Elon Musk Has Baby With Whatever HATER?! Mason! Is She CRAZY?! VIRAL Mugshawty? | Dating Talk #228
Date: 2025-02-17
Duration: 7h 39m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_00TTS/Donations(audience)
SPEAKER_01Andrew Wilson (clip)(guest)
SPEAKER_02Bailey (Philly)(guest)
SPEAKER_03Alexa(guest)
SPEAKER_04Felicity Hughes(guest)
SPEAKER_05Ashley(guest)
SPEAKER_06Bailey Jane(guest)
SPEAKER_07News/TikTok Audio(audience)
SPEAKER_08Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_09Mason Gregoire(guest)
SPEAKER_10Elina(guest)
SPEAKER_12Ariel(guest)
SPEAKER_13Ashley St. Clair (clip)(audience)
SPEAKER_14Emily(guest)
Key Moments
00:00:13
IntroBrian Atlas introduces Dating Talk #228 with full show announcements
“welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast...I'm your host Brian Atlas”
00:04:40
IntroBailey Jane introduces herself: 25yo, Illinois, creative/reseller/rapper/inventor. Very mysterious about her income sources and inventions.
“my name is Bailey Jane I'm 25 and my occupation is a creative”
00:09:15
IntroFelicity Hughes introduces herself: 18yo from Santa Barbara, dental assistant and business student
“my name is Felicity I'm 18 from Santa Barbara”
00:10:20
IntroBailey (Philly) introduces herself: 23yo from Central PA, BSBA in marketing/international business
“hi I'm Bailey I'm 23 and I just got my bsba in marketing and international business”
00:10:50
IntroAriel introduces herself: 24yo (birthday yesterday), Arizona/Santa Monica, bartender/model
“my name is Ariel I'm 23 well I'm 24 now my birthday was yesterday”
00:11:36
IntroElina introduces herself: 20yo, originally from Russia, Philadelphia, business student
“my name is Elina I'm 20 years old I am originally from Russia but I currently live in Philadelphia”
00:12:00
IntroEmily introduces herself: 24yo, Western Washington, BA Psychology, CPS social worker, dropped out MSW due to wokeness
“my name is Emily I am from Western Washington I just turned 24”
00:12:43
IntroAshley introduces herself: 25yo, San Diego, lash/nail tech and barista
“my name is Ashley I'm 25 I don't go to school”
00:12:55
IntroAlexa introduces herself: 29yo, Silicon Valley, eVTOL company, BS Business
“hi I'm Alexa I'm the old one at this table I just had a birthday so I'm 29 now”
00:13:24
IntroMason introduces himself: 28yo, NEET, bachelor in mechanical engineering. Brian acknowledges he's a top recurring guest.
“my name is Mason I am 28 years old...right now I have no job I'm a failure at life”
00:18:22
Key MomentMason shares full story of catastrophic motorcycle accident on September 11 — grade-4 aortic tear, 50 days in hospital, 12 operations, coma until end of September, near-death multiple times. Doctors say he is the topic at medical conferences. Credits fitness and faith for survival.
“on September 11th I got in a really bad motorcycle accident...I had a grade for aortic tear...about 90% of people who get that die”
00:26:35
Key MomentAlexa tells the story of how she met Mason: slid into his DMs after watching him on the podcast, prayed he would message her, eventually met for 4 hours in coffee shop. She stayed with him at the hospital for 3 weeks during recovery.
“I think he was on the podcast...I slid into his DMS...she stayed with me at the hospital for 3 weeks”
00:33:45
QuoteMason reveals he is a virgin, saving for marriage. Cites statistics on how more partners correlates with lower marriage success rates.
“I'm a virgin um yeah never been with a lady...saving it for marriage...extremely important to me”
00:35:31
RelationshipRelationship status round: Bailey Jane (single 2yr), Felicity (2yr relationship), Bailey Philly (single 1.5yr), Ariel (5mo w/ girlfriend), Elina (4yr relationship), Emily (engaged 5yr8mo), Ashley (single ~1yr), Alexa & Mason (together, met through show)
“uh what is your current relationship status”
00:37:32
ControversyFelicity "Taylor Drift" car chase story: played news TikTok of her police chase in Camarillo, charged with assault with deadly weapon and evading police after striking a patrol car. On diversion program. Gained 13k Instagram followers.
“driver at the wheel is alleged to be Felicity Hughes of Camarillo”
00:56:35
ControversyBrian discusses Ashley St. Clair announcing Elon Musk's 13th child — notable because she previously begged to be on Whatever then said the show "sucks," and also called for Brian to be deplatformed from YouTube.
“she made a tweet on Valentine's Day...she has a love child with Elon Musk”
01:01:08
QuoteEmily on the Ashley St. Clair situation: "I am not surprised for the amount of sh*t that she talked hypergamy seems to be rampant these days anyway"
“I am not surprised for the amount of sh*t that she talked hypergamy seems to be rampant these days”
03:04:55
Key MomentBrian vs Elina debate: do female incels exist? Brian says vanishingly rare — any woman willing to try can find sex. Elina argues they do exist even if uncommon. Brian offers to personally help a femcel as proof. Emily provides data point about My 600lb Life.
“if a woman is extremely ugly you think that she can get sex from a guy who is also extremely ugly sure yes”
03:25:35
Key MomentSelf-rating round (1-10, no 7): Bailey Jane=10, Felicity=5, Bailey Philly=6, Ariel=8.5, Elina=6.9, Emily=5, Ashley=6.5, Alexa=6.9, Mason=6.9, Brian=5. Chat GPT rated Brian 5-7.
“Stiffler ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10 you can't pick seven”
03:38:49
Key MomentElina argues women shouldn't be drafted but should have a birth draft (forced childbearing during war). Brian points out this is more extreme than being pro-life. Elina says she leans pro-life and would support it in extreme circumstances.
“women shouldn't be drafted...they should still be drafted just for non-combat roles”
04:42:12
Key MomentPanel reacts to Andrew Wilson clip about male authority in marriage — "I don't care to have my authority questioned." Alexa and Mason both support concept of male headship while emphasizing respect.
“this is from our good friend Andrew Wilson we...let's react to this”
05:07:50
Key MomentExtended marriage debate: Brian anti-marriage (legal contract biased against men, women initiate 70%+ of divorces, divorce incentivized). Alexa pro-marriage (public declaration, burning boats). Mason: government shouldn't be involved, only the church.
“I don't think men should get married”
05:31:22
QuoteChat donation from Chris ($200): "41, make 2 million a year, not married to my girl...created a trust and gave her power of attorney...men who are winning and aware do not get married"
“men who are winning and aware do not get married”
06:48:45
ControversyBailey Jane claims she moved to LA because she psychically knew about the fires 5-6 years in advance, and believes most LA fires were arson/blue beams not climate change.
“I moved to LA 5 years ago because of the fires...I knew it wasn't going to be climate change”
07:05:45
QuoteBailey Jane explains she dated a guy who was Emperor Augustus reincarnated — same birthday as Augustus's father, visited Getty Villa and he pointed out the Augustus bust. Also dated Abraham Lincoln reincarnated.
