Diagnosed Psychopath?! Doomsday Desiree DESTROYED By Based Grace & Shina?! | Dating Talk #186
Date: 2024-08-12
Duration: 7h 08m
Guests
Brian AtlasIdentified Speakers
SPEAKER_02Sheena(guest)
SPEAKER_03Morgan(guest)
SPEAKER_04Allison(guest)
SPEAKER_05Riley(guest)
SPEAKER_06Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)(guest)
SPEAKER_13Brian Atlas(host)
Key Moments
00:04:17
IntroShirley JW introduces herself as 33yo LA-based journalist/host with hip-hop background.
“My name is Shirley JW. I'm 33 years old. I'm based in Los Angeles. I'm a journalist on-camera host.”
00:05:02
IntroDesiree Noel (returning) introduces herself as 38yo Southern California single mom.
“My name is Desiree Noel. I am 38, from Southern California.”
00:06:05
IntroVic introduces herself as 23yo East Coast TikToker diagnosed with ASPD/psychopathy.
“I'm Vic. I'm 23 and I'm a content creator on TikTok. I was diagnosed with ASPD.”
00:16:07
IntroRiley introduces herself as 31yo LA recording artist doing witchy dark R&B.
“Hi, my name is Riley. I'm 31 and I'm a recording artist.”
00:19:30
IntroSheena (returning) introduces herself as 50yo entrepreneur, former Israeli actress.
“I'm Sheena. I'm 50 and I'm an entrepreneur. I was an actress for 20 years in Israel.”
00:19:54
IntroJennifer introduces herself as 26yo originally from El Salvador, Lyft driver.
“My name is Jennifer. I'm 26, almost 27. I'm coming from Thousand Oaks, originally from El Salvador.”
00:20:22
IntroAllison introduces herself as 30yo evangelist from Wisconsin/Texas.
“My name is Allison. I am 30. I am an evangelist and I work for a tech company.”
00:20:33
IntroGrace introduces herself as 19yo UCSB math student.
“My name is Grace. I'm 19. I'm a student at UCSB. I'm originally from Southern California. I'm studying math.”
00:24:13
QuoteVic describes her ASPD as feeling like a video game — clicking yes to every risky prompt with no fear.
“It's kind of like a video game... a prompt comes up and tells you if you continue this could happen... and I always click yes.”
01:21:36
QuoteRiley shares that her brother is clinically schizophrenic, shot up a gas station, and she fought for his sentence to be reduced — emotional personal disclosure.
“My brother is clinically schizophrenic... he shot up a gas station... we fought tooth and nail to get him his sentence lowered.”
01:42:36
QuoteDesiree claims to have six active friends-with-benefits simultaneously, prompting strong reaction from Sheena.
“I have six guys that I have sex with.”
01:46:30
QuoteSheena tells Desiree that without her vagina she is nothing, prompting outrage from panel.
“Without your vagina you're nothing. Without your vagina you're empty. Your mind is empty.”
01:59:55
QuoteSheena says she believes people have demons and spirits; calls Desiree demon-possessed.
“I do believe that people have demons and spirits. And I think you are demon possessed.”
02:02:07
ControversyAllison calls Grace "Jezebel Antichrist" and shouts at her during demon-possession vs. mental illness debate. Escalates to full panel argument.
“You are definitely a demon. Jezebel Antichrist.”
02:13:56
ControversySheena confronts Desiree and Grace during the sex work debate, accusing them of being mentally ill and empty.
“You girls speak like you're intelligent with nice words but deep down you're super empty.”
04:30:00
ControversySheena repeatedly calls Desiree "dumb" and "crazy" over disputed military claims (Desiree's fast-track to combat surgeon story).
“You are dumb. You are dumb and crazy. That's why you're on this show — you're the entertainment.”
04:48:00
OtherShirley and Riley leave the show mid-way (~4:47) to be replaced by Morgan and Maddie in the second panel.
“Shirley and Riley thank the audience and depart.”
Topics Discussed
00:04:17
Guest Introductions
All 8 first-panel guests introduce themselves. Vic (ASPD/psychopath TikToker) receives extended discussion on her diagnosis, symptoms, and risky behaviors.
00:06:05
Vic's ASPD / Psychopathy Discussion
Extended exploration of Vic's ASPD diagnosis — diagnostic criteria, lack of fear response, manipulation, impulsivity, risky behaviors during pandemic (drugs, homelessness, near-death). Chat and other guests push back.
01:20:00
OnlyFans and Sex Work Debate
Debate between Grace/Allison (critical of sex work's societal impact) and Desiree/Riley (defend personal autonomy). Sheena adds older-generation perspective. Very heated.
01:34:51
Prostitution as Oldest Profession Debate
Discussion on prostitution, marriage-as-transaction, bride prices in Africa, cattle exchange.
01:49:20
Relationship Status Round
Brian asks each guest about current relationship status, time single, longest relationship. Desiree: seeing someone casually. Sheena: seeing someone (3-month rule). Riley: single 1 year (4-yr prior longest). Vic: single 2 years (6-month longest). Shirley: single (no guys). Jennifer: "single but never alone." Allison: single (several months). Grace: single 3 months (2-yr longest).
02:00:53
OnlyFans Platform Experience (Shirley)
Shirley shares she was onboarded by OnlyFans as a journalism/media personality, expecting to teach journalism. Found it was the opposite of what was advertised. Describes accidental exposure to sexual content.
02:02:07
Mental Illness vs. Demon Possession
Allison and Sheena argue mental illness = demon possession. Grace pushes back with schizophrenia/psychosis examples. Riley shares personal experience with schizophrenic brother. Allison yells "Jezebel Antichrist" at Grace; escalates to shouting match.
02:08:00
Racial Preferences in Dating
Grace discusses never dating Asian men (relates to difficult upbringing with traditional Asian parents, healing Asian identity trauma). Shirley teases her dating history (Persian, white rebound, Black ex).
02:19:56
Self-Defense and Men Hitting Women
Prompted by Shirley's viral Jesse Lee Peterson clip on the topic. Around-the-table answers on whether men can strike women in self-defense.
