04:41:51Andrew Wilsonyou would have to make a proof that it took me away from my Lord Jesus Christ you can never do it in a million years you're an idiot I would destroy you in 15 seconds but anyway back to the wondrous conversation that we were
04:42:03Andrew Wilsonhaving with this lovely woman this evening I wonder if you could expand uh just kind of quickly on what you were saying earlier were talking about how it is that women who are not
04:42:14Andrew Wilsoncompartmentalized as girlfriend material essentially are acting in a wiely way mhm so I started off by saying that um if you put a woman in a position that
04:42:24Cinderellathey can feel like feminine and lead and like follow you not lead follow you I feel like in today's standards of dating men don't really show that sense of commitment that really that that would
04:42:36Andrew Wilsonput women in that position so you're saying okay that so this is maybe where we have the deviation um what is the expectation
04:42:47Andrew Wilsonthat you have when you're dating of to like in me in a committed relationship yeah but I mean you're not committed yet you're just
04:42:59Andrew Wilsondating um can you rephrase I'm not really sure what you mean by that yeah so I mean you could date let's say you could even date 10 men yeah without sleeping with any of them right go on dates you can go on dinner this what is
04:43:11Cinderellathe actual expectation that you have me personally I wouldn't put much effort in it if it's not like one person if I'm like dating around it wouldn't really be anything serious to the point where I
04:43:21Andrew Wilsonput myself out there to like show um exceeding expectations with that relationship or okay so then situation so from your view you're saying you only
04:43:32Cinderellawant to date one man at a time right yeah and I put that I'd put I'd put myself in a situation to feel feminine enough to allow him to Lead Me in any aspect well I have a question could we
04:43:45Alexcould we all answer this to like figure it out because like I can say at least for me like if I'm going to be dating a guy it's going to be dating a guy because I like the guy which then leads to like a relationship which then would
04:43:57Alexmean like we'd get serious and then it's like to the point of like marriage I would want to say at least for me personally like not saying that I'm going to be dating to marry but like definitely dating to dating to like be
04:44:08Alexwith someone for a long time and like actually wanting to be with just this person like monog monogamously so what's so if you had to summarize the question
04:44:18TTS/Chat readerwhat is the summary well like what would we all be dating for marage yeah that's now that's a great question iated $69 Brian living in cforia you know how
04:44:30TTS/Chat readerexpensive this shite is to the girl in the Cowboys 33t this is for you you're at least an eight hope you're not a liberal cheers Andrew
04:44:42Brian AtlasI'm not one specific thing but thank you Anonymous thank you Anonymous appreciate it uh also just thank you to Brian's favorite simp I didn't I forgot to thank you for your uh TTS earlier thank you
04:44:52Brian AtlasDestiny even though whatever that's not the actual Destiny that's some other guy um did you want to continue on that Andrew or yeah well she was saying what are you dating for I think that's a good
04:45:03Brian Atlasquestion for the panel if you don't mind humoring us Brian what are you guys dating for what is the purpose of dating let start with you me yeah well you're already married so I don't know I guess
04:45:15Jelleyou can answer still but we know your answer no yeah um I'm definitely dating for marriage um I felt like that's where I was hoping to getting in my last
04:45:26Jellerelationship um I feel like that's why I was doing all that and then also I think it comes with the intention and that was definitely my intention was to get married yes and
04:45:39Jellethat's why I was a doing those like duties as in cooking cleaning and providing spiritually and financially and so on so you were in a
04:45:50Jellemonogamous relationship with a single single guy yes yes oh okay I understand mhm is sex a part of that I'm sorry is sex a part of that um it wasn't at first
04:46:01Jellebut then once he made the environment for me to feel safe then yes I I had sex with them um with me person with me personally I'm
04:46:14CinderellaI don't I wouldn't describe myself as a person who would date aimlessly I I wouldn't say marriage either because I'm so young but definitely for like correct experiences that will like shape me into
04:46:25Andrew Wilsonsomebody that I want to be who whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa wait wait hang on back up you're not dating for marriage
04:46:35Cinderellaspecifically because I'm so young for experiences no I wouldn't say like like experiences in way you're probably thinking but if it would that's not why I'm not infering an experience of a longterm an experience of a long-term
04:46:48Cinderellarelationship that might lead me to marriage but because I'm So Young it's not it's not a guarantee that I would like if I don't 100% see myself marrying that person I would cut it off completely not like that because I'm I'm
04:47:00Cinderellareaching for those experiences that would shape me into like what's wrong with getting married young though nothing nothing at all but me personally because of what I want to do with my career and like stuff like that it's just not on my it's well what do you
04:47:11Cinderellawant to do with your career me hopefully Med um the Medfield I'm not sure with doctor but you know like that's really time committing especially with like my um load of study right now currently
04:47:22Andrew Wilsoneven as as a college student So you you're going to medical school um it would be a hope currently but we never know I I don't understand it could be a hope are you going to medical school or
04:47:34Cinderellaor are you right now just doing the prerequisites to go right now I'm a I'm a college student but I'm saying that looking for for in the future with what I currently hope to do M early marriage
04:47:44Andrew Wilsonwouldn't be a priority for me why not just because of how I see myself like maneuvering in that lifestyle it just pror career over marriage like let's say
04:47:57Cinderellayou found the perfect guy tomorrow he was great and fantastic and this and that would you still prioritize your career over that if he put me in a position if he put me in a position where it wouldn't it wouldn't umere
04:48:09Andrew Wilsoninterfere with anything that has to do my career of course you can have a if he had enough money to just take care of you and ask you abandon the career why why would that actually be
04:48:22Alexproblematic that like would depend on the person right like what your dreams and your passions are based off of a guy who just wants to pay everything off for you some people would be down for that but she doesn't seem like she be down for that she wants to have like but she
