She Dated DRAKE?! Gold Digger?! $5,000,000/Year To Date Her?! Prison Dating?! | Dating Talk #259

Date: 2025-09-08

Duration: 8h 18m

Guests

Brian Atlas

CChloe (Mercedes)>

KKylie (Gap Year)>

BBailey (Drake)>

EErica (Oregon)>

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_03Erica (Oregon)(guest)

SPEAKER_04Alex (TTI)(guest)

SPEAKER_05Arada(guest)

SPEAKER_06Kylie (Gap Year)(guest)

SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_09Chloe (Mercedes)(guest)

SPEAKER_11Gati(guest)

SPEAKER_12Bailey (Drake)(guest)

SPEAKER_14Queen D(guest)

Key Moments

IntroAll guests introduced. Bailey claims Drake twin flame.

Key MomentBailey: identified Abraham Lincoln and Teddy Roosevelt reincarnations who wanted to date her

Key MomentChloe: ~70-100 sugar daddies, $300K total. 75yo sponsor paid $80-85K.

QuoteBrian calls Chloe 'basically a prostitute'

ControversyArada demands $5M/yr minimum and 6'2" minimum height

Key MomentWrestling match challenge: Arada vs producer Nick after she claims women as strong as men

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

Including Bailey who claims Drake is her twin flame and identifies reincarnated presidents.

Sugar Dating Deep Dive

Chloe's 70-100 arrangements, $300K total, 75yo sponsor.

Self-Ratings and AI Photos

Ratings, aging photos, gender swap.

Income/Height Requirements

Arada wants $5M/yr and 6'2". Bailey wants $1M.

Bear vs Man

Most choose bear. Brian draws racism parallel.

Body Count Round

Chloe 50+. Gati ~40. Arada 13. Erica 7.

Transcript

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Kylie (Gap Year)>> Um >> I mean you said he got you flowers, but what what else? >> He you know buys me food. We go out. Um I helped him decorate his room. Um we went thrifting a while and then you know

Brian Atlaswe just actually like we'd actually like go out and talk and have fun. like a normal relationship would be. >> So, are you guys Well, okay. You've been single for two weeks, but there's this

Kylie (Gap Year)one guy in the picture. Uh, in this twoe period, any other guys in the picture? >> No. >> No other guys? You haven't like gone out on a date or hook up or anything? >> No. But where I live, like a few guys

Brian Atlashave hit on me, but um I didn't really want to do that. >> Okay. And so, what are you looking for right now? Are you thinking maybe this guy you could end up boyfriend girlfriend or you trying to keep things um

Kylie (Gap Year)>> a little more casual? >> The guy I'm not sure with because again I've been single for two weeks and so I feel kind of guilty moving on too fast but again I don't feel like super sad

Kylie (Gap Year)about the breakup. >> Um even though I was sad for a little bit like you know I don't know I expected it to happen since February and um but I don't know uh we have talked about that. We we just said we'll see

Queen Dwhere it goes. >> Got it. Okay. What about you? >> Um I am currently single. Um my longest relationship was probably

Queen Dtwo almost 3 years. Um that was like during co so I was like maybe turn I was 19 turning 20 at the time.

Queen D>> Okay. Um, and then I had another relationship after. Um, but then that one ended, I believe, beginning of March of this year.

Queen D>> Got it. And so So you've been single for two years, you said, or >> I I was Well, I'm I'm I've been single

Queen Dofficially for like six, seven months now, but Okay. >> Uhhuh. >> All right. Uh, what about you?

Arada>> Oh, um, I'm currently single right now. Um, my longest relationship has been for about a year. Um, >> how long you been single for?

Arada>> So, I kind of had a thing over the summer for like a month at the start of the summer. >> Mhm. >> Um, but I had to dump him low key. >> Why is that?

AradaSo I feel like he just wasn't stepping up enough like financially wise. So I had to like just I couldn't Yeah. >> And so you were seeing him for how long? Just a month. >> A month.

Brian Atlas>> And so this was maybe what two months ago that you >> Yeah. >> Okay. So for two months. >> Have you been dating anybody else? >> No, I have not.

Arada>> Any other situations prior to him? >> Um dates? I've gone on dates. >> Okay. Uh, I wasn't really interested in a lot of them. So, >> so you'd go on one date, that would be it.

Brian Atlas>> Um, yeah. >> Okay. This guy you were seeing in the summer for 1 month, you said that he wasn't stepping up financially, how old was he?

Arada>> Um, so he was 23. >> 23. Okay. And you're 18. >> Yeah. >> Uh, when you say he wasn't stepping up financially, what do you mean? So, I felt like I don't know, previously my

Aradarelationships like they just stepped up more financially. Um, especially since he's like 23, I expected him to like, you know, just buy me more stuff, you know, >> buy me more stuff. Well, um, would he pay for dates?

Brian Atlas>> Of course. >> Oh, of course he Okay, so he would pay for dates. >> Yeah. >> Um, but you guys were only together for a month. So, what were your expectations in terms of

Aradawhat he should have been buying you? >> So, like I sent him a picture of the Chanel bag that I wanted and he didn't like buy me it. So, I just thought

Brian Atlas>> you're so full of [ __ ] You're so full of [ __ ] Is this true? >> Yes. >> Oh, no. >> I don't I don't know. I feel like you're just doing a bit, but um

Arada>> No. Like I I feel like if a girl is sending you something like, "Oh, this is this bag is so cute." Like, why is it not at the front of my doorstep the next day? >> How long were you? I know you're

Aradatrolling. >> I know you're like a Chanel bag is like pretty expensive. >> No. No, it wasn't. It was like probably It was like 2,000. >> He's 23, bro. >> Yeah.

Arada>> What What did he do for work? What did he do for work? Um, he was like, it was something with business. I don't know. >> Something with business. >> I don't know what he does. He does like >> So, literally anything. >> I don't know. >> Something with business.

Brian Atlas>> I didn't really ask. >> He's either janitor of a business or the CEO of a business. >> Uh, you don't you didn't ask him. The guy you did for a month, you didn't know what he did for work. >> No. >> You wanted to buy you a $2,000.

Arada>> Yeah, that's kind of >> I feel like that's besides the bag. What else should he have done? Um, I mean I would say he did a decent amount. I think just like the financial part I feel. >> How much do you think he spent on you

Aradatotal? >> Total? >> Yeah. >> Um, I don't know. We went on a, you know, went on a date like at least once a week. So maybe like 200 per date. And

Aradathen >> Yeah. Did you guys hook up? >> No. >> No. >> Mm-m. No. Is he also Ethiopian Orthodox Christian? >> No, he was white. I don't know what kind.