02:31:59
Self-Ratings Round
Brian asks guests to rate themselves 1-10 on looks (can't pick 7). Shirley: 5. Desiree: 4.5. Vic: 5. Riley: 8. Sheena: 6. Grace: 6. Allison not captured clearly. Desiree explains she rated lower because Sheena rated herself 5 and she considers herself Sheena's "slave" so can't rate higher.
03:15:00
Race and Representation Discussion
Riley raises systemic racism in casting of TV shows. Sheena (as Israeli immigrant) counters with observations on US race dynamics vs Israel.
04:30:00
Military Claims / Stolen Valor Controversy
Desiree claims she enlisted in the Army (2009) and was told she could fast-track to combat surgeon. Multiple military viewers send TTS messages disputing this. Brian reads them. Desiree eventually says she got pregnant and received a discharge before basic training.
04:30:00
Desiree Military Claims Challenged
Sheena calls Desiree a liar re: fast-tracking to combat surgeon. Multiple military viewers send TTS calling it stolen valor. Brian reads messages live.
04:45:00
Age Gap Relationships Debate
Second panel joins. Vic argues age-gap relationships are "worthy of judgment." Discussion on power dynamics and maturity.
06:10:00
Roast Section
Closing roast segment. Audience TTS messages roast each guest. Brian reads them. Desiree is primary target; Grace receives mostly positive comments.
Transcript
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Brian Atlasscenes um if you want to see desire out if you want to see des's vicious and brutal heinous attack on Andrew Wilson awful it was very uh you need to go to
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)our Discord very dangerous cellulite was out and this the whole thing I think you scarred our audience to really traumatizing I mean it was just yeah we had to me and Andrew actually children
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)my children found out about it my children found out about it they saw the footage anyways me and Andrew had to go to therapy together for that one so no they were like get it girl they actually
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Brian Atlasthat said without further Ado we're going to have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead my name is Shirley JW I'm 33 years old I'm
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)based in Los Angeles I'm a journalist on Camera Host I have my own show called showy simple on YouTube go subscribe okay and uh what you do you do anything
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)else besides the podcast like you do interviews too right yeah I'm a journalist so I do a lot of interviews I've been doing interviews for like 14 15 years any specific genre or uh hip-hop is where I got my start I guess
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)so are you still involved in hip-hop or yeah yeah yeah yeah all right cool what about you my name is desire Noel I tell your mic
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)down for me I am 38 from Southern California I don't know so I was thinking about this like what to call myself it was almost causing me a panic
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)attack yesterday and then I thought well I'll just tell Brian to give his synopsis of who he thinks I am and then we'll just go with that but then I had a
00:05:23
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)mastermind with the ladies pregaming oh my God who the hell yes well I came up with a job title it
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)is what did we what did we call it I I am a i a single mom survivor of the planemic only F so basically okay I'm
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Brian Atlaslike the vice president at this point anyway I'm ready to run all right um wait can you pop your pop your glasses off it's casting a little glare
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)yep I can't see it's probably for the best that you can't see what the chat is saying okay well that's that's not a lie it's probably honestly totally right that's proba for the best just if I get
00:06:05
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)a headache I'll put them back on for a little while sounds good sounds good all right what about you I'm Vic I'm 23 and I'm a content creator on Tik Tok where where you from the East Coast okay and
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)uh what kind of content do you make um I mostly do like social commentary and a lot of my pages sent it around educating people on U mental health most usually
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)aspd which is what diagnosed with and ADHD all right that's good but so you have aspd but how do you typically frame it I typically frame it as psychopathy
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)because that is um what it was called in the past um aspd kind of encompasses both psychopathy and sociopathy I literally just was coming
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Brian Atlasto this conclusion myself sorry can you not EXC grab the mic and like put it in your mouth please that I'd prefer you not do that just a kn
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)sorry so can you allow her to finish her introduction I mean I know that there's more to introduce I mean that that's basically the corra of my and so
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Brian Atlasdiagnosed psychopath correct and uh although you said that psychopathy can't be diagnosed is that correct yes okay um
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)and just curious so how does your uh psychopathy manifest itself for you um I'm I'm not 100% sure like what what the question for that is like do you
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Brian Atlasmean how do my symptoms like of aspd present or why do I call myself a psychopath well yeah so I guess let's go to the aspd so antisocial personality
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)disorder what diagnostic metrics did you meet to get that diagnosis okay so there's like I'm not a mental health professional by the way everybody that's listening but you were diagnosed with
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)that correct but I was diagnosed with that so um there's a lot of criteria for it um but the main ones that I met which are the ones that present like the most
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)in me is um manipulation lack of empathy um impulsivity to an extent kind of like risk-seeking behaviors um that's kind of why I went and got my diagnosis to begin
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)with because I was doing like so many risky behaviors for no reason um so yeah I at what age were you diagnosed um 19
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Brian Atlas19 mhm okay and so and the risky behaviors was that throughout the course of your whole life or did it start a little bit later on it it was pretty
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)much the same like throughout my whole life except for it got really like really extra during the pandemic because um I was really really bored chronic
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)chronic boredom as part of the part of the um disorder but really bored had nothing to do um kind of got myself into
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)a lot of really not good things um and then decided I didn't want to Die Young so needed to change something what what kind if if you're fine with sharing what
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)kind of a risky behavior um like basically I would I would put myself in really like life-threatening positions like um I would go travel a lot and just like
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)sleep on the streets or stay with like random people that I just met like whatever probably should have gotten trafficked um but then I don't know I
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)I also like got into um a lot of like heavier drug abuse and things like that which um that is like what ended up with me like almost dying being in the
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)hospital um I don't know a bunch of other random things I you know being just being in Risky situations and like exacerbating the
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Brian Atlasrisk instead of taking myself out of it if that makes sense and is there when it comes to the risky situations like for example a normal person might have like a fear resp response but are you lacking in fear response like you don't have
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)fear basically yeah so it's it's basically like it's like a lack of a fear response um the way that I like to describe it when I like talk to people about it is it's it's kind of like a video game it's like you're playing a
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)video game and um a prompt comes up on your screen and tells you okay if you continue with this like this could happen are you okay with that yes or no and then you click yes or no and I
