150 Body Count At 18?! Yung Gravy Side Piece?! Cheater?! Hater CONFRONTS Brian?! | Dating Talk #248

Date: 2025-06-23
Duration: 8h 39m

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01Shula(guest)
SPEAKER_02Katarina Hammond(guest)
SPEAKER_03Chloe Yummy(guest)
SPEAKER_04Lucy Lotus(guest)
SPEAKER_05Lindsay Lee(guest)
SPEAKER_08David Patrick Harry(guest)
SPEAKER_10Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_11Audrey (DT248)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Anastasia(guest)
SPEAKER_13Jordan (Adoption)(guest)

Key Moments

00:00:08
IntroAll guests introduced
00:08:00
Key MomentChloe: was side piece for rapper Yung Gravy
00:15:00
Key MomentLucy Lotus: ~150 body count by age 18/19. Sex addict. Discovered porn at 8.
04:40:00
ControversyLindsay vs David Patrick Harry: femicide and male accountability heated debate
05:20:00
Key MomentShula performs feminist costume change (woke cosplay)
06:40:00
Key MomentBody count reveals: Lucy ~500, Lindsay 300+

Topics Discussed

00:00:08
Guest Introductions

Including Shula (Jewish Orthodox), Lucy Lotus (150 BC at 18), David (PhD Religious Studies).

00:10:00
Lucy 150 Body Count at 18

Self-identified sex addict. Discovered porn at 8. Lost virginity at 12.

00:40:00
Religion and Pair Bonding

David leads discussion from religious perspective.

04:40:00
Femicide and DV Debate

Lindsay vs David on male accountability for violence against women.

05:20:00
Shula Feminist Costume Change

Woke cosplay character, costume change mid-episode.

06:40:00
Body Count Reveals

Lucy ~500 total. Lindsay 300+. Chloe says 5 (previously 3).

07:30:00
Transgender Debate

Audrey: man dating trans woman is straight. David disagrees.

