02:50:32Andrew Wilsonit doesn't matter then who cares I don't get it so that doesn't make any sense like if I said if for instance if if my wife came to me and she said honey would you like steak or
02:50:45Andrew Wilsonchicken for dinner and I said oh it doesn't matter and then she brought me the chicken and I said ah you know I really wanted the steak well then obviously it did matter right and when I
02:50:56Andrew Wilsonsaid it doesn't matter I wasn't being um well let's say honest right I wasn't quite in the frame of honesty there
02:51:04Andrew Wilsonbecause uh you know it did matter didn't it yeah in that scenario yeah so then the thing is is that can you give me a
02:51:14TTS / donation readerscenario where you say something $200 if the the person I share my body with matters then it should matter how many people the person I share my body with have been with in the past so my
02:51:27Andrew Wilsonbody count would matter just as much vice versa yeah wouldn't but I mean wouldn't my wife kind of go and you know maybe in that situation I wouldn't even be being dishonest maybe I just didn't know right maybe I didn't know that it mattered
02:51:40Andrew Wilsonright maybe I maybe that's what it is maybe I wasn't intentionally lying or something like this it just I I just didn't realize that it did actually matter but don't you think my wife would be like well what the [ __ ] you just said it didn't matter then then why does it
02:51:51Andrew Wilsonmatter suddenly I think that she would can you give me a scenario where somebody would say uh doesn't matter but then what when you ask him about it it
02:52:01Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)suddenly does matter I was referring to in the real is if I'm getting to know a man and he tells me like babe I had a whole phas but I'm more sexually disciplined now
02:52:13Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)I'm not going to judge him or look at him sideways and if he finds out my body count and he feels way about it then okay so then then let's be kind of being
02:52:24Andrew Wilsoncharitable then you're just saying in the situation of you in a personal relationship it doesn't matter but outside of that it does matter or does it just never matter like I I'm trying to figure this out just
02:52:37Andrew Wilsonbecause I don't want to share my body count number doesn't mean well it must matter there must be some reason matters to you right my privacy matters so that's the part yeah
02:52:49Andrew Wilsonso then so then so then it must matter like what for instance um I have blue eyes it doesn't matter to me that you know that I don't care right it's it's a it doesn't matter at all um that you
02:53:01Andrew Wilsonknow that I have blue eyes so that I mean I guess if I was on the phone with somebody they didn't know that I had blue eyes I would be fine saying I have blue eyes because it doesn't matter to
02:53:12Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)me that is a phys physical Char characteristic you could tell so was a body count that's a physical characteristic it requires how how could you tell if I have five bodies versus 50 how can you tell I I could at least take
02:53:25Brian Atlasyou at your word but you don't even want to give at your word right see them in the eyes because it matters that much the the it's called the Thousand [ __ ] stare sometimes you see it in a girl you
02:53:36Andrew Wilsonlook in her eyes it's like that's there's been a lot even I can't even disbelieve you because it matters so much to you you won't even share it glazed over look
02:53:49Andrew Wilsonit's really it's just really weird to be like girls ladies ladies body count doesn't matter and they go okay what's your body count and you're like well I'm not telling you I said baby not ladies baby you're body count don't matter yeah
02:54:02Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)well I mean who are you talking to you're talking to ladies I'm talking to coed but I'm mostly talking to like my future I got I got the question I got the question for you okay okay go ahead
02:54:14Brian Atlaswould you date a guy who slept with men previously so he's um yeah like a week ago he just got his
02:54:25Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)back blown out son that wouldn't be my preferred candidate because I'm not going to lie that's not why is it because he had sex recently or is it because he had sex
02:54:35Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)recently with with a dude it's not that he had it more recently is the it would
02:54:44Brooklynlike raise an eyebrow because now it's getting just getting tapped from behind she doesn't want to think that she's checking out the same like they're checking out the same man together yeah
02:54:56Brian AtlasI see and I have been with the bisexual man so oh okay and Brooke what about you like if a guy he's had a history of like sleeping with with dudes would you would
02:55:05Brian Atlasthat be an issue yes that that feeling that you guys feel that that's how we feel about girls who
02:55:15Brooklynwho sleep with dudes that's what about what about Les do you care if you're are you in a relationship H are you in a relationship I can't discuss my uh oh okay well if you were say you are say I
02:55:28Brian Atlasam sure and she said hey you know before we started dating you know I ate some coochie how do you feel I'd prefer I'd prefer to date a woman who's straight but I think there is a bit of a differential here
02:55:40Brian Atlasbut uh I would prefer to date um wait what no oh that's Andrew's answer yeah I'd prefer to date the Stray but look if she you
02:55:51Brian Atlasknow scissored a chick okay fine whatever you know whatever I'll give you a pass I'll give her a pass I'm a nice guy I'll give her a pass she gets the
02:56:01Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)pass scissored pass what about eating coochie still a pass what about dildo strapon I'll give her the
02:56:11Brian Atlaspass so how is so but it's well it's interesting to me I think men are more willing to date B sexual women then women are willing to date bisexual men there is a differential there women are
02:56:23Andrew Wilsondating bisexual men all the time they just don't know it yeah sure okay true so but I think women so you're saying that a bunch of women are dishonest is that what you're saying there's a bunch of women out there who
02:56:35Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)are dating their men and are not disclosing the fact that they're bisexual is that what no she's saying that a lot of women date men thinking they're straight but they don't know that deep down inside they crave some
02:56:48Brian Atlasdick they're bisexual word I do got to move it along we we're going to have to cap the reactions to all the clips to like 5 minutes stps so I'm going to be keeping track of reactions last clip then I'm opening up to the rest of panel
02:57:00Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)we lingered quite a bit on these other topics go ahead Nick oh God if someone calls you a hell it's honestly not a disc because do you know
