Picky Travel Nurse DEMANDS 6ft3 Man Who Makes $100,000+ Per Year?! Jake! E-GIRLS! | Dating Talk #197
Date: 2024-09-18
Duration: 6h 24m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_03Gabby(guest)
SPEAKER_04Gloss/Mixed(guest)
SPEAKER_06Fief(guest)
SPEAKER_08TTS Reader(audience)
SPEAKER_12Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_13Jake(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:00
OtherBrian dedicates 50% of all episode fan funding to Mason Greguier motorcycle accident medical fund.
00:51:30
QuoteFief states "having sex is the same as going to a theme park" — said she stated this on Dutch television.
“having sex is the same as going to a theme park for me you go out you have fun and then you go back home”
01:20:14
OtherGabby's delusional calculator result: 0.11% eligible men given her requirements (6'2"+, $100k+, age 29-43, not obese).
01:22:37
QuoteSelena (porn actress) explains she objects to boyfriend subscribing to other OnlyFans because "it's the competition".
“no because I have one like sub to mind like for me it's like the competition so he would be subscribing and supporting the competition”
03:49:41
OtherJake's transformation photos shown on stream — was ~110kg (242lb) at his 19th birthday.
05:11:36
OtherGabby announces she has to leave to work at 8am; Brian tries to convince her to stay.
“I have to leave I have to work tomorrow”
05:30:30
OtherDesiree (chat viewer) donates $1,000; Brian pops champagne in her honor.
Topics Discussed
00:00:12
Opening / Announcements / Mason fundraiser
Brian announces show, donation structure. Dedicates 50% of episode fan funding to Mason Greguier motorcycle accident medical expenses.
00:07:26
Guest introductions & relationship status
All guests introduce themselves. Relationship status round: Gabby single 4y, Fief 4y relationship, Gloss single 3y, Selena single 1y, Ruby single 1y, Madison single 1y, Jake single since 2021.
00:25:00
Controlling boyfriends / TikTok & social media boundaries
Madison's ex-boyfriend called her a b*tch for Tik Tok posts; debate over whether controlling behavior is reasonable. Instagram vs dating apps equality argument. Bars/clubs as boundaries in relationships.
01:20:00
Gabby's picky standards / delusional calculator
Gabby's dating profile reviewed. Demands 6'2"-6'3"+ man earning $100k+. Calculator shows 0.11% eligible men. Delusion score 4/5. Discussion of travel nurse lifestyle and serial city-hopping.
01:23:20
OnlyFans / strip clubs / boyfriend subscriptions
Round-table: would you be OK if your boyfriend subscribed to another girl's OnlyFans or went to the strip club. Selena objects (competition angle). Fief draws line at personal chatting. Open relationship discussion.
01:38:00
Porn, watching porn in relationships, gay masturbation debate
Jake argues masturbating when girlfriend is available is "gay." Fief says she allows it when apart. Extended debate.
02:20:00
Travel nurse lifestyle & serial dating
Gabby's travel nursing discussed as structurally incompatible with long-term relationships. Body count accumulation by city.
03:01:00
Body count debate — does it matter for relationships
Jake presents studies linking higher female body count to divorce rates. Gloss says sex is like going to a theme park (stated on Dutch TV). Selena unknown body count. Brian ~50. Gloss ~50+. Ruby 8-9. Madison 2.
03:01:00
Sex and relationships — body count, promiscuity, golden ticket
Jake: promiscuous women are unattractive as partners; sex should mean something. Gloss: sex is recreational. Debate on desensitization.
03:17:18
Self-ratings round
Guests rate face/body/total (no 7s). Gloss: 8/6/7. Gabby: 8 all. Ruby: 6 all. Selena: 10 body 6 face. Madison: 8 total. Jake: 6 all. Brian: 5 face / 4 body.
03:26:09
Better or worse looking in 10 years
Going around table on aging. Gabby (27) says no unless plastic surgery. Fief says would need to lose weight. Brian shows old karate/surf Instagram photos.
04:00:00
Duties vs desires / nihilism / society and reproduction
Jake vs Gloss/Fief on individual desires vs societal duties. Netherlands birth rate and immigration replacement debate. Gloss identifies as nihilist.
04:28:00
Feminism debate — what is a feminist
Fief defines feminism as equity not equality. Table asked if feminist. Ruby says no. Gloss says no. Madison says sort of.
05:12:00
Dating expectations / people don't date to marry anymore
Ruby says people expect too much (fast replies, shared values). Gabby wild dating stories: stolen boat date, strip club first date with doctor.
05:18:00
Wild dating stories / relationship red flags
Gabby leaves early (~5:11) to work. Stories from multiple guests. Guy professed love to Ruby after 1 week.
05:30:30
Closing / champagne toast / Twitch raid
Desiree (chat viewer) donates $1000. Champagne pops for Mason. Brian wraps show, Twitch raid to Frost Adamus (Romanian WoW streamer).