Brian Atlas>> Just white kind. Okay. >> Um, and you were uh Okay. Um, what did the girls think on the panel? Like 23-year-old guy talking dating this girl

Brian Atlasfor a month. >> Were you guys like >> should he be $2,000 for a bad boy? >> Yes. Labeled boyfriend girlfriend >> in a month. >> After a month. >> Yeah. after a week, like I'll know if I

Aradawant to date you or not. Like, I'm not waiting a whole month. Like, I'm not going to be in a talking stage for like >> Uhhuh. >> 3 4 weeks and then like we've already done all the boyfriend girlfriend stuff

Gati>> in a week or like >> Yeah. Well, I mean, if you have a vibe with him, like I understand like if there's like chemistry, you know, cuz I've had times where I'm like, "Oh, I like, you know, I like him, you know, but

Gati>> obviously like if she wanted that, then it's okay to ask for it, right?" But, >> but there's a difference from expecting him because now you see where he's coming from

Arada>> and it's like, okay, he's obviously not able to do that. If that's something that you want from someone, then look for someone that actually, you know, >> I mean, he would spend a lot of his

Brian Atlasmoney on like sports betting and all of that. So, if you can put your money >> Hold on. Sorry. Could you repeat the thing you said about how it's okay for her to ask for a $2,000

Gatibag? >> I mean, yeah. I I think it's okay if >> Have you done that? Have you asked >> No, I I haven't. You know what? Um, I've asked for things, but I don't think I've asked for like a $2,000 bag like

Gatistraight up in like the first month. So, that's why I think I think it's crazy that you did that, but I feel like if that's something you want, you like, then why not, you know? And then, >> you know, there's a guy out there that will actually give it to you if he

Bailey (Drake)really likes you. >> I've had situations where they like, you know, >> they will give me it because they really love me. >> I'd like him to like if you find Drake, he might give you one. There you go. >> You sent him the text. >> I really like you.

Arada>> Yeah. >> He gives him right away. >> Yo, get her phone. I don't believe this [ __ ] >> Send me the text message. >> Oh, blocked. Removed. >> My parents looked through my phone like

AradaI cannot have anything inappropriate in there. And I was at >> Tell us what you wrote in the message. >> So, I was like, first I screenshotted the Chanel bag online. And you sent him

AradaI sent him. I was like, "Oh my gosh, this bag is so cute." I didn't ask him to get me the bag or anything, but obviously like like if I'm dating you, like, you know, I feel like you should understand me. You know, you know, I want that back.

Arada>> That sounds more like a sugar daddy than a boyfriend. >> Yeah, it really does. And it's really hypocritical that you didn't even like care to know what job he had, but you want his money. Like >> I don't want his money. I just feel like it's expected.

Gati>> It shouldn't be expected. >> He just has a um what is it like the love language? Like you just like >> gift giving like that. We need a Leo. >> There you go. Like I feel like it's just the type of person you ask, you know?

Brian Atlas>> But like >> I get it. The first month is like what the [ __ ] >> You want a guy to spend $2,000 on you within the first month. You got to bump way up the age you're willing to date.

Brian AtlasI'm talking 40 plus. >> Oh. Nobody under, unless he's a major s, nobody under 40 >> either has the money to do that or would be willing to is spending $2,000 on a girl they just met.

Arada>> Okay. >> You got to you got to pump those numbers up if you want to get that kind of treatment. >> Are were you like cleaning his house and doing his laundry and cooking him meals or you just being like, "Give me money cuz I'm your girlfriend."

Arada>> Um, I didn't ask him for money, but I wasn't doing any of that either. But you kind of were asking for him for money because you're like, "Get me this $2,000 purse." >> I didn't ask him to get me the bag. >> No, you were basically I was expecting Yeah, you were expecting it, which is

Aradaeven worse than asking and being told no. >> You were like basically trying to force that on him and be like, "Oh, you're a jerk if you don't buy it for me." But I didn't explicitly ask for it. >> You like hinted it. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. That's not really a hint. That's,

Aradayou know, >> Oh, go ahead. Go ahead. Go ahead. >> That's holding something over somebody's head. That's not a hint. M >> you're you're you're punishing him for not buying you something you want. >> So, what do you think I should have said?

Arada>> Not punish somebody for not wanting to buy you a $2,000 purse >> or get a job that did break up with him because he didn't >> I was going to say financially wise he

Brian Atlaswasn't stepping up enough. Who wants pizza? You got >> pizza. Pizza. So, one, two, three, four, five, six. But I was going to say like I feel like that probably just benefits

Alex (TTI)both of them because if she wants to be with someone who wants to get her a $2,000 bag, then them being broken up like helps because if he doesn't want to give it then he's just not going to give it. Like it's just like solves the problem. It's I don't think it's a

Alex (TTI)punishment to break up with someone over that cuz I feel like it just wasn't right for me. >> If I didn't want to give someone a $2,000 bag because they expected it of me and they broke up with me, I'd probably be like, "Well, >> yeah.

Gati>> That's not my size. that's not my person, you know, and I feel like I think I understand where you're coming cuz it's like what the [ __ ] Like why would you even ask that? But like >> I don't know. Like I think at the same time like >> if he really liked it, he would do it. >> I agree.

Chloe (Mercedes)>> I don't think it's cute. I think it's being materialistic and I think it's a red flag. >> I got a quick question. Do you have Chanel yourself? Like >> Yes, I do. >> Without asking him. You got a couple of Chanel.

Arada>> Yeah. So I make most of my money um reselling clothes. So I find like um like designer items um from thrifts, the

Aradabins everywhere. I go to markets as well, sell clothes and I get a lot of my money from there. >> So I do have >> Yeah, >> at least he should have a inspiration like impression of you

Arada>> that at least he >> should supposed to be provide for you otherwise >> agree. But what so how many times would you say you hung out with him? Um, we

Aradahung out a lot. Um, I would say uh, three, four times a week. I mean, I was >> Did you ever go to his place? >> Um, yeah, for like dates. >> Did you clean his house? >> No. >> Did you do his laundry? >> No.

Brian Atlas>> Did you cook for him? >> No. >> So, okay. Explain to me if a guy's going to be cuz you're saying men should do this, men should do that. The question

Aradato the panel is what should women do? I feel like before marriage, I don't think a woman should like do that much

Aradacompared to the man. I mean, I feel like us just being there like is enough. >> Mm- >> But why can't a guy say that? Okay.

Brian AtlasWell, prior to marriage, I shouldn't have to do XYZ. >> Oh, we go 50/50 till we're married. I'm not going to buy you anything till we're married. I'm not going to protect you until we're married. So explain to me,

Brian Atlasyou're saying men should do this, men should do that. And no, women don't have an issue saying men should do X, but the moment men say women should do this,

Aradawomen should do XYZ, whatever it is, you guys kind of have a problem with it. I'm asking you though, what should women do?

Arada>> Um, I think women should look cute. um you know be presentable for their man. Um

Aradayou know ju I feel like us just being in their presence is enough.

