4 Kids From 4 Dads?! Brian Is SORRY?! Andrew Wilson IRL! Manifesting A Boyfriend? | Dating Talk #204
Date: 2024-10-14
Duration: 7h 33m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Rebecca(guest)
SPEAKER_03Nikki/April (mixed)(guest)
SPEAKER_05Alexandra(guest)
SPEAKER_06Mixed guests(guest)
SPEAKER_09Axana(guest)
SPEAKER_11Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_13Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_14Lindsay (Music)(guest)
Key Moments
00:03:00
QuoteBrian apologizes on-air for being 'tilted' during the previous show, references lawsuit served 30 min before show.
“last show I was pretty tilted...I was served a letter from a litigation Law Firm that I'm being sued”
00:04:06
IntroRebecca introduces herself first: 31yo door-to-door sales manager and podcast host from Austin TX.
“my name is Rebecca I'm 31 I'm from Austin Texas and I'm a door-to-door sales manager and a podcast host”
00:08:05
IntroAndrew Wilson introduces himself as host of The Crucible.
“my name is Andrew Wilson I'm the host of The Crucible a popular entertainment Channel on YouTube”
00:12:25
OtherApril reveals she has 4 kids with 4 different baby daddies ('four for four'), twice divorced.
“I'm a four for four I've got four babies four baby daddies”
01:59:24
QuoteBrian kicks off the self-rating round asking guests to rate their looks 1-10.
“ask everyone to rate their own looks on a scale of 1 to 10 starting with you go ahead 6.5”
02:00:02
QuoteAndrew rates himself a '10' on looks, triggering laughter and meta-discussion about social honesty.
“Andrew I mean obviously I'm a 10 I mean I can't but why is everybody laughing”
06:00:00
ControversyAndrew Wilson calls out Millionaire Bachelor viewer to unmask and debate.
“millionaire Bachelor if you're out there if you would actually be willing to come on whatever and take your mask off and have a debate this is a call out”
06:00:45
OtherLindsay (Music) leaves the show ~6:04 citing an appointment the next day and boyfriend waiting outside.
“was actually I have a disappointment tomorrow too and I have to go to work and my boyfriend is outside”
07:25:15
OtherApril reveals body count of ~120-130, stating she 'lost count after 100' and 'started young.'
“I lost count after 100...more than 100 guys oh yes I started young...120 130 probably”
07:27:21
OtherLindsay (Music) reveals body count of 16 during active addiction; now 3 years sober.
“it's like 16 okay wait how old are you 20 I yeah 16 Partners at 20 I don't have sex like that anymore I was in active addiction”
Topics Discussed
00:00:11
Introductions & relationship status round
Brian intro/announcements. Guests introduce name/age/location/occupation. Second round: relationship status, longest relationship, who ended it. April's 4 kids/4 baby daddies story; Axana discusses matchmaking career; Lindsay reveals music label; Alexandra reveals traveling chef lifestyle.
00:20:00
Women ending relationships / commitment phobia discussion
Brian notes that most women at the table ended all their own relationships, yet women commonly complain men are commitment-phobic. Andrew and panel analyze. Axana shares matchmaking perspective on poor partner choices.
00:24:50
Early sex vs waiting — when to have sex in a relationship
Panel debate on how long to wait before sex. Axana advocates waiting for commitment. April discusses toxic on-again-off-again relationship after divorce. Discussion of 6-month rule, going through relationship seasons before commitment.
00:33:00
General knowledge quiz: WWI and WWII dates
Viewer TTS challenge asking panel to name dates of WWI and WWII. Most guests guessed 1920s for WWI and 1940s for WWII. Axana said 1997 for WWI then corrected. Comic segment.
00:36:00
Manifestation & subconscious reprogramming debate
Nikki explains her company's manifestation/subconscious reprogramming approach. Andrew Wilson challenges manifestation on logical grounds (free will interference, creation requirements). Brian probes the Law of Attraction vs subconscious belief distinction. Panel weighs in on positive thinking and manifesting dating outcomes.
01:24:00
Sex work, stripping, and exotic dancing classification
Extended debate on whether strippers are sex workers. Andrew argues predictive value judgments about strippers are pattern-based, not necessarily wrong. Ariel and others push back. Discussion of back-room behavior at strip clubs and the spectrum of sex work. Background: multiple guests have connection to stripping/OnlyFans.
01:59:24
Self-rating looks (1–10 scale)
Viewer TTS prompts panel to rate their own looks 1-10. Ratings given: 6.5, 8.5 (Ariel), 6.5 (April), 10 (Alexandra — husband said), 6, 10, 7, 8 (mixed speakers). Andrew jokes '10 for sure.' Andrew argues the round exposes social dishonesty; extended meta-debate follows.
04:01:00
Cheating definitions and social media
What constitutes cheating: liking a flirtatious photo, texting, having a girl best friend. Panel views from Rebecca and others. Brian asks about sliding into DMs while in relationships.
04:23:00
Going out to bars/clubs while in a relationship
If your boyfriend asked you to stop going to bars/clubs, would you? Alexandra says yes in relationships she has stopped. Debate on trust vs control.
04:57:00
Plastic surgery debate
Whether plastic surgery is detectable, desirable, or ethical to disclose. Brian prefers natural; Andrew argues most fake boobs are detectable. Panel: should women disclose surgery to partners? General consensus: yes, disclose.
06:00:00
Millionaire Bachelor callout
Andrew Wilson calls out anonymous viewer 'Millionaire Bachelor' (who donated large sums) to unmask and debate on camera. 69/millionaire Bachelor sends competing $69 TTS donations. Andrew and Brian tease him as a 'broky' who won't reveal his face.
06:05:00
Roast session
Brian roasts each guest: Ava ('beautiful face, bag over that personality'), stomach tattoo guest, 'instructions on shampoo bottles' joke. TTS viewer 69 sends roasts about Andrew's finances. Comic relief segment near end of show.
07:25:15
Body count round
Last-minute body count discussion. Rebecca: under 20. April: lost count after 100 (~120-130). Axana: 1 (husband only). Alexandra: 10 (husband said). Lindsay (SPEAKER_14): 16 (during active addiction, now sober). Andrew: 7 (said by someone). Show wraps with Twitch raid to 'Grandma' World of Warcraft streamer.
