150 Body Count At 18?! Yung Gravy Side Piece?! Cheater?! Hater CONFRONTS Brian?! | Dating Talk #248

Date: 2025-06-23

Duration: 8h 39m

Guests

Brian Atlas

AAudrey (DT248)>

KKatarina Hammond >

JJordan (Adoption)>

DDavid Patrick Harry >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_01Shula(guest)

SPEAKER_02Katarina Hammond(guest)

SPEAKER_03Chloe Yummy(guest)

SPEAKER_04Lucy Lotus(guest)

SPEAKER_05Lindsay Lee(guest)

SPEAKER_08David Patrick Harry(guest)

SPEAKER_10Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_11Audrey (DT248)(guest)

SPEAKER_12Anastasia(guest)

SPEAKER_13Jordan (Adoption)(guest)

Key Moments

IntroAll guests introduced

Key MomentChloe: was side piece for rapper Yung Gravy

Key MomentLucy Lotus: ~150 body count by age 18/19. Sex addict. Discovered porn at 8.

ControversyLindsay vs David Patrick Harry: femicide and male accountability heated debate

Key MomentShula performs feminist costume change (woke cosplay)

Key MomentBody count reveals: Lucy ~500, Lindsay 300+

Topics Discussed

Guest Introductions

Including Shula (Jewish Orthodox), Lucy Lotus (150 BC at 18), David (PhD Religious Studies).

Lucy 150 Body Count at 18

Self-identified sex addict. Discovered porn at 8. Lost virginity at 12.

Religion and Pair Bonding

David leads discussion from religious perspective.

Femicide and DV Debate

Lindsay vs David on male accountability for violence against women.

Shula Feminist Costume Change

Woke cosplay character, costume change mid-episode.

Body Count Reveals

Lucy ~500 total. Lindsay 300+. Chloe says 5 (previously 3).

Transgender Debate

Audrey: man dating trans woman is straight. David disagrees.

Transcript

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Brian Atlasthe guests introduce themselves. So, please tell us your name, age, occupation, where you are from, and education. Go ahead. Hi, I'm Chloe

Chloe YummyYummy, and I'm 18. I'm just kidding. I'm 19.

Chloe YummyUm, but um I do Instagram, Snapchat, and Only Fans. Okay. All right. Welcome back. What

Audrey (DT248)about you? My name is Audrey. I'm 23. Um, I'm from Orange County, currently in Vegas. Um, I do a bunch of different things, makeup, prosthetic makeup, and

Audrey (DT248)right now I'm doing some plus-siz modeling. Um, don't click the pen, please. I do a bunch of different things for work entrepreneur. Okay. And, uh, you said any college or anything like that? Um, not currently, but I did not

Lindsay Leecurrently, but I did go to school to start to be a mortician, but I put that on pause. Got it. Okay. What about you? My name is Lindsay Lee and I am 29. I'm from Phoenix, Arizona and I have some

Lindsay Leecollege, but I am currently an adult film star. All right. And what were you studying? Uh, it was for a PTA, physical therapy assistant. Okay. But I

Katarina Hammonddid culinary school. So, do you have like an associates degree or No, I've worked uh two to four jobs my whole life. So, Okay. Got it. What about you?

Katarina HammondI'm Katarina Hammond. I'm 24. I'm from Canada and I do I'm a server and I also do like Instagram content creator. Okay. All right. Uh any education or anything

Lucy Lotuslike that? Just high school. Okay. What about you? Hi, I'm Lucy. Lucy Lotus and I used to be Oh, wait.

Lucy LotusI'm from Dallas, Texas. And I used to be a server in fine dining for like four to five years. And then now I'm in adult

Lucy Lotusfilm. Okay. Yes. As a performer. Uh age. 20. Oh my god. I'm literally like word how many? 27. I'm sorry. I'm

Lucy Lotusnervous. You're fine. And did Sorry. Did you say you did any university or college or? Um I was a server in fine dining. I joined the Navy at one point,

Lucy Lotusbut I was in boot camp and I had medical issues. So, I had an entry- level discharge. Entrylevel discharge. It's an

Lucy Lotushonorable one. It's just like you get let go during boot camp. Anyway, that's really cool. You got pregnant? Uh, no. What? No. That would be really

Brian Atlasinteresting though. No, I've never been pregnant. Oh, okay. Um, the Navy. Like so how how many week you said you were in the boot camp. So like how many uh

Lucy Lotusdays did you uh stay in I guess just half a day? No, I'm just kidding. Um no I was in it for um six weeks.

Lucy LotusSix weeks. Okay. Uh how long does boot camp boot camp typically? It's eight weeks. You're almost there. What the [ __ ] I Yeah, I just had medical stuff going. I mean it's not anything like

Anastasiathat interesting to be honest. I just Yeah. What about you? My name is Anastasia. I'm 36 years old. I was born in Vadivosta, Russia, which is far east.