Brian Atlas>> Felicity just give it to them. Don't make them pass it. Um >> so okay so women shouldn't clean their their boyfriend's place? >> No. I mean >> women shouldn't do the laundry. Women

Aradashouldn't cook. >> I mean, >> do you know how to cook? >> Of course I do. >> So, why didn't you cook for him? >> I mean, I did have an experience where I did cook for one of my uh boyfriends, but I feel like I shouldn't have to do that before marriage. Like, it shouldn't

Brian Atlasbe required. >> This has to be a [ __ ] troll. I'm not sure I believe it, but >> Okay. >> Okay. Um, so I guess to the other women

Alex (TTI)on the panel, what should women do? I feel like we see >> I feel it. Oh, >> [ __ ] dot nothing. No, I think it's

Alex (TTI)just a matter of like what you individually agree on like for the relationship. >> Like >> she didn't even give him [ __ ] >> Well, okay. I like I think that it's just depends on like what you both want cuz there are some men that are cool like being in relationships with like

Alex (TTI)women who like don't do anything and like vice versa. I know there's some women out there that are completely fine with their men like not going to work and just driving around their car all day. So, I think it's really just a matter of like I don't think there's a

Alex (TTI)should or a shouldn't. I think it's just like whatever goes on in your relationship, like if that's what you agree on, then that's what you agree on. >> Don't you think that you should act like a wife if you're asking for wife

Alex (TTI)treatment? >> I think if you and your partner agree on whatever you think that that should be, then yeah. I mean, I think it's literally just an individual thing cuz some men are completely fine with their woman doing nothing. Like, literally.

Alex (TTI)>> I agree. And some men aren't. Some men want their like woman in the kitchen like doing whatever, which is like cool, but that's if you agree on that and that's the relationship that you consent to being in, then that's all you. >> So, how is she contributing to the relationship? And how does that not make her just a sugar baby?

Alex (TTI)>> I mean, it depends on what label they decide to put on it. If they want to call themselves like partners, then >> objective truth to that label. >> I think that label is objective. Objectively. >> Mhm. >> Like

Alex (TTI)>> if it's a matter of opinion. >> I don't know. Like what? Like what do you think? I mean, yeah. Like, I guess there's a like dictionary definition of a sugar baby, but in my opinion, from like what I understand from like women

Alex (TTI)that I know that have been in relationships like that, it's like like that's all they are. Like they wouldn't call each other partners because they're not, you know, like going home to each other every night. They're not like, you know, they don't

Alex (TTI)have a ring on their finger cuz that's not what they want for each other. But it's like if my husband is paying for everything all the time and I don't have to do anything, I mean, that's still my husband. It's not my sugar daddy because I'm married to him and I'm in love with him. I'm not with him only for money.

Alex (TTI)>> Yeah, but that's marriage. That's not just dating. That's marriage. That's not just dating. >> Well, same thing with dating. I mean, I like in my for me at least, I don't know. I date to like be with that person long term. Some people don't. And again, it's all what you agree on like

Aradaindividually. >> Yeah. I think um sugar baby, sugar daddy relationships are usually strictly lust. >> Yeah, I agree. Exactly. and we didn't

Aradahave sex >> versus like a relationship where the woman just does nothing. Just a relationship where she does nothing.

Arada>> Not really. Sugar baby. >> What was the argument?

GatiYou guys are all eating so we can't really talk. >> Let me ask you >> well about that. Like um like should women do stuff? I feel like I feel like

Gatiif he's doing a lot for you, like yeah, why not? You know, take care of him. Like, you know, like a lot of men, they want to talk. I mean, I feel like they're just like us, but just, you

Gatiknow, obviously they're men. Um, but I believe if you if he's taking care of you, why not take care of him? You know, like >> bring him food or, you know, give him a

Gatigift sometimes. Like I feel like that's I like that because I think it's just like reciprocation and like reciprocation is good. Like you always get like good karma, you know? So >> um

Gati>> it just be a healthier relationship. >> Yeah. Exactly. Yeah. And like honestly I >> Yeah. I don't think it's good to just keep taking from people. I don't think that's like the necessary. But if that's

Gatiwhat you want and out of a man now, it's like we were saying, it just shows exactly like >> um it just shows exactly what you want out of him. And if he's not giving you

Aradathat, then okay, then you can move on to the next and find one that is willing to do that for you. >> Yeah. Teach their own. Personally, I like doing nice things for my partner. I like making sure they're taken care of

Alex (TTI)and such. >> Like for clarity, I don't feel that way. It's just more so of like it's an individual thing. I feel like Yeah, like I was saying, like you can't put a label on like someone is wrong for doing

Alex (TTI)something if both like partners are okay like agreeing and consenting. I still I feel like morally like you know I don't know I think that it's important to like reciprocate love even like I mean for

Alex (TTI)example like I feel like a lot of people get hurt or like cheated on in relationships and like done really dirty over and over and then they end up like projecting that onto other people that they end up dating aren't doing that

Alex (TTI)>> and like that's problematic because that person didn't do anything to you. I think like internal healing and stuff is important, but >> and that's yeah, that's the thing that sucks because I think a lot of people don't have like don't take the time to

Gatiactually heal and like actually, you know, want to, you know, think about what went on in the past because I know I've done things where I'm like, damn,

Gatilike I [ __ ] up. But like I had to take the time to be like, "Okay, I need to like look at myself in a way instead of like going on to the next guy and trying to like bring that on to him because,

Aradayou know, he doesn't deserve it obviously." So >> I just think it's really manipulative and deceptive to say that somebody needs to bring this much money to a relationship, but you're bringing absolutely nothing of value except for

Bailey (Drake)maybe a pretty face. >> What do you bring to the table? I guess question for everyone. Although you are in school to become a anthologist, but I guess maybe it's not that you're I think you just need to like

Arada>> I make my own money too and I make a good amount like for an 18-year-old like that has no support from their parents. >> I make a decent amount if I'm able to buy myself these things. I also expect it from my partner. >> That makes sense. And since you're into fashion a lot >> Oh, yeah.

Arada>> And it's like one of your love languages. Yeah, that makes sense. >> I think it's going to make I think it's going to make it that much harder for you to find somebody who meets your standards because you make so much money. So, it's going to make >> so much. But, I mean, I would say for an 18-year-old,

Arada>> right? But if you just look at like statistics around like the available men, it's it's going to be really hard to find that guy. >> Yeah. >> Because why? >> Not impossible. >> It's really rare to find a guy who need a lot of money, especially in that like

Bailey (Drake)age range. >> I'd say a Leo or an older man. Just that's why I don't know. A lot of Leos like to gift a lot and then older men as well. But you are young, so just slow and steady. You have time. You have plenty of time.

SPEAKER_10Just go for some old guy. >> Just kidding. >> Or someone that really likes you. >> True. >> I've had men that really like me and they just would give me whatever. >> Exactly. So, >> you're right. You might find someone your age. Yeah.

Arada>> Well, what age range do you typically go for? >> Um, over at least two years older than me. >> So, you're 18? >> Yes. >> We're only 18. I didn't know that about you.

Arada>> Stop. >> We're friends. We're friends. Um, yeah. I I agree. It would be pretty difficult to find someone who's loaded at 20 years old, but you never know.

Arada>> I'll be rooting for you. >> I'll be rooting for you. >> But, um, I asked, "What do you bring to the table?" Like, >> we are everyone. >> I feel like we are the table. >> Like, they should bring everything to

Bailey (Drake)us. >> I like that. >> Yeah. >> Are you being silly? >> No. maybe bring like a little bit more like wanting to get to know them, but other than that, >> but I feel like it shouldn't be expected

Aradafrom a woman to be the provider. Yeah. >> You know, they should provide the things to the table. >> We are the table, >> but then you're not like contributing to his life like at all and he's not benefiting from being with you like at all. >> I'm sorry. Are you talking about my

Aradaprevious um relationship? >> Yeah. So, at that point, couldn't he just like not date and like do whatever he wants and then benefit more? >> Of course. That's why I broke up with him. >> Exactly. So, he's he's doing better now.