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)always click I always click yes cuz I always think oh that's not gonna nothing bad's ever going to happen like I'm fine you know and I'm not really like afraid of it so it's kind of like it's very
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)it's a very non-emotional it's an adolescent it's an adolescent kind of mindset where you're Invincible yes okay over inflated sense of just that you'll live I don't even want to say over
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)inflated sense of self it's just an overinflated sense of like I'm not going to die so what's the worst that can happen I'll go bankrupt like who cares like very like almost manic way it's it's grandos which is also part of the
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)criteria but it's just like having having like this idea that like everything like everything you can control everything and nothing bad will ever happen to you and so you're not scared of anything because you don't
00:11:13
Brian Atlasthink anything could happen and you mentioned uh one of the ways it manifests itself for you is manipulation M so how might that when you say manipulation is it with friends family
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)yeah strangers all the all the above I so how might you manipulate somebody have you I suppose H how have I manipulated people I mean like I I think
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)talking about manipulation is like difficult because I mean everybody's manipulative in their own ways they're just not you know conscious of it um but I think the point of being manipulative is obviously getting the things that you
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)want out of life and so I always know how to get what I ultimately want um out of a situation like how how do I maneuver the situation to get the outcome that I want from it um and
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)people pleasing essentially yeah that's that's a big that's one that's one that happens but um yeah I don't I I mean maybe maybe I'll think of examples or I'll demonstrate or something I mean
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)it's not a topic I'm super familiar with who are some like famous psychopaths in history in history Jeffrey dmer maybe Jeffrey dmer is actually not is he like socio he's
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)not like considered a psychopath actually there's like a whole debate on um I think he would be considered a sociopath CU a psychopath doesn't need relationships with anybody else they can they will manipulate literally through
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)algorithms that's a psychopath a sociopath needs they're more along the lines of a narcissist like just an extreme narcissist so they need an energetic Supply from actually human
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)sources they're not happy just being the Puppet Masters so Jeffrey dmer is a sociopath Jeff Jeffrey dmer um bu Ted bunny is a great psychopath a psychopath
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)I don't like promoting like criminals as like mascots for my disorder because that's that's what people usually know that's what people usually let's think of a female one maybe or something
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)that's less Anna Delby have you all seen inventing Anna great great now okay of course the the TV show inventing Anna is is fictionalized version of like real events so the fictional character Anna
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)Delby in that show I think is like a really really good example of a real life psychopath oh and then um Elon Musk I believe he's a he's a psychopath you heard it for sure
00:13:30
Brian AtlasI mean he could live on Mars he doesn't give a about human contact so when it comes so when it comes to this is um is there a tendency towards
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)criminality for people who have this diagnosis yeah more so than the general population yeah but the intelligent ones learn how to do like white collar crimes basically they basically learn how to how to fly under the radar it's the less
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)intelligent ones that are like actually getting into prison and like that and are there is there a tendency for like to have violent inclinations or no that's not a part of the diagnostic
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)criteria for psych that that is actually a misnomer that will be caught up with very soon the next DM DSM coming out will be updated because now we are
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)learning that psychological tactic psychological manipulation verbal assaults or whatever you want to call them emotional abuse narcissistic abuse those things damage you just as much as
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)not worse than physical violence cuz when you have a physical violence you can see right there the trauma that's caused so everybody knows how to tend to you you have a broken bone we're going to reset it it'll be better here's pain
00:14:38
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)medicine you have coherence between what your eyes saw happen and what your body is experiencing when you have a verbal assault emotional assault anything like
00:14:47
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)that the it's like a Thousand Cuts you you start to just spontaneously combust yourself you start to use drugs abuse
00:14:56
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)your own body so you they get you to essentially off yourself slowly so it's even worse it's like making you go through this torture and then you so yes
00:15:09
Brian Atlasthere are I suppose there are different forms of violence there can be phys mental I'm saying is that speaking okay sure but when I'm when I'm saying violent I'm speaking about
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)physical violence clinically clinically um violent tendencies are not a part of the aspd criteria um it's not inherent to the disorder um and most people think
00:15:31
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)it is because that's like what the medor media portrayal is and you know it can be comorbid but that's just classic sadism right and sadism and psychopathy are not the same thing but they can go hand inand and when they go hand in hand
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)that's what makes a really dangerous person and that's like why we know these people in the media because those are the people that everyone's interested in learning about a lot of women a lot of women that do only fan in their
00:15:56
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)subconscious they're being sadistic to themselves because they over and over raping themselves by letting all this guy abusing them exactly and that's that's an example of what I'm talking about
00:16:07
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)their own dads did that damage to them so their dad literally acted as it int go ahead oh hi my name is Riley I'm 31
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Rileyand I'm a recording artist where you from I'm from La all right yeah welcome uh what kind of music do you do it's
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Rileylike some witchy oh it's witchy like R&B witchy what does thatan dark Moody creepy like emo emo it's not necessarily
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Rileyemo more of it is like it's like something bad's going to happen but we don't know yet and intriguing in a way I are you a rapper are you singing sing
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Rileyyeah can we hear something yeah s sing right now yeah go for it yeah I don't know what to what should I say guys number one single your faite song right now stuck in your head
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Rileylike my favorite song that's stuck in my head oh my God something that you can sing the lyrics to Oh okay so this is so this is random but I've been listening to Michelle Branch's like throwback
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Rileymusic I don't know if anyone else likes Michelle Branch as much as I did wait what's her big song like sing it can you sing it I think I know what you're talking about she has a song it's called are you happy now and I've been feeling
00:17:23
Rileylike that on the inside so it's um what's the words uh love don't just walk away
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Rileypretending everything's okay and I don't care about it oh yeah remember that
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Rileyone that's it a little show but that's my that's my right now I'm so glad you s on the SP she's a throwback
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Rileylike that's it thank you but you have a good voice wait do you know how to sing everywhere
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RileyEverywhere by Michelle Burch no not that more like emo song she has like a s yeah like that one was everything like
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)the video what about you well hi I'm jelle I'm 20 and I'm just a student here at ucsv not just a student that's a big deal
