Picky Travel Nurse DEMANDS 6ft3 Man Who Makes $100,000+ Per Year?! Jake! E-GIRLS! | Dating Talk #197
Date: 2024-09-18
Duration: 6h 24m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_03Gabby(guest)
SPEAKER_04Gloss/Mixed(guest)
SPEAKER_06Fief(guest)
SPEAKER_08TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_12Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_13Jake(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:00
OtherBrian dedicates 50% of all episode fan funding to Mason Greguier motorcycle accident medical fund.
00:51:30
QuoteFief states "having sex is the same as going to a theme park" — said she stated this on Dutch television.
“having sex is the same as going to a theme park for me you go out you have fun and then you go back home”
01:20:14
OtherGabby's delusional calculator result: 0.11% eligible men given her requirements (6'2"+, $100k+, age 29-43, not obese).
01:22:37
QuoteSelena (porn actress) explains she objects to boyfriend subscribing to other OnlyFans because "it's the competition".
“no because I have one like sub to mind like for me it's like the competition so he would be subscribing and supporting the competition”
03:49:41
OtherJake's transformation photos shown on stream — was ~110kg (242lb) at his 19th birthday.
05:11:36
OtherGabby announces she has to leave to work at 8am; Brian tries to convince her to stay.
“I have to leave I have to work tomorrow”
05:30:30
OtherDesiree (chat viewer) donates $1,000; Brian pops champagne in her honor.
Topics Discussed
00:00:12
Opening / Announcements / Mason fundraiser
Brian announces show, donation structure. Dedicates 50% of episode fan funding to Mason Greguier motorcycle accident medical expenses.
00:07:26
Guest introductions & relationship status
All guests introduce themselves. Relationship status round: Gabby single 4y, Fief 4y relationship, Gloss single 3y, Selena single 1y, Ruby single 1y, Madison single 1y, Jake single since 2021.
00:25:00
Controlling boyfriends / TikTok & social media boundaries
Madison's ex-boyfriend called her a b*tch for Tik Tok posts; debate over whether controlling behavior is reasonable. Instagram vs dating apps equality argument. Bars/clubs as boundaries in relationships.
01:20:00
Gabby's picky standards / delusional calculator
Gabby's dating profile reviewed. Demands 6'2"-6'3"+ man earning $100k+. Calculator shows 0.11% eligible men. Delusion score 4/5. Discussion of travel nurse lifestyle and serial city-hopping.
01:23:20
OnlyFans / strip clubs / boyfriend subscriptions
Round-table: would you be OK if your boyfriend subscribed to another girl's OnlyFans or went to the strip club. Selena objects (competition angle). Fief draws line at personal chatting. Open relationship discussion.
01:38:00
Porn, watching porn in relationships, gay masturbation debate
Jake argues masturbating when girlfriend is available is "gay." Fief says she allows it when apart. Extended debate.
02:20:00
Travel nurse lifestyle & serial dating
Gabby's travel nursing discussed as structurally incompatible with long-term relationships. Body count accumulation by city.
03:01:00
Body count debate — does it matter for relationships
Jake presents studies linking higher female body count to divorce rates. Gloss says sex is like going to a theme park (stated on Dutch TV). Selena unknown body count. Brian ~50. Gloss ~50+. Ruby 8-9. Madison 2.
03:01:00
Sex and relationships — body count, promiscuity, golden ticket
Jake: promiscuous women are unattractive as partners; sex should mean something. Gloss: sex is recreational. Debate on desensitization.
03:17:18
Self-ratings round
Guests rate face/body/total (no 7s). Gloss: 8/6/7. Gabby: 8 all. Ruby: 6 all. Selena: 10 body 6 face. Madison: 8 total. Jake: 6 all. Brian: 5 face / 4 body.
03:26:09
Better or worse looking in 10 years
Going around table on aging. Gabby (27) says no unless plastic surgery. Fief says would need to lose weight. Brian shows old karate/surf Instagram photos.
04:00:00
Duties vs desires / nihilism / society and reproduction
Jake vs Gloss/Fief on individual desires vs societal duties. Netherlands birth rate and immigration replacement debate. Gloss identifies as nihilist.
04:28:00
Feminism debate — what is a feminist
Fief defines feminism as equity not equality. Table asked if feminist. Ruby says no. Gloss says no. Madison says sort of.
05:12:00
Dating expectations / people don't date to marry anymore
Ruby says people expect too much (fast replies, shared values). Gabby wild dating stories: stolen boat date, strip club first date with doctor.
05:18:00
Wild dating stories / relationship red flags
Gabby leaves early (~5:11) to work. Stories from multiple guests. Guy professed love to Ruby after 1 week.
05:30:30
Closing / champagne toast / Twitch raid
Desiree (chat viewer) donates $1000. Champagne pops for Mason. Brian wraps show, Twitch raid to Frost Adamus (Romanian WoW streamer).
