4 Kids From 4 Dads?! Brian Is SORRY?! Andrew Wilson IRL! Manifesting A Boyfriend? | Dating Talk #204
Date: 2024-10-14
Duration: 7h 33m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Rebecca(guest)
SPEAKER_03Nikki/April (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_05Alexandra(guest)
SPEAKER_06Mixed guests(guest)
SPEAKER_09Axana(guest)
SPEAKER_11Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_13Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_14Lindsay (Music)(guest)
Key Moments
00:03:00
QuoteBrian apologizes on-air for being 'tilted' during the previous show, references lawsuit served 30 min before show.
“last show I was pretty tilted...I was served a letter from a litigation Law Firm that I'm being sued”
00:04:06
IntroRebecca introduces herself first: 31yo door-to-door sales manager and podcast host from Austin TX.
“my name is Rebecca I'm 31 I'm from Austin Texas and I'm a door-to-door sales manager and a podcast host”
00:08:05
IntroAndrew Wilson introduces himself as host of The Crucible.
“my name is Andrew Wilson I'm the host of The Crucible a popular entertainment Channel on YouTube”
00:12:25
OtherApril reveals she has 4 kids with 4 different baby daddies ('four for four'), twice divorced.
“I'm a four for four I've got four babies four baby daddies”
01:59:24
QuoteBrian kicks off the self-rating round asking guests to rate their looks 1-10.
“ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10 starting with you go ahead 6.5”
02:00:02
QuoteAndrew rates himself a '10' on looks, triggering laughter and meta-discussion about social honesty.
“Andrew I mean obviously I'm a 10 I mean I can't but why is everybody laughing”
06:00:00
ControversyAndrew Wilson calls out Millionaire Bachelor viewer to unmask and debate.
“millionaire Bachelor if you're out there if you would actually be willing to come on whatever and take your mask off and have a debate this is a call out”
06:00:45
OtherLindsay (Music) leaves the show ~6:04 citing an appointment the next day and boyfriend waiting outside.
“was actually I have a disappointment tomorrow too and I have to go to work and my boyfriend is outside”
07:25:15
OtherApril reveals body count of ~120-130, stating she 'lost count after 100' and 'started young.'
“I lost count after 100...more than 100 guys oh yes I started young...120 130 probably”
07:27:21
OtherLindsay (Music) reveals body count of 16 during active addiction; now 3 years sober.
“it's like 16 okay wait how old are you 20 I yeah 16 Partners at 20 I don't have sex like that anymore I was in active addiction”
Topics Discussed
00:00:11
Introductions & relationship status round
Brian intro/announcements. Guests introduce name/age/location/occupation. Second round: relationship status, longest relationship, who ended it. April's 4 kids/4 baby daddies story; Axana discusses matchmaking career; Lindsay reveals music label; Alexandra reveals traveling chef lifestyle.
00:20:00
Women ending relationships / commitment phobia discussion
Brian notes that most women at the table ended all their own relationships, yet women commonly complain men are commitment-phobic. Andrew and panel analyze. Axana shares matchmaking perspective on poor partner choices.
00:24:50
Early sex vs waiting — when to have sex in a relationship
Panel debate on how long to wait before sex. Axana advocates waiting for commitment. April discusses toxic on-again-off-again relationship after divorce. Discussion of 6-month rule, going through relationship seasons before commitment.
00:33:00
General knowledge quiz: WWI and WWII dates
Viewer TTS challenge asking panel to name dates of WWI and WWII. Most guests guessed 1920s for WWI and 1940s for WWII. Axana said 1997 for WWI then corrected. Comic segment.
00:36:00
Manifestation & subconscious reprogramming debate
Nikki explains her company's manifestation/subconscious reprogramming approach. Andrew Wilson challenges manifestation on logical grounds (free will interference, creation requirements). Brian probes the Law of Attraction vs subconscious belief distinction. Panel weighs in on positive thinking and manifesting dating outcomes.
01:24:00
Sex work, stripping, and exotic dancing classification
Extended debate on whether strippers are sex workers. Andrew argues predictive value judgments about strippers are pattern-based, not necessarily wrong. Ariel and others push back. Discussion of back-room behavior at strip clubs and the spectrum of sex work. Background: multiple guests have connection to stripping/OnlyFans.
01:59:24
Self-rating looks (1–10 scale)
Viewer TTS prompts panel to rate their own looks 1-10. Ratings given: 6.5, 8.5 (Ariel), 6.5 (April), 10 (Alexandra — husband said), 6, 10, 7, 8 (mixed speakers). Andrew jokes '10 for sure.' Andrew argues the round exposes social dishonesty; extended meta-debate follows.
04:01:00
Cheating definitions and social media
What constitutes cheating: liking a flirtatious photo, texting, having a girl best friend. Panel views from Rebecca and others. Brian asks about sliding into DMs while in relationships.
04:23:00
Going out to bars/clubs while in a relationship
If your boyfriend asked you to stop going to bars/clubs, would you? Alexandra says yes in relationships she has stopped. Debate on trust vs control.
04:57:00
Plastic surgery debate
Whether plastic surgery is detectable, desirable, or ethical to disclose. Brian prefers natural; Andrew argues most fake boobs are detectable. Panel: should women disclose surgery to partners? General consensus: yes, disclose.
06:00:00
Millionaire Bachelor callout
Andrew Wilson calls out anonymous viewer 'Millionaire Bachelor' (who donated large sums) to unmask and debate on camera. 69/millionaire Bachelor sends competing $69 TTS donations. Andrew and Brian tease him as a 'broky' who won't reveal his face.
06:05:00
Roast session
Brian roasts each guest: Ava ('beautiful face, bag over that personality'), stomach tattoo guest, 'instructions on shampoo bottles' joke. TTS viewer 69 sends roasts about Andrew's finances. Comic relief segment near end of show.
07:25:15
Body count round
Last-minute body count discussion. Rebecca: under 20. April: lost count after 100 (~120-130). Axana: 1 (husband only). Alexandra: 10 (husband said). Lindsay (SPEAKER_14): 16 (during active addiction, now sober). Andrew: 7 (said by someone). Show wraps with Twitch raid to 'Grandma' World of Warcraft streamer.
