Picky Travel Nurse DEMANDS 6ft3 Man Who Makes $100,000+ Per Year?! Jake! E-GIRLS! | Dating Talk #197
Date: 2024-09-18
Duration: 6h 24m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_03Gabby(guest)
SPEAKER_04Gloss/Mixed(guest)
SPEAKER_06Fief(guest)
SPEAKER_08TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_12Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_13Jake(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:00
OtherBrian dedicates 50% of all episode fan funding to Mason Greguier motorcycle accident medical fund.
00:51:30
QuoteFief states "having sex is the same as going to a theme park" — said she stated this on Dutch television.
“having sex is the same as going to a theme park for me you go out you have fun and then you go back home”
01:20:14
OtherGabby's delusional calculator result: 0.11% eligible men given her requirements (6'2"+, $100k+, age 29-43, not obese).
01:22:37
QuoteSelena (porn actress) explains she objects to boyfriend subscribing to other OnlyFans because "it's the competition".
“no because I have one like sub to mind like for me it's like the competition so he would be subscribing and supporting the competition”
03:49:41
OtherJake's transformation photos shown on stream — was ~110kg (242lb) at his 19th birthday.
05:11:36
OtherGabby announces she has to leave to work at 8am; Brian tries to convince her to stay.
“I have to leave I have to work tomorrow”
05:30:30
OtherDesiree (chat viewer) donates $1,000; Brian pops champagne in her honor.
Topics Discussed
00:00:12
Opening / Announcements / Mason fundraiser
Brian announces show, donation structure. Dedicates 50% of episode fan funding to Mason Greguier motorcycle accident medical expenses.
00:07:26
Guest introductions & relationship status
All guests introduce themselves. Relationship status round: Gabby single 4y, Fief 4y relationship, Gloss single 3y, Selena single 1y, Ruby single 1y, Madison single 1y, Jake single since 2021.
00:25:00
Controlling boyfriends / TikTok & social media boundaries
Madison's ex-boyfriend called her a b*tch for Tik Tok posts; debate over whether controlling behavior is reasonable. Instagram vs dating apps equality argument. Bars/clubs as boundaries in relationships.
01:20:00
Gabby's picky standards / delusional calculator
Gabby's dating profile reviewed. Demands 6'2"-6'3"+ man earning $100k+. Calculator shows 0.11% eligible men. Delusion score 4/5. Discussion of travel nurse lifestyle and serial city-hopping.
01:23:20
OnlyFans / strip clubs / boyfriend subscriptions
Round-table: would you be OK if your boyfriend subscribed to another girl's OnlyFans or went to the strip club. Selena objects (competition angle). Fief draws line at personal chatting. Open relationship discussion.
01:38:00
Porn, watching porn in relationships, gay masturbation debate
Jake argues masturbating when girlfriend is available is "gay." Fief says she allows it when apart. Extended debate.
02:20:00
Travel nurse lifestyle & serial dating
Gabby's travel nursing discussed as structurally incompatible with long-term relationships. Body count accumulation by city.
03:01:00
Body count debate — does it matter for relationships
Jake presents studies linking higher female body count to divorce rates. Gloss says sex is like going to a theme park (stated on Dutch TV). Selena unknown body count. Brian ~50. Gloss ~50+. Ruby 8-9. Madison 2.
03:01:00
Sex and relationships — body count, promiscuity, golden ticket
Jake: promiscuous women are unattractive as partners; sex should mean something. Gloss: sex is recreational. Debate on desensitization.
03:17:18
Self-ratings round
Guests rate face/body/total (no 7s). Gloss: 8/6/7. Gabby: 8 all. Ruby: 6 all. Selena: 10 body 6 face. Madison: 8 total. Jake: 6 all. Brian: 5 face / 4 body.
03:26:09
Better or worse looking in 10 years
Going around table on aging. Gabby (27) says no unless plastic surgery. Fief says would need to lose weight. Brian shows old karate/surf Instagram photos.
04:00:00
Duties vs desires / nihilism / society and reproduction
Jake vs Gloss/Fief on individual desires vs societal duties. Netherlands birth rate and immigration replacement debate. Gloss identifies as nihilist.
04:28:00
Feminism debate — what is a feminist
Fief defines feminism as equity not equality. Table asked if feminist. Ruby says no. Gloss says no. Madison says sort of.
05:12:00
Dating expectations / people don't date to marry anymore
Ruby says people expect too much (fast replies, shared values). Gabby wild dating stories: stolen boat date, strip club first date with doctor.
05:18:00
Wild dating stories / relationship red flags
Gabby leaves early (~5:11) to work. Stories from multiple guests. Guy professed love to Ruby after 1 week.
05:30:30
Closing / champagne toast / Twitch raid
Desiree (chat viewer) donates $1000. Champagne pops for Mason. Brian wraps show, Twitch raid to Frost Adamus (Romanian WoW streamer).