Transcript
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01:52:51
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01:53:37
Brian Atlasjust once again and I'm going to pull it up in just a sec if you can you check if you guys have a prime sub because uh 50% of it uh from the prime Subs is going to
01:53:48
Brian Atlasgo to Mason maybe you missed it at the beginning Austin if you're able to to uh pull up the Instagram post from about Mason so Mason was in a uh Mason he's
01:53:59
Brian Atlasbeen on the show eight nine times Giga Chad Virgin uh very sad he was uh he was in a motorcycle accident a couple days
01:54:07
Brian Atlasago on September 11th he was going to work uh he uh he's still in the hospital uh he had a ruptured I don't know if it's in this post if it says it but he
01:54:20
Brian Atlashad a I I believe it was a ruptured aord which is the heart right you're a nurse ruptured aorta is that how you say it
01:54:27
Brian Atlasaorta aorta sorry English is my second language um uh broken leg he's it's bad so um all the uh all the fan funding
01:54:40
Brian Atlastonight oh sorry uh all the fan funding tonight Super Chat streamlabs messages TTS twitch Subs Prime Subs 50% of all the earnings from tonight's episode are
01:54:49
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01:55:01
Brian Atlaswhatever uh so if you guys you guys can send it through here if you want you can send it yo Duran thank you for the gifted 20 Subs um there's also like he
01:55:11
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01:55:22
Brian Atlasone to so if you guys want just just uh show some support to uh to Mason you can do it through the various ways or if you want to you know as you normally contribute to the show you can do it
01:55:32
Brian Atlasthat way too 50% of uh all fan funding tonight will go to Mason's medical expenses like the video too guys okay back to uh what do you bring to the
01:55:43
Brian Atlastable in a relationship yes what do you what do you bring to the table yo craze Ace thank you for the gifted 20 Subs man really appreciate it uh I'm really kind
01:55:52
Fiefand caring um I'm fun to be around uh I like to make other people happy uh I have a good
01:56:02
Fiefjob um yeah good job just a nice person but uh really quick on the job thing do you think that yeah I just quit my job to go full-time as a content creator but I
01:56:14
Brian Atlasthink that will be successful as well but like so the question is what do you bring to the table in a relationship do you think your job is something that you bring to the table yeah also stability
01:56:25
Brian Atlasand uh we have money to go on vacation and do fun stuff and go out for dinner but do you think in the calculus of what your boyfriend or any man for that
01:56:36
Brian Atlasmatter uh cares about do you think your job is high up there in terms of what men uh in terms of making an assessment of how attractive you are to
01:56:47
Fiefhim I think my boyfriend really likes it that I follow my passion M and I mean you talk talk a lot about your job because it's a big part of your life so I think having something interesting to
01:56:57
Fieftalk to and having money to do fun stuff works yeah okay but I mean mostly the the fact that I'm caring that I'm fun
01:57:07
Brian Atlasmhm I think that's good but in general do you do you think that men typically highly prioritize a woman's career in terms of the calculus of what they find
01:57:19
Brian Atlasattractive I don't I don't know how about the do you disagree with the and the whole panel can answer answer this do you disagree with the following statement men do not care generally
01:57:30
Fiefspeaking about your educational achievement or your career or how much money you make um I don't think they care about how much money you make but they care
01:57:42
Fiefabout what I do think they they care about what your education is and what kind of job you have yeah they care about what kind of job you have but I mean so would
01:57:54
Brian AtlasI mean that would to some degree tie into your earnings but um perhaps not if you're like a feminist studies or some [ __ ] um but uh so you think most men care about
01:58:10
Brian Atlasthat Roth PSA donated $200 07 Mason yo rat thank you so much for the uh TTS man really appreciate it thank you so much man good to see you in
01:58:21
Brian Atlasthe chat uh uh so how about this just going around the table do you think how did I frame it uh agree or disagree men don't care about women's
01:58:33
Brian Atlascareers hold on let me frame it a little better agree or disagree a woman's career does not make her more attractive to a man generally speaking um generally I would agree with
01:58:46
Gabbythat but it depends on what the man is looking for like what kind of woman he wants okay sure yeah agree or disagree I I think
01:58:58
Gloss/Mixedmen do care so you disagree then okay sure that's fine what about you yeah same I think men do care men do care okay um for me personally they care but like if
01:59:10
Gloss/MixedI had just like a normal job I feel like most men don't care cuz like if like as a man you're in the provider role like you would be the provider anyway so my
01:59:20
Gloss/Mixedjob would matter less than yours mhm but like obviously you know a woman should be educated and like you know have like
01:59:30
Gloss/Mixedambition so I think that matters over thep job when you say ambition what kind of ambition career ambition um just like with anything so like maybe she doesn't
01:59:41
Gloss/Mixedhave the best job but she is really ambitious in artwork or you know she really likes making YouTube or just like has like a hobby where she can be
01:59:50
Gloss/Mixedcreative and like I don't know just show that you know she has ambition to achieve goals like no matter how big or small I
02:00:01
Brian Atlasguess huh ambition [Music] um so career ambition um kind of with anything okay
02:00:13
Brian Atlasall right uh what about you what do you think uh can you repeat the question yeah sure so uh agree or disagree men in general do not care about a woman's uh
02:00:25
Gloss/Mixedcareer in terms of it making him more attracted to her no I don't think men really care okay Maddie I don't think they care about career either but I kind of agree with her on the they like the passions
02:00:38
Jakeand the hobbies and things like that aside from her career I'm not even sure about that one but uh Jake or well no I don't care at all about your career but I do I do like
02:00:50
Jakeit when a a woman has interest though and as things that she's interested in because if she likes reading books and if she likes um like making arts and crafts or something like that then I like that because they can do things in their spare time and it makes them more
02:01:02
Brian Atlasinteresting to talk to because you have you do have to talk to this person when you're old yeah do you though couldn't you just like she's in the other room and you're just kind of yeah exactly she
02:01:11
Gloss/Mixedneeds something to do so it's like you go do your thing cleaning cleaning sure yeah I have a passion for cleaning
02:01:22
Gloss/Mixeduh Y what do you think I think probably oh sorry probably generally don't care as much as like women would care about a guy's career but I mean I think it's also important to like if a woman does
02:01:35
Gloss/Mixedhave a career that you should probably like what her career is or like find it interesting I don't know because that ties into what her Hobbies could be depending on her career I don't know you know what I mean yeah you don't want it
02:01:47
Jaketo be useless either though you don't want it to be useless like I would ideally my wife working for my business with me and being able to do like the emails and and being competent in a way
02:01:57
