this person is like ever green flag but

Lexiethey're just in general boring like boring I mean I wouldn't be surrounded I don't surround myself around boring people so I probably wouldn't even if they're good-looking I'm not interested

Fernyou're not going to make me laugh like all my friends are funny mhm you know what I mean like what about you I just feel like yeah like I wouldn't be with them if they were boring no matter what even if they were attractive I would

Paytondefinitely date them and I think I could bring fun and excitement to their life and you know I could get them to go on vacations go out and just make their life more exciting for both of us I

Brian Atlascould convince them so I guess my question is I sort of already asked it but so would you rather be with a boring

Brian Atlasguy but there's never any conflict arguing or with a really entertaining fun interesting guy but there's constant

Avaconflict and arguing oh my God that's so such a difficult hypothetical because I feel like i' I've like one of my biggest

Avavalues in life would be like having or values when looking for a partner would be having somebody that like can bring fun and intellectual stimulation like just me personally that's something I

Avawould want um but I I honestly yeah over I I've been in a relationship where it's a ton of fighting and arguing and I definitely do not want to go back to that so I would choose a solid boring

Rileybut guy at the end of the day in that situation yeah what about you I think I just rather be single you have to pick though you had to pick you're okay I'd rather have fun

Rileysometimes and fight sometimes honestly because you'd pick the yeah cuz if you think about it you could be like well it's good most of the time yeah like how how toxic are we talking constant

SPEAKER_00constant so it would be like every other day arguing let's say the I I'll give you A9 donated

SPEAKER_00$100 should prostitution be legalized too expensive in Nevada limited geographically in Germany clubs

SPEAKER_00everywhere SX with hot girls equals $100 BJ equals $50 no tipping SL hustle men focus more on relationships uh should it be legalized

Brian Atlasthat's a good question that hold on we'll we'll get back to it we'll come we'll come back to that in a sec I'll write it down CU I want to get through this so uh so the breakdown

Brian Atlaswould be that it's for the really entertaining fun interesting guy but there's constant conflict arguing 50/50 so 50% of the time you're good 50% of

Brian Atlasthe time you're arguing conflict and then what's the other option so the other option is boring guy but but never any conflict arguing no cuz I'd rather just like as I

Rileysaid I'd rather be single but I have to choose if you had to choose yeah so um the first relationship that's not even a relationship you're not having fun if you're not having fun then what's the point so I'd rather have fun sometimes

Rileyand then fight the other times cuz at least I'm having fun because the other time you're not fighting but you're having no fun what's the

Lexiepoint okay what about you Lexi I value my piece so I will just I guess choose the boring guy all right what about you being in a really really toxic

Brian Atlasrelationship that was fun but toxic I would rather be with the boring guy the boring guy okay Maddie boring so did only you I think only you

Lexiepicked the uh okay hot SE that is interesting what about you I guess You' boring boring wait I want to ask the

Brian Atlaschat this actually chat what what's your answer to this so boring girl boring girl but never any

Brian Atlasconflict arguing or a girl who's really entertaining and fun and interesting but it's 50 50% of the time it's good 50% of the time constant conflict arguing so

Brian Atlasboring or uh enter fun all right boring no conflict entertaining fun

Madison50% of the time there's conflict boring what do you consider like boring though like I feel like I'm okay with boring if he's just like oh I just want to stay home and like watch if he's treating me

Brian Atlasboring sounds secure honestly boring sounds like security like you feel secure with that I saying I'm okay with that kind of boring like like he he has no Charisma

Brian Atlashe's a nice he's nice treats you well but like no Charisma he doesn't like excite you you guys have sex sex is good so he's just like talk like sex but like

Lexielike he just like doesn't really say anything like is he like mute like am I talking about my interest and he's like's very he he doesn't make you laugh

Brian Atlashe's he's going to be Bland he's a good guy does he have active listening skills he's a good guy God yeah he you guysen

LexieSK but it's very it's kind of he's a he's a good communicator but it's land as but he's listening to everything I'm

Lexiesaying though and he will listen to you proud yes I but yeah I guess we we just have boring sex I would SIM for that guy

Avawow I think it it depends like how much how much you have those factors fulfilled in your other relationships in life too like if you have friends that