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)everything yes it is very very I went to UCSB wait you went to I was here for 2 years I drowned in alcohol and I transer no I'm serious no joke right you
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Morganbetter I became an alcohol what year are you I'm a third year okay yeah what's your major what are you studying I'm a double major in Psych and brain Sciences in sociology and a minor
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)[Music] girl right here Psy was hard it was see that class I and it's probably harder now cuz like everything's so crazy right now yes I
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)know I can't do it anymore everyone's crazy they're just everyone's crazy my theory is that the the mentally healthy among us we don't need like AIP we don't
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Morganneed AIP every single person uh where are you from originally um originally from Guan meico o yeah but I stay in La I stay in LA s okay got it yeah sorry
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Sheenasorry sorry what about you I'm Sheena right welcome back how are you uh I'm 50 and I'm an entrepreneur I was an actress for 20 years in Israel but I'm doing a whole bunch of things now I'm a
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Brian Atlasmotivational speaker and my book coming out uh what's the title for the book I don't have it can you believe it we're still debating is so stressful right yes
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)all right welcome back thanks hi what about you my name is Jennifer I'm 26 almost 27 um I'm coming from thousand originally from
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)salador so yeah H you said you're student no uh well I have a general um degree with psychology in
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Brian Atlaschild development mm so yeah and uh what do you do for work I do I'm a lift driver lift dri got it okay what about
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Allisonyou uh my name is Allison I am 30 and I am an evangelist and I work for techn company all right where you from uh I grew up in Wisconsin but I live in Texas
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Allisonfor the last 9 years all right welcome back thank you it's nice to be back go ahead uh my name is Grace I'm 19 I'm a student at UCSB I'm originally from Sao
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)so California okay and what are you uh studying I'm studying math oh my God you got like that man brain going on
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)over there I I I was a math major there you go okay but it was too hard so you could do anything it's no freaking joke it's no
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)freaking joke well if you enjoy math I mean math is just puzzles it's just fun true butra but those of us with an art brain and a love for math we have to go more with like formula logic we can't do
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)like have to I'm just saying our brain computes it better thinking in almost like universal code rather than like little tin yeah book yeah we have to be able to apply it to life otherwise we
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)don't give a basically Desiree what's 2 plus two divided two four okay you changed your answer on I
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)mean I would have said infinite Adams but nobody knows how to do actual math anymore so I mean they they switched the math though legit you guys they switch I
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)don't know if you have kids mean the ma they switched the math in like I can't help my kids are going to like Common Core now I don't even understand
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Brian Atlashow to do the of the kids on guys guys guys only one person can speak at a time so if somebody starts speaking before you you got to let them finish go ahead you know you're excited um I was just going to say they
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)did change it just because I I have cousins that are like Elementary School now they're like um Middle School level and they changed it to like Common Core math so now it's like a completely different way of like actually solving
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)math like trying to divide now they're like doing some weird like Treeway or something instead of like the normal and they started it literally right before the pandemic when we all had to
00:22:34
Brian Atlashomeschool our kids so we literally oh she talking guys guys only one person can be speaking at a time whoever starts first you got let him
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)finish go ahead let me tell you in Salvador it's completely different math when I got here in high school it was just like what like everything is backwards I'm like no
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Brian Atlasdifficult sorry America they work hard to destroy everybody's brain so uh going around the table once more actually before we do that uh you're you we need your dog to be
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Sheenaintroduced I forgot yeah this is Slim [Music] slim you have a nice haircut thank uh the real Slim shih TSU on
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Brian AtlasInstagram inspired by my favorite rapper Eminem thank you wait guys guys guys guys for the third time only one person speaking at a time you jumble the audio
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)for the viewers she's speaking let her talk go ahead uh inspired by my favorite rapper Eminem The Real Slim shitsu on Instagram he's my co-host in my
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Brian Atlasinterviews oh he says hi hi and it's a service service dog a service animal yes okay um that's why he's so well
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Brian Atlasbehaved and he helps me and is it it's like is it because of like a disability or uh I have a lot of mental illnesses I do but you don't have to go into that I
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Brian Atlasknow that this so the the second question I have is so what work or task has the dog been training per I saw this coming I'm ready I'm ready for this answer what you got he helps he helps me
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)with my medications helps you with your medications BL you I didn't need that to regulate your medications or don't worry about it it seemed to me like like he
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)delivers the medication to you it's working for them obviously they're so trying to figure out what she means we don't have to prry in reality he saved my he liks my what he lights your bong like what do you mean help bong yeah how
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Brian Atlasdoes he help you with your medication are you saying that cuz I smoke weed yes the Judgment the Jud why am I judging and if we're you said isn't weed medication he's helping you with your
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)medication oh wow you took it there that was a great connect wow it seemed like if I mean completely projection and my he help he saved my life mental healthwise if I'm being completely
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Sheenahonest like can I be completely honest about something it seemed to me like in America it's like fashionable or trendy in a lot of women's mind right to say
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Sheenathat they have mental illnesses and I didn't really understand it until my son came from college and said Mom I'm not going to date American girls because everybody either on xanx or or any psychiatric pills everybody talk about
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Sheenatheir mental illness nobody Thrive to be normal anymore every everybody just ride on that crazy horse it's ridiculous I mean I don't like cling crazy but normal I'm an addict and I've been a rehab
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Sheenatwice so and we're basically I don't disrespect your addict cuz I used to work with addicts just a second I'm speaking I'm not disrespecting you being an addict but I just think when you live and surround yourself by women that
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Sheenaalways talk about their mental illness and the pills they're taking you're going to stay this Paradigm of loop of being psycho but if you surround yourself by women who don't talk about their illness and then being a mother and have to do only fanss and all this
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Sheenasorry then you're going to become more normal and it's healthy to speak about your mental illness because I think the more we talk about it the more people are going to not feel
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Sheenaashamed it's not about being Ash you lost my wait a second you sorry I'm not dis disgard what you're saying but it's really important for me that you understand my point okay when you it's okay to talk about your me Mental