02:57:10Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)what hell is it's a very beautiful woman that sells her toi so you know what that means she got deeper pockets than a lot of y'all so if someone's calling you ho they're saying you're a beautiful girl
02:57:22Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)with a lot of money and it's honestly not that big of a disc yeah you have sexual appeal and yeah a lot of men are going to be mad at it but they're going to find something to be mad at anyways H is heaven on Earth and if someone calls
02:57:34Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)you a ho so I will will say with this one this was also recap and rast and it was okay it was like a trolling real okay back at all the 304 comments I
02:57:46Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)would get like you're just a [ __ ] Howell you're a h so I was just making I was making a light out okay I'm a hoe that means I'm beautiful la la yeah you were I was just making fun of it you reclaiming yeah so you don't so you
02:57:57Andrew Wilsondon't actually think that being a ho is a good thing uh well about that I mean you don't actually think it's a good thing right cuz you were just trolling and funing right you you
02:58:09Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)was just funning right I feel like being a hoe does come with a lot of negative experiences and such so it's not the
02:58:20Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)most positive thing okay all right so it's a bad thing bad thing I wouldn't say it's completely bad but I wouldn't say it's completely good good well I don't know what that
02:58:31Andrew Wilsonmeans like is would you if if a woman said look I can be a hoe or I can not be a hoe which do you advise would you would you be indifferent or would you
02:58:41Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)advise them to not be a hoe I feel like it's situational if they were in a good situ ation that they were let's say let me just use an
02:58:53Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)example then they're a hoe they have one client they treat them very well it's a more comfortable situation then you have a hoe that has like various clients they all want to do stuff she's not
02:59:05Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)comfortable with she's constantly with different men that's different so it's situational like if a woman feels like like a sugar baby a sugar baby could be
02:59:15Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)a type of hoe I wouldn't say that's completely bad but someone who's having a lot of sexual experiences that they don't like that's going to
02:59:26Andrew Wilsonalter their brain and negatively impact them okay and then the second part of this because I didn't understand any of that but I won't press anymore um you said that that means that
02:59:38Andrew Wilsonthey're calling you a beautiful woman uh are you saying that ugly women can't be hoes I didn't say that okay so ugly women can be hoes yeah they can oh okay
02:59:49Andrew Wilsonthere are no ugly women Andrew yeah so when you said In that clip that means that they're calling you a beautiful woman well they're not really calling you a beautiful woman necessarily right
03:00:01Andrew Wilsonand like I said I was trolling and making fun of something well but not really because when I ask if you're fun in about it you're like well not really because I do endorse being a hoe under
03:00:13Andrew Wilsoncertain circumstances which are kind of evasive and preferential based and I don't really understand exactly what those conditionals are but just assuming that we Grant those conditionals it doesn't sound like you were trolling it
03:00:26Andrew Wilsonsounds like you're saying it is fine to be a hoe If you want to be a hoe that's what it sounds like well I guess you could say there's some truth in every joke so yeah okay all right moving on Dez I'm
03:00:38Brian Atlasgoing to bring you in for a moment you described yourself I don't know if you still do as a feminist um no I wouldn't say I'm a feminist wouldn't say it used to be though yeah it used to be for sure and
03:00:51Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)you had a t Tinder date gone wrong you want to tell us about um yeah it was like the one time that I
03:01:00Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)used Tinder and um basically I started dating this guy and he was like he was cool like we linked up like 20 minutes away from the
03:01:11Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)crib but that's like beside the point but it ends up being like um he lied about for one he stayed like 2 minutes from where I actually stayed so we like
03:01:22Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)went out the way to go do that but then he also didn't say he had a baby or a baby mama and um ended up coming out cuz she dm' me and then I just brought it all to light
03:01:34Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)and then I stopped um talking to him eventually over that but also I went back on there so this is like the one time I used Tinder but like you know the
03:01:44Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)experience in general um I started talking to another guy and mind you I end up being cool with this this other guy's Baby Mama because you know she told me you know and we just kind of
03:01:56Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)like became cool well um I was like babysitting for her and stuff cuz she was like she's going on a datea or whatever and like fast forward it turns
03:02:07Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)out that we was both talking to the same guy um like the baby mom and me was talking to the same guy aside from her actual like baby daddy um
03:02:18Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)it just got it was just messy like it was it's like something I laugh about now but it was definitely messy at the time she probably still want to fight me I don't know all right so you're no
03:02:29Andrew Wilsonlonger a feminist because I think previously you described yourself as a wait to light to lighten the mood real quick to lighten the mood I got to ask you okay everybody's demanding it in all
03:02:40Andrew Wilsonof these chats can you get right close to the mic and say cash me outside how about that can you do that catch me outside how about that all right thank you I appreciate light in
03:02:52Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)the mood why does everyone say should we get it from these two girls too I'm not yeah come on let's let's get it all in no you're a little Street kind of
03:03:02Brian Atlasright little Street you know I'll do it if you do it I'll do it how about okay all right you know look it's okay not everybody has it in fun no fun
