2 RAGE QUITS! $12,000,000 A Year BARE MINIMUM?! Do Modern Girls Deserve Chivalry? | Dating Talk #256
Date: 2025-08-18
Duration: 7h 19m
Guests
Identified Speakers
SPEAKER_03Sonia(guest)
SPEAKER_04Selena (Bottle)(guest)
SPEAKER_05Lauren (Model)(guest)
SPEAKER_06KJ(guest)
SPEAKER_08Aya (Casino)(guest)
SPEAKER_09Andrew Wilson(guest)
SPEAKER_10Amelia (Swinger)(guest)
SPEAKER_12Brian Atlas(host)
SPEAKER_13Michelle (55)(guest)
SPEAKER_14Rosie ($12M)(guest)
Key Moments
00:03:17
IntroAll 11 guests introduce themselves
01:09:51
Key MomentRosie states $12M/year BARE MINIMUM for husband income
02:06:36
Key MomentAndrew: 'women think they ARE the table' when asked what they bring
04:07:12
Key MomentBrian reveals he's developing 'Tally' app for men to log women's body counts
04:36:00
OtherFirst rage quit: KJ leaves during religious debate with Andrew
05:59:00
Key MomentSonia: locked in closet, starved, hit by car by abusive Discord boyfriend. Escaped by hacking security cameras.
06:06:00
QuoteSonia: did Carl Weezer voice during sexual act. Man still calls every Saturday.
Topics Discussed
00:10:30
Relationship Status Roundtable
11 guests including Sonia (asexual, chess 2300 ELO) and Rosie ($12M minimum).
00:57:07
Income Requirements
Rosie: $12M/year bare minimum. Rose: 'dirt poor.' Michelle: $100K.
02:03:00
What Women Bring to the Table
Andrew: women think they ARE the table. No one says 'virtue.'
03:16:57
Bear vs Man / Uber Analogy
Brian draws racial discrimination parallel to gender safety preference.
04:05:00
Body Count and Past
Andrew proposes 'Her' app for body counts. Brian developing 'Tally' app.
04:36:00
KJ Rage Quit
KJ leaves during religious debate with Andrew.
05:59:00
Sonia Abuse Story
Locked in closet, starved, hit by car, forced heroin by Discord boyfriend. Escaped by hacking security.
Transcript
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Lauren (Model)send them in Streamlabs because we just can't do it through uh YouTube. Okay, guests. Introduction. Tell us your name, age, occupation, where you're from in education. Go ahead. >> Hello. My name is Lauren. I'm 23 years
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Lauren (Model)old. I'm from Portland, Oregon, and I work as a model. >> All right. Uh any schooling or anything like that? >> I graduated from university this March. >> What did you study? >> I studied marketing. marketing. Okay. >> Yeah.
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Brian Atlas>> Can you say which university? >> I went to a university in Oregon. >> A university. Uvo. >> No, a university in Oregon. >> Okay. Rock and roll. And you said marketing. >> Yeah, I majored in marketing. >> Okay. Rock and roll. And you're a model?
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Lauren (Model)>> Yes. >> Uh what kind of modeling? Like print, catwalk? >> I do absolutely everything. >> Very very lucky. I get to do active um you know active shows, fashion, e-commerce, anything.
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Lauren (Model)>> Okay. Okay. Very lucky. >> Any uh like what's the biggest thing you've done? What do you say? >> Uh this December I was featured in Dazed magazine. So >> Dazed >> probably my biggest one. >> It's Calvin Klein or anything coming up
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Lauren (Model)soon. What what you got? >> I do a lot of H Lorenzo. I just got published there today. Actually again I've done work with them. >> What is that? H Lorenzo. >> Horrenzo is like a designer. They are
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Selena (Bottle)dist distributor for like designer brands like Prada, Miumu, Muglair, Christopher Esber. >> Cool. Cool. What about you? >> Hi, I'm Selena. I'm 23. I'm from the Bay
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Selena (Bottle)Area, but I live in Las Vegas, Nevada. And I currently am doing bottle service and content creation. And then I got my bachelor's from San Jose State
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Lauren (Model)University in marketing. >> All right, welcome back. What about you? >> My name is Courtney. I'm 21 and I'm from
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Lauren (Model)South Dakota, but now I live in Florida. Um, education, high school, >> any college? >> Three years. >> Okay. What about you?
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KJ>> Hello, my name is KJ. I'm 22 years old. I'm from Oxnard, California, but I live in Las Vegas and I'm a artist, model, and a dancer. >> Okay. Any college or anything like that?
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Brian Atlas>> No. >> All right. And when you say dancer, you're a stripper. Stripper. Okay. >> And you're from the Nard 805. There you go. All right. W
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Aya (Casino)>> Hi, my name is Aya. I'm 27 from Las Vegas. I've been dealing for the past 5 years, but I've been let go from my job recently, too. >> Dealing cards or drugs?
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Aya (Casino)>> Cards. Oh, okay. Like your casino dealer? Yes. >> Okay. >> Yeah. But, um, I go to UNLV for fashion design and I'm just content creating right now and not working.
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Lauren (Model)>> Okay. And you are you always have you always been from Vegas? I moved from Chicago. >> Got it. Okay. What about you? >> Um, my name is Amelia. Uh, and I do I'm
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Lauren (Model)from Florida, originally from New England, and I do content creation and the fun link. >> Okay. Any college?
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Rosie ($12M)>> Um, I went to trade school, so I had my aestheticians license. >> All right. What about you? >> My name is Rosie. I'm 25. I'm from LA.
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Rosie ($12M)and I did two years in college, but I didn't finish. >> What were you studying? >> Uh, business and cosmetology and photography.
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Michelle (55)>> All right. What about you? >> I'm Michelle. I'm 55 years old and I am in the business industry of insurance.
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Michelle (55)Been in it for 30 plus years. Do networking and I'm from Northern California, Sacramento. >> Got it. Okay. What about you? My name is
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Lauren (Model)Rose. I'm 18 years old. Um, I'm from Florida and I'm currently a sushi chef on at a restaurant on the beach. So, yeah. Used to be a sushi chef. >> No way.
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Sonia>> All right. Uh, what about you? >> Uh, my name Oh, good. My name is Sonia. I'm 21 and I do a lot of jobs. So, right now, my main job, I
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Soniaam a Sheen fashion model. I also do voice acting and play competitive strategy games. Well, what games do you play? >> Uh, Tetris and Chess.
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Brian Atlas>> Tetris and chess. What's your ELO >> for chess? I'm 2300. >> It's pretty good. It's pretty good. Congrats for that. Uh, hold on. We have a chat coming through here from Jay. Is
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SPEAKER_00it? Hold on. >> Hello. One second. >> Jin donated $200. Question. If a girl is a bit different,
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SPEAKER_00goth out, muscle mommy, little person, and you like it, is that considered a kink or fetish or just you like variety? Kink versus preference. Where's the line?