AnastasiaI am from uh Charlotte, North Carolina. I graduated UNC Charlotte and um I am systems administrator for the job as

Brian Atlaswell as I do makeup and special effects um on Instagram. Got it. Any uh college, university? What was your degree in? um organizational communications from UNC

ShulaCharlotte. Got it. Okay. What about you? Uh my name is Sula. I'm 31 years old. Um I have a degree in biology from Georgia Tech. I'm originally from Moscow, Russia. Um as of now, I'm a stay-at-home

Shulamom. Um but I have a YouTube channel, Simply Shulam, and I do like influencing. I do pranks, woke cosplay. Yeah. Did you bring your costume change with you? Yes. Okay. So, mid midway

Jordan (Adoption)through the show, she might she might swap into something else. You guys want I can do that. What about you? Um, my name is Jordan. I am from Charlotte,

Jordan (Adoption)North Carolina. I'm 22. Um, I went to hair school, so I have a cosmetology license and have been doing that. I also

Jordan (Adoption)um do nonprofit organization work um with pregnancy resource centers and adoption stuff. Um and am I forgetting something? I think that

Jordan (Adoption)was it. Yeah. Did you say your university? Oh, I So I went to uh Aveda, which is like a um arts and science technical school to get my cosmetology

David Patrick Harrylicense to do hair. Got it. All right. What about you? My name is David Patrick Harry. I have a PhD in religious studies from the Graduate Theological Union. I'm 35 years old and I have YouTube a

Brian AtlasYouTube channel called Church of the Eternal Logos. I make online content, educational content, and cultural commentary. All right, welcome everybody. We're going to go around the table once more. So, what is your current relationship status? If you're single, how long have you been single?

Chloe YummyAnd what's the longest relationship you've ever been in? Go ahead. Um, I'm single and the longest relationship I've been in was like in high school, so three years.

Chloe YummyThe longest relationship was 3 years, you said? Yeah. How long have you been single? Um, I mean, it's been like a back and forth thing with like multiple

Chloe Yummypeople, but like I would say like I don't know my situation. I'm single though. You're weren't you like in uh

Chloe Yummyyou just got out of something or Yeah. Um I would say like a month ago I was in like a relationship

Audrey (DT248)but I don't know. I'm single now. Single now. Okay. Uh all right. What about you? Um currently single. My last relationship was my longest. It was

Audrey (DT248)three and a half years. Um, I'm glad that ended and I'm currently wanting to be single until like I look for marriage. I'm not looking to date right now. Okay. So, sorry. You've been uh single

Audrey (DT248)for how long again? Um, it's been almost a year. I think it's been a while. Okay. What else you want to know? I mean, I was I mean, I was in a three and a half

Audrey (DT248)long relationship with this guy and it was an awful relationship. Good guy, awful relationship. Traumatized me. So now I'm wanting to be single for a while because I don't want to get back into that dating game again. And you've been

Brian Atlassingle? Sorry, you said for for like a year since that last relationship. Gotcha. Can you take my jingle jungle? The jingle jungles off. Sorry. It's

Lindsay LeeSorry, jangling. Okay. All right. And uh what about you, Lindsay? Um, I've been in a

Lindsay Leefiveyear, a threeyear, and I want to say a two or three year as well, but I've been single for at least a year. Very happily. So, and

Brian Atlasyou said the longest was three years. Five. Oh, five years. Okay. All right. And then the one that ended a year ago, how long was that one?

Lindsay LeeLike four on and off, but yeah, four on and off. Okay. Technically like three. Yeah. Gotcha. But you've been in a couple multiple

Brian Atlastwo year, three year a couple long-term relationships. Got it. Yes. Uh the longest one, the 5-year relationship. Who broke up with who? Um he just

Lindsay Leeblocked me. So he blocked you. He just blocked me. Okay. So he ended it, I suppose. Yeah. His mom called me later and was like, "He doesn't love you." I

Lindsay Leelike, "All right, cool. Let's [ __ ] it up." That's why one in four stay single for the rest of their life. I'm hoping to be that one in four. You want to be one the one of the

Lindsay Leeone in four? Yes. What about uh the other couple long-term relationships you've had? Did you and them or did they or a mix? It was a mix. Yeah. The last

Lindsay Leeone was pretty mutual. We both knew it was not good. So, plus I was in therapy and none of them have done therapy. So

Lindsay Leeonce you have been through therapy and start to see some of the trends of trauma um you know you just decide I don't want to be around that anymore. I'll come back to the therapy thing but I'll get

Katarina Hammondthe rest of everybody's relationship status. What about you? I am single. I've been single for just over a year and longest relationship ever was probably like two and a half years. Who

Brian Atlasbroke up with who? For which one? The two and a half year one. Uh I left him. I have a restraining order against him now. Nice. Yeah. And then the the most recent one that ended a year ago

Lucy Lotusdefinitely left him. You definitely left him. So, okay. And Okay. Uh what about you? Um I am single

Lucy Lotusand I would say my longest relationship. I was like 19 and it was 3 years long and we were on and off. I think we broke up like five times. The first time he

Lucy Lotusbroke up with me, it was because I told him I had only had sex with two people when we first started dating and it was like a lot more than that. So, you're a

Lucy Lotus[ __ ] liar. You're a [ __ ] liar. Yeah. And so, he broke up with me and then I told him that we were done when I said we were done. She belongs to the

Brian Atlasstreets. Are those your sounds or their sounds? I don't know. It just it just coaleses out of the ether. Um, so, okay, your like first

Brian Atlaslong-term relationship sort of right after high school, you told him the body count was on the low end. You lied. He How did he find out? Everything. Like did you did you tell him or did he like I just started feeling guilty cuz I

Lucy Lotusstarted like really falling for him. So I was like h I this lie like I'm holding it in. So I told him and he like flipped out on me. Wait, so you told him what was the number that you told him? Four.

Brian AtlasLike two or two to four? Yeah. Two to four. What was it actually?

Lucy LotusUm I still lied to him the second time actually. But I had to raise the number a bit just to like let him know cuz

Brian AtlasYeah. Um I told Yeah. tell us tell us the new lie and then tell us what the actual number was. I guess so I told him it was 22 thinking that it would be like

Lucy Lotuschill, you know, and then he'd be he was like he he flipped out like really bad. Um but the actual number um

Lucy Lotusall right, I'm going to say this. The actual number at the time was like 150. Excuse me.