“he was Emperor Augustus...my ex was Emperor Augustus in his past life”
07:37:28
OtherBrian closes the show, raids W Grandma on Twitch (83-year-old playing World of Warcraft retail)
“she is playing World of Warcraft retail it looks like there it is there's the raid shout out hello whatever guys she's 83”
Topics Discussed
00:00:13
Introductions & Show Announcements
Host Brian Atlas introduces the show, guests introduce themselves with name/age/location/occupation/education. Mason shares his motorcycle accident story and recovery. Alexa describes how she met Mason through the podcast.
00:35:31
Relationship Status Round
All guests share current relationship status, longest relationship, and how they met partners. Felicity reveals her car chase viral story / Taylor Drift mugshot. Ariel discusses her bi identity and long-distance relationship. Emily reveals her engagement.
00:56:35
Ashley St. Clair / Elon Musk Baby News
Brian discusses conservative influencer Ashley St. Clair announcing a child with Elon Musk. Panel reacts to hypergamy, single motherhood, Elon's prolific fathering, her penthouse apartment. Discussion of her requesting deplatforming of Whatever in the past after begging to be on the show.
01:20:25
Mental Health & Medication Disclosures
Guests go around the table sharing diagnoses and medications. Bailey Jane: ADHD/mild autism (unmedicated). Bailey Philly: PTSD, depression, anxiety, possible BPD (Zoloft). Alexa: PTSD (unmedicated). Emily: ADHD + PTSD (Adderall). Elina: none.
03:04:55
Female Incels (Femcels) Debate
Extended debate about whether female involuntary celibacy exists. Brian argues it is vanishingly rare (women can always get sex if they try). Elina argues it does exist. Alexa/Emily provide nuance. Brian offers to personally help a femcel as proof. Discussion of male vs female dating effort.
03:25:35
Self-Rating Looks & Peak Age
Guests rate themselves 1-10 (no 7). Bailey Jane: 10. Felicity: 5. Bailey Philly: 6. Ariel: 8.5. Elina: 6.9. Ashley: 6.5. Alexa: 6.9. Mason: 6.9. Brian: 5. Discussion of when each woman will be at peak attractiveness.
03:35:00
Questionnaire Round — Dating Opinions
Pre-show questionnaire covered: men should pay first dates, women's makeup for men vs themselves, women shouldn't be drafted, gender pay gap, body counts, marriage pros/cons, prenups, ambition in men, age gap relationships, racial dating preferences, height minimums, income requirements, bear vs man in forest, men are physically stronger, passport bros warnings. Bailey Jane's long notes read aloud by Alexa.
04:07:53
Racial Dating Preferences
Panel discusses racial dating preferences. Bailey Philly brings up Oxford study (Asian woman + white man). Brian states his preferences (white/Asian/Latina). Emily (mostly dated white, one Filipino/Black). Bailey Jane (gravitates to Black men/Hispanic). Elina doesn't care. Ariel doesn't have strong preference.
04:42:25
Andrew Wilson Clip Reaction
Panel reacts to viral clip of Andrew Wilson (not present, at NJ debate convention) explaining that he gives his wife what she wants but has final say and doesn't care to have his authority questioned. Panel discusses male headship in marriage — Alexa and Elina largely agree with submission in marriage.
04:54:53
Instagram Matchmaking & Rating Male Influencers
Brian shows photos of male friends/acquaintances (Zach, Felix, Kai, Speed, another) asking panel if they'd date them. Also rates male influencers including Asmon Gold.
05:07:50
Marriage Debate
Brian explains his anti-marriage position (legal liability, women initiate divorces, no fault divorce). Alexa and Mason defend marriage (commitment, public declaration, burning the boats). Emily discusses prenups. Chat donation from Chris ($200) agrees with Brian: men who are winning don't marry.
05:44:00
Body Count Round
Guests share body counts. Felicity: 2. Ariel: ~7 women, ~5 men. Bailey Jane: refuses. Bailey Philly: refuses exact. Elina: 2. Emily: refuses. Ashley: refuses. Alexa: refuses. Mason: 0 (virgin). Brian does test of asking single women if they'd hook up with him — all decline.
06:26:00
Bailey Jane Past Lives / Psychic Discussion
Extended discussion of Bailey Jane's claims: past lives, twin flames, Emperor Augustus reincarnated ex, Abraham Lincoln reincarnated ex, Dua Lipa as Augustus's twin flame, moving to LA guided by universe for fires, blue beam conspiracy fires. Emily and Brian push back on the math/logic. Roast session from chat.
06:53:28
Makeup Removal Segment & Roast Session
Makeupremoval: Alexa and Elina wipe makeup. Roast session from chat — mostly targeting Bailey Jane's psychic claims and Felicity's car chase. Various donations read including OJ Simpson, Michael Jones, Randy.
07:20:00
Show Close & Final Questions
Rapid-fire questionnaire answers. Final TTS roasts. Emily discusses real gender pay gap being in dating. Brian wraps show, raids W Grandma on Twitch playing World of Warcraft.
Transcript
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03:41:58
Elinaright and like the same as a war is an extreme situation that the humans going extinct that would also be an extreme situation so both of those require Extreme Measures like War requires
03:42:11
Elinadrafting them so so you are in favor of a birth draft if if humans are going extinct yes human well well what would be the point of the
03:42:21
Brian Atlasbirth draft the population is not at replacement rate no just it's like hey we're we're in times of war and let's say these countries that are at War know that they're going to be in a prolonged
03:42:33
Brian Atlaslike multi-decade conflict as some conflicts are um we need women to start birthing people today so that in 20 years 18 years we can field more more
03:42:45
Elinamale soldiers and more women to get pregnant yeah that's an extreme situation that requires Extreme Measures and I think I'd be down for that okay so you're in favor yes so you're against
03:42:56
Elinalike fe uh women's bodily autonomy I'm not against anyone's bodily autonomy I'm just are you pro-life or pro-choice um I don't have I still struggle with that
03:43:07
Brian Atlasargument because some but so just to be clear you could not get abortion if you were birthd drafted so this would be taking away a woman's choice so are you pro-choice or pro-life
03:43:19
ElinaI I well I lean more towards pro-life but I still have some you know some struggles with that argument I do lean more towards pro life so I would be in
03:43:28
Brian Atlasfavor a birth draft is a bit more extreme than like being pro-life I think well yeah of course that would be like compelling uh because being pro-life
03:43:40
Brian Atlasjust means you don't have access to abortions whereas in this case you're you're cuz woman can just choose to not get pregnant okay like you can move through
03:43:50
Brian Atlaslife as a woman absent like essay of course and like just I never want to get pregnant there's nothing that ever forces a woman to have sex get pregnant whatever but this is actually like going
03:44:00
ElinaA Step Beyond pro-life position which is like birth draft you have to try to get pregnant and give birth well in case of a war both genders are doing something
03:44:11
Brian Atlasextreme to help the country out so I mean think your Ally consistent so who else is in favor of the birth draft anybody any other ladies in favor of the
03:44:22
Emilybirth draft birth draft in the event of like in how about this we're kind of like overpopulated right now no that is actually quite opposite of the issue and that was actually going to be my next question is like if if if the basis is
03:44:34
Emilythat we're in a state of emergency I could argue that we very much are because our birth rate is not even remotely close to replacement it's a huge issue is another reason I'm sure around actually uh uh China the reason their country is going to crash is
03:44:48
Mason Gregoirebecause they don't have enough people being born their population is declining incredibly most of their population is too old I mean their economy is going to fall in the next what was it like decade
03:44:59
Emilybecause they don't have enough people coming from families they're also not balanced um by gender because of the because of the exactly so now you've got a bunch of men and not that many women
03:45:11
Brian Atlasand women are already super I didn't know that same with a huge issue it's it's seriously a critical issue it is kind of interesting though because all the argument I hear when it comes to the draft is like oh well the reason that is