03:03:15Brian Atlasnot everybody has it in them okay I'm going to move things to Lily actually wait before I come to Lily I want to but I got to wait till she's back okay Lily you said you met a
03:03:26Brian Atlasguy randomly during spring break in Mexico yes I did crazy 3-day spring break fling yes in Sita Mexico what that in Sita yeah that's like where everyone
03:03:39UCSB guest (unnamed)like went for their College spring break and you he wrote a song about you yeah so wow that's beautiful basically we just like were at a club in and then my friend was like oh you should invite him to the next bar I was
03:03:51UCSB guest (unnamed)like okay and we were just like dancing together and then we basically just had like a fling for essentially 3 days that's it it was just 3 days and then like when we were saying goodbye he's
03:04:02UCSB guest (unnamed)like I feel so connected to you like this like what is happening right now I like I don't know but I want to go back home cuz it's like 4:00 a.m. and so we keep texting while like after spring
03:04:14UCSB guest (unnamed)break cuz he's also from Canada he's not from the US and and so we keep texting and then he's like oh I also wanted to share something with you and I was like oh okay like I didn't know what to expect and then he sends me this like
03:04:27UCSB guest (unnamed)Google Drive of a song he wrote about our whole experience in Sita Mexico do you have it should we play it or no is that I think we can play it you got I have it on my phone I want it you want
03:04:40UCSB guest (unnamed)it yeah yeah yeah get the phone yeah let's hear it can somebody get what's your phone look like what's your phone look like it has fruits on the case is it did you like the song It's a banger yeah
03:04:50UCSB guest (unnamed)it I was like honestly so curious cuz I feel like it could be such a turn off if he's a bad singer is that actually good yeah but I couldn't it's kind of hard to
03:05:00UCSB guest (unnamed)understand him so I had to like a Mumble rapper no it's a Mumble he's not a Mumble rapper he's not a Mumble raer okay let's hear it get that get it P okay I got to pull it up I got to pull
03:05:11Brian Atlasit up okay that's fine while we're waiting on that I want to ask everybody if they've ever had a Rost or
03:05:22Brooklynif they currently or ever had a roster starting with you go ahead uh I talked to like three guys once for
03:05:33Brooklynone week and by the end of the week everyone was done just texting and stuff wait and so you said you've been single for three years sell a bit for two so there's no guys in the picture right now
03:05:47Brian Atlasno but I mean you know you're you live in uh well in Inland Empire is that considered La no that's its own County right okay it's like what an hour away from LA or 40 minutes oh it's close okay
03:05:59Brian Atlasand it's even closer to yeah so you're in a pretty major like pretty densely populated area yes yeah uh you're young attractive you've got social media
03:06:10Brian Atlaspresence sure there's a lot of guys who sliding into the DMS maybe they je go je party like go out to bars and clubs and [ __ ] uh we get paid to do hostings so
03:06:22Brian Atlasyes we go out how how often would you say you go out to bars and clubs every weekend no definitely not Friday Saturday uh maybe like once twice a month once twice a month but we travel
03:06:34Brian Atlaswe just got back from Miami you know we Miami okay yeah uh so there's no guys in the picture currently not even a guy you're texting or talking to no okay why
03:06:46Brooklynis that uh just I don't really have any interest in talking to men kind of it feels like copy and paste a lot of
03:06:58Brooklynthe time copy and paste what do you mean it's almost as if I have to work on myself and um you know I had to become a different type of person attract a different type of
03:07:11Brooklynman okay because if it's copy and paste that means I'm just meeting the same type of person in a different body do you have a type uh I have a type
03:07:22Brian Atlasbut I'm not like oh if they don't meet these requirements I want to ask your friend Orit no you guys are sister like fake sisters or realister like real real
03:07:33Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)sisters real sisters okay what's her type the best way to describe it is a teddy bear teddy bear like appearance
03:07:44Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)wise yeah thank you Josh uh so like uh dad thought she's into that they have to be um significantly taller they have to
03:07:56Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)have a beard and they could be any race huh they can be what they could be any race really
03:08:05Brian Atlasmaybe not size race oh race so you'll date like white you she likes white white middle eastern black wait question your boyfriend of eight years uh white
03:08:16Brian Atlasguy French and Turkish so like olive olive skin a little bit okay
03:08:25Brooklynright turke season chicken seasoned chicken okay mhm all right uh okay so there's this man is just parting
03:08:36BrooklynI've seen him go through cigarettes now he's drinking a be oh he's he's he's turning up Andrew's leg what's WR wait what what's wrong with smoking cigarettes and drinking beer there's
03:08:47Brooklyndefinitely a lot wrong with uh smoking a cigarette but but the drinking the beit don't you guys Endor hang on you endorse prostitutes you're worried about me smoking I just it's just it's okay to
03:08:58Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)smoke a pole but not a cigarette come on lady that's F let's get together let's get it together wait but don't you guys work in cannabis cannabis isn't isn't that worse than no no it's not I think
03:09:11Andrew Wilsonit's worse than cigarettes I think it's worse than cigarettes why you I accidentally kicked something and it was no I'm kidding I'm
03:09:20Andrew Wilsonkid okay uh all right wait wait hang on okay so what's your criticism mean guy smokes and drinks is that the criticism mean mean guy on the screen he smokes
03:09:30Andrew Wilsonand drinks did I say you were mean what's that did I say you were mean I don't know you you're giving me the look like you think I'm mean you're give me that I think you're a mean guy look I
03:09:41Brian Atlasgiving her the mean yeah no I never said that okay uh do you have you ever had a roster a roster roster like talking to Bare
03:09:53Brian Atlaslike bare minimum talking to multiple guys at the same time no never never always one at a time okay what about you yes had a roster yes I I feel like you
03:10:03Brian Atlasgot Riz you got that sleeper RZ though where people like sleeper Riz is like they don't think you got Riz but you got Riz oh okay I can see that yeah you could underestimate me you that's right
03:10:16Brian Atlasthat's what happens they underestimate made you next thing you know boom R next thing you know they're in love they're in love um so you had the roster how many what how big was the roster um I
03:10:25Brian Atlascan't recall do you know maybe like five five was it more than was it more than five no okay ever had a