Brian AtlasSorry, Mom. Wait, how how old were you? Wait, how how old were you at the time? I was uh 19.

Lucy LotusI had a friend um who had an older sister and she told me, "Have sex with as many people in high school as you can cuz no one has STDs." What?

Lucy LotusSo, I took that as law and I really went for it. Excuse me. Wait.

Lucy LotusHave Can you repeat that part? The the what? What she told you? Um I Oh my god. Um sorry, I'm so nervous, too. I'm like literally like wiping my hands like

Lucy Lotusaggressively under No, you're doing fine. No. Um I It was like around 150. Um, but she told me, um, like my friend's older sister, she was like,

Lucy Lotus"Have sex with as many people as you can in high school because nobody has any STDs yet." And I just took that as law

Brian Atlascuz I was hypersexual, very young, so yeah. Nice. Okay, that's cool. Um, that's dope. I I guess I love that for

Lucy Lotusyou. Thank you so much. That's great. It's my life. And you're 27 now? I am 27. Okay. So, do the math. Gotcha. And wait, when did you join the

Lucy LotusNavy? Uh, I joined the Navy I joined the Navy actually while I was with that first boyfriend. And then um he actually cheated on me the first day that I I

Brian Atlaswent in to the Navy. But yes. Oh my gosh, that's awesome. Wait, so you were in boot camp for six weeks?

Lucy LotusHow many went How did it go down at boot camp or? No, but so there's this thing in boot camp. I'm so sorry guys. I wish I like I

Lucy Lotushate that it's like on me for this one. You're good. Um I in boot camp in Navy boot camp you go you cannot talk to the opposite sex. You can't even look at

Lucy Lotusthem. You can't look their way. nothing like you will get in trouble. And um but there were church services

Lucy Lotusand you could go there was three every Sunday and you could go to all of them and you could sit next to the to the males, you could sit next to the boys

Lucy Lotusand you could, you know, kind of get away with talking to them. So, I would make sure to go to every church service and I would talk to as many boys as

Lucy Lotuspossible and I would tell them like the wildest [ __ ] and I would just like walk away. But did you I never hooked up. Was there any carnal knowledge? Did you have

Lucy Lotuscarnal knowledge with any of them? No. Uh but no, but whenever I went to the airport with one of them, he was like, "Oh, let's go in one of the family bathrooms and I want to clap those cheeks." So, I was like, "I'm good. Thank you. We're we're out of boot camp

SPEAKER_09now. We don't have a trauma bond anymore. All right, good times. Okay, that's cool. Uh, I'm done. I can leave now. Okay.

AnastasiaUh, what about you? I was married for 11 years and I am in a relationship right now about two and a half years. All right. And uh, any kids? No. No kids.

AnastasiaAll right. If dogs counts as kids then yes. Who initiated the divorce? Um, it was mutual. Okay. So, who filed for the divorce?

Brian AtlasTechnically, I guess would be him. Okay. And was there any sort of siding in the uh filing as to the reason for the divorce? Just irreconcilable differences or was there something else that was

Brian Atlascited? He technically found somebody else. Be technically. Well, okay. He um found somebody else. Yes. Okay. So, was he cheating on you or had you guys already

Anastasiabeen separated at that point? So, we were talking about separation as um I guess he was talking to one of the girls we had known and then um as

Anastasiathat girl kind of she's a Russian Muslim so you know she has very strong traditions. Um when she told him they cannot work, that's when he kind of like, well, maybe

Brian Atlaswe should be together. And then she introduced him to her friend. And that's when we kind of continued with the whole divorce. Got it. Okay. And so you were married,

Anastasiayou were together for 11 years, you've currently been in a relationship for two years. Any other long relationships or are those pretty much it? Pretty much it. Um I mean, I had an ex-boyfriend about three or four months. Uh we were

Anastasiagood friends beforehand. Um I was single that time about 2 years after the divorce and we kind of I guess had something going on but it didn't last too long. All right. Gotcha. What about

Shulayou? So I've been married for 11 years now. Yeah. Uh so you've been married since you were like 20. Uhhuh. And then how long were you guys together before you were married? Um like two months.

Brian AtlasOh, so you guys got married really quick? Yeah. Okay. Gotcha. And let's see. Uh, was that your has that been your only relationship? Yeah. Okay.

Jordan (Adoption)Gotcha. And Okay. Uh, what about you? Um, I'm currently single. Uh, gosh, like a year and a half.

Jordan (Adoption)And none of them have ever really lasted long. Uh, maybe like six, seven months. There was one that was like off and on

Jordan (Adoption)for like a year or two. Um, but like never consistent, like full. Yeah, it was pretty sporadic. Okay.

David Patrick HarryAll right. What about you? I'm married. Uh, been with her for about 3 years and we'll be married uh in a 3 months will make it a year. So, uh, before that, I

David Patrick Harrywouldn't say any super serious relationships. And, um, out of those, there's maybe one that was also maybe about 3 years, but again, it was more about fun, uh, and not a serious focus

Brian Atlason marriage or long-term commitment. Okay, got it. Uh, wait, did you hide the

Brian AtlasStreamYard when you did that? No. Okay. Um, all right. And uh you've had some other relationships you said but yeah weren't it was more you know uh

David Patrick Harrypromiscuous 20s and then um um I'm a Eastern Orthodox Christian and so upon converting to orthodoxy uh took the idea of marriage and finding a long-term partner and building a family much more

David Patrick Harryseriously and so my wife also was Eastern Orthodox and so we have a shared religious commitment and worldview um and the things that we both want in regards to building a family are kind of

Brian Atlasthe the strong bonds that brought us together. Got it. Okay. And uh curious you were you cuz you're like Orthodox Christian. Were Have you always been

David Patrick HarryOrthodox Christian? No, I converted um in about 2019. So it's been about six years. It'll be six years in October. Uh being Orthodox.

