00:55:57Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)how long have you been single um I would say for about like 2 years 3 years uh 2 to three years yeah okay
00:56:09Brian Atlaslongest relationship I would say on and off for about 5 Years From what age to what age from 18 to 22 okay and you're 24 okay so two to
00:56:21Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)three all right uh how many times was it off and on um I would say often um I would say
00:56:29Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)like it was kind of a a physical situation but not necessarily on my end I was just young I didn't really know the red flags and a
00:56:41Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)guy and um I guess when you're in something like that it takes a while to realize like this is not healthy and then like there was so many other factors in it that made it harder for me
00:56:53Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)to like understand what situation I was in and then when I finally like she kind of really helped me get out of that situation um I never looked back to it so you were in an on again off again
00:57:04Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)5year relationship I mean if you had to estimate how many times was it off and on I would say about three times three to four times three to four times it wasn't like off and then automatically
00:57:14Brian Atlason again it would be like periods a year it be like months and then back together would you date other people no in that off period okay when it was off who initiated the off me it was always me
00:57:27Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)and then when it was on who initiated the let's get back together he would always try his best to come show up in my my life anyway possible all right okay what about you
00:57:39Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)um I would say I've never really had like a serious relationship relationship single yeah so what's the longest period of time you've dated
00:57:50Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)somebody maybe like 3 months or less three months but you never had a boyfriend I mean to in my in my head no yes my
00:58:01Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)head okay all right so when's the last time you've I mean you've been dating at all um no well I've like talked to people like some people on the internet
00:58:13Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)like if I find if they say things that are like interesting to me I'll like respond but I wouldn't I'm not necessarily going out and dating people right now I'm too focused like on what we're doing so which is the
00:58:23Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)educational yeah we are we have educational speaking entrepreneurship in our brand we just launched um a clothing brand so it took a long time for me and you educate people on
00:58:33Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)what um philosophy like anything anything that not just philosophy but just and like like I said how I was talking to you about red flags I was not aware of the red flags in men so I we
00:58:45Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)also educate like red flags in people or in relationships and how the aftermath of trauma in a relationship how can you grow after being traumatized how can you
00:58:53Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)grow what kind of philosophy like um oh it's called stoicism yeah um and sto stoicism or solipsism no stoic stoicism sorry if I'm saying it right
00:59:05Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)it's wrong sto stoicism stoicism and like uh different philosophies you sure you're not teaching them solipsism why would you say that wait what okay I was just curious I was just curious no no no
00:59:16Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)no just about like the mind and like how to like Elevate one's mindset and vibration from low frequency to high frequency what does that mean well that sounds that sounds like esotericism not
00:59:27Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)no it means um low vibrational is like talking about things like oh like she was saying earlier like she had have those pep talks with herself saying I'm stupid I'm an idiot and to go see him those are like low vibrational thoughts
00:59:41Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)and you're supposed to listen to the high vibration like I'm better than this I can do great things I I'm accompl I'm here for a reason I want to be alive I want to fulfill my destiny like there's yeah
00:59:53Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)I don't understand how that's linked in together with sto ISM at all that has everything to do with stoicism because stoicism I am explaining it right now it has to do with stoicism because um
01:00:04Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)people in stoicism believe that life should be peaceful and that everything has a reason in a positive manner so everything correlates with stoicism to high vibration like for example like if you see a situation can you tell me
01:00:17Andrew Wilsonwhich um which of the Great stoic philosophers talked about vibrational frequencies well like for example for someone hang on hang on hang on I I would like an answer to my question can
01:00:28Andrew Wilsonyou tell me which great stoic philosophers talked about vibrational frequencies I'm Maximus what did he say about vibrational frequencies he talked about
01:00:40Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)the State of Mind way Maximus what I cannot remember his last name at the moment but Maximus delus aelius no that's not his name was he the father to a murdered child no I'm
01:00:51Andrew Wilsonsorry went to a murdered wife and he's going to have revenge in this life or the next are making someone's name up that's not accurate wait are we asking who the author uh he's just like wait
01:01:02Andrew Wilsonhave you you guys no no I was I was cracking a joke that's true I was I was quoting Gladiator just because I thought it was funny but Maximus but
01:01:13Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)Maximus the the vibrational frequency guy he talked about the mindset of the brain and they did they did test with human um beings when it comes to like talking and depression people with depression and people who are like
01:01:25Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)successful in their um careers who have depression and they don't have depression and they like tested the people in the room and the people who spoke so highly about others and they had this positive posture in mind that
01:01:38Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)everything that they would say out their mouth was something positive versus the people who were be here before we jump to modern sociolog science experiments can you
01:01:48Andrew Wilsontell me which stoic philosop referencing yeah what was his name again I just told you if you couldn't remember you should have wrote it down I can't remember what is well I'm sorry you should have wrote it down can you tell me one more time no you have to pay that you have why W you
01:02:01Andrew Wilsonjust tell me who the philosopher I'm so sorry well I wasn't sitting here so why don't you tell me I don't really want to continue this conversation well so I I know but we
01:02:14Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)really do want to continue the conversation can you tell us who the philosopher was I just said his name is Maximus I cannot remember his last name I just said that when you asked me that the first time so that's why I didn't want to repeat the conversation teach
01:02:25Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)people stoicism about vibrations you can't name one philosopher other than Maximus who teaches about vibrational frequencies stoic philosophers it's not even about his it's not about that one philosopher himself it's about the idea
01:02:37Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)of stoicism and the practice of it I don't really care about like the pro the point you're trying to prove the point I'm trying to say is a high vibrational mindset is the key to success in my life strategy and what I've been doing that's