Transcript
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Brian Atlasokay and then last thing I just wanted to get into is uh last show I was pretty tilted uh those of you who watched uh uh
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Brian Atlasso 30 minutes before the show started uh how do I uh so basically it's totally bogus but I was served a letter from a
00:03:11
Brian Atlaslitigation Law Firm that uh I'm being sued the podcast is getting sued uh at this moment on advice of my attorney I'm not at Liberty to make any public statements but uh once I get the green
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Brian Atlaslight I'll give you guys the breakdown uh it's completely frivolous totally vexatious we're uh
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Brian Atlasanything but um I'll give you guys again once I get the green light from the attorney I'll give you guys all the details that I can um and then of course just dealing with a lot some key departures in the team uh so yeah sorry
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Brian Atlasabout that guys last show was kind of a bit of a [ __ ] show anyways uh disclaimer the views expressed by the guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the whatever channel so with that said
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Rebeccawithout further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead my name is Rebecca I'm 31 I'm from Austin Texas and
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RebeccaI'm a door toor sales manager and a podcast host currently age uh 31 31 okay what do you sell alarm systems for
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Mixed guestsbrings door to door y okay hi I'm Ariel I'm 26 and I a teacher I'm an elementary school teacher and I'm from Pasadena
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Brian AtlasCalifornia all right welcome uh wait that's all you do uh I bargain you don't do any content creation I do well here and there wait
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Brian Atlasguys just a reminder I need I need all of you speaking into the microphones okay I do here and there I do like Tik to only fans only fans here and there like it's like I'm not super serious about it okay and I guess like I also
00:04:59
Brian AtlasDabble on there I didn't you know what yeah not going to leave you alone to wait so just a reminder you got to speak right into the microphone so okay um any exper other kind of sex work you
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Mixed guestswere involved in stripping dancing anything like that I have strip before yeah okay what about you hi my name is April I am 38 years old I do accounting
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Nikki/April (mixed)um I'm a notary public and Loan signing agent where you from and I am from ohigh California all all right welcome thank you hi I'm Nikki and I'm 31 I am
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Nikki/April (mixed)originally from Minnesota but currently in Costa Mesa and I am the director of operations at a manifestation company what is that what is a manifestation company um so we have a we're like an
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Nikki/April (mixed)online business and we have a podcast as well as an online membership for courses where we help you reprogram your subconscious limiting beliefs and raise your selfworth and secret um no we are
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Nikki/April (mixed)not like like the secret the secret is all about like positive thinking and our whole philosophy is that your subconscious is what r or attracts what
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Axanayou want so we reprogram your subconscious lionic beliefs okay my name is Axana I'm 46 years old
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Brian Atlasfrom Sacramento California and I am a Matchmaker all right and where are you from originally though originally I'm from Kazakhstan that's a former Soviet Union yeah they
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Axanaspeak Russian there too and uh for the matchmaking thing what uh can you tell us a bit more about that I've been doing it for over 30 years so this is my 31st
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Axanayear I started when I was almost 16 years old MH uh really didn't know what I was doing I believe that God had put me in that place to help people and I
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Axanatry to do it since then the best I can now of course I know a lot more than I used to know before so the whole purpose is to create relationships and marriages
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Axanathat have you know right family values where two people are truly in love supporting each other growing together and I'm very passionate about what I do
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Mixed guestsokay all right what about you um I'm Eva I'm 20 I'm from Los Angeles and I'm a student what are you studying political
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Mixed guestsscience all right hi my name is Mila I'm from cnia from LA and I makeup artist
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Mixed guestsand I have a makeup School my own makeup school age 38 sorry 38 oh 38 okay yeah all right I'm Lindsay I'm 20 years old
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Mixed guestsI'm from Los Angeles and I'm a music producer and also starting my own music label all right what about you uh hi my
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Alexandraname is Alexandra I'm 38 uh and I am a p chef and also I'm U traveling chef uh now I'm located in uh South Carolina all right welcome thank you
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Andrew WilsonAndrew yeah my name is Andrew Wilson I'm the host of The Crucible a popular entertainment Channel on YouTube I do political analysis political satire and I like to do discussions and debates from time to time all right welcome
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Brian Atlaseverybody we're going to go around the table once more what is everybody's current relationship status so are you single talking stage situationship Friends with Benefits relationship married polyu sex C terum whatever it may be if you're single how long have
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Rebeccayou been single and what's the longest relationship you've ever been in um I single I've been single for about a year and a half um reason being my ex I had to get a restraining order against him he was stalking my entire life so that was terrifying um because of that I've
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Rebeccabeen single since then to kind of you know heal um what was the other part of the question longest relationship uh 6 years yeah I was in a relationship for six years like a high school sweetheart situation ever married no he didn't want
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Rebeccato propose but I told him no I wasn't ready so the uh six-year relationship who ended that one it was me it it's because he wanted to propose he was like ready to settle down start a family and I just didn't want to stay in my
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Mixed guestshometown I was like I my dreams are bigger so I wanted to move and he didn't so okay M all right uh what about you I am in a fresh new relationship right now
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Mixed guestsand it's been about 6 months and my longest relationship was 6 years
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Mixed guestsand he ended it not me okay all right this most recent relationship how did you guys meet was it um me up on Instagram and then um I
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Mixed gueststhought he was handsome so we started like going out more went to Dave Busters got pretty drunk then start going on more dates and then ended up he met my family at the beach and we all hanged