03:10:34Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)roster yes yeah how B how big I can't even remember it was like 20 no no no it's okay if it's big and definitely these are just like talking to like my
03:10:45Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)roster is never like you know m I would say like seven seven how many like smashing though one just one always one but it's like I always entertain something my girl Liz what's up how yes
03:10:57LizzyI did you had the roster yes how big was the roster um typically about three or four three or four yeah and that's like hooking up with yes I don't just talk if
03:11:08Brian Atlasyou're talking you're y you're having sexual inforse I was trying to find something more clever to say but uh okay so the most at one time was four four at
03:11:19Brian Atlasthe same time well not like they're all there together no no not but like in a like a fortnite in a fortnite 14 days
03:11:28Lizzyhow how much we in 14 oh jeez like Al I don't know like one a week so two oh only two in a fortnite yeah fortnite yeah mhm I had to work I didn't have
03:11:39Brian Atlastime every night to do stuff you never done two in the day no oh wait a minute uhoh you know what yes I did I did I forgot two in a day I'm sorry it's okay it's not that I've [ __ ] I've Heard more
03:11:51Andrew Wilsonthan that I heard six in a day once so you that's rookie numbers right there you got you got pumped that up we heard we heard about uh what was it one who did hundreds and hundreds in like a week
03:12:04Brian Atlaswe' heard some crazy [ __ ] that lady who was in um she's Australian I think anyway yeah they those I don't know what's going on in Australia she was the uh the kangaroo
03:12:14UCSB guest (unnamed)[ __ ] right [ __ ] that is a crime Andrew it is a crime okay what about you ever had a roster um like once when I
03:12:24UCSB guest (unnamed)was going through my little hinge phase but it was also like Destiny yeah Hing the dating app yeah the dating app um like Destiny it was like I was talking to multiple people but it wasn't like I was sleeping with multiple people how
03:12:37Brian Atlasbig was your roster like four or five four five okay yeah what about you no what about your friend that was too shy to be on the show does she have she's got Riz right she's got game does she she does she does yeah but she's not a
03:12:48Lena / Destiny / Stie (mixed)[ __ ] so yeah well that's I wasn't saying that I think you have a roster kind no just asking if she had a does she have a roster right now no she got a
03:12:57Brian Atlasboyfriend I don't know oh boy I don't know see you don't want to say because she's got a roster you don't want to throw her under the bus she's not like that she's not
03:13:09Brian Atlasseeing a guy right now she's respectable she's not seen a she's she's not there's no carnal knowledge of a man currently I don't know isn't this like your home girl yeah it is you guys don't talk about this you're
03:13:21Brian Atlasprobably on the drive she pleads the fifth okay respect the silence no I haven't had it okay all right uh where were we we're getting into the notes oh I'm going to bring it over to you now so
03:13:32Brian Atlasour good friend kelse oh Lily song oh yeah let's play the song okay Play the song then we get to Kelsey do I just like hold my phone up yeah hold it up to the mic just like that just should I turn the volume all
03:13:44Brian Atlasthe way up uh we can adjust it but yeah should be fun okay don't show the don't show the screen or the screen to the
03:13:58UCSB guest (unnamed)camera is that a ukulele I have no idea I have no idea is this copyright
03:14:12Background[Music] probably in the
03:14:38Backgroundhome we were drinking and kissing all [Applause] I've heard enough I've heard enough you
03:14:50Brian Atlasknow what he reminds me of he kind of has MC DeMarco's voice get this man a record deal get him a [ __ ] record deal he's probably going to get a record deal sweet he made a song that is very sweet beautiful now here's the crazy
03:15:02Brian Atlas[ __ ] though what if he that's he does that same [ __ ] to all the chicks he's talking to oh babe I like you so much let me
03:15:13Brooklynjust he could be doing that I someone made a a verse for me in a song but he talks about a lot of other girls so it's like but I know which
03:15:22Brian Atlasone's specifically mine is it Drake is it Drake that made it yeah I wish you would you would what Drake's are I I
03:15:33Brian Atlascould set you up if you're done Drake's my man I got connects in Canada so okay although isn't he in trouble kind of I don't know anyways all right Drake is
03:15:44Brian Atlasher type that's my man a drake is your type that's my man yeah like he could just be doing anything like oh my God rapper a type okay that man is my man
03:15:55Brian Atlasokay all right did you see his that leak video yes I have it uh saved in my phone do you watch it before you go to bed every
03:16:05Brooklynnight I have like 33,000 photos and videos in my phone so I you know when I where it is yeah just right before bed yes you just watch him with his meat can yeah yeah like when I'm when I'm
03:16:18Brooklynscrolling through my thing if I come by I always stop by it you good times good times all right we're getting
03:16:27TTS / donation readerto Kelsey yes all right Kelsey oh killer of cereal donated $200 for everyone would you rather date a person of the sex you're not
03:16:38TTS / donation readerinterested in or date your perfect person but they have three of everything arms legs etc etc a little spider B have three of
03:16:50Brian Atlaseverything wait three would you rather date a person of the sex you're not interested in of but they have three of everything arms
03:17:00Brian Atlaslegs man i' yeah I'd still date the woman I wouldn't date the man cuz the man has kind of three things I don't know
03:17:14Brian Atlasokay was terrible ladies three legs here just show up hands would you ra like man with would you rather date a man with three of all appendages or a woman
03:17:26Brian Atlasor a chick who's normal okay I think the answer is man okay Kelsey getting to your notes you said your first boyfriend was at 23 24
03:17:37Brian Atlasmhm is that correct yeah and you lost your virginity to him is that at 23 I think is what you said okay uh but he turned out to have a lot of those red
03:17:47Brian Atlaspill ideologies how long did you date him for uh four months four months um and he apparently he was pretty out there pretty crazy a little crazy okay
03:17:59Brian Atlasyou said in terms of his views on body count parab bonding and he also racist too racist yeah that came up eventually a little racist yeah he didn't like white people he said he would rather
03:18:11Brian Atlashave his girlfriend wait uh hold on let me before you say it he would just uh say it without saying the Race part he would rather what have
03:18:23Brian Atlashis girlfriend cheat on him with a dog then okay I yeah okay was he a white guy mixed he was what he was mixed half