Transcript
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03:45:15
Andrew Wilsonthis I think it takes zero Talent almost anybody can do it I've heard guys on the street who are better than most of the mainstream artists who just randomly can belt the [ __ ] out uh I don't think that it takes I just I just don't think that
03:45:28
Andrew Wilsonit's good music I think it's complete trash and garbage and I think that almost anything anybody can do if they just practiced it for a few weeks isn't great why do you think it's so popular
03:45:39
Andrew Wilsonlike why do you think so many people like it just in general to S up to for sure I I think that uh that it's a medium which is above criticism so it's
03:45:51
Andrew Wilsonnot it's not heavily criticized so I think that people can still do what I call storytelling same reason I think anime is very popular I still think that you can do great storytelling through the medium of rap and that's you know
03:46:02
Andrew Wilsonone of the few music mediums left where you can do that just like anime is one of the few mediums left where you can tell a story without it having to be laced with social justice [ __ ] [ __ ] so that's why that's that's why
03:46:15
Andrew WilsonI think it's popular cuz I think it literally I think it has masculine themes like smack her in the mouth right and [ __ ] like that I'm not but I mean honestly I'm not kidding it's one it's one of the few it's one of the few
03:46:27
Andrew Wilsonvenues where you can still do storytelling right without having some theme of social justice and when I listen the rap songs that I hear that
03:46:37
TTS Readerbecome very popular in underground rap communities that's Scorpio donated $100 69 let's be real Slavic women are probably only interested in Rich guys
03:46:49
TTS Readerright if you don't have money what's the point of even
03:46:56
Mixed gueststrying well back to the rap I'm well hang on I want to finish this I'm almost done we we're almost done okay so I feel like there's all different types of artists that can actually tell stories
03:47:08
Andrew Wilsonso when there is like rapping is not always about smacking [ __ ] in the face I was joking but what I was what I was saying is that you could actually
03:47:17
Andrew Wilsonsay that though in rap and be above criticism almost no other form of modern music is that possible and so that's why
03:47:28
Andrew WilsonI think people gravitate towards it just like I think that anime should never have been a big thing in America it's [ __ ] you know when you think about it it's actually [ __ ] weird that anime is such a huge thing in America but I
03:47:40
Andrew Wilsonunderstand right because I thought he [ __ ] weebs I'm not watching that [ __ ] years ago when I started watching I was like wait these are great stories these are actually good stories because they're not interlaced with a bunch of
03:47:52
Andrew Wilsonsocial justice [ __ ] they're trying to tell an actual story and I think that that's one of the few mediums rap where you can still do that that's all yeah you can in metal music too anyways not
03:48:04
Brian Atlasas much anymore not as much anymore wait Andrew I I wrote this down this is going back to the rating thing often times we'll hear beauty is sub
03:48:15
TTS Readeryeah beauty is subjective but whatever fan69 donated $100 thank you man Iron Maiden FTW question to
03:48:26
TTS Readerpanel do you think in general Society women default view men as bad or evil until proven otherwise and Men view women as good virtuous until proven
03:48:36
Brian Atlasotherwise yeah there's this phenomenon called the women are wonderful effect and this is for both men and women there's this bias that
03:48:46
Andrew Wilsonwomen are wonderful and men are bad yeah so the question to the panel you just do this
03:48:54
Andrew Wilsonon a quick show of hands so if you think that uh men basically are evil until they prove that
03:49:03
Andrew Wilsonthey're not evil can you raise your hand okay got it all right uh so what about women for you guys uh no no I definitely think that women
03:49:16
Andrew Wilsonneed to prove that they're not evil until I definitely I've just met so many of them at this point for sure 100% they're all evil yeah well you know who tells me
03:49:27
Lindsay (Music)that women yeah they they're the ones who are like watch out for these [ __ ] they they I'm serious they're like watch out for them they're sneaky they're backstabbing conniving yeah I'm not
03:49:38
Andrew Wilsonjoking right so it's like when people tell you listen to them right and I've never heard anybody run women down more than women no literally uh so going to it uh
03:49:50
Brian Atlasthey'll say beauty is subjective and then but then I I was thinking about this as a counterargument so uh you can even ask them perhaps a question like well do you think in
03:50:02
Brian Atlasgeneral people will tend to appraise people who are obese as less attractive as people who are fit and I think even most of the people who say beauty is subjective will have to concede on that
03:50:13
Brian Atlasone and say yes like thin people uh by and large no pun intended are going to be um appraised as more attractive than
03:50:24
Lindsay (Music)obese people yeah but what would be the the counter to the argument of but there's some cultures where the 500b women are worshiped as goddesses Brian but so then what about those cultures Brian that's how you know it's all
03:50:37
Brian Atlassocially subjective and there's no such thing as Symmetry and what people find attractive Brian but so then I think the the Checkmate here on the argument at least for future usage would be is
03:50:47
Brian Atlasobesity subjective and it's clearly not obesity is an objective measurement how is that an objective it's literally
03:50:57
Andrew Wilsonarbitrary well I mean if we say that obesity is you weigh over this much yeah that would be an arbitrary metric though what do you mean well I mean it's literally arbitrary so we come up with the word obese based on an arbitrary
03:51:10
Andrew Wilsonmetric which says if you're over this amount of weight which we also made up you're then obese so it's arbitrary literally so then how about just the term fat sure is that more copacetic no
03:51:22
Andrew Wilsonstill arbitrary though still arbitrary yeah like whatever system you come up with for fat is going to be a constructed system
03:51:31
Brian Atlasright isn't it medic but they're they're actually in like you can see it with your eyes their body fat percentage Yeah but this is where you get into this
03:51:42
Brian Atlassubjective thing though right because F can mean anything to anybody uh green day was good then they started chanting F America because they
03:51:53
Brian Atlasare pro abortion Pro abortion mly crew makes me feel American Alice Cooper too Brian please add Team America song to to the sound board see this guy's great tast in music I think that's the problem right is they would just say well to
03:52:05
Andrew Wilsonsome men some women who aren't fat they can they consider him fat and so it's subjective so I think that you run it that but I think that
03:52:15
TTS Readerthe first part is a great arated $100 you'll never be drafted why hate CCR as a vet and a man who works on the
03:52:23
TTS Readerdark side of it you'll never have a clue st/ RP got by mtel an incredible story Slayer has amazing Stories as well Slayer is good I'm not I probably
03:52:35
Andrew Wilsonshouldn't even say that right but I I still like Slayer but I think that the first uh the first part of the argument that most people would would be attractive towards a thinner woman uh I think that they'd have to concede
03:52:47
Andrew Wilsonon that but I'm not sure how that moves it out of subjectivity wait so you don't think it's subjective no I think that there're subjective standards I'm just saying that I think that it could be
03:52:58
Andrew Wilsonsuccessfully argued it's subjective from the other side obesity especially can be I mean that's 100% a subjective standard I'm going to have to think further about that there's no way it
03:53:11
Andrew Wilsoncould be anything but a subjective standard we come up with the standard for would be objective as it as it pertains to well none of that's objective then an objective standard
03:53:21
Andrew Wilsonwould be there's like almost Universal agreement on the intuition we could say that that's something akin to objectivity so let me ask you a question
03:53:30
Brian Atlasthe fattest woman in the world MH you don't think that she is objectively fat um no that would still be a subjective
03:53:43
Brian Atlasstandard yeah but she is the the the fattest woman in the world yeah no woman is has ever been fatter than her is there potential that somebody else could be fatter than
03:53:53
Andrew Wilsonher sure okay well then I don't still subjective how about then well what if no other woman could be she's got some sort of medical it would be objective that she's the fattest woman who's ever