Jakeand not not just being a sack yeah I mean she it's good if she's not just fumbling all over the place and has no and also if you go out of town for a week and you're like hey you need to
02:02:10
Jaketake care of the kids and and hold it down at home you need to be able to make sure that she's like yeah cool I got it yeah I think uh at least for me what I
02:02:19
Brian Atlaswould look for is cuz I mean once you kind of get into a place where you're earning such an amount of money I would want a girl who's ready to
02:02:30
Brian Atlashelp me with my mission and this is for long-term partnership right cuz in my mind I'm like well you could have your 50 60k 50 60 70k career or if we're
02:02:43
Brian Atlasgoing to be long-term Partners have kids or whatever if you can free me up by helping me and then that can enable able me to go on and make another an additional $200,000 a year it just makes
02:02:57
Brian Atlasway more sense for you to quit whatever you're doing and come help me yeah 100% like just the math of it okay you can have your 60k career or by helping me I
02:03:08
Brian Atlasearn us an additional $200,000 a year it's a no-brainer at that point definely so if you can get and if you can help out and it it you don't even necessarily even have to be necessarily even
02:03:20
Brian Atlasinvolved with the business although you could be it could be just like how can you free up time for me make my life easier so I can go out and kill it for the both of us that's kind of where my
02:03:31
Jakeheads at there's a big difference for a guy between operating at 95% and 105% and if if if a woman can make that difference if the guy is already high achieving then it'll make a bigger
02:03:41
JakeFinancial difference than your your career or your
02:03:49
Brian Atlasjob I had something for about her career but oh yeah what's that's probably a rewarding
02:03:59
Brian Atlascareer I really her porn Ambitions she needs to she needs to be more ambitious in her porn career she needs to sleep with more
02:04:11
Brian Atlasmen yeah you go okay all right I don't know where I'm going with that what was the question I totally totally forgot what you what do you bring to the table did we get
02:04:22
Gloss/Mixedeverybody I think where did we get to I think we only got here oh man okay all right uh what do you bring to the table uh what do I bring to the table
02:04:33
Gloss/Mixedall the obvious I can cook clean I'm fun to be around I love to go on adventures together I think that the person who is with me is blessed to never be bored I
02:04:43
Gloss/Mixedthink that's a huge thing inspiration as well never be bored yeah I love being busy I love adventur red flag red flag really yeah sure I mean we could go to Raves together or we could just game
02:04:54
Brian Atlastogether play D and D together when a girl says you'll never be bored with me all I just think about is there's going to be drama arguing it's drama free arguing
02:05:05
Gloss/Mixedfighting no no I mean obviously you're going to have some arguments but no drama free definitely yeah stop the C okay uh sorry go ahead go ahead what what else do you bring to
02:05:19
Gloss/Mixedthe table what else do you bring to the table what else yeah uh what have I said yet yeah I just love to go on adventures together I think that's also a big thing
02:05:29
Gloss/MixedI need someone who is uh spontaneous so we can go out together and sure explore Selena what do you bring to the
02:05:38
Gloss/Mixedtable um I mean I'm conversational funny like I like trying new things so like you know couples like Adventures I guess just like activities traveling gang
02:05:49
Gloss/Mixedbangs don't count I actually have never done a gang bang so yeah it doesn't count excuse me excuse me
02:05:59
Gloss/Mixedokay go ahead um I mean I think I have a nice body like I don't know I'm I'm I'm pretty chill I feel like I can get along with in Array of people you know by the
02:06:11
Brian Atlasend of tonight's show I'm pretty sure we can get you to quit porn what do you think I mean it didn't work last time so I don't know this time we have Jake here
02:06:21
Brian Atlasand we have yel who's she yel will convince you she's a Savage she will she's uh Jake what do you think
02:06:34
Jakeshould we uh get get this girl out of the the porn industry I think you know we'll probably do a 9h hour show tonight so we've got like seven hours I'm going to try to do a short short show tonight mean
02:06:45
Jakeanother another 20 hours one of these days we'll do a like a 24-hour stream or something but good luck that would be insane Selena do you want to eventually be engaged in a in a
02:06:56
Gloss/Mixedrelationship a happy marriage children all those sorts of things yeah so what's the thinking with the porn um I mean it's just like it's something I
02:07:08
Gloss/Mixedenjoy doing like and I like obviously I'm 19 so I haven't been doing it for that long so you can you can get out and well you still can maybe I mean I could change careers if I wanted to but for
02:07:21
Jakenow I'm Happ be doing what I'm doing do you ever stop to think about the detrimental effect that it might have on your future yeah yeah and do you do you ever do you recognize that it's dirty money I mean I've made dirty money before in in different various ways that
02:07:34
JakeI can't tell the United States Customs but you know it it comes with consequences yeah of course there's consequences there's consequences but I
02:07:44
Gloss/Mixedmean you could say that about a lot of jobs like I don't know like I'm at a point where it's like I've kind of accepted that there's always going to be judgment there will be backlash in the future like especially if I have a
02:07:56
Gloss/Mixedfamily and stuff like you know at the end of the day it was a decision that I made to do this career and you know in life you have to kind of just like accept your consequences you know it's
02:08:06
Jakepart of life but why this though why this particular career there's a lot a lot of ways that a you seem like a bright young lady there's a lot of different ways that you could make money there's a lot of different things you could do why that it's like the most
02:08:19
Gloss/Mixedextreme thing that you could possibly do that is true um I mean initially I just kind of started online and it was more of like my fans wanting me to
02:08:30
Gloss/Mixedexpand um like I started out really small and then I kind of just decided to do it and it was kind of just like a rush decision like I wasn't thinking about all the backlash or future
02:08:43
Jakeconsequences cuz I'm like I'm young whatever I'm going to do this cuz it seems fun and interesting what about the consequences now as well because OB like diseases and everything is very rampant
02:08:55
Gloss/Mixedin that industry as well do ever think about diseases you know sexually transmitted diseases um for our industry I feel like it's very safe we get tested full panel every two weeks and we can't
02:09:06
Gloss/Mixedwork without it but if you have a blood disease like HIV then it takes 6 months sometimes for it to show up that is true and that's why I do prep like the HIV prep pill to protect myself from that yeah and but there's there's other
02:09:19
Jakethings as well that you could catch and if you if you were to slip up I know herpes are you talking about Herpes I'm talking about Herpes HIV all all of these different sort of things that you could catch do you have a raise your
02:09:31
Gloss/Mixedhand if you have herpes I don't know okay go I mean well I mean like yeah that's a fair point but it's like I feel like in our industry like we're
02:09:42
Gloss/Mixedsafer than average people cuz like we do care about being tested so often like the likelihood is just very low I I feel like like 14 day like in a 14-day span
02:09:54
