00:53:42Q (The Q Pill)going to be oh that's what I want to do he doesn't know you most guys when they get comfortable with you is when they feel comfortable enough to make a move on you and it's because you could send them signals to where they interpreted as you're interested you're finally
00:53:56Q (The Q Pill)along they get the confidence to actually do that most men don't have the confidence to even do that most men are scared to talk to women they don't even approach women they they they won't Express sexual
00:54:06Q (The Q Pill)interest a random man in the woods he see you hell he might be scared of you honestly and knowing modern women he like this [ __ ] might report me for rap I'm sorry great she might falsely report
00:54:18Q (The Q Pill)it I ain't touching her okay so that's something to consider I mean when y'all answering these questions you know remember that like Andrew said most of the time when this occurs it's by somebody you know yeah I
00:54:31Brian Atlasdidn't know that statistic so thank you for educating me on that I didn't know absolutely thank you Andrew did you uh have I think you're asking Emma here something because you said I really want to do the
00:54:43Andrew Wilsonbear versus man thing did you want to get into more of that or yeah I just I think I I just find it ironic that that you have kind of this concern
00:54:55Andrew Wilsonthat if a ROM man was just kind of pulled out of the entire demographic of the United States put in a forest with you that you would take a bear which of course pound for pound you do realize
00:55:06Andrew Wilsoncan te you to pieces very very quickly right yes I do know that okay but you have indeed gone and met with complete
00:55:16Andrew Wilsonstrangers who you even had terrible feelings about right and thought you were going to end up on the news and just kind of Justified it with well that's a hell of a way to go
00:55:27Emmaright it doesn't that seem a little contrary to your position that you would trust a strange bear over a strange man Carson can you close the doors uh I I
00:55:37Emmafeel like Bears don't have the intentions that men do and I think that men have sometimes especially if it's a stranger
00:55:48Alexhorrible intentions okay so I have a question like you said that you know you ignored all the red flags because he was gorgeous what what if it wasn't
00:55:58Alexabsolutely like 10 10 your perfect type Man versus a bear um probably probably him then yeah what
00:56:10Q (The Q Pill)kind of bear are we talking about black bear or a grizzly bear let's go Grizzly because y'all try to take the easy way out with bears that are less aggressive so let's go Grizzly opportunistic Predator omnivore and has been known to
00:56:23Q (The Q Pill)attack people and kill people when the opportunity is given let's go
00:56:32Andrew WilsonGrizzly I'll still try to cuddle with it you'll still try to cuddle with the grizzly 5et at the shoulder I think I can earn his trust 1,200 lb I mean I don't I still don't understand this
00:56:43Andrew Wilsoneither though because black bears are extremely dangerous they're in the top five right they're in the top five categories and it's like I this idea that oh it's a black bear it's fine
00:56:54Andrew Wilsonbecause black bears like the cute cuddly kind it's like they're they're still really really dangerous especially because they become acclimated to human beings cuz they feed them all the time mhm right so they get really comfortable
00:57:05Andrew Wilsonso it's like uh they're still really dangerous so just pointed I mean yeah Grizzlies are are more dangerous I I grant that but black bears are still
00:57:15Andrew Wilsonreally really dangerous I I don't I I would still just go with random
00:57:23Brian Atlasbear still bear everybody still bear I have a couple clarifying questions maybe these will help uh so I wonder if Austin do you know that video of like
00:57:33Brian Atlasthe bear Crossing on the road is I'm not sure uh let me it might be in the downloads folder but I don't know
00:57:42Brian Atlasexactly where it is if you can try to find it um so uh let's see okay you're on the top floor of a burning building for an
00:57:53Brian Atlasappointment there's two elevators you got to take the elevator to get down elevator one has bear in it elevator two has a man in it burning building you got to get down to the ground floor you got
00:58:05Brian Atlasto take the elevator which elevator do you pick the one with the bear or the one with the man in it and you're the only one there
00:58:14Alexand the man there's no other people the man man man in that case I would choose a man okay huh all right um hm
00:58:27Q (The Q Pill)interesting all right well the Bears would start freaking out like completely it's a burning building and and Brian is a burning building the man kind of get trying to get out too yeah so if you if you I mean not before there would be
00:58:40Q (The Q Pill)that time huh woman coming in the elevator Fire Woman definitely it's my last opportunity I might not make it out the whole point of this was that not every
00:58:51Turkishman has that intention back they don't the way I was think everyone wants to get off you wanted to talk about Emma you wanted to talk about hookup culture and
00:59:05Brian Atlastoxic relationships uh what about hookup culture did you have thoughts on it's all bad it's bad yes when's the last time you hooked up with
00:59:15Emmasomebody probably the last guy who I thought was going to kill me wait
00:59:23Emmaum the Asian guy yeah you said that was when 2019 or wait 21 or 2021 so like 3 years
00:59:34Emmaago yes wait you have you have not hooked up with somebody since then actually that's false you're a
00:59:44Emma[ __ ] liar you're a [ __ ] liar what what's false uh I actually have hooked up with a couple people um my ex that
00:59:54Emmawas with for a couple years the wait uh the two-year guy yeah two-ish it was off
01:00:02Emmaand on for another like two years I'd say is this after the no furniture murderer guy um it's kind of that was
01:00:12Brian Atlaskind of in between that H okay uh wait so when's the last time that you hooked up with
01:00:20Emmasomebody like last week no not last week probably like a year or two nobody in 2024 so think about 2024 nothing correct but like didn't you say
01:00:32Alexyou were like in a few situationships this year like were they not you didn't and they like were only like a week or two long yeah is do you not consider
01:00:43Brian Atlasthat hooking up no no you were just talking to him um yeah dating yeah you didn't sleep with him no okay there was no no carnal knowledge no I'm a nice girl for a second just to see how it
01:00:57Emmafeels wait what do you mean you're a nice girl um like I want a man to take me out on a DAT or a couple dates or a while oh boy right what unless you
01:01:09Andrew Wilsonunless you meet him on Tinder and show up to his house and right think he's a serial killer wait I'm just just curious