01:02:50Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)been working great for me so whatever you're saying I don't need to have a list of people to say oh this is this is like who way you don't need the architects of stoicism the you go and research it I'm not wrong any of them
01:03:03Andrew Wilsontalking about vibration I'm trying to say that I'm not wrong what I'm saying so if you want to prove me wrong pull up the facts against me because everything if you research I'm trying to so here's the thing I'm willing so here so hang on
01:03:14Andrew WilsonI'm absolutely willing 100% to claim that I'm incorrect I love hearing other ideologies and philosophies but I'm going to need a little bit more than Maximus the philosopher who talked about
01:03:26Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)vibrational frequencies for me to even know what the hell you're talking about okay okay for example Alexander the Great or okay he talks about high vibration and
01:03:38Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)how he was able to conquer Jerusalem during a peaceful during the 88 years of Peace versus right now where it's Israel and Palestine there's this whole conflict going on like the [ __ ] does that have to do with anything hold on let me take over let me take over here
01:03:51Brian Atlasfor a second are you guys so you guys are talking about the uh stoicism correct yes okay and you were referencing an individual I was gone who is the individual who you reference I would like to take back my answer because I
01:04:02Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)don't know his full name at the moment I mean I do know his name but I'm sorry was he an emperor no he was um he was a philosopher but I just canot remember
01:04:12Brian Atlashis name yeah I cannot remember his full name do you know who the most preeminent prominent uh stoic philosopher was no not on the top of my mind but are
01:04:23Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)you familiar with the book meditations yeah do you know who wrote the book no not on top of my mind they have very long names and I can't remember these things unless I like go back and memorize Marcus Aurelius yes Marcus
01:04:35Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)Aurelius yeah see it's like it's more so the message than like the most famous stoic philosopher yes yes that's correct yeah he was really keen on like
01:04:48Andrew Wilsonwhat time he got up in the morning what she ate for breakfast not so keen on I don't remember much about vibrational frequencies coming from could be worded in another way but it's overall the same message of like having a high vibration
01:05:01Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)it's the same what does that mean well I mean I feel like I have I I get that I I wouldn't put it as a philosophy to be honest but I get it when you're low frequency is like when you're uh depressed when you're just like all the
01:05:13Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)negative or limiting beliefs or whatever it is so when you raise your vibration is let's say if you do something a workout it's like the endorphins kick in it's like that you know but I I mean I
01:05:24Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)don't I don't I wouldn't call call it a philosophy mine's more like I don't know self-awareness kind of thing but maybe that ties into philosophy I'm not going to really get on to the philosophy part because I don't know much about it but I
01:05:35Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)get the the es and flows when you're low you got to kind of do something to get yourself out of it if I'm not feeling good I will do something you know like Tony Robbins talks about it he's like oh you know when he jumps up and down change your physiology if you're not
01:05:48Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)feeling good change your physiology do something that feeds your soul and then raises your vibration so then it opens up your mindset cuz when you're on those low frequencies you're just it's almost like Doomsday it's like you attract what
01:05:59Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)you put out so when you're in a negative State mind if you're in that low vibration you're attracting everything that's negative so if you're feeling good you're going to radiate that positivity and you're going to get that back in the universe so I believe that
01:06:12Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)but I don't know it's not only that but philosophy has to do everything to do with high vibration because of mindset and also point of view of Life how do you want to live this life and also how do you perceive life this all has to do
01:06:22Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)with philosophy philosophy is used for people to practice in a way of life that's why how people have religions that's why philosophy is Incorporated in religion I mean I don't know much about philosophy but I mean we have I know we
01:06:33Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)have I'm Iranian so there's a lot of amazing philosophers that we have yeah but I'm saying like I don't know much about it so I'm not going to speak on that but I speak on the vibration part of it CU I incorporate that in my life where I'm like okay if I'm feeling this
01:06:45Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)then change your vibration change your physiology and it elevates you so again I don't know much about the philosophy aspect of it but I'm sure it ties into it how long you said you've been single
01:06:55Brian Atlasyour whole life you said pretty much no boyfriend uh yes so are there any guys in the picture currently no no guys in
01:07:04Brian Atlasthe picture no no sneaky link no no guy you're texting no okay and then what about you no guys in the picture no
01:07:15Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)currently no no no okay all right and you said you teach women it's not women it's just people who want to learn people how who want to learn what like people who want to are interested in the
01:07:27Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)mindset that we're talking about like elevating their mindset from negative to positive sometimes you can sit alone by yourself and have automatic negative mindsets bad thoughts all the time you wonder why where are these thoughts coming from it's coming from something
01:07:39Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)self like within subconscious you have to change your mind frame change how you view the world so you can perform better and how you can treat others around you better I'm sorry how do you do that you have to you have to um change your
01:07:50Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)mindset try and change your my how you do that by experiencing new levels of Education um understanding New Perspectives in life and applying it to your own life your day-to-day like like I don't
01:08:02Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)know huh yeah I feel like honestly it's like very basic when it comes to that where it's like it's just change your perspective it's like I can wake up you guys don't share the same but I'm kind of like trying to make it make it make
01:08:13Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)sense but I'm like go ahead yeah I mean you said you said communicate I don't even really want to share too much because I feel like this is like your platform so I really would rather give
01:08:24Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)it an opportunity to talk about dating and not to do with the way of life that's actually Fair all right moving it on what about you I'm single I've been
01:08:32Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)single since June 27th to be exact June 27th to be exact okay so 3 weeks is uh yeah basically all right and how long was that relationship it was I wouldn't
01:08:45Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)even call it a relationship what you call it we were talking for like 2 months and then he asked me to be his girlfriend and I said yes and then he broke up with me a week
