HATERSEXUAL?! Dating A Prisoner? Ankle Monitor Dating? Q! Andrew Wilson! E-GIRLS! | Dating Talk #201

Date: 2024-10-02

Duration: 7h 14m

Guests

Brian Atlas

SSavannah (Huntington Beach)>

GGabby (Santa Barbara)>

KKendra (DT201)>

TTurkish (DT201)>

AAndrew Wilson >

Identified Speakers

SPEAKER_02Q (The Q Pill)(guest)

SPEAKER_03Savannah(guest)

SPEAKER_04Emma(guest)

SPEAKER_05Gabby(guest)

SPEAKER_06Alex(guest)

SPEAKER_07Brian Atlas(host)

SPEAKER_08Maty Fuller(guest)

SPEAKER_09Turkish(guest)

SPEAKER_10Kendra(guest)

SPEAKER_14Andrew Wilson(guest)

Key Moments

IntroBrian Atlas opens Dating Talk #201. Guests introduced: Savannah (18, HB, dog sitter), Gabby (29, SB, dispensary+med spa), Maty Fuller (18, SD, poli sci/radiology CC + behavioral interventionist), Kendra (25, PA, TikTok+Marine Science grad), Emma (22, SB, CC+pet shop), Alex (26, SB, artist), Turkish (24, LA/Australian, Twitch streamer). Co-hosts: Q and Andrew Wilson.

“welcome to the whatever dating Talk podcast where we try to make sense of the modern dating hellscape I'm your host Brian Atlas”

QuoteSavannah (18) reveals her boyfriend went to jail for Grand Theft Auto and assault 3 months into their 10-month relationship. She never visited him in jail; ended it after ~14 months total.

“he was in jail uh for for what uh Grand Theft Auto and assault”

QuoteMaty Fuller discloses she cheated on her last boyfriend — a kiss with someone who intellectually stimulated her. A mutual friend told the boyfriend; he ended things. Boyfriend was a football player who couldn't hold intellectual conversations.

“I messed up big time yeah I messed up normally don't hear that kind of honesty um how many people did you cheat on him with one”

QuoteEmma reveals she went to a stranger's apartment at 10pm, thought he was on drugs and might kill her, yet still had sex with him — contradicting her stated preference for the bear over a random man.

“she went over to a guy's house at 10pm you just met him and you slept with him within an hour”

Quote'Hater sexual / heterosexual' TTS misread: chat donor types 'hatersexual' meaning 'heterosexual' — Brian and Andrew riff on it, Brian immediately decides to change the video title to include it.

“hater sexual wait I'm going to change the title of the of the video to include hater sexual”

QuoteQ discloses last 3 serious girlfriends had a combined body count of 3; his last 2 girlfriends were virgins. His own high body count came from women pursuing him (was a Shade Room 'zaddy' with 5000+ DMs). He prefers innocent/wholesome women.

“the last three women that I dated had a combined body count of three my last two girlfriends were virgins”

QuoteAndrew Wilson admits he would save his family over the world if given the choice, despite acknowledging it is the 'immoral' answer. Cites male tribal loyalty instinct.

“I think I would save my family a respect yo crazy Ace thank for the gifted 10 subs and by the way I also think that's the wrong answer that that's the immoral answer”

QuoteGabby's body count of 11 finally disclosed after Brian plays motivational 'do it' audio repeatedly. She had previously declined to answer multiple times.

“11 oh I I said it this is the third time this the third time”

QuoteSelf-ratings round: Savannah=6, Emma=4.5, Brian=6.5, Alex=9 (highest), Maty=5, Kendra=5, Q=~6.3, Turkish=5, Andrew=4 (lowest, 'for sure or less').

“ask everyone to rate their looks on a scale of 1 to 10 you can't pick seven starting with you go ahead um six we should have asked this before we got into the rating stuff but I'm like a strong four and a half”

QuoteBaby daddy story: Gabby approached a woman at 7-Eleven to set up a threesome (at baby daddy's suggestion); woman became baby daddy's new drug connect; they later had a baby together ~4 months after Gabby's breakup. Gabby says she was happy for them when she saw the baby.

“I walked into a 7-Eleven I complimented her and then she ended up taking us to her friend's house that was down the street”

QuoteGabby reveals baby daddy told her he was gay after she told him she was pregnant (planned pregnancy). He had shown bisexual tendencies throughout their relationship.

“he actually told me he was gay after I told him I was pregnant after planned pregnancy”

QuoteAlex defends dating a man ~20 years her senior. Rates him 10 (objectively ~9 per panel). Says she was attracted from first sight; he has dated celebrities.

“he is a tan I was attracted to him from the very first you know time I saw him and I mean he's dated a lot of celebrities in the past”

Topics Discussed

Stream intro and guest introductions

Brian Atlas opens show, announcements, guests introduce themselves (name, age, location, occupation). Guests: Savannah (18, HB, dog sitter), Gabby (29, SB, dispensary), Maty Fuller (18, SD, CC student/behavioral interventionist), Kendra (25, PA, TikTok + Marine Science grad), Emma (22, SB, CC student/pet shop), Alex (26, SB, artist), Turkish (24, LA from Australia, Twitch streamer). Co-hosts: Q (31, behavioral scientist) and Andrew Wilson (political analyst).

E-girls, anklet monitor dating, prisoner dating (title topics)

Topics from show title (HATERSEXUAL, Dating a Prisoner, Ankle Monitor Dating, E-GIRLS) stem from: (1) Savannah's story about dating a boy who went to jail; (2) the 'hater sexual / heterosexual' TTS misread that became a running joke and the episode title; (3) e-girl discussion referenced in body count/appearance contexts; (4) ankle monitor references likely from viewer TTS/chat questions.

