03:47:12Andrew Wilsonlive my life that's very [ __ ] disrespectful and I would never do that so [ __ ] you do you understand the distinction of me giving a prefix for I
03:47:24Andrew Wilsondon't like what you said thing I'm sorry I'm sorry do you think do you think that God do you think that God doesn't understand what I just said do you think he doesn't know what I just said do you think that you do you
03:47:36Andrew Wilsonthink that you trying to convince people that I said a thing I didn't say matters it doesn't matter no what I'm upset about is that you said that I'm saying that and that's disrespect you are saying that how are you not saying that you literally said to me I know that
03:47:49Andrew Wilsonthis is a sin it's of the devil and I'm going to do it anyway how's that not spitting in God's face explain you're disgusting you're disgusting explain it that's [ __ ] explain how it's not spitting in God's face disg you get gang
03:48:01Andrew Wilsonbanged on camera you're worried about me being disgusting I can already tell that you take dicks in your mouth in front of other men and I'm the disgusting one can you explain one more time how you can
03:48:12Andrew Wilsonspit in God's face and then pretend that you're obeying his will and I'm the disgusting one can you explain that literally suck a dick I don't really give a [ __ ] about your op suck a dick that's what you do for a living not what
03:48:24Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)I do I don't like that kind of talk he's disgusting I can't I don't respect him at all can God forgive if he did only offense can you forgive abolutely no I always wondered that because I'm very
03:48:35Laurainterested in going to the church I'm going actually the whole reason that God sent Jesus was because someone like me a thief like a someone that judges that's why he literally died on the cross so
03:48:48Lauralike that is literally why he came like the you know how a lot of people say like well it's just like I don't go to church because there's a bunch of Hypocrites like literally Jesus died because of Hypocrites so like we are his
03:48:59Laurafans you know like so he does forgive and stuff like that so we murderers go to heaven but only is that so only that's a different thing but he will only forgive if you want to be forgiven
03:49:11Laurabecause we have free will so it's just if you want to be forgiven you know because for example you said I know I'm saved I'm going to heaven yeah I'll stop
03:49:19Brian Atlasit's okay yeah be [ __ ] disgusting again what rude okay um oh you're the designated uh reader go ahead so ugly thank you North Bay I didn't know you
03:49:31Nicolletwere a bulldog that's crazy man but it's strictly Hornets over here NHS Mustang bull dog but you cool though
03:49:41Brian Atlasbro uh North Bay thank you for that message I no naked are you wearing a shirt or something it's my high school oh how did that come up uh and if you
03:49:53Nicolletcan read this one please if nicholet spent as much time filling her head with knowledge and literature as much as she does filling it with pee PE and doing seminal fluid
03:50:05Laurainstead she would actually have an argument what uh killer of cereal thank you appreciate did you hear what she just said say it again for them all to hear I was like she just brings
03:50:15Brian Atlashim the most money thank you I mean it's been a slow night to be honest Nikolai you not do the best you're welcome I tried with the [ __ ] hat okay she
03:50:27Brian Atlastried she did try uh well maybe we can come back to some of that conversation later I'd like to take it back to uh dating a little bit here has anybody here had a
03:50:38Brian Atlasroster roster a roster what's that animal Anissa Ana Anissa ana ana have you ever had a roster when it comes to dating I have not cuz I feel like you
03:50:49Brian Atlashave RZ so like I feel like you just like slay what the I haven't no okay all right what about you I do not know what
03:51:00Brian Atlasit means Ro uh multiple men dating multiple men no lot of options roster no roster do you play
03:51:08Nicolletsports I get asked that a lot yes I did but not what you probably think I did badminton I said not what you probably
03:51:17Brian Atlasthink I did cheer and softball oh okay all right ever had a roster of guys no
03:51:25Brian Atlasno what you no none of you no no roster no you've never had a roster dating app no roster cuz I don't know you two are friends right I feel like you guys got
03:51:36Brian AtlasRiz like what's it called uh what's what's that uh like sleeper is you guys have sleeper is okay net
03:51:46TTS/Donationsroster Dylan Joe donated $199 sorry to interrupt love you Brian and fam I just sent an email to Madison
03:51:57TTS/Donationscuz I want to send you guys a hand painted portrait to show my love Andrew burn this witch the power of Christ compels her that's
03:52:06Brian Atlascrazy yo Dylan uh thank you for the TTS man appreciate it uh I mean you can also if you want to email me too Brian I would ever if you uh want we have a couple pieces
03:52:17Brian Atlasof uh artwork in the studio from uh viewers so yeah we uh we hang it I guess uh roster nicholet well this may come as
03:52:27Brian Atlasa surprise to you all but yes I have the huge surprise massive surprise didn't see it coming the football
03:52:38Nicolletteam was it the offensive or defensive line I don't know their position all I know is their position like in bed oh my goodness
03:52:50Brian Atlasokay uh okay um well I'm not done nicholet okay um how many guys from the football team did you get only like four
03:53:01Brian Atlasonly four yeah only only four yeah and uh it was just one football team is this like in high school dude why did you have to ask that question that's kind of weird that's kind of weird why why is
03:53:13Nicolletthat weird was it was either in high school or in college well unless it was like okay don't even go there don't I
03:53:22Nicolletmean I I mean yes High School okay okay at your high school yes huh
03:53:34Nicolletokay uh tell us how big's the roster been though oh like I said only like four or three oh okay I thought you were talking just about the football team but maybe there was yeah no no I can only
03:53:43Brian Atlashandle so much dick in a time oh boy hold on I got get the Rocks yeah Abdul yeah get the Rocks get the Rocks
03:53:53Brian Atlas[Music] um damn okay that's cool uh roster no
03:54:02Brian Atlasroster you got you got a roster never had a boyfriend no never a roster when I when I love I love hard only one man can we see the tattoos again I think the the
03:54:13Brian Atlaschat wants to see the tattoos the so you got oh you know I'm getting rid of them I don't know how to show them like I guess you got to stand on the chair or
03:54:28Angelicsomething wait oh no can you not see I don't think you can see from there there is devil angel okay all right
03:54:40Angelicuh what was the explanation again for the tattoos oh uh like when I was younger I mean my name Angelic it's because like I kind of realized growing up in some people's stories you're going