Transcript
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Brian Atlasshow I like eight or nine times um was in a very uh very serious uh motorcycle accident a couple days ago he's still been in the hospital um Austin can you
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Brian Atlasor nine maybe even 10 times um what's uh next one
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Brian Atlasuh so this was uh posted to his Instagram uh yesterday so uh Mason was involved in a life-threatening motorcycle accident on September 11th 545 a.m. it's been nearly
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Brian Atlasso uh just wanted to announce that and obviously hoping he uh has a uh uh quick recovery and wishing uh him and his family the best uh I was speaking to him
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TTS Readerone sec whatever fan donated $200 hey thank you man haven't been around in a while here is my contribution hope Mason gets better W Mason hey whatever fan
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Gabbyoccupation location where you from hi my name is Gabby I'm 27 years old and I'm a travel nurse from Kansas City Missouri travel nurse uh from you you grew up in Kansas City yeah I grew up
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Brian Atlasthere but I live in Los Angeles right now wait Kansas City Missouri like the Chiefs football wait Kansas City is not in Kansas no there's two different there's two different ones
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Gabbyactually how did I not know how did I not know this there's two c two c so Kansas City is like on The Middle of the border so there's a Kansas City Kansas
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Brian Atlasand a Kansas City Missouri I guess there's like a Miami in Ohio isn't there really isn't there a Miami in Ohio anyways okay um how long you been
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Brian Atlasyou're an RN yes okay and uh I kind of want um travel nurse so what's your current assignment is that the term
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Gabbythat's used yeah so we do contracts for about 9 weeks to 13 weeks um but I've been extending my contracts so I've been in LA for almost a year now okay and how
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Gabbymany different cities have you been in um I've lived in Kansas City Miami Fort Lauderdale Scottdale and now Los Angeles so five so like five different places
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Brian Atlasokay got it are you planning to go somewhere else soon cuz I mean you're travel nurse so you got to go is it like don't you guys move every six months or something some people like to move every 3 months but I feel like that's way too quick to like build friendships and like
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Brian Atlashave a good home life so I like this to stay for about a year 9 months to a year got it okay do you know where you're off to next or uh no plans yet no plans yet okay where's the favorite place that you've been so far um well depends on
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Gabbywhat you're looking for partying definitely Miami if you like to hike Outdoors Scottdale and then I think Los Angeles has a good mixture of both where you can have fun go to the beach and you
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Fiefcan go hiking if you want to got it what about you uh hi I'm fief 31 years old uh I'm from Amsterdam Netherlands Europe
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Fiefum and since September I'm a full-time twitch partner streamer what do you uh stream uh mostly W of Warcraft right now with the were within uh Diablo 4 city
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SPEAKER_05builders uh IND games narrative a variety wait you're a retail player yeah that's a [ __ ] 50 dkp minus what the
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Brian Atlas[ __ ] was that retail unbelievable um what does that mean retail uh retail World of Warcraft so there's classic and then there's retail so retail is the the more
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Brian Atlasrecent iteration of the game and then classic the game came out like 20 years ago so Classic's kind of like the OG original version never played I feel like I'm missing out uh you you are missing out but it's
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Brian Atlasalso highly pretty addictive game and so very time consuming I don't play anymore but I used to and yeah um okay very cool so you stream World of Warcraft variety
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Brian Atlasstreaming too like different games you said yeah okay how long you been uh streaming uh 6 and a half years now and do you do any kind of other content like o or anything like that no O Okay and
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Fiefthen um school any school back in uh the Netherlands uh well yeah I did um cultural social work and after that I did a master's degree in anthropology
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Fiefanthropology so I actually lived in San Francisco for three months during that researching Tech startup culture so you got your Masters in SF no I got it from an American University or Dutch
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FiefUniversity but I did my research in SF okay uh which university Filman or maybe no no it was not I went just there with nobody that I knew and just to figure
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Fiefout everything went to all the pitch events to Startup grinds uh just met all people and lived in a startup house for three months okay very cool what about you yeah my name is uh glos would you
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Gloss/Mixedcan say gloss cuz it's easier to pronounce I'm uh 31 years old I'm also from the Netherlands but I'm from the south so a little bit further away from Amsterdam
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Gloss/Mixedunfortunately and uh I'm trying to think uh occupation I'm a content creator around everywhere what kind of content
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Gloss/Mixeddo you do uh mainly on Twitch I have o fle you know Tik Tok Twitter All That Jazz only fans yeah okay
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Gloss/Mixedand uh University at all any school uh yeah so I'm a graphic designer okay well I don't do it anymore cuz I thought it was kind of boring but that's what I studied for I used to specialize in packaging design got it wait and you
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Brian Atlassaid you're from the south of the Netherlands yeah uh so there's the Netherlands and then Holland isn't that the North Holland is the north that's
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Brian Atlaslike Amsterdam area and that's Holland Holland is the north west west it's the West West West okay oh sorry West okay is there a
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Gloss/Mixedname for the south southern region of well it's called limberg oh okay all right okay what
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Gloss/Mixedabout you uh Selena U I'm 19 occupation corn store all right uh where you from um right now I'm in Burbank where did
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Brian Atlasyou grow up though oh um Colorado Colorado Jersy Breen Ridge
