4 Kids From 4 Dads?! Brian Is SORRY?! Andrew Wilson IRL! Manifesting A Boyfriend? | Dating Talk #204
Date: 2024-10-14
Duration: 7h 33m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Rebecca(guest)
SPEAKER_03Nikki/April (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_05Alexandra(guest)
SPEAKER_06Mixed guests(guest)
SPEAKER_09Axana(guest)
SPEAKER_11Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_13Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_14Lindsay (Music)(guest)
Key Moments
00:03:00
QuoteBrian apologizes on-air for being 'tilted' during the previous show, references lawsuit served 30 min before show.
“last show I was pretty tilted...I was served a letter from a litigation Law Firm that I'm being sued”
00:04:06
IntroRebecca introduces herself first: 31yo door-to-door sales manager and podcast host from Austin TX.
“my name is Rebecca I'm 31 I'm from Austin Texas and I'm a door-to-door sales manager and a podcast host”
00:08:05
IntroAndrew Wilson introduces himself as host of The Crucible.
“my name is Andrew Wilson I'm the host of The Crucible a popular entertainment Channel on YouTube”
00:12:25
OtherApril reveals she has 4 kids with 4 different baby daddies ('four for four'), twice divorced.
“I'm a four for four I've got four babies four baby daddies”
01:59:24
QuoteBrian kicks off the self-rating round asking guests to rate their looks 1-10.
“ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10 starting with you go ahead 6.5”
02:00:02
QuoteAndrew rates himself a '10' on looks, triggering laughter and meta-discussion about social honesty.
“Andrew I mean obviously I'm a 10 I mean I can't but why is everybody laughing”
06:00:00
ControversyAndrew Wilson calls out Millionaire Bachelor viewer to unmask and debate.
“millionaire Bachelor if you're out there if you would actually be willing to come on whatever and take your mask off and have a debate this is a call out”
06:00:45
OtherLindsay (Music) leaves the show ~6:04 citing an appointment the next day and boyfriend waiting outside.
“was actually I have a disappointment tomorrow too and I have to go to work and my boyfriend is outside”
07:25:15
OtherApril reveals body count of ~120-130, stating she 'lost count after 100' and 'started young.'
“I lost count after 100...more than 100 guys oh yes I started young...120 130 probably”
07:27:21
OtherLindsay (Music) reveals body count of 16 during active addiction; now 3 years sober.
“it's like 16 okay wait how old are you 20 I yeah 16 Partners at 20 I don't have sex like that anymore I was in active addiction”
Topics Discussed
00:00:11
Introductions & relationship status round
Brian intro/announcements. Guests introduce name/age/location/occupation. Second round: relationship status, longest relationship, who ended it. April's 4 kids/4 baby daddies story; Axana discusses matchmaking career; Lindsay reveals music label; Alexandra reveals traveling chef lifestyle.
00:20:00
Women ending relationships / commitment phobia discussion
Brian notes that most women at the table ended all their own relationships, yet women commonly complain men are commitment-phobic. Andrew and panel analyze. Axana shares matchmaking perspective on poor partner choices.
00:24:50
Early sex vs waiting — when to have sex in a relationship
Panel debate on how long to wait before sex. Axana advocates waiting for commitment. April discusses toxic on-again-off-again relationship after divorce. Discussion of 6-month rule, going through relationship seasons before commitment.
00:33:00
General knowledge quiz: WWI and WWII dates
Viewer TTS challenge asking panel to name dates of WWI and WWII. Most guests guessed 1920s for WWI and 1940s for WWII. Axana said 1997 for WWI then corrected. Comic segment.
00:36:00
Manifestation & subconscious reprogramming debate
Nikki explains her company's manifestation/subconscious reprogramming approach. Andrew Wilson challenges manifestation on logical grounds (free will interference, creation requirements). Brian probes the Law of Attraction vs subconscious belief distinction. Panel weighs in on positive thinking and manifesting dating outcomes.
01:24:00
Sex work, stripping, and exotic dancing classification
Extended debate on whether strippers are sex workers. Andrew argues predictive value judgments about strippers are pattern-based, not necessarily wrong. Ariel and others push back. Discussion of back-room behavior at strip clubs and the spectrum of sex work. Background: multiple guests have connection to stripping/OnlyFans.
01:59:24
Self-rating looks (1–10 scale)
Viewer TTS prompts panel to rate their own looks 1-10. Ratings given: 6.5, 8.5 (Ariel), 6.5 (April), 10 (Alexandra — husband said), 6, 10, 7, 8 (mixed speakers). Andrew jokes '10 for sure.' Andrew argues the round exposes social dishonesty; extended meta-debate follows.
04:01:00
Cheating definitions and social media
What constitutes cheating: liking a flirtatious photo, texting, having a girl best friend. Panel views from Rebecca and others. Brian asks about sliding into DMs while in relationships.
04:23:00
Going out to bars/clubs while in a relationship
If your boyfriend asked you to stop going to bars/clubs, would you? Alexandra says yes in relationships she has stopped. Debate on trust vs control.
04:57:00
Plastic surgery debate
Whether plastic surgery is detectable, desirable, or ethical to disclose. Brian prefers natural; Andrew argues most fake boobs are detectable. Panel: should women disclose surgery to partners? General consensus: yes, disclose.
06:00:00
Millionaire Bachelor callout
Andrew Wilson calls out anonymous viewer 'Millionaire Bachelor' (who donated large sums) to unmask and debate on camera. 69/millionaire Bachelor sends competing $69 TTS donations. Andrew and Brian tease him as a 'broky' who won't reveal his face.
06:05:00
Roast session
Brian roasts each guest: Ava ('beautiful face, bag over that personality'), stomach tattoo guest, 'instructions on shampoo bottles' joke. TTS viewer 69 sends roasts about Andrew's finances. Comic relief segment near end of show.
07:25:15
Body count round
Last-minute body count discussion. Rebecca: under 20. April: lost count after 100 (~120-130). Axana: 1 (husband only). Alexandra: 10 (husband said). Lindsay (SPEAKER_14): 16 (during active addiction, now sober). Andrew: 7 (said by someone). Show wraps with Twitch raid to 'Grandma' World of Warcraft streamer.