03:54:52Nicolletto be like an angel and other people's stories you're like the worst person alive and like the devil like everyone's perception of you is different and I found that interesting got it roster ever had a roster no never had a roster
03:55:05Brian Atlascan uh can uh actually I'll ask you this remind me to ask you about the the burger thing after the show um let's see oh I you
03:55:15Brian Atlaswanted to talk about I let's let's get into I so going around the table uh give us uh at least one ick but if you have two or three that's we'd like to hear more starting uh why don't we start on this side over here we'll go
03:55:29Nicolletwe'll start with you we'll go around this way yeah I probably have a few um men that dress really zesty is a big ick like really fruity zesty men not about
03:55:39Nicolletit um men no sorry sorry sorry go men that are liberals not a fan not aanal
03:55:47Brian Atlasatheist a religious um let me see shortman short men yeah shorter than me I think you lost you're going to lose a couple people there how tall are you 5'5
03:55:59Nicollet55 not that tall so you'll did a guy who's 5 six yeah okay sometimes like eye contact is is nice but I I'm pretty into the guy I'm seeing now so sure yeah uh
03:56:09Nicolletokay so zesty liberal uh atheist and short yeah ick essentially all right Angelic uh what are some icks for you honestly I don't really have that many I would say
03:56:22Angelicthat one that I've noticed is like when a man just doesn't take care of himself like he orders takeout every single day like he just doesn't I don't know he just doesn't keep up with himself like I
03:56:33Brian Atlashate it sorry damn I feel personally attacked [ __ ] door Dash every day bro every day okay uh what about you um short temper
03:56:46Brian Atlasshort why you guys got to throw me under the bus like this man all right what about what about you whenever they wear their shorts past their
03:56:55Nicolletknees that's valid Nicollet so I hate when they mansplain I hate guys who paint their nails I hate when guys wear that one dangly like cross earring on
03:57:06Nicolletone ear those are my eggs gives you the egg okay all right what's mansplaining for those who don't know so mansplaining so I saw a funny meme so say this is a
03:57:17Nicolletguy saying this to a girl well man explaining is when men
03:57:24Nicolletexplain profound that was that's profound no that's like saying a guy that's a guy my example of a guy man explaining mhm okay uh any I what are
03:57:34Brian Atlasthe icks having a girl best friend a okay a girl best friend uh H any any others any other EGS um being like one of those weird M's
03:57:46Nicolletboys where they're like in love with their mom and like the mom is in love with the son in like a really weird way though and in a in a weird way yeah okay so how's that have you experienced that
03:57:57Nicolletwith the guy you've dated or no I've experienced the girl best friend but not the mom have friends that have experienced that so would you uh would
03:58:07Brian Atlasyou date a guy who had female friends yeah but not what if it's the best
03:58:13Nicolletfriend no no no okay you think why is that um because it usually causes trust
03:58:22Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)issues okay but you state when he called your best friend's name when he was kissing yeah oh that's yeah it's like there's there's uh he cannot have a best
03:58:34Brian Atlasfriend but he can call your best friend's name when kissing yeah do you have any uh do you have any uh close male friends no no any male friends yeah
03:58:44Jamieyeah I do okay huh all right what about you I would say no ambition and addicted to video games oh addicted to video games okay Andrew might have thoughts on
03:58:56Andrew Wilsonthat one but uh what about you yeah I have well I mean that would just rule me out you know damn if you spend like more than I would say 4 hours a day what
03:59:07Andrew Wilsonthat's that's that's casual really wow in Span well I don't I've I never really understood this because men do spend
03:59:17Andrew Wilsontons of time on their Hobbies um so whether they're doing so I have a a good friend of mine for instance he's a leather worker very very very skilled leather worker and for leather workers the more Gody they can make a thing the
03:59:30Andrew Wilsonbetter it is and he has just thousands of tools and he can he can actually take your face and put your face in a piece of leather that's how that's how good he is uh he spends I don't know how much time on it he never makes any money at
03:59:42Andrew Wilsonit he doesn't want to make any money at at it he just does it as a hobby and he's obsessive about it and yeah I would say probably not every day he would spend 4 hours but if you were to average all of the time he has spent on it it
03:59:54Jamiewould probably average to like 4 hours a day probably what would be like real world positives of spending 4 hours per day gaming what would be the the positives
04:00:06Jamieof spending four hours a day leather working um that you can actually create something like malleable like a real physical item like what I mean what if
04:00:17Andrew Wilsonyou don't what if you don't you're just doing it cuz I mean he's not creating physical items for anybody he just makes stuff the fun of making it yeah it's not for the benefit of anybody except him so
04:00:29Andrew Wilsonlike what what does that actually do for anybody except him nothing but what does gaming do yeah but I mean even if it does nothing why would one of those be appropriate not the other one so in
04:00:40Andrew Wilsonother words um I think that the hobby of gaming is just in with uh challenges with camaraderie and it assists them in uh many ways uh when it comes to
04:00:52Andrew Wilsonespecially men often will lean towards games that have incredible storylines things like this and the reason for this the is because you can't as a man anymore in modernity in the west you're
04:01:04Andrew Wilsonnot going to go be an adventurer anymore you're not going to go get on a ship to the new world you're not going to be going and exploring the depths of uh of the ocean you're going to be kind of living that through novels and uh and
04:01:17Andrew Wilsonvarious things like this video games offer challenges they they offer escape and they offer camaraderie and I don't actually see why there's a big problem with that maybe change my mind because
04:01:27Jamiewhen I'm thinking about it too it also offers Community to to men as well also you can't go on like a seven kill streak in
04:01:37Andrew WilsonBattlefield huh yeah well there's not there's not that many ways uh other than than maybe at your job for men to compete with each other anymore that's true right we the we can't really just
04:01:49Andrew Wilsongo to the Gladiator stand and just beat the [ __ ] out of each other uh the world has moved past that so unless you have like a sanctioned UFC fight or something uh specific or particular that way uh
04:02:02Andrew Wilsonvideo games are a really good way for men to compete with each other from all over the world and they seem to have a lot of fun doing it it builds a lot of camaraderie they have a good time I don't really see why it's a problematic