04:48:34Andrew Wilsonhas a mouth and can speak for herself and we're having a combo so just just relax for a second and if you don't mind letting her answer so I can take you back exactly I know calm down I know it
04:48:45Andrew Wilsongets mad if you you're not allowed to speak for somebody else you get mad I get that but just let them speak for themselves that's fine let them speak for themselves it's cool anyway um so so
04:48:57Andrew Wilsonback to you if you don't mind um kind of elaborating on this because I find this kind of interesting is why is it that you would reject a man taking care of
04:49:07Andrew Wilsonyou if he wanted you to reject the person pursuance of a career in Li of children because why would I do that I don't really I don't understand why that because you only have X amount of
04:49:19Andrew Wilsonfertile years right I mean but why would that be my top priority yeah I'll explain it okay so if you want to have a family and a husband and children and you find a good high value man or a man
04:49:30Andrew Wilsonwith virtue who wants to also have children basically your 20s is going to be the years in which you bear the most amount of children in your 30s that's going to rapidly decrease same thing in
04:49:41Andrew Wilsonyour 40s so if he says listen I would like you to stay at home with our children to make the most optimal family possible and I will take care of the
04:49:50Cinderellamoney why is it unreasonable for him to ask you to do that just because of my passions as a person and I would really like I would I would want to be with somebody who would understand that I
04:50:02Cinderellareally wouldn't put myself in that situation so you would reject family in your fertile years for what it is that you want I mean but how do you know
04:50:13Andrew Wilsonfamily is a priority for me like I don't I don't because you said it was when did I say that well earlier when we were having the argument about Christian ethics I assume that you follow I assume
04:50:25Andrew Wilsonyou follow Christian ethics am I incorrect about that I'm I'm Catholic yeah but um I understand commanded by the Catholic Church to be fertile and to multiply but that's not really one of my
04:50:38Cinderellait's not really something I want to do going like it's not my top priority like yes as a Catholic I understand that but c um with the whole system of me being Catholic there's stuff I don't agree with and I understand
04:50:50Cinderellathat it might not like align with other Catholics and how they might see me but it's just something I don't really agree with it it's not like I'm picking and choosing but it just doesn't align with me as a person well when you talk to
04:51:01Cinderellayour priest what does he say um we don't really talk about things like that I'm not I don't think this is a de no yeah do you really attend Catholic mass
04:51:13Cinderellavery often I mean I go to confessional stuff like that but that I don't really think that's something that would be brought up me not wanting I mean it's it's brought up quite a bit right if that's your that that's your spiritual
04:51:26Andrew Wilsonfather isn't that a person you would confide that kind of thing into or no no that's true but I really just don't think that's such a big deal you know I don't know what we're going back and forth about well we're not really going
04:51:38Andrew Wilsonback and forth I'm just I'm I just want make sure I understand your mindset that's it so uh ultimately if you think that there is any sort of push back from your
04:51:50Cinderellareligious views towards the things that you personally want you will abandon the religious View for the thing that you want that's not really what I like I don't I don't see my actions as that I'm
04:52:03Cinderellanot saying I'm not going to start a family at all that's definitely something I want but not so early that's not a priority for me no well when how many years do you have to start one whenever it happens God willing that's
04:52:14Andrew WilsonGod's time not mine as long as it's on the terms of you also get what it is that you personally desire right I mean that is my train of thought while
04:52:26CinderellaI'm advancing in life you you don't you don't consider that somewhat selfish no because I'm not abandoning what God wants like all together is just not a early priority for you haven't
04:52:38Andrew Wilsoneven talked to your priest about it how do you know that I mean like I said before God's timing whatever happens happens that's just that's I'm going to leave it at that all right all right I'll I'll let it go from there I just wanted to uh inquire we can continue
04:52:50Brian Atlaswith the same question around the table if Brian um unless Brian wants to move this on well I got to get through all my notes first so I think we do have to move it on to something else I wanted to come back to my question for you you
04:53:01Brian Atlassaid that consumption of pornography is cheating pornog pornography creates weak men and it seems you seem to have this it's also the case for women too though correct women consuming pornography that
04:53:13Brian Atlaswould be cheating too okay now I think there's a bit of differential here and if I grant to you that consumption of pornography is cheating on the man's part now I'm not going to frame it from
04:53:24Brian Atlasa cheating perspective but I would argue that men watching pornography is the equivalent of women using social
04:53:35Brian Atlasmedia that's it that's my whole point H can um in what way right so men and women are different men want sex women
04:53:46Brian Atlaswant attention and so what disagree or do you not think men also want attention no not to the same
04:53:55Brian Atlasdegree that women do I think it depends on the person if yeah sure like using social media as the damage speak speak
04:54:05Brian Atlasgeneralities I I would ARG just gener sorry my bad so so I would I would argue that the there's this a lot of women seem to take quarrel with men watching porn I would not want to date a guy who
04:54:17TTS/Chat readerwatched porn or you would see it as a potential like yellow flag red flag Ryan mccallop donated $69 ladies I'd like to point out the
04:54:29TTS/Chat readersooner you have children the longer your kids will have access to you in their lifetime that's a really good point true that's a really good point Ryan
04:54:38Brian AtlasRy so there's this differential here so I would argue that as a woman if you're like I don't want a guy to uh excuse me I don't want a guy
04:54:50Brian Atlasto watch porn I think the equivalent request and demand on the man's part would be to say I don't want you on social media I think that's the equivalent
04:55:02Cinderellarequest like actually posting on social media or just on it in general yeah no social media no Instagram I don't think that's equivalent I don't think that's [Music]
