Twins RAGE QUIT?! She Called Her BF A BlATCH?! Toxic Girl ADMITS To Abuse?! | Dating Talk #178
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Key Moments
“"I can't take you nowhere that's my best friend's party come on... you stay cheating you stay acting like a hoe I can't take you nowhere"”
“"I slapped him a few times I like I would punch him in the back and like in the arm... I was like so mad"”
“"I walked down the street like where all the crackheads were I start smashing the painting I recorded it... I lit it up with lighter fluid I sat there I started recording and I just let it burn"”
“"I said okay I understand can you stop being a [blatch]... it was just a [blatch]"”
“"I agree with that where if you want to talk about gender roles then yes there has to be like an incentive like Andrew's talking about that it has to be bigger thing for the man versus the woman"”
“"just pragmatically speaking we need to move towards what feminists have been fighting for equality y'all can be drafted too"”
“"I would really say that you're like a seven like you're giving like Prince Vibes... you look like a former Prince like somebody that used to be a prince back when he was younger"”
“"shut the [f***] up... I said the words shut the [f***] up and then... they walked out bro they walked out"”
“"major rage quit... I just want to let you know that they did defend their point of view... there was nothing there that warranted Rage... you've been having fun most of the night"”
“"in order for a man to marry Four Women they have to one treat them all equally if I buy her a Lamborghini I have to buy her a Lamborghini too... the first wife does has to consent"”
“"damn bro damn I shouldn't told those chicks to shut the [f***] up no no oh man I fumbled bro I fumbled fumbled bag"”
Topics Discussed
Brian introduces show, plugs streamlabs/Twitch/Patreon. Guest introductions: Jess (36, Calabasas, plastic surgery marketing director, married), Ayra Blake (20, Hollywood, aspiring runway model/accounting student), Forever Untamed (40, Orange County, celebrity makeup artist/coach), Summer and Sarah (24, LA, Sea Twins, models/clothing brand), Janara (19, Fullerton, student/party promoter), Sam (22, Boise, aesthetician), Naomi (27, Boise, car wrap business, pregnant), Liz (25, Orange County, car wrap business). Andrew Wilson (in-person co-host) introduces himself last.
Brian goes around the table: Jess married 2 years (together 5), husband is CBS dog show host. Ayra single ~2 years (only 1 boyfriend; complicated on-and-off with cheater). Forever Untamed single/celibate ~8 months, longest rel ~3.5 years. Summer single ~2-3 years. Sarah single ~2-3 years. Janara single 3 weeks (recent breakup over vape). Sam in a 4-year relationship. Naomi just started dating, pregnant. Liz in a relationship. Andrew Wilson married. Discussion of why Ayra tolerated her ex's infidelity, the screaming/hitting incident, and her burning/destroying his gifts.
Extended discussion of Ayra's only relationship: on-and-off 2-3 years, ex had agreed to exclusivity but continued seeing other women and told her. She would break up then return. Multiple incidents: she hit him 3 times in the same week (slapping, punching), he hit back once. She burned the Van Gogh painting he gave her (lighter fluid, recorded it on Instagram). Gave his clippers and cologne to a homeless man. Screamed at him for hours while he played Call of Duty. Performs a live demo of screaming at Brian. Andrew calls it "psycho" behavior. Ayra takes full accountability but attributes it to not removing herself from a bad situation. Still in contact with his family (blocked them all recently). Title reference: "Toxic Girl ADMITS To Abuse."
Summer claims to teach stoicism and "vibrational frequencies." Andrew Wilson challenges her to name a stoic philosopher who discussed vibrational frequencies. She references "Maximus" but cannot name Marcus Aurelius when asked about Meditations. Brian helps clarify. Andrew quotes Gladiator (Maximus Decimus Meridius) sarcastically. A TTS donor invents a fake philosopher "daus Maximus van noan" which Brian reads as the answer.
Brian reads Janara's TikToks: she posted about "dating to marry" but "every boy is a cheater liar." Discussion of her recent breakup: she asked her 21yo boyfriend to buy her a vape (she was 19, store carded her), he refused (didn't want to do something illegal). She told him she'd "get it from someone else." Argument escalated; she called him a "blatch" (bitch). He broke up with her the next day. Panel discusses why calling a man a "blatch" is considered disrespectful/emasculating. Janara admits she didn't know it was a serious issue. Title reference: "She Called Her BF A BlATCH."