Transcript
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00:56:00
Mixed gueststo get there I feel like instead of like sitting down and like in your bed and listening to audio and taking like quizzes you could just like get up and like work for something you know what I mean it's you personally used your own
00:56:12
Mixed guestscourse I'm just curious I do okay yeah well did I read a book that was saying that there's motivation and then there's actually discipline self-discipline so that you can have motivation every day but it's do you have the self-d
00:56:23
Nikki/April (mixed)discipline to get up and do it every day can you uh manif best uh healing um so we don't teach that like any like physical healing but I
00:56:33
Nikki/April (mixed)personally have like I've I've wait why don't you teach that um well because my founder doesn't want to get into you know teaching that cuz she hasn't she
00:56:44
Brian Atlashasn't figured that out specifically for herself um I mean wouldn't everything be within the purview of
00:56:53
Nikki/April (mixed)manifestation yes energetics or whatever yeah I mean I personally have manifested things that have helped me on my healing journey and have helped me heal my body
00:57:04
Nikki/April (mixed)Journey um did you do acour I know you love that word did you do actions though besides manifesting yeah absolutely so wouldn't without the manifestation would
00:57:15
Andrew Wilsonyou still just have done the actions and the same thing would have happened well the idea here is around um so this what I think mhm I think that the the the
00:57:25
Andrew Wilsonconfl it's a word concept fallacy so when I talk to witches and warlocks and anybody who's invested in alternative theories of reality is what I would say
00:57:37
Andrew Wilsonuh every single time when I dive into the particulars thank you when I dive into their particulars I find out that it's just the same [ __ ] that everybody does all day right and I go oh okay that's the particular so the word
00:57:49
Andrew Wilsonconcept fallacy comes in where let me give you the example mhm let us assume for a moment that you were a hunter okay and you would go every you know every
00:58:02
Andrew Wilsonmorning in November to go kill a deer like half of the state of Michigan does okay and when you did you brought your lucky coin and what made this coin lucky and the reason you knew this coin was lucky is when you were a kid and you were out with your dad and you were up
00:58:15
Andrew Wilsonin that tree stand and you saw the deer and you shot the deer um well you had that coin in your pocket so you were never going to forget that coin again right and you never did now one day of course 10 years in you forgot that coin
00:58:27
Andrew Wilsonyou took the shot you missed the deer uh-oh you didn't have that lucky coin did you now you go home you get that lucky coin you go back out of course
00:58:35
TTS Readerwell like magic you take out the deer the question is pale and well met LOL paladins donated $200
00:58:46
TTS Readerand2 I manifested myself a hard highly specialized and skilled job that I work 40 to 48 hours a week showing up for the past 20 years so that I could afford to
00:58:57
Andrew Wilsonsupport this podcast better than woman prattle yeah the question then becomes is this really a magical Talisman is a Talisman itself I'm not claiming it to
00:59:07
Andrew Wilsonbe mag hang on but let me explain yes the question becomes is this a magical Talisman right does it have some magical properties does it have some other
00:59:17
Andrew Wilsonworldly properties which literally enable you to become a mighty deer hunter or is it possible that you made a bunch of correlative mistakes in your brain and just decided that this thing
00:59:30
Andrew Wilsonhas way more value than it does you just like to have it with you because it makes you feel better like a WBY uh well I would go with that option right I'm sure that you would too but here's the thing about manifesting it's the same
00:59:42
Nikki/April (mixed)exact it's the same exact idea yeah it's the same exact idea so the question is is is it just your WBY I think that it is all in your brain absolutely and like we are saying it is your subconscious mind like everything that we attract is
00:59:54
Nikki/April (mixed)within our subconscious about it well I mean obviously there's things that come from our subconscious that then bring into our conscious awareness but subconscious is a lot of things that we obviously don't have that awareness for
01:00:05
Nikki/April (mixed)so like there are a lot of people who hustle and work their asses off and like work so much and like they're taking all of those actions but yet they are still met with the same cycles and patterns or don't find the success that they're
01:00:16
Andrew Wilsonlooking for and I think there are ways you can rewire your brain a bit to like have better results yeah but this is just common business school practice right like oh you're doing something um
01:00:29
Andrew Wilsonover and over again you're getting poor results so let's take a look at the process and change something in the process how is that manifestation So when you say manifestation to me that
01:00:41
Nikki/April (mixed)sounds like magic right we have energy somewhere which is being manipulated somehow in order to deliver something to you I guess we don't like use that word in that sense but I get Mo I know most
01:00:52
Mixed guestspeople kind of do can I say something yeah yeah okay so with manifestation also it's the same thing as like kind of like affirmations you say you speak something into existence and then also the human brain is very crazy how it
01:01:05
Mixed guestsworks I've had an aunt that passed a lie detector test by telling her brain and training her brain that she didn't do something when she did it you can make yourself believe you DET hang on hang on light detector tests don't work well
01:01:18
Andrew Wilsonthey're in they're completely inadmissible people that polygraph tests do not work to pass it what what happens is the post test interviews the interviewer is trained to trick you into saying why is
01:01:32
Andrew Wilsonit that you failed this question this question this question in order to get you nervous enough to make confessionals that the polygraph test itself has never been a scientifically rigorous test which is why they're totally inadmissible in court and they're
01:01:45
Andrew Wilsonnonsense So when you say somebody trained themselves to beat a test which everybody can beat right everybody they just worked on lineing so their nerves weren't up to I'm saying like they asked
01:01:55
Andrew Wilsonyou like oh what color is my shirt oh it's green oh what what is this oh like it's uh what's today it's this day but it's all all of this is highly it's all nerves and stuff like that all highly
01:02:08
Rebeccainterpretive though overall I'm saying the human brain like you're saying manifestation it's whatever the brain wants to convince itself of real quick question though what would you say is the difference because I know you're religious what's the difference between
01:02:19
Andrew Wilsonlike manifestation and prayer yeah this is a this is a great question right so uh the way that I pray is I always just pray in thanks that's it and what do you
01:02:30
Andrew Wilsonmean like what I don't ask God for stuff I just pray in thanks okay thanks for what you already have yeah thanks for existing you know that's the thing I think I pray uh about that more than
01:02:43
Andrew Wilsonanything is I just thank God for existing what about others that might say they're like praying that their living situation gets better or like to be better financially well they're not really doing that they're supposed to they're throwing themselves on the mercy
01:02:54
Andrew Wilsonof God instead they in fact it's the exact opposite of trying to control the will it's doing the exact opposite it's instead putting your will over to God in
01:03:05
Andrew WilsonGod's mercy so he would be the guider here it would not be you trying to control the will of even yourself or others but rather putting yourself completely in the hands of God so you're saying it's not putting it out to energy
01:03:16
Andrew Wilsonin that case it's putting it like in God's hands God I don't think this would be this would be the complete opposite is why we would consider this to be an inversion right this would be so I would
01:03:27
Andrew Wilsonthink let's let's like let's pretend for a second that I that you really could do this that I really could like manifest something I wanted what if I wanted
01:03:37
Nikki/April (mixed)you maybe that's how my ex got me I don't know yeah but but can you can you manifest that we no we wa wait why but why not why can't say you can't manifest specifics well Al yeah the Free Will