04:55:13Brian Atlasbecause men can get attention on social media really how how many how many hold okay let me ask uh I don't know where I'll start on this um how many DMS who
04:55:23Cinderellasaid that me you okay how many DMS do you get from random dudes I mean I get I get DMS every day not every day but couple week highly okay how many DMS are you sending out I
04:55:36Cinderellamean if I see someone's attractive I I'll slide up with a hard eye say you look good how many DM how many DMS have you ever sent in your whole life like to a guy to a guy who you're like a c how
04:55:46Cinderellamany I can't count but not five more more probably like not like different guys but if a guy looks good and I know him I'm going tell him what's the ratio like how many DMS are you receiving to
04:55:58Brian Atlasit's definitely higher yes I get more DMS than a guy would yeah so I mean there's definitely some differentials here but yeah I would argue that the sort of validation that you're getting
04:56:07Michaelaon social media um that's pretty damaging to a relationship I mean if you if you allow it to I guess I don't think it's half as
04:56:19Michaeladamaging as sexual infidelity wait porn is not as damaging as sexual sorry uh I don't think that like being on like Instagram social
04:56:29Brian Atlasmedia any of that is H it's nowhere near the damage that sexual infidelity does what do you mean that's that is the uh a woman being on Instagram is like the uh
04:56:41Alex[ __ ] what's it called the gateway to infidelity if you allow it I can't help that guys will find our attract but when you put yourself out there on porn you want people to see
04:56:53Brian Atlasthat you're atted here's the difference right when it comes to men and women so men or men and women are not the same like women the way you flirt is to just kind of put yourself out there so you
04:57:04Brian Atlaswon't slide into a guy's DMS but you'll post like an attractive sexy photo which will kind of prompt men to them to then DM you you're not going to approach a
04:57:15Brian Atlasguy but you'll just go to the bar or the club or the party and guys are just going to come up to you so men and women operate very differently that's why I'm actually very much against like dating a girl who goes out and party like goes to
04:57:27Brian Atlasbars clubs and parties now I don't I don't drink I don't go to parties well actually I had a hard cell so I need a br today was a little mess so I had I I don't I don't drink though generally
04:57:38Brian Atlasspeaking um so I had half the [ __ ] bottle so okay okay yeah yeah yeah so I guess the point I'm trying to make here is like as a girl like as a guy you can
04:57:48Brian Atlasgo to a bar or a club grab a drink sit at the bar nobody's going to [ __ ] talk to you the entire night but a girl you go to a bar club party whatever with your girls
04:58:00Brian Atlaseven by yourself you're going to get hit on so that's why it's actually a bigger red flag for a girl to be like going out and partying in a relationship same with like having social media like a guy can go through his whole life average guy
04:58:13Brian Atlasnormal guy go through his whole life girl will never slide into his DMS average girl 500 followers public account college girl bro she's getting
04:58:21Brian AtlasDMS from dudes college guys blue check whatever so it's totally different so in a relationship no but here's the thing since men and women are different we
04:58:32Brian Atlashave different strategies here like men are oh [ __ ] how's it go men are um is it advertisers and women are marketers advertisers yeah men are advertisers
04:58:44Brian Atlaswomen are marketers so you kind of just like put yourself out there it's like kind of the difference of like okay y'all are the employers and men are coming to you here's my resume whereas
04:58:55Brian Atlasmen it's like we're [ __ ] passing out our resume everywhere and [ __ ] and so and so like men when we get into a relationship we stop like our um our
04:59:07Brian AtlasEdge when it comes to dating would be like dming a girl M uh going out to a uh no dming a girl approaching a girl but obviously we realize in society hey we cut that off when we're in a
04:59:20Brian Atlasrelationship we stop doing that because that's cheating but women never stop their Edge when it comes to you're you're still on the market even when you're in a relationship when you're going to the bar when you're going to the club when you're posting on
04:59:32Brian AtlasInstagram you're still on the market because you're still you're still like sourcing men even when you're in a relationship that's why so many women when they break up with a dude they got a replacement immediately but that could
04:59:44Alexplay with men too what do you mean like it's I feel like you're trying to like Target a lot of these questions but in reality it goes both ways I mean I'm sure maybe to you it seems like it's
04:59:56Alexmajority like this is happening to guys because of women like it goes the same way like it happens to women because of
05:00:03Brian Atlasguys sh to uh me yeah just a little bit to your left sorry oh sorry men it's not advertisers men are salesmen women are
05:00:14Brian Atlasmarketers that's the differential so in a committed relationship a man should stop pitching and a woman should stop advertising that's my view would you not
05:00:25Saia Bellalike your girlfriend to be like like most men like the girlfriend to be attractive and approached by other men because then you can kind of put
05:00:34Saia Bellathem on a pedestal of I've got her but everyone wants her or would you say you were to insecure for people that approach I mean I'm I can't like if
05:00:46Brian Atlasshe's going to trade her Joe's I'm not going to be able to stop like men from approaching her uh but I mean I do prefer women who dress more modestly I prefer women who aren't like putting themselves all over social media
05:00:58Brian AtlasInstagram and I definitely don't I will not date a girl who's like clubbing partying doing that [ __ ] yeah people can people can still post photos where
05:01:09Saia Bellathey've fully clothed and still go about the days as I used to post selfies I'm still posting selfies now I don't see why they need to stop doing that like whether it was the most Christian girl
05:01:20Saia Bellapossible why do they then need to stop posting pictures of the face because is too insecure I mean their face is that's not a huge deal but like posting like Prov sexually provocative photos but what if they're
05:01:33Brian Atlasnot that's what I'm saying no you just say on Instagram in general there was an implication there of like I I I failed to kind of give a bit more Nuance so like if she's posting like revealing like bikini photos and
05:01:45Brian Atlas[ __ ] that's understandable like there's differences though like there's like a more tame bikini photo and then there's like a here's my ass bikini photo right I get that you me like a