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Mixed guestsout and now I'm damn near living with him so okay all right what about you that's quick
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Mixed guestsright I know I was just going to say be careful I'm twice divorced over um I got divorced last year but was still
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Mixed guestslingering mhm um however that goes um so what does that mean like we divorced legally but we're still hooking up up until like right in the mic hooking up
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Mixed guestsuntil like June you know what I mean then things got a little crazy um the cops got involved and and uh I'm forcing him to be a dad cuz we still have that attachment but what do
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Mixed guestsyou mean you're forcing him to be a dad well because of the whole cop situation the whole cop situation kind of like screwed [ __ ] up so I had to wait till
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Mixed gueststhat fizzed out now DV yeah well it was false like he said I was doing some [ __ ] just cuz we're on this psycho toxic [ __ ]
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Mixed guestsif that's how it's been for the last 10 years so I don't know know I just um the case got dismissed and we're moving forward now so you
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Mixed guestsknow trying to stay single learning what this whole new dating stuff is but um once I explain what what I'm going through what I've been through the guys are going the other way so why did you get divorced but
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Mixed guestsyou're still hooking up uh um well it was 10 years of just me and him so like I don't know it's just like familiar it
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Mixed guestswas that that it's familiar and you have kids with him I do well my youngest is his and then he helped raise the other three so um so why did you get
00:11:41
Mixed guestsdivorced well there was drugs involved and other women and other [ __ ] and I was looking like a whole dumbass out here and I know everybody in Santa
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Mixed guestsBarbara County Ventura County LA County so uh I wasn't having that anymore when was the first divorce from my first
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Mixed guestshusband yeah um [ __ ] girl like 11 years ago I had divorced and then literally jumped into this next marriage yeah how
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Andrew Wilsonlong was the second marriage um this one was 8 years married and then before that before that was only two was only two years yeah and then how many kids you have with the first husband um one and then what about
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Andrew Wilsonhusband number two I'm a four for four I got four baby daddies four kids okay I was a wild child gotcha yep hasn't ended there obviously so you have one so you have one with the ex-husband and then one I have one and
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Andrew Wilsonone both ex-husband with both ex-husbands and then what was the gap between husband one and husband 2 you said it was very quick it was very quick so where did the other baby daddies come
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Brian Atlasfrom that was Prior the first two were okay yeah old okay gotcha um yeah okay wait so the sorry how many kids I've got four four and there there's two
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Mixed guestsdifferent fathers four oh wait that's why I called myself a four for four I've got four babies four baby daddies you did you miss the
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Brian Atlasfour I love that okay um I am a four and you were married twice correct yes and divorc now twice and the I'm running a straight here two of the kids are from
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Brian Atlaseach of the marriages yeah the last two okay all right and then who initiated the divorce in each instance was it you or well the first one was a DV so so like I that had had to go but you yeah
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Mixed guestsso you initiated that one and then yeah and then this one we kind of um we kind of were doing it back and forth to each other but never followed through so it was like there's four divorce things
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Mixed guestslisted on the County website um do you mean you were filing divorces against each other I filed about four times um he filed once and then finally I was like all right this is some [ __ ] and
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Mixed gueststhat was it the last one so actually to be honest I'm going to say it I posted him on a women's site and all of a sudden all these girls were like oh no I know that guy oh I seen him over here oh he was with this
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Mixed guestschick oh wait that's my friend's boyfriend not date sites or whatever yes it was definitely one of those do not date sites and uh here came the the Facebook groups are we dating the same
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Mixed guestsguy is that what it is I got busted on that one I even got a lawsuit so they they he tried to file a lawsuit for defamation on that website and uh tried
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Andrew Wilsonto wait the audio is muted Austin no we okay um what um what prevents cuz I don't know anything about them right
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Andrew Wilsonthose sites exactly but if you were to post a guy's picture there what actually prevents other women from just lying um there is a lot of that so like
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Mixed guestsif you're SM a smarter woman you ask for proof or like evidence so I got all that someone explained my vehicle down to a te they explained my children like they explained everything to where it was
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Mixed guestslike no you're not lying you know so um there were a few that you're like okay you're weird but um it's more of fing finding the proof you know okay and then
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Mixed guestsa lot of it was like friends family people that I didn't know existed in his life that popped up and was like yeah confirmed it okay um by the way for
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Brian Atlasthose watching uh whatever F we'll get your TTS in here we our audio was muted I'll get pulled up uh in just a sec go
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Nikki/April (mixed)ahead um I am single I've been single for about a year and a half now and my longest relationship was 6 years were you married no and You' been
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Brian Atlasyou said you've been single a year and a half is that correct yep uh who ended the most recent relationship I did and was that the six year one no it was a three year okay and who who ented the six- year one uh I did okay yeah all
00:15:58
Brian Atlasright have you ented all your relationships yes interesting how that works uh quick quick uh input on this actually hold on
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Axanahold I'll I'll bring uh mention it later uh what about you uh married for about 10 years happily married and that is my
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Nikki/April (mixed)longest one all right what about you um I'm single and my longest relationship was a year how long you been single uh for
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Brian Atlaslike a year all right no guys in the picture right now no not even nothing no not a guy you're talking
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Mixed gueststo I still talk to my ex yeah like we talked about last time uh jump start my memory a little bit here what's the I just we just like Snap each other that's it okay all right