Arada>> Okay. That's that's you did him a favor. >> Yeah. >> Um Yeah. I actually hate that question. What do you bring to the table? I think it's I >> strange to ask if you're like casually dating someone. It's different if you're

Aradalike, "What do you bring to a serious relationship?" But to be like, >> "What are you bringing for me?" It's kind of um feminine, I think, to expect to be provided for as

Arada>> I don't know. I think you can expect certain things from a partner. Like what do you think you guys have to offer? Like certain characteristics. I guess that's more like my question. Like what do you bring to the table? Like what

Aradapositive characteristics can you exclusively give to your partner or share with I feel like I don't know. I

Alex (TTI)don't know. Like I talk about this with my friends. I think like I don't know how to word it. There was like this one video I saw one time where this girl was like I breathe life

Alex (TTI)into you, bro. Like I she's like I'm not like these other [ __ ] Like my like she might not be as wet, but like I swear like I'll breathe I'll breathe life into you, whatever. And I was like okay like period kind of straight away

Alex (TTI)from the point. But like that vibe of just I feel like like I'm going to love you to like my fullest extent. Like regardless of what I've been through or like what I've experienced, I'm always going to try and like I mean do the like relationship things, but like to that

Alex (TTI)fullest extent where like I'm going to communicate with you. Like I know that sounds silly, but like legitimately like when I'm having a hard time and I'd rather shut down, I'm going to like make that effort to talk to you and like be like, "Hey, just letting you know like I'm really like feeling like shutting

Alex (TTI)down right now. I'm feeling like this." or you know when I'm not feeling heard communicating that like doing the things that make me uncomfortable so that we can both benefit from the relationship cuz I think that's kind of what you were talking about is like

Alex (TTI)you know like when you're talking about like what are you bringing to the table that's more for a serious part partnership but like legitimately when you're talking about like being with someone long term I feel like that is something that's important to talk about like you know >> I agree >> like are you putting in the effort to communicate with me like when you're

Alex (TTI)having a hard day are you just going into the room and like shutting the door are you like sitting down and talking with me and let me know Hey, work was hard. Like, it's not about you. I just need some space. Like, things like that are super super important. And those are like the little things. You know what I mean?

Alex (TTI)>> Like the communication. I agree. >> Or like texting someone. Like, that's such a little thing that I feel like men are like especially really bad about or they just like like I just forgot or I

Alex (TTI)was just busy or like dude takes 5 seconds. Hey Siri, send a message. Hey, just thinking of you. >> Is it like an ick if a guy is a bad texter? >> Yes. >> Really? >> Yes. And it's because it's literally

Alex (TTI)like that low effort of a thing cuz I hate texting. Like that's part of why it's like I I hate texting. I suck at it. I'm better at picking up the phone to call. But yeah, like if you can't just like, "Hey Siri, me like, "Hey, just thinking of you like once a day."

Alex (TTI)Like if I'm getting like two messages from you, like it's just such a minimal effort thing. It's like part of why. Or if you know you're going to be like slammed that whole day, like if you have 5 seconds, just be like, "Hey, I've been absolutely slammed. Like I'm probably not going to be on my phone for a couple

Alex (TTI)hours. Like just let me know." You know what I mean? Like it's such a little little thing. I feel like if you can't do that then it's like >> come on. >> Is it an ick if a guy is bad at spelling like on >> bad spelling

Alex (TTI)>> or if he uses too many emojis? >> So it depends on like the context. I feel like I don't know how y'all feel, >> but if a guy's like your

Queen D>> that dude they're there and theirs and the wrong your and your and the wrong two and two. Those will get me. And if the word is like it they spell it like without just one letter like why why why

Alex (TTI)not spell >> out? But is it like a deal breaker? Like you're going to >> it's not a deal breaker. It's just really annoying. >> Yeah. I don't like when like someone's like I love you with like a u or like just love. >> It has to be u you.

Alex (TTI)>> I don't cuz like how much longer it's again one of those like loweffort things like how much longer does it take to type out two letters? Like come on. Like >> I guess I never really thought too much into it. Yeah, I'm not a good texter, honestly.

Alex (TTI)>> See, like that's where I'll give you like the pass is like whatever. Cuz it's like there's some people I know in my life that legitimately they just like can't text for the life of them. Like I don't know what it is. Like I'll see them

Gati>> and like that I won't see them again for like 4 months cuz they just like go MIA. >> I literally I just don't like texting at all. That's why I'm like I'm always I always tell the guys I'm like just call me, you know? Like I don't care.

Gati>> I don't care. Call me whatever. FaceTime me, whatever. Um, but the whole texting feel, I'm like, I don't care if you mess up on a word. I really don't care. But the emojis thing, sometimes they creep

Gatime out. Okay. I'd be like, "Dude, why are you over excessively doing all these random ass emojis like right off the bat?" Like, I think it's kind of weird. >> Yeah. If they tongue out and they use that like eggplant emoji, I'm like

Gatiblocked. >> Goodbye. >> Sometimes like Yeah. When men start texting you all this weird [ __ ] I'm like, "Yeah, I'm good. I don't know." >> All right. So, I was listening to all that [ __ ] behind the scenes. Um,

Brian AtlasI didn't really hear a compelling anything from anybody as to what women should do. >> It's just an opinion. >> It's literally silence. >> It's crazy. It's different with

Brian Atlaseverybody. >> Why is there such a differential between men and women on this? So, as a man, I can say what I think men should bring and I can say what I think women should bring, but y'all

Brian Atlascan't seem to think outside of what you want. You can probably say, "Oh, women want this." Why can't you tell me what men want?

Bailey (Drake)Or excuse me, I should reframe what women should do. You guys can say what men should do, but you can't say what women should do. >> No, they can say it. Freedom of speech. But um I think we're all just different.

Bailey (Drake)Hey, but we're all different. So, you have to think about it like that. We're all We all want different things. So, you can't just be like, "Okay, guys should do this. Girls should do this. It's all subjective." So, you really can't. But, you can say it. It's freedom of speech. You could say it. It's

Gatifreedom of speech. But, we shouldn't be generalizing it. >> And I feel like sometimes guys don't communicate that. >> Okay. Well, I feel like sometimes guys don't communicate either. Like I've had literally I've been in relationship or

Gatijust dates in general where I've never heard like a guy be like, "Oh, yeah. I want you to do this." Like you don't say anything. I think like it's like >> I agree. >> We have to have a conversation. Yeah. And I think they think that we're doing

Brian Atlasthe same thing. But >> wait, so hold on. If I have to pay on the first date, I need to wait for you to tell me to do it. No, I usually >> I need to wait for you to say to to tell

Brian Atlasme what you need or is the right move as a guy to just get it and we don't need you to remind us to pay for the date. We just that's what we do. >> Well, no. I think

Gati>> or should we have a conversation? >> I Well, I've had a conversation with a guy like the last guy I dated, I literally was like, "Is this a date?" Like, because sometimes they don't even tell you like is this is a date? Like they're like, "Oh, let's hang out. Let's

Gatigo out." And then you end up finding out during the time when you're eating, it's like a day because they're asking you all these questions about your past and your exes. And I'm like, bro, you could >> if a guy's asking you to hang out, it's typically not under the purview of being

Aradafriends. >> You know, if they don't say it's a date, then it's not a date to me. >> Literally, you need to say or I'm going to assume we're just hanging out as friends. >> You know what? This is a perfect time for the bow video. I know precisely what

Brian Atlaswomen should do. I have very high expectations of women immediately, just like you. I expect quite a bit. Well, you know, it's actually the bare minimum. Really, the bare minimum, huh? >> What do you expect?