04:02:14Laurahobby for women can I push back because I'm just I I'm genuinely curious because for me that's why I know why Andrew go ahead I you could probably change my mind but then so if you're looking for
04:02:26Laurathat then why don't you do like UFC or something like that and then when you're doing video games it's almost like you go into a different Fantasy Land which what you were explaining but genuinely
04:02:38Andrew WilsonI'm just curious like well so boxing boxing pugilism UFC things like this they cause damage to one's body and so as a man if you have the option of taking care of your family you have to
04:02:50Andrew Wilsonlimit the amount of damage which is done to your body especially from the form of a hobby otherwise you cannot continue to produce the work necessary to continue to support a family so if that is the
04:03:01Andrew Wilsoncase and it is the case for most men um in fact many men's jobs damage their body enough they couldn't even do boxing or competition uh external to that anyway construction concrete laying things like this
04:03:14Andrew Wilsonare incredibly damaging to the body over time they end up with back problems arm problems neck problems there's no construction worker I've known whose's work construction for more than 10 years that doesn't have actual issues with
04:03:24Andrew Wilsontheir body so I think that they have uh they're tempering responsibility with escapism and also with competition and uh it seems to be a fine hobby I I don't
04:03:36Jamiesee problem with the hobby itself is cuz I read a lot and that's kind of like my form of like going into another world I guess and thinking so I guess I never just put two and two together that
04:03:46Andrew Wilsonthat's what why men are gaming well it's not I think I think when people say I'm going into another world that's that's even not not the case what's happening
04:03:56Andrew Wilsonis ideas are conveyed best through story MH so if you want to convey an idea to a person you can use straight philosophy to convey an idea but most people don't understand philosophy like take our only fans friend over here she doesn't
04:04:09Andrew Wilsonunderstand anything about argumentation philosophy nothing but maybe I could convey thanks to her in story form and she would understand some of those Concepts so when you're relaying experiences through story it's not even
04:04:20Andrew Wilsonjust escapism it's a way for you to engage with Concepts that could be bothersome or new to you and a way to reconcile those Concepts and that that's how human beings have been communicating
04:04:31Jamiegreat ideas since the dawn of time I I like that um thought process and thank you I never thought about it like that I used to uh I used to play video games although I don't anymore more I
04:04:44Brian Atlasstopped in 2020 or so stopped playing video games entirely uh but I think part of it
04:04:52Brian Atlasis why women don't like men who play video games is because uh Leisure Time activities whether video games or otherwise are not something that they
04:05:04Andrew Wilsoncan benefit from so I think it's really a simple as that you don't I gotta get push back to this so
04:05:12Andrew Wilsonum uh men do um podcasting is a hobby right you would agree with me that almost no man ever is going to be able
04:05:23Andrew Wilsonto make a career out of podcasting like basically nobody who's in the field of podcasting for the most part is ever going to be able to make a career out of it sure yeah most men and they devote hours and hours to it though right mhm
04:05:36Andrew Wilsonoften times without ever being able to build an audience or this type of thing sure so I mean how I I think that this is the same kind of practical applic of video games right same thing it's like you you can you can take this Hobby and
04:05:48Brian Atlasyou can say well you get nothing out of it I think men get a lot out of it why did you stop playing well no I'm so I'm not saying that the men don't gain benefit from it I'm saying the women don't gain benefit oh okay I'm sorry I
04:06:01Nicolletmisunderstood yeah yeah the women don't gain any benefit from Men playing video games so I would argue that I love when my ex played games cuz that was my time for him to shut the [ __ ] up and me just
04:06:11Brian Atlaslike why did you stop playing shut the [ __ ] up okay why did you stop
04:06:18Brian Atlasplaying well I uh I played a lot and uh it was uh distracting me from pursuing other things I think it can be an
04:06:29Nicolletaddiction for sure and even reading or any kind of escapism can be an addiction and it can be like if you want to go and like live in another reality and like escape to that I think you have a
04:06:40Nicolletserious internal problem and it's like not wrong to take time and to relax and to explore Concepts or to even like play video games for an hour a day but when it becomes an addiction that's where I think like that it comes from or like
04:06:54Andrew Wilsonthat's where I think it becomes a problem not just video games but really anything yeah well I I I mean you you're right that I think that you can uh lose yourself in any passion you can play the
04:07:05Andrew Wilsonguitar too much you can do you can lose yourself in any passion which you have but honestly I think that most women just get the egg from video games because the attention is not on them and they just like seeing men miserable
04:07:17Andrew Wilsonhonestly I mean it's not there's no good answer for it women will spend hours of their [ __ ] time doing their nails hours I've seen it hours and hours and hours in fact show of hands how many
04:07:29Andrew Wilsonwomen here have spent multiple hours on their nails show of hands yeah okay but somehow that's okay that's appropriate that's fine nails
04:07:39Andrew Wilsondone isn't a hobby what that yeah what is what else is it or my hair hair what hang on what do you mean it's not what else is it besides a h what else could it be Lux it's a luxury it's a form of spoiling yourself I do it so that I look
04:07:52Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)presentable but time is the most expensive thing ever right so if a man wants to spend his very expensive time on just gaming why won't you just let him be no I'm not arguing that he shouldn't but that's a luxury too right if you can make time now hang on I want
04:08:06Andrew Wilsonyou to think of how unreasonable would be if a man came over to you and was like you know what I'm sick of you spending this much time on your nails you spend hours on your nails it's ridiculous well you might be like look I
04:08:17Andrew Wilsonlike doing it mind your own business you know go away whatever and I think that that would be totally justified but for some reason uh men having some form of of thing that they're interested in
04:08:29Andrew Wilsonwhich isn't you just seems to make women [ __ ] miserable in a way that I don't really understand I I don't understand because women have all sorts of flitty stupid ass Hobbies they scrapbook they
04:08:41Andrew Wilsondo their nails incessantly they focus on uh putting pictures together in certain categories they focus on all kinds of stupid ass [ __ ] and men don't give a [ __ ] but somehow when men play Red Dead