01:08:53Brian Atlaslater okay so like a little fling okay and longest relationship a year and four months all right one year uh and we uh
01:09:05Brian Atlasoriginally we found you you had some uh Tik Tok videos uh Nick could you pull those up oh yeah P actually you know what hold on let me get through everybody's relationship status then we'll come back
01:09:18Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)to that um we'll come back to that go ahead I have been in a relationship for 4 years and it is my longest relationship was that the only question
01:09:28Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)yes all right what about you I am married um and that's sorry my longest Rel been married 3 years this year together almost 10 and that's my longest
01:09:39Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)relationship all right what about you I'm taken and the longest relationship was 4 years how long is your current thing we
01:09:49Brian Atlasjust started dating just started dating okay yes all right and um you have kids I'm currently cooking one all right there you go she's pre
01:10:00Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)pregnant prante cool Y how far along almost 8 months well congratulations thank you do you know if it's going to be a boy or a girl a boy thank
01:10:10Brian AtlasGod all right and so uh going back to you you said you been single as of three weeks ago y you were dating guy dating a
01:10:20Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)guy for two months so and he broke up with you he asked you to be boyfriend girlfriend a week later breaks up with you why did he break up with you I okay
01:10:32Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)can I give the whole rundown is it it's kind of like Rel like a quickish rundown yeah go ahead okay so I asked him to get me something and he
01:10:43Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)didn't want to get it for me and then that started an argument and then uh the argument was at night and so
01:10:51Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)we slept on it I'm sorry next day we did didn't text at all then that same night he's like hey I don't think this is going to work out um I go into things
01:11:03Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)without like fully evaluating them and looking at the like repercussions so I don't think I wholeheartedly want a relationship anymore and that was it
01:11:13Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)what was the thing that you wanted a vape you wanted a vape I wanted a vape and how much did The Vape cost like 20 bucks okay okay because I I usually
01:11:26Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)get them myself but the store that I went to carded and so I was like hey um can you please get this for me and he's like I don't want to get that for you because you're not 21 yet and I said
01:11:39Brian Atlasokay and then we had an argument and that whole thing happened oh okay so there was like he didn't want some sort of liability yeah there which like I understand and I told him I was like so then why did you have
01:11:51Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)an argument about it because I told him I was like okay if you don't want to get it I'll I'll just find another way to get it he's like oh no I don't want you to get it from people who are like druggies or things like that like I would rather have you get it from me
01:12:04Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)someone that you trust and I was like well you don't want to do it in the first place so I'll just find my own other way to do it and then I guess that starts a little firing him or
01:12:15Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)something do you think he was wrong for breaking up with you I do because we were talking for 2 months already and he knew my my personality he knew the person that I
01:12:27Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)was and I knew the type of person he was and he was interested he said he was interested in looking for a relationship but for him to cut him off cut me off after a week over one mild argument that
01:12:39Brian Atlascould have easily been solved I don't know it just didn't seem fair what was the nature I mean how was the tone of the argument were you guys were you yelling no we weren't yelling it was over text it was very like Mutual can I
01:12:52Brian Atlasread it go let's no can I read the text messages cuz you know sometimes people are for
01:13:02Brian Atlasleave out certain details I'm being 100% honest I'm sure you are but just you know it without you know seeing the receipts there's no point of contention
01:13:12Brian Atlasor dispute as to what was said what wasn't said and from the I could give you the guy's perspective
01:13:19Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)of if you [ __ ] up he said that I was being kind of dry because all I kept saying was okay
01:13:29Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)because I just wanted to move on from what we were talking about and then he we just like ended the night with good night and then he was like oh a girlfriend wouldn't just like sideline
01:13:41Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)everything I say and not take into accountability what I'm take like what I'm saying like I'm trying to be serious and you're not taking me seriously and I'm like so he I I don't in in what
01:13:51Andrew Wilsonworld is that unreasonable I is that totally reasonable I doesn't it I guess yeah I
01:14:03TTS donationssuppose do you suppose cuz before you said unfair unreasonable oh hold on just a sec negative2 200 donated
01:14:14TTS donations$200 famous stoic philosopher daus Maximus van noan once said align with the cosmos slow vibrations in quiet Whispers find wisdom and hidden paths to
01:14:26Brian AtlasEnlightenment and Harmony yeah that that's the guy I think that's the guy thank you uh 200 200 negative 200 thank you man I love yeah but I mean donate 200 they didn't he didn't even quote
01:14:37Brian Atlasbiggest dick is or anything that was the that was the main philosopher that was cool thank you that was good I speak no lies yeah so uh thank you for thank you
01:14:47Brian Atlasnegative so back to this um have you guys spoken at all since or where did you guys leave it no we haven't spoken since okay how did he how
01:14:58Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)did he end it he just said he was just like oh I ultimately decided that I don't wholeheartedly want a relationship with you he says that he makes impulsive decisions without it wasn't like
01:15:09Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)[Music] this it looks like it's recovered okay go ahead sorry but um we've had like mild arguments where we've gotten over them no problem and I thought this was
01:15:21Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)just going to be another mild argument as well that we would get over but I guess not what else have you guys argued about [Music]
01:15:30Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)um oh me going to parties oh okay what was the argument there um he said that he doesn't want to be
01:15:43Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)with someone who goes to parties all the time when I told him originally already that I do party promoting as like a little side hobby hustle and he was like oh that's that's so cool that you do
01:15:56Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)party promoting and you're in school and you work and stuff like that I was like oh my God this guy thinks I'm like so cool but then he's like I don't want to be with a girl who does party
01:16:06Andrew Wilsonpromoting I was like does he party so you you can you can understand that um I do understand that you could that you could be a pimp but that wouldn't make you a prostitute right like that's not
01:16:18Andrew Wilsonthe way that that works so if you were a pimp and you did have a ring of prostitutes that would not entail that you yourself would need to sleep with the Johns right so if you're a party promoter I don't see how the entailment
