She Dated DRAKE?! Gold Digger?! $5,000,000/Year To Date Her?! Prison Dating?! | Dating Talk #259

Date: 2025-09-08
Duration: 8h 18m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_03Erica (Oregon)(guest)
SPEAKER_04Alex (TTI)(guest)
SPEAKER_05Arada(guest)
SPEAKER_06Kylie (Gap Year)(guest)
SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_09Chloe (Mercedes)(guest)
SPEAKER_11Gati(guest)
SPEAKER_12Bailey (Drake)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Queen D(guest)

Key Moments

00:04:24
IntroAll guests introduced. Bailey claims Drake twin flame.
00:24:54
Key MomentBailey: identified Abraham Lincoln and Teddy Roosevelt reincarnations who wanted to date her
02:16:00
Key MomentChloe: ~70-100 sugar daddies, $300K total. 75yo sponsor paid $80-85K.
02:37:07
QuoteBrian calls Chloe 'basically a prostitute'
05:21:00
ControversyArada demands $5M/yr minimum and 6'2" minimum height
07:15:45
Key MomentWrestling match challenge: Arada vs producer Nick after she claims women as strong as men

Topics Discussed

00:04:24
Guest Introductions

Including Bailey who claims Drake is her twin flame and identifies reincarnated presidents.

02:16:00
Sugar Dating Deep Dive

Chloe's 70-100 arrangements, $300K total, 75yo sponsor.

03:06:00
Self-Ratings and AI Photos

Ratings, aging photos, gender swap.

05:21:00
Income/Height Requirements

Arada wants $5M/yr and 6'2". Bailey wants $1M.

05:47:36
Bear vs Man

Most choose bear. Brian draws racism parallel.

06:06:00
Body Count Round

Chloe 50+. Gati ~40. Arada 13. Erica 7.