04:08:53NicolletRedemption 2 you playing that stupid game again it's like yeah I'm playing the stupid game again go away you know I don't get it I would say that women innately when you don't have God or something else to take that place in
04:09:06Nicolletyour life that hole that fill that hole in your heart well they will look to their Partners to do that and so maybe the types relationships that you're talking about stem from women who look to their Partners like they're God and
04:09:19Nicolletthey just want all of their attention and when you don't give it to them then it's wrong but I would say that when you're in a healthy relationship where you're not each other's Idols then like it is okay for a man to have another hobby like playing video games like
04:09:31Andrew Wilsonmaybe it's equal to me getting my nails done or doing my hair or whatever like you should have your own I mean who cares if it's equal if he spends 2 more hours or five more hours or 10 more hours per week playing video games than
04:09:43Nicolletdo doing your nails who gives a [ __ ] have different they have different hob as long as it's not an addiction and it's not overtaking your life and like you're doing that that's that's fine well the thing is though is that you have to you have to be care you have to
04:09:55Andrew Wilsoneven be cautious with that right it's like often times what I'll hear from women is oh uh they're addicted to video games and what that really means is they're not spending enough time doing this other thing that I want them to do
04:10:07Andrew Wilsonand so they consider an addiction when there's no addiction it's like people people who get off of work going to get off work they just worked the let's say 10 12 hours and by the way the 8 hour work day in America is dead men work
04:10:18Andrew Wilsongenerally 10 12 hours now They Don't Really Work 8 hour shifts anymore you can't support a family on that we all know that so they're working their asses off they get home and they're like look just let me eat and play a [ __ ] video
04:10:30Andrew Wilsongame and get off my back and it's like that seems totally fair to me and reasonable you know I just don't know why the idea that men just must be um you know all the time working towards
04:10:42Andrew Wilsonsome goal to pamper a woman's ass just it's just bothersome to me it makes no sense yeah you've made me rethink a lot so I'll say my XS are I guess um yeah just like nothing going for them like
04:10:55Nicolletdoesn't have any drive to do anything but video games is out X I had something similar like no goals basically also no driver's license
04:11:06Brian Atlasis a big one no driver's license okay that's you know that's fair yeah and then someone who doesn't go to the gym
04:11:14Brian Atlasdoesn't go to the gym okay X for you I think very bad teeth bad teeth fairy Beth yeah Fair how are Tristan Tate's
04:11:25Andrew Wilsonteeth I don't know okay all right it's really funny to me how many uh European women say that even though European women especially
04:11:35Andrew Wilsonare kind of like known globally and British people and English people especially uh for having bad teeth and but for some reason that's always a a
04:11:46Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)big priority that I hear from European women that's true a lot of teeth on plastic surgery but I never had anything with my teeth I just like normal teeth yeah yeah well I would just wonder if
04:11:58Andrew Wilsonthe reason for that is because it's so common that when you see a a man or a woman with good teeth you're like wow that's an exception to the rule it's little bit idolized as well yeah it's like oh you have to have goodie they
04:12:10Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)have to be pear white they go to Turkey all the my friends go all the time just for teeth yeah it's true what you're saying X acting
04:12:20Nicolletnonchalant it's a big ick um as well as not being confident so there's kind of like a a spectrum there like can't be nonchalant and like not care about your
04:12:32Brian Atlaspartner be too confident but also don't be insecure okay or overly insecure like at least try to project confidence you said
04:12:42Brian Atlasuh acting nonchalant yeah so how how does that look like like acting like you don't care about your partner or acting
04:12:51Brian Atlaslike you don't care when they have a concern or when or letting them care more about your relationship is being
04:13:02Brian Atlasnonchalant isn't that the best Dynamic though when the girl cares more than the guy that's the worst one that's the do you prefer it when the guy is more into
04:13:12Brian Atlasyou than your you're into him I think it should be equal or equal okay okay anybody here have a preference there you prefer the guy be more into you than you're into him or the reverse
04:13:25Nicolletmore into him you more into him are you more into him I think it only works when the guy is more into you okay what do you think yeah I like refuse to chase a man refus okay I agree so more into you
04:13:36Nicolletthan the reverse yeah okay I want them to be more into me I like whenever I'm more to them I'm more to him more to him
04:13:47Brian Atlaswhen he's pursuing he's more into me okay a couple different answers here uh we've had this conversation on the show before I definitely think it's the case
04:13:59Brian Atlasthat relationships work seem to work out better when the woman's more into the man than the reverse um also I'm not even sure if I believe some of you
04:14:10Brian Atlasbecause it's like there's probably plenty of guys who you turn down who are like really really into you
04:14:20Brian Atlasso I think this added level of Interest doesn't change your attraction to them I think it has to be like a certain amount
04:14:28Nicolletso not like overly but also like enough that it's like desirable um and also along with what you said I had the opposite experience so with my ex I was
04:14:40Nicolletputting in way more effort was way more into him than he was into me and like you were sing for him kind of um no it's just that I stayed with him when he was acting uninterested
04:14:52Nicolletand yeah that's not how it should be wait you said you were putting in way more effort yeah so so how so like I would try to spend like he never took me
04:15:02Nicolleton dates or he stopped um so he used to take you on dates yeah and then he stopped yeah and then were you taking him on dates no but I would try to and he would have like
04:15:14Laurasome excuse for it okay I think like for sure like when you're dating I like for like the man to well I mean like you know when my husband he was pursuing me and then when we got married it switched and it worked
04:15:27Brian Atlasout great for us well I don't know if we heard the rest of I'm sorry I didn't no you didn't cut me off yeah was there more no okay but you said you put in more effort so he used to take you on on dates but then he stopped and you tried
04:15:40Nicolletbut then he was yeah so I feel like there's like a la of effort on his part okay for lack of pursuing so how long were you guys dating for about a year