00:16:53
Mixed guestswhat about you I am single never been married uh I Believe In traditional family and my family uh it's very close from me and my uh last relationship was
00:17:04
Mixed guests3 years ago in my country in Kazakhstan okay and so you've been single for three years uh longest relationship uh it was six years everybody everybody literally
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Mixed guests6 years I had a 10 is that the one that ended three years ago my worst relationship who ended the relationship uh I moved to uh to the US of course
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Brian Atlasthis was me and uh any kids no do you want kids yeah I want maybe a couple a
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Andrew Wilsoncouple yeah why not huh why not it's who boy and boy somebody going to tell her uh well it's yeah it's it's kind of
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Andrew Wilsonlate in the game right I mean it's possible possible it could still happen just late there's additional things like
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AxanaIVF and things like that pretty much guaranteed twins Tri yeah IVF doesn't work that great courney Kardashian's like what it really doesn't you got to seat
00:18:05
Mixed guestsit sometimes up to 20 times well it is not always guaranteed but there's higher chances if you're eating healthy if your like body is like right you got this yeah I know I no she can still have kids
00:18:16
Andrew Wilsonit's just yeah we're just saying it's uh it's rougher at that age that's all it's more difficult modern science you limited time mhm okay we have no limited
00:18:26
Brian Atlashuh we have no limited yeah there well there's definitely Li there is a limit um but uh okay all right what about you I've been single for about a year and a
00:18:38
Brian Atlashalf now mhm or a little less than a year actually my longest relationship wasn't six it was like four to five on and off mhm uh all right but there's a there is a guy currently in the picture is that
00:18:51
Mixed guestscorrect sort of um it's not like I'm talking to him and it's going to be anything serious well one of my like best friends the P
00:19:01
Brian Atlasstar the P star so you're not celibate no when's the last time you had carnal knowledge of your roommate or no he moved out
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Mixed guestsright I don't have any roommates anymore I moved out okay um yeah he he doesn't live with me either I'm by myself but I
00:19:20
Alexandrastill see him okay um all right what about you uh I'm single uh for seven months uh my longest relationship uh
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Alexandrabeen uh almost 9 years I got divorced um the relationship that ended 7 months
00:19:41
Axanaago was it the 9-year relationship uh no it wasn't I just know her story it's a marriage that she had in years it's it's it's a
00:19:53
Brian Atlasmarriage is it's the one that ended s months ago or different different oh different different uh the most recent one who ended it uh last one yeah uh me
00:20:03
Brian Atlasand then your 9-year marriage who ended it me okay all right uh well everybody
00:20:10
Brian Atlasknows uh Andrew's relationship status so um I you know I asked quite a few of you who ended all your relationships it's
00:20:21
Brian Atlasinteresting to me that uh women often complain that men are scared of commitment men are commitment phobic but when you guys do get commitment you
00:20:32
Brian Atlasoverwhelmingly end it I find that interesting um why are you guys so afraid of commitment why are you guys so why are women so commitment phobic it's confusing to me well I mean
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Rebeccaare we supposed to stay with someone that treats us badly do you know what I mean cuz I think in a lot of these cases that we were treated poorly so we left because of that but we wanted to stay like they almost got divorced four times you know what I mean I think she wanted to stay sure there's certainly valid
00:20:57
Rebeccathere four of them right or three of them but then she stayed you know so it's like she's trying you know the state of Texas Ed mine I honestly probably stay let me ask the panel a question here so those
00:21:09
Brian Atlasof you who have ended a relationship in each instance was there abuse or was he mistreating you every single time you
00:21:18
Mixed guestsbroke up the guy he was abusive or were you just bored I'm going to be honest so all before these two marriages I was like a one-year tap out and I'm done
00:21:29
Mixed guestslike you are like not entertaining anymore I am bored there was no okay I got to go see what else is going on out there so you know was like and then I didn't want to be like those girls that
00:21:41
Mixed guestsare like no I want to keep him but I want to test this this and this and then pull that [ __ ] of like lying and hiding all that like no I'm going to be real like I'm done with you I'm going
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Brian AtlasF yeah thank you thank you whatever fan I appreciate it um any any of you have any thoughts on that the whole commitment thing well I wouldn't say
00:22:13
Nikki/April (mixed)that uh you're commitment phobic if you're in a relationship for multiple Years cuz you wanted to commit at least in the beginning um but then you know things
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Brian AtlasWilson is the third baby daddy of his wife what uh I don't know I don't know what that's about but okay uh right um sorry go ahead I think you were saying
00:22:57
Brian Atlasoh that that was just my point I don't think that women are commitment phobic just because we end relationships I mean well let's um I mean let's take it a step further than we can look at divorce for example so I
00:23:10
Brian Atlasmean what are the vows till death do us part uh that occurs to me that that would be a commitment and words have meaning I can't speak to the marriage piece well do you want to get married sometime yeah I do yeah but it seems
00:23:23
Brian Atlaslike I mean the my understanding of the statistics out there is that 80% of divorces are initiated by women I mean really yeah
00:23:33
Axanaso well sounds like the girls didn't have the healthy relationship at least uh here you know so it really goes in my opinion goes for the poor choices to begin with um now got to dive in and see
00:23:46
Axanawhy you're making those choices so clearly it is maybe connected to Childhood examples that you had as a child maybe it's just because people show the best form of themselves initially you know what I mean like when you first meet a man or even a woman
00:23:58
Rebeccawhatever it might be they're going to show the best version and then over time once they know you're in that relationship you're probably not going to leave as easily then those little bad parts will start to show a bit more you
00:24:08
Axanaknow so I think that could be so uh then there goes for the question why didn't you give enough time then to let the person to show completely why did they not show themselves completely though
00:24:20
Mixed guestsinitially as well you know people it takes time for them to like get comfortable too you know like the comfortability part you meet someone they want put on their best show and then you start to get comfortable like for the commitment thing there's like a
00:24:32
Axanathing called like the six-month rule you know like after six month they you really know if you want to be with them or not that's actually a year or four seasons but uh like let me ask you a question like sexually wise when you got
00:24:43
Axanaclose sexually from which point of the relationship because typically typically when people get involved um are sexually connected right so it kind of blocks the
00:24:53
Axanaintimacy and uh for people to fully display their true colors so when sex takes place early did it happen early in their relationship there you go there you go yeah I don't know I think it