Transcript
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00:56:13
Brian Atlason there we go ladies if you get to keep your Instagram or Tik Tok then your guy gets to keep his dating apps profiles # equality do you guys agree is this a
00:56:25
Brian Atlasfair tradeoff to stay on the dating apps is it fair going around the table defitely not trying to date you already have like the best thing there is so the okay but you already have the best thing so why do
00:56:38
Jakeyou need attention on social media I I don't no but I'm saying in the hypothetical world that we're in right now what if you're already dating somebody why would you need to be getting this attention on social media
00:56:49
Jakeyou don't at all so why can't he keep his his apps then why does he want attention why do you want attention how about but we both just give each other attention and then and not and and not
00:56:59
Brian Atlashave any of the apps yeah fantastic you AG then wait you you know what I think would actually be kind of a fair tra sort of fair tradeoff but still not even
00:57:08
Brian Atlasreally or maybe it's fair so uh the men they get to keep their dating apps they can't send a message though they can't respond but they can keep their profile
00:57:20
Brian Atlasactive on the dating app I think that that's actually a really kind of one close to a onetoone comparison of women keeping their Instagram are they going on The Dating I was say like a lot of
00:57:32
Gloss/Mixedpeople just post like pictures of the ocean or like not everybody's just well should we we need to pull up y's uh should we P private wait it's private
00:57:41
Brian Atlasmhm it is yeah it wasn't before wait is it really I think so right yeah okay oh okay all right well um in any case in
00:57:52
Brian Atlasany in any case um I think the difference though and I think what the super chatter is trying to get at is that so men and women we flirt very
00:58:04
Brian Atlasdifferently so for example a guy will approach you at a bar or club he'll approach 10 women in a night if you guys go to a bar
00:58:14
Brian Atlasor a club you're not going to go at like approach 10 dudes you'll go to the bar perhaps you'll put yourself in a kind of a a position to be approached you'll go
00:58:25
Brian Atlasthere dressed really nice looking sexy whatever and maybe you'll make eye contact with a guy that's the extent of it in the hopes of eliciting them to come talk to you uh so when you
00:58:37
Brian Atlasgo out to the bars your your intention is not I'm going to go approach men your intention is whether conscious or unconscious I'm going to make my S available for men to come talk to me and
00:58:49
Brian Atlassimilarly when it comes to Instagram you're not going to like you might occasionally slide into a DM here or there like an aist celebrity you'll shoot your shot with like the top tier dudes whereas guys will shoot their
00:59:00
Brian Atlasshot with anything um you'll post a revealing photo oh I hope a guy or some guys or this particular guy notices me
00:59:10
Brian Atlasreacts to this this elicits him to then contact me or men in general to contact you so going back to how men and women flirt very differently when men enter
00:59:21
Brian Atlasinto a relationship with any of you guys there's an expectation on his part okay the way that you flirt as a man you need to stop that once we're in a relationship so the way men flirt we take initiative we approach you we'll
00:59:32
Brian Atlasslide into the DMS Etc there's an expectation that that stops and ceases when when we're in a relationship but the ways in which that you conduct yourself when you're
00:59:44
Brian Atlassingle doesn't cease once you're in a relationship it continues when you're in a relationship you continue going to bars you continue going to parties and you continue making yourself available
00:59:55
Brian Atlason social media platforms you continue posting photos often times revealing photos on social media and this is the way that you flirt online that's a very good point yeah so there's an
01:00:06
Brian Atlasexpectation on men it's a it's a very one directional expectation we have to stop the way we flirt flirt but you guys even in a relationship even in the
01:00:18
Brian Atlasmarriage you don't have to stop the ways that you make yourselves available to men and it's very unfair and so the Super Chat that came in the streamlabs
01:00:28
Brian Atlasdonation I agree with equality maybe Jake does too y if we got to stop approaching women you guys have to stop making yourselves available in single environments or on social
01:00:40
Brian Atlasmedia you can still have an Instagram maybe it could be maybe you could private it maybe you stop posting kind of more revealing photos uh but definitely no bars clubs
01:00:52
Brian Atlasparties that's got to be a deal breaker for men can you go together well I suppose you could but I I advise against it but then again I'm kind of more of a home body but I don't go to
01:01:02
Brian Atlasbars or clubs uh so I I wouldn't even want to date a girl who's like inclined to do that even when she's single because that's just that would be such a
01:01:13
Gabbymismatch of is it a hobby to go to a bar I I don't know if it's a mismatch hob your free time what's that how you like to spend your free time oh how do I like to spend my free time well you want to find someone that you have like the same
01:01:25
Jakefree time yeah I just since I don't go to these types of venues like I don't think I if it's like hobby bar hopping if it's like they've got like a friend's birthday and they're going out and seeing their friends I wouldn't mind about that but
01:01:36
Jakeif there's somebody who's like a rampant bar or club goer then yeah you wouldn't want to date somebody like that it's constantly in the belly of the beast but yeah so I just don't think I see myself
01:01:48
Brian Atlasdating a girl who even goes out to bars and clubs and parties really to begin with but like Jake said if it's occasional thing I don't think I would really mind but like Thursday Friday Saturday every single
01:01:59
Brian Atlasday of the week yeah that's probably a problem um so yeah but fair proposition we have to stop flirting we have to stop initiating
01:02:11
Brian Atlasyou guys got to stop going to environments where you can anticipate you're going to get this kind of male attention fair fair proposition technically
01:02:21
Fiefeverywhere then because teally I me I've been hit on in a grocery store I've actually got a no grocery store rule with makes sense makes sense you shouldn't let them go there so that's a
01:02:34
Brian Atlasfair that I suppose that's a fair argument so I would not have a boundary like oh you're not allowed to go out in public ever you're not allowed to go to the grocery store um but I mean but but
01:02:46
Brian AtlasI do I do acknowledge that as a woman you can be approached anywhere it could be the grocery store it could be you're just out and about shopping whatever uh
01:02:56
Brian AtlasI wouldn't attempt to put any controls on that because that's just you um moving about your day through life the difference is though is the venues that
01:03:08
Brian Atlasyou choose to go to so for example while I acknowledge that men might approach you in a grocery store it's far less common that at a party club or nightclub then add on to that the involvement of
01:03:20
Brian Atlasalcohol most people don't go to Trader Joe's to get turned up turned turned up I'm sorry to I know what you mean um they don't go to Trader Joe's to get drunk I don't think in the history of Trader Joe's a woman's ever been
01:03:32
Brian Atlasfingerbanged like ever but if you go to a nightclub or a bar chicks begin bro chick people are hooking up making out they're getting [ __ ] they're
01:03:41
Brian Atlas[ __ ] 30 minutes later okay it happens look my bars are different I look I went I saw I Santa Barbara number one UCSB number
01:03:53