Relationship status round

Brian goes around the table asking each guest their current relationship status, how long single, longest relationship, who ended it and why. Highlights: Savannah's boyfriend went to jail for GTA+assault 3 months in; Gabby has a 2yo son from prior relationship; Maty cheated (a kiss) on last boyfriend; Kendra broken up with over a missed phone call in church; Emma single 4 years, picky about men making moves too fast; Alex dating older man (~20 yrs senior); Turkish values emotional connection over looks.

Bear vs. man debate

Brian poses the viral bear vs. man in the woods question. Most women initially choose bear. Extended debate about male violence statistics, random men's intentions, and the disconnect between choosing a bear but sleeping with strangers. Q cites that 80% of assaults are by known persons. Andrew points out Emma went to a stranger's apartment despite 'bear' fears. Percentages of men who would assault: Kendra says 50%, Maty says 75%, others lower.

Hookup culture and waiting to have sex

Discussion of women who have had casual sex but then make new partners wait. Brian's 'conundrum': women willing to sleep with casual partners quickly but withhold from men they see as long-term. Andrew introduces concept of 'faking virtue.' Q discusses neurophysiological basis of attraction. Reddit post read: woman who slept with FWB while making boyfriend wait — he broke up with her when she confessed.

Why do men avoid commitment — secular vs. religious marriage

Andrew asks the table: what is the incentive for a non-religious man to get married? Extended discussion of marriage as a bad deal for men, secularism, Q's explanation of lying about intentions. Andrew argues marriage is understood best through religious framework.

Car analogy and body count debate

Chat sends car analogy (0-mile vs 200K-mile car = virgin vs high body count woman). Alex objects to comparing women to inanimate objects. Andrew and Q defend the analogy as a useful articulation of male preference. Extended argument about vintage cars with zero miles. TTS from chat adding to debate. Brian summarizes: men prefer 'going vroom' — being first.

Looks ratings round and OKCupid data

Brian asks everyone to self-rate on 1-10 scale (can't pick 7). Ratings: Savannah=6, Emma=4.5, Brian=6.5, Alex=9, Maty=5, Kendra=5, Q=~6.3, Turkish=5, Andrew=4. Brian shows OKCupid chart: men rate women on a bell curve; women rate 80% of men below average. Discussion of women having inflated self-ratings relative to what men can realistically commit to.

Religion, Islam, and eschatology

TTS asks Andrew about his stance on Islam. Andrew explains as Orthodox Christian he argues with Muslims because denying Christ's divinity is fundamental offense. References Quran and Hosea (God asking to marry a prostitute). Brief discussion of Prophet Muhammad's age at marriage. Andrew avoids eschatology (end times) as his weakest theological area.

Toxic relationships and men's communication

Emma: hates modern dating; men's expectations are crazy. Discussion of men who don't communicate what they want. Andrew: men have incentive to lie about not wanting commitment. Gabby's baby-daddy story: drug dealer, arranged threesome, she introduced him to a woman at 7-Eleven, they got together, he got that woman pregnant; later told Gabby he was gay after planned pregnancy. Baby daddy currently in prison.

Pizza party intermission and roast session

Brian orders Costco pizza, drops TTS to $19.99. Chat roasts all panelists. Andrew praised as legend. Alex drops her pizza slice (concussion-related clumsiness). Donations from recurring donors (back_to_the_roots donates $1000). Roast session: chat roasts chairs 1-6, Brian (pizza betraying burrito), Maddie the employee, Q, Turkish.

Hookup culture body count disclosures

Brian goes around table asking body counts. Alex: 9. Gabby: 11 (disclosed only after being played motivational audio multiple times). Others decline or not asked. Q discusses preferences for virgin/low-count women despite high personal body count.

Dating apps profile reviews

Brian reviews Savannah's and Emma's Tinder profiles on screen. Savannah: 5'7", unvaccinated, short-term open to long-term, no prompts. Emma: listed 'activism (animals)'; is vegetarian for moral reasons; blonde/pink/purple/black hair history; wants to run an animal sanctuary. Debate over Emma's activism and vegetarianism.

Do we need men — panel round

Brian asks each guest: do we need men? Most say yes with caveats. Andrew provocatively claims men don't need women except for procreation. Chat and panel push back. Discussion of whether female-only societies could survive.

Body positivity vs. accountability

Gabby discusses her 50lb weight loss: was never happy when overweight; doesn't believe body positivity is the answer. Andrew and Q discuss male body shaming culture vs. female affirmation culture. Andrew references Pearl Davis's commentary on women not policing each other.

Stream close and roast wrap-up

Final roast session (TTS at $20). Brian thanks chat, plugs Twitch/Discord. Outro.

Transcript

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Brian Atlasthings to to say um she was the Communist and the well anyways um that was a fun conversation so uh let's see

Brian Atlaswhat else oh disclaimer the views expressed by the guests do not necessarily reflect the views of the whatever Channel with that said and without without further Ado we're going

Brian Atlasto have the guests introduce themselves so please tell us your name age location and occupation go ahead hi my name is Savannah Owens I'm 18 and I currently

Savannahjust watch a dog where you from Huntington Beach you just watch a dog yeah I just watch a dog are you uh in college or no not yet wait you're in no I'm on high school I just

Brian Atlashaven't started college yet oh so you're taking like a gap here pretty much you graduated from gradu okay got it uh so you're watching a dog just one dog yeah just one dog okay one dog

Brian Atlasmhm your dog not my dog someone else's dog somebody else's dog like for rich people or something or not really just for like a friend oh a friend do you get

Gabbypaid yeah I do okay all right what about you my name is Gabby I'm 29 I'm currently a cash associate at a marijuana