00:25:05
Rebeccadepends on the relationship I feel like sometimes I will wait can you just try to speak like kind of with your head straight into the mic yeah I feel like I will try to get to know someone a bit more before I do that personally I can't say that's the case for everyone but in
00:25:17
Axanamy longest relationships I have waited probably at least a few months few months okay so uh when man is taking you out on the dates um he is um you know paying for the DAT he's investing for now finally emotionally and everything
00:25:30
Axanait will come to the point that he will run out of juices you know that uh you know waiting period and he will show his true colors if somebody is actually committed to you as a person they will
00:25:42
Axanarespect your values they will respect why you want to wait until the special moment when you truly know each other you know what in my career when people are dating guys said sorry sorry Brian
00:25:53
AxanaAndrew I know you married but you know um clients would say oh I we want to move in together right but we want to get to know one another
00:26:04
Axanabetter I'm like okay so what exactly do you want to know about the person before you make some sort of commitment like what exactly people cannot answer that
00:26:15
Axanaquestion uh they just want to be sexually involved they think that this is true connection sex is great relationship must be uh good sex is not
00:26:26
Axanagoing to keep people together it won't it needs so much more than sexual experience it's a beautiful experience absolutely ladies it needs to be in a
00:26:37
Axanarelationship but true beautiful sex happens between people who actually connected who really know each other who connected really do they know what is
00:26:47
Axananeeded for each other that is the highest level of uh experience when sex takes place early in a relationship Brian is not going to like it I know maybe maybe I'm yeah maybe I'm wrong but
00:27:00
Axanamen typically don't like it yeah but I'm supporter of the relationship with people I actually made a decision that it is comfortable for them to go through holidays together to uh work through conflicts because conflicts going to
00:27:12
Axanaalways take place in the most beautiful relationship it is normal uh normal part of the relationship but when they go through all of those stages that's when they know each other if you don't mind me asking how long did you wait when you
00:27:25
Axanamet your husband before doing something oh am my h I am guilty I'm guilty so I I I made it very so what happened in my personal life um I became a mom I was
00:27:36
Axanasingle mom I met my so I didn't have anybody in my life at that stage for about two and a half years when I met my husband uh and he was just absolutely
00:27:47
AxanaCharming I made sure that he understands that the beautiful things will happen you know after we are committed to each other and when we actually when he propose
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Axanaum yeah he broke me after the two months of dating um dropped them panes but but he understood my values and in order for him to display that he actually does
00:28:09
Axanahave uh see the future for us uh the first ring that I received was promiser ring so that is like the Man how he displays that he's not fear that he's not scared of commitment but he was to say that that couldn't be you know what
00:28:23
AxanaI mean it could be fake in theory if someone's good at at faking something like that very difficult to your together especially when you have chemistry but I'm saying that if you want to build something sustainable you
00:28:35
Axanaknow it is better to wait for that special but when we choose poorly then we are kind of shocked I I had this experience you know uh the words that we're not supposed to say on
00:28:47
Axanathe podcast and everything this is this is my second marriage I've been married before and I had a very clear understanding it was my first time when I got to United States but my ex-husband he displayed what men should not be like
00:29:00
AxanaI am grateful to that experience because I treat it as education you know so um but yeah for something to be solid with a full commitment it does require right
00:29:11
Mixed guestsfrom the start to show Commitment if anything I was going to say pretty much everybody saying like you need to go through all of the trials and tribulations with whoever you're dating at that time I need to see them angry I
00:29:23
Mixed guestsneed to see them sad I need to see them broke I need to see them at any point in their life to know if I can spend the rest of my life with you so if I don't see all those points in your life I
00:29:35
Mixed guestsdon't really know if I can really live the rest of my life with you because if you get angry you might want to hit me if you get sad I don't know if you're like super depressed you might want to kill yourself I don't know how to do
00:29:44
Mixed guestswith I can't say that oops Yeah just say un alived you might want to do that but I'm saying being in a relationship I feel like it does have to take some time
00:29:57
Mixed guestslike I feel like like at least before you really even marriage I feel like it it has to be at least a year before you Seasons a year to go through holidays together through
00:30:08
Mixed guestsevery one of them meeting the family see how everybody are you seeing a year wait to have sex uh no not like have sex but I'm saying like if you if you're going to do like a full commitment you need to
00:30:20
Mixed guestsmake sure like even their family cuz I hated people's families and you have to deal with their family hates you or your family hates I don't like meeting families period I hate amilies honestly I wish like somebody else's didn't have a family so they can just be with my
00:30:33
Mixed guestsfamily all the time it for sure helps the decision of like seeing how somebody was raised and like what their connection is like if they're sitting there like yelling at their mom you're like that's not how you treat your if you're yelling at your
00:30:45
Mixed guestsmother I respect my mother like to the fullest so I can't see somebody yelling at their mom cuz that makes me look be kind crazy heard someone on the phone be like Mom you can't do that or this and I'm like calm down like is that how
00:30:56
Mixed guestsyou're going to if you treat your mother somebody you love a woman in your life that you love like how are you going to treat me and then how you raise your kids like what is like your upbringing so like can what what's your upbringing
00:31:09
Mixed guestsso can I raise my kid like this we're going to have like our finances like how how's everything going to work with us that's an important discussion how do you want to raise your kids that you guys have to discuss before being
00:31:20
Mixed guestsmarried period right yeah I feel like that's the opposite of being scared of commitment if if you're breaking up with somebody because you want a better partner like to get married to I would
00:31:31
Mixed guestssay that that's not being scared of commitment that's looking for something that you want for your life rather than settling for something that you're not really happy
00:31:41
Nikki/April (mixed)with and if you break up before marriage I feel like that's smart instead of getting married and then you know getting divorced later well you're not misleading someone too staying in something that you know you don't want
00:31:53
Andrew Wilsonto be in you know like living in sorrow once you're like married I when talking about 6 Seven 8 years that's basically like you're married right mlaw yeah it's a good Chun of your life depends on how
00:32:04
Nikki/April (mixed)young you are when you start dating cuz I feel like my first relationship we were really young when we started dating so it almost didn't feel like a real relationship and then it kind of felt like we only had a few years of being
00:32:16
Nikki/April (mixed)adults before we broke up and we both like really just grew in different directions sometimes you stay with someone out of comfortability as well though too like you'll be with someone cuz it's normal and then you have to go