04:15:49Brian Atlasthis was the onee guy yeah okay and uh you okay with your nails over there oh sorry so uh
04:16:00Brian Atlas[Music] um how long how how soon into the relationship did he stop taking you out on dates some months then isn't that pretty normal though
04:16:13Brian Atlaslike I think that's pretty nor you get comfortable not too comfortable so when you were first dating what he was taking you out like for dinner what was he doing yeah like normal couple stuff
04:16:24Nicolletgoing out mini golf like dinners dinner yeah okay were you guys living together no this is in high school so I mean a lot of it like
04:16:35Brian Atlasunderlying is just immaturity sure but yeah isn't that kind of normal though like there's the courtship and then okay well we're boyfriend girlfriend now we can just like kick it and chill and stay
04:16:48Nicolletinside and do nothing isn't that kind of that's normal right what kind of relationship y'all been in I think there should be a balance of both where you can kick it and do nothing and then you also go out
04:17:00Nicolleton dates at the same time and there is effort from both parties that both are participating in cuz you just like hanging out with each other uh I don't know I think after like three
04:17:12Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)dates you as a man you should just kind of stop putting effort in I think it's a woman's job as well to put effort in why would a man take you on dates if you giving him a headache or anything at all you know what I actually I want to
04:17:24Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)retract my last statement after the first date you should stop putting effort in really as the man that's how you get cheated on girls get bored get B it's a woman's job as well right to surprise a man they came on a date sometimes if if you are in a
04:17:37Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)relationship she takes you out on a date would you go then you can still have a date together I would I go yeah you say you have to stop as a man doing days but if she asks you out on a date like hey I still love you we've been inside for a month let's go out well I'm I'm kind of
04:17:50Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)uh I'm pretty introverted and I'm a homebody so um all right if you put on the candles make orders dinner it's still a DAT right you do not have to go out for a day you can good movie yeah
04:18:01Brian Atlasit's a DAT right you do not have dragon Breaking Bad yeah you do not have to go out for a date then it's still a date door Dash it's perfect yeah then it's still a date right so you still do a little date spend times together but I
04:18:13Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)think when a girl thinks of a date it's like we're going to go out no not all the time I time is very expensive it's the most expensive just is just spending time together a date I think my point I think so because he's spending something
04:18:26Nicolletvery expensive go ahead he should be like demonstrating effort so even if you are staying inside like do something that demonstrates putting effort into your put on that stupid Kendall it's fine put on I demonstrate effort all the
04:18:37Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)time I invite her over to my place yeah that's effort right effort it is if she puts on some hot lingerie for you that's
04:18:46Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)a day too I text my thumbs they get tired come over that's effort so you do the effort huh so you do the effort yeah I put a woman's job to make the day of
04:18:59Brian Atlasthe date better if you invite her over you dating you I want to get the women's feedback on this I think this is this is um a great date I invite a girl over
04:19:10Brian Atlasto do a laundry date and they clean my room date sure show the bow and we should show the bow and by that I mean I don't mean like we
04:19:22Brian Atlasdo it together I just do something else while you do it for me you're seriously dating huh you're seriously dating at that point very seriously if she's willing to do that for me yeah that's
04:19:33Brian Atlasfine first date she should do my laundry yeah you the man first date I would first date she should do my laundry I would hold on women will have sex on the first day but she can't do my laundry I
04:19:44Brian Atlaswould hold on I would darling I would wait niolet you've had a one night stand right think about all the football guys this is your cat phrase the footb you allowed them to be inside of you but
04:19:56Brian Atlasyou wouldn't fold their laundry not in the first date you had carnal knowledge you had carnal knowledge on the first date nicholet I wouldn't fold their
04:20:07Nicolletclothes on the first dat but you would let their penis inside you absolutely cuz I'm getting some out of that yeah she's also getting something out of folding my laundry whattis pleased with
04:20:19Brian Atlasher satis I want to be pleased um let's do the bow video Let's play the bow video this is um this is my ex-girlfriend we broke up
04:20:30Brian Atlasbut I filmed this go ahead Nick in my apartment boom huge bow check that out she practiced that um wait that's your ex-girlfriend that's my ex-girlfriend yeah um I had her um
04:20:43Brian Atlasuh yeah so that's my you know she's getting my my clothes laundry the dinner's ready I came home look I came home from a long day of podcasting and
04:20:54Brian Atlasshe's got my beer ready um I was upset with her that with the tomatoes I don't like tomatoes but she not even cut tomato just a like bunch of tomatoes uh
04:21:05Nicolletone more time just see let's see the bow the bow the b boom huge you're going to die Brian am I going to die after the last podcast
04:21:15Nicolletremember I did a bow for everybody on stream actually I want to go home I did it recently to a guy how did it go how did it come he
04:21:26Brian Atlaslaughed and he's like what the [ __ ] did it work well I mean he laughed but I did it wrong you said I did it like no you don't do it it has to be like Meek hands
04:21:37Nicollethere like a prison pose Angelic right now submissive and like submissive it came like as an instinct I just did it he was like what what are you doing yeah
04:21:48Brian Atlasand so did he like it I mean he did not like it oh wait I guess he liked it probably see it works it worked listen all the ladies here at the table you
04:21:58Brian Atlasmight not want to do it I'm just giving you some advice next time you're with a guy who you really like just hit him with a bow oh well as soon as ion D not a bow won't do the bow no I'm not going to do
04:22:11Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)the bow why don't why won't you you do a bow it's degrading wait hold on if a man is paying for the house pays for everything and just expect a little bow when he gets home and he pays for everything he makes you secure you do
04:22:23Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)not have to work you do not do [ __ ] in the house he does everything what for you that like making dinner wouldn't do for you oh she has to do that too and what's the difference between bowing and getting on your knees a lot you can be