David Patrick HarryGot it. Okay. And were you prior to being Orthodox Christian, were you like Protestant or No. Well, I grew up kind of Yeah, I grew up kind of a conservative Methodist Protestantism, and then uh once I got into college, uh

David Patrick Harrygot really interested in studying religion, biology, traveled to China, uh studied Mandarin, um and was really into like new age, psychedelic, spirituality, that type of stuff. So really, I would

David Patrick Harrysay kind of psychonaut spirituality. U you know, IA, DMT, LSD, psilocybin mushrooms, that was kind of the spiritual dour of the time. And it was

David Patrick Harryuntil uh getting into my doctorate program started looking more seriously at my worldview and what I believed and that forced me to kind of reconcile some of my beliefs and eventually uh brought

Brian Atlasme to again orthodoxy is uh my belief is the one true religion. Okay. And uh were you and your wife like both virgins when

David Patrick Harryyou guys like got married or uh No, I wasn't. Um she was and so she there's a 12- year difference um between us. And

Brian Atlasso you're 35 and she is 22. 23. 23. Okay. And then you were were you 32 and she was 21. 20. She was already turning

Brian Atlas21. Yeah. She was like 20 21. Okay. She'll be she was getting ready to turn 24. Okay. Gotcha. Okay. All right. And then uh going to you really quick. Um you said you're you've only been in one

Brian Atlasrelationship. Were you both uh virgins when you guys met or? Well, I was but not him. He's 10 years older than me. Okay. Gotcha. Okay. So, you're also in

Brian Atlasan age gap relationship. So, you are 31 so he's 41. Yeah. And then were you you were 21 and he was 31 when you guys met or? Uh um I was 20, he was 30. You were

Brian Atlas20 and he was 30. Gotcha. Okay. Gotcha. Okay. Okay. Interesting. Um, and going back around the table, there's quite a

Chloe Yummyfew people here who are single. Uh, is there currently a guy in the picture? Um, yeah. I would say like two guys right now are in the picture.

Chloe YummyWho? You don't Sorry, you don't have to say who, but like when you say they're in the picture, what do you mean? Well, one is at at my

Chloe Yummyplace watching my puppy. Thank you so much. And then um the other one is like pretty

Chloe Yummywell known and he's in a relationship right now. So like basically the other girl. Wait,

Chloe Yummyyou're So you're the side piece or Yeah. And you're are you like you're okay with you're okay with that or it's the best position to be in.

Chloe YummyI mean, I would really love to like be his wifey. Um, so no, I'm not that like happy about it, but like I was there first. Like me

Chloe Yummyand him have been like hooking up since I was 18. So I was literally there first, but he like Wait, is this is this the guy relationship? Is this the guy

Brian Atlasyou were talking about last show? Yeah. Okay. But he's like really [ __ ] mad at me for bringing it up. Um, but wait here. Give me a give me a bit of a

Brian Atlastimeline. Give me give me some timeline here. So, you're currently 19. You met him when you were 18. Yeah. So, how long

Brian Atlashave you guys like how long ago did you meet him? Um, last Halloween. October 2024,

Brian AtlasI believe. So, yeah. Or 20 Wait, 2024. So 9 months ago about Yeah. Eight nine months ago. Okay. And were have you were you boyfriend

Chloe Yummygirlfriend or just No, it was casual. It's a really really weird um story of like how we met. Um I don't know if you

Chloe Yummyguys are familiar with um Mickey Mace. He's like a famous gambler. Um, so my best friend was like hooking up with him

Chloe Yummyand he's like one of my friends and he like lets us stay at his house sometimes and he was throwing a really big um

Chloe YummyHalloween party and I'm going to say his name. I'm sorry. Um, Young Gravy. He came up to me and

Brian AtlasWho the [ __ ] is that guy? Wait, sorry. I I Yeah. Okay. So I remember you young gravy. Yeah. Matt Matthew, his real

Chloe Yummyname. Okay. Rapper. Rapper guy. Yeah. Country singer slash rapper. Um he came up to me at Mickey M's party and he was like,

Chloe Yummy"You're mad pretty." And like he's like 7 feet tall and like really attractive in person. I mean he's kind of like funny online, but he just like made me

Chloe Yummyso wet when I saw him. How old is he? Dating Ari. Yeah. Wait, who? He's dating Ari. How old is he? I

Chloe Yummythink he's almost 30. Okay. Okay. You know. Okay. Into the milk. I didn't even know that he was into mils until I after like we've been hooking up

Chloe Yummyfor a long time and then like some of my friends. He took some mil. Wait, but you're like, wait, he's into MILS, but you're like all his music is about like older women. It's really strange. And I didn't know

Brian Atlasthat. Um, so that's why it didn't work out. Well, he's with Ari now and she's I think she's like 25 or something. Oh, okay. So, wait, hold on. Okay, so you've been you've known him for eight, nine

Chloe Yummymonths, I guess. When did this other woman come into the picture? Like four months ago, I would say. They did a very hard launch on Tik Tok, Instagram. They've been going super viral four

Brian Atlasmonths ago. Yeah. Okay. So, but there what you're saying is is there's been over or there was overlap. Is that what you're saying? For sure.