00:32:29
Mixed gueststhrough you're like I don't want to go through the breakup process and all of that and then you end up staying out of comfortability or even if it's bad I think it's a important
00:32:39
TTS Readerthing sprink sprinkler and donated $200 ladies dates of World War I and World War II my sprinkler goes like
00:32:53
Brian Atlasthis uh thank you Arch dues sprink
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Brian Atlaslike all right thank you man um okay really quick yeah so um dates of World War I and World War II this year you don't have to give like June 12 World War II is the 40s I know it ended in
00:33:11
Brian Atlaslike I think 48 or 47 okay and World War One be honest I have no idea not a clue take a crack just wild guess I literally couldn't wait okay here hold on scoot
00:33:22
Brian Atlasyour mic this way is it at the edge of the table yes yeah a little more the other way too
00:33:29
Rebeccamuch uh back that way straighten it up there you go okay all right take a crack I I don't know
00:33:39
Rebecca1900 1890 I don't know 1890 I'm I'm leave it at 1900 all right World War I World War II dates damn they don't cover this in
00:33:50
Mixed guestselementary school who the hell wants to remember this just take a crack take a crack yeah same [ __ ] she said I don't know okay here just give us yours give us
00:34:01
Brian Atlasyours what she said got this she guys guys guys guys please if we're asking a question whether it's this one or any other
00:34:10
Brian Atlasone just even if you agree with the person just restate your actual position don't be like I agree with her I agree with her just be like here's my position
00:34:21
Nikki/April (mixed)go ahead okay the 1920s for World War I what about World War I 1930s what about you I was gonna say the 20s for world one and 40s for World okay what about you same I was
00:34:32
Axanagonna say 1920s for one and 40s for two okay I will embarrass myself uh
00:34:39
Axana1997 for World War I uh but I know the second one 41 through 46 19 wa sorry
00:34:48
Axana1997 for World War i97 but then World War II was before World War I uh in World War II 1941 to 194 but when was
00:34:58
Brian AtlasWorld War I 1897 Oh I thought you said 1997 I was like I said I'm going to embarrass myself Clinton [ __ ] that up okay all right what about you I was
00:35:08
Mixed guestsgoing to say like 1920 and 1945 okay I know on the second 1942 till
00:35:18
Mixed guests1945 what about the first one first 19 20 20 30 yeah okay I'm not going to make some [ __ ] up about the first one I don't
00:35:28
Mixed guestsknow but 1940s just guess for for the first one 1920s okay
00:35:38
Alexandraum um um 19 um 13
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AlexandraM um okay and and second one it's uh 19 uh 41 uh till 1945
00:35:58
Brian Atlasthose are some guesses um good job guys what's the answer uh World War I 194 1918 World War II 1939 1945 you know what I did that
00:36:10
Axanawe're going first and I'm not mad kind of close sort of BP part you know little you know little you know a little bit good intuition yeah all right let me get random facts let me go into some of the
00:36:23
Brian Atlasuh pre-show notes here so uh we have Nikki here Nikki uh so your company that you work for does
00:36:33
Brian Atlasneural manifestation workshops um so what can you kind of described it a little bit but what so what does that mean like what when you say
00:36:43
Nikki/April (mixed)manifestation Yeah so basically manifestation is just being more consciously aware of what you're attracting into your life we're all manifesting whether we're consciously aware of it or not like everything that
00:36:56
Nikki/April (mixed)we attract within our life are manifesting but our practice helps you bring awareness conscious awareness to that so you can be just more intentional with what you're calling in and can more
00:37:07
Nikki/April (mixed)like kind of create the life that you're wanting um and then we have workshops that help you reprogram your subconscious mind so they're like guided meditations that will take you back to
00:37:20
Nikki/April (mixed)specific memories where you can give yourself a healing and then we have different Journal prompts to work through where you can really notice like different patterns throughout your life
00:37:30
Andrew Wilsonum different cycles and then you can kind of take specific actions to move forward so um do you mind if I ask you a few questions about this MH so I'm just going to be blunt and honest right I
00:37:43
Andrew Wilsondon't I don't I I'm not good at mencing words I think all of that's total [ __ ] but um to to be fair to dive in on it when you say manifesting are you
00:37:53
Nikki/April (mixed)talking about the laws of attraction no so then what does manifesting mean well so the do you know what the law of attraction is okay yeah so I thought you
00:38:03
Nikki/April (mixed)said it doesn't pertain to that um well so the law of attraction is all about thinking positive and like more so like getting into the vibration of what you want law of attraction is just it like attracts like so you have negative if
00:38:16
Nikki/April (mixed)you have negative thoughts you're going to attract negative things if you have positive thoughts you're going to attract positive things yeah exactly so like their whole thing is if you think positively you'll attract positively or if you're like yeah like like attract
00:38:27
Nikki/April (mixed)like so your vibration is going to attract the vibration we don't teach that um we haven't really seen that that works or is effective um my boss based
00:38:38
Nikki/April (mixed)on rigorous scientific study just just with re just with working with people so um the founder of the company Lacy Phillips she's um really into energetics and she notices a lot of themes and
00:38:50
Nikki/April (mixed)she's worked with hundreds of can you explain to people what energetics are so well her kind of version of it is just literally paying attention to how
00:39:02
Nikki/April (mixed)to how people react in different situations and how they do call in certain things so like energetics would just be the energy of how everything is like coexisting together what is this
00:39:13
Nikki/April (mixed)energy made up of does Lacy think I don't know she's never actually specifically said never said what the energyy is made up of but it's there it's there and it's definitely interacting with stuff it's definitely
00:39:25
Nikki/April (mixed)interacting with stuff but we don't know what the hell it is right it's yeah I don't know I I'm not the one who you know developed these methods so I can't speak more F further into it but
00:39:36
Nikki/April (mixed)we have had neuroscientists work with us they've helped us develop the workshops and based on their studies and research too have found this to what kind of neuroscientists um have you ever heard
00:39:48
Andrew Wilsonof Dr Tara swart no um she's a psychologist and neuroscientist um we've also worked with well you know that there's a lot of psychologists who call themselves neuroscientists but don't have any type of degree in neurology
00:40:00
Andrew Wilsonwhatsoever they just say I'm a psychologist and I'm a neuroscientist because it's so vague that you can call yourself a neuroscientist even though you have no degrees whatsoever in
00:40:12
Andrew Wilsonneurology which is what that's what comes to to mind right is that oh I'm a doctor of Neurology that's what people would think when you think when you say neuroscientists right isn't that what you would think absolutely but that's not the case a lot of them say I'm a
00:40:25
Andrew Wilsonneuroscientist and they have no degree degrees whatsoever no no MDS or uh you know whatever the requirements are for neurology so just saying neuroscientists
00:40:36
Andrew WilsonI'm always very skeptical I've noticed that they usually have Bachelors of uh not science but Bachelors of art a bachelor of art degree in Psychology she
00:40:46