05:01:57TTS/Chat readerregular General Instagram like I'm not super hardcore with it like I'm not like but prefer ninj house donated $69 soci media so if God puts the man in front of
05:02:09TTS/Chat readeryou now you would reject him for your career let's do math two guys a week is 100 plus guys a year and you're still single it's you not the men try being a
05:02:20Andrew Wilsonlady God forbid a women wants a career oh my gosh so I'm I'm not I mean it well wait a second hang on that's kind of disingenuous because it doesn't really
05:02:32Andrew Wilsonanswer to what he's saying I mean like what I saying is is that if God were to put that perfect man in your lap mhm you would still reject him for your career
05:02:42Andrew Wilsonbecause of well what I like to call me ISM me me me me me me me me me me right in in my hang on hang on that's the key right that's what he's getting at is
05:02:54Andrew Wilsonhe's saying you would still reject what could be the best thing for you because of what what it is that you think is
05:03:04Andrew Wilsonsome inherent goal or some um some inherent purpose and so he's saying that uh that would obviously from a Christian worldview lead to massive regret down the road because it seems that you're
05:03:15Andrew Wilsonnot fulfilling the function that you would normally feel as a woman inside of a Christian marriage that's that's what he's saying um in my opinion I feel like a man that God would put in front of me that's perfect I don't think my career
05:03:28Andrew Wilsonwould be an issue that's just what I'm going say yeah cuz I don't really I don't so is is I'm sorry are you there to fulfill what God's purpose for you is or are you
05:03:39Cinderellathere to fulfill what your purpose for you is God's purpose of course yes yeah so then what's God's purpose for you if he puts a perfect man in my way and it's
05:03:49Cinderellahis purpose for me to marry him I do not believe that my career would be an issue yeah I know but what if that's God's purpose how would I if God I'm say it again if God puts a man in my life and
05:04:02TTS/Chat readerit's his purpose for me to marry him and he's the perfect man for me my career will be an issue yeah tell wild donated $9 hey Brandon since you're a [ __ ] have
05:04:14TTS/Chat readeryou ever thought about dying your hair blue you are AER lip [ __ ] degenerate Kuma oh my God the [ __ ] I might I I look good with blue Air I don't know I might have to try are you going to Dy are you
05:04:26Saia Bellagoing to dye your hair blue what what it could work pink it work a bold color can I just add to that um so basically you're saying that a woman should just literally abide by what you want her to
05:04:39Saia Bellado and cook clean not have a life not go out anywhere but to the shops um never leave the house unless it's with you
05:04:51TTS/Chat readerpurp donated $69 hey Andrew why don't you tell the panel how her wife has five kids and three aren't Yours You Preach high value
05:05:01TTS/Chat readeryet you're a stepdad to three kids Baer now smile and show us those pearly yellows big up spe big up yellows and I'm sorry are you saying
05:05:12Andrew Wilsonthat I'm so altruistic as a Christian that I don't care about taking on stepchildren or that I would run an orphanage or that I would take care of children who are not mine and that somehow that is a dunk against my
05:05:25Andrew WilsonChristian values you would have to demonstrate that a cuck even by its traditional uh sentiments would be a person who
05:05:35Andrew Wilsonunwittingly took care of children who were not their own or allow a man to [ __ ] his wife Miss has been [ __ ] neither category there's only one cuck
05:05:47Brandon 'Bivo' Beushere and he's sitting next to the blonde yeah and she's sexy as [ __ ] but your M has been [ __ ] like it or not she's been [ __ ] she enjoyed allow my M to
05:05:58Background/minor (Nick/production)get [ __ ] by anybody else you allow your Ms to get [ __ ] by other men yeah but you ra children wait wait I'm sorry who with purpose who with purpose allows
05:06:10Background/minor (Nick/production)their misses to get [ __ ] by other men me you sir you've allowed your misses to answer my question sir um who allows with purpose their misses to get [ __ ]
05:06:21Andrew Wilsonby other men me or you your your misses has been [ __ ] by other men so what's answer my question sir who with purpose allows their misses to get [ __ ] by other men me or you me because we make
05:06:32Andrew Wilsonmoney and we enjoy it what's the problem because you're a [ __ ] cck never
05:06:41Brian Atlasokay guys guys guys hold guys guys guys stop stop yours let me hold on stop stop stop let me let me uh okay all right hold on let me let me get through the rest of my
05:06:53Brian Atlasnotes here I'm going to get through the rest of my notes Here your Miss okay put your swords away guys all right um going to uh Grace Grace here you said your hot
05:07:04Brian Atlastake sometimes waiting to have sex is cool rather than rushing when you say waiting have sex like waiting how long like just just waiting because just waiting hold on Country
05:07:16TTS/Chat readerTime with Mr bu donated $69 kicker kicker cuck that lady BJ are the cucks they shoot their loads this
05:07:26Brian Atlasblows course he's a hickory kick all right [ __ ] the real Shakespeare Shakespeare in the flesh over here tonight guys um how long uh
05:07:36Graci Monatawaiting how long um well that's kind of I don't know like that's I feel like giving it a definitive answer because like like I
05:07:47Graci Monataalready said I've already had sex so yeah um speaking on that like I I I think I said earlier like me and me and
05:07:57Graci Monatamy ex we we had known each other for about like four five months and then um on our first date that's when you know
05:08:07Graci Monatait happened and that's fine I don't have an issue with that yeah and I think I don't know that was just that was my first time you know so I think that's why it all hit me like at wait hold on just wait it was your first time having
05:08:19Brian Atlassex ever yeah oh wait oh okay I wasn't paying I must have missed this no yeah I think you were so wait you were so you were uh virgin yeah like and then the first first time you hung out with this guy lost your virginity no no no not
05:08:31Graci Monatafirst time we had known each other and we yeah first date first date proper date proper date but you chat into him for four five months four or five months we had established talking and then I
05:08:43Graci Monatathat's when I told them about the sushi too and oh okay well the the Mommy's boy the mom okay been long okay so have you have you ever made
05:08:53Brian Atlasa guy wait um oh like well I mean after him yeah like after him yeah but in your notes Here you also say that you've I have experienc I've also done one night
05:09:04Brian Atlasstands flings situationships so I also know the aspect of nonformal dating and fair I genuinely think I can make for a pretty good talk but um when you say you've done one night stands fling