03:54:04
Andrew Wilsonbeen in the world but not objective that uh that the standard which we call fat is objective no but is she objectively fat yes by the standard the arbitrary
03:54:15
Andrew Wilsonstandard she would be objectively fat so the standard still arbitrary bro I got a headache
03:54:23
Andrew Wilsonright God damn I'm trying to parse it okay what how about this um is BMI objective well no I'm sorry the standard is not arbitrary because there is a
03:54:34
Andrew Wilsonstandard sorry anyway what's that BMI is BMI objective body mass index is that an objective well no listen all of these systems that you're talking about that
03:54:46
Andrew Wilsonyou're basing it on are subjective systems meaning we constructed them out of what what did we construct the system like what did we construct inches out of it's a subjective unit of met metric
03:54:58
Brian Atlasthat we came up with we just we made it up right okay I'm trying to parse this so I have five fingers is that objective or subjective that would be objectively
03:55:08
Brian Atlastrue wait on this hand on that hand that would be objectively true yeah but so why couldn't the same this same sort of thing be applied to because there's
03:55:20
Andrew Wilsonmetaphysical truths and math is a metaphysical truth so five five can't ever be anything other than five but okay Andrew but an inch hang on hang on
03:55:29
Andrew Wilsonhang on wait in in her country they use kilograms right sure okay so and here we use pounds right yeah but they could a certain kilogram could equal a certain
03:55:40
Andrew Wilsonpoundage yeah right right but hang on but who comes up with those
03:55:47
Brian Atlasmetrics well it's descriptive descriptive of an a metric that we it's physics so you step on a scale and you will weigh this much well or you do
03:55:59
Andrew Wilsonweigh that much in kilograms or in pounds objectively you can change the scale right so it's subjective to whatever the whatever we decide that the way note is
03:56:10
Andrew Wilsonwould be subjective huh so okay math is an objective standard wait 1 plus 1 must always equal two that's logically always
03:56:22
Andrew Wilsonmust be true right but systems and standards like the scientific method for instance is that objectively true mhm no it's objectively
03:56:32
Brian Atlasnot true it's a subjective metric that we came up with wait so if somebody is 6 feet tall Y is that objective or
03:56:42
Andrew Wilsonsubjective I mean tall would be subjective the fact that they're 6 feet they're mathematically they're they're
03:56:50
Brian Atlasmathematically x numberb wait tall is uh tall is objective subjective wait oh I thought you said tall is objective no tall would be subjective and then six feet also
03:57:02
Andrew Wilsonsubjective well the metric for what is six feet would be subjective but whatever the numerics which came out to 6 feet would be
03:57:11
Brian Atlasobjective Okay so I still don't really get it um wait so
03:57:18
Brian Atlasokay uh if a woman is 500 lbs yep is she not
03:57:28
Andrew Wilsonobjectively yeah okay so that the AR what I'm I'm literally playing the devil's advocate here so I want to say yeah of course I pitch is fat but what I'm saying to you
03:57:41
Andrew Wilsonis is that the argument from the opposition is always going to be that's a subjective standard what makes her fat
03:57:49
Andrew WilsonBrian well is also her being 500 lb is that objective or subjective okay so we could say that that's objective that that the standard of pounds she weighs
03:58:00
Brian Atlasthis many that is true and is a woman who's 500 but but hang on but what makes it fat but what makes that
03:58:09
Andrew Wilsonfat uh yeah no I'm I'm that's the problem bro no I'm trying to understand uh we agree we can objectively agrees
03:58:19
Andrew Wilsonthis amount she's this amount that's true this this standard of weight that we came up with she is this amount nobody's going to dispute that they're going to dispute what makes her fat
03:58:35
Brian Atlasthough I'm going to have to think about this one I got to think about this that's the problem bro okay good talk yeah good talk we're going to debate about the the whole the the the bow
03:58:47
Brian Atlasperfect woman we are we're not the are we doing perfect if we have time all right maybe on Tuesday actually okay let me get through the notes by the way I just want that debate Brian how does that make you feel how does that make
03:58:56
Brian Atlasyou feel Brian I I I don't know Andrew I think uh I I'm not sure you've convinced
03:59:03
Brian Atlasme you know I uh I remain unconvinced I I remain unconvinced um okay uh let's see back to the dating talk Rebecca you
03:59:15
Brian Atlassaid you one time met an art dealer from Miami on Rya he flew you out with your golden doodle on a PJ private jet for
03:59:27
Brian Atlasour first date because I couldn't take her on a commercial flight he told me that he didn't do drugs anymore wait hold on I got something for that wait I
03:59:37
Brian Atlasused to do drugs I still do but I used it to
03:59:46
Brian Atlasokay and then but he snorted Aderall the whole whole weekend because he said it doesn't count mhm yeah that was insane I was like I don't know about that one buddy
03:59:55
Brian Atlasbut yeah how long ago was this um like six months or so maybe he how much does it he flew you out on the PRI his PR his private jet or a chartered yeah which is
04:00:07
Rebeccanuts how much does that cost I couldn't tell you did I didn't pay for it did did you hit no like I actually didn't he was just on ater all the whole time so wasn't
04:00:17
Rebeccareally I don't think his mind was there do that much to you I mean when he's snorting that much like to that capacity you know I think his like brain was a little scrambled did you try like his ader all to the golden doodle um not
04:00:30
Brian Atlasthat I know of I could see him doing that okay that was just curious I wouldn't put it past him but not that I saw mhm how much does it cost to Charter a private jet no we could probably yeah
04:00:41
Brian Atlasthat's crazy mhm damn yeah thought so as well but I still have you been flown out before on a private jet no by just it could have been [ __ ]
04:00:50
RebeccaSpirit um yeah yeah M how many times I don't know like I would say less than 10 in my life probably have you ever been
04:00:59
Axanaflown out by a guy uh once sorry once once no private just any airplane yeah
04:01:09
Mixed guestsof course in private times a guy's flown
04:01:15
Mixed guestsyou okay I've flown people okay okay girl any offer any flown flones out have you been offered though um I
04:01:27
Brian Atlasguess by by my boyfriend W Nissa okay all right uh let's see you said um what constitutes cheating liking girl's photo texting a girl
04:01:40
Brian Atlasflirtatiously is definitely cheating in your opinion uh when should you become monogamous with someone before before leaving because it's been too long yeah like some girls don't want to wait do you know what I mean they're like oh if he doesn't want to commit after 3 months
04:01:51
Brian Atlasthen you should leave I know that's a thing that I see online a lot but okay that's what I meant by that H uh you also said having a girl best
04:02:03
Brian Atlasfriend if it's a guy oh okay um is an open relationship actually cheating that's what you m probably not if you I don't think so
04:02:13
Brian Atlasif you agreed to it um let's see should you ever get back no uh do all men cheat that's what you were asking mhm cuz that is like a stigma I feel I feel
04:02:25
Rebeccalike a lot of people just assume like I know girls personally that'll say like every man's going to cheat so they just kind of accept that it's going to happen in a relationship I don't think I don't think which I don't think is right no I don't either but I feel like that is
04:02:36
Brian Atlassomething I hear a lot uh men saying they never date a stripper or only fans girl but then y'all find out Hannah who's a receptionist [ __ ] your dad
04:02:46
Brian Atlaseven though she isn't a sex worker the generalizations are so out I don't get it wait saying that like never date a stripper or F girl but saying that those people are more promiscuous
04:02:57
Rebeccathan just a normal everyday person because of their job basically
04:03:03
Brian Atlasyeah well so you're saying like men will you're saying normal women can be
04:03:14
Rebeccamore promiscuous than sex workers is that the argument so yeah like a [ __ ] for aore say it again like a [ __ ] for aore is there wait what do you mean like same well no I think so you mean like like you're not getting paid but you're
04:03:27
Brian Atlasjust as like yeah yeah you're just sending nudes to guys free right which could happen you know I think there there are people like that out there wait so but okay so I mean clearly