01:01:20Brian Atlasand hold on I don't even know how to approach this um so you're you said you're a nice girl correct and you want a guy to take you on a couple dates yeah and so what does that mean like you want
01:01:31Emmato want him to take you out to dinner or what what does that mean no just like date for a I feel like it's also about
01:01:41Emmalike not just the timing but I don't know how how to explain it but there's like a right time and a wrong time
01:01:51Emmaulation no um so what do you mean like there's a certain time in a relationship where I think like sex starts to happen
01:02:02Brian Atlasspecifically for me like it has to be a while before anything like gets anywhere so just to be clear you you have though been like you didn't hook up with them
01:02:11Brian Atlasbut you were dating them for a period of time yeah um what I'm assuming they wanted to have sex with you um probably
01:02:21Brian Atlasthey didn't try no they didn't try no maybe that's H yeah okay because this no furniture guy he
01:02:32Brian Atlastried with within an hour but I guess some guys move slower um so what is that point in a relationship a month in yeah I'd say a month two months three
01:02:43Brian Atlasmonths yeah okay and you said you wanted a guy to like go on some dates first yeah okay let's say you met up with the guy though on the first date and he you
01:02:53Brian Atlasliked him or whatever uh and he tried would you have sex with him or would you be like no no no I like you but like let's wait a bit is that something you
01:03:05Emmado or it it depends it depends on like what I'm feeling but probably not probably not mhm okay so you you have have there been guys who have tried to
01:03:17Brian Atlashook up with you and you're like not that I know of no I don't think so and you meet these guys on Tinder not always oh how were you said you were recently in
01:03:28Brian Atlasthe situationship was it a month ago you said yeah uh yeah about you guys didn't hook up no and it lasted a week a couple weeks couple weeks yeah he was trying to
01:03:40Emmahook up no how was this was he coming over did y'all go out did y'all have yeah we we
01:03:47Emmawalked on the beach a couple times we got like lunch did you kiss him did I yeah of course and he never tried to escalate to
01:03:58Emmaanything more I like introverted men so maybe that's why oh h a little shy maybe maybe they're like scared to make a move or something yeah
01:04:11Q (The Q Pill)that's definitely what it is you don't like men who take charge you don't like assertive men I mean sometimes but depending on how attractive he is no no
01:04:21Emmano I I feel like there's a specific like type of person that I like and it tends to be like the introverted men who don't make moves
01:04:33Brian Atlasthat often so here's a question though let's say the next guy that you meet and you uh I don't know how I don't know exactly all the circumstances of how it goes
01:04:45Brian Atlasdown but first time hanging out with him and you guys been hanging out for three hours you're at his place you guys start making out whatever and then he wants to take things further
01:04:56Emmauh would you take things further or would you be like no no no let's wait probably not I I don't know I think it also depends on specific scenario but
01:05:08Brian Atlasusually I would say no wait usually you would say no yeah to that yeah or I mean so just curious what was the I mean
01:05:17Brian Atlasthere was the the 62 gorgeous Asian guy uh did you have this position
01:05:27Q (The Q Pill)when you were talking with him no okay so back then you were like just kind of yeah totally I went with the flow and then what changed the other guys wasn't as
01:05:39Emmaattractive as the 62 Asian guy no no no that's not the case at all uh I don't know I think what I look for in men is
01:05:48Emmajust not someone who like makes a move the first time we hang out um yeah I I've also I think internally matured a
01:05:59Q (The Q Pill)lot to make that change why you don't want to feel like you're being used for sex or they're just after sure yeah okay
01:06:10Andrew WilsonI didn't know there was a debate going on right now it's like um oh yeah you talking about there's the a lot of flack for coming on
01:06:21Q (The Q Pill)tonight I probably would have pulled out too Brian uh but uh I guess like we this always comes up on the show
01:06:32Brian Atlasand it's always kind of I still haven't been able to perfectly articulate kind of why it rubs me the wrong way but Q maybe you can weigh in it's like so you
01:06:43Brian Atlastold us this story uh where you went over to a guy's house at 10: p.m. you just met him and you slept with him
01:06:51Brian Atlaswithin an hour correct and as a guy look it's your call as a woman if you could have slept with 100 men within 30
01:07:01Brian Atlasminutes of meeting them first first time and then the 100th one man number 101 you're going to make him wait until marriage you can do that like that's
01:07:12Brian Atlasyour choice as a woman but if I was the guy in that perspective if I was Guy potentially guy number 10 101 to come around I would not accept that in in so
01:07:23Brian Atlasfar as I just wouldn't it would would be such a like almost a slap in the face I'd just be like I'm not waiting for you goodbye I don't want to date you and so I guess I'm trying to like wrap my head
01:07:35Q (The Q Pill)around like that whole thing well I mean there's a couple factors that play um the first thing is closed mouths don't get fed so if a guy is with a girl and
01:07:48Q (The Q Pill)he doesn't make a move or he's not assertive then she's going to she's going to take the path of uh least resistance if he ain't asking and if he ain't trying she ain't going to give it up she ain't just going to throw herself at her see yeah I'm not talking like in her situation where she's dating these
01:08:01Brian Atlasintroverts that are scared to make a move like for example I've encountered this before where it's like you know I tend to vet the girls a little bit so I'll ask them about their past relationship history their dating history and they'll typically reveal
01:08:14Brian Atlasyeah I've had some one night stands flings here and there they'll say even as you know they'll even tell me how recently and then uh they'll be like well I want to get to know you better
01:08:24Brian Atlasand I want to wait uh three dates blah blah blah and all this [ __ ] and I'm like I'm just I lose interest I'm like okay well look I am interested in long-term relationship but I'm also not going to
01:08:35Brian Atlaswait 3 four five dates I'm not going to wait one two three months for sex because I not a virgin I'm not waiting you're not the Virgin either we're both adults like yeah women have these little