Brian Atlasone party school in the US the amount when I and I was never a big partyer never really big drinker but I went to parties here and there and stuff uh the amount of [ __ ] that I saw like people
01:04:05
Brian Atlas[ __ ] within 30 minutes of meeting like some people meeting right by the beach okay boom uh meet at the party let's go [ __ ] at the beach 30 minutes later let's go [ __ ] in the bathroom laundry room whatever I've seen it I've
01:04:17
Brian Atlasseen people [ __ ] in the middle of parties and it wasn't a sex party they just started [ __ ] it was like a normal college party and they're getting finger blasted I I think I some things
01:04:27
Brian Atlasbeing in Europe well I've been I've I've been to the Netherlands three times and they have fraternities they have frat hold on they have fraternities in the Netherlands fraternity sororities I went to a fraternity party [ __ ] goes down in
01:04:40
Jakethe Dutch frat party and I've been to one of those one of those festivals as well in I've been to Lan's Festival I know it happens a lot but I I want to agree with you to some extent I think I
01:04:52
Fiefhave a friend when we used to go out together and she go home with a man she would say oh my evening sucked and it really was disappointing and I would be like oh but we had a great evening
01:05:04
Fiefbecause we're just you know having fun going out um so I think for those girls who really see partying as the way to be picked up and hook up with people and go
01:05:14
Fiefto the beach in 30 minutes yes that's a thing but I still go out with my best friends every now and then but
01:05:23
Brian Atlasif guys approach me I say oh I'm taken by I'm just having fun with my friends so I think yeah yeah so I I mean look going back to this whole Trader Joe Trader Joe's
01:05:35
Brian Atlasexample so nightclubs bars parties these are very very specific social Gathering type environments where there's an expectation as the woman going in like there's a high likelihood that you're going to get approached and so I just
01:05:48
Brian Atlasthink when it comes to uh the respect of your partner you just would opt to not go to these typ like life music and I often go to s with live music and you don't have that in your home do you like
01:05:59
Brian Atlaslive music more than your boyfriend no but my boyfriend is fine with that then I don't pick up guys when I'm in a bar yeah I mean look if he has no issues with it and you're certainly free to do it I just think it's a perfectly
01:06:11
Brian Atlasreasonable it's a perfect excuse me perfectly reasonable standard and Boundary for men to have especially men who are relationship minded look a guy who just wants to [ __ ] you probably doesn't give a [ __ ] so a guy who's
01:06:22
Brian Atlasactually who cares about you who wants you to be safe who doesn't want to see because how many times do we see stories of like you know some guy's going to grab your ass or you know you get uh you
01:06:33
Brian Atlasknow something gets dropped in your drink like guys view the world through like a sort of a a bit of a different lens sometimes and we're like looking at it from like a security safety perspective and we don't want our
01:06:46
Brian Atlasgirlfriend to be put in a potentially vulnerable situation where uh not her fault but we can't control for what some drunk douchebag's going to do who knows
01:06:57
Brian Atlasthere could be uh some safety concern and uh we don't want to be in a position where uh your safety is at risk and if like as women you want men to be protectors like this is within the
01:07:09
Fiefpurview of us trying to like look out for you and your like that is really nice yeah but I I mean I luckily haven't been in moments that I'm in a bar and people do things that I don't feel safe
01:07:23
Brian Atlaswith well I I don't know if Santa barbar is different and it's it's weird because Santa Barbara is like a really nice area High Cost of Living relatively safe but like every single time when I um again never was a big parier but I'd
01:07:35
Brian Atlasoccasionally like go out with a friend to and I would maybe have one drink at a bar or nightclub or whatever uh certainly when I was younger I haven't been out in years but when I was a bit
01:07:46
Brian Atlasyounger I did every single time I went out there's always violence always saw a fight always saw something going on uh now this is typically more so concern as a man because you're not some random
01:07:58
Brian Atlasguy's not going to start a fight with you um but every like when it comes to safety concerns security concerns every single time I've been out there's always tension there's always violence in the
01:08:09
Brian Atlasair I always see a fight somebody gets knocked out brain damage injury paramedics firefighters police every single time I've been out I've never not
01:08:20
Fiefgone out and not seen something go down every single time true but I go to ro met bars and they it happens less I guess yeah I don't know what kind of
01:08:30
Fiefbars Rock and metal like music they're all like MH pitting and stuff like that yeah they're all like big friendly Bears they're just very cozy people also that the house music do you
01:08:41
Jakehave that the house music in yeah I don't really go there Europeans love those parties MH and that's where a lot more of the yeah yeah lot there's a lot of just like sex drugs and rock and roll
01:08:52
Brian Atlashappening in those places yeah yeah uh oh the the other thing is well you might say okay well go with your girlfriend but like that is I think
01:09:03
Brian Atlasthat's a terrible idea and I know Jake maybe you've had experiences like this like if you're with the wrong girl like and she's been drinking she's going to
01:09:14
Brian Atlasget you into a fight potentially that's that's how the fights normally start that's a big I mean it's a big cause of it and like the thing is if like some drunk guy is like castling you you're
01:09:26
Brian Atlasgoing to like look to your boyfriend to intervene on your behalf and then um there's been so many instances of it's not always the girl's fault but like sometimes the girl will be intoxicated
01:09:39
Brian Atlaslike mouth off to some dude and then that dude gets aggro and he's not going to Target the girl he's going to Target the guy that she's with and then it could break out into a fight he's going to get sparked and then your boyfriend's going to get knocked out and then you're
01:09:51
Brian Atlasgoing to dump him because you can't see your boyfriend in the vulnerable vulnerable position your boyfriend got knocked out you're going to dump him within 3 weeks and then uh he has brain damage so guys don't go out with your
01:10:03
Gloss/Mixedgirlfriend to uh bars and clubs because uh it's just not good but is it really like that here like it's welcome to America yeah we were supposed to go out
01:10:14
Jakebut I'm kind of scared now honestly it's a very different scene in America than it is in Europe for sure so there's always fights you can basically count it I can't say I've been out in America too too many times but you can tell by the
01:10:26
Jakeatmosphere and and everything it's a lot more violent England is terrible England's terrible yeah but places like Holland and Germany they they genuinely tend to really go out for music and they have a better relationship with alcohol
01:10:38
Brian Atlasand drug they have they take a lot of drugs though over there right in any case in any case look
01:10:47
Brian Atlasuh I think going back to the original thing though I think look I think if you guys don't want to give up bars clubs in you know keeping your Instagram public posting revealing stuff maybe
01:11:00
Brian Atlasit's fair for the guys to keep their Tinder hinge Bumble Christian Mingle Farmers Only grinder even and uh keep it keep it on we won't send a message but
01:11:10
Brian Atlaswe we will acre we will continue to acre matches and maybe some of the girls message us first and uh we just keep accruing it but we won't message any of them we won't
01:11:23