Transcript

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03:47:49
Brian Atlasa full head of hair. But you guys do the same thing, right? Yeah, sure. Yeah. But women women have an issue when uh men make judgments. Um, you know, we'll rate women based on a scale, but like women
03:48:02
Brian Atlaswill literally say, "I won't date a guy." So, not all women, but we'll say, "I won't date a guy unless he's 6 feet." That's literally a judgment call based off of a measurement, off of a guy's height. But that's the same thing of saying, "I want to date someone who's fat. I wouldn't date someone who's who's
03:48:15
Audrey (DT248)cuz not my size." Cuz this is a different category. We're talking about like if she if you're really standing like if you gain like if I mean you're in a relationship with someone who's small and they gain 50 lbs, are you going to break up with them? Like that's a that's 50 pound. Yeah, possibly.
03:48:28
Audrey (DT248)Depends. See, that to me is I mean, I might not. That's the thing. You're allowed to do that, but I feel like unless they're physically like changing like how I said at this size, I can't match you if you want to be hiking and doing all these things and that's a lifestyle thing. But but your partner
03:48:41
Audrey (DT248)gains 50 pounds and you're going to break up with her. What would be wrong with the reasons why they gain 50 pounds? What would actually be wrong with it, though? See, I don't know. To me, I'm not saying it's wrong for you. I'm saying to me, I I would not do that.
03:48:52
Audrey (DT248)And that to me, that just is crazy. Like a 50 lb difference. I think maybe 100 pounds, 200, that's crazy. Like that's a very big difference. But 50 pounds is like very easily lost. I feel like I I
03:49:03
Brian Atlasmean honestly um I know people have differences on this. I I I don't think it would actually be wrong for a guy to break up with a woman even if she lost
03:49:14
Brian Atlasor even if she gained 10 pounds. Okay. What what you'd have to make an arg a compelling argument for why it would be wrong to do that. Because women women
03:49:23
Audrey (DT248)break up with men for a bunch of totally benign arbitrary reasons all the time. Like this is the thing where I was saying like everyone is allowed to feel how they feel. Like I can't tell you in my life I would not do that. I would not
03:49:36
Brian Atlasbreak up with someone if they gained 10 lbs. Whatever. I don't think I would break up with a girl if I if she gained 10 pounds either. Yeah. H if she gained 50 lb then it's a
03:49:47
David Patrick Harrydifferent story. That [ __ ] got to go. I might, I might not. Sure. What are the reasons? Why did she gain 50 lbs? Was it depression? Was it a change of lifestyle? There could be a lot of
03:49:57
David Patrick Harryreasons that could contribute to a factor of why maybe the relationship is being stressed because of the weight gain. So, within your hypothetical, there's a lot of other factors that could easily contribute to why Yeah.
03:50:10
Katarina HammondMaybe this isn't working. Damn, this girl is sunburned as [ __ ] Holy [ __ ] Sorry. Go ahead. God damn. It's literally turning purple. Oh my god. Yeah. Yeah. Hello. Were you at the beach today? Yesterday.
03:50:21
David Patrick HarrySorry, I didn't mean to interrupt. No, it's all good. I was just um saying there's a lot of other factors that could easily contribute to a rational reason why the relationship may end over 50 lbs. Uh cuz that's a that is a dramatic increase in somebody's
03:50:35
Brian Atlasespecially if you're already dating them and you have a lifestyle and expectations. Um Mhm. So there's a lot of other factors that can contribute. A a couple things to kind of wrap up on the like rating one to 10 thing. Um,
03:50:48
Chloe Yummyhey, can I ask him a question really fast? About what? I was just gonna ask you, are you on steroids? I am not on
03:50:56
Brian Atlassteroids. I am totally natural. Okay. DPH is 190 lbs of muscle steel and
03:51:05
Brian Atlassex appeal. There is no steroid. This is all natural. Oh, are you on steroids? Do I look like I'm on [ __ ] steroids? I don't know. [ __ ] Maybe I should be. I
03:51:18
Brian Atlasdon't know what's under that hoodie. I have no idea. What the [ __ ] Um, but uh you ask why it matters. Why do I do this rating thing? You kind of object to it.
03:51:27
Brian AtlasUh it's it's a check for humility, a check for humbleness. Yeah. And then a check for are you delusional? Are you delusional?
03:51:40
Brian AtlasAnd I think that women they assess female attractiveness very generously and they assess male attractiveness very harshly. Um one of the ways that this manifests
03:51:53
Brian Atlasthough and there's a clear difference between men and women on this is that women have short-term sexual access to men who outside of their league. M. So,
03:52:04
Brian Atlasfor example, as a woman, if you make yourself sexually available to a guy who's just outside of your league, I don't know, maybe you guys reject leagues, right? But you make yourself
03:52:15
Brian Atlassexually available to a guy who's outside of your league, he'll take you up on it. You might get a one night stand. You might get a friends with benefits that could last weeks or
03:52:26
Brian Atlasmonths. You might get a situationship, which could last weeks or months. You might get a [ __ ] buddy. whatever it is, uh very very unlikely to ever result in like legitimate long-term commitment. Uh
03:52:38
Brian Atlasbut you can get that level of access to men who otherwise would never commit to you as a man. If I step to a girl who is clearly outside outside of my league and
03:52:50
Brian AtlasI'm not being like weird, I'm just maybe I'm just pleasant and I'm Hey, I'm sexually available for you. I don't get sexual access and no men ever rarely
03:53:02
Brian Atlaswill get sexual access in a limited capacity in the same way that women get sexual access and limited capacity to men who are just clearly obviously out of their league. And this is dangerous
03:53:14
Brian Atlasin a couple ways. So, uh this is why women end up in situationships and with dealing with [ __ ] boys and all this sort of stuff. I look it's it's a difficult situation to navigate. We all want to get the best that we can get and if we
03:53:26
Brian Atlascan get somebody who's like, "Hey, we'd be lucky to get him, we we want to go for that." The difference is is men tend to have a more realistic
03:53:36
Brian Atlasuh approach to this. It's like I don't think that I could sleep with women outside my league. Uh and I don't think this is a confidence thing. This
03:53:47
Brian Atlasis a reality thing. This is a practicality thing. Men get re rejected on the front end. Men get rejected instantly if I step to a girl who's more attractive than me. I don't get a
03:53:59
Brian Atlasconversation. I don't get a kiss. I don't get I don't get a first date. I don't get sex. I don't get strung along for, you know, a couple weeks, whatever. I don't get anything. Women, if you make
03:54:09
Brian Atlasyourself sexually available to men who are more attractive than you, you'll get something, but you won't get what you really want, which is commitment. And so what ends up happening is imagine if
03:54:21
Brian Atlasthis was the case. Let's say there was from average men, average dudes from the age of 20 to 30. Let's say that they
03:54:30
Brian Atlascould consistently have sex with supermodels or just women who say a guy of five, he can get he can regularly sleep with women who are eight, nines,
03:54:41
Brian Atlasand tens. Why would he ever like would he ever want to? Look, there are some guys who are relationship minded, but you take like the average [ __ ] gooner.
03:54:52
Brian AtlasWhy would he ever get into a relationship when he has a steady flow of uh sex with women who are more attractive than the women that he can
03:55:03
Brian Atlasget into relationship with? The reality is that doesn't happen for any men, but it happens all the time for women. all the time. And then what ends up happening, you start as women playing
03:55:15
Brian Atlasthis comparison game. And some of these guys who they'll keep you around for sex and they might even not be upfront about their intentions because they want to keep you for sex. So they might dangle
03:55:28