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Gloss/Mixedno like Denver Denver okay what about you um I'm 19 I go to name rubby my name is Ruby I'm
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Gloss/Mixed19 um I'm currently sort of unemployed um I grew up in Bakersfield but I'm currently living here in Santa Barbara and I go to UC Santa Barbara I'm
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Gloss/Mixedmajoring in the history of public policy and law all right do you want to be a lawyer criminal defense yes criminal defense okay all right
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Gloss/Mixedwelcome I'm Madison I'm 19 years old I'm currently a student at Santa Barbara City College and I'm here at the whatever podcast all right my name's
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JakeJake I'm 28 years old YouTube channel is rattlesnake TV podcast is reality based today we've got the link tree in the bio so you guys can find all of the links down there and looking forward to a good
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Gloss/Mixedshow W Mason as well sorry I'm yeah I'm 20 and I'm a UCSB student studying um Communications
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Brian Atlasand film design uh second year third year I'm a third year all right I am Brian Alice 35 Santa Barbara California
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Brian Atlaswashed up over the hill has been YouTuber uh and uh yeah let's just get right or relationship status of course so guys what is your current
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Brian Atlasrelationship status single talking St situationship Friends with Benefits relationship married polyu sex cult herum whatever it may be if you're single how long have you been single and
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Gabbywhat's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead um I've been single for about four years and my longest just
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Gabbykidding and my longest relationship was a year and a half in high school uh longest relationship a year and a half in like uh junior sophomore senior uh like Junior to senior year of high
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Brian Atlasschool all right so you have you had a boyfriend since you since high school yeah I've had a few boyfriends but just nothing long term nothing longer than a year and a half yeah uh what's the longest outside of high school longest
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Brian Atlasrelationship uh probably about a year a year okay like it gets shorter every time cuz I'm pickier and have higher standards you you're pickier and have higher standards yeah as the years go go
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Brian Atlason got it okay uh we we should get into that picky let's talk about be uh being picky having standards that's always a good thing that you know having
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Brian Atlasstandards thing to have uh let's see and then you said you've been single for four years MH so the oneyear boyfriend was that the one that ended four years ago
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Brian Atlas[Music] um no no it was in college was my oh my one year okay got it uh but you said you
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Brian Atlaswere single four years ago how long was the relationship that ended four years wait the first relationship or the most recent so you said you've been single for four years so I'm assuming four years ago something my most recent
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Gabbyrelationship was 6 months but it was during Co so does that really count withit the does it really count maybe I guess during Co yeah I feel like relationships are so
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Gabbydifferent during Co what was the nature of the relationship uh well it's during
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Brian Atlaslockdown so you don't really have any options okay got it and so uh are there any guys in the picture currently no
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Brian Atlasnone not nothing the roster's open roster's open so well are there people on the roster no I just cleared the bench you cleared the bench what happened nothing in particular just mm
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Jakeno one that I'm interested in right now how recently did you clear the bench um maybe like within the past month past month what happened with the Bench Warmers where the the Bench Warmers
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Gabbyweren't performing or yeah weren't performing and just got bored anything in particular they were doing that just weren't treating me right listed yeah
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Gabbyjust toxic but if you've got a roster doesn't that toxic is implicit isn't it no it's cuz they're just like trying out to make the team okay and they didn't cool so they didn't make it past trials
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Brian Atlasno got it okay uh you you are on a dating app though currently yeah uh we'll react a little little later to the uh dating app uh when's the last time you were on the
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Gabbydate um maybe like a few weeks ago few weeks ago first date second date third date first date no second date yet didn't go well or no it was it
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Fiefwas a good date but there's just some traveling happening and MH distance so okay what about you uh I've been in a relationship for four years now before
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Brian Atlasthat I was single for about eight years and this is also my longest relationship wait so you've been okay you've been in a relationship for four years before that single for eight years
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Fiefand this is your longest got it yeah how did you guys meet uh it was at a festival um a rave no it's a very uh Town SE Festival it's all about sailing
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Fiefand there's a lot of uh Cofer bands playing in the city MH uh and then we met and he invited me to go to this island with his friends uh and I said
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Fiefyes so in the middle of the night we went to an island uh at a campfire was super fun then I was yeah I don't know
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Fiefuh his friend called dips on me uh and dibs yeah they have this bro coat so his friend had called dips and I liked the
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Fiefcurrent boyfriend the current guy um so I had to go with the dips guy into a tent I didn't like him so I just left and then I found this little boat and I
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Fiefasked for a ride so I just disappeared and then two years later I found him again wait leave that Austin leave that is that is that puffy Vegas is he back
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Brian Atlashold on where's this guy's been gone for like what a year that can't be him is this is this like a it it's not didn't he usually have a photo of his face yeah I puffy is this the real puffy Vegas