03:45:23
Brian Atlasis because women are expected to Sur like we need to protect the women so that they can like repopulate or whatever um but it's interesting that like so women are not expected or forced
03:45:34
Brian Atlasto have children during war but that's the entire reason why they are protected to begin with but they won't do the thing they
03:45:43
Emilywere protected for them to do I I mean I would be interested to see like if we actually went into war sometime soon domestically anyways if
03:45:53
Brian Atlasthat would actually end up a birth draft no not like a birth draft but Oh you mean the military draft just to be clear I'm not in favor of a birth draft I'm not saying that you are just to be clear
03:46:06
Brian Atlasbut I'm it's just a interesting conversation to to have so uh but okay you're in you don't think women should be drafted but you're fine with the birth draft uh good good job Elina you're a Legend
03:46:18
Brian Atlasum I'm sure a lot of women are going to love you for that take um you said uh let's see uh if any girl gives you dating advice to spend as much time with your girl as you can and to go above and
03:46:30
Brian Atlasbeyond for just a regular girlfriend don't listen to her women like mystery whether we admit it or not so this is if a girl is giving a a male dating advice do you want to elaborate a little bit I need to get up I think a lot of men who
03:46:42
Elinahave female friends get really bad dating advice from female friends a lot of women say you should go above and beyond get her flowers on the first date like get her all these gifts and try to
03:46:53
Elinaimpress her that's that's their point I don't think a guy's goal on a first date should be to impress the woman I think it should be to get to know the woman and vet her out and see if she's a good choice for a long-term relationship or
03:47:06
Emilywhatever he's looking for to see if she's a good choice for him are you are you saying that the advice that you're referring to is spefic specifically for long
03:47:17
Elinalike obtaining a long-term relationship or is this it could go for anything even if the guy is not even looking for a long-term relationship he's not that type of guy um still it comes down to
03:47:28
Elinaattraction what women are attracted to most I would say yeah most women would not be attracted even if they say they would be to a guy who's just going all
03:47:39
Elinain like putting all of his effort in right away from the first date even if they say they do a lot of the time deep down subconsciously it can be a turnoff because it takes away an aspect of
03:47:50
Alexamystery that they're seeking in in a partner I think it's also not necessarily a piece of mystery it's it's anything that's a it's it's anything too available seems a little too good to be
03:48:03
Alexatrue so it starts putting off alarm Bells cuz it's if someone's coming up and they're giving you everything right off the bat people admire things they've had to put a little effort into so it's that thing of not being too available also
03:48:15
Mason Gregoiredon't suffocate the person like 30 Texas why do you think ladies generally like real Gucci bags they're harder to get they're more expensive they're more desirable instead of a fake Gucci bag which anyone could get really cheap very
03:48:27
Mason Gregoireaffordable You' easily get it it's not so much the mystery aspect to it I definitely think it is the like it's hard to get so it's it's when you're
03:48:37
Mason Gregoiredating a guy who's like this is this is a guy that other women would want because he is hard to obtain he is very picky he's very particular and when you do get him it's like it's essentially
03:48:50
Mason Gregoireyou being able to show him off oh sorry Mr microphone but yeah it's essentially showing them off yeah and when a guy is doing something like that right off the bat especially on the first date for you you know that he's doing that for every
03:49:03
Elinagirl so you're not even special you know what I mean if you meet a guy and he's kind of you know laid back at first and then once you become more serious with him he starts to put on put in more effort then you you know that you're
03:49:15
Elinaactually special because he's willing to put in that effort for you if he does that for anybody it's it's not special you know and we're talking about like just in the beginning of a relationship yes just in the beginning I
03:49:29
Elinamean do you expect to be treated like you're special in the beginning of your relationship like first date you expect to be treated like because he doesn't know me yet so he doesn't know if I'm special for him you know I could just be
03:49:39
Emilya regular girl like he doesn't know me so why should I get special treatment well then I guess why is the argument against you know being you know showered
03:49:50
Emilywith gifts and whatever that you don't feel special I'm just trying to work that out I'm not necessarily disagreeing with you I'm just trying to work that out no the argument is not that she doesn't feel
03:50:01
Elinaspecial I mean that's what you just said maybe I misunderstood but did I did anyone else understand it that way I'm a little bit confused because my
03:50:12
Elinapoint is um she's not going to feel less special if he doesn't do that she's going to be more attracted to him if he doesn't put in a bunch of effort right off the bat well he's not she's more attracted to him because he he could
03:50:25
Mason Gregoirepick from a bunch of women who are definitely attracted to him there's like the maybe there's no woman who are definitely attracted to him like uh when I went on my first date with Alexa like uh there weren't like billions of women pouring themselves into my DMs like
03:50:38
Mason Gregoirethrowing themselves at me she was pretty much the only one so like uh but the thing is it it's showing knowing that um I'm not going to like throw myself away because I want to be with you no I have
03:50:51
Mason Gregoiresome standards so generally women want to see a man with standards someone who's going to hold strong in what they believe what they like they're being
03:50:59
Mason Gregoireability to provide protect um and stand for their morals like having those lines um so when it comes like the first few dates a woman wants to see a man who is
03:51:12
Mason Gregoirelike holding themselves back and initially really seeing is this someone who I want to be with and eventually like once you make that decision once
03:51:21
Brian Atlasthat decision is come to um I'm going to open myself up to you but yeah really quick we're going to get into a couple things here really quick just shout out for cash app Kyla thank you so much for
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Brian Atlasthe 10 on cash app Kyla that's my best friend I know for sure shout out to you KY what's up thank you so much W's in the chat for Kyla thank for the 10 over
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Brian Atlasthere on cash app guys venmo cash app whatever pod if you want 100% of your patronage to go towards us guys like the video uh let's see here we're GNA pull
03:51:54
Brian Atlasup the photos but then did you get that private chat Damian yeah that was my rating some uh
03:52:04
Brian AtlasCJ yo shout out to CJ he's a new mod shout out to him he sent me my chat GPT chat GPT raided me
03:52:15
Brian Atlasboom it's kind of yeah let's see it let's [ __ ] this make it bigger based on General online discussions Brian Atlas would likely receive an average rating of 5 to7 out
03:52:27
Brian Atlasof 10 from women on a 1 to 10 scale breakdown looks six to S he's tall decent facial features but not a universally recognized
03:52:38
Brian Atlasheartthrob personality four to six some find him confident and assertive others see him as overly confrontational not wrong there status
03:52:49
Brian Atlasand success six to oh 6 to8 host of a popular podcast financially stable but not on the level of billion yeah no [ __ ] kind of hilarious but not on the level
03:52:59
Brian Atlasof the world's you know that's a 10 no nobody's on the level um Public Image polarizing due to his podcast that's fair content final four to six for the
03:53:11
Brian AtlasPublic Image final estimate women who like his confidence impos oh s to eight okay this is total women who dislike his approach hey I you know what I'll take
