03:47:05Brian Atlasall you do uh thank you zzi Mo appreciate it if I can just move things along here a little bit but uh so you said that there's a culture for men by
03:47:17Brian Atlasmen about how they should treat women I'm not going I don't want to linger on this because it gets into like the essay stuff but you did write it down so I'll touch on it briefly but I'll we'll only give it 5 10 minutes and so you said you
03:47:29Brian Atlasthink so this is what you said so I think a lot of men might find themselves in situations where they're alone with a woman who maybe is drunk maybe not whatever and they aren't aware of the
03:47:39Brian Atlasways that she's been conditioned to be more passive but also this biologically uh this biological prerogative for self-defense where there's a natural inherent dynamic between men and women
03:47:52Brian Atlasyou said it's women I think from a physiological perspective you can't deny that a man is stronger and you're going to sense that if you're alone in a room with a man you're going to be more agreeable and then also probably more
03:48:03Brian Atlaslikely conditioned societally to be more agreeable to find yourself to not press your boundaries as much as you should because you assume that men are going to react violently if you do you you assume
03:48:15Brian Atlasthat from a biological perspective you assume that from a biological perspective but also you assume that because you're conditioned to believe that and then men are probably not even
03:48:25Brian Atlasthinking about that I'm just a little confused so are you saying that women who end up alone in a room with a man
03:48:35Brian Atlasare in all instances are Ed I'm confused no that's not what I'm saying well you're saying like just by virtue of being in that situation that what you wrote it these
03:48:48Kelseyare your words not mine I think what I'm trying to convey is that when you are in alone or when you're alone in a room with somebody and there's a like inherent power Dynamic what's the P what would the power Dynamic be that he's a
03:48:59Brian Atlasman and you're a woman so just simply by virtue of the being a man okay that's the power D don't you think that there's like no go ahead finish your finish your
03:49:08Kelseypoint God that no finish your argument God I was saying that if you are a woman alone in a room with a man there's an inherent power Dynamic and that I think
03:49:19Kelseythere would be some sort of evolutionary adaptation where you would maybe be more submissive so you're saying if a woman
03:49:30Brian Atlasfinds herself alone assuming she's attracted to the man and has agreed to be in the room alone with him right how did they get there it doesn't
03:49:41Brian Atlashave to be in that situation I mean so they're just what's the scenario that you're envisioning then we'll okay fine we'll go with
03:49:53Brian Atlasyours well I'm just like assum like I I don't know I'm just a little confused here sure you're saying that like if a woman has consensual like consense to
03:50:04Brian Atlassex it's not actually consent is that what you're arguing I'm just
03:50:10Kelseyconfused I guess in a way that that is kind of what I was getting but I think that there can be situations where
03:50:22Kelseythere's coercion and there's boundary pushing and there's soft noes that aren't really taken seriously and like maybe you're being playful but you're also saying no you're not trying to accept the person that you're
03:50:35Andrew Wilsonwith okay I'm just I don't know isn't uh coercion isn't coercion using force and threats
03:50:48Kelseydefinitionally I guess in this instance it's like implied threat from the due to the power Dynamic implication of threat but isn't that just based on feeling sorry isn't
03:51:01Kelseythat just based on feeling not necessarily the fact of the matter yeah but don't you think that there could be an evolutionary adaptation for that where it's it's better to be agreeable
03:51:11Kelseyin a situation like that rather than to be combative no if if you are actually in a threat a threatening
03:51:21Andrew Wilsonsituation no you have fight or flight right and you don't think that it might be better for a woman to she may not I mean there could be there could could be some circumstances
03:51:33Andrew Wilsonbut when you're talking about coercion in this sense that wouldn't make any sense right the there's no implication even of threat you're just talking about a feeling that you have wouldn't that be more societally informed than anything
03:51:45Andrew Wilsonlike for instance if if women were running around telling you that 50% of men are predatory uh wouldn't that have an impact on whether or not you had a feeling that a man was being coercive towards you because society's telling
03:51:58Andrew Wilsonyou that men are a bunch of predators 50% for instance yeah I think that would definitely in influence how you feel in that moment yeah I think I think it would you know what I mean so it's like
03:52:09Andrew WilsonI think that that might be uh if we're using your the way that you're kind of viewing coercion that seems like it's far more coercive um you know than uh than the
03:52:20Andrew Wilsonalternative of a man just I I don't know what giving you social cues for sex I don't you know I don't like I don't know is that what we're talking about here just kind of social
03:52:31Andrew Wilsoncues yes yeah so I mean if that's what we're talking then it seems like the social implication here is that women who believe that and and spread around that 50% of men are hyper predatory
03:52:43Andrew Wilsonwould be would be far more of an influence on this um socially than any kind of fight ORF flight response unless you know because I mean that's influencing the social queue you don't think that a power Dynamic can also
03:52:55Andrew Wilsoninfluence that though just knowing that someone's stronger than you well I mean men are around men who are stronger than them all the time so women they don't seem to and they don't they don't seem
03:53:04Andrew Wilsonto uh kind of move into the idea that um as as far as coercion goes that that any type of social interaction is going to be overtly threatening to them even
03:53:16Andrew Wilsonthough they're around people who are stronger than them constantly so like I don't know why women necessarily get this past there seems to be that when we're talking about social cues here that the influence of women um often
03:53:28Andrew Wilsonlike with this idea that men are predatory when they're really not I mean they're just really not statistically that's not based in fact at all um it's true that there's more men who are predators in the way that you're talking
03:53:40Andrew Wilsonabout it than women but who cares it's not very many of them right it's still not this vast amount it seems like that is an influencer more than anything
03:53:51Andrew Wilsonelse wait so are you arguing that women hang on hang on do you mind if she just answers that real quick or answers to that I don't have anything to say to that you think you kind of agree that
03:54:03Brian Atlasthat's true she doesn't have anything to say to it so do you agree or no okay okay what do you disagree with
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03:54:52Brian Atlasman hands up for 10 foot alligator okay there's your answer I'm just cons I'm confused okay because you said that that women are conditioned to