Transcript

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Alex (TTI)occupation, where you're from, and education. Go ahead. I'm Alex. I'm 19 and I'm from Riverside,
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Alex (TTI)California. Uh, so like an hour out of LA. And I am a freelance photographer and like right now I'm not doing anything for school. So,
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Brian Atlas>> you graduated high school? >> No, I actually haven't yet. I'm still working on that. >> You dropped out. >> Yeah. It's So, like that's it's a really long story. I'm not going to lie. >> Yeah. So, well, I think I I looked at your Instagram a bit. You You were in
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Alex (TTI)the troubled teen industry. >> That's actually why I'm not done cuz it like >> Do you have Are you trying to get your GED? >> Yeah, I'm getting my high set, which is like similar to the GED. So, I'm like halfway done with that. >> Sorry. What's it called?
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Brian Atlas>> It's a high set. So, it's like the California kind of like version of that. >> Okay. And you say you do photography for your occupation? >> Yes. >> And you're from California? >> Yes, sir. >> Originally. Okay.
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Alex (TTI)>> Uh, what is the trouble teen industry? give us like a brief plot synopsis. >> So, it's like a system of like programs. They're not like really owned by the same people, but at some point they kind
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Alex (TTI)of were, which was like Wasp. But basically, it's like your parent is like having a hard time with you cuz you're like depressed and you know, you're suicidal and you're
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Alex (TTI)having a hard time in school. And so they're like, "My kid really needs help. Like d what do I do?" and then like Google like throw all these like different places at you and that's kind
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Alex (TTI)of like how it happened. So my parents decide to send me there. But it's basically like what they call like a residential treatment center, but generally like
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Alex (TTI)it'll be in Utah and they're like really abusive like normally like they don't actually do anything that they're supposed to do and they'll just kind of like keep you in there and spend all your parents' money. So >> it's like a prison kind of sort of. >> Yeah. I mean like there are girls who
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Alex (TTI)have been to Juvie that like go there and they're like take me back like please like it was better in Juvie. >> Have you been to Juvie? >> No, thank God. >> Oh, okay. Cuz on your Instagram there's like what looks like a mug shot. >> So that's my picture from the program.
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Alex (TTI)>> Oh >> yeah. Like that's from my first day. >> Your school your trouble. It's a can. >> Yeah. Yeah. It's right. Like I don't even know what to call. >> They take a mug shot. >> But no, literally my therapist when she sent it to me, she was like, "Huh, that looks like a mug shot." I was like,
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Alex (TTI)"Yeah, thanks." >> Oh, okay. And you're wearing like orange. It looks like a jumpsuit. >> They make you wear orange when you're on phase one. You like don't have Yeah. You don't have any of your clothes and you have all these face. I'm telling you, it's such a long story.
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Alex (TTI)>> Well, what I guess what got you sent to Have you been to multiple of these camps first off? >> So, I've went to that one, but like I've I've been in like mental hospitals and
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Alex (TTI)like other like programs before, but I never like left the state for it until then. So like it was like a year of me just being like in and out of the like
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Alex (TTI)psych ward like out in LA and stuff and then I went to like an IOP and like some other like short-term program. >> What's IOP? >> Intensive outpatient. So it's like you spend like
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Alex (TTI)>> what came first, the psych ward or the troubled teen camp? >> It was IOP, then it was the psych ward like a couple times >> and then the camp >> and then Yeah. like one place and then I
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Alex (TTI)was good for like a couple months and then they just like randomly decided to send me. >> And then how old were you when you first went to the psych ward? >> The first time I went to the like actual
00:07:57
Brian Atlaslike psych word I was I just turned 15. >> 15. Okay. And but did your troubles start sooner than 15? >> Yeah, I was like 12. >> When what started? >> Um I don't know. I got like really
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Brian Atlasdepressed like out of nowhere. >> Okay. Um, >> were you like uh like causing trouble in school or were you doing drugs or >> No, I was just like really sad like
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Alex (TTI)literally like that's kind of why it like sucks is I was just like a sad kid. I don't know problems until I was like >> Yeah. Was there a reason for >> like was it clinical depression? Were there
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Alex (TTI)>> I mean like now I've been like diagnosed and so is my brother. So we have autism that like was just something that got ignored. And funny thing like when I got diagnosed my family was like yeah we've been knew so why didn't you do anything
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Alex (TTI)like hello and >> do you have do you have any other diagnosis? Yeah, I'm like off paper diagnosed with borderline because we don't want BPD. Yeah, we don't want to put that on paper. That's something like kind of whatever. But and then u CPTtsd.
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Alex (TTI)So >> from the camps, >> it's just from like a lifetime of >> Okay. How many times have you been in the psych ward? >> Uh four times. >> And how many different camps did you go to? >> I went to like one short-term and one
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Alex (TTI)long term. >> And was there any uh like in school any behavioral issues? Um, no. Like, yeah, like I never got like suspended or like in trouble like with anything.
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Alex (TTI)>> Were you disruptive in classes or >> I talked like that? >> You talked >> clearly like Yeah, I just talk a lot. >> And uh any like drug use?
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Alex (TTI)>> Uh that was like after I started going to the like psych word and stuff. I started smoking weed when I was like 12, 13, which was like >> pretty young. So, here's the thing.
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Alex (TTI)Where I live, like where I grew up, which is like Coachella Valley, Palm Springs area, it's like very very normal out there. And like anyone who grows up out there, for whatever reason, like
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Alex (TTI)everyone I knew started smoking at like 11:00. So, I was like late to the party when I started doing that. >> Late bloomer >> in the silliest possible. >> Is that junior high or is that still elementary school? >> Like the beginning of middle school? Yeah.
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Brian Atlas>> Like seventh grade. >> It's obnoxious. It's like it's really bad cuz like parent like parents will let their kids do it and stuff. >> Good times. Okay. Um >> any other diagnosis?
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Brian AtlasYou said CPT CPTSD. >> Yeah. >> And then BPD and autism. >> Yeah. >> Are you asberers or >> It's just like >> like you play the flute or something
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Alex (TTI)really well. >> I have you know what I I wish that it like benefited me more. I just remember like >> I Yeah, I don't know. I wish it benefited me more. I was going to say remember like random facts, but they're
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Brian Atlascompletely useless. I feel like it more just like impacts my ability to like learn. >> And um when's the last time you've been either to one of these camps or
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Alex (TTI)psychord? >> Um like it the when I graduated so my program uh when I graduated my program so it's been since 2023 of December. >> So like two years. >> Yeah. Okay,
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Chloe (Mercedes)>> it's been a minute. >> All right, good times. Fun stuff, right? >> Yeah. >> What about you? >> Hi, my name is Chloe. I'm 25 years old from San Jose. I'm uh working as a sales >> sales. >> Yeah.
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Chloe (Mercedes)>> Okay. What kind of sales do you do? >> Uh I sell Mercedes. >> Mercedes. And you work for a dealership or >> it's one closest? >> It's the biggest dealership in Bay Area.