Brian Atlas>> I'm about to show you. I took a video so I could properly >> uh put future girlfriends through a training course, the Brian Atlas training course. I actually took a video

Brian Atlasof my ex-girlfriend. Uh this is like a teaser trailer for all the long list of expectations that I have of women. Nick, can I have you go ahead pull up the bow video? So, I took this video of my

Brian Atlasex-girlfriend. This was after a long podcast episode coming home from work. Go ahead, play it. She has she has to greet me with a bow. Bow once a day. She has to bow to show

Brian Atlasrespect. And then uh laundry immediately. So, you know, my dinner has to be ready and she has to time it, too. It has to be It can't be sitting there. It has to be

Brian Atlaslike done with as soon as I get there. Opens a beer for me. Stirs my noodles. I I dumped her because she [ __ ] up the tomatoes. I Who the [ __ ] eats tomatoes like that? Disgusting. So, I broke up

Brian Atlaswith her right after. I ate Well, I ate the food first and the beer, but then uh So, oh, the bow. Let's see the bow one more time. That's the most important part. Here's the expectation. Step through the door. Boom. >> Deep bow. Do you see the submissive hand

Brian Atlasposture? Uh hand positioning, too. That's my expectation. Um >> damn, you're strict. >> Oh, that's nothing. >> And that's fine. You might find her. You might find her. You might find her. That's not strict. That takes That [ __ ]

Brian Atlastakes no effort. That's zero effort. That's easy. Bare minimum. If she won't find someone who will >> someone that wants a green card will might do that right there. >> Oh, I have the white I I can get the

Brian Atlaswhitest white girl to do that. I'm going to have difficulty having a black girls don't won't do that. >> I I'm open to it. They won't do that [ __ ] Um but >> you know it's true.

Arada>> That's not true. >> It's true. She's willing to do it, >> huh? >> She is willing to do it. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. >> Mhm. I am. >> She Hold on. She didn't do [ __ ] for guy. She didn't do jack.

SPEAKER_10>> If she asked me to, I would. There's just a price to everything. >> What do you mean there's a price? >> Yeah. Per bout. Um 1,000. >> Okay. You're [ __ ] That's You're ridiculous. >> I mean, you you're asking for a bow, right?

Chloe (Mercedes)>> You are. So, just there you go. It's reciprocation. They just look like they're giving you giving her in Korea. Yeah. They b any older people. It's not your her husband

Chloe (Mercedes)or boyfriend. >> She was 40. So she was older than me. >> Just kidding. >> If she respect you and Yeah. They just b everyone like everyone. It's a cultural thing.

Brian Atlas>> Well, I expect Latinos, white women, Native Americans, all of the, you know, where it wouldn't make cultural sense to do it. Still expect them to do it.

GatiYou might not find her. >> You might not find her. >> No, that's there is someone out there that would love someone. Oh my god. We have a podcast. You guys have no idea.

Erica (Oregon)>> I think a sensible woman wants to be taken care of and would in a way that her husband would approve of. >> No, but if I

Brian Atlas>> I take care of Yeah. If I'm >> If she's my girlfriend, I'm taking care of everything. She's never gonna have to work another day in her life. I have very simplistic expectations of my girl. >> Okay, that's fine. There's someone that

Brian Atlaswill do that. >> There's nothing wrong. My >> So, have you found someone like her so far? >> What do you mean? >> Like bow >> who are willing to Yes, I've I've dated I have dated women who do all that. >> How much did you pay them per bow?

Gati>> Nothing. Don't pay them anything. >> There's some women are humble for free. No, there's sometimes that if they really like you, like cuz I've had people that I've done stuff for because I really do like, you know, and I care

Aradaabout them. Like >> I bought ice cream for my ex. >> Yeah. See, $5 ice cream. >> No, it was $7. >> Wait, are you wearing a wig? >> No. >> Somebody in the chat says you're wearing a wig.

Brian Atlas>> Extensions in right now. >> Oh, somebody in the chat just said you were wearing a wig. They said give her 1K. Pickles 1K to take that wig off. I guess you're not wearing a wig. Okay. Chair six is a wig. >> Wait, that's >> No, >> that's me. Wait, is that me?

Brian Atlas>> No, that's her natural hair. >> Are you kidding me? My hair's really flat right now. >> Yeah, >> they just like to bully me. It's a guy I was prepared. >> Oh, we should play that Andrew Wilson clip where the other expectation too.

Brian AtlasThat's a good one. Nick, I don't know if you recall it. It's in the Discord somewhere, I think. Where is it? H Let me see if I can find it. What was it about?

Brian Atlas>> It was about Okay. It's in the resources media folder. So, resources hashtag media. It's um like what he expects of his wife

Brian Atlasbasically, especially any like disputes or whatever. It's uh in the Discord. You'll be able to find it. Great clip from Andrew Wilson. Uh we're going to play that. This is another sort of expectation.

Brian AtlasYeah. Expect the girl to be submissive. >> Okay. You guys want a leader, but y'all y'all don't want to be followers. >> No, I do. >> Well, you're paying for everything. You'll find someone. >> We'll see about that. >> But a lot of women say they're

Brian Atlassubmissive. They want a man who's a leader. But we can't lead if you're not willing to follow. If you're going to fight us on everything, if you're going to be quarrelome, if you're going to second guessess and nitpick and nag

Brian Atlasabout our decisions, then yeah, you're not submissive. You're not a follow. You want to you want to be a backseat leader. Go ahead, Nick. Pull that [ __ ] up. Pull it up. You got it.

SPEAKER_01>> But there's levels to being submissive, too, though. You just want the extremist. >> No, not even extreme. All right, go ahead. Uh, play it. >> You show respect to your wife. >> Yeah. >> Oh, all sorts of ways. I basically give her whatever the hell she wants. I adore

SPEAKER_01her. But here's the thing. The reason that I do this is because if I say this is what ultimately is going to happen, that's the last word in it, and I don't even want to have the conversation. We don't. Now, she may really want to, and

SPEAKER_01I can tell sometimes that she really does, but I don't [ __ ] care because it's my decision ultimately. >> So, you don't care about how she feels? >> I don't know. I didn't say I didn't care how she feels. I just don't care to have her question my authority autonomy over the marriage.