03:55:02Brian Atlasbe more passive and you're but you're lining that into what I think is you're saying that women are getting essayed because
03:55:14Brian Atlasthey're more passive and men are physically stronger that creates a power Dynamic and so um by virtue of men being physically
03:55:25Brian Atlasstronger even if a woman consents simply by virtue of the man being stronger she was pressured into having sex with the man because the man
03:55:35Brian Atlasis physically stronger airG go even if she consents to sex the man was physically stronger she was PR used into it women are conditioned to be passive essentially if a man in any
03:55:48Kelseysituation is physically stronger than the woman that that's essay I'm just not understanding your argument really I don't necessarily consider
03:56:01Kelseyessay I think what I'm trying to get is that I think what I'm trying to get at is that we are shaped in certain ways and when we have these interactions with each other
03:56:11Kelseyit that it forms I'm trying to explain why women have a bad impression of men and I'm not trying to put all of the blame on the men I'm trying to put explain that part of it comes down to how we view our but you're talking what
03:56:23Brian Atlasyou're talking about here is like if you're alone in a room with a guy and I'm my understanding is if sex occurs mhm you're saying that well if sex
03:56:34Brian Atlasoccurs and the conditions are that women are more passive that's what you're saying and that the man's stronger there's a power IM balance therefore the man
03:56:45Brian Atlashas the essentially essayed the woman is that your position no so what what are you
03:56:55Brian Atlastrying to point towards with with this talk of women have been conditioned to be more passive
03:57:06Kelseyuh what what are you alluding to I think I gave a list of examples and ways that men can be um kind of shaped into these behaviors that are damaging towards women and I I don't want to focus too
03:57:17Kelseymuch on the idea of coercion or overlooking soft nose and things like that because I think more of the damage comes from things like lying and manipulating women into sex and using them for sex well would be an example of
03:57:28Brian Atlaslying or manipulating a woman into sex like if if a man who worked at McDonald's said he was a lawyer would that be no like giving the I me it would but okay yeah sure um giving the
03:57:41Kelseyimpression that you're interested in having a relationship with somebody women do that too yeah but I I think it happens at a much higher frequency from the male side because there's more incentive to if you tie your self worth to how many women you have sex with and you tie
03:57:54Andrew Wilsonyour self worth to can I ask you a question sure um do you think I mean that sounds like there's a cure though like immediately it stands out to me that there's a cure now I understand what you're saying at least I understand
03:58:06Andrew Wilsonyour argument you're saying and and I'll just kind of Steal man this to make sure I get it right you're saying listen if Society is saying saying that men's self worth is much higher based on you know how many women they're having sex with
03:58:19Andrew Wilsonthen they have an incentive to have sex with more women thus lie to more women about wanting to have a long-term relationship in order to have sex with them right yeah I would say that's part of okay well then wouldn't the argument
03:58:30Andrew Wilsonfor this be female Chastity wouldn't that literally cure that problem wouldn't female chassity literally cure that problem if women waited till they were married to have
03:58:42Andrew Wilsonsex wouldn't that literally cure the problem I don't think necessarily because part of the problem is the way that men view women and that also needs yeah they okay but if they view them as thing I want to have sex with if they're
03:58:54Andrew Wilsonjust objectifying them right thing I want to have sex with and woman goes well you can't have sex till we're married how's that not the Cure maybe they just want to get married
03:59:05Andrew Wilsonso that they can have sex with the person yeah but I mean but if if that is the case then wouldn't that be vastly more preferable because you're saying they're lying to women about the wanting to have a
03:59:17Kelseylong-term relationship with them I mean marriage is certainly a long-term commitment I mean I can't think of a more long-term commitment than that sure I don't think it's necessarily preferable though because I think a lot
03:59:30Kelseyof women are feeling like they are under undervalued and like they are not being appreciated for who they are as a person and only being appreciated for what they have to offer sexually well it seems that if a man's willing to marry them
03:59:41Andrew Wilsonthey seem to be appreciated for basically everything but if you're getting what do they say right it's the old saying if you're getting the milk for free right if you're getting the milk for free uh then why buy the cow
03:59:53Andrew Wilsonright so the the question becomes if if that is your argument and it does and I did steal man it you said it was male promiscuity they have incentive to life so they can have access to sex okay
04:00:04Andrew Wilsonthat's a high status right got it well if that is the status then it sounds like female Chasity would essentially cure this issue I mean I I don't see how it wouldn't I don't think it does because I think
04:00:16Andrew Wilsonpart of the problem is that women want to be valued for more than that yeah but they would be being valued for more than that they would be getting married to men right those men would definitely value them or they wouldn't be marrying them right but if they're
04:00:28Andrew Wilsonstill just marrying them because they want that status of or that access to a woman I don't think well I'm sorry I'm sorry let's just assume for a second that like only 5% of them marry completely on the condition that that's the only way they can have sexual access
04:00:41Andrew Wilsonwouldn't that still be completely Superior in every way to modernity that you're talking about right now uh I don't think that a 5% I don't think that would be an accurate let's
04:00:53Kelseysay it's 50% wouldn't that still be superior to the modernity that you're how would it not so sorry in your example or scenario is it like a society where we're not allowed to get divorced or it's just modern society modern
04:01:06Andrew Wilsonsociety where you're saying there's a plague of men who will lie to women in order to get sexual access it's like okay but if they lie to to the woman and say hey I love you but I'm willing to bury you and take care of you for the
04:01:17Andrew Wilsonrest of your life in order to get access to that sex how is that still not superior to the idea that they could just hump you and dump you I don't like I don't get that like I suppose that's you could say that superior but how do
04:01:30Andrew Wilsonwe get there and why do you think it's just yeah but but that's not really the question of how we get there we first have to establish that that has to be superior to what we now
04:01:41Andrew Wilsonhave I'm not committed to an answer on that you're not committed to an answer on so you don't you think it would be inferior that if men were marrying women for access to the sex that that would be