00:11:35
Brian AtlasMercedes dealership. >> Gotcha. Okay. Biggest dealership. Nice. And do you get paid commission or how does that work? >> Yeah, solely based on commission. I don't know if it's okay to say the pay
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Chloe (Mercedes)plan, but yeah. >> Gotcha. You So like if you sell I don't know tell tell me a popular Mercedes car. >> Uh well for me average about over 20
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Chloe (Mercedes)cars a month but a month I'm at the top like the most top top in sales. >> Okay. >> How much what uh so if you sell one car what do you make like a thousand? It very varies like depends on the growth
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Chloe (Mercedes)on the car. Some car are losers we call we lose money and some car we make huge growth in it and depends on the growth in the car. >> Okay. So and you said you're from San Francisco where you currently live >> and you grew up there? >> Yeah. Yeah. I'm currently living in San
00:12:24
Brian AtlasJose. >> Uh Bay Area. >> Bay Area. >> Okay. And I detect an accent. >> Were you born? >> Oh yeah. Yeah. I'm Chinese from mainland.
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Brian Atlas>> Mainland China. Okay. >> Gotcha. And uh any education? >> Uh yeah, I have a bachelor degree of Korean language. >> Korean language. Okay. From where?
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Chloe (Mercedes)>> Uh from China. >> From China. Okay. Did you uh go to school here? >> Not like degree. I didn't get a degree here but I did uh participate some program here like >> Okay. >> Did you you didn't do any university
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Brian Atlashere in the US? >> Not at all. >> When did you move to the US? >> Actually two and a half years ago. Two and a half years ago. >> Okay. >> And you lived in uh South Korea for uh a bit
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Brian Atlas>> about one one year. >> Are you fluent in Korean? >> I was. I'd say >> you were. Not anymore. So you speak Mandarin and you speak English? >> Mhm. >> Any other languages?
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Brian Atlas>> Uh just that three of them >> and Korean, but not flu. You're not super fluent. >> Well, I can understand them. >> You understand it? Okay. Gotcha. All right. Cool. Uh, if you guys if you're
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Brian Atlasin the Northern California, you need Mercedes, she's your girl. Um, do you have you sold any other kind of cars, exotic cars, anything like that? >> Uh, well, for new cars, we only uh have
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Chloe (Mercedes)Mercedes, but we do have different brands of used cars, like all the brands, used cars. >> Okay. Very cool. Very cool. What about you? >> Hi, my name is Kylie. Um, I'm originally
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Kylie (Gap Year)from West Village, New York, but I moved to San Francisco about maybe 10 years old. Um, right now I don't have a job. Um, oh, I'm also 18 right now. I'm also taking a gap year beer. So, yeah. >> Okay. How long you been in Santa
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Kylie (Gap Year)Barbara? >> Uh, like two weeks. I'm here with a friend from now. Yeah. >> Okay. Are you're not going to the college or anything? >> No, I just kind of want to travel around for a bit. And since I've always been in the NorCal area, just wanted to try
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Kylie (Gap Year)SoCal for a bit. >> Gotcha. And you said you're from New York? >> Yeah, West Village, New York. >> Okay. That's Manhattan, right? >> Yeah. It's like it's like really close to Soho if you know where that is. >> No idea, but it's Manhattan, right?
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Kylie (Gap Year)Yeah. >> Okay, cool. Um and you you came with a friend or >> um Yeah, she's actually staying right down the street. Um and it was perfect timing cuz I was still living in San
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Kylie (Gap Year)Francisco and I like Oh, yeah. I'm moving to Santa Barbara, so why not? Yeah. >> All right, cool. What about you?
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Queen D>> Hi, my name is Queen Die. I just turned 24 weeks ago and I'm from Orange County, California.
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Queen DUm, right now I don't have a job, but I was a medical assistant. Um, and I am a full-time full-time student for
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Brian Atlasbusiness. >> Gotcha. Um, and you, uh, also do what? Or used to do what?
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Queen D>> I used to do OF. Okay. >> Uh, but because of uh just personal reasons, I don't want to do it anymore. >> Were you and were you doing boy girl
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Queen Dcontent on there? What? >> No, it was just it was just >> like lingerie. Um, no like full body, nothing like that. >> Got it. Okay.
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Queen D>> And so your name is what? It's >> Queen D. >> Queen D. >> Yes. Queen space D. >> No, Queen D's together. Q U E N D Y. >> Queen D. >> Yeah, >> that's your government name.
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Brian Atlas>> Yes, my government name. >> Government name. >> Yes. >> Queen D. >> Yes. >> Okay. Queen Queen Dy. >> Yeah, Queen Dy. >> Gotcha. Cuz yeah, I wasn't sure. So, I
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Brian Atlasjust wanted to specify. Um, you also said that you're an uh in your notes you're a unemployed sugar baby. What is um >> So you're nothing then?
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Queen D>> You used to be a sugar baby I guess. >> I mean I guess here and there like I would >> um like I guess
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Queen D>> date people and then you know they would offer me things or whatever. I wouldn't consider it sugar baby if they're like offering me. I'm not asking. Um, but
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Queen Dright now I'm more like focusing on myself. And um, >> so you don't currently have a sugar daddy? >> No. No, no, no. >> But you have? >> I have. Yes. >> Sort of. >> Sort of. Yeah.
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Arada>> All right. Uh, what about you? >> I'm Arada. Um, I'm 18 years old and I'm currently in school um as a biology major. Um, yeah. I'm from Houston.
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Arada>> Mhm. >> Yeah. and bio majors. Do you want to be a doctor? >> Yeah, I want to go to school. Um, I want to go to med school to be an anesthesiologist. >> Okay. They make good money.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Uh, you got to be careful though. You got to be, you know, they can kill people. >> Yeah, I know. >> OD them on the >> Yeah. All right. Be careful. Not after a
00:17:39
Brian Atlasnight of raving. Okay. Um >> Oh, >> that's what you you No. Do you rave? Have you? >> I haven't been. >> Oh, no. Okay. All right. >> And you said you're from Texas. >> Yeah.
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Arada>> And you go to UCSB. Is that correct? >> Um, I actually transferred. So, I go to the CC now. >> Oh, you Wait, you Wait, hold on. You You were going to UCSB? >> Yeah. And now I'm going to the CC.
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Arada>> Why is that? >> Um, so recently No. No. Okay. >> So, recently my parents um completely stopped financially supporting me. So now I have to like completely fund my own expenses.
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Arada>> Okay. >> Um Yeah. So they kicked me out over the summer and >> over the summer. >> Yeah. >> So uh what did something happen?
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Arada>> Well, they're like they've always been super strict. Um it was like something over it was so stupid. It was like over first it was over dishes and then they found out I got a B in a class and they
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Aradawere like, "No, you need to come home and go to school in Texas." And I was like, "No, I'm not doing that." So, yeah. So, yeah. So, now I'm funding myself completely. >> Wow.
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Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> You got a you got a B. >> Yeah. >> It was a B+ or B minus or just a B? >> It was just a B right in the middle. >> What What class was it? >> Um, it was biology. Plant bio. plant biology. You can't [ __ ] up in
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Aradaplant biology. >> Pretty hard. >> So, they get your report card or whatever. >> Yeah, they saw they were like, "Let me see your grades." And Oh, and they also saw my Instagram. They were like, "No." >> Ah, okay. Now we get more details. >> Okay.
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Arada>> What was on your Instagram? >> You You've seen my Instagram. It's normal. They're just like super strict. >> Well, your parents are uh Are you Orthodox Christian or what? What? >> Yeah, I'm Orthodox.