Nikki/April (mixed)definitely is more credential than that I can't remember uh because it's been like four or five years since we we've worked with her but she helped us sort of develop our and like review our first sort of set of
00:40:59
Andrew Wilsonworkshops um but I I get I get why you're skeptical I really do um and I understand a lot that's old occultism right so this this is not new the um the
00:41:10
Andrew Wilsonthe church that I belong to has been studying the you know alternative ults uh every everyone from Saints to you know I mean this is a what church do you belong to I'm an Eastern Orthodox
00:41:22
Andrew WilsonChristian so anyway I mean they've been looking at it forever and uh this is because in the East there was a lot of oul practices there too right but this is old old it is old old old occultism
00:41:34
Andrew Wilsonbut I I've just had a couple more questions if you don't mind yeah go ahead so um we're not sure what these energies are made of right there's just some energies and but let me ask you something if you were to manifest a
00:41:47
Nikki/April (mixed)thing can you tell me how that doesn't interfere with free will um dis so what do you mean exactly well if you're going to manifest a thing let's say I wanted a bicycle M right I
00:41:59
Andrew Wilsonreally wanted a bicycle and I manifested it somebody has to build the bike somebody has to put it together someone has to deliver it right someone has to do all of those things so if I normally would not have gotten said bike well
00:42:12
Nikki/April (mixed)what if you were like manifesting a specific bike and you like had all of these details laid out and you wanted like this old school bike and then you were just um like walking down the
00:42:23
Andrew Wilsonstreet one day and you saw one by a dumpster not locked up whatever and it's just exactly what that still would have to necessarily influence free will it still had to have gotten by the dumpster
00:42:35
Andrew Wilsonstill had to be built all those things still had to happen for that to come if it's not hang on for that to come to me by being manifesting it that means I have set in the energy a series of
00:42:48
Andrew Wilsonevents which necessarily would have to affect people's Free Will in order for that to manifest in front of me there's literally no way around that it would be impossible for uh other humans to not be
00:42:59
Nikki/April (mixed)influenced by the mysterious energies of my will I don't know I don't personally agree with that because I feel like you're just sort of aligning with what
00:43:09
Andrew Wilsonalready exists so I don't think that it's necessarily going against someone's free will but well okay so explain this to me then let's think about that bike
00:43:21
Andrew Wilsonexample you gave we've got a bicycle mhm and it has all sorts of little intricate details right somebody had to create all of that didn't they yeah but it's already created wait it was created before you manifested it yes oh okay so
00:43:34
Nikki/April (mixed)then so you can only manifest things which already are um well I think it's a lot easier to manifest things that already are and like already not an entailment that you can only manifest things which already
00:43:45
Nikki/April (mixed)are right I mean that's more so what we teach where we just want to align people with what's already existing like none of our teachings are like creating but how does that thing which already is
00:43:57
Andrew Wilsoncome to you without you influencing the will of other
00:44:04
Andrew Wilsonpeople I don't know how to answer that because it's impossible yeah that's like that would literally be impossible for me to manifest a thing which was a created thing of a human being who was
00:44:16
Andrew Wilsonnot me to me without influencing their will that would be impossible I don't know I think we are thinking about this differently I think most defitely we're thinking about it
00:44:28
Brian Atlasdifferently but but I don't know how to I don't know how to like reute that yeah okay I I have a couple questions on this um so you guys sell the courses
00:44:38
Brian Atlasonline right or there's workshops and stuff I see here on the website so it's $30 a month 360 for the year and then $3,000 for
00:44:49
Brian Atlaslifetime I guess membership for the uh that's just like you own everything for all the courses there's how to manifest how to be magnetic unblocked inner child unblocked Shadow yeah I wanted to get
00:45:02
Nikki/April (mixed)into that too when you're done yeah the daily practice unblock and I don't want to talk too much about the company and I also want to say like relationship with money yes I work for the company but like I'm not the founder and I don't
00:45:12
Nikki/April (mixed)have like the same views as the founder so I also don't want to like make this too much about the company but no I understand sure I'm only looking for things from your worldview okay yeah if
00:45:24
Brian Atlasit doesn't align with the but there's unblocked money unblocked unblocked boundaries uh Rock Bottom Next Level rut extra layers get clarity um and uh so
00:45:35
Brian Atlasthere's a lot of different courses and and workshops um you mentioned this bike scenario uh so you could manifest a bike well I just kind of uh used well Andrew
00:45:48
Nikki/April (mixed)is the one who said bike but it made me think like one of my exes he was manifesting roller blades and one day we were just walking as one does yeah we had just moved and we lived next to a park and he was like oh I really want
00:46:00
Nikki/April (mixed)rollerblades and we went on a walk and sure enough like just on the side of the street kind of out by like where people leave their would leave their trash there was a brand new pair of rollerblades just sitting there and they
00:46:12
Brian Atlasfit him perfectly well I mean look I I'll acknowledge that coincidences like this can be peculiar and interesting you know you'll think of You'll Think of somebody for example and then the next day you
00:46:24
Brian Atlasget a text from them or you you see them or um you know you think about a certain thing and it it happens but this is a bit of I think survivorship bias because
00:46:35
Brian Atlaswhat about all the times you do wish for something or you do think of something and it never materializes uh and then I I am also curious about um but you do think that
00:46:47
Brian Atlasas far as this manifestation thing it's not just sort of about uh you know your there there Andrew is kind getting into it you know if you're a positive person you'll attract positive
00:47:00
Brian Atlascircumstances into your life I do think that there is some uh I do think there is something to that but um you think it
00:47:08
Brian Atlasalso uh pertains to uh actual physical manifestations in the world like the bike for example that I really want this really cool bike to
00:47:19
Nikki/April (mixed)appear and then a day later it's you're walking and then there it is for free there definitely no like I I'm not saying that would happen for everybody um but basically it happen for I I mean
00:47:33
Nikki/April (mixed)like with the rollerblades like that was just an example like I literally think my ex had said it and then on that same day we went for a walk and he found them like he was really good at like saying thing and like it could be argued too
00:47:44
Nikki/April (mixed)like is it your intuition that's almost like dropping in and you're like oh I want this or I know this and you're like kind of like a step ahead of yourself in like reality um I feel like that
00:47:55
Nikki/April (mixed)sometimes happens a little B the super ego so and how long have you been doing the manifestation stuff um so I've been working with the company for
00:48:05
Nikki/April (mixed)about 5 and 1 half years and I found uh the founder of the company like a year before so like six 6 and a half years specifically with her is there when it comes to manifestation is there any
00:48:16
Nikki/April (mixed)upper limit as to what you can manifest into your life yeah so we like very much like when people start the course or like you know don't think about the million dooll home or the Ferraris or
00:48:28