04:01:53Andrew Wilsonan inferior system to what we have now or they just lie to him and then bang him and there's no consequences whatsoever I don't see why it would be superior if if well because they would
04:02:05Andrew Wilsonbe in this because your your issue is they're lying right so that they can have sex and there's no social repercussions and they're lying about wanting a long-term relationship but if they marry you for the sex they're
04:02:16Andrew Wilsondefinitely committing to a long-term relationship okay I okay yeah I see your point with that um yeah okay sure so then I guess so so so then like female chassity which should really be our kind of our number one thing we're looking at
04:02:28Kelseyhere right I think I I still don't necessarily agree oh okay I think part of the problem is still the fact that women are feeling
04:02:38Kelseyundervalued and I they may still but but you would agree it would be vastly Superior right I don't necessarily agree because you you marry somebody who just values you for sex and then you're if
04:02:51Andrew Wilsonthat's the only thing and you're still not feeling valued what do you think men value women for do you think what do you think that they're valuing them for like their credit cards what do you think they value women they value women because they want to have sex with them
04:03:04Andrew Wilsonthey want them to have their children that's the main value that women have to admit like what what what what do you think the big value is women are bringing to the table absent sex I
04:03:15Andrew Wilsonactually want to know the answer to that question this is such a point love and friendship love and friendship you can't you can get friendship from men why do
04:03:25Kelseyyou need friendship from women it's friendship with all these extra benefits sharing your whole life with somebody having a child with them merging World
04:03:34Andrew WilsonViews sex huh sex I mean so so instead of when you're saying friend the distinction between you being a friend with a guy and and you having a wife is
04:03:45Andrew Wilsonyour wife is your friend who you also have sex with it sounds like the value here still seems to be the sex like because you could have all those other conditionals with other
04:03:57Kelseypeople but the sex seems to be the thing you putting a value emphasis on I disagree and I don't think sex should be the primary value because sex is kind of replaceable I think the the value that
04:04:08Kelseyyou get in a relationship is that merging of a like World Views what do you bring to the table what do I bring to the table yeah in a relationship um I think I bring a unique
04:04:19Kelseyperspective and I can help you live a more fulfilling life and you think you're you think men date you because you bring them a unique perspective yeah I think I have given my partner a unique perspective and I think i' I think I've helped him to start
04:04:32Andrew Wilsonliving a more fulfilling life and to and I've led him to being a better person doesn't every human being on planet Earth have a unique perspective no no they're not no how could two human beings not have a unless
04:04:45Kelseyyou're saying all human beings are not unique sure I would say a lot of people have you could say down to the there's some differences between people but I think there's a lot of overlap and
04:04:55Andrew Wilsonshared World Views so you want to be valued so you're one of those um I want to be valued for more than just my sexuality right yeah okay what do you want to be valued for what what do you
04:05:07Kelseywant to be valued for um yeah I guess that's a good question that I don't have I want to be valued for who I am as a person okay but why wouldn't
04:05:20Andrew Wilsonyou be valued for who you are as a person and the highest value that the man has with you is still the sex I don't get that I still value you as a person I think you're great I think you're wonderful this and that but the not having sex thing that's a deal breaker that seems
04:05:36Andrew Wilsonreasonable I think I would want to be I don't think I would want sex to be at the top of that list why what I'm valued for would you want like a woman to Value you most for the money that what I want my woman to Value having sex with me
04:05:48Andrew Wilsonmore than anything oh it's terrible oh no what would I do what would I ever do if a woman only valued it's her top priority having sex with me oh it's
04:05:58Andrew Wilsonterrible how would I ever get through the day she didn't love my big brain and big mind and she only valued sex as her highest priority with I don't know how I can live I don't know maybe that shows that's how you value yourself is what
04:06:11Kelseyfor what you have to offer I have a question for you would you date a guy who uh who lived with his parents yes you would yeah my first boyfriend did he didn't live with the parents yeah you
04:06:24Brian Atlaswere a little well you're 29 that was when you were 23 sure so you want to have kids one day yeah okay so you'd be totally cool dating a guy who lived with his parents well my prerequisite for
04:06:35Kelseyhaving kids cuz I never wanted kids until my current partner was that if we're going to have kids I need to be able to be at home and raise the kids
04:06:45Brian Atlascuz I don't want them raised by the system so you want to be a stay-at-home mom I would try to work from home what kind of income you live in don't you live in one of the highest cost of
04:06:57Brian Atlasliving areas in California you said you're from the bay mhm isn't it like we're outside of the bay so it's a little lower but okay well in any case California is still High Cost of Living
04:07:08Kelseyso and you don't want to be working so your partner has to work work correct yeah okay that is that is the requirement if we're to have kids I don't and I don't think that's unreasonable because I think it's
04:07:21Brian Atlasimportant a mom to raise so then you look to a man to provide sure okay don't you think that in the same the same way you feel about
04:07:33Brian Atlasyour and I actually think it's a bit of a straw men that men only care about sex but let's just grant it so the same way that you think men think that about
04:07:43Brian Atlaswomen and you think that about men you simply look at men as how they can provide for you I don't my partner wants to have children
04:07:54Brian Atlasand that was the agreement that we had it's like I'm okay with you would date him you would not date him if he was not able to provide for you if he didn't want kids let's say he did he does want
04:08:05Kelseykids and that is the condition or there's a condition in order for us to have kids right I wouldn't leave him if he decided like sorry I can't do that what if he still wanted to have kids but he
04:08:17Brian Atlascouldn't provide I would say sorry I'm not having kids okay so if men if women are sex objects then men are success
04:08:31Brian Atlasobjects I am not valuing him on his success it's the practicality reason for raising a child like I don't want to be the kind of person that just has the school system we've been lingering on this for too long uh one last thing
04:08:44Brian Atlasyou'd said that men you take an issue with men lying in order to get sex correct so for example a man claiming that he wants long-term commitment but he doesn't in order to get sex that