03:18:34Brooklynwhite half Filipino wait I'm sorry said he rather his no but can I say the be she
03:18:45Brian Atlasinsinuate it the the b word no that's what we're trying to oh all right well you get it damn that's crazy okay good times
03:18:56Brian Atlasum so okay views on body count pair bonding you ended up with a restraining order he held you hostage for 24 hours yes broke into your
03:19:06Brian Atlasemails tried to prove you cheating on them yeah damn that's crazy um what so really quickly was were what were his views on body count and Par bonding um
03:19:18Brian Atlasthat it's okay for a man to sleep with a bunch of chicks and but not for a woman okay so like the Andrew Tate kind of
03:19:25Brian Atlasstuff sure okay all right and uh so kind of has a restraining order is it still
03:19:35Brian Atlasactive no anyways moving on so uh so okay you sent a video then you sent a transcript
03:19:46Brian Atlaskind of of the video yeah I could read it as you sent it to me or I could just have you restate your positions oh I could try to restate it I might need a
03:19:56Kelseydrink for this conversation um and there's a lot here yeah I just kind of rolled out of bed and wrote it um maybe it's better to read
03:20:08Brian Atlasit okay so there's a couple different versions of it but you there's a couple so well you sent like you sent two different videos then yeah you sent them anyways transcript here you fill in if
03:20:21Brian Atlasif there's anything I leave blank you fill it in so you said you had a controversial opinion culturally socially men and women are conditioned to be shaped in different ways women are
03:20:31Brian Atlasmore often to be victimized men more often to be victimizers abusers and men are more likely to see their behavior as normal and women are
03:20:41Brian Atlasnot or um not putting them at risk hold on I wrote that down wrong one
03:20:52Brian Atlassec I'm just sorry one sec guys I'm trying to get there's like it was sent to me in like millions of different ways
03:21:04Kelseyum I mean do you want to just articulate your position because it is your position not mind yeah I know but I'm just having uh
03:21:14Kelseytrouble articulating myself right now but in general yeah I think I fall under the opinion that we are kind of conditioned by a variety of forces throughout our life and I think that it
03:21:25KelseyI mean in any society there's things that are normalized and we're blind to those things because this is a society that were calibrated to and you wouldn't really otherwise think any differently unless you can take a step back and try
03:21:37Kelseyto look at them from a different perspective is there any chance we can get you to move a little closer to your mic sorry is that better yeah thank you yeah yeah it's it's way better do you have anything that you would like to
03:21:49Kelseyaddress specifically or that where you would like me to expand on or okay so I guess this is from the text you said uh I
03:22:01Brian Atlasthink hold on I'm just reading it here uh you said for men I think they are shaped into ways that put them into the role of the
03:22:11Brian Atlasabuser um and so I'm a little confused by that that um you said you said I think men are incentivized to view behaviors that are damaging and even
03:22:23Brian Atlascruel towards women as normal I think this is partially accomplished through exploiting natural biological features of males specifically but also humans generally men are conditioned to tie their
03:22:36Brian Atlasselfworth and to learn to Value themselves based on the quality and quantity of women and sex they were able to obtain combine this with hypersexualization
03:22:46Brian Atlasof men by exploiting corrupting their child brains through adult content exposure typically at a young age I'm not going to get into that but um it makes it easy and effortless
03:22:59Brian Atlasfor a lot of men to objectify and sexualize women without
03:23:06Kelseyrestraint do you disagree with that you don't think that it's very common in our society for men to I'm just reading what you're saying I'm asking if you do disagree with it
03:23:17Brian AtlasI well I disagree that men are groomed into being abusers I think abusers was a strong word and I shouldn't have said that well you used it multiple
03:23:26Kelseytimes by abuse I would I'm defining it as the misuse or improper treatment of women in sex okay
03:23:40Kelseyum well I mean I can just continue reading but you could just offer up what your actual position is so I think that men a lot of like how
03:23:49Kelseyour society is is that it ties a man's self worth to women in terms of you're very quiet so just please very close to sorry I think that a lot of men have
03:24:01Kelseytheir self worth tied to sex and women and the quality and quantity that they can obtain and I think that causes people to behave in irrational ways uh but it would seem it would seem
03:24:13Andrew Wilsonto me and you can correct me if I'm wrong um I do get kind of the strong Vibe based on and this is a Vibe check right but I do get kind of a Vibe based on uh what you've said earlier in the
03:24:25Andrew Wilsonconversation that you might be a little bit more on the leftist Progressive side would that be kind of accurate to say yeah yeah okay um so I'm guessing that you believe in in some kind of
03:24:37Andrew Wilsonevolutionary model yes yeah so I mean if that's the case then wouldn't status and uh which is Rel to
03:24:47Andrew Wilsonreproduction um be a thing which would be very evolutionarily advantageous yeah well then why wouldn't Society conduct itself around
03:24:59Kelseythat I think status is a normal thing to desire but I do think that it is kind of exploited in our society what do you mean we're I think there's a lot of indicators when you're
03:25:12Kelseygrowing up that tell you as a man that if you don't have a woman in your life or if you aren't able to sleep with a bunch of women that you're not a high value man yeah but from an evolutionary
03:25:23Andrew Wilsonstandpoint reproduction is the primary edict right yeah so then the man who reproduces the most would have the most status that kind of makes the most sense
03:25:33Andrew Wilsondoesn't it sure so I mean it it so then it seems that if reproduction is the primary edict and and having sex with lots of women we could assume leads to
03:25:44Andrew Wilsonlots of reproduction I why would I still don't understand why Society wouldn't kind of forment or forment itself around that right I think that it makes sense that it would form itself around that
03:25:53Andrew Wilsonbut I'm I think it's also overemphasized in a way that well I mean we have a we have a birth rate crisis right like shouldn't shouldn't we be having more babies not less babies so I
03:26:05Andrew Wilsonmean wouldn't wouldn't reproduction in the primary edict matter here like wouldn't that matter a lot but like all biological all
03:26:14Andrew Wilsonbiological entities are ultimate purpose is to reproduce right mhm so if that's the case and man wants to