01:16:29Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)is that you must party exactly well I just go be for my friends uh my friends are all there I'm friends with all the people that I host with and
01:16:41Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)they're all really cool people it's not like I'm going out talking to three 300 guys in one night getting all their numbers are they coming to talk to you they some do come to talk to me and I'll
01:16:52Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)be polite and say hi but I will tend to just brush them off because no do you drink at the parties rarely
01:17:03Brian Atlasreally do you do you like smoke weed or anything like that no okay uh so in any case this guy broke up with you it seems like there's a little bit of sour grapes but hang on but hang on there are other
01:17:16Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)people I'm guessing at these these parties who are drinking and doing some mild forms of drugs right yes yeah but I try to stay super as much as I can mainly because me and my roommate we go
01:17:27Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)together and she likes to do all that stuff so I drive home if that makes sense is she single
01:17:36Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)yes yeah so like when he first met you he thought it he said y it's cool that you do the party promoting he said word for word I think it's cool that you do
01:17:48Andrew Wilsonphotography and are a party promoter he was probably just trying to make conversation so he could sleep with you well I mean maybe maybe he did think it's cool I just maybe he just didn't
01:18:01Andrew Wilsonthink an entailment of being a person who promoted parties was that you then yourself needed to go party right CU that that doesn't that's not an entailment of that like I promote parties doesn't mean it's like saying
01:18:12Brian AtlasI'm a fight promoter it doesn't mean I have to go to fights right also on that note how how often are these parties held Thursday Friday Saturday no just
01:18:22Brian Atlaslike every Saturday every other Saturday okay and would he were there instances where for example he wanted to hang out with you on a Saturday but you had to go
01:18:32Brian Atlasto the party no okay well I mean he had so I guess when you first met he had no problem with you engaging in what he considered single
01:18:44Brian AtlasBehavior but once you guys started dating he wanted you to act in a way that he thought was more consistent with being in a relationship I think both men both men and women typically tend to
01:18:55Brian Atlasprefer their Partners to not be partying when they're in a relationship mhm so that could be a component there um like when you when you start caring
01:19:07Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)about someone some of the behaviors that in the beginning that you are okay with like the partying then he's like I well now I don't want to share you with him and if you're not going to give it up then he's giving you
01:19:18Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)up it's probably this big argument though that was the cause of the word I don't even know just show him the
01:19:28Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)text just do it I just wish he communicated that like hey I do it just do
01:19:37Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)it I deleted our old messages so prove it you deleted the text messages I deleted everything I have been blocked on everything so isn't there a way that
01:19:49Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)you can bring it back like an iPhone or in iMessage you press like a something the recently deleted gone the large attachments gone you can actually call your phone carrier and they'll like
01:20:01Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)provide the text back Nick can you get on that can we get those receipts back wait so then if you were in a relationship and your man asked you to give up going to parties would you do
01:20:11Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)it um I would say within reason because it is what's within reason I would say I wouldn't go like every every time they throw because it does get tiring and sometimes I do not
01:20:22Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)want to go sometimes because sometimes I do like a night in on the weekends so I don't know I mean is it required for you to go no I just like to go for fun did
01:20:33Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)he ever come with you he was supposed to go to one with me that Saturday but he didn't cuz we broke up do you have more
01:20:45Andrew WilsonLizzy so so hang on I just want to make sure I get this right just real quick before we move on so you're in an argument yes about you going and partying too much yes and your resolution to this was to bring him
01:20:57Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)partying with you I just want to make sure I got that correct because okay he's not a big like LA City party type of guy he's more like Kickback close friends and I was like okay I went to
01:21:10Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)these Kickbacks with him they were fun and I was like okay well if I go to these with you I went to like three I was like can you at least go to like just one just to experience it and then
01:21:21Andrew Wilsonhe was fine with it but then no no I understand the idea here of you have this interest and I have this interest and so I'm participating in your interest will you participate in one of mine yes but this ignores what the
01:21:34Andrew Wilsonargument is about right so let's assume that the roles reversed and you're arguing with him about these G togethers and he was like oh well I have a great idea why don't you just come with me to the G togethers instead that'll just
01:21:45Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)solve the problem right well I didn't know it was an entire problem until we argued about it because before that everything was totally like he was like oh like it's cool like yes I'll go like
01:21:58Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)I already have my outfit planned and then all of a sudden it's like I don't want to go I don't like you partying it's over okay can I so I know that growing up in this day and age we kind
01:22:09Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)of saturate ourselves with the idea that partying while in a relationship is not a bad thing personally I would never do it but I would say that it's not just like a trust issue it's a respect issue
01:22:22Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)so if you respect your boyfriend you just won't party unless he's there mhm and that's my my my opinion and that's what takes a relationship very far MH so for future reference for future
01:22:34Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)reference protect his heart by not going to party without him yeah little invite doesn't hurt anymore well I think you weren't ready for a relationship because if you really do love someone and it's something that it's kind of like a
01:22:46Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)non-negotiable to them it's is it it comes down to like what's more important is it the relationship more important or if you show up to a party with your friends are itally that so if he matters
01:22:58Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)and want to be with him then going toties and not going to parties is not that big of a deal cuz you're like well this relationship matters to me and I want to build on that so all right babe I won't go but if we if we do go then we can go together like you can compromise
01:23:10Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)that eventually but like initially giving him that like you said the respect of you matter to me more and making him giving him that reassurance and then you can kind of compromise but yeah I think it's just when you're
01:23:21Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)really into someone then you'll do the sacrifices m I have a question um would you want to date someone that was partying every weekend like if the rules were reversed like was that is that someone that you would want