04:03:39
Brian Atlasit's the case that women who are not sex workers can be bigger [ __ ] than sex workers I don't think that's the only
04:03:51
Brian Atlasreason men don't want to date sex workers though is because of either real or perceived promiscuity um could just be that there's a stigma
04:04:03
Rebeccaattached to the profession you disagree or no I mean I think that like I'm not talking about men wanting to date them I'm just saying the assumption that they're more
04:04:14
Rebeccapromiscuous because of their job that's all are they not I mean I don't think so like do you do youall think they're more promiscuous because they sex workers I think you have to be like a base level
04:04:24
Mixed guestsof promiscuous to do those things but I don't think it would necessarily mean that you okay let me here why I ask this
04:04:33
Brian Atlasdo you think sex workers are more promiscuous than the general population I don't know cuz I feel like a lot of them do it out of necessity or maybe again out of a a financial bind
04:04:45
Andrew Wilsonyou know some women how come if they did it out of necessity that would make them less promiscuous wouldn't that make them more promiscuous like aren't some women if you were wait if you're were a prostitute out of necessity how are you less promiscuous that makes no sense
04:04:58
Andrew Wilsonbecause you don't I feel like if you're promiscuous maybe it means like you enjoy it you know what I don't know promiscuous just means you take a lot of D I guess I don't know no what do we no
04:05:08
Andrew Wilsonno no no there's no guess right what the hell does promiscuous mean if not sex with lots of people what what else could that possibly mean to to make it me like it's like a mentality it's like willing
04:05:20
Rebeccasex with a lot of people and when and when it's like more yes willing sex with a lot of people I agree but I think one's just more so if you're a prostitute you're having willing sex yes yeah but I think like again it's kind of out of necessity too you wouldn't be
04:05:34
Andrew Wilsondoing that if you were financially well first of all when you say necessary right what the hell does that mean because there's lots of men who necessarily work three jobs and don't have the luxury of prostituting
04:05:46
Andrew Wilsonthemselves they could if they want to who other men I mean there's there's websites probably no they're not going to make do you think that male prostitutes on average are going to make as much as female prostitutes some do it
04:05:56
Andrew Wilsondepends on the male yeah okay what did I say on average yeah on average no no of course not it's ridiculous I mean it's literally ridiculous so they don't when
04:06:06
Andrew Wilsonyou say necessary how come when poor men uh are broke that suddenly it they can somehow find jobs to get by which aren't opening their legs to random strangers
04:06:18
Rebeccawouldn't make as much so it's not necessary then it's not necessary but I guess they also don't have the ability because they know they wouldn't make as much but wom then it's not necessary necessary means must right mhm well it's necessary for them to make money and
04:06:32
Andrew Wilsonthey know they could do it f by know it's not necessary for them to make money well to if you have a dead no it's not necessary for them to live you're saying you're saying I make more money I that's want not necessary say as well
04:06:44
Andrew Wilsonlike it is like quick M then still not necessary necessary I think means must mhm right so it's not necessary to make money ever or just how I didn't say it's not necessary to make money I just said that there's alternative means of making
04:06:56
Andrew Wilsonmoney other than prostitution that may make you less but that doesn't mean that it's necessary that you make as much as you make as a prostitute to live I think they just think that it would be faster I think that I agree that it would be
04:07:06
Andrew Wilsonfaster but how is that not willingly having more sexual partners well it is willingly having more Partners but it's for you know a bigger purpose I guess that's promiscuity promiscuity is your
04:07:18
Rebeccawillingness to have lots of sexual partners I guess I don't know I don't know how it could what else could it be no I'm I'm not like disagreeing with you I hear what you're saying for sure I really don't understand though what
04:07:30
Mixed guestsyou're saying I don't really know how it could be anything other than willingly having lots of sex that's I think well I think you're just saying O and uh
04:07:40
Andrew Wilsonstrippers right you're not talking about prostitution in of boy girl content very common yeah yeah
04:07:49
Andrew Wilsonbut and also I would say that so I would say this as well that um if you were a woman who is talking to multiple people
04:07:59
Andrew Wilsonflirting with them right things like this uh that men would consider that to also be cheating I don't disagree with that yeah I it goes both ways for sure so even if we were to take this like
04:08:10
Andrew Wilsonvery kind of charitable idea of promiscuity which is well it doesn't require sex it's like okay I can even concede that and I still think they'd be more promiscuous right do you think
04:08:22
Andrew Wilsonthere's a gender that cheats more generally like men or women I think women cheat more really I do why why do you think that is um because I think that the availability is there far more
04:08:34
Andrew Wilsonfor them than it is men I think that men get caught more why is that why do men get caught more because I think that they kind of
04:08:44
Andrew Wilsondon't understand subtle manipulation as well as as women do uh for for women practicing gentleman donated
04:08:54
TTS Reader$100 for the panel does fisting count as cheating how many Knuckles deep can you go before it's cheating also Pink Floyd
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04:09:13
Andrew Wilsonback to the conversation show of hands is does fisting count as cheating show
04:09:20
Andrew Wilsonof hands yes it doesn't it wait what she was the one to sent her okay uh yes so it does it does indeed okay and I would
04:09:31
Andrew Wilsonlaugh though is there any serious it does it require more than one knuckle one knuckle is still one knuckle is one knuckle cheating show of hands if one knuckle's cheating the thoughts okay
04:09:44
Andrew Wilsonall right so one Knuckles cheating fair enough uh anyway so yeah back back to this um I think on the idea uh that men get caught so I think that we're just talking about basic power dynamics and
04:09:56
Andrew Wilsonit comes back to Power Theory I think that men are very used to being able to utilize force and women are not so um
04:10:05
Andrew Wilsonmen always always can kind of rely on going back to force so because women don't do this they they understand kind of subtle manipulation better generally
04:10:17
Andrew WilsonI think than men do I'm not saying like adoptive a little bit just cuz they can't is that what you're saying yeah well a woman can't at any time they want physically dominate a male men can do
04:10:28
Andrew Wilsonthis for most women and they can also do this to other men so because that's true they always have that to rely on right where it's like oh it doesn't have to make sense cuz I'm going to punch you in
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Andrew Wilsonthe mouth right so women don't women don't have that they can use emotional control manipulation things like this so I think that they're much more clever when it comes to hiding their tracks or carrying on Affairs than men generally
04:10:53
Andrew Wilsonare interesting so now the stats would actually disagree with me the stats would say that men cheat more uh but how do you get the stats well you get the stats by the admittance of people saying
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Andrew Wilsonthat they cheat or don't cheat and people who are really good at cheating would never admit it and so I think that women uh they don't admit it because they're better at cheating but that's that's my
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Axanatake on it yeah most of my clients males who are coming to me um I would say probably eight out of 10 the reason for their divorce is because wife cheated on them
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Andrew Wilsonum so it is well think about think about it like this um think of it like a superpower that women have and they have it especially when they're younger and when they're in their 20s right so you can imagine from the male perspective
04:11:43
Andrew Wilsonuh if they kind of analyze this and they're like you can just get whatever the [ __ ] you want because you're pretty yeah I really can right well that's an amazing superpower and that's why you
04:11:56