05:09:15Graci Monatasituationships yeah uh just curious like how many one night stands so if I'm um being like completely honest like after the breakup that really hurt and I think
05:09:26Graci MonataI think I think a lot of people can agree with this too that and I've changed my ways now I would say like I'm I'm trying to be a better person and also like that's why I didn't speak on
05:09:37Graci Monatathe whole um like religious topic because I'm trying to find my way in through religious um so it's taking some time but like I said my like sorry can you repeat the question oh I was just
05:09:50Graci Monatacurious like you said you oh yeah I have okay so after the after the breakup I was devastated I was devastated you know I thought that was I thought that was
05:09:58Graci Monatathe one and I I had found out also that I believe it was like a day after or 3 days after we broke up or that I broke
05:10:09Graci Monataup with him him he um just [ __ ] another girl and yeah and hooked up with her and he did it like yeah it was just it was terrible and so that broke my
05:10:20Graci Monataheart but instead of in which I should have I in which I should have I should have you know just taking the bigger like the road the bigger Road and you know continue with my peace but I feel
05:10:33Graci Monatalike here at UCSB I don't know who I don't know who mentioned it earlier but like the hookup culture here is real and it's like you know I I had experienced like a one night stand and I hated it I
05:10:44Graci Monatahated it it was it felt so after like being in such a like long relationship I learned that you know like your value your value just really
05:10:54Graci Monatadetermines on what you like how you go on with situations and I put myself in that situation so I took full accountability and you know I live on
05:11:03Brian Atlasnight and I learned okay but you're kind of Meandering here so the question was I I was just asking like how many one night stands was it um one oh just one
05:11:15Brian Atlasokay a one night stand all that all that like pre all that pretext and like okay I'm going to preface well I like I did the one night
05:11:25Graci Monatastand but then I've also like hooked up with guys like on DP like and okay yeah that was not no I'm not I'm not judging you it like the term
05:11:36Graci Monatahookup is like so like broad oh um like out just oh okay oh yeah good we canish thatu yeah but so you have like you have
05:11:48Brian Atlashad one night stands fling situationships and in those situations like you you would say you did not wait long to have sex um in the sit um yeah okay yeah because but you said
05:12:00Graci Monatayour hot Tak sometimes waiting have sex is cool rather than yeah CU now I know now I know it's like valuing yourself and waiting is is is I wouldn't say the
05:12:10Jelleright choice but for me I changed my way and like I can't say I'm a perfect person but I mean no one is but you know as long as you learn from your experiences and it it can be different with everyone and sometimes you have to
05:12:23Jellemake those mistakes to learn those lessons because then if you didn't go through that then you wouldn't know that wasn't for you so yeah the right choice is for the person that and I think like
05:12:32Jelleas women when we like aren't really that type of person and then go into that Sandoval Jr donated $69 thank you Victor
05:12:42TTS/Chat readerblessings to all been watching the podcast for a while long live the patriarchy feminism is destroying the traditional family Andrew you're the man
05:12:54TTS/Chat readerBrian thank you for this podcast y thank you Victor appreciate the uh message much appreciated I'll ask a question related to that9 your atheism never got you money
05:13:06TTS/Chat readereither you seem like a kind man completely deceived by feminism feminism wants to destroy marriage don't get married in future as an atheist she will take all
05:13:18TTS/Chat readerdollar you want to oh okay we got a bunch wild donated $69 hey cck Brandon what's up with your teeth bro water bad over there in
05:13:29Brandon 'Bivo' BeusEngland what the [ __ ] yeah my teeth are good um she's hungry we have chips yeah there's some chips um I want to reply to that so what did I
05:13:42Brian Atlassay so you get that back up I'll read it out if you can what's up with your teeth the previous one oh you're a atheism never got you money uh you seem like a
05:13:52Brian Atlaskind seem like a kind man oh I'm kind deceived by feminism feminism wants to destroy marriage don't get married in future as an atheist she will take all your money no def not again we have to
05:14:03Brandon 'Bivo' Beussay mind answer wait isn't she the bread winner who yeah yeah she's no they're saying that you're no not this way she's back yeah she makes more money than me so this time I'm going to take with your money bab I actually make like
05:14:16Brandon 'Bivo' Beusa lot more than what he does so if anything I'm the sugar mummy of the relationship there you have it there you have yeah I'm I'm happy again we're making money we we're doing our thing
05:14:28Brian Atlasand call me a cut call me whatever I don't care to be honest so going back to the uh actually really quick on the whole like waiting for sex thing uh as
05:14:38Brian Atlassomebody who like I'm not waiting for marriage um I've had set like so that ship has sailed yeah what's that stupid like uh
05:14:50Brian Atlasyeah I know no the way I framed that was kind of dumb [ __ ] uh I had sex
05:14:57Brian Atlasonce look at me uh no sex I'm so cool uh no it's it's more like that ship has sailed I'm not like yeah waiting for marriage or anything but like what's
05:15:09Brian Atlasweird to me as a guy who's like a bit more on the secular side uh I'm not I don't believe in like like for me I'm desirous of a long-term relationships I'm not like just trying to sleep with uh like every single girl I meet like if
05:15:21Brian AtlasI sleep with a girl I want to continue seeing seeing her I want there to be a continuity but like one of the hiccups that I have especially encountering like I mean I would even extend this to a
05:15:32Brian Atlaswoman who's Christian but who has a past it's like uh to me it's like a it's a pretty bad Raw Deal for like okay all the previous
05:15:45Brian Atlasguys you slept with it was like relatively quickly now you've matched with me and now you want to wait three months you want to wait like this extended period of time you want to wait until marriage even I'm not
05:15:58Brian Atlassaying that women shouldn't change and you're 100% within your right I'm just saying for me personally I don't that's not the type of girl I would want to date and i' just be UPF front with her I wouldn't waste her time I wouldn't just like stick around and
05:16:09Brian Atlasgo through the waiting just to sleep with her just so I can but it's kind of this thing where it's like well I'm a bit skeptical of your motivations here because I don't know if this is your