01:08:47Q (The Q Pill)episodes where they don't want to be they don't want to be seen as [ __ ] as well even if they are um it makes no sense to us as men but there are guys there are moments where women decide like I'm not going to do this again or
01:09:00Q (The Q Pill)they didn't like the fact that they got hooked they hooked up with a guy and the guy didn't stay around so they're like I'm not going to give up sex too quickly because we also got to remember sometimes the guys that women hook up with they probably do want to pursue something further with and the guy just
01:09:13Q (The Q Pill)doesn't want to so it's it's it's different scenarios it's it's different um um factors at play and as a guy of course you have the right to say no I would in that same situation I would do what you do like I'd be like no I'm not
01:09:25Q (The Q Pill)waiting and other guys didn't have to wait but I'm typically the guy who gets it when I want it as soon as I want it so I can't relate to the men who wait in line or who get denied sex so from that
01:09:37Q (The Q Pill)from your perspective I do understand but there are times where women are just like I want to change I want to be different I want somebody to court me I want somebody to romance me and they don't think about the fact that they've been [ __ ] in the past they don't they
01:09:49Brian Atlasdon't consider that and they don't care but the but I mean the thing with that though is that I don't actually even believe that that's that's even genuine
01:09:58Brian Atlasbecause if an attractive enough guy comes along and she knows even if he's uh direct about his casual intentions with her if he's attractive enough
01:10:10TTS/Chat readershe'll still and well make the rule she'll try L paladins donated $200 and2 it's not that confusing be women don't need to trust a man in order to
01:10:20TTS/Chat readersleep with a man stop swallowing your blue pill they are telling you that because because you give off Billy Vibes don't be a chump uh not necessarily not necessarily
01:10:32Q (The Q Pill)I mean but but let me say to your point what they'll do because I've experienced this is they'll try to change your mind that's what they try to do they'll give it up and they'll go along with the flow
01:10:44Q (The Q Pill)thinking that you'll change your mind if you tell a woman I'm not looking for anything serious I just want something casual they'll try to change your mind I've experienced that and guys who also
01:10:55Brian Atlashave dealt with that will tell you that they'll try to change your mind yeah sure I guess my point of contention is more so even as a guy even if you're
01:11:04Brian Atlasdesirous of a serious relationship with this girl uh she's going to withhold but there's no actual guiding values or morals there it's just this
01:11:15Q (The Q Pill)arbitrary thing to get compliance from you basically so well I have a much more uh biological psychological perspective I think it's just the power of
01:11:27Q (The Q Pill)Attraction I think it's just like with her case that's why the dude that she found super super attractive could have a mattress on the floor and he could she could still think that he was on drugs and would kill her but she still slept
01:11:40Q (The Q Pill)with him because she said he was gorgeous that is just a neurophysiological response in the female brain if she finds you attractive enough then she will Overlook everything else about you that could be hazardous a
01:11:51Brian Atlasred flag and she'll still sleep with you that's the that's the way attract action works biology I could see that situation going both ways though like she could still try to do the leverage move of like I'm going to wait wait wait still
01:12:04Brian Atlaseven in that situation with the really attractive guy or she breaks her rules for the really attractive guy and [ __ ] him anyways I I could see it going both ways but again my my whole issue here is I certainly acknowledge that it's more
01:12:16Brian Atlasso from the perspective of hey this woman she's been promiscuous in the past gave it up easy now you're guy you're the next guy who comes along and then she decides she's you're the guy who
01:12:28Brian Atlasshe's gonna make weight and in my my view I think that makes if the guy does wait makes him a sucker absolutely makes him a total sucker and he shouldn't he
01:12:38Brian Atlasshouldn't he should just go find a girl who has either gen it's weird though because these girls could still have genuine desire for the guy but still be okay I'm going to play this game as
01:12:49Brian Atlasleverage to get commitment or because I think that this is the right thing to do or the right move to do or this is what I read in [ __ ] Cosmo or I saw on some Tik Tok you got to make the guy wait 1 2
01:13:00Q (The Q Pill)3 months the self healing Journey try to find themselves to trying to change it up yeah all of those things play a factor in their attitudes towards how they proceed with next I told you they
01:13:11Brian Atlasjust be trying to change but they'll do this even if the guy even if the guy like for at least for me for example so I don't have any qualms with sleeping the girl on the first second or third
01:13:22Brian Atlasdate right no qualms there and if if I see long long-term potential it's not going to matter if we hook up quickly right like I don't know if you've had that experience probably your
01:13:33Brian Atlasgirlfriends absolutely your long-term relationships was it let's wait two months and then get into a relationship then have sex or was it have sex quick and we continue hooking up now we're in a relationship it's right there is's
01:13:45Brian Atlasthat one that's my Dynamic that's always been all my relationships so when these girls though come and they're like well I want to get to know you better I'm like you just lost a relationship I'm no longer interested I tell them we can get to know each other
01:13:58Q (The Q Pill)as we getting to know each other as we [ __ ] it so because I have no plans to [ __ ] you and then leave you and go Brian doesn't that create a catch 22 for you what do you mean well because you're
01:14:10Andrew Wilsonlike well wait a second if you've had a one night stand that somewhat disqualifies you because you're not willing to have the one night stand with me right well I don't want a one night stand though no I
01:14:22Andrew Wilsonunderstand you don't want it but what what triggers you about it or what gets you tilted about it or whatever whatever kind of language you want is that they'd be willing to do that with somebody but not
01:14:34Brian Atlasyou like that's what the flag itself is right yeah I yeah I suppose that's a component of it yeah um what's I guess what's the
01:14:44Andrew Wilsoncatch 22 though well because um then this means that even if this woman was trying to achieve virtue or changed her mind or had made a mistake or had had
01:14:55Andrew Wilsonregrets about doing this thing um that by telling you that she wanted to pursue virtue wouldn't you be potentially removing virtuous women from your pool um by kind of rejecting them outright