Chloe YummyWhen's the last time you saw him? Um, last Saturday. Wait, girl. We are on a podcast, babe. I love Ari. He's literally going to kill me. Like,

Chloe Yummyliterally. I'm so sorry. Name dropped on the podcast. I love you for that. Wait, what? How old are you considering a mil? Well, well, he his music like if you look him up, like all of his songs are

Chloe Yummyabout like [ __ ] like No. Yeah, I met him at Aven, but Yeah. Okay. Interesting. It's really

Chloe Yummyweird. Um and embarrassing a little bit, but um so when we met, he came up to me and he was like, "Oh, you're like the prettiest girl at the party." like, "I

Chloe Yummyreally want to get to know you. Um, like are you down to like chat in the bathroom?" Cuz it was super loud. And I was like pretty drunk and I thought he was super cute. So, we went to the bathroom. Nothing like happened. We

Chloe Yummydidn't like hook up, but we talked for a really long time. And then when I opened the door, like both of his managers were out there and um they basically told me that all of my stuff is like in an Uber

Chloe Yummyand like ready to go to his crib and my best friend's stuff. which is really weird because we were staying at Mickey Mesa's house and then I guess they did like a switcheroo and

Chloe Yummythen cuz they're neighbors and then all of my my suitcase was in the Uber or the personal driver and my friend too and she was really upset

Brian Atlasbecause she loves Mickey. Wait, is this and this is all like are you saying this is like you're not making this up because like last time you made Why would I think of that? I

Brian Atlasdon't know. Um, well, okay. Um, I think you mentioned something before the show about this, Nick. I just for the audience, I they probably don't know who this guy is. No, no offense to him. Uh,

Brian Atlasfind his Wikipedia just so we can cross reference it, I guess. Um, poor Ari. Can

Brian Atlasyou move us to so bad? I'd like to. So, do you have a question? Okay, so hold on. Let me before you ask the question, I just want to go over Okay,

Brian Atlasso just for the context, I guess for for the panel who don't know uh because we do have some boomers here, including myself and uh millennials. Okay,

Brian Atlasmillennials. Uh okay, so Young Gravy, that's his Wikipedia. He's a rapper. Uh he's like what? 30 29. Uh and then there's like you got you have his you want to pull up

Brian Atlasthe Instagram, I guess. Yeah, I can get it. Okay. Um, yeah. So, we'll do that. And wait, so Oh, you got it. Okay. Okay. So,

Brian Atlashere's his IG. 2.2 million. Oh, wow. He's pretty popular. He's a rapper. I I listen to like girl J. That's his girl. Oh, that's the girl. The girl he's like

Brian Atlassitting on or I don't know what that is. Wait, scroll down. Scroll down. Is there Oh, wait. What? Oh, that's uh Wait, click on the kissing the dude. Wait.

Brian AtlasOh, that's the uh how do you say BB no money dollar? I don't know. No moola. Okay, that's uh that's interesting. Was he he was also cheating on you with a

Brian AtlasBBN? No. So, and then there's like the other next I think you have the the next tab over, I guess. Oh, scroll up. Oh, this. Okay. So, Oh, there's the

Brian Atlasgirlfriend you're saying. So, that's a girl. Yeah, she's really big on talk right now, I think. So, they make Oh, that's the girlfriend. Scroll down. Okay. So, they make a bunch of reals

Brian Atlastogether. Okay. Mhm. So, and then wait. So, okay. And you're saying I'm just confused

Chloe Yummytimeline here. So, you saw him last week, but like is it an open is he in an open relationship with her? I No. He said, "Don't say anything or he's gonna

Lucy Lotuslike kill me or something." I don't know. Yeah. But you knew that you knew that he was with Ari cuz like if you're in the know, like you know who

Lucy LotusAri is and she's beautiful and amazing and I'm obsessed with Can you find that maybe her IG and stuff, Nick? Yeah. And I I don't know if I saw Young Gravy and he was hitting on me, I'd be I'd immediately

Chloe YummyI've like been hooking up with him since I was 18. to like way before they were together, you know what I mean? Yeah. But they are together now and like everyone loves Ari. I Yeah. I mean,

Chloe Yummyshe's really pretty and great content creator. I think she's really cool and like honestly better than me and that's why he posts her all the time, but she

Chloe Yummythinks I'm ugly and like a horrible person. Wait, you're Are you're in contact with her or what? Well, he sent me a screenshot of like her message when

Chloe Yummyshe found out I said that we were hooking up on the whatever podcast and um she was like I can't believe like you

Chloe Yummycalled this [ __ ] fine like you or something and like I hate [ __ ] like this. Like she was Yeah. pretty mean but I think she's really pretty. Uh do you

Brian Atlashave it, Nick? You want to just pull it up? Okay. Yeah, we'll we'll take a look. burnt toe. Okay. Uh, scroll down. I guess. Okay. I think I've seen I've seen uh

Brian Atlasnext. I guess there's another one you said. Damn. What the [ __ ] She does only Oh, she does. She's OF. Okay. Uh, tab over. And then there's the You

Brian AtlasDo you have something else? Oh, the Okay. I have a Tik Tok, too. Sure.

Chloe YummyYeah. Yeah, that's fine. And you they like make content together. Yeah, a lot. And it's like going viral

Brian Atlasright now. Sure, we can pull it up. Just uh scroll. Is this hers or his TikTok? Oh, damn. Oh, she's got 4.5 mil on.