Brian Atlasare really fun and entertaining I'm like then maybe it would be more tolerable I just wonder if this is a differ differential between men and women I

Brian Atlasdon't know if it's the case that like men will look to women to be their entertainment and fun but like women will look to men to be these like

Brian Atlasdancing monkeys to I don't think anyone I don't think anyone's saying that I think it depends on the woman but like okay here's the thing right so the I know you're saying well no I don't agree

Brian Atlaswith that but do you all want a guy who's funny who can make you laugh yeah yeah okay what percentage of man like how high on the totem pole is it

Brian Atlasfor a man for the man for you to make the guy laugh wait what guys don't yeah guys

Brian Atlasdon't care about we we look for different things true yeah that's true also but you are kind of looking to be entertained because every girl wants a guy who's funny and who can make them

Avalaugh I think in in any in any relationship in my like a friendship or a relationship I would want someone that has what I consider to be like a good

Madisoncharismatic personality don't care about that at all as a God I feel you guys care about being entertained are you kidding me of course they just

Madisoninteresting yeah you want you don't want someone that's just boring I maybe you I want a Bor I want boring but most but look if she's not Bor boring that's not

Lexieand she's a good person it's not like Terrible No I don't like personal it could be worse if you got a bland personality I don't really yeah I need

Paytonsomebody with a good personality there's a huge percentage of men that never look for their comedic relief or entertainment through the woman that

Paytonthey're withh just realistically yeah yeah I don't I don't need a girl to like make me like like would you like to talk to a w like tell me stories why not what's so fun in that

Rileydon't you want a girl that you can laugh with I hate similar like humor and stuff it's better if she has a sense of humor exactly that's what out well no no

Brian Atlasno but that's different so you sense of humor is she gets she gets that I'm being funny like if I she but but she's not allowed to make I don't give a [ __ ] if she's funny like I don't need to be

Avalaughing I feel like just because you want to be the funny one no I don't care I don't even need to be the funny I think that that is a general thing with guys I feel like you're right like I feel like I saw a study about that or something where like men when men say

Avathey want a girl that's funny and women say they want a guy that's funny a woman actually wants a guy that will make them laugh but a man he wants somebody that when he says he wants a funny woman they want her to laugh at his jokes that's

Paytondefinitely like I'm going to say a very specific experience for me personally but my father has told me many times s I'll be telling him a womanly story you know the type of Stories We Tell like of

Paytonthe day we had or anything and we try to tell a straight male about that story and they're like okay why do I care about this if it's not if it's just about your daily stuff they're not looking to be entertained by the things

Paytonthat you tell them during the day it's more you're just there you know what I mean well I don't want to be just there I want to guy to care about my St kill

SPEAKER_00of cereal donated $100 I think you missed my last 69 ttsb girls don't like to be bored Girls Just Want to Have Fun how far can Charisma

SPEAKER_00carry a relationship until the woman is tired of the same old Trope make me giggle let me see if there's any that came through that we

Brian Atlasmissed wait hold on uh one sec you missed the wait it's from who is

Brian Atlasthat killer yeah he sent in a 69 you missed what is the hottest thing you can ever oh okay we did miss a few I think wait did

Brian Atlaswe get the uh [ __ ] hold on I'll see if I can like change it up really quick and see if I can pull them up uh did he what was the question that he asked there he asked

Lexielike um one about the Bro the legalization no what was the one he just asked right now though women don't want to be bored mhm that's what he was

Lexiebasically I honestly would date a um a mute girl damn but that's like classic male you would have dated Helen gosh

Brian Atlasthat's a classic like male behavi I woulde wait was she blind too yeah she was blind and no I need a girl who can see so she can like do chores and stuff

Rileyoh okay classic you want a slave then you want a ma or a wife girl that does talk and gives you [ __ ] buy a pocket [ __ ] yeah slave sounds like a good I I

Paytonwould date a slave but the PE PE that you said pee pee I don't want to say what what you said Rel do dishes and clean the house and take care of the kids just to be clear just to be clear you don't want a girlfriend but you don't literally you

Brian Atlasdon't want a girlfriend you want somebody to just serve you you're expecting head do you think that women