01:15:08Brian Atlasbecause this is not Behavior they would do with you but that is behavior that you would prefer a woman did do with men h ah interesting good point Andrew
01:15:18Brian Atlasit's a good it's a fair point although I mean you've actually used this argument before Andrew is the great hoe
01:15:28Andrew Wilsonreformation and so is it actually virtue are they actually virtuous have they actually yeah I think that that gets to the heart of the contention so like to from the argument from your side so
01:15:39Andrew Wilsonevery side has has an argument right so the argument from your side I I I think that this is a compelling one against you but I think the compelling argument for you is that well if a woman is only
01:15:51Andrew Wilsondoing this for the purposes of impressing men then she's f faking virtue mhm that would be faking virtue right so that's that would be the big contention I think from uh from your end
01:16:04Andrew Wilsonof the argument and I don't have an argument against that by the way I think that it kind of railroads right there and I don't know where to go with it because you can never really tell yeah how how would you know exactly exactly right so how would you ever know the
01:16:16Andrew Wilsondifference of if they're doing it because they're faking virtue or they're doing it because they genuinely wanted to be virtuous how could you actually so I don't actually have to this I call
01:16:28Q (The Q Pill)the Brian conundrum right or the Brian Paradox or whatever you want to say right um I don't have an answer for this okay so let me add a caveat let me add a caveat Brian let's take your example let's say she does have a history of
01:16:40Q (The Q Pill)being promiscuous but she's been celibate for say the past two years and she and then you you come across her and she said well I've been celibate the past two years yeah I've had one night stands in the past but for the past two years I've been celibate and I would
01:16:53Brian Atlaslike to keep it that way and I would like us to get to know each other would that pivot your perspective I think that's uh there's obviously Nuance to these sorts of
01:17:03Brian Atlasconversations uh so I think yes it would uh so long as you know was genuine I'm I'm assuming it is uh yeah I think I it
01:17:14Brian Atlaswould depend how long she wanted to wait then though okay uh you want to wait 3 months still not interested oh life until marriage you want right you want to oh no well that's
01:17:25Andrew Wilsonnot yeah three dates I'll give a three dates okay all right three I think you have said in the past that if a woman was pursuing uh her religious values and seem to be adamant towards those uh that
01:17:38Andrew Wilsonyou would you would take that into consideration versus a secularist right mhm that makes I mean that makes sense to me maybe that's a sign then that you're not faking
01:17:49Brian Atlasvirtue yeah yeah um I think kind of the issue here is in these sorts of situations is one uh the recency with
01:17:59Brian Atlaswhich they were engaged in a casual hookup so I just would not it would be very difficult for me to take it seriously for example if a woman like two weeks prior had a one night
01:18:13Brian Atlasstand or not even well a lot of these even even secular atheist women who are not religious at all will do this whole they're not even in it's not even
01:18:23Brian Atlasin pursuit of any sort of religious for any religious reasons they'll just oh I want to like wait to have sex I I don't want to do that blah blah blah hey
01:18:34Brian Atlasthat's fine whatever so I don't think it's it's solely religious women who will do this it's also secular atheist women um I guess so my contention is one
01:18:46Brian Atlasthe recency so if they did it two weeks ago but now oh you want to wait 3 months but the two weeks ago you [ __ ] a guy within at 30 minutes of meeting him I'm like okay lady and then uh the other thing some women will do and then Austin
01:18:59Brian Atlasyou'll pull up that first one here in a sec is they'll they'll be making a guy wait and
01:19:08Brian Atlasalso [ __ ] a dude while making the guy who they have their eye on for long-term relationship they'll make him wait anybody here done that [ __ ] anybody
01:19:22Brian Atlascome on be honest you guys all done that [ __ ] one at a time okay just to be clear so no girl here has been hooking up with the guy casually and then you also while
01:19:33Brian Atlashooking up with that guy casually went on a date with a guy who you potentially saw uh for who you potentially saw as a long-term partner really none of y'all
01:19:44Brian Atlasbeen hooking up with a guy and it was casual it was kind of whatever not monogamous not non-exclusive none of you here while [ __ ] him went on a date
01:19:56Alexwith the guy really I would do the opposite actually yeah yeah there you go see there you go you did it I would do the opposite I would do the opposite I would I would actually what's the opposite so I would have the the
01:20:09Alexrelationships with someone with whom I actually saw the longterm um you sex potential but I would not have sex with someone whom I'm casually seeing at all then wait why
01:20:21Alexwould you even bother casually seeing them open relationship um it's not really open relationship again um we are kind
01:20:33TTS/Chat readerof oh my God back underscore to underscore the underscore Roots Dona $1,000 all right champag go great panel don't be shy to speak up girls don't be
01:20:45Brian Atlasshy to speak up girls yeah it's been a bit of a boys boys con for the past 10 minutes I agree with everything you guys said though okay um yo back to the roots
01:20:56Kendrathank you uh appreciate it man uh do we have cups Maddie I'll have you pour let's go I feel like in order for those two scenarios to happen the what you need to have a guy actually taking you
01:21:08Kendraon a date all right everyone get C you serious uh wait hold on we need to keep the cooking here oh you don't want to yeah I'm going to pour oh yeah bring the C back oh yeah
01:21:20Brian Atlasmy Alex can have one em can have one wait before we pour do you want some champagne oh no thank you do you want
01:21:27Brian Atlaschampagne do you want champagne and then Turkish no me Q yeah so that's four cups okay what about andw
01:21:39Andrew WilsonAndrew get your VOD not 2 it's coming it's you have to be 21 oh Maddie and Savannah can't have any oh that's unlucky no you don't worry do you want
01:21:49Brian Atlassome champagne yes please okay wait so five five yes five you can't have
01:22:00Brian Atlasnone I'm all right uh back to the roots thank you thank you sir you're very you you are hold on let me play that he's a
01:22:11Brian Atlasbrave and a decent man he's a Pioneer by the way guys go subscribe to his channel um go bra all right I'll let Maddie pour this sorry for the interruption here