SPEAKER_08>> Was there initial conversation prior to that or is it just like we're doing this, don't ask? >> Depends on the context. >> I'm more for like bigger decisions in life, not necessarily like little things. >> Even larger decisions. Ultimately, let's

SPEAKER_01say I went home and I said, "We're moving to Nevada in 3 weeks. Get your bags packed and I'm not going to have a I don't want to hear a word about it. You're doing it and that's the way it's going." >> And you think that's respectful. >> W >> I think that ultimately it's my choice

Alex (TTI)and how she shows me respect. Yeah, that's how she shows me respect. >> How do you show respect to your >> You can pause it. All right. Thoughts? >> I agree with them. >> Okay. I mean, it's kind of just goes back to

Alex (TTI)the point that I was saying earlier, like if that's what they agree on in their relationship, like morally, do I disagree with that? Yeah, I feel like you should care about your partner's like wants. But >> well, he didn't. That's not what he said.

Alex (TTI)>> Well, he's like, I don't want to have a conversation about it. Even if I can tell she wants to. I'm like, okay, like that's if that's what y'all agree on, then like that's you. I don't agree with like I said, I don't agree with it morally, but if that's like their

Alex (TTI)marriage and what they've agreed on >> Mhm. and she's like doing that then like I don't know like that's them. >> Okay. So, how would you like to see something like that go? >> Like what do you mean >> a convers you said?

Alex (TTI)>> Yeah. >> You you want to have the conversation. You want to the guy has to check. Well, I mean, like I I would hope you'd want to be like, "Hey, if we're moving to Nevada in three weeks, I'd want my

Brian Atlaspartner's input, but if he doesn't care for her input and she's fine not giving it, then like >> Well, keep in mind also, here's the broader context of their relationship. He's the primary bread winner and they've been married for a very long

Brian Atlastime. Yeah, >> it's plausible that this sort of ask would obviously be unreasonable if you've been dating somebody for 3 months, >> but in the context of a long-term marriage like this,

Alex (TTI)>> I mean, I still think it just goes back to like whatever they agreed on for their marriage is like what they agreed on for their marriage. >> Well, then you can say that about any relationship. >> I to an extent. I mean like yes, like

Alex (TTI)what I'm saying is like if that's what individually like what works for them and that's not like impacting anybody else's lives and like you know like that's them. But morally do I disagree with his stance on it and the way that

Alex (TTI)he's saying it and like making that point. Yeah. Cuz I get like where you're coming from in the context of like well he's making all of the money and they've been together for this amount of time so technically like you know wherever they

Alex (TTI)move whatever they do like that's his. But there's some marriages that do work like that and the wife still has a say in it. You know what I mean? That's just not how their marriage is working. >> Yeah, that is a dynamic. But I guess

Brian Atlaswhat I'm trying to get to here is this goes back to what should women do? And again, I've posed the question multiple times. You guys are very quick to say

Brian Atlasmen should do this, but you don't even know what you yourself should do as women. your reaction to the clip.

Chloe (Mercedes)>> So, for me, uh I never struggle for this because there are always so many guys, they offer different things and >> you've never had a boyfriend. >> Yes. But they keep offering and I just go to the

Chloe (Mercedes)>> Yeah, they're simp. >> Whoever offer the thing I like and I will do whatever he ask, but I will pick the offer first. >> Like that's a very first start. But you

Chloe (Mercedes)okay you have these men who are willing to do all this stuff but what >> then if what I do first is I make my commitment I give them chance then I

Brian Atlaswill hear uh listen them out hear them out like what they want. >> Okay. >> Your thoughts on the clip? What do you think? >> Like what do I bring to the table or like what do you want? >> Uh sure you could answer that but just

Brian Atlasyour reaction to the I guess also we should do the bow video too. Well, how about this? The most recent one. Give your reaction to what he said and then we can talk about the bow thing.

Kylie (Gap Year)>> Um, well, I kind of agree what chair the first chair said. If that's what you wanted to look for and that's what you agreed on to be committed into this relationship, then that it should what

Brian Atlasthat's what happens, you know, like I don't I really don't have any opinions on that. It's just what you agreed on if you want to be in a committed relationship. >> Okay. Uh, I'm going to have the rest of

Brian Atlasthe panel come in. I need to add Zills. I apologize for the delay on this. Uh, I was away from the computer. I'm very sorry for the delay. >> 200. >> My bad.

SPEAKER_00>> Yo, Brian, big fan of the show. Much from the UK. >> Quick alert. We need Gustavo back after serving his duties in >> when can we expect him back?

Brian Atlas>> Great question. Uh, you know, I've been I've been wanting to get another person in here to be the another background character. We do. If there's any men in Santa Barbara, you got to be in Santa

Brian AtlasBarbara. I don't want to. Nobody, no commuters. You want to be a background character, you want to wear the military uniform, you can DM me at whatever. Uh,

Brian Atlasso yeah, that would be good. I I reached out to him, you know, but I think he I think he's dead. No, I'm just kidding. Um, and I do Hey, add you sent in two.

SPEAKER_00There's been some delay on them. >> Adzil's donated $250. >> Yeah, thank you, man. >> O'Brien, big fan of the show. Much from

Brian Atlasthe UK. Quick alert. We need Gustavo back after serving his duties in Chile. When can we expect him back? >> [ __ ] You guys got to reach out to him. See if he'll he'll come back and uh and

Brian Atlasdo the show. But uh yeah, maybe we'll find somebody else to fill his fill his uh spot though. Thank you. By the way, because of the delay adils, if you want

Brian Atlasto send in like a 10, uh I'll treat it as a a read a TTS, just a $10 message. That's just our threshold for it to come through in my uh on my

Brian Atlaslaptop here. So, sorry for the delay, man. Thank you, though. We also have Kungpow. This show is great. Modernday Jerry Springer. I'm American but been living overseas for over 10 years. Feel bad for

Brian Atlasmy friends in the American dating landscape. I only miss my family, friends, and food when I gone for prolonged periods. Kungpow chicken. Thank you very much. Appreciate it. >> Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, man. Also, guys, go to twitch.tv/

Brian Atlaswhatever. Drop us a follow. Drop us a prime sub if >> if you have one. Twitch.tv/w whatever. Drop us a follow and a prime sub if you have one. Okay. Uh going around the table here. Oh, wait. There's another one. Pasty George snuck one in here.

Brian AtlasGood thing I caught it. Thank you, man. Appreciate it. Thank you. Thank you. It's coming up in just a moment. We're letting some of these these come through. We still need to finish up

Brian Atlasrelationship status and getting people's reacts to Andrew's video and the bow. >> Thank you, Pasty.

SPEAKER_00>> Pasty George donated $200. Some years back, my friend was visiting Indonesia and met a young woman from the rural areas. He eventually married her

Brian Atlasand she bows to him each time he comes home from work. >> Yo, George, thank you, man. Uh some years back, my friend was visiting

Brian AtlasIndonesia. Okay. >> She bow she bows to him each time he comes home from work. There you go. >> There's hope for you, Brian. >> Yeah, there's hope. You'll find someone.

Brian Atlas>> For you, bro. You guys make it out to be like the bow thing is this big ask or doing laundry is this big. It's really not. It's really not >> simple and easy and I'll do that for my manes.

Brian Atlas>> There you go. >> If he gives you whatever I want, I'll exactly. >> No, not not whatever she wants. >> Why, Ryan? What? >> No, we don't believe we don't believe in the princess treatment here. >> He has to say no sometimes.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah, >> that's me, you know. Why would he say that's not? Yes. >> Wait, do you think it's abusive to say your girl wants you to buy some [ __ ] and you say no? Is that like abusive? >> Yes. >> That's mental abuse. You can't afford it.