Brian Atlaswho are mute aren't deserving of a ship it's the reason why cute of you to

Brian Atlasfreaking flip it like that Brian how cute of you to flip very uh able it's the reason why want to be with her I am willing I am such a nice guy that I

Brian Atlaswould date a woman who can't speak because I don't discriminate unlike you here that's not what talking about

Brian Atlasnot you're putting you're putting words into our mouth youut you did say if the woman was mute you should just get a a p that's wow

Rileyyou're canell I'm can I did not say that can't be canceled if you don't care listen she what I mean is is ASL okay so are you going to put in the effort to listen to what she has to say if she's going to write it down on a piece of

SPEAKER_14paper then or do you want to be Lear sign language oh my gosh but then how are you not going to learn sign language for somebody that's mute though are you going to tell her to dry

Brian Atlasthere's also Brian what would Point wait I I'll give her a whiteboard but Brian actually she I won't even give her a pen they'll just be stickers every M right

Lexienow fro to what would be the point of having a girlfriend if she can't talk to you or if she's not funny like I would hate waking up in the morning and turning

Lexiearound and seeing a girl or seeing a girl or a guy that like isn't funny no that isn't funny speak words into my mouth I said that

Brian Atlasisn't funny are that is so uncalled for the death Community is going to [ __ ] come after you bro going to come after

Lexiesaid not death I never said I said funny but anyways if they couldn't make me laugh I would be mortified like I could not that's s wake up in the morning

Paytonevery day but would you have a man that couldn't speak and would would you have them right write something down and would you be able to laugh if they said that's not what we were talking about though we were talk no you just said that to Brian that's the exact I did not

SPEAKER_00say that either I did not say that wait did this one come through I did not GMD Jim donated $69 I said if they weren't funny wait stop creating these did it are you 100% sure you also said the

Paytonwoman couldn't talk to he woke up he wouldn't have a woman that couldn't talk and I said what would be the point no he said he would that was taking away from the topic we

Lexiewere just saying that he would rather have her be mute just for the clearing I don't see it bro that she wouldn't be able to talk to him I don't know I'm sorry be you the question about the

Madisonhottest what was the question it was like what's the hottest thing someone can do to turn you on or something in public oh yeah yeah what's the hottest

Fernthing somebody could do in public that would like turn you on be a good person was that it yeah yeah that was it okay

Avasure you guys want to answer it go starting with you go ahead say like a a moral act you know just something that demonstrates that they're a good person

Brian Atlasokay um honestly I have no idea I don't have an answer to that H I don't know I wasn't paying attention yeah what is the hottest thing you can

Brian Atlasever see a man or woman do in the real world in society that it was a little different that would immediately turn you on to them a guy that takes care of his

Brian Atlashealth or a woman that takes care of her health hottest thing a woman can do in the real world or woman someone who smells really good or is like really

Brian Atlasgood at like a sport check this out a girl who plays cello really well like virtuoso

Brian Atlascello she can get it I mean that's sick as hell I don't know anyone that can play aello so specific yeah I once saw a girl who had a chello

Lexienow I I already know what's history she honestly she was the mouth That Got Away your search history must be crazy

Brian Atlaswhat cellos girls playing chello it's not the girl it's a cello uh so but kill of Serial asked how far can Charisma carry relationship until the woman is tired of the same old

FernTrope make me giggle how [ __ ] Charis I'm so confused by I would that's like it doesn't really make sense if he's charismatic like it's going to keep on carrying the relationship is it though

Brian Atlasyeah I mean I mean if he woke up with a charismatic guy after he [ __ ] your best friend he wasn't very charismatic he was not I wasn't speaking about you specifically but that oh Brian that was

Brian Atlascrazy that did happen to her [ __ ] a man or got [ __ ] by a man my best friend I don't know if you guys saw at the beginning of the show her boyfriend sort of is at the time

Fernoo had cheated on her with a man no not cheated on me we weren't talking at that time you you were on a break I think so I don't know the specific time okay and

SPEAKER_00then going back to this one gig chat 69 donated $100 we're going to boost the TTS should prostitution be legalized too expensive in Nevada

SPEAKER_00limited geographically in Germany everywhere SX with hot girls equals $100