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Brian Atlasit 4 to five what's up I'll take it General average around oh my goodness okay okay chat JP you know what we got to do grock though I think they got grock 3.0 beta that just Dro uh let's do
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Brian Atlasthe age age [ __ ] do we have how many batches Damian we got one for age and one for Gen okay perfect we'll do that and double uh afterwards double check the Discord see if there are any other
03:53:46
Brian Atlasbatches but I'm sure yeah let me know if you see any so this is a age thing damn okay what's up
03:53:57
Bailey Janeum I like it it's like three steps I like when did you guys are beding or something I already knew it was going to do me really wrong she's blind in her right eye what the [ __ ] they [ __ ] you
03:54:08
Felicity Hughesup it CHS some mil next I look like George Washington whoa oh you actually okay you look like the lunch lady I'm
03:54:18
Brian Atlasscared I don't want to see it okay nice next oh wait hold up bro wait hold up you
03:54:29
Brian Atlaswent from Asian to Native American my goodness that's kind of hilarious Navajo I wonder if I'm going look like my mom Navajo uh
03:54:41
Emilynext okay oh wow oh my goodness all right not bad I feel like they did you really dirty with that one especially I don't know I mean okay anyways
03:54:54
Brian Atlasnext goodness that's yikes so red that is that's rough that's okay
03:55:05
Emilynext I you know a little tiny bit I look like my grandma the middle
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Mason Gregoiretiny oh okay Daddy not bad not too bad abua are you are you Mexican yeah Abita
03:55:22
Brian Atlaswhat is it AB Abita Abita okay there you go next oh okay wait
03:55:35
Brian Atlashonestly all right
03:55:41
Brian Atlasnext that picture is so funny you still have a it hates those girls yes look like oh boy let's see what about
03:55:52
Brian Atlasnext dark cavia did we no dark cavia okay next oh this is the gender so here's here's the question here's the question right with with the gender with the
03:56:03
Brian Atlasgender change do you date are you willing to date the male version of you if he looks like a Master Chief from Halo yes well it it's right here that's no but I feel
03:56:15
Brian Atlaslike realistically I would look more like Master Chief from Halo but don't ask me you would be in a green you would be like 6900 lb super muscular oh I don't know I didn't see that [ __ ] so anyways it doesn't matter okay how about this would
03:56:28
Emilyyou would you date this guy no you went and date them no okay next did you turn the B cut I look like my
03:56:40
Brian Atlasdad like you're in a boy I feel like you have to say no you date uh so in the middle it's just no beard uh the other one's with the beard cuz some people they just got your bangs and that looks
03:56:52
Felicity Hugheslike my dad I could never date that person cuz Okay so no no would not date okay next oh that's kind of hilarious no wait
03:57:03
Brian Atlasthat's that did a good job actually honestly like the you wouldn't do it why not that's scary that's your looks equivalent no that's your looks
03:57:12
Emilyequivalent okay no damn best one so far I feel like yeah that's pretty good yeah not bad I know a guy that looks kind of like him but as long as I would say no you haven't seen my friends do do you
03:57:25
Bailey (Philly)have a type like you dat Asian guys I haven't but I've only dated one person you've oh you been in one relationship but well what about like smashing bats I probably
03:57:37
Brian Atlasnot not really like have you had like a one night stand or like a fling or friends with benefits no okay all right next she wouldn't Sho that's a decent
03:57:47
Ariellooking dude I look like my brother let's go looks like my brother oh my God he's probably watching it now would you date sorry would you date one
03:57:57
Arielof my brother no one of these guys one of those dudes dude lowy you're good looking you're good looking dude that's a good looking guy right there n okay next cuz it looks like my brother would
03:58:09
Brian Atlasfreak me out I date the guy version Look at you okay thank you a little hard on the filter on the the left though that's not even like one of those dolls also she's got you got blue eyes or what
03:58:20
Brian Atlascolor eyes no I don't have blue eyes to have they you a porn stash into the mic would you date no would well sure
03:58:29
Brian Atlaswould you date smash anything date only but not smash like an asexual yeah okay all right but he's not
03:58:39
Emilyhot enough to just smash I don't do that okay okay if you say so Lena uh next oh my goodness shut up that also looks like my
03:58:49
Emilybrother absolutely not brother e okay to my buds at home that looks like Ben okay
03:58:57
Emilydid you hit no absolutely not ecept my brothers are B so all right next I
03:59:04
Ashleydidn't know that oh that's did they take the do you absolutely not absolutely not damn that's CRA hair hair the hair the
03:59:15
Emilyhair is pretty bad uh next oh wait this actually kind of looks like a little bit the middle off it's like Ryan
03:59:30
Brian AtlasGosling would date me with the beard yeah for sure would you I think you are would you know right would would you yes I I would go out I would go out with him there you go
03:59:41
Brian Atlasall right next it's a handsome guy oh dude this picture what happed got him look like a drag queen that's a lot
03:59:54
Mason Gregoirelike that's not a that's not a trans one that's right there okay no no no dark havia do you SM hly it look like my
04:00:06
Arielgoodness [ __ ] she says no she says no next sorry dude dude good you look like going to complain at the restaurant he's going to definitely talk
04:00:19
Brian Atlasto the manager it's not fair look I know I'm a little chubby right now but man you added 20 lb on her bro few pounds yeah you added 30 lbs on her I'm I'm a little chubby I know it but man you made her fat bro that's crazy okay next
04:00:32
Arielthat's it that's it oh that's it okay that is it wow that's great wait you never see I don't know I feel like you got rid of the beard no I wouldn't I guess hey [ __ ] what the fu wait what is that called female what we
04:00:43
Arieltalking F what if that was your F wait what she's not chopped I could pull 10 people out of my phone would I like actually ignore the question I don't know I have like the thought and
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TTS/Donationsthen I said it I'm like you know what okay good Talk's we have a message coming in Michael Jones donated $200
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TTS/Donationsthan CH GPT is wrong Brian you're a 10 never downplay yourself King also some of these women are delusional
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Brian Atlasask them to collectively name 16 countries to each Michael Jones okay we can do that starting with you two
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Bailey Janecountries and you can't repeat two oh only two yeah two okay um Japan and China yeah can you tilt your mic down just a little bit Felicity what
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Bailey (Philly)about you uh Spain and Greenland uh Greece and Vietnam dang it I was going to say
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ArielGreece um country countries
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Arielyeah um it's don't I know a lot of country guys um okay Venezuela and
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Arielum come on wait no wait Venezuela and Brazil Switzerland La Iraq
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ArielIran Israel Mexico Iceland Cuba oh that was 16 I think it was just for the women I want to name
04:02:17
Brian Atlascontinents that's what that's what I was thinking in my head yeah um let's get oh we have another one here from Whatever Whenever question for the table is
04:02:27
Brian Atlasambition in a man attractive if yes why if not if no why not are you ambitious and do you think it makes you attractive love to this podcast yo thank you so much for the uh message man really
04:02:37
Brian Atlasappreciate it W's in the chat for him uh so is ambition in a man attractive if if yes why if no why not of course
04:02:48
Bailey Janeum because if he's not I mean for me personally I'm working towards a lot of things so if who I'm with is not then I yeah it's definitely just a turnoff cuz I'm doing it so I feel like he's the guy
04:03:01