Brian AtlasOkay. So, they post Scroll down. Oh, damn. Okay. They're posting a lot together. All right. Well, we get the idea. Okay. So, that's her

Brian Atlaswith the boyfriend, Young Gravy, with the cool like the the big hair. The big hair. Uh, okay. And like, are you uh like still seeing the dude or what? I

Chloe Yummydon't know. What's the deal? I mean, I think he's really really mad at me for saying this, but I hope that we can like still hook

Chloe Yummyup because like you're literally the best I ever had. Like he made me square all over him. So what the [ __ ]

Lindsay LeeThis girl, you're going to be in trouble. Also, is every is everyone tested?

Brian AtlasUm, yeah, I'm testing. Stop it. Get some help. The audio sounds abnorm. I don't know why that is. Um, I'll have to take a look at it. Okay. Um, do you

Brian Atlashave a 80 usually? No, I usually just have it at the 100. Maybe something got boosted. Kind of weird. Okay. Uh so, um

Chloe Yummybut I mean, you're you said you're seeing two dudes. Yeah. My um So, like you can't be that mad cuz you're seeing another guy. Well, I'm not I'm not mad

Chloe Yummyat all. I like I said, I was like aware. I just wish I was like his main girl because obviously they're like blowing up. that would be great for me. Um, but

Chloe Yummyhe just always like hid me. Like we would go out together and like behind closed doors I would think like I'm his girlfriend and then he would bring me to like parties with him and like kind of

Chloe Yummypretend that I'm like I don't know a groupy or like some like his fan or something. Wait, but I mean did there wasn't a relationship like he didn't say that you're the girlfriend? Like he

Chloe Yummywasn't leading you on, right? Um, it was very confusing for me. I mean, I'm like I fall really hard easily and I thought that he like really cared

Chloe Yummyabout me until like he came out with Ari and he he was saying that he was like exclusive with me and like didn't tell

Brian Atlasme and then I saw like them all over my phone. So, all right. By the way, we have some super chats coming through that are you'll have to Can I ask a question? Go

David Patrick Harryfor it. So, the guy is dogsitting right now. What is the status on him? Like, what's the relation? Does he is he aware of all this stuff going on and he's just like sing and expecting you that maybe you'll like like him one day or like

Chloe Yummyhow's that dynamic? I do like him. He's very fine and cute and like he's literally so loyal. Like he doesn't follow any girls or on Snapchat,

Chloe Yummynothing. I saw you. Thank you, Cat, for the 50. Go ahead. Um, but he's like my best friend and like he also has really

Chloe Yummygood dink, too. Oh my god. And he's probably watching right now. He actually told me to say this about Young Gravy the first time. He was like, "You should just say that because that's really

Chloe Yummyinteresting." So yeah, he was aware interesting cuz we were like on and off during that time and now it's just I kind of like broke up with him but he

Shulastill like wants to be around and your dog. Yeah, he's in love with my puppy. So can I ask a really stupid question? Yeah. What's a milk?

Chloe YummyMilk. Mom, I'd like to f Oh, okay. just like older women like an attractive it doesn't be an older woman. I mean I'm a

Katarina Hammondmom. Oh, okay. Yeah, that's true. But I think Young Gravy was talking about older women especially. Wait, can I ask you a quick question? So, do you just like him for the fame or do you actually

Chloe Yummylike him? Cuz I know you said it would be really good for you to like blow up. Well, because of like how big him and Ari now, I'm like seeing how that would have been like really good for me, my

Chloe Yummyonly fans, you know. But um no, at first he I really liked him and like he was so cute in person and like we just connected and I don't know, I love like

Chloe Yummycountry guys and online he doesn't really seem that country but he is. So I thought that was cute. I don't know. I have a question.

Brian AtlasWell, I mean, it sounds like so they just have an open relationship because if they've been seeing each other for 4 months, you saw him, you said last Saturday. Yeah. Okay. Well, I don't

Chloe Yummyknow. I don't know what the details are, but I I don't think they have an open relationship. I think he's cheating and

Chloe Yummylike lying to her. Um, I'm really sorry. Sorry. Is this like for clout or something?

Chloe YummyLike I'm confused. Um, like I said, like my dude back home, he just said that I should say it cuz it's interesting. Um, so partially like yeah, it's for clout because they're blowing up right now and

Chloe YummyI have only fans and I that's how I make money. Oh, well then how do we know this? But how I mean it's that's what's happening in my life. I think it's interesting like everyone all my friends

Chloe Yummyknow and like have been around him a bunch like he was texting my best friend and saying that if I say another word about it that something's bad is going

Chloe Yummyto happen to me and like in Charlotte something's bad is going to happen to me and that he's going to get hackers to delete my account if I say anything. Are

Brian Atlasyou saying anything then girl? Oh yeah. Anyways, I think we spent enough time on it. Um, okay. Uh, question though, going back to everybody's like relationship status

Brian Atlashere and stuff. Well, what I was asking Chloe, a lot of people here are single. What does that actually mean though? Are you actually single? So, you said you've been single for one year, but are there currently any guys in the picture? Um,

Audrey (DT248)no, not really. I'm I talk to men, but I'm not trying to date, so I'm not pursuing them any further than that. So, I only talk or date when I'm trying to look for a relationship, and that's not currently what I want. I'm looking I'm

Audrey (DT248)more focused on my career, making money, taking care of my mom, stuff like that. Okay. Um, so there's has been no guys in the picture the past year. There's been guys in the picture, but nothing that

Audrey (DT248)I'm trying to be serious with and I let them know that right away. I don't want to hurt anyone. Okay. So, you've had like some more casual encounters. Yeah.