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SheenaIllness but when you surround yourself in a society which is happening I'm not originally American thank God I'm American now but when I sit in so many type of society in America right
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Sheenasurrounding American by American women only they talk about Xanax mental illness bed childhood not what I'm talking about though I have a show I created a show called Shirley's temple with a focus on mental health so
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)celebrities could come on and talk about their experiences talk about how therapy helped them or didn't help them talk about how they got their life together I shouldn't be alive right now Journey it's basically it's amazing you I'm here
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Sheenato tell people that you need to take care of your mental health it's amazing that you do that and I I feel you like you don't want to people throw around the word depression anxiety all the time but I when you talk about it you just bring it into your life instead of
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Sheenasaying yes I was through a little issue just a second I was on a little bit of issue cuz she's jumping every two seconds don't be a parent let me speak so uh when you uh uh put yourself surrounding with women that all the time
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)all the time talk about their mental illness you're going to you're saying about it you're talking about it in a negative way you're talking about pills and Xanax what does that have to do with mental health if you're an addict maybe you Str you when you I'm talking about the regular person
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)who hasn't tried pills or zanic there's no regular people everybody taking pills in this country I've never seen any struggled with my mental health for 20 years and I never took anything but a lot of people a lot of women I feel bad
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TTS/Nick (production)for the people cuz I was that person too I was addicted to pills from eus 73 donated $200 desire has narciss IC personality disorder has to be center of attention
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TTS/Nick (production)always and will Gaslight anyone anytime but then says sorry but can't stf you $200 they say uh yo Prometheus thank you for the TTS Desiree do you have a
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)quick response to TTS and I'll I'll have you guys continue some people call me autistic and some people call me narcissistic so it is whatever your view are you diagnosed with autism if yes yes
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)moderate autism but I'm of the genius Savant type so so my IQ is 145 oh my God what's it out of word are you diagnosed
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Sheenaas Einstein Einstein was around 140 but you're not Einstein and you're not idiot saon because Des if you an idiot saon you should be diagnosed by that and sa is actually a genius and you're not
00:28:47
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)obviously a am literally diagnosed what is an autistic person I love her do you know I love me too no I'm asking you what is an autistic person an autistic person it's a neuro Divergence it's a
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)form of neuro Divergence where basically my whole nervous system is much more sensitive than a typical person I would say that has nothing to do with it I'm definitely diagnos autistic and that
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Brian Atlasnothing to it's one of them you're autistic yeah just raise your hand are you autistic show can we get an Autism check and narciss autism check autism narcissistic
00:29:21
Brian Atlasand one in the chat if you're autistic two in the chat if you're not autistic one in the chat if you're autistic in problems he's said just autism check real quick um you guys were having a back and
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Sheenaforth go ahead go ahead you want me to say something yeah continue you guys can I I want to say something too I'm not against you don't don't get me wrong but I want to say something I saw your interview with him a couple times and I see no no her I was like and I see no
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Sheenanot you and I see how you talk today and I'll be honest with you a woman to a woman right I'm not judging you just from seen you know a lot of things around me I think you're a good person
00:29:55
Sheenawith a good heart I just think that you surrounded by people that feed your your disease of narcissism by talking about yourself all the time explaining all the time interrupting all the time thinking you know everything all the time nothing
00:30:08
Sheenagoes around and just a second and I think if you step out of that Paradigm for a minute and just listen and absorb instead of talking about yourself all the time and put yourself in a center in a such a negative way and think like you
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Sheenaknow it all I think it's going to heal you and it's going to open your mind and expand you as a person to see yourself and absorb yourself from the side because when a person always think I'm this and I'm this and I'm this and this
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Sheenahe doesn't realize how people absorb him and you come into a situation like you came with him last time or with the other guy Jason Jason Andrew sorry last time and then these things stay forever online and people can see it and you
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)made embarrassment out of yourself and out of your kids and you should not do it because I think you're a good-hearted person so I actually agree with you and I would call that my masculine Shield so
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)I developed that defense mechanism it's actually an intimacy issue so when I feel like not safe in an environment I put up that Cockiness or the condescendant or thinking that I know it
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)all or have to figure it all out so I totally agree with you and it's not my best self I really do appreciate the feedback and this show has been a great like Learning lesson for me I personally haven't felt embarrassed by any of it my
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Sheenakids haven't been embarrassed by it so the embarrassment would be a projection but I understand what you're saying say can I respond to this specifically sure you might don't think that your kids would be embarrassed but I want to tell
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Sheenayou something your kids grow up with you you are the role model okay you are the mother for your son I don't know if you have sons but for your son you are the first woman in his life you are the
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Sheenamodel of the next 10 woman or 20 woman whatever he's going to have in his life so he thinks the world of me wait a second he thinks the world of you now but I have a my son is almost 22 years
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Sheenaold okay so your kids's going through steps when when your son is going to be 25 or 26 or 40 and they going to look back because life in life you only you can only live life forward and and
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Sheenaunderstand them backwards you don't want to look back backwards to your life right and then say oh my God I made a fool out of myself and then your son going to grow up and see these things on the media and think what the hell this
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)is the woman I was looking up to no actually the way that I see it is that my children look back at my more messy times of life and they feel able to be open with me because they see my
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)humanness and my process and I explained to them all along the way you know what God I was a show in that season I am so sorry you guys in fact the kids talk about my son brings this up often he said Mom remember when you first left
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)dad and we lived in a different place like every 4 months and I was like oh God here's the trauma coming I'm going to have to like apologize and what he said is actually that was so fun mom it was super fun like I never knew where we
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TTS/Nick (production)were going to go but we always you know why they say super fun you want to know why they say super okay hold on I'll just $200 Des you're not a savant you're
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TTS/Nick (production)crazy delusional and insanely narcissistic the only thing that's 140 plus is your body count you need help love you Sheena D please listen not just
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Sheenahear her quick response to that but I do have to move on okay I mean everybody's crazy and some wait let me say what you saying all these little remarks you