Andrew Wilsonsee as that Fades when women get older they become more and more delusional they're like wait a second I must do everything to maintain this superpower that's where you get the fake boobs the
04:12:06
Andrew Wilsontummy tuck that the everything to create the appearance of youthfulness and attractiveness because that keeps this kind of superpower going for longer men never have it they never have the
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Andrew Wilsonsuperpower so if I were to reverse it and I thought to myself well what would happen if when you're in your early 20s every woman just want would be willing
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Nikki/April (mixed)to sleep with you basically right well I think that that would corrupt men really badly you know what I mean I think it kind of has in society because it kind of has happened easily well in college
04:12:40
Andrew WilsonI'm it hasn't happened in college most me so there are a lot of men can get it very e I'll prove it to you right the easiest way possible so let's let's assume it was
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Andrew Wilsonyoung picture Andrew and you okay and we both went on the sign of right on the street of Santa Barbara right now both of us held a sign I held a sign that said I'm willing to sleep with any woman
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Andrew Wilsonright now and you held up a sign saying I'm willing to sleep with any man right this second who's getting picked up first okay I mean probably me but if we both hang hang on hang on really but why
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Nikki/April (mixed)cuz I feel like women would see with a sign and be like ew but um exactly but if we both went to a frat party I bet you would easily go home with a girl
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Andrew Wilsonthat night and I yeah probably why I I feel like it would be very easy I I don't know I mean you feel like you wanted to I I so if you walked into a frat party and you said gang bang
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Andrew Wilsonupstairs and I'm and I'm the meat between the sandwich you're not going upstairs or okay fine I guess if we were both were trying to yeah yeah yeah so that's what I mean though is that the the corruptibility but I feel like this
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Nikki/April (mixed)is the thing is like men will go to the Frat parties wanting to get laid and women might you know be like oh we'll see who I'll meet but it's not but they're not necessarily like well some
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Andrew Wilsonare I agree I'm just talking about the potential of could yeah could I'm just talking about the potential of could so then I agree with you could Every Woman here sleep with any given man easier
04:14:13
Andrew Wilsonthan I can sleep with any given woman yes yes and since the answer to that is yes I view this as like a female superpower because essentially you can get whatever the [ __ ] you want based on this and the younger and more attractive
04:14:26
Andrew Wilsonyou are the more you can employ the superpower right do I think that that's very corruptible I do because I think what if men could do this and women would be willing to do this I think it
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Andrew Wilsonwould corrupt the [ __ ] out of men too mhm so I just I just think of it in those terms right yeah I do agree with you on that yeah yeah so but anyway yeah
04:14:48
Andrew Wilsonmoving the conversation on I have uh I have a couple of questions the first question is do you think and we'll go one by one that a man or a woman would
04:15:00
Andrew Wilsonbe more likely to lie to you starting with you just to me or as a whole like as a whole a random man random woman which one do you think would be more likely to lie to I mean I'm biased
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Rebeccabut I'm going to say a man honly what yeah get get right up on the mic um I'm biased but I'm going to say a man because that's what I have the most experience with okay uh a woman for sure
04:15:22
Andrew Wilsona woman's the most likely to lie to you absolutely a woman woman a woman woman a woman woman woman woman woman woman
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Andrew WilsonHunty rip Watson rip materialism she stole my blanket [ __ ] brat but anyway um she did I had a fan he sent me this
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Andrew Wilsonthis custom knitted wool blanket that his wife made and he was like he sent it up with a few other things like a couple of fists of vodka and just because he likes to watch my show and she she did she took it she stole it the brat she
04:16:15
Andrew Wilsonthe first thing she did she was like oh my God this is so gone she took off with it must have been her pretty privilege yeah never and you know the thing is is she's like well you just use it whenever you want I'm like but it's mine I'm supposed to be what the [ __ ] is it but
04:16:27
Andrew Wilsonanyway back to this now that we have all the answers I have to I have to ask this question man versus bear okay would you rather be stuck in the forest with a random bear or random man random man for
04:16:39
Andrew Wilsonsure random man yeah the bear the bear we don't know what kind of bear we don't know what kind of bear we don't know what kind of man random and random I mean if it's
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Nikki/April (mixed)just random probably man okay if it was a black bear if it was a black bear I would choose the black bear okay man man
04:16:59
Andrew Wilsonman man man okay so for you two pick the bear no I no you pick the man wait you pick the bear you pick the bear the black bear okay now I just I get to pick the black man black bear cuz I'm going
04:17:11
Andrew Wilsonwith the black I get it I get I get it but also both hang on both of you selected that a woman would be more likely to lie to you right absolutely
04:17:19
Andrew Wilsonokay I'm a man that answer is [ __ ] stupid do do you believe me no no no of course
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Andrew Wilsonnot of course not all right uh so so on the bear question why did you pick the bear um
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Andrew Wilsonfrom personal experience so I'd rather um I'm more well for me I oh my God don't do don't do this you're not going to do the Shir thing are you you're not going to do like you're not going to do the Shira thing where oh I've been out
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Andrew Wilsonwith the Bears and I've seen hundreds of bears and they've always left me alone you're not going to do that no I'd rather snuggle a [ __ ] bear then snuggle the man
04:18:03
Andrew Wilsonout a man is more dangerous than a bear yeah let me let me ask you let's put this to the test if you were walking down a random street in the United States just a random one he walked over to a random man and patted him on the
04:18:15
Andrew Wilsonhead versus walking over to a random bear and patting it on its head what do you think would happen if you patted a random man on on the head versus a random bear probably the same they'll both turn around and grab the [ __ ] out of
04:18:29
Andrew Wilsonyou hey I heard someone say it's true back there they'll both grab the [ __ ] out of you said Jesus Christ know yeah I know I I I I think the bear would turn
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Andrew Wilsonaround and eat your face and think that the man would go what the [ __ ] are you doing how do you know it's not the other way around that the bear would turn around and say what are you doing the [ __ ] are you doing and the man's going to turn around and eat your face yeah I
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Nikki/April (mixed)don't think the bear is going to say anything cuz it's a [ __ ] bear but okay so over to you okay so well I mean I will say if it's just a totally random
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Nikki/April (mixed)man it probably would be fine but like just given this whole like man bear controversy like when I'm thinking about being in the middle of the woods I'm thinking of like a Steven Avery type of
04:19:14
Nikki/April (mixed)man with a gun and a knife and like I would rather be would you rather be in the woods with a guy with random guy with a gun and a KN no personally I would I mean black bear as long as you just diverge like they usually don't
04:19:26
Nikki/April (mixed)bother you whereas like now I don't they kill people all the time so do I mean I ALS I know many people who have been in the woods with black bear and have lived
04:19:36
Andrew Wilsonto the you hear your answer there you're like so do men right well that's true right it's it's not very common for men to kill women by the way it's not even the top 15 deaths for women women are more likely to die from random accidents