Gabbydispensary um and I also work as a receptionist at a Med Spa where you from I'm from here Santa Barbara Santa Barbara okay born here yeah okay cool

Maty Fullerwhat about you hi my name is mty Fuller I'm from San Diego California and I am a student as well as a behavioral individualist age 18 years old all right

Maty Fullerand uh you are at the CC or the UC CC and uh what you said you're studying what so I'm a dual major I'm in political science and then Radiology okay political science do you do you

Brian Atlaswant to become a lawyer I do what kind of lawyer Tor Tor law so personal injury okay got it and um are you uh you said you're a behavioral interventionist is

Maty Fullerthat what you said interventionalist yes what what's that so I work with kids that are on the Spectrum and have special needs okay and it's it's wonderful yeah okay Maddie's actually like looking for somebody if like you

Brian Atlaswant to help her out oh yeah for sure yeah I'm fully trained yeah um and uh so it's with kids though yes okay God and so you work with like a local school for

Maty Fullerthat or no so basically parents will reach out and then we have get a schedule and I can choose to accept a client or not and I either go to their home or they come to the clinic and I

Kendraspend time with them as teach them tutor them and help them um understand their own needs all right very cool what about you hey my name is Kendra I am 25 I'm

Kendrafrom Pennsylvania and I'm currently a Tik Tok live sales host and and I'm a grad student for Marine Science all right you're currently a grad student yeah so you're getting your Masters yeah

Emmaall right what about you hi my name is Emma I am 22 years old I'm live here and then I'm also a student and I work at a pet shop you're from Santa Barbara not

Emmafrom but I live here you live here where you from originally uh everywhere uh your dad was in the military or no um I was born in San

EmmaDiego is okay I lived all around the West Coast uh what's the story

Emmathere where well with the constant moving um my mom was kind of psychotic so H okay uh was your dad in the picture

Brian Atlasno Mom psychotic and so just a little bit and so you'd move a lot yeah cuz she got stir crazy and she couldn't stay in one space or

Emmayeah she just got done with each place she moved to she decided she wanted a new start and she's actually psychotic um like

Brian Atlasdiagnosed something or just a little crazy are you crazy maybe a little bit okay uh all

Emmaright and uh what are you studying um studying biology but I just switched to Communications all right and you're at

Brian Atlasthe CC yeah you're uh fourth fourth year fifth year what are you um I don't know you're uh I've been there for too long how how long you been is it are you

Alexgoing into your fourth year or fifth year at the twoy year third year third year yeah okay all right what about you

Alexum I'm Alex I'm 26 and I'm from well I live here in Santa Barbara I'm an artist and a creative

Turkishconsultant all right welcome uh go ahead um I'm Turkish but my online name is Turkish the light I am 24 years

Turkishold originally born raised Australia but I've been living in La for the past 4 months wa your government name is Turkish no my government name is

Turkishnon-disclosed oh okay cuz you said I'm Turkish but I go online oh I am Turkish but um people call me Turkish and my like twitch user is Turkish the LI okay

Q (The Q Pill)all right got that all right Q what about you uh the Q pill 31 behavioral scientist certified relationship coach

Andrew WilsonYouTuber book author all right and uh Andrew yeah my name is Andrew Wilson I'm the host of The Crucible I'm a political analyst political sauris and uh I

Brian Atlasoccasionally like to engage in debates all right welcome Andrew welcome everybody so we're going to go around the table once more what is your current relationship status so are you single

Brian Atlastalking stage situationship Friends with Benefits relationship married polycule sex cult Harum whatever maybe if you're single how long have you been single and

Brian Atlaswhat's the longest relationship you've ever been in go ahead um I'm single right now okay I've been single for about like a year and a

Brian Atlashalf all right yeah longest relationship 10 months is that the one that ended a year and a half ago yes who broke up with too I did

Brian Atlasmhm or why um he was in jail oh oh my

Brian AtlasGod what he was in jail uh for for what uh Grand Theft Auto and

Brian Atlasassault okay um did you do a like a how soon into the relationship did he end up in jail 3 months like about 3 months so for

Brian AtlasI stayed with him for a while was he in jail the entire time yeah pretty much did he get well so he got out uh yeah he got out but I haven't seen him but like

Brian Atlaswhile you were dating him did he get out no okay so you dat you met him he was out for 3 months at the beginning of the relationship 3 months in lands in jail Y

Brian Atlasand then you stay with him for another about 14 months or so uh yeah and I while he's in jail mhm I ended it with him though how often would you go see him I never

Brian Atlassaw him and you didn't go visit him no you'd call yeah he would call me you do calls okay uh how old was he 18 oh okay all right

Gabbyum interesting um were you involved in any of the criminal activity I wasn't okay what about you um I'm in a relationship my

Gabbylongest relationship was 3 years is that your current relationship no um I actually met this guy through Tinder who I'm currently dating how long

Gabbyyou guys been together um we've been together for about 2 months and we actually met each other originally in high school the three-year relationship who

Gabbyended it um so it was both of us we were both abusing substances and um it was a really toxic relationship we

Gabbyended up reconnecting and I got pregnant and I had a son you have a kid yeah he's two you have a son

Brian Atlaswith the three-year relationship guy okay all right and how old's your son he's two got it okay and uh so it was a

Gabbymutual split because of the substance abuse yeah it got so toxic we couldn't be around each other okay all

Gabbyright so totally Mutual yeah it was I would say that I've never been in love um the current relationship I'm in is the healthiest

Maty Fullerbut I think the rest was just trauma trauma bonds okay all right what about you single I've been single for about 5 months now and the longest relationship

Brian AtlasI was in was about 3 years who broke up with who I broke up with him all right and is that the one that ended five months ago no the threeyear relationship no okay uh the one that ended 5 months