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Sonia>> It's a preference. Why would it be? >> Yeah, if you want, go for it. >> Can I Can I read that? Is this on the screen? It just >> I think whatever you're into, you keep that to yourself or you can put it out
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Soniathere. If you want to put it out there, you have to tell your own line. So if you think it's a kink, then sure, it'll be your kink. If you think it's
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KJacross the line, then I guess it is. >> I think it's a preference of girls and >> it's a kink of what the girl may do based off of how they look or their
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Soniaalternative ways or whatever. Aren't kinks just sexual preferences? >> Yeah, kink is a sexual preference, not just a kink is a preference. >> A kink is a pre a sexual preference. And all goth is how you see someone or someone's style,
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Lauren (Model)>> right? >> So both you can see a goth person and be like they look cool versus seeing a goth person and wanting to goon to them. >> What does that mean? >> What does goon mean?
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Lauren (Model)>> Like excessively watching a specific type of content like you just enjoy it multiple screens. I think goon gooners
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Lauren (Model)are people who like to goon and gooning is like jerking it and jerking it is >> we're lost. >> I'm lost. >> You have a definition. >> Okay.
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Lauren (Model)>> Who said what? >> I'm not lost. I'm following along. >> I would say gooning is the act of getting yourself off. And if you are a gooner, you are obsessed with getting
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Lauren (Model)yourself off. And and the way in which you do that are your sexual preferences. >> Wait, that's so bad. Every time I'm on TikTok live, people comment that. And I thought it meant hanging out with like your friends.
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Lauren (Model)>> Oh, sweet baby. No. >> Wait, what did you think? >> You thought gooning is hanging out with your friends? >> Yeah. Like I'm like gooning around like what I thought. Okay. >> Guys who goon together stay together, I'm sure.
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Brian Atlas>> Wow. That's uh Okay. >> Wow. You're >> I need a new moderator clearly. I need a new mod >> entire life. >> Good times. Good times. Yo, Jay, thank you for the uh TTS, man. Really
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Brian Atlasappreciate it. Reminder, guys, uh get them in through Streamlabs just like Jay did. Our uh YouTube super chat pullup feature is unfortunately not working. Uh so, going around the table once more,
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Lauren (Model)what's your current relationship status? If you're single, how long have you been single and longest relationship? Go ahead. >> Um I'm Lauren. I have been single for
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Lauren (Model)five years. Embarrassing, I know. Um, and then my last relationship, uh, I got cheated on. And what was the other question? >> Uh, longest relationship. How long did that last?
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Lauren (Model)>> My longest relationship was 2 years and a couple months. >> Is that the one that ended 5 years ago? >> No, the one that ended 5 years ago was pretty short. Uh, he cheated on me. >> Okay. the two and a half year
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Brian Atlasrelationship. That was was that like high school or? >> Yeah, this was high school, almost college, but I decided to break things off right before I moved for college. >> Okay. Then you met this other guy. You dated a short period. He cheated on you. >> Yes. >> Okay.
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Brian Atlas>> Great guy. >> That was the one that was 5 years ago. >> Yes. >> Okay. >> He was my last straw clearly. >> Okay. Gotcha. How long were you seeing him? >> Uh I want to say only a few months. Maybe like five. >> Only five. Okay. I assume you broke up with him.
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Lauren (Model)>> Oh yeah. >> Okay. Was it an ongoing thing or did you find out immediately and then ended things? >> That's a hard one to answer. So, he I didn't know this, but he was actually a
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Lauren (Model)drug addict um when we were together. It It's very hard to tell. Um but it started like unraveling as we were together and I was 18. I was naive. He was incredibly incredibly beautiful. So,
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Lauren (Model)honestly, the whole time you could have seen it coming from a mile away. Um, but it was like the second I actually found out something happened, I just walked out. But it was like I should have seen it coming. >> How old was he?
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Lauren (Model)>> Oh my gosh. I think we only had like a three years age gap. So I was 18 and he was 21. >> What was his poison? >> Everything. Oh my god. I literally Yeah.
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Lauren (Model)Anything. Everything. Ketamine, alcohol, cocaine. I mean, you name it. He probably did it. Heated Xanax when we were together and had a seizure and then didn't remember me for a little bit. I wish I was joking. >> Wait, so and you were with him for 5
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Lauren (Model)months? >> How soon into the relationship you did you discover he was? >> Oh, maybe like 2 months in, but I feel like even from the start, I knew he was going to cheat on me. I was just 18 and just a little ditz. >> Were you guys boyfriend? Like official
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Lauren (Model)boyfriend, girlfriend? >> Yeah, we were official. >> Who initiated that conversation? >> Uh, he did. >> He did. Yeah, I was the one who was a little bit nervous about it, but I mean I came around. We were seeing each other for a bit. >> Okay.
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Lauren (Model)>> Good times. Good times. And then uh the 2.5 year relationship, did you end it? Was it mutual? >> Uh I decided to end it. It was not mutual by any means. He literally thought I was going to be his wife. Um
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Brian Atlasbut unfortunately, yeah, just it wasn't going to happen. >> All right. And uh you've been single for 5 years. Have there been any guys in the picture?
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Lauren (Model)>> You know, I've had a couple first, second dates here and there. Um, there's been a couple that I was like, maybe we could date and things just didn't really go out. Um, so maybe a couple here and there, but nothing has ever clicked.
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Lauren (Model)>> Anybody in the picture currently? >> No, I don't think so. >> You don't think so? >> There might be. >> There might be. What do you mean? >> Oh god. >> Do you have a roster? >> No, cuz what if he's watching? >> So, there is there is a
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Brian Atlas>> Oh, no. No. I went on like um two dates with someone. Great guy. >> Okay. >> Yeah, maybe. We'll see. >> So, what's the I guess in the past 5 years, what's the longest period of time
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Lauren (Model)you've been seeing somebody? >> Like, is there anybody you've been seeing for a month, two months, 3 months, but you wouldn't consider a boyfriend? >> No, I'm not really into that. I am more a relationship person. So, like after
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Lauren (Model)like three or four dates, I'm kind of just wanting to know like is this going to be longterm or is it not? And if it's not longterm, then it's not for me. >> Okay. And um you've been single for 5 years. Have you
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Lauren (Model)been celibate for 5 years? >> Um I have to think about that. It's been so long. Um Jesus Christ, this is not an
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Brian Atlasanswer. I thought it's cool. Uh can I hit it with a no comment? >> Is it you just like forgot? You're not sure because it sounded like you're just
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Brian Atlasunsure on like timeline. I guess the simple question is the guy who you end the attractive hot drug addict dude. Was that the last guy you were with? >> I can't recall.