01:23:33Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)to be with if they were getting paid for it even if it wasn't required for them to go payment or not
01:23:42Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)um that's a good question I mean I don't know half and half yes no half and half yes no but it's like I'm the type of person person
01:23:54Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)who's very trustworthy which is kind of a bad thing so I will just trust my partner that they don't do anything but at the same time I'm like it's a respect
01:24:04Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)thing like you said yeah so like when a guy's at parties your boyfriend or future boyfriend the idea in your head where it's like he's putting himself in a situation for all of these girls to come up to him for all these girls to
01:24:17Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)hit on him whether or not you trust him that's still happening do you does the idea of that not bother you I would I guess it does yeah because so that's how guys feel though when girls
01:24:29Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)going to parties it's just giving those guys an opportunity whether you're taking or not to give them like yeah again so to give them the opportunity to flirt with you inste that you can totally say no but you're there yeah and
01:24:41Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)you're letting it happen by being there whether you say no or not mhm so it's true love that that's a good point it's a good point I mean there's a
01:24:51Brian Atlasdifferential here because as a guy if you go to a bar club party you could just go get a drink be in the corner be in the main part of it doesn't
01:25:04Brian Atlasreally matter nobody's going to talk to you as a guy the entire night whether you're single in a relationship or married doesn't matter if you're a girl regardless of your relationship status men are going to approach you men are
01:25:17Brian Atlasgoing to come and talk to you men are going to flirt with you there's a massive differential there so even making a comparison between men and women just it's totally different because the way
01:25:27Brian Atlasy'all flirt as women is by putting yourselves out there so when you're in a relationship you need to stop your version of game and we need to stop our
01:25:38Brian Atlasversion of game so for us as men that's taking the initiator role for you as women that's you need to you need to close off your you need to close off your options
01:25:50Brian Atlasby not doing what you do as a single woman which is to put your yourself in a position to be approached to be talked to so for example most women aren't going to slide into a
01:26:01Brian Atlasdude's DMS but you're going to post revealing photos so in a relationship the appropriate thing would be to for example the guide stop dming girls and for the girl to stop posting revealing photos or in the case of a bar the
01:26:14Brian Atlassituation would be the guy stops approaching women as a woman you stop putting yourself in situations where it's you have for uh pre- knowledge that you're likely to be romantically and sexually pursued so this obviously
01:26:27TTS donationsdoesn't look you might get approached in Trader Joe's but that's not really what we're talking about I'm so glad him not dating donated $200 hey good to see you back you tried and failed you missed
01:26:38TTS donationsyour shot they spotted your position huh then you got head shot you baa [ __ ] thought you could hide just pierced his
01:26:47TTS donationsear but didn't break his stride Trump 2024 Trump 2024 baby uh I'm so glad Brave and a decent man he's a Pioneer yo thank you man
01:26:58Brian Atlasappreciate it uh good to see you back in the chat man yeah that was crazy I was watching all that stuff go down uh yesterday massive actually we should maybe talk about the secrets the Secret
01:27:10Andrew WilsonService women and the women that were on his detail that woman had the most important job that there was she was guarding the entirety of his midsection I don't know if he knew that or not uh without her I don't even think he would
01:27:22Andrew Wilsonhave been able to make it out of there uh she was really she was kind of shouldering the Lion Share of the burden if you will I must have looked at that photo at least 30 times and uh while
01:27:34Andrew Wilsonit's true that it was iconic that Trump was holding his fist up in an American flag and that'll go down in history is probably uh one of the greatest presidential pictures ever taken all I could think of was how stunning and brave that woman was who was trying to
01:27:46Brian Atlaspull him off that Battlefield well did you see the photo of the other angle where there one of the not that woman who granted did her job and was uh being a meat Shield effectively she did after
01:27:58Andrew Wilsonshe got done falling on the ground she did indeed grab him around the midsection and try to follow him out of there well there's the woman who but it was a very slippery stage to be fair well there I don't know if you saw this
01:28:09Brian Atlasother angle there's a woman who was like behind and she was the one with short hair who failed to holster her weapon three times I don't know if you saw that part well well okay maybe but these are
01:28:21Andrew Wilsonnew issued Pistols that they have and and you know they're really big and women have small hands it really wasn't fair if they had given her the proper equipment that was necessary like all of
01:28:32Andrew Wilsonthe men got Brian I think that she would have done just fine so I'm not going to take any of your absurd Trump bashing or any of your absurd uh bashing of his bodyguards who clearly did an amazing
01:28:44Andrew Wilsonjob you saw the female sniper the counter sniper she was amazing she did a great job yeah you saw her right no I didn't see her actually I didn't see I thought you didn't see her no I didn't see the female snake that's cuz nobody
01:28:57Brian Atlassaw her because there aren't there's no such thing but if there was she would have done her job well okay that's good that's good anyways that shit's crazy the Dei in the Secret Service okay um
01:29:10Brian Atlaswhere the where were we I don't know we were talking about partying oh partying yeah yeah yeah not putting yourself in situations and relationships yeah anyways uh I guess we'll move things on a little bit here
01:29:21Brian Atlaswe did have a couple things to react to from you though um there was the Tik Tok I guess you can pull that one up Nick I don't even know how you found it it came up in the for you page I
01:29:34Brian Atlasthink that's how we actually found you but go ahead from the oh mute the audio please yeah I guess you can play it when you date to marry but every boy is a
01:29:45Brian Atlascheater liar isn't ready for a relationship or lives off the planet um okay so and so was was this in reaction to the most recent guy or was
01:29:56Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)this about somebody else no I just did it because I felt like it oh but well I mean I'm I'm sure there's some truth to well I guess there's some truth to it obviously not every guy every guy on the
01:30:09Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)planet isn't a liar cheater lives off the face of the Earth yeah well was this most recent guy did he cheat on you no did he lie to
01:30:17Brian Atlasyou no oh he he wasn't ready for a relationship is that kind of more so well he was ready right until you guys had a catastrophic argument about a vape
01:30:28Brian AtlasI guess yeah I suppose and then lives off the planet what does that mean like lives far away like would you hook up with an alien is kind of what you're talking no like I mean like lives far away i' hook up with
01:30:38Brian Atlasan alien sign me up oh you went into an alien like what about like an avatar type alien oh no I mean i' I'd hit okay
01:30:49Brian Atlasall right um he's tall so what is it I guess what is it short cakes matter too what does it mean to live off the planet like they just live far oh live far away that's that's just oh okay okay um but
01:31:02Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)so this guy but it sounds like he was ready for a relationship but then I don't know if he was if he wasn't But ultimately he made the decision to end it wait let's roleplay the the whole