01:03:50
Andrew Wilsonthing definitely the free see what I mean so so but if I could and this is the caveat it's always the caveat but if somebody could manifest that wouldn't you say that was evil you say like I would be basically controlling you
01:04:04
Andrew Wilsonagainst your will but but just all I'm asking you to do is take that thought to its logical conclusion if I wanted that cup you had if I wanted that pin in your pocket if I wanted the dollar in your it's all the
01:04:15
Rebeccasame thing isn't it it's me manipulating you to get the thing that I want from you who put those limits though on manifestation does that's the greatest question of all right why can't you manifest the person you want well I mean it's all God it's all free will so
01:04:28
Mixed gueststhat's why God gave us free will we're not puppets we can't be God's not we're not robots we're human so that's why I feel like everybody's saying not to talk about the
01:04:40
Andrew Wilsonmanifestation but I feel like everything is under God so well the reason you know the reason this actually important when you're talking about dating it's it's it's actually been stunning to me um how
01:04:51
Andrew Wilsonmany women are into occultism witchcraft tarot cards some form of uh of Magic Use even recreationally uh it's it's astounding and so if you think about the population
01:05:04
Andrew Wilsonof men who are religious inside the United it's it's massive this a massive population same with women and so I think to myself well you know this is obviously very pertinent uh people are religious they're literally taught to
01:05:17
Andrew Wilsonstay away from that stuff so they're coming across women who are into it it's always interesting to me uh to kind of hear the various reasons why right so I
01:05:27
TTS Readerthink it is pertinent to date I think it is witch Ryan loves roast be Flavia $200 question assume the man or woman is
01:05:38
TTS Readergoing Full Throttle like Jackhammer man is missionary on down thrust Woman On Top going for it how many thrusts after
01:05:47
Brian Atlasa stop until it becomes sa 1 2 3 this is actually an interesting question yeah this a good so the idea here is and it it could apply to both men or woman so okay let's
01:06:00
Andrew Wilsonsay let you ask it oh you don't want to be part of it wait you don't want be I'm let you ask it what the hell I've gotten in enough trouble on Twitter okay all right yeah it's it's sexual sexual was
01:06:13
Brian Atlasin the beginning what are you talking well well so okay here I'll I'll let me frame it I was just going to say can you reframe let me frame it here okay so uh and again this could go to the apply to
01:06:24
Brian Atlasthe man or the woman so let's say the man's on top and missionary position and you say stop right but he's like you
01:06:33
Brian Atlaswere pre it was all consensual before and uh but he's going for it like it's fast right and there's momentum what what the laws of physics Newton's what
01:06:46
Brian Atlasis it the first second third I don't know an object motion object in motion will stay in motion so if you're hooking up with a guy and you're like stop and it and the stop is like we're done but
01:06:58
Brian Atlasyou were you were consenting before and then like obviously let's say he's on the he's he's uh he's on the down thrust and he's in the middle of the down thrust and you say stop during the
01:07:09
Brian Atlasmiddle of the down thrust and he finishes the down thrust that's is that sa what's no sexual assault sexual shot oh has he just as like and then does he
01:07:22
Mixed guestsget off immediately after the down thrust he does the down thrust and then removes his I think that's fine as long as he you know I think once like he has a clear understanding cuz you're in that
01:07:31
Mixed guestsmode you know what I mean so it's like if you hit the down thrust then you're like still locked into sex so I think once you get the point you like stop and make sure that the other person's okay and either talk about it and continue or
01:07:45
Rebeccanot like what do you like what do you not like or have like a safe word you know what I mean that eliminates any questions as well cuz some people will say stop cuz they like it you know what I mean that's why it's like have like a word hold
01:07:56
Brian Atlason okay guys here let's not over complicate it let's just assume the man understands that it's a stop there's no confusion here there's no need of for a
01:08:06
Brian Atlassafe word the woman says stop he's going like this son fast and she says stop at what point because there's momentum you know how
01:08:19
Brian Atlasmany thrusts does he get until it's say you know you get to finish that thrust and then you're done bro no but I mean what so you're going to say but are you going to
01:08:31
Brian Atlassay if he he he's got the momentum he does two like he does two did he just sa you I think it's when it becomes intentional past when he knows you want him to stop you know what I mean like no
01:08:42
Axanabut you say stop yeah one thrust two thrust and then he stops was that essay three is excessive yeah I'll give it that three excessive he
01:08:51
Axanathat woman would say stop if she already to that and there is joy and she's G pleasure why would people women do this they they're in the middle of consensual sex but then for what whatever what is
01:09:03
Brian Atlasthe reason like if she experiences the pain pain and she is it could be for any reason it could be she's she no longer wishes to continue having sex well if she does not wishes yeah for whatever
01:09:15
Axanalike she doesn't wishes pain or something like that that is like Thin Line there but we are coming from the country where a man using the term no
01:09:25
Axanameans yes you know so for us it's like the essay and stuff like that is uh like man's needs need to be fulfilled right but that's not really pertaining to the
01:09:37
Brian Atlasthat's not really pertaining to the example so okay so cuz I'm thinking like okay what if you're the guy and you tell her to stop and she's on top and she's
01:09:45
Mixed guests[ __ ] throwing it back like just going [ __ ] crazy bro how often do man I was just man go no stop if the
01:09:57
Brian Atlasnever say no stop what no but let's say just a thought experiment it's a thought experiment like if she's doing if it's like if she does a cple like two more little B same amount of bounces and
01:10:08
Brian Atlashumps if she does two more bounces I'm not going to feel like if I'm but if it's like seven then I'm like whoa hold on what's I think that girl is an idiot honestly personally in that position
01:10:20
Mixed guestsokay that's cool like no right I agree with you on that like one or to cuz you're in the moment then it's kind of like okay but when you're doing it and doing it that was like bro there's like another solid 30 seconds like you know
01:10:32
Brian Atlaswhat you're doing like stop you know I think three like three um what's the term for the girl like she's bouncing the same as th
01:10:40
Brian Atlasthrust thrust she can a woman can thrust wom can thrust but I think I think work it twer it I actually think I
01:10:50
Brian Atlasthink three thrusts is enough I think three th thrusts is like the the leeway boom boom boom I think three
01:11:00
Brian Atlasthrust is the leeway mm and then you you stop it after three thrusts I think that should be the lead I think that's fa I think after three thrust it's like do I want to keep doing it or not that's what
01:11:11
Mixed guestsit's like or did you choose this am I sure I want to keep going that's what the three thrust is and then if you keep going I think it depends on the situation though too me you yeah maybe
01:11:23
Axanahe's having a heart attack on the he I mean he's seing up in there right having a heart attack in the is CRA stop what is the is there a man who would say
01:11:35
Axanastop sure there is of course really for what reason there could be for what reason I don't know he's you want to he wants to pee his dick got soft he's done hey we're being very insensitive
01:11:50
Mixed gueststo you get a back AR it's like I shouldn't be this or your girl you know you smell bad or something I've heard a lot of stories about girls that smell bad and smell bad you're like I'm done
01:12:00
Mixed guestsget out if I was a guy honestly like be like sexual assault cuz you stink like no you're doing too much [ __ ] it is an interesting thought experiment though um
01:12:12
Brian AtlasI mean it's like cuz there are situations where you could be having consensual sex and then one of the the man the woman says stop and it's like yeah you should stop
01:12:23
Brian Atlasbut like if again in the scenario if it's like he said Jack Rabbit so like I give it the three because honestly the momentum you just think about it so he's at the very top of the thrust he's at
