02:48:48Andrew Wilsonwill ever be able to ask me how his D tasted well the thing that's so this is the thing right is like um I can't this this is what we were alluding to earlier
02:48:59Andrew Wilsonwhat I'm saying to you is that my job here is is specifically to push back against worldviews I have a worldview you have a worldview that's what I'm here to do is push back on that you
02:49:09TTS/Chat readeryourself being a cuck who lets other dudes stuff your wife on purpose I'm not here to come in Dylan LLY donated $200 the reevaluation re War losers go like
02:49:29Brandon 'Bivo' Beusthis is Mone Mone Mone M money money that's money money that's all I hear is money so whatever right because you're a slave to money how can
02:49:41Andrew Wilsonyou not say that you're a slave to money it's the only thing you value you value money over the virtue of your own woman we have just been enslaved to money say that again sorry how are you
02:49:53Brandon 'Bivo' Beusnot enslaved to money if you value it over the virtue of your own woman I I listen if you have a 9 till 5 I'm not disrespecting but I am financially free
02:50:03Brandon 'Bivo' BeusI can buy what I want I can do what I want when I was working a job for probably converion to Dollars pre about $600 a week I was spent 12 hours a day
02:50:14Brandon 'Bivo' Beusworking I would go home have a shower eat my dinner go to bed go back to work six days a week that is a slave to someone else your boss that is a slave that's not enslavement it's it's a
02:50:25Andrew Wilsonslavery it's my co out and make offering offering added value and service to the world which makes it a better place the opposite of enslavement you working a
02:50:36Andrew Wilsonjob providing goods and services to other individuals is something which is highly valuable I would value that chated $200 Andrew he doesn't let her bang
02:50:47TTS/Chat readerother men she obviously wears the pants and wants this and he has to agree with it stop pretending like he has a choice he is weak okay he can't defend
02:50:59Andrew Wilsonhimself I love that word I love it yeah but but anyway so back to this uh that's there's a lot of value which is being added here if you if you have a job you're providing goods and services that
02:51:11Andrew Wilsonpeople need right they need those Services that's important you though you you hang on you strip all the value off your money the money that you earn is
02:51:21Andrew Wilsoncheap it's cheap money it's cheap money and it's valueless you worship it and instead you give the most the thing that you should value the most which is your wife you give her away as a [ __ ] to
02:51:32Andrew Wilsonother men and you say me being a cuck in making money that's the most important thing why how how could a man ever respect somebody who has no virtue like that how could they do that again we're young we're making money we're living
02:51:44Brandon 'Bivo' Beuslife and again when I'm 30 years old and I want to have children and I want to relax it a bit again I still do social media but I won't pre be as open as we are we living Kushi do what we want when
02:51:56Brandon 'Bivo' Beuswe want and yeah we settle down then but who cares sex is great money is great filming is great why not Andre what happens when you're 40 I'll be living in my mansion with a nice Ferrari on the
02:52:08Andrew Wilsondrive with my beautiful kids and my beautiful wife so I just want to let you know here's a good piece of wisdom for you that you'll ignore but I'll give it to you anyway when people get cheap money they spend money cheaply and what
02:52:20Andrew Wilsonends up happening is it cheapens them and they end up with no money and they end up without any of the things which they thought the cheap money was going to bring them they they never end up
02:52:30Andrew Wilsonwith those things money which comes easy go or easy come it's also easy go that's why you have What's called the lottery curse the lottery curse uh is most people who win the lottery end up broke
02:52:41Andrew Wilsonwithin just a few years and the reason is is because the money came cheap money came cheap and so it's easy out the window you never value it nearly as much as you would value the virtue of your
02:52:51Cindy Zangwoman but you gave that away that's not true I would say like if you have like healthy relationship with your money your financial is most definitely going
02:53:01Cindy Zangto grow just depends on how you invest in yourself if you keep spending if you if you spend more time spending then you lose more money but if you work most sex workers end up broke most
02:53:14Cindy Zangsex workers end up broke most lottery winners end up broke they almost always end worker if you're not then if you don't if you're not a sex worker you should have in order to comment on the thing that's yeah if you if you're not a
02:53:25Cindy Zangsex worker or anything like that or have done anything you can I screw in a light bulb if I'm not an
02:53:34Andrew Wilsonelectrician that has nothing to compare to se the same logic saying that's not the same logic makes sense that's theic yeah it is it's the same logic the logic is you can't comment on the thing if
02:53:47Andrew Wilsonyou're not the thing I can't comment on prostitution if I'm not a prostitute I can't screw in a light not electric a light is so much different you can put on a light bul in two seconds being like
02:53:58Cindy Zangas a content creator full-time you do that day in day out like a job like how you attend this podcast is different so you have no idea you'll never know you will never know until you put yourself in someone's
02:54:11Cindy Zangshoes I just want I just want to make sure I got this clear so your opinion does not matter at the end of the day we will never take advice from you because you're not a if you a sex worker then we would take advice from you okay do you vote yeah I
02:54:23Andrew Wilsonvote yeah I don't understand why do you vote you're not a politician you'll never understand because I want to choose who to govern right the country that I live in so wait wait a second so you can have a say even though you're not a politician
02:54:36Saia Bellathat's really weird it's more the respect of people have f for the decision for that certain thing but no one's fault for you to have a decision on sex
02:54:46Andrew Wilsonwork people it for the last 100 years they've been fighting about the decision on sex work how well I mean feminism is part of
02:54:57Saia Bellasexual Liberation sexual Liberation is the promotion also of sex work yeah but that is a political it's a political agenda there's not being Wars over sex work there's been Wars over voting
02:55:09Andrew Wilsonthat's the difference oh yeah where where's there ever been a war over voting no someone died over voting you don't know right just made it up right just think so just sounded good so you
02:55:21Brandon 'Bivo' Beusjust said it right there's Wars over religion I won't get into it but there's Wars over religion which war over atheism you ever heard of Communism that's an atheistic that's an atheistic uh mode of governance and what
02:55:34Andrew Wilsonthey did was kill all the religious just so you know so you act like religion is the only way in which there's going to be War we have these mass of atheistic armies like the Communists had and what they did was put all the religious to