04:08:57Brian Atlaswould be lying have you ever told somebody you would love them forever yes have you told your current partner that yes is it possible something could happen down the line where you guys no
04:09:08Andrew Wilsonlonger no you think it's impossible that you guys you guys are going to stay together for you you can agree though right that it's logically possible whether you think that it would actually
04:09:18Andrew Wilsonhappen it's logically possible like Wolverine logically possible but it's but Wolverine doesn't exist right let me ask you a question do you think that there are couples out there
04:09:31Brian Atlaswhere either the man or the woman has said to their partner I will love you forever yeah and then they broke up or got divorced has that happened yeah okay so
04:09:43Brian AtlasI mean these are just kind of statements of affection that people say to each other okay they're not they're not binding really sure okay so if you tell
04:09:55Brian Atlassomeone I will love you forever that's not like binding you're not obliged to actually love them forever even though you've said it sure okay but so your argument is is
04:10:06Brian Atlasthat well men claim like these men say they want long-term relationships but then they end up not or they break up
04:10:13Brian Atlaswith a girl sure okay so like I I'm just trying to understand
04:10:21Brian Atlaslike men make these uh like comments in an effort
04:10:30Brian Atlasto I what is your actual argument I'm just confused here men lie is that the argument not men all of them but enough
04:10:41Brian Atlasof them okay so do so women who wear makeup in an effort to be more physically appealing to men is that a deception yeah
04:10:52Aliciaokay are women manipulating men when they say they'll take that vow I'll love you forever through sickness and health and then they initiate 8 80% of divorces it's a good point I don't think necessarily I I think there are people
04:11:04Aliciathat will Li what if they lie just to secure those resources now securing alimony now securing child support and then uh they just said I don't love my feelings have changed I don't love you anymore they broke their vow if that is
04:11:16Kelseytheir intention when they're marrying the person is that like I don't actually have a intention to follow there with you yeah that's that's not their intention initially but wouldn't that still be a
04:11:28Kelseymanipulation if because they broke their vow so if like when they're getting married the person in her mindset who's marrying this man is and eventually going to divorce him her mind is that I
04:11:40Kelseylove this man and I'm going to marry him and I want to spend the rest of my life life with him and I'm not going to leave him and then she gets married to him and then she decides later on down the line that she or realizes that she doesn't actually love him no what I think
04:11:52Aliciahappens I don't know know if it's that I think women hit like a certain age they realize oh [ __ ] I want to have kids so I wasted my 20s doing whatever now who's
04:12:05Aliciaaround okay this guy will do I want my kids they marry him they uh make that vow that vow forever and then and their feelings change I'm not in love with him anymore so they are like I mean I think
04:12:19Kelseyyeah you could probably make an argument that that's a similar case where the woman is probably not being totally honest with herself about her motives that she's manipulating for his resources yeah wait so hold on coming
04:12:30Brian Atlasback to this so did you say that it would constitute essay if a guy lied to a woman about his intentions his romantic intentions in order to get her into bed so he says baby I want be in a
04:12:43Kelseylong-term relationship with you he [ __ ] her and then dips is that essay I wouldn't I don't I don't know I don't know how I feel about that but I would say at the very least it's cruel
04:12:55Kelseyand it's going to give people a a false impression I think one of the worst things about saay and why a lot of women say they fear it is because that feeling of being completely used and dehumanized and disregarded as a person and so when
04:13:06Kelseysomebody's doing that to you just because they want sex I think it can have a similar impact and it's going to impact your worldview of men and it's going to push women into this more radicalized position against men okay
04:13:18Brian Atlaswell so then would it be equally wrong then for a woman to uh bait a man uh into being physically attracted to her through use of makeup and other
04:13:30KelseyCosmetics no okay uh what about women who manipulate men to get money online how about that yeah I think that's that's just as bad I think that would be like probably pretty traumatic to be a man and you think that a woman wants to be
04:13:43Kelseywith you and they're giving you all these signs and then they just get some money from you and they dip I think that'd be equally traumatic all right well I do have to uh move things on a little bit here we're
04:13:56Brian Atlasgoing to get to some of Lizzy notes we got to come back to some of your some video reactions here um let's see and then let's do actually
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04:14:18Brian Atlasstrumpet in your bed my best to all o7s in the chat kill of Serial appreciate it man hope you have a good night so we're gonna actually we have another chat coming up here we have Stiffler ask everyone to rate their
04:14:31TTS / donation readerlooks on a scale of 1 to 10 starting with you go ahead I'm a 10 okay five hold on one Chris donated $200
04:14:41TTS / donation readerthank you Chris thank you ladies keep fighting Andrew I wouldn't be able to keep my stable of side chicks if it wasn't women like you cosigning the BS
04:14:51TTS / donation readerthat I tell them pump and dump feminists on birth control for Life Jesus H who uh show of hands who's on birth
04:15:02Brian Atlascontrol I've got the IUD just kidding okay um all right cool uh okay so here I'll just since we got semi kind of cut off there Stiffler ask everyone to write
04:15:13Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)their looks on a scale of 1 to 10 10 five 10 nine 2 six six uh six okay so we got two t and
04:15:27Brian Atlasthe nine uh okay um want to give your scores oh oh yeah uh I give myself a
04:15:37Brian Atlasfive Andrew I would say I'm a four okay question for the 10 and the nine do you think you'll be better looking in 10
04:15:47Brian Atlasyears as compared to now okay so you're 25 so you'll be better looking at 35 as compared to now at 25 for sure yes and you're uh 22 right so better
04:15:59Brian Atlaslooking at 32 than now at 22 let's let's uh double it 20 years better looking at 45 as compared to now at 25 M no I think like late 30s are the
04:16:12Brian Atlasreal Prime late 30s are the prime of women take care of someone in their mid 30s uh still beautiful but not more beautiful okay so that's what gonna into the mic
04:16:23Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)into the mic oh um I think if I take care of myself and my skin and my health yes okay so the
04:16:34Brian Atlasthe thing is you got to look at this from a a view of all else being equal so assuming you could do all those things right now and you have all those things right now mhm you had the good skin the