Brian Atlasthe potential of a relationship. And they might not ever tell you something like, "By the way, on the basis of your looks alone, I will never be in a relationship with you, but I'll keep you around for sex." And you know, maybe if
03:55:40
Brian Atlasyou have a pleasant personality, I don't you're not terrible to spend some time with, but you'll never I never want to be monogamous with you or I never want to marry you or I never want to have
03:55:51
Brian Atlaskids with you on the sole basis of your physical appearance. Guys will keep you. They'll keep you in that situation for a bit. And so, you could either you could
03:56:02
Brian Atlaseither be viewing that and think, okay, well, this is my league. I'm able to get this quality of guy for short-term sex. I I deserve that for a long-term
03:56:13
Brian Atlasrelationship. One sec. I deserve that for a long-term relationship. But uh you you keep Yeah, it doesn't work with this guy. You go to the next
03:56:24
Brian Atlasguy, doesn't work. Next guy doesn't work. Next guy doesn't work. And then all of a sudden, you're so used to a certain attractiveness of man. And this could be looks, it could be status,
03:56:36
Brian Atlasit could be other factors, but I'm just looking at it from the component of looks. And then you look at the guy who's actually in your league, who's your looks equivalent,
03:56:47
Brian Atlasand you think, whoa, you you're just not attracted to him. You don't want to be in a relationship with him. You think you're settling for him. Maybe you finally like, [ __ ] I'm 30. I need to have kids. Okay, I'm going
03:56:59
Brian Atlasto get into a relationship with uh this beautiful boyfriend who's like I'm not even attracted to. There's going to be a dead bedroom in the relationship. There's going to be growing resentment.
03:57:09
Brian AtlasDivorce is coming. And I just think look y'all y'all on the [ __ ] carousel on the [ __ ] carousel. [ __ ] carousel. [ __ ] carousel. And you're dealing with dudes
03:57:21
Brian Atlaswho you can get sex from them. It's like, have you ever have you ever did you go to college? I went for a little bit, but I Did you live in a dorm room? No, I didn't. Okay. So, it's like
03:57:33
Brian Atlasimagine living in a dorm room with four other people and you got bunk beds, right? And then and then you have an experience of living in a mansion. It's really hard to go from living in a
03:57:46
Brian Atlasmansion and having your own room and your own bathroom to going back to having three roommates, not housemates, three roommates. In that same way, once
03:57:56
Brian Atlaswomen deal with a certain caliber of guy, it's hard to go back to the normal dude who's actually that's the dude you should have been dealing with. That's the dude in your league. Brian, you may
03:58:08
Anastasiaactually try to change your perspective because you talking about you know women going for the hotter guys but if I think a lot of people men and women will be looking for personalities for the
03:58:20
Anastasiacharacter. So like if I when I was single would go out on a date I never rated a man oh he's whatever and rated the personality. I think if we going to
03:58:30
Anastasialooking at perspective of how good is the person and the person's character, it does not matter like I I don't have night I never had one night stands
03:58:42
Anastasiabecause that's not my cup of tea at all. At all never never never I I swear never I do not hook up. I do not believe like I don't judge the hookup culture because I don't judge anybody who uh can do
03:58:55
Anastasiawhatever they want to do with their body. But I am a serious I always will look seek out the serious relationship. So I'm not interested in anybody who going to say I'm want a casual. Okay. We're going different paths. Yeah. Yeah.
03:59:07
Brian AtlasWhat's the shortest okay of a guy that you have slept with? They've all lasted like 3 years. You're you're telling me you've never slept
03:59:18
Anastasiawith a guy and it only lasted a couple weeks, a couple months. That's never happened to you. So my ex-boyfriend, we were good friends for years and then we
03:59:29
Anastasiagot into the relationship when you know I was single, we were hang out a lot. So we had the relationship but as a relationship no like a girlfriend and boyfriend we didn't work out but I had
03:59:40
Anastasianever was in a relationship that was like a hookup or just like casual or something temporary. If you let's just say if I when I was on Bumble and I saw the guy looking for
03:59:50
Anastasiacasual, I'm not interested in that guy. Another thing like when you say about like actually I do not like extremely hot, handsome guys because more than
04:00:02
Anastasialikely just like you said they're going to hurt you. So I always avoid those kind of men because it's like I know what I'm looking for. I would like to be in serious relationship. I would like to
04:00:13
Anastasiabe in love with a man and I would like to build something if we can live together, be together, get through those, you know, if there's any confrontations, frictions because people can have a little friction at the
04:00:25
Anastasiabeginning to like, you know, get used to each other. But I would never go for a really hot guy because just like you said, sure, you're going to get hurt. Okay. Well,
04:00:39
AnastasiaI think you're I think this is a bit dubious, but uh try to look from perspective. Let's just say I'm single, you're single, and we met when Bumble,
04:00:49
Anastasiaright? I would never be like, oh, this guy is like a five. No, I would be like, let me see what is his morals, what is his moral conact, like how he behaves,
04:01:00
Anastasiahow nice he is. That's what I'm judge. And like she said, I actually agree. The moment I'm gonna be seeing your personality and how nice you are and sweet and loving and caring, attract
04:01:11
Brian Atlasphysical attraction almost always comes first. You can do this cope of like personality. Um, let me ask you a couple questions. So, you said you you were divorced and you've been in a relationship for 2 years. How tall is
04:01:23
Anastasiayour boyfriend? Well, he's over six feet, but that's not why How tall is your boyfriend? Like six I know exactly like six I know he's centimeters. Tell
04:01:31
Anastasiame centimeters. Maybe 62. I don't know. 61. Oh my god. But our Sorry, my French intro. Get off. It's all right. I got to
04:01:42
SPEAKER_09fix it. Sorry. Okay.
04:01:53
Lucy LotusGet up now, babe. We can keep looking. I see what you're I see what you're saying, though. Like, I don't know. I love humor. Like, humor really gets me every time. Like you
04:02:02
Lucy Lotuscould be like I don't know honestly like really hot guys like tens I don't know guys who like when guys think that they're hot Yeah. Yeah. I'm like, "Ooh, I'm like, ew." Like, you can't think
04:02:16
Lindsay Leethat you're hot, but that's just I don't know. That's I think that also goes to like making sure that you're you're taking care of your mental health to be able to recognize those things and find
04:02:27
Lindsay Leewhat are the characteristics and priorities in a relationship that you want. Because if you are just going for looks, it's more than likely because you you haven't, you know, you haven't matured. You haven't grown. Your
04:02:39
Anastasiapriority is not straight. For sure. If you all you seeking out is looks and you know just getting in battle with those hot men in hopes you're going to build a family. It's kind of like you can't change somebody unless a person is
04:02:51
Anastasiawilling to change but they have to change. They have to go through the grow first. You can't be changing them or them growing with you. Um so like I said
04:03:00
Anastasiathe guys I think needs to there's a lot of great guys out there that's as you want to say average looking. But the moment you show that you're loving and
04:03:11
Anastasiacaring, I agree that men becomes a tent for you because it's like I'm in love with this man. He's perfect for me. You know, whatever the case. And I think if you're going in a date with that, oh, this person 2, three, four, you're
04:03:24
Anastasiaalready setting yourself up for a failure because you're judging somebody based on their looks and not their personality and character. Like, have you never had like a bro or like a guy friend that you're like that you're