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Sheenasaying it's literally your a a mechanism your defense mechanism to gener to to justify it in your own brain when you say oh my son you said in kind of like
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Sheenafunny laughy way like it's okay like you legitimize it you literally this is your defense mechanism to feel okay about what's going on you need to go or maybe it's what actually happened and I don't
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Brian Atlasthink my friend liar so I don't think I'm sorry guys I do have to move it on we can't I'm sorry no I'm sorry I have to move it on so going back to this uh your service dog I did not actually
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TTS/Nick (production)get an answer go I knew this was coming so your dog and well met oh L paladins donated $200 and2 I'll fix Brian out did himself with this panel you all are
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TTS/Nick (production)bragging and competing to see who is the craziest you're all winning the Special Olympics stop bragging about your mental illnesses was Yo La paladins thank you
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Brian Atlasman appreciate itk 202 cents thank youate that's some kinky well I wasn't thinking that okay appreciate it love pal good to see in the chat they uh
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)so shirely uh your dog gets you your helps you with your drug that was a joke but no one no one picked up on that someone told me if you say he helps you medications no one can say but he
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Brian Atlassaved my life he saved my mental health like no but so what what work or task has the dog been trained to perform uh I mean emotional support so wait is it a service dog or an Esa he's an Esa you
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)said it was a service dog I he is a service dog too no there's a difference there they I mean he's both he's both yes yes so
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Brian Atlasbut should we move on so it's an Esa it's Ana right I have that too do you have dogs you clearly don't i what does that have to what would that do you have dogs let's say I did what would that
00:35:25
Brian Atlashave to do with anything cuz you would understand what a dog how a dog can change your life it's just having someone else in your life instead of well I've actually had two I've had two dogs throughout my life so you get it so
00:35:38
Brian Atlaswhy are you pressing me about Slim do you have kids I don't that makes sense do you I do I have aob oh damn yeah I could never I could never two guys guys find reminder into the mics
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Brian Atlasplease sorry when you're speaking okay so but oh my gosh I like dogs but the whole like service animal thing it's like the mental illness in
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Brian AtlasAmerica they everything it's and everybody lied to each other you know this surely is it hey fine the hustle I get the hustle you want the dog with you I get the Hustle but is it
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Sheenabe honest I paid for a service dog certificate so I could fly with him on they pay for the that's exactly what I'm talking about in America I can go get a service dog I can go get money from the
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)government and them then I'm mental ill is this country they nuring you know psychos and idiots it's normal the dog want do they do that then they get them hooked in the system and then you start going on medication and then from there you get addicted
00:36:42
Brian AtlasP so look huh I you're smart oh my God what's up with all the quits look okay so I guess my issue with the whole like service dog thing cuz there are people
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Brian Atlaswho Jen I mean not to downplay whatever you have going on I'm actually like trying to look at it from the other perspective there are people who genuinely no offense need a
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Brian Atlassurface animal and when there's a bunch of people that are doing it for like selfish reasons so that they can I don't think it's a selfish reason instead of for you personally instead of having to spend I don't know
00:37:17
Brian Atlashow many hundreds of dollars it is to like put your dog in I actually put him in board and train D what do you mean are you talking about putting your dog in training like in the the I don't know
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)what it's called when you put it in the under carriage or of the the cuz remember if you have a service animal you have to like give it to someone and then they train and then they give him CER yeah I put him in training but to be a get
00:37:42
Brian Atlastraining so there's dog training there's dog training but typically uh did you buy uh did you adopt or like you bought did you bought the dog when he was a my friend gave me the dog did you buy the
00:37:54
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)dog when he was a puppy my friend gave me the dog how's the dog he was like 6 weeks oh 6 weeks when you got the dog yeah okay so I guess look the point I'm trying to make here I understand I I
00:38:07
Brian Atlasunderstand where you're coming from no people who legitimately have service animals like they help them if they have a seizure or like now nobody takes them seriously or as seriously because a lot
00:38:17
Brian Atlasof people in in an effort in furtherance of being like well it's easier to travel if I just call this a service animal but it's not actually a service animal but like I can just travel with
00:38:29
Brian Atlasno you can let me finish my sence people are less likely people are less likely to believe people who genuinely have service animals so um r i mean yeah I I will say yeah it is for
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)selfish reasons he does help with my anxiety he helps with my depression um there's no such a thing anxiety so does my dog but like I don't get my dog as a service an I mean he's also my co-host he's like part of my brand like everyone
00:38:53
Sheenathat sees me out knows yeah I mean so basically here my bad my bad can I can I say something it's more like a principal thing go ahead yeah okay so let me let
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Sheename tell you how I see it from the side right you have your dog as the decoration for your career for your image what the decoration for wait a second wait a second wait a second okay
00:39:15
Sheenayou feel like that like does anyone wait a second wait a second than one second talk about wait it's not my point wait my point is that in America a lot of the women not just in America all over the
00:39:26
Sheenaworld today because of the IAL feminism right a lot of the women it's more logical to them to have a dog age without children and thinking the dog is there all their life they spend all
00:39:37
Sheenatheir money saving they they spend like a taking them to the doctor surgery illness whatever it is wasting their life until they 40 45 40 whatever they wake up but they spend all their time
00:39:49
Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)with an animal instead of having kids man so I don't have let me ask you something do you think if you wouldn't have a dog you would have a career wait what that has your DG wasn't with you
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)like you said he I got him at the end of my I got him during the pandemic so that has nothing to do we all been and you have your business for 14 years right yeah I've been doing this for 14 years like does already
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)established like do you get like what's your your condition like what does he help you with just like her her mental health mental illness she was struggling during the pandemic like a lot of us
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Sheenawere I mean just in life but yeah right in the pic my friend I didn't get him I just think we get wait the pandemic you guys talking about the pandemic the pandemic was the best time to make the
00:40:35
Sheenamost money exactly can make a lot of money but not through only fans not through exposing your body on the internet it was a lot of works that you could do in the pandemic to make money
00:40:46
Sheenait was not an opportunity to cont it doesn't matter but the image subscription the image listen to me the image of only fan even if you don't expose your you know body and everything
00:40:57
Sheenathe image of that just being there it's a d it itself right wait what what other ways can you make money during the pandemic a lot of a lot of ways a lot of
00:41:06
Sheenaways a lot a lot of way okay first of all you have Tik Tok shop which became very user cont I don't sell wait wait let me
00:41:18
Sheenalet me she asked a question I just want to answer and you can answer after I asked the question yeah you asked what out way we can make money in the pandemic I'm just curious pandemic you got a lot of money from the government right it was a lot of jobs you could do