04:22:36Brian Atlason your KN you can courtesy for that men as well what's the difference get your mind out of the gutter nicholet so um really quick to you uh you're I think in your pre-show notes you mentioned like you believe marriage is really important
04:22:48Brian Atlasright mhm okay so I know there's like a cultural component here uh but uh I assume you want your future boyfriend to propose to you yeah will this involve
04:22:58Brian Atlashim getting down on one knee if he wants to yeah well typically that's what yeah isn't getting like getting down on the
04:23:07Brian Atlasknee and like looking up hold on where's the where is it where we go
04:23:15Brian Atlasplease marry me that wait what was the word you use it's degrading did you say degrading was it degrading for women said B to a man
04:23:25Brian Atlasyes I think it's degrading for men to get down on one knee and spend 3 months salary on a on a wedding
04:23:33Brian Atlasring please be with me that's degrading disagree why wait wait hold on but what takes more like what burns more calories
04:23:45Nicolletkneeling or the bow it doesn't matter what bur burn just think about it though it takes more effort to to kneel I have bad knees too I think about I got bad knees I think AOW is more like worship
04:23:58Nicolletlike when I think of a bow I think I'm worshiping this person you are it this your partner for the rest of your life till you die him the only person I worship Him bow before is God and like God in heaven like I'm not going to Bow before anybody else no man no person
04:24:10Brian Atlasit's a religious thing but I will say hold on but wait you do not adore if your husband you you're going to be submissive to your husband right yes mhm and he says bow for
04:24:24Laurame if you look at the context of the scripture if you're going to go there and you have a husband that is telling you to do something that is against the will of God I'm a Christian and I would
04:24:36Brian Atlasyou do not have to do that uh Andrew what is the uh ecclesiastical theological
04:24:44Andrew Wilsonum like can a Christian man ask his wife expect ask his wife to Bow is it is it yeah I mean why would I don't understand what
04:24:57Andrew Wilsonwould the Restriction be there's Christians who bow uh to their priests Christians who bow to God now I I just
04:25:05Nicollethave to ask you are you to uh submit to your husband as you would unto God yeah yeah and do you bow to God yes I bowed
04:25:16Nicolletto God but my husband so then if you submit to your husband as you would unto God and your husband asked you to Bow why would you not bow because I in my
04:25:25Nicolletopinion I think bowing is more of a like worship type of of movement of like a a heart posture then it is more respect like I get where you guys are coming
04:25:35Andrew Wilsonfrom like it's a sign wa I'm I'm super confused I want to untangle these thoughts so I have them untangled are you to submit to your husband as you would unto the
04:25:47NicolletLord my husband is not my God but I that's not what I as you you to submit as you would unto the Lord let me explain my thought on this when you
04:25:57Nicolletsubmit to the Lord You're submitting to his will and what God is telling you to do right like that's what you're referring to like if he tells you to Bow are you going to bow to God yes there's
04:26:07Andrew Wilsonnothing I understand are you to submit to your husband as you would unto the Lord or not yes but my husband is sinful and if he asks me to do a sinful thing I
04:26:19Andrew Wilsonwill sinful to bow to your husband so Asian Christians who bow are sinful I would say that's more cultural I'm talking about Bowing in it's not sinful in wait wait wait hang on hang on so
04:26:31Andrew Wilsonagain we have to untangle these thoughts if you're in an Asian country and you murder somebody you kill somebody without justification to your Christian values they're doing something which sin
04:26:42Andrew Wilsoneven if their culture says it's okay correct no I don't I don't agree what so if their culture says it's okay to murder it's not sinful no sorry I'm
04:26:55Andrew Wilsonyou're like losing me in this like whole okay well then then just just engage with the qu what you're doing is trying to anticipate what you think I'm going to say don't do that just answer the question in a culture where it's okay to
04:27:06Andrew Wilsonmurder the Aztecs for instance they take you up on a pyramid they cut your heart out right and it to you know their son God yeah from your even if culturally that's okay you would say that ethically
04:27:18Andrew Wilsonthat is incorrect right yeah okay great so if that is the case when you say okay it's culturally okay to Bow you're also saying but it's not sinful to Bow you're
04:27:29Andrew Wilsonnot saying that they shouldn't bow because it's sinful right right because there's if that is the case then Bowing in and of itself is not sinful yeah I would agree Bowing in
04:27:41Nicolletin and of itself is not sinful for me then what's wrong with to your husband well because I'm talking about personally for myself I view in my own culture and my own tradition I view
04:27:52Andrew Wilsonbowing like I I myself Reserve that only for the Lord so if some yeah but is it sinful inherently no I don't think it's okay well then then I don't understand the objection if it's not sinful
04:28:03Nicolletinherently it's no problem inherently and your husband asks you as a sign of respect about to him what is the actual objection other than you just don't want to yeah I mean I guess you're right that is
04:28:14Nicolletmy objection is that into me and my own view that it is sinful for me to bow to another man no no no no that so you just just [ __ ] the whole thing up how is it
04:28:26Nicolletwait that makes no sense that makes no sense how could it be sinful from your perspective to do this thing how's that sinful because there's a verse that says in James that he who knows what to do but does not do it to him it is a sin
04:28:38Nicolletand so to me and my own personal convictions like I don't feel like it's appropriate for me to bow to someone else that's not God and someone else appropriate I can see I can con see to appropriate if you feel like it's not
04:28:50Andrew Wilsonappropriate to do I can deal with that but you that's not what you said you said personally you feel it's sinful and yet if you say if you say bowing is inherently not sinful then what is the
04:29:03Nicolletsin if you bow to your husband I don't get that I'm telling you there's a verse in the Bible that says that if you know that God wants you to do something and you do not do it then to that person it is saying if I know God wants me to go
04:29:15Nicollettell this homeless person or to go give this homeless person $10 in the street and I don't go do it I have committed a sin against God that is what are you saying that God doesn't want you to bow
04:29:24Andrew Wilsonto your husband for me yeah is it not in your F do respect no no I can't can't I'm sorry I got to finish this real quick to my husband in my when you say for me so you're saying God told you not