04:03:36
Lucy Lotuslike, why are you dating her? you know, like cuz she he's she's like not that attractive. And he'll always say, "Yeah, but like she she's the best." Like they always say, "I'm not I'm not saying
04:03:48
Brian Atlaspersonality doesn't matter, but there's massive amounts of hope happening here. My needs, you know? I mean, I think physical attraction is almost universally always going to come first.
04:03:59
AnastasiaSo, I'm demisexual as well, meaning I have to I have to like you to be and that's I mean, I know maybe it sounds cliche, whatever. I cannot be the person because you're handsome. I'm sorry. I
04:04:10
Anastasiajust can't. I have to like you. I have to know that first of all, I need to feel safe with a man. So, if I feel like you're a safe place, that you're caring, that you're there, like I, you know, I'm
04:04:23
Anastasianot going to I don't want to leave the hot dude that's going to be like, "Get the [ __ ] out. Sorry." In the morning, you know, like I'm not interested in that. I want that relationship, that
04:04:32
Brian Atlaswarmth, that depth. And like I said, yes, I I'm not disputing that there are women some there that there are women
04:04:42
Brian Atlaswho care less about physical appearance of men. However, the reality is is that we all want to get the best that we can get. I think personally, generally
04:04:52
Brian Atlasspeaking, physical attraction is a massive part of dating. And if you disagree, you're you've thus far not
04:05:01
Brian Atlasmade a very compelling case for this being false or not true. So reality is look to to my point, the reason why I'm talking about this, she asks why does it
04:05:13
Brian Atlasmatter? Why do you ask this thing? If there are a subset of women who are moving through the dating marketplace and they don't have an accurate self
04:05:22
Brian Atlasassessment of where they stand and they think they're more attractive than they otherwise are. Look, if you're a 10 and you think you deserve a 10, you're going
04:05:33
Anastasiato be chasing a guy who is a 10. But you can be a 10 and build let's just say if I thought I was a 10, my goal is still going to be meeting that guy who is
04:05:44
Anastasiasweetheart and who is willing to, you know, build a family or be together, be serious in relationship, have two dogs, whatever the goal together is. So it's like even if I'm 10, I will never go and
04:05:56
Anastasiareach out try to get somebody who's a 10. I want some my for me the personality always going to hit the first spot. You can be you can be Tom Cruz and Brad Pit. I don't give a like
04:06:09
David Patrick Harrybecause yeah, your personality can make you ugly. Very ugly. But you keep guys talking about these long-term like relationships and things that you want and you you keep mentioning personality, but in regards to like I'm curious how
04:06:21
David Patrick Harrymany of you girls would actually want to be married. A couple of you said so. I think you said you don't want to be. But again, from my perspective, coming at it from a religious angle, it's like having a shared worldview is very, very
04:06:33
David Patrick Harryimportant. And I'm watching all the the secular dating, and it just seems like it's doomed to fail because it's going to be constantly a oneupping each other and trying to find something that pleasures you and satisfies you. And it's unless there's a submission to like
04:06:45
David Patrick Harrya higher purpose. And that's why, you know, as a Christian, it's not hard to make the argument that we should only have like heterosexual marriage because marriage is for family production. That's the point of it. And so if you
04:06:56
David Patrick Harryguys want to, not you guys in particular, but in general society, just want to have relationships with people in a secular circumstance. I mean, what what actually are the what's the foundation for a long-term relationship
04:07:10
David Patrick Harrywith its secular standards? It's really just make sure you get along with the person, make sure they satisfy me, and then that can go on and have fun together for, you know, a limited period, and then it ends up uh breaking
04:07:21
David Patrick Harryapart. And so, like, if you those of you girls that want to get married, like what is the foundation that you're looking for for marriage? Cuz I just don't see without a religious context and something deeper and more meaningful
04:07:32
Brian Atlasthat unites you, I just don't see how it can last. I Oh, sorry. Go ahead. Didn't I Go ahead. No, no, no. I was uh Did I mean to cut you off? No, go ahead. Okay.
04:07:42
Brian AtlasUh I have some videos actually um Oh, no. that uh I think would be good for this. Uh, so Nick, there is Do I Do I send the
04:07:56
Brian AtlasYeah, you know what? Let's do um the Tik Tok page. There's a Tik Tok page of a
04:08:02
Brian Atlasgirl named Stella or something. Wait, no, no, no.
04:08:13
Brian AtlasI don't know what it is. That's why. And then uh it's going to be Uh, I just know that the one where she's like outside. I see it in the reflection. Yeah, I
04:08:25
Brian Atlasthink it's that one. You're going to have to like pause it and then uh just full screen it. All right. So, this girl kind of went
04:08:36
Brian Atlasviral. We've pulled it up before, but I think it's interesting to bring it back up. Uh, she calls the adopt man epidemic.
04:08:47
Brian Atlasuh hide that and then uh start it from the beginning and then just go ahead and play it. So, as we're all very much aware, we are living through a chopped man epidemic and there's a big shortage
04:09:00
SPEAKER_07of baddies. It's gone so bad to the point that like if I see an attractive man, it genuinely makes my day. I was walking on the sidewalk earlier and I saw a cute guy in his car, so I waved to
04:09:11
SPEAKER_07him and he smiled back at me. And obviously he drove away after that, but I was like, "Oh my god, a cute guy." This was at 6:50 p.m. It's 7:17 and I'm still like, "Oh my god." And I feel like
04:09:24
SPEAKER_07this is going to power me through my evening. Like, wow, I actually saw an attractive man today. Like, diamond in the rough, needle in the haststack. Seriously,
04:09:34
Brian Atlasthat's weird. Do you do you think she's maybe trollling? Yeah. It's almost like she's a little trollling. Yeah. To me. Uh well, I do like that. I'm going to take her at her word. And I mean, there
04:09:47
Brian Atlasis this phenomenon that I've seen on TikTok where you have these women who make videos saying, "Whoa, I just don't see any attractive guys. Maybe some of them are rage baiting. Maybe that's the
04:09:57
Brian Atlascase with that girl." I do think that this is a phenomenon that is not just some troll that women are doing. I do
04:10:06
Brian Atlasthink that there are women who just aren't attracted to a lot of men. In her case, though, let's assume she's
04:10:17
Brian Atlastelling the truth. She's saying, by the way, chopped means ugly. So, she's saying there's an ugly man. Yeah, there's an ugly man epidemic.
04:10:30
Brian AtlasDo you guys think that she's an attractive woman? Yes.
04:10:37
Katarina HammondI think it's just cuz our standards get higher like as we grow up. Like when I was younger, I thought it was way easier to find an attractive guy. And now that I'm older, it's less likely. And I think it's just cuz my standards are higher.
04:10:49
Jordan (Adoption)And I think it's also what we've been exposed to. Yeah. Like the more we see, the more we listen to, the more we talk changes. Is anybody here willing to say that that woman is below average looking? Yeah, I don't even like speaking like
04:11:02
Brian Atlasthat. That's all perspective though. Yeah, she's below average. That's why the whole rating thing I don't like. She's below average looking. Anybody? Okay, here. Let's do this. Let's do
04:11:11
Brian Atlasthis. Raise your hand if you think she's below average looking. Okay. Raise your hand if you think she's average looking.
04:11:22
Brian AtlasRaise your hand if you think she's above average looking. Raise your hand if she's beautiful. I think yes, she's beautiful. I think I think some people didn't did any
04:11:35
Lindsay Leesomebody didn't raise their You guys got to raise your hand. Beautiful say average or average. But as Christians, aren't all humans supposed to be beautiful? So now you I'm not making a religious argument. Okay. Well, he's