SPEAKER_00BJ equals $50 no tipping SL hustle men focus more on relationships word uh so guys we are going to bump the TTS to 200

Brian AtlasReed will be 100 though uh Reed will be 100 TTS 200 shop pop champagne if we do um if we do two champagne pops we have two more champagne bottles I will show

Brian Atlasyou the 20 the video of 23-year-old Brian when actually not no no no no no I'll do for a different CH I I retract the offer offer retracted and it's a Bitcoin to shave your

Brian Atlasbeard uh an entire Bitcoin one Bitcoin to shave my beard oh my God one Bitcoin if any anybody wants to buy

Brian AtlasKiki you can literally buy her I W like not like her not we won't buy like another one and give it to you somebody

Brian Atlaschewed off her knees though chew them off is crazy and it will be signed by by me Madison and if Andrew's here by Andrew

Brian Atlasbut I he might not be here so who knows we'll sign it for you so signed Kiki right over there so uh let's see where were we where were we oh should prostitution be

Fernlegalized ah tough one I feel like if it was it would make it safer yeah are we all giving an answer or just it's safe why

Brian Atlasnot if it's done safely though yeah it's gonna happen like it's yeah it's happen I don't think here's the thing I don't think prostitution is good no offense Lexi I don't think it's I never take

Brian Atlasoffense to anything you say Brian thank you Lexi appreciate it I don't think it's good but when it comes to the prostitution I don't know definitively

SPEAKER_00if I have a position on uh hail and well met graphito tag donated $200 and2 sense do any of you girls believe in that

SPEAKER_00manifestation BS do you believe you have some Supernatural ability to manifest your desires into reality I think most men will agree that's a huge red flag

Paytonjust manifest Queen can we speak on don't believe that speak on the one before before we say that an answer to that [ __ ] the prostitution yeah yeah go ahead I got to get up so go ahead I'm going to have a

Paytonhot take and I think that prostitution porn nudity online and General should all be illegal and I think that would help

PaytonSociety a lot more than what it's like now why would it help because it would make it illegal so if you were I feel

Paytonlike besides that the internet in general has completely ruined our society then on top of it all the nudity there's been porn addictions there has

Paytonbeen people cheating throughout that sounds like their fault but making it addicted to it but if it was illegal but making it illegal wouldn't stop people from doing it anyways

Madisonthey're at all have you prohibition think that making it legal would make people do it a lot more yeah probably like un do you think that's a good thing I don't think it's a good or

Rileya bad thing it's just a thing you know it's it's a part of it's not really having an opinion on it's just a part of our day-to-day life someone's going to cheat going to cheat either way like are talking about like prostitution yes

Avaprostitution cheating I mean I like I get your sentiment the cheating and like I feel like it's I can see why you think that and like I definitely can understand where you're coming from but

Avaat the end of the day like when something is made illegal like that like it's just going to create working conditions that are more dangerous um working meaning prostitution yeah that and like that's

Avawhy I would be in favor of it but then also I mean I don't know like just logistically I just feel like that's a pretty wild thing to do like our prison systems are already yeah there would be a bunch of hookers in

Paytonprison I mean and yeah like the Thirsty dudes and I'm like I don't know sometimes you see like the societies that are more put the men that are trying to get prostitutes also in prison yeah so it would go both ways it's not

Paytonjust I'm not just saying that any of the women that are prostituting would just get jailed I'm saying men that are seeking prostitutes would also be jailed yeah yeah yeah I don't know some so I think it goes both ways I'm not just

Paytonsaying oh all prostitutes jailed I'm saying anyone that is seeking that out when it was made illegal they would both go to jail yeah just think logistically that's wild and like and um just I don't

Avaknow in societies that are more like conservative and repressed and stuff like it gets to the point where it's like mhm actually no I'm not even going to go there I'm not going to go there okay and then there was the one do you

Lexieany of you girls believe in manifestation no any manifestors I feel like it's a mindset so when you're believing to like

Lexiemanifest a good career or a good lifestyle you implement that into your every day to day and it's like yeah yeah I agree you say you're going to wake up and have a good day that's you manifesting you're going to

Lexiehave a good day you know what mean manifestation isn't like you doing like some hocus pokus [ __ ] it's just being like do you believe in like the magic of it that there's no I just think that just like when you like think that those