04:29:36Andrew Wilsonto bow to your husband yeah God told me only to bow to him yeah when we're in the same culture so would it be a sin if I bowed down to my husband in your eyes yeah I well I just want to know when when did God tell you not to bow to your
04:29:48Nicollethusband when was that conversation had oh well when I read the book of Daniel and Shadrach Meshach and abedo we're going to bow down to or weren't bowing down to the big Idol that neb King Nebuchadnezzar made that's not an idol
04:30:00Nicolletyour husband's not an idol you're not worshiping your husband like you worship God you're submitting as you would unto God yeah and for me in my like past sinful like when I was in unrepentant blatant sin I worshiped the person that
04:30:11NicolletI was with like an idol and so for me I'm that's not worship how is a bow a worship that's not worshiping because I bow before the Lord and that is the only person I will bow down before and so for
04:30:22Andrew Wilsonme why that makes no sense so if you bow to a King in Europe that's sinful yeah for me yeah oh so does the bible has has God made Kings elect has he said has he
04:30:33Nicolletgiven Nations Kings I'm not saying that it is inherently sinful for every person to sin I personally feel convicted person to sin really I'm talking about
04:30:44Nicolletfor like specifically for Bowing like for this specific thing I Will Not Bow before any other man besides God I get what you're saying and that it's not written in the Bible yeah but I don't get what you're saying well I don't
04:30:56Nicolletunderstand the rationale here I'm trying to explain to you my own personal convictions do you not understand the difference between personal convictions and inherent sin that's yeah but your personal convictions are supposed to map on to Christian ethics and if you say
04:31:08Andrew Wilsonthere's nothing unethical for a Christian to bow to somebody or to bow to their husband if they choose to bow to their husband then and then stated your secondary objection is the reason I
04:31:18Andrew Wilsondon't is because God told me these are two very bold claims the first is saying this is not sinful but for some reason for you it's sinful and that that's what I don't understand because personal convictions are a different thing than
04:31:31Andrew Wilsonlike what is written in the Bible of what is inherently sinful and I get what you're saying but you can't have a personal conviction that God told you to like go suck a random stranger's dick right you couldn't have that conviction
04:31:42Andrew Wilsonwhy could have because there's a baseline of what is right there's a baseline so it has to be inherently sinful also right there there so there's
04:31:52Andrew Wilsonand if you say it's not inherently sinful then why did God convict you personally you're the only person he convicted to Not Bow I don't know of what other people's convictions are but what I more like in my op we're talking
04:32:05Nicolletabout your convictions yeah I'm talking about my convictions here and because I have a tendency to worship people that I'm in a relationship with I don't feel comfortable bowing to that person I don't think that's appropriate for me to
04:32:16Nicolletengage in because I appropriate is different than sinful though okay what would make it sinful I I'm not saying I'm saying for me I would feel like I'm going against God if I did this for another person like Laura over here if
04:32:29Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)she wanted to do that for her husband I would I'm not saying that as a Christian you get married in the church right and then the priest say to obey and to respect your husband yeah of course so if your husband asked you to bow to obey
04:32:42Nicollethim and you wouldn't that's a sin right because you took a vou not necessarily cuz my husband would know my convictions and like but you took a in church of G to obey keep on saying this this bizarre
04:32:53Andrew Wilsonmy convictions thing right so your convictions are still going to have to be inherently or non- inherently sinful they're going to have to be they're going to have to be sinful how would you if you went home tomorrow
04:33:05Nicolletand you're like hi sweetheart I just wanted to show you this sign of respect and bow to him how in the [ __ ] would that ever be sinful it's it's not inherently sinful I'm that's what I'm agreeing with you that's why like I'm not saying that no one can ever I mean
04:33:17Nicolleteven from your view of conviction how would that be sinful you promise it to because it's setting up my heart posture to worship somebody else that's what I'm saying is that how are you worshiping them because like this is like my
04:33:29Andrew Wilsonnatural pity my natural tendencies and so I'm guarding My Own Heart by not bowing to this person so anything you bow to you worship like you can't help yourself you're just like I have an
04:33:41Nicolletaddiction that which I bow to or how often do you bow to things I'm talking specifically about to my husband like that's what I'm specifically
04:33:52Andrew Wilsonreferencing yeah I don't I I still I'm still lost actually I um I don't really understand why you bowing to your husband even if you had some conviction
04:34:03Andrew Wilsonthat you did not want to worship your husband as God which is totally fair I don't understand why it would mean if you did bow to him you would be worshiping him even if I just wouldn't do it because it's like it's a my heart posture it's like
04:34:16Nicolletaffecting the way that I view this person that's why I wouldn't do it you asked why I wouldn't do it and that's the that's the reason it affects the way but I mean it has to comply with reason and also the ethics which you follow so
04:34:28Andrew Wilsonit's like just saying well because it's my preference like that's fine but but if so let me just ask you this if you went home tomorrow and you bowed to your husband uh would would you start worshiping him would that would that be
04:34:40Nicolletlike an immediate thing but I wouldn't something I would make as a part of my everyday life where he comes home and I bow to him the second and he walks in through the house every single day yeah but but why with that I I still understand why that would necessitate
04:34:52Nicolletyou would need to worship him I just I don't get that if I was doing that every day I think that would kind of like trigger like almost like pavo's dogs effect in my mind of here comes home this person I'm waiting for him to come home and I'm serving him and I'm
04:35:04Andrew Wilsonworshiping him like every singan all well wait wait serving him you're showing respect to him you adore him you love him how is that worship him though I don't I don't get that I'm talking about specifically bowing that's what
04:35:16Andrew WilsonI'm specifically yeah I'm talking specifically about bowing too Andrew do you have a lint roller please yeah I do
04:35:26Andrew WilsonAndrew I just wanted to trigger that OCD a little bit wait are we going to do a Rachel Cameo by the way I think uh yeah yeah we we'll bring Rachel down okay uh