05:16:19Brian Atlasactual value set because I've definitely for example you'll encounter a girl who's making you wait to have sex while she's [ __ ] another guy and she never made that guy wait for sex so it's not
05:16:31Brian Atlasit's like this sort of arbitrary like it's not an actual value that you have you're just like uh okay I want to secure a relationship from this guy it's not has nothing to do with my
05:16:44Brian Atlasvalues I'm just going to like do the carrot on the stick and play a game and use sex as leverage in my view when it comes to relationships whenever a woman uses it just sets a terrible frame for
05:16:56Brian Atlasthe relationship I know this doesn't like this doesn't make sense from like I'm not really religious but it doesn't make doesn't compute with a Christian worldview but when women use sex as
05:17:06Brian Atlasleverage in a relationship I think it's absolutely terrible like oh okay well uh I need this from you you need to treat like do these behaviors then we have sex
05:17:17Brian AtlasI think sex should be a mutually desired thing both people should have a desire for each other so me personally it's kind of like ridiculous when a girl's
05:17:27Brian Atlaslike oh okay I uh well two weeks ago I I had a one night stand with a guy but and he I don't he doesn't matter at all I don't care about him he's a [ __ ] B but your relationship material
05:17:40TTS/Chat reader$69 hello Governor did your stepa let other BLS shag your mom maybe in the bum do you come from a long line of cucks did anyone ever tell you that you look
05:17:51Brandon 'Bivo' Beuslike Sid from my say I get all the time um and no yeah room temp k b again my mom and stepdad lived in a different era
05:18:01Brandon 'Bivo' Beusthey've struggled for money my stepdad had two jobs I I had periods where I had fuckle in the cupboards um I I haven't got a wealthy family and for the money
05:18:12Brandon 'Bivo' BeusI'm earning now I don't regret it why not and again my mom's happy I think my family happy I've not directly said to them they happy but again they they they see the bank balance and I look after my
05:18:23Brandon 'Bivo' Beusfamily look after everyone and yeah go from there so I don't care really again if you put the older generation with our social media now um who knows what my
05:18:35Brandon 'Bivo' Beusmom and stepfather would have done they could have been massive aies they could have been everything so who knows but again I'm making money wait wait are you saying that your you think that your parents would have you think that your
05:18:46Brandon 'Bivo' Beusstepdad would have let other men [ __ ] his his no no probably not I'll be honest they would have me more money for her again I didn't want to wake up at St the CL come home at St the CL I do want the easy way out again you get one life
05:18:58Andrew WilsonI want to live it to the Max and again if I yeah no no I get that but I just want to make sure that we're clear on this point no no we're clear you think that in a different generation your gener whatever that is I don't know what
05:19:10Michaelageneration you are I'm guessing that um yeah1 MADD can you read that nobody really believes the Bible is literal
05:19:21Michaelaappar apparently it only breeds bigots and hypocritical moral judging [ __ ] Brian DEA virgin real quick Bri where's a girl's blank when she's on to yeah
05:19:32TTS/Chat readerit's funny because there's this clip like talking oh my well Intel wild donated $69 missing hey [ __ ] Brandon what about them teeth though them teeth
05:19:42Brandon 'Bivo' Beusare from Big up at UK Smiles big up analia for turkey yeah I got them done on promo I got the best smile I can ask for my teeth were Dreadful before and uh yeah now I'm happy so yeah well how do
05:19:55Andrew Wilsonyou manage to get dental work done and they still keep the Gap in the teeth do you think that that's a British there's no Gap in a teeth where I'm kidding it's a joke bro it's a joke it's a joke it's
05:20:06Andrew Wilsona joke it's a British joke British joke calm down G in my teeth mate n no it's it's a it's a great joke you ruined the whole thing but anyway back to this this
05:20:17Brandon 'Bivo' Beusis the real question I just want to make sure that I have this down you think that if your parents were Zoomers that your uh stepfather would have let your I don't know what they would have done but all I'm saying is they didn't have
05:20:29Andrew Wilsonaccess to what we've got access today yeah they did they did what they didn't have social media of course they did do you think that pornography was not a thing when your parents were your age are you out of your M when did the internet become a thing when did the
05:20:41Andrew WilsonInternet doesn't need to be a thing for pornography to be a thing it was a different media it's not as mainstream was internet there was a massive porn industry the 70s were riddled with
05:20:51Andrew Wilsonpornography so was the ' 80s and 9s can you explain to me why it is that your stepfather did not let other men [ __ ] your mom so that she could make money what do you think that that deciding
05:21:03TTS/Chat readerfactor was he could oh wa wait Intel wild donated 69 the slag in the cuck 304 version of
05:21:12Brian AtlasBeauty and the Beast a 304 being a called a 304 is hold on let's just just for time sake I got to move things along we've already I feel like we've already
05:21:24Andrew Wilsonyeah yeah this a different different generation we've got more access now again I'm not going back on it access you don't have more access listen Instagram you think that Playboy and you think that uh camera film pornography
05:21:37Andrew Wilsonwas not a big thing your parents were your age your mind a massive thing how old are your parents are they 70 no they're and they're 4 I believe
05:21:48Andrew Wilsonwhat are they in their 40s 50s 40s late 40s yeah there was a big porn dude that was porn was a big thing swinger parties were a big thing that's J like they could have made money at pornography
05:22:00Brandon 'Bivo' Beusthey just didn't anyone could start on only fans not everyone could have done P back then we will move on Brian take lead cuz I'm not keep mention
05:22:10TTS/Chat readerladies would you date my buddy Christian conservative fit country six figures has Beed but he's five to six be gentle
05:22:22TTS/Chat readergentle okay starting with you over here oh my Tommy donated $69 I'll come back the blonde is more attentive to the
05:22:32TTS/Chat readercamera than her so-called boyfriend clearly she has no respect for him this will be a marriage to from the start character and class greater than money
05:22:42Brian Atlasokay thank you Tommy um so starting with you uh would you date my buddy Christian conservative fit country six figures has a beard but he's
05:22:53Jelle5 foot6 yeah my ex-boyfriend was short as
05:23:00TTS/Chat reader[ __ ] um if he has a good personality but I'm also Ben George donated $69 Freddy cuck Mercury with nicer upper teeth Madison don't do off I'm not