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Selena (Bottle)>> Okay. She pleads the fifth. What about you? >> Uh I'm currently single and then my last relationship I was in college which was about like four years ago and that
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Selena (Bottle)relationship was 2 and 1/2 years. And he was a narcissist and toxic. He was a narcissist and very toxic. And I learned my lesson real quick and now I don't
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Selena (Bottle)even want to be in a relationship after that one. I'm like scarred for good. >> And um so two how long you've been single? Sorry, just >> I would say like four years. >> Four years. And how long was that relationship?
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Brian Atlas>> It was two and a half years. >> Two and a half. You ended things? >> Yes, definitely. >> Okay. Uh so you've been single for four years? >> Yes. >> Any guys in the picture the past four years? >> Oh, for sure. >> Okay.
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Selena (Bottle)>> Definitely been some camp. Are there any guys in the picture currently? >> Yes, there is. There there's some there's a guy >> a like a singular guy or multiple guys. >> There's like a guy, a girl, you know. I
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Selena (Bottle)like to have my fun. >> Okay. >> But it's not like >> So you have a roster? >> Um I've actually I've I've slowed down. My roster is not there right now. I'm like with the like right now I'm like
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Selena (Bottle)I'm like kind of serious with someone but we're not dating because you know situation [ __ ] because like dating is a lot right now but like it's kind of like we're dating but there's just no labels on it cuz it's just like that's too stressful.
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Selena (Bottle)>> So you're dating >> especially I live in Vegas so it's like >> you're dating other people he's dating other people. >> Um I mean I wouldn't even like to say that because it's kind of like we understand what it is but we don't really want to put like labels on it.
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Selena (Bottle)But like if I knew he was doing something else, I'd probably freak out. And it's kind of like same here. So it's like we're kind of like in that sense, but it's like not dating. So if something were to happen, it's like, well, you can't really get mad at me.
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Brian AtlasWe're not together. I just don't want the stress of a relationship. >> How long have you been seeing him? >> Probably like 5 months. >> Okay. In that 5 month period, have you been with anybody else?
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Brian Atlas>> Um, not a man. Like somebody else. Yeah. >> Okay. Some women. >> Yeah. But you also you do pro content like >> I don't do pro content. No, I just do my I do of content. >> Is there like a photo with of you with
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Selena (Bottle)like some famous porn star guy? >> I mean yeah there is but I wouldn't call that like mainstream or nothing >> like my own content. I I could do that or I don't have to. >> Do you do content with this guy? >> I do. Yes.
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Selena (Bottle)>> Okay. Do you shoot content with other people? Uh, since I've been talking to him, I haven't been like shooting a lot, but we like communicate and he he knows like it's not like I came into anything like lying to him, but it's like if I
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Selena (Bottle)really were to be more serious with someone, I would not have to do that content or I could only work myself. I choose what I do or if anything, I don't have to do in content. And I'm trying to like steer more out of that anyways. So, yeah. But yes, there is that picture.
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Brian Atlas>> Go check it out. >> I've been single for three years and my longest relationship was nine months. All right. Uh, who broke up with who in the 9month relationship?
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Lauren (Model)>> I broke up with him. >> Why is that? >> He didn't really let me like hang out with my own roommate, which was really weird because we lived together in the same place. It's like I wouldn't message him. So like if me and my roommate were
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Lauren (Model)watching like a show or a movie together, he would like tweak if I didn't if I wasn't texting him constantly. There's that upon other things. But >> roommate, a girl or a guy? >> Girl. >> Why did he not want you to hang out with
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Lauren (Model)your roommate? >> I don't know. >> He didn't. >> I think it was just more of like a controlling thing. >> There was no reason. >> No, I asked him, but like there was no reason that he ever gave me. >> So, he would just say, "Don't hang out
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Lauren (Model)with her." That's it. He wouldn't like tell me like I couldn't hang out with her, but like his reaction to like when I wouldn't be like responding or something even like he knows I'm just sitting in my dorm room like it was a negative response.
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Lauren (Model)>> And was it because he wanted to spend time with you or even when you weren't with him, he was like don't be with her. >> It was a like I would say probably like a mix of both, but it's also kind of
00:19:03
Lauren (Model)like stupid because he was always also with his friends all the time. So, it was like very hypocritical. >> What do the girls think about that? What do you think's going on there?
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Lauren (Model)>> Did he [ __ ] her? That I mean, that's the >> like roomate. Yeah. Was he [ __ ] her? I don't know. That's the only thing I >> My roommate, she's in a six-year long relationship. She's She's good. She
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Brian Atlasdon't want that. >> It's a bit peculiar. Uh Okay. And you've been single, so you said three years. >> Any guys in the picture currently? >> No. >> Nothing? No, nothing. >> Uh, you do OF, correct?
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Lauren (Model)>> Correct. >> Do you do boy girl content? >> I have a once before, but that was like months ago, but other than that, it was only like that one time.
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Brian Atlas>> Okay, got it. Um, so in the past 3 years, there's been has there been anything, you know, couple couple months, situationship, anything like that?
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Lauren (Model)>> This is so I got like kind of let on for like a year and a half. It was really tragic, but that's like my own doing. Like obviously I should have been smarter and stuff, but it's like >> you never know, I guess. I don't really
00:20:13
Brian Atlasknow. >> Sure. All right. Um, do you have a roster? There's no guys in the picture currently. >> No, there's none. >> Have you ever had a roster? >> Yeah. >> How big was it?
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Lauren (Model)>> I would say like the biggest roster I've had was like 10 guys, but I wasn't like doing anything with them though. It was more so like just like Snapchatting and stuff like that. >> Going on dates like dinner or anything like that?
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Lauren (Model)>> No, not No. >> Okay. Just like these were people you never met in person? >> No, I've met them in person like in
00:20:49
Brian Atlascollege like at the bars downtown. Yeah. >> Okay. And um going back to you, you said you had a roster. What's the biggest the roster
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Selena (Bottle)has ever been? Um, well, I don't know. Like like three. >> Okay. >> Have you ever had a roster? >> A roster. >> Roster. Like talking to multiple people
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KJat the same time, >> dating multiple people? >> I can't say I ever have. >> Okay. Going to you relationship status. >> I'm single and I've been single since uh
00:21:26
KJtwo years in September. Like during New York Fashion Week, I went to go work New York Fashion Week and my guy brought in my nail tech to to my crib and [ __ ] her on my couch.