02:55:46Andrew Wilsonthe sword so it's not like your guys hands are clean I'm saying most most wars are based on religion I won't say again we're not clean no I wouldn't say most wars are based on religion I'd say most of them are based on resources but
02:55:57Brian Atlasthat's just me okay let's uh move things on a little bit uh that was good we we let's we'll hear a bit more from some of the other panelists that was a good uh that was a good exchange you guys got a
02:56:09Andrew Wilsonlittle uh it was a good one it was good um okay let me read a few chats then we'll get back into some of the topics can I just say though uh to um I I don't
02:56:19Andrew Wilsonknow your name to the [ __ ] um I do appreciate be nice Andre I just wanted I'm not being mean I don't remember his his name I don't know if I caught it
02:56:31Andrew Wilsonwhat is your name what's your name God lover Andrew Andre my name is Andrew and yes I am a god lover that's true yes Brandon Brandon bivo Brandon yeah yeah yeah so anyway Brandon I do appreciate
02:56:43Brandon 'Bivo' Beusthe back and forth that's all I again I'm young it's we have different views and again I appreciate that you like your religion but again in today's world I want the nice things I want to live a
02:56:54Brandon 'Bivo' Beusgood life and I do what I do so yeah can can we just do a quick experiment like real real fast if if
02:57:04Andrew Wilsonyou'll if you'll humor me can you take two minutes to explain why other men should be a cuck and I'll take two minutes to explain why they shouldn't before we move this segment I'm not I'm
02:57:15Brandon 'Bivo' Beusnot telling I'm not telling men to be a car again it's it's what we enjoy and if we enjoy something why not let's make money and yeah we're living life we're making money we're setting oursel up for
02:57:27Brandon 'Bivo' Beusthe future because I'm with the woman I love and I want to get married to and have kids with and if it means that we have more than fun with other people it's going to benefit us in the long run
02:57:39Brandon 'Bivo' Beuswho cares about what we've done in 10 20 years I I don't care no you will care no will God care no my mom and dad will care who cares cuz I've got money in the bank I've got a lovely house I've got a lovely wife I've got lovely Johnny or
02:57:51TTS/Chat readerTiffany whoever I'm going to have and I've got a lovely doc vener Billy donated $200 was deadly till penicilin HIV was
02:58:01TTS/Chat readerdeadly till antivirals in 10 years when the next deadly STD runs through your circle of cooks and or you will need that money to keep her PE from falling
02:58:12Brian Atlasoff sex workers tend actually be the cleanest yo how crazy would it be though if like some brand new STD came along that's like never been seen before
02:58:21Monaethat'd be [ __ ] insane we that' be insane I say I will say this prostitutes are the most cleanest women out there because they get tested on The Daily
02:58:33Saia Bellabecause they have wait what yeah because they have to they have to yes of course they have to then how come the STDs are so much higher with prostitutes than they are general population because the general population don't tend to get tested so a
02:58:45Saia Bellalot of people have things you would think that they would be higher then right not lower no but why is it that prostitutes have higher rates of STDs than the rest pop more gradually like normal people don't and they live
02:58:57Saia Bellawith things for longer yeah that's right normal people don't have sex for money that's why no nor people normal people have sex normally but there's a lot of people who will sleep with a lot of
02:59:09Andrew Wilsonother people and they carry diseases and spread it around without most people don't have sex with random strangers day in and day out for money in fact group does are called prostitutes and the
02:59:20Andrew Wilsonrates of of STDs are far higher than that of the general population there's no way around that I mean the a lot of Agree to Agree
02:59:30Cindy ZangI guess because I think it just comes down to normal people that don't that do like that have sexe to agree what did you say to agree I don't know like it
02:59:42Cindy Zangdoesn't make any sense because there's going to be people that you know are going to be not careful but there's also people like that don't make money and like have not gotone their s
02:59:55Andrew Wilsonchecked that's all you care about is money you said you you said you would sell your soul to the devil in violation of your Christian values for money why should we ever think that you're sane
03:00:05Andrew Wilsonagain that's insane you literally said here's my virtues and I will absolutely sell those virtues to Satan himself if there's enough money and yet the cuck next to you says that they you guys
03:00:16Andrew Wilsondon't worship you clearly worship money how could you not worship it if you'll sell your soul for it be we got be ni I
03:00:24Brian Atlassell mine for a ten a ten oh ten for the yeah yeah like going back hold right enough cind okay wait I just
03:00:36Brian Atlaswanted a couple clarifying questions to like the extent of the relationship so you guys like you'll hook up with girls together hook up with guys together um and like so is it like an orgy thing or
03:00:48Brandon 'Bivo' Beuslike how does it work uh there might be one guy there might be one girl there could be is it like a swinger thing yeah potentially if you want to say do you guys use that same term in in the UK swing swingers but that's we've other
03:00:59Brandon 'Bivo' Beuscouples other couples but we it's just tend to we might bring a boy in we might bring a girl in again spicing Andrew over there probably can't even get a rod on no more so he might need to try it you know so and wait just a question um in terms of your guys' orientation are
03:01:12Brian Atlasyou both straight are you guys byy what straight I'm you're by okay so you would like get with it one of the other girls too but like you it would just be like just the girls not like other guys
03:01:22Andrew Wilsongetting into the picture yeah okay so do so you don't do any same sex no definitely not no would you do it for enough money no you wouldn't do it for that's really weird why not I thought
03:01:33Brian Atlasthat money is all that mattered not virtue wait Andrew would you do it for a billion he's Christian Co no oh no a billion is a lot of [ __ ] Mone if you would you do it for a billion
03:01:45Andrew Wilsondollars probably yeah for a billion yeah yeah it's a lot of [ __ ] money I'll how can you say so then how can you say you're not a slave to money you would even compromise your your whatever moral
03:01:56Brandon 'Bivo' BeusIntegrity you had towards the same sex for money you do you will do anything for money Andrew let me ask this with happiness say you were secretly gay again nothing against but Andrew are you secretly are you secretly gay are you
03:02:09Brandon 'Bivo' Beussecretly gay Andrew okay sorry if if you're if you're a Christian and you've got to be a slave to your religion and you can't express your gay feelings let is being a slave to your religion because you're
03:02:21Andrew WilsonChristian but you can't be happy because you're gay how do we get here so wait so I just so I get this right you're saying that Christianity should conform to the