Jakethe only thing I worry about is people what they do in their spare time cuz I don't know if they're going out but if you're always engaging in sex then just by that alone then you're you're putting yourself at more risk and also the
02:10:06
Jakenumbers show that these diseases are much more prevalent like a herpes is very very prevalent in the porn industry yeah it is yeah and that's a risk You Take by doing it you know is the money good enough to be doing this um it kind
02:10:19
Jakeof just depends who you are how much it seems like what like from what you're saying you sort of just fell into it it's sort of escalated you don't you're aware of that there are consequences you're not delusional that there are all of these consequences not at all but you
02:10:30
Gloss/Mixeddon't want to get out of it at this stage yeah I mean I think right now I'm happy you know pursuing it and you know in in a few years if I don't want to do it anymore then I don't have to do it you know I can quit whenever I want like
02:10:42
Jakehave you seen the like just recently in the last year or so there's been all of these different porn stars that have finished their career and off themselves have you seen that as well yeah I mean I
02:10:54
JakeI've heard about all those stories and it is very sad you tend it's like they tend to get sort of used up and then thrown away after their career after these like long 20e careers and then they're not attractive anymore and then
02:11:05
Gloss/Mixedonce their beauty Fades they get sort of toss to the side I mean you could say that with anyone and like I feel like as far as like like offing yourself and stuff that that's prevalent just in the
02:11:18
Gloss/Mixedworld in general not just necessarily within a certain industry like you never know what people deal with what they're going through their experiences like I don't know I actually didn't know those women so I don't know what they dealt
02:11:30
Gloss/Mixedwith in their life it could have been something completely unrelated to my industry um but y you had a question for yeah I was just wondering what you thought about I'm sorry like how it
02:11:42
Gloss/Mixedmight affect you since how old you said you were n 19 oh okay like cuz starting at like a younger age versus like people that are older not that I know much about like the effects on different
02:11:54
Gloss/Mixedpeople but since it has like effect on people's mental health do you think it might be worse like for people that are younger or like are you concerned about that at all or not for mental health I feel like I've always personally
02:12:06
Gloss/Mixedstruggled with it like I've struggled with depression anxiety you know and it's just it's always been a thing like mentally I've always been you know not the best and I feel like even if I did a
02:12:19
Gloss/Mixeddifferent career I would still be struggling and that's why I'm kind of just like it is hard mentally to put yourself out there and be vulnerable like your whole body and like everything
02:12:30
Gloss/Mixedlike it is difficult and like I do get judged like in every way like literally every single thing about me gets judged and it is hard but I mean I guess in the future I'll see about my mental health
02:12:43
Brian Atlasand the effects that it had M but that's just you know it's life uh really quick on the career thing did we go around the table we did go around the table on the career I just I
02:12:55
Brian Atlasforgot to actually make my own point on this so uh here's the reality vast majority men really don't care about your
02:13:06
Brian Atlascareer like a lot of girls will say I bring my career to the table I bring my money to to the table vast majority men really don't care it doesn't make you when I say they don't care I mean it
02:13:18
Brian Atlasdoesn't make you more attractive to them in the same way way that a woman might be like really attracted to a man who's
02:13:24
Brian Atlasa doctor voice crack happens a lot uh voice doctor lawyer these are kind of
02:13:34
Brian Atlasmore prestigious positions uh women will tend to really prioritize trying to date these kinds of men who have these kinds of positions
02:13:45
Brian Atlasthey're in high demand it makes them more attractive to women women who occupy these positions typically don't become more attractive so women tend to
02:13:57
Brian Atlasmore highly prioritize posting this for Mason rather than for the panel that is uninterested in what quality man is looking for but it still needs to be said ladies your
02:14:08
Brian Atlascareer Ambitions doesn't make his de harder yo desert Joe thank you so much for the uh for the TTS man I really
02:14:18
Brian Atlasappreciate it good point um for example like women I don't know if you'll know this like so have you ever seen these concerts where a woman will be like go to a concert her favorite musician or
02:14:31
Brian Atlaswhatever and she'll like write a message on her iPhone like I'll [ __ ] you right now like like men who have who are really high status who are famous
02:14:40
Brian Atlasathletes musicians actors uh women like will significantly pursue these kinds of men and be like more turned on more attracted to these kinds of men but like
02:14:51
Gabbywoman's status it doesn't really make you more attractive really you disagree I me um I've walked in on a few patients jacking off in the
02:15:03
Gabbyhospital wait what that took a turn that took a are they saying like my my patients I would like walk in and they're just
02:15:14
Gabbytouchings or they'll be like the door will be open and I'll be like sitting at my desk and they'll just be like maybe bro b me they probably are bored I'm just saying got nothing else to Do's
02:15:25
Brian Atlasthere um well I'm not really sure if that's totally related but um it's kind of related but uh so you're saying men are very attracted to nurses in that way
02:15:35
Brian Atlasmaybe no or could they just be they just sit in there just yeah maybe it's the drugs that we give them little uh like here's the reality right like you're a travel nurse You're
02:15:47
Brian Atlasan RN you've done a bunch of schooling for that you probably make money I've heard travel nurses make a lot of pretty pretty good money uh nurses in general make good money uh I don't think like
02:16:00
Brian Atlasyou're going to be able to out compete like a woman who's more physically attractive who works at Chick-fil-A I'm not saying that to be insulting but like a man will prioritize like a woman's unemployed is what we want they want
02:16:12
Brian Atlasfeminine like in their feminine energy and men want that yeah men yeah absolutely I mean it's it's not just all about looks I mean men do care about being feminine bringing peace like have
02:16:24
Brian Atlasyou have a good positive disposition these sorts of things but like women will think will sort of almost project okay I find these traits attractive in
02:16:35
Brian Atlasmen I find status uh I find status dominance Etc these things attractive in men airo men must similarly find these same traits
02:16:47
Brian Atlasattractive in women but it's not the case so women will perhaps sometimes confus in a sort of confused way pursue a career or pursue status thinking once I get enough status once I get here in
02:16:59
Brian Atlasmy career I will become more attractive to men it's actually not the case in fact as you get more money as you earn more money as you get more status your pool shrinks not really so much from the
02:17:11
Brian Atlasthe male side of it but because you now need men to either match or out earn you you need men to have similar Prestige similar stat to you you often hear this
02:17:23
Brian Atlaswith women I need a man who makes as much or more than me so typically once once men the more money a man makes the more status he makes his dating pool opens the more