Brian Atlasago how long was that relationship about 3 months yeah 3 months okay who ended that one he did he he did okay

Brian Atlaswhy infidelity um I messed up oh you I messed up yeah oh you messed up I messed up big time yeah I messed up normally don't hear that kind of honesty

Maty Fullerum how many people did you cheat on him with one it just one yeah I don't you can I would consider it cheating yeah I I messed up entirely it was a kiss and

Maty Fullerthat was that just a kiss Just a Kiss okay and he like saw you do it no no he heard about it he heard about it was this at the party or no it was between

Maty Fullerthe two of us and then a mutual friend um of me and the person that I technically cheated on him with um told

Maty Fullerhim okay yeah that's all to take were you dissatisfied in the relationship or yes and no he's great he's he's he's

Maty Fullerincredible um I felt like there was certain things in him that were lacking that I had seen in the person that I cheated on him with um intellectually

Maty Fullerlike he the guy I cheated with he stim we were friends for a long time um he stimulated my mind and the guy that I was seeing everything was so great

Maty Fullerexcept his responses to me were like he just there just wasn't much going on upstairs so I couldn't like sit down and have like a great conversation for hours

Q (The Q Pill)with him and I found that in somebody else and kind of the give and take H yeah you got thoughts on that Q um it makes a lot of sense I think a lot of guys underestimate the importance of

Q (The Q Pill)intelligence when it comes to a relationship a lot of selection is for intelligence like IQ disparities will cause infidelity so it makes sense if a girl is dating somebody who's intellectually inferior or he's just not

Q (The Q Pill)as intelligent as she is then that guy runs the risk of being cheated on everything else can be great but if you can't stimulate her mind yeah definitely going to get cheated on and that's something I preach to most of my followers my clientele especially the

Q (The Q Pill)men who can't understand why women will do things like that that intellectual and emotional stimulation is one and the same H was the boyfriend like an athlete or something

Maty Fulleryes typical uh great guy but you said he wasn't totally there upstairs or and I don't mean that in a disrespectful way at all

Maty Fullerhe was so kind so great but but what but we couldn't have really good conversations like his op like he didn't have opinions so I would bring up a Hot Topic or literally anything and he had

Maty Fullertwo responses and it was always yeah know like I get what you're saying but like I just don't have the words to to like tell you that or it was no yeah no I don't see that but I don't really have the words to put it together what you're saying so three

Brian Atlasmonths of that the best what sport did he play football house boun guess um and uh uh well you you're a political

Maty Fullerscience major you want to become an attorney um would you try to talk politics with him kind of or politics opinions on absolutely anything like I

Brian Atlascould say isn't the sky pretty today and I have a totally unrelated to dating question sure I'll ask once we get

Brian Atlasthrough the relationship status but uh that's like deep and stuff um what about you I've been single for 5 years now

Brian Atlasokay and my longest relationship was 3 years was that the one that ended 5 years ago no the uh how long was the one that ended 5 years

Brian Atlasago 8 years ago wait what 8 years ago the three-year one ended 8 years ago but what how long was the one that ended 5

Brian Atlasyears ago oh one year one year okay uh who ended the one-year relationship he did who ended the three-year relationship he did because I didn't

Q (The Q Pill)answer the phone quick enough so then I valid or not valid I took that on a consistent basis or just one time you didn't answer the phone CRA it was crazy it was one time oh no he would get mad if I didn't answer the

Brian Atlasphone quick enough oh he might have always been an emergency but wait you would answer the phone but it would ring like three times like you'd answer the phone right I was in church and I couldn't answer the phone oh okay so

Brian Atlaswhen I got out okay I thought just like you still answered the phone just that [ __ ] rained three times yeah pretty much

Kendrabut he was like n you get one ring you get one ring he was mad he's like he literally broke up with me over it so I

Kendrawas like okay okay all right uh and single for five years so there's you've not dated anybody not really like nobody has like

Brian Atlaslike made it official what's the longest period of time you've dated somebody in this past 5 years though I haven't dated anybody you haven't had like a 3mon long like a situationship situationship or of

Brian Atlascourse when's the last situationship you've had like a month ago are you in a situationship no so and how long were you you seeing the most recent situationship 6 months six month

Brian Atlassituationship mhm okay was it exclusive oh my end I thought on his oh so he cheated on you sort of I don't know if he did he just ghosted me oh he ghosted

Brian Atlasyou after six months mhm Good Times uh right wonderful

Emmauh also um what about you I'm single I've been single for 4 years years

Brian Atlasyeah 4 years the longest relationship I was in was like 2 years so in high school no wait you said you've been single for 4 years you're 22 but you

Brian Atlaswere in a 2-year relationship so when you've been like in high school or I was 19 okay so you dated you were in a

Brian Atlas2-year relationship from 19 to 21 no from 17 okay 17 to 19 okay uh the two-year relationship who ended it him

Brian Atlasokay and you've been single for 4 years what so what does that mean though I mean is there a guy in the picture right now in any capacity I've occasionally

Emmadated people and talked to people but uh none of them have turned into full-blown relationships are you currently in the situationship I was a couple weeks ago

Brian Atlasis there a guy in the picture right now no right now a couple weeks ago what uh so that's ended the has it ended uh situationship I'd say so how

Brian Atlaslong are you seeing the situationship uh a month a month it's very brief how did you guys meet um Tinder okay um and in the four years

Brian Atlasyou've been single what's the longest friends with benefits or situationship that you've had that one the last one like a month just one month that's the longest in in

Brian Atlas4 years yeah the longest period of time you've seen a guy in the past four years was just one month mhm okay have you had other shorter term things two weeks 3