04:11:47
Audrey (DT248)religious. There can still be differences in physical appearance. I think the aesthetics are objective. Yeah. I just hate even like rating like that's what I'm saying. Unless you're dating the person, why does it matter? You know what I mean? Like to even talk I I'm saying my opinion like I don't
04:12:00
Brian Atlaslike to talk about other people's looks unless I'm dating. Why are we so offended about rating her? She literally she says she never sees any attractive
04:12:08
Brian Atlasmen. She says that there's an ugly man epidemic. I think it's kind of fair when a woman comes out and says there's a bunch of ugly men. I think her
04:12:20
Brian Atlasappearance is fair game. Yeah, that's fine. I'm saying me personally. But yeah, what she did was not right either. It's like I would never walk up to a woman and tell her she's ugly, but if she's like, "Look at all these ugly men
04:12:32
Brian Atlasand she's ugly." I might say that she's ugly. Yeah. But uh we have another tweet pull up because I want to give you guys perspective. Fair enough. uh pull pull
04:12:43
Anastasiait up and then uh f make maybe zoom that in a bit. I mean if they take that it is serious then of course their priorities
04:12:53
Brian Atlasare Hold on just one sec. Yeah, that video is wild. Pull it up. Uh and then make it one bigger.
04:13:04
Brian AtlasUh too much. Back down. Yeah, scroll down. We're not going to watch it, but scroll down. So I uh you know Yeah. Scroll down. Keep going. Keep going.
04:13:14
Brian AtlasKeep going. Keep going. Okay. If she was a dude, that's her looks equivalent. And she's saying and she's I that that's her
04:13:27
Brian Atlaslooks equivalent, bro. Did you AI that? Yes. That's that's her and she's and he is beautiful. I guarantee you that's literally that's literally her looks
04:13:37
Brian Atlasequivalent. and she would definitely say that that dude's chopped and that chick is never giving that dude a chop ever. Even though that's literally her male
04:13:48
Brian Atlaslooks equivalent. There's more though. Let's scroll down. That is a That's a UFC fighter. That's a real That kind of looks like her. Scroll down. Oh my gosh, these comparisons are killing.
04:13:59
Brian AtlasWait, zoom. Make it smaller, Nick. Zoom out. Uh, scroll up just a tad. Okay, that's crazy. Scroll down.
04:14:10
Lucy LotusOkay, scroll down. Is she still alive today? She did this to her yet. Oh my god. Like, bro. Scroll down one more. Right. I'm sorry, dude. That she she
04:14:22
Brian Atlascould probably [ __ ] a new guy every single day of the week. This guy is probably an incel. That's the difference between men and women. Uh, scroll down. Is there more?
04:14:35
Brian AtlasOh my god. Wait, hold on. Okay. I don't know what the [ __ ] that [ __ ] was. What? It was okay. Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Oh my goodness. Uh, you know what though? We have a fun little segment here. Oh,
04:14:46
Brian Atlaswait. First, hold on. Oh, yeah. Yeah. We have to do uh Oh, do you think you'll be better looking in 10 years time? Uh, yes. Wait, can you scoot? You guys got
04:14:56
Brian Atlasto scoot a little bit. Uh, okay. So, you're 19, better looking at 29? Yeah. 39? No. 29? Yes. I already asked that one. Okay. So, better 29, not 39. Uh,
04:15:08
Audrey (DT248)you're 23, better looking in 10 years time at 33. Yes. Cuz I'm I'm going to be not fat by then. I [ __ ] hope so. So, yeah, I'm on my weight I used to be way bigger than this. So, surprisingly, but um so I'm on my weight loss journey.
04:15:21
Brian AtlasHopefully in 10 years I'll be fine. [ __ ] May I ask though, if you don't lose any weight, do you think you'll be better looking? Say you say that you stay the exact same weight, will you be better looking in 10 years time at 33? M
04:15:33
Audrey (DT248)I don't I don't think I don't know either the same or different. I don't know. I can't tell until then. I feel like some people are more attractive and some people are not as attractive. Depends on how you age. Okay. 20 years
04:15:45
Brian Atlastime 43, do you think you'll be better looking? No, I don't think so. Okay. Even if you lose weight. Yeah. I don't know. I don't think so. Okay. You're 29 better looking in 10 years time at 39?
04:15:58
Lindsay LeeI don't know. Cuz I look a lot better than I did at 19. That's for sure. But also, I don't even know if I'll be here in 10 years. Girl, don't say that. What the [ __ ] You never know.
04:16:08
Lindsay LeeDon't put that on there. Uh, is that like a diss towards me or you were What? No, I'm saying when I
04:16:17
Lindsay Leewhen I was 19, like I I was on I did two rounds of Accutane. Like I had a rough there was a glow up. I've always had the bosom, but there was a glow up for sure.
04:16:30
Katarina HammondSo So, no, not better looking at 39? I don't think so. Unless I get facelift. You're 24. Better looking in 10 years time 34? Yeah, probably. My mom looks identical to me and she looked really
04:16:42
Brian Atlasgood at that age. So, uh 20 years time, 44, maybe not so much. Okay. You're 27 better looking in 10 years time at 37? Yes. Uh 20 years time, 47? No. All
04:16:53
Anastasiaright. And then were you better looking at 18 or now at 27? No. Okay. You're 36. better looking in 10 years time at 46? Probably not, but I would like to mature grace gracefully. Okay. And were you
04:17:05
Brian Atlasbetter looking at 26 or better looking now at 36? Sorry, could you repeat the question? You're 36. Were you better looking at 26 or now at 36? No, I think the 30s is the
04:17:17
Brian Atlasbest for me. 30s is best. Okay. Uh, you're 31, better looking in 10 years time at 41? No. And then you're 31. Are you better looking now or are you better looking at 21? Yeah, because I was pregnant at 21.
04:17:30
Brian AtlasOh, you have a kid? Yeah, I have four kids. Oh, okay. You've got four kids. Okay. Um, well, let's say, um, were you pregnant at 20? No. Okay. Better looking
04:17:40
Brian Atlasat 20 or 31? 31. Okay. You're 22. Better looking in 10 years time at 32? Yeah. 20 years time 42? Yeah. 30 years time 52?
04:17:50
Jordan (Adoption)Yeah. 40 years time 62? Yeah. 50 years time 72? No. When's the peak? 60s. My mom My mom is peing at 60. I said that. I hope she's
04:18:02
Jordan (Adoption)not listening. But um my mother is beautiful and um we when I had blonde hair, we looked like twins. And she looks like she is like 39 or 40 years
04:18:14
Audrey (DT248)old. Same with my mom. My mom looks better now than she did when she was like 30. That's really She looks so good now. And she's 60.
04:18:25
Brian AtlasShe was pretty rough when she was 30. All right, that's interesting. Oh. Uh, okay. Before we get into the reacts, we are going to Oh, uh, to the 10. To the
04:18:35
Audrey (DT248)10 is to the 10. We've got Look, I get the most beautiful women on my panels. You're saying like I'm saying I'm true a 10. I am I, like I said, I'm realistic. I'm saying as myself, rating myself, I
04:18:47
Audrey (DT248)think I'm a 10, but I'm also not like I just hate the rating thing. Who's a guy who's a 10? I don't even know. I can't even think. Zack Efron. See, like I I don't That's what I'm saying. I don't even think of people as numbers. That's why that's the
04:19:00
Brian Atlasproblem I have is like even having to like have to think. Who's a guy in your league? In my league. Like give us a male celebrity or something that you think is in your league. So bad with I I don't know. I don't know. Plop Pluma.
04:19:12
Audrey (DT248)What's his um What's that? What? Peso Peso Plum. Peso Plum is crazy. Pedro Pascal. Is that Jonah Hill? Wait. Come at me. Jonah Hill. believe that ugly people exist. Do I? Yes. So,
04:19:25
Audrey (DT248)who is like an ugly person? I don't. But that's but that's what I'm saying. Like I am realistic, but I also don't want to say it out of my mouth. I'm not I would never call someone ugly. That I I can also say there is people who are ugly. I can't not say that cuz that's just not
04:19:36
Audrey (DT248)true. I'm saying as myself, I would never like the girl on the screen. If if I had a gun to my head, I can tell the truth about certain things, but I'm not going to say that cuz I just don't like saying that about people. But I'm also realistic. Like that's why the whole
04:19:49