02:17:35
Gabbymoney and Status a woman gets her dating pool shrinks that's messed up why why is that messed up well because the guy I guess should be making more money than
02:17:44
Brian Atlashis wife if you want to have um like a traditional family right but so so that used to not be hard when women are were
02:17:54
Brian Atlasnot participating to the same degree in the labor pool so it's very easy to be economically attractive as a man to women if the woman didn't work and you
02:18:06
Brian Atlasused to be able to raise a family on one income that's no longer the case though so what was the way men typically at least in the past made themselves attractive to women by being
02:18:17
Brian Atlasproviders now women don't need men in that same way because you're making your own money so then you start looking at other things that will
02:18:29
Brian Atlasmake you attracted to him that have nothing to do with providing necessarily because you can still provide for yourself so I think it used to be in the
02:18:38
Brian Atlaspast oh okay he can provide for me then that's good I guess but I anyways um ultimately most men if given the option
02:18:50
Brian Atlaswill date the 21-year-old hottie who works at the Chick-fil-A drive-thru over the 31-year-old I guess still good-looking but
02:19:01
Fieflawyer woman agree disagree true agree disagree you disagree maybe it's a difference between Europe and America I it's got to
02:19:12
Jakebe the same in Europe it's for sure the same in Europe I I I really don't it's I think there's a lot more new ones I think there's a lot of countries are pretty liberal though like your
02:19:22
Jakecountries are very liberal like those European countries it's it is a bit of a different vibe there but in saying that a lot of countries in Europe are also very Christian as well so often times the the girls will live at home until
02:19:34
Jakethey're married and then and take the whole traditional route as well so it's it's a mixed bag over there it's not like they're all just maybe the area where I live ined in Holland is very liberal it's falling apart if I'm honest
02:19:46
Jakethey're going to be underwater hopefully soon okay so like he just like scw well they're pretty good they're pretty good Engineers over there fig sorry they're
02:19:57
Brian Atlasgood Farmers we need we need we need their farming that's about um like the I think the perspective where guys will factor in like your job is I mean it
02:20:09
Brian Atlascould be a component in so far as he's like okay well I want to start a family like it it will have certain it'll benefit the
02:20:18
Brian Atlasfamily uh if she he's earning enough but like in terms of
02:20:27
Brian AtlasAttraction it's not the same between men and women like a girl will be really attracted like I'm trying to think like
02:20:37
Brian Atlasguys can make up for deficits in other Realms with status and with money it's not so much the case for women that they can make up for
02:20:48
Brian Atlastheir deficits in terms of what men care about when it comes to attraction which I mean the big thing is obviously you beauty and fertility you make up for it yeah yeah with status and money so again
02:21:00
Brian AtlasI would argue most men if given the option they'll pick a 21-year-old who works at Chick-fil-A over a 31y old who's an
02:21:08
Fiefattorney every single time agree or disagree I think often not every single time do you think that for men of all
02:21:20
Brian Atlasages I'd say often as well often yeah I'd say a l every it's not every single time but you know it's uh let's just say it's the majority but a lot of the guys in these
02:21:31
Jakecountries are like institutionalized with with liberalism you know and they they'd be just as shocked as as they are to hear about these well I suppose like they've been uh propagandized and
02:21:44
Brian Atlasbrainwashed to some degree butly in Australia it's rampant but in terms of like their like kneejerk initial like what they're attracted to I'm sure you'd agree even with the brainwashing defin they're still going
02:21:55
Brian Atlasto be more attracted to the 21 you're phys like more attracted to the 21-year-old who works at Chick-fil-A then the 31-year-old Master's Degree attorney whatever but everyone feels like they need a self sensor these
02:22:09
Jakedays and that they'd be called out for saying for saying anything else so guys just won't go with what they actually believe yeah very word rough
02:22:26
Brian AtlasTHS okay uh let's see here we got a we got a bunch of stuff to get into we went around the table about what they bring to the table I think right did you answer that question I think we got yeah I answered what you what do you bring to
02:22:39
Gloss/Mixedthe table um I'd say I'm very understanding mhm of cheating no I'm very understanding um I
02:22:51
Gloss/Mixedwould I would like to think I'm pretty nice um hardworking [Music] um I don't know I'm just a I I'm good at
02:23:03
Gloss/Mixedcommunicating and I feel like that's very important mhm in a relationship so I like if they want to talk about something I feel like it's my job to
02:23:13
Gloss/Mixedmake them feel like they're understood and yeah I'm like trying to think but I don't know H
02:23:25
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02:23:34
SPEAKER_09white house I would rather that gay but G guy than a female yeah especially a Democrat they tried locking him up and killing him but
02:23:46
Brian Atlasno man can interfere with God's plan vote Trump oh wow okay okay thank you Mike Davis good to see you in the chat man it's been uh Mr Mike David been a while fact where you been man good to
02:23:56
Brian Atlassee you in the chat man good to see you in the chat Mr Mike Davis and then uh we have a message here from alixia uh yel can you read this one can
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Brian AtlasAlexia thank you uh thank you so much for the the uh message via streamlabs pre good to have you as a first-time supporter really appreciate it thank you all right so where do we go you know
02:24:32
Brian Atlaswhat we need to do your dating app review we got to we're going to get you a man here go we're going to get you your 11% please do I actually deleted dating apps for
02:24:43
Brian Atlaslike a year and then I realized that I had really bad dates in person too so bad dates what did you do to make it a bad date me showed
02:24:52
Brian Atlasup you just show Mr unicorn might be watching here yeah uh why we pull up change can we uh
02:25:03
Brian Atlasyeah pull up the dating apps for her okay is this the first one no that's like the second or third I think are you sure it's at the start it is at the start okay maybe it's just out
02:25:14
Brian Atlasof order but that's fine uh okay so this is Gabby Gabby's dating app profile there she is in is that Haiti havar huh
02:25:24
Brian Atlashavar where's that Croatia Croatia oh okay wait thep flag the bottom one the first one's in havar and then the second one is in lagona beach oh how did I confuse lagona Beach for Haiti okay all
02:25:37
Gabbyright next can you read read The Prompt I go crazy for Beach days traveling coffee hiking adventures and good food mhm
02:25:50
Gabbyoh hold on read it dating me is like winning the lottery yeah cuz you found your unicorn uh Santa Monica winning the lottery yeah cuz I'm
02:26:02
Brian Atlasa un what's the chance of winning the power ball or whatever isn't it like what in a million less than 11% Oh see it's the same we have the same odd oh my wait so like dating you is like
02:26:15
Gabbywinning the lottery yeah cuz you see you see how small my dating pool is 0.11% well would that would be you
02:26:24
Brian Atlaswinning the lottery for dating the guy that you you want right but so it's same same is it though but different is it is it it's pretty