01:22:23Brian Atlasguys just had to get that that pot uh Q or Q you want to just pour for us yeah I got you why don't you uh so oh let's do the
01:22:33Brian Atlasreacts really quick um I'm you here just if you guys can be quiet can I have you read read
01:22:41Savannahthis all of it yeah start with the title up there okay um r2x chromosome you can yeah the skip that part okay I'm I'm I'm
01:22:52Savannahunsure if I should tell my boy from this information I've recently gone official with a man I've been dating for a couple of months he's kind respectful and considerate I really think he could be
01:23:03Savannahthe one but something is eating at me I wanted to build slowly with this man so we didn't become intimate until after going exclusive but between the first
01:23:13Savannahdate and that point I did see an old F friends with benefit oh friends with benefit a couple of times back then I didn't think anything of it as I was was
01:23:24Savannahan exclusive but underestimated how much I would care for my boyfriend and feel almost like I've cheated on him have I done something wrong do I need to tell him will he end things with me update
01:23:36Savannahthere was mixed reactions here but my gut told me I should tell my boyfriend he said sorry I don't want to be in a relationship with someone who does that then he blocked me good for him before
01:23:48Brian Atlaswe do uh the cheers really quick so your reaction to that story uh uh okay so look recap here she was dating a guy they were waiting to
01:24:00Brian Atlashave sex until they were exclusive from the first date to when they became exclusive she was withholding sex but during that time she was hooking up with having sex with a Friends with Benefits
01:24:11Brian Atlasa different guy during the entire time he she really liked him she wanted to be boyfriend girlfriend long term she asks Reddit if she should tell him because I guess it was eating away at her she
01:24:24Brian Atlastells him he's like whoo What the [ __ ] and breaks up with her uh one valid you think valid reason to break up with her and then two do you think that's kind of Shifty
01:24:36Brian Atlasto be like well I'm going to withhold sex from you while I'm pursuing a long-term relationship with you all the while [ __ ] this guy who's not exclusive with
01:24:47Gabbyme I think it's good that she left him or he wait he yeah he left he left her I think that's good okay I'm really happy that she was honest with him I don't think she really cared about him she
01:24:59Maty Fullerjust wanted to string him along mhm one she shouldn't have done it two I'm glad she told him three I'm glad he left her all
01:25:08Alexright I think it's valid valid okay valid valid yeah it's absolutely valid I mean there's it's like why would you sleep with somebody while you're
01:25:19Alexactually interested in an exclusive relationship like I don't know it just does not make sense to uh we'll follow up on that
01:25:29Brian Atlasconversation here in just a sec but we have to do a cheers to back to the roots uh here's to back to the roots Salo Sal Salo
01:25:40Brian Atlasoh drinking from the B okay all right this time I did last time uh we have we have a couple chats I just want to read too really quick so uh
01:25:52SavannahI'll have you read them okay you want me to read yeah if you can um thank you Chad camo sweater girl number four talks fighting a lot you you Jujitsu LOL also
01:26:04SavannahBrian for the relationship status question at opening anyone um ever said sex cter Harum uh thank you chadl
01:26:13Brian AtlasLord for the message um I think somebody's has said they've been in a sex cult but no herum so thank you Chad Lord appreciate it and then we
01:26:24Savannahhave two more we have this one oh two cars that you really like they are the same kind of car same price 100K first car has zero miles never been used
01:26:35Savannahsecond car is used and abused 200k miles and many men have done what car do you pick hold on why would they be the same the same kind of car same price 100 I
01:26:47Brian Atlasthink should did I read that wrong I think one was 100 the other was 200 here can you read it one more time just for it's all good two cars that you really like oh they are the same kind of car
01:26:58Savannahand same price 100K first car has zero miles never been used second car is used and abused 200k miles and many men have
01:27:07Brian Atlasdrove what car do you pick okay so do uh car one zero miles car two 200,000 miles
01:27:16Alexwhich do you pick uh car one car one car one car one one so I would too because it's kind of weird it's kind of weird
01:27:27Alexthat it's at zero miles okay specifically with a carwise because um there are some cars that you kind of have to drive for a prolonged period of
01:27:39Alextime if it's got 20 it's got 25 miles on it 25 um let's do it at like 1,000 miles and then I'll take car
01:27:49Alexone car one the Buton okay all right if we're talking about cars specifically okay all right I feel like they're trying to relate that to like I
01:28:01SavannahI know they are then you know that's a different question can you read this one it's not that difficult to understand a woman's timeline of giving it up or giving it up is a spectrum some guy get
01:28:13Savannahit earlier and some guys have to work for it that's their discrimination and based oh on Aesthetics uh clay thank you for the chat you had something on that queue or no no that's Val that no that's valid that's I agree with that statement
01:28:26Q (The Q Pill)can I be honest I think it's all about communication I'm sorry to cut no no you go ahead no no go ahead please continue okay no I mean like of course I say dating is unfair so when I'm talking about women and I tell women that dating
01:28:39Q (The Q Pill)is unfair to them I have to be reasonable and objective when it comes to men too some men have to work harder some men get it earlier it's just the reality of dating you just don't have it as well as some other men we're not
01:28:50Q (The Q Pill)equal you know sexual competition is a thing men have to compete for women just like women have to compete for men especially on especially modern dating dating is a mess now so I mean it's just
01:29:02Q (The Q Pill)it's the repugnant reality of dating what one guy can't get in a day another guy can it's just a reality of date what an easier way to say this and
01:29:14Andrew Wilsonmaybe you can correct me if I'm wrong but this has always seemed like common sense to me q and maybe I can ask the panel this too but um doesn't it seem like if an ugly dude you should just
01:29:25Andrew Wilsonpick an ugly woman and then your chances greatly greatly increase of um you know getting getting the you know sex and everything else it is that you want marriage Etc don't a lot of people just