03:02:30Brandon 'Bivo' Beusfact that homosexuals refuse to stop engaging in sodomy no as in like if people are secretly no let them answer let them answer pleas no yeah no she's right she's carrying on that's what I was saying if you're secretly gay but
03:02:43Andrew Wilsonyou're being a slave to your religion and you can't feel like you can't slave to the religion religion rejects you if you engage in sodomy it says you're not allowed to do
03:02:54Andrew Wilsonthat so how is it that you're being a Slave at that point that makes no sense you're being a slave to your Vice in fact the religion would free you from the vice how's a how's a religion freeing you from being gay because it's
03:03:07Andrew Wilsontell not to be gay because the thing is is that if you intuitively understand you're doing something wrong he wouldn't be moving over to Christianity in order to get rid of the sin to begin with if uh let's just move on you're waffling
03:03:19Brandon 'Bivo' Beusbut yeah let's move on let's move there's no waffling at all you just don't have an argument no I do cuz if you're I could again I could go into it but we've got other guests and it's not the beaver on Sophia show I don't know it sounds like you're waffling no no
03:03:31Andrew Wilsonyou're you're waffling it's like if people I don't know you're waffling you're pancaking bro come on give me the argument stop stop stop stop doing the I have an argument but I can't tell you I'll tell I just want to move along no
03:03:44Brandon 'Bivo' Beusit's fine I'll tell the Argent so if you're within a Christian household you're born into Christianity you're gay you get born gay or whatever again
03:03:54Brandon 'Bivo' Beusnothing against gays I I believe in no war living life and being happy so if you're a gay and you're a Christian you can't express your gay feelings because you're Christian so
03:04:06Andrew Wilsonyou're being a slave to your religion you can't be gay and be a Christian you can't engage in the act of homosexuality and be a Christian at the same time you can't God tells you not to be God tells
03:04:17Brian Atlasyou not I do have to move things along I do got to move things along let me get these chats okay we have pelic 6 thank you man for the Super Chat Quasimoto the
03:04:27Brian Atlascuck okay we got the cuck you know we have rare rare a field rarified flare thank
03:04:36Cindy Zangyou man Cindy want don't you read this rare AI yeah I I already read
03:04:44Cindy Zangthat Cindy you are duding yourself Satan represents Indulgence instead of abstinence s represents all of the so
03:04:56Cindy Zangsin as they all lead to physical mental or emotional gratifications trade in your cross of for a bamit will'll happily have you a s satanis all right thank you Flair
03:05:09Brian Atlasappreciate it we have pel 6 thank you man Andrew don't fall into this dumb Sims trap he's deflecting because you smoked him he's not that smart be nice guys come on be nice here okay all right that's the two chats wait
03:05:22Brian Atlaslet me hide those all right here you know what while we're at it [ __ ] it we're going to go around we have Stiffler here ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10 starting with you Sydney Sydney Cindy
03:05:34Brian AtlasCindy what do you rate your looks on a scale of 1 to 10 go ahead I'm 10 and above period period Well it's 10 is the max
03:05:42Saia Bellaso I'm 10 and above okay what about you um like s a all right yeah s out of 10
03:05:49Alexyou know the rules a 10 a what a 10 a 10 okay yeah I feel like a seven I feel like if I get attention
03:06:00Alexfrom guys then that means I'm attractive so I don't have a scale number so you depend your your attraction on men no I'm just saying like if a guy thinks I'm
03:06:12Alexattractive then like okay cool but I already think I am attractive so it's like so what is that the number yeah so if you put the number to it I don't really know I mean I feel like
03:06:22Cinderellaeveryone's attractive in their own way so maybe like seven or eight okay I don't know I would give myself a cool 8.5 maybe like a nine on a really good
03:06:31Michaeladay okay uh like an eight my husband says I'm a 10 period what do you say I say I'm a 10 cuz he says I'm a
03:06:43Brian Atlas10 so we got we got a 10 10 and 10 like I'm just confident in myself I hate to be the bear I hate I hate to
03:06:53Brian Atlasbe the bearer of bad news none of your are tens that's fine on that's your opinion though like can you explain that oh sorry I didn't rid
03:07:03Monaemyself I'm a five Andrew what about you I'm a four okay there you have it what was your question on on what scale like can you explain the like the objective Beauty scale yeah go ahead
03:07:15Brian Atlaswell obviously never mind go ahead what no that that's the scale the objective Beauty scale oh that that's would you I'm not going to rate you I would
03:07:27Brian Atlaslike to hear if you're saying none of us a 10 then what would you rate well you didn't rate yourself a 10 no I didn't but I'm this was mostly targeted at the people if you say you're a six or seven or eight really don't give a f have a question for Nick Nick what would you
03:07:39Cindy Zangrate for yourself inste a four you rate yourself a
03:07:46Brian Atlassix you're [ __ ] thirsty right now Cindy relax simping Cindy leave stop molesting stop harassing sexually harassing Nick over
03:07:57Brian Atlasthere Nick you can I'm not please leave my producer him what he would rate himself please leave my producer alone okay uh so I could rap leave uh leave
03:08:08Monaethem kids alone over there what are you doing that's a good kid that's a good kid simp and Cindy relax I just like wait Andrew our community not r or nothing out there
03:08:21Monaebut I feel like in like in the black community like we are like yeah there's a different skill and rating it's yeah I just feel like it's different cuz you definitely I'm pretty sure yeah you definitely don't think that I'm a 10 but
03:08:33Brian Atlaslike wait wait what you trying what you trying to say here no I'm just saying it's different I don't know how to explain like the Asian girl scale the white girl scale the black girl scale is
03:08:44Brian Atlasthat what you're saying no I think own preferences like are SE attracted to what would you R everyone well I'm not going to do it unless you guys are fine
03:08:56Brian Atlaswith me rating you individually no I don't care wait Andrew could you do one thing do you have a Lynch roller you got a couple specks of white on your microphone and it's [ __ ] killing me or just pluck them off can you pluck them off oh it's say it's his dried lips
03:09:09Andrew Wilsonthere you go oh there you go wait and then there's one on the top it's there's a little there's a I know if I sucked as much penis as you I guess it would moisten them right but anyway you should start doing that wait you got
03:09:20Brian Atlasa little speck on the top of your mic it's just you got the main one you got the main one there we go thank you make sure it's I was like about to I was I was about to Great OCD comes great
03:09:32Brian Atlasresponsibility maybe wait wait stop stop stop stop stop I was about to have a panic attack dude from from the [ __ ] the spec on your [ __ ] but wait okay going going back to you what were you saying oh no I was saying like um I just