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Brian Atlas>> And you're I'm trying to remember. It's uh Ethiopian. >> Yeah, I'm Ethiopian. >> You're Ethiopian. >> Ethiopian aratrian. >> Or so is there a subterm for that kind of Orthodox Christianity? >> Um yeah, it's Ethiopian
00:19:42
Brian Atlas>> Orthodox church. >> Orthodox. Yeah. >> Okay. So they're very strict and conservative. >> Yeah. Very. >> And then they see you in number one party school. >> Titties out.
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Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> I saw your Instagram. Huh? >> They're just bikinis. And they were like were not approving of that cuz they're conservative parents. >> Yeah, that was a huge part. >> So, do you think it was more so that
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Aradaversus the B and >> um No, they asked for that first and then they were like, "Okay, let's see your grades." And obviously they expect like straight A's, so they saw that I
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Aradagot a B >> and they were like, "No, we're not financially funding your whole life for you to like just go out and like, you know,
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Aradajust be crazy." Damn. >> Okay, so you downgraded. I mean, Santa Barbara City College is nice. You >> I'm okay. I'm thinking of transferring though to UCLA hopefully. >> Okay.
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Brian Atlas>> So, >> I mean, you know, it's not the worst plan though. I mean, you save a bit of money >> going to the city college, you know, cuz the university is more expensive. >> Mhm. >> It was the bikini photos, wasn't it? Oh
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Brian Atlasmy gosh, Brian. >> They just couldn't, you know, your parents were, >> you know, I don't know. >> Yeah. >> Not not cool with it. Okay. Anything else? >> No, that's all. >> So, the dishes, the bee, and Instagram
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Bailey (Drake)photos. >> Yeah. >> All right. All right. I feel like there's something else. >> Okay. Well, no, but >> Okay. >> What about you?
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Bailey (Drake)>> Um, my name is Bailey Jane. I am 25 almost 26 and I'm an exotic dancer, entrepreneur, engineer, singer, rapper, and what else was I going to say? Okay, that's it for
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Bailey (Drake)now. >> You're a rapper? >> Yes. >> Was she a rap? Were you a rapper last time you were on the show? >> No, but >> All right, let's hear something. Go ahead. >> You did ask me. You asked me every time. But you never want to like drop a beat
00:21:41
Brian Atlasor >> anybody here know how to do a beat. Um, >> beatbox friend. >> No, I can't do it on a beatbox. >> Nick, go full screen on OBS. Just >> although they did for
00:21:52
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Yeah. I'm like B Rabbit. >> Look, >> if if Most He wouldn't need a beat. He would just ac capella that [ __ ] Oh, yeah. >> You want me to roast you >> in a rap?
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Bailey (Drake)>> Yeah. >> I think you should roast yourself. >> Do it. >> No. Okay. Maybe. Oh, maybe later. I'm a little too nervous right now to do it. Every time. Every time. There's a bunch of >> I need a shot. I need a shot.
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Brian Atlas>> There's so many ANR people watching the stream right now and all these girls who come on and sing and never do. They just totally fumbling their chance to be discovered. You know, we got >> fumbling. I already I'm already good.
00:22:30
Bailey (Drake)Don't worry. Don't worry about me. >> You're good on your rap career? >> Mhm. >> Yeah. >> Been hanging out with big rappers recently. >> Well, hold on. Hanging out with a rapper. >> What? But they're inspiring me. They're
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Bailey (Drake)making me better. You hang around people you want to be like. So, I've been hanging around Buster Rhymes and like Flow Rider and I'm getting better and I'm getting better at like >> When's the last time you kicked it with Flow?
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Bailey (Drake)>> Let's not talk about that. Actually, >> I don't know. He blocked me. >> Why did he block you? >> I don't know. >> He didn't give me any reason. I think I was like blowing his mind too much and he's like, "What? Who the [ __ ] is this
00:23:06
Bailey (Drake)girl?" Yeah. >> Like, and he probably was a little scared of me, too. I think >> he what? >> A little scared of me, blowing his mind. And also, I think I confused him a little bit. >> How did you confuse him?
00:23:19
Bailey (Drake)>> Yeah. >> How did you confuse him? >> I wasn't trying to bring this up. I don't even know why I did this. Next question.
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Bailey (Drake)>> Next question. I don't know. He didn't tell me anything. He just Yeah, >> he just blocked me. >> Uh, okay. >> Magical things happen. Really? It was beautiful. So, I don't know why he blocked me, but it's okay. One day he probably will return.
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Bailey (Drake)>> Did you like hook up with him or >> No, but I thought he wanted to and it got strange. >> Did you hook up with Busta? >> No, there's a lot of stuff going on, but I can't speak about any of this. >> Love stuff going on. >> No, we're just It's just a work thing,
00:23:54
Brian Atlasyou know, just friends. >> So, critically acclaimed rap artists flow right in, Buster Rhymes are are are
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Bailey (Drake)working with you. No, I said >> you said a lot of things were >> I said I'm hanging around them and it's helping me get better at fast rapping and rapping >> just by being around them. It's so crazy like watching >> Slow Rider was here. He would be
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Bailey (Drake)acappella. He would be dropping an acapella. No beat needed. Obviously he hasn't rubbed off. >> I don't even think he freestyles but actually Busta does. Busta used to with like Jay-Z and everybody and
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Bailey (Drake)>> so he actually probably could rhymes. He just got a star. He just got a star in the break. Is that just in a new movie rhymes? >> No, he's just in Naked Gun and he just got a star in the Walk of Fame song.
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Bailey (Drake)>> Um, >> and then you also >> start rapping it. >> And then you dated Drake or something. >> No. Why did you have to say it like that? No. >> Okay. You [ __ ] Drake. I don't know. How would you prefer I say it?
00:24:53
Bailey (Drake)>> We're Okay. We're twin flames, but we don't have to be together because that's something that it's like true for twin flames cuz if one of them does the work and the other one doesn't, the one that does the work, it's up to them if they
00:25:05
Bailey (Drake)want to like be in a partnership and I don't want to be with him. So, but that was kind of harsh, but that's only because I'm doing the work to like be my best self and he isn't despite what it looks like. Cuz it looks like he's like
00:25:16
Bailey (Drake)doing all this work on himself, but he's physically doing all this work. Like, he stays busy. He has a lot of money. He's super He works all the time. He works too much though, actually. >> Wait, did you actually [ __ ] Drake? >> No, I didn't [ __ ] >> Oh, okay. I'm sorry.
00:25:30
Bailey (Drake)>> No, I don't know why Brian says that. He just trying to >> No, I asked if you were dating Drake. >> No, I haven't even went on a date with him. We've hung out a lot and I know his friends. >> Hung out a lot. >> Like a handful of times. But >> a handful of times
00:25:42
Brian Atlas>> in the spiritual hand in the dream world a lot. And >> in the dream world >> physically like three, four times, but really >> you can't count the dream world. >> We didn't really like hang out. I [ __ ] a bunch of supermodels in the dream world. Doesn't mean I hung out with them. >> No, but we didn't like really
00:25:55
Bailey (Drake)>> I don't I don't have sex dreams, by the way. It's mostly just me. >> He's scared. He's scared of me. He's scared of me right now. So, let's >> scared of you. >> He couldn't even say like I had to speak to him first because he was so scared.
00:26:08
Bailey (Drake)But he came up to me, made sure everybody left the dance floor, came up to me, and then didn't say anything. I actually had to talk to him first. >> Wow. I totally believe everything you've just
00:26:20
Bailey (Drake)said. I >> Well, I hope you do cuz it's true. >> Do you have Do you have And then Wait, wait. >> Do you have like a photo selfie with them? I don't know. >> And then at >> Do you have a selfie with them? >> Wait at this party. >> Do you have a selfie with them?
00:26:32
Bailey (Drake)>> Hell no. >> Who would Why would you have a selfie with any of these? >> Why would Okay. If I'm No matter who I'm Yes. No. Because I don't care about it. And most of them I just I don't know. If If they wanted a picture with me, I