01:29:36Q (The Q Pill)kind of hit out of their league yeah that's the problem people be aiming for the [ __ ] stars yeah I mean if you're trying to date outside your league especially physically then you're not
01:29:47Q (The Q Pill)going to farewell um but there is a such thing as assortive mating and we typically get into relationships with people that we're similar in attractiveness to uh religiosity political orientation and intelligence
01:29:59Q (The Q Pill)so if you're somebody who's not as attractive but you're trying to date somebody more attractive than that person if it's a woman and you're not as attractive as the guy that you're dating he's going to [ __ ] you play you leave you because you're not attractive enough for him to commit to and if it's a woman
01:30:12Q (The Q Pill)she's going to take advantage of you she's going to extract the resources that she can out of you as much as you're willing to give and you're not going to get it as soon as other guys get it if you get it at all if you even get it yeah but this brings up the great
01:30:24Andrew Wilsonwhatever podcast conundrum the great whatever podcast question of our time how do ugly men know what types of ugly women they should go for if all the
01:30:35Q (The Q Pill)women on whatever podcast always say that they're tens oh my God word we need to see the men that they've dated actually we need to see because
01:30:47Q (The Q Pill)the men that they've actually dated will reveal their actual attractiveness level okay gotcha we have one more this is the WQ
01:30:59Andrew Wilsonthe whatever question which is oh boy specifically how do ugly men know how to date within their league if every woman whoever comes on the whatever podcast is
01:31:10AlexATT 10 this is the question of our time it is a conundrum well they shouldn't date a woman from the whatever
01:31:21Andrew Wilsonpodcast didn't she say you were a 10 by the way no I said I was a nine oh I'm sorry if all of them on the whatever podcast are eights nines and
01:31:34Andrew Wilsontens well I'm I'm dating a 10 so oh isn't he wait isn't he like 20 years older than you are he is and and
01:31:44Alexdisabled um so he is not disabled but he is very attractive and he actually doesn't look old he actually looks a little bit younger than you to be fair
01:31:55Alexum but I mean to me he is a tan I was attracted to him from the very first you know time I saw him and I mean he's he's
01:32:05Alexdated a lot of celebrities in the past and it's just I don't know to me he's a 10 can I say a comment sorry I think yeah yeah to you hang on hang on quick
01:32:16Andrew Wilsonand to others to hang on do you a 10 I think that's fair I think it's fair to say to me a person's a 10 to me a person's not a 10 that's totally fair right but objectively when you look at
01:32:28Andrew Wilsonlike the universal style of standards that most people go for when you're kind of creating what is or is not goodlook right we all kind of pretend that that doesn't exist but it I mean it [ __ ]
01:32:39Alexexists right we know it exists so where where would he fall on that scale he would fall around nine on the
01:32:49Alexon the objective you know what is society you know considers to be absolutely Dro dead gorgeous
01:33:00Turkishokay you add something um I just wanted to say I think um there's another way to look at it as well cuz I think you're going based off looks but I think for me anyways and my past relationships and anyone that I'm trying to pursue it's
01:33:12Turkishall about like the connection like I think the whole stigma of trying to find someone in your like your basically your rating like the whole the leagues thing like 10 stay with tens and then five
01:33:25Turkishstay with fives or whatever I don't really look at people like I don't look at someone to think oh my God like he's so attractive definitely like I need to get with him it's more like can I have a conversation with him can I actually sit down and like pick his brain will he
01:33:37Turkishunderstand what I'm saying cuz if he if I ask him a question girl I'm sorry if I ask him a question that the sky blue and he's like a yeah a look I'm just like like make it make sense please he could
01:33:50Turkishbe like youit to the world like Andrew said like the the norm of being the most attractive man in the world but if I genuinely cannot conversate in an emotional connection way then I'm like
01:34:01Turkishunattracted yeah like to me that's like I genuinely cannot be with someone like if there is a man that you guys deem to be of not as attractive as another man but I can genuinely sit with him and
01:34:12Turkishchat with him and have a genuine conversation that's like deeping meaningful and yeah like I can't put them to ranking or like I don't believe
01:34:22Turkishthat I'm like I believe some men should and can I guess shoot for the stars but like I don't mean it in sense of it's just looks wise like their personality needs to come from a good home good heart like and I'm not a 10 I think I'm
01:34:35Turkisha solid five like I don't think I'm that bad but I don't think I'm anywhere close to f as hell but for me anyways no I completely agree I think attractiveness your personality and and
01:34:46Maty Fullerwhat you bring to the table in the terms of can we talk at the table that plays the biggest part because you can be a drop dead guy gorgeous guy or a girl most of the time if you're not stimulating mentally you're or if you
01:34:59Maty Fullerhave a bad personality like like a a male 10 by societal standards if he's a 10 but he has nothing going on his head just not nice not very intelligent automatically
01:35:12Maty Fullerit's like oh what a bore what a waste of physical potential when there's nothing going on in your brain yeah it like it immediately goes down to like a a a six five kind of level definitely can I be
01:35:24Gabbyhonest about something from my personal view there's been guys who' have been like super nerdy cuz I'm also like that I like to connect with them intellectually and I just knew from the get-go like it's not going to go anywhere because there is no physical
01:35:36Gabbyattraction from my standpoint so I totally agree it definitely subconsciously it's one of the things I look at like okay we're getting along but I'm also attracted to you oh know looks are definitely important I'm not saying looks are not important
01:35:48Turkishdefinitely you got to be attracted to them but me personally I get more attracted to someone like for example my man could be a three out of 10 whatever but I feel like the more I'm with him I'm going to find him a 10 out of 10 I'm
01:36:01Turkishgoing to find him like straight 10 out of 10 like I'm just going to have that bias thing the more that I'm with him he will automatically become more attractive to me anyways okay well let me ask you have you ever dated it what
01:36:12Turkishyou think is a three out of 10 physically looks wise has any of your exes actually been a three out of 10 um I don't think that's nice but I think they're okay think they're okay they're