Brian Atlasrespond until we take a break that's not my husband then yeah no so okay what that's not your husband but then what if the guy turns around
01:11:36
Brian Atlasand says well you post revealing photos on Instagram you're not wifey material that's fine it's not oh you're fine with that that's not my soulmate so your soulmate has to accept you going to
01:11:46
Brian AtlasRaves and parties and bars and clubs and posting revealing photos well they go with me what if they don't well then we probably wouldn't be together or I would just I mean I like to stay at home if I
01:11:58
Jakedon't go to a festival so they have a Cy cyclical thing you said before that you have high standards right so high standards would suggest that you're looking for a pretty capable guy goodl looking he's probably tall and these sorts of guys have a lot of
01:12:10
Jakeoptions and they just won't put up with this so it's this cyclical thing that that girls enter into and they say uh I need this this this this and this and I've got this laundry list of things that I need but I'm not willing to take these photos down I'm not willing to
01:12:23
Jakecompromise with you at all and and the guys that you will attract if you do those things you won't respect I'd be willing to compromise if they were the right person for me he just said that and you said that you wouldn't take the photos down and you wouldn't stop say that isn't that just what happened did I
01:12:37
Brian Atlashear wrong you you said that we about going out you said your soulmate would I think she would take photos down is that what you're saying I said I would make a compromise like I don't what the compromise well it would depend on the
01:12:49
Brian Atlasphotos here's the compromise there's a difference here's the compromise here's okay role play here hi I'm your boy boyfriends good to meet you um okay you need to make your Instagram private and
01:12:59
Brian Atlasyou got to take all all this all this [ __ ] down no you can archive maybe archive that there's a compromise you can archive archive suggests that we're going to break up that's a fair point
01:13:11
Gloss/Mixedyou know what you're allowed to have a MySpace account but I have to choose your top I have to choose your top friends in your favorite song you don't know what Myspace is wasn't that like J Jen Z damn you know what's crazy
01:13:23
Brian AtlasJen Z thinks that like like looks at Myspace the same way that we look at like a rotary phone that's crazy was Myspace like preface like pre Facebook
01:13:33
Jakeor was that yeah that was I remember the exact time when when when Facebook started to take over Myspace and I was like but I can't have top friends in
01:13:43
Brian AtlasFacebook massive bummer anyways anyways um damn we're we're Boomers over mypace was the best W Myspace Well w Myspace
01:13:55
Brian AtlasI wonder if anybody like got you know how like people use Instagram as a dating app like they get it in on Instagram sending DMs I wonder if like some dude was [ __ ] killing it on MySpace yeah dude for sure I had a I had a friend who was in a few different
01:14:08
Brian Atlasgirls top friends like and I was like play top friends he's killing he's out here and that's when you could like have you your whole profile could be like
01:14:17
Brian Atlascustomized like HTML song remember that song yeah yeah that was the best profile song I used to do some simpy songs when I was younger yeah I wish I could say I
01:14:29
Brian Atlaswas killing it on mypace but that was that was like high school man not killing a on mypace so how do you guys pick up girls what's your what do you guys do mainly Myspace oh yeah mypace uh
01:14:41
Brian AtlasI I go and grind her apparently like that's we had a girl no I'm kidding but we had a girl the uh like last week who uh she met a guy on grinder what remember or you weren't here oh you
01:14:55
Brian Atlasweren't here it is a gay dating app but sounds like one they're in I'm just disregard the grinder comment uh I'm not on dating apps
01:15:06
Brian Atlasso I just I like girls slide into the DMS back in the day so should be head on Purely C approach yeah I'm in my I'm in
01:15:17
Brian Atlasmy sassy man era yeah drizzle drizzle drizzle the girls have to do all the work yeah I can't stand the dating apps it's mainly just cold
01:15:28
Jakeapproach just on the streets TR Joe's oh on the streets so you are on the streets I'm cold approaching though in a gentlemanly way but uh libraries cafes these sorts of
01:15:39
Brian Atlasplaces uh what what were we talking about do we have any push back from uh any more push back from anybody on the whole controlling thing I don't know oh I was going to ask uh do you think you
01:15:50
Brian Atlasquestion for you because you mentioned controlling uh would you your longest relationship was six years you said yeah uh let's just like future boyfriend or whatever would you have an
01:16:03
Brian Atlasissue if he was paying for another girl's only
01:16:08
Gloss/Mixedfans that's a good question never thought about that I don't think I mind no you would have mind like meet he was like messag no he's just like chatting with her yeah I don't mind uh you really yeah okay but you asked the wrong person
01:16:21
Brian Atlaslike I'm super open about that kind of stuff you are you Paulie no are do you have open relationships no have you ever had relationship how open was the open
01:16:32
Brian Atlasrelationship as open as it can get I guess uh who were you monogamous first like did it start monogamous then you opened it up or was it always open
01:16:42
Gloss/Mixedyeah you're the one who opened it up no together wait you Mutual someone someone's going to come we talked about it and I was ah maybe that's a good idea try you talked about it who started the combo he did
01:16:55
Gloss/Mixedokay all right and then you were like hell yeah no I was like oh that's interesting well I never tried maybe F you getting with other guys yeah was this your six-year relationship no that
01:17:05
Gloss/Mixedwas just something like in between how long was that relationship uh like one and a half years so I I really don't really count it so while you were seeing him how many other guys did you
01:17:18
Gloss/Mixedsee I don't know I don't take count of that like 10 20 I don't know maybe
01:17:29
Gloss/Mixedmaybe 10 I don't know think so okay how many girls did he see um like would you guys talk about it kind of no no we wouldn't really talk
01:17:39
Gloss/Mixedabout it um but I did know uh two girls that he was with MH um so I do know of two but I think it's more probably around five so so you put in more work
01:17:52
Brian Atlasthan he did more more work more work I guess that's an American saying um you you got with more guys than he got with
01:18:03
Brian Atlasgirls yeah so let's just say it would be like five and 10 yeah okay um but so going back to the question would you be okay with your boyfriend subscribing to
01:18:14
Brian Atlasgirls only fans why don't we open up to the panel what do you think um no not okay with it no but he's just being himself your words who would not dat someone that does that those were those were your words though you're like well
01:18:26
Gabbywhen it comes to going to bars clubs parties whatever but I would you got be yourselfself subscribe to someone else subscribe to well you don't have an no F right yeah um what what would be wrong
01:18:38
Gabbythough that's very controlling and insecure of you no I'm not going to change him I'm just not going to date someone that is subscribed to someone else's Channel but but you should let him be himself why you controlling he but not my boy okay so let's say you are
01:18:50
Brian Atlasdating a guy and he wasn't doing that but then you found out he was doing that a year into the relationship you break up with him or do you say stop that or I'm going
01:19:00
Gabbyto break up with you it would depend on sitation how much I really like him you like him as much as you anticipate liking like would I marry him he's the best
01:19:11