00:26:45
Bailey (Drake)would take one. But I'm not going to go out of my way to ask them because I'm also famous. So I don't really want a picture with you >> or anybody. >> I'm a twinflame. >> She she knows what she I know who I am.
00:26:56
Brian Atlas>> Famous people aren't like walking up to random people in the street being like, >> "Can I take a photo with you? Person I don't know." >> But he does know me. >> Yeah, but you're like a nor you're like a normie civilian to him.
00:27:08
Bailey (Drake)>> No, he knows exactly who I am. So that's why he was so nervous to talk to me. >> I wonder if you're in like you're mixed up in like a romance scam where some dude's pretending to be Drake. >> No, but actually you know what's crazy?
00:27:19
Bailey (Drake)I dated one a doppelganger of like that looked just like him, which is actually insane. I don't know why I did that. That was a >> You dated the doppelganger. >> It ended up being a caric, but I literally he lived closest to me at the
00:27:31
Bailey (Drake)time and I'm like, "This is actually really insane cuz he looks more like Drake than all the other doppelgangers that you see online." >> It was really intense actually. >> Okay. >> Yeah. He's cancer though. >> Who does?
00:27:43
Bailey (Drake)>> He was a cancer and he's a lifeguard. He was like Ken. He was a lifeguard and I was like a >> wow that's a lot. Uh thank you for all that.
00:27:55
Brian Atlas>> Also we're going to get into your past life stuff too. No, this life. >> Didn't you? Okay, so really quick recap in past lives either you've dated people
00:28:07
Brian Atlasin your past lives who were like dictators and [ __ ] but you've also dated men who in their past life >> was >> so didn't somebody in their past what was the Abraham Lincoln thing? >> And it's funny cuz there was a girl
00:28:20
Bailey (Drake)that's actually related to him that was on the show last time if you remember and like me and her kind of became friends after this. But um yeah, so Abraham Lincoln reincarnated and so did
00:28:30
Bailey (Drake)Teddy Roosevelt and I met them both in this life. Helped them find out that that's who they were. And now they tell everybody cuz they see it now, too. And they both wanted to date me. And they both knew each other, but they didn't
00:28:44
Bailey (Drake)know that they were Abraham Lincoln, Teddy Roosevelt until like I pieced it all together. And they have a mutual friend, their main like they're both their main friends. I'm messing this up. I'm sorry. I'm like, >> you're good.
00:28:56
Bailey (Drake)>> Like they had the same mutual friend and they worked at the same jobs and they still had no idea who they were until recently, >> but they worked together for like 30 years and they didn't know that they were Abraham Lincoln and Teddy.
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Brian Atlas>> So you met two different guys and in their past lives, one of them was Abraham Lincoln. >> Yes, 100%. >> And the other Teddy Roosevelt >> 100%. And >> have you met any other heads of state?
00:29:18
Bailey (Drake)>> I No, but I know that um Andrew Jackson was Epstein, but we can't talk about that but too much. But >> what? >> They're all like back. Almost all the presidents are back. I wonder if I'm going to find more.
00:29:29
Brian Atlas>> How do you know? How do you know that Jeffrey was Andrew Jackson? >> Well, look at how he looks. He's almost the same. He He pretty >> But do you have to meet the person to >> Not him in this case cuz it was like pretty easy. But usually I have to meet
00:29:43
Bailey (Drake)them in person and then I >> So you met? >> Figured. No, I didn't meet him. Thank god. >> So how do you know who he was in his past life? >> Cuz you could tell. It's so easy. But it's like a feeling. It's a feeling and
00:29:53
Bailey (Drake)then it's his looks and then it's his authority that he also had in this life and then it's just intuition. It's the same. But the way that I found out about Abraham Lincoln and Teddy Roosevelt,
00:30:04
Brian Atlasthis was way more magical. It was way more magical. But Andrew, I think it's him. I think it's him. >> Oh, sorry. I think it's him.
00:30:14
Bailey (Drake)>> What about Marcus? Marcus Aurelius or who was it you dated? Oh, Caesar. Julius Caesar. >> Oh, yeah. Then I found Caesar uh well Emperor Augustus and I actually dated him but I found out that was his past
00:30:27
Bailey (Drake)life. So actually a lot of people are reincarnated and either they won't find out until they die or someone like me could possibly see that you were someone to like help you. And there's actually psychics you could go to that will tell
00:30:40
Brian Atlasyou these things that are specialized in this. I'm not >> but I'm starting to be at this point. >> Who was the guy? You met a guy who in in his past life was Julius Caesar. >> Emperor Augustus. So >> what about Julius Caesar? That's his
00:30:51
Bailey (Drake)dad, right? That's his dad. He's Little Caesar. Pizza. Pizza. I dated Little Little Caesar. >> Okay. You dated. Okay. >> Yeah.
00:31:02
Brian Atlas>> Who's the So, okay. Who's the guy who you hooked up with? Who was the most notable person in a past life? >> Probably him. Probably.
00:31:14
Bailey (Drake)>> Oh, you hooked up with the the >> Emperor Augustus because he was like the richest. He was the longest ruling, the one of the most popular. >> Yeah, that's why I dated him. He He was like my longest relationship, too, I think.
00:31:26
Bailey (Drake)>> Would he do a year and a half? >> Would he do Roman salutes like during sex or >> No, but it was It's so crazy because we went to a museum and he didn't say he liked any statue except for the bust of
00:31:38
Bailey (Drake)Emperor Augustus. But at the time, he didn't physically know that it was him. And he his soul told me right away like, "Find out who I am. I'm not going to tell you." Have you met Jesus?
00:31:48
Bailey (Drake)>> Not in this life. No. >> Wait. Spiritually, he's not here physically. >> It's just Augustus. >> Oh, you mean his dad? Oh, actually, no, I didn't. But you know what's crazy? Wait, wait, let me finish. Oh,
00:32:02
Bailey (Drake)>> go ahead. Go ahead. >> So, his wife, Emperor Augustus's wife in his past life poisoned him and that's how he actually died. It's a speculation, but this actually really
00:32:12
Bailey (Drake)happened and she also reincarnated. Wait, it gets even more magical. She reincarnated and it's Dual Lia. >> Poison Ivy.
00:32:23
Bailey (Drake)>> Who? Who are you? Who were you in the past life? Anyone famous? >> Yes, but I don't think I was here physically. And if I was, it doesn't matter. >> If I was here,
00:32:35
Brian Atlas>> I don't know. Were you like a famous queen or something? >> Yes, I'm someone famous, but I can't say. >> Why? >> Because that's a story for another time. Maybe next episode. Just say just say who it is. >> No,
00:32:46
Bailey (Drake)>> that's next episode. Come on. I have so much other things to say in this one. But yes, I was someone well known. That's why I ended up being with a lot of these people in these positions because I can handle being
00:32:59
Bailey (Drake)with them, I guess, more than other people.
00:33:05
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Thank you for sharing that insightful uh passage of information. What about you? >> Hey, what's up? I'm Gati and before that girl where you getting your shrooms >> right
00:33:20
Gatianyways. Okay. So, um yes. So, I'm Gati. I'm 27 years old and I am a Tik Tok live stream girly. So, you see me selling
00:33:29
Gatilike random [ __ ] on Tik Tok. Um and I am going to school right now um for acting and stuff like that, but I'm also taking like random classes. I went to school
00:33:40
Gatibefore, but then I just decided, you know, why not go to school again and just take some classes, learn something new and different. And other than that,
00:33:51
GatiI'm from California. I moved around a lot. Um, military brat, so, you know, was everywhere. But now, you know, just here. >> Did you Did you go to college or university?
00:34:03
Brian Atlas>> Uh, just college, community college. I don't believe in university. >> You have your uh associates degree then? Mhm. Yes. >> In what? >> In liberal arts and humanities.
00:34:14
Erica (Oregon)>> Okay. Got it. All right. What about you? >> My name is Erica. I am 24 and I'm from Oregon and I'm currently a caregiver.
00:34:23
Brian Atlas>> All right. And uh you Okay. You're from Oregon. Education. >> Uh high school. >> High school. Got it. Okay. All right. That's everybody's intro. We're going to
00:34:35
Brian Atlasgo around the table in just a moment, get everybody's relationship status, but first we have some messages coming through. >> Hasty George donated $200.
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Bailey (Drake)Chair six, what medications are you currently on? >> Sativa, to make myself uh high all the time to keep him off my mind. I'm just kidding.
00:34:57
Bailey (Drake)>> Do you have any Have you been diagnosed with anything? I have autism, but low-key autism and lowkey autism. Okay. ADD and
00:35:08