01:12:36
Brian Atlasthe top of the thrust but he's already started his momentum so then down one no but like if you say stop at the top of the thrust but he's already his momentum's already going down like is it
01:12:47
Brian Atlastechn like technically could they be like well you completed the thrust that's sa but it's like no cuz he can argue uh objects in motion die into into the I mean unless you start getting
01:12:59
Brian Atlasphysical if you start hitting him like oh this is like too much get off me no that's not that's what I'm talking about I'm just talking about this very specific scenario Jack where the
01:13:09
Brian Atlasmomentum is quick there's a lot of and it's like he's he's already on the down thrust [ __ ] it there's gravity there's
01:13:19
Axanagravity too we have to K he's on it's it's a it's a slippery slope there should be clear reasons under which condition woman should say stop do
01:13:31
Brian Atlaswe have to take into account angle and pitch and I mean that's where I was that's the other thing that's why I said missionary because missionary there's there's gravity you know the rules
01:13:41
Brian Atlaschanged based on position I I maybe you get more thrusts if it's missionary maybe you get less if if it's some other position I don't know
01:13:51
Brian Atlasback shots you didn't hear them I mean that's valid anyways La paladin says uh good to see you in the chat man uh then shout thou count to three no
01:14:04
Brian Atlasmore no less three shall be the number Thou shalt count and the number of the counting shall be three for shalt thou not count neither neither count thou
01:14:14
Brian Atlasto that was poetic Shakespeare [ __ ] love Paladin thank you man appreciate it that is an interesting thought experiment though you know I mean anyways okay thank you appreciate it all right let's get back to the
01:14:27
Brian Atlaspre-show notes here so going back to you we're going to move off of the manifestation stuff you said you had interesting points of view on topics discussed on your podcast that I feel often get ne neglected or left out and
01:14:38
Nikki/April (mixed)uh any of those come to mind right now um not right now but if I oh I I don't know I I just feel like normally
01:14:48
Nikki/April (mixed)when I've seen the podcast um I I feel like you guys do ask a lot of the the same questions and it tends to be a lot of the the same points of view and I guess I just haven't heard too many
01:15:00
Nikki/April (mixed)people with similar perspectives to mine however we just had such a long manifestation Panter that I'm ready to move on well I'll read this really quick realistic heart manifestation lacks
01:15:10
Brian Atlasempirical evidence success toward a goal often requires effort opportunity cognitive bias pattern recognition and optimistic thinking realistic heart thank you very much for the $100 Super
01:15:23
Brian AtlasChat man really appreciate it l pal five is right ought out once the number three being the third number be reached then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of
01:15:33
Andrew WilsonAntioch towards thy foe by the way can you pull that uh previous Super
01:15:41
Andrew WilsonChat back up uh it got uh I can I got it was it realistic hard yeah I just wanted to thank you for being a big donor to both um the whatever and The Crucible
01:15:53
Brian Atlasrealistic heart appreciative very much yo thank you thank you man um all right so if you guys want read 100 TTS 200 if you want to get a message in uh okay so let's
01:16:05
Brian Atlassee uh using manifestation to call in online Partners dating dating in La um I mean it sucks is that the basic I
01:16:15
Nikki/April (mixed)actually had a lot of fun when I first moved to LA um but yeah like just lots of Adventures I was definitely very much on a high with with my manifestation
01:16:26
Nikki/April (mixed)Journey so Journey um but yeah I called in just fun experiences motorcycle rides like going to like fun places around the city uh stuff like that how did you meet
01:16:38
Nikki/April (mixed)the people that you met in La that you were da when I first moved definitely dating apps um but I also lived in a co- living where we had a hundred people across Eight houses and all sort of like around my age so I met a lot of people
01:16:51
Brian Atlasjust through connections through there too h okay let's see what else you said um uh self-help Wellness spirituality
01:17:02
Brian Atlasastrology oh boy when it comes to dating okay uh dating culture standards today no not astrology too yes I'm definitely into astrology she says she agrees on most things however I am sure I have
01:17:14
Andrew Wilsondifferent and unique takes when it comes to topics love to know your chart and energetics I well I'm an aquarius okay I was going to I thought you were air sign for and it's the year of Aquarius
01:17:25
Andrew Wilsondo reiky reiky yeah by the way I I just lied to you I'm actually a Taurus Oh I okay o oh you got me but I bet you have air in actually just just so you know I
01:17:36
Nikki/April (mixed)really am a an aquarius right you got me well I mean that's why I like to see someone's chart cuz we all have all of the signs in our chart so
01:17:47
Andrew Wilsonyeah is have you ever noticed when it comes to astrology that everything which is inside of a star chart or inside of any type of uh perceived prophecy for
01:17:57
Andrew Wilsonwhat that will entail is so vague that it can literally be applicable to any human being on planet Earth I mean I I don't like if we were
01:18:09
Andrew Wilsonto pull up if I had Brian pull up right now right today what whatever my horoscope was for not horoscope but I I don't believe in horoscopes personally well what is Astrology then um astrology
01:18:21
Nikki/April (mixed)is where the planets are where when you were born uh so like all of the the planets have a specific energy and the different planets sort of correlate to different things like within your chart
01:18:32
Nikki/April (mixed)for an example like where where the Moon is placed and that sign is more related to your emotional being inside of things and everyone has like different dominant planets so there there is a lot that
01:18:44
Nikki/April (mixed)goes into what what does that tell you uh it just I for me it just is like a little bit of a blueprint on the energy that you may experience or like but this is this is
01:18:56
Nikki/April (mixed)prophecy so there are there is predictive astrology however I just don't personally I'm not What's it for like what what would it be for it helps me understand myself and others so that
01:19:08
Andrew Wilsonyou can make predictions I mean it just helps me understand myself but why do you want to understand like why would you want to understand a thing about a person unless it was as a predictive
01:19:19
Nikki/April (mixed)model right like so like for instance with dating like knowing my partner's chart and like knowing different like energies within that like it helps me better understand yeah I guess I I mean
01:19:31
Nikki/April (mixed)I guess technically always it's always a predictive model so the thing is is like since it's not like I'm predicting anything specific but it's like oh well if he you know is very talkative and social when he's out and meeting new
01:19:43
Nikki/April (mixed)people I understand like oh he's a Libra rising and he's very chatty and social butterfly itates or or opposite if he's like a Scorpio Rising he may hate going out Crees predictive models yeah right
01:19:56
Nikki/April (mixed)that's why I mean that's what it's for it's so it is a horoscope in a way uh in a way it's not like on Tuesday the 18th you are going to experience uh you know XYZ but yeah whatever the vague thing is
01:20:08
Andrew Wilsonthat you may or may not experience whatever that may be but even this as a predictive model right I'm guessing that any chart that you would show me I could apply it to anybody who is sitting right
01:20:20
Nikki/April (mixed)here to I mean to a te I bet you I could do it do you you do think so I do think so yeah I've seen someone would you not talk to someone because they're like oh
01:20:30
Brian Atlasthey're a Scorpio no never Scorpio so you're done I'm not friends with you I love Scorpios um so uh you said also in your notes proponent of women waiting to
01:20:42
Brian Atlashave sex until they are sure they're seeing consistency and commitment from from men yeah I I think this sort of I knocked down this beautiful thing
01:20:55
Brian Atlasyou're you're not supposed to let the speak English just espanol espol don't but those were all the words he knew that that's all he knew that's
01:21:05
Brian Atlasall he knew that's all he knew can Austin can you open the door um so okay uh yeah I think it kind of goes back to has that always been your standard by the way um you've never had a one night