Brian Atlasnumber thing is not about I think I'm a 10. is more like I just don't like the rating scale in general. Sure. Uh we're going to do a few chats, then we're going to do the uh we we put all of you
04:19:59
Brian Atlasthrough an AI to aid you and then we did a little something extra. So we have pasty George. Do you have one of Skinny? Can you read these? A lot of into the
04:20:09
Chloe Yummymic. A lot of men believe that women who use any makeup, fake nails, get body modification surgeries, etc. indicates
04:20:18
Chloe Yummyhigh insecurity, narcissism, deception, and predatory tendencies. So much fakeness. Who here has lip filler? Just curious.
04:20:32
Brian AtlasI do not ever don't have anything. Swear to the god. I don't believe in. Okay. Uh, all right. Thank you for that,
04:20:43
Brian AtlasPasty George. We have based Thor. Guys, if you want to get your own message in, $100 read, $200 TTS on behalf of Arizona, especially Phoenix area along with Desert Joe. We don't claim chair
04:20:55
Brian Atlasthree as a representative of Phoenix, Arizona women. You can find her at the Blade. Example of 30 mentality. Shame.
04:21:06
Lucy LotusTechnically from Tucson, but you know, I love Tucson. The Blade. I thought the blade was in Vegas like where you're like going up to truckers selling yourself or something. I don't know what that is. That's a lot lizard. Lot
04:21:18
Audrey (DT248)lizard. Blaze is usually just like a street where hooker like that song got pasty. George, can you read this from pasty? This shit's so funny. Okay. Are you doing that because you think I can't
04:21:29
Chloe Yummyread? Cuz you always read it before it disappears. So dumb. Okay. Sorry. Chair sex. No offense, but it's hard to take women that have tattoos seriously. And
04:21:38
Chloe Yummyif they display more red flags, more red flags than their belability.
04:21:48
Chloe YummyThank you. as well as I can't [ __ ] read. Credibility dropped significantly. There we go. You got
04:21:58
SPEAKER_09number six. Thank you, P. That's That's you over there. Oh my god. All right. And then yeah, they're beautiful. Your tattoos are beautiful. Do you think it's wrong for a guy who
04:22:10
Audrey (DT248)doesn't want to date a girl who has tattoos? No, it's not. It's a preference and that's okay. Yeah. Who here has tattoos? Just show of hands. I have a boyfriend. Do you have any tattoos? I would not. No tattoos. No tattoos. And
04:22:22
Brian Atlasmy tongue here is double whammy. I'm going to hell. Word. Word. All right, we got pasty George. Like I said at the last podcast, that lady who said we have a chopped man epidemic, she looks like
04:22:33
Brian Atlasan indigenous crackhead. He's He's First Nations, though, so he gets a pass. He's allowed to refer to people as indigenous crackheads. All right. Thank you, Pacy George. Appreciate the message. Oh, by the way,
04:22:46
Brian Atlasguys, I got a big announcement. I should have mentioned this. Guys, we got a we got a special person back on the team, boys. I think we got to do a little a little for for the audience. really
04:22:57
Brian Atlascute. Whoa. What the [ __ ] Chloe? Hey, chill out, bro. My man's my man. You want to get to Nick, you got to go through me. Not in like a ro like I'm his I'm his gatekeeper. I'm the gatekeeper. Not like you got to date me
04:23:10
Brian Atlasfor I'm just saying I'm the gatekeeper. We got Nick back, guys. Can we get some W's in the chat for Nick? Nick is back. Nick is back. Nick at night. Where'd he
04:23:21
Brian Atlasgo? He You know what? I don't know. That was a scary place. Um, yeah, you know, look, school school can't he he was he had to get school going. But guys, W's
04:23:32
Brian Atlasin the chat. You guys remember Nick? He's the OG. He's OG. We got Nick back. We're keeping Mary's sticking on the team, though. But Nick is back. Nickelback. Nickelback. We got
04:23:43
Brian AtlasNickelback. Okay. Uh, Wick. W Nick. Okay. You guys remember that guy? Yeah. Great guy. Great guy. Tall. He still has that same haircut though. a little uh broccoli cut. What's it called? What's
04:23:56
Brian Atlasthat called, Nick? What's it When you go to the barber, when you go to the barber, Nick, what do you um ask for? I told her to give me a clean cut and she did this two days ago. Oo. Yeah. Oh, good. Good [ __ ] man. Good to have you
04:24:07
Brian Atlasback. Um Okay. And everybody in the chats like bring Maddie. We should We should have Maddie just come through join a panel like reunion. Anyways, um
04:24:18
Brian Atlaswhere were we? Oh, AI. Okay, guys. Oh, no. Pepper your Angus. Pepper your Angus. All right. These things that you say are crazy.
04:24:29
Brian AtlasYou got it. Ready to go. Okay. Ready? Yes. I always look so bad. It's funny.
04:24:39
Chloe YummyThere it is. How many years? That's like a really bad picture. Is the second one? How many? I'd say like the second one is like
04:24:48
Brian Atlasthat could be 30s. No, it cannot. That's like my mom. That's enough. That's like 39 right there. 39 38. That's enough. How old are you, Brian? I'm 36.
04:25:00
Brian AtlasYou in two years? Yes. I'm I'm going to have long blonde hair. Giant fake titties like that. Uh, next. Looks like 50s and 80s. Yeah.
04:25:12
Audrey (DT248)Oh my god. Put that [ __ ] back up there. That is everything. It's okay. She's a 10. Oh my god. That is so funny. You know what though? Honestly, you couldn't make me skinny. Come on. I when I'm that I
04:25:26
Audrey (DT248)won't make it that old if I'm not that skinny by then. Okay. Damn. What do you mean? Damn. It's just realistic. Hey, she she's honest. You know, I'm not one of those fat people. Don't try me. Also, when were these pictures taken? Yeah.
04:25:36
Brian AtlasWait, wait, Jay, we got Jay Ek in here. You know, we need I think we need a pop a ball of champagne. We need to get Nick a little liquored up back there. I think we need a little If anybody in the chat,
04:25:48
Brian Atlaswe big celebration. We got Patrick here. We got Nick. We got none of you guys. Um, we we need a champagne pop, you know. Come on, fellas. We need a champagne pop. Help us
04:25:59
Brian Atlasout. I kid. I kid. I kid about you guys. You guys are You guys have been great. You guys also should, you know. Okay. Uh, let's do uh next.
04:26:12
Lindsay LeeAnd oh, it's from the video. probably looks like my dad.
04:26:24
Lindsay LeeIt's just like my dad. Oh my god, I'm scared. Next. Oh, you guys did me dirty.
04:26:35
Brian AtlasOh, even worse. That's funny. That's You know, that could be the future. Definitely not. Okay. All right. Next.
04:26:47
Lucy LotusI didn't look. Thank you guys so much for that. That's [ __ ] great. I love the mannequin in the background. They aged the mannequin,
04:26:57
Lucy Lotustoo. There's Yeah. No, absolutely not. All right.
04:27:05
Brian AtlasActually going to look sweet. Yeah. Like a sweet old lady. Yeah. Say hi to everyone on their porch. That's a babushka right there. All right, next.
04:27:17
Audrey (DT248)No, actually, let's not like you look. Really? You look like a librarian or something. Like you're like this innocent. All right.
04:27:28
Jordan (Adoption)And this is Miss Peaks at 60 over here. I didn't say I was going to peek. Or well, you said what? You said you did say you'd be more attractive. I I think I will still be beautiful. That was
04:27:38
Audrey (DT248)definitely not the question, but okay. Whatever. All right, there it is. What do you mean? That is a good looking grandma. Don't even lie. Yeah, I
04:27:47
Jordan (Adoption)actually have like my grandma in the middle. Y'all did her some favors in all these photos. Like, [ __ ] What? What?
04:28:00
Jordan (Adoption)I'm saying they were very generous to you in like the older photos. Oh, what do you mean? I got mine. I'm just saying the middle one looks
04:28:10
Jordan (Adoption)like my grandma and she's in her late 70s. Okay. All right. Uh, next.
04:28:22
Audrey (DT248)All right. A handsome guy. There he is. You only said that about him. What about the oldest one? Kind of looks like the
04:28:31
Brian Atlasold sugar nutty I had. Uh, next. Where's O? Oh, you see what they see? That's what I'm talking about. Felicity, they always just they are not generous with
04:28:42
Audrey (DT248)Felicity. Damn. Okay. Damn. Not the Okay. All right. Screen. Okay.
04:28:54