01:36:24Turkishokay yeah they were really nice and like funny like see like see like my first ex was Egyptian and my second was Filipino like I definitely don't have a type I guess necessarily like if you just have like a good heart and you're funny
01:36:36Turkishwhatever automatically you just become more attractive to me well how long did that take how like um was that a process um I guess but like the things that we were friends before we became
01:36:48Brian Atlasanything wait wait if I can just jump in here uh so wasn't asking about your type whether they were Egyptian or Filipino is kind of irrelevant there are plenty of attractive Filipino and Egyptian men
01:37:01Brian Atlasso he's asking if they were if those men were or any of the men you've dated were three out of tens in their looks I don't think so so they were more attractive than that possibly yeah but other people
01:37:14Gabbywould say no though that's the thing and I don't know if it's a bias because they my friend or they're generally unattractive do you know so 10 would say that he's unattractive which no definitely not a 10 would not say that they are attractive but like no that
01:37:26Gabbythey are unattractive a 10 would obviously say like oh yeah he's unattractive cuz she's a 10 so she's not going to look at that guy and be interested in at all yeah so you are not going to look at
01:37:38Gabbya guy even as you know interesting as he is he's still like ugly and I'm and I'm glad you said that because that's what that's essentially what it boils down to you have to be physically attractive enough to get your foot in the door to
01:37:50Q (The Q Pill)where she even wants to know what your mentality and your personality is and that's actually my I've actually done several research studies on physical attractiveness versus personality with women ranking you know personality
01:38:03Q (The Q Pill)versus physical attractiveness and everything and all the studies reveal that when it comes down to it physical attractiveness is actually number one you have to be physically attractive enough for a for a woman to even want to
01:38:13Q (The Q Pill)know if you're intelligent enough if you can hold a conversation if you're funny now of course women's attraction is contextual and it's more nuanced than male attraction because men are more visually simulated by a woman's physical
01:38:25Q (The Q Pill)appearance but in in essence you still have to be physical attractive as a physically attractive as a guy for her to even take that interest in you and that's across domains in most cases it's
01:38:36Q (The Q Pill)ubiquitous so yeah but I'm not saying that he's ugly I'm not iniquitous is a pretty big word q it just came out I started getting into my my college days it just came
01:38:48Turkishout no like I definitely get what you're saying and I agree with you I'm not saying that they're ugly and I would never say that they're ugly like obviously attraction does play a big role in it but like for both
01:38:58Turkishrelationships we both started as friends we're in the same group like it's for me attraction does take a big part in it I can look at someone and say oh they are attractive definitely I couldn't say or like I don't think this person would
01:39:11Turkishsuit with me but like ultimately genuinely bottom of my heart like if I have someone who is genuinely kind emotion and everything like that I'm more drawn to that I'm more like like those both of them I was I
01:39:24Turkishused to work with one of them we're working together for like 6 months before anything happened I'm not going to be like ew you're ugly I'm not going to socialize with you I'm a social butterfly I want everyone to be included you know I don't want anyone feeling
01:39:35Q (The Q Pill)left out so automatically I will talk to anyone even if they're not a 10 out of 10 I would talk to every single person there is but also you also self-aware you called yourself a five do you think that plays a part in the fact that
01:39:47Q (The Q Pill)you're more lenient with male looks because you don't think you're a 10 see if you thought you were a 10 you you'd be looking at men a little different you wouldn't you be like no he's too ugly for me because I think I'm this
01:39:58Q (The Q Pill)attractive but the fact that you know that you're average gives you the leeway and and gives them room for error to not be as attractive as they would initially need to be if you thought you were more attractive than what you think you are I
01:40:11Alexget that I get what you're saying but I'm saying for me personally anyways for me personally but I get what you're coming from so like why did you even bring an example that like if it's a
01:40:21Alexthree if you've never dated someone who you assume is a three or you think is a three the three yeah because like that was the example that you brought up like if they're a three I'm saying if Society
01:40:32Turkishviews them as a three like okay but like I can't put a rank on someone well okay that's that's fair I mean yeah like I I don't know why but like me personally I can't call someone like I can say you're
01:40:44Turkishill if you make my friends upset I can be like ew babe like oh come on but like that's just coming from a friend I know it's weird but like that's just like that's like a friend like this what I mean I'm very like friendly and very
01:40:55Turkishlike comforting like I would never want to say anything to rank anyone that's why I think I'm average like I would never want to come from a place to put a m to feel
01:41:05Turkishlike cuz I think males are so like this ego thing because of this dominance because of the assertiveness because of the way they kind of have to be this is my opinion by the way this is not saying that everyone agrees with me but um I
01:41:18Turkishguess putting a man in a position where he doesn't have to feel like he has to be a thousand times better than everyone else I don't I just want chill dude whatever comes from it comes from it like that's why I just accept everyone
01:41:29Turkishfor how they are and that's just me maybe that's why I've been single for so long but like it's whatever I don't I'm not rush to meet anyone who's a 10 out of 10 I
01:41:41Kendraguess I feel like 10 out of 10 usually have a little like Cockiness problems and little attitude problems too but can you SW just like when they know they're fine actually when they know they're fine as well ask this question since
01:41:54Brian Atlaswe're kind of on the topic ask everyone to write their looks on the oh uh Rabe rui says bricken just say no wait what oh the no
01:42:05Gabbyner that is is that here let's we'll try it again uh no no you're doing something when you say it and I'm watching you no no no no
01:42:17Andrew Wilsonno no no yeah you have there we go open her mouth right no no no no got to open her mouth she's saying n n n still no