Arada>> That's emotal. That's how you know when to leave. >> How How is it emotional abuse? >> It just is. Like hearing that word >> hearing the word no like that already like triggers me. Well, that's

Brian Atlasfinancially abusive. >> Imagine if a man said that. Hearing the word no triggers me. >> Yeah. You know what that sounds like? >> Sounds I know the context is different,

Brian Atlasbut that's that's a major [ __ ] yikes. Okay. Um, would you bow for your man? >> I don't think so. >> Oh, wait. We were doing the Andrew Wilson react. My bad. Would you What did

Brian Atlasyou think of that? >> I think I also agree with the first person like >> Okay, just one thing. Instead of saying I agree with this person, just state your position.

Queen D>> Like if you are if you're willing to be in a committed relationship, like you know, I would >> Okay. What about you? >> I mean, of course, I would bow down to my man.

Arada>> No, no, no. What Andrew was saying, the guy was saying, >> um, I mean, it depends on where it is, where the place is. I wouldn't go to Virginia, but I mean, if it's like Paris or something. >> So, you're married? >> Yeah.

Brian AtlasOkay. Depends on the place. So you >> you you get to pick basically. >> Yeah. Basically. >> Okay. So you're just conditionally submissive so long as it suits you.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Yeah. That's the perfect >> You do realize in relationships there are going to be situationships or decisions where like not every single outcome is always going to be the

Aradaoutcome you want. Like that's just part of life also. Maybe just like not in my relationship. >> How would you know that? >> Well, if it comes to that, then I'll

Brian Atlasjust break up with them. >> So, you've been married to a guy for 2 years and one of his decisions you like slightly >> I mean, I wouldn't be married to someone like that in the first place. >> You wouldn't be married to somebody who within the confines of that

Aradarelationship, you might be inconvenienced by something. It depends on how um how deep it is. So, if it's not like that big of a deal, then I don't really care. But if it's something that like

Brian Atlaschanges where I live, then yeah, I'm going to be >> definitely >> Do you want to be a stay-at-home wife, like not have to work? >> Um >> like let's say he makes a million dollars a year, you don't have to work.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Would you be fine? But in order for that lifestyle to continue, he's like, "We need to move here." and that location maybe is not is not as desirable as the location you're currently in, but he's

Aradalike, "We have to move there." >> Well, it's a good thing that I'm that I'll be an anesthesiologist, so I'll be able to make close enough to a million dollars, so we don't have to rely on his money then

Aradaand I can move wherever I want. >> But you said you you'd be fine. >> Yeah. >> Not working. >> Mhm. >> I mean, I'd be fine. >> So, you'd end the relationship? >> I wouldn't end the relationship. I'd

Aradajust start working. So he doesn't have to work. If we did have to move somewhere that was like inconvenient like Nevada, I'm not moving to Nevada. >> Even Vegas. >> I don't like Vegas. It's too I just

Brian Atlasdon't like it. >> So you're dating a guy who makes a million dollars a year. Everything taken care of. He's like, "Let's move to a major metropolitan city that okay, whatever. You don't like Vegas. Uh you

Aradawould that's the end of the relationship." If it's like somewhere like southern Carolina or something, then no. >> Well, I'm talking about Vegas. >> Well, I don't like Vegas, so yeah. >> Okay. So,

Arada>> well, I would start working and then I would provide for him. >> Okay. >> If it comes down to that, I will.

Brian Atlas>> So, you would rather work a super stressful job. He just gets to kick it, lay lay back. He stops working because you don't want to live in Vegas.

Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Like why would I want to live in Vegas? >> Why would you work 10 hours a day? I don't know. >> It's not 10. I mean, for an anesthesiologist, you get to choose your own times. >> Well, you said you're going to make a million dollars. You're going to be

Aradahaving to work a [ __ ] ton to make a million dollars as an anesthesiologist. >> It depends on where it is. So, California, you can probably work three to four days. Sometimes they have call days. Nick, can you

Arada>> do do anesthesiologists >> uh Los Angeles what what's that website that is the >> like salary thing? >> It's not a million dollars on the higher

Brian Atlasend it can range up to like 800k 900k. >> Yeah, but maybe after you've been doing it for maybe 10 20 years. I don't think immediately out of Look, I'm not an expert in the salaries of anesthesiologists

Aradaright out of Is it med school they go to? I don't know. Um, so >> is it I don't know. You can usually just >> I think the average I mean on the high end was I think 400 500K. I don't know about California but just anesthesiologists overall.

Brian Atlas>> And you want in LA? >> Sure. Just Los Angeles is fine. Uh, while we're waiting for that, we have Adzilla here. Let me hook it up. Hook it up. Thank you, AD. Appreciate your

Brian Atlaspatience there with the TTS. He writes, "Appreciate it, bro. Here's 10. I agree. We have to try and get Gustavo back. Like Andrew Wilson once said, he's the best. Yeah, we need to get him back. Uh

Brian Atlasthe offer is there, but um look, you know, there's a it's really not a hard job. You just stand in the back. You don't say anything. You look in the camera and you have to wear a military uniform. So, anybody in Santa Barbara

Brian Atlaswho wants to basically be a male model for the whatever podcast, DM us. Uh Jet Trooper, thank you, man. >> Uh so, yeah. Do you have it? Yeah.

Brian AtlasReady? >> Yep. >> Make it bigger. Okay. Median salary just shy of 500,000. X out that. >> So I was right.

Brian Atlas>> Well, initially you said a million. >> No, I said on the higher end. So there are people that make way more than that. >> Well, it looks like Well, you just

Arada>> The top 90 the top 90% is 587,000. Yeah, but I've spoken to some people that make 900 800K and it's a lot more than you think. >> Okay. Well, I've spoken to billionaires.

AradaWhat? So, >> no. I'm saying anesthesiologists. So, I'm saying the higher end is still like it's not as rare as you would think. So, I think those statistics, >> my girl, you got a B in plant biology.

AradaLet's not assume. >> Oh, actually, that's like my GPA is still pretty good. Let's not assume >> that >> I would get into med school 100%. Like with those grades if I keep that up. 1B is not going to ruin my life.

Brian Atlas>> All right. I mean, I don't know. It's on your permanent record. >> It's on the permanent record. >> Brian, it's true. [ __ ] that shit's on the permanent record forever. They're going to see that >> that and they're be like, "Wait, why did she UCSB pretty good school, but then

Brian Atlasshe went down to Santa Barbara City College?" They're going to be like >> They're going to be like, "You know what? Yeah, but I >> I guess you could like be a nurse or something. I don't know.

Brian Atlas>> That's not how it works, Bren. >> You know how many people go study biology in college with the hopes of becoming a doctor >> and then Yeah. >> And then don't become a doctor. That school's super competitive.

Brian Atlas>> It is. Yeah. >> Yeah. I'm just a Debbie Downer for you tonight. >> Yeah. Uh >> and espec especially anesthesiology. It's Yeah. Either that or dermatology.