Brian AtlasOkay. Is there like a casual thing going on right now? Not currently. Not currently. Too much going on in my personal life. Okay. What about you? You said you're single, but are there any

Lindsay Leeguys in the picture currently? No. None? Nope. Zero? Nope. Okay. I got my cats. I'm That's all you need. All I need.

Brian AtlasPlus, with my profession, like I already get what I need. So, because of the the adult content, you are already Okay. Uh, what about you? Any guys in the picture?

Katarina HammondI have no guys on the roster right now. No guys. Nope. None. Not a single one. But you've been single for a year. I mean, there's not been even like a month, two months, anything. I mean, like, I was seeing a guy, but he didn't want anything serious. So, I don't

Katarina Hammondreally want to waste my time on someone who doesn't want anything serious. I see. Yeah. Okay. I have a couple guys on my roster. You got some You got a roster? That's what I'm looking for. No roster. Really?

Lucy LotusWell, but like what do you count on the roster? I mean like I don't take them seriously but yeah like I call them over having are you having carnal knowledge

Lindsay Leewith them? P in the V. Oh my god. Yes. Okay. P but not for work for recreation. Yeah. It's usually after the scene. So

Brian AtlasOh, you'll like the men you work with. You'll just for funsies. The ones I like. Yeah. But it's not there's not romantic component like you guys aren't dating romantic. It's like the BF. It's

Lindsay Leelike the boyfriend experience where like hell yeah, you know, there's no commitment but they give you what you need. You give them what they need. But so you do have a roster currently. How big is the roster? It's very

Lindsay Leeinconsistent. Tell us about the inconsistent roster. Okay. Uh well, shout out to Donnie Sins. I thought you were about to say young

Lindsay Leegravy. Like god damn [ __ ] What the [ __ ] Not my type. This guy's killing everything in LA. Definitely not. No. But shout out to all my great friends in

Lindsay Leethe industry who have participated in recreational fun after your So like three guys, four guys. Probably three right now. Three. Okay. Uh no guys on the ro. No roster. You

Brian Atlassaid you have a roster. How big is the roster? Um, I have two currently. Two currently. Okay. And I'm trying to get it to five. Trying to get it to five. Okay. And um

Lucy Lotusdo they do the two guys do they know about each other? Oh, yeah. Yeah. No, it's like it's like I'm pretty open about it. Like I'm like, "Hey, you know, you're for tonight.

Lucy LotusSee you next time for the next night." They don't need to know more than that. So they I mean like they know that I like see other people but I'm tested

Brian Atlasconstantly and so are they and are they in the industry or are they civilians? They're in the industry. Okay. I I pick and choose them wisely on, you know, the chemistry we have on set. Yeah. And so both of you guys both of you are in the

Brian Atlastraditional adult industry, right? You guys shoot traditional content, but you also do OF2, right? So that's your own stuff. Um, how long have you both been in the traditional adult content industry?

Lucy LotusGo ahead. Since October. Oh, so that's pretty new. Like when's that? Yeah, I've shot about 70 scenes. 70 scenes is. Yeah. How? With

Lucy Lotushow many how many different talent? Like Well, cuz you probably do multiple scenes with like the same guy, right? I've yeah maybe like one guy like four different

Lucy Lotusscene like three or four different scenes and then another guy I think I've done like two scenes but everyone else has been like new so maybe like 50 to 60 scene part different scene partners.

Lindsay LeeYeah. Okay. And you said eight months. What about you? How long you been in the industry? I've been full-time um since I quit my 9 to5 in 2022.

Lindsay LeeBut I was on and off. I tried quitting and came back and quit and came back. So, the money always brought me right back. Gotcha. Okay. How many uh scenes

Lindsay Leehave you done? Uh I'm over 250. I don't know. Yeah. Over 250. Okay. Gotcha. Um and like professional ones, but that's not collabs included. And your roster, you

Brian Atlassaid you have three people on the roster. Are they civilians or are they fellow uh workers in the industry? Industry. Industry people. Okay. Yeah. You can't trust the So, sorry. So, you've been in it for you said four four

Brian Atlasyears, 5 years. No, no, I've been full-time since 2022, but I was on and off since I was 21. Okay. And you're 29, so like eight eight years. About eight years. Yeah. But you've been like more active for the

Lindsay Leepast 3 years. Okay. Um, and during that time, have you dated civilians or do you only pretty much date? No. Yeah, I did date civilians. I was in relationships uh with two different people at two

Lindsay Leedifferent times uh while I was also in the industry and they at first were understanding, but then as time goes by, opinions change. They like the benefits of it in the three ways, but they don't

Lindsay Leewant to face the other part. And it's like, well, this is how we go to Cancun. This is how I pay your mortgage. Like, oh, so you'd be the provider. Oh, yeah. I've always been the I've always been the bread winner in every relationship.

Lucy LotusEvery relationship. Is that the case for you, too, or? No. No. No. I Yeah. No. I've had um I don't know. I was raised very traditional in a two parent home

Lucy Lotuswhere, you know, the man makes more money than the woman. And that's just how I was raised. And that's what I believe in. So, can I ask you guys a

Chloe Yummyquestion? Like, um like how much do you guys make? like it's a lot like per month or per year. You don't have to say of course, but I'm just curious.

Lindsay LeeIs it more than Only Fans or is it less than Only Fans? Well, we do. I mean, there's so many different platforms that we work under. So, there's a lot of ways to make money. I I definitely make more from doing the mainstream because then

Lindsay Leeit will bring an audience to my platforms. And so, that's why I kind of went full-time with that. Plus, if you are a good performer, like they will just keep bringing you back. So, yeah.