Brian Atlasweeks one night yeah a couple a couple one night no like a week or two okay what ends up happening do you do you want more than

Emmathan that or you it just I didn't see it going anywhere it wasn't really meant to go anywhere so it's just like um how do you meet them typically from Tinder or uh no

Emmasometimes it's just like catching up with people or friends or whatnot so like uh you meet them at a

Alexkick back or yeah sometimes okay what about you um so my longest relationship

Alexwas 5 years and I am currently um with my companion of of over one year

Alexand same guy yep same guy the fiveyear relationship who ended it uh it was a little bit Mutual but I mean the relationship was kind of messed up he

Alexcheated on me three times during it and we moved to Bay Area and I was too expensive and blah blah blah so

Turkishokay um I'm single I've been single for almost 3 years last relationship longest relationship 3 years sorry you said you've been single for 3 years you said

Brian Atlasmhm and longest relationship 3 years mhm who ended it uh Mutual Mutual mhm so both both at the same time no so I

Turkishinitiated it and then he was like no no no no no and then I was like we'll take time apart and see how we go and then later on he was like oh yeah I agree we B off

Turkishseparate so you broke up with him but then later on I wanted him back and then he that time apart I realized no I want you I need you I don't need him I

Brian Atlasneed myself but yeah yeah we're in a better place now huh okay um so you ended things but then you

Turkishmissed him mhm and then he was like No And I was like okay wait can you say no

Turkishno no hold on so n no no here let's try one more no no yeah there's no RS then no there's no R I'm

Turkishnot even I feel like we sound the same no hold on we sound the same no what watch check this out no o no no o

Turkishno no no no that that doesn't even sound

Brian Atlaslike me that was like n n n you say ner n no n n ner wait here we got this we

Turkishgot this Turkish wait no no it literally like I'm hearing it and it it sounds the same it's not coming

Andrew Wilsonout like that no can you just say can you just say oh oh oh all what last time last time no

Brian Atlasno does okay we'll work on it we're going to work on it we'll work on it we have the F Q what about you um I got a lady all right how long you guys been together uh two

Brian Atlasmonths rock and roll rock and roll Andrew what about you um yeah I'm happily

Brian Atlasmarried um that's it really all right sweet so uh let's see Where Do We Begin we're going to get into some of the pre-show notes here so

Brian AtlasBrian we're going to do every hour we'll do a test and see if she gets it um uh let's start with Emma okay so Emma you said in your pre-show notes uh you you

Brian Atlaswent on perhaps a crazy date where the guy seemed like he was crazy and on drugs had no furniture in his house and talked very monotone M I thought he was going to kill me or something it was

Brian Atlasokay because I thought he was gorgeous oh my God we proceeded to sleep together and then after he asked for feedback on the sex uh anyway I really liked him he

Emmaturned out to be cool and we dated for a little while was this the most recent situationship no it was in

Brian Atlas2021 I want to say so after kind of after your uh two-year relationship oh yeah okay and how long did you date him

Brian Atlaslike week or two oh a week or two okay uh so a couple things here so he guy seemed like he was crazy and on drugs yes so you met him where uh Tinder

Brian AtlasTinder okay and then uh how long were you guys messaging on Tinder like for a day did you meet did you meet up with him the same day that

Brian Atlasyou matched with him no I think the maybe would it either that day or the day the the next day after yeah okay um and did you uh where did you guys meet

Brian Atlasdid you did you just go to his house or yeah okay what time of night was it probably like 10 p.m. 10 p.m. MH and did he invite you or did you suggest it like

Brian Atlashow did that go about he invited me was was he just like come over um yeah pretty much okay and you said he seemed like he was crazy and on drugs yes so

Brian Atlaswhen you say he seemed like he was crazy and on drugs what can you describe uh perhaps elaborate a bit on his behavior yes he wouldn't make eye contact with me

Emmawhen talking to meh and would just kind of look up into the sky not really like in the conversation um his speech and his

Emmatalking patterns were very monotoned and robotic and then again he had no furniture in his house I thought that

Brian Atlaswas a little off had he just moved in no like not in a bed okay he had a blowup mattress and then you also said you

Brian Atlasthought he was going to kill you so was he acting kind of uh unpredictably was he seemed angry he seemed a little manic

Emmanot angry just like M the kind of people that randomly kill you I don't know if that's a thing

Brian Atlaswhat was that exciting to you the whole no no no no okay well despite this you you said it was okay because I thought

Brian Atlashe was gorgy gorgeous gorgeous um so he's an attractive guy um yeah tall yeah

Brian Atlashow tall like 62 and then white guy no Asian Asian guy

Brian Atlasokay and and he was six to yeah that's like s foot in white person um

Brian Atlaswait and you said uh wait so and gorgeous yeah like very handsome um Vietnamese guy conventionally Vietnamese no Filipino I I don't know Chinese I

Brian Atlasthink Japanese Japanese okay uh you you then say we proceeded to sleep together and then after he asked for feedback on the sex question so you

Brian Atlassaid you you went over there at 10 p.m. right yeah uh you go into the house there's the no furniture MH um how soon

Brian Atlasafter 10 p.m. did you guys start hooking up probably like an hour later 1 hour later yeah Okay and like did he put the moves on you or did you put the moves on

Brian Atlashim oh he did he did yeah okay um and then he asked for feedback yes so was the was the sex bad um no it

Emmawas fine it was it was just fine yeah it was like average or whatever yeah what feedback did you provide him

Emmaum he he was just kind of asking like did you like that and I was like sure sure yeah you didn't like it you said sure you didn't like yeah I wasn't very

Emmareceptive to his questions what what were some of the questions he was just kind of talking

Emmaabout new moves he was trying out and wait he's new move new move new move what was