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Brian Atlas>> The nail techn >> Does she still do your nails? Can you hold up your nails for us? >> No. Uh Lingling did these in >> Is that That's her actual name is Lingling. >> Lingling. Yeah. >> No, but
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KJ>> can you call her Lingling? >> Oh, >> okay. And uh so what happened? Um, I ended up uh coming back from New York Fashion Week and I used to live in like a artist content mansion. So, uh, my
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KJmanager is the one who had like all the access to all the Ring cameras and he ended up telling me and so I confronted him and he went downstairs. I ended up smoking and like chilling upstairs with
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KJeverybody. He went downstairs and he cut himself and um, I went downstairs. I found him in the shower. He was completely naked. He was he cut himself. I wrapped him up and I took him in my I didn't even call the police cuz he
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KJwasn't like no I'm not going to go. You feel me? So I wrapped him up. I got him in my clothes cuz you all wet and you bloody and [ __ ] And I took him to the hospital. He was um admitted there for
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KJlike 3 or 4 days. And then as an adult after um like you get out of the hospital, they'll taxi you to like the nearest hotel or wherever you want to go. But they had sent him to like a a
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KJhospital like an hour away from the crib. And so, um, the cops ended up calling me off of his phone and, um, saying that he was found on the side of
00:22:58
KJthe highway walking without no shoes and [ __ ] basically. And that if I can come pick him up and I'm not evil. I'm not going to leave nobody out here [ __ ] homeless, even though he did that [ __ ] to me cuz he's from uh,
00:23:11
KJFlorida. He moved out here to come be with me. And so, I called his I went to go pick him up an hour away. I called his mom and I was like, "You need to get him a Uber to the airport and then get
00:23:22
KJhim a flight back to Florida and like because I'm not taking I'm not doing this no more." And so he ended up cutting himself again when he got back to my crib and then I called the police
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KJon him and um they came got him and his mom ended up flying him out from when he got discharged from the hospital and I've been single for 2 years now. >> How long were you dating him? I was dating him for two and a half years. I
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KJwas living in Naples in Florida beforehand. >> Okay. >> Um and then for like a year and then I moved out here and then he moved with me. >> Got it. Okay. Um how did he meet the the
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KJnail tech? How did >> she did my nail So basically I lived in an artist mansion and she was one of the girls that lived there. >> Oh, she lived there. >> Her best friend. No, it was one of the girls that lived there, but it was her best friend that she would come into the
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KJhouse and do all of our nails. So, all of us went to New York Fashion Week and she came in, did our nails, they met, like we were all smoking and [ __ ] like it's just regular [ __ ] But I I don't know how they ended up like exchanging
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KJcontact information or whether she was at the house after the fact cuz her friend lived there, you know, but they ended up getting drunk off of a [ __ ] bottle that I bought for his birthday
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KJand yeah, they [ __ ] on the couch. >> Uh, what's the tattoo on your face say? >> Change. >> Change. >> Mhm. What's the story >> um that I'm not religious anymore so I'm
00:24:44
KJspiritual and um there is a time in my life where I was like going through a lot of change and transformation and I started seeing 555 which is a spiritual number and that's what that means.
00:24:56
Aya (Casino)>> Got it. Okay. Anybody else here have face tattoos? Any >> the closest I have? >> We'll get into that in just a moment. Um relationship status. >> Um I think I've been single. I would say
00:25:09
Aya (Casino)for three weeks now. >> Single for three weeks. Okay. >> Longest relationship. >> Um I don't know if I ever been in a serious rel relationship, but the
00:25:21
Brian Atlaslongest I've loved someone was for four years. >> Wait. The longest you loved someone >> was for four years. >> Yes.
00:25:30
Aya (Casino)>> Did he say I love you back? >> He did, but he was 16 years. He is 16 years older than me. And he's right now I would say that he's
00:25:42
Aya (Casino)a good man. He's a good guy, but he has um Vegas got into him. Vegas gets into a lot of people. So he's a degenerate kino lover >> and he always chose this kinos over me.
00:25:54
Aya (Casino)So I tried to move on with my recent boyfriend that is my ex now. >> But he really did help me cuz I was in love for 4 years. I did not think that
00:26:04
Aya (Casino)I'll ever move on. And then the recent guy really made it super possible for me. And now because of him, I think it's possible to fall in love again with with a hotter guy and a richer one and cuter
00:26:17
Aya (Casino)one. >> Love to hear you know. >> Thank you. >> So you said keynote like >> no kos like kino >> like the >> Oh, he gambling.
00:26:27
Aya (Casino)>> I just added an s to the kino. It's kino like the game. >> Gambling. Gambling. Gambling. >> Kino. Yeah. >> Yeah. That's a card. >> It's a Oh, he was gambling addict. >> A keynote addict.
00:26:39
Aya (Casino)>> Oh, I thought you meant like keynote speaker. Like he was just going to like >> Tony Robbins and [ __ ] >> No, no, no. >> Addicted to like self. >> Addicted to gambling. Too much money on keynote. Not enough on her. >> But that's not the ex that I'm talking about.
00:26:52
Aya (Casino)>> But so you say you've never had a boyfriend essentially. >> Well, my ex was my I would say like the first time I ever actually was like, "Okay, like I think I want to be in a
00:27:02
Aya (Casino)serious relationship. I'm 27. I'm ready for something like that. But um I can't really talk much about my recent
00:27:10
Aya (Casino)relationship. I've retained lawyers and they've advised me to not say much. So, >> uh wait, is there like a criminal case?
00:27:23
Aya (Casino)>> No, no, it's not criminal. It's emotional abuse. And >> emotional abuse? >> I It's It's a lot. I don't I just I can't really get into it. >> You have a restraining order? >> No. No. no restrain and order. It's not
00:27:34
Aya (Casino)against him, but it's because >> he's my coworker. Um I just I can't talk much about what's going on. I don't want
00:27:43
Aya (Casino)to say the wrong things. >> Sure. Uh so there's a civil litigation. >> Well, yeah, but basically like I don't know. I would say he broke up with me,
00:27:54
Aya (Casino)but I think in his defense is that I asked for a break and he's like there's no break. we it's either we break up or we're together. But I think that was his way out to actually break up with me
00:28:06
Aya (Casino)because I just needed a break cuz I felt like I wasn't able to communicate my feelings with him cuz he wasn't listening. So I needed few days off to
00:28:15
Aya (Casino)like you know like sit with what I'm thinking and not bash at him. But um yeah, basically honestly I think the
00:28:27
Aya (Casino)anonymous like who are who are we dating in in Vegas is so toxic. I saw him being posted there twice and when I confronted him, he said that all girls are crazy
00:28:39
Aya (Casino)and all of us belong to the streets and that I can't handle that he has fans. >> She belongs to the street. >> Um yeah, >> fans. Wait, fans? >> He you have fans? No, he said that I can't handle. He got fans.