01:21:16
Nikki/April (mixed)stand or a I mean I have in college for I was definitely a very different person in college and I think all these self-help tools is what I personally
01:21:26
Nikki/April (mixed)needed to get out of like Dark Places I really didn't know myself and I was was really struggling in a lot of aspects what you say you had to find yourself I I did have to find myself Andrew I would
01:21:38
Andrew Wilsonsay that it was a journey did you find yourself on your journey I I think so obviously still discovering along the way oh discovering so you're still you're still on your
01:21:50
Nikki/April (mixed)journey of self-discovery then I think it's a lifelong Journey Andrew life long journey of self-discovery okay um but yeah no I think like because I've
01:22:01
TTS Readerlearned from my past relationships I mean my my first uh James the bll donated $200 thank you James nice to see you doing well
01:22:12
TTS ReaderAlexandra thank you for amazing food you prepared for us on ox's Love tour in Orlando you are an absolute Delight men are in need of traditional quality women
01:22:22
Brian Atlaslike you a James uh James thank you very much appreciate the TTS thank you thank you well I mean but how how amazing was this
01:22:32
Axanafood she puts lots of love in the things that she does and she's professional chef and she's like whatever she touches just turn us into yeah can you just tilt tilt your mic down a little bit so okay so really quick going back so okay
01:22:45
Brian Atlasyou're proponent of women waiting to have sex until they are sure they are seeing consistent consistency and commitment from Men Who who here at the table agrees do you agree that women
01:22:57
Brian Atlasshould wait to have sex until they are sure they are seeing consistency and commitment from men or at least waiting some portion of time before just having
01:23:06
Brian Atlassex I think so mhm guys into the mics please I think so um what was the question that was a nope for me no for you I recall that in your notes uh over
01:23:19
Brian Atlashere you guys uh no so no waiting no okay fair enough correct um and then those of you who
01:23:30
Brian Atlassaid yeah I should wait just show of hands have you been with a guy that you didn't wait
01:23:39
Rebeccafor I'm sorry with the question I'm sorry I I'm not going to repeat myself you just have to kind of listen and I'm sorry but um yeah the guy that I was with for 6 years I think it was maybe
01:23:51
Rebeccaafter like a month or so it was still waiting but not like like an extended period and obviously it worked out until I left yeah okay let me simplify the question
01:24:03
Rebeccahere those of you who said yes it's good to wait MH have you ever not waited I mean how long does is waiting I don't
01:24:14
Andrew Wilsonknow how long do you think you should wait I would say at least like a month personally I think anything longer than which happens to correspond with the exact amount of time that you happen to wait in the shortest period right that's
01:24:26
Andrew Wilsonwhy it is right I'm like latest isn't that isn't that interesting that it just happens to correspond with the shortest period of time yeah exactly it I mean on your journey a short Journey but a journey n
01:24:39
Andrew Wilsonon your journey of self-discovered exactly what about you what's the shortest amount of time uh that you should wait um I usually
01:24:48
Mixed guestsum everybody I ended up doing it with was like six months or over okay I've never had a one night stand you're a [ __ ] liar you think I'm a
01:24:59
Mixed guestsliar I was going to just call you out on that you just said the guy you were with was 6 months yeah and you haven't touched him yet we literally just did it and I don't have to [ __ ] lie I don't
01:25:12
Mixed guestshave to [ __ ] lie honestly if I if I'm being [ __ ] for real I did have sex with him literally now and now we're going to Italy next month for my birthday and I think I might end up really being with this guy
01:25:24
Brian Atlaswait so the quickest you've hooked up with a guy was 6 months yes you guys everybody can think I'm a liar I don't give a damn I know me so you haven't done five months or four
01:25:37
Mixed guestsmonths which three that's even a long time haven't done that also oral counts is said what counts oral counts oral counts oh no I don't even like giving a head I like receiving
01:25:48
Mixed guestsit did he give you a head before then huh did he give you a head before then oh yes he did so there how long is mon okay okay okay okay okay that was like
01:25:58
Mixed gueststhat was like two months in two three months in no God I swear to God I'm not even Cy gave you head and that was that no like this is so much cope swe to God you guys are not even knowing people
01:26:11
Brian Atlasthat actually know me know that this is how I am wait hold on and you're like you're sex worker this guy's giving you takeing you to Italy right like stripper you uh I used to strip I don't strip anymore you used to but you do want fans
01:26:24
Brian Atlasyeah when you only fans it's like me like so your like moral compass is that that's like you'll do like stripping and all that but like one night stand it's just totally off the table I think that so
01:26:36
Brian Atlasdifferent I mean it's possible but it's typ having one night stands that's like totally different from okay fine you you hooked up with a guy on the third date and you dated him for three years that's never really you dated them for a couple
01:26:49
Andrew Wilsonmonths or a couple years really few weeks every guy when you were a stripper did you do extra no no I'm not a prostitute so I don't nothing see at least at least you know that that's prostitution that's
01:27:01
Mixed guestsprostitution believe whatever the hell you guys want to believe but I know what the hell I did I shake ass and that's the most I [ __ ] did so and that's what I do on my only fans if you guys want to subscribe go ahead feel free to
01:27:13
Brian Atlasyou'll see a bunch of ass wait can I ask you a question so like if uh if you heard a a stripper tell you cuz you you worked in how many clubs like eight
01:27:23
Brian Atlaseight different clubs yeah so if like a stripper came up to you and um she she told you she was a virgin would you believe her there's a possibility there's those rare few I mean I started
01:27:36
Mixed guestslike which way would you lean though huh which way would you lean well obviously everybody's going to be looking at her you're a stripper everybody everybody assumes that strippers are like what [ __ ] but that's not the case well so
01:27:47
Brian Atlasit is look I'll even grant that it is possible a woman could uh I suppose jump a few steps ahead and become a stripper and but still be a virgin it could happen maybe it has in fact it probably
01:27:58
Brian Atlashas happened but it's kind of like the you know it's like oh somebody just jumps straight into like shooting heroin it's like well did stripping you can compare stripping to shooting heroin
01:28:11
Andrew Wilsonkind of like into it yeah there's a Le into it it's all how you look at stuff it's all how you do stuff so pretty much yes iing true but you agree with me that there's patterns for how people usually do stuff
01:28:23
Andrew Wilsonand one of those patterns is is like if you're if you're a hard drug addict usually started with softer drugs if you're somebody who's in sex yeah if if you're somebody who's in sex work you usually had kind of a graduated experience from promiscuity to this to
01:28:37
Rebeccathis to right still in other words there's still patterns they doing it out of like necessity like they're in a financial bind or something they have no other choice you know what I mean like maybe they became a stripper for that reason
01:28:48
Andrew Wilsonand they don't likey per no that's not usually the pattern though right that would be think that that would usually be the outlier to the pattern I'm not saying again that that's not possible and doesn't happen I'm sure it does Brian would concede that that does do
01:29:01
Andrew Wilsonyou think like every stripper does it CU they enjoy it genuinely no if a girl is hang on hang on hang on hang on let me let me respond real quick so uh to your question nothing's a monolith it's not
01:29:11
Andrew Wilsonsaying all cases of all things always are X right that would be absurd you just you just can't ever make the human behavior super complex so you can't always make those determinations but
01:29:22
Andrew Wilsonwhat I can say is that human beings are pattern recognition machines and that is what we are and that's how you can predict that you're in a safe area that's how you can make all and you're almost always right about these things
01:29:36