Brian Atlaslooking guy you've ever no let's not be I feel like it's just be personality person look it's it's the guy that you're going to end up with doesn't sound like it well so it's here's the
01:19:23
Brian Atlasthing when I say it's the guy you're going to end end up with a lot of girls are not going to get the perfect man you're not going to get the perfect guy you're going to have to settle on certain things or maybe well else is
01:19:35
Brian Atlasperfect about him then I he's not perfect oh then no he's your equivalent so all the deficiencies that you have or that you bring to a relationship I by the way I'm not saying
01:19:47
Brian Atlasthere are any but uh he is he is mirroring in some way the deficiencies in which you're
01:20:00
Brian Atlasbringing oh so I'm not subscribed to only fan so he is no I think uh how do I just put this simply look uh let me ask you this um or well you said you're very
01:20:10
Brian Atlaspicky and you have high standards right we should get into that um why don't you tell us about the kind of guy that you
01:20:18
Brian Atlaswant okay well so let's start looks okay so how tall are you 510 okay 51 s you're pretty high up there yeah and I like to wear heels too so okay so uh
01:20:30
Brian Atlasbare minimum height for a guy for probably 62 or 63 okay so you've already reded already like a really small percent of the population yeah so 63
01:20:40
Brian Atlasthat's 1% I believe of or wait is it 3% 1% uh Jake do you know the percentage on
01:20:49
Brian Atlasthis not sure I know that uh I think 6' and above is 15% it's 5'8 to the average so yeah I'm definitely taller than the average man so yeah you are or well I
01:20:59
Brian Atlasthink the average is 5'9 or 510 in the US anyways but in Holland it's a bit that's why I have higher it's
01:21:07
Brian Atlashigher uh so minimum 6263 yeah okay so that's already 1% of men I believe um maybe 62 is like 3% of men can somebody
01:21:18
Brian Atlascan you find the statistics Austin uh what about other physical traits so uh will you date any race yeah I'm open uh can will you date a obese guy no because that just shows that they don't take
01:21:29
Gabbycare of their themselves and sure and then uh age what's the age range that you'll date um I'm 27 so probably like 29 to
01:21:40
Brian Atlas42 okay that's pretty pretty reasonable uh that's a wide range uh look we should do the calculator too Austin can you pull up the calculator it's probably so low um have you done this before no but my friends always tell me that my dating
01:21:54
Brian Atlaswas like 1% want to know the aage height yeah what well what's the percentage of men over 63 what's the height per maybe the chat
01:22:08
Brian Atlasthe chat probably knows what's the height percentile okay so uh 3% so 4% 62 3% 63
01:22:16
Brian Atlas1% over 64 okay I was close enough oh okay 4% so 4% over 62 um okay all right
01:22:25
Brian Atlashow much 62 in cm about 190 or okay 188 uh let's also pull up the calculator we should oh it should be one of the tabs if you look at one of the tabs up
01:22:37
Brian Atlasthere it's calculator all right we're going to go through the calculator by
01:22:43
Brian Atlasthe way guys like the video all right
01:22:47
Brian Atlasso uh age I think you said 29 to 43 OH 43 okay uh race any exclude married I'm
01:22:58
Brian Atlasassuming oh yeah definitely not married minimum height you said let's do 62 or 63 63 oh okay exclude obese yes and then
01:23:08
Brian Atlasminimum income uh 100,000 100,000 well you make way more as a nurse wait oh that's fine uh scroll down ideal Man
01:23:21
Brian AtlasZero 0 wow 11 that's really bad percent delusion score four out of five why isn't it five
01:23:31
Brian Atlasout of five it should be more oh my gosh so what do I need to like settle on Perhaps Perhaps height height would be a good one okay I can go down like an inch but guys already lie about their
01:23:43
Brian Atlasheight she can go down an inch wait guys lie about their height yeah wait we especially on dating apps is do you think that's wrong to lie about your height yeah yeah I'd be like us Ling
01:23:55
Jakeabout our BR size M but worse it's worse not girls always photo tune their their stuff they always
01:24:04
Jakelook very different in in in real life than they do in their photos maybe like they're good at it these days the AI is that's
01:24:14
Fieffair how do you lie about your Heights well like on dating apps oh Fair points okay and then I'll stand up next to be like oh no no but if someone is super
01:24:25
Fiefnice then it doesn't matter that they're smaller than you right I dated shorter people but you didn't have a good experience wait what is shorter like 5'11 is that what you mean shorter
01:24:37
Gabbypeople oh okay my first boyfriend was 5'10 we were at the same height but I look taller of the heels well no I would I wouldn't wear heels back then right okay um what were we going around on
01:24:50
Brian Atlasinitially though cuz I mean we can get into all this stuff oh having high standards no before that we were trying to remember what were do you recall what we were going around on
01:25:07
FiefMaddie why are you looking at me though give me the stink ey mad okay girls should uh delete their Instagram or boys can keep their dating profile you want if your boyfriend sub to an
01:25:19
Brian Atlasonly oh thank you m yes okay uh deal breaker is it is it an issue if your boyfriend is subscribed to girls only fans or here's the other one he goes to
01:25:30
SPEAKER_11the strip club is this a would you rather or no no not would you rather it's just like two scenarios so what about the strip club would would you have an issue if your boyfriend went to the strip club is it a bachelor party no
01:25:42
Gabbyhe just goes once a week just for oh no but he goes for the food how about he goes for the food okay well we can order door Dash and get a sugar poool in our
01:25:52
TTS Readerhouse and throw he can throw money me I suppose that's bad offer but the brence donated $200 oh damn there's no way an acup is
01:26:03
TTS Readerdemanding something or having unrealistic standards you're an acup you're basically a man and you should be shipped to Thailand immediately hey uh
01:26:14
Brian Atlasbro Nance first off good to see you in the chat but first off damn I will not as someone who's part of the Itty Bitty Titty Committee I will not allow you to
01:26:24
Brian Atlasdisrespect a sister okay how [ __ ] dare you first off I got to come to the defense of small boobs okay Jake are you a small I can't defend them unfortunately it's okay I know I have an
01:26:38
Brian AtlasA cup but at least I'm not lying about my height how tall are you sir boom roasted BR Bron S I have not seen you in a while
01:26:46
Brian Atlasman appreciate the TTS yeah I I don't know why the guys uh what's I think uh ah small boobs are
01:26:56
Gabbyelegant and great uh elegant there're there's another word for it they don't look [ __ ] so like we were talking about the Instagram pictures small boobs if I wear bikini it doesn't look [ __ ]
01:27:08
Jakebut if someone with bigger breasts wear a bikini it makes them look [ __ ] it makes them look more tasteful how do we how do for for a guy when you
01:27:18
Jakesee that you think more of it in a very sexual way that's like a guy who has a six-pack with his sh compared to a guy who has a dad bud with your sh that's a good way to put it that's definitely a good way to put it I like to think this
01:27:31
Brian Atlasalways gets me hate from everybody like you look at Greek statues Roman statues of women they don't have giant [ __ ] can crush or titties they got like maybe
01:27:41
Brian Atlasa beup generally they Lous as well in a lot of those yeah that is true that is true but they don't get I've never seen like this Roman statue Greek statue of
01:27:53
Gloss/Mixedsome giant can crushers you know that was like the beauty standard back in the day though they had like a different idea of what was like it's true pretty you know but maybe they were on to something you know