03:09:45Monaefeel like it's different because like for like you know okay I'm going say like for black people me and her would be considered like we're like there we're at the top you're you're at the top yeah well I'm not at the top at the
03:09:57Brian Atlastop but like we're pretty like you know yeah I'm not I'm not saying you guys are unattractive or badl looking gals yeah but I'm just saying 10 10 10 no
03:10:07Monaeoffense not so much I want to I know I want to hear everyone w't say I feel like if I feel like that was my confident answer
03:10:18MichaelaI'll ask if you're fine with me raing you yeah yeah yeah y I do not need your validation
03:10:29Brian Atlasperiod oh I'm not I'm not intending to validate you don't worry about that I'm not intended what about me guys I can't
03:10:41Brandon 'Bivo' Beusread you can write me you're the only 10 at the table oh love there you go there you go the cups to 10 big up the cup
03:10:47Brian AtlasBig Ups Andrew you son of a gun how dare you you're littering on your get that oh my God I'm not even start I can't even
03:10:58Brian AtlasI'm we're pausing until you clean that [ __ ] up Andrew we're I'm not moving on what is that is that his lice it's gone it's gone lice what the it's gone okay oh my God Dand bro you trying to give me
03:11:10Brian Atlasan aneurysm son what you what are you doing I'm gonna okay all right sorry guys I have a bit the OCD I saw a couple specs on his mic they had to go all right so I'll rate you guys um
03:11:22Brian Atlasdo you want us to say what we said originally yeah so say what you said originally we say it after let's say it after you want to go uh well actually one quick point I
03:11:35Brian Atlaswant to point out here for Cindy Cindy you're currently wearing color contacts right if you were a 10 wouldn't you be a 10 without with your natural eye color yeah do you want do you want to like take it out for me you could do it you
03:11:48Cindy Zangyou want me to take your colored contacts out take it off I'll I'm gonna pass on that you can take off my eye contact if you think that's like the biggest Judgment of no it's not it's
03:11:59Brian Atlasjust I mean if you're already a 10 why would you change your eye color with fake contact
03:12:10Cindy Zanglenses um well why do you have a beard why didn't you shave today that's not even an argument I'm not claiming to be a 10 I'm dead I'm just saying like you might think like oh beer makes me look
03:12:21Andrew Wilsonhotter so I'm going to grow this out for some women does other women to do Nick do you have like a shaver let's shave it off let's see yeah sure hey you know what I'll do the shave thing if you wipe off the makeup how's that for AAL don't
03:12:33Brian Atlasdon't tempt her with a good time Andrew are you going to do it keep your beard Andrew keep your beard keep your beard we need your beard take the makeup off you want
03:12:43Cindy Zangto um I think I don't really want to like cuz like I like I paid like 10K for this you paid how did you pay 10K for
03:12:54Brian Atlasyour makeup I pay 10K to get my makeup done you paay $10,000 to get your that's like the most that's probably the dumbest thing I've heard tonight there's it doesn't cost $10,000
03:13:06Brian Atlasanywhere to get this makeup artist charged me $10,000 so I you're full of [ __ ] girls I don't know [ __ ] about makeup if you go to a professional makeup artist are they charging you
03:13:16Brian Atlas$10,000 I don't know where she went so much troll like you got no ey Shadow that's a straight up trolling at this point damn they did a terrible job for
03:13:25Brian Atlas10,000 I'll tell you that much okay 10K for what awkward awkward okay Cindy all right I'll do some ratings here uh okay
03:13:33Brian Atlasso Cindy I give you uh give you a six uh sopia give
03:13:43Brian Atlasyou five BVO 10 nothing I'm uh for I don't remember all your names but mon Monae I'm just going on off face
03:13:52Monaeby the way but uh what about on body I definitely have I'm not going there yeah I say I definitely have better days for sure but like uh n 5 six for
03:14:17Brian Atlaswait hold on six 6.5 they're not gonna like that one hold on can you lift up a little
03:14:28Brian Atlasbit uh she bad 6.5 okay four oh okay you guys asked you guys said it was okay but you don't want
03:14:40Brian AtlasI don't have I I'll I only will rate if you say yes should we go should we rate you next or no you can't now you you just try to get back me but personality
03:14:50Alexalways takes the cake that's true no yeah definitely what's inside matters okay I mean no personally I wouldn't date someone just their looks like it would it would be a plus but
03:15:02Alexlike I would like a person with a good heart good personality good morals to me at least and just like write stuff like you don't have to be like I don't even know like who the hottest okay um M if
03:15:15Monaeyou guys were tense if you guys I mean you're married so okay whatever if you were tens you I got to be honest you wouldn't be single I mean honest I'm single for a reason like I don't want no boyfriend I just don't want no boyfriend
03:15:27MonaeI'm a freshman in college like I don't that's not my focus right now I could definitely have a boyfriend oh trust I could definitely have a boyfriend but if you were 10 you would have like the line of men okay but just how
03:15:39Monaeearlier when you said that like you don't talk to multiple people at once like that's the same with me I don't and sometimes people are just not interested like I don't want to be talking to Hell people at once personally for me I just
03:15:51Alexdon't want it right I feel like I got I got hella guys but I just don't want it yeah I definitely yeah I definitely got to like ah if the right G if right gay what the fck if the right excuse me did
03:16:03Brian Atlasnot mean to say that if the right G the right guy if the right am I I think I'm having an aneurism if the right guy came along you would be dating him of course
03:16:16Brian Atlasbut like definitely but I'm just not finding that here in Santa Barbara Santa Barbara don't got nobody nothing honestly it's scary out here show Sant not real look here here's why I give
03:16:27Brian Atlaspush back on this whole 10 thing right so a lot of people like I'm sure all you girls know a guy who thinks he's hot [ __ ] but isn't right do you guys know a guy who thinks he
03:16:38Brian Atlasis but like that's kind of you if you're claiming to be a 10 well that's the attitude you have but you guys all know guys who think they're who think they're the [ __ ] but they're not I mean at the
03:16:50Cinderellaour opinion doesn't matter regarding the guy cuz if he feels like he's a hot [ __ ] he is in his own perspective we we can't tell him he's not cuz he going to still feel like that yeah but you could come on you clown on dudes who like [ __ ] but
03:17:02Graci Monatathey're not definitely yeah I do I feel like sometimes there's a line between confidence and Cockiness you know like I mean yeah there's a there's a line between well let me let me add this so I
03:17:12Brian Atlasactually think women respond far more better even if the guy is cocky women respond better to that than men responding to cocky women because one of
03:17:21Brian Atlasthe an attraction trigger for uh that that men view in women is Modesty okay whereas I think women will like some women obviously don't like