04:19:49
Andrew Wilsonthan they are to die from men did you know that but that aside uh by the way that stat came directly from Rolo tomasi thanks for that Rolo but uh yeah not even in the top 15 not even top 15 women
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Andrew Wilsonare more likely to die from random accidents literally random accidents than they are to die from a man uh what do you think your chances are though of being in a confined space with a bear
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Nikki/April (mixed)like the bear not attacking you I feel like that's a different question though it was a confined if it was a confined space I would choose the man but in the woods you could just walk
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Nikki/April (mixed)away and like not bother the bear and the bear probably wouldn't bother you could you walk away from the man well this is the thing is I feel like there is a chance that you could become the prey of the man if you're I mean a man
04:20:34
Nikki/April (mixed)alone in the woods there no one else Bonds in the woods he's not going to be really pissed off and you're on his radar I I mean I I genuinely do know a lot of people who have gone in the woods
04:20:45
Andrew Wilsonhiking whatever hunting have come across bear and I know way more people who've gone into the woods and come across random men that's fair and have had no problems whatsoever but I've met many
04:20:57
Nikki/April (mixed)people who've come across random bears and they go holy [ __ ] I was terrified this thing was going to eat my face when you're a woman though alone in the woods you're I mean you're scared of both I will say that I think the bear goes
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Nikki/April (mixed)about his business but the man's like I'm going to find I think that's what like the psychology of a woman at least like yeah I'm going to find this woman and rape her and oh yeah yeah don't say that I mean I'm going to yeah but that's
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Andrew Wilsonjust that's just the worry that comes across a woman's mind whether it's true or not no I understand listen so so here's the Olive Branch I understand that this is a worry that a woman would
04:21:33
Andrew Wilsonhave because of the power Dynamic difference a man can overpower her but this question is asking really like wait a second but bear really can overpower
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Andrew Wilsonyou much quicker than a man could right Bear's a wild animal you have no predictive you know kind of model of what you could even do against a bear you know most random men who spawn in a
04:21:57
Andrew Wilsonforest with you do you think that they' actually attack you for just no reason I mean most random men no most but I mean what about most random
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Nikki/April (mixed)Bears I mean like a black bear I really don't think that like why would most random black bears would attack you I mean if you're like getting in its way or getting in front of it like if it's
04:22:18
Nikki/April (mixed)got its Cubs there or something like maybe but I I think just or or you just come across it they they will just attack you for that if you're close enough but I guess I'm even if you're
04:22:29
Nikki/April (mixed)far away like you can't predict wild animals that's why they're wild animals right yeah but I guess in the same scenario how can I predict that like a man with weapons is not going to harm me well I would assume B based on
04:22:42
Andrew Wilsonexperience you come across men every single day of your life all alone in the woods though but even if you were alone in the woods you really think that just like random passer by men just can't wait to assault random women in WS yeah no I mean yeah
04:22:55
Andrew Wilsonit sounds silly when you say it like that well because it is silly right like the the amount first of all the amount of men who do these types of things very tiny percentage
04:23:05
Nikki/April (mixed)0.2% the population does these things and they could like they could do it if they wanted they just they don't but they don't do it do you know the stat on how many people black bear kill I mean
04:23:18
Andrew Wilsonyeah well I mean black bears um I think there was recently an attack I don't know the exact percentage of bare kills but what I would do is look at it as bare confrontation kill versus Man confrontation kill and then I would look
04:23:30
Andrew Wilsonat it this way so you're going to have way more confrontation with men in your life than you are with bears but how many confrontations can you have with Bears versus men that you're going to walk away from
04:23:43
Andrew Wilsonencounters confrontations yeah yeah so you you've probably had confrontations with many men yeah and you're quite alive yes how many confrontations do you think you
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Andrew Wilsoncould have with a bear yeah I mean the bear would obviously win yeah well the bear is not going to give a [ __ ] it's not going to listen to logic reason it's not going to
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Andrew Wilsonlisten to It's not gonna listen right yeah so yeah I'm just just saying if you if you end up in the woods you know would be scared
04:24:16
Brian Atlaseither way alone in the woods I don't belong alone in the woods I guess but and Andrew to you you you uh have used the example of what's the better I don't know if you've used it so far the better outcome if you Pat the bear on the head
04:24:28
Brian AtlasI did we and then just it came popped into my mind if you take it to a bit more of an extreme if you went up and punched a bear in the snout what's the likelihood of you being
04:24:39
Brian Atlaskilled by the bear versus you even walk up to a man and punch him in the face I don't think most men even if you punch them in the face are going to kill you
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Andrew Wilsonfor it I agree they might smack you back in fact there's there's hundreds and hundreds of videos of women going off and hitting men and men very much not
04:25:00
Andrew Wilsondoing anything about it except saying stop stop it lunatic stop hitting me crazy lady stop it right and clearly they could now I do find the videos where they do hilarious don't get me
04:25:13
Andrew Wilsonwrong the videos where they're like oh yeah and then down she goes and I go well you deserved it you idiot what are you doing I think that that's I mean if that was the response I think that more W you know far less women would hit men
04:25:26
Brian Atlasum honestly or have you had a bear in this now and what if it justd yeah we went we went around everything y all right uh let's see just curious who show
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Brian Atlasof hands who said bear these two you two okay interesting uh let's see going back to your notes here you said controlling ass men like the ones on Secret Lives of
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Rebeccamore so I don't know how that showet lives of what it's Mormon wives it's a show that's you're too please come on Mormon wives it's a show that's out right now that's kind of popular right on the M I think I am sorry but yeah their husbands are just very very
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Rebeccacontrolling when it comes to that how does that mean um for example there was an episode where they went to chip andales is like a fun little activity and two of their husbands threaten like divorce so because they went there good sure yeah what's wrong with that I mean
04:26:14
Rebeccayou don't think that's a little controlling you don't go to a [ __ ] my wife don't go to a chip and Deals you get to get a divorce say it's like a bachelorette and it's a group of her friends it's not her idea really why why
04:26:23
Andrew Wilsonis why do you feel that way be why wait a second why would it be okay for my wife to go look at naked men because she's not touching them and she's not you know yeah so
04:26:35
Andrew Wilsonwhat yeah so what why would do you think that's grounds for like a divorce or just like a conversation well if I told her no yeah well here let's reverse it right I think it would be fair grounds for her to put up the same boundary and
04:26:48
Brian Atlassay no you can't go to a strip club yeah of course not it's ridiculous you're married you have it's it's absolutely inappropriate for you to do that a lot of women have issues with their boyfriends or husbands either watching
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Brian Atlasporn or going to the strip club most women would not be cool with it that's not even the me you're right by the way you're right about that but the thing is is um my I guess my issue here my um my