04:16:46Brian Atlasgood health Etc right would you be better looking now at 25 as or sorry 22 as compared to 42 you're saying would I look better now
04:16:57Brian Atlasthan compared to that's the question yeah I I feel like yeah mhm better now or yeah better now okay all
04:17:06Brian Atlasright so wait better at 45 you said Brooklyn I'm sorry you said better at 45
04:17:13Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)no I said or was it you no we we both said better at 35 better at 35 okay yeah all right have you guys heard of a thing
04:17:23Lizzycalled Aging I'm sorry I'm 35 right now and I do not look better than I did at 25 and I'm 36 and I don't look better than I did at 26 mhm well I don't drink
04:17:34Brooklynalcohol and I take care of myself so I have High Hopes good jeans are you on the uh are you on the old soy diet I don't eat soy at all
04:17:45Andrew Wilsonvegan I don't eat soy at all got that vegan diet no no soy no it's that's very rare for vegans to not encounter soy in at least some of their diet I used to eat soy I don't eat
04:17:57Brian Atlassoy anymore I have a question have you guys ever had any pro uh cosmetic procedures no you've never had lip filler no Brooklyn I swear I just uh Brooklyn don't lie to me I swear you had
04:18:09Brian Atlasa little lip filler I didn't back in the day no you had a little lip filler Brooklyn I I would tell you come on be honest be honest this it's girls here it's the ladies you're you're it's the
04:18:21Brian Atlasladies I over I overline my lips no lip pillar none we're going I'm going to have to investigate your Instagram again okay um I just learned how to nothing no
04:18:31Brooklynokay um the only thing I ever wanted like before I used to want a BBL and I wanted uh I don't want it anymore I'm not but this is when I was like 18 I wanted
04:18:43Brooklyna BBL and I wanted veneers but I don't want either of those anymore you wanted and I'm I'm honestly like I think everyone should do what they want to do but at the end of the day I'm anti-s surgery and I'm anti-
04:18:53Brian Atlasfiller anti-s surgery anti- filler yeah you think is a little lip fillery or I don't know it looks a little you know what I mean the bottom one no the top oh
04:19:04Brian Atlasno I think the bottom look really yeah I in Brooklyn we're we're doing a oh okay all right I don't need to see that um no lip filler or never I know okay you can wear makeup wait question when it comes
04:19:16Brooklynto makeup are you a 10 without makeup I say I'm always a 10 your confidence has to be there you're a 10 if you believe you're like it's it's
04:19:27Brooklyna it's not necessarily oh my God I'm the best looking woman in the world it's just I'm going to walk around I'm going to be confident always cuz why not it isn't that what a 10 you're saying you are you're the most attractive woman to
04:19:40Brooklynwalk this Earth amongst the other tens no I just said if you give me a scale 1 through 10 I'm going to rate myself a 10 why would I lowball myself not be lowballing yourself you're just like honesty looking at I mean that's what we
04:19:51Aliciado as women we can gauge and we look and we see and you can say yeah that woman's prettier than me but you're saying of course there's women more beautiful than me well then how would you be a 10 if someone's More Beautiful cuz there could be other there could be multiple T yeah
04:20:05Aliciathere could be multip that's what I just said so she's at in par with all the rest of the 10 so all the most beautiful women in the world I think it mixes with personality too that's not what the question it's just looks though we're talking about looks yeah I think there's
04:20:16Brian Atlasmultiple T I think well there can be in the eye of the beholder there can be more than one 10 but you can't be like more attractive if you're 10 you are the most
04:20:29Brooklynattractive I feel like I'm God's creation he did his thing what can I say okay um yeah but I'm by your standard God's creation too and I'm not as pretty as
04:20:41Lizzyyou that's just that's subjective but that's how you feel about yourself no no that's I think how if I were to ask all these men in this room who's prettier you'd be prettier but that would just be them like Beauties in the eye of the
04:20:53Brooklynholder but maybe someone would think you're more attractive than me well I would question their super big I wouldn't question it girl I would just take the compliment and run with
04:21:03Brian Atlasit I would run I mean she is kind of not I I mean you're certainly self-aware Liz uh I do think would be the case if we lined up a
04:21:14Brian Atlashundred or a thousand or a million men and we gave them a binary choice between uh and Liz love you to death
04:21:24Brian Atlasbetween Liz and like uh I'm sure you I think a lot of them no offense to Liz here just looking at things objectively they I would say vast majority of the
04:21:35Lizzymen would pick you of course and I am still a confident person and I'm not saying I'm not pretty and neither is Brian but I'm not as pretty as you the two things can exist at the same time well yeah I'm
04:21:47Andrew Wilsonjust not going to change my I just 10 but you yourself a 10 and you ra fair I think it's fair for her to call herself a 10 right it's fair you can call yourself that there's nothing wrong with
04:21:58Andrew Wilsonthat but I I would like to just kind of quickly follow up with a quick question that I'm wondering um do you believe that narcissism is a real thing yes and I think I have some of that in me for
04:22:09Andrew Wilsonreal yeah so I was just going to ask you um just a very quick followup are you the prettiest woman on planet Earth do you think oh absolutely not okay have you ever seen a woman prettier than you who's
04:22:20Andrew WilsonFain absolutely I see beautiful all can you name one of these pretty girls who is famous famous that is prettier than you uh I like Ruby Rose okay is she
04:22:31Brooklynprettier than you yeah okay what are the features that make her prettier than you I just think she has a very unique look and as far as I know or like I think
04:22:42Andrew Wilsonshe's natural so I I you know I give it up to her okay so if she's a 10 if she's a 10 being the highest standard of beauty you can possibly think of then where do you place yourself okay so you
04:22:55Andrew Wilsonguys want me to give myself a nine I think you're a 10 I think you're I'm just I'm just just asking I know I know what you think she's a I just I just want to finish real
04:23:05Andrew Wilsonquick T at all but I think she based on features has I yeah great great I just I just to know though if if this chick Ruby okay is a 10 she's the highest
04:23:16Brooklynstandard of beauty you can think of then where would you put yourself I understand what you're saying because you're saying if she's better than you how are you guys both tense I understand yeah that wouldn't that wouldn't make any sense right yeah okay
04:23:28Brooklynso but I just am not going to go back on my answer of I it just regardless I understand you guys are saying oh it's looks it's not personality but I'm if someone tells me to rate myself out of 10 why am I going to give myself a lower
04:23:40Andrew Wilsonnumber no I I I totally understand what you're saying so yeah yeah I I get what you're saying you're saying like um from the perspective of confidence building right it would be unrealistic for you as