03:17:32Brian Atlascocky guys but like a lot of women will like that almost delusional confidence in men and so for some guys like it's a bit of a differential between men and
03:17:41Graci Monatawomen but like for most men like we don't want like a cocky girl m no yeah modesty is very uh valued yeah like that's that's totally understandable
03:17:52Brian Atlaslike I would want you know someone who well in my eyes hum yeah model mobile like and just very you know like I guess but look here's why I think this whole thing matters I think when it comes to dating you have to have a reasonable
03:18:05Brian Atlasself assessment of your own physical attractiveness cuz like here's the big problem I see a lot of people both men women but there's definitely a lot of women who are like this cuz men reality will slap you in the face whereas women
03:18:17Brian Atlaslike you your girlfriends will gas you up you could be obese and your girls will be telling you oh my God you're [ __ ] beautiful you're a 10 out of 10 they'll gas you up and you're like your your female uh peers are never going to
03:18:29Brian Atlaslike correct you and say nah shut the [ __ ] up like if I if I were to tell my guy friends yeah I'm the [ __ ] [ __ ] I'm so [ __ ] hot they'd be like shut up Brian lose some [ __ ] weight fatty
03:18:40Brian Atlascuz I'm I got to lose some weight I'm a little chubby right now I got a dad B be like shut the [ __ ] up you [ __ ] 10 you got a [ __ ] double CH tell me this
03:18:51Brian Atlas[ __ ] here's the difference though here's the difference so men will typically tell uncomfortable truths men and I actually as a man I prefer that men will
03:19:01Brian Atlastell uncomfortable truths women would rather hear comforting lies and so tell me the truth I yeah I'm telling you the truth I told you the truth no I'm tell
03:19:10Graci MonataI'm saying in general like tell me the truth okay but so here's I think I I I understand what you're saying it's totally yeah like well no here's what I'm getting right right so I do think
03:19:22Brian Atlasit's the case not all women but a lot of women have an overinflated sense of like kind of where they stand in the dating Marketplace and so what ends up happening is if you're too gassed up on your physical appearance or you think
03:19:34Brian Atlasyou're super attractive and I'll get into some of the reasons why that is you're probably curving guys rejecting guys who are actually on your level and
03:19:44Brian Atlasin your leag so and th the guys who will give you loyalty who will give you commitment give you monogamy treat you well a lot of women are curving them especially in their like you know uh 18
03:19:56Brian Atlas19 20 all through their 20s and the reason they're curving them is because you're getting sexual attention from men who are quite frankly outside of your league in terms of looks status Etc now I don't know some of you
03:20:08Brian Atlasguys are in college I don't know if you've like you'll have like an 18 19y old college girl who can get sexual attention from like a guy who's a a little bit older a little more established he could be we we've had college girls on the show who normal
03:20:21Brian Atlascollege girls 500 followers they've got NBA players hitting them up NFL players hitting them up professional athletes musicians famous like top top tier like musicians rappers
03:20:33Brian Atlasall this [ __ ] uh and you can get sexual attention from them or they could or could just be like the really attractive guy at College yeah a lot of women are all chasing after the top 10% of men and
03:20:43Brian Atlasthose men will happily just have casual sex with pretty much most women but they're not going to give that woman commitment but see there's a differential here is what you have
03:20:54Brian Atlashappening is a a excuse me sorry getting Tongue Tied a woman will sleep with guy and she thinks well I was able to sleep with him he was the ex attractive he was an eight nine or 10 whatever because I'm able to sleep with him that must be my
03:21:07Brian Atlasleague but your league is not the men you can sleep with your league is the men that you can get commitment from relationship and marriage that's your league because you can like women men can't really sleep out of their
03:21:19Brian Atlasleague like if I step to a girl who's like a nine I'm instant rejection right instant rejection I'm not going to be able to like sleep with a really hot chick whereas like you could step to a guy
03:21:30Brian Atlasmeet him on the dating app he could be one two three points I I know some people don't like this numerical rating system he could be one two three points more attractive than you he'll sleep with you he'll get he'll have sex with
03:21:43Brian Atlasyou but he'll never give you commitment he's probably got a roster of 5 10 15 20 girls there's some dudes that are just like have a massive rotation and so what's happening is a lot of girls are sharing guys and they're kind of like
03:21:55Brian Atlaspushing the guys this is why a lot of dudes ends up in the friend zone actually a lot of the guys in your friend zone are actually probably like the guys you ought to be with so what ends up happening at 30 oh [ __ ] couldn't get commitment from all these guys I
03:22:07Brian Atlas[ __ ] in my 20s okay I'm going to finally settle down and actually makes it makes for terrible relationships because because you think you're settling when actually these guys who you rejected throughout your 20s
03:22:19Brian Atlasactually the guys who are kind of in your league but because you can get sexual access and attention from a really attractive dude and it could be really attractive looks-wise status money personality whatever guys can uh
03:22:32Brian Atlasmake up for their lack of looks in other ways um actually women can too like if you're a girl and you have like uh for example if you're just add value to a guy's life aside from just like looks
03:22:43Brian Atlasand sex that's M that can actually I would I argue it's kind of the same with guys like you could H like if you're average looking girl
03:22:54Brian Atlasbut you're super sweet you're not promiscuous you're loyal you help him out with things uh and you you like have a good personality Pleasant Etc cuz a lot of guys don't want a headache like a
03:23:05Brian Atlaslot of guys deal with like Coral some women we don't want to deal like that that's one of the most terrible things we don't want a girl who like [ __ ] with our peace cuz we are like I don't know about you like you're probably like
03:23:17Brian Atlashustling grinding whatever like you don't want a girl to add more stress to your life like you're a business owner right like you don't want that added level some guys like toxic woman yeah those guys are like arler those guys are
03:23:29Brian Atlas[ __ ] no those guys probably don't have anything going for them the dudes who like [ __ ] the drama and the those guys have nothing going for them because like well I think like some guys want they don't want it to be boring they
03:23:42Brian Atlaswant like I don't explain it like some women give me boring I don't want give me like a mellow girl there some girls will just pick a fight just cuz they're bored true yeah and then but