Brian Atlasyeah, >> good times. Good times. Oh, we got >> superpowers. >> Got a old friend here coming through in just a moment. >> One sec here. Got Grid One. Thank you,
00:35:21
Brian AtlasGrid One. Good to see you in the chat, man. You're a [ __ ] legend. Appreciate it. Grid One Motorsports donated $2001.
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SPEAKER_00Bruh, I dropped by to say, "What's up, Brixen?" and stumble right into batshit crazy chick. I will be out in the area for TwitchCon next month. If I get a chance, I can maybe drop by. Have a great show.
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Brian Atlas>> Yo, Grid One, thank you, man. Do you want to respond to Grid One? He said, "You're batshit crazy." >> Yeah, that's true. I am crazy. Oh, she's self-aware, I guess. Thank
00:35:57
Brian Atlasyou, Grid One. Appreciate it. Stay tuned, Grid One. We got a good show. Be sure to stay tuned. Uh, okay. Chaw says, "Brian, chair one
00:36:07
Brian Atlaswas once institutionalized, which is fair. She probably needed it. Chair six needs to be an institution right this second. I applaud your monthly Artar charity streams, though. You're Thank
00:36:19
Bailey (Drake)you, Chaw. I appreciate it. Yeah, I'm too I'm too uh real for you. That's why you want me to be in there because you don't want me to change the world. So, but it's already happening no matter what. >> She's changing the world one strip dance
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Bailey (Drake)at a time. >> One >> strip cuz you >> Yeah, that's one way to spread love. Yeah. And I sing >> by singing. >> Taking all the souls back. >> You didn't You didn't sing right now. That
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SPEAKER_00>> Yeah. >> Rude. Got Py George once again. Pasty George donated $200. Hey Brian, in a past life, you were once an indigenous person, but decided to be
00:36:56
Brian Atlaswhite this time around because you got bored. Lol. >> Why do they always >> This is true. In my past life, I was a I was Chumash local local tribe here in
00:37:07
Brian AtlasSan Barbara. I was chumash past life. Before that, I was I was actually it was more so Latin America.
00:37:16
Brian AtlasI was Aztec. Before that, I was Inca. Or wait, >> you may actually [ __ ] I'm crying. >> That's what Bailey said last time.
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Arada>> She Oh, wait. What did she say? >> No, someone else said that. Remember? See, why do you guys >> No, >> someone said you're Hitler the last time Bailey was on the show. I don't remember if it was Bailey. >> Yeah, I told you. But no, it wasn't me
00:37:41
Brian Atlasthat said it. Someone just brought it up. I'm like, maybe you were. >> Wow. I see the resemblance. >> That is that is interesting. That is that's that's an interesting.
00:37:53
Bailey (Drake)>> By the way, Hitler wasn't as bad as probably people think, but he was bad, don't worry. But >> Okay. Well, we're not going to go down that rabbit hole.
00:38:04
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. Yeah. But, uh, >> what is your current relationship status? How long have you been single, if you're single? And what's the longest
00:38:14
Alex (TTI)relationship you've been in? >> Um, currently I'm like not dating the person I'm seeing yet because we just kind of started seeing each other recently, but I'm like exclusively
00:38:26
Alex (TTI)seeing someone. I wouldn't call it a situationship. So there's >> So you're not you're not single? >> No. >> Okay. So you're But it's not a relationship >> like on all technicality.
00:38:38
Alex (TTI)>> How long have you been seeing the guy? Um, like seriously like give or take like a month now. >> How long have you known him? >> Uh, like a couple months, like half a year. >> What's that on your neck? Is that from him?
00:38:52
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Oh, okay. Uh, I'm just going to say dating, I guess. Two months or whatever. Is Is it exclusive? Are you guys >> Yeah. Yes. >> So, it's monogous?
00:39:04
Alex (TTI)>> Yes. >> Okay. Longest relationship? Um, it was on and off for a couple years. That was like my first love. Um, I don't know. It was literally just on and off for a couple years and then like while
00:39:17
Alex (TTI)>> he's in prison. >> Yeah. That Yeah. >> forever >> for for doing >> like forever murder. >> Oh, >> yeah. That happened while I was in my program. Like I guess like 6 months in
00:39:29
Alex (TTI)he got like locked up. And so like when I went on my home visit, my friend was like, "Oh yeah, >> he's he's uh you wrote three felony charges, awaiting trial." >> Yeah. So he's been like awaiting trial for like 2 years now or something and like
00:39:42
Alex (TTI)>> he murdered one person, >> dude. Okay. I don't even like Right. >> I don't know. I don't know. >> I was I was I was
00:39:52
Alex (TTI)>> What are his charges? Um, it's it's felony murder and uh >> [ __ ] smiling. >> No, this is Okay, this is like how I respond when I'm uncomfortable because it's like >> were you
00:40:05
Alex (TTI)>> What was he doing? >> Were you involved? >> No. Okay, so here's my thing is it's just really unfortunate because it's not just him that was charged with it. It was like him, his uncles, this other kid I went to like middle school with, and
00:40:18
Alex (TTI)then like two other kids. So that's what I'm saying when I say I don't know cuz it's like six of them charged with like the same thing or whatever. >> So and this was two years ago. >> Yeah. Like I was in Utah and so I come
00:40:28
Alex (TTI)back and like my friends are like oh yeah that guy is gone. I was like okay that's cool. >> Awesome. Actually >> first you were dating him for like what 2 years or something.
00:40:39
Alex (TTI)>> Uh we started seeing each other when I was like 14 turning 15 and then >> How old was he? >> He was like 16 17. >> Okay. >> Yeah. I don't know. But we were on and off. Anyway, we were on and off until I was like almost dating.
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Alex (TTI)>> Was he while you were dating him, was he engaged in any other kind of criminal activity? >> Dude, so when we started dating, he was sober and like fine. Um, >> and then he met you. >> Damn. Wow. That's a huge indictment.
00:41:04
Alex (TTI)>> Yeah, >> he was sober. And then he met this girl. >> Okay. >> And now he's It sounds like he's a drug addict. >> How old was I? Can we blame this on me? and in prison for multiple felonies, murder.
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Alex (TTI)>> Okay, so it started with the murder and then like his like >> Wait, it started with the murder. >> Yeah. Well, and then his dumb ass while he's in there like started moving stuff, I guess. Cuz when I went to check his charges like like half a year ago or something, he had two more.
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Alex (TTI)>> Oh, in. >> So now he has three felonies. Yeah. He's never getting out. He was >> Why would you do that? Cuz he didn't even like he hasn't been convicted of murder yet. So, like maybe he could have gotten off, but now he has two other felonies in there, so he's just like done.
00:41:44
Brian Atlas>> Okay. He got charged while he was in prison or jail, I guess. >> Yeah. >> For drugs, >> for like moving stuff. Yeah. It said like possession. >> Have you visited him in jail? >> Mm- No, I cut contact like Uhuh.
00:41:56
Alex (TTI)>> Do you know any details about what happened? Um, I have like a like a friend who talks to like one of the guys who was also charged like because we all it was a small like area we grew up in.
00:42:10
Alex (TTI)We all like knew >> Coachella. >> Yeah. >> Um, I mean I don't know. I haven't heard anything or like checked. I mean really other than the the felonies, right, that he got added. >> Was more than one person murdered. Was it just >> No, it was just one person.
00:42:24
Alex (TTI)>> One person murdered. >> Yeah. And then it was like I don't know his like like family like was there and then they got caught up and then they like snitched him out I guess and then he got caught up like a week later and then they all started dropping like
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Alex (TTI)>> Was he in a gang? >> No, >> not gang related. >> No. No. There's just like really bad like gun violence where I'm from like bad >> in Coachella. >> Yeah. >> Isn't it like a nice place? >> See that's I feel like a lot of people think that until you like live like out
00:42:51
Alex (TTI)there. >> Live >> Yeah. like actually like live out there cuz it's not like really a vacation spot. Like I don't know if you've ever been to like Coachella Fest and you accidentally get stuck out there like anywhere out there. It's really not great. >> Good times.
00:43:04
Brian Atlas>> Yeah, >> good times. All right. Um but anyways, that's that was your longest relationship >> and uh you said you have a lot more lore, but we'll come back to that. What
00:43:16
Chloe (Mercedes)about you? >> Uh I'm single. I've been single forever. uh just started dating after I moved here almost like two years ago and I heavily dated like I I exploring stage
00:43:30