04:23:51Andrew Wilsona Confident Woman to rate yourself as less than how you feel like you are which is a 10 which is everything it's Beauty and personality and everything together right but we're just purely looking at an objective standard which you clearly must have because you think
04:24:04Brooklynthat this other girl is prettier than you so if she's objectively hang on hang on so if she's objectively a 10 where would that put you I guess that would put me as a nine but I'm going to still sit here like if we
04:24:16Brooklynhad to do that you know I'm like okay fine but I just if someone's going to ask me a 1 through 10 I'm going to give myself a 10 no matter what no matter what just because even if I didn't look
04:24:29Brooklynthe way I did and I looked another way even like all of you guys like it makes me I mean I know I yes I would I would hope that you guys would all feel like you're a 10 is there any girl in that
04:24:41Andrew Wilsonroom who prettier than you I think we're all beautiful is there any girl in that room who's prettier than you I'm going get up to my sister but wait Andrew okay okay hang on hang
04:24:53Andrew Wilsonon so if your sister so then if your sister's a 10 what does that make you so fine I guess we're all nines but I just like I'm saying wait you can't all be nines if you're the prettiest girl in the room and you rate yourself a nine
04:25:06Andrew Wilsonthen you'd have to rate at least other girls in eight right I would also I didn't ever say I was the prettiest girl in the room okay are you the prettiest girl in the room I didn't no I didn't say that yeah
04:25:16Andrew WilsonI know but are you no okay who is I I think my sister is beautiful okay so she's the prettiest girl in the room but remember pretty hang on so that would
04:25:28Brooklynmean you're less pretty than her so if she's a 10 then that would make you a what a 10 she could be a 10 too but we could both be tens but it's just like I'm think my sister's the most beautiful
04:25:39Brooklynjust off the fact that she's my sister and I know her and I'm in her face every day and also going to give it up to her for being a natural woman I just look at
04:25:49Brooklynher with so much love that I like if I'm looking around and I see beauty it's she's the first person I look at but that's just because beaut is in if your sister is a 10 if your sister is a 10 in
04:26:01Brooklyncomparison to all the other girls in the room where would where would that put them is okay just so like we don't have to go on with this conversation because I feel like I've already said my
04:26:10Brooklynstandpoint both answering questions in an honest way no no no I'm just I'm just it's like it's not going to you're not going to let it go so if say if I say my sister's the prettiest in the room she's
04:26:22Brooklyna 10 and then fine then the rest of us can be nines does that work well that still wouldn't work because then who would the second prettiest girl so then and so you then everyone would have to
04:26:34Andrew Wilsongo down one number correct well no so here's how it would work then I'll explain if she's a 10 and you that would Ian I would just ask you are you then
04:26:44Andrew Wilsonthe second prettiest girl in the room no then who
04:26:51Brian Atlasis I don't here I I do need to start moving things along a little bit here but I got a little bit on this so you said that all women are tens or should
04:27:01Brooklynbe I would hope that all all women when they get asked a question like that I hope that they could feel about I feel I wish they could feel like a 10 you think it should be the the same for men too
04:27:13Brooklynare all men tens I think when men feel and act as their tens they're more pleasant to be around than just being like really yeah just because it's just how you carry yourself at the end of the
04:27:25Brooklynday a confident man is I would take a conf confident man that's not as good-looking as a super good what if he's not confident and he's just delusional you don't know any guys who think they're hot [ __ ] but they're not
04:27:37Brooklynoh of course definitely but isn't that being confident but good for for them I feel like you don't clown dudes like that I don't I don't sit up in their faces and I don't entertain them but good for them if you feel good about
04:27:48Brian Atlasyourself this is your life there are 10 I I mean I you can't be for everybody that's a 10 okay so not but our are all
04:27:58Brian Atlasmen tens if they feel like that I can't tell someone what they are okay that's why I can't sit up in here and say oh you're this you're that you're I'm not well it's interesting cuz you said so you said that well all women should view themselves as
04:28:12Brian Atlas[Music] did you say that all the you think all the women here are tens yeah okay well this is something that's interesting to me so I think it's the case that more women than men will reject
04:28:24Brian Atlashierarchies so basically like if we're looking at capitalism for example so this is what gets you every girl is a 10 in participation trophies everybody's a
04:28:33Brian Atlaswinner everybody's special this is what gets you Comm this is what gets you communism this whole this is how communism actually started this is how communism started is women were like
04:28:46Brian Atlaswe're all [ __ ] hotties we're all bad [ __ ] we're all tens everyone gets a trophy and then you know women are they overwhelmingly vote for leftist politicians and
04:28:57Brooklynpolicies you know I think that's the origination of Communism really because you reject hierarchies I just think if I were to sit here and say oh rear I just think if I were to sit here and say
04:29:08Andrew Wilsonyou're a four you're a two I think that would drop me from a 10 to a piece of [ __ ] well honly I got but I mean we're not really looking for I understand that women can make compation a l best looking I'm not going to do that like
04:29:22Andrew Wilsonyeah I I understand I'm just saying I think that that women all often do this a lot too where when you're asking the question you're just basing it on physical Beauty right you're not basing it on anything except the physical and I
04:29:34Andrew Wilsonthink that often women will say well wait there's a package that comes with this what about the personality what about the other external traits this type of thing uh but that's really not what the question is alluding to is what's on the inside just it's purely uh
04:29:47Andrew Wilsonthe perspective of what's on the outside that's what the question is alluding to that's why you can say that there's other people who you've seen objectively who you think are prettier than you that makes sense to me yeah and I'm just like
04:29:59Andrew Wilsonmy stance is I would not sit here and tell a girl she's a four I just wouldn't but but can you admit that there could be women in the room who you do think are a for that you just wouldn't say it
04:30:10Brian Atlasbut you do think it no I'll just say this [ __ ] it I'm just throwing it out there there's no tens and Nines in the room
04:30:21Brian Atlastonight that's it for you okay F oh [ __ ] okay you want you want to squabble over this not a nine not a 10 not a 10 I'm sorry y'all are
04:30:31Brian Atlaslovely I love you guys great personalities not no sorry not a nine not a 10 not a 10 sorry just throwing it