03:23:55Brian Atlaslike the guys enjoy it because they're like oh there's some passion in it Bo no no no no no no bo was that there's boys like that they ra they're immature though like and they probably like don't have other [ __ ] going on in their life
03:24:07Brian Atlasso they like the excitement but a guy who's already on the world struggling like and when I mean struggling like they're already dealing like with the difficulties of like maybe their business owner is whatever they're already like fighting the world out
03:24:18Brian Atlasthere they don't want to come home and be fighting with their girl so I guess what I'm trying to say is just to bring it back to my my point is so as a guy if we can sleep with a girl I don't know if you you agree with this like if we can
03:24:31Brian Atlassleep with a girl there's a pretty good chance we can get her in a relationship would you agree with that like if you can sleep with a girl pretty good chance like you can get her in a relationship it depends what it depends
03:24:42Brian Atlaslook there's some girls who are for the street there's some girls who are street but like if you can sleep with a girl there's a there's a okay comparatively speaking a weird it's how you working it
03:24:54Brandon 'Bivo' BeusI don't know again like if you sleep with some on the first date you talk more and then it's game over you don't know you it's it's a weird one but I get what you're saying it's more client
03:25:05Brian Atlasyou're attach I'll frame I'll frame it like this like if a guy sleeps with a girl does he have a better chance of getting her in a relationship than if a girl just sleeps with with a guy oh yeah
03:25:17Brian Atlas100% right so I agree with that so typically there's a differential there and then the big thing is is that because for us men like we'll sleep with a girl I don't know if you agree with this but we'll sleep you can as a guy
03:25:29Brian Atlasyou can sleep with a girl and in terms of just her looks you would sleep with her but you would never consider being in a relationship with her just based off her looks but I would argue for most
03:25:41Brian Atlaswomen in order for you to sleep with a guy he needs to be at least physically attractive enough for you to be in a relationship with him so women will like and they'll break their rule in the opposite way so guys will sleep with a
03:25:53Brian Atlasgirl who's like we'd never be in a relationship with her just based off her looks she could be a great girl but we're like like looks wise just not even worth it whereas for women you'll break the
03:26:05Brian Atlasrule the opposite way like this guy won't give me commitment but he's really hot so I'm going to sleep with him like I'll give him a pass like oh normally I wait three dates but like he's super hot
03:26:15Graci Monataso this is my chance I'm going to [ __ ] him and is it true is it true I think I think guys are just creates guys are like very visual
03:26:28Graci Monatacreatures and you know what I think you're right on the fact that like I feel like if a guy were to if a girl were to just come up to a dude and be like oh do you want to have sex with me most likely than not like the dude would say yeah because they're a dude and I
03:26:40Brian Atlasfeel like if it were flipped I feel like a girl at least like me I guess I would want to get to know them you know like well here's the difference right like if
03:26:49Graci Monataif a girl is looking to have casual sex like a guy okay if a girl I I can like what if that if a girl is actively looking for casual sex
03:27:00Graci Monatathen then I think it would be like the same thing like like I mean maybe yeah she would find them attractive but if she's just having casual sex then she probably doesn't care about the person
03:27:10Brian Atlasyeah well I I would argue when it comes to casual sex like a girl is going to she's going to probably want that guy to be at least good-look enough that she would be in a relationship with that guy
03:27:23Brian Atlaswhereas guys it would be it's totally the reverse like they'll sleep with a girl who they'd be like would never be in a relationship with her based on the one soulle metric of her physical appearance they welcome the easy access
03:27:35Brian Atlasto sex but they'll never give her commitment some of these guys might even keep these girls around with like Friends with Benefits string them along I'm not even saying this is like just a one night stand one time thing sort of situation they keep them around but
03:27:47Brian Atlasyou'll never get commitment and that's where it's really dangerous cuz that not dangerous but like cuz then that's that's when you really think you're in that guy's League when you're like oh is this going to lead somewhere d d but
03:28:00Graci Monatahe's just using you I think like at the end of the day like it just depends on people's morals and where they stand with themselves to like if you're just going to let if you're just going to like look for casual sex then that's good for you like you know you do you
03:28:12Michaelabut at the end of the day like at the end of the day if you're having casual sex then like right it's just animalistic at that point so it doesn't really matter what's
03:28:24Brian Atlaswhat's what when it comes to the whole like out of the league thing so I would argue that most men can't get anything out of their league like if I step to a girl I'm like hey I'd like to take you
03:28:34Brian Atlasout I'm not getting a first date I'm not getting um she's probably almost instant rejection not getting a date not getting a second date not um sex whatever it may
03:28:47Brian Atlasbe but I would argue that women can get sex out of their league so if a guy tries to shoot H shoot a shot outside of his League he gets an upfront rejection whereas if a woman shoots outside of her
03:28:58Brian AtlasLeague she'll get a backend rejection so that means she gets rejected after being used for sex so the guy will sleep with you once ghost or keep stringing you long sleep
03:29:11Brian Atlaswith you a couple times but he's never going to give you commitment and that's the back end rejection H so that's how women can get gassed up well ah it just didn't work out with this one guy but he was super attractive oh and and you think like that's what
03:29:23Brian Atlasmakes them think like oh like they can pull like I guess per se that dude and stay with them yeah well cuz like think about it right as a girl if you can like sleep with these really hot dudes you're
03:29:33Brian Atlasyou're might be thinking ah [ __ ] well I just haven't found the right guy of that caliber to get a relationship from so you're going to like keep on pining towards those hyper attractive guys it's
03:29:47Brian Atlasjust going to but it's going to be constantly rejection after rejection after rejection whereas like guys don't have the I don't know if it's a privilege but guys don't have the benefit of getting anything from like
03:29:57Brian Atlasbro I can't step to a girl who's more attractive than me and like it's instant rejection she's not oh well hm like it's never Crossing her mind H well I guess I
03:30:09Brian Atlascould [ __ ] him a couple times like I don't think girls feel that way you know like if a guy who you're like not that attracted to who's like average dude at least in your eyes well let me ask you a question would you date an average