05:23:13Andrew Wilsonyou're not going to do it look at that yes got you Madison you're awesome I knew that you weren't going to do that
05:23:21Brian Atlas[ __ ] I knew it you okay uh the pass pass on the gun probably not know NOP okay there it is uh thank you wigman appreciate uh Maddie what about you
05:23:32Brian Atlasthank you if you were single uh yeah if you were single uh yes okay there you go buddy they were gentle they were gentle uh last just the last thing on the whole like waiting for sex thing I think like
05:23:43Brian Atlasthe issue is it's like if it's always been your standard or like you've had an extended period of time of this being your standard moving forward and you fully intend it because like let's say like let's say you make a guy wait three
05:23:56Brian Atlasmonths before you have sex and then you guys break up and then a week after you break up you [ __ ] a guy on the first date it's like was it
05:24:07Brian Atlasreally your standard or were you and then it's like obviously you don't owe anything to your ex but it's just like I think the frame here is a lot of women
05:24:17Brian Atlaswill say well I want to wait you know because like so it's special but it's weird because you reward the [ __ ] boys who will never give
05:24:29Brian Atlasyou commitment with immediate sex but then you punish the men or the guys who are worthy of a relationship by making them wait weeks months or even longer to have sex it just I
05:24:42Brian Atlasdon't know it's kind of confusing so like the guys who treat you poorly who aren't worth it they get the sex but the good like the guy who you want a
05:24:50Cinderellarelationship with like it occurs to me wouldn't you want to reward him with sex that's where I get confused I don't I don't know if it's a word reward and
05:25:03TTS/Chat readerpunishes like I don't think that's a well Intel wild to $69 kakkum Brandon wants to be the
05:25:12Brian AtlasBritish version of Adam 22 so bad smdh okay let me give you a scen let me give you an analogy I won't Linger on this topic for too long let's say we're
05:25:23Brian Atlasdating uh okay let's say we're dating and I tell you I'm not the Romantic I got this written down say we're dating I tell you I'm not the romantic type I don't buy flowers I
05:25:36Brian Atlasdon't do much of anything that would be considered Ro rantic that's something that I think should wait until we're engaged or married or even in a you know we have a title boyfriend girlfriend meanwhile you're treating me much better
05:25:47Brian Atlasthan the women I dated in the past ever did and then one day somehow you discover that the women I dated before you got flowers cards expensive dinners and they were women that I've told you
05:25:58Jellewere significantly lesser value than you how would that make you feel can I that's exactly what my last
05:26:07Jellerelease trip was like he would do a lot and provide for their his ex and wouldn't do anything for me because he was soall busy and quite frankly it like
05:26:19Jelle[ __ ] up your self-esteem and then you start questioning yourself but that's something you have to learn and say that's more them not on me your
05:26:30Brian Atlasanswer can you repeat the question holy [ __ ] okay I'll give you a different go go go uh okay this is like women saying saying oh you know he was it was just like this meaningless sex it he didn't
05:26:42Brian Atlasmatter to me so that'd be like a guy saying you don't understand these women were just for hookups so of course I bought them expensive stuff took them to the best dining places and I even paid their bills but you're different from
05:26:55Brian Atlasthem I actually see you as a potential girlfriend wife so you have to wait for those benefits so let's go to McDonald's you're paying by the way that's how it is of course you would feel a certain type of way you know and then from there
05:27:07Graci Monatayou would just be like or I would just be like SAR like peace out like I'm out of here and there's no second date following that okay all right uh let me get to my
05:27:19Brian Atlasother notes and then uh I don't have much left we should do the bum did we do the bum we didn't do the Bumble thing we'll do it yeah we'll do it we'll do
05:27:27Brian Atlasgot a Tik Tok uh we'll skip the Tik Tok uh let's see I hit uh wait okay we have Gizelle um you said considering more old school you
05:27:40Brian Atlaslike to take things slow when dating meeting people you've had really weird experiences conversations um like from a guy going into into extreme sexual detail of what they do to you after only meeting 10
05:27:52Jelleminutes yeah and then you also were involved with an ex- murderer who was in his late 60s let me elaborate on that um I started working at quick story though if you can if you can try to make it like
05:28:04Jellebrief but go ahead for sure I was working at a restaurant and this old man would come regularly and then uh one day he came with Flyers like um trying to
05:28:13Jellepass out to girls saying that he would want um to have the US massage him like in a private room in exchange for like
05:28:22Jelleuh insights on life and then we looked up his name and he was like an he like uh murdered his wife like back in the 8S
05:28:33Jelleand like just recently went out so yeah but who would agree to that first off I don't think I don't think anyone did and then I gave the flyer to our U
05:28:44Brian Atlasmanager and he was escorted out God that's some crazy sh Wait So and he didn't like he wasn't going to pay you for the massages he was just give you life adice it was like really detailed too
05:28:57Jellesaying like oh we would have to go either to a hotel or like my house not his house it's like during the massage he was going to give you life ADV worked on like any girl there's no way
05:29:09Monaedesperate for money hey you you give me a massage and I'll give you life advice like what they didn't get a p [ __ ] sign me up G Gracie donated
05:29:20TTS/Chat reader$69 Brie you skipped my now irrelevant read panel how many 18 plus year olds have you heard say my parents s the whole County and I'm not a suicidal
05:29:30Brian Atlasheroin addict wait what sorry if I uh Gracie sorry if I skipped something I must have I don't see it here was it a super chat or was it um but the question is how many 18 plus year olds have you
05:29:43Brian Atlasheard say my parents effed the whole country and I'm not as is this a rhetorical question I think this applies to Brandon okay all right all right thank you man um okay so that was pretty
05:29:54Andrew Wilsoncrazy um let's see we have Sophia but she's I mean the question applies right so Brandon how many people who are in your industry who have children whose
05:30:06Brandon 'Bivo' Beuschildren are proud of them that they share their wife around or vice versa you love coming back to me Andrew Well the question was directed