03:26:25Andrew Wilsonreproduce a lot which is what he was evolved to do assigning status to that seems like it makes a lot of sense I think it makes sense but I think it also can lead to people doing
03:26:38Andrew Wilsonquestionable things in order in the pursuit of that status yeah sure but I mean anything you would assign status to could be the case right like like anything literally anything having two
03:26:48Andrew Wilsonpennies in your pocket and that is somehow a status marker for for Humanity would still lead to all sorts of different outlier problems right sure
03:26:59Andrew Wilsonyeah so I mean I I don't really understand why this is a but it's a big problem it seems like it's evolutionarily advantageous I think the idea is reinforced that you don't have value unless you have beautiful women in
03:27:11Andrew Wilsonyour life or if you're unable to have sex with many women yeah right but I mean if you're not adhering to the primary edict wouldn't you have less value the point is to reproduce right
03:27:22Andrew Wilsonwhat if you're doing it and you're not reproducing yeah so I mean that does bring up a whole different can of worms which is what happens when you uh allow a society to fornicate without
03:27:34Andrew Wilsonreproduction it seems to lead to terrible outcomes I completely agree with that but uh but the question Still Remains I don't really understand how you would organize a society if
03:27:46Andrew Wilsonreproduction is the goal uh without assigning status to those who reproduce I don't I don't really even know how you could do
03:27:56Kelseythat I think in some ways that by tying like overstressing or emphasizing this like how we tie our self worth or value ourselves based upon sex and women is
03:28:08Kelseykind of what contributes to the problems that we're having between men and women okay because men are doing everything thing to try to access sex or like have sex with as many women as they
03:28:20Andrew Wilsoncan and using women and betraying women then it's going to leave a lot of women in a position where they're I mean aren't they evolved to do just that aren't they evolved to spread their seed far and wide to as many women as
03:28:31Kelseypossible isn't that hugely advantageous to humanity I think what's hugely advantageous is for two parents to raise their child together that is the most likely well I mean that's going to require reproduction and Status so so
03:28:44Andrew Wilsonlike let me give you an example what I mean let's say a man has a family has a wife and he has four children and that man acquires more status in society because
03:28:54Andrew Wilsonhe has a wife and four children and we adhere to that and we say oh man that's that's a some kind of status indicator do you think that men would be more likely or less likely to do
03:29:04Andrew Wilsonthat I think men would be more likely to pursue that yeah exactly I agree I think that men would be far more likely to pursue that so then why wouldn't we instead of the progressive Mantra push
03:29:16Andrew WilsonSociety towards that family unit and give it status like that makes no sense to me I think right now we live in a society where people are valuing
03:29:28Andrew Wilsonthemselves on materialistic possession I totally agree with you on that and I think that includes turning women into materialistic possession I completely agree with that too but I think that that's not because of status I would say
03:29:41Andrew Wilsonit's because the opposite of that right so if you had higher status if you didn't value material ISM wouldn't less people value it if you had say that again so if you had a higher status in
03:29:53Andrew Wilsonsociety by not valuing materialism wouldn't less people value it yeah yeah so I mean it seems like we should instead of saying we should get away
03:30:03Andrew Wilsonfrom you know status seems like status isn't really the problem but rather what we're valuing that gives a person this status in society yeah I think I would I would definitely agree with that yeah
03:30:14Kelseysounds family is the thing that has the most or should have the most status right yeah I would agree with that but I think the point I'm trying to the thing I'm trying to point out is that in our society that is that's not what we value
03:30:25Andrew Wilsonwe value material possession and money and yeah but that's because of feminism right I would disagree well I don't understand are feminists the ones who are out there who value the nuclear family cuz last I
03:30:38Kelseychecked they were doing everything they can to dismantle it I don't I don't I don't know what all feminists believe okay well are you a feminist I I mean I've never considered myself one but I I
03:30:48Andrew Wilsonprobably would if you sat me down and try to find okay so feminism is a rejection of patriarchy that's that's what it is at its core right sure but I'm getting married and going to I'm
03:31:00Kelseyhaving children so yeah I know but do you re you can be feminist and still value a family unit loyalty monogamy and raising children and yeah you can be a feminist and value all but you would you
03:31:12Andrew Wilsonfeminism is a rejection of patriarchal system they reject patriarchal like for you and your husband let let's give an example do you want you and your husband to be
03:31:23Andrew Wilsonequals yes okay well that's feminism so that's not that's not an Embrace of a patriarchal system you're not saying I want my husband to be the head of the household I want to be equal with my husband right but we live in a
03:31:37Kelseypatriarchy I'm sorry you're saying that the problems we're having are due to feminism and I I don't understand how you're making that connection when we live in a patriarchy do you think that the patriarchy is stronger or weaker than it was 100 years
03:31:53Andrew Wilsonago probably just as strong really yeah so you think that women going into the workforce and things like this enabled the patriarchy I think if the patriarchy you
03:32:05Andrew Wilsonthink 100 years ago we had as many female leaders we had as many females who were in charge of different systems who are CEOs who were in charge of corporate you really believe that no but I mean isn't the point patriarchy that it's the people at the very top that are
03:32:18Kelseycontrolling everything and the people at the very top are like predominantly men always scalable like it's scalable right so you can have the people at the very top but it goes all the way down to the family the family unit with the man
03:32:29Brian Atlasbeing held in the charge of the family unit and not the woman so the responsibility tends to fall on the man right that's why women didn't have bank accounts they didn't have credit lines things like that hey Andrew our oh I think our Internet's back sorry our
03:32:42Brian Atlasinternet crapped out there for a couple seconds Andrew you get getting us it's still kind of yeah I got you it's looks like it's getting sorry
03:32:52Brian Atlasguys I don't know what no no don't don't oh it's kind of crapping out Andrew you still got us I still got you I don't know sorry