Chloe (Mercedes)kind of. >> When you say you've been single forever, what do you mean? >> Like I never uh been in a relationships. >> You've never been in a relationship? >> Never. I'm 25.
00:43:41
Chloe (Mercedes)>> Um you have you did you date in China? >> Never because my family was very strict. >> Strict. Okay.
00:43:51
Chloe (Mercedes)>> I have curfew and I didn't have any like I didn't have that much social medias. >> Is your family in the government?
00:44:01
Chloe (Mercedes)>> They are not but they're in national corporate like >> they're business people. Okay. >> Uh did you date in Korea at all?
00:44:13
Chloe (Mercedes)>> I wouldn't say dating but >> what would you say? It wasn't a relationship, but I was using Tinder. >> Using Tinder? >> Yeah. That was the first time I was
00:44:22
Chloe (Mercedes)exposed to Tinder because in China, I don't know. Not many use Tinder where it was banned. I forgot. >> Okay. And then nothing here. You've been here for two
00:44:34
Brian Atlasand a half years. Anything? >> Yeah. Heavily dated, but >> heavily dated. >> Dated. Yeah. >> Dated, but no boyfriend. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Um, I'll come back to some of
00:44:45
Kylie (Gap Year)that, but in your notes, you say you were uh well, I'll come back to it. What about you?
00:44:54
Kylie (Gap Year)>> Um, I've been single for about two weeks uh since yesterday and >> I'm not kind of not seeing anyone seriously. >> Okay.
00:45:05
Kylie (Gap Year)>> Um, and my longest relationship um in my opinion would be 2 years. Um, technically >> in your opinion, >> it's confusing. >> Would the guy disagree?
00:45:17
Kylie (Gap Year)>> Um, I think yeah, he would disagree, but I'm just I we see time differently. So, it's like we dated for a year and then broke up for eight months and then dated for another year and then broke up two weeks ago. >> So, okay.
00:45:30
Kylie (Gap Year)>> I kind of just added up the time from there. >> I see. Okay. Who broke up with who? >> It was a very mutual decision since February. Um, and it was a good breakup. It only took about 15 minutes. Um, >> good good breakup. >> Yeah. Short.
00:45:44
Kylie (Gap Year)>> Um, >> to the point. >> Yeah, he only cried until I just literally moved to Santa Barbara. >> He cried. >> He cried. >> Did you cry? >> I did cry, but not when we were breaking up. It It was when his mom started
00:45:56
Kylie (Gap Year)crying to me. >> The mom was there at the breakup. >> Yeah, she was like outside the room. And so when I was like walking out, she started crying and I Yeah. Then I just started crying from there. But other
00:46:07
Kylie (Gap Year)other than that, it was a good breakup. Um, we still still kept in contact on messages, but I recently blocked him cuz I don't think it was good for us to keep contact again. Um,
00:46:17
Brian Atlas>> but yeah, >> I see. And you said that you're sort of single. >> Yeah, >> I sensed a little bit of like uh maybe there's somebody in the picture.
00:46:30
Kylie (Gap Year)Um, I mean I feel guilty for not guilty but I feel weird saying it because uh the first time me and my ex broke up for those eight months I was just going around with people. Um,
00:46:43
Kylie (Gap Year)>> when you say going around with people, what do you mean? >> I I mean like >> like hooking up, just having fun. >> Yeah. Okay. >> Hooking up, having fun. Um, I do and don't regret them, but like when we got
00:46:53
Kylie (Gap Year)when me and my ex got back together, like it felt different cuz I was older, probably more mature. And since now since we broken up, um, I was sad for
00:47:04
Kylie (Gap Year)like the first day, but I wasn't crying. I, you know, downloaded Tinder for a bit and then deleted it a couple days ago. But on Tinder, I met a guy for the
00:47:13
Kylie (Gap Year)second time and um went to his house and we've only been hanging out for the last two weekends, but he's he's done everything that I wish my ex would have done.
00:47:27
Kylie (Gap Year)>> So, >> which is what >> like maybe give me flowers, give me compliments a lot. >> Oh, he get he got you flowers? >> Yeah. >> Like two times or just once? Uh just once the first time and then the second
00:47:39
Brian Atlastime it was just you know >> and the first time that was the first time you met him. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Got you flowers? >> Yeah. >> Did you uh what was like you went over to his house on the first time? >> Yeah, I went to his house on the first time cuz I thought it was just going to
00:47:52
Kylie (Gap Year)be a hookup. >> Um >> Okay. >> And did not turn out that way and so >> yeah, now we're I guess kind of talking. Yeah. >> Nice. Um, so and that was what, a week
00:48:06
Kylie (Gap Year)ago? >> Like two weeks ago. >> Question, how soon after the breakup conversation? >> Yeah. >> Did you meet this new guy?
00:48:17
Brian Atlas>> Um, it was the day of our breakup. Um, I >> Wait, hold on. Like the same day? >> Yeah. So, the same day >> 3 p.m. Sorry. Uh, I don't know what's Jake or whatever, you know. Sorry. Uh, can't do
00:48:30
Kylie (Gap Year)it. Um, >> and then you drove over right after. >> So, it was like, um, I moved to Santa Barbara maybe like two and a half weeks ago and I moved here the same day me and
00:48:43
Kylie (Gap Year)my ex broke up and then the same day I downloaded Tinder and then I think the next day I went to the guy's house just because um I was just kind of sad for the first day and I >> um,
00:48:55
Kylie (Gap Year)>> you needed some a warm body. >> Yeah, I guess. Yeah. >> Okay. And >> cool. >> Um, I just thought it was going to be hookup and that's it. So, I wasn't like prepared for anything.
00:49:06
Brian Atlas>> So, how did how did the that first encounter go? Like you went over like expecting it to be like a [ __ ] boy, but then here he's got you flowers and stuff. >> It was pretty alarming. >> We're still a [ __ ] boy, but also gave
00:49:19
Kylie (Gap Year)you flowers >> maybe. Um, I mean it was pretty alarming cuz I didn't expect that. That's never happened before. >> Were did you appreciate it or were you like too much? both because I don't know
00:49:32
Kylie (Gap Year)when like if it's flowers for a special occasion I get that. Um, but you don't know the guy usually. >> No, I mean actually, yeah, we've been hanging out actually a lot and talking on the phone. >> But the first time? >> Yeah, the first time. >> You didn't know this guy, right? So,
00:49:46
Kylie (Gap Year)it's like, >> no. And usually I never receive flowers like on a first date or even a first hookup. So, I was just like, "Oh, okay." >> Okay. >> And then as I got to know him, it was like 6 hours of just talking. And it was
00:49:59
Brian Atlaspretty weird to me cuz that's never happened in a hookup before to me. >> I see. And um so you guys you go over, he gives you flowers and you talk for 6 hours. >> Yeah. >> And then you hook up. >> Yeah. >> After the six hours of talking.
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Brian Atlas>> Yep. >> Okay. >> Got it. >> Kind of just it kind of just felt like a date. But >> how how do you said there were like other hookups you've had in the past? How have those typically gone different for you?
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> Um it's usually like straight off the bat like saying hi, how are you? And then immediately going into flirting and then you know you get more comfortable and it just happens. And then after that I just kind of leave and that's it.
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Brian Atlas>> So you you'll go to the the guy's house like how soon typically? Like okay you walk through the door >> and is it like immediately? Is there like 15 minutes of talk? Is
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> more like 15 minutes? Yeah >> 15 minutes and then they just go for it. >> Yeah. >> Okay. What's the quickest ever? >> Quickest. Um probably I mean it's probably was around 5
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Kylie (Gap Year)minutes. >> 5 minutes. front door. >> Straight to business. >> It was actually in my car in a parking lot. >> Oh, it was in your car? >> Yeah, >> in the parking lot. >> Yeah. >> Of a 7-Eleven.
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Brian Atlas>> Um, it was an ice cream store. >> Okay, that's better than 7-Eleven parking lot. Was it a nice ice cream store? >> Yeah, I guess. >> Did you guys have ice cream or not? Really? >> Um, >> he skipped the ice cream. >> No, he left and then I actually got the
00:51:25
Kylie (Gap Year)ice cream cuz I was feeling pretty hot. >> Oh, he left. >> Yeah. After we were done, like it was that's it. Like what was the How long were you guys kicking it? >> 20 minutes. >> 20 minutes. >> Oh my god.
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> Showed Wait, showed up and then he just dips. >> Yeah. >> And so were you like already in the back seat or how did that happen?
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> Um like I I was in my driver's seat and then I kind of just went to the passenger seat that had like you can just put it down all the way. So >> Oh, wait. So, okay. So he pulls up in
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Kylie (Gap Year)his car >> or did you pick him up or >> um No, I met at the parking lot that was near my house and then he met me and >> he met you at the parking lot. >> Yeah. And then he goes into your car. >> Yeah, cuz my car is really No, it's