04:35:37Andrew Wilsondo she have that pink the the pink neon pink sweatshirt yeah I'll go I'll get her we we'll we'll switch chairs here for a few
04:35:48Andrew Wilsonyeah um now uh okay H how did we get there we were talking about the bow yeah we were talking about bowing and we were getting
04:36:00Brian Atlasthe world who would do the bow show of hands you would do the bow uh Ana bow you do the bow maybe the bow would you no not hit the bow sorry bowing bowing to my husband yeah likeit did you see
04:36:11Brian Atlasthe video were you here would you would you do a bow as a joke yeah what if he was like I want you like if you guys were living together dating for a year or
04:36:23Brian Atlaswhatever and he comes you know he gets home later he's like I want you to hit a bow like as every time I come home and then give me a hug after you wouldn't do
04:36:33Brian Atlasit okay you do the hug though a hug a yeah I'm assuming you would uh Nicollet would you do the bow I have done it you you tried it out and it worked you do the bow yes I literally don't care yeah
04:36:45Brian AtlasI would don't care you do it would you hit the bow nope yeah Angelic says yes okay all right the wife is snoozing away so it's not going to happen tonight right a shoot okay we should have done it earlier okay that's fine uh well if
04:36:58Brian Atlasshe wakes up we can still do it but otherwise yeah we'll do it another time uh what okay maybe going beyond the bow uh any objections to the laundry thing on the first
04:37:09Brian Atlasdate like would you guys do laundry on for a guy guy no like you'd fold his socks and stuff no you wouldn't fold his socks no shorts I wouldn't fold anything shirts underwear nothing I want to be
04:37:22Brian Atlasthe one being folded over that was a good one okay um I think um what about you know look
04:37:34Brian Atlasyou know that's fine I respect that I respect that I do want to advise the men out there if she if she won't just find someone who will if she wanted to she would that's called
04:37:46Brian Atlasa maid but my question is you know what all these women who want who want a man to protect them why don't you just buy a bodyguard yeah that's called a security
04:37:57Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)guard yeah just buy a security guard why don't you date a limp wrist man like me why is it a mate if he's baying for the house everything he he's
04:38:10Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)saying on the first date executive protection um you would do it on the first day [ __ ] yeah I'll bow for him I'll courtesy for him on the first day if she doesn't know how to churn butter
04:38:21Brian Atlasshe ain't the one I churned brother brother the other day I churn Brothers you churned a brother that could have been RAC that
04:38:29Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)might RAC girl I want a woman I want a woman who can make me a quilt what would you do with twins by the way I'm always if you have like what would you do would
04:38:41Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)you do them at the same time would you yes if she isn't Amish she isn't the one so if there's any twins who are hot watching hit me up in the DM yeah I asked her what would you do with like
04:38:52Tamara (Dutch Jessica Rabbit)twins and she was like oh I I was wondering at the whole podcast would you do with twin she can't knit me a cardigan she ain't the one you should put it on a T-shirt and
04:39:04Laurasell it have any of you ever knit a cardigan nope didn't think so didn't think so I can crochet but not in
04:39:14Laurait I thought that was the same thing uh let's see and uh I've got a sewing machine I just don't know how to use it oh really you don't know how to use the sewing machine that's what I
04:39:27Lauradeserve no but I bought it so I could learn woman who can knit do you know how to sew by hand I can sew by hand she sews by hand it comes with a wedding ring comes with a wedding ring oh we
04:39:38Nicollethave a chat here from Duren doesn't seem to come with a wedding I'm going to have uh Ana if you can read this I used to play video games I still
04:39:48Nicolletdo but I used to too good show tonight nicholet awful just awful keep up the good work Brian and Andrew I used to do drugs I still do but I used to
04:40:00Andrew Wilsontoo well that's uh that that was Mitch Hedberg it was yeah yeah yeah by the way um uh GNA give Nicollet a bunch of [ __ ] but uh she did engage
04:40:12Andrew Wilsonum with uh with most of the arguments and for that I uh I thank you thank you love you yes shout out to
04:40:22LauraNicollet you're a legend nicholet thank you you're a legend Andrew I I do have a question so I know that you said that you aren't religious in the beginning so no no no the opposite it said I'm very
04:40:34Andrew Wilsonreligious oh okay I was like how do you know so much about theology yeah no I'm an I'm an Eastern Orthodox Christian it's a Center centerpiece of my life in fact I would say is that almost like the
04:40:44Andrew Wilsonsame thing as I'm Catholic is that almost well the C from from my view this is heavily contested but from my view Catholics were schismatic from the Orthodox church but you would see it as being somewhat similar from your view
04:40:58Brian Atlasgot it let's see what else uh we went around the table on I did you have any other XS or the effort thing if I
04:41:07Brian Atlasrecall that's it just the lack of effort I think women should put in like 95% of the effort and the man should put in 5%
04:41:17Brian Atlasin you know you don't believe that what do you mean you don't believe that oh no I mean if it was up to me it would be like 100% effort from the woman but I'm
04:41:27Brian Atlasbeing I'm being nice I'm saying 95% okay yeah I actually now I believe you okay good I'm glad we're on the same page there and uh let's you know what we're going to do we're going to get into some
04:41:39Brian Atlasuh okay here we go we go would you rather come across a random man or random bear in the woods starting with you oh my
04:41:51Nicolletgosh uh have you heard of this one before I I have maybe in the context of the
04:41:58Jamiewoods a bear oh no okay uh what about
04:42:02Jamieyou a man bear definitely a man bear man
04:42:09Brian Atlasman a man a man man wait so bear bear bear three bears oh my God Three Bears uh what do you why do you guys pick bear why do you guys pick
04:42:23Nicolletbear at least I know like the potential actions of a bear and I don't yeah like how they would react and I don't know really for it's like 50/50 for a man so
04:42:35NicolletI'd rather take my chances with the bear you think you think it's 50/50 for the bear to say good or bad is what I'm saying the man like I don't 50 50% of them you think would be bad like I don't
04:42:47Lauraknow but maybe if he's in the woods it's because he's hunting and so he can protect potentially not hunting you
04:42:58Lauralike kill you yeah men don't go to the forest or wherever you said to find women to hunt they go I disagree some do
04:43:08Andrew Wilsonto hunt women I'm going go I'm go to the forest and a girl yes that's the perfect I mean by this logic men shouldn't go to hospitals because that's where women go Forest yes I would think like a