01:31:14Brian AtlasVape situation so okay uh we're walking through the mall is it was he a white guy Asian guy black guy what he's just a guy like a white guy just a white guy white guy yeah we weren't even like together we were
01:31:26Brian Atlasjust texting all right okay all right okay I'm I'm you're Bobby guy you're Bobby all right we're are we
01:31:38Brian Atlasstrolling through the mall is was it the mall texting oh you're texting Tex okay hey babe okay I'm like hey a so cool
01:31:47Brian Atlasthat you're a party promoter I love it
01:31:55Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)okay I was like it was like no no it was like okay so the store I usually go go to cards now can who is going to get me
01:32:06Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)my vape and then he was like not me not me he like not me that's what he said well he was just like not me not me
01:32:16Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)okay he was just like not me you're not if I get you this if I get you this I'm just repeating it go ahead he's like if I get you this it's kind of illegal into the mic if I get you this it's kind of
01:32:27Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)illegal because you're not an adult yet and I said okay well you don't have to I will just find another way to get it and
01:32:37Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)then Hep was like no like I'll get it for you but I will feel bad because it
01:32:46Andrew Wilsonis illegal and I said okay then don't did you call him a [ __ ] no I mean I mean what a p this guy wasn't even willing to do criminal activity for you or anything what what a little piece of
01:32:58Brian Atlasgarbage this guy I did I will say I did call him a [ __ ] once but oh bro you can't leave that [ __ ] out wait okay hold on what's the context here was this
01:33:08Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)during The Vape conversation yes yes there shouldn't even be any context you can't call a man a [ __ ] just like the respect is out before wait let's hear let's hear the rest of it though goad told him I was like if you don't want to
01:33:20Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)get it that's fine but I'm my own person and I would still like to get one I I let him know I was like you're not my dad and that I am my own person and I
01:33:30Brian Atlaswill do what I want with the money that I have well he I don't think he was trying he wasn't trying to prevent you from getting it right or no he was just like it's legal I don't want to get it for you point blank period but then you
01:33:43Brian Atlassaid well I'll get it from somebody else but then he was he had safety concerns of like I don't know what can you can you like uh taint a vape I don't know I don't know either but how did what was
01:33:56Brian Atlasthe context of you calling him a [ __ ] um let me rethink was it during The Vape conversation yes it was okay what what
01:34:07Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)did he say then what what did you say in context I think it was because he just knew I I I Vaped and he knew it was like vaping is like a bad thing and he wanted
01:34:18Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)me to do it less and so I let him know I was like okay I will take that into consideration but I am my own person and I will do it if I want to and then I
01:34:29Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)think that's where I called him a [ __ ] so what what's what exactly did you say I said I oh I said okay I understand can you stop being a
01:34:41Andrew Wilson[ __ ] did you did you put did you put Lil in there L did you put Lil did you put Lil [ __ ] I just put or was it just [ __ ] it was just a [ __ ] so there's a couple things here
01:34:54Brian Atlasuh you're not allowed to call guys [ __ ] no just like it just feels like he was trying to do what was best for you you have to understand like okay here's here's two things hold on hold on hold on two things first off this is one
01:35:06Brian Atlasof the very like we spent about five minutes talking about it but you you withheld a very important piece of evidence that we could have used to prosecute you for
01:35:18Brian Atlasyour crime no but like this is what people do they'll like they'll downplay what they've done wrong and they'll exaggerate what the other person's done
01:35:29Brian Atlaswrong I've me personally I've never done that ever I always am totally 100% honest if if I did something wrong I'll say it I will paint a good if I especially if I'm asking for advice I'll always be sure okay here's
01:35:42Brian Atlaswhat I said here's what they said I won't leave certain details out to try to pay me in a better light but you calling him a [ __ ] is like the major
01:35:51Brian Atlasbro a guy wants to feel respected his respect is huge for will K kill other because men disrespected them it's not
01:36:04Brian Atlaseven won't even necessarily be about money if a guy disrespects I'm not saying all men will do this but men will literally kill other men for feeling disrespected and as your woman he wants
01:36:17Brian Atlasyou to he he wants you to respect him I mean I think this goes both ways but for men like respect is on a whole another level you can't like you don't respect your
01:36:28Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)man if you're calling him a [ __ ] you it's it's respect as to men there's no going back yeah no there's like men put respect above love
01:36:39Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)so the way we want we want to receive love is that respect so if you don't respect a man you can't expect him to be a provider protector cuz he's like he doesn't respect me so why would I do any of these things for her so the moment you call him a [ __ ] it's like that's
01:36:52Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)that's like the cardinal rule you never do if you want to break up with someone call him Anam [ __ ] like not even in a joke not anything like that but respect is literally the most important to to a man just like how we want to receive
01:37:04Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)love so yeah I mean that is the reason for the breakup it's that I don't even think it has anything to do with your partying it has nothing to do with any of that it's the fact that he just doesn't feel respected so I find it
01:37:14Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)interesting too that um just kind of going back to the Tik Tok as well that you know you you're having a hard time finding like marriage or like these long term relationships but like for me I would never call my husband that just
01:37:26Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)because of that respect so it makes me wonder if you know it's okay if you're not ready for marriage but you're just maybe not ready for that long-term like committed relationship you know what I mean just something yeah on the Tik Tok
01:37:37Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)you wrote dating to marry and dating to marry like that's what I do if when I decide to date I put myself out I act like a wife right because I'm trying to attract a husband so if if my actions
01:37:51Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)don't align with what I want then I'm not going to attract the guy that I want so if you're saying dating for marriage that's a big thing to say if you're just having me dating to date cool do whatever you want no you can't even you want one understand you can't call [ __ ] either no I'm not saying the [ __ ] that
01:38:04Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)that's a whole that's that's a that's absolutely non-negotiable that's like literally yeah no uh but I'm saying like dating to Mary it's different like you really have to portray that person to
01:38:16Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)attract that because if you're partying you're calling him disrespecting him and all that like that's not dating to Mary like that's yeah do you think that when you said I'll get it from someone else he thought