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Brian Atlasthat's Puff Vegas I need you to send me a DM right now you guys send me a DM right now on Instagram and tell me if this is you cuz we have DM history so wow I it's been a while since I've seen
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Brian Atlasyou man welcome back to uh welcome back to the chat man uh we we missed you dude we every every episode we do we do a little vigil and we're like when's he going to come back so uh good to see you
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Gloss/Mixedin the chat man uh I think you kind of finish the story though if I what about you uh I am single currently my longest
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Gloss/Mixedrelationship was 6 years um I've been single for 3 years now and not really seeing anyone seriously not looking either so when's the last time you were on the
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Brian Atlasdate uh maybe a few weeks ago few weeks ago was it the first date uh yeah first dat no guys in the picture well maybe maybe a little bit 1 2 3 four how many
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Gloss/Mixedguys no one oh so there's kind of one guy in the picture maybe is it the guy that you went on a date with a few weeks ago has there been second date third date fourth date uh yeah there has been okay
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Brian Atlasuh one I want call it a date we just hang out and see where things go no I understand some people I guess misunderstand when I ask date for me a date would just you're hanging out with
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Brian Atlassomebody who you have a romantic interest in essentially so yeah that's fair okay um uh ever had a
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Gabbyroster what does that mean Ro uh mult multiple guys dating multiple guys no at the same time or what sure no isn't that common in in the Netherlands what no it's it's not like having boyfriends
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Gabbyit's like you go on a date with someone and then you'll go on a date with another person but it's not like you're actually dating dating I don't know I don't think it's fair I think if you date you should
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Brian Atlasfocus on one person sure that you and are you uh were you born in uh the Netherlands yeah like you're Dutch yeah dut 100% yeah okay got it
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Gloss/Mixedwhat about you uh single been single for a year wait have you really though what
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Gloss/Mixedhave you really been single for a year I mean pretty much yeah like I mean maybe date here and there but [Music]
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Gloss/Mixedlike okay um single for a year I mean like I've been like I don't
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Gloss/Mixedknow like I've kind of I don't know but yeah pretty much like with like a label of like boyfriend it has been a year with like an official label okay uh
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Brian Atlaslongest relationship um a month one month yeah oh okay it's okay uh now and later thank you for the $100
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Brian AtlasSuper Chat really appreciate it man uh so let's see and by the way that thing in the corner here here it we are factoring in the super chats for the uh for Mason's medical expenses but this is
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Brian Atlasuh linked to streamlabs so we are factoring in the super chats but it's only going to display because it's linked to streamlabs it can only uh
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Brian Atlasconsider the streamlabs donations just for the overlay that we have uh there in the corner but uh do not do not worry we're also including the super chats um when's the last time you've been on the
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Brian Atlasdate um um I don't remember actually I'm not going to lie when's the last time you hung out with a guy um I mean I guess just hung out
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Brian Atlasyesterday no like maybe like two or 3 months ago okay all right uh when's the last time
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Gloss/Mixedyou shot the scene oh um i' I've been on like vacation for a few weeks oh yeah so yeah like I was visiting family but yeah so it's been a few weeks and then
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Gloss/MixedI'll be working pretty much the rest of the week this was like my only free day so H okay um and you were on the show was it a
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Brian Atlasmonth month and a half ago uh it was in July I think okay any prospects in between prospects prospects any guys uh
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Gloss/Mixedsneaky links what's up what you got um I guess like there's someone that like I work with that I like like but I don't know I don't really want to be in
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Gloss/Mixeda relationship you know what I mean it's just like it's too much like maintenance you know too like you're too much maintenance oh just like I don't know
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Gloss/Mixedlike I don't know I don't think I'm ready for like an official relationship you know what I mean like I kind of just want to do my own thing for now and just work and like live
00:24:22
Brian Atlaslife okay all right what about you very much single um very much single okay um what what does uh what does very much
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Brian Atlassingle mean as as compared to single you know it means my options are very much open okay all right um so how long you
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Gloss/Mixedbeen single for a year one year okay uh longest relationship um almost 3 years High School yeah it was a high
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Gloss/Mixedschool relationship so all right who broke up with who I broke up with him
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Gloss/Mixedwhy it was very toxic um yeah what did you do that was toxic um I guess he didn't really like me going out like at all like I get the
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Gloss/Mixedwhole party scene and everything but even if it was just like to hang out with family or even my like my sister I guess that was like a problem if I didn't choose him um
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Gloss/Mixedyeah and then he was just very disrespectful how was he disrespectful I think he called me out my name like several times what wait he called you
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Gloss/Mixedout by name what do you mean like out my name he would like I'm not sure if I'm allowed to say the words here but like sex no like he just called me out my
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Gloss/Mixedname like he he called me disrespectful like oh he insult you yeah he insulted me what was I think you can
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Brian Atlasprobably say it B yes oh anything else yeah you can say yeah you can say [ __ ] you can say [ __ ] that's fine yeah was that was that what
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Brian Atlashe was calling you how how would he say it he'd just be like like pretend I'm you and pretend you're him say it to me he' just be like you're acting like a