00:41:30
Sheenabecause nobody leave the house okay I'm not going to spread everything now but this is the most the time that I made a lot of money right so if you just need to expand you know what's the problem with American mentality and when I'm
00:41:42
Sheenasaying American mentality you could be Asian American black American whatever Middle Eastern American the mentality here is oh I don't have a job oh I don't make money just ying and and get yeah
00:41:55
Sheenaexactly victimizing and the thing is you have a Social Security right I came to America with nothing with $2,000 and a six-year-old son and I saw wait a second and I saw when I walked down the street
00:42:06
SheenaI saw so many homelesses and I said you know what these homelesses have social security they have social security they can build I had to work my ass off to get my Social Security when you have a
00:42:18
SheenaSocial Security America secretly how do you say socialistic country and not like how they call it capitalistic or whatever so this country give you a lot of benefit you have free
00:42:29
Sheenamedical care they said no but it's true if you go to downtown you have hospitals for free you get a free education you get books you get help with food you get everything if you're smart okay and you
00:42:41
Sheenaand you think out of the box and researching when you have a Social Security and you have American passport you can make a lot of money the problem the majority of people and women especially in this country are entitled
00:42:53
Sheenaprostitute mentality want to find a man that pay for everything they wanted they lazy they rather lay on their stomach and have sex and take money from that then to go when I didn't have money I went and cleaned Airbnb houses and you
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)know what I'm proud of myself for that I made the most I've ever made in the pandemic so I'm not disagreeing with you I was just curious what other means I can give you advice later you still I I like I said I I made the most I've ever made in the pandemic I was just curious
00:43:19
Brian Atlasliterally what you were talking about so you know yeah well I do got to move it on but so we're going to go around the table once more what's everybody's current relationship status so you single talking stage situationship Friends with Benefits relationship
00:43:31
Brian Atlasmarried polyu sex cult terum whatever it may be what is teram me huh what does that mean I Haram yeah what does that mean like a Haram yeah I don't know the
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Sheenaword sorry I guess it's when you you're a guy and you have like a flock of women A Flock 30 women following groupies groupies a pimp yeah I was curious I
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Brian Atlasyeah how do you spell that get to get you is that an aror word uh it so a Haram the separate part of a Muslim household reserved for wives Haram no no
00:44:04
Brian Atlasno no Haram reserved for wives concubines and female servants how do you spell that I speak Arabic I never heard that word
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TTS/Nick (production)yeah for uncore theore patriarchy donated $200 brixon I see the frustration on your face keep the math student on your
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TTS/Nick (production)left the Bas actress in The Middle the singer in the corner and the dog so we can finish the show on the dog the dog shout out to the dog all right shout out
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Brian Atlasfor the thank you patriarchy thank you for the TTS man appreciate it actually this uh pelagic says D and Kruger effect is real the blonde narc is beyond
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)delusional quick response desire if you have one he's talking to me probably yes well you got to be delusional to get anywhere these days I mean God you really I'm a 19yearold
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SheenaUC well you're 19 honey wait another 20 years you'll find out how sane you are I don't think I don't think so because she had a good you could see she brought up well by her parents yes I did yes you
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Sheenadidic apprciate anyways okay so relationship status go ahead uh I think I'm single you think you're single I'm single okay you have sex with a dog did she just ask me if I have sex with I'm
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Sheenajoking I'm joking cuz you said you think you single was a joke wasn't that like the put peanut butter on your Sal longest relationship my last one it was like almost 3 years 3 years almost okay how
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)long have you been single for um November a year year yeah think it's a year
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)iwe um November since November I don't know how long that's been anybody watch Deadpool bro with the dog dog I swear
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)dog in it long ass tongue don't emotional support video a dog um wait so how long you've
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Brian Atlasbeen single uh since November I think eight eight months N9 months 10 months yeah 10 n okay but you said single sorry you said single kind ofing
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)I just I'm not dating right now I'm focused on my wait how did you say it you said you think you're single why I think you're single I'm very single sorry I was just like I don't know how to answer this but I I'm single
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)there's no guys in the picture I know I'm single she was asking no like a Friends with Benefits wait what's the tattoo on your neck it's a lotus flower oh okay yeah um you got have a Friends
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)with Benefits girl you're hot I'm sorry do you want to yeah oh boy okay there's your your new friends with Ben so I'm still friends with my ex but I'm not we're not going to get back together but
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)what about like this kind of back together did you say that wait I shouldn't have said that no it's just okay let's your but she didn't answer this question so we still don't know all
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)right but what if we can be best friends why would you keep an ex in it was this good there's no such a thing service animal literally you can't be friends with he need emotional support the only reason is because
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)something was magical about or the kids emal support emal there's billions of fish in the SE some sort of like trauma Bond there
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Brian Atlasor ridiculous you know the kids okay um I'll get back to her answers once she's back to the table that's a
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Brian Atlasfully trained service Animal by the way trained and she has a certificate wait guys yo hold on for the fourth time if somebody else is talking you
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Brian Atlasneed to shut the up okay for the fourth time if somebody else is talking you be quiet if I start talking just defer to me and be quiet okay you two are sidebarr right now tell us what
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Brian Atlasyou're talking about go ahead us yeah what are you sidebarr she was saying that she was getting hot and how is that at all pertinent to the conversation whatsoever it's
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Brian Atlasnot you guys cannot be sidebarr during the show is that understood yes it is you an hour and 15 minutes late why are you sidebarr about the heat
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Brian Atlasof the studio we can't change anything we don't have AC you got to either accept it or you can leave understood I can't change the I cannot change the temperature do you understand
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Brian Atlasyes so there's no there's no need to have a conversation about it is that clear yes God damn that's like the fourth time I I've been telling you guys
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Brian Atlasthough sorry guys this podcast is off the rails the dogs back there barking these two are having a sidebar while I'm trying to talk god damn I think she infecting you with the same energy
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Brian Atlasseriously so tell me again from what you're your dog was oh my God this is a trained by the way trained service dog by the way it's obviously not yeah
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Brian Atlasde Desmond's supposed to take care of your don't yeah untrained service dog okay he's doing really well oh he needs eror yeah throw off
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)the why don't we just let's just let him have a break the dog wants to jum on let's let him have a break and we'll just move on I'm kidding I like dogs there was a question what was your back to your question what question you were saying wasn't there a question that we