03:30:20Brian Atlasguy looks if his personality is a 10 then let's say he's average in all regards average personality average guy I wouldn't want an Aver I you don't want an average guy I actually asked that question to the panel but but like
03:30:32Brian Atlasyou're not like thinking if an average guy steps to you oh man I guess I could [ __ ] him once just you know cuz I'm horny or I guess I could like keep it casual for like a couple weeks couple
03:30:43Brian Atlasmonths and then like have her part my rotation like I think most women don't think that way but like you'll have I'm not saying all men think that way but there's enough men who have like who think that way where it like becomes a problem in this in the uh sexual
03:30:56Brian AtlasMarketplace but actually going around the table just open it up to the table here you don't want an average guy I'm just want to go around the table do you want an average guy what's your definition of average average looking
03:31:08Alexaverage job average person give me like a picture a good guy he's a good guy but he's average okay good guy good guy but average could you like maybe give like a celebrity comparison like like physical
03:31:19Brandon 'Bivo' Beuslooks do you consider yourself do who do you consider average [ __ ] looking I don't know why you guys call an average guy that works an average job that's oh yeah oh hey I know I know hey hang on I
03:31:31Andrew Wilsoncan give you an example the gentleman at the table average guy would would sound average Al wait me or yeah the gentleman at the table not you Brian the other gentleman I'm sorry is it Brandon was it
03:31:43AlexBrandon yeah yeah Brandon yeah yeah yeah Brandon Brandon an average guy who's an wait but who's an average looking celebrity I mean but he's right someone thinks that no matter who they are they're hot no matter what so there's
03:31:56Andrew Wilsongoing to be someone that that's not a that's not a dunk he's an average looking dude that's the point for each job though so it's I think I know you're like okay someone who's like kind of
03:32:08Cindy Zanglike he's like good-looking but he's not hot like there's a standard of like okay he's a really pretty boy like he's hot
03:32:16Cindy Zanglike like Andrew Garfield um no pretty boy like Vinnie hacker he's pretty and his body is hot like he's he's a pretty boy [ __ ] is that
03:32:28Cindy Zangguy Vinnie hacker you don't know who Vinnie hacker you don't know oh that that white boy for him like it's like he's he's a good-look guy okay how about Steve bami who oh oh oh the guy from um
03:32:42Brandon 'Bivo' Beusneed a picture or something from grownups that hangs upside down on the thing in the pool yeah he's like he's old yeah he's an older guy what you call American like you're
03:32:52Cindy ZangAmerican gen Chad I don't know or like Brad Pit when he was like in his 20s you think Brad Pit was average no I I never said average like I'm just comparing like the hot like the I feel like all
03:33:04Brian Atlasthe definitions of average are different yeah and then the average going be kind of hard would be here what we'll just have you guys answer the question whatever you think average about R guy walking down the
03:33:15Brian Atlasstreet yeah Cindy would you would you date an average looking average guy yes I have you have but would you I
03:33:25Brian Atlashave so that means yes not necessarily you you said would you date an average right just because you've done something in the past doesn't mean you're going to continue doing it so
03:33:35Monaelike moving forward like would you right now my preference no okay what about you yeah um I feel like yeah yeah but you're
03:33:46Monaewere 10 but no okay I said I thought you got I thought you got you got a DAT 10 I said that was my confident answer but it's not being for real like a eight oh well don't let me walk you back don't
03:33:58Monaelet me ruin your confidence no no no I'm not tripping at all okay but um yeah I would say yeah would you date an average guy I guess
03:34:07Graci MonataH would I I don't I don't think so like if he's right for me he's right for me you know like sure that's it I would based off personality okay I would not
03:34:19Brian Atlaswould not do an average guy would you yeah I would okay well you're married s okay uh not entirely I don't know where I was going with that yeah I yeah and no
03:34:30Brian Atlasbut I do think it's the case like here's the I'm not saying that you guys I'm not making a statement about the panel here but I think a lot of average women don't want average men I'm not saying you guys are average but like that's kind of the
03:34:43Brian Atlaspoint I'm trying to make of like it's important to know where you stand in the dating Marketplace because if you're like angling to get a certain like caliber of guy and he's outside of your league he's there's a good chance he's
03:34:56Brian Atlasjust going to use you for sex and never commit to you that's true and like I don't like to see women getting used for sex like I so yeah I don't know MH so I understand I feel like it's also important to really weigh your your like
03:35:09Cinderellaprospects on like who you feel like you are as a person like you can't really want something from someone that you can't give back like I'm big on like reciprocating and I know if I if I know I can't reciprocate what this guy is giving me or like what he wants I'm not
03:35:21Cinderellagoing to put myself in a situation at a fairness to him that's so true I kind of think though maybe part of this is that I think there's a I not
03:35:33Brian Atlasall women but like there's a decent amount of women who would rather have the divided attention of like a really attractive guy than commitment from an average guy or like a guy on your level
03:35:45Brian Atlasor whatever and actually going around the table like would you prefer like let's say I'm trying to think of like uh somebody really out like famous or some
03:35:55Brian Atlas[ __ ] super attractive Michael B Jordan right it's okay for you here I'll go to you I'll go to you immediately like would you rather be dating Michael B Jordan but he's got let's say you're
03:36:08Brian Atlaseven the main chick but he's got side girls would you prefer that over dating like some average no okay all right no disrespectful
03:36:17Graci Monatato well a lot of people would be to each their own to each it's just a personal preference personal preference I think I think that this is the the issue with the the modern dating
03:36:29Cinderellalandscape I feel like you stay it's so normalized with like the side chicks oh side gu sneaky Ling stuff that people don't really realize that like the the huge depth that being a relationship
03:36:40Cinderellaactually like puts on people and they they use it as like oh playing around like oh I'm messing with messing with that but you got to think about the future and like going out with that mindset that you're not going to find happiness you're not going to find a
03:36:51Michaelastable relationship if you carry that on with like how you're living today yeah I don't I don't think that it like like finding someone based on their attraction is going to bring you any
03:37:02Graci Monatalevel of yeah I think if you're solely just going based off the attractiveness of like how they look then obviously that's like that's a problem that's a problem yeah that's an issue I feel like