00:28:53
Aya (Casino)>> Fans? >> Yes. >> Like air conditioning fans? >> No, like fans. Like >> he was an artist or musician. >> No, he's just um he's handsome and tall.
00:29:05
Aya (Casino)So every other girl is like >> Damon Salvador, like Jesse McCartney, you know, like your childhood crush. So every other girl is like crushing on him
00:29:15
Aya (Casino)and it gives them a lot of ego boost, which is good. But I just I don't know. Looks can't really get you so far if your inside is tainted. >> Was it the tea app? >> Yeah. >> No, it wasn't. It was Facebook. But I
00:29:28
SPEAKER_07found him on the tea app, too. >> Okay. >> And he was defending himself on the tea app, too. He was like, "Oh, I'm texting from my friend's home phone, whatever." I'm like, "Get a life." >> Yeah.
00:29:40
Aya (Casino)>> And where you from originally? >> I wasn't born here. I was born in Europe. >> Nuremberg. >> Germany. Yeah. >> Oh, that's cool. >> You were born and when did you move to
00:29:52
Aya (Casino)the US? >> Like 20 2004. >> Have you ever spent time on the East Coast? >> Yes, I have. >> New York. >> Did you have like a Yeah, you have >> I told you I moved from Chicago.
00:30:06
Aya (Casino)>> Also kind of Chicago, >> but that's Midwest, too. >> Yeah. Okay. Um All right. Any guys in the picture currently? Um, only because I feel like he's talking to other girls, but naturally I'm a very monogamous good
00:30:18
Aya (Casino)girl, honestly. And I hate that I have to talk to other guys. But I got to kill time somehow. And at least they're doing more for me
00:30:28
Aya (Casino)than he ever did. Like, in the past 3 weeks, I've been flown out three times. >> Oh [ __ ] >> And And mind you, I've been celibate for three weeks, too.
00:30:40
Brian Atlas>> Yes. W. That's right. >> You've been flown out by three separate guys. >> Yes. And I was on my period every time. >> You Wait, hold on. >> Guys, are you getting bored?
00:30:52
Brian Atlas>> No, I was sorry. I was like, can we cut that? Can we not post that? >> Wait, hold on. >> You were wait. The past three weeks. Do you have like a perpetual like it just >> What do you mean?
00:31:05
Aya (Casino)>> No, I just did it because I'm like, you know what? Like, I'm going to live my life, you know? >> Yeah. And it's it's been two weeks of me trying to live my life and last week it's been hitting me. >> The period?
00:31:17
Aya (Casino)>> Yes. Actually, it was the actual period. The actual period did hit me. So, >> okay. >> Yeah. I'm on it. >> Where where did you get flown out to? >> I went to Denver. I went to Austin and uh San Diego. Now I'm here actually
00:31:30
Brian Atlasfour, but I drove to here. >> Okay. Wow. All right. >> And I want to do the end. >> Like were you economy or did they get you business class? >> No. It's always business. >> Always. They always get you first.
00:31:42
SPEAKER_07>> No, no, no. Hold on. The other one. Economy. I'm scared to fly business cuz there's a fact that if a if an airplane ever crashes, if you're >> in the front. Yeah. >> Yeah. If you're in the front, you'll die first. And >> so you like to sit in the way back by the back.
00:31:54
Brian Atlas>> I I would like to survive. >> I mean, technically it is the safest place in airplane. >> Yeah. I'm very superstitious. >> I put in for like two seconds. >> An airplane. Okay. Go ahead. Yeah. Tell
00:32:05
Soniaus about your aviation. Go ahead. >> I don't know. Airplane fact. If you sit on the side with the the window seat near the wing, you'll be the first to know the plane catches on fire and the first to die. >> Love that.
00:32:18
Brian Atlas>> That's all. >> Yeah. >> All right. >> Wow. Learn something every day. >> Okay. So, wow. That that is uh you're
00:32:28
Brian Atlasquite a predicament. So, um you've been flown out any future do you have any scheduled future? >> I want to go to um >> Dubai. Are you taking me? >> No.
00:32:40
Brian Atlas>> No. Okay, that's I guess not. Not Not yet. >> Anybody here been flown out to Dubai? Show of hands. Anybody? Maybe for modeling. I don't know. >> I I've been asked. >> You've been asked
00:32:54
Lauren (Model)my mom. >> You guys are crazy because they'll send they'll have no profile picture. They're like, "Let me fly you here." And it's like, "No, you don't have a profile picture. Like, who the hell are you?" They want to [ __ ] on you. I'm also weary
00:33:06
Lauren (Model)about going to like a country where women have limited rights. Yeah. Especially if I've heard the stories of Dubai and >> it's modernizing. >> I think >> trafficking
00:33:17
Aya (Casino)>> probably I'm not going to take the risk. >> Um okay. So no future flyyou plans. Nothing on the books. >> I mean no I want to go to Oregon really really bad. >> You don't you don't smoke?
00:33:29
Aya (Casino)>> No. No. I really I need to see the waterfalls. I feel like I need to meditate and detox everything and I feel like Oregon is the place. >> I'm going to do just a couple mic adjustments. Can I have you tilt your
00:33:40
Brian Atlasmic down slightly and then let me have you tilt your mic down slightly? Tilt it down. Perfect. Uh what's the bat tattoo?
00:33:49
Aya (Casino)Tell us what that is. >> I'm a big I don't know. I guess I just have always been obsessed with justice and the way to seek justice. And if I
00:34:01
Aya (Casino)ever had Batman's or Bruce Wayne's ability, I would seek justice the exact same way. I don't believe in killing people, but I believe in beating their ass and schooling them, and I love doing that.
00:34:13
Aya (Casino)>> Have you ever been Batman for Halloween? >> Um, no, I haven't, but I want to this year. It's only cuz I want to design my own outfit, and the one that I want to do is cost thousands of dollars. So, I'm
00:34:26
Aya (Casino)just I don't know if I'm ready to spend three $4,000 on a Halloween costume. >> Okay, sweet. >> Got to make content. >> That's cool. We have a chat coming in here.
00:34:38
SPEAKER_00>> Thank you, Jabu. >> Djabu donated $200. Welcome back, Selena. Hope all is well. Tried to add on but couldn't find it.
00:34:48
Selena (Bottle)Sucks. You're in a relationship. Hope is watching. Lol. s get off of. You have value. >> Um, my Instagram was deleted for 2
00:34:59
Selena (Bottle)months and I had to pay 4K to get it back. So, I'm really upset about that. And um, thanks. I said I'm not in a like I'm in a situationship, not a relationship.