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Brian Atlaswere going to about to respond to relationship status oh yeah relationship status so she get bro by the way just to be clear I know I got a little heated there but like if you tell somebody once twice three times for the fourth time if
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Brian Atlasyou keep like digging at them in their side you keep poking at them you're going to get a reaction out of somebody I've told you guys three times to stop with the sidebars and you're
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Brian Atlashere talking about the temperature so I don't know everybody in the chat's like oh Brian's on his period today shut the up I told them three times before they can't follow instructions it
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Sheenaain't that hard just be quiet God damn okay all right okay anyways I guess I'm normal cuz I don't have my period
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Brian Atlasanymore oh nice cool so lucky oh my goodness okay um is your dog going to be okay I hope so he had chicken
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)he oh he certified huh wait wait he got what is your deal why are you coming for me do don't wor she was making brown girls got you know that a
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)brunettes brunettes wait what she was talking about hair color oh yeah like stick together cuz you guys have similar coloring so I was just saying Clan up get each other's back I need a
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)emotional dog you want to hold slim no I'm good oh but you like dogs a that off the I'm kiding I'm
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)kidding I love dogs call me want to jump out too want to jump perod my God H quarterback throw that there you go he's heavy I doubt you can do that
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Brian Atlasbut uhoh by the way where's I got a good throwing arm where Andrew what where is the Andrew uh Andrew Andrew is uh who's Andrew he's not coming today oh he's I
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Brian Atlasmean he's been on like all these shows recently he's taking low break uh he'll be back next week though okay all right derailed all right
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)okay relationship status Des okay this is crazy but I am super super kinky like I'm a kingster to my court it's not costing me I accidentally I'm so I'm a
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)baby girl I'm a slave basically to a daddy a daddy Dom I am printed on Brian I'm like Brian's baby girl now accidentally wait the the period thing is so funny
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)because I literally started my period before right before I came and I was like you know what I'm not going to disgusting I'm not going to use my period as an excuse like I'm going to man up I took a bunch of Advil I was like just shut up about it don't even
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)bring it up but then he brought it up so now it proves that I'm in sync with him because people are saying he's on his period because he's the Grumpy One Yeah so basically I'm like stalker
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)level obsessive in love with him accident here I did not I see that you get excited when that kinky and it's just an imprint thing it's like it's a technology like the penguin
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)imprint on each other when a chick a little baby chick is born and looks and sees whatever is around you hear what you're saying can I speak desire I have a
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Rileyquestion for you do you ever do meetings in the mirror when you get up every day do you talk to yourself in the mirror every day yeah I spend like an hour a
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Rileyday doing that I think there's like a thing like I'm noticing this thing where you like you talk a lot and it I feel like it is a nervous tick like what she was saying like it's almost it's verbal
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Rileydiarrhea can you please stop inter please don't interrupt me so like what I'm trying to tell you is like I really like your personality cuz you're really bubbly but it's almost so cringe and I
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Rileyget secondhand embarrassment for you because I feel like you just say the first thing you're thinking and it's literally in like you should have I understand that
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Rileymy brother is autistic he really is autistic so I totally understand what you're saying but what I'm trying to tell you is you need to take accountability for the fact that sometimes you just say whatever the you're thinking and it's that's that's
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)why people love me or they hate me just self awareness but you know but she knows I have self awareness though I understand you don't though you just
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Rileytalk out of your ass and it's like shut the up sometimes just stop talking like and I hate to be like that cuz I really am like you and she doesn't do that anymore and I'm so glad
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Rileybut I'm just telling you for the sake of like just you not even your kids not just think about before you say it because it's like you're 38 and you're supposed to be at like this level of
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Rileyevolution to where you have more respect for yourself if you're going to be on only fans it be on only fans but don't do this like this is embarrassing you're going to look at this years from now you're going to be like oh my
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RileyGod like that was embarrassing like take a meeting in the mirror if you take an hour now take three you need to take three hours in the mirror every day and tell yourself what you want to hear and manifest what you want
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Rileybecause this this little you're doing right here this is crazy bro like I I'm I smoke like every day and like that helps me maybe you should smoke every day destroy yeah like yeah
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)like shout out to marijuana was a really chill person guys myself I'm a fellow Stoner so right it's not working
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Rileyit'sing not working go off Queen do you feel better now need to get it out it was really at me feel girl
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Rileyeating at me cuz I we had a cute little conversation earlier and it was just like eating up in my head like yo like this girl is really embarrassing the out of yourself you're hot like you're a blonde like hot girl like you
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Rileycould do whatever the you want you don't have to do this to yourself like at all bro like seriously like I don't have sisters so I would feel like if I had a sister I would want her to call me while she's watching with like shut the
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)up like you know like I have you I have you we're sisters now like I'll try my I love that yeah no I appreciate you girl I appreciate you I'm out I'm out
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)you know what it might be be a defense mechanism of I don't like all the attention so I just make myself into this freak so it's like okay only a couple people will be into this not like the excuses
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)are Grace you had something grace you had something oh it's just like you say that you're aware of it we're all like they're telling you that it's annoying them or whatever it is but you continue
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)doing it it's like it's your it's it's become part of my personality it's my person inter again you're interrupting and I'm and I'm trying to be nice and not be like shut up but just like it's we're telling you there's a or they're
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)telling you there's a problem you're recognizing the problem and you're continuing to do it anyways that's what honestly is kind of bringing back to your it's what a lot of America does also they're like oh I have this problem I think it kind of ties in with your mental illness State exctly not saying
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Mixed guests (Shirley/Desiree/Vic/Grace/Jennifer/Maddie)you're not just like in general but I'm just like people say they have this stuff recognize it continue to go with it don't fix themselves don't get themselves better it's their excuse like what you were saying there's a lot of
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TTS/Nick (production)excuses there's a lot of excus if you see a problem in you're recognizing it fix it for uncore thecore patriarchy donated to $200 desire K had to help you