03:37:13Monaenobody wants to walk around with somebody that's like a GL yeah yeah yeah unless you're really into I'm going to read a couple chats and then we'll get into the next thing actually Cindy can I have you read this can you see it I
03:37:25Cindy Zangcannot Cindy can you read this thanks for the extra spicy guest today I know Brian has hard hard time finding men
03:37:33Brian Atlasable to contribute as much as the usual strumpets uh thank you L paladins thank you man appreciate it and then we have another one thank you Knight erant thank
03:37:44Cindy Zangyou felicious the delusion of human self Divinity religion values and God is a construct of society that ultimately
03:37:55Cindy Zangstems from error management Theory basic evolutionary psycho psycho biology so much
03:38:05Andrew WilsonDil do you want to give a 20 second answer to that Andrew uh well you can't really give a 20 second answer to it because we would
03:38:15Andrew Wilsonhave to get into metaphysics and epistemology and um I doubt that anybody who promotes evolutionary psychology knows anything about either of those things or they wouldn't promote evolutionary psychology so do you want
03:38:27Andrew Wilsonto just call that guy dgen no I I I'm not sure that he's a d he may not be I'm kidding he I mean he it sounded like a good faith criticism and those are the kinds of arguments I
03:38:38Brian Atlaslike to have but um but also you're a dejen right so this thank you night Aron I we appreciate the uh message uh can
03:38:48Cindy Zangyou read this one rating scale Beyonce is A8 Kelly Roland A9 Kevin samim from Kevin Samuels of you are an eight or above you would have
03:39:00Cindy ZangScouts hunting you down for modeling contracts for the cover of top magazines not necessarily not necessarily yeah not necessarily if you look at modeling I don't think he's I think he's right I
03:39:13Cindy Zangthink he's right no that's not true because I'm if you look at modeling Pages models thank you Tommy you see like different models in in all shapes and forms well let's say like let's I
03:39:26Brian Atlasmean yeah there's like those crazy Calvin Klein ads which are Super like scop [ __ ] but if like we go back
03:39:33Brian Atlaslike 10 years ago 20 years ago yeah you didn't see those like crazy ridiculous like you know do you know what I'm talking about like the Calvin Klein ads
03:39:46Cindy Zangwhere it's like this what like beluga whale beluga whale yeah okay but that's
03:39:56Cindy Zangstill a form of like you know body positivity so what what is I shouldn't be talking though they
03:40:04Cindy Zangwant to if cin kin wants to picture that as a campaign they can do that that's what they want to do is it going to make controversy I suppose they can it's going to make controversy because people
03:40:17Alexlike you are going to have opinionated opinions about it also like 20 years ago there was the big difference between super models versus Uber models and
03:40:26Alexbeing a supermodel like for example just like for a random brand maybe Chanel they would all have to look quite the same and look plain and a lot of Brands
03:40:37Alexwere looking for tall blonde European woman and they had to have like no special distinction but then like an Uber model would be like Naomi Campbell who has like a very distinctive look so
03:40:50Brian Atlasit's like there's like a difference with that so like models an umbrella term but you can have like different sure things uh we're going to get into uh wait hold
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03:41:35Brian Atlaswant to uh see some Maddie streams so we're going to do wait was what was the other was there something another tab we were going to pull up oh there's that Tik Tok uh not yet we are we're going to
03:41:46Brian Atlasdo bumble and then we're going to wait hold on before we do the Bumble segment the Bumble segment is a fun segment that's for the whole panel uh I'll do a
03:41:56Brian Atlasfew of my uh pre-show notes here so from Sophia you provided for us you wanted to talk about dating related topics we could talk about body count always being
03:42:06Brian Atlasbrought up in misogynistic men uh so let me see what the notes were specifically what specifically did you want to talk about when it came to misogynistic men
03:42:16Saia Bellaum mainly the fact that like if it was a normal woman who worked like yeah just scoot scoot it to the edge of the table
03:42:25Saia Bellaif it was um just like a normal girl who works like a night to5 and went out on the weekend sort of thing um and she
03:42:35Saia Bellasecretly slept with a lot of men but told everyone that she only slept with like a couple men which is a very known thing thing for women to do yep well
03:42:48Saia Bellapersonally I know quite a lot of women do lie about the bodyc um and then they're very quiet about it um and then there's girls who yeah will do it for not for workers in
03:43:00Saia Bellathat way but we'll be very open about the amount of people they've slept with um very open about like the body and
03:43:08Saia Bellasexual activity um and it's mainly like misogynistic Men Who Target into girls who do only fans
03:43:18Brian Atlasand so on so on well let's separate this out here a little bit so there was the body count component of this so you said that women some women will have a tendency to lie about their body count
03:43:30Saia Bellathey'll actually have a higher body count but tell men that it's low or whatever but then like obviously men judge women who have high body counts
03:43:40Saia Bellaand being open about it when normally it's the quiet shy girls who wouldn't sleep with anyone who's actually SLE with more people than people who are honest about it no I mean you're not
03:43:51Brian Atlaswrong uh we actually had one girl on the show who you would have never thought that she had a high body count she's very very quiet very mellow very um seemed you know shy introverted reserved
03:44:04Brian Atlasand then like but she was actually very honest with uh her answer to the body count question I think she she was like 19 and she'd slept with like I think it was like 30 35 guys which at voice crack
03:44:16Brian Atlasuh which at 35 or excuse me which at 19 is uh she's at 18 or 19 it's pretty high uh 35 30 to 35 is pretty high so you are
03:44:27Brian Atlasright that like sometimes it's the uh the unsuspecting ones like you wouldn't suspect that she had a high body count um I mean I do think it's bad for you to
03:44:37Brian Atlaslie about your to lie to a new partner especially if it's you know starting off the relationship on lie and then the other thing is like maybe some guys wouldn't care if they found
03:44:49Brian Atlasout down the road although I do think you are depriving the man of you're depriving him of making an informed decision about being in a relationship with you by lying uh some guys might
03:45:00Brian Atlasfeel duped or tricked or deceived and um I think the big thing though me like me for example if a girl told me that she had a body count of five and I started you know I dated her
03:45:12Brian Atlasfor 6 months a year and I was interested in taking her seriously and then like either she told me down the road or I just you know there's you can sometimes find out either oh you you were with