01:28:06
Brian Atlaswhat I mean also the male statues the penises weren't very big I just want to throw that out just throwing it out there ladies just throwing it out there so um uh going around the table uh strip club you're fine with the strip club him
01:28:18
Brian Atlasgoing to the strip club why not he's just there to eat what he just he just wants a chicken wing order it to be delivered but he but that's where he likes to have his chicken wings that's toxic if you didn't
01:28:30
Brian Atlaslet then I wouldn't date him wait is the guy do you think this is a good argument when when women say oh I just go to the club to have fun it's like the guy I just go to the strip club for the wings or something is that like the good
01:28:41
Fiefcounter yeah maybe that's a good one um wouldn't date him though what about you would you date a guy who uh uh I think only fans I wouldn't like because that's very personal right they also chat a lot
01:28:52
Brian Atlaswith the models well here's the yeah here's the I'll let you finish your point but just want to introduce one quick uh Nuance
01:29:02
Brian Atlaswhen when a guy goes or is talking to a girl on the only fans the chances of him [ __ ] the girl is 0% when a man goes to a strip club and he's spending money
01:29:14
Brian Atlason the girls there the chances of him [ __ ] the girls is 0% but if you go to a bar the chances of you
01:29:25
Fiefcheating 0% because I won't do it no it's it's not no but I okay it's a bit higher but I wouldn't like that he's uh perhaps getting like I don't know the whole personal thing I guess my
01:29:38
Fiefboyfriend if he wants can watch porn or something but not not the personal chatting I guess and the strip club I would find a bit of waste of money but if you would do it once a year then and
01:29:49
Fiefreally want every once a week every that's a waste of money no he's just going to get some food but don't you have to pay entrance or is it free to sometimes it's free it's a good Wing I've never been in a strip club I don't
01:30:01
Brian Atlasknow how it works I've only been once but sometimes I mean there wasn't food at the one that I went to but I don't know dep they're Terri yeah I I I I guess and then just to be polite
01:30:13
Brian Atlaslike he'll give like 10 bucks to like the one girl or something but he goes for the food to the if he wants to eat there one one time sure but every week then maybe
01:30:24
Brian Atlasit's his favorite place to it's his favorite place to eat but he he does look at the girls a little bit but he's there for the food that's reasonable right I I have a
01:30:37
Jakeboyfriend I'm not imagining him doing that actually and it's just very adorable you don't mind your boyfriend watching porn I I guess not like now I'm like a week away if you're in the in the next
01:30:49
Fiefroom and he's watching porn isn't that a bit gay what what what what do you mean if I'm in the Next Room why if you're in the next room and he's in there playing with himself
01:30:59
Fiefisn't that a bit gay gay yeah you think watching porn is gay no but he but he can go and have sex with you but I said like right now I'm a week away so maybe he does that when he's
01:31:12
Jakehome like I don't know if it becomes a habit and then he's doing it in the in the basement isn't that gay well I live in an apartment I don't have a basement that's gay yeah it's gay he's playing with himself
01:31:25
JakeI'm sorry he could go upstairs and have sex with a woman but he's playing with himself in the Next Room isn't that a bit gay I think this is very funny I really assume you're making a joke no I'm dead serious I'm 100% serious it's a
01:31:36
Jakegay to play with yourself well if you not necessarily in general but I think if you have a girlfriend and you can have an active sex life with your
01:31:47
Gloss/Mixedgirlfriend but you're off playing with yourself to be gay are you saying that in like homophobic way I mean not homophobic homosexual way or like a derogatory term way well it's kind of a
01:31:58
Jakeit's a a little bit somewhere in between okay because you're playing with yourself when you could be playing with your girlfriend but what if I'm working what do you mean my situation is if you're there no why would he then
01:32:12
Jakeplay with himself well I mean if you allow it while while you're away what if it becomes a habit and he prefers it isn't that that would be very sad if he prefers playing with himself instead of playing with me but you allowed it so
01:32:24
Jakeyou sort of you sort of let it in the door I I think you're jumping very big steps here yeah big steps if you're cool with him watching porn then like what's the difference between him doing it when you're there
01:32:36
Fiefand you're away he's still getting off to other women I think if he rather watches porn and and plays with himself instead of going with me then maybe your
01:32:48
Fiefrelationship is really breaking down like I don't know that shouldn't be good but he if he's watching porn when you're not there it's I don't know why doesn't he just have it use the bank you know maybe he does use the bank but you're
01:33:01
Jakeokay with him watching porn in a relationship I mean hypothe yeah I guess yeah unless he like stalks never dat a Dutch but seem like you guys have not many
01:33:12
Jakeboundaries you don't think I have boundaries well I mean what like what actively allowing your your man to watch porn or or being okay with it I think that's strange and then also being in the open relationship over here and just
01:33:25
Gloss/Mixedseems like there's a lack of boundaries we're complete opposites I think I mean there's a lot of things that are normal our culture in our country that are really not done here but I guess it's
01:33:37
Brian Atlaskind of what you grow up with and I'm fine with that so and you're not and that's also fine the Dutch are pretty liberal yeah they're very liberal their I mean they
01:33:48
Brian Atlasgot like the red light district it's prostitutions legal you can be in the city center of Amsterdam Amsterdam's the capital right yeah uh you can like take
01:34:00
Brian Atlasone go one block down from the city center and see everything see everything yeah but
01:34:10
Fiefstill I I I believe I have a lot of boundaries like we we don't have an open relationship we don't flirt with other people we don't do all the stuff and actually I don't know if my boyfriend
01:34:22
Fiefwas just born but I don't I just it's an hypothetical I I think if he really wants that when I'm away why not well let's get everybody's
01:34:31
Brian Atlasanswers on this uh Selena you're the porn star here uh would you be cool if your boyfriend subbed to another girl on OS no because I have one like sub to
01:34:43
Gloss/Mixedmind like for me it's like the competition so he would be subscribing and supporting the competition you know wait but wouldn't your boyfriend get it for free Mine your content no but she's saying that she wouldn't like it because
01:34:55
Gloss/Mixedhe's supporting the competition yeah so like it's kind of just offensive to me because like that's the competition you're supporting and probably giving money to my competition
01:35:05
Gloss/Mixedso it's just like it's kind of rude but like you would give your off to your boyfriend for free right yeah cuz I mean he's my boyfriend like he sees everything anyway and then what about the strip club that's not really your
01:35:19
Gloss/Mixedcompetition is it or is it still your competition no no not at all I've never done strip or anything but like I wouldn't like it because I don't know like I'm more into like monogamous stuff
01:35:31
Gloss/Mixedlike outside of my work so it would just be kind of like why are you going in your personal time to look at other women and like for the wings for the
01:35:43
Gloss/Mixedfood yeah for the food I'd be like get the [ __ ] out of here like yeah that's a total BS dude like bye okay uh what about you would you be cool with your boyfriend if he subscribed to
01:35:54