Paytonthings you like start acting towards it more you're speak into exist I'm surprisingly again going to agree with Lex that if you believe in yourself and you believe that you can do something

Paytonthen you'll do it I don't think the manifesting and writing it down and doing all that is going to do anything for you but if you believe in yourself then you can do whatever you believe in

Avaagreed manifestation [ __ ] good times I believe in prayer there you go Maddie I mean there's kind of setting intentions I mean I mean at

Fernleast when I pray I kind of just like yeah like I wish for like good health and stuff for my family but I mean I wouldn't really like say that I'm like I pray for like a big you know what I mean I don't really like pray for like a big house or

Brian Atlasanything but I pray for things yeah exactly for material things exactly yeah all right Graff is that actually L paladins did he change his name or I

Brian Atlasthink he's to Paladin let go well like he anyways what uh thank you man for the messages so let's see here we have do we

Brian Atlashave no not Ashley Ava we have Ava uh you said you have no crazy date stories but your friends and I got approached by an old

Brian Atlasman at the nude beach who bought our panties for $100 each what yep so fire uh panties at the beach how old were you

Brian Atlasguys oh we were young we were young like what adult or yeah oh oh adult okay okay yeah

Avastill weird as [ __ ] uhhuh yeah how old how old was this guy this guy he was a boomer for sure 50s 60s no he was

Avatotally dressed yeah mhm how I can tell you the story so basically we were all in our like

Avaexploratory adventurous phase you know me and my friends are kind of like hippie whatever and so we decided to go

Avato the nude beach and when we were there we were all sitting and I still like stayed in like you don't have to take off your any everything to like be at

Avathe N Beach like you can be fully clothed whatever but you're allowed to and um one of my friends had her top off and then she was like looking at like her swim bottoms and examining them I

Avaguess like she thought she had like a period stain or something and this guy walked by and like she was embarrassed when he saw that she was doing that but then later we're talking and he comes up and he comes up to us and just says hey

Avaby the way like I swear I never do this but that was that really turned me on seeing you her bottoms were off or on they were on yeah and I guess he's

Avasaying that he never does it but really turns him on and he would be willing to pay her for the panties and um We At

Avafirst she was like no but then we were like well for how much and he first like said 50 and then she like got him to go

Avaup and then eventually he said listen I'll give you guys each

Ava$100 if you give me your panties and so I'm I'm like like bik who would say yeah the bikini bottoms yeah I'm like who

Avawould say no to that called them panties when he said it I I I mean it was a very long time ago I don't remember he like watch you guys take him off and get no so he actually left and drove to the ATM

Avato like get cash out and we went in the car and and then like I felt I actually felt bad because one of the pairs like like cuz we had just gone swimming like

Avathere wasn't even cuz I I'm like I feel like dudes by pantties so they can sniff them so we like we got one we got one of

Avaour friends who like she like like you know we rubbed the it yeah it it was [ __ ] nuts dude cuz we wanted to give

Avahim a bang for his buck oh gosh so that was like the way were just like uh-huh yep yeah you've never you've never I

Avamean back then like if you go up to like an 18-year-old you're like I give you a hundred bucks like and this was five five or six years ago

SPEAKER_00like I don't know wait one of the girls was on her Dot and well met grao tags donated

SPEAKER_00$22 no this isn't Global paladins it's formerly Nam taken I like profito tagged as a username a little better it's a Simpsons

Brian Atlasreference you're Ste in his his TTS trigger grao uh thank you man appreciate it so wait say that one more time ah

Brian Atlaswhat specifically so okay he he was like I saw that your girlfriend was on her period he saw that she was like in like inspecting her panties wait but she was

Avaon her she thought she was like spotting like sometimes women will I mean I don't remember the specifics of it but is that why he woned the penties cuz she was yeah I guess he wanted to like sniff themg I've seen it on I remember I've

Brian Atlasseen orange is a new black and there was a season where they like had a pant selling ring so wait you sold so you did this though you sold for the one time

Avafor the one time you're for apparently so yeah sold your panes for uh I'm like but like hon and our friends not just her okay who would not do that I