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Brian Atlas[ __ ] oh well what were doing beforehand I guess I mean I don't think that I I don't think you should say that to a girl but like it is a little
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Brian Atlasdifferent than like you're a [ __ ] versus like you're acting like a [ __ ] mhm it's still not good but there's a bit of nuance there um so did he ever be like you're a [ __ ]
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Brian Atlasyeah okay or was it like listen [ __ ] okay list no no so uh sorry what was the original thing that you said he said he
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Gloss/Mixedyou're acting like a a [ __ ] yeah so were you acting like a [ __ ] [ __ ] I might have oh [ __ ] okay um so he was
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Gloss/Mixedspin facts basically not exactly no I can't even remember what the argument was about but it was definitely it was it was definitely like something he
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Brian Atlasstarted for sure mhm no and he apologized for it though so I guess we forgave
00:27:19
Brian Atlashim yeah uh okay and um so you broke up with him yeah uh right and he didn't
00:27:29
Brian Atlaslike that you were going out and partying is that correct yeah that's one I guess that's one thing did he also not like how you like maybe how you dressed when you went out too yeah he didn't
00:27:40
Gloss/Mixedlike the way I um okay maybe that wasn't like a really an issue it was more like the way I would um record like Tik toks and stuff
00:27:52
Gloss/Mixedand upload them oh do you still have those videos up maybe we can pull them up what's your Tik Tok
00:27:58
Gloss/Mixedit's oh God it's scooby scooby scooby like the dog yeah Scooby Do r o o Scooby
00:28:08
Brian AtlasRu Scooby Ru yeah that's it and no it's like 03 I believe all right let's see Mason are you are you H can't find it uh Mason again what's that
00:28:21
Brian Atlasyou called Austin Mason again do I keep calling Austin Mason you've been calling him Mason I don't know what's my wires are all like crossed up I'm not sure what's going on uh I'm you know
00:28:33
Brian Atlaswhat let's just change Austin's name Austin do you want a nickname sure what we're going to call you Bartholomew how's that does that work is that easy
00:28:43
Brian Atlasto remember than a it is way easier for me to and it takes longer to say it so um uh no my bad my bad Austin I don't know my wires are all crossed up I can't
00:28:54
Gloss/Mixedfind it it's uh is it like two wild y or like
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Gloss/Mixedto no it's just one y like Scooby s c zero I mean o o b y period R
00:29:11
Brian Atlaso03 hm I can't find it maybe anyway soe in any case you were posting kind of like what dance Tik toks or something it was just me lip singing
00:29:22
Gloss/Mixedbut um I think while he mentioned like me wanting me using that as
00:29:31
Brian Atlaslike like trying to get attention MH so yeah so he just basic essentially just had an issue with uh the here Mason I'll
00:29:42
Brian Atlassend it in private chat I found it his new name is just Mason wait what the [ __ ] why do I keep I think it's cuz it's on on the screen you're not even looking at it's a hint for to D it it's just in
00:29:55
Brian Atlasyour head wait was I calling you Mason last episode Time what why the don't take it person Austin M it they kind of sound familiar sin what the sin at the end the sin
00:30:11
Brian AtlasAustin all right uh we'll get that pulled up here and just speaking of which guys uh 50% of all fan funding from today's episode super chats TTS twitch Subs streamlabs messages Etc
00:30:22
Brian Atlaswe'll go to Mason's medical expenses we have Reed at 100 TTS is200 streamlabs.com whatever also guys like the video while you're at it uh do you have the uh Tik Tok pulled up all right let's see how
00:30:35
Brian Atlaslet's scroll all the way down let's see what we got here okay I mean nothing I don't see anything too bad right uh well maybe the there some red flags there is there one
00:30:47
Brian Atlasin specific where he was like what the [ __ ] is this I honestly do not remember scroll all the way down let's see how far does this go how much do you God I have a lot but it's going to go back into high school
00:30:59
Brian Atlasso yeah I don't know if I want to see those but uh scroll back up Scroll up what about this one scroll up Scroll up Scroll up the wait stop the one in the red is this the one that he had an issue
00:31:11
Brian Atlaswith like no what he was out of the picture by then was he no he was still in the picture the picture yeah see why and so he so okay he had an issue with
00:31:21
Brian Atlasthe going out maybe how you dressed and then also posting to Tik Tok so he would come to you he'd be like hey uh I'm not comfortable and you were with him for 3 years you said right yes how
00:31:32
Brian Atlasfar into the relationship did he start like one year in two years in towards the end like I don't like the Tik toks don't like how you dress don't like the
00:31:42
Gloss/Mixedpartying um I think I think everything started literally the first year first year yeah like after the whole honeymoon
00:31:51
Brian Atlasstage like 6 months into it like everything changed how many followers does she have on Tik Tok like a thousand you don't have to nearly 10,000 I think
00:32:02
Brian Atlasit was yeah it's about it's just shy of 10,000 um so he would come to you and what was his ask did he say hey can you make your Tik Tok private was that what he was asking
00:32:14
Gloss/Mixedno he never asked for anything he would just like he'd send me my own Tik toks or because he made a rule where it was like anytime I upload it to um my
00:32:27
Gloss/MixedInstagram or Tik Tok or anything like that I had to like tell him mhm so when I would post I'd be like Oh I'm going to post a Tik Tok and he'd go on it and
00:32:36
Gloss/Mixedthen send it to me and then be like okay like why why do you choose this audio or like why are you looking like that like
00:32:45
Brian Atlasare you basically are you asking for attention M I see I see and did he ever ask you to take down any specific videos no okay but he was just more like I
00:32:56
Brian Atlasdon't like it yeah and then the next day you'd post a Tik Tok yeah okay so you were I mean we there there could certainly be a conversation of over whether it's
00:33:09
Brian Atlasappropriate for him to be asking this if it was controlling but um in any case you did not he would ask you to stop and you didn't stop is that correct yes so
00:33:19
Gloss/Mixedthis caused conflict in your relationship or or he just took it like a [ __ ] um I'd say it caused like a little bit
00:33:30
Gloss/Mixedof conflict like um it's cuz I shut it down like shut what down like him like after after a while I just he noticed that I just did not care I was just
00:33:42
Brian Atlasgoing to keep doing what I wanted to do you didn't care that what what like how he felt what did you not care about how he felt like how he felt about the
00:33:55
TTS Readervideos well at least you're admitting to it um doc villy go lesson donated $200 there's a Paris in Texas not to be
00:34:06
TTS Readerconfused with Paris Hilton right there's Melbourne Florida and mebor Australia too may all Masons get well soon my prayers with him and his fam hey Doc AB
00:34:17