01:38:29Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)you meant another guy or was it truly about babing cuz given that you were a partyer that's Pro that's where my mind went right away when I said someone else I was talking about like my friends
01:38:39Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)mainly also I didn't know it was I don't know if it's just the younger generation but I didn't know it was a cardinal rule not to call a guy a [ __ ] like I didn't know that it emasculate so I really
01:38:52Brian Atlasdidn't know that wait let me ask you a question if he called you a [ __ ] would that would that would be chill with you that'd be cool I think they hold on let's let her answer hold on I'm like trying to
01:39:05Andrew Wilsonpicture him calling me a [ __ ] and it's like not happening yeah yeah no no no but the question the question is if he did if he
01:39:14Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)were to we're we're not saying that he would we're just saying if he did would that have been okay with you no of course not so I guess I'm
01:39:25Brian Atlasseeing the opposite end wait so what is the culture though cuz you're you said you're 19 right so I mean what is the culture the culture is talking [ __ ] to Men I'm 20 I'm here with you just yeah
01:39:36Jess/Summer/Sarah/Janara/Sam/Naomi/Liz (mixed)like everyone nowadays they just talk [ __ ] about each other like that's it maybe that's why relationships don't last maybe that's why relationships aren't lasting the relation what's wrong
01:39:46Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)with Z women get the [ __ ] bro no way Greener it's like there's no you guys are just ready to JP from one thing to another there's no respect there's no like core values there's none of that
01:39:59Brian Atlasthat's why there's relationships are gen Z Men start calling these women [ __ ] that is literally the oh no no no but you're trying to say that it's cool for like oh that's how it is we just call
01:40:11Ayra Blakemen [ __ ] I'm not saying that I was just telling her I'm in that generation too and I was going to say something you were cosigning no I was saying I'm in that generation too I'm 20 years old I'm
01:40:22Brian Atlasin that generation but I do not agree with what you bro there's no generation where any guy who who's like actually worth anything is going to tolerate his
01:40:32Ayra Blakegirlfriend calling him a [ __ ] there's no I feel the same exact way I had a guy explain to me how he is going to call me
01:40:41Ayra Blakea [ __ ] because it's just a word like you my [ __ ] like no I'm not no it's not different it's the same they're both bad things you don't do that on either parts it's bad it's a whatever okay no I was
01:40:55Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)going to say even with you when you're yelling at your man you're literally mascula you you stood there for hour whether you're frustrated or not men do not listen if you're yelling at them there's coming to your man for a solution and there's coming at him when you come at him he's not going to listen
01:41:08Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)he's going to tune you out there's no respect so there the way you speak to men and it's funny because I feel like now generation like you said there's no good men there's there's plenty of good men it's because this generation
01:41:19Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)emasculates men you guys it's the women aren their masculine oh this is where Jess and I will fire up where it's feminism has definitely ruined all of that U where it comes to men being men
01:41:32Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)men step up there was I don't know if you guys saw that article that there was a some girl that was drowning and the guy saved her sa saved her life and then he was like she was going to sue him for touching her it's like this is no not
01:41:45Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)even that it was like oh he he touched me without my consent [ __ ] you were under the water You Were Dying like he literally saved your life and she's like well for a brief moment I was grateful that I was alive for a brief moment you were grateful this is why men don't step
01:41:58Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)up because when they do the right thing could you search they get cified damned if you do damned if you don't yeah it's literally that so it's like why should we try if I try like you said I'm damn if I if I don't then it's like so it
01:42:09Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)literally comes if you want better men be better women because it starts with you how you act how you carry yourself how you talk to them treat a man like a king he will treat you like a queen Elevate him respect him and you'll get
01:42:20Brian Atlasthat because if you don't then I want to say one thing I got to say one thing this is a public service announcement to any you whoever the youngest person is
01:42:30Brian Atlaswho's watching this you could be gen Z you could be 16 17 18 all the way to whatever age you could be uh well the youngest person watching this right now is 8 months old a it is it's true there
01:42:42Brian Atlasyou go is it a boy or oh it's a boy okay advice for the boy in here who's cooking all right Public Service Announcement if your girl calls you a [ __ ]
01:42:53Brian Atlasthat is an insta breakup you just say I even if you're in person with her you just say this conversation is over you need to leave that's the end you you
01:43:03Brian Atlasdon't know further conversation the the relationship is over you're done you tell her to leave she's at your place get out conversation's over delete her
01:43:14Andrew Wilsonnumber whatever you have to do but yeah that's it's a rap yeah it's a WP if a girl I've got two followup questions here uh one one for
01:43:23Andrew Wilsonum one for you and then one for the girl with the picnic dress so um so the the first question red flag for you you you you say often well I wanted to go to these parties to hang out with my
01:43:36Andrew Wilsonfriends I wanted to go there to hang out with my friends my friends are all there did you happen to have any Exes who went to these parties as well no not none
01:43:45Andrew Wilsonnone no dating interest at all no they never went to these parties all right and then over to picnic dress say no it's the same thing when a man calls a
01:43:56Andrew Wilsonwoman a [ __ ] is when a woman calls a man a [ __ ] would you say that if a man and you were sleeping together and in the throws of passion he would say something like right or something like that that
01:44:08TTS donationsthat would hit the same care less what any of these pedestrian parasites have to say tonight's show should be an emergency meeting dedicated to Trump cancelled convicted and shot everyone
01:44:20Andrew Wilsonbetter vote Trump Raised Fist what's up Mike Davis good to see you in the chat man thank you appreciate it yeah it would have be good if we did a stream yesterday go ahead go ahead and would you would you say that that would hit the same way if in the throws of passion
01:44:33Andrew Wilsonhe he said something like that he said something like called you a [ __ ] or something like this wouldn't that be a little more excusable in the throws of passion do you mean like during like
01:44:44Ayra Blakeyeah no that's never okay I feel like that's when I'm my like purest like most like intimate self I feel like you you should treat me with that same respect
01:44:54Ayra Blakeas well like I am like my most like naked innocent like I need that same reaction like like kindness so you're going at it hot and heavy he like take it [ __ ] you think that that's him
01:45:06Andrew Wilsontrying to insult you no I wouldn't say I'm being honest right because when you say wait wait it's always the same it always hits the same clearly it there's instances where the word is used where
01:45:19Andrew Wilsonthe I mean the context always matters right so it's not going to hit men the same ways it's going to hit women uh any more than you know somebody who was into getting degraded while they're having intercourse uh they might not me called
01:45:30Ayra Blakethe [ __ ] outside of that setting but inside of it maybe they're fine with it right no it's not okay it's not okay inside of that setting or outside because in that setting you're most connected so if you allow that in a