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Brian Atlasreally big. >> It's a What kind of >> Toyota Seoia? >> Is that That's a truck, right? Or wait, Sequoa van. Or is that >> It's a van. It's a really big You have a van. A minivan. >> Not a minivan. It's just the size of
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Brian Atlas>> Is it your car or your parents car? It's It was my mom's old car and she gave it to me. >> Oh, she gave it to you. Okay. Uh so then did did you get out and like meet outside of the cars or did you just stay in the car the whole time?
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> Uh just stay a car outside the car the whole time. He just like came inside my passenger seat >> and then we just >> He came into the passenger seat. >> Yes. >> And then you went to the passenger seat. >> No, like we talked for like maybe two
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Kylie (Gap Year)minutes. >> Two minutes. >> Um >> how does that go? Like how does it go? Like, do does he make the first move? >> Do you make what? I almost never make the first move.
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Brian Atlas>> So, he's like, "Hi, I'm I'm uh Brad. Nice to meet you." And he just like goes for it. >> Um, yeah, basically. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Didn't last very long, though.
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> No, it didn't. >> I mean, to be fair, car sex is kind of >> uncomfortable. >> It's a little Yeah. >> Yeah. I mean, he wasn't like a big dude, so it wasn't like uncomfortable in my body. >> He was like >> a little taller than me and like buildwise normal.
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Um, was it was it good? >> It was um a bit uncomfortable because actually that was the first time doing it in my car.
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> In your car? >> Yeah. Um, so it was a bit hard to maneuver, but other than that it was it was okay. It wasn't the best, but it was okay. >> Okay. And you've but you've uh sometimes you'll go to the guy's place. Um
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Brian Atlas>> most of the time, yeah, that's how >> And usually the it maybe shocked you, this most recent guy, because he talked to you for 6 hours beforehand, got you
00:54:07
Brian Atlasflowers, you've seen him again. Uh but I can you go into detail on any of the other hookups you've had like that might have been interesting or unique? Um
00:54:20
Kylie (Gap Year)I mean >> or is it pretty standard like you it sounds like you just go to their house and hook up pretty quickly. >> It's pretty like diff sometimes it's most of the time it's different um with all guys because um I care a lot about
00:54:33
Kylie (Gap Year)people. So most of the time I I'll try to do more talking um because >> I don't know. I just I think it's just like talking to people and then most of the time we'll stay friends and um
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> do do any of them ever want to do like round two >> or >> Yeah. Yeah. Like friends with benefits. That's >> Oh, so you you'll do that. >> That's like just a hookup, but then I'll keep talking to them and like we'll keep texting but not in like a talking way like we're in a friend's way and so it then eventually just turns into friends
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Brian Atlaswith benefits. >> Gotcha. Do you have a So okay, you were dating the guy for a year then you guys were on a break for eight months. Uh during that eight eightmonth break, you this is kind of when you're just having some fun uh like
00:55:11
Brian Atlashooking up with guys, keeping it uh casual. >> Did you have a roster of guys? Cuz I you said that some of these guys you would continue seeing and friends with benefits. Uh I guess did you have a
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Kylie (Gap Year)roster then? >> Um yeah, for a while it would like go up and down, but then at one point like they all came back at the same time, which is >> all came back. It was like Okay. Um,
00:55:36
Kylie (Gap Year)what was the biggest the roster ever was? >> Uh, do I have to be honest? Like, >> yes.
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> No shame. No shame here. No shame. >> No, it's not that big. Um, like five or six, I think. >> Five or six on the roster.
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Brian Atlas>> At the same time. Yeah. >> At the same time. Okay. And um was there ever any that you were just like bad experience only a one time thing? >> Yeah.
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Brian Atlas>> A couple of those or >> um like two or three. >> Two or three. Okay. And did they did they want to still see you or were it was more so on your end. You're like, "Nah, I'm not feeling it." >> Uh yeah, it was more so on my end, but
00:56:21
Kylie (Gap Year)we still continued to be friends if um we were already friends with Ben. >> And most of these guys, you would meet them like on Tinder or where would you meet them? Actually, no. Only one guy on
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Kylie (Gap Year)Tinder. Um, well, two people now. Um, most of them were co-workers or friends of friends. >> Okay. >> So, >> Gotcha. All right. Uh, so the the roster
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Brian Atlaswas at its biggest, you said five to six. >> Yeah. >> But then you said there was one moment, >> one moment that will go down in history where they all just >> they were just I don't know. They they came back. They're like, damn, I need I
00:56:55
Kylie (Gap Year)need more >> of you. That was I think seven or eight. But it wasn't like we were doing anything. It was my ex coming in into my life again. >> Yeah.
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> And um one other person trying to have like a serious talking stage with me, but I just wasn't that interested. >> Um and then the other few were like, you know, friends with benefits still.
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Brian Atlas>> Gotcha. Okay. >> So like sometimes they'll disappear or I'll disappear and then just come back every couple weeks or something. And then so the guy who you were seeing for two years collectively, there was that break after about a year when you guys
00:57:32
Kylie (Gap Year)were together. >> Um who that first break, who initiated it? >> It was confusing cuz I did it first, got back with him. He did it to me and then he was trying to get back with me for a
00:57:43
Kylie (Gap Year)week, but in my mindset because he already broke up with me, I you know, don't want to get back with him. Mhm. >> Um and then something occurred and then he like officially officially was done
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Brian Atlaswith me and and then I left. Yeah. >> Okay. For that uh there's that initial breakup I guess where there was the break for the 8-month period. How soon
00:58:05
Kylie (Gap Year)into that break did you start doing some of the more hookup stuff? >> Um it's pretty embarrassing, but it was the same day we broke up the first time. >> Same day.
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Kylie (Gap Year)>> Yeah. Did and were these guys that you had like in the back pocket or you like break up and then you meet them? >> The guy that I met the same day I hooked up with on the day of my first breakup
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Kylie (Gap Year)was um when me and my ex were still like he was trying to still get back with me. I went to my friend's house the night before and I greened out and there was this guy taking care of me and I really
00:58:37
Kylie (Gap Year)appreciated that. And then um he asked me the next day if he wanted if we could go thrifting and then coincidentally the next day, you know, me and my ex were officially done and then we went
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Brian Atlasthrifting, went to this like hill spot and then it happened. Yeah. >> And was was he one of the friends with benefits guys that you saw for a little bit or >> Yeah. >> Okay. Gotcha.
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Brian AtlasAll right. And then so that was pretty quick after that breakup. And then the most recent breakup, same guy that happened two weeks ago. To clarify, was it the next day or the same day that you got on Tinder?
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Brian Atlas>> Uh, >> and then met this current guy who you were seeing. >> Yes. The day of our breakup was the same day I got Tinder, but it was the next day that I met the guy. >> Okay. So, the day after, that's when you guys had hooked up and then you hooked up again. Do you like the guy? think you're going
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Kylie (Gap Year)to >> Yeah, he's actually like >> probably the most respectful guy I've ever met. >> Okay. >> Um he just gives me way more confidence and reassurance in that any guy has ever did. Um >> so what does he do?