Brian asks why men should get married secularly. Panel goes around. Summer argues a "real man" should get married to demonstrate commitment. Andrew asks if she would sign a prenup giving her nothing in divorce — she says yes only under certain conditions. Brian argues marriage introduces a financial incentive for women to leave and therefore reduces security for men. Forever Untamed agrees marriage is sacred but celibacy/no dating unless conditions right. Sarah brings Islam: polygamy allowed if first wife consents and husband treats equally. Extended exchange about secular vs religious grounds for marriage. Andrew and Brian agree: no compelling secular argument for men to marry given no-fault divorce laws.
One of the twins (Sarah) says she disagrees with women being drafted. Andrew argues: if you can vote politicians into wars you don't have to fight, that's unfair — men are compelled to serve. Extended debate. Sarah and Forever Untamed both partially agree: if gender roles return (men as protectors/providers), men should have more political say. Guest (possibly Summer) argues women contribute to wartime (nursing, home front). Andrew counters they are not compelled to do so. Brian agrees women should be subject to the draft for equality. Discussion of Iran-Iraq war (Forever Untamed's personal experience). Andrew: "context matters" — quotes the n-word context example. Ayra debates this at length.
Brian states plastic surgery correlates with mental illness. Jess objects — she works in a plastic surgery office. Discussion of "Snapchat dysmorphia" (wanting surgery to look like filtered version of yourself). Jess notes her office does gynecomastia (male breast reduction) — mostly men. Brian argues men are unaware when women have had subtle plastic surgery. Panel discusses BBL, fake lips, Botox. Brian has a strong no-plastic-surgery preference for himself. Andrew: reconstructive surgery after war/accident is acceptable. Jess: implants on Forever Untamed mentioned briefly. Statistics: female plastic surgery demand now trending toward male levels.
Andrew asks each guest to rate themselves and whether 1,000 random men would rate them a 10. Most guests claim everyone is a 10 or deflect. One guest rates Andrew 7/prince vibes; panel agrees. Andrew deflects to rating Brian instead. Discussion of height preferences: one guest prefers men 6'1"+; last dated men 6'2" and 5'8". Brian notes 6'1" is top 10% of male height. Discussion of whether height is a genuine requirement or just preference. Guest says she'd date a 5'5" guy if vibes aligned. Extended discussion about whether women can/can't rate other women's physical appearance.
After an extended debate where Brian told the twins (Summer and Sarah) to "shut the f*** up," they walked off the set. Ayra, who drove them, is asked if she should go check on them. The panel discusses what happened. Forever Untamed says the twins were arguing back and forth without listening. Brian acknowledges he probably shouldn't have said it but stands by the moderation call. Andrew notes this was much milder than typical Whatever rage quits — the conversation had been good overall and the trigger was minor. Brian calls it a "W for us." Ayra stays on the show. Title reference: "Twins RAGE QUIT?!" Later Brian says "I fumbled" by telling them to shut up.
Brian reads his written-down type from his notes: any race but slight preference for white/Asian women. Preference for short women (will date any height). Natural body supremacist — strong preference against plastic surgery, fake tits, BBL, lipo, labiaplasty, fake lips. Minimal makeup. Small boobs "elegant" — can be sexy with large boobs but believes small-breasted women can be "beautiful" while large-breasted women can only be "sexy." Still undecided on butts. Panel reacts. Forever Untamed (who has implants) responds about clothing elegance for smaller-chested women.
Brian goes through Bumble profiles with various guests reacting. Most guests reject all profiles shown. A few profiles get yes votes. Brian shows his own type note. Discussion of men with anime tattoos, Star Wars photoshopped photos, age ranges (18-22 preferred by younger guests). One guest was going to date a dwarf (asked if labia match). Double rage quit from two unnamed guests (separate from the twins) — one woman leaves when asked if she would date a dwarf; Brian forgot to apply the rage quit rule. Naomi/psycho ex mentioned (sent to prison for stalking). Bumble review for Liz included.
Brian asks how many days out of 100 each guest would survive alone in the woods. Discussion of water (72 hours without), food (weeks), air. Morgan (SPEAKER_09) correctly gives the scientific answer for water survival. Brian jokes he'd survive longest. Most guests think they'd last about 2 weeks. Discussion of Naked and Afraid. Seasonal advantage (it's summertime, July).
Brian wraps the show — says next episode is Tuesday 5 PM Pacific. Thanks super chatters. GG's to panel. Raid to Wo Grandma (82yo playing World of Warcraft retail). Final comments from TTS donors. Brian acknowledges fumble with the "shut the f*** up" comment about the twins. Show ends.
Brian Atlas