03:33:02Andrew Wilsonsomething's full minute yeah the uh the quality went way down hold on we're we're just give us just one sec
03:33:14Brian Atlashere uh while we're waiting on that just going around the table do you consider yourself a feminist wrong with you I would say humanist humanist okay no into
03:33:26Brian Atlasthe mics guys you you can't wave you got to speak no no no no recovered recovered feminist okay
03:33:36Brian Atlasuh wow we're still get our Internet's pretty spotty here uh is it going to recover it keeps dropping and going back
03:33:46Brian Atlasand forth oh now it's doing really well it's gone super [ __ ] s hold on but you can still hear us
03:33:57BackgroundAndrew it's peculiar to rec especially I we're going to have to recall him yeah can you pull up the chat is the chat still getting
03:34:12Brian Atlasus the matriarchy is attacking us the m it's the matri no I don't know we can't hear Andrew though Brian can you hear me I can hear you yeah I just had myself
03:34:22Andrew Wilsonmuted that's all oh okay but yeah I haven't lost you guys at all and the the spottiness of the internet has it's greatly increased so I think we're good now I think it it looks green I'm sorry guys I don't know we lost a lot of
03:34:34Brian Atlasviewers there unfortunately but hey it is what it is um all right we're back okay so again I might have to call Andre I'm probably going have to reload stre why
03:34:46Brian Atlaswhat's wrong with uh I don't want to explain it you just have trust us okay that's fine do you want to recall them now and then I'll uh yeah oh let's no it works we're good okay it's fine yeah don't don't do it
03:34:58Brian Atlasunless we have to well let me just go back to I guess your original notes here so I mean you said that you think men are kind of on the opposite side where men are are
03:35:08Brian Atlasencouraged to be more sexually deviant or just abusive towards women and you think it creates a weird dynamic mhm so me you're saying men are more encour
03:35:19Brian Atlasare kind of encouraged to be more sexually deviant or just abusive towards women do you think men or women are more sexually deviant men or women yeah I
03:35:29Brian Atlasthink men men yeah you know the book 50 Shades of Gray yeah yeah who predominantly who bought those books one
03:35:39Brian Atlasof the best selling books of all time women women yeah the book where he's in in a BDSM Dynamic with her and I think my
03:35:50Kelseyinterpretation of that I've never read the book sist I think my interpretation of that is is perhaps woman Desiring a man whose sole attention is on her and not on various other women what about
03:36:02Brian Atlasthe BDSM Dynamic where he's a sadist I don't [ __ ] know that's not part of it I don't know when you uh when you say
03:36:10Kelseydeviant sexually deviant what do you mean just a partner or preferences or kind of kind of unpack that a little bit for us I think I'm just getting at the
03:36:22Aliciatendency of men to um objectify women and sexualize women do you think women sexualize women women sexualize themselves yeah so if
03:36:33Aliciathere wasn't such a predominance of women uh showing themselves on the internet and all of this wouldn't the sexual deviance of men be also down
03:36:44Kelseybecause they're not being flooded with imagery and um just vulgarity from women yeah I think it would be good if all women would stop doing porn um but I don't
03:36:56Brian Atlasthink that women are creating the demand for it they're creating the Supply right I'll give you I want to give you
03:37:06Brian Atlasan anecdote so I'm not inclined to choke women the amount of women who have requested that I choke them is
03:37:16Brian Atlasa lot mhm it occurs to me that it seems like it's actually the women who are a bit more sexually deviant than men are I've
03:37:27Kelseyheard from many women that they have gone on dates and had sex with a man for the first time and the man puts his hand on her neck without even asking about
03:37:38Kelseyit okay I'm I'm saying the opposite is true I mean that's been your experience you've had women that have asked you to do that but then there's also been plenty of men that have just gone and took upon themselves same thing it's
03:37:49Kelseyprobably both okay I'm not saying like the problems in society are more men men's fault than women's fault I'm saying I think that we are kind of put into this Behavior where we're yeah I think I'm I think I'm kind of willing to
03:38:02Andrew Wilsonengage with this I think where you're I I understand where you're going here uh that men when you say that men sexualize women more than women sexualized men you mean that men when they categorize women were looking at things like aesthe what
03:38:14Andrew Wilsonthat are aesthetically pleasing to us right so almost every woman we meet uh maybe in the back of our head we think I do her right or something like that something like more akin to that is that
03:38:26Kelseywhat you're saying not necessarily I mean I think that's probably part of it I think there are a lot of men that think that it's just completely normal to immediately start fantasizing about a
03:38:37Andrew Wilsonwoman that they find attractive rather than just having I don't I don't even know if they're fantasizing but maybe they just have like a knee-jerk reaction or that just pops into their head right or something yeah that's fine but I
03:38:48Andrew Wilsonthink a lot of people think it's okay to indulge in that yeah yeah I I would agree but the thing is is again wouldn't this be evolutionarily advantageous for men to want to have sex with lots of
03:39:00Andrew Wilsonwomen and so they judge them based on their physical appearance and the beauty standards that they have tend to coincide with how healthy they would be for Offspring right sure like I think I
03:39:10KelseyI agree that these things have a natural basis but I think that they are like extenuated or exacerbated by society and the but the question is when you're talking about this
03:39:22Andrew Wilsonexacerbation it seems that the exacerbation has gone the opposite way of reproduction which is very strange to me so you would think that if men were out there being sexual deviant and just having sex with tons of women there'd be a lot more kids but there's
03:39:38Andrew Wilsonnot yeah yeah well my question is why do you think that there isn't because women are in birth control
03:39:45Andrew Wilsoncontrol yeah and who pushed birth control probably feminists from what era I don't know be the that would be the sexual
03:39:58Andrew WilsonRevolution so the thing that you're upset about which is the promiscuity issue that was brought to you by women brought to you by women and the sexual
03:40:07Andrew Wilsonrevolution of hey uh all this Chastity stuff well that's that's all bad women should be able to bang as many dudes as they want this is a good thing and that
03:40:17Andrew Wilsonnow they can because of birth control right that was part of the freeing mechanism so just just pointing that out I think male promiscuity was also more