Brian AtlasWait. Put it back up there. Put it back up there. What? You got guys, you guys beard. See? See the beard? See? Hey, what the [ __ ] they do to my neck though with the He has dementia.
04:29:06
Katarina HammondHe looks like he's lost. Was that Who said that? Who said You said that? Damn. What the hell? Damn. Was that first picture from like 20
04:29:17
Brian Atlasyears ago? That's an old That's like That's not 20. That's like 2018, 2017 maybe. What? You want to see Young Brian? Pull up Young Brian. Love doing
04:29:28
Brian Atlasthis. Pull up Young Brian. All right. You That's Young Brian. That's you 22 23. That's you at 23. Yep. Oh, wow. Wow. Slay. Pull pulled my
04:29:39
Brian AtlasInstagram now. Check this out. Check this [ __ ] out. Oh my god. He's flexing photos. I used to I I did good, you know, when I was younger. [ __ ] What happened? No, I'm just kidding. Oh, stress. Stress is a [ __ ] Not stress.
04:29:52
Brian AtlasStress is a [ __ ] Sorry, you made me look like a witch, so I had to turn it back. I ain't tripping. I'm I'm old and fat now. Uh oh my god, this fat thing is
04:30:01
Brian Atlascrazy. Uh, so let's see. Young surfer, Brian. Yep. Surfer. Do you still surf? Yeah. Do you still surf? No. Why? Back
04:30:11
Brian Atlasinjury. Neck injury. Yeah. Oh, you have dogs. Anyways, that's okay. Young Brian, whatever. Um, okay. Moving on. Oh, wait. Do we do do we have gender swap? Yeah.
04:30:21
Brian AtlasNo gender swap. What the [ __ ] Oh, thank God. What the [ __ ] Let me Let me go talk [ __ ] in the Discord. I think I'm a
04:30:28
Audrey (DT248)more attractive man. Oh, is the Discord doing that? What the [ __ ] Rude. Rude.
04:30:38
Brian AtlasWho? Who said that [ __ ] Wiggles. Wiggles. You [ __ ] Wiggles. Where's [ __ ] Wiggles? Where is this guy? [ __ ] Wiggles. Where are you,
04:30:48
Brian Atlasbro? Type that [ __ ] Mara Kate, I thought you did that [ __ ] Mara. Damn, that's [ __ ] up. The [ __ ] I'm trying to gender swap these people, man. [ __ ]
04:31:00
Brian AtlasYo, who in the Discord is going to hook it up with the gender swaps? Get that nemesis. Ban everybody. Everybody's
04:31:08
Brian Atlasbanned in the Discord. Rude. Rude. Uh, you know what, Mara? Take this. You know what? You know what? Take this [ __ ] You know what? Oh, wait.
04:31:22
Brian Atlas[ __ ] I'm not going to [ __ ] your [ __ ] up. Never mind. Never mind. Never mind. Okay, I'm kidding. Don't ban anybody. Okay. Uh, we're going to finish up the notes.
04:31:30
Brian AtlasWe'll do some questionnaire stuff and word. We have Katarina. There's a bunch of Canadian
04:31:42
Brian Atlasstories. You have Canadian. Apparently, you were dating a guy who was on an uh Big Brother, the show or something. He won his season of Big Brother. Is it like in Canada or where was it? No, they
04:31:53
Brian Atlashave US, too. It was in the United States. Well, he won the Canadian one. Oh, that's kind of what he's asking you. Oh, yeah. Okay. I thought you were asking if it's a Canadian show. Yeah. Yeah. Well, it
04:32:06
Brian Atlasstarted in the UK, right? And then it's all over. Uh, okay. So, that didn't work out basically. I don't know how he won it. Like, the show made him seem smart and you were dating him and it didn't
04:32:18
Katarina Hammondwork out. Well, yeah, that's where I was going with that. He's like batshit. Is that the restraining order one? No, that was the one after. Oh, girl. Yeah. Within a couple weeks, I kind of got like the ick. And then my family was like, "Oh, maybe you're just scared of
04:32:31
Katarina Hammondcommitment." So, I kind of like forced myself to stay with him. Pretty sure they just wanted me to be like with like a celebrity. Um, and then yeah, I forced myself to be with him. Brought him to my best friend's wedding. He got super
04:32:42
Katarina Hammonddrunk, started screaming at me, saying that I was lying about the restraining order. And then, uh, when we got on the plane, he screamed at me in front of like everyone on the plane, saying that if he posted a picture on Instagram,
04:32:54
Katarina Hammondhe'd get way more followers than me. And then it just kept getting worse and worse. Yeah. Good times. Good times. Yeah. So, everyone follow me so that I get more followers than I am. How is it that you girls all have these tragedy stories
04:33:06
Lindsay Leewith me? These guys suck. Is it could be that your selection is a little off? Well, that too. But you don't know it until you're all these women have stories of these selections. That means there's a lot of guys that are falling
04:33:17
Audrey (DT248)into that poor selection. A lot of girls. I think it goes to show what like what you'll put up with. There's some young gravies out there. I mean, I feel like for the longest for three and a half years with a small dick, you know? I mean, for the longest time, like I
04:33:29
Jordan (Adoption)thought that I didn't deserve a good guy, so I like let myself get treated because I told myself that that's what I deserved. Mentally, that was messed up.
04:33:39
Katarina HammondBut I just I hadn't ever expect him had a good guy. I feel like guys also start off so small and kind of like work up to like that level and then by time it gets like extreme, you're kind of just like,
04:33:51
Audrey (DT248)"Oh, it is what it is." That's what happens all the I in the last relationship I was in he was the best best best and then once we were in the relationship he turned crazy and that happens all the time like once they get the person they like flip the script and
04:34:04
Audrey (DT248)he was the most jealous insecure always thought it was cheating you guess he was a narcissist a little bit a little bit every ex-boyfriend's a narcissist I mean a little bit I feel like he's an
04:34:16
Audrey (DT248)ex because I mean that's why you know what I mean if you're a narcissist like that's one of the check marks you But I feel like it's you start dating someone and then they turn into that person that you that you're afraid of or
04:34:29
Lindsay Leewhatever. You don't know. But until Go ahead. I was going to say I think there needs to be a a call for these fathers. Not all of them. I mean, there's some really good fathers and I have friends who have
04:34:39
Lindsay Leereally great dads and stuff, but I feel like when there's not a good stable father in the home who is setting a good example for his son or setting a good example for the daughter, like then how
04:34:52
Lindsay Leeis she supposed to carry on forward having a healthy relationship or the son? He's going to think it's okay to, you know, leave or be verbally abusive
04:35:02
Lindsay Leeor physically abusive. And that is a huge statistic actually. But you know, we as a society need to heal and realize everybody is human. But if you're placed
04:35:14
Lindsay Leein a parental role or a role where you're supposed to set an example, like of course everything you do is going to affect your kin and the people around you. And so these girls choosing bad guys, like it's going to happen. there's
04:35:27
David Patrick Harrya 60% chance it's going to happen once you've witnessed that in your own childhood or you know with uh yeah I think broken families are a huge problem I mean the divorce rate now is at 50%. uh in the United States and yeah, if you
04:35:40
David Patrick Harrycome from a broken home, you have a terrible example of how a relationship in a marriage is supposed to work. Again, in my my argument, this would be a a return back to like what is the purpose of marriage, tradition, religion, these types of things. But you
04:35:52
David Patrick HarryYeah, I mean, the broken family epidemic and divorce rate is terrible. And then when you really start getting into some of the essaying of children, I mean,
04:36:02
David Patrick Harryit's stepparents that tend to do it the most frequently. And there's a lot of statistics on that regarding um men coming into households and then the woman that they married already has a
04:36:14
David Patrick Harrydaughter um and stuff like that happening. So a traditional nuclear family again a lot of that stuff just wouldn't be as prevalent in our culture as it currently is. True. But also with you know religious families they teach
04:36:26
Lindsay Leethe women a lot like oh well you should give him a second chance and forgive him. But now you're also showing your child, okay, he hit me and I'm going to take him back anyways. And so now what does that tell your daughter? I think it