Emmathat yeah new positions moves did he have names for him no he didn't no names he's like I'm trying this out girl let me show you

Andrew Wilsonwhat I'm I feel like you have to perfect the move before you did you ask him where he where he got the move ideas from no I I think I know where he got

Brian Atlasthem from where'd he get him from his boyfriend yeah probably um wait so okay he was asking you on feedback like

Emmaon the moves he did during the sex or like a after he asked me about like I don't know how I felt like a

Brian Atlasdebrief like debriefed the sex with you it it was a debrief debrief wait so um but okay so he asked for feedback what else did he

Q (The Q Pill)ask not much not much okay like walk me through it what did I do how did I do it he was he was talking about like sex in

Emmaa philosophical way um yeah you [ __ ] the

Brian Atlasconfucious yeah I don't know private chat um so wait okay um so he was

Brian Atlaslike he was like was it good good like did he seem unsure of of it or yeah I'd say a little bit maybe did he want a

Emmarating a rating a rating a rating he would probably ask that yeah like did he give you like a 1 through 10 scale he didn't but I think that's

Brian Atlassomething he would have done and so you at any point did he shout combo no no okay now you said that uh

Brian Atlasyou anyway you really liked him he turned out to be cool yeah and you dated for a little while which in this case was about a week yeah

Brian Atlasum was he did you hang out with him multiple times yes how many times two three

Brian Atlasfour uh a couple like three fours three four sure five yeah okay uh was he did

Brian Atlashe seem like he was crazy in on drugs the other times too um no or did he chill out

Emmahe I didn't fully like trust him he still had a little crazy in him mhm but overall I thought it was worth the

Emmarisk of getting killed because you also thought he was going to kill you well I I have this mindset that if I could killed in like an obscure way like a

Emmashark attack or something that's fine because I'll be INF for it [Music] what

Alexlike okay so you were okay being killed in this dude random apartment with no by chance uh if if you don't mind me asking

Andrew Wilsonare you in any type of anti-depressant or antis psychotic drug no no no but you say you were a little

Maty Fullercrazy um I think in a conventional way like everyone's a little crazy do you just like give into your impulsive thoughts like the little voice

Maty Fullerin your head you do it not always just that one time but like the like American Psycho like no furniture thing wasn't like a

Andrew Wilsonred flag no it was it was definitely red flag like what am I going to do go home you you thought you thought um yes go home you thought being on the 5:00 news

Emmafor something like that was a good idea or yeah well not a good idea just the best way to go out H okay and uh do you have you I

Andrew Wilsonreally want to ask you the bear and the the man question so bad right now I really I do we can uh we'll do uh maybe we just we could start with

Brian Atlasthat uh oh God all right so ladies you randomly get spawned into a forest you can choose to have either a

Brian Atlasrandom man or a random bear also randomly spawn into this forest and you'll cross paths with them do you pick the random man or the random bear and

Emmawe'll start with you then we'll go around the panel go ahead bear I'll I'll take two bears she'll take wait wait what what I'd rather have two bears than a

Andrew Wilsonsingle man what if the bear didn't have any furniture in its house and he thought it was a psychopath and non drugs and uh you might have been on the 5:00 news for

Q (The Q Pill)it eating your face would you choose the bear then yes okay it's an obscure way to go out Andrew she just you know she just said it being I mean having a bear eat your face is a pretty obscure way to

Andrew Wilsongo out I got to tell you yeah I agree that's what makes it cool yeah so why wouldn't you why wouldn't you so you're going to choose the bear because you think it's a more novel way to go

Brian Atlasno I I trust to Bear more either way H okay uh we'll get the answers from

Brian Atlaseverybody um a man a man a bear a bear a bear a man so wait just bear bear bear

Brian Atlasbear do we have that correctly you you four okay so starting with you uh why I feel like I could get away from a bear a lot easier than I could get away

Maty Fullerfrom a man first Al on the basis of what like if a man if a man was approaching me I would freak out if a bear was approaching me I'd freak out but like I

Maty Fullerknow I just trust the bear more than than a man you think the bear is slower than no not saying that I can't outrun a bear oh okay I'm just saying I think I could get a bear to leave me alone

Kendrabetter than I could get a man to leave me alone in that circumstance all right what about you well the B ha is really cute and cuddly and

Kendrafurry and isn't going to try to do me isn't going to try to do you okay all right what why why do you

TTS/Chat readerpick bear um because I feel like I feel like living uncore donated $200 that girl and her tall Vietnamese BF must be part of this moist Mafia

Andrew Wilsonmoist what's moist Mafia listen as a as the only a trillionaire Bachelor on this panel that's really not your concern ran just your concern as one of my handlers to do

Emmathe show that's your only concern oh oh okay um why do you pick bear um because I feel like I know I can't talk them out of it but I feel like I can communicate

Brian Atlasbetter with the bear you could wait like body language what you you'd communicate better with with the Bear yes like are

Emmayou a a bear whisperer almost no but I feel like they can sense your energy and I I'm huh H I'm not out to

Brian Atlashurt a bear so I think that they would know that and understand that I think every person killed by a bear thought that too mhm it's not you know uh but so and then I guess why do you pick the

Brian Atlasbear and perhaps I should add this too why do you pick the bear and why don't you pick the men I I don't trust men I trust bears more you trust Bears more why do you but

Alexlike you went into this guy's apartment MH like did you not trust him at all I trusted him but he wasn't like a

Emmastranger a strange man you talk to him for a day I had known of his and you slept with

Andrew Wilsonhim right like you met up with him and you let him have sex with you a

Andrew WilsonStr guy who he didn't know at all but the concern here is that a bear right the bear the bear is what we're concern not concerned about not concerned about