00:35:11
Lauren (Model)Those are two different things, but thank you. I appreciate it. The value comment. Very sweet. >> All right. Cool. Relationship status. Um, so I'm single and I have been single
00:35:22
Lauren (Model)since um the end of 2022, which the end of 2022, which is couple months before. Yeah. A couple months before I started Only Fans.
00:35:33
Lauren (Model)>> All right. Longest relationship? >> Um, I guess my longest relationship was my high school relationship, which was about 3 and a half years. Ended when I was like 19. Um, but as of like an adult
00:35:44
Lauren (Model)relationship, the one in 2022 was the longest one I had, which was about six months. >> The three and a half year relationship, who ended it? >> Um, it was on and off for the last maybe
00:35:56
Lauren (Model)year to 6 months, but it was it was I guess it was my choice, but it was his ultimatum. >> Okay. And
00:36:07
Lauren (Model)the most recent one, the six-month one, who ended it? Um, I guess I would say he ended it. Um, and that was because he said things were getting too serious for him. >> Good times.
00:36:19
Lauren (Model)>> Yeah, good times. All right. Any guys in the picture currently? >> Um, no, not currently. I think I have my work cut out with for me with the amount of men I have to
00:36:30
Lauren (Model)interact with on the daily. >> Ever had a roster? >> Ever had a roster? I would say yeah, I've had uh when I was 19 to 21 was my
00:36:41
Lauren (Model)little crazy era and I'd say the biggest roster I probably had would be maybe like five to seven people, but like not sleeping with each of them, just
00:36:52
Rosie ($12M)setting up dates and trying to I don't know find something fun to do. >> Got it. Okay. Uh what about you? >> My longest relationship was seven years.
00:37:04
Brian AtlasAnd then what was the other question? >> Are you current relationship status? >> Oh, single. >> How long you've been single? >> Like a year. >> 7 and 1/2 year relationship. Is that the one that ended a year ago? >> No. >> How long was that one?
00:37:17
Brian Atlas>> The second one? >> Uh, well, the most recent one >> like two months, three months. >> Who broke up with who? >> I broke up with him. >> Seven and a half year relationship. Who broke up with who? >> He broke up with me.
00:37:28
Rosie ($12M)>> Why is that? Uh, it got toxic kind of and I had said something to him one night and he didn't like it so he broke up with me.
00:37:40
Rosie ($12M)>> Uh, what did you say that was toxic or how were you toxic? >> It was something I had said. So, it was his birthday and we went to eat and then
00:37:50
Rosie ($12M)he left to the strip club and I was like I think like 19 at the time so I didn't really know too much about like the strip stripper life and stuff like that. Mhm.
00:38:00
Rosie ($12M)>> So, um, I got mad and I told him when he got back, I'm going to go to the male stripper club and make it rain on a guy with a big thing. And he broke up with
00:38:11
Brian Atlasme. >> Good times. Okay. Nice. Um, okay. Ever had a roster? >> Yeah. >> Big. How big was the roster?
00:38:24
Rosie ($12M)>> I think like seven, but I couldn't handle it. It was too much. And were you like hooking up with >> No, I was >> some of them. >> Two of them. Three of them. >> Maybe like two. One maybe. Like one really.
00:38:36
Brian Atlas>> And then you're But you're some of the guys you were just like, you know, getting dinner with >> just texting. >> Texting. Okay. All right. What about you?
00:38:47
Michelle (55)>> I'm single for three years. I'm divorced twice. My longest relationships have been
00:38:59
Michelle (55)7 8 5 Three. So yeah. >> Ever been married? >> I just said twice. >> Sorry.
00:39:13
Brian AtlasSome shit's going on. >> Yes. >> Married twice. >> Correct. >> Okay. Uh any kids? >> Two. >> Two kids from same guy? No. >> Okay. So, two fathers, >> correct? >> Okay. Were those the guys you were
00:39:27
Brian Atlasmarried to? >> No. >> Okay. So, two out of wedlock children. >> Correct. >> From two separate father fathers, but you weren't married to either of them. >> Correct.
00:39:36
Brian Atlas>> Uh, okay. Let's do a bit of a timeline here. Uh, wait, hold on. Notes are a little messed up. >> Uh,
00:39:46
Brian Atlashow soon into the relationship with baby daddy number one did you get pregnant? We'd been dating for about five years. >> Five years.
00:39:56
Michelle (55)>> Yeah. And then we broke up and I found out I was pregnant two weeks later after our breakup. >> Nice. Good timing. Um, >> yeah.
00:40:06
Michelle (55)>> And this this is prior to your first marriage, is that correct? >> Correct. >> Okay. >> He was my um basically he was my first >> How old were you? >> Boyfriend and everything.
00:40:19
Brian Atlas>> How old were you when you had your first kid? Um, I was 22. >> 22. Got it. Okay. Uh, was he paying you child support? >> No. >> No child support? >> No. >> Was uh custody 50/50 or you had sole
00:40:33
Brian Atlascustody? >> I had sole custody. >> Okay. Was there any court involvement? No. >> No. Okay. Uh, well, I imagine your child is now in their late 20s or >> he's 33 years old. >> Okay.
00:40:47
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Got it. Okay. your second kid. Uh is that also prior to your first marriage? >> No. >> After the first? >> Correct. >> But before the second. >> Correct.
00:40:59
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Uh let's talk about the first marriage then. Just for the timeline sake. >> How long are you was your first marriage?
00:41:07
Michelle (55)>> So my first marriage um we got married. So we met in 97. Got married in a good >> Are you 97? >> Am I
00:41:17
Brian Atlas>> 97? I was alive in 97. Uh, wait, who here, Wait, I'm actually kind of curious. Who here was born in the 2000s? >> Damn, y'all missed the 90s.
00:41:31
SPEAKER_01>> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> [ __ ] >> The 80s were good. >> I'm 1998, so I don't really remember. >> Yeah, you don't you can't really claim 90s. Um, anyways, >> I'm 99. I'll still claim it.
00:41:42
Brian Atlas>> I'm 99, too. October. >> We're 1900s. All right. >> Sorry. So, your first marriage was how long? >> It was approximately eight years. Um,
00:41:54
Michelle (55)>> eight, sorry, eight years. >> Well, eight years, I guess. Eight years in the relationship, and then we got married. So, >> let's see. We got married in 99, met in
00:42:06
Michelle (55)97, and we basically got a divorce in 2005.