02:26:39
Brian Atlasequivalent uh don't you think it's a bit uh prideful or a bit of hubris to be like dating me I am so [ __ ] amazing and special that it's like winning the
02:26:54
Brian Atlaslottery yeah I don't know a lot of red flags in there gab a lot of red flags I need to change it what should I change it to lot of red flags dating me is like I didn't know what else to put I got it
02:27:04
Brian AtlasI got it for you dating me is like buying 30 scratch cards and winning on one of them winning like $1 yeah that that's fair right that would and that
02:27:15
Brian Atlaswould be funny as well i' G okay I'll change it to that there we go right see I'm already helping you out change that okay I'm going to get hell in there dating dating me is like playing Russian
02:27:26
Gabbyroulette I might ruin your life or kill you wait I love that okay dating me is like is like picking up a needle from
02:27:40
Brian Atlasa one of the the the back street of uh impoverished town in Philadelphia wait hold on where am I going I don't know where I'm going stabbing myself with not getting HIV
02:27:51
Brian Atlasthere you go that's great cuz it's still it's a it's like winning the lottery of not getting HIV yeah that's great and it it communicates that you don't have
02:28:03
GabbyHIV and okay never mind um I don't get the winning the lottery thing though it was just a prompt and I
02:28:14
Brian Atlasdidn't know what else but um I I told you I just redownloaded it so would you dat an average dating apps would I date an average guy if they have a great personality no no no no no no average
02:28:27
Brian Atlaspersonality so average personality average looks average height average PP size um dingling
02:28:37
Gabbydingling would you well it's all about the motion of the ocean but no you wouldn't take an average not like an average personality that'd be boring what's wrong with average do you think I'm average yes oh
02:28:50
Jakeit's okay though there's nothing wrong with average no there's nothing wrong with average uhhuh it just sounds like it'd be boring I'd rather be single I think average people normally like date each other you know like extremely beautiful people date each other ugly
02:29:04
Brian Atlaspeople date each other I need date someone ugly would you you said you wouldn't uh did you say you wouldn't be willing to uh settle is that what you said I would rather be single than
02:29:16
Jakesettle as someone who's like average and boring and like doesn't make happy or fulfill my needs but what about when you're in your 40s for example and you're not really traveling as much and
02:29:27
Jakeyou know you're not like young in your 20s anymore and life slows down a little bit don't you think there's a you'd be more happy to be with a guy who works in construction who's 5' 10 earns a decent salary and he's a good guy and you guys
02:29:39
Gabbycan make kids and have a family and my mind might change when I'm older cuz every year you learn something new but at this moment but isn't it just a vapid lifestyle to be doing the same thing in your 40s and
02:29:50
Jake50s um I mean I don't do anything too crazy right now but if you were still doing that when you're in like 20 years time don't you think it would be just wouldn't be a very good life yeah I mean anything that you do for a long time like could get boring after a while yeah
02:30:03
JakeI think I was still doing what I'm doing now in 20 years time that's like a night it's like a nightmare for me to think about that I don't really think that girls think ahead that much with this sort of thing I mean I definitely do I
02:30:15
Jakewant to have a big family and have lots of kids but I shouldn't feel the pressure of society to I think we all need that pressure it's like a good pressure that we've got it's like Duty we for men to
02:30:28
Jakesay that cuz you don't guys don't have like a Time Clock yeah but we've got other disadvantages you know we've got lots of disadvantages like well the fact that uh we don't get any attention sexually when
02:30:39
Jakewe're younger when when a guy's 2021 with no resources he's still probably got like pimples on his face and and ugly girls don't really look twice at them I mean same with girls are you
02:30:50
Jakejoking girls who are in between 20 and 24 in their sexual peak they get most thought talking about high school I'm not really talking about even young guys in high school I mean we should pull up one of my high school photos that was
02:31:03
Jakedisgusting but um yeah I mean yeah guys we have to develop ourselves as men and then get into your 30s when you've got more resources you're more competent you're a better leader this is when you start to get more attention and you
02:31:16
Jakestart to the sort of things start well it definitely takes guys longer to mature cuz you're front until cortex doesn't develop until you're like at least 25 and you have to make a bunch of mistakes and fall on your face a bunch of times and go out into the world and
02:31:28
Jakeexperience all different kinds of trials and tribulations but that actually grows your character as a guy but before then you don't really get much serious attention unless you're like ridiculously good-looking or or unless
02:31:39
Brian Atlasyou have some sort of precocious talent but so that's a disadvantage that we've got mhm going on around the table on this though uh you said you would not
02:31:47
Brian Atlasbe willing to uh you'd rather stay single than settle uh so would you rather stay single for the rest of your
02:31:57
Fieflife then lower your standards or settle uh but I already have the best man I can
02:32:07
Fiefwish for well assuming you were single right um well before this I was eight years single so I guess I just I don't know I don't think there's anything wrong with an average guy
02:32:21
Fiefand so you would date an average guy yeah okay but like he said average date average and right all that I would date an average guy yeah and then would
02:32:34
Gloss/Mixedyou rather stay single than lower than have to lower your standards or settle depends on um the situation really if it's something that's going to annoy me in the long run
02:32:46
Gloss/Mixedyeah I would never settle for that if it's something I can deal with in the long run yeah I would settle for that okay what about you um I would Settle yeah
02:33:01
Gloss/Mixedokay I think I would settle I mean I feel like it in the long run as long as he's like a great dad to the to like our
02:33:11
Gloss/Mixedkids I feel like that's all that really matters sure but other than that yeah w okay uh I have a question can an average
02:33:23
Jakeman be the provider H it is difficult in this in this economy but it's possible though depends if you live rurally you can but if you're living in a city or a place
02:33:36
Jakelike Santa Barbara then it is nearly impossible it's a big problem that we've got at the moment wait do you want uh you want to get married right yeah you want to have kids mhm how many kids um three to five three to five three to
02:33:49
Brian Atlasfive yeah not 3 yeah 3 to five and do you um do you want to continue working while you're like once you start having kids or what do you think um I want to be a pretty and Princess so if you guys don't
02:34:02
Gabbyknow what that is it's like uh so for nurses you can work full-time which is 3 to 5 days a week depending on your hours or you can work like one day a week like per DM job where you just kind of work
02:34:13
Gabbywhenever you want to have an income um and like have a social life still and still have like a normal routine and have like that sense of normaly
02:34:24
Brian Atlasword okay uh let's go back to the dating app it it dating her is like winning the lottery gentlemen all right