Andrew Wilsonright because you predict it based on patterns the same thing occurs with stripping sex work drug addicts addictive behavior and you know this because you can make predictions based on these things okay making predictions
01:29:48
Andrew Wilsonthat's judging a book by its cover like usually what doctors usually do is making making an educated guest yeah I'm sorry I mean IDE Theory that's true but there's all sorts of times where judging a book by
01:29:59
Andrew Wilsonits cover is just fine like let me give you an example of that a guy runs in with a a rifle and a ski mask into a
01:30:08
Andrew Wilsonstore he might not be robbing the store right is that not correct he might not be robbing the store right I it's a bit
01:30:19
Andrew Wilsonthat's oh wait a second why you judging a book by its cover that's a you why wait wait a second that's unbelievable that you would do that trying to harm someone a stripper is not trying to hurt wait harm wait wait we don't we haven't
01:30:32
Andrew Wilsonestablished he's trying to harm anyone we haven't established fight you're assuming if someone runs in with a weapon yes okay here let me give you an easier example you're walking down the street at night okay and
01:30:43
Rebeccathere's a group of men who are walking towards you and you cross the street aren't you making a shitload of assumptions again that's a woman alone at night middle of the street
01:30:55
Andrew Wilsontons of assumptions right but one's like a matter of safety both of those were so what everything's a matter of safety stripper every predictive model you come up with is a matter of safety what are you talking about you actually Lally going to the strip club okay tell me
01:31:09
Andrew Wilsonwhat you do that isn't a matter of safety honestly when you make a predictive model based on how you judge people or judge your surroundings yeah that that wouldn't be a safety issue how you wouldn't want like bouncers around
01:31:20
Andrew Wilsonthings like this but what okay but back to the initial question though I don't understand like back to back to the fact that we're pattern recognition machines because we're pattern recognition machines we pick up patterns all the
01:31:31
Andrew Wilsontime non-stop we make all sorts of judgments on people all the time for our own personal safety that might be wrong right yeah yeah of course so assuming she went into sex work okay but I'm not saying that they couldn't be wrong but I'm giving you
01:31:44
Andrew Wilsonexamples of where you could be wrong when a guy runs in with a mask or uh if a guy if if you hop into a car that's making loud banging noises right you could be complet everything safety what
01:31:55
Rebeccaisn't safety how is that not I don't understand how that's not safety she wasn't promiscuous prior she might not have been she might have been going into it because of necess but okay wait wait
01:32:05
Andrew Wilsonstop we're talking past each other you're making a value judgment right why would you be making a value judgment on if someone's a sex worker or not it's because you think okay wait a second
01:32:16
Andrew Wilsonthere might be a problem here might be an issue here an issue what do you mean an issue what's well like I don't know if you were dating and someone says oh I'm a sex worker now you're worried about what using that that sex worker
01:32:27
Andrew Wilsonterm is crazy answer the question okay now suddenly it's oh she might have STDs oh she might have venial dis she might or she might be very promiscuous or all those all seem like they're very much
01:32:39
Mixed guestssafety related to me but that's if you go to that point to end up trying to have sex with a stripper what strippers are are exotic dancers yeah but what I'm talking about value judgments which are generally made saying how it could
01:32:51
Mixed guestsaffect you is what you're saying that's how we make all value judgments they're not just dancers I mean you buy a dance you go in the back room they sit on your lap and all of that so I think we're just I think we're just talking past each other same I understand what you're saying I do like that it's like
01:33:04
Rebeccabasically what's her past because of what she does which I don't think is like always accurate of course but I do see what you're saying about how like there's a risk associated because there's an image people right and so because of this because of this risk
01:33:17
Andrew Wilsonwhich is there that's why value judgments are there right it's the same reason I think that women will cross the street with their alone at night and there's you know two men walking towards them and I don't think there's anything
01:33:28
Andrew Wilsonwrong with it right I think that they're making a value judgment even though it's probably wrong in fact in fact it almost always will be wrong almost every single time but I I don't blame them for doing
01:33:39
Mixed guestsit I don't blame them for making that value judgment something thing with your judgment is wrong with possibly I don't know how you judge exotic dancers but maybe your judgment is wrong for that
01:33:51
Andrew Wilsonyeah do you think that exotic dancers are like even conceded that that was true that that really wouldn't negate my point which is that we make these value judgments based on patterns that we see
01:34:02
Andrew Wilsonso uh whether or not I judge them wrongly or or not wrongly or whatever um that really wouldn't matter to the point of we we're judging based on patterns that we see so usually if we see a
01:34:14
Andrew Wilsonstripper um you would agree with me that in most cases there was probably escalations which led to this in most cases it was not a I'm a and I grew up on the farm and I just can't wait to get
01:34:26
Lindsay (Music)to the club I just can't I can't wait Dad I can't come on Pho we're going to go take the cab to the strip club in the city I can't wait like that's not that's not the normal story right the normal
01:34:36
Andrew Wilsonstory is a single mom uh Abus in the home all sorts of things like this escalations which led up to promiscuity these are the common stories which are
01:34:47
Andrew Wilsonheard and the common stories which people hear not um you know oh I was Little House in the prairie and I just couldn't wait to go take off my clothes in front of a bunch of men in a club that's not usually what you hear right
01:34:58
Mixed guestswhen you say exotic dancers do you not think strippers are sex workers um I think he keeps yeah it's it's different like the club that I used to work out a lot was Sam's and like I did even take
01:35:10
Mixed guestsoff my top well what's a what's a sex worker I say I consider like I guess I I'm a dancer I'm exotic dancer I'm an Entertainer um I don't consider myself a sex worker yeah I know but my question
01:35:22
Andrew Wilsonwas what is a sex worker a prostitute I don't know when men go to a strip club what do you think wa wa wait hang on wait what like so so like somebody who's
01:35:32
Andrew Wilsondoing porn corn right okay I have to use the word because we're on YouTube okay but they they have like no partner it's
01:35:41
Mixed guestsjust them oh well that's a sex worker I guess women that are is it is that prostitution well they're getting paid for it so to a certain extent so if
01:35:53
Mixed guestsyou're getting paid PA for some type of provocative sexual act well it's kind I can kind of compare it to like a burlesk show like if I'm just dancing with a sexy outfit well no
01:36:05
Andrew Wilsonit's intent so I mean we have a distinction in intents just like with art you say oh there could be some men who if they go and they see a nude model they get you know who they get very you
01:36:16
Andrew Wilsonknow um riled about that it's like okay but there's an intent distinction right so the intent distinction if you're stripping at a club is to make men's penises hard right well that is I mean
01:36:29
Andrew Wilsonlet just like be blunt right yeah that's usually the in what it is that's what hang on and that's your intent you're not going there because you just want to listen to the music right you're going there because your
01:36:40
Mixed guestsjob is to make a dude's penis hard my job is to look good get money and shake some ass yeah and you do that by by dancing I actually and at Sam's is not actually you sitting on man how much
01:36:52
Andrew Wilsonmore like disingenuous can you possibly be your job as a stripper is to make men's penis hard yes or no nobody says I
01:37:02
Andrew Wilsonhave to be touching them okay yes or no it's not that easy you yes or no it's as easy as saying no then no that's not your job no but apparently if they're
01:37:14
Andrew Wilsonfrom afar and they're watching me and their dick gets hard apparently then it iSell it is so all those men are coming in because they just can't wait to see your moves hell yeah is there any other lies you want to give