Bailey Janeand if anything he should be even more ambitious than me we're about the same sure uh yes I like someone who wants to be successful
04:03:12
Arielokay I have agree I think if he's goal oriented I I like that uh I also agree uh just cuz I have a lot of goals and I want you to have a lot of goals and we can work on our
04:03:24
Elinagoals together so yeah I think it's one of the most attractive things is ambition because it shows that he's willing to work towards his goals and I am ambitious but I don't think it makes me that much more
04:03:35
Emilyattractive yeah of course I like an ambitious man um especially with inflation these days um I I mean I think it shows that they have the ability to
04:03:46
Emilyeven if they might lack in other areas like intelligence or skill in some capacity that they still have some motivating factor that can drive them forward because sometimes that can you
04:03:58
Emilycan outperform someone who might be more intelligent than you but less ambitious and less disciplined um I I do think that my am I am very ambitious I do think that it does to some extent make
04:04:08
Emilyme more attractive but only because it's in the context of modern dating Western Society where a woman if she isn't to some extent ambitious then she's more
04:04:21
Emilylikely to be a burden um but I'm also coming from the perspective that I don't want kids so neither does my partner I think yes my man should be ambitious and I think because I have big
04:04:34
Ashleygoals and I would want him to have also big goals and if we want to have a family someday I feel like that needs to if he wants to be the provider of the family which I would hope so who needs to have some ambition okay yeah
04:04:46
Alexaabsolutely I think ambition is something that I I mean I graduated high school at 16 I work in Tech like I I want someone who has goals and aspirations they don't necessarily have to be equivalent to
04:04:58
Alexamine but I think ambition doesn't necessarily always have to mean something monetary I just want to see someone who wants to live the most fulfilling life so that that that to me I do like someone who says I want to
04:05:09
Brian Atlasmake the most of today okay uh I'm going to get into the other show notes Here we have going back to Alina you said dating is difficult because gender roles are upside down making it harder for men and women to
04:05:23
Elinaunderstand each other's needs do you want to elaborate well I mean the gender roles are upside down um women a lot of the time act more dominant and um in
04:05:34
Elinarelationship dynamics that can demasculate the man and make him feel um kind of powerless and uh puts him in a position where where he submits and to
04:05:45
Brian Atlasthe woman and that makes him unattractive to the woman and the relationship usually falls apart okay uh and then final thing from
04:05:55
Brian Atlasyou you said passport Bros men beware of these chicks man why why should why be aware of these chicks because uh I understand being a passport bro I
04:06:07
Elinaunderstand their reasoning for it but I think a lot of um girls who are in these Nation that these men are going to they're also aware very much aware of what a passport bro is wait what is a
04:06:18
Elinapassport bro sorry I don't know it's someone who it's a man usually from the western side of the world who goes to the other side um looking for a long-term partner a woman who has more
04:06:30
ElinaTraditional Values than maybe a lot of his options in the west and I understand the reasoning for that but a lot of these women are aware again of what that is and they are looking to take
04:06:41
Elinaadvantage of some of these Western men and um you know a lot of them are very good at selling the man Purity and um
04:06:51
Elinayou know just selling him the dream kind of and then he's like okay she she's attractive she's feminine she seems traditional let me take her home to my mom next thing you know they get married
04:07:03
Elinanext thing you know she's like I need green card I need money so you know he's getting taken advantage of and that's exactly what he was trying to to prevent in the first place so I think
04:07:15
Elinathere has to be a time period of vetting the women out and to really figure out what they're about before you commit to her yeah it's a fair point there's
04:07:25
Brian Atlasdefinitely a lot of people looking to uh perhaps take advantage of a guy get the green card get the citizenship whatever
04:07:33
Brian Atlasit is um so yeah and then they switch up they come to America or whatever become
04:07:41
Brian Atlasa feminist real quick with quickness so uh let's see we have uh Bailey you wanted to talk about Asian interracial dating stereotypes internal racism maybe
04:07:53
Bailey (Philly)what do you mean by that um just like I feel like it's um like one side or the other like there's the Oxford study if you guys know what that is yeah like Asian woman white asian woman white yes
04:08:05
Bailey (Philly)so there's either that or to the other end of the spectrum there's like um like you think of men who kind of like fetish fed hello um women from Asian countries
04:08:18
Bailey (Philly)um so it's like kind of just those stereotypes are where I just wanted to discuss like not having Middle Ground I guess m i mean um are you do you have a
04:08:28
Brian Atlaspreference of your own when it comes to dating uh no not really okay um you said you've had like some shorter
04:08:38
Brian Atlasterm relationship or like hookups or sneaky links or anything like that sure was there a pattern were they white
04:08:49
Bailey (Philly)not really it was kind of a mix more more so okay not Asian or not black so I guess I'm proving the theory but but
04:08:58
Alexalike still like I I don't know I just want to discuss because do you think do you oh go ahead I was going to say do you think it's fair that as there's a
04:09:08
Bailey (Philly)lot of Asian girls that will not date an Asian guy um no but like I don't have a good I know I like I obviously understand that but I
04:09:19
Bailey (Philly)think everyone has if if they want to admit it or not has their own preference um so I think that's just and like specifically in the US growing around um
04:09:30
Bailey (Philly)the traditional media here or who do you see in Hollywood who do you who do young kids of maybe Asian descent look up to it's predominantly you know white actors
04:09:40
Bailey (Philly)uh White actresses singers those type of things so I think you know when people are thinking about that um that that's why they gravit gravitate towards
04:09:52
Brian Atlastowards them I mean but there's been an increasing amount of Asian representation in various films and especially in the music industry you see this with like K-pop J-pop like this sort of thing I mean pretty much anytime
04:10:03
Mason GregoireI watch TV and I see a white man who's like a dad they paint him as like an idiot he's just stupid so like an older white guy like he's painted as dumb but
04:10:16
Brian Atlasas far I guess as far as like the race thing goes so you said like you've Pro youve have you dated like uh Latino guys uh no cuz I I mean technically is
04:10:26
Bailey (Philly)I've only ever been with like three people so oh you're talking body count no no no no oh body count higher than
04:10:34
Bailey (Philly)three mm- oh she's just G out with I'm yeah you and it's like who like I you know kind of yeah I don't know how to
04:10:44
Brian Atlasexplain it like accepted you know when they talk to me I like they initiated reciprocate yes but have you had men from other races like Asian black latino
04:10:55
Bailey (Philly)they've hit on you yes and you're just not feeling it or I think I mean I'm more of a I know this cliche but a
04:11:04
Bailey (Philly)personality person um so I guess I'd have to know them and I I'm also the type person that doesn't really put
04:11:12
Bailey (Philly)herself out there like that so that's also my issue um so I used to have them but I would never respond people would
04:11:23
Bailey (Philly)message me and it was more so just I guess an ego boost but also like I wouldn't want to respond because I don't know just being like self-conscious and
04:11:32
Bailey (Philly)like not wanting to I guess pursue a long-term relationship maybe from off of that but that's also of the you said there's like three guys you've been
04:11:43
Brian Atlasinvolved with in varying different different ways uh how did you meet them was it ever any of them from a dating app or no no okay so it's like in person or friends or