02:34:35
Gabbynext go ahead okay it says the way to win me over is plan a proper dat be a gentleman and take me on adventures what's what's wrong with this
02:34:46
SPEAKER_05I think that's okay okay [Music] [Laughter] okay sorry I thought that was the best part of the whole profile NE next the
02:34:58
Brian Atlasbeginning that's the F that's the first picture too and the first okay that's the last one for the dating app stuff okay uh yeah it wasn't terrible okay scale 0 to 10 I'd say
02:35:10
Jakethere's a lot of red flags in that profile oh yeah look traveling the lottery the lottery was was was bad cuz that's kind of that would scream headaches for me entitlement already putting your on a pedestal I know it's a
02:35:23
Jakejoke and you know you're just kidding but also the traveling photos and the photos on beach around the world I'd say have you thought about investing in a
02:35:33
Gabbyburer a burka yeah I have a poncho a poncho is the next best thing okay and maybe a photo with a poncho oh or like a onesie I have a unicorn onesie you and then I could be like this is what in the
02:35:45
Jakelibr you're finding your unicorn okay that would be better that would be funny that that would be all right yeah all of the traveling and then when you say registered nurse and you're traveling a lot it's like travel nurse is a red flag
02:35:57
Brian Atlasalready I know wait you know that people always tell me that it is a red fly why what makes it a red flag I'll give you a couple reasons so happens in Vegas so I think one thing like let's say there's a
02:36:09
Brian Atlasrelationship mind in Kai but you're and it sounds like you stay in cities a little longer than other travel nurses but I remember um when I was on dating
02:36:18
Brian Atlasapps I'd encounter a lot of nurses a lot like I've dated a lot of nurses so no not my type but I've
02:36:29
Brian Atlaslearned I've learned and uh I've dated local nurses but then I encountered a lot of these travel nurses they're in town for like 6 weeks eight weeks short stin flight
02:36:39
Brian Atlasattendant even worse the thing is if she's on a dating app and she's going on dates she ain't dating people for long which means what high count promiscuity
02:36:51
Jakeand also it's a good opportunity for you to be able to do whatever you want and not have the the social stigma of your circle back home nobody knows about it just get away with it that's true so
02:37:01
Brian Atlasit's like I I remember I was on a date with this travel nurse I thought she was just a regular nurse turns out she's a travel nurse you know I mean it's like oh no crazy right and I'm like oh how
02:37:14
Brian Atlasmany cities youve been in and she's like 33 I'm like oh no hold on oh no yeah that's a red flag oh no no
02:37:24
Brian Atlasno just no bad she probably and I'm like am I Dude 3 100 that's what I'm thinking in
02:37:34
Brian Atlasmy brain am I dude 100 because you were on Tinder and hinge and Bumble in the other 33 previous cities mhm
02:37:45
Brian AtlasSeattle you're not for warm hot chocolates Washton DC Boston Fort Lauderdale Louisiana wait that's why
02:37:58
Brian Atlasdoes that matter New Orleans why why does what matter why does it matter when you have someone who travels a lot and maybe she cele because because typically
02:38:08
Brian Atlaspeople who travel a lot so they don't they don't make any uh what's the term Fort they don't have I don't know if it's Roots but like when you stay in one place you you're going to end up
02:38:20
Brian Atlashopefully with a long-term relationship if you know you're leaving a city in 6 weeks time are you going to date seriously or you going to just like date casually probably date casually you're going to rack up a high body count
02:38:34
Brian Atlasyou're going to have friends with benefits uh even if you date just one guy in one city it's only going to last a couple weeks couple months then you're in the next city you've racked up a high body count high body count is
02:38:45
Gloss/Mixedundesirable in women you are now disqualified but why do you look at it so negatively though you could go to a city and go dating okay that's not it you leave go to the next city and then you meet
02:38:58
Brian Atlassomeone who's the love of your life and you know you're leaving but you can go back you can always take a sta job too but you're so you're asking kind of two different things so you're saying yeah a
02:39:08
Brian Atlaswoman could sleep with 300 men and then the three number 3001 that could be the guy she ends up in a relationship with but from the male perspective I don't
02:39:18
Jakewant to date a girl who has 300 200 10050 bodies most Mal most men men hear that and they will have they'll be repulsed by that and if they're not repulsed by that and if they're willing
02:39:30
Jaketo accept 100 bodies or more then they just like then their priorities aren't in their right place what does traveling have to do with having a high body well I just explained it and also if if you're on the dating apps as well when you're traveling and you meet a guy on a
02:39:42
Jakedating app obviously he's going to like insinuate that insinuates that you've been doing that everywhere and also when you're going to new cities you don't really know anyone you haven't got any friends what's the easiest way to hang out with people and have some some
02:39:54
Jakecompany it's to go on dating apps or joining a club yeah you don't join a hobby you're not joining clubs give me a break have you ever joined a club in a new city yeah I play volleyball sand
02:40:05
Brian Atlasvolleyball okay sure so it's the same thing with same thing with flight attendants right so these flight attendants it's hard for them to like look there's different I I've heard from
02:40:16
Brian Atlasflight attendants there's different degrees of how frequently they're gone here's the thing right so there's a couple components there's opportunity so if you're in a new city and you're on a dating app a lot of these I've I've
02:40:28
Brian Atlasmatched with these flight attendants this is this is how the messaging goes oh hey good to meet you we match on Tinder or hinge how long you in town for 12 hours okay what does she want from me
02:40:39
Brian Atlasif she's only in town for 12 hours companionship no no no no what is the only thing that's on the table with a woman who's in town for 12 hours is it a long-term relationship or does she want to [ __ ] she wants to [ __ ] it could be
02:40:52
Brian Atlaseither one maybe she just wants a hug and someone to talk to she's going to find in her in her primary city she's going to get a relationship in her primary city if she's on a dating app
02:41:01
Brian Atlasand she's traveling and she's in [ __ ] Los Angeles Miami wherever for 12 hours time she the the long-term potential
02:41:11
Brian Atlasthere is next to nil so if she's on a dating app un she's there to [ __ ] may but she can move anywhere it sounds like so she could move to you if you guys
02:41:22
Brian Atlashead it off on the first date yeah but here's the thing so how long is it going to take to get to that point all the while she's still on Tinder she's still on hinge she's still on the dating app
02:41:34
Brian Atlasand she's in the next city and she's got hoes in different area codes literally she's she's got a dude she can stay with when she's in New York a dude she can stay with when she's in Seattle a dude
02:41:45
Gabbyin La well it sounds like a little insecurity because if a man was Secure he'd be like oh I know I'm the best thing she's going to get so maybe she'll just delete her dating apps and won't
02:41:56
Brian Atlasmeet anyone else as good as me you're insecure how's that how's that work for um how's that work for women when it comes to Commitment what do you
02:42:09