01:37:26
Andrew Wilsonme or I'm not giving no damn lies okay so you you get hired at a strip club because men want to go in and and watch you dance or do they want to see your naked body or do they want to see as much flesh as they can n clubs I don't
01:37:38
Andrew Wilsonwork at nude club even if you're not working at a nude club if you're working just as like a bikini barista do you think that men are going in to obviously they want to see good-looking woman they want to see as much flesh as they
01:37:49
Mixed guestspossibly can no one's going to Hooters for their chicken so what is their job look [ __ ] good no their jobs to make the dude's penis hard you're getting one there nothing wrong with that yeah right but can you just concede that it's
01:38:04
Andrew Wilsontrue you still can't concede that it's I mean it's so obviously true that the job of these women is to make these men uh riled up sexually that's the job right
01:38:15
Mixed guestsokay that's okay yes yes so so how's that not sex work I I don't know I don't I don't consider it sex work but sex a bad you know what I mean I don't think we have to associate it as a bad thing saying sex work the way that it comes
01:38:28
Andrew Wilsonoff it just sounds like a little bit offputting yeah I'm sure you don't like the label because you fit under it right I don't fit under it you do fit under if you're if you were a stripper you're a sex worker you meet every criteria for
01:38:39
Andrew Wilsonit your job is to be sexually provocative to get men sexually riled up your work was sex related that was the work so if hang on hang on hang on so if your work hang on if your work is sex
01:38:51
Andrew Wilsonrelated you are there for a entertainment yeah okay got it entertainment yeah I think what she's trying to say is she is there is there
01:39:04
Mixed guestsprofessional coping in that type of entertainment anyway what I think what her her line is that she's not actually performing the sex so that doesn't make her a sex
01:39:15
Andrew Wilsonworker a porn star that's right she she made the concession that nope not if they're doing solo and you said that that's a prostitute prostitute you said
01:39:26
Andrew Wilsonwas a sex worker that is a prostitute correct well hang on did you say hang on did you say that a corn star who's doing solo content on her own was a prostitute and
01:39:38
Andrew Wilsonearlier the hang on hang on earlier the criteria for what a sex worker was the criteria you said was a prostitute yes you aren't specific like what saying like if it's by herself but yeah I was
01:39:50
Andrew Wilsonliterally 100% specific she's doing it on her own you said that's a prostitute she getting paid for it well no cuz now she's not now she's not there's okay I I guess if she's doing it by herself then it's it's
01:40:03
Andrew Wilsonstill sex work actually cuz if you're showing [ __ ] I mean mean uh can I say that okay yeah no I'm with you I get it so hang on so that would be a sex worker
01:40:12
Mixed guestsyeah okay and what makes her a sex worker showing her [ __ ] that's it it's just nudity and her if she's doing like she just did foot
01:40:24
Mixed guestscorn corn well feet are actually that's a normal part part of the human body yeah I know but people are masturbating to it and sending her tons of money it's whatever you decide what is sex to you
01:40:37
Andrew Wilsonpeople are weird in this world but would that be considered a sex worker if the if this woman is doing this purposely for the purpose of having men however you portray things like I don't if I
01:40:48
Andrew Wilsonguess if you get to take pictures and people are using your feet as feet corn no no no no no again we having trouble with the establishment of intent I agree with you that some guy could be fapping
01:41:00
Andrew Wilsonto some billboard or some chick's feet somewhere but that was not the intent of the billboard whereas there are women who specifically put their feet in certain positions so that men can fap to
01:41:11
Andrew Wilsonthe feet right how's that not sex work I still let's agree to disagree cuz I don't let's not agree to disagree let's get to agreement let's get to where we I we are going to get agreement
01:41:24
Andrew Wilsonyeah but but you're just being obstinate it's like you're arguing for the sake of argumentation because you don't want to fit under the criteria of a sex worker for stripping by the way just so you know do you think like people are super
01:41:34
Andrew Wilsondumb and that they just think well you know if I call her a stripper and and uh she says that's not a sex worker and I agree with her for the sake of just being agreeable that they don't actually
01:41:46
Rebeccastill think sex worker because they still do okay they can think what they want to think yeah know but why are they wrong I just have a real quick question why would you not want to be classified as a sex you're too far from the mic why would you not want to be classified as a
01:41:59
Mixed guestssex worker just out of curiosity I just never categorized myself as a sex worker I've always said I was an Entertainer when you think of
01:42:09
Andrew Wilsonlike a sex worker what like kind literally what comes to my brain is like porn stars prostitution like actual like real life doing it yeah I I totally understand those criteria and why you
01:42:22
Andrew Wilsonwould have those criteria I just don't understand what makes those things that and not what you were doing that that's my that's like where I'm having trouble reconciling this and you just kind of say because I just don't think of it
01:42:35
Andrew Wilsonthat way it's like but now I'm making you think of it that way M give me the the what is the Symmetry breaker what is the thing that makes stripping not sex work but these other things sex work because literally a stripper can be like
01:42:46
Andrew Wilsonanything I've literally got paid just to sit down and talk with a guy and literally be hisap yeah we're not bikinis no no of course not so you being the girls are in
01:42:58
Mixed guestsbikinis at the beach it doesn't matter like what what's the purpose what was the purpose what was the intent cuz men want to talk to beautiful women that look that have a nice body that is what that is what it is that is what I look
01:43:09
Brian Atlasat what did you guys talk about um his job his his relationship with his wife sorry let me cut in really quick I've just been uh perusing your only fans here on your only fans on August 16th
01:43:21
Brian Atlasyou published a video uh with the description that says new secret BG boy girl tapes for limited time only boy girl implying male female so you've
01:43:33
Mixed guestspublished to your only fans a video of you having sex with a man no it says BG I know so what I have people run my only fans for me it's just my boyfriend grabbing my ass and us taking like
01:43:43
Mixed guestsprofit like pictures we never [ __ ] like you also sell a [ __ ] box they make it sound more nastier than what it is but if you guys want subscribe so you guys can see what I post go ahead feel
01:43:55
Mixed guestsfree to it says the most explicit face sitting [ __ ] POV you got to make it sound crazy you're a sex worker bro you have to you're a sex worker you're sex worker you're scaming people if you look
01:44:06
Brian Atlasat it literally subscribe and you'll see you'll literally see what I post well I'm just one all my nudes uh bear ass tits and [ __ ] bro you're a sex worker
01:44:19
Mixed gueststhey asked me do you want to talk vulgar yeah go ahead just to you're a sex worker it's okay say you're a sex worker don't think so you're scamming people on
01:44:29
Brian Atlasthere yeah uh that's almost worse than being I think that's worse than being a like just and I don't
01:44:39
Mixed guestsum okay whatever you also do dick rating you do dick ratings they say that like anybody with the microp penis you supposed to say like oh like it's small like I have somebody that runs my only
01:44:50
Andrew Wilsonfans for me none of this is sex work just a of sex work is sex work there's nothing wrong with sex work it's okay yeah just cop well there's lot I mean I think there's lots of things
01:45:02
Andrew Wilsonwrong with it but but not to not to like parse words it's definitely sex work there's like how do you get around that I don't I don't see how you get around that also oh hang on hang on hang on
01:45:14
Brian Atlashang on I want to what did you say may maybe itet and that's it's a little bit a we had it Brian we had it It also says full XXX tape on some other
01:45:27
Mixed guestspost I'm not going to continue I mean it's all you can keep going I'll read the keep going wait how are you allowed to post this and I'm sorry I have to move nobody knows about it it's under
01:45:37