00:42:17
Brian AtlasFelicity, you asked the question for me. Um, I need to do some who initiated the divorce. Repeat the question. Felicity,
00:42:27
Michelle (55)>> who initiated the divorce? >> I did. Um, I separated from him and um,
00:42:35
Michelle (55)we filed the paperwork. So, >> why? Well, basically he um
00:42:45
Michelle (55)he was never home. So he actually when I first met him, he was working at a warehouse and um when
00:42:55
Michelle (55)we met, he had full-time job. He got injured. He injured his shoulder, his rotator cuff tore, and he was put on
00:43:04
Michelle (55)disability. So I was um pretty much working and um at this point
00:43:15
Michelle (55)we got married, got through it. He was going through vocational rehab. Um he definitely was struggling because
00:43:25
Michelle (55)they were giving him painkillers and um he had to have two surgeries for it. So he's in a lot of pain and I think it
00:43:36
Michelle (55)just kind of our relationship went downhill because he decided that from that he was getting depressed
00:43:47
Michelle (55)and he was also a musician and decided that he was going to go touring with his band and um
00:43:57
Michelle (55)I think that he was doing other things um with his bandmates, you know, going off to the road and traveling around and
00:44:07
Michelle (55)going to different gigs and never inviting me. And so there was there was pretty much he would not contact me for two or three days, you know. So I'm at
00:44:19
SPEAKER_11home basically. >> So how long were you guys married? >> It was about six years. >> Did he pay uh did he pay you alimony?
00:44:31
Michelle (55)Yeah, >> we didn't we did not file anything like that. He was basically I was the one that was making the money at the time and so we just decided to split and go our separate
00:44:44
Brian Atlasways. >> Oh, so you were the bread winner? >> Yes. >> Ah, did he seek alimony? >> No. >> Huh. Interesting how that works. I
00:44:55
Brian Atlaswonder if the woman was in the same spot if she'd be as uh gracious. uh your second kid. Um how long were you dating the guy who had your second kid?
00:45:07
Michelle (55)>> We were eight years just we never got married. Just a relationship. Um three years into it I met him
00:45:16
Michelle (55)and he's he was um he's 12 years younger than me when I met him. And um so we got together and how
00:45:27
Michelle (55)>> how old were you and how old was he? at the time 36 and he was 24. >> Okay.
00:45:39
Michelle (55)>> How did you guys meet? >> Um, so we we met at a bar and um I think
00:45:48
Michelle (55)we chatted online. That was when online was was in the picture at the time. >> Like match.com or something. >> Yeah. Like okaycid or
00:45:57
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. dating sites and so um >> you dated them for eight years. >> Uh how soon into the relationship? You said 3 years in in you got pregnant? >> Yeah.
00:46:10
Brian Atlas>> Okay. >> Yeah. >> You guys were living together? >> Yes. >> Okay. Uh really quick, your the first guy who you got pregnant with, you had sole custody, right?
00:46:22
Brian Atlas>> Yeah. >> Okay. So that kid was was with you, >> correct? Um, and then had a new kid. Uh, do you did you have 50/50 custody
00:46:34
Brian Atlaswith the new guy, the second father? >> Nope. >> You had sole custody? >> Yep. >> But for a period of 5 years, you guys were living together. >> Yeah.
00:46:45
Brian Atlas>> Right. And parenting and all that stuff. >> Um, does he pay you child or did he pay you child support? >> No. >> No child support. Okay. Wow. >> No courts. No courts. >> No courts. >> No courts.
00:46:57
Brian Atlas>> No courts. >> Okay. All right. Uh second marriage, how long was was that? >> Second marriage is seven. >> Okay. Uh alimony in either direction? >> No. >> Instant. >> Okay.
00:47:11
Lauren (Model)>> All right. What about you? >> Um I'm currently single. I've been single for about two years now. And the longest relationship and the only real relationship I had was like 3 months.
00:47:23
Brian Atlas>> Okay. Uh, was it boyfriend, girlfriend? >> Yes. >> Did you say I love you? >> Yes. >> Did he say it? >> Yes. >> Okay. You've been single for 2 years. Any guys in the P? Wait, hold on. Single
00:47:35
Brian Atlasfor two years. >> Okay. So, you were like 14 to 16 >> or Wait, no, sorry. You said 3 months? >> Yeah. >> So, you would have been um 16 about when you were dating him? >> Yeah. 16. >> Yeah. >> All right. Uh, single for two years. Any guys in the picture at all?
00:47:49
Brian Atlas>> No. >> Nothing. >> Nope. >> Okay. Uh, gotcha. How long have you had dreads? Um, >> about a year now. >> Are you uh
00:48:01
Lauren (Model)what what what's the I guess the statement there. Are you like rostafari mom? >> Um, yeah. I wouldn't claim that as a religion, more of a lifestyle. Um, and
00:48:10
Lauren (Model)they are like a promise to kind of not follow the societal standards and kind of, you know, pave my own path. So,
00:48:19
Brian Atlas>> do you have armpit hair? I do not. >> I feel like most dread girls have uh you know a little All right. All right. Cool. Uh so what are the societal
00:48:30
Lauren (Model)standards that you are rejecting? >> Um honestly like depending on our government um to take care of us. You
00:48:39
Lauren (Model)know I'm still young so I'm working on that but I don't agree with any politics. Um, and I just want to be a sovereign being. So, I think there's a lot of mind
00:48:52
Lauren (Model)control when it comes to our government. And yeah, if you want me to specify, I can. >> When you say sovereign, are you a sovereign citizen? >> Um, spiritually, mentally, yes. >> Spiritually, >> do you know what I'm talking about,
00:49:05
Lauren (Model)though? The people that >> Yeah. Yeah. I know. >> Are beyond the law? >> Yeah. >> Because of they're the agent, the individual, the corporation. >> Yeah. My roommate, she's actually applying for that right now. So, I know a little bit about that. Applying for it.
00:49:18
Brian Atlas>> Well, not applying, but there's a lot of um things you have to do to to claim that sovereignty. So, yeah. >> Okay. Um sovereign citizen. >> Does anybody know what that is here at
00:49:32
Lauren (Model)the table? >> Uh >> anybody familiar with that? >> Just vaguely. Yeah. You just are not a United States citizen. Do you get rid of your social security number as part of it? Um, >> well, wouldn't you have to leave the
00:49:45
Lauren (Model)country if that happens? >> No, but but it you can't leave the country without one. I don't think >> from what I know, you you ditch the security number and they give you a special type of passport or card. I'm
00:49:57
Lauren (Model)not 100% sure on that though. But yes, >> you don't have to pay taxes then or something like that. >> I'm not that far into that um culture, but yeah. Yeah.
00:50:06
Brian Atlas>> Okay. All right. Um, what about you? Um, I'm single gladly, happily. >> Mhm. How long you been single? >> Uh, around two years now.