04:30:39Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)out there your perception isn't reality though well and be ver on exactly exactly I agree it's okay I'm just like I'm a mid
04:30:51Brooklynthen every but you have to know too every person would give someone if we lined up a hundred women and they all rated you they wouldn't have you wouldn't have the same number across the board actually interestingly enough I
04:31:04Andrew Wilsonjust want to let you know have you ever heard of the idea of the collective vote actually being more accurate it's it's a actually a strange phenomenon so if you were to take a cow for instance and there there's experiments done on this I
04:31:17Andrew Wilsondon't remember exactly what the terminology is for it but you take a cow at a County Fair dlan L donated $200 late 30s you mean when you can only
04:31:28Andrew Wilsongive us one kid that's high risk 18 to 24 with thank you Dylan go go ahead Andrew yeah so if you if you were to take a cow at a county fair and you ask each individual to guess at the weight
04:31:39Andrew Wilsonright um most of them will get wrong but then if you average all their answers you actually get really close to whatever the truth is that's what what's interesting about that experiment so the same thing would likely happen if you
04:31:51Andrew Wilsonlined Brian up and you had women honestly rate him across the board I think you're right you would get varied answers someone would say maybe a six a couple would say 10 uh two might say eight and then you know a bunch say four
04:32:03Andrew Wilsonand then if you averaged up all those answers I bet that you would come to the conclusion that what Brian rids himself at as I think he said a five right or six or whatever I think that you would
04:32:14Andrew Wilsonend up hitting really close to a five I you know I think that that would probably end up being the average well that's the average but that's still not an like if you're lining up a bunch of women it's not well what it alludes to
04:32:27Brooklynis that there might be some objective standard here that we're all utilizing right I'm just saying that say a few people think he's a 10 like you're not going to convince him that're no no I I agree with that that's why I'm saying you can sit here and say oh you guys
04:32:41Andrew Wilsonyou're not this you're not that that and it's like okay well to you you know but there must be an objective standard uh to some degree because otherwise how could people guess collectively very close to what the cow is Right basically
04:32:53Andrew Wilsonwhat all of them are saying is I associate your the cow being big with weight and so I'm going to guess higher because I associate that objective standard of weight as being true right
04:33:04Andrew Wilsonso they're able to guess with some accuracy there must be some objective standard that they're appealing to the same thing must be true with VI if we come to kind of the same similar conclusion across the
04:33:16Brian Atlasboard wait I got to come in on something really quick on this so like you said some girls would call me a 10 here's the crazy thing is I'm so sure I'm not a 10 I would call them [ __ ] if they
04:33:27Brian Atlascalled me a 10 I know I'm not supposed to say that [ __ ] but I would tell the girl bro are you I would look at her like call me a 10 right now go ahead do
04:33:37Brian Atlasit 10 are you [ __ ] are you okay you want talk to a doctor what's up see that's what I would do and CU I think as men we never receive compliments and I almost feel this would be more of a
04:33:49Brian Atlascommon occurrence in women CU y'all get bombarded with like simps and dudes complimenting you all the time your girlfriend's gassing you up men rarely receive compliments but even I'm self-aware enough to be like this
04:34:01Brian Atlasperson's just trying to flatter me there's no world where some chicks like yeah man Brian with the dad bod and the kind of you know he's got a bit of rosacea and he's got a little dandruff
04:34:13Brian Atlashe's a [ __ ] 10 bro no it ain't happening son it ain't happening but I feel like girls you're more better attuned to when a dude's trying to flatter you you know when guys are trying to flatter you so wouldn't you
04:34:25Brian Atlasalmost be more aware if somebody actually women like don't even like really when guys compliment y'all cuz you know they're trying to hit you know they're trying to hit so wouldn't you be more attuned to the fact these guys are
04:34:36Brian Atlasjust like when they if they call you a 10 they're like eh it's kind of [ __ ] they're just trying to hit you know well yes because men are very loose ejaculate evacuate that's what they're trying to
04:34:46Brian Atlasdo yeah well I think ejaculate evacuate okay sorry is that your model he real there listen listen I prefer long-term
04:34:56Brian Atlasrelationships okay I like to ejaculate and stay there for a couple months preferably at least a couple months do you are you more monogamous or you like
04:35:06Brian Atlasto swing um swing huh or be I'm a one girl I'm a one girl kind of guy if you and me we're dating all it's a WAP on the other there's no other first off there's no other chicks there's no other
04:35:16Brian Atlaschicks rap on the other chicks okay okay so yeah you ejaculate and you stay there for a couple months until she starts nagging you and then you just you know find a different girl I'm kidding
04:35:30Brian Atlasit's so no nagging huh no nagging no nagging I don't like quel some women Proverbs 21:19 better to live in the hold on let me start let me start over
04:35:44Brian Atlaswait Proverbs 21:19 better to live in a desert than with a corome and nagging wife boom
04:35:56Brian Atlasquoted what's up Andrew how you doing okay guys guys where are we I need to get to Liz here Liz has been dying she's ready okay you ready Liz yes I need Andrew's help
04:36:09Brian Atlashere I'm going to start with your disagreement then I'll get into some of your other stuff so that might be you had a disagreement and it's actually good I was trying to figure out and so I'm actually just uh Andrew is gonna be
04:36:20Andrew Wilsonmy champion on this argument hopefully uh so you said that hold on by the way it's nice to see you again welcome back to whatever nice to see you again you said I think it is
04:36:32Brian Atlashypocritical Brian that you have openly admitted that you're traditional in some ways and Degen in others yet you lay into your female guest for picking and choosing in what ways they would like to be traditional you say it is not fair
04:36:45Brian Atlasthat a woman expects you to pay if she's not traditional yet if you were on a date with a traditional woman you expect her to sleep with you within the first few dates and you you refuse to marry her does this mean that you can pick and
04:36:57Brian Atlaschoose your values but the women on your show cannot and why I love that so and it stumped me for a little bit and it stumped me and actually I
04:37:09Brian Atlascame up with this four-dimensional just [ __ ] ninja chess response but we got Andrew here my champion and you know
04:37:18Brian Atlaslook I look I came up with the the most Smoking Gun owned rebuttal to this but because I'm feeling generous and Andrew's our special guest I'm just going to get up for a few minutes and
04:37:30Andrew Wilsonlet Andrew take it away Andrew go ahead all right so um so first uh maybe we can condense the argument here um just so I understand it better can just in own words can you sure can you