Emmathe wild animal here he wasn't a strange man I I had known of him before wait when you went over you said that you thought he was crazy and on

Turkishdrugs and you thought he was going to kill you yes I was wait I have a question would you pick the bear or the guy the guy that you're no longer seeing anymore would you pick the bear or him

Emmathat's a good question probably the bear oh okay yeah no because you trust the

Brian Atlasbear more um yeah I guess so um okay oh and then just going back to you two so you said why you pick the

Maty Fullerbear why don't you pick the man so if it's a man that I don't know we're meeting in the not meeting but like we see each other in the woods there's nobody around um I'm I don't want that

Maty Fullerlike I don't you never know what can happen when you're like alone as a woman with a man okay um why do you not pick the man I second

Kendrathat um I just feel like if there's only one man and one woman I feel like they're going to just like try to recreate or procreate or whatever and I'm just not down with that

Brian Atlaswell I don't think in this scenario you're the only two people left on earth oh it's just you are in the for you're in the forest can't I leave you spawn

Brian Atlasyeah you could leave oh you could go back to society it's like a mile away or some [ __ ] okay so I don't have to do either what do you mean like I could go into the forest if I have to choose I

Brian Atlascould just turn around walk away while you're in the forest you get spawned in and then instantly there's like a a but two buttons you spawn in a random man or spawn in a random

Brian Atlasbear I guess it doesn't matter then because I could spawn in and then leave no so in this scenario you will cross paths even if as you're trying to leave the forest it's going to take you 10 minutes

Alexto get out of the forest's still the bear still the bear okay all right uh and then you why do you pick bear because I really love bears oh my good

AlexI'm not okay but again if you give me any other animal I choose a man any other animal and then but why do you not pick the man wait a bear wait wait wait

Alexwhat a man or a dog then okay again a man I don't really like dogs Spirit cat I do like cats okay how big is the cat what about the porcupine it's like a

Alexhouse cat it's a house cat okay well I do like house cats okay I'll choose a cat that porcupine okay I'll choose a porcupine I'd rather come across a porcupine yeah

Alexyeah no I I man do like porcupines I had you know I I had one at home when I was a kid okay all right um you had a pet

Alexporcupine it was not a pet it was not a pet porcupine so there was a porcupine and then we brought it home and then we did release it afterwards so it's like

Alexmy dad was really into animals so he brought in like really random small an released it after how long uh like a few days but like we had like that sounds

Alexthat sounds very much like a pet I just a few days is a pat yeah well I mean I wouldn't consider it a pet still but I mean okay so you had to pet

Alexporcupine okay sure I mean by your are they easy to pet can you pet a porcupine um I tried and if you go like against a

Alexvery specific grain it doesn't really hurt but I did get pricked a few times Emma I'm going to have you read

Brian Atlassome of these chats for us I'm scared here put

Emmait gosh can you read it you see up on the screen can you read it oh ladies he said

Emmabear would you rather come across a man in the woods or go to a diddy party which one did you pick okay I'm going to preface some

Maty Fullerthings if say I were to go to the Diddy party I'm I do I'm not engaging in any Diddy activity with Diddy with a diddy

Maty Fulleraffiliate says who says me I wouldn't um but I don't think I could be in the same space as something like so nefarious so I don't think that I would I could go to

Brian Atlasa diddy party i' I'd rather come across the bear no it's a come across a man in the woods or go to a diddy party I mean there's other women at a there's other women at a diddy

Andrew Wilsonparty but that I don't know is that true I don't I don't know if there's always other women at these Diddy parties oh my God yeah from what I heard it's not always just

Maty Fullerone or two you I would take I would take the man in the woods cuz one I'm not engaging in any didy activity two I couldn't be in a space like knowingly with Diddy activity going on I that's I

Brian Atlascouldn't oh by the way really quick uh Alex over here she uh painted me a miniature on C canas uh of the bow here I'm going to

Brian Atlasdo lift it up can I turn it there you go look at that that's cool okay thank you Alex that was very nice of you thank you I want a bigger I want a bigger canvas version of it though I can do

Kendraum so for you come across a man in the woods or go to a diddy party I would do a man in the woods because I could probably take one man versus multiple

Brian Atlasmen at a diddy bodyy if I had to fight them all right clarification the man okay versus the Diddy party mhm 100% the man all right thank you for that one we have another

Emmachat here I'm going to have you read it again let's go Center zoom and let's uh hide so you chose me huh well I'll just rip out your face in one hit and each

Emmayour remains can't run from me after I crush your head open with my foot more food for me Bears we up Grizzle Grizzle

Brian AtlasGrizzle Grizzle that's a good one um I do have a couple clarifying questions here on this uh Man versus bear question

Brian Atlasum does it change does your answer change at all if the random man who gets spawned in it's a random Asian

Brian Atlasman me yeah does it change random as man now it could be Asian-American it could be Philipp like from the Philippines could be from Mongolia

Maty Fullerthat's so nuanced because at the end of the day like a man is a man but I know in certain Asian countries that the the

Brian Atlasrates for rape are much lower can you use grape or sure use sure sure sure all right okay so what about okay going

Brian Atlasaround the table just yes or no question really quick on the Asian man no doesn't matter asiia man or bear oh bear

Brian Atlasokay bear bear black man or

Brian Atlasbear bear bear bear bear okay George Floyd or

Andrew Wilsonbear bear damn okay is that a fighter huh is that a fighter oh boy very you talk about George foran he he did he did

Brian Atlasget he did get into a fight once um I guess still the bear bear still Bear all right okay um wait so you brought up essay just curious so I mean

Brian Atlasyou must be doing all of you must be doing some sort of risk assessment as to well what's the chance that a guy like either murders me or essay's me