04:36:39
David Patrick Harrydepends on each circumstance and context. Um, so you do think that like domestic violence would be okay if the family that's an extreme take on what I just said. I'm not supporting domestic
04:36:50
David Patrick Harryviolence. I'm saying that every instance of domestic violence doesn't mean that it should be divorce or that the wife or the man uh shouldn't forgive the partner. That's a context by context situation
04:37:02
David Patrick Harrythat I think again details are going to really matter there. But just a blanket like if there is domestic abuse that that should equate it could be just one single instance that that should equates to divorce. I mean both people need to
04:37:16
David Patrick Harrybe held accountable, right? I'm I'm all for accountability for all parties. What what would she need to be held accountable for? Well, in any circumstance,
04:37:26
David Patrick Harryany situation. So, not just one in which the man physically abuses a woman, but obviously it goes the other way in other instanc%. But the rest is men. But I mean, women
04:37:37
David Patrick Harryare verbally abusive and they're Oh, and I'm Yeah. And I'm counting they're abusive in other ways. I mean, again, men have a monopoly on physical violence. So, obviously men are going to
04:37:46
David Patrick Harryact out that way, but women have other ways in which they can jab and um get at their depart their partner. It's usually through words. could be through cheating or adultery. There's other ways in which
04:37:59
David Patrick Harrywomen also do things that are very conniving. Um, and yeah, so I'm not supporting either party. That's my point is that responsibility needs to go to all parts. And so nobody's making an apology for domestic abuse. But within
04:38:10
Lindsay Leethe church, let's say he's a he's a two-time offender in the family, but they're married and the church is telling her, "Oh, you should forgive him." Do you think that she's supposed to take him back? And I I would that would be a case by case depending on how
04:38:23
Shulaexactly that works within that family, that community. I have no idea. Oh, I have a story to tell about domestic violence. So, I was pregnant, I
04:38:32
Shulathink, with my third child and went u to Florida for a vacation and um my oldest child jumped on me like he was playing and I it really hurt me and I was freaked out that something would happen
04:38:44
Shulato the baby. So, my husband was like, "You know what? I'll bring you to the hospital. you know, we'll check it out. And then we get to the hospital and the doctor just looks at me in this really weird way and he's like, "Are you sure
04:38:56
Shulathis is what happened?" Like, "Are you sure your child did this to you?" I'm like, "Yeah, this is literally what happened." And then the doctor told me, "Yeah, it's so common for me to see
04:39:06
Shulapregnant women who come with injuries because their husbands beat them." Like, like, it's actually the number one reason for death in pregnant women is homicide by their partner. So crazy. The
04:39:17
Brian Atlasnumber one waiting of pregnant women is actually homicide by their partner. Oh, I thought you meant the death of the child. No. In which case I was going to say that's probably abortion. Well, and how many
04:39:29
David Patrick Harrycases were they married? Cuz I just find it a bit of a reach that there'd be so much like homicide for somebody who's already married and their wife being pregnant. I could see it in circumstances which they're not pregnant
04:39:40
David Patrick Harryor it's an unexpected pregnancy or it's a different relationship dynamic. Um, not saying that it doesn't happen, but it just seems like it'd be way less common with a married couple. In in your perspective, yes. Generally
04:39:53
Brian Atlasspeaking, we're just talking about statistics. Generally speaking, not that it can't happen, of course. Yeah, it does. What do you think of men? because I've heard you a couple times throughout the night. You seem to like always want
04:40:04
Lindsay Leeto go towards like men are criminals, men are predators, men are like I I'm not saying all men, but I'm saying I don't I don't think that men hold other men accountable for what they're doing
04:40:15
Lindsay Leethat gives them a bad image. And you want to call on us hold other men accountable through No, they really don't police force. There's been 16,000
04:40:24
Lindsay Leewomen killed in femicide last year alone in South America. That is hold on crazy. South wait 15 I'm just saying 15 115 150,000
04:40:36
Brian Atlaswomen murdered in which South American country you're in South America. All of South America correct in one year. Okay. So
04:40:46
Brian AtlasPeru uh Chile, Brazil, Argentina with Argentina. you you're up tod date on the South
04:40:54
Lindsay LeeAmerican femicide stats is I spend a lot of time like researching because I rather do that than doom scroll on Tik
04:41:04
Brian AtlasTok 150,000 women have been unalived in South America for being women yes wait hold on
04:41:15
Brian Atlaswe're in we're in America we're very you presented but you presented this in response to me saying men do hold other men accountable. So you're s are you
04:41:25
Brian Atlassaying what's what's the I'm saying you never the other side. You don't have men can just murder women in Argentina and they just get away with it. Yeah,
04:41:35
Brian Atlasthey do. You guys do realize that? Hold on. You guys do realize that murders are the most heavily investigated criminal acts possible. No, but that's South America. South America has a lot of
04:41:47
Shulaunstable countries like, you know, like they have colia, Iran, and Yeah. Why do you think everyone's coming up here from Mexico? There's a lot of violence. It's not the
04:41:58
David Patrick Harrysame as America. I don't know what you mean. I would need to look at that research in that paper. I mean, I'm not saying there's not violence and certainly violence across cultures changes and
04:42:10
David Patrick Harrysome cultures are more violent. Could be towards women than others. I'm totally on board with that possibility. But 150,000 publish are anti-immigration. No, I'm saying, wait, no, no, no. Answer
04:42:22
Brian Atlasmy question though. Are you against immigr uh immigration, especially from people here? Especially from Latin American countries. No. And I have a completely different
04:42:32
Brian AtlasBut there's rampid amounts of femicide. There's these women are getting like wholesale murdered. And you want and the majority of these illegal immigrants
04:42:42
Lindsay Leetypically they tend to skew male and you want to allow them into the United States. No, that doesn't mean that I feel like it's like going in a completely different No, I'm happy to logically hold
04:42:55
Lindsay Leeclarify without interrupting. I can definitely are you okay with illegal immigration? I think that just like other other immigrants who've come here from other countries and they've applied for
04:43:07
Lindsay Leecitizenship and they want a better life here in Americ's
04:43:23
Lindsay Leealso the one that's uh what was it Violence Against Women Act which keeps you here if for two years while you're doing your uh application for citizenship if you're experiencing domestic violence. It doesn't answer my question though. Are you in favor of
04:43:36
Lindsay Leeillegal immigration illegal? I think are no because I think our system needs to change completely. It's not a yes or no answer that like everything needs to be changed. But should they be deported? Simple. I think
04:43:48
Brian Atlasthe criminals should be deported. Absolutely. Well, they're criminals by crossing illegally. Correct. If if you're here in the country illegally, you are committing a crime. Yes. Should
04:44:00
Lindsay Leewe deport all ille illegal immigrants? But you are making a point about immigration saying that all these women killing immigrants were coming over and am I okay with that? So now you're changing the question. Well, hold on.
04:44:10
Brian AtlasNo, it's your position. You're saying there's like vast amounts of femicide in Latin America, in South America, right? That's what you said. And you're saying, well, these men are just