05:30:16Brandon 'Bivo' BeusAndrew brother listen go to church on go to church on Sunday go to church on Sunday do your praying be your slave and let carry on cuz I'm I'm tired I'm jet like to [ __ ] I've got don't be a wimp
05:30:28Andrew Wilsondude just answer the question the super chatter asked you the super chatter is asking this question because he wants to know what your answer is to what um
05:30:37Andrew Wilsonsomething out for so his question is how many of the people you know inside of this industry who allow their wife or significant other to be shared or are
05:30:49Brandon 'Bivo' Beusengaged in porn have children who are proud of them that's what the intent of his question is it listen and I'm saying this once and we cracking on we're in a genz we can make money multiple ways I don't know anyone that's had children
05:31:01Andrew Wilsonthat do you're not answering the question the question is how many of those children are proud I don't know any children let's move on thank you very much much you're not going to answer the question I don't know any children how many times have I got to say you're pissing me off yeah I know you don't have children that's not what
05:31:14Andrew Wilsonthe question was listen to what the question is how many of these people in this industry that you deal with who have children whose children are proud of them have you checked on your wife you might be getting [ __ ] at the minute now are you going to answer my [ __ ] question move on bro I'm piss
05:31:28Background/minor (Nick/production)you're pissing me off bro just move on I don't care if I'm pissing you off you shut your mouth and answer the [ __ ] question [ __ ] off go
05:31:35Brandon 'Bivo' Beusprid mou [ __ ] Andre if he doesn't too you're [ __ ] boring from the start you prick wa wait
05:31:52Background/minor (Nick/production)[Music] guys are you going to go cry with your wife who gets [ __ ] by other men are you going to go cry with your wife who gets [ __ ] by other dudes are you going
05:32:01Background/minor (Nick/production)to go cry with he doesn't have to answer the question you're going to go cry
05:32:08Brandon 'Bivo' Beusyour wife getting F your push [ __ ] kids up you're father to you're father to I'm backing myself I'm backing myself
05:32:19Background/minor (Nick/production)question your wife question your wife's getting [ __ ] right now stop Rage Quit no I'm I'm bored of your
05:32:28Brandon 'Bivo' BeusGod [ __ ] [ __ ] I'm bed of your God [ __ ] disrespect to me I've got better yeah you're going to go [ __ ] what you got better things to do you're going to
05:32:41Brandon 'Bivo' Beusgo have your life get [ __ ] by a bunch of dud yeah your misses gets [ __ ] on the the only person gets [ __ ] around here is your Miss know how to be friends serious how
05:32:53Andrew Wilsonto be can both of you just stop for a sec look um look Andrew if he doesn't want to answer the question that's fine we don't need to press him on that person who [ __ ] Mrs let me move it
05:33:06Andrew Wilsonon done anyway on Earth go put your fake kids to sleep to quit weren't you to show me yeah get the [ __ ] out that's right run away
05:33:17Cinderella[ __ ] I feel bad for him like they really went on him the whole thing and he's nothing but nothing but nice for Real uh no it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay it's okay phone phone
05:33:28Saia Bellaplease bye guys subscribe to my only fans love you all all right thanks for coming gr Zulu donated $69
05:33:41TTS/Chat readerjerk in a corner while your wife screams another man's name all thank you man thank you thank you thank you all right see you guys see you guys I'm so sorry oh gosh Andrew what are you what
05:33:52TTS/Chat readerare you doing to me Andrew you make it Brian st8 got no game donated $69 Brian mute Andrew waiting a month. you ain't worth it do I'm a G and 50%
05:34:04TTS/Chat readerapproached me cuz I'm comfortable with myself and not Paran dot every chick I've been with we hooked up first second date cim a good
05:34:13TTS/Chat readerkisser Nikelodeon donated $69 why did you have to get those white Legos put in your mouth Paris best Weston can't afford better for her little lap
05:34:30Background/minordog I got work tomorrow yeah I got 8: a.m. that 98 9:30 I got to write a paper Hest girl I got a presentation
05:34:40Monae[Music] in presentation tomor need to do that how's everyone doing hello
05:34:52Brandon 'Bivo' Beushi Andrew yeah I just want to say I've got your on ropes brother yeah me and Sophia we're in a perect I can't understand what you're saying speak English speak English me English English nobody can even understand what you're
05:35:03Brandon 'Bivo' Beussaying so talk real slow listen I've come on it pranked you listen me and Safir in a solid normal relationship we're not in an open relationship no we she doesn't funny enough I've pranked
05:35:15Brandon 'Bivo' Beusyou all subscribe to Sister Bella she pays for my holidays she pays for everything big Up the sugar MERS big up Sister Bella on o yeah I'm going to live my life you crackle me God have a good
05:35:25Brian Atlasone cheers bye peace it was nice meeting you what's the I don't understand what's the troll the troll is that they're they're
05:35:35Background/minor (Nick/production)not in an open relationship I guess oh okay um
05:35:43Brian Atlassaid after that was the uh can you can you get that closed up back there Nick just get it just so we can move on with the show just get it
05:35:55Andrew Wilsonclosed up I think we should I I don't I I don't even understand the troll why would you pretend that your girl got [ __ ] by other men I don't I don't even
05:36:04Monaeunderstand that guess to get more clout make it sound a little more interesting I don't
05:36:15Brian Atlasknow all right guys uh I'm we're going to go into the chaos row section here for a couple minutes and then we're going to wrap up the show um we're not going to do the Bumble maybe maybe after
05:36:26Brian Atlasbut uh so give me just a sec guys to get that going Madison do you want to ask a couple questions while I'm getting everything switched over oh I'm on the spot Andrew do you have a question
05:36:40Andrew Wilsondo you guys do you guys all no do you guys think that he was lying um uh let let us assume for a moment that he was we can only go off of the information
05:36:51Andrew Wilsonthat he gives us so if his information and he says well I was purposely lying about the information we can only respond based on the information that he
05:37:00Andrew Wilsongives us bad troll ultimately because uh even if he was lying he's lying about being in in a cucked relationship bizarrely enough for reasons I don't
05:37:11TTS/Chat readerreally understand so not a great troll I would say even if it was one yeah and it's just like real Trump donated
05:37:22TTS/Chat reader$25 that blonde looks like she's seen more [ __ ] than John Wayne's revolver she and Brandon look like the kin folk In The Hills Have Eyes oh England is
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