04:11:55
Brian Atlassomething um hm does anybody here have like racial dating preferences like you prefer to date like white guys black guys white and black mixed whatever
04:12:07
Brian Atlasanybody we can go around the table here I'll start if you guys feel like it's like oh I can't uh like for me primarily uh white asian and Latino women I'll
04:12:17
Brian Atlasdate a black girl I just don't think black girls you know I'm too to I'm too I'm not you know I don't have I don't have that you
04:12:27
Emilyknow I mean what the [ __ ] I get it but yeah it's like white asian Latina and that's
04:12:36
Emilyit I mean I I I certainly find a wide array of people attractive although I do find that I've I've only ever
04:12:48
Emilydated of of all of the people I've dated almost all of them have been white except for a Filipino guy and a black guy and everybody else has been white but I you know i' I was 18 and I'm still
04:13:00
Brian Atlasin this relationship I don't know if it be the same now what about you you you prefer black guys white guys
04:13:08
Bailey Janeum black guys um I've think I've been with as many Hispanic guys as black um
04:13:18
Bailey JaneI've dated every almost every race I feel like now but I I know that most of my soul mates just have been black so maybe that's why I gravit towards that
04:13:29
Bailey Janemore because I feel like my child will be so that's like the only reason more of like um you want child no no I said I feel like I've already had this like I'm
04:13:40
Bailey Janea psychic kind of but I feel like wait you're a psychic kind PS psychic kind of kind of what do you mean kind of like I am but I'm not the ones that like actively try to do it comes to you yeah
04:13:52
Brian Atlasand I try to push it away and then I can't what has come to you about me not not like not not like that but just like I don't know you're like yo Brian tomorrow you're going to
04:14:05
Brian Atlastrip on a banana peel like some [ __ ] like that you know um what what have you detected nothing yet other than some spiritual things but I don't want to Spirit oh it's it's too it's too heavy
04:14:16
Brian Atlasit's too deep not a little bit you know what I'm also kind of a psychic and I actually I have a perfect read on you because that [ __ ] it doesn't just come to me son like that [ __ ] is constant
04:14:27
Brian Atlasit's not like intuitions it's like I know your [ __ ] future lady you ready for this [ __ ] no here's what's going to happen you are
04:14:40
Brian Atlasgoing never mind um anyways I don't even know you here here's what's going to
04:14:45
Brian Atlashappen you are going to meet a Charming man named Gustavo Charming oh you know and you're going to meet him in
04:14:56
Brian Atlasa uh what's it called Salsa Salsa class salsa class and he's going to grind up on you a little bit and that's going to excite you in a way that you haven't been excited in a minute son because
04:15:08
Brian Atlasyou've been you've been a bit repressed sexually I can feel the like I can feel that sexual depression and this this [ __ ] guy is going to grind up on and just talk to you whisper in your ear like little little Spanish a bit Spanish
04:15:21
Brian Atlasshe's going to be like Mamita and you're going to be like narcissist dude I'm seeing this like beaming light like just like I literally see it do you see that [ __ ] yeah bro Ariel's she's also she's a
04:15:33
Brian Atlasclairvoyant over there she know she knows this [ __ ] and then but here's the thing right he's going to be um deported but it's crazy it's crazy he's going to be deported but that's not going to that's not going to stop your
04:15:46
Brian Atlaslove you're going to go visit him in Venezuela you're going to don't stop there you're going to go visit him and then but you find out he's got two other chicks and he's got like a family there but you still trying to [ __ ] so then
04:15:59
Brian Atlasyou're going to have I still want it because I I need wait I'm not done hold on you need get the rest of it chill out bro so okay you're going to go to V Venezuela you're going to chase him inv and then you get pregnant but here's the
04:16:11
Brian Atlascrazy part this is a really bad reading cuz hold on hold on you get pregnant in Venezuela they going to deport you though you get deported back to the
04:16:23
Bailey JaneUnited States and then um D that's your life and then you die I'd be surprised if even I would be surprised if even one of these things come true honestly one
04:16:31
Bailey Janeof the things next man she meets is name watch it CU that sounds too much like gason and that's already right flag so already I'd be like no thanks yes I also
04:16:43
Brian Atlashave intuitions about the other women oh no Felicity Felicity I hope some of these are actually you're going to actually be a congresswoman and your life's going to
04:16:54
Brian Atlasgo cool to uh to Bailey Bailey number one I hope he gets that's right you got
04:17:01
Brian Atlasdowngraded to Bailey number two Bailey number one you are going to hold on let me I need to look deep I need to look
04:17:11
Bailey (Philly)deep in your eyes deep keep in your contact color contact eyes wait what I'm not wearing are you are you color no everyone thinks I am but I can pull up my 23 and me these are my real those
04:17:24
Brian Atlasreal those are too yeah they actually have wa hold wait wait wait you're not wait you're 100 uh what's your ethnicity 100% Chinese or I should have had people guess because
04:17:36
Bailey (Philly)people get it wrong wait hold on hold on hold on I'm a psychic I'm getting some intuitions here you are your mom and dad still together no so going back to the one child policy
04:17:47
Brian AtlasI was actually adopted from China wow oh so wait do you know you're have you taken like a DNA thing 23 and me 23 of me and you got you got 100% Chinese mhm
04:17:59
Brian Atlaswow yeah I can pull it up if you don't believe me you sure you didn't have like a friend of yours spit in that tube I'm positive so you
04:18:10
Brian Atlasgot 100% Chinese yeah there might be you're not wearing color contacts no and your your eyes are like 're hazel Hazel mhm and you're 100%
04:18:21
Brian AtlasChinese yes wait C can we google this is this I could it could be a it might be a thing but like 100% Chinese you can have
04:18:30
Brian Atlascolored eyes yeah is this yeah yeah the thing cuz I'm like you you were adopted mhm
04:18:43
Bailey (Philly)cuz you you sure you took a DNA test yes I actually took 23 me twice cuz because you were doubting no because I wanted to
04:18:52
Brian Atlasdo the medical one there was a Oh dope um cuz I was about to say like what's the your mom might have [ __ ] a Whitey I'm just saying bro I
04:19:03
Brian Atlasdon't know it's crazy son it's not what the DNA says your mom was white and your definitely Chinese dad bucked your white mom what the [ __ ] I don't know what them
04:19:16
Brian Atlasridiculous um is it a thing though can we did you Google that uh it seems like can oh you
04:19:23
Brian Atlaswant it yeah can yeah is it just Google can Asian people have like anybody yes it's like jeans it's a mutation within
04:19:34
Alexayour um eye color it is very rare though you know that's cool I didn't know that do you do you know that famous photo of that girl she's like half girl with the water crystal blue eyes MH wait but she
04:19:45
Brian Atlashold on but I don't think Afghans are Asian no no no but I'm just saying it's like it's such a rare thing to have within that oh but I I know that like there's
04:19:57
Brian Atlaslike white people in Middle Eastern countries like I'm pretty sure Afghanistan I know the picture you're talking about the girl who has like the sorry the thing and she's [ __ ] super intense and from
04:20:10
Brian Atlasthe '90s or some [ __ ] yeah I know what you're talking about that's why that was so famous is cuz like no she no one in her family has really that it's I thought there were groups weren't there I thought there was groups of people in
04:20:20
Brian AtlasAfghanistan that are like have light colored eyes though and it's not like I whatever I don't know saying that it's rare it's rare that's cool okay um how oh I was doing
04:20:34
Brian Atlaspredictions oh I don't even know how I got to that that's crazy you are GNA be married good to an an Asian man but then
04:20:47
Brian Atlasyou're that might be my journey then you're going to divorce him maybe that's my journey as well you're going to divorce him and then you're at 23