Lucy LotusSo, pretty good. Yeah. I'm not going to say an exact number, but I I do well listening. Just kidding. And how much time do you spend working? Like maybe per week like

Lindsay Leesometimes I don't work for two weeks, but like I will do four hours a day, maybe eight hours a day depending on what I'm doing. So,

Brian Atlasgood. That's great. Um, cool. Love that for you guys. Um, thank you. Going to Lucy in your notes. Um, you said you didn't choose this

Brian Atlascareer for money. You had money. You didn't choose the career for fame. Fame scares you. You chose your current

Brian Atlascareer. So, the adult entertainment industry because you're a sex addict. I'm so sorry to my family right now. Um,

Lucy Lotusyes. Wait, hold on. You're You're sorry for for the podcast. No, my family. If my family is watching this, I am so sorry. Um, yes. No, they don't

Lucy Lotusknow. Um, no, they're they're aware but ashamed. It's Oh, they're um uh rightfully so. Uh I um Yeah, what was the question? Sorry. What? So, you um

Brian Atlashave you you said you chose the career not for money, not for fame, but because you're a sex addict. That is correct. And have you ever always been a sex addict? cuz it's something new or it's

Lucy Lotusuh well like the exhibitionist side of me has always been um something in like

Lucy Lotusfrom a very young age just like being watched. Um, I found corn on a desktop

Lucy Lotuscomputer that my family had where my oldest brother was watching, I guess, or something, I don't know. And I went on there, didn't even really know how to do like even go to Google really, but it

Brian Atlaswas just popped up and I watched hours and hours and hours of it. I was like 8 years old. Yikes. Damn. And do you think that's the genesis or

Brian Atlasthe of the sex addiction was discovery of this content at a young age? Yeah, I know. I yeah, I think that

Lucy Lotusseeing someone being filmed in such a vulnerable state and showing like that transfer of energy of, you know, sexual

David Patrick Harryenergy between people, it just always really excited me and um yeah. So, okay. Can I ask you a question? Yeah. Yeah. So, it sounds like you're kind of morally you're a bit

David Patrick Harryconflicted because it sounds like you kind of appreciate the foundation that your parents offered you and your family. I had a great life. Yeah. And I was curious like do you think that your exposure to corn at 8 years old was a

David Patrick Harrynegative effect on you long term? Do you think this is what led into it? And I'm just curious cuz the way that you're framing everything, it sounds like you're like very morally conscious of what you're doing and choosing the opposite. I'm just curious on like that

Lucy Lotusdynamic that's going on inside you. Yeah. No, I mean it's a constant conflict in my brain like every single day. Um because it's only getting, you know, I'm only gaining more and more

Lucy Lotustraction which is like really cool in the industry because everyone wants that. Like they all chase the clout and they all chase that. But every single scene that I do, I'm like, "Oh, this is

Lucy Lotusanother scene that my whole family is going to disown me over." like which like which scene is going to be the one that I get fully disowned. And I don't know why I continue um to do it other

Lucy Lotusthan just the fact that I highly enjoy being on set and I highly enjoy what I do. Okay. And I feel good when I do it.

Lucy LotusBut when I get off of set, I think about, you know, my parents cuz they raised me my whole life. Do do you think that the exposure to corn at 8 years old

David Patrick Harryinfluenced this potential sex addiction that you have? 100%. 1000%. Yes. And do you feel like again content that you make even though this is feeding some type of addiction or pleasure uh

David Patrick Harrysatisfaction, do you ever think about how that may affect other children or imagine another 8-year-old potentially stumbling upon their older brother having your content up?

Lucy LotusMy take on that is everyone's going to stumble ac uh across it at some point and that's out of my control. Um and that is just the truth honestly. You're

Lucy Lotusgoing to see something uh you know that gets your blood rushing in that way in some way or another. And um that isn't my battle to fight. You know that's this

Lucy Lotusis just something I choose to do. And if someone chooses to watch it then someone chooses to watch it. But that's, you know, parents should maybe have controls on their on their computers and that's

Brian Atlasnot my battle to fight. Mhm. And Oh, did you have No, I was just like te Oh, I thought Okay. I thought you

Brian Atlaswanted to come in. Um, wait. So, I'm just curious on this. So, uh, at what

Lucy Lotusage did you start having sex? Um, I lost my virginity when I was 12. Yikes.

Brian AtlasIs that junior high? I was in middle school playing like I was playing Pokemon cards and [ __ ] [ __ ] game. Pokemon Red and [ __ ] Pokemon Blue and [ __ ]

Lucy LotusSome people grow up differently. I was like a little skater girl back in that day. Was it also a 12-year-old like it? Yeah, I was like all into skateboarding cuz my older brothers were

Lucy Lotuslike all into like dirt bike and like skateboarding and just like that kind of lifestyle. So, I got into that. They were a lot older than me. So, I was like, "Were they of legal age? I'm just

Lucy Lotuscurious." Um, the So, the first one that took your virginity? Um, he was in high school. Okay. Sophomore. Yikes.

Brian AtlasGoing around the table, I'm just curious. Uh, I guess at what age did you

Jordan (Adoption)lose your virginity? 17, 18, 18, 14,

Jordan (Adoption)12, 20, 20. Um, I'm not going to disclose that.

Brian Atlas18. Brian, 17. 17. Yes. Good times. Good talk. Wait. Okay, so hold on. We were talking about the roster. We kind of went down like a path

Brian Atlasthere. Um but uh you chose the career because of your uh being a sex addict and um

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