03:40:28Andrew Wilsonaccepted back in the day well and just throughout history it no well it really wasn't do you want to know why why it wasn't sure because if you don't have birth control what is the natural
03:40:39Andrew Wilsonoutcome of sexual intercourse baby yeah babies and so if men weren't taking care of their baby there was also a natural outcome as well there was an enforcement mechanism the woman's family would do things like you
03:40:51Andrew Wilsonknow beat the [ __ ] out of him uh they would have what were called shotgun weddings there was all sorts of different things that would happen but what there was an enforcement mechanism which basically said if you make Offspring You're going to have to take care of The Offspring You're going to have to take care of the woman that you
03:41:03Kelseyhad The Offspring with those were natural mechanisms in society I don't think like Mistresses or brothel were entirely uncommon back then they're not entirely uncommon now
03:41:15Andrew Wilsonvery not uncommon now but yeah very not uncommon now but that's my point right is that once you let the genie out of the bottle with a sexual Revolution thing and then you have the mechanism of
03:41:26Andrew Wilsonbirth control so that there's no effect of the sexual intercourse anymore it's just pure pleasure in Hedonism like what the hell do you think is going to happen of course this is exactly what's going to happen what else could there be I you
03:41:39Kelseycan have all the fun with none of the responsibility like what did you think would happen to society I don't think the attitudes that men are more able to step out on their wives or able to sleep
03:41:49Andrew Wilsonaround is is something that's new yeah but so what like I mean monogamy is brought to you by Christianity right monogamy is brought to you by religion it's a religious enforcement mechanism so there's no more
03:42:02Kelseyleft behind men that necessarily religious enforcement mechanism I think a lot of monogamy is also just evolutionarily advantageous well hypergamy would be well well okay but
03:42:12Andrew Wilsonthen religion would be evolutionarily advantageous that's the point brought to you by religion and religion would be evolutionarily advantageous so if we're going to deduce this we can figure this
03:42:24Andrew Wilsonout right we can say okay so we evolve to be religious because religious people go for monogamy that's why you would evolve that way right I mean not all religions are like that
03:42:35Andrew Wilsonthough but hang on the most predominant ones the most predominant religions on planet Earth in this case Christianity enforces monogamy is is it is yes I thought Islam was the most predominant
03:42:47Brian Atlaswell you're wrong the number one is Christianity number one I didn't know that here let's bring it back to you said that you think men are encouraged
03:42:57Kelseyto be abusive towards women what do you mean by abuse abusive I again I think that was a poor choice of words I meant I mean I already defined it it's the
03:43:07Brian Atlasimproper use and mistreatment of women okay um so they're not encouraged to be abusive towards
03:43:18Kelseywomen I they're encouraged to use and lie and manipulate and do what they can to get sex from women are women encouraged to do the same in order to extract
03:43:29Brian Atlasresources yeah I would say so okay well I guess you so long as you don't have a do you think a lot of men can do what you're
03:43:39Aliciadescribing yeah you think like majority of men have the capacity to be like sexual deviant and be able to sleep with many women I think I mean I don't know the
03:43:52Kelseyexact statistics but I think the vast majority of men watch pornography but that doesn't mean that they're being abusive towards women no not necessarily but I think they're engaging in an activity that requires you to objectify
03:44:05Kelseywomen and it requires you to overlook how women end up in that position of being porn stars in the first place but I guess what I'm wondering is
03:44:17Aliciadon't like I think even dating apps kind of show that most men don't have the capacity to uh meet up even meet up with a bunch of women so women are able to
03:44:29Aliciachoose and they're choosing this only like a select few percentage wise sorry I would say probably the majority of the damage is probably done by a minority of men not or would a
03:44:42Aliciamajority of the damage be done by majority women because they're the ones who actually have the capacity to be more promiscuous to be more manipulative because they have more
03:44:53Aliciaopportunity no I don't see how why if they have more sexual selection how would they not be more prone to being more manipulative because they have more capacity I when you have less selection
03:45:05Aliciathat is when you have to go and resort to things like manipulation and lying and coercion and pushing boundaries but if you're not even that top tier person like uh what we what women would consider consider attractive you don't even have the opportunity to do that
03:45:18Aliciaunless you're talking about something that's uh forceful which that's statistics don't bear out to be majority of men are like that I'm not saying that majority of men are like that I think that men are more likely to be put into
03:45:30Kelseythat position and I'm I'm trying to explain away the perceptions like why do women have this perception of men as being users or abusers or like why do women have this fear of men I'm not
03:45:42Aliciasaying it's the responsibility of all men but I'm saying that there's women have had this they're they're drawing from their own personal experiences you don't think they're drawing from maybe cultural uh pressure for Fe like when Andrew was saying
03:45:54Aliciafeminism kind of brought this feminism already positions a woman's worldview that they are oppressed therefore there has to be an oppressor right I think I mean I think that could definitely add
03:46:05Kelseyto to it where it's like it it feels a lot worse when you go through something um and you're or maybe you make a mistake on your own and um you are looking for an out a way to remove the
03:46:17Aliciablame from yourself yeah I think you can so you can complete that may your personal anecdotal experience is reflective of things that are happening more generally say that again you're saying that something that anecdotally might happen to you you're now
03:46:30Aliciaextrapolating and saying that this could happen more generally um I don't I don't think that's what I well that's what I'm trying to figure out because feminism is telling you you're oppressed you're a
03:46:41TTS / donation readerwoman so who would be oppressing you if you're a woman other women or men I think feminist argument would Bea donated $200 words have meaning unless it
03:46:54TTS / donation readercontradicts my position then it means two things at once where it is convenient for me lol whatever Andrew's mental endurance is insane thanks for