01:42:30Turkishno it's pretty CL okay all right yes all right ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10 you can't pick seven starting with you go ahead um six we should have asked this before we got
01:42:41Emmainto the rating stuff but I'm like a strong four and a half oh my God I guess
01:42:47Brian Atlas6 and 1/2 six 6 and 1/2 nine five five C 6.3 I give myself a five
01:43:00Andrew WilsonAndrew uh I'm a four for sure or less all right I think you're beautiful Andrew yo craze thank you for the gift of 10 Subs ITT I got the patronizing
01:43:12Andrew Wilsonbeautiful and everything that's like that's like the head Pat where they're like no no no no no no come on no it's
01:43:21Andrew Wilsonlike come on I think it yeah you just make it a little bit less patronizing for uh so you're the do you think you're
01:43:31Alexthe most attractive girl here since you rated yourself the highest um I think you're very very gorgeous I would definitely rate you way higher thank you
01:43:41Alexum and I'm not trying to compete just for my personal preference uh I would date someone who looks like me um just off the looks alone
01:43:59Brian Atlasum uh actually Austin let's do this pull up the true Rape Me Guide for women and I'm just curious if this would
01:44:11Brian Atlasadjust your ranking at all for you all right so God t 10 is god tier basically no one meets the standard uh
01:44:20Brian Atlasno examples because this level is UN obtainable now uh 9.5 that's the top 0.002% one out of 50,000 that's Ultra
01:44:31Brian Atlasattractive super Top Model tier now there you might shift this chart is bugged boys it's a Bugg granted look I would not rank some of these people where they're at I might shift some up I
01:44:43Brian Atlasmight shift some down this was not made by me okay uh I that whole top row all those women they're hideous what do you mean well not hideous okay none of them
01:44:53Q (The Q Pill)are goodlooking not one of them wait wait Kelly Kell Andrew Kelly Gail Kelly Gail is she's she's I give her eight wait pull it back up I give
01:45:02Brian AtlasKelly Gil maybe eight maybe adri no that's just an average looking broad all right Andrew he has very high high uh standards um we should have Andrew
01:45:16Brian AtlasAndrew why don't you make one of those I think you should just reverse some of the rows that's all well in any case so I do look I I agree with you there that you could move some of these women up move some of them down it's just sort of
01:45:27Brian Atlasa general guide I didn't make it it's from this Reddit so nine is top 0.005% one out of 20,000 people will be a nine
01:45:37Brian Atlasthat's extremely attractive Top Model tier uh I don't even think though like model women I I don't think like their faces are like the the super the super
01:45:49Brian Atlasmodels a lot of them have like the unique they they have got maybe Unique Look it doesn't always translate to like uh anyways so like like up at the top there you should take that fra chick
01:46:00Brian Atlasmove her down and move that Kelsey chick up right all right for sure mhm mhm so okay 8.5 scroll down just a bit 8.5
01:46:10Brian Atlasthat's the top 0.03% that's one out of 3,000 8% or eight is top 0.34% that's one out of a 750 very attra
01:46:20Brian Atlasattractive model tier I they got to redo this [ __ ] chart man I don't know it's a little down at seven and a half it's bug this thing is bug is it what is it based on I need to see what it's based on I don't know it's
01:46:34Brian Atlasit's bugged somebody just made up a chart yeah that's that's not changing my mind does I thought I'd show it um really quick just to kind of wrap up the conversation on the whole like waiting
01:46:44Brian Atlasto hook up thing uh there is one image Austin uh if you can pull that up this is kind of like that's like you know what I mean that's
01:46:56Brian Atlaskind of like okay you're going to be you you do you want to be that guy in the suit and this is here's the crazy thing a girl will be like yo I want to wait 3 months before hooking up with you and
01:47:08Brian Atlasthen as soon as you break up the next boyfriend he's not going to have to wait the next guy she [ __ ] boom instant son
01:47:18Brian AtlasI'm just saying it's [ __ ] up it's [ __ ] up boys I think Brian what's up I think you a little traumatized yeah like personal you've okay bro look I don't
01:47:29Andrew Wilsonknow if you're just you're [ __ ] bad in what's the [ __ ] terminology what the [ __ ] I hang on this is some Benedict Arnold [ __ ] going on right now some Benedict Arnold [ __ ] going on Brian
01:47:40Brian Atlaswho's that Q's Benedict Arnold Benedict Arnold is that the guy who turned on the US yeah he turned on Washington yeah on on the he he like def uh went to British
01:47:53Q (The Q Pill)Co the British I got a tendency to psychoanalyze so I'm wondering why Brian is so hyper fixated on on it's Judas like behavior is what I
01:48:02Brian Atlassee so you're telling me Q you've never encountered a girl who's like every single girl isn't your body count well I don't want okay I'm not going to reveal
01:48:12Brian Atlasanything you're every single girl you've dated you you [ __ ] all of them right away yeah first or second every single
01:48:22Kendraone there's never been a girl who was like oh way I could probably tell you why she's like that why who why the girl is making you wait I feel like it's
01:48:33Kendraprobably because every other guy before that has probably not taking her seriously even when they did sleep with her so she probably just got exhausted about it
01:48:44Kendrasure and she's probably just trying to break the cycle and it probably has nothing to do with you probably just the fact that every guy before I completely agree I told you that makes Brian's
01:48:55Q (The Q Pill)point that makes Brian's Point that's that's faking virtue but but that's what I said I don't think she's wrong I don't think she's wrong she trying to protect herself no I said you you perfect you
01:49:06Q (The Q Pill)you are well within your right to say n [ __ ] that I don't I'm not waiting but but I said they be going on these little self-healing Journeys and they're tired of I don't think self healing I think it's just trying to protect herself from
01:49:17Q (The Q Pill)another [ __ ] it's a lot of self healing journe yes a selfhealing journey hang so so it's fake that would be faking virtue yeah so that like that
01:49:28Andrew Wilsonmoves right into this this idea so the idea here is just hey I'm not going to do this because I think it'll give me a different outcome not because I'm going
01:49:38Andrew Wilsonto do this for some type of like um higher reason or because I don't want to sleep with this guy it's just like I'm going to try something different because it'll give me a different outcome so now I'm not going to sleep that that I think