04:20:56
Brian Atlassomehow you're going to become an Olympian in the bob sled oh so you should start you should probably get on that I have a family member who helped out with the Olympic Bob flooding the
04:21:07
Felicity Hughesone year you knew dude it's real that's crazy though I actually
04:21:13
Brian AtlasI might actually be a psychic bro that's Ariel over here is going to marry Taylor Swift um no Al yes you you would
04:21:26
Brian Atlashave F you you would have mess with Taylor what's your type like chicks I feel like you like thickies like a thicky icky I'll take a sh like a baddy like what's your type in a girl you like
04:21:37
Ariellike a fat ass well let's let's get into it like just [ __ ] I honestly just like women like who are like pretty to me I'm more like personality I don't know but when it comes to looks like
04:21:48
Brian Atlaslet's say the personality is dope but if you had a pick like are you want you want like kind of a '90s heroin Chic thing going on or do you want like like
04:21:59
Brian Atlasmy girlfriend now has like Curly like long pretty hair is she we white she is more masculine is she a white girl black girl she is white okay white but curls
04:22:09
Brian Atlasyeah okay is she um stacked she's pretty ripped she's no stacked oh like stacked you
04:22:20
Arielknow what I mean nah she's not B she's not okay but i' I've been with I've been with a variety of women and I do not have a type no type n when it comes to I got to ask because I'll take a big old
04:22:32
Brian Atlasbooty that's fine with me no I was going to ask um cuz I always like to ask like by women or like lesbian women when it comes to um
04:22:43
Brian Atlaslike do you do you have a preference with the laia like you prefer Ines or outies probably an innie um that's whack
04:22:55
Brian Atlasbro you're not you're not down for the cause big Leia matter all right that was cringe all right um I hated that
04:23:05
Brian AtlasAlina what kind of labia do you like in women oh my whatever she got no okay uh chat should I do some more um I don't
04:23:15
Brian Atlasknow I'll do the rest later I guess cuz it's it's getting real um we have what what were we going to do we were talking about wait Brian where are you from what race we where am I from yeah like where
04:23:25
Brian Atlasare you from well I'm technically African-American cuz I was born well hold on my dad was born in Africa North Africa okay and my mom was
04:23:35
Brian Atlasborn in America but like where did you grow up at where grow up from I grew up in the Mean Streets of Santa Barbara let's go Mean Streets of s yeah I grew up I was going to say like I was going
04:23:47
Emilyto say you're like from like Minnesota or something I don't know why how you going to throw me in with those cheese people man that's crazy wait just just to interject real fast on that note uh I did look at your merch shop and you
04:24:00
Emilydon't have any of these so I made you one and I thought maybe it's more for me but I thought it was hilarious africanamerican wait here let me do this what does the thing say it's like afrian
04:24:11
Brian Atlasam on a tech on a technicality I like it I'm going to I'm going to you know what I'll have you design some other things too bigia
04:24:20
Brian Atlasmatter I actually on that also my God no way in two different sizes wow yeah there you go that's dope thank you you're so welcome that's awesome here
04:24:31
Brian AtlasI'll pull it up to the camera uh I really enjoy doing that that's wonderful it's a good time you're very talented you should start a Polaroid
04:24:43
Brian Atlasthat's dope um wait okay where I don't know where I was I don't know we were talking about race and dating race like our types we were going around on the race thing wait what I think we did that
04:24:55
Emilythough I think we're done with that we going wait didn't you only go I don't know yeah only did I ask Felicity no yeah no do you have a type wait I don't think you answered she didn't go did she
04:25:07
Brian Atlaseven did you even answer there's only like two of us oh I'm so conf and then he started doing the readings I got EXC I got a little excited autism was going on the dude
04:25:18
ArielTaylor Swift huh oh that's right Taylor Swift are you more like Sabrina Carpenter no no what about more like like kaani oh okay K okay I see you I
04:25:29
Brian Atlassee you what about that girl she's from South Africa do you know I'm talking Tyler T Ty oh Tyler Tyler gosh yeah or like siza Sia
04:25:42
ArielI who the [ __ ] is that guy I don't know who dude what are you 50 years old SZ just performed at the Super Bowl I'm 69 all
04:25:53
Brian Atlasright um yeah okay good talk good talk uh let's see here we need to we're I don't know inter oh Asian interracial dating stereotypes um did you say who you would
04:26:05
Felicity Hughesdate though like your type or whatever yeah ficity uh like who what's my type and yeah like black white guys Latina don't have a type no I don't have
04:26:15
Brian Atlasa type but my current boyfriend is white white guy okay uh you said white girls I think Alina white if I was single I wouldn't have a race preference is your
04:26:26
Alexauh your boyfriend though is he white guy yes okay mine's white Ashley pref do you have my white boys white boys okay Alexa oh I'm I'm a fan of it all I actually like here's the funny thing I I have a
04:26:37
Brian Atlasthing for like half white half asian and so he actually is part Asian there you go all right there you go
04:26:47
Mason GregoireJapanese really yeah my grandmother yeah like 25% a quarter yeah no I think she was she was half Japanese um oh
04:26:59
Brian Atlasinteresting okay uh let's see here Bailey you said you think men should get married in your eyes it is the framework of a more stable relationship and commitment also is important to note the legal aspects such as power of attorney
04:27:11
Brian Atlassurvivor benefits insurance medical Etc that comes with a marriage lastly if you divorce there's a legal documentation of separation of assets okay is this in response to my like anti-marriage position I don't know if you want I guess I only saw a few
04:27:23
Bailey (Philly)clips and saw that and didn't know how to answer so I went that um you want to get married I'm assuming yes yeah okay um huh how long do you think you should
04:27:34
Bailey (Philly)date before you get married um I think that depends on the relationship and the person um
04:27:42
Bailey (Philly)I mean for me I'd probably want to date maybe like at least like 3 years um but
04:27:51
Brian Atlasobviously that's different for every couple so okay uh all right uh oh Ariel let's get into your notes uh let's see
04:28:02
Brian Atlasdid I write notes huh did I write notes yeah from like a while back yeah you said going out in a relationship and what are the rules for this type of thing uh your take would be if someone is going to cheat on you they're going
04:28:14
Brian Atlasto do it regardless of you trying to stop it from happening if someone loves you and themselves they will not cheat on you and that is just my opinion you should be able to have a life outside of your partner as well you've seen so many of your friends get into these relationships and make their significant
04:28:27
Brian Atlasother their world to the point where they're they lose their individuality I do think there comes a time where you shouldn't be outside all the time like if you want to be single then go be single so you're kind of talking like if the boyfriend doesn't want the
04:28:39
Arielgirlfriend like going out to bars and clubs yeah I feel I feel like there's like a a solid line for respect for your partner but also it's like but this this is also just like my hot take you should also have your own friends you guys
04:28:52
Arieldon't have to have all of your friends together all the time because then it's like after I've seen people like break up after like 10 years or you know get divorced and they literally don't know
04:29:03
Arielwho they are like they they don't have their individuality so I think it's I think it's healthy to have your own friends also the same friends and you know they have their own friends but again that's like different for
04:29:13
Brian Atlaseverybody and then I also feel like it's okay to like go out with your friends but also you don't you don't need to be going out every single night you know what I mean question for the panel on
04:29:24