Brian Atlasbasically so I mean so what do you guys think is the percent percentage chance of or what percentage of men do you think would be inclined to in this

Brian Atlassituation where you're alone with him in the woods would be inclined to attack you in some way what percent let's say

Brian Atlasif a usmen 75% 75% okay 50 50% 50 50% i' say

Brian Atlaslike um 10 to 15% 10 to 15 wait so you

Brian Atlassaid 75 was it yes 75% of men yes so three out of four men would essay you

Maty Fulleryes damn uh that's pretty high uh how did you how did you come to to is this backed by statistic you're aware of or how do you come to that just my opinion

Maty Fullernot saying like me specifically but like a woman I think three out of four men in that circumstance there's a POS there's definitely a Poss possibility that they

Brian Atlaswould seize whatever opportunity that came to their mind three out of four men that yes do you think knowing this if we have you seen it's a very old movie so

Brian Atlasmaybe you hav't Minority Report no so there's you could essentially uh before someone committed a crime people were able to like find out through this sort of sci-fi situation you could determine

Brian Atlasif they would commit a crime in the future and then people would just get arrested would you be in favor of something like that for men for everybody I don't but do you think we should I mean you you think

Brian Atlasthree out of four men would would essay women should we imprison those men preemptively no no okay even though they're three out of four men will you

Maty Fullerthink will is an absolute definite like this person is going to sa someone wait let me ask you a different question okay removing this hypothetical scenario sure

Brian Atlasdo you think three out of four men who live in reality who are currently alive at some point in their life will essay a woman

Andrew Wilsonno do you think three out of four men at some point in their life will be alone with a woman yes but so I'm a little confused here okay you said three out four hang on hang on I understand what

Andrew Wilsonyou're saying here let me see if I can clarify it do you think that three and five men if given the opportunity would get away with it 100% nobody would ever find out would I say a woman yes okay I

Brian Atlasthink she said three and four three out of four Excuse me yes three out of four 75% 75% yeah uh wow okay um what about the the

Maty Fullermale students at uh UCSB three out of four I don't go to UCSB I would know uh City College I I genuinely don't know I

Maty Fullergenuinely don't know and it's not like a for a fact 7 5% of men would commit some type of essay if possible that's not

Brian Atlaswhat I'm saying okay um chat what's the adult male population in the USA so 168

Brian Atlasmillion men6 it says 165 million adult males so 75% of 165 I mean he you're probably within the margin of error

Brian Atlasthere Q yeah yeah give or take 5 million so 123 let's just say 12 3 million well because they don't count all the illegals right right uh wait so do you

Brian Atlasthink that 123 million men in the United States are inclined to this sort of thing what are the essay statistics of last

Maty Fulleryear really low I can tell you that low okay mhm that's great um I'm just using your numbers yeah yeah no I I genuinely

Maty Fullerdon't know so but you said three and four right three and four in the situation of yeah of the bear of the or in the woods yeah in the woods yeah in

Maty Fullerthe woods okay so if you want to put it in population numbers you said 125 million so well three or four uh men

Maty Fullerwould be 123 million 123 million men in the United States would would do this I think there's a possibility that in the situation of the the woods yeah if they were put in 123 million men I think

Brian Atlasthere's a definitely a high possibility uh do you have do you have a brother I do I have two two brothers so one of your brothers then would essay a woman in this

Maty Fullersituation based on random probability well you said three out of four so one of them my brother for are four and five so well let's say when they come of age

Andrew Wilsonwhen they become adults your brother's one of them yeah I mean four out of five is higher than would be a higher percentage right so if it was only split between two and it was four out of five then that means almost certainly one of them would well three or four but I mean

Brian Atlasobviously you can't have a quarter of Ages ofes she said the ages of and yeah um

Brian Atlasso what you think one of them when they become adults will my brothers no oh uh do you have um you you just have two

Brian Atlasbrothers right yes you have a father yes I do male cousins yes Uncle yes grandparents grandfather uh three three out of four

Brian Atlasof your male relatives are they also you think they are also um essers absolutely not well hold on what

Maty Fullerwhat's going on in your family that that is so um Pious uh morally virtuous as compared to the general population I think we could take everybody's family here and ask the question around on the

Maty Fullertable do you think that your father brother cousin father brother cousin so on and so forth would be an essayer and I I genuinely believe everyone would say

Turkishno it's a possibility okay oh not me I agree my family would not I have one brother one Dad h no oh

Brian Atlasno okay now we got to do it again we got to do it again here try repeat after me no

Turkishno harder n o no no I say quick on did I get a little better a little better uh no but I would be say

Alexsay well like how would you know that if again you know your point was if they were in that situation where no one would ever find out how do you know for

Alexcertain that none of your relatives would do it cuz to me my my relatives aren't random okay well they don't have to be random and it doesn't have to be you

Alexright it's it's just in general like how would you know that your specific relatives would not do it if it's three and four like and again no one would

Maty Fullerever find out how can you know for certain that they would not do it you can never know for certain I can't I couldn't know for certain do I believe in my heart that that would never

Maty Fullersomething that would take place yes but the question that was posed was random men so so and my family members aren't random to me a person walking down the street would I want to be put in the

Maty Fullerwoods with them absolutely not would I be put in the woods with my father sure that's a camping trip well what do you one of the one of the things that kind of hits here though um is that 8 and 10

Q (The Q Pill)of the women who report uh that this this has happened to them report that it happened from a person that they knew very well yeah I was about to say that I wasn't going to say the same thing after

Q (The Q Pill)they got done your likelihood of being Ed um depends mostly on the person knowing you I'll say random men but a random man doesn't know you either and the first thought in his mind is not

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