04:27:12
Andrew Wilsoncontention is what is actually the problem there do you do you think that a woman has some unique right when she's married to go look at naked men the way
04:27:25
Rebeccathat they felt was well you don't trust me like I'm not going to do anything I would never cheat you've known me for this many years we've been together this long like have we not established trust and that's why they were obsessed on the
04:27:35
Brian Atlasshow I see well my counter to that would just be this okay I got a counter too oh go ahead no no you go I meant I was going to go after no I was going to go
04:27:44
Andrew Wilsonafter you I didn't mean to interrupt you uh go ahead um so so it comes it comes down to the idea of just trust right and say okay well then I'm going to go buy a prostitute and I'm just going to sit up
04:27:56
Andrew Wilsonin the room with her and we're going to talk well one's public I think was the difference why does that matter do you you do realize that there's back rooms at the chi andales and all those things right yeah I think just one's more intent like a prostitute like we all know what's going to happen sh why do we
04:28:10
Andrew Wilsonall know what's going to happen don't you trust don't you trust me that's what don't you trust me why don't you trust me why don't you trust me have sex I can't believe you don't trust me that's them to have sex what do you think about
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TTS Readerthis I just told you I wasn't going to you don't trust me why would you go to a chip have no moral compass overwhelming majority of the US population of men
04:28:33
TTS Readerhave some level of morality however I feel most men would avoid a woman in the woods avoid a false allegation charge desert show good see in the chat man thank you for the uh TTS very much appreciate it yeah when we're going
04:28:46
Andrew Wilsonwe're going at it I mean you see how slippery that slope is right if I say okay well I'm going to get a prostitute and I'm just going to talk with her don't you trust me but then why not just go to a strip club I don't understand why that matters don't you trust me one
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Rebeccais the intent to what's up the other ones Club you're just sitting there wait wait wait wait wait all that matters here is the trust but that's not what they were saying one's like a public setting like chip and Deals it's just
04:29:08
Andrew Wilsonthey're on the stage you're looking at them getting a prostitute you know how does a man know that that's what's going on at chipping deals get a prostitute can't I'm sorry at strip
04:29:19
Andrew Wilsonclubs you and you know that this is true because you worked in these clubs don't women often prostitute themselves in the back strip clubs uh a portion of them yeah how many people prostitute from a chip and they
04:29:31
Andrew Wilsondo they do it there too but if you get a prostitute on the street something that of course they do that too but but that but that aside right let's assume that they didn't yeah I thought we were talking about trust here right but it's
04:29:41
Andrew Wilsondifferent venues you know but if you're paying a prostitute trust trust is trust I just want to talk to her about my feelings about how you don't trust me that's wild that that is what's the problem wild statement yeah that's
04:29:53
Andrew Wilsoncompletely different I don't understand if it's trust right then you say trust me to go look at naked men and do nothing okay trust me hang on trust me
04:30:05
Rebeccato go sit in a room with a naked prostitute and do nothing I think one's a bit more logical cuz it's it makes more sense like you're at a bachelorette party with a bunch of your friends you're a lot less likely okay great I'll go in the room
04:30:17
Rebeccawith a prostitute with two of my friends right but everyone knows why you pay a prostitute though everyone knows why you pay a stripper though but everyone knows why you pay to go to chip andal yeah what are you paying to go to chippendale's force watch watch the show
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Andrew Wilsonyou want to watch a bunch of dicks in your face I mean I guess her friend is guess so I guess I mean I guess so right it's like okay you can have you can have a dick in your face and I should trust you but I can't go up into a room with
04:30:40
Andrew Wilsontwo of my friends with a prostitute and talk to her about my day what the [ __ ] I just can't believe how I can't believe how little trust you have for me none not at all unbelievable I had an example here I
04:30:51
Brian Atlaswanted to provide uh and then oxan I'll have you come in but uh I mean maybe you don't like the example Andrew provided so what about this one you're married to
04:31:00
Brian Atlasa man and uh he has an ex-girlfriend and you're out of town and he hangs out with her oneon-one
04:31:10
Brian Atlasalone she comes over to the house but he tells you oh nothing nothing's going to happen but you know for a fact that this woman actually has a some sort of lingering romantic or sexual interest in
04:31:23
Brian Atlasyour husband uh do you trust your would you be okay with him one-on-one at at night at your house him hanging out with her I think it would be wrong on other end I
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Rebeccashouldn't do that you be CL can you be closer you shouldn't go to a strip club and you shouldn't go to a stri club that goes back to ones in public one's like a show on a stage another one is someone who has feelings and so you'd be fine if he was hanging out with her in public it's about
04:31:47
Rebeccatrust I think it also comes into play what they're doing exactly like in this instance it was for a bachelorette for her friend on a stage they're watching the show but the other one's like someone who has feeling as long as as long as it's public he can go out to
04:32:00
Andrew Wilsondinner with his ex-girlfriend right you know there's all kinds hang he can go out to dinner with his exgirlfriend that's completely different why it's public she went to this place to watch a show and everyone's like an intimate and she went to this place to eat dinner right that's an intimate setting this
04:32:13
Rebeccaone is watching a show what do you mean it's public you buy tickets they can't eat dinner at Chi andales but one's more in like I guess you got don't knowbe but on WE intimate one's like an intimate setting what is intimate about you having lunch there's feelings you just
04:32:26
Andrew Wilsonsaid there were feelings okay I'm going to just take I'm I'm just going to take out that you don't know if there's feelings or not you have no clue it's okay for your ex ex or or I'm sorry your current boyfriend or husband to go have
04:32:38
Andrew Wilsondinner with their ex right there were feelings though and that's what matters me they did about each other at one point so got it okay I mean who knows and that's and and you you would expect of course that since you would be not
04:32:52
Andrew Wilsonokay with that he wouldn't be okay with it back no and that's okay I I shouldn't do that so if he wasn't okay with you going and having floppy dicks in your face right what's the problem but it was like a show up on a stage I think was it
04:33:04
Andrew Wilsonwas for her friends so what she does so why does a man why do you think that it's appealing to a man to think that his wife's going to go look at naked men I just don't know that it's grounds for divorce maybe a discussion maybe even
04:33:16
Andrew Wilsontherapy but like a div no that's not what's the grounds for divorce is the grounds for divorce is not that she uh wanted even though I think that's bad enough uh it's it's that they they
04:33:28
Andrew Wilsonpushed it why would you push to go look at other naked men if you're married to a man that's a [ __ ] horrible thing to do like that's that's such an over-the-top awful thing to do tell me a lot about you tell me a lot about what
04:33:41
Andrew Wilsontype of person was dealing with say it wasn't even her idea and it was her friend's Bachelorette and she just went to support she should she should have immediately been like no I'm not going to do that to my husband that's that's unconscionable what kind of what kind of
04:33:52
Andrew Wilsonhorrible [ __ ] [ __ ] goes to their husband and says hey baby I'm just going to go to a bachelor party and look at naked dudes with my friends yeah like what do you think he's going to say oh okay well I mean that's not gr I trust
04:34:04
Mixed guestsyou complet what a kind of [ __ ] simp would do that what kind of [ __ ] what kind of [ __ ] made man would do to like a regular bar club with your girls like it's her birthday or something you're going out to a club and you guys are
04:34:18