Brian Atlasthis um I know some of you are currently in relationships uh but who like goes out to either parties I know some of you aren't 21 maybe you have fake IDs who
04:29:34
Brian Atlasgoes out to either parties or goes out to bars or clubs night life type stuff you do okay what about you Felicity occasionally occasionally maybe do you
04:29:45
Brian Atlasdo it with your boyfriend or um he's come with me or he knows that I'm going okay does he ever have issues with you like going out or he doesn't care no doesn't care what about you how you go out yeah is that
04:29:58
Bailey (Philly)talking uh you well no but you go out like once twice three times a week how often uh like on the week it would depend back when I was um in school it
04:30:08
Brian Atlaswas more so like every weekend mhm so when you were in college you'd go out like Friday Saturday or Thursday Friday Saturday Friday Saturday Frid Saturday every weekend okay what uh what about you did you go out um yeah it's part of
04:30:22
Arielmy job are you a promoter um no I actually work for this um app and I have to um I'm actually the queer representative for it um and I go around to different
04:30:34
Arielhosts and I have them sign with me so I have to be going to events sure um but yes I do go out got it what about you I'm not 21 so I can't really go anywhere
04:30:44
Brian Atlasbut you you're in college right yes so do you you she goes out so you go out is your your boyfriend is it it's not long distance right if I recall no you guys are close-ish um but you go out to
04:30:56
Brian Atlasparties not part like friend get together together come she she goes out you go out group Hangouts things like that yes group Hangouts not like a rave
04:31:07
EmilyI can't I've never had a what about like a a college party maybe there's 100 200 people like a frat party sure I've never been to a frat okay uh what about you uh
04:31:19
Emilyin frequently I usually go out with my partner but he probably wouldn't care Ashley do you go out uh rarely and if I do I'm the DD cuz I I on your Instagram it seems like almost every
04:31:29
Ashleyother picture it's like you're at the club me yeah maybe whoa what Instagram are you looking at your Instagram there's a lot of like at the club drinking I never posted at the club pull
04:31:41
Brian Atlasup my Instagram now maybe it's the bar really you're you taking where are you taking all these what do you mean titties out pictures man that's crazy I don't have any titties out pictures not
04:31:52
Ashleytitties out but titties out my last picture I was like I was just in Georgia I think the one before that it was like a selfie what are you talking about you don't have pull it up right
04:32:04
Alexanow it's okay we don't have to pull it up but all right whatever uh Alexa do you go out to bars and clubs partying anything like that yeah I'm super social I I go out a lot love jazz bars though specifically so like live music like
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Alexathat's like my that's like my favorite that and Tiki Bars I love I love bars San Francisco is known for those so I really enjoyed doing that and he's been with me so well how about
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Brian Atlasthis if your boyfriend say you've been dating the guy for 6 months and some of you maybe you go out more some of you go out less if your boyfriend was like listen I [ __ ] love you babe I love
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Brian Atlasyou I see a future with us together but I've got this boundary I'm just you know maybe he kind of accepted it tolerate it for a period and he's like
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Brian Atlaslook for me to be comfortable in this relationship I don't want you going out anymore do you defer I I don't know if defer is the right word do you agree to
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Brian Atlasthis boundary of his or is this going to cause conflict in the relationship is or is the relationship even over go ahead um conflict I'd say cuz wait what do you
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Brian Atlasmean by out like everything we mentioned or just clubbing clubbing clubbing bars yeah you can have the Traer Joe's conflict still no clubing no bars no
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Brian AtlasRaves no like NTI party he doesn't want to go together like what nope he's introverted doesn't do that [ __ ] doesn't drink for me yes deal breaker yeah okay
04:33:32
Felicity Hugheswhat about you I rarely go out anyways but if he really didn't want me to I wouldn't as long as long as he's not either sure I yeah I agree with her with yes with
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Bailey (Philly)Felicity Felicity mhm so you would stop yeah because I it was only like the last few months that I was going out like frequently um and you know you can have
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Brian Atlasa fun night in so wait um while you were in Australia did you
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Brian Atlasever cheat no okay I don't know why that no I'm a psychic okay I get I'm not I'm not always right all the time but sometimes with my psychic psychic powers
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Brian Atlaslike I might be getting that from somebody next to you like it's kind of coming from your direction but I'm looking at Ariel and I feel
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Brian Atlaslike like you got you you got the girl right but you you're you've got a voracious sexual appetite and you got to be you got like a herum of 10 chicks
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Brian Atlaslike you just need multiple [ __ ] multiple [ __ ] multiple [ __ ] plural right like you got game to right so you know how to like like if you wanted to
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Brian Atlasif you wanted to it depends on the day you could get some like you could get a lot of thanks Big chicks
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Arielum right like be honest bro you are are you more it depends on how I dress so like some days I wear button-ups and baggy jeans and I wear like fitted hats with my hair slick back but but are you kind
04:35:09
Brian Atlasof the initiative in a like in a lesbian relation by relationship like is there one that's a little more like the dominant I don't know if dominant is the right word more like the top it depends
04:35:22
Arielon like the person you're with so like the the the girl Tor I'm dating the Girl I'm dating she's more masculine so obviously she's going to play more of like the masculine role you're more feminine but I'm more feminine but then
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ArielI have like more masculine traits like she like I like if we go out I don't want her paying for anything I open the door I can drive like but then there's like certain things I see I don't know
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Arielit's all so you you top from the bottom I would I would I would consider myself a switch so like I just do both and also I've been with guys and if I'm
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Brian Atlaswith a guy I expect him to be a man you want him to be but if I'm with a girl she doesn't have to do that interesting I know it is an interesting take on it wait question you know how like with gay
04:36:06
Brian Atlasmen like there's different uh what's the word there's there's different categories of gay dudes like you got twinks and bears and is there is there
04:36:17
Arielstuff like that with lesbians dude yes's some like there's there's it's a what's the C so it goes
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Ariellike like lipstick like lipstick lesbian Butch stud um stud obviously you're the stud obviously no I'm not a stud oh my I
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Arieldon't know what that is I don't know so um a stud is a um a queer person of color so um I just recently learned that as well so I was not um educated about
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Arielthat and I white so white people can't be studs um no White's not wow I feel dis I feel it's like it's something originated I'm not going to speak on it because I'm not educated about that
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Arielso as I okay never mind never mind go ahead um sorry U I don't know what was the question no the the