Brian Atlasappreciate it man thank you for the TTS really appreciate it yeah there's uh there's also a Hollywood in Miami as well that's that's what I was thinking about the
00:34:29
Brian AtlasHollywood in Miami uh doc thank you appreciate it uh and then how often were you going out partying um maybe
00:34:41
Brian Atlaslike like every two weeks and this was in high school were you going to college parties no like out to I was just they were like they were
00:34:53
Gloss/Mixedlike Kickbacks and stuff like that so it's not high school parties but like not college parties either okay got it and then
00:35:02
Brian Atlasum uh do you think he was uh controlling or insecure yes okay going around the table on this uh do you think
00:35:13
Brian Atlasso okay essentially the boyfriend didn't like her going out didn't like how she dressed when she was going out uh or even in general too like didn't like how
00:35:23
Brian Atlasyou dressed maybe going to school or stuff like that or no I think it was that it was just when you were going out okay so didn't like her going out didn't like how she dressed when she was going out and then also didn't like some the
00:35:36
Brian AtlasTik Tok she posts what do you guys think is this uh is this him just having boundaries or is this controlling and insecure starting with you um I think he's definitely insecure and maybe
00:35:45
Brian Atlasjealous that you get more attention than him agreed okay insecure that he's she's getting more attention than him yeah okay what do you think um yeah yeah I I
00:35:58
Fiefthink it sounds like a really bad relationship where you cannot be yourself so I think it's it's not good on his sides or for both of you I guess
00:36:10
Gloss/Mixedmhm yeah girl thank God you got out cuz that could have gone far south like I don't think it's it's normal to tell people what to do and if you don't like what they're doing they just don't be
00:36:20
Brian Atlaswith them you know MH erroneous erroneous wait amen um oh what was that
00:36:28
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Brian Atlasthe the YouTu thing yeah X out that and then f11 sorry guys [ __ ] ad block decided to update Midstream our bad it's the Far Right Far Right Far right there
00:37:08
Brian Atlasyou go okay sorry guys uh wait it could have gone a lot worse hell yeah was he abusive no so they were dating for 3
00:37:17
Gloss/Mixedyears and it didn't go far worse he just had boundaries been there oh so it would have manifested would have manifested in year four is that what you're saying um I think it gets worse and worse like you
00:37:29
Gloss/Mixedsay as soon as the honeymoon stage is over they try to they were dating for three years what that's what she called it wait how long does that's like 3
00:37:38
Gloss/Mixedmonths maybe months right like the first year and a maybe a year anyways once that is over I think these types of people they will try to grab control what do you mean these types of people though what's what's wrong with not
00:37:52
Gloss/Mixedwanting mean to these people as in what you mean people who don't agree on what you are doing and want to control instead of
00:38:03
Jakestepping away okay would you prefer a man who has no boundaries or some boundaries this is not nothing to do with boundaries I think if it's not the question was would you prefer a man who
00:38:13
Gloss/Mixedhas no boundaries or some boundaries as in a relationship for me personally or yep depends what kind of boundaries I guess so no boundaries or some boundaries I think boundaries I
00:38:26
Gloss/Mixeddon't know I don't know if what kind of boundaries would be acceptable um well you're a partner for life right so then you have to talk about okay I do this do you agree on that can you live with that and the other way around as well okay well so
00:38:39
Jakeyou're painting this guy as somebody I don't know the guy but you're painting him as somebody who could potentially be some sort of D danger to her when he's simply asking her not to do Tik toks which are unnecessary you don't need to be doing Tik toks it's not an important
00:38:51
Jakething yeah but it's not for her why why why wouldn't you just try and find Middle Ground yeah you you have to find middle ground you're saying that that she was good to get out of the relationship and that he could have been dangerous that
00:39:04
Jakethat seems like bad advice I think the good advice would be maybe to have the conversation with the guy and think what maybe put yourself in his shoes and think why doesn't he like me doing this Sor but you should not be with someone who calls you a [ __ ] that's just so disrespectful at least but that's not
00:39:17
Jakewhat we're talking about we're talking about the Tik toks for now so don't don't you think that it would be better to have the conversation and put yourself in his shoes you shouldn't have a conversation with someone who calls you a [ __ ] but we're talking about Tik
00:39:28
JakeTok specifically now put the [ __ ] aside put the [ __ ] stuff aside just just on Tik Tok now so if if the the Tik Tok stuff to me seems so unimportant that if
00:39:40
Jakeif you tell your girlfriend Hey listen you're I can kind of see your titties on the Tik Tok and you're mumbling all of these sexual songs there's no real need to be doing it I would expect her to say
00:39:51
TTS Readeryeah good idea don't you think that's fair enough you expect her absolutely okay yeah yeah I don't agree
00:39:59
TTS Readeron GMD gim donated $199 yeah guys you are just insecure and your girlfriend wants to dress like a
00:40:09
Brian Atlas[ __ ] for attention JK run from [ __ ] get well Mason all right Jim thank you for uh thank you for the TTS man really
00:40:21
Jakeappreciate it uh did you have more yeah I mean I just think that it's like the most basic of boundaries for me would be don't put your body on the internet and don't be mumbling all these sexual songs there's no need to do it if you're with
00:40:34
Jakeme then you shouldn't need that attention it's not an important thing to be on Tik Tok I wouldn't date someone who's posting weird Tik Tok videos anyway but exactly so why would you have a conversation but I'm saying if hypothetically we're speaking about hypothetically if we were and she
00:40:46
Jakestarted posting all these Tik Tok videos it would be a conversation where you'd say hey that's not okay with me and don't you think that's a reasonable request a what a reasonable request um you can talk about it sure but as soon
00:40:58
Gloss/Mixedas they start getting disrespectful and not accepting the way you do things like she clearly wants to be on Tik Tok and all good for you but don't be with a guy that just doesn't accept that cuz that's just not going to
00:41:10
Jakework girls are horrible friends to each other I mean if you why why is it important to be on Tik Tok though over a relationship if you if you like the guy and if if you value your relationship why would it be important to be on Tik
00:41:23
Gloss/MixedTok dressing like I don't know it could be whoa can you say that on podcast yeah okay um why uh I think if it's I don't know what you do on there maybe she
00:41:34
Gloss/Mixedearns money on there may saw I mean it's it we saw enough okay well I don't think I can change your mind with whatever I'm saying but I just think that it's good you got
00:41:46
Gloss/Mixedaway because it could have gone worse and I've seen it myself what what would indicate to you that that would go worse well the jealousy and clearly being
00:41:56