01:45:42Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)situation where you're most connected like you can't not expect it in every other situation no but that's called Boundaries that's when you communicate what you want if you're freak in the bedroom and you want to be thrown around called names whatever it is it stays
01:45:56Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)there and then when you're outside that's different it's completely different context but men regardless you do not call a man a [ __ ] like period well that would be weird if you were like in the bedroom you're like you're a
01:46:08Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)[ __ ] I mean unless he's into that I mean the bedroom the bedroom I think is different never met a guy who's into that yeah but I mean I still wouldn't even do that I would not let him speak to me
01:46:19Ayra Blakewhile we're having a sexual intercourse it may not it may not roam the dises come on get stocking through his family forever he's going to call you whatever the hell
01:46:30Ayra Blakehe wants in the bedroom and you ain't going to say a word about it right like that's the trth because he still hasn't learned to respect me outside of the bedroom that's what I was explaining to you earlier is that as much as I wanted
01:46:41Ayra Blaketo be there as much as I was putting myself in the positions to be around him I still didn't be like with him because I knew that there was no respect there and what I'm saying
01:46:53Ayra Blakeregardless of if like a woman likes to be talked to a certain type of way in the bed you're asking me and I'm telling you that I don't and I would not allow it because I don't allow it outside of the bedroom and that those are okay well
01:47:06Andrew Wilsonlet's let's try it let's try it a different way then let's see if the these two things hit the same way okay so let's say say that you called your
01:47:14Andrew Wilsonman daddy in front of your father that's crazy I would never do that Dad he a trip what do do you think that that might even though even though you call
01:47:25Andrew Wilsonyour father dad right or something some variation of this don't you think it might hit him a little differently the second we have different context around this I would never do that my dad has
01:47:38Andrew Wilsoncalled me no no the point isn't whether or not you would do it the point is whether or not you could see how there would be different context and why it would be bothersome even if you're using the same
01:47:47Ayra Blakeword you like that ddy I don't I don't know I wouldn't say that like outside of just me and him like I know I'm telling you guys like I called him Fat Daddy but
01:47:59Andrew WilsonI wouldn't call him that in front of other people like I would call if you called your dad fat daddy would it hit him a little different do you think yes it would because I don't see yes it would so context matters context
01:48:13Andrew Wilsonmatters would call D so you would your dad you're like call Daddy have a sandwich I made you fat dad he's not going to take it the same dad my dad was never fat so I wouldn't call him that I
01:48:23Andrew Wilsonspecifically called my ex that cuz he used to be fat when we got together no I get it but if you went to your father and you were like hey you know I made you this delicious sandwich on this nice
01:48:34Andrew WilsonSaturday so you can relax here you go fat dad do you think do you think that he would take it the same way that your ex no of course not right no way I don't understand what you're
01:48:46Andrew Wilsontrying to get at here what I'm trying to get at is that the reason the reason I'm saying you can use the same word and it can be more derogatory towards one person than it is another is because
01:48:57Andrew Wilsoncontext matters that's why when Brian says look uh he disagrees if you say [ __ ] to a woman it's doesn't hit the same as when you say it to a man context matters I wasn't disagreeing with that
01:49:08Ayra Blakethough I was saying that it's both you did disagree no I said that calling a woman a [ __ ] is terrible and calling a man a [ __ ] is terrible I feel like those are both different yeah but no you said they're equal they're not equal
01:49:19Andrew Wilsonthey different equal disrespect that's how I feel is that equally disrespectful because it hits him different just like it would hit your dad different if you called him fat daddy versus your ex you see they're both disrespectful though
01:49:32Ayra Blakethere's a difference they're both disrespectful you shouldn't be putting disrespect on a level of no they're only disrespectful depending on context and I just gave you multiple times where there could be context where
01:49:44Andrew Wilsonyou use a word where it's not considered disrespectful perhaps your pet name for a chick like you called this guy fat daddy is dumb [ __ ] maybe that's your pet name for hey dumb [ __ ] come over
01:49:55Ayra Blakehere and she just loves that is that disrespectful then that is disrespectful he allowed disrespectful even though but calling your ex Fat Daddy isn't he allowed me to call him that that was
01:50:07Andrew Wilsonsomething that we talked about and something that he was okay with so if she's okay with it hang on hang on if she's okay with it then how could it be disrespectful because he wasn't okay
01:50:18Andrew Wilsonwith it it has to be listen to what I'm asking you communication stop st stop talking for a second you're not the reason I'm asking you to stop is
01:50:27Andrew Wilsonyou're not hearing what I'm saying go ahead a guy and a girl agree he he says my new pet name for you is dumb [ __ ] and she goes yay I love being called
01:50:37Andrew Wilsonthat it's great right I it's my favorite is it still disrespectful for him to call her that if she allowed it then that's fine what I'm saying right that's but that's my point is that it within
01:50:50Forever Untamed (Iranian woman, 40)the frame of context different words hit people differently and the bottom line is you just don't call a guy a [ __ ] unless you want to here I'll give you I'll give you the best example ever like the easiest
01:51:01Andrew Wilsonexample ever hang hang hang I think we can agree I think we're feels disrespected bying stop prattling just listen stop prattling cuz you don't get it you don't
01:51:12Ayra Blakeget it stop pring for a second toling St listen to you stop prattling stilling I would like you to do the same for me stoping so if someone something and they feel
01:51:24Brian Atlasdisrespected then it's disrespectful but if they say it's okay that's okay on their end hold on I'm moderating this conversation if I tell anybody to stop
01:51:34Brian Atlastalking I need you to stop talking okay so what because it's what's going to happen Andrew's going to say his piece you'll have a chance to respond let him say his thing then you can speak go ahead thank you so I'm just going to
01:51:45Andrew Wilsongive you the easiest example of this ever so that we there's no confusion at all would it hit a black person differently if a white person called them the nword then if a black person called them the n-word I've been having
01:51:58Ayra Blakethis conversation a lot with the people around thank you stay safe wait am I welome everyone okay I've been having this conversation a lot
01:52:08Ayra Blakewith the people around me a recent cooworker of mine he told me that it is just as disrespectful because if it's a degrading word when someone else says it then it's a degrading word when we say
01:52:20Andrew Wilsonit to each other so yes it's dises respectful on both that's not my question my question isn't whether or not it's disrespectful my question is would it hit differently if a white person called a black person the nword
01:52:32Andrew Wilsonversus if a black person called a black person the NW wouldn't it hit differently no it would hit the same it hits the same you're so full of [ __ ] nobody's ever going to believe that in a million years no but you're not
01:52:44Ayra Blakelistening to what I just said I just had a conversation with a previous coworker of mine and I called him [ __ ] and he said that's very disrespectful I said no it would have been disrespectful if