Brian Atlas>> Very competitive. Very competitive. Anyways, uh Okay. So, what about you? Your thoughts on the video. >> Um I personally don't want to be in a relationship like that. So, I don't agree. But I guess >> what if it's your twin flame? What if

Bailey (Drake)it's >> No, I actually wouldn't even do it for him either. That's a That's crazy. >> Girls won't do girls won't put in the bare minimum. >> No, because I I see myself more billionaires. >> I see myself as more of like a leader

Bailey (Drake)than him anyway. I feel like he's kind of toxic right now. >> You want to lead Drake? Okay. >> No, I mean mutual for us. I'd say it would be have to be mutual. And I don't think he would want that. So, I don't know. >> Probably not. Um, what about you? What

Gatido you think? >> If I was just to stay home, chill out, relax. You better believe I'm going. What the hell? Like,

Gatiyou I'm sorry. I can't like Oh, yeah. Well, yeah. I just feel like if they're taking care of everything, why not? like I'm here. I'm there. >> What do you think? >> I think that I would absolutely I would

Brian Atlasobey my husband. I would be as submissive as I could be. >> Good word. Obey. It's a good word. >> It's in my marriage vows. >> Oh, you're married, right? Yeah. >> Oh, we haven't gotten to the right. We're getting to the relationship

Brian Atlasstatus. Uh the bow video. Would you bow for >> I don't want to say the perfect man. Would you bow for a really good guy?

Alex (TTI)>> If if I really really like like them like a lot then like yeah like >> he's a good guy. >> So here's the thing is like I feel like that's just like kind of how I am unfortunately. Like I'm very much like a

Alex (TTI)girlfriend. So like I don't know if I was like really like down bad for a guy then like yeah unfortunately I feel like I feel like >> Would you bow for a guy? >> For a billionaire. Yeah. >> For a for a billionaire. >> I see you girl. >> Not a millionaire though. Like a guy who made a million a year.

Chloe (Mercedes)>> No, >> you wouldn't bow. A millionaire. A million cannot do that much in California at least. I >> I mean a million's still in California very good. >> Oh, it is. >> I don't think so.

Kylie (Gap Year)>> Oh, you >> She doesn't. Okay. Uh would you bow for a good guy that you like? >> Um yeah, I would bow for a guy I really liked and millionaires, billionaires, like you know, whatever to keep myself

Kylie (Gap Year)and them too happy. >> Guy who meets you in the ice cream parking lot? No, not unless it was like I had more feelings for him.

Queen D>> Gotcha. What about you? Would you bow for a good guy? A good man? >> Probably like Yeah. A billionaire, but not like like a >> not like a just a

Brian Atlas>> What about a millionaire? >> Guy millionaire. I mean >> like how much? Like >> 1 million a year? He makes one mill. >> One mil a year. I know it's not very >> Probably not.

Brian Atlas>> No. >> Oh boy. Um, >> what what's the threshold? 5 mil. >> I like >> 10 10 mil a year.

Brian Atlas>> 10 mil. >> You'll You'll do a bow. >> Yeah. I'd be submissive and bow, >> but not for five mil. >> No. >> Seven mil? >> No. >> It's got to be eight figures a year for

Aradayou. Yeah. >> Okay. Um, what about you? Would you bow for a good man?

Arada>> I would not. I feel like Well, it depends. Um, if they pay me a lot, like

Aradaper bow, then we can probably charge like 10k per bow, then I would. Sorry,

Bailey (Drake)>> bro. >> All right. Uh, what about you? >> Um, if he bows to me, then I'll bow to him. If we bow together, yes, >> cuz I I already know that I'm going to

Bailey (Drake)have to be the main one making decisions or at least it has to be equal in my personal relationship. I already know this. So, yeah. >> Okay. What about you?

GatiUm, so I would um, yeah, I would I I think you know I'm a lover girl, so like honestly like you know if you respect me like that's all

Gatithat matters. If you respect me, you give me like whatever I want and you're just like kind to me then yeah like >> you know.

Brian Atlas>> Well, okay. A man's job is not to give you whatever you want. Why not, Brian? >> Exactly. Why not? >> It's not a man's job. >> Hey, look at them. They're beautiful.

Brian AtlasThey work hard. Someone might >> What if What if a woman's want is unreasonable? >> It's never unreasonable. >> The bro, >> I'm just going to universal. What am I What am I You're [ __ ] trolling.

Alex (TTI)>> What is unreasonable that is like like for me, I would say like a pair of shoes. You know what I'm saying? Something simple. It's not like too much. >> Yeah. What am I going to ask for that's unreasonable is my thing.

AradaShe's been She dated a guy for one month. She >> asked for $2,000. >> Well, they broke up. Clearly, it didn't work. >> Okay, if you can >> because he didn't buy the purse. >> He was putting all of his money into sports betting. Like, if you can do all

Aradaof that, you can't buy me one bag. Like, that's ridiculous. >> Well, some people do that for entertainment, but some people make money off of that. >> Okay. And with the money he made, what did he spend it on? >> I don't know if he made money. >> Exactly.

Brian AtlasNot the girl he didn't take very seriously cuz you were only seeing each other for a month. No, >> that doesn't even make sense. The guy was spending money. The guy was spending money on X, but he could have spent it

Aradaon me. He could he could have. Therefore, he should have spent it on me. >> Is that the logic? >> Yeah. I mean, well, if it's for like

Aradagambling, then I would say that. Maybe not anything, you know, like he can buy himself clothes, whatever. Have you bought anything for yourself recently? >> Um, yeah, >> that was pricey. What was it? How much?

Arada>> Not recently. Maybe months ago. >> Whenever. >> Um, I bought myself a Dior bag. It was pink and white. 750. It was vintage.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. $750. You could have given that $750 to charity. Why not? >> To what? >> To to charity. >> Charity? Why? I need a Dior bag more. I mean, okay,

Aradawait. >> You need a Dior bag. >> Charities get a lot of money from like celebrities and famous people. >> They get Yeah. Like the hundreds of thousands of dollars and stuff. And honestly, I'd rather give money to a

Aradahomeless person than >> Right. But you did have the money, right? >> Yeah. >> So, why didn't you just give it to charity? >> Because I Okay. I mean like to and home

Aradalike like to a homeless person. >> There are other charities besides those that do homeless outreach. >> I don't trust I don't know I they already give >> there's plenty of reputable charities. >> So your logic for dumping the guy was

Aradayou don't care. >> You're an Orthodox Christian. You could have given it to the church as a tithe. >> Yeah. >> Do you tithe? >> Yeah. Every time I go, >> but they don't really have >> When was When was the last time you went to church? >> Um they don't have any here. So, I

Aradawasn't able to go last. Well, in Santa Barbara, they don't have any. >> They do have >> they have multiple Orthodox churches in Santa Barbara. >> Not Ethiopian specifically to those ones.

Brian Atlas>> Okay. Well, yeah. I guess you can't find that in Santa Barbara. >> Yeah, >> but there's other ways to tithe. >> Okay. Like in what way?

Brian Atlas>> I'm sure churches accept money besides just like cash. You can send them money. Well, I already do that when I go to church. >> Which was when? >> Like >> a year ago. Okay.

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