Jakedisrespectful as as well I mean if if if you're dating and somebody is just not taking into account your boundaries whatsoever I'd be kind of pissed off too yeah but then don't be together I know I
00:42:09
Jakewouldn't be but I'm saying if that was the situation so I we speaking in hypotheticals here don't you think you'd be pissed off if they were doing something say flirting with girls all the time when you went out in public and you said hey I really don't like that they just keep doing it would you say
00:42:20
Gloss/MixedHey listen [ __ ] no I would not say that at all no I would just not agree with it and then talk about it and if it doesn't work then you know you have different priorities in life I guess so then just
00:42:31
Brian Atlasdoesn't work so it's it's no use just step away and look for someone else yep just step away yeah why why the jump though to it could
00:42:43
Brian Atlashave gone way worse because he doesn't want his girlfriend to post provocative photos or dress provocatively or go to parties doesn't doesn't that seem like a pretty reasonable boundary for a
00:42:54
Gloss/Mixedrelationship-minded man I don't know I think it depends on how far it goes to me like when I see this it's just she's just having fun um mhm sorry
00:43:05
Gloss/MixedI know this is about you but you know that's that's what what what I've seen and it shouldn't be a problem at all but when he's trying to control her and telling her you shouldn't post this um I don't like it when you wear this and
00:43:18
Gloss/Mixedthen calling her a [ __ ] that just to me screams like get out out that's not normal no no it's super normal yeah should you just be able to do whatever you want all the time with no consequences no that's not what I'm saying what about if you're flirting
00:43:31
Jakewith the people all the time is that a boundary that he could set how do you say if you're flirting with people if you guys go out and you're at at the bar flirting with other guys is that is that a boundary that he can set uh yeah depends if you have an open
00:43:44
Jakerelationship and if you're fine with that the both of you what about if you go out to the bar and and you're dressed really skimpily and guys are looking at your tits all the time do you think that that's something that he can say Hey listen I don't like when you when you
00:43:54
Jakedress so provocatively yeah you can do it on Tik Tok because it's kind of different I think you got it's actually probably worse you've got like hundreds of thousands of guys ooing over our
00:44:05
Gloss/Mixedbreasts yeah but is that really a problem though I think if if you want to post these types of Tik toks because um you want to dance and have fun and your boyfriend doesn't agree with that well then so he should just accept that you
00:44:17
Gloss/Mixedcan do whatever you want all the time with no consequences oh no it works both ways for sure what do you mean that we should all be able to do whatever we want all the time with no you have to like have good
00:44:28
Gloss/Mixedcommunication and uh set boundaries and so who do you think was communicating better out of those two who's communicating who do you think was a better Communicator a better I don't know I don't know them did it look like one
00:44:41
Gloss/Mixedperson had boundaries and one person wasn't respecting the boundaries uh I don't know I don't know the situation we we just had it yeah I'm just saying on my opinion on what I just heard but I can't like go deep into it
00:44:52
Gloss/Mixedcuz I have no idea what the situation really was what kind of person how much they talked all that stuff okay cool you mentioned uh you
00:45:03
Brian Atlasmentioned controlling right like a guy controlling a woman right yeah do you think it's an unreasonable standard for
00:45:11
Brian Atlasa guy to not want his girlfriend to post revealing photos or to go out to parties
00:45:19
Brian Atlasbars clubs or to uh wear I suppose revealing clothes do you think that's controlling Behavior or is that a
00:45:29
Gloss/Mixedreasonable boundary it's a boundary definitely unless you're with someone who likes to do these things and you try to change it cuz
00:45:39
Brian Atlasthat's just not going to work that's toxic well I mean don't we all kind of isn't that the nature of relationships like okay you're single you're operating one way now you're in a relationship
00:45:51
Brian Atlasyou're no longer operating in the way you used to operate so uh conduct that would be acceptable when you're single is no longer acceptable when you're in a relationship case in point for uh
00:46:03
Brian Atlassleeping with multiple people at the same time this is uh well it's not cheating if you're single to sleep with multiple people at the same time but in a relationship this would be considered
00:46:14
Brian Atlascheating and so well what other kind of behavior could be considered undesirable or cheating uh in a relationship that might not be when you're single
00:46:27
Brian Atlasoh how do you mean what's cheating when you're in in a relationship so for example like when it comes to posting more revealing photos uh prior to dating a man might not have
00:46:39
Brian Atlasa problem with her engaging in what he considered single Behavior but once they started dating he wanted her to act in a way that he thought was consistent and commensurate with oh yeah being in a
00:46:51
Brian Atlasrelationship and I mean literally all boundaries are a form of control uh that's what the boundary is drawing lines around behaviors that you don't want your partner to engage in so how
00:47:04
Brian Atlasabout this um or I think I asked a question that I wanted to open up to the panel but uh controlling or reasonable boundary for
00:47:15
Brian Atlasthe situation yeah so not wanting to post revealing photos not dressing revealing um and I guess what was the other one not going out to bars or clubs
00:47:27
Brian Atlasum I feel like it's definitely reasonable to have boundaries but are those are those specific boundaries are they reasonable from the guys perspective or do you feel like generally they're controlling well I feel like in a relationship you should
00:47:40
Jakehave the freedom to do whatever you want within like having boundaries what do you mean doing whatever you want within having boundaries like you should feel like you can be yourself but how can you do
00:47:52
Gabbywhatever you want if you have boundaries be yourself well everyone should have boundaries but those two things you should date someone that you are you want to change and she's probably posting the same
00:48:03
Brian Atlasvideos before they were dating so if you see that you probably should but on you say women shouldn't date people or you shouldn't date people who you want to CH change isn't that like the Genesis of
00:48:13
Brian Atlaswhat women do to every single man that they date I can fix him I can fix him I he will change isn't that what women do with every guy they date don't
00:48:25
Brian Atlasyou guys like a project no I'm tired of doing right but you did it in your past right living uh going around the table though reasonable boundary or controlling
00:48:36
Fiefinsecure I do have to say I I wonder how did you do the Tik toks before you started dating and all of that or was it something you started doing when you
00:48:46
Fiefwere dating because I think that might be uh yeah it's controlling if you started if you were already doing that and you liked you when you were doing that and then when you started dating
00:48:59