Paytonwouldn't sell my underwear for a 100 bucks can I say one thing yeah I've had people people message me I'm a streamer and I've had people message me asking for things and I tell them that's

Paytoncompletely disrespectful yeah I'm not doing that or I laugh at them I think it's just kind of the ab but also in person the absurdity of being in person being a

Paytonyoung if you were really young also I like I can't lie if I was very young and some guy came up to me and they're offering me $100 at the time if I wasn't

Paytonthinking I might have done it too but yeah to also for that guy yeah who is he there with is he asking every woman at the beach to do that what is he doing with it afterwards that's what I would

Avathink about yeah pretty crazy I mean yeah um so I like to I don't know it's weird cuz like on the internet like if somebody messaged me that on the

Avainternet I would be like like it feels different like I would be like yeah that's I don't I don't know feel like him like sniffing it afterwards I just

Brian Atlaswanted to do it and I'm like just I don't want to hear see again but now I have everyone involved it's kind of a whole weird pretty weird obviously the dude's super weird but guys do that they

Avado it's a big thing yeah guys do very weird there's many guys that but I've never done it it's really weird yeah uh AA is it Ava or Ava how do you say Ava

Brian AtlasAva yes you said men should pay on the first date other things I can't think of about the T my head uh oh you wanted to mention that Desiree is

Brian Atlascrazy okay well she's crazy yeah you're right uh you said men should pay on the first date why actually wait before we have you do that uh who who should pay

Fernon the first date who do you think um you seemed pretty Keen I don't know I mean I always come prepared to pay for my half yeah so I mean if it's

Fernlike a first date I would expect to go 50/50 I don't at this stay age I don't expect the guy to like pay on the first date okay what about you I would say it depends on how it was asked cuz like even if I invite a friend out to dinner

Rileylike let me take out take you out to dinner for your birthday or whatever obviously I'm going to pay for it so if the guy is like let me take you out then I would expect that let so let's dive into it a little bit so you've been seeing a guy for 6 months you've been

Fernseeing a guy for eight months do you guys go out to get food sometimes we've gone like yeah like fast food we've gone in the whole time I mean oh man you're the you're the side

Fernchick oh no I you're H she's happy with being the side chick I'm I know you're booty call then right I mean yeah I've only got one time with you okay no we'

Brian Atlaslike sh I mean like our first date we went to the pier and got food no we just hung out it was like 12 we just hung out that's it and then what about you this guy you've been seeing for 6 months how

Brian Atlasoften have you eaten with him probably like four times damn yall side chicks maybe not I think we're aware yeah don't got to I mean cuz you see him

Rileyfour times a week and you've been seeing him for not every week there could be a week that I don't see him but like average sure but y'all don't eat so you just basically come over and [ __ ]

Brian Atlasbasically no like what if we eat at home oh I mean that does that count sure oh wait once still there you go hey I appreciate the honesty well when you say eat at home like you'll get take out

Rileythat yeah that counts cook okay how did yall cook um I don't know probably like I don't know probably I don't like

Rileyone time more than once like I've definitely cooked for him a few times at his place he doesn't cook I've gotten a [ __ ] cup of noodles who should pay on the first date I changed my mind I think

Paytonwomen should always pay the whole thing yes every time hot is this one if you're like sarcastic like are you just saying that for like rage B

PaytonI think it would be um very feminist if women would always pay and women Would S and women would make the first move I think that would change society and it would be very feminist for all of

Rileysociety that wouldn't be feminist because feminism is equality yes wait is it that part of feminism yes feminism is reaching for equality so though I would

RileySayer yeah it is I would say if you were going for to be very feminist I would say switch every time he pays l that's fair I promise the chat I will come back

Brian Atlasto the feminism is about equality thing but for now we need to we need to get through the notes and talk about the who pays for Stuff um so did you answer the question or you

Brian Atlassaid you think men should pay wait but so question uh you four are bisexual oh should men pay for First Dates I pay for First Dates sometimes

Brian Atlasbut should men pay for first States no okay fine uh all four of you are bisexual bigger deal if a man wants to split as compared

Brian Atlasto a woman wanting to split no it's a little different because you're by right like you you date women but so you say men should pay on first dates so how do you work that out

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