04:37:43Lizzyexplain it to me so I oh gosh now I have to think about what I said back in April okay
04:37:56Lizzyum he it Ryan seems to dislike picking and choosing but then he also picks and CH like he you can't have both so you can't have a chased woman that will
04:38:07Lizzysleep on you sleep sleep on you sleep with you that same night like those two things I don't think are synonymous that wouldn't make any sense to me like where
04:38:17Andrew Wilsonwould you find that woman you know um well I don't understand that though why couldn't she have a chased woman sleep with you the same
04:38:27Andrew Wilsonnight I just don't think that would be the typical personality or the typical Choice a chased woman would make I think she would want to vet the yeah I mean I
04:38:37Andrew Wilsonagree that I would think that a woman who valued ch probably wouldn't sleep with you on the first night but I don't see why you couldn't have a chased woman who did you could I just don't think
04:38:48Lizzyit's likely so I don't think that you can and Andrew Brian can come on here and you know say rightly so that he thinks it's wrong for women to promis be
04:39:00Andrew Wilsonpromiscuous and then expect promiscuous behavior from those women that oh I see it's the it's so you're talking about the Homemaker argument so the the Homemaker argument goes something like
04:39:10Andrew Wilsonthis um and you tell me if I'm on track here you men are out there being promiscuous and the more women you sleep with the more hoes you're making because you're sleeping with those women so the
04:39:21Andrew Wilsonone hand you have the standard that um women should not be promiscuous while you're out there sleeping with women which by the way is the outcome of making them promiscuous right well I think women make themselves promiscuous
04:39:34Lizzybut well then why I don't know what the argument is I think a woman would make herself promiscuous if she slept with a man on the first night and if yeah I I don't think that Brian would disagree with it but Brian expects
04:39:46Andrew Wilsonwomen to sleep with him on the first or even the second date but that would still more or less be promiscuous Behavior so you can't you can't Champion actually well actually I don't
04:39:59Andrew Wilsonactually see a contradiction here I think I understand where you see one so you're seeing the idea that Brian doesn't prefer promiscuous women but yet wants a woman to sleep with them almost
04:40:09Lizzyimmediately uh in their dating Cy right right I don't what's the cont but but what's the contradiction cuz that in itself to me implies priscu that is a promiscuous action that she's taking and a non
04:40:22Andrew Wilsonpromiscous he could have a he could have a virgin that he meets and she sleeps with him on the second night happens he can have a he can have a woman that only has a one body count or a two body count sleeps with him on the second night that's not promiscuous at all I don't
04:40:34Andrew Wilsonactually understand what the contradiction is so like I like let me put it this way let's say let's say my position is I don't like promiscuous women but I'm not
04:40:47Andrew Wilsongoing to date you unless we we are having sex right those two are not mutually exclusive claims so I can still not value women who are promiscuous and still want women who sleep with me almost immediately that doesn't mean
04:40:59Andrew Wilsonthat they're promiscuous right but who is more likely to sleep with you immediately oh I would say the the promiscuous woman but so
04:41:09Lizzywhat she know well yeah I knew that already but um I just think in practice it doesn't
04:41:20Lizzyit's kind of a confusing confusing double message like it doesn't make sense to me that it seems to be encouraging the very culture that you don't I suppose I should jump in here
04:41:33Andrew Wilsonunless Andrew you have you want a champion more yeah I just I just want to kind of finish this off um I don't I don't understand how it's actually a contradiction to say I don't
04:41:43Andrew Wilsonvalue promiscuity in women right but then also want to have sex with women early on who are not promiscuous right wouldn't that be like you get the goods first like you were the first person who
04:41:55Lizzygot the orange right before everybody else handled it like isn't that isn't that kind of the point but we tend to speak on this podcast with generalities
04:42:04Lizzyand in general I would say that a chased non-promiscuous virgin the likelihood of you finding what you want and having her sleep with you on the first day which I will acknowledge may have happened but
04:42:17Andrew Wilsonthe percent chance of that being likely is very low in my op but don't you well wait a second if we're speaking in generalities then I think that you have the problem here because wouldn't you
04:42:27Andrew Wilsonagree that what are called or quote high status men are often going after the women with the very very low body counts and they often get them because they're high status men and in general most men
04:42:39Andrew Wilsonare not high status men and so if they're in the category of I don't know having like the second largest IRL podcast on planet Earth um and uh you know all the entailments which come with
04:42:50Andrew Wilsonthat I'm not sure if it is but I'm just saying if it is um wouldn't that wouldn't that kind of already make you outside of this kind of General theme of what most men are it's a fa like
04:43:02Andrew Wilsoncouldn't you afford to be a little bit more selective and with with your taste couldn't you kind of afford to have that kind of caviar taste uh cuz you no longer have the the the beer budget
04:43:13Lizzyright of course but I would expect Brian to live what he says outside of this podcast and I don't think sleeping with women on the first night is living to the standards that he purports to think are best for society well it seems like
04:43:25Andrew Wilsonhe thinks what's best for societies that women are chased right if women are chased then Brian doesn't have a choice does he well I think well actually by your standard of what you think we ought to
04:43:38Andrew Wilsondo Brian wouldn't have a choice you'd have to marry somebody to that's right he would wouldn't he and also that would just take all that choice right away it sounds like that would be a positive outcome for society doesn't it yeah and I think so it sounds like if you follow
04:43:51Andrew WilsonBrian's advice and you're all chased right and of women are not giving it up then um it seems like Brian wouldn't have much of an option anyway right correct but if the option is available
04:44:03Andrew Wilsonfor low body count women and his preferences to sleep with him early on I still don't actually understand where the contradiction is because I think if he's a man that stands on the principles that he encourages he should not sleep
04:44:15Lizzywith a woman well what do I encourage I think you encourage people to well now I think you're considering Orthodoxy which would you're either going to have to choose
04:44:26Andrew Wilsonbetween being a monk or picking woman well I mean look I agree with you that Brian shouldn't be a [ __ ] degenerate and sleep with a bunch of chicks okay I agree with that I agree with that [ __ ] that's the okay so that's my one