Brian Atlasmean uh I mean perhaps I mean you you think most people can operate on this level of I'm so [ __ ]
02:42:20
Brian Atlasamazing that immediately this per this person is going to drop all their other options well it would depend on you've been single for four years what's kept you from being able to lock down I'm not
02:42:32
Brian Atlassaying this to be insulting things right but like so you're it it would appear to me that you yourself I'm not saying this to attack you just to kind of use your language here you're not amazing enough
02:42:43
Gabbyto lock down a man I haven't met the right person I haven't like built a good connection that I would think is strong enough so I'm saying that like if you met someone that was a flight attendant
02:42:56
Gabbyand you had such an amazing connection you would maybe have hope that they're not going out there and like dating other people but you don't know so so even even if I grant that I could meet a
02:43:06
Brian Atlasflight attendant and she's really cool whatever I'm still going to vet her on her past promiscuity and if she's 30 and she's been a flight attendant for I don't know 10 years or whatever
02:43:21
Gabbythat's a lot of mileage that's some frequent frequent flyer miles freak frequent [ __ ] miles you know what I mean maybe she'll give some to you so you can take some lights
02:43:33
Brian AtlasI'd rather not you know look here's the thing right when you travel a lot there's opportunity you're not in one you're it's harder for you to get a long-term relationship because you don't
02:43:42
Brian Atlasstay in one city for long right so and this is look this this applies to men too like men who are men and women who are
02:43:53
Brian Atlason the road a lot whether this means flying uh it creates conflict in relationships long distance is difficult long distance is more difficult I'm not saying it doesn't work long distance is
02:44:05
Jakemore difficult than just being in the same place as somebody it introduces issues I'm on the road all the time I live on the road traveling and yeah I get quizzed on that regularly if I'm seeing a girl in a city she'll be like
02:44:17
Jakeoh well Ian is there hope for this for the future because you're just going to be in another city next month and how how do I know you haven't got a girl in the next city so it's very difficult to be us traveling
02:44:28
Brian Atlaspeople it's a hard life but like think about it right when it comes to you you're travel nurse so in my own anecdotal experience having encountered a couple travel nurses I match with them on the dating app I'm
02:44:41
Brian Atlaslike how long you here for they tell me 6 weeks they tell me 3 months if I'm inclined you know if if a guy's inclined he's not going to going to view her as a long-term Prospect right and even if he
02:44:52
Brian Atlasdid she's leaving anyways and so it what's ultimately going to happen is what's most likely going to happen as soon as she leaves to her next assignment she goes to some he's on the
02:45:03
Brian Atlaswest coast she's on the East Coast it's going to be the end right then and there and if she's done that 10 20 30 times throughout her career she's just already racked up a body count on top of what
02:45:15
Brian Atlasshe already did in college on top of what she's just already going to do before she meets the guy who she's going to be exclusive with for 2 months she already hooked up with 3 four five six
02:45:26
Gabbyseven guys in this new city she's in so I'm already thinking okay no way she no way too much traveling too much bodies I think people don't really understand the
02:45:38
Gabbywhole like career aspect of it because you could be a travel nurse and you could do be like considered a local travel nurse which means you just travel to like hospitals in your city a few cities away how many cities you've been
02:45:49
Brian Atlasin in the past uh five five cities in the past how many years five years three year four years you've been in five different cities in three years right yeah okay how many men did you date in
02:46:00
Gabbyeach of those cities um I don't have a number you can't even remember it right no I remember like seriously dated I would I'll go on dates casually but I haven't dated anyone the entire the
02:46:12
Brian Atlasentire time that well you said you've been single for four years have you been celibate for four years um not four years how long you been celibate for uh about a year and a half hold hold on get
02:46:24
Gabbythe get the button you [ __ ] liar you're a [ __ ] liar I'm I swear you've been cibit for a year and a half yeah you live in Los Angeles mhm you a
02:46:35
Gabby[ __ ] liar you're a [ __ ] liar where you can you can ask my roommates my friends my family sneak sneaky link no no sneaky links
02:46:46
Gabbyjust cell a bit yes no carnal knowledge no none you got cobwebs going what's going on cobwebs no because I feel think a lot of people in this generation just want to hook up
02:46:59
Gabbyespecially if they see you're a travel nurse so I want something that's like real and I want to see if someone's willing to wait and put the work in and take me on dates and plan them and if I
02:47:10
Brian Atlashave a connection with them then yeah I'm might put the work in yeah like dates how long's it wait so you've been celeb for a year and a half you a you meet a guy you really like how long you
02:47:21
Gabbywaiting to until you hook up with him it depends on the connection connection's good uh maybe like three to five dates in the past four years have you
02:47:33
Gabbygone on three to five dates with any guys um I think I made it to like date number five and then he was leaving to go out of the country
02:47:43
Jakeso press X to doubt um and he also had a family that I found out about celibate for a year and a half might not be the case unforunately
02:47:55
Jakeso I often find that they call themselves celibate because they they didn't like the guy but they don't count the guy they met in Boston that one night on
02:48:05
GabbyTinder on day he doesn't count one night Sans count but I haven't had intercourse with a single person p and the V Noone not even the tip
02:48:24
Gabbyyeah how long have you been just for a second just to see how it feels um almost a year so before that you were in before
02:48:35
Gabbythat I was living in Scottdale you said it was like 3 years you've been traveling yeah so in like all the other cities what would you do yeah I had a few one night stands
02:48:47
Gabbythere's nothing wrong with that but I I think that there's nothing wrong if like you want to hook up with someone that's your body it's your choice like like sex is a normal thing and like you release a
02:48:59
Gabbylot of um like serotonin dopamine it makes people feel happy but you also it's like an energy exchange a couple questions on this are you religious at all just curious um I'm spiritual spiritual you said you've had a couple
02:49:10
Brian Atlasone night stands more recently or cuz you said obious not recently well like two years ago 3 years ago you had some one night stand here and there and then like you went to College maybe some hookups in college yeah mostly just like
02:49:22
Brian Atlascollege and then after gradu question for you what is the quickest from like first meeting to it's getting it's going down 5 minutes no I'm just kidding how
02:49:32
Gabbyquick an hour 30 minutes definitely a few hours a couple hours same CU I want to like talk to someone and see who they
02:49:40
Brian Atlasare okay so can you pull up her dating app profile again the the last prompt
02:49:53
Brian Atlasso uh the way to win me over is plan a proper date be a gentleman and take me on adventures and then in addition to that you also just said now how you want to wait you'd wait three to five dates