00:50:19
Sonia>> Longest relationship? >> Three years. >> 3 years. Okay. Who broke up with who? >> Uh, he broke up with me because I was very straightforward since the beginning. Told him that I would not
00:50:32
Brian Atlashave sex with him until marriage. And he wanted sex. So, >> are you a virgin? >> Yes. >> Okay. And you're waiting until marriage? >> Yes. >> Okay. Uh you also are asexual.
00:50:44
Brian Atlas>> Yes. >> Yes. Um >> do you want to explain that? >> Yeah, sure. Give us a brief explanation. >> Uh my explanation so I only like came
00:50:53
Soniaout came out like recently this week because I knew that on this show and other things people would ask about it and also my friends have been asking.
00:51:04
SoniaBut uh basically for me I have zero attraction towards anyone. I do not get sexually aroused. I do not look at someone and be like, "Oh, they're pretty
00:51:12
Soniahot." No, I genuinely zero attraction towards anyone. I've never wanted or I don't know how to explain it. I never
00:51:23
Soniawanted sex. I never wanted a relationship. I'm here for the long run of hey I want to get married and start my bloodline like keep my bloodline
00:51:32
Soniagoing rather than I want to get married and have sex for other reasons or I want to not get married and just have sex. >> So for you sex for procreation only. >> Yeah.
00:51:44
Brian Atlas>> So if you were pregnant you would not have sex with your spouse? >> No. >> Okay. Interesting. So, you'll have to find
00:51:56
Brian Atlassomebody who matches you >> on that level. >> Or I am a-ok okay with being single my entire life. >> Life. Okay. >> All right. Any other asexuals here? Any aces?
00:52:09
Aya (Casino)>> Anybody? >> I feel like this sometimes. >> I think I'd like to be cuz I feel like that's a lot of independence. You know, I would be very
00:52:21
Brian Atlasself-sufficient. I don't know. I'm proud of you. >> You're gonna make me cry. >> No, thank you. >> Okay, rock and roll. All right. Um, and
00:52:33
Brian Atlasthen I think uh Okay, we we got everybody's relationship status. We have a chat coming in here from Vector. One moment, please. >> Vector,
00:52:46
SPEAKER_00>> thank you, man. >> Vector donated $200. Share nine. You have the opportunity to find like-minded individuals that have discarded their reliance on society and create a country without a government.
00:52:58
SPEAKER_00>> Is that you? >> Oh, wait a minute. Or whatever. Anarchy. >> Uh, it's not exactly that simple, >> unfortunately. >> So, do you want like homestead? What do you
00:53:10
Lauren (Model)>> Yeah, definitely live off the land. You know, a lot of Americans give up their right. Um, you know, they give up their farming abilities and like to feed their family, they give up the right to think
00:53:22
Lauren (Model)for themselves and they work a job. >> Have you ever milked a cow? >> Uh, no. >> What about like van life? >> Oh, heck yeah. I'll do van life. Kind of doing that right now. Kind of.
00:53:33
Brian Atlas>> Milking a cow is hard. >> It's true. Have you ever milked a cat? >> Oh my god. >> You can milk anything with a te. >> That's true. Let's meet the parents. Uh, we have a
00:53:45
Selena (Bottle)chat here. Selena, you get to read this. >> If you could tell yourself at 17 years old one good piece of advice about dating, what would it be? >> Thank you, Josh, for the message. Uh,
00:53:55
Brian Atlasgoing around the table. Any advice you'd give your 17-year-old self about dating? >> I want to say just like even without the
00:54:06
Lauren (Model)person, you have to be mentally stable just as an individual yourself. so that if things do go south literally overnight because it could happen, you need to be okay.
00:54:17
Selena (Bottle)>> Uh I would say communication like a hundred times. That's so important. That's something I suck at and need to work on. And just know someone's intentions. Know what your intentions are. And then yeah, but communication
00:54:30
Lauren (Model)overall, anything. >> Okay. >> I would say just make sure you know who you are already. Like you said, like being established and like knowing who you are to your like your own like true
00:54:41
Lauren (Model)self before cuz people can change people kind of sometimes and you mesh into their world and then you don't and then you don't end up happy because you're just making other people happy rather
00:54:52
Aya (Casino)than yourself. >> When things get bad, it only gets worse. >> Um I would say that you're able to get
00:55:03
Aya (Casino)the life that you want. You just got to be more confident and worry less. But I'm telling my younger self, so I don't I'm not speaking for everyone else. >> Yeah. If I was going to talk to my
00:55:14
Lauren (Model)younger self, I would probably say that, you know, you need to not only like yourself, but be strong within yourself so that the people that you end up being around don't
00:55:26
Rosie ($12M)change your perspective of yourself and then at the end of the relationship, you know, you don't know who you are anymore. I would say don't waste time and stop
00:55:36
Rosie ($12M)worrying so much cuz don't waste so much time on one guy. There's so much more than just one guy.
00:55:45
Michelle (55)>> Yeah. Well, after learning for about 55 years, well, since I was born, that
00:55:56
Michelle (55)it stems from I tell my 17-year-old self that if I had it over to do again, I'd have gotten married and had children
00:56:05
Michelle (55)because it's important to instill values and support in children and family. It was really important. I didn't have
00:56:14
Michelle (55)that. I had a very dysfunctional family and so unfortunately that affected me as I got older and it bled out into my
00:56:24
Michelle (55)life. So I would tell myself go back and do that start all over again. Um I would say to take things as slow as
00:56:34
Lauren (Model)possible. You know, humans are complex beings and it takes a while to truly know somebody, know the layers and the depth to them and, you know, to start building something with somebody to just
00:56:46
Soniareally take it slow and see if you want to be with them for real. >> Um, mine would be either just don't or uh be very straightforward with people
00:56:56
Brian Atlasbecause a lot of people do have ulterior motives and always pay for yourself. Okay, speaking of paying, we're going to jump into the questionnaire. What would you want the minimum yearly income to be
00:57:07
Lauren (Model)for your future husband? >> Go ahead. >> Uh, I don't care. >> Don't care. >> I don't. >> You date a guy who works at McDonald's, >> you know. Um, I really love working and
00:57:20
Lauren (Model)I work hard and I want to find someone who's like-minded. Granted, they might work a job really hard that doesn't pay well. As long as they're working hard and they're passionate, I don't care what they make.
00:57:32
Lauren (Model)What if they're really passionate about flipping burgers at McDonald's? They love that [ __ ] >> It would be hard to see someone be passionate about it. I don't think I've ever seen it happen. So, let me know if you find the man, though.
00:57:43
Brian Atlas>> I know somebody. I'll I'll link you guys up. >> All right. Well, do you have a sense of You're uh you're 23. Let's say when you're 30. Do you have a sense of how
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