Brian Atlasanother girl's only fans yeah no or a girls only fans not cool with it not cool with that he just wanted to support yeah a
01:36:04
Brian Atlasentrepreneur he just was supporting an entrepreneur okay and then what about the strip club he went to the strip club once a week you cool with it no why
01:36:15
Gloss/Mixednot why not that's a strip club I feel like but but he's it's a it's dance it's an art form uh-huh but there's a lot of
01:36:24
Gloss/Mixedum nudity so well yeah but isn't that beautiful not in that context it's beautiful like I could go with him but like you're not going by yourself it's
01:36:35
Gloss/Mixedlike his thing you know like he he needs his alone time you know yeah no like she said you we can grab the wing order some wings we have a stripper
01:36:48
Gloss/Mixedpull in the house like but no what if he orders the wings from the there's no way wait what if he ERS them from the police he could order it from okay so wait you two said this I'm just actually curious
01:36:59
Brian Atlasthough you're saying if wouldn't I feel like they would just be like I feel objectified you're telling me if your boyfriend um if
01:37:11
Brian Atlasuh your boyfriend comes to you and he's like you're going to install a stripper pole well he's going to install it I'm not going to okay so you'd be fine
01:37:22
Brian Atlasinstalling a stripper pole at your place and he can tell you to strip on command not whatever he wants it's not like oh my command you strip okay the on command part kind of
01:37:34
Brian Atlasruins it how about uh he wants you to strip for him you're F fine with it okay yeah man that's cool all right um but
01:37:43
Brian Atlasnot cool with the strip club yeah no but you have such a strong like when I asked you about the only fans the strip club you had such a like no way can't do it but like your boyfriend you broke up
01:37:56
Gloss/Mixedwith him because he wanted to try to enforce boundaries on you okay but like my boyfriend at the time I mean come on it was like a high school relationship
01:38:05
Gloss/Mixedwhatever kind of over it but like I feel like it's a different sit like it's a different situation because back then
01:38:15
Gloss/Mixedum I was like cheated on every year but I went back so it's wait by him yeah so I was not new information yeah I was not going to R like I was not going to wait
01:38:26
Gloss/Mixedhold on how many times did he cheat on you from what I know yeah from what you know um my God I don't know like 3 4 5 6
01:38:37
Gloss/Mixed7 well entertained people on social media multiple times during our first year uh I I think it was our second year um how many girls did he have did he put
01:38:50
Gloss/Mixedhis pork sword in anyone did he boink I have no idea idea I just um our second year I found out he like hung out and
01:39:01
Gloss/Mixedkissed but I don't know what else was done with his coworker so yeah I don't know coworker yeah sub Subway McDonald's
01:39:12
Brian Atlasyou worked at McDonald's yeah all right that's a respectable making a Big Mac then he gave her the Big Mac you know what I'm saying so how many girls was he cheating with maybe not sleeping with but how
01:39:25
Gloss/Mixedmany girls do you think he was like cheating like that you caught him talking to like I have no idea I
01:39:35
Gloss/Mixedmean like the conversations he would have with like multiple women and like he delete messages and you could tell it's deleted because
01:39:47
Gloss/Mixedthey're having a conversation midc conversation it's like it switches or like the tone everything like well just give us a range 10 girls 20 yeah like
01:39:57
SPEAKER_01definitely like more than 10 multiply by three and that's the real number okay um so he was cheating on you
01:40:08
Brian Atlasuh and you would break up with him yeah but then you said you got back together a whole bunch of times yeah what who would would you go back to
01:40:19
Gloss/Mixedhim like you would you would reach out back to him no he would reach out to me and he would like tell me that he's been really going through it that this time
01:40:32
Gloss/Mixedhe matured he's grown and he was too he was not in high school I was in high school he wasn't so wait wait wait no
01:40:40
Gloss/Mixedlike I was 17 he was like 19 like it was only a 2year difference when you're pretty sure that's is it
01:40:51
Brian Atlasokay I don't know yeah is is it I mean like is it illegal or not I don't know I think that's not illegal I have no idea but it was a two-year difference in California it
01:41:02
SPEAKER_11might still get you in trouble yeah I think it depends like a certain date after your 17th birthday like it's normal well you guys uh okay so anyways he was cheating on
01:41:13
Brian Atlasyou how many uh and so how many times did you guys break up um I can't even count so it was on again off again okay
01:41:26
Brian Atlashuh [Music] H interesting M ma what do you call
01:41:35
JakeMcDonald's in Australia Maas Maas yeah Maas yeah damn I still haven't gotten closure on this um
01:41:43
Gabby0.11 situation sad now hope um so you know you have your own requests but what do you bring to the table um I bring a lot actually um I feel like I have a
01:41:56
Gabbygood job I give back to other people I'm super kind I'm willing to give my all to be in a relationship if they give that back to me so you're a nice person what
01:42:05
Gabbyelse um I'm athletic I like to travel red flag you're from where Australia Australia okay you're traveling right
01:42:16
Jakenow I know go so it's very different women like worldly men and guys don't like when girls can travel too no you don't want to travel buddy I want to show her the world okay I don't want her
01:42:28
Brian Atlasto have already been around the world that's not cool oh yeah anyways wait you said um when you in response to Jake's question you said uh
01:42:39
GabbyI did you say you bring your career to the table no or was it yet no but I thought I thought you said like I have a good job or I mean I have a job where like I give myself to other people all
01:42:50
Gabbyday helping take care of them no oh sorry I'm a nurse I'm a nurse travel nurse remember no I know but give you give yourself to I always thought that was like there's a lot of crazy stuff
01:43:01
Gabbythat we do and see in a day is that a good thing for a relationship or a bad thing no it's a good thing because then you know that I'll take care of you when we get old and about to die I'll take care of you
01:43:13
Jaketill death so what do you think a guy like that who's 6'3 and athletic and earning really good money what do you think he'd be looking for me
01:43:23
GabbyI'm just kidding I don't know hopefully you don't know hopefully me have you investigated maybe what that sort of guy I just want to be myself and the right person will come I know what you want
01:43:35
Gabbybut what do you think he wants someone who's loyal faithful trustworthy which I am do you think he is there anything else that he might want I don't know you tell me well it's
01:43:47
Jakekind of interesting because yeah well if if I was going to say that I want this very very rare commodity that's actually very hard to attain and then and then really hard to keep after that I'd want to have a game
01:43:58
Jakeplan about how to get there and I'd want to understand how exactly to get that so do you think that um you know you're kind of wingy it here and it doesn't seem very likely no it's definitely
01:44:09
Jakepossible do you think you might want uh someone who's younger maybe maybe I want someone who's older and we mature yeah you've said
01:44:19
Jakethat yeah but do you think that as you get towards 30 you become less fertile a guy like that might want lots of children he should definitely date someone younger y so has it occurred to you that you have to lower your standards yeah it has I'm still
01:44:33
Jakedelusional apparently is what they said I'd say so um if you were to lower your standards what are some of the areas in which you would low stand would it be height would it be athleticism money age