Brian Atlasanother name oh boy but you just okay well uh Mr unremarkable girls girl you are a Hoover mental gymnastics will not
01:45:46
Brian Atlaschange that what's a Hoover a vacuum so it sucks so it sucks a good one that Mr unremarkable damn look at his pythons by
01:45:58
Brian Atlasthe way [ __ ] jacked look at this guy and he's got a he's got a gun too at the at the range boys uh realistic hard a sex worker provides sexual services for money or Goods including roles like prostitution escorting stripping and
01:46:10
Brian Atlasother forms of adult entertainment that's a definite he pulled that up from Miriam Webster by the way that's a Miriam Webster I think I thinkster Maybe I'm Wrong uh realistic thank you man for
01:46:22
Brian Atlasthank you for that um here I do have to move on to uh some of the more notes I think last thing with you in your notes here you said that um you think women should focus on themselves and men
01:46:35
Brian Atlasshould pursue of course women can still find ways to show interest but don't think they should ever Chase or specifically pursue a
01:46:44
Nikki/April (mixed)man yeah that's just what I feel like I've come to learn and realize is that I think women are when they are just
01:46:54
Nikki/April (mixed)owning themselves doing what lights them up focusing on their hobbies and uh I think they tend to attract the best people when they put themselves in those situations people that are actually in
01:47:05
Nikki/April (mixed)alignment with the things that they are into and I do think it's just natural for men to pursue women you know the
01:47:14
Nikki/April (mixed)sperm swims to the egg yeah I think it's just natural biology the man's role yeah but I mean I I think obviously women can do things like if they see someone they
01:47:25
Brian Atlasparticularly to be submissive and Obey her boyfriend or husband think so you would obey your boyfriend or husband yeah okay so let's say he tells you to vote for a politician
01:47:36
Andrew Wilsonthat well I mean I don't know if this is a great example just because I I would assume you would probably he tells you how to vote he tells you how to vote he says look you're going to vote for kamla but you ain't you're voting for Trump
01:47:48
Andrew Wilsonand and hang on in this scenario you really want to vote for the other person like you think think the other person's going to be better and he says no you need to vote for who I say you need to vote
01:47:59
Nikki/April (mixed)for yeah I mean I would want a partner where we are aligned on those that's not submiss but um I mean well that's the opposite of submission it it's the opposite of submission if I have a
01:48:11
Andrew Wilsonpartner that has the same beliefs well yeah well who's in charge then so the thing is is like you say okay well he could still I want to submit I want to submit to you you agree with everything I think yeah that's not submission that's like
01:48:24
Mixed guestsStepford wise why would you want a woman that's agreeing to everything that you say what's wrong with that sign me up I mean I guess married to a robot woman that has an opinion why are they robotic she just said she wanted a man who
01:48:36
Andrew Wilsonagreed with everything I did not that agreed with her what do you mean she wants a robot she wants a robot I just want somebody that has like core values that are in alignment but I mean to
01:48:47
Brian Atlasanswer the question like yeah if it was really important to him I would h okay um oh really quick here Austin can we do twitch guys go to twitch.tv
01:48:57
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Andrew Wilsondrop us a follow very important twitch has been having all sorts of issues with the prime sub system massive if you if you drop a few Prime Subs we'll know that uh yeah there we go will we'll know
01:49:22
Brian Atlasthat uh that that's getting sorted out yeah so that's twitch.tv/ whatever thank you guys appreciate it um so women should focus on themselves men should pursue on their Hobbies of course can
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Brian Atlasstill find ways H uh I had something on manifestation on this but I seem to had forgotten what my
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Brian Atlaspoint was going to be um H wait can't um just curious though like so couldn't when it comes to the manifestation thing and we won't Linger
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Brian Atlason it for too long yeah can you manifest a partner yeah I think so so like you said men should pursue though so if I'm a man I want to manifest a woman into my life without the need to pursue her yeah
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Nikki/April (mixed)would I be able to manifest a woman like you who demands I think if you like as a man if you wanted to manifest a woman that was more assertive and would pursue you or Court you that could be like sort
01:50:15
Brian Atlasof like what you write down on your list so to speak say look for to manifest you but you want the man to pursue you but I want to I'm manifesting I want to manifest a woman who will pursue me but
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Nikki/April (mixed)I want to manifest you I we we don't do manifesting specific people I don't believe you can't do specific people no okay but like it's more just like a general list of like qualities that you
01:50:38
Andrew Wilsonwant this brings up a like a really actually good logical problem that Brian just brought up so let's say Brian's a part of a school right and the the
01:50:47
Andrew Wilsonmanifesting school is that you need to manifest women right right for yourself who are like really assertive and will pursue men mhm and then you have a manifesting school that says women
01:51:00
Andrew Wilsonshould be focusing on manifesting only their own desires because then they'll get men right who really desire them right and like let's say half of the country went to each went to your
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Nikki/April (mixed)wouldn't you guys be giving them conflicting ways to manifest the things you wanted well I think it uh I I don't think so like cuz well so I'm just thinking about this in my perspective
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Nikki/April (mixed)and maybe I'm misunderstanding the question but like our process like it would still kind of work the same but you're just manifesting different things like these people all want to manifest someone who's no I agree with that okay
01:51:36
Andrew Wilsonso I agree that both of you want to manifest different things I'm not talking about that yeah what I'm talking about is the teaching of the manifestation you say I think that just like the sperm goes to the egg yes right
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Andrew Wilsonthat men need to be the pursuers of women okay which means women need to be focusing on whatever their [ __ ] self-actualization is you know Hobbies whatever whatever whooo that is right they need to focus on that and then the
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Andrew Wilsonmen are going to come pursuing then Brian over here he has a manifestation school where he teach the opposite he says you all want women to pursue you so you need to be manifesting
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Andrew Wilsonthat by not pursuing them and all of the women went to your school and all the men went to his school wouldn't you guys basically be counter manifesting [ __ ] I think that would cause problems for sure yeah like if all men went to his school
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Andrew Wilsonand all women so why couldn't she just manifest I don't get it why couldn't she couldn't she just manifest past each other um yeah that's actually fascinating and I would love to see how
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Nikki/April (mixed)that plays out just with human psychology in mind but um yeah no it's a good point like if if men refuse to pursue women and if women refuse to pursue men because they're following
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Andrew Wilsonthese manifestation it's the end of the species yeah it's done it's over yeah you just manifested problem yeah I think it is kind of happening now and I think that is actually dating right now kind of is a
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Axanalittle bit yeah I would agree that that's part of the problem men are attached to Corn quite a bit so they're SE separated uh you know from women women are pursuing just totally
01:53:11
Andrew Wilsondifferent Idols which is Prada bags or whatever know I don't think me Brian would dispute that there's significant issues in modernity with dating it is this particular hypothetic was just