Andrew Wilsongoing out for drinks and why you going out to a club for just celebrating your home girl's birthday or something yeah I think that going out to like a public restaurant or something like that not a club not a club where you're grinding
04:34:30
Rebeccayour ass on men right and paring on the Dance Floor there's a lot of girls that smack their own home girls house dance what if they just keep to themselves like in a section or something and they're not you know they're not there to meet men they just really want to
04:34:41
Mixed guestscelebrate their then why don't they dance at home it's not the same setting cuz when you go out like it's not the same setting men can't see look the difference is I know like a lot of women can relate to this it's like getting ready to go out with your girls you have
04:34:54
Andrew Wilsonare pregaming listen to music everybody's picking out their out do that all that [ __ ] every literally everything you just said you could literally do at home then go downstairs to your to the room that you have the
04:35:06
Mixed guestsdance music in and all of you can twerk together still do it it's a different type of feeling when you got cuz there's not cuz there's not [ __ ] men cuz there both there's all the above you go out like okay it's a different feeling okay like we're all on the Dance Floor
04:35:19
Andrew Wilsonwe're dancing with each other they play one of our favorite songs why can't you do that at home both why not both yeah okay but my question to you is minus the amount of penises around what is the
04:35:31
Andrew Wilsonactual distinction between you doing everything you just said at your house with your girlfriends versus at a brick and mortar building where there's I tell
04:35:41
Lindsay (Music)me hang on hang on nobody wants to Beed up in the room let me in the house go outside let me finish you can do all this outside literally you can literally walk outside
04:35:53
Andrew Wilsonand do every [ __ ] thing you just stated right outside not kidding I promise you can get dressed you can get ready you can put on your mascara you can put you can put on your lipstick and you can feel
04:36:06
Andrew Wilsonpretty and you can get together with your girlfriends and you go right in your backyard and bounce club music and dance to it I assure you that you can do all of those things fun as well so it is fun as well so you don't want to go with
04:36:18
Mixed guestsyour friends and maybe go to a bar go out and get drinks and dance and Heir music with your friends out in public don't dance with men well not dance but like of all I'm just saying like going to bars I know a lot of men that are
04:36:31
Andrew Wilsonmarried that go to bars here's what men do at bars they walk into bars filled with other men you know who's not usually hanging out at bars shitloads of single women unless it's at single bars or [ __ ] clubs where they're trying to
04:36:43
Andrew Wilsonhook up with the dudes you know what your random corner bar looks like it looks like a bunch of guys who are like me and it looks like they have a bunch of beers like this and they're all married and they're all talking about
04:36:54
Andrew Wilsonnonsense you don't [ __ ] care about they're talking about their lawnmowers and their grass Heights and they're talking about [ __ ] they're talking about how annoyed they are at the
04:37:05
Andrew Wilsonproperty taxes right they are definitely not the type of people you we're talking about here okay so yes I think it's totally fine for men to go out to the
04:37:17
Lindsay (Music)bar cuz that's what the [ __ ] bar for men looks like just say I think just going outside honestly I don't like up in the house can I go to the club honey so I can twerk my ass all over the Dance Floor around a bunch of other why can't you do it here I don't get the same
04:37:31
Rebeccafeeling like what you think they I don't get the same feeling does the kind of bar matter though like say she wants to go to a die bar with her friends cuz like honestly I love a good die bar you know like does that matter yeah I think
04:37:43
Andrew WilsonI think it does I think it matters the club setting versus like okay you have a neighborhood bar and your girlfriend Kelly down the street you're going to go have a drink at the bar with her right that's a whole different thing than I'm
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Andrew Wilsongoing to get hang on then I'm going to get dressed up skanked up because it gives me the good feeling and yeah don't lie it's skanked up wear they're going hang on they're going to wear the night they're going to wear the night clothes
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Andrew Wilsonthe lady of the night clothes right busty chest short skirts and they're going out to the club dressed like that right to get the
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Andrew Wilsonfeeling right of what why don't why can't you do that at home what is the feeling you're after we know what the feeling is and it's like fine if that's what the feeling is the feeling of male attention um then yeah of course your
04:38:30
Andrew Wilsonyour man's not going to be okay with that why would he ever be okay with that versus oh hey honey me and Chuck are going to go down to the bar where there's three other guys who you know are always down there cuz her bar flies
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Andrew Wilsonright and then any given time she walks in the only thing she has to do is drag your drunk ass out of the [ __ ] bar the only thing that's hitting on anything in that bar is your head on the [ __ ] bar after you had too many
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Andrew Wilsondrinks it's like that's the male bar experience I thought you meant period like they shouldn't go out at all you know like not even a die you have to it has to comport with reason but it's
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Andrew Wilsonbeyond it's beyond obvious that women who are going and dancing in skimpy outfits at the club who say don't you trust me are being very [ __ ] disingenuous because there is no male
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Andrew Wilsonalternative which we can present and because there's no good male alternative we can present other than Brian saying okay fine I'm going to go out with a with an ex-girlfriend no that's not okay
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Andrew Wilsonthat's insane one-on one what is what are these distinctions they're just made up nonsense distinctions there's no intent on trying to get out how right okay honey there's
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Andrew Wilsonno intent honey there's no intent I'm just going out with my ex there's no intent but there were feelings at one point and that's proven but there's not feelings now sounds like you don't trust me but the thing is the feelings did exist so it's more likely so what it's
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Andrew Wilsonlikely from her who cares about her don't you trust me well what if she doesn't trust her then it's just yeah right that's the point right what if he does what if what if you don't trust her
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Andrew Wilsondon't you trust me then why is he going okay right then why are you going the same it's the same logic it's literally the same logic it's not as intimate it's not meeting with
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Andrew Wilsonone person okay it says who I think a man thinks that if you're looking at naked men that's pretty [ __ ] intimate not going to lie I think that that's pretty intimate yeah like how's that not
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Andrew Wilsonintimate honey I'm going to go with my friends to look at naked dudes dancing oh that's not intimate honey have a good day have fun it's like of course he's going to be upset of
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Axanacourse so I'll just add one work not so long like you guys um for me for me it's it's black and white interrupted your Interruption I'm kidding I'm you
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Axanafinished right no you're good you're good okay so it is black and white uh cheating is anything that stimulates you
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Axanaum sexually other than your partner so whatever it is corn whatever it is the uh or whatever the dancing or whatever for men looking at the girls
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Axanawho are doing all exotic dancing or whatever it is also cheating for women whatever stimulates you sexually uh it is also cheating on your partner it is
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Axanalike a little seed that goes into your mind then creates a certain fantasies then creates a certain ideas creates a