Jakeafter a year it became a problem even though you've been doing that all the along um so you they were together for three years so you would have started when you were dating right started doing the Tik toks um I had already started
00:49:11
Gloss/Mixedbefore before yeah even when we were like talking or whatever were you dating other guys before you started dating him no were you talking to other guys ever before you started dating um I talked to
00:49:22
Jakelike one guy before him did you stop doing that when you started dating him did I what did you stop doing that when you started dating him did you stop talking to other guys yes would that be
00:49:33
Fiefa boundary yes so why does it matter if they're doing it before isn't it the most important that the boundaries match in a relationship what do you mean boundaries match match like um for
00:49:44
Fiefexample uh I'm in a relationship for four years so I'm no longer talking to other guys I'm no longer kissing other guys or sleeping with them only with my boyfriend that's a boundary that he
00:49:54
Fiefwants and I respect that it is it's a good match but if my boyfriend would say I don't want you to be a twitch streamer anymore then that's that's my work that's my hobby that's my passion then
00:50:05
Fiefit wouldn't match then the relationship would just not work so I think have you play you play games on Twitch yeah do you do it with your boobs out no I mean depends what you call boobs out I guess
00:50:17
FiefI mean can I see your your um c i I wear this dress also on twitch sometimes the shirt you have a lot of men in the chat sort of um oh yeah but they they most of them also know my boyfriend because we have meetups and and stuff like that so
00:50:31
JakeI mean I don't really know anything about twitch gaming I've don't I've never been on Twitch myself so I don't really know how that works but sure if it's your work and everything then as long as it's not like a thirst trap but this is like a thirst trap what we're talking about here and that should that
00:50:42
Fiefthat should be off off off limits when you're in a relationship depends because it's about the boundaries matching I mean there's also girls with only fans that have boyfriends that are completely when you say the boundaries match does
00:50:54
Jakethat mean that my boundaries have to be commens with what she thinks she can do if I mean she you should talk about it like you have what if I have a boundary
00:51:05
Jakethat she doesn't think is reasonable then I'm I'm not sure if it's a great fit for the relationship and of course sometimes you have to compensate we can we can all agree that if um you're dating a girl who won't stop doing the
00:51:17
JakeTik toks then you should break up I your boyfriend should have broken up with you the first conversation of you the next day when posted another TI because it doesn't mat 100% he should have broken up with you but we're just we're we're we're arguing about the Merit of the
00:51:29
Fiefboundary and whether it's a reason sometimes it is completely fine to compensate and for example say well okay I really like doing these Tik toks but you don't like it I really like you I will stop doing them but what do you think your boyfriend would say if you
00:51:42
Jaketomorrow started posting Tik toks of you with your with showing some titty and and um he laugh mumbling some Chris Brown he he would probably be very worried but what do you think he would honestly think if you start if you start
00:51:55
Fiefhe would be worried because there something I would do because I don't like that because he would be he knows me for four years and do you think that it doesn't really match your character to be doing that sort of content no I don't think so no okay well do you think that would be a reasonable boundary if
00:52:08
Jakehe said Hey listen I don't want you doing those videos I mean I I it's hypothetical I don't know because I can't imagine I'm saying that but put put yourself in the in the hypothetical for a second do you think that that would be a reasonable
00:52:23
Fiefboundary I mean I do cosplays as well so I guess maybe if I would have one that has more boobs out and he would say hey I don't feel comfortable with that I
00:52:34
Jakemight not wear that cosplay anymore but if I really love the cosplay then maybe I will keep wearing it well I don't know I think that there I can't think of a point of doing Tik toks or or anything like that cosplay whatever and
00:52:46
Jakesexualizing yourself that isn't for male attention for what for whatever for whatever the reason maybe for your Twitch streaming I mean how much of your audience is male uh
00:52:57
JakeI don't know 70% probably more than that I'd say because it's gaming oh no there's a lot of girls in gaming as well is there yeah I guess I am a girl in gaming
00:53:08
Jakeexample yeah no I have a lot of girls in communities and mothers and and it's very yeah Community Based cool well I hav I've hav't seen your your twitching but um yeah I'm sure it's very wholesome
00:53:22
Brian Atlaswith the cosplay Selena what do you think reasonable boundary or controlling insecure I mean if it was to the point
00:53:31
Gloss/Mixedwhere she felt she had to break up like it was obviously on his end mhm like there should be some compromise just because especially if she was already making the videos before they were
00:53:43
Jakedating why all of a sudden would it be an issue for him and like why would he date her if it was such a big problem for because they're dating you do things differently when you're in a relationship as to when you how you act
00:53:54
Gloss/Mixedwhen you're single right but in that context he didn't break up with her over it so he should have right so it's kind of on him if it's that big of a deal then just don't date that person for him agreed yeah so definitely definitely
00:54:07
Brian Atlasshould have broken up with them with with her yeah if if it was an issue for him yeah you know I mean uh so let's uh finish up the relationship status really quick but going back to you really quick you said
00:54:18
Brian Atlasyou're very much single uh when's the last time you were on a date um uh maybe like two months ago two months ago when's the last time you hung out with a
00:54:33
Brian Atlasguy maybe like two months ago two okay same thing okay and um last time you hooked up with a
00:54:44
Gloss/Mixedguy yesterday no oh okay I was with her a whole day yesterday so um not
00:54:53
Brian Atlassure two months ago maybe like no sooner no no no before that oh longer ago yeah like a couple months ago okay
00:55:05
Gloss/Mixedgot it Maddie what about you relationship status I'm happily in a relationship uh my current it doesn't matter f you think and it's been a little over 2
00:55:16
Jakeyears Jake yep single since about 2021 only dating seriously so not I think they were saying barking on the show last time despite the rampant rumors on here but none of that going on not on
00:55:27
Gloss/Mixedthe streets oh I'm just single been single for like a year and that's all right uh longest relationship uh like two years
00:55:39
Brian Atlastwo years okay got it all right that's everybody's relationship status we have a chat here coming from terminal lancec 41 states have a city town named Springfield damn that's a lot is there
00:55:51
Brian AtlasSpringfield California ladies definitely oh by the way what's going on in Springfield they're eating the dog they're eating the dogs eating the cats I no I can't do it can you do it they're eating the
00:56:03
Brian Atlasdogs the dogs um uh uh ladies here let me pull it up um ladies if you get to keep your wait did that what the hell hold