Nikki/April (mixed)like anything like super crazy like we definitely want people to get to know themselves first and sort of strip back those layers like inner child and Shadow are sort of our like number one courses
00:48:39
Nikki/April (mixed)we recommend after they learn how to manifest our like sort of process and that's because there are a lot of layers that we pick up in childhood from 0 to 7
00:48:49
Nikki/April (mixed)or like 0 to 14 that's when we really imprint our entire subconscious and where we really pick up all of those Li in um aspects so basically the courses
00:49:00
Nikki/April (mixed)help you go back and look at that and then reprogram that and that's when you start to get like a lot more magnetic where things are just naturally flowing to you like a lot of times you don't even necessarily have to be so specific
00:49:12
Andrew Wilsonbut how does how does one I don't I I'm sorry I don't mean to cut you off I just want to be somewhat specific how do how do you tell someone to go back to hyperfixate on a memory
00:49:24
Nikki/April (mixed)what's the process for something like that so she is um trained in hypnosis and so yeah it's like you get into a hypnotic State Within These audios and she sort of guides and leads you back
00:49:36
Andrew Wilsonhave you ever heard of a a case it was called the MCM Martin mcbucky4 [Music]
00:49:50
Andrew Wilson[Music]
00:49:56
Andrew Wilsontake these children back into these states of their trauma and this and that turned out it was all [ __ ] they had implanted the memories via hypnosis and a ton of people got swept up in this
00:50:08
Andrew Wilsoncase they ended up being completely and totally Vindicated right but uh interestingly enough like HP hypnosis for one thing um there's nothing about
00:50:18
Andrew Wilsonit which is scientifically rigorous at all um I think that perhaps there could be something to the fact that through discourse with somebody else you can you
00:50:29
Andrew Wilsonknow perhaps focus on some memories that you have or things like this but let's say somebody was hypnotically suggestable right you could suggest things to them and there's a small
00:50:40
Andrew Wilsonportion of the planet which has been scientifically demonstrated to be highly suggestible what's stopping a person when they go in there from planting something there that doesn't belong
00:50:50
Nikki/April (mixed)there now we have a fake memory or we have a problem now like what's actually stopping a person from doing that well I think that's more like if you're in person with someone and they're guiding you you should probably be very careful
00:51:02
Nikki/April (mixed)but with the guided like audio meditations listening at home like you're in full control and like you just sort of follow what your subconscious and where your subconscious is taking
00:51:12
Nikki/April (mixed)you and trust that so it's not like anybody is you know planting any other information and like we like with her
00:51:21
Nikki/April (mixed)guided meditations too she's not like leading you so specific into something like it is a lot more loose and it's
00:51:30
Nikki/April (mixed)like truly your body that is guiding you through this experience so but I know what you mean I mean I think hypnosis is incredibly powerful and can be really
00:51:40
Brian Atlasscary in some instances with like hypnotherapists who meet people who are suggestible to it yeah yeah well I so I guess going back cuz in your notes you
00:51:51
Brian Atlassay using manifestation to call in aligned partners and dating opport unities um I just I'm confused Again by this
00:52:01
Brian Atlasmanifestation thing because it seems like it goes beyond just uh you know POS you know bringing positive outcomes to
00:52:09
Brian Atlasyour life but actually uh in the blanking on the word here but in the uh I can't think of the word but uh so you
00:52:19
Mixed guestscould manifest for example a bike sure yeah you can manifest like smaller things oh only Small Things No you I'm just saying you could manifest is it just about changing your mindset
00:52:31
Mixed guestslike when it comes to that stuff rather than like it's just going to appear in front of me like I feel like manifestation like you if you think positively then you'll work for it like in my head I'm like I want a bike so I'm
00:52:43
Mixed guestsgoing to like wake up and then make some money and then go buy the bike rather than like it just like oh a bike is in front of me it's like action steps kind of yeah like that rather because isn't that just the same of the isn't that
00:52:55
Mixed guestsjust the same as like a self-help book where it's kind of like you know it's anyone could read it but it's really like you're already putting the work in to change your mindset like buying the course some want better I me it's it's
00:53:06
Nikki/April (mixed)definitely all like I think related and similar because you reading that self-help book or you taking positive actions towards your goals those are all positive things that you're reinforcing
00:53:17
Nikki/April (mixed)in your mind that I want this and like that you deserve it but where people get caught up is a lot of times they consciously want something or consciously feel worthy or deserve in of something but their past reality doesn't
00:53:30
Nikki/April (mixed)reflect that and it's like their subconscious mind that doesn't feel worthy of that so like we really believe that your entire you have to feel worthy okay can I just ask you a question I'll
00:53:40
Nikki/April (mixed)just ask this point blank does manifestation work I think it does cuz I have manifested things and that like we're very I mean if it if it works why
00:53:51
Nikki/April (mixed)aren't you a billionaire well I mean I have like so cuz she doesn't want to subc conscious said no yeah my subconscious it URS to me if you can manifest that if you can manifest
00:54:03
Nikki/April (mixed)yourself something on the small scale why would you not be able to manifest something on the large scale me there there is something here where to I think like as Souls we all have a specific
00:54:14
Brian Atlasdestiny that we're kind of following as following as well doesn't Destiny and manifestation to so I I don't think that it
00:54:23
Nikki/April (mixed)necessarily does but I mean I have this is sometimes I sort of diverge from our teachings too because I have I do have some other spiritual beliefs as well but
00:54:35
Nikki/April (mixed)like I don't personally like authentically I don't want to I really don't want to be a billionaire in in this lifetime it's not that I man always say the same thing if they're man if they manifest they're not millionaires cuz they don't want to be millionair
00:54:49
Nikki/April (mixed)well I would be I would want to be a millionaire I hope that I will be one one day but not a billionaire that's like too much why not a billionaire why not why be the when you can be the king I don't get it I know well you know you
00:55:00
Nikki/April (mixed)guys all make like excellent points but I think at the end of the day like we're just putting out self-help tools that are helping people create a better reality for themselves and find their authenticity and just more like attract
00:55:13
Brian Atlasmore things that are in alignment with what the manifestation is like okay well you're manifesting you manifested this podcast like you you're also manest I didn't Manifest this podcast I took
00:55:25
Nikki/April (mixed)actions well yeah but to make this happen it well action is a part of it like you have to I'm not saying that you just wave a magic wand and all of these things appear no but that is what you're
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Nikki/April (mixed)saying definitely I want I really want a bike and then you walk down the street action is one of our process steps like so we have like kind of three main thing pillars of the work and it's unblocking
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Nikki/April (mixed)the subconscious limiting beliefs expanding your subconscious to like show you that what you want is possible for yourself and then aligned action is yeah like lastly is like you need to take aligned action steps and take the action