01:44:43
Jakeum maybe like how well in shape they are or high how much they make it just depends on the person yeah conceivably what what kind of guy could could you see yourself going for a guy who's 5'10
01:44:55
Jakeearns 80k a year little bit out of shape no cuz that's taking something out of each different category but uh what do you think you're above that better than that like you you shouldn't have to I mean yeah my height
01:45:07
Jakewise I'm taller than someone that's 58 but in terms of like your the overall we're talking about the overall sort of um everything together do you think that you're above above that a guy 5' 10 earning 80k a year yeah cuz I make more
01:45:19
Gabbythan them I'm taller than them and I'm in better shape than them do you think guy cares how much you make no not at all so why why does it matter but no it doesn't matter but for girls it does because we have to think about our future and like if we're well aware of
01:45:32
Jakewhat you want but we're talking about what the guy wants yeah they want someone they don't care about money if he doesn't care about money then it's not really going to occur to him so it's not really going to factor but for me it makes a difference cuz like if I'm
01:45:43
Jakehaving children with someone they well yeah cuz it's my life and it's my I know but what we're what we're talking about here is what the we're trying to put ourselves in the gu's shoes see what he might want want okay so should I quit my job no not quit your job but i' say
01:45:56
Jakedrastically lower your standards yeah but unfortunately when you've been around and like 10 years and you're 27 and you've and you've dated all these different guys you've got all these expectations because you would have dated a guy who's 6'2 dated a guy who
01:46:08
Jakeearns over 100k you would have dated all these different guys and now you'll be disappointed when a guy doesn't have any of those characteristics yeah that's
01:46:17
Gabbytrue does that few more years left than me I don't know yeah anyways okay what about you what about me let's put you in the hot seat go for it what
01:46:28
Jakeare you looking for I'd say I'm looking for a woman who's interesting and who's cute attractive someone who's humble someone who isn't out here trying to put
01:46:39
Jakethemselves all over Instagram and trying to get all this male validation somebody who's religious God-fearing and somebody who genuinely wants to be a mother and wants to be a wife and that's her life ambition and what do you bring to the
01:46:51
Jaketable well I've got a very good career going on I think I'm decently attractive Lots going on what's your Instagram look like what do you mean well you say girls can't have Instagrams
01:47:04
Jakewould do you think that it's equal it it should be well it's not okay can we see your your Instagram go for it I don't really post too much
01:47:14
Jakebut uh how many followers do you have on Instagram like 8,000 I think maybe l oh that's a red flag why that's to much or
01:47:23
Jaketoo little too much too much too much too much you're a hypocrite how so you don't want a girl to have Instagram at all but I know I don't mind if she has Instagram but it has to be on private
01:47:35
Jakejust family and friends is yours private no wait I know I I love the fact that you guys are laughing like you made a point but guys guys and girls are are different
01:47:47
Jakeand first of all I'm a content creator I'm a YouTuber for for a living and girl girls don't really care about that that I've never had a girl say oh your Instagram is a little bit too public it would just never occur yeah and I also don't want her to
01:48:00
Jakebe a provider I don't want her to be a protector I don't want her to have to jump in front when there's a robber I don't want any of these things and I would and I would never expect that that's the guy's job and then women have a certain job as well to be maternal
01:48:12
Jakeloving peaceful to be a mother these sorts of things and and to recognize that so the fact that I am not maternal doesn't make me a hypocrite because I'm not going to be a mother do you do you
01:48:23
Gabbywant a guy to pay for a first date yeah would you date a guy who wants you to pay for the first date um I would probably pay for dinner and then never see him again well that makes you a hypocrite no cuz how am I going to know
01:48:36
Brian Atlasif he's going to pay or not right but so you you want a trait in a partner that you yourself are not willing to accept in a partner similarly Jake here he might have some Coral or uh objection to
01:48:48
Brian Atlasa woman who has a public facing Instagram that posts certain types of photos but he doesn't have like he's not going to take his Instagram down it's not clear to me if that makes him a hypocrite necessarily any more than it makes you a
01:49:00
Brian Atlashypocrite for wanting a guy to pay for a first date but you would never be willing to pay for a first date no I have but then I wouldn't see them again well so sure does that make you a
01:49:11
Jakehypocrite no why not cuz that's setting my boundaries okay so you say they cross the boundary are you saying that guys going accept that the guys and girls have different roles in that situation when it comes to a first date yeah cuz
01:49:23
Jakedifferent man wants to be a provider ah here we go he's not being a provider he's not providing the first so it doesn't doesn't make you a hypocrite having having different standards take the L
01:49:38
Brian Atlasokay all right but so you you said that it's it's okay for a woman to want a provider right yeah but so and would you consider that traditional gender role mhm so like
01:49:49
Brian Atlasa man being a provider that's a traditional man and a who wants 50/50 wants to split the bill that's a modern man right well is a modern woman a woman who posts revealing immodest photos on
01:50:02
Brian AtlasInstagram she's got to pay half the bill yeah well well hold on I'm not really getting there but so is a woman traditional if she's posting revealing and I'm not saying it's wrong I'm just asking is a woman traditional if she
01:50:14
Brian Atlasposts revealing photos on Instagram probably not do you think a component of being a traditional woman is Modesty yeah okay check me I guess and yeah I think
01:50:27
Jakeyou just keep agreeing to what we're saying and then not quite sort of conceding no yeah yeah you should be a little modest but you can still but if you if you want a guy who's got all these different things going on you're talking about a top top top tier guy
01:50:41
Jakewho's going to be able to fulfill all of his masculine duties so then shouldn't you be fulfilling all of your feminine duties yeah I still got to pay rent no you won't you got a guy who's earing
01:50:52
Gabbyupwards of 100K a year but I mean guys my dating pool's so small so I'm just living Li land I got to Prov I got to provide for myself until I can find that
01:51:04
Brian Atlasperson it sounds like I'll be working a while well yep keep at [Music] it um well I do want to go around the actually before we go around the table
01:51:15
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01:52:07
Brian Atlasthat uh fake poser Conservative Christian of girl uh on the show claimed she didn't make certain kind of content
01:52:18
Brian Atlasuh we found out that she was totally lying she and when confronted about it here was the crazy part when confronted about it she kept denying it which was very frustrating kind of just calling
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Brian Atlasinto question uh essentially just insulting the viewers and our intelligence here uh it's just weird like it's one thing to lie but then to
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Brian Atlaslike if you get called out on it with u irrefutable evidence and just not uh copying yeah okay I was bullshitting it